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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 192 | Men's enthusiastic support of sex workers is the only unified pro-women effort from men I've ever witnessed in my lifeGood luck finding a man who will date/marry a sex worker, or a man who would support his daughters choice to become one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 08:35 PM |
| 280 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceHe better be taking her on a Sephora shopping spree 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 245 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦goes to old messages- “Hey girl, do you want to… checks notes …come slow dance in a walmart parking lot with me Friday night?” Clown world 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:51 AM |
| 20 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »As a non-drinking vegan person I second this. Sadly I’m a cheap date by default so at least take me somewhere nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Strategic ignorance of women is what keeps the majority of relationships aliveOh yeah I’ve already planned it I’m just trying to keep it amiable because I’m in a vulnerable position currently sharing a home with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Strategic ignorance of women is what keeps the majority of relationships aliveThe title is completely correct. I’m currently miserable going 50/50 living with my broke boyfriend trying to convince myself I’m “happy” while secretly planning my escape. NVM are a soul sucking disease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:49 AM |
| 21 | Hilarious. Also, this is a genius move if you want to use a scrote bug spray.I’m cackling at this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 05:44 AM |
| 3 | This is why we block and delete, it’s as much about preventing our own harmful acts in a moment of weakness.Holy shit I didn’t know the pickmeisha winter olympics was happening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 104 | Van life with a grown up child! Any ladies jealous yet?“Van life” is just glorified homelessness. Not aspirational. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:47 AM |
| 3 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Oh I completely agree with this. If you’re honest and you make it clear this is something you expect when you are married and you take time off work to raise children or take care of the house, I’m sure it can be arranged. If anything, the least a man can do is replace your salary you would be receiving if you continued to work, as you’re not even getting relevant work experience to your career by staying at home. It would usually take a completely different skill set that wouldn’t be a marketab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 11:29 PM |
| 82 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.This is why I think if you choose to be a SAHM/SAHW your husband should be paying you and replacing your income as he is employing you to be a SAHM/SAHW as you are unable to work because you are fulfilling that role in the home instead, which is usually unpaid and unappreciated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Hookup culture is a scamEverything about this. Intimacy without a feeling of security is trauma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:26 PM |
| 69 | John Mulaney’s ex, Anna Marie Tendler, leveling up!!I used to love John mulaney’s comedy but now he makes me sick. I love Anna and she’s so strong and such an impactful artist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Breakup/self love anthems by Billie Eilish 💞Yeah I agree that as an individual she has a lot to learn from, but these 2 songs specifically I feel like really encompass the idea of choosing yourself first over anyone else, and leaving someone who was bad for you and hurt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Offline boyfriend trendAs a gen z young woman, I like that my boyfriend uses social media and has accounts and such, but rarely/never posts. On Instagram he only follows his friends and people he knows in real life as well as meme pages etc. Has never followed any random Instagram models or famous influencer women, even before meeting me. I’ve heard about a lot of women my age having their boyfriends do a “social media purge” when they get into a relationship such as unfollowing all the softcore porn Instagram account… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 86 | Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory!Because they can just go on tinder and find a free home-service prostitute to come over that same night 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 95 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesThank you so much!! He’s totally using her, he begged her to move in with him when she thought it was too soon, and this rich man is making her PAY on top of that??? They aren’t even engaged ???? Lots of red flags here. Claudia has lost a lot of weight recently so I hope she’s doing alright mentally, could be disordered eating or something but if she’s struggling I hope she gets the help that she needs it could be this relationship draining the life out of her tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:31 AM |
| 25 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesHow do you know she’s paying rent can you link the source | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 37 | Pickmes play a big part in why things are changing for the worseWhich is exactly why the “women supporting women no matter what” or “anything a woman does is feminism” narrative is complete bullshit. Like sis, you don’t want us to have rights, no I don’t like you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?Lmaoo we’re so similar here! I’m so happy you’re not carrying your fathers last name and you changed it to reflect the sole parent that raised you :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:59 AM |
| 196 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?My father is a deadbeat dad. He got my mother pregnant and ditched her saying he didn’t want to be involved. My mom raised me as a single mom and he never paid anything no child support. He recently tried to get in contact with me (I’m 20 now) and it was clear he wanted all the credit of being my father without any of the responsibilities so I cut him out completely. Shut that down real quick lmao the motherfucker dug his grave and he can lay in it for the rest of his life. 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:55 PM |
| 15 | Reminder: You can twist a man's arm to make him say/do almost anything. In the end, a choice that he makes in the absence of pressure is infinitely more reflective of his feelings and intentions.Not me in the past giving my boyfriend an ultimatum to either move in together or break up 😬😬😬 god I really couldn’t just accept the obvious there ahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:52 AM |
| 3 | I'm done 😪Ew that wallet clearly isn’t socialized properly 🤢🤢🤢🤮 throw it out girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 12 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…Exactly. Men don’t understand that meeting this beauty standard doesn’t just happen naturally. Female beauty is curated and it takes a lot of time, money, effort and pain to get there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:22 AM |
| 39 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…I do my hair nails brows makeup hair removal etc already and all with my own coin too. How do I get him to pay for my appearance upkeep if he’s used to me doing it all for free already 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Porn Actress Reilly Reid’s InterviewHe just proposed to her actually they’re engaged now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Apps promised to revolutionize dating. But for women they’re mostly terrible | Nancy Jo SalesMy best friend who showed me this subreddit came up with the best idea- a dating app where a “wish list” of things are on every woman’s profile, and in order for a man to message a woman, he must buy her something off that list which is completely made by her, so she can set it up to have less or more expensive things on the list for men to be able to message her. So then at least the woman from the get go gets SOMETHING out of conversing with a man who’s a potential partner. At least then her t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.Check out Daniel Sloss! He’s great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:06 AM |
| 10 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.By one sided I meant that the divorce was intimated and executed by solely him. But yes, I think this shows their relationship was one sided and she was willing to put up with all these red flags due to not having enough self respect and independence from him to want something better for herself which is really sad. I’m sure she will get over him and learn from it at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:04 AM |
| 204 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.I was waiting for a post about John Mulaney here. I loved his comedy so much and thought him and his wife were so wholesome. Turns out he was a serial cheater, drug addict and while he was in rehab for the drugs, his wife also went to rehab for emotional trauma due to his cheating as well as eating disorder issues. She made it clear that his decision to leave her was completely one sided and she was heartbroken, and now the poor woman is ruined dealing with the emotional aftermath of having her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:02 AM |
| 3 | This is getting traction in a FOOD GROUP I’m in, and I cannot describe how unenthusiastic I am with cool-gamer-girl pickmecultureWhat is requirement from men for a women to be into video games if he is? I don’t require the men I’m dating to be into makeup or my feminine hobbies, so why do men value a women being good at some niche activity that they engage in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:18 AM |
| 66 | The truth about how porn conditions it’s male and female viewersThis exactly omg. Being sexually aroused by abuse is so obviously either a trauma response for the woman, in which she clearly needs therapy and help to unlearn it, or societal conditioning from porn etc to enjoy being abused sexually and degraded. It totally conditions men to only be aroused by sexual violence and degradation which they see in porn. It’s so sad how normalized it is and how women not wanting their partners to watch porn is seen as such a big deal to men and “controlling” 🙄 it’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Planning dates/anniversaries while in a relationship?Should I not expect him to plan a nice date and give me gifts for our relationship anniversary? | /r/askFDS | 24/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 173 | The truth about how porn conditions it’s male and female viewersLike do men think watching “barely legal tiny teen gets raped by daddy” isn’t conditioning them to be sexually attracted to rape and children? And then those men go on to abuse the women in their lives and potentially children because that’s what they’ve been taught- that sex with women should degrade them. And the men and women that participate in this think that just because what they’re aroused by is taboo that they’re absolved from all criticism, just because it’s their “kink”. Like do they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Beauty Hurts, a riddle by DworkinExactly. Like my perfume alone costs more than the whole cheque and all the clothes on my dates back 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Going 50/50 living with my boyfriend during university?He’s not the type to get angry at all, he goes down on me awhile before penetration, kisses and bites my inner thighs, he does try and I hardly ever go down on him. I’m going to remind him about this though. Is it bad that he wants to wait until we’re graduated to get married? Or is that too long of a timeframe to be cohabitating without a ring? | /r/askFDS | 08/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Going 50/50 living with my boyfriend during university?Yeah I’ve told him multiple times that I expect to finish every time we have sex and to focus on my clit and pleasure more but he always ends up cumming and then I need to finish myself off after. We lost our virginity’s to eachother 4ish months into the relationship so neither of us have experience lol | /r/askFDS | 08/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Going 50/50 living with my boyfriend during university?Yes we both contribute equally to housework, that’s not an expectation placed on solely me and we enjoy cooking together. I have felt in the fast I’ve done more than he does but I brought it up and that changed. He is responsible, does not watch porn, respectful, thoughtful, and we genuinely love each other. He goes to the gym occasionally, his diet could be a lot better honestly because sometimes he eats a lot of fried food, childish/unhealthy food lol. He does spend hours a day playing games o… | /r/askFDS | 08/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Planning dates/anniversaries while in a relationship?Definitely. On top of that I feel like women are socialized to constantly go the extra mile and do so much for men. Like giving them blowjobs, being fine with not coming during sex, that 50/50 bs, giving a man a gift on Valentine’s Day, buying them all this expensive shit for Christmas/bdays(like PS5s) the list really goes on and on. I’ve been teaching myself to give less and expect/take more in my relationship. It’s how it should be, the man should be putting in a lot more effort and to show yo… | /r/askFDS | 17/02/21 07:30 AM |
| -2 | Planning dates/anniversaries while in a relationship?Of the start of our relationship :) | /r/askFDS | 17/02/21 07:26 AM |
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