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Actions that is what i believe
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:34 PM
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Im not saying i am any better, i can see your struggle as i am 21 and had my first kiss this year and still a virgin (but still seeing then girl). If i were in your shoes i would be honest or I would say i was focusing on my career and wanted to have a stable life before going into a relationship. I guess this would pass the red flag test
/r/seduction14/10/21 10:44 PM
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At first i had no game, after i learned the game i had a game, after i understand the game i had no game
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:40 PM
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Because its easy to talk, what matters is how welling you are to do the work. So it is easier and more accurate to judge you on what you have now
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:15 PM
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No, basically that is your short answer. As for the long one. Have you seen hitch, i said something that i dont fully remember but it goes like he is trying to just give them a chance its not their mistake no one taught them. You are not exactly changing yourself, if you like something you dont have to stop liking it, you might need to control yourself but you dont have to stop. As for long term relationship, don't worry about it yet keep moving with the flow. You dont have to keep changing your…
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:49 PM
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They are the same person my friend, it is very very rare that those two are saparated. If you are social and have many friends a friend distancing him self my hurt but that doesn't mean you need him and certainly you won't be as hurt as someone who has no other friends. And that reminds me actually, there is possible psychological explanation for what is happening that i can think of. If you are too nice most people would think you are manipulative or want something from them and would prefer to…
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:03 PM
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"i always thought my hobbies were cool, well i guess not infront of you" Or make fun of it in anyway you want, don't call her crazy or something like that.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:51 PM
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Love it
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:35 PM
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As a past comment said "talk to him". Maybe he has cool life or has his way of talkimg honestly there is a whole list of things he could be doing
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:55 AM
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Bro there is no exactly accurate answer, and yeah their advice sure can help, but always take what seems appealing to you. Dont do an advice just because someone said it you need to see the reasoning behind it or at least that is what i do
/r/seduction19/06/21 08:09 PM
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Always always suggest to pay if she insist let her pay for some of it or make it you pay for this one and she pay for the next. But always suggest you pay. And on first date you pay.
/r/seduction18/06/21 11:56 PM
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Yes there has been people that have done that, one of the most well-known example even if he doesn't really exist but in that community one of the most well-known is "don juan". That community does that is all that i am going to say in the comment as that community differs on many many points with POA community both of them work ofcourse and if you have both that would make it better. And being honest that idea is also found in POA community as working on yourself just like what the book "models…
/r/seduction13/06/21 01:57 AM
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Whatever she does do it back and then do something a little more daring, not too much just slightly more daring
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:08 AM
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I think what the really mean is "do women only like muscular men?" the answer is no. And i know someone who is not muscular and actually fat and getting dates, muscles are not everything but they just increase your chances that is all. If she only dates muscular men then do you really want someone like that in your life
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:57 AM
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I do see your point, but either your using the wrong words that give the wrong image or your over doing it. They are human beings yes, they are replaceable yes. My idea of not being a servant to her is show her that you have a life at the same time show her you are ready to stop everything and listen to her and help her if you can. Go out with your friends even if she doesn't like it, be late to reply on some of her texts that lower her value for you. Dont text 24/7 you have life that she is not…
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:03 PM
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Fear of rejection, if you have felt rejected before after showing attraction to someone or even in parents not giving you enough attention or in a way rejecting you this can go on a subconscious level where it becomes a habit. I suggest a therapist to solve this and on both cases you have to show interest in others to train your brain that it is ok to be rejected life move on
/r/seduction10/06/21 10:12 PM
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Make a joke about it.
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:05 AM
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Thank you i felt it was wrong but didn't know the correct spelling
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:03 AM
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You said she apologized then accept it if it happens again pick you things up and leave. Dont even try to say anything. The most you can say is "i will leave then so you can be with a 9 guy". I dont care if it hurt your self esteem or not, it employs that she is doimg you a favor that she is better than you FYI that is not a relation that is more of a charity (the one rich people do to brag about how much they gave).
/r/seduction03/06/21 12:09 AM
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Next time you do it if she answered like that how about set a time and date at some place and tell her if she wants to be with you the said date and time and place will be your date you will be there if she wants to give it a try all she has to do is come. Plan the whole night whither she comes or not go with the night as planned
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:06 PM
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I get exactly what you mean. Being nice is great and all (i am a nice person i try to be nice to everyone as long as they are respectful to me). But the only unfortunately thing is most of the time people view nice people as someone who wants something from them he needs them. Now ofcourse depends on other factors subconsciously they can know if your just nice to them or you are a really nice person and dont want anything from them. The oy problem with that is they dont know everytime and it nee…
/r/seduction30/05/21 03:00 PM
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I am a Muslim, in way i am allowed 4 wifes at the same time so my advice is. Dont, just don't you have not the single idea of what your putting yourself in if they fight or hated each other
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:36 AM
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"that's not how your mom/best friend discribed it"
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:33 AM
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Do it more. From your post you just need more experience what you need to do is cold approach. Go to r/seduction you will find what you need to do.
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:19 AM
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Cold approach is always better that's because the amount of options is greatly different for the girl your approaching. And of course other reasons as well but that is one of the top reasons. Second you have cold approached 50 times over the last few months and no date, i believe it is time to see what are you doing wrong. This can be done by you only, for example you might be approaching most of them from the back or you maybe not escalating correctly. You did have 50 cold approach over the las…
/r/seduction20/05/21 12:07 AM
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Thats a good thing. About your question, well i am a calmer perosn than everyone i know, the thing is i wouldnt approach a girl not because of anything other than my weak personality and i feel it is weird, i know it is not but well cant really help it. As for my type, i dont mind her to be in anyway, she can have big b**bs or small and so on. The only thing i need in her is that i enjoy spending time with her. As someone you classify as calmer, do you know how much we love to listen and at the …
/r/seduction17/05/21 03:29 PM
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This is a calme guy opinion so might not care much about it. If it was me probably I would talk you out of politeness, sorry it is not what yoy wanted to hear. So here is what you can do with people like me, first thing dont ask us out, become friend first then show that you have common ground or show your self how you think. Because mostly with calme people we think alot so we like it is easy to draw us like that and even easier if you are natural and outgoing at the same time. And no outgoing …
/r/seduction16/05/21 01:50 AM
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Time, place and date that is all. So it would be something like: "hey lets get that coffee next Tuesday, 11:00 at Starbucks" Of course change it as you need add some text but dont be asking for the date, set the date. If she is not free she will tell you. If she does change it same way without asking when she is free, you can do this one to two times at most (i usually go ask in total 2 times) then ask her when she is free.
/r/seduction15/05/21 01:48 AM
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This is true and false, ok for pick up yes that us 100% true, you have to pursuing but she might feel your a creep. In seduction how ever is a different story, you cant expect all women to fall for you this rule stays in both of them. In seduction the real master of it is the one able to confince the women that she is the one pursuing him, sometimes you need to pursue her others you have to befriend her. But what seduction require that pov doesn't is time, yes you need time to work on your self …
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:15 AM
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I agree, the art of seduction is and will always be superior. I liked how you delivered most of the key point of seduction, vaguely but i can see most of them if not all.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:06 AM
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It will set you even lower status when they find out later trust me they will. Besides it doesnt mean much just tell the truth and be you. Not having a girlfriend doesnt set you that low at all it is normal be fun and befriend everyone and your good to go. And away from that a friendly tip get them coffee or tea depending on your country. It will set a chain reaction and basically they will like you more. Your coworkers not only your bosses
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:07 PM
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Nope having a pen*s is much more unattractive to me than just fat. And yes if she has a good personality
/r/seduction01/05/21 07:11 AM
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If i say i know exactly your problem that would sound like a lie. In my mind there is 2 probablilities both are treatable with therapy, or you can read "no more mr nice guy" it's your choice, you can start with the book first if it works then continue if you dont feel your into this type of nice guy after reading most of the book, then i suggest find a way to seem stronger be it gym, more connection and so on just seem stronger and have alot of people that wants to talk with you.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:29 AM
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Thank you alot for that. Alot of people need to hear this.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:14 AM
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Well that are interesting questions, and to be honest there is a lot of differences. The Context is very different, when you are using an app like Instagram you are not there for the same reasons you would go to tinder for although everything applies from photo to safety to honestly everything except the context but that makes alot of difference. Another thing about "sliding into DMs" being considered creepy, i would make a qoute from a manga i read once "if a hot guy is salient in a party he is…
/r/seduction27/04/21 06:16 AM
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Hold back, get your self busy and dont wait for too long. Just do something go have fun do anything except messaging her. Give her space as you said but dont go into it ever. If she doesn't send you anything for like a week from now move on.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:10 AM
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This is a weird question, but were you listening. When you say you were focusing on your vibe and energy, but what about the other person were you saying questions you thought of before. Not sure how much the question was understandable so i will just explain it more here, if you did you can answer it. I know you heard what she said, but did you ask questions about what she said did you continue the conversation in it and gave the vibe your actually interest in what she is saying.
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:37 PM
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Speaking your mind. The only rule is dont lie, and dont be an a**hole (i know these are 2). If your friend painted a painting and asked your opinion, ypu look at it and its really bad you can say : "I love it. Especially this part" whivh i think you would do. Or you can say: "it can be improved", "its good but it can be improved". Hope this helped
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:09 PM
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Well reseduce them again and again.
/r/seduction10/04/21 09:41 PM
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Well as far as i know consciously usually they dont, but the unconscious mind does pick it up and you want to affect that part to the best of you abilities so it is important.
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:08 PM
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If i go to a girl home and smell a disgusting smell the only thing i will think about it "when is it nice to run from here" or what lie would i tell to go.
/r/seduction10/04/21 03:02 PM
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Lol yeah me too
/r/seduction08/04/21 11:06 PM
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I know right, well the thing is having bad posture can come as weakness (trying to become smaller) but can be post of bad habits that affects you that way now the subconscious doesnt know about the second reason but understands the first very well so he takes it as weakness. When you build muscles your strong back muscles will in the end fix your back posture and your over all (you might feel taller as well)
/r/seduction07/04/21 07:54 PM
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Isnt that a must? Like gaining muscle would make you show alot of confidence even if your mentality didnt change because of the back muscle it will be easier for your back to be straight and so on.
/r/seduction07/04/21 09:27 AM
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I dont have any story to tell(not sure if that is good or not lol). But i liked something in the post wabout the girl that told you you look like a cancer patient. What i liked about it is that it is a great example of a tip i always heard alot. Have a wide connection it will help you alot with relations. Just wanted it share that while there is a fantastic example about it.
/r/seduction06/04/21 08:49 PM
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You can try looking between their eyes, not sure if it helps. Another thing there are videos on the youtube that can help.
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:24 PM
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I agree, unfortunately sometimes it is just due to bad setting down postures
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:22 PM
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First befriend you manager, i dont care how befriend him or her. After that your basically safe with flirting during the work. Tbh i dont see any problem with you flirting during that time as long as you dont become too s*xual your ok almost every girl wont mind. (i believe onky married women can mind but i dont have the feeling your into older women so you are safe)
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:22 PM
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What i am seeing is that she is totally into you. This is going to be hard on you to confirm because you have to ask her out, basically she will never tell you until you ask her out. She might even say no if you just ask her if she is into you. So basically you only have to ask her out if she says no then it is no
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:15 PM
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Because you stop caring. Let me explain, so basically when you care or i can or anyone care sometimes they can care too much and be needy. In another scenario it is the same reason girls like jerk other thaank confidence they also dont care. When he doesnt mean it or even try anything they just fall for him. Because he doesn't care about her. It is like a cat for cat lovers. Have you seen a cat that actually keeps caring and sticking to her owner like maybe few times a day but they rest she does…
/r/seduction24/03/21 02:16 AM
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There is a way but not sure how much it can help, so before try quiting porn for more than a month or so. After that there is a way in a book called "no more mr nice guy" the same way is also found in "models" but the one in the first book is explained much better and further and if i remember correctly it was chapter 8 or 9 in "no more mr. Nice guy"
/r/seduction14/03/21 10:48 AM
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She seems to have interests in you so straight is a good option. Ask her out.
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:49 PM
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I just had to say, i f*cking love the last part really. Yes get the dust of and move on.
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:25 PM
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Scientifically speaking 45 degree is good dont set infront, anything except infronta little to the side is good enough
/r/seduction18/02/21 07:14 PM
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hi, first to check my understanding, your saying: that people usually focus on their game and forget their career or vice versa. if I m misunderstanding I relationship isn't appreciated I relationship telling me. now about that, I would say yes and no. yes, many men focus on their game, on appearing successful or do the opposite and focus on their career and try their best. the no was for the relationshipisn't, between success and game. if anyone reading this game isnt used on women only and if …
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:35 PM
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Hey, im not sure if i read the post here but there was a fantastic post about seducting men, and as a straight man it would most likely worked on me. So basically it is make us feel you need us. Like you count on him for protection, you ask him for a favor for help. So basically if your not trying to be the independent woman that can do anything and believe she is better than all men (women are better than men in some areas and men are better than women in other areas but come on be realistic no…
/r/seduction08/02/21 12:28 PM
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Semce your starting, go for a "no". This is little weird but the goal for this is to not let rejection affect you much. So here is the think you have to go to her start a conversation in anyway you want and ask for her phone number. Thats all if she said no you won you wanted her to say no. If she said yes and gave it you lost but now you have her phone number. Now not sure how much it will help you get better with it and get over rejection but its worth giving it a try. Second will cold approac…
/r/seduction31/01/21 01:37 AM
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honestly a fascinating story.
/r/seduction09/01/21 05:00 AM
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Hope you find someone
/r/seduction31/12/20 09:17 PM
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Honestly the only advice i know it getting more women into your life. Going cold approaching and all that, just putting in your mind that there are other women in your life and you dont need to fanaticis about one
/r/seduction29/12/20 05:16 PM
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Great advice, personally i would say something like see you tomorrow if we happen to text before the date day and it would be like a good bye to end the chat.
/r/seduction27/12/20 04:55 PM
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Well your right and wrong at the same time. If you talking about attraction before you even talk to her then that will make a disadvantage for unattractive people which is the main people who learn the game (or at least the ones who didnt get the social skill other people have before starting it), another thing is that handaomeness just give you a push and isnt everything. For example, you can be attractive and have a bad social skill after talking to the girl she will lose interest in you. Now …
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:43 PM
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I think the best answer is in the movie "date doctor", basically they see who is into the game as liers, manipulative someone who can do anything for s*x or to get what he wants. Not as someone who didn't get the right teaching or didnt learn those stuff of interacting with women and things like that and is just trying to become like everyone else or surpass them later on
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:28 AM
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Ohhh i think its normal said as "stepping out of my comfort zone".
/r/seduction25/12/20 12:33 AM
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Sorry just seen that you commented and yeah, can you help
/r/seduction25/12/20 12:32 AM
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Basically "models: how tp attract women with honesty" and "the art of seduction" you don't need more than those two
/r/seduction24/12/20 10:19 AM
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As someone who is doing post graduate its the chance of your life. Trust me thats the best change you can have. In terms if it is dangerous, you will think it is but its just for 2 to 3 year then you wont see these people again honestly it will be for one or two semesters and they wont even interact with you, if you dont interact with them. So when you feel its dangerous its really not you wont regret it. Another thing dont only work your skills on women or girls in this case. Even men do it jus…
/r/seduction23/12/20 05:53 PM
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Picking up emotions i cant say for sure sometimes you will start noticing thing so dont worry about it too much your mind will start picking up skill and think he needs or you will know which one to learn
/r/seduction23/12/20 01:28 PM
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Yeah you can say that.
/r/seduction23/12/20 01:23 PM
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What i think and its based on my beliefs, of course the more the better and its just their mind became able to do things without even noticing. Like a natural women get attracted to him sometime he doesn't mean to attract them. Now i cant say for sure how many approaches, but it will take at least a 2 to 3 years so yeah it will take time.
/r/seduction23/12/20 01:06 PM
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Honestly its great. It doesnt stop on seduction its an eye opening, most of its rules or lessons can be used in normal human interactions and also to know your self.
/r/seduction22/12/20 11:18 PM
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well, I am not sure but 10 years seem too long especially if you do it a lot like science says you can be pro at something with 10,000 hours which is 5 years,I and good at something with 20 hours. still can't say i have 10 years of experience or even 5 years, but believe it will take much less to know what you are doing, and then it will take your mind time until it becomes a subconscious thing where it is natural. not sure how long that would take but 10 years maybe would be the time when you r…
/r/seduction21/12/20 05:12 PM
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i believe someone with a great game can be considered natural or at least if he been in the game for a long time for example 3 years. it became a habit he doesn't have to think about it again.
/r/seduction21/12/20 04:45 PM
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Hey is it on chat or we have to meet
/r/seduction21/12/20 12:58 AM
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And live with the second one in the threesome
/r/seduction20/12/20 04:39 PM
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Wow this is one of the best tips i ever seen
/r/seduction20/12/20 04:37 PM
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Well my point is a guy who is always free seems like has nothing in his life like why should she care or talk to him, she can basically talk to him anytime and he will reply. When you cant talk all the time when you busy somedays that means when she can talk to you is a rare time and she has to get the nost potential out of it. It's more like this gold is really expensive because its rare iron isnt because there is alot of it. If you want to do it you dont have to right away. Like spend time wit…
/r/seduction16/12/20 11:44 PM
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Ohhh nice thanks bro
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:43 PM
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Grrat job man. How did you start?
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:10 PM
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Try going there for few times see uf her attitude change ir she gives the same attitude to every customer. If you feel she is some what giving you extra attention go for it. If not do what you want in the end its just a question "when do you finish work" you decide what to do if you feel like it ask her if not then don't. Sometimes its good to take risks thry would pay off
/r/seduction13/12/20 02:09 AM
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Honestly i just use one. If they make time for you they atleast care about you, and usually they do like you and that is 99% of the time
/r/seduction13/12/20 01:59 AM
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I'm really thankful for your advice, and about the first paragraph yeah that did happen to me. But its not frustrating its just i really dont understand how cant thry see what they want it just i cant take it. I guess it get on my nerves lol. And lastly thanks your advice i will try to apply it.
/r/seduction26/11/20 04:55 PM
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Well yeah your right and we arent disregarding them. Its just as most people here knows and you surely know they give the description of the perfect man and there is no problem with that, its a problem when the person they are describing is setting right next to them like to the core but if he asks her out she would be like "oh but your like my brother". And then she would go out with some idiot or whatever. Thats why i never trusted and wont trust a girls advice because in the end they dont rea…
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:50 AM
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Lol i guess i did "over engineering" it. Yeah your right i see what you mean it will be more like a needy and not confident which someone should watch out for in this case because they get really close to each other.
/r/seduction24/11/20 06:48 PM
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Please correct me if im wrong. Here is my point of the video. Its not that he should imagine his romantic life with every girl he sees its that he has possibly he either take that possibility or he doesnt. He can win and he can loss. Its like a coin toss (although its not that fair in this case) it has possibly of head (she goes out with you) or a tail (she doesnt). If you toss the coin you know your answer or the outcome. The problem here is that if you dont its the same outcomr like a tail. So…
/r/seduction24/11/20 06:36 PM
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I think it would be the number of rejection he got. For every guy out there ithurts like hell. But imagine someone who trained on a painful move a 1000 times and someone who didnt do it more that 10 times who would feel more pain. Its like that soon your mind will get used to that pain and became to care less about it you just have to do it enough. That doesn't mean it wouldn't hurt at all but you will get hurt to a point where you can move on like nothing happened. Your friend i think a special…
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:08 PM
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Man great job, really your improving dont think you would reach the top just like that and your even better than me at lesst you approached i will start it soon as well. What i know is first dont try to think about what you will talk to them about this is for many reasons likr you will seem robotic and second you probably wont be listening and third is what happened to you you will forget them any of the three wont get you her number of her interests. Second if they dont show interest in you get…
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:08 PM
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Ohh that actually seems a nice idea. I will give it a try. Thank you for your advice
/r/seduction17/10/20 10:52 PM
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Honestly he wont think your gay if he did trust me that would be the good scenario he would most likely take you as aggressive and get defensive (it might get to start a fight). Apply to women keep it for sometime if you want for men but break it
/r/seduction12/10/20 04:38 PM
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Dont ask questions, make statements. When you keep asking it feels like your a cop and she is a suspect or something. If you want to talk about a movie talk about it and see if she likes it or if she likes another movie the same way you like this one and so on with that. Basically every question can be made a statement, but you need to practice that skill
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:53 PM
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How about wanna go out. Dont saybthe place just a time and a day to make sure if she is free and you suggest the time and date in first 2 times if she doesnt have time in first suggestion then you ask when she is free. And dont go for a meal go somewhere more fun and after it go eat then somewhere fun again in the same date.
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:29 PM
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Well its actually simple but hard at the same time it needs try and error to get it right. You to think and believe you already have her number. Dont let you self go "ohh no she is too hot i have no chances with her" your way of thinking will appear by your action (what i mean is she can read your mind if you thought like that). Best of luck
/r/seduction03/10/20 03:35 PM
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Well i can think of many things mind if we chatted about it?
/r/seduction02/10/20 08:16 PM
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Bro thats just shit talk. How can you find something in common just like that its impossible if your not in the same club or doing the same thing. So talk about her if you need to talj about your passion and as open ended question. All these tips wont work before you try and comeback here. They should be with one more tip be interested in what she is saying dont keep changing the subject with questions make statements about what she is talking about even feelings would be great. And you dont hav…
/r/seduction21/09/20 07:36 PM
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Yeah your already in a club talk about that common thing and then after few times just ask to hang out. If you want relation with the girl ask her oit on first time.
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:23 AM
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Well im not sure doesnt seem like anything wrong. We dont have enough info, focus more on girl but not too much like leave her from time to time to talk to your friend. Im saying if its just contact this nothing more. If your doing that then just give ut more time and ask for their number or if they want to hang out late just for fun. You know
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:06 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:23 PM
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Ahhhh yes finally i can get his view of something. I have read the art of seduction a fantastic book. I wanted to ask which is more important the first or the second. the real core of the book seened to be the first especially the victims types? Is that true. And what is the real use of the second part because it seemed to give ideas if someone is stuck and not sure what to do next to reach his goal? And where can i hear the podcast is it available on YouTube? Or some website? Thank you for givi…
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:16 PM
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Bro, honestly i dont get why your worried about that. Sorry i took it as you lost your confidence in your appearance so what is the real problem. If you got 50 girls (way to go by the way) the only problem that i can think of is that you dont know where to go next after going on first date or first few dates.
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:41 PM
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Have you tried to ask a girls number or ask a girl out. Im 20 and never had a girlfriend as well (well 2 online ones but i dont consider them in this field). Just know women wont go after you except in really rare cases and dont usually have anything to do with you being attractive. Go after them and know you will most likely fail at first but after sometimes you will get your confidence and become way better at it.
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:35 PM
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To answer your question. I was most of my life an introvert im 20 now. So i lost my ability for great human interaction especially relationships. So seduction is my way to get it back. And i have to let you see my idea of seduction. Seduction isnt some kind of super power that will get women to run after you there will always be ones that dont and wouldnt want to be you. No seducer have that power. With every seduction you have to like the one your seducing. Seducing have very law close to 0 cha…
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:37 PM
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You said your in a happy relationship. There is nothing you can possibly miss. All of us want to be where you are to find that girl and be in a happy relationship with. Not many are only here to sleep with different girl each night even if they were its not a desire that can last for long. Dont get your self to be in our place and then wish you get what you let go. Dont waste that great opportunity thinking you are missing something. You just acting like the grass is greener on the other side. G…
/r/seduction08/09/20 05:54 PM
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I suppose any addiction give that effect
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:20 PM
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About your friends you are interested in honestly just ask them something like "hey we didnt meet from a long time would you like to go to so and so". You used to know them and this doesnt come exactly out of no where since you have a reason. The second this is notice whats get you interested in there stories. Like they are partyinh somewhere "the party looks so nice and fun" after few talking just say something like "i always wanted to go to a party like that but never had anyone to go with or …
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:06 PM
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Do something cool then. Let me tell you a story that can explain it more. There was a girl (dont remember the name sorry) that had her fear control her. She had really strong anxiety. One day she decided i want to do something courageous she started something really great every weekend she would do some kind of activity that requires alot of courage like sky diving and this sort of things. Soon she was know as the courage ... (her name) but she wasnt courage she felt a huge amount of fear everyt…
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:25 PM
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I liked the way you explained it and yeah your right i would start any relation or friend as the first time then i would i would feel if they are acting nice for selfish reasons (cant explain it they just show it in small actions or they are just not good at hiding it lol) Now i have to say your belief is correct. Every action can relate to selfish motive no matter how pure it is even mother's love and care for here child can relate to the deep idea that her dna should continue to the next gener…
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:05 PM
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Although it can be right in someplaces. But imagine this two guys one always talk about his achievements what he has done and so on. Another talks and asks about yours, your job your life when you ask about him he can have achieved alot as well but he doesn't talk much about it he answer the question and ask about you or sheft the talk to you. Who would you enjoy his company more. What he meant by that isnt someone that would go and keep praising others i believe thats the guy you meant. But the…
/r/seduction01/09/20 08:23 PM
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Be happy that she rejected you is my goal. Im trying to get to that mind set because i know she rejected me means i wont be happy with her.
/r/seduction01/09/20 07:50 PM
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No they dont. They wont even look at her for how bad it seems but it's that.
/r/seduction30/08/20 08:48 PM
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Ok im male i just had a question you actually can smell it all day. I smell just for 1 second what ever male smell i use and no matter how powerful it is. Lol you sound like have a super power to me now
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:21 PM
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Yeah your right as long as you dont attack their beliefs or them you should be ok. If not then its not you it must be someone or something else and they are taking it out on you
/r/seduction24/08/20 05:50 PM
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You tried alot did you try seeing what you do wrong. And for your question dont take it seriously im not talking about rejection you already have that. Im talking about the approach just think what would be funny to tell her or make it a game go with someone else and try this as soon as one of you approach a girl the clock starts and stops when the conversation ends you can check who the girl spends more time with and decide the winner or after you become really good you see who can get her numb…
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:34 PM
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Ohhh that seems really good. Thanks for recommending it
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:11 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation i looked it up and going to give it a try.
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:07 PM
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Thats the title?
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:04 PM
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Ok thanks for the recommendation
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:02 PM
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Ok why im getting a weird feeling from the title.
/r/seduction22/08/20 10:57 PM
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Wow lol what a coincidence i downloaded this book just now
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:25 PM
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Honestly girl you seem great to be around. Im not sure if what im going to say would help try finding a good hubby that can take you away from porn i have read the comments (great guys, totally agree with all of you). Honest what needs to be told was told i want you to know that you being mostly mute is kinda a good thing on the long run since when u have a boyfriend he would really love you not some fake love or whatever. And one more thing i have a mute friend as well and i dont know sign lang…
/r/seduction21/08/20 09:53 AM
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Dude. There is one thing that got my nerve its that you already decided that they will feel your creepy before even trying. My friend everyone understands your circumstances in this world pandemic everone if living it. Just say i was studying in the university currently im in my parents home and continuing my studies online, this pandemic really changed alot of my life style. They will want to talk because it did to them they will tell you how it affected them. Listen everyone in your situation …
/r/seduction15/08/20 08:20 PM
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Get a hobby. Go out there find what you want to do in your free time and do it. That hole means that you have a lot of freetime and your wasting it away in meaningless stuff. Having a hobby can help you in that and it makes you better in relationships because you would have something your passionate about and can talk about it for hours.
/r/seduction25/07/20 09:50 PM
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If she reject you its better for you both, that means that relationship wont be a happy one and you didnt have to go through too much drama to know that
/r/seduction25/07/20 09:29 PM
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Your totally correct i love this line when i read it. It answered so many questions, although im still new to all of this but this book was fantastic and not only showed me the road but my mistakes and how to be the man i want to be. Hope it does the same to everyone and they appreciate its value, its totally priceless.
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:10 PM
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I wont have sex with married women but thats me. But i would still be friend her who know maybe she has hot sister or friends
/r/seduction26/05/20 07:38 PM
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Just reply as if she the one who is starting it.
/r/seduction23/05/20 12:09 PM
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I really cant tell. Give it a chance who knows
/r/seduction23/05/20 09:43 AM
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Don't. Never do that. Althought thats bold and all but does that seem like someone who want more than just s*x.
/r/seduction23/05/20 06:34 AM
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Not so sure im a mix between natural and charmer but i still dont fully understand the natural
/r/seduction23/05/20 06:19 AM
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A question sorry i forgot the question make lol.
/r/seduction22/05/20 10:57 PM
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Well not sure you would find it here i dont see many guys here that post about this book there is a subriddit just for it (its not that active just si you know but there is some good stories there) . As for your question i would say none. In the end all of them can seduce the only difference is the way (and maybe the duration) but the outcome in the same. That is the difference between the characters not the people who got these characters it will all come back to them how gokd they are in that …
/r/seduction22/05/20 10:43 PM
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If its possible for her not to know it would be better. Just make it seem a question out of the blue. Thats a good answer i like it. Not sure if it appears needy i dont think it does but maybe you can make a post about it and see whag everyone thinks that way you can be sure.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:53 PM
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Yeah i mean you two text basically her's. Since she answers enthusiastically she could drop a hint about her interests without noticing.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:47 PM
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That's a good idea. Hope it works. Now if she answers with more than two words thing try going over your texts sometime who know maybe she dropped a hint about her interests.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:41 PM
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Thats a relief. That could mean she cares but cant explain, so as you said shy. Just wondering can you take her to a place that she can do physical activity not working out but maybe walking in the park, dancing or basketball.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:34 PM
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No problem and you can search them on Google there are many good questions that could help with explaining of what to take out from them.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:30 PM
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Just make sure you dont appear needy. That would be your biggest concern. Well this can be childish, but it can help if you use it well if she wants try playing something like 20 questions and ask questions that helps you figure her out better
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:28 PM
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Welk this could be childish but it helped me in texting when it got boring. Try something like 20 questions ask questions related to the past like "if you can change one thing in the past what would it be and why?" or maybe the future like what is her life goal or maybe just what are her hobbies. Basically anything that can get you to understand her more and try to talk about the subject more if you felt she is interested in talking about it.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:21 PM
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Tbh she seem to be a good listener than a shy person. And she accepted to go out so there is a level of interest (i dont know how much since its hard to tell for me). You said she goes to the same school are there common friends or maybe you have a good relation with her bff. If there is try asking them what she interested in, or you can check her facebook and instagram post and see if you can find something she might be interested in.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:16 PM
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Is there something she is interested in that you can post about or make a story about. Im not sure but maybe that would trigger her to message you.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:09 PM
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Personally i wont go with her by thats for personal reasons so just wanted to make that clear. For you i would say go for it just be ready and have topics that she likes (check her fb or Instagram for ideas) if that doesnt raise her interest then it would be you choice my friend.
/r/seduction22/05/20 08:41 PM
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Tbh i feel its weird as well but thats just me ig here basically most men do it so its pretty normal to them.
/r/seduction22/05/20 03:32 PM
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You can wait until the holiday
/r/seduction21/05/20 09:04 PM
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Im sure you dont mean by text.
/r/seduction21/05/20 05:11 PM
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Thanks bro i will make sure to check him out. Thanks for sharing what worked for you
/r/seduction21/05/20 04:47 PM
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If its wrong im sorry about it, i never watched AMS i will make sure i do when i have time. And what i said was based on my own observations so i cant be 100% about it im sorry i should have stated that
/r/seduction21/05/20 04:30 PM
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I understand what you mean it must be hard to be in front of her the whole time and not being able to even breath. But i see this as the samething you woukd need to do even if in person in the end you want to show your interest what is betyer than listening to their everyword. You can learn how to ask the right question to get them to open up and get them to keep the conversation going. I still find in person better because i would feel much better being able to notice her body language.
/r/seduction20/05/20 07:52 PM
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Beibg call cute or hot is too general trg to find something specific that you like they will feel it when you dont actually like it. Specific things like hairstyle, dress, shoes, even how she made her clothes go with each other. please dont lie about liking something you dont. And when you compliment that thing you can say that you know it took her a long time to do (this js optional and depends on what you think).
/r/seduction20/05/20 02:34 PM
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I would recommend a surprise if she is the person that likes them. Just show up and tell her lets go and go somewhere without telling her where exactly. Just make sure its a place she would like and she never been to before. Of you can give her a gift just with the gift you dont need any expensive thing just something that represents something to her or has a meaning between you guys.
/r/seduction20/05/20 12:49 PM
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Waw thanks bro that was the best definition if this sub i ever seen. And thanks for trying ti correct the misunderstanding.
/r/seduction20/05/20 01:56 AM
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If you mean like daving different characters of people and things like that I would suggest the art of seduction. And its both or men and women
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:44 PM
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Welk i would suggest to first find out what she likes from her profile if your using facebook or some applications that have that. If possible dont start with "hi". Lets say from her profile you noticed she likes anime you can start by saying something about it like you like anime too, or finally someone with good taste. Then start talking about that subject for as long as you can and keep it to that subject as possible or if you want to change it change it slowly or ending that subject with som…
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:59 AM
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No problem
/r/seduction17/05/20 12:45 PM
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I wouldnt say much about the main question i liked someone else's answer by going slow. I want to say dont always mind what she says but how she say it still no means no but for example the girl moan before what she said that means she is just saying it she doesnt mean it. Just sometimes they would mean the opposite notice how the say it and how their body language more than what they r saying that would never stray you.
/r/seduction17/05/20 12:37 PM
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Well i have to suggestions im not sure about the second one but it could work. The first one is simplr yet effective. The first one is find something common to talk about, maybe by giving him a complement or asking for his advice making a conversation from there. You probably would meet him in the same place so lets say he is checking some item you can go pick an a similar item and act like your checking it and ask him which one he think is better. Now this could get you started but i would do s…
/r/seduction17/05/20 12:31 PM
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Well being on lock down could kill your romance i wiuld say yes to that that could happen. At the same time the opposite could happen as well it adds more excitement and more romance its like a long distance relation u cant help but overthibg about that person sometimes in good like how u miss them others in bad like r they cheating on you but alway about them. I believe that what you wanted just a worning sit down with your self and think is it worth it to get back to her. Like remember why did…
/r/seduction17/05/20 12:12 PM
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I had seen a comment here that u shouldnt have talked about her dog. I disagree its bice that u did but u moved to fast to her ib asking where is she from thats what made it seen fake interest. But i agree with that guy you should talk about something u actually like try not to be her body or something like that, maybe a nicklas that you like maybe talk about it a little abd dont ask after it from where is she that a boring question tbh. Try moving the subject slowly to other things that seem re…
/r/seduction16/05/20 12:37 PM
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You right that can put u in the wrong place but i have to say this not every girl the same some u have to move directly to the relationship zone others it would be better to be in the FZ first and that cool guy is because he already build a reputation of being that cool with girls. Think about him im sure he has alot of friends that are girls and boys he usually never alone its not because he is cool that he is never alone or never with one girl its actually the opposite he is cool because he is…
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:51 PM
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Thats a great point actually im glade someone did say that. But about that statement i think it sould hold true for some of the guys here that only want one night thing or just sex. If thats the case the shouldnt bother being friends with them and I don't think this is the subreditt for that thing that is pick up not seduction.
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:46 PM
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Great post, can u share with us how to add color to your voice its a problem i have so if you can help me solve it.
/r/seduction13/05/20 05:14 PM
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