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homejib/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 12:25 AM
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The Bye Bye Woman
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 12:00 AM
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Left it on the night table along with the house keys the day I left after she bought me out. She threw our marriage away so she can throw the ring away too.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/23 06:00 AM
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Yup same
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 06:15 AM
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Ah yeah, that's where i met my STBXW actually. Now i work remotely though so it's not as easy.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 04:24 AM
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Im in the same boat. I loved sex with my STBXW and im not even really interested in touching another woman right now. I know that will pass but I also suck at meeting new people. Just curious how you met these 2 ladies that you are only messaging, and is that all they want as well?
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 08:17 PM
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I feel your pain, man. My wife shut off to me in January. She was my best friend too - most important thing in my life (we have no kids). She refused to work anything out or go to counseling...just wants it to be done. So the divorce is about to be finalized after like 8 months of misery living under the same roof. The only advice i can give is to spend time with good people (family and friends) that care about you. At first i didn't even want to do that, but its helped, an helped me realize the…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 08:47 PM
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My STBXW fully blocked me from IG (where she spends way too much free time anyway). I can barely even stomach looking at social media throughout my divorce and may never even go back
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 04:54 PM
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I agree
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 01:14 PM
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I know. Im staying here until its finalized. Really sucks to be an outcast in my own house. I tiptoe around this place. Her brother lives upstairs with no intention of moving out and her parents go over whenever i leave. Also her father is storing his big Ram pickup in our driveway for some reason
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 03:12 PM
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I know i sound naive. Im not even trying to defend her. Im just saying i havent actually seen any proof. She has several single friends that like to go on trips like that. But yeah either way its pretty fucked, i mean she was going on trips when we were initially separated and i was an emotional mess
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 01:14 PM
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Well the most frustrating part is i make a good salary now and more than her. My job has a ton of perks and flexibility too that would benefit us both. She doesnt care though shes done
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 01:08 PM
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Yeah ive heard this from other people too.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 12:18 PM
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Can you clarify what you mean?
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 04:46 AM
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I keep struggling with the thought of: “am i an asshole for taking the money that is rightfully mine?” It hurts that this all came down to money for her
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 01:16 AM
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I know that is what everyone says. Ive been living under the same roof with her for 9 months and havent seen anything to indicate cheating, though she has gone on trips and not come home some weekends. But i get what you are saying
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 01:14 AM
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I landed a great job (best job ive ever had) for a really good company back in April. Right about thr time she told me she wanted a divorce. She didnt give a shit about the job and that i busted my ass finding it for me/us
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 01:12 AM
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I'm interested. No kids, but an 11 year relationship (4 years married)...she completely bailed on our relationship in January with NO interest in trying to work through anything. Told me in March (in a parking lot) that she wants a divorce - going through the process now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 02:06 PM
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