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Approach. Fuck up. Calibrate. You'll never get this right from reading books. If you are not fucking up in ways that make your face red from embarrassment, you're not playing hard enough. An example. If you live in a town with more that 50K people, go to a bar on the exact opposite side of town. Walk in, introduce yourself to the bartender, if it is a she, compliment her on her earrings (or some fucking thing, it doesn't matter). While your drink is being prepared, find the hottest girl in the r…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 04:11 PM
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Step 1. Approach. Step 2. Fuck Up. Step 3. Learn and Calibrate. Step 4. Goto Step1.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 04:32 AM
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We found the guy that's been cheated on!
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 12:27 PM
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You've just discovered my secret. Everybody has 10 minutes. If you can't run a mile in less than 10 minutes, you need to prioritize this over your lifting for the next month. Waiting for the dishwasher to to finish before you take a shower? Go run a mile. Just got home from work, but don't want to cook dinner? Go run a mile. Just woke up and the coffee's not done? Go run a fucking mile. Use google maps and map out a mile route from your house. Do this at least one time a week for a month, and yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 12:58 AM
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This is the gold right here. Much of the rest of this thread is revenge porn. If you are a man and manage people in a professional environment, the truth is that you're accountable. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 01:50 PM
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No. She's very much on the pedestal. You are still in her frame. There is literally no way for you to have any conversation with her except for those relating to the child without being in her frame. She coo's in your ear for 10 minutes and you waste an 2 hours providing entertainment for her boredom on vacation. Keep working on yourself. You'll get there. LOL at "if only there were some books that could help."
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:50 PM
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Oly shoes are great, and sometimes necessary... but working on mobility through the ankles is paramount. If I had to pick one or the other (shoes or mobility), I'd pick mobility (and the ability to squat barefoot).
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:31 PM
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Or simply put this 7 year old trash out by the curb, and go and find himself something new and shiny.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:27 PM
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Yep. His analysis and breakdown were perfect. Here is a guy that just figured out the reality of how this plays out in long term relationships (and extrapolates to short term ones as well). OP, this is powerful shit and you are spot on. The only thing I would change about what you said is what MattyAnon points out. Take the commitment away, and "Wow! where did this slut come from?!"
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:26 PM
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I would take this opportunity to learn how to use paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 01:08 PM
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Jesus christ this place sucks now.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:59 PM
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Yes! Perfect! "We are the all dancing, all signing crap of the world." Your take on this is sublime and powerful. Reality is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:02 PM
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We all fall short in our own ways bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 11:50 PM
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My god, can't upvote this enough... A girl I was seeing said to me "My husband wants to try marriage counseling." This was literally as she was naked in the bathroom of a hotel wiping my cum off her. I said "Give it a shot, it could work." She goes... "Yeah." It occurred to me a that there is soooo much space in between actual reality and what people "think" their reality is. It was eye opening for me. I began to think reflexively about where in my life I was completely blind to actual reality. …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:44 PM
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These are your words from your post. As I said above, lifting is good, however, is it really the best single self-improvement thing you can do to your body in terms of exercise? You are questioning the importance of lifting. You did not say "I have spent a considerable amount of time lifting, and have recently discovered something about it..." If you have significant experience with lifting, you should have started with that. My apologies if you do actually have this. Please post your height, bo…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:38 PM
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It would be best if you tried lifting as a discipline for years. Yes, years, before writing shit like this. Then post pictures... your words have no meaning here because you are transparent. You simply have not done the work, and are interested in discussing how not doing the work is actually doing the work. It's not. The work is the work.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:31 PM
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Your motivation to own it is excellent, and good for you for quitting cold turkey. You might still be in the magical thinking phase though. Your wife is done with you, she fucked other dude(s). Kill the puppy. Also, just from my own personal experience, I'd suggest finding a male therapist.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 04:21 PM
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I have been talking about this recently with some business partners. For me it has nothing to do with "right". We all have small firms, we all talk a lot of shit. We all simply cannot open ourselves to the liability of hiring a female coming out of school these days. That is the word we're using to describe the population of female college graduates to our businesses. Liability. Yes, we do have the option to change our shit talking, we do have the option to stop with our brands of fucked up humo…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 11:45 AM
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This guy gets it. But... Make sure you are not selling yourself short in the process. Over the lifespan of my career, I've found that the most high paying job I've had was also the easiest. I have also suffered through the shittiest grunt work for little pay. There is absolutely no nobility in grunt work if you have a brain for better.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:32 PM
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This is so powerful. Best comment in the thread.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:17 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I already had you pegged as banking/finance (some of my best clients!). Your industry is an interesting one.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:20 PM
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Bingo. Please kill the puppy. The zero emotion is the dead giveaway.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 09:28 PM
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I think yours is the best reply so far.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:06 PM
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I want to ask this seriously. How old are you? This is the second or third time this "nice watch" thing has come up. I'm pushing 50, and a business owner. I have never once cared about the relative value of someone's watch. Personally, I do not wear a watch. This must be a younger guy thing? That's why I wanted to know your age. The rest of your response is on point. (EDIT) Especially the "Stop wishing" part. Wishing is useless.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:04 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. The bar for men my age is set so unreasonably low! Being the best looking man at your block party is so easy. Jesus.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:41 AM
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Could not have said it better myself. For me, they are so many similarities between the pursuit of some of my business goals and the pursuit of splendid pussy. Neither of which occurs to me as a problem that needs solving.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:17 PM
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Jesus fucking christ dude. This is a forum for married men. Whatever it is you just wrote... please consider not writing again.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 01:10 PM
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I was unaware he was a liberal who let other guys fuck his wife. Thanks for that
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/17 11:50 AM
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First, your prayers will not help you. Move out. Tell your wife that you need space to think about the current situation and her behavior with the children. Make it clear that your current situation is not acceptable. Assess your wife's reaction to your absence. If you like what you see, move back in. If you don't, consider alternatives.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/17 11:44 AM
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OP, how you could see this as anything but a hard next, no contact, walk the other way when you see her situation means you have much learning to do still. Jesus christ man use your fucking head. Your lessons learned are stupid, and you've learned nothing.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 11:03 AM
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This right here. If you deconstruct this response, you get this: squarehead93 detects an issue with himself he actively seeks to understand and mitigate using easy, free, straightforward methods he resolves (or at least lessons the impact) of the issue and his world is now a bigger and better place. Approach. Fuck up. Calibrate. Way to go squarehead.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 01:21 PM
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Ay homes. You sound retarded. I mean that only in terms of how you are handling your relationship with this bitchy HB6. You are 26 years old. I need you to trust me, an internet stranger, when I tell you that she is not a fucking unicorn. I can say without any hesitation, you do not want to be married right now. In 10 years, your options will be so.much.better. You will be so much better. Keep working on you. Now go do the hardest thing you've ever done, and call off a wedding and enjoy that shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/17 12:38 PM
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Exactly. He turned over every bit of ammunition and weaponry to the other side. I give this a year before he realizes that what we are calling leverage in this conversation, was really his actual life as a free man in charge of his destiny.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 12:16 PM
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So are you saying that you believe in the actual existence god? If so, your claim is that god as described in the King James version of the Holy Bible exists?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 10:36 PM
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Excellent comment. It appears that my perception is dulled when reality is "fed" to me via the media sources I pay attention to. It's really clear to me when I go outside for extended periods of time (camping, hiking, etc.). I don't really have anything other than that to add, it's just your comment was so concise and true. I thought it was cool.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 11:12 AM
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Those who truly understand business know its for young bucks with nothing to lose, something to get out of their system. What, exactly do you mean by this? I'm curious.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 11:52 AM
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I want to chime in here with my experience about changing small things regarding person finance. My very first job(s) out of school were consulting. I made a lot of money right off the bat. I did stupid shit. Bought expensive cars, lived above my means, had nice suits (I looked good though). I was living this way for about 3 years. Then I broke up with my girlfriend. For whatever reason, this seemed to coincide with a general feeling of "removing the bullshit" from my life. I moved into a much l…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 03:12 PM
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This is just a recent observation about going beta and losing her attraction. I had a FWB I was ambivalent about. I was going to end it by the slow ghost, but decided to run a reasonably quick experiment. I asked her to lunch instead of to fuck. Did this about three or four times. After each time I texted and told her how much I enjoyed it. Just a simple "Had a great time! :)" or a "So good to see you!". No sexual advances were made. Lo and behold! She stopped texting me and started becoming una…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 11:23 AM
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This is an excellent write-up on many levels. Nicely done. I find that seeking a profound relationship with reality is always the best course of actions. In fact... when I find myself upset, I can (usually) always trace it back to some assumption I've made, or expectation I had that was not reality based... just something I made up, hence the butthurt when reality did not conform to making me happy. So choose an approach that works for you and will help you get what you want. That isn't necessar…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 04:11 PM
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This is such a great book. So much insight into just plain old quantitative data about rich people. This was a real script flipper for me when I was a younger man (originally published in 1996).
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:25 AM
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So, you're saying that you haven't been laid because you're too high value for women? My good man, in the entire realm of possibility, yes... it is possible that you're an Aventador in a land full of pack mules. But, the more likely answer is that you have other issues. If you want to get laid and can't, it is a problem with you.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 08:15 PM
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Christianity is not your friend. Neither is Islam, nor any of the others. Skydaddy is a control mechanism. If you feel obliged to "throw in with it", that's your choice I guess. Good luck with that. Don't forget to tithe! The all powerful Skydaddy needs your cash!
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:30 PM
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Piles of shit can also vary wildly. Some are hard and lumpy, some are soft like whipped cream cheese. At the end of the day, it's all still shit. Don't forget to tithe!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 12:31 PM
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Same here. OP is actually doing the work. I like it. OP, kudos.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:06 AM
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I gotta jump in here too. I suffered for two years with fuck-around-itis at the gym. Then I found stronglifts. Best discovery ever. I'm past it now (that was five years ago), but start there. You can't go wrong.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 11:56 AM
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This is literally the most insecure list of action items I've ever seen. For the record... Never ever dress younger.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:27 AM
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46 year old checking in here. I can guarantee I have a faster mile time than the OP, I can dance better and sell better than the OP, and know how to change and influence group dynamics better than the OP. Doing very well. I've never even considered it an issue. Balding, middle aged (no fucking pot belly), married man here... for the win.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:22 AM
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Consultant here, with 21 years of experience. Best advice I ever got... "When they fire you, not if, when... pretend it's like they're hiring you for the first time. Give them your empathy, make it easy for them. Thank them.... and when they realize they're fucked and extend their hand, thank them again. Then increase your bill rate. They will not flinch. Neither will you." Jesus Christ that's the best advice I've ever gotten.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:15 AM
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Damn. I'm stealing this: Free pussy is always welcome and a fair exchange. The more words you listen to makes it more expensive and not worth it(unless the girl that is sucking your cock loves it when you are talking to other women while she services you) The more words you listen to makes it more expensive and not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 10:49 AM
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I absolutely love to read field reports like this. This is the best (and only way) in my opinion to make tremendous amounts of progress in a short amount of time. Approach, Fuck Up, Calibrate. Keep at it. You have made more approaches in one day than most readers here have made in a year.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:15 AM
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You're an asshole if you type that many words on your phone.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 09:54 AM
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Holy fuck, you are even better at trolling that GLO! This is spectacular!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 01:01 PM
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I know right?! As opposed to all the times he's been denied sex when he didn't know the reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 09:12 PM
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Jesus Christ. This is a part of the redpill subreddit. Fuck... read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 09:09 PM
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Amen. This is what winning looks like if you're female. When I observe this with females in my own life, it still stings a little. The sting comes from the memories (now brought into much clearer focus) of me being the un-laid good guy. I can relate to OP's point about wanting it to be one way, but it's the other.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 10:54 AM
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I love you little buddy! Keep at it! You'll get there! Edit: You can do it!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 04:00 PM
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Ummmm.. No. There is no deal except the one you negotiate. You don't have to give her anything, and she still may very well give you all of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 04:51 PM
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I manage these thoughts by fucking other women. You are absolutely wasting your best days. No question about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 04:48 PM
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Show intent. Intent is attractive if they're attracted and alienates them if not. Double win. I wish there was a way to upvote this to the top with one click. In my opinion, this is really all you need to know about approach. Sometimes this identification can take less than a minute. "Cool! She's interested! I'm going to spend more time on this." or "Cool! She's not interested! I'm not going to spend any more time on this." Double win.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 12:45 PM
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Morbidly obese people will tend to stay morbidly obese even on a calorically reduced diet. And the earth is really not a sphere! It's flat!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 11:24 PM
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Her: "Hey beta orbiter! Let's watch a show!" You: "No" That's all that needed to be said. Jesus Christ you talk too much. Go find other women.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:24 AM
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You should have stopped after the first two sentences.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:23 AM
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Cognitive dissonance is really an amazing thing to observe. When you see it in conversation, it really gets to the heart of the matter that we are not (by nature) logical. "The world is as you see it." Most times your vision is emotionally driven. This is precisely why I enjoy speaking to Sky Daddy believers. Men, not women. It is amazing to watch the hamster spin. When I see this behavior in men, the cognitive dissonance literally rendering them speechless in some cases... always retreating to …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:20 AM
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All of that bluster! Wowza, and yet you still have not proof of the existence of Sky Daddy. Anyway... remember, if you fucked your wife before you were married, you must kill her... Sky Daddy commands it! Don't forget to tithe!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/17 10:45 AM
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My quick reply to religion followers: The largest blue pilled fantasy is the one where you believe there is a god.The farther away you stay from organized sky daddy followers, the more rational you will become. Downvote away boys. Don't forget to tithe!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 10:31 AM
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Your logic is flawed. This is NOT a zero sum game. You can do and have both at the same time. In any scenario you describe, your youth and fun can be had at the exact same time as hardwork. Want to go to bars everynight? Fucking go! Just make sure you're at work on time. Want to travel the world and hang out in Goa, go for it! Save your money and got for two months inbetween jobs. There is no magic. Just don't be a dumbass? This dichotomy most people see about the level of fun they allow themsel…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 05:28 PM
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My god. When have you thought to yourself "I like this person SOOOO MUCH that I feel like I should close off a portion of myself to them" This encapsulates so much of my years as a younger man. I wish I had seen this 30 years ago. That was really nicely said.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 12:38 AM
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Every time I post this I get $10 from the American Federation of Urologists... For every young man reading this, please consider getting a vasectomy. Imagine yourself in this young mans spot. Sit with it for a while, really get into the feeling of what this will mean for him. There are two things that will fuck you up when having sex with plates. STD's and unwanted pregnancies. You are in complete control of one of these. OP, congratulations.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:54 AM
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No homo.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 08:49 AM
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Oh my god I love you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 01:55 AM
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I mean you all the best when I say this... but you're being retarded. Stop it. You do not want her to move with you. If you say yes, the HUGE UNSPOKEN CONTRACT is that you are OBLIGED to her. Your next immediate actions: Thank her for the fun time you had Wish her the best of luck in her future Pack your shit and move Go no contact Find a 2 new better looking, better behaving plates in the new city Stop being retarded. Edit - AND FOR FUCK'S SAKE DO NOT GET THIS GIRL PREGNANT! USE A CONDOM!!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 01:51 AM
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You do you bro. If you feel you're obliged... go forth and impregnate.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 02:15 PM
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I'm glad that MattyAnon's post is the top reply, and your's was the second. There is nothing else to be said about marriage. I do want to clarify something though. Marriage is not just a zero benefit game for men, it is a negative benefit game for men. Less than zero. The game is rigged, the costs are high, the benefits are negligible, and you're guaranteed to lose. My standard advice for young men comes in two parts: Get a vasectomy Don't get married
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 11:46 AM
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This is GOLD. It's a trap I've fallen into time and time again in just about every aspect of my life (career, fitness, etc.). The trick is to never, and I mean never compare yourself to how you used to be. Compare yourself to where you want to be. I have to keep reminding myself of that. Your post is perfectly timed. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 12:05 PM
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I think I just got cancer from reading that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 12:11 PM
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This is a perfect description of that feeling. That room is warm and well lit and full of amazing energy. I need to get back in there! I'm not sure what I'm waiting for.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 12:08 PM
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Pow! Nailed it. This is a real problem, and OP (if you're reading), you need to move past your planet Krypton vibe sooner rather than later. Not trying to take anything away from OP's victory here, and it IS a victory (because there are a bunch of young boys here who would never do what OP did). If the goal is wet dick, OP had perfect buildup, but literally dropped the ball.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 12:01 PM
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Hey man, you sound retarded. You should do none of those things. Jesus fucking christ.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 03:52 AM
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Exactly. The whole "why don't you just grab her hair, twist her arm behind her back and throw her the fuck off your porch" thought was racing through my mind the entire time I was reading. But... that is precisely what would have made this a sob story instead of a victory.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 02:45 PM
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Are you 15? Have not read the sidebar? Take 3 minutes and type out your own answer to your own question. What the fuck do you think happens?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:48 AM
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Again, if you have known the woman for 3 years, and are not escalating and isolating, you have already lost.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:45 AM
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Quick tip: Nobody that you are talking to (interested in) gives a fuck about your personal history or struggles. You should not have told her any of that. Your personal history is something that squeaks out in drips, over long periods of time, and ONLY when you completely control the narrative, and even then, only when it serves to forward your action. If you are not escalating and isolating constantly, you have already lost. Less talking, more action.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:44 AM
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I did the same 3 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 10:55 AM
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mid 40's shave every day. Do yourself a favor and throw the fucking blades away after every use. You can buy 100 for less then $10 and shave every day with a fresh sharp blade, the sharpest it will ever be.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 01:02 PM
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I'm going to jump in here like I do with every baby trapping story posted. Get a vasectomy. She'll pull the goalie for any number of reasons. You have no control over it. Even the ones with solid jobs and degrees. "I want a baaaaaybeee!". Their hormones scream that shit at certain points. Especially when it means they can quit their jobs. Reality is hard, and when they can trap somebody into paying for their leisure... why the fuck not. There are two things you need to worry about when fucking: …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 12:57 PM
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Her: "You better start showing me love." You: "You better start being lovable." ass smack. leave the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 01:42 PM
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My point is, minimalism has practical benefits, you dont need to get all philosophical. The practical benefits (the stuff that happens in reality) like your savings, or the ability to so easily move to different cities, and say yes to opportunities without having to consider the mountain of objects that usually burden most people (tv's, houses full of furniture) are what drove minimalistic tendencies for me early in my life. It was not spiritual at all. However, that being said, that time in my …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:07 PM
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When I read that story, it screamed at me. A portion of that story was my in my earlier years. My anger phase lasted longer than most. But man, when I read that I can recall those feelings. Fuck I'm glad I found this place.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 02:45 AM
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Hey bro, I didn't even need to read the story to give you the answer. You didn't warm up. Your form is shit. You didn't check your ego and were lifting too heavy. Then I read your story. Yes to all three. For fuck's sake, pay for a trainer who specializes in lifting at a real lifting gym. (Note: it will be a gym that does NOT have 'weight machines' in it.)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 01:15 PM
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Aha! Now I understand what you're saying. You still have them on a pedestal. You're upset about the fact that your mythical unicorn has been and will be deep throating dudes. I get it. The sooner you get past that (the pedestalization), the better. It's not helping you.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 11:48 PM
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You're in an argument with yourself, and losing it. Start with the sidebar, then re-read what I said. It's not pointless. With all your shit together, you'll lose less. That's it. So, there is a point to all of this. Actually there are two: maximizing your awesomeness means you'll live an awesome life. being awesome means you can fuck more, easier. Your attitude is self-defeating. I hope you and every other dude who feels it's pointless comprises the male audience at the next art event I'm going…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:00 AM
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Alright sad sack... here is one thing I can say with complete assurance. You will lose. Not all the time, but you will. Even when you have your shit together. When you have maxed your SMV, your money, your frame... You will lose. But, your chances for winning some of the time increase. That's all this is about. Do not pretend that the sexual marketplace is a rational thing. Again, you may have all your shit together, but at that particular moment, Suzie Slutbox just wants to get railed by a guy …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:46 PM
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There is no point to anything. But I do enjoy being alive. Why not see where it goes. To OP's point, I'm not hung up on people giving a shit about me, or how I feel, or what I do. To my point, focusing on my own mortality is a way of getting present to the things I am spending precious time on. Your serious question, really isn't that serious, and doesn't really fit this post. Can you answer your question for yourself? Why haven't you killed yourself? Or better yet, why are you committed to livi…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 11:11 PM
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This goes hand in hand with becoming present (as often as you can) to the knowledge that you will one day be dead. I think about my own death daily. It makes my coffee taste better in the morning. Sunrises are more excellent. Filling my lungs with air is a pleasure. Along the same lines, knowing that nobody gives a shit... it's freeing.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:13 PM
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I did the same thing a little over a year ago. It works wonders.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 04:01 AM
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Upvoted your comment A_Rex. OP, you should also spend your days researching what kind of scented candles most appropriately "relax" your stressed out wife/ltr. Please make a post on that too. Just kidding. Jesus.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 01:50 AM
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Bingo. The other day (September) I sold a 200K time & materials consulting contract. Sitting across the desk as the papers were signed, it was better than fucking. I got done with that around 10:30. Too early to take them to lunch. I left and spent the rest of the day at a local museum alone. Looking at paintings and walking in a garden. Happy hour in the evening, and balls deep shortly after that with a long time FWB. Then home to bed for an early morning workout the next day. It was, in a word…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:37 PM
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By the way, I highly recommend hedonism, but only if you can get shit done. This is such a great way to go about life as a man. I am here to second hedonism. I call my way of life refined hedonism. Handle your shit. Celebrate your life.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:47 PM
1

Upvote on toastmasters. This can change your entire career trajectory. Confident public speaking, owning a room, and actually enjoying it can make you a very valuable commodity.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 01:13 AM
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Lol! So harsh... so perfectly true. OP, the only thing you can do is learn from this. It sounds like you are. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 12:57 PM
54

You're right. And remember kids, to further this point, anything we find meaningful is because we chose to assign meaning to it. In one hundred years not a single soul will care or remember that you lived, suffered, found glory or got laid.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:10 PM
5

Same. I was always active, but did not lift until my 40's. I enjoy going to block parties, school events, really anywhere there will be suburban men in their forties... they are all soft and doughy, it feeds my ego. Most of these guys are good guys, they just don't have discipline. Can confirm, heavy lifting increases testosterone and libido.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:46 PM
2

Hey man, fuck other women. It's simple.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:48 AM
2

Cannot upvote this enough. This is the precise root of it all.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 02:44 PM
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After a while, when you begin to see those "failures" only as indicators, the world changes. There may still be some sting, but that sting is only the ego. Getting past the sting and on to the solution, as quickly as possible only makes you better faster. Props to you man. This is a wonderful way to say it: Why be mad at the bar for revealing my weaknesses? Furthermore, why be mad at the wife for doing the same?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 12:16 PM
1

lol. you funny!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 02:21 PM
1

Thank you for your unsolicited advice. Jesus christ. Did you read the thread I was responding to? My advice to you is to take your own advice. Someone else called the blog a "shit blog". I didn't go to this guy's blog (which I stated). My only comment was that if you're trying to drive traffic to a blog showcasing your writing, you might want to... I don't know, write better. Do I care about this guys blog? No. Do I care about trying to help the guy? Probably more than I should. "just stay in yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 11:54 AM
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Did I read the articles of your "shit blog"? No. I was just talking about this reddit post.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:23 PM
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Proper capitalization and punctuation in your post titles might be a place to start.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 11:39 AM
1

Once I stopped caring about her orgasm, our sex life greatly improved. This was my exact experience. My orgasm was NEVER her responsibility. I let go of that self imposed responsibility and started enjoying her for me more. She responded to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 12:19 PM
2

On behalf of everybody here: You are a fucking chump if you go back, and deserve every miserable shitty day you're going to get. Much love bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 12:15 PM
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My good man, I wish you the best of luck. I really do. There is nothing to debate. I've settled nothing, and you ridicule yourself by being offended. Enjoy the church, and I'm sure SkyDaddy will smile on you. Remember though, and this is serious, if the girl you wifed up from the congregation was not a virgin when you marry, you've got to kill her. SkyDaddy has spoken. Don't forget to tithe!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 11:54 AM
1

My good man… I’ll be brief. Religion is the biggest blue pill you can swallow. If you believe in SkyDaddy, you can not hold a rational discussion on the matter. You are simply not using adult logic. Your SkyDaddy stories belong to the infancy of our species. One additional point in your intro: Even many atheists will acknowledge the importance of religion to the stability of a society. Absolutely true. The current structure needs Blue Pill people. SkyDaddy will take care of them all, and he’ll g…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 11:10 AM
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God damn. I love posts like these! OP, congratulations! You managed to do what a majority of young men never do. I don't even know you and I'm proud of you. Approach, fuck up, calibrate. Excellent field report. Excellent writing. Excellent work.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 03:00 AM
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You're right. My bad. I don't want to anger SkyDaddyTM. lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:10 PM
1

Change the title of your post to simply "Churches are terrible places." Your red pill journey will go much quicker when you remove the blue pills you swallow every Sunday from your life. Good luck. Downvote away boys...
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:36 AM
12

I can say with firsthand certainty- the right amount of variety on the side can make a main LTR MORE healthy. Finding discreet, young, tight bodied lovers has single-handedly saved my marriage. Your write-up is excellent. Thank you for your post.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 01:48 PM
1

You are not understanding what the man is trying to say. Step 1: Read your post again. Step 2: Read his response again. Step 3: If you still think that he is accusing you of anything, you still do not understand. Goto Step 1.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 11:42 AM
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I stopped reading at religious scruples. You're fucked in a much harder way than being married to a fat harpy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 11:11 AM
5

I was living in San Francisco which is literally where all the Church of Satan stuff originated from. You could literally feel the demonic presence in San Francisco. You know that vaginas are a HUGE part of Satan's plans to corrupt your soul, right? You better start sucking dicks!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 02:43 AM
4

I'm that poster child. In my 20's I couldn't speak in front of people. Worked as a dishwasher. Had a -few- close male friends I skateboarded with. I had one girlfriend in college. Beta loser the whole way. Thank the stars I had a male mentor in my second job out of college. Literally took me to toastmasters. Enrolled me in public speaking classes at a local college. Had me start going out on sales calls with him. I got burned a few more times by girls in my later 20s' and didn't find red pill un…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:05 PM
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In my 40's. Same experience. Girls half my age. Jesus, talk about amused mastery. Just keep working on yourselves and remember that happiness is actually a choice. Best advice in here.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 10:43 AM
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Back in the 90's I was studying for a technical certification in my field. There were practice question banks with hundreds of questions. All listed through a horrible computer interface. I'd go through a bank of questions, take a practice exam and fail. I did this for days. One Saturday morning I was pissed off because I couldn't keep track of questions I missed. I needed to make notes. I got a ream of paper and printed every question out. Hundreds. One question per page. On each page, I circle…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/16 11:54 AM
11

Hard next was a butthurt mistake. Demote to plate. Continue to get laid while finding other females.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 12:46 AM
5

Ok, I'll bite. Fucktard. Define love.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:18 PM
0

She'll use the PTSD trump card when she feels you are trying to make her do something that scares her. God damn, that is so amazingly accurate. Nicely done.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 11:27 AM
0

I didn't even read the story, just the title. I could tell already the only thing OP needs to insist on is kicking this broken woman to the curb. Frame the conversation in precisely those terms with your wife OP. There is a problem, it is your problem, you have to be actively working to fix it, or you'll not be around much longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 11:18 AM
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I, however, run a church where this is explicitly stated as ok. It's true, it's in the ho-li-fuk interpreted doctrine. AND... My required tithe is only 9%. PM me, and I'll send you the certificate of belonging in PDF form for you to print and hang on your wall, as well as the forms that allow my church to deduct the tithe directly from your checking account. We got your back bro... bitches AND salvation.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:07 PM
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Bitch is doing coke and you are escalating to a walk? Need to be much more dominant with women like these. That's the funny part about this post. This type of girl is already bent over spreading her ass cheeks waiting for hard anal, and this guy wants to hold hands.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:00 PM
1

Thank you. The logic applied to believing in god (by the believers) is the same type of logic I see when people try to tell me about feminism. I simply say, prove it. It all goes back to "I feel..." or "in my heart of hearts..." or some other stupid thing to say. This poor kid is emotionally tormented over the capital "G" Greatest shit test mankind has ever produced, organized religion.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:16 AM
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Hey kid, there is no god. You're wasting your time. Go get laid... you are your own personal Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:10 AM
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Holy fuck. That's comedy gold right there!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 05:36 PM
1

This. So much this. Exactly, and precisely this. OP, get angry because this is exactly what's happening here.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 10:33 PM
2

Precisely this. There is no way this harpy bitch downloaded snap chat for this guy. He was added. Those sexy pics he's going to get have already been sent out to other dudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/16 03:05 PM
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I'll second this. This is a real field report, and it makes me cringe. The thing is... this is exactly what it's going to look like for ALL those who are not doing this same thing and just reading about it. OP, keep doing this as often as you can. Continuously put yourself out there. Keep opening. Keep dealing with the awkwardness, keep dealing with the inevitable discomfort you are feeling. It gets so much easier. Trust me. I have a game for you... do this ten more times. Then write up a Field …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:21 PM
2

I like your interpretation. It's not worthy of a separate post.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 09:52 AM
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This the best answer. The allegation, if you attempt to deny, makes you the person that has to refute it. Of course it can't be done. When you actually MAKE them PROVE their allegation, you've successfully placed the burden on them. "that's a really serious allegation, and if that's what you intend, we should get legal or HR involved." Then pick up the phone immediately, or forward the email immediately. Copy all appropriate people, and ask the accuser to clarify. Then sit back and watch them sq…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 01:19 PM
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Women have a single trump card. Devalue it, and they really have to scramble to demonstrate value to you. This might be the one sentence summary of the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 04:18 PM
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You are right that "she'll learn to deal with money real quick." However, you are forgetting about the inherent risk with regard to money that married men have that single (unmarried) men simply do not have. Divorce. So, yes, your wife can be perfect with money and you could be married to her until she dies. That is absolutely true. BUT she could also simply file for divorce and take your kids and your money.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 03:28 PM
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Jesus Christ OP. I don't mean to pile on here, but you had no frame at all. To let this woman see ANY of your time is THE most perfect example of Blue Pill thinking. I'm not claiming I'm a red pill expert, but let me put this to you in another way. You know how you feel when mormons show up at your door? Like you want to either hide, or open the door and then douse them with the water hose? That is exactly how you should feel when you get one of those calls... and WE'VE ALL GOTTEN THOSE CALLS. "…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 12:05 AM
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Oh holy hell, we've all been there. I was this guy.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 10:58 AM
1

INTJ here. I found it interesting that the INFP videos you linked to were almost ALL my type. I watched them all. A few of them I already knew and was already a fan of.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 10:21 AM
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I've read this entire thread. I wanted to chime in here and tell you that I appreciate your honesty. Your endgame is precisely where it should be (in my opinion). Fuck the haters. I lol'd at: It's not like the 27 years I spent not fucking hookers ever helped me. Others have said it, and they're right. We ALL pay for pussy. So, go ahead and keep that smile on your face! One suggestion though, don't use this as a crutch. Use it as motivation. Your dissatisfaction with your weight comes through in …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 10:37 AM
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Precisely. My wife is not my mission I've always wondered if the focus on outcome independence here, as well as the self improvement bit for the purposes of having your wife fuck you more is not the most blue pill mentality pussy pedestalizing attitude ever. I'm old. I'm jaded. I'm mentally weak. I drink too much. However, I'm in the best physical shape of my life. My wife truly wants to fuck me (as much as a post-menopausal woman without a uterus can really want to fuck). But I'll be honest her…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 03:01 PM
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Dude... She's cheating on you. You're done.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 07:57 PM
2

Oh! You're a troll. My bad. In any case... Good luck lil bro!
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:04 PM
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Never, ever take a girl to the movies. Jesus christ man. Stop what you are doing and read the sidebar some more. Fuck! I got pissed off just reading what you wrote. The texts you sent were unnecessary, and are not coming from a place of abundance. You were not "holding her accountable", you were her upset wittle bitch. I guess you're not as good of a person as you claim to be, good day. Ahahahahahaa! Her and her friends call you willy wonka now. Kid, I get it. This is hard work, and the chips ar…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:50 AM
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Yep. No question. There is like a 6th sense that women have. They instantly know when you have other options, and consequently when you have the capability to simply walk away. Car salesmen will also know this. In many cases the only power you have is the power to walk away. It's actually liberating. It tastes like freedom. I'm in my 40's, and came to this shit late (with women). However, fuck women. If you're talking about the capability to walk away, young men, heed my words. Cultivate the abi…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 03:08 PM
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ctrl-f vasectomy 0 results in this post. OP, if you read this, you are a fucking retard if you do not consider a vasectomy. No desire for marriage, but still able to impregnate = marriage (of some sort eventually). luv ya bro.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:53 PM
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In married relationship terms: You used to be the guy that never went out, and was often times waiting at home for your wife and kids. Then over the course of a year, there was a night a week you were out late due to a new hobby. Then it turned into two nights. Then, you instigated a "Family" night on Friday. Out to dinner with the wife and kids, then home for a movie together. That left Saturday night open, and all of a sudden you had a poker night to go to, or a game, or the ufc fight is on do…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:17 AM
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Do it! I'd read the shit out of that!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:10 AM
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My god, when you've actually got options... like I mean actually got a phone number of a girl who has invited you to her house to fuck... the entire game changes. When you have more than one woman like this... Talk about outcome independence. Any shit at your house will roll off you like water off a ducks back. But really, the work is the work. It can't be skipped or short-cut. OP's 6 months... pfff. Keep going OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 10:47 AM
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If I can translate... You have a girlfriend, you want to marry her. She has lost interest in you since you spoke about this with her. You're 22. My advice. You have at least 15 to 20 years before you should consider marriage. When I say consider, I mean actually think about the shit you would give up to be married to one girl. Here is something I can promise you. In 20 years, when you are 42, you will still be able to date women who are 22. The girl you are worrying about right now will have los…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 03:19 PM
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Careful son... sounds like you got the beginnings of the "one-itus".
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 10:27 PM
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Just a quick note on this... you're awesome for writing this up. It was definitely a pain in the ass to just get to the content of the podcast. OP, heed this advice.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:09 AM
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My whole marriage changed when my wife (in the middle of fooling around) told me "get off me! we're not having sex!" in a very serious tone. I got up, looked at her, laughed and left the room. Not because it was a trick I had learned, but because the following afternoon, I was going to fuck one of my plates. It was a different place for me mentally than I had ever been in. Like literally, I don't need your pussy... I've got such better options! It was amazing! She stayed on the bed, and screamed…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 10:51 PM
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God damn. I've lived through the same thing. I was 22. In my 40's now. I had a vasectomy. Sex is soooo much better without the worry of pregnancy. I can nut anywhere. I sound like a broken record. Young men... before you buy yourself your first car, freeze some sperm and get a vasectomy. Best money you'll ever spend.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:37 PM
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Your response should be the post. Nicely done.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:29 AM
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Agreed. So much rests on your willingness to get out there and do it. OP is seventeen. Think about that for a moment. If he keeps this up... 18, 19, 20... his twenties will be fucking amazing, and then the magic 30's! Jesus. OP, you are doing PRECISELY the right thing. One tip: Do NOT ever worry about what to say. You have to do three things... kino, escalate, isolate. That's it. There are only 4 possible outcomes. You're into it, she's not. She's into it, you're not. You're both not into it. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 11:29 PM
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Hey man, I'm going to do you a favor. I read this entire thread and got to this comment of yours here and couldn't take it anymore. Are you ready for the favor? Good... Here it is: You're not ready to get married. End of story. Plain and simple. You're still a little bitch. Handle it this one of the two following ways (I know you think I'm kidding, but I'm not): Tell her "I don't want you to ever say another fucking negative thing about anyone in my family. This is your first and only warning." …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 11:23 PM
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This is exactly how it starts. Being comfortable in your own skin. Breathe deep, and be in the moment. Smile, laugh, and realize that you'll be dead before you know it, and in 100 years, literally there will be nobody alive that gives zero fucks about you. You're free. You are did exactly the right thing. Keep doing that. Push some of your own boundaries, but enjoy yourself. I liked your post. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 12:00 AM
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Here is one thing I know for sure. I have, and will be for the rest of my life, be in MORE control of my spending than of my earning. Not like I don't have options about my earning... it's just that in the minute by minute accounting of my life, I have greater control. Starbucks, fuck that, my clients have free coffee. Lunch? Oh, I packed mine. I've made some stupid ass mistakes, rookie mistakes, with money. But, I've learned from those mistakes. I have been debt free (minus a mortgage here or t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/16 11:34 PM
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Ahahahahahaha!!! This is literally the best comment in this entire thread.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 10:40 AM
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This is another very important subject you've touched on here. Simply by the factor of time spent NOT improving yourself due to taking care of others, your whole trajectory of life is altered.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:40 PM
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I'm not joking when I advise all young men to spend their money on a vasectomy. I cannot stress enough the importance of this. The second most important factor, is do not get married.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:37 PM
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Oh holy fuck. I didn't even ask that question. 28 years old! Lol! Stay strong OP. You cocksure little fella! Ahahahahahahahahaaa!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/16 03:04 PM
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Good for you! If you're proud of your choices and can manage the relationship on your terms, then go for it. If the dream of your youth was fucking one woman who's pushed kids through her vag, then dream on you dreamer! I'm married, and would never marry again. I don't think that makes me fucked up. I think (for me personally) I could optimize my life without a marriage contract. And by optimize, I mean having the freedom I desire and getting the sex that I want from the women I want. It's what …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/16 02:59 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. This shit is retarded. So is this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 10:40 AM
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Vasiliy... Just get a Vasectomy. Super duper easy.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 03:52 PM
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Jesus fucking christ, if more young men would do this... It's the BEST money you've ever spent! There are two things that can (sexually) fuck you over: Unwanted pregnancy Sexually transmitted disease YOU ARE IN COMPLETE CONTROL OF ONE OF THEM! WHY NOT CONTROL IT?!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:45 AM
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"Hey MRP, I'm about to do something really fucking stupid, because I'm stupid. Do you think what I'm about to do is stupid?" Yes, we think you're stupid. Here's the real play... get a vasectomy. Continue to fuck her, 3 ways, all that shit. Fuck another girl in front of her. Do it all. Then go date other women. Enjoy your turn, save your money, and continue your search for your unicorn (or holy grail, or whatever other mythical object that doesn't exist). Much love!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 04:35 PM
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Hey man, I logged in to say.... Wake the holy living fuck up. Are you retarded? But I may be wrong. Yes, you are wrong. This is some stupid shit you are considering. How about this... go no contact for 3 months, and during that time you approach 20 year olds in your own town every day. If at the end of those 3 months, you still want to: waste money leave your home submit to one-itis completely enter the frame of a woman That's cool, and it sounds like a good plan! Marriage is the best bet! </sar…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 03:02 AM
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Applying an economic context to the SMP makes the SMP a LOT like the process of selecting the best vendor for your manufacturing business. Excellent write-up.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:15 PM
1

Walden. I read it every couple of years. Fucking brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 02:55 AM
2

Walden by Henry David Thoreau. You're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 02:54 AM
1

I wish I would have had your attitude as a much younger man. You are precisely right. It's a lot like public speaking. The first time you have to get up in front of a crowd and speak... holy shit it's so nerve wracking you don't sleep the night before. But then, as you get used to doing it, as you get more experience doing it... it's second nature. Then all of a sudden your friends and co-workers are astounded by your calm, cool-as-a-cucumber demeanor. Sets are just like audiences. This trial by…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 10:53 PM
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I read your other post. You are doing exactly the right thing. Approach, Fuck Up, Calibrate. The cringe factor is high with you, but your willingness to share this with others is awesome. There are a bunch of lonely dudes who read this post but didn't have the nuts to do what you just did. Approach, Fuck Up, Calibrate. Keep it up man.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:10 AM
1

Wait... you have a moist hole between your legs? What?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:25 PM
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Your viewpoint seemed a little... I don't know... finicky or fussy when I first started reading what you responded with. But it's true, and a little depressing when you get those pics. It ruins it. Yeah, I'll fuck them. But it's a let down. That 2AM pussy pic to me would be a 2:15AM pussy pic to another dude if I didn't respond in time, and more than likely, there was one sent at 1:45AM to a different guy who was too slow to provide the validation she was needing. On a side note, when you are wi…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:38 PM
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Mormon = a multiplier of at least 3x on the crazy scale. She's a 3 out of 10 on the crazy scale... and a Mormon? That's a 9. Game over. Next. GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 11:32 PM
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A quick addition to this to agree with your comment on orgasms... They occur to me as WAY better, but I'm not sure if this is just a mental change for me because there is literally NO way to get a woman pregnant. The ability to cum deep inside a woman with no fear or worry about unwanted pregnancies is one of the best, most freeing feelings I've experienced in adulthood. The women I've fucked echo this statement. Some of your plates will be fiends for you to cum deep inside them, they seem to ge…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:35 PM
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This article is an excellent synopsis.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 02:02 PM
5

Could not agree more. I've had mine done... it's AMAZING how much post-sex stress it relieves!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:05 AM
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shh bby is ok. I'm piling on here iDont_too, because you're a twat. I mean that in the best way. No really, you're special. The suggestion that you read the post history was really all you needed. My guess is that as of right now you still haven't. Do yourself a favor and read it. No really... crack a beer and read it. Then read the sidebar. It'll take you a couple of days. Read them both again. Then, when you have some actual questions about the methods that are already outlined, please ask the…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:42 AM
2

More like... What the fuck are you doing getting married?! OP, cancel the wedding. You've been warned.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 11:17 PM
1

Excellent question. There are a thousand different answers. For me it's because I'm a chickenshit, and I'm fulfilling my needs elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 02:59 PM
1

The answer is no. And you should remember that answer every time she wants or needs something from you. The problem is... right now, you're not at Brad Pitt level. You'l be amazed at how much shit will change in your relationship once you are even close to getting a whiff of that level. Your wife will see it, but she'll never see it "in" or "with" you. She will ONLY see it through the eyes of others, or through her "community". When other people remark on how awesome you are, or how lucky she is…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 01:52 PM
1

Sorry bro, you're wrong. Your estimation of your SMV has literally NOTHING to do with what your wife thinks. You give her tingles, or you don't. Would she have turned down Brad Pitt? Nope. Did she turn down your raggedy ass? Yep. That's why you sometimes see hot wives cheating on awesome husbands with fat, bald schlubs. I'm good with where my SMV is at and I am always improving....but I'm not going to wait around until my SMV is Brad Pitt level before I have a decent sex life. I have plenty of c…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 01:48 PM
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You got this bro. Seriously. You've totally got this. About approaching... do me a favor, collect at least 3 rejections for me tonight while you're out and about on a New Year's Eve. Collect them like they're gold... because that's EXACTLY what they are. Then take them back home to your parents house and calibrate yourself based on your own feed back. Collect 3 a week in January and then add three for every week in February. Don't forget to calibrate the FUCK out of all of them. You'll be fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 09:54 PM
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Like I have zero leverage with attractive women. Then you have zero leverage. Now, ask yourself WHY. Why do you have zero leverage? Because you have a mullet? Get a fucking haircut you dope. Because your pants are too short? Buy some fucking clothes you shithead. Because you're fat? Jesus fucking christ! LIFT! Because you're a twat and live with your parents? Holy fuck, move out! Chances are, the reasons why you FEEL like you have no leverage are all due to shit COMPLETELY in your control. All y…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:08 PM
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Jumping in on the Toastmaster bandwagon. This will be the most supportive environment. Also, look at your local community college. Most likely they'll have a public speaking or communications class. Pay the money and go. I cannot express enough how much being able to confidently speak publicly will increase your success in business and getting laid. The only way to get confident is to actually do it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 03:50 PM
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Hey man.. not going to lie... you sound like a twat. Your experience is most likely a result of your own thoughts and attitudes. I'd suggest only two things: Read the sidebar material Stop choosing to be fat Much love...
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 01:54 PM
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You know, I'm sure with enough data, she'll see you're correct in your viewpoints and apologize for not recognizing her behaviors and actions prove the theories you see discussed here. I think it's a perfectly valid way to spend your time... you know gathering statistics to prove a point to your girlfriend of 9 years. </sarcasm>
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:50 AM
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Pieces of lukewarm happy. That is EXACTLY how I would describe my scenario, at least some of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 11:45 AM
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Most men here would be better off lifting and bartending at night in a small college town. Their quality of life would improve massively, as long as they were willing to control their spending. This is one of the most important points of this thread. In most cases, young men are in less control of how much money they earn compared to how much money they spend. Consider a massive improvement in a young mans life style: More time for self study/improvement More time for exercise More time for soci…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 11:33 AM
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These guys were as BP as an oil spill. I love you man. I'm keeping that.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 02:17 AM
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You're 18. Do you know how many men would love to be 18 again and know what you know? This is a really beautiful thought I remind myself of. I started this late. but even at my age, I focus on the things I need to do TODAY so that in five years, I won't have the similar regrets your comments point to... What can I be doing today that will make tomorrow awesome. What can I be doing in my 40's that will make my 50's fucking awesome. Ask that every day.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 12:29 AM
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Also, consider this utilizing this technique when you're camping... You're welcome ;)
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 10:44 PM
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Let's hear it for the BEST, CHEAPEST, SAFEST way to never have to worry about pregnancy! Seriously. Even if you're NOT sure you don't want to have kids, get this simple procedure done. Freeze some sperm. It will be the best money you've ever spent. And to your point: I've mentioned this in other subreddits and women say "you don't understand! Abortion is a difficult choice!!" Yeah, I wish I had difficult choices. I had no choices. This right here. You're completely at the mercy of whatever crazy…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 10:42 PM
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Just ordered this book. Also check out Benjamin Franklin: An American... by Walter Isaacson. Ben's my hero.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:14 PM
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I'll jump in here. I took LSD in college with a small group of friends. It was amazing that a simple tab of paper on my tongue could alter my understand of everything, from my own apartment to the way my hands worked. Over the last two years of my undergrad, I took 4 or 5 solo trips using mushrooms. About a gram or more each time, never more than two grams. I'd set an alarm for 5am, get up, eat the mushrooms then go back to bed. I'd sleep for another hour or so, and then literally wake up into m…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 12:18 PM
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Bingo. Welcome to my world. I'm grateful I've found the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 07:14 PM
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Oooof. Hard question. When I play this out in my mind, it means I'd never be the father to these seriously awesome kiddos I've got. I don't think I could do that. But... at the same time... If I knew everything I knew now on the day I asked my wife to marry me, I'd have kept my mouth shut, broke up with her a little later and made the cross country move without her. So, Yes, it would have been better to not get married in the first place. And No, there is some stuff in my life that I'm pretty su…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:12 AM
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Bonus points for mentioning getting snipped. You've got the kids already, get the snip. Of the two huge fucking things you have to worry about with side-pieces, you are in total control of eliminating one (unwanted kids with your plates). Now... we'll ALL have fun when STD's are eliminated, but until that time, to mitigate the risk of huge fucking thing number two, practice the sex safely.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:28 AM
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I cannot stress enough the importance of the skill of public speaking. Toastmasters and other courses/seminars and repeated practice in front of groups will get you farther in your career than you can imagine. tldr - fucking join Toastmasters. Continue with other public speaking courses.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 07:09 PM
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Sorry for the slow response. I have no idea if this is correct. Go get the fucking test. That's the only way I know what's correct. Do you have herpdick in your blood? Yes? You have herpdick. No? You don't have herpdick. End of story
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 01:29 AM
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Yes. There are blood tests. Typically for type one (cold sores) and type two (herpdick). When you get tested, always get the blood tests. Totally worth the cost. I am not associated with these guys in any way.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:53 PM
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Bragging, not humbly... I'm 44. I'm banging a 22 year old college girl. Literally half my age.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:49 AM
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FUCK! If I could only yell this to my 30 year old self. 30 is nothing. I'm in my 40's, and here is my perspective... the bar is set SO GOD DAMN LOW these days. OP, You're STEM. Take on your life like an experiment. You know what is not working. Simply make some changes. Keep what works.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 10:24 AM
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Joy has value. My life improved much when I stopped trying to maximize everything in terms of money. In much the same way as it did when I stopped trying to maximize every action in terms of how much pussy it would get me. 42 year old checking in.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 11:00 AM
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Married, same age, can confirm all of this.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:12 PM
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I logged in to call you an asshole. Then I thought for a second... you're right. I was duped (blue pill thinking). My life changed when I started advocating for my own best interests (increasing SMV, focusing on myself). I see no reason why they should not be advocating for their own best interests. That still doesn't change the fact that they're assholes... just assholes advocating for what is in their own best interests.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:45 PM
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I have messages from my step mom saved on my phone. She gets drunk and likes to call to tell me how bad I am for my father. It's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:16 AM
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I should have searched the comments before writing my own "Your money or your life" comment. This is the best book on personal finance I've ever read.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:48 AM
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There is a book called "Your money or your life" by Joe Dominguez and Vickie Robin. No other book has driven home the Money earned=your time concept for me. There is in exercise in the book where you calculate your real hourly wage (whether your salary or hourly doesn't matter). In a word, AMAZING. I read that book 10 years ago, and still look at items I buy in terms of hours spent in labor. $100 pants? nope, 1 1/2 hours of labor. $200 dinner with that girl? nope, 3 hours of labor. I'll cook. So…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:45 AM
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Listen. Listen to your own words. "I'm in my mid-20's"... Here is one thing I will promise you... she will NOT be as important to you in your mid-30's. You'll actually think about her and smile a little as you remember the good time you had (as you're going about your own fucking business as a fucking BOSS). You do this the right way. You tell her what the story is, and remember, it's not a discussion. Break up with her when you move. There are a thousand more like her in your new city. You keep…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:46 PM
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