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But I think their hesitance was more related to Jamie Foxx quickly dispatching two (or three?) of the slave owners. Not so much Stockholm Syndrome. I think they were scared shitless he was going to kill them. But I get your point.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 04:07 AM
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You're nitpicking. OP's come a long way and is doing well. Good for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 02:43 AM
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I do everything you say you do in the morning, save for cleaning up after due to time constraints. No ass-sitting here. On Mondays and Friday's she's off early in the morning so I asked that she contribute a few tasks before leaving so I'm not left doing everything. And Tues-Thurs I train very early in the morning but I make sure to be back in time to do my part in getting my family ready for the day. As for the meal prep, I will endeavor to work with her in planning meals going forward. I think…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 02:47 AM
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These are copy and pasted recipes, with both ingredients required and directions on how to cook them. She cooks all the time and is beyond competent.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 11:13 PM
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"Never pay another man's debt..." This is perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/16 05:58 AM
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"Alphas don't create drama..." Love this comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 01:16 AM
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Dress like you thought about your look before you left the house. Don't give the impression that you luckily remembered to put on clothes that morning. It's all about confidence. I'm fit so I wear clothes that fit me. And I'm not talking about everything tailored either. You can shop normal retail (banana republic, etc.) and look good without breaking the bank. I'm a lawyer so I wear sport coats a lot. My thing is to match my socks and pocket squares - not because I think people will like it. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 02:20 AM
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At a restaurant, excuse yourself for the bathroom. When you return, make eye contact, don't look away, walk right up to her while she's seated lean over and kiss her firmly while gently holding the back of her neck. When you're done sit down as if nothing happened. A crowded restaurant helps as she knows people saw what you did. Confidence, nothing more. Drives em crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 01:57 AM
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And if the guilt trips work, you're back in her frame (if you ever left it to begin with). You do (fill in blank), she guilts you and you feel guilty. She keeps hitting the reset button to status quo - you gotta stop that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 02:55 AM
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"Took the action out of the bedroom" is the best thing I've read in a week. I interpret that as focusing on action out of the bedroom to get action in the bedroom, even if that's not what you meant. Thanks for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 03:26 AM
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Only the Sith deal in absolutes
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 03:12 AM
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"Being too impatient" - me spot on. I've wanted to say the "I literally get nothing out of this..." in the last few days but I've resisted. When do you think is the right time?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 02:42 AM
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Don't just stare at it. Eat it!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 03:50 AM
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"Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth" - Iron Mike
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:33 AM
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This is so good
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:30 AM
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Full planks or elbows on the ground?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 02:46 PM
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This is great advice, especially the part about the Consent Judgment. The draft CJ will, in all likelihood, be slanted heavily in her favor. If you sign it as presented your balls will be in a vice ad infinitum. Meaning if your jurisdiction handles the modification of a Consent Judgment as most do, altering it after the fact will be very difficult outside of provable drug use or abuse. So pay a lawyer a small fee to review it beforehand or pay a lawyer thousands to try and modify it afterward. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 12:08 AM
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Completely agree. If she lawyers up and you don't, you're bringing a knife to a gun fight. I see it all too often in my practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 01:26 AM
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Yep - caveat emptor
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 11:06 PM
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See below. Think outside the box.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 05:28 PM
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Kindle via iPhone. She has no idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 04:36 PM
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How does my wife know about MMSLP? Where is that in my post?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 03:47 PM
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Appreciate the links.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 03:27 PM
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Noted.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 03:09 PM
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I found out that after our exchange she went to Target about 3 miles down the road with the kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 01:48 AM
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My other child is with her. Does that change your response? Also, with respect to my first post, my approach was ultimately successful that night. I'm not being combative here - just want you to have all the info.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:25 PM
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Yep, this is exactly how I've thought for years. Working on IDGAF daily.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 03:36 PM
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Can you elaborate on "baseline?"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 04:09 AM
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Read my earlier response. No one at the table heard nor was part of the conversation. Restaurant was way too loud. Everybody else at the table was engaged with someone else. And believe me, I know her public shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:48 AM
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I agree re: one week. Just looking for some feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 06:05 PM
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You're spot on.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:24 PM
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It did.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:34 PM
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I leaned over into her ear and said, "no, this is who I've been all along. This is the person that you fell in love with and who you married."
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:27 PM
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No - the others at the table couldn't hear us. Lot's of talking in a loud restaurant. It was a conversation between only the two of us. Things are proceeding nicely. I grew up alpha, college, law school the same. Dated alpha and was alpha when we got engaged. But that changed when kids happened and it was downhill after that. I see this as me simply returning to who I am. And what I've seen in the last week is a good bit of push back from my wife. Breaking a horse is an analogy that comes to min…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:22 PM
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Easily is an understatement. She's ADHD which manifests itself in frustration and tantrums. I've placated and coddled far too long. I have two kids, don't need a third throwing fits too. As I'm typing I get a text from her saying she's still at work getting stuff done, etc., which was a bit snippy. I simply responded with ok I'm grilling pork chops. And despite her earlier tantrum I get an unexpected response saying "thank you so much" yada yada. We'll see what happens later.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 11:00 PM
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I was unclear in my update. Totally didn't ignore her. I was in a rush because I was still working and responded "go ahead, what's up." She got frustrated I suppose but I didn't take the bait. Told her thanks for bringing my stuff and kissed my girls (our kids) goodbye. Closed the door (didn't slam it) and she hauled ass out of the parking lot. Hope that makes the exchange clearer.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 10:49 PM
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UPDATE: I asked her to bring shoes / clothes to my office so I could work out by my office rather than going home first. She agreed. She parked next door with the kids in truck and I went out to get my stuff. When I opened the door she was complaining about one of my kids, etc. I immediately paid attention to my kids and as I was getting the bag out of the front seat she said, "Can we talk? Can I say something? Nevermind, I don't have to talk." When I shut the door to the truck, I shit you not, …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 08:38 PM
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Crossfit certified trainer - so we're doing 1 on 1 crossfit workouts. Heavy barbell use. Really like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 05:53 PM
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10 years
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 04:05 PM
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When I get that hard no? Say nothing, do my normal routine for the night. Act like it didn't happen - wake up and do my thing the next day. But tomorrow night, when we travel to my in-laws I'll go out for a beer by myself and do my own thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 04:01 PM
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She feels inferior because I can do everything myself (kids, household, etc.) and she knows it. History proves it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 03:29 PM
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Thanks for the constructive response. As I said above, I'm not "demanding sex," I'm simply being playful and taking charge of scheduling a time, etc. But I appreciate your take. As for the reason for the article, no one does more than I do at home. So, she gets all the help she could ever want. In fact, I'd say I do more than 50% of the "household" stuff on a weekly basis.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:36 PM
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Thanks. Been lifting for a couple of years (last 5 weeks with a personal trainer, in fact). Definitely working on that. As a retort, I would say that I wasn't necessarily demanding sex - just taking charge to schedule a time when we're both in the shower together and trying to be playful. If sex happens, so be it. That make sense?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:09 PM
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