Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to it

FDSMama · 2022-03-08T14:23:55+00:00

My mom (she’s in her 70’s now) has always said she needed a wife. 🤯

ImpressiveHat8550 · 2022-03-08T11:41:31+00:00

And the moment you DONT adequately fulfill all those roles to his expectations he will complain, whine and mope around in self pity. There is a popular sub meant for asking men questions and it’s very obvious by the self pitying responses in a lot of threads which men deem their wives failures at these roles. Men want servants who will also financially and emotionally take care of them. Marriage is a dead end for women 9 times out of 10.

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-03-08T06:02:27+00:00

It's also the basis of the modern workweek, why it's impossible to do all of these things while holding down a full time job if you live alone, and why even 50/50 is a scam.

Let's not stop here.

nothingisrealidc · 2022-03-08T10:20:09+00:00

‘Arm candy’ that expires because her being all those things also means her being exhausted and not able to be his on demand fuck doll anymore.

There was never and is no such thing as 50/50.

This is why women really need to start looking past their “I aM sO in LoVe WITh hIm” and start looking at the facts about who they are involved with and stop getting pregnant by a man who probably just nodded his head and said yes when she got pregnant or is just out here rocking a front and shooting sperm into women until he finds a sucker that thinks ‘he’s sooo great’ to have his child. Being ‘in love’ is not enough when you are involved with someone who is dead weight that isn’t gonna do shit to actually help or protect her and the baby. The signs are always there though and that is why you need to look at things with real eyes and only settle when you’ve completely vetted and have the supports and plans needed put in place for a real life responsibility like that.

I know countless women having babies who are now seeing the reality of this. It’s always been this way. This has been the societal expectation since day one and not much has changed. Moms get zero recognition and do all the work and men get pat on the back for shooting sperm and they get to ride on the title of ‘being a father’ for life by everyone around him even if he isn’t stepping up at home. It’s always been like that and mannnnnyyy saw that happen at home.

Real high value men don’t put women in this position. Vet vet vet

purasangria · 2022-03-08T13:42:56+00:00

Bangmaid, you forgot bangmaid.

HappyCoconutty · 2022-03-08T16:38:58+00:00

If anyone wants to read more about how this structure was created so that poor white men could have the same leisure time as rich men and how wives were used to replace actual slave labor, please read Brigid Schulte’s book called “Overwhelm” https://www.amazon.com/Overwhelmed-Work-Love-Play-When/dp/1250062381

The title makes you think it’s some self help book but once you crack it open, you see how it’s more research and social science based. She looks at historical models and discuss what works and doesn’t. And of course, us post colonial groups get stuck with this model too even though we have a closer connection to communal culture.

cml678701 · 2022-03-08T11:33:03+00:00

They forgot to add full-time worker and second income, too. That’s the part that really gets me. Housewives in the 50’s worked hard, but now we’re expected to take on both roles from the 50’s.

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2022-03-08T19:03:18+00:00

Coming from my perspective of someone that has lived in poverty for most of my life, I can honestly say it physically feels like life in general and circumstances just pressures me and forces me to live in that kind of arrangement (living with family rn). I mean I know it's obvious survival that living in a group unit means better chance for survival but I totally agree I would rather 100% live alone for most of my life, if not the rest of my life. This is why you see so many scary situations like young women moving in with scrote BF's and later turns out something horrible happens.

Pasdepromesses · 2022-03-08T08:10:30+00:00

This is so true. HVM who are able to afford these things won’t let their women be a free maid.

My boyfriend always had a housekeeper (a man and a woman, they’re a couple and clean together) and when we were discussing marriage and living together in the future he told me ‘nothing is going to change about that, because I’m his girlfriend/wife, not his maid’.

They want you to be comfortable too.

esthermaniii · 2022-03-08T12:41:44+00:00

She’s so right and she’s getting dragged by scrotes in the quoted replies. Not surprising because they hate the idea of women demanding more in their unions or just completely walking away from any romantic engagements with men

Sallou9 · 2022-03-08T11:55:05+00:00

I mean, we literally call a nuclear family home "The Jones's" (after him). Shes "Mrs John Jones" (at the wedding we say "Man and [his] wife"), boys get named John Jones Jr, the family line/heritage/traditions stay along his lines.

Women are notoriously unhappy and unfulfilled. They are most likely to be hurt here, in this family home.

The nuclear family is a con.

askmeabouttheforest · 2022-03-08T12:15:00+00:00

The nuclear family is just a support system for the patriarchy - where the woman is completely drained to ensure the man gets free time, money and energy, and the children are taught to do the same once they've grown up.

PinkPilledOphelia · 2022-03-08T13:39:24+00:00

Exactly. I've been saying this in real life for years, but everybody tries to fight me.

Stock-Employee5458 · 2022-03-08T07:33:46+00:00

I remember that antiwork post going around that was like 'the 40 hour work week assumes that you have a partner to do all the household stuff for you!'. NAME. THE. PROBLEM. We all fucking know what sex that partner is supposed to be, so don't let anyone obfuscate facts that we all know to be true.

ItsFreezen · 2022-03-08T11:52:29+00:00

The nuclear family is a New idea. Scrotes create marriage. It gives them status and bonus money, married men make more then unmarried men. Scrotes removed women from their Tribe of help and protection. And No men are not the protectors, there's a reason the Domestic Violence rate is so high.Note" For all you losers who don't understand what a Tribe is, that includes other women, and it may only include a few men. And the reason lesbians are considered having a high domestic rate is because they include Verbal conflict ie, yelling and screaming is considered Domestic Abuse.

ThatIntention1 · 2022-03-09T05:16:43+00:00

The saddest part about this is the fact that so many women believe they’ve “made it” once they become all these things for a shitty husband who watches porn behind your back.

Elena1684 · 2022-03-08T13:53:24+00:00

Amen. Just signed my divorced papers after living this hell for 28 years. 28 YEARS. Ladies you have absolutely no idea how bad this life is. It makes you sick, beats you down until you there is nothing left that is remotely YOU and honestly the only thing I got out of this bull shit deal was money, once a week sex (low T) and 3 awesome kids (which I got to keep because they hate him).

I’m FREE!!!!!

topitoff1999 · 2022-03-08T21:17:24+00:00

This ancient scam is one of the reasons why women have suffered more during the pandemic 😢

SamEsme · 2022-03-08T07:00:44+00:00

I saw this too! So spot-on

FDS-GFY · 2022-03-09T11:16:55+00:00

Econowife!

vagina_shutdown · 2022-03-11T22:14:23+00:00

Hard pass on this. Working as a SAHW is still working. If he's financing me and the kids, I can do shit for him for 8 hours. And can we please stop dividing for rich and poor?

Galileo_Spark · 2022-03-08T16:09:28+00:00

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Ok-Appearance5982 · 2022-03-14T09:54:18+00:00

Damn

Title	Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to it
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Comments	75
Date	March 8, 2022 5:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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