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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Red pill brain but wanting to be betterGrow up. Seek therapy!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/26 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.Leave him, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔I’m sick. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 07:38 AM |
| 10 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:35 AM |
| 12 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Girl what?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 19 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?And that’s why he doesn’t deserve to be defended or applauded for his “calm reaction” to Will Smith slapping him. That clip was wild to watch!! It was so cringey 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:20 AM |
| 39 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Speak on it! Dare I say this is why we need our own spaces 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 77 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yup the privilege is so loud in these comments. The way Will is being painted an abuser and how Jada is told to take a joke “because it’s just a hairstyle” says a lot about how lost these commenters are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:16 PM |
| 21 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Lmfao I’m also confused. “He reminds me of my father.” Ummm… ok??? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 31 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yeah these comments are NOT IT. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 59 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?People are already calling Will a “narcissistic abuser” and saying things like “he reminds me of my abuser” or “he could’ve killed Chris” The micro-aggressions are very real with this one and as always, they’ve left out how black women are always made fun of by black men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 39 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yup! Keep black women’s names out your mouth! He better learn that quick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 24 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?These comments are very tiring to read!! 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 44 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yup! Because she’s a woman and women must learn to stay in their place. Also, she’s black so that just intensifies the misogynoir (especially from black men) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 70 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?You’ve said it perfectly! Black women are always under scrutiny and we’re always the butt of someone else’s joke. I wonder how different the comments/sentiment would be if Will Smith was defending a white woman from being ridiculed. He definitely wouldn’t be classified as “violent” and neither would Jada be told “they’re just making fun of a hairstyle.” (many people have said this on social media) The privilege is verrrrry real in these comments fr. Black women deserve to be defended so idc! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 95 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I totally agree with you. Chris Rock has shown his disdain for black women on multiple occasions. I’m not for painting Will Smith out to be the bad guy/LVM and Chris Rock as some kind of victim/HVM. I’m also tired of these comments because nobody knows how tiring it is to constantly be torn apart except black women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 433 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreWild take because I’m a black South African and catcalling is definitely street harassment 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:12 PM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yup!!! That’s why I feel nothing for Chris Rock. Also this is black male on black male violence. Sounds like something black men need to be speaking about, it has nothing to do with us black women 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:02 PM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Thank you for this comment. We are always made fun of and nobody stands up for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 14 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I totally agree with you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:56 AM |
| 54 | Why “safewording” is not as safe as the kink community paints it to be. 💔 ‘consent’ here really doesn’t mean much when it comes to trying to claim it isn’t abuse. There’s an unhealthy power dynamic where the ‘sub’ feels like they cannot deny their ‘dom’ of pleasure through being put through torture.Oh no. TikTok is not a kid friendly app. No app is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:28 AM |
| 42 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yup! Because we are TIRED of being a joke to everybody and having nobody stand up for us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:58 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Chris Rock is misogynoiristic. I actually don’t care about black men who are comfortable continuously disrespecting black women in public. Nobody ever stands up for us so 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:57 AM |
| 33 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:55 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I get this. He’s so misogynioristic. He’s said so much nonsense about black women and gotten away with it. I’m tired of black women being the butt of everyone’s joke. Everyone is so comfortable disrespecting us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:54 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?It wasn’t Dr Phil. It was on her show Red Table Talk. She didn’t cheat on him, it was between their break. And besides, he’s beeeeen cheating on her for years (not that I condone either behaviour but people seem to forget that this man is a cheater). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herAgreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:56 PM |
| 6 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herThis is the same woman who made a video about not having pretty privilege (because men of her race aren’t actively pursuing her or attracted to her). I’m a black woman too and I found it quite sad because she seems to be pinning for the attention of men who are clearly not interested, instead of just going where she’ll be appreciated. I hope she gets it together. She’s too old to be acting this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 5 | I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼♀️This is so embarrassing. Get some self esteem, please. I hope she opens her eyes 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.That was very messed up!! Yes there’s more. In his very first stand up comedies he’s said some very messed up stuff about black women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 2 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.Yup! He’s said so many misogynoiristic things about black women, despite having a black mother. Amongst other things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 07:27 AM |
| 6 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.Yes, most men are problematic but SA men are a special kind. They take it to another level. I hear you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:14 PM |
| 0 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.You’re right. He’s also a South African man. They are notoriously trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 15 | This cute Tiktoker knows what’s up. He has many videos where he uplifted women and he even had a video talking about how women are better at trading stocks.He is from my country (South Africa). I wouldn’t be impressed with him because some guys here are known to fake their pro-women ideology. Also, men from my country are notoriously trash. I wouldn’t applaud him for this because the chances of him being the opposite of what he portrays are very high (just read up on South African men) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 06:55 PM |
| 8 | How can any one say supporting this industry is ethical when the customers are this openly irresponsible, depraved, & careless? What l read basically translated into, “haha I repetitively exploited women & thank God I got to use a prostitute without repercussions that many of them end up having.” 😥💔This is so irresponsible. He’s celebrating but he could be in the window period and may be getting false negatives. Also, I can bet that he doesn’t even know about PrEP (medication which prevents you contracting HIV. Still doesn’t you shouldn’t use protection but it’s recommended, especially for high risk people). He strikes me as the type that slept with his partner without any protection after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 06:45 PM |
| 65 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEI totally agree with you! I hope she wakes up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 05:17 PM |
| 556 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEIt’s the way she’s doing mental gymnastics to try and convince herself that maybe she’s the problem 🤸🏿♀️ This is very disturbing and I wouldn’t be shocked if this man was watching CP. I honestly feel like she should run for the hills, especially for the baby’s sake. This is a glaring red flag…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | This quote from Bell Hooks reminded me of why I no longer do 50/50.This sub critiques liberal feminist ideals like showing up financially to prove you’re “an empowered woman” or promoting sex work as an empowering “career” choice. This does not mean we don’t advocate for women’s rights. We just challenge the hegemonic feminist ideals we’ve been sold women because they’re detrimental | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:42 AM |
| 3 | This quote from Bell Hooks reminded me of why I no longer do 50/50.I love this quote! RIP bell hooks ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Very yikes. They actually do think that not being a monster entitles them to everything.Omg. Men are truly unhinged!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.I hope she leaves him!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 59 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.If it’s such an empowering line of work, why do all the women have to be drunk AF or drugged out of their minds to do it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:18 AM |
| 123 | Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to itShe’s so right and she’s getting dragged by scrotes in the quoted replies. Not surprising because they hate the idea of women demanding more in their unions or just completely walking away from any romantic engagements with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 12:41 PM |
| 5 | The Tinder SwindlerWow these are facts. And this is why I believe in rinsing men with no remorse! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | The Tinder SwindlerExactly! I just wasn’t understanding that. They were willing to ruin themselves financially just to be in a relationship with a “billionaire’s son” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 5 | The Tinder SwindlerI’m disappointed but not surprised. Hopefully they get justice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | The Tinder SwindlerExactly! I feel sad for these women but their stories are also a cautionary tale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 4 | The Tinder SwindlerLow effort dates are a no-no. And so are grand gestures before you even get to know each other properly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 5 | The Tinder SwindlerYasss. The more women we convert, the better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The Tinder SwindlerI agree with this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:40 PM |
| 3 | The Tinder SwindlerI was also cringing when she said she got on the plane “for a first date” Soooo many red flags!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:40 PM |
| 6 | It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture?This is insane! There’s absolutely no circumstance where rape is acceptable, “kink” or not. Society and porn culture has groomed women into liking their own oppression & abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:24 PM |
| 18 | Remembering Amanda Todd, one of the first viral cases of a child victim to revenge porn.Wow this is heartbreaking 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:22 PM |
| 105 | The darker underside of the “cool girl”Hypersexuality is often a symptom of trauma and sexual abuse. This is sad and I hope she can get help for whatever she’s dealing with one day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:29 AM |
| 24 | Forever gfs be likeYou could never pay me to date a man for 10 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:20 PM |
| 5 | No words…And I can bet that he’s never even changed one nappy. The way men use women as incubators is disgusting. She needs to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:19 PM |
| 15 | When is the last time you had 5 star sex ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐?I’m celibate. It feels like eons ago 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:07 PM |
| 7 | TW Abuse - Reality TV ‘star’ with criminal history turns out to be an abuser. We need to boycott trash series that enable these predatorsOh my… I remember watching an episode where the Russian woman he met online said she accepted the fact that he was a felon with a violent history. This is why we should never date men with a criminal background. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!By society’s patriarchal standards, it’s “normal guy behaviour” but this shouldn’t be acceptable at all. You’re still young & you’re lucky to have recognised these red flags, especially without having a baby or being married to him! Run, sister. Run as faaaaaar as you can! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:05 PM |
| 57 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedAnd not to mention that some strip clubs have rooms that can be rented for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:42 PM |
| 14 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:I felt this post to my core!!! I love and agree with everything that you’ve said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:29 PM |
| 385 | I think he told on himselfI’m sorry that you’re going through this. He’s definitely exposed how he truly feels and what he wants in a woman. Sometimes men go for powerful women because they eventually want to be the ones who ‘make them submit’ This situation really sucks. Cry about it and speak to people you trust about how you’re feeling, but know that it’ll pass and you can get over him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:25 PM |
| 41 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!And he keeps getting applauded for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:21 PM |
| 74 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!This is so messed up. 😐 It just keeps getting worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:41 AM |
| 21 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.I live in South Africa too! Yup, men here are useless and it’s so normal. To the point where women are told to expect a man to leave when they fall pregnant. It’s honestly such a mess to see. It’s great to see a fellow South African woman on FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:07 AM |
| 19 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.Not in South Africa! These men have ZERO shame. They always blame the women for their shortcomings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:48 AM |
| 16 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.It makes no sense but South African men love being deadbeats and spreading their seed everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:48 AM |
| 17 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.Honestly! But they’d rather police women’s bodies instead 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:45 AM |
| 149 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.I wish women from my country would heed this advice!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 62 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.Exactly, but there are always excuses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 218 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.I agree with this. She’s being too nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 144 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.Honestly!! Vasectomies should be a norm! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 39 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementYou’re right. This is arguably the worst time to bring life onto this planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 17 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementYou’re so right !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?I doubt they’re even on any HIV prevention medication (PrEP). They just don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?Why not just get a vasectomy?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:54 AM |
| 1 | This is what we mean when we say don't go 50/50. You'll be doing 100% of the childrearing while he's at work and he will expect you to give up your savings as well.Domestic labour is labour. So she’s meant to work double to make his load easier, when he should actually be paying all the bills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Never having casual sex again (WLW edition)I felt this! Been celibate for almost 4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Never having casual sex again (WLW edition)Welcome! I’ve been celibate for almost 4 years now and the peace is unmatched | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?I can bet that your boyfriend doesn’t even have a vasectomy but expects you to carry the burden of pregnancy prevention. It’s a bit wild that he’d say that and not even be ‘fixed’ to reduce the chances of you getting pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsHe sounds insufferable to be around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.if being single was amazing for men, there wouldn’t be rising rates of incels. And research shows that single men live shorter and unhappier lives whereas single women live longer & happier lives. Can’t argue with science! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | No second date, so he wants moneyWhat a loser. Imagine being petty over $30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 6 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .At least you find gems while thrifting!! OLD on the other hand…. 🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is not an accomplishment. Focus on leveling up!No it wouldn’t. Making it an achievement means putting men at the center of your self esteem & who you are as a person. You’re more than your ability to “find” a man, yes even if he’s a HVM. And we don’t level up for men, we do it for ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 60 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?It’s also a part of black magic practices. It symbolizes taking in the other person’s essence. Literally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:46 AM |
| 22 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?Not the faux spirituality! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Dating 'travellers' and the Visa90 day fiancé is proof that people will do anything for a visa. Your friend is being fleeced! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Men Double TextingHe wants you to pine over him. He’s trying to “get the upper hand”. Their stupid incel dating coaches reach them this tactic as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 13 | "When can I do 50/50 with a man?" - How about NEVER?I love this and agree!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 93 | No thanks man child. Take your 43 y/o unemployed, no car having, gaslighting self elsewhere.This man doesn’t even deserve a response. He’s giving major incel vibes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 42 | Also can they stop to pretend that this and all sw is empowering while all money goes to men?Selling young girls off to the patriarchy in the name of “empowerment” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 3 | HVMs are not unicornsThanks for the reminder!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Paying off someone else’s debt?I saw it. She responded on Twitter that this is about her family as a whole blah blah blah she doesn’t care about the “never give a man money” comments. 🤷🏾♀️ I’m like okay sis, but there’s a high chance that this will back fire. It also sounds like she’s making way more money than him now due to her social media platforms going viral. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.I hate these types of men. I’ve encountered many when I was on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Trust him, he’s worth it49??!!!! Men don’t get better as they age | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 19 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.This is scary. Her life is in danger. The acid isn’t the last act of violence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 39 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!He’s mad that she has boundaries and his manipulation tactics didn’t work on her. First it’s get rid of your cat, next it’s something else… she did herself a huge favor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 51 | Insecure has a lot of examples of LVM, HVM, and the women that love them. SPOILER HEAVY, read at your own risk.You’re so right! I was just complaining about how I found the season finale sickening. Issa was crying over a man that did her so dirty for years. I would’ve loved to see Issa become comfortable as a single woman and realize that she’s complete without a man, and then maybe finding a better partner after that realization | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | A friend I shared FDS with sent this to me today! Great reason why men should pay for dates!I agree with you, but I think there’s nothing with treating a HVM on his birthday or on a special day. That’s what I mean by reciprocate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.Amen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.This is embarrassing for her considering she’s colorist and was telling DaBaby’s ex girlfriend that she’s the better pick because of her light skin. YIKES!!! The only person I feel sorry for is that innocent baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to female dating strategy I am watching movies with a different set of “glasses” on.This is a great idea!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.That toilet made me throw up a little… WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Perfect explanation on why you should NEVER date or marry down!Chris Rat!! 💀😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmI love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | His bride looks mortified. I can't imagine what she felt at that moment.This gives you an indication of how the rest of the marriage will be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 11 | Always google a man you’re interested in, use the tools we have now.Rule number one, never date any ex felons or someone with a criminal history. It doesn’t matter if they served time for it! It always ends badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 26 | This is the kind of stuff that really scares me😞I feel like in the end you never truly get to know the other person. Tw: s3xual abuse/text postI agree with this. This is horrifying but I believe there are always signs. Like when I was talking to a guy from OLD and he told me about a comic he’s writing which happened to be about a father being forced to sleep with his daughter by his enemy. He was swiftly blocked and deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 24 | This is the kind of stuff that really scares me😞I feel like in the end you never truly get to know the other person. Tw: s3xual abuse/text postOh my god. This is the type of stop that makes me not trust men. It makes me want to stay single forever and be content with that choice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | “Never tell men about your trauma”This is an amazing comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 2 | “Never tell men about your trauma”I’m so sorry about that. That’s such a sick and twisted thing to say to someone. Wishing you healing & love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.This is a nightmare. Footing all the bills, raising kids AND doing all the housework. What’s the point of a “husband” then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 09:32 PM |
| 13 | Remember to give low-income males a chance, ladies! Don't be classist! /sYes!! And that’s for a reason. The women in both countries are aggressively programmed to be pickmes and many don’t grow out of it & relearn better ways of living. Trigger warning ⚠️ S/A In SA, we’re taught to worship the ground men walk on. It’s no surprise that the pickmeism coincides with our very high r*pe & femicide rate. There’s a reason SA men are one of the most violent in the world — our society makes it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:35 AM |
| 15 | Remember to give low-income males a chance, ladies! Don't be classist! /sAmen! Burn the cape and go where you are appreciated regardless of race. Race loyalty is messing BW up globally!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 20 | Remember to give low-income males a chance, ladies! Don't be classist! /sI can relate to all of this to some extent. This happens in South Africa too! When black men here become successful they opt for the really light skinned black woman or a non-black woman after they’ve used a dark skinned black woman to “level up.” It disgusts me! Most women in SA have a long way to go with dating outside of their race (a lot of this has to do with the racial tensions in my country. We’re still quite segregated here, sadly because of Apartheid) Added to this, xenophobia stops man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Spotted in another thread. She needs FDS!All of this!!! Facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 11:09 AM |
| 79 | Remember to give low-income males a chance, ladies! Don't be classist! /sTypical South African BM (don’t worry, I’m a black South African so I’m allowed to say this — also speaking from experience). And I can bet that his current gf is dark skinned and “his type” is light skinned or non-black women. Unfortunately that’s how these men think. They fetishise and view that as a status symbol. South African men as a whole (irrespective of race on this point) love being catered to. They believe in 50/50 and think THEY are the prize. I know this happens worldwide but the me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:21 AM |
| 41 | Listen to your GUT not your Heart: guys will fake a nice first date and drop effort OR try a switch a roo as their masks slipThis happened to me. First date was at a fancy 5 star restaurant. Then he asked to see me again for a second date, but it was an ice cream date. LOL, pass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneThis reminds of the series ‘You.’ Very creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | if a beaver can wash his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfLol sidenote: this is actually cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 5 | I mean… I can’t disagree.I’d rather have a vibrator die on me than be with a man who can’t even find the clit/uses my body as a tool to masturbate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to not want to date in your 20's?Yes! I can relate to this. Focused on my career mostly and dating isn’t at the top of my list. Decentering men and romantic relationships does a lot for your mental and emotional well-being! It’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I’m happy to see that I’m not alone in this :) sometimes I feel like I’m the one who’s made this decision | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 07:55 PM |
| 79 | Sometimes we gotta be "bitches"Thank you for reminding me that I did good by rejecting all the men in my past. Nostalgia can be such a liar! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 07:44 PM |
| 30 | Future of social relationships between men and womenYou’re right! But they’d rather blame feminists instead of the system (which was created by men) and requires all humans to produce capital | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:59 AM |
| 23 | Future of social relationships between men and womenVery! It’s the glamorization of the “rich house wife” that has these women deluded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:58 AM |
| 37 | Future of social relationships between men and womenExactly! Because domestic labour IS labour, even though it’s unpaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”I’m SCREAMING! 😂 Beardfishing is very real. And it’s true, men don’t really care about the cancers that affect them (especially prostate cancer). All they do is complain that women aren’t raising enough awareness about cancers that affect men (particularly during breast cancer awareness month). So yeah, for most men No Shave November isn’t about health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:30 PM |
| 19 | Never let a man use you as a placeholder. Don’t “build” a man up. Keep your standards high.This is so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:44 PM |
| 78 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩I agree with you!! Saying this as a woman who loves horror/thrillers. I avoid the types where women are brutally murdered or harmed and prefer mind-benders instead (which Koreans execute quite while). Yeah there’s nothing quite disgusting as directors using women’s actual real-life trauma as a plot device. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 186 | Future of social relationships between men and womenThis is already happening!!! I’ve been seeing so many tweets of women saying they wish women didn’t fight for liberation so they “don’t have to work.” Just ridiculous tweets of women wanting to be house wives and stay at home moms & blaming feminism for “women being expected to work” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:37 PM |
| 35 | Future of social relationships between men and womenThis was so scary to read. Omg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 575 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Anything that alludes to being an “alpha male” or a strong man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 4 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.She needs to get rid of that “feeling bad for guys paying for dates” Men don’t feel bad when they ask for sex when they don’t even know you. Make them pay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 11 | Women need better standards!Imagine risking becoming a registered sex offender for having sex in public with a random scrote from a party. Why????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:21 PM |
| 28 | A friend I shared FDS with sent this to me today! Great reason why men should pay for dates!I feel like men should pay for most dates. Women should reciprocate the effort here and there but ultimately, it’s the man responsibility to uphold that part of the relationship. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 6 | When negging is made mainstream!Emotional manipulation being seen as “game” will never not be disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS for making dating fun and enjoyable again!Thank you, this was very helpful!! 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 41 | Thank you FDS for making dating fun and enjoyable again!Congratulations!! I agree that dating should be fun and exciting. Do you mind saying where you met them? I need to hang out in spaces that HVM frequent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:26 AM |
| 6 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workI know right. It’s hard to watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:17 AM |
| 6 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workTHIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 7 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workYou’re right! She would’ve never left him if this didn’t happen. He even said she’s “so understanding” because he’s been talking to many women online over the years and she still stayed with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 12 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workI saw that thread! It didn’t surprise me. That’s true. Men like the one in the video have zero self awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:13 AM |
| 10 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:Smart & single >> dumbing myself down for a terrible man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 122 | reminder. none of us like this. but...(if you are serious about wanting a relationship with a quality man) you HAVE to meet a lot of men 🤢. finding hvm involves luck. if you go on as many dates as possible 😢you will increase your bleak, terrible odds.Drag me!!! I needed this reminder. I’m so done with online dating so I NEED to actually meet people in reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 129 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingYes!!! Some strip clubs actually have rooms that the strippers can rent to sleep with the men who come there. It’s not just provocative dancing! There’s a lot more that happens at these clubs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 342 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spaces30 prior arrests??? How is he not in prison?! Omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭Celibate for 3 years going on 4 and I couldn’t agree more 🙂 this is exactly what motivated me to be celibate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Facts. Men use your body to masturbate, especially during hook ups. There’s nothing empowering about being treated like an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 93 | Reading a relationship book made me realise I don't want a relationship that muchI agree with you. It’s part of the reason I’ve been single and celibate for years now. It’s like we’re supposed to audition for men’s attention & affection and make them feel good at our own expense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with gaining less interest in dating and men overall?Felt!! This is me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Isn’t he also a neo-N*zi? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith reaches his "Fuck-it 50s"Nobody needs 12 ayahuasca trips. Pretty sure that’s terrible for your brain. Will Smith is a NVM that’s been masquerading as a HVM for decades smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Why it Never Works When Forever Gf Finally Gets the RingThis reminds me of the R&B singer Miguel and his now ex wife Nazanin. Dated for 10 years, engaged for 4, married for 3 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Deb Cooper spitting facts. "LEFTOVER MEN: Uneducated, Unemployed, Undesirable"I love Deb. I watch almost all her videos! Her no nonsense attitude is something all women need to adopt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 10 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?Telling the truth about men isn’t the same as being an incel. Men are delusional! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | It’s high time for misogyny/femicide to be made a hate crime.Agreed. Misogyny is why so many girls and women are murdered every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Imagine tolerating thisAgreed!! We have a long way to go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:50 AM |
| 17 | How do you date man while knowing their depravityI’m dealing with the same thing. A friend was telling me to “get back in the dating game” and honestly, I really don’t see the appeal when most men I encounter have nothing positive or amazing to offer me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts?Desperation at its best. There are other ways to have a child as a single woman. This is a great way to attract weirdos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Scrote blamed his 8 year old sister for downloaded porn 🤡Not him thinking this is a hilarious story to tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:57 PM |
| 4 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayQUEEN!!! I love her for this. Imagine how he’d treat her in other scenarios where she “provoked him to anger”. She did the right thing by leaving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 18 | This is terrible advice and will just come off as a manipulation tactic. Just block and delete.Explaining yourself to a man is the worst thing you can do. Just move on and find someone who you don’t have to explain basic decency to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 36 | Do I really want a relationship, or am I just conditioned by society to feel "fulfilled" by having one?Relatable. I’ve been single for 5 years and honestly, I’m okay with it. I can’t be bothered with actively dating or “finding the one” anymore. I just want to enjoy my life, fulfil my dreams & be happy (regardless of whether I meet someone in future or not) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:41 PM |
| 85 | Naomi Osaka documentary: Hard to watch due to her LVM boyfriendNaomi is seen as “exotic” in the black community due to the fact that she’s mixed, which explains why she’s with him. He puts her on a pedestal for her “exoticness” and the pedestal is partly why he was able to land her. And he’s a rapper. Majority of rappers are LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 16 | My best friend told me she's jealous of my "glamorous life". I realized it's all because of our mate choices due to this subreddit.Please find a new best friend that’s on your level. Women who are miserable will slowly drag you down with them. Be safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 5 | And people were praising his honesty 🤡🤡🤡.This is beyond creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:33 PM |
| 34 | FDS & Anxiety / NeurodivergenceSomeone once said “anxiety shouts and intuition whispers.” For me anxiety usually feels like my entire body has been taken over and I can’t really calm down. Intuition is more of a nudge, which is why it’s often easy to dismiss it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:21 PM |
| 73 | "friend" refuses to accept "no means no".This response really coddles the man that wrote in. The columnist should’ve dragged him to filth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 6 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meNot the romanticising of polygamy. It’s actually horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 12 | Expecting men to pay for a date is apparently toxic now? Like anyone cares about his opinionIt’s never about ending the unequal division of labour, abuse against women and children, forced marriages, etc. It’s always about “smash the patriarchy” because women should be okay with splitting bills. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”What in the codependency?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Guy tried negging me and got frustrated when I didn’t care. Story time ☕️Your friend should’ve ignored him from the jump. She was wrong for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳Normalise kink shaming! Let’s stop making people feel comfortable for having disturbing and dangerous “kinks.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 2 | The only man I will consider having sex withAgreed! I’ve been celibate for almost 4 years now and these are my exact sentiments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing”The age gap had me gasping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Don’t.do.this ladiesNot a 35 year old woman chasing a 28 year old. Omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 7 | Imagine being with someone for 28 years and having two children with him and still be his “girlfriend”…Thats basically 3 decades. Wow, no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:23 PM |
| 39 | IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD HAVE 💍This is soooooo embarrassing. Leave him, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 40 | FDS to the rescue!I’m sad that she’s 45 and hasn’t seen the light yet. It’s never too late, though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 11 | Her exboyfriend recorded them having sex and showed his friends. The police didn't do anything about it so she patiently waited for him to finish his masters thesis then she deleted it off of her laptopQUEEN. It’s what he deserves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:41 AM |
| 16 | This is super sad — but scrotes say it’s just a “preference” right? Porn does sick things to the brainThis is why so many women are going to get BBL surgeries (which is the most dangerous cosmetic survey BTW). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Men Should Pay for WeddingsI agree with all of this. Women’s lives are affected negatively by marriage and kids, whereas men gain more by having a wife and kids. LET THEM PAY!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?This is r*pe. I’m so disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Just imagine all the NVM raging at this 🤣This is from a South African magazine. If this is real, I would honestly move cities & change my number so he’ll never have contact with me again!!! SA men are known for being violent. I can’t imagine how entitled he feels since he paid her fees. I don’t even want to imagine his reaction to this rejection. Run sis and never look back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 45 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeI’ll never download them again. I’ve encountered too many weird and porn-sick men on there. One guy told me he creates comics in his spare time and proceeded to tell me about a comic he’s working on which involved a daughter being forced to “have sex”with her father because of some revenge plot creates by his enemies. To this day, I’m traumatised by that. There’s a reason women have way more negative experiences on there. The men are terrible on those apps. Not worth it!! I’d rather spend my tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Broderick HunterYesssss he’s gorgeous!! Seems like a HVM too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Yet Another case of a Man and His Fetish Destroying a Woman. Porn Isn't Just Fantasy- It Has Real World Consequences for Women! If He Watches Porn Throw Him Out 👏🏻This emphasises how men are turned on by women’s suffering/pain. This is one of the most shocking things I’ve ever read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Consumption of porn makes me lose attractionYes, I’ve been celibate for 3 years and counting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:57 PM |
| 26 | The women in the comments were adamant that for a husband this is appropriate but it’s too risky to do this for a boyfriend (yes!). Unsurprisingly, the men said this is how a relationship should be.And I bet he’ll use the same car to pick up other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Hobosexuals.Being on the verge of homelessness but still wanting to date is insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Famous romanian singer Dani Mocanu sentenced to 6 months in prison for inciting hate against women.This is amazing. I wish more countries would do this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 3 | That's what you get when you build a manWhy buy a grown man clothes when you can do that for orphans or abused women at a shelter??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | I love pick mes that are so ignorant to history and to why some things exist... 🙄Some women are a lost cause | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.This man is South African. Literally the worst type of man you could ever date on this planet. I hope none of you beautiful ladies are ever in contact with a South African man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | This went VIRAL on FB and everyone was calling it cute and praising him. She deserves better.Going to a park is outside of his comfort zone? Wow. Incredible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:03 AM |
| 3 | TikTok is grooming teenage girls to be okay with sexual violenceHe’s giving serious serial k*ller vibes omg. This is scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:45 AM |
| 3 | How involuntary is male celibacy?When I look at the men who like Kevin Samuels, I’m like thank God you’re an incel so women don’t have to deal with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:13 AM |
| 42 | We need more kink shamingI saw this TikTok and I just wanted to vomit. Our society is getting worse by the day because of porn. There’s absolutely nothing normal about a father doing that & he probably wanted her to find his search history. Men usually act on their fantasies so this very scary!!! I would cut my father off and never speak to him again if I were her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:32 AM |
| 14 | Scrote and his scrotling ruins his wedding for a prank 🤡And I bet she paid a lot towards that wedding too. It sounds like she was the only one invested in doing the planning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?Ah, typical libfem spaces. Sounds like an echo chamber | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoThis is one of the most disgusting things I’ve ever seen in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 7 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!Is this not a joke? I’m so appalled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 77 | Hypocrisy - using women for sex is OK!Men who use women for sex and get mad that women “uSe ThEm FoR mOnEy” are the same men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:09 AM |
| 14 | Beware of men dumping their baggage on you early onHis brother did WHAT?!!! 😳 This post gets worse as I read it! Emotional baggage a man has revealed: one guy said his mom died a few days ago. I asked him why he was even on the date in the first place if he’s mourning his mom and he proceeded to tell me about how messed up their relationship was and how his step dad kicked him out. another guy told me about his messed up upbringing and how his relationship with his parents is strained. He proceeded to tell me about his ex girlfriend and how he a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 26 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.Me too. I won’t deal with a man who’s mentally unstable! I don’t care what anybody has to say about it, that’s one of my strict rules and I’m sticking to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenAs a bisexual woman, this post disgusts me. This is an example of how porn warps people’s minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Bhadbhabie apparently just started an onlyfans and she made over $1M in just 6 hours... what’s worse is that she just turned 18 last week? And she thinks it’s a flex bc it broke the onlyfans record... Lord this is just so disgusting in so many levelsThis means she’s 17 or younger in the videos she posted on her onlyfans. Sickening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | From that thread about sex workers' most emotional experiences. Such a sweet, poor lonely old companion ready to pay to use your body 💖💖💖 the cognitive dissonanceIt’s funny how men will do anything to pay for escorts/sex workers but won’t go for therapy. What’s up with that??? You clearly have the money and need to connect with another human being, so why not go for therapy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 39 | This is why you shouldn’t take other peoples opinions about your body seriously.You’ll never be “good enough” for a society that’s hell bent on commodifying your body. They have to make you feel like you’ll never match up so that they can keep selling you things you don’t need to become “perfect” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 16 | If you’re having trouble sticking to your standards, keep a picture of yourself as a child as a wallpaper in your phoneI love this!! Thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 12 | I wish I could knock some sense into my friend. She’s talking about the time she tried anal to please her bf. She puts up with so much shit from her bf. They been together for two years. I don’t know how to help her. She just won’t listen.One thing about manipulative men is that they’ll make you think that you chose to do something, when they’ve actually been planting that seed in your mind. Coercion at its best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 28 | Patron Saint of the PickmeishasHow do you even talk to and sleep with a man who murdered his own family? It’s bad enough that you were the mistress, but the murder just takes things to a whole other level. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:04 PM |
| 7 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.It baffles me how men think it’s logical to say they’re babysitting their own kids. No sir, it’s called parenting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.You’re still “not all men-ing” the post. This is the equivalent of a woman sharing something about SA & you saying “well not all men are abusers”. That’s not the point and that’s never been the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 19 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.I’m sorry to hear that. I’m wishing you well for your biopsy. 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 15 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.Being CF makes so much sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 11 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.I’m so confused by her post. Wow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 14 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.Nobody said every man is a horrible dad. At this point, we should all be able to read between the lines. When women do way more (unpaid) domestic labour including child rearing, there’s clearly a systemic issue. This post is highlighting the fact that majority of fathers aren’t active in their kids’ lives. Your husband being amazing to you and your kids doesn’t change the fact that most men AREN’T like that, and society rewards them for being lousy parents while women suffer and carry the load. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 96 | A clown in his natural habitatThis was so unnecessarily aggressive. It was so uncomfortable to watch, especially the references to kicking women into traffic, flipping tables, etc. Scary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:46 PM |
| 19 | Am I being too overprotective of my friend?? TW brief mention of abuseYour friend needs professional help. As much as you care about her, there’s not much you can say or do about her dating these predatory and abusive men at such a young age if she won’t take the advice. You can care about her without trying to “fix” her situation. You can’t help someone that doesn’t want to be helped and in any case, it’s not your duty to. You’ve done all you can as a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | So this man definitely can’t be left alone with the baby... I didn’t even find this remotely funny.Same but she finds it “funny” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:50 AM |
| 2 | So this man definitely can’t be left alone with the baby... I didn’t even find this remotely funny.Same! If he’s an active gamer, I’m no longer interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:44 AM |
| 4 | So this man definitely can’t be left alone with the baby... I didn’t even find this remotely funny.I checked their videos and most of them are centred on how crappy of a parent he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:43 AM |
| 2 | So this man definitely can’t be left alone with the baby... I didn’t even find this remotely funny.A lot of women are living like that, unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:43 AM |
| 136 | So this man definitely can’t be left alone with the baby... I didn’t even find this remotely funny.Exactly! He’s clearly not pulling his weight as a father but let’s pretend it’s funny for some internet clout | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | [TRENDING] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+703 subscribers today; 176% trend score)We love to see it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 6 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.People see FDS as a threat because we’re a large group of powerful women. One powerful woman is already threatening to the status quo, now imagine a growing community of thousands of women who put themselves first and demand better from men and society at large... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 3 | What wall? 70yo woman credits her beautiful life to staying single and falling in love with yourself.This is so beautiful!! So inspiring. This is how I aim to live my life everyday. I hope I’ll be like her when I get to that age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supremeThis person isn’t well. I’m beyond disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteThis woman is such a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 14 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴Ugly men are just as bad as good looking men. That’s why you judge people by the content of their character, and not based on just looks. Getting played by an ugly man will leave you feeling embarrassed because you’ve lowered so many standards just for an ugly man to feel like he’s above you. It’s not worth it lol. As women we deserve to be with people we’re physically attracted to too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.They’re... literally just boots. The insecurity and control issues JUMPED out here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 97 | Ohio State Grooms Students into Sex WorkThis is actual insanity. And I bet this is only directed towards young women. WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Twirling for the patriarchy. More in commentsThis sounds like hell. I’ve noticed a lot of African women who are married share the same types of stories. It’s like they want us all to be miserable along with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:12 PM |
| 5 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactThis is beyond creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?I’m black and I was heavily into rap music growing up, which is terrible because it’s filled with derogatory words and is very colorist and generally problematic. For the past few years, I’ve been listening to afrobeats and other African music more. Afrobeats artists usually elevate women and sing about how they want to buy them nice things and give them the world. So now I can only listen to songs that uplift women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Just because you’re a rare case does not mean you should encourage others to give it up on the first date. Please- vet your partners before giving them any!I’m screaming lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Just because you’re a rare case does not mean you should encourage others to give it up on the first date. Please- vet your partners before giving them any!I saw this AND I CRINGED. It makes it even worse that she’s a black woman, considering how we are stereotyped as hypersexual in society. Lots of women will look at this and think having sex with men on the first date is okay when it greatly reduces the chances of us vetting men properly. She should’ve kept that to herself. Also, we don’t know what type of man she’s married to or if their relationship is healthy. So meh. She really shouldn’t have posted that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I guess this is my cue to delete bumble cuz I’ve finally seen it allNo ways. It’s like they get worse by the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 8 | I have no words.P-p-paid for your own engagement ring? Oh my. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 103 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!Why have sex with her if you didn’t have any feelings for her in the first place? Typical | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 38 | Imagine trying to find a gynecologist in network and these are the only options 😭😭🥺They all look creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 12 | A woman posted this on Twitter. These men reach new lows every single day! Imagine begging for $35. 😭She should definitely tell him that. I wonder why she never had him blocked though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 15 | A woman posted this on Twitter. These men reach new lows every single day! Imagine begging for $35. 😭Typical and disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 10 | A woman posted this on Twitter. These men reach new lows every single day! Imagine begging for $35. 😭These are facts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 11 | A woman posted this on Twitter. These men reach new lows every single day! Imagine begging for $35. 😭She definitely dodge a bullet. If they got married and had kids, he’d keep track of every single cent he spends on that child too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 17 | From The "Book Of Negs" (Negging). This Is What Seduction/Red Pill/Pick-Up Artists Have Been Teaching Males To Do To UsThese people desperately need therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 5 | neckbeard brags about how much his wife does while he doesn’t do sh*t, even mentions how daughter “wasn’t even supposed to be alive 8 years ago”The awkward smile she gave shows that she’s miserable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Ladies - Talk me through positives of wilfully remaining single & being happy.I hear you. We live in such a romance obsessed society that people forget you can be happy and whole without a significant other. Either way, having someone else define your self worth will leave you miserable and I’ve been there before. I’m never going back to that mindset. I’m enjoying my life with or without somebody by my side! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Ladies - Talk me through positives of wilfully remaining single & being happy.I’ve been on OLD and it just didn’t work out for me. I went on countless dates with men who weren’t even remotely on my level and if I had gotten into a relationship with any of them, it definitely wouldn’t have gone well. I’ve recently quit OLD for good and I’m open to meeting someone who’s genuine and who’s dedicated to working on themselves like I am. The pickings in my country are very slim and I don’t even date the men from here (South Africa). The men here are actually the worst! But yes, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*Please don’t do it. I’ve been the 22 year old who went on dates with a 35 year old man. I’m glad it never worked out because he already showed signs of negging and emotional abuse from the beginning. A HVM that’s 35 years old wouldn’t date a 22 year old. They’re only after you because of the power imbalance. They have more money, they have their life figured out... they become the prize! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 10:03 AM |
| 7 | Ladies - Talk me through positives of wilfully remaining single & being happy.I’ve been single for 6 years. I’m 25 and I’ve figured I’m going to spend the rest of my life with myself, so I should learn to enjoy and appreciate my own company. Relationships are great when they add to your life, but i decided I can’t live my life in limbo because of some hypothetical person I haven’t met yet. I deserve to be happy because I exist and I’m here, and not being in a relationship isn’t going to take that away from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:55 AM |
| 57 | Men who say "just don't be fat"That man is mysogynoiristic and I can’t wait for his ex wife to expose him. It’s beyond me how black women even call into that show in the first place. We need to stop giving disgusting people, especially men, any air time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 25 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Imagine what else he’s stingy about? He definitely won’t be parenting baby when it arrives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 9 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’The funny thing is they’ll resent you for playing the mommy role even though that’s what they expect from you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:24 AM |
| 8 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’I’m from Southern Africa too (South Africa to be exact). I haven’t lived in the West but I’ve had multiple interactions with black men from the West, and I don’t think they’re any different from South African men. I see some parallels there. Do you feel like you see any similarities with the men from your country? And wow, that’s just so typical. I wish black women would stop being the second option for these men! Black women are too attached to race loyalty when black men don’t even practice it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:20 AM |
| 7 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Yup! It’s not black women’s problem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’I agree with you! We need to put ourselves first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:15 AM |
| 13 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’The “African Queen” vibe has always been a thing in African music videos, particularly West African (Nigeria to be exact). I don’t see mainstream rappers adopting this. They still portray black women, especially dark skinned black women, as the hypersexualized stereotype. Any rapper that’s going down the “African Queen” route is merely pandering to black women, nothing else. And you’d be surprised how African women are also conditioned to put up with disrespect from black men. I can only speak f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:15 AM |
| 12 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Yes, that’s definitely true, which is pretty evident with how many BM dusties treat all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 14 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’It’s quite disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 44 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Yup! You’ll be the ride or die and they’ll still spit in your face repeatedly. Choose yourself, always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’I can actually foresee this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 38 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Exactly. Black women need to be more selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 65 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’They’re also saying this because black men are used to using black women. We’re only valuable to them when they’re struggle and on “the come up” or if their life is a mess. We’re suddenly supposed to forget all the colorist & anti-black rhetoric they’ve been spewing when they elevated non-black women at our expense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 14 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 29 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Geez, all those men have serious issues. I’m sorry about your experiences and I hope you haven’t internalized them as being any fault of your own. It’s a systemic issue in the black community, especially when you factor in colourism. And definitely, black women are attractive and collectively, we’d actually have more options if only we’d stop getting stuck on being loyal because of race and not because someone truly loves and values us for who we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 33 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’So true! The term “black queen” isn’t endearing at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 36 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’I think the mental illness stigma is still so rampant, especially in the black community, that people would rather keep calling him a “genius” instead of seeing that he’s not well. And it’s definitely not any woman’s responsibility to deal with a mentally ill man. Honestly, that stuff is draining and only mental health professionals can help someone who’s bipolar and in denial/not taking their meds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 9 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’I haven’t seen it yet, but I’ll watch it and see what’s it about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 46 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’This is true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 11 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Omg that Kevin Samuels man is unhinged!!! I totally agree with you. These male dating coaches are a new level of misogynistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:55 AM |
| 4 | Massive Porn Site Xvideos Investigated for Hosting Videos of Child Sexual Abuse and ExploitationI can’t wait until this conversation becomes more mainstream. We’re way too comfortable with porn as a society when we shouldn’t be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Valentine’s Day “gift” from an LVMDon’t post your L’s online!!!! She should’ve just blocked him, cried about it to her friends and family and moved on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.Whew... as a black woman, I find it fascinating how black men view good men as “simps” but in the same breath will tell you to ChOoSe BeTtEr MeN when you speak about how trash men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.Somebody better send her the link to this subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Beware of men who want to do everything for you.Omg I’m so sorry to hear this!! I hope you’re healing from them at experience and doing better emotionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄He shouldn’t have even been on there in the first place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:53 PM |
| 3 | 🚨DON'T BUILD UP A MAN- Via Deborrah Cooper's channelThe man that posted this is South African. The most LVM on this planet!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Whose child is this? And she proposed at her brother’s wedding of all places?! 🤦🏽♀️ please do not mistake this as “gEnDEr EqAuLiTy” 😑Lmfao this is embarrassing as f*ck!! She’s way too pretty for all this nonsense. He doesn’t look impressed at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 95 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).“Imperfectly perfect proposal” girl he didn’t put any effort into that. That was so hard to watch. She’s too pretty for him, anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 135 | How to be emotionally abusive 101This only works on women with low self esteem. And either way, this is so messed up. As a black woman, I’ve noticed that there’s a rising trend of black incels. It’s scary. I don’t know how much more difficult the world will be to navigate when the pandemic is over. These men have literally been sitting indoors binging this toxic rhetoric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 3 | "I am healthy, I am wealthy, I am rich, I am that bitch - I am gonna go get that bag, And I am not gonna take your shit"I’m adding this to my playlist!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 120 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...She’s definitely a pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 7 | Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement?As black women, we need to expand our options in order to ensure that we have the dating lives we deserve. The black community loves seeing black women, especially dark skinned black women, mueller for them — which is why they don’t want us to expand our options. I don’t think you need to belong to a community to date interracially. Added to that, as black women we shouldn’t put anyone on a pedestal, not black men and not non-black men. Just choose the best man for the job regardless of their ra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:07 AM |
| 8 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsI agree. I’ll never download those things again. What a waste of time. Being on OLD is like looking in the sewer for diamonds. You’ll never find them, regardless of how many times you look! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Happy Valentine’s Day to all you beautiful ladies!! I hope you’ve all done something great for yourself today (whether you’re single or partnered!). I ordered my favorite food, did my makeup, got dressed my fanciest dress and I’m eating in. Yesterday I took myself out to my favorite restaurant. 💅🏾That sounds amazing!! Glad you enjoyed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | A cautionary tale.I’d be too embarrassed to even post this hey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.Lmfao he’s trying to make himself sound like a once in a lifetime opportunity. No, ma’am! Send him back to the streets. I hope you blocked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case.Did Denzel even say this or is it just one of those quotes people like to randomly pin on celebrities? Either way, this is terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.People have normalized the most disgusting things. We live in a society full of degenerates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:44 PM |
| 10 | If men have anything it’s the audacity🤣🤣 it’s always men who look like this who have the most audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Happy valentine's day my queens! I can't give you flowers in person so I painted some flowers♡♡♡♡ This is for you!!Sweet!! Thank you, Happy Valentine’s Day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Men having multiple baby mommas?This is so prevalent in the black community. I don’t know if you’re black, but I am and I think the way the black community coddles black men encourages and incentives this type of behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 9 | "Expecting a man to provide is VeRy aBuSive." Translation: my bf is brokeThis is so embarrassing. When she’s crushed by the financial weight of having to carry the household, I wonder if she’ll have the same opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who thinks the woman is in the right for not wanting children who would have incest in the family???He needs therapy, not Reddit. And the wife is well within her rights to refuse to get pregnant without knowing the full extent of what may happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.THIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:47 PM |
| 7 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.I totally agree with you. Also, I don’t understand what closure he’s seeking from someone he’s only been speaking to for 2 days. He doesn’t know me, yet he already feels so entitled to my time & to me explaining myself to him. Nope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.I’m screaming! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Exactly. It’s like, why can’t you type in normal English?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 7 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Lol that’s what made me laugh. If he was unbothered, he wouldn’t have sent a message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Right?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 28 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.I only blocked him on WhatsApp and I hadn’t blocked him on text and call yet. I responded just to make him mad (petty, I know) and then I blocked his number off SMS and call after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Vegan FDS ladies, what do we think of vegan men?THIS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Today a guy asked me out and told me to pick the place on Tinder and this was his reply when I answered with Sushi.... keep in mind this is a 35-year-old engineer.Lmfao you’re getting ghosted FOR A REASON. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:02 PM |
| 6 | Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies?They can go to hell 🤣 I would rather stay single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Tell me again how porn doesn't cause brain damage and isn't intrinsically linked to paedophilia. 🤢He’s going to harm that child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Smh!!!!! Stuff like this is why I will probably never date until my kids grow up.This man is anti-black women and so misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Sister finds child porn on brother’s computer. REDDIT: bUt WhY WeRe yOu SnOOPinG ThOugh?Oh my word... I’m sorry to say this little boy is probably a menace to little girls and will be dangerous to women when he grows up. If you can look at your sister and brother that way, nothing will stop you from harming a stranger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Sounds like Jane has standards to me! Be like Jane :)The funny thing is if it was the other way around, he would have never wanted his girlfriend to hang out with a male friend on a one-on-one basis. The hypocrisy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Wannabe rapper gets caught cheating on his pregnant gf...he publicly apologized months ago. Today, he's had a change of heart and realized that he was single before he cheated 🥴 also has some words of wisdom about mother's.A has been rapper whose proud of cheating on his pregnant girlfriend. I’m sad for her. She’s gorgeous and could do way better than being a baby mama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.I’d rather be single than get rid of my books. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 12 | THIS is why FDS. Coming from a single mom, I will never again date someone who makes me theirs, too. Too many comments saying "those men don't exist" or "if I tell him ill give him time then he might.."These are the same types of men who’ll be like “my wife doesn’t want to have sex anymore.” Do you blame her??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:42 PM |
| 31 | Her boyfriend complained that she’s only spending $200 for his birthday after she already spent $300 on him for Christmas.She’s so pretty and can get a better man in a heartbeat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 32 | The question we should all be asking ourselves about “woke” or “feminist” menTHIS IS IT. “I don’t believe in gender roles” loosely translates to “don’t expect a damn thing from me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:01 AM |
| 70 | This looks more tragic than humorous to me...This would irritate tf out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:54 AM |
| 3 | So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?I’m embarrassed for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:00 AM |
| 6 | Thought You Queens Would Enjoy ThisMe on my 6th year of being single and 4th year of celibacy 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:45 AM |
| 15 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?He has another love interest and he’s putting you on the back burner in case that doesn’t work out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | His comment may be satirical but it doesn’t sit down well at all!I don’t think he’s joking.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Really helpful to realize!This reminds me of the time I went on a date and this man told me he wouldn’t have matched me if he knew I was celibate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Men : "wat do u bring to the table" Also, men :This is hands down the worst tinder bio I’ve ever read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:52 AM |
| 2 | So.... she bought her own ring and is supposed to be grateful about it? Lollll. No.What the hell is this 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.THIS!!! Exactly why I don’t speak about my bisexuality. I’m not ashamed, it’s just better for me to navigate the world that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | On the front page today 🤦♀️ why can't men, as a gender, understand what systematic oppression isThe mental gymnastics are hilarious. 🤣 They only go through this because of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 11 | is anyone actually surprised by this? religious men are the biggest hypocrites on the planet and this disgusting fuck protects pedophiles and used billions of our tax dollars 'for covid relief' to pay off lawsuits. there is no 'deep state' its happening in plain sight.Religious men are the biggest perverts. Even worse than the overtly perverted men IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 20 | A co-worker was let go today because of his actions towards me...He wasn’t feeling bad when he was sexually harassing you. He knew what he was doing. Don’t feel bad for seeing a man who did something wrong get what he deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 9 | I’m out of words. She is going to be applauded in the black community for doing this. It just goes to show how we raise black girls to be providers, and boys to be receivers. Imagine paying for 6 grown men on your birthday... Well, as long as you’re happy sis. 🤷🏾♀️Exactly! Pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 9 | I’m out of words. She is going to be applauded in the black community for doing this. It just goes to show how we raise black girls to be providers, and boys to be receivers. Imagine paying for 6 grown men on your birthday... Well, as long as you’re happy sis. 🤷🏾♀️I’m also very confused! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Am I being used by my friend?She’s using you. I used to have a “friend” like that. She would only text and call when she wanted to dump her emotional baggage on me. Yet, when I needed support, she was nowhere to be found. Leave her alone. Let her deal with her own mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Pro Tip: Don’t save his number until you’re committedI do this too. I actually have a burner phone and this is the number I give to everyone. I make sure that I give that number to men as well so they don’t have my personal line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.Male sexual entitlement strikes again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.I’m so sorry about this. You didn’t deserve any of this. I’m sending you love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.He’s grooming her children in front of her and instead of leaving this man, she’s asking for advice from Redditers who’ll most likely be misogynistic enough to tell her that she’s overreacting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | I don't even know what to say at this pointImagine blaming women for the fact that you’re a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Best friend exploded on me for not wanting to hangout with her abusive boyfriend.You need to leave this woman alone. Don’t be the collateral damage in someone else’s self destructive behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 29 | Can people ever leave women alone?This is so misogynistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:58 PM |
| 34 | Imagine being told to hush while in labour. I’m actually speechless!Imagine how different her life would be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 20 | Imagine being told to hush while in labour. I’m actually speechless!Mine too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 7 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰I LOVE IT!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 145 | Pickmeshas be likeStockholm syndrome. This is scary. It’s wild how even porn conditions women to be okay with being abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 08:24 AM |
| 12 | Men love mansplanning about issues only WOMEN faceHe’s beeeeen cut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:00 PM |
| 12 | Men love mansplanning about issues only WOMEN faceOh he never heard from me again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:59 AM |
| 11 | Men love mansplanning about issues only WOMEN faceIt’s wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:58 AM |
| 6 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃What a neuro-chemical scam! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:21 AM |
| 14 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃Wow this was so well written! I’m sorry about your abusive ex. I hope you’re healing from that. I also dated an (emotionally and mentally) abusive person who withheld sex from me, and I also fell for the “the honeymoon phase is over, this is the hardest part of the relationship where we actually have to make it work” lie. It’s wild how women are expected to show up from the beginning to the end, but men can slack and it’s acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Setting Standards for First Dates - OLDYou’re not doing anything wrong. Don’t internalize men’s behavior. The truth is, most men on OLD are there because they want to get laid. I think most HVM aren’t on these apps, they’re too busy living their lives & don’t rely on virtual communication to approach women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:14 AM |
| 37 | If this is real, this is the most pathetic thing I've ever seenImagine begging a man to marry you in a store in the middle of a global pandemic. Peak desperation. Her friends do not want her to succeed. If that was my friend I would’ve told her to not embarrass herself like that. Now it’s viral for the entire world to see. Yikes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | they’re telling on themselves againI feel this 100%. The foreign men that live here are (usually) a different breed. They don’t believe in that 50/50 stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:00 AM |
| 3 | they’re telling on themselves againOur dating pool is a mess! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:59 AM |
| 17 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 21 | Excuse me, what the actual f*ck?Sounds like she’s a winner to me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 15 | they’re telling on themselves againI hear you. I’m not American either, but race and class tend to be intertwined. I’m South African and even black men here have the same dusty mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:57 AM |
| 22 | they’re telling on themselves againBlack men aren’t raised to be providers. Facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:56 AM |
| 43 | they’re telling on themselves againI’m black and I’ve noticed the differences between men of my race and men of other races. Men of all races can be trash, that’s a fact, but in the black community black women are not allowed to want better or they’re “gold diggers”. We are taught to be ride or dies and it’s engrained from birth. In other communities, women are actually encourage to date up & to be provided for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:55 AM |
| 13 | they’re telling on themselves againWhy are they not ashamed to be saying this publicly? Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:52 AM |
| 3 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.The black community will support anything a black man does, in their eyes they can do no wrong. And then we wonder why we can’t progress as a community, when our women and children aren’t protected by black men. The only solution is to divest from all of this, because the black community has shown time and time again that they do not care about black women’s lives The fact that Tory hasn’t been deported and still has a career is wild to me. It’s beyond repulsive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | TRIGGER WARNING - This is so disgusting! Men will exploit and abuse anything they perceive as “weaker.”It’s infuriating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | TRIGGER WARNING - This is so disgusting! Men will exploit and abuse anything they perceive as “weaker.”I just tagged it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | TRIGGER WARNING - This is so disgusting! Men will exploit and abuse anything they perceive as “weaker.”I’m sorry. I’ve tagged it NSFW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 102 | LVM from r/steroids throwing a fit because we don't believe in casual sex. The audacity of these idiots.Men want you to have causal sex and in the same breath they’ll degrade you for being a “sl*t” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Who are your favourite Youtubers? Not for advice/dating specifically but women who have a good attitude to life and love. I love Angel Lately 🌹Lydia Dinga and Em Etetim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 16 | I am tired of libfem financial adviceLibfem dating advice is a joke. They are so obsessed with being “equal” that they don’t realize women are far from that reality. We can’t live life based on a reality that is thousands of years from materializing. While they’re happy to split bills with men to prove their independence, men are stacking up their money and becoming wealthier. And so, the gender pay gap widens and women’s sweat equity increases because we’re still expected to cook, clean and raise kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:01 AM |
| 13 | 'I'ma Choose Me': Sanaa Lathan Is Investing In Herself Rather Than MarriageI love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:48 AM |
| 2 | If going on a walk is a “date,” then do men go on dates with their friends when they walk together? I can’t believe “walk dates” are even a thing. It’s beyond ridiculous 💀Tell him to date a squirrel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 10 | Just another reason to implement FDS principles into your life. THIS is what you’re trying to avoid.This is disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this LThis is so sad but some women just can’t be saved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 47 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?Avoid men who aren’t emotionally intelligent & can’t cook or clean after themselves. Fair? FAIR! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 22 | Imagine paying double the rent for the privilege of being a man’s room mateI got a headache reading this. What a professional gaslighter. She better RUNNN! And also, what woman in their right mind let’s a man stay in her apartment FOR FREE FOR 9 MONTHS?? She also needs to address her lack of boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.I hate it so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:55 AM |
| 22 | Ladies don’t ever support a man through med school/law school, etc. Came across this Reel and you should see all the pickmes in the comments. I wonder if she will be making these same reels in 10 years when he leaves her for a younger woman ☹️Clown behavior tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.It definitely is. Putting your body and mental health on the line for a community that doesn’t prioritize you is insane. Women and kids don’t need to be at violent protests anyway. It’s such LVM behavior to promote women and children fighting for men and dying/getting seriously injured because of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.BM have beeeeeeen oppressing BW from the beginning of time. We’re tired of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.Wow, this is the highest form of self sabotage. A non-black man could be treating her way better and giving her everything she desires, but she’s so hung up on race that she’s blocking that blessing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.Divest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.Some black women refuse to burn the cape. They will forever be in the same position and that’s just sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 7 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.I feel you on this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.This was well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.I doubt it 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 14 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.I agree and can relate. There are also too many double standards towards black women in the black community. We also aren’t protected at all by the men we sacrifice everything for. It’s a scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 30 | Laboring for BM & getting nothing in return is so normalized in the black community. I’m honestly tired of it. I wish we would retire the “strong, black woman” trope as well because it doesn’t serve us at all.Unfortunately many would. Black women are obsessed with “healing” black men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | My nudes were leaked and I feel like my life is ruined.I’m so sorry! You don’t deserve any of this. I agree with everyone saying go to the authorities. You need to report these people. And you can still do all the things you want to do. Please don’t let these disgusting people take your power away, because that’s what they want. One day, you’ll look back on this and you’ll have made it through this tough situation. Hang in there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 2 | I just got banned from r/Feminism and this was the last thing I commented:Did you lie though?? You told nothing but the truth. Porn isn’t liberating. No former pornstar has said they don’t regret their decision to get into the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | 🤢🤢🤢🤢This is beyond disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Of course, LVM say how valuable she is.. I think that's so pathetic of her, are women expected to be 50/50 buddies when a man gains 100% of it??He will drive other women around in that very same car. That’s how the story goes. He’s your boyfriend, not your damn son. Some women will never learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:55 PM |
| 36 | Excuse me WHAT?!! The way being a “ride or die” is drilled into our heads is scary!!The kids look uncomfortable, especially the eldest one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:49 PM |
| 72 | Excuse me WHAT?!! The way being a “ride or die” is drilled into our heads is scary!!Sooo true!! It’s a mess. That whole “ride or die” rhetoric needs to go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:49 PM |
| 31 | Excuse me WHAT?!! The way being a “ride or die” is drilled into our heads is scary!!I just read it. Him saying his domestic violence was “blown out of proportion” tells me everything I need to know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:47 PM |
| 12 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???This is the type of man that will sexually abuse your daughter. The signs are there. What more do you need advise on???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:48 AM |
| 3 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.I feel you. I’ve been celibate for 3 years now and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Am I just a bitch? The amount of times he mentioned my school drive me bananas. I think I may just suck at this online dating thing.He is intimidated by the university you went to. He’s trying to throw jabs at you in a joking way, laying the foundation for his future manipulation tactics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.This is sociopathic behavior. She needs to RUNNNNN and never come back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many people on here on OLD sites?You right. I deleted all my OLD apps a few months ago and I will NEVER look back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, is this the "50-50" or actually fair?He is stingy. He couldn’t even offer to pay for $25? I’ve paid for more for my friends without expecting anything back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 7 | In Memoriam 💔😢What a loss 🥺💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Congratulations. Here’s to your new beginning. 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Y’all should follow Lydia Dinga on IG, YouTube, errthang. HVW role model, sis is just straight goals.I love her so much!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | This poor woman 😭 RUNWhat the hell is this 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, without FDS I wouldn’t even have considered this one. But we’re together for 6 months now and I can confidently say I found my HVM! 🌹Soooo cute omg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | I feel like OLD is not for me, & I think I'm honestly okay with that.I felt this to my core. I deleted all my apps and I’ll NEVER go back again. What a waste of time. Too many LVM and I realized the man for me isn’t on a dating app. Many men on there see women as objects and as disposable. I also want a man who can approach me in reality and show me that he actually wants me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 10 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITWhat is extreme about empowering women to navigate the world in a way that benefits them? The tide is shifting and many women are awakening, so people will begin to push back harder against ideas that empower women to choose better for themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 3 | The desire to be partnered is okay, but just don’t let it override your sense of self,Thank you, I wrote it on a comment on one of the posts here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Question: Take your time imagining and tell us, who would you be in 15 years if you decentered romantic relationships?I’ve realized how much time and energy I’ve spent chasing something that feels so elusive to me. I don’t want to live my life feeling as though I’m half of a person because I’m not in a relationship with a man. I want to be someone whose worth and sense of self transcends societal expectations of “women are only worthy when men say they are.” I truly want to be at peace with myself, so that when a relationship comes to me I’m engaging with my lover from a place of abundance and not lack. I was o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Saw this on Twitter. This is wild!!! 🥴This is so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, pour yourself a glass of wine and amuse yourself with these scoteria who are in their 20s and addicted to Viagra.😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 18 | Question: Take your time imagining and tell us, who would you be in 15 years if you decentered romantic relationships?I’ve been single for 5 years. I’m over the idea of searching for love. I’m focused on my career and just impacting the world positively. I’d love to be in a relationship one day, but I’ll still be okay if it never happens for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:06 AM |
| 24 | I can’t believe this needs to be a PSA. And I get filthy creatures like him also expect sex on the first date 🤢Walk in the park is NOT a date 😭 that is for squirrels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:40 PM |
| 12 | “I’m blasian but you better not be black in any form”.Yuck! This is so ugly. The unnecessary hate we black women receive is wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:22 AM |
| 4 | Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"?EXACTLY!!! I bought the sexual liberation crap when I was in varsity. It made me have really poor sexual boundaries with men, which is not good when you also have a history of sexual abuse. We don’t talk about this enough. And if someone brings it up, they’ll be accused of slut shaming. This is why I’ve been celibate for three years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:12 AM |
| 11 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.She’s more concerned about the ReLaTiOnShIp than the fact that this man is an actual pedo and child abuser?!!!! WTFFFFF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Are you kidding me?Disgusting. 😖😖😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 7 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedThis happened to me too. I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years now. I went on a date with a seemingly HVM in 2018 (I was one year celibate at the time) and he asked about having sex on the second date. I told him I’m celibate and he said “if I knew this I wouldn’t have even swiped right!! You need to put that in your bio so we don’t waste our time. Don’t you have sex with people before getting into a relationship with them? Sexual compatibility before commitment is important.” Yuck!!! Good on yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:40 AM |
| 13 | Mixed signals means he’s not interestedI think it depends on what you guys are doing when he wants to see you. If he’s hitting you up to constantly chill at his crib then noooo!! But if he’s planning dates, keeping things fun and exciting then that’s true effort. That coupled with great communication over the phone is everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 13 | Upleveling my Hinge Profile!I think these are great tips but I try to avoid telling men what I look for in a partner because they are chameleons!! They will shape shift into what they think you want and waste your time. It’s better to be vague and vet them thoroughly. I also don’t recommenced listing what you own or going into depth about your accomplishments. There are LVM/dusties who seek to leech off good, hard working women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 20 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.Wow this is so ghetto 😭 why are men like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Of all the images he could have used, this Youtuber used a sexualized image of a teenage girl in his thumbnailThis is creepy af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:57 PM |
| 9 | Just no!This man is definitely South African, I can tell by the name. SA men are so low value, abusive & misogynistic. I avoid them like the plague!!! 😣😣 Edit: I’m South African. I’ve lived with these men my entire life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 16 | What are your thoughts on Cardi B & Meg thee Stallion’s WAP?She’s definitely a pickmeisha. She gave her cheating man a stack of money! She’s also anti-black so meh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | I know I'm being extremely positive... But I hope someday we all find that person, and we'll think "wow that was worth the wait"This is so true 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 31 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Lmfaooooo ME TOO!! It’s a mess. And the men in my country are so low value, I don’t date them at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 22 | What irks me the most is the intro. Poor woman had been so brainwashed, but she's not one of "those" wives. She lets him watch "regular porn"Sounds like an episode of Black Mirror. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 5 | “I wAS GoInG tHrOuGh SoMe StUfF PeRsOnAlLy”This is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:09 AM |
| 2 | I wanted to hop on here and just say that I stand in solidarity with Turkish women and the atrocities they face. My heart goes out to you beautiful souls 💖🧿Oh gosh, this is so terrible! I’m South African and the same thing is happening here. 😔💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Girl, if some video games cost more than the ring, you are getting P L A Y E DThere’s a woman on twitter who said “i don’t care if my ring costs $20” Well you might as well get a ring from a lucky packet, sis! ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 6 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Paid for dates, split the cheque at restaurants, drove him around, accepted low effort dates from low value men. 😖 yuckkk! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔Men are such cry babies! Boo hoo. 😢😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | I am so tired of being singleHey, this is so relatable! I’ve been single for 5 years and I’ve watched friends go in and out of relationships multiple times while I’m just here still going on first dates lol. I’ve really let go of any expectations (in a good way) by just living my life. I don’t know exactly how you feel but I can relate in some ways. I agree with everyone saying you should take a break. Sometimes when we try too hard to make something happen, we stop it from happening. I think you should work on being conten… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Another LVM, about to just get rid of dating apps all togetherI deleted all my dating apps because I got tired of talking to the same person in different bodies. Most of these men think the same & sifting through the trash to find the “gOoD oNeS” is exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:38 AM |
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