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| 123 | How To Stop Being A Femcel (FDS PODCAST EP. 73)This episode was incredibly tone-deaf and threw all basic FDS principles out the window. Men’s preference for hairless-below-the-eyebrows women is steeped in pedophilic tendencies and is symptomatic of pornsickness. Instead of recognizing that and that NOT shaving is actually an excellent vetting strategy to weed out men that want a prepubescent girl, or men that will denigrate or try to control your body, the advice is to give in? The bit about radfems was just… something else. Have y’all even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/22 03:53 PM |
| 34 | What’s the FDS-flavoured tea on cold approaches? Advice appreciated.IMO cold approaches are generally inappropriate. I’m here to buy food, not get hit on. When a man approaches you in this way it’s clear he’s only attracted to your appearance because he knows literally nothing about you — this man isn’t marriage-minded, he’s sex-minded. Also indicates he may have poor impulse control if he hits on random women in public, and indicates he’s likely desperate if he resorts to going after total strangers. I get it though, we all want to hold out hope that we could m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 01:51 AM |
| 45 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?I’ve never seen it myself - being a LVM has too many short-term and shallow benefits. Most men aren’t willing to become HV for a better and more meaningful life, and deeper and better relationships down the line if all they want is easy sex and a live-in mommy/maid/bank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 46 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?Honestly, dinner 😅 it’s weird seeing other married couples bicker about what to eat longer than it takes to cook the meal. “Noooo I’m burnt out that, that makes my stomach hurt, I had that for lunch, I’m not in the mooooood for that” and they do this EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. SO glad I can just decide when and what I eat lol Freedom in general tbh. Even in the best, least-controlling relationships there’s still an expectation to be home on time, discuss major purchases, come up with weekend plans, coo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 02:32 AM |
| 37 | Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools?300 lbs, addicted to porn, and probably beastiality considering he gets his sex inspiration from Animal Planet. I would say “oh deer” but that would probably turn him on. 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 01:34 PM |
| 62 | Being anti-porn is not enoughYes and no; the “small gains” viewpoint is just settling IMO. It is one thing for a man to cite personal reasons as the MAIN reason for quitting, while also acknowledging the violence inherent in porn as an added factor, versus men who make it (self-benefit) their only reason and refuse to acknowledge the damage it does to women, which is the VAST majority of anti-porn men I have encountered. Not watching porn doesn’t mean anything if he is still a misogynist at heart, and we shouldn’t give men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreHow is claiming that sexual harassment is inherently part of POC culture not… racist?? Especially considering she is white? 10 years ago people would have been torn apart for saying dumb shit like this. How’d we go backwards? There is so much to unpack here but I’m burning the whole suitcase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 11 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.bar: in hell men: but can it get lower tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:24 PM |
| 12 | ZVM, NVM and LVM "fathers": "how do I reestablish tRuSt with my adult daughter ?"How much are we willing to bet his wife’s “emotional affair” was “she talked to her ex when they bumped into each other at the supermarket?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:41 PM |
| 49 | Would you date someone who doesn’t understand misogyny?Can he understand things like racism or homophobia? If yes, then he’s deliberately choosing not to recognize misogyny. If no, then he’s just plain stupid or worse, a perpetrator of racism / misogyny / etc. I don’t want to date either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:38 PM |
| 76 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?Ironic that the same people that scream “not at all men” also think that by not being attracted to grubs you’re not attracted to any men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:30 PM |
| 14 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?Lotta other people hit the nail on the head – narcissism. His wife and kids (likely) live in a house with him, and centuries of being told he’s the head of the house and the breadwinner makes him feel like he has ownership over his family. So he puts on a good face for the public and takes off the mask when he gets home, and unleashes all the anger he’s been compartmentalizing that day. The longer his family lets him continue to do that (which he will continue until they completely leave him) th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:15 PM |
| 34 | 2.5 Year together and he doesn’t know what she likes. How is that even possible?Thinking about what another person wants is… the whole point… of gift giving…. the usefulness aspect is still there but the point of buying gifts is to show the other person how much thought you’re willing to put into them and how well you know them??? “You’re too hard to shop for” is just “I don’t care about you enough to literally even THINK” Men aren’t even willing to THINK for the people they claim to love!!! To use their effin brains!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 53 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Well duh, if we don’t call out misogyny it doesn’t exist /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:52 PM |
| 24 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Translation: “I initially faked emotional intimacy with my last girlfriend who eventually demanded that I show her the minimum of respect and when I didn’t she broke up with me (and I lost my endless supply of free sex) so instead of trying to appear to be a decent human being I throw my shit at women and see who sticks because I don’t respect women and instead view them as objects and a means to an end, that end being sex.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 56 | ✨Truth✨Oh didn’t you know? Women are lazy and just holding their orgasms in. /s I had an NVX tell me that before, I “just needed to do it” LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 12:43 AM |
| 43 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.Men want feminine, submissive women until the bill for rent comes or the waiter gets his order wrong, then they want “equality” or “independent, outspoken” women 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 14 | I really hope this guy did not actually sleep in a nest in his home and what he said is all satire 🤢🤢🤢Men so desperately have to one-up women that they will straight up say this shit, “oh you think you’re gross? I’m literally fucking disgusting, I don’t brush my teeth, I bathe in dish water, I sleep in a pile of old clothes on my floor (somebody come stroke my pp, I’m the grossest of them all)” as if the only thing they could ever hope to excel in is depravity Also LMFAO at this dude thinking anyone slept with him 🤡 you can lie to yourself but you can’t lie to us dude. No woman is fucking in a N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:36 PM |
| 48 | That time I THOUGHT I was dating a HVM 🤡 And the PLETHORA of red flags I ignoredScrotedinger’s hope: when you should both be hopeful and optimistic, but also not get your hopes up, depending on whichever is more invalidating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:19 PM |
| 170 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.I don’t get it. how much do you have to hate yourself to attach yourself to a man that literally loathes you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:55 PM |
| 18 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.this is literally the epitome of “haha just kidding… unless?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 39 | Men do really think like thisahhh yes, because we all know men respect consent and will only do a “temporarily allowed set of specific actions related to sex” when you sell your body. ladies I think this man has solved r–pe, all women should become prostitutes then men can only do what we allow them to!!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 86 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.that had me cackling 🤣 like yessir, your bed sure does need support, it’s on the floor for chrissake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 45 | Safety issues with food delivery appsI thought I was the only one with weird issues with food delivery but I never said anything because I thought I was reading too into it. Always have issues with the male drivers – they cannot follow basic directions. I go by a masculine nickname so sometimes I put that on my orders and when I do everything goes fine. If anything is missing they call me beforehand for alternatives, they leave my food at the door as requested. If I put my full (feminine) name suddenly they can’t read and bang on m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 220 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?He Juul’ed. Like, smoking cigarettes or vaping is bad enough but it’s the Juul’ing that kills me. And he spent sooo much money on that shit and just left empty Juul boxes in his car floorboards like he was nesting in his car. He could afford $20 Juul pods several times a week but couldn’t afford gas or our “date” at Waffle House lmfaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Difference I Notice in Women Oriented PodcastsGoing against the grain here but at lot of these male-oriented podcasts don’t really teach them solid skills but sell them a fantasy that they, too, can get rich by buying $2k in bitcoin, or convince them that they can become a multi-million CEO overnight. While I agree that a lot of these soft-skill podcasts geared towards women can be a little fru fru, the flip side is not that good. And men that indulge in that sort of stuff tend to be NVM because they’re always living in this fantasy that th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:35 AM |
| 59 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Always assume the worst in men. Not ONCE has giving a man the benefit of a doubt benefitted me. Not once has a man proved his intentions are anything less than bad. Men are manipulative in a way women rarely are. If he can’t get it up he’s porn sick, if he’s awfully busy he’s cheating, if he lets you pay he’s using you, if he breaks something of yours it was intentional, if he “mysteriously” shows up a lot where you are he’s stalking… I’d rather be distrustful and overly cautious than assume it’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:15 AM |
| 127 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Since we’re talking statistics… 96% of murderers, 99% of r—pists, 92% of abusers, and 98% of mass shooters are males. IDFC if “most men aren’t violent,” most violent people are men. Men will cry and moan about “it happens to men too!!” yeah but by what gender? They do it to them damn selves. Just like “toxic masculinity” and high rates of paternal abandonment or dismissal of men’s feelings, etc etc etc… men’s issues are caused by men. ETA: In a survey of college-aged men, a full third of them ad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | A Coworker tried to get into my cell phone 😡Not just scrotes but police as well. In the US police cannot force you to unlock your phone but if it is not password protected it is considered free game for them to go through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:55 PM |
| 16 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupALSO 100% true, he doesn’t value her as much as a decent car and this is something she’s going to wear for the rest of their life as a symbol of their love (if there is any). But he’s too stingy and cruel and instead just tells her that flat out she isn’t worth it. How much are we willing to bet he would drop 4k on a one week vacation, or 6k on a gaming set up, or 20k on a brand new car (that’ll he trash in a month)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:58 AM |
| 9 | Don’t date men that are incapable of critical thinking“it doesn’t hurt anyone” part stands out to me because there are easily so many examples of this, and examples I gave in this post. How about looking at porn? Cheating if your partner doesn’t find out? Cheating on a test / exam? Lying in an interview, or in general? Letting your living space turn to squalor? Breaking a promise, even if nothing bad comes of it? Saying racist / misogynistic things in private? Like I said, thinking “everyone does it” is a valid justification isn’t acceptable, which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:53 AM |
| 488 | Woman posts this pro-male post on a popular subreddit. Despite this, the comments are full of misogyny regardless. This is why being a pick me doesn't work!She’s right, women shouldn’t treat their partners like dogs with “training” and “rewarding” them, they should just date people that already act like fully functional human beings. LOL. “My bf doesn’t clean up after himself” this is that “intellect” and “who he is” that she fell in love with? lolllll please get yourself a man, not a dog. Pickme’s will act like women’s reactions to men’s failings are worse than those failings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 338 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupShe gave him a place to live rent free, got him his job, paid for his medical bills…. dude owes her WAYYY more than 10k at this point. This is an immediate break up situation, but if I were her I’d be petty af and send him an itemized bill for rent, care, labor, paying for him… She basically mommy’ed this man and he doesn’t think she’s worth more than 2k tops. He doesn’t love her, he just wants to secure his forever-mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Banned from r/dating?Insert “oh no! anyway” meme. LOL all the main dating subreddits exist solely to pander to male feefees and peepees, you’re not missing out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?Oh wow I thought I was the only one that cried when upset, I didn’t realize other women did it too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?Nope, not it. Women aren’t “conditioned” to show their emotions, we’re berated, demeaned, mocked, put down, disregarded for showing any emotion other than a quiet, polite smile. Angry, crying, frustrated, hurt? You’re hysterical, you’re on your period, you’re blowing things out of proportion, you’re too sensitive. How about being happy? You’re annoying, or “what the fuck are you smiling for?” Men aren’t emotionally distant while still pressing for sex because they’re cOnDiTiOnEd, they do it beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.Something about this just… makes my skin crawl. From trying to demean what you do in your professional life as if you do it for funsies, implying you aren’t as great at it (negging), calling you a “hot girl” (objectifying and infantilizing), bringing it back to himself with “nothing more fun for me” as if what YOU do has to be entertaining to HIM (self-centered), to that last sentence – betting $20 that what he really means is “I think women are just as porn sick as I am and view the entire worl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 8 | "You will end up 40, alone and desperate, because you so stuck up". A teardown of one of the most common negs out there.When you love yourself, being alone with yourself isn’t scary. So many people have a hole in their hearts from not loving themselves – either due to low self esteem or because they know they’re shitty people – that they jump into relationships, often with other self-hating people, hoping the other person will love them in the way they need to love themselves, but they can’t do that. It’s projection. These guys know THEY are unlovable because they’re the ones that are mean and bitter NOW (not yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 27 | How to vet if a man is pornsickScrotes will call us manipulative when we literally only do this because THEY are the ones lying. That’s the real manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 13 | "Have no expectations, then you won't be disappointed" and "Stop expecting so much" being thrown around like they'll help you.I get pressed to lower my standards all the time. The whole point of having standards is to find someone who makes you happier coupled than alone (and many other reasons..). Why on earth would I lower my standards just to find a partner if it means I would date someone that doesn’t make me happy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:35 AM |
| 36 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?Minimize what I say, especially at work. “I think,” “maybe,” “I’m pretty sure,” “I’m not so sure.” Men do not have the same expectations and are taken less seriously if they aren’t confident, women are expected to be docile and fawning. I have experienced far too many situations where idiot men are convinced they are right and I am helplessly stuck in a corner timidly trying to get a word in, or my emails go unread or are not seriously considered because I don’t sound sure of myself. I know what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:29 PM |
| 48 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.This is cute coming from a 10 year old explaining to mommy why he needs ANOTHER set of legos for Christmas…. this ain’t cute coming from an adult man LOL Also, $4k?!?!? Dude is getting cheated if he thinks he needs that much for a high-end gaming PC, especially one he plans to build himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:12 AM |
| 41 | Never say sorry or thankyou to a narcissist. They prey on vulnerable people to make them dependent on them/ feel they owe them only to use it against them later. Their calculated favours are priming you to tolerate the abuse that’s coming.Narcissists don’t value anything other than the physical; sex, money, possessions, food, drugs, shiny things… that’s why they never say sorry or thank you, and why your sorry or thank you means nothing to them beyond the physical YOU and having control of YOU as an object (ie if you say sorry when you shouldn’t have to, they know they have control of you). They do not value your emotional intimacy, they value you for what you do; cooking for them, having sex with them, sitting around looking pre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:02 AM |
| 73 | Don’t get roped into talking about the break-up. There are no good intentions. Either he wants to “win” the break-up or he wants to coax you into a situationship with less boundaries. He is not your counselor. He is not here to process with you.He broke up with her. There’s nothing for him to discuss, he already told her why he’s breaking up with her, he just wants to verbally abuse her. What sort of “closure” could some loser want from a 6 month relationship that HE ended? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:56 PM |
| 80 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.have complete social anxiety that renders us from trying to function in social settings what a catch, I sure wouldn’t want to “miss out” on these socially inept, dense-as-forged-steel basement dwellers 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 6 | So, you were right. Not about hating men because I have too many in my life that are good, but about not accepting relationships that hurt us. Those that we ignore and justify its flags. Dammit you were right.Other women don’t want to be called bitches, even if the intent is “positive.” Just respect that instead of trying to explain away why it’s fine. It’s not empowering to disrespect others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:43 AM |
| 67 | When did you realize that FDS was working for you and helping you make better dating decisions?When I finally realized standards were like, a thing that existed, and there’s no shame in them. Prior to FDS the idea of a man like… putting in effort for me and not watching p—rn were inconceivable. I didn’t even realize that not having standards was hurting me, I thought that’s just how it is. Now I can just as happily say nah, not interested — he has a dead-end job, or nah, he’s too “”kinky”” (🤮) in the bedroom. Before I would have been “desperate” but FDS managed to both show me that while … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:57 PM |
| 22 | Why you shouldn’t pay for dinnerSociety tells women that men aren’t mind readers and we have to ask them for the bare minimum, then calls us nags when we do. Meanwhile women are expected to just naturally take care of everything but men aren’t. No winning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 24 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I don’t like my by-birth last name so I’m changing it to a by-choice last name. my husband will take my by-choice last name because it’s gonna be a cool as hell name lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:49 AM |
| 11 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?just because they’ve pulled the “empowering” and “celebrating femininity” spin on it doesn’t make it better. society did the same to prostitution, to kink, to 50/50 and low effort… it’s still objectification / harmful to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:53 PM |
| 141 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣I had a friend-of-a-sibling who was in a “poly relationship” with an ugly mfer who had a (very attractive) fiancée and a SON with her. he was unemployed, his fiancée was carrying the whole household (work, money, housework, parenting….) how this clown manages to get MULTIPLE women wrapped up in his BS is beyond me 🤡 anyway. she constantly was crying to us because he was gaslighting her, crossing boundaries, telling other women he loved them (“he’s only supposed to say it to me and his fiancée 😭”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 37 | Keep your professional reputation inviolate. Do NOT pursue workplace romances.add to that the fact that if your work boyfriend is underperforming, shady, or lazy that WILL reflect poorly on you, as well. what are you going to do if you break up, quit? if you stay, will he smear you and ruin your reputation? what if one of you leaves the company? will he still be interested, or was it a relationship of convenience to him? what’s the potential for workplace bias? what if you have the opportunity for a promising promotion but can’t take it due to the relationship? and most m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | 20 Things to Think About When Dating a Man Who Games 🎮a 12-year-old in a taxpayer’s body girl when I tell you I screamed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:24 AM |
| 37 | Twitter finds an FDS post and scrotes are mad(reposting because a slash made it look like sub linking) there’s a very specific brand of liberal “feminism” proliferating on platforms like twitter that’s more of a wolf in sheep’s clothing than anything. everything “feminist” in their eyes (prostitution, women paying for dates, low effort walk dates, ring pop engagements, courthouse marriages, women chasing men, women being men’s free therapist, violent kink, encouraging toxic behavior in men…. I could go on) are ALL encouraged as some shitty… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:01 PM |
| 25 | Quick question: what are some narcissistic traits?I was typing a lot but it got super long so: They don’t apologize - at best their apologies are backhanded and cruel They believe they’re never in the wrong They think they’re infallible; socially, physically, mentally Emotional dysregulated around people they deem safe targets, but can easily keep a level head around authority They only experience 3 emotions and that’s anger, infatuation, and numbness. Sadness is rare for them. If they’re called a narcissist, they either don’t care or are incre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | 5’2 with an attitude and audacity.“why are women single? feminism” yes absolutely “I’m the prize, you gotta be my momma and my maid” oh… had me in the first half…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | 5’2 with an attitude and audacity.I’m 99% convinced he moved in with a girlfriend, she kicked his jobless ass out, then moved into his grandma’s living room. hence the granny couch, stapled up curtain that looks like it’s hanging over a doorway as a divider, and the children’s truck toy for the grandkids. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 15 | The dangers of the Slow Fade and circling back to small talk/Good morning textsit’s because they’re lazy, have short attention spans, and have addictive personalities. when something else catches their attention (video games, TV, their friends, drama, etc) for a few hours or a few days they get absorbed in it. then they get bored again and run back to you - women are the catch after all and just orbiting women is a dopamine hit for their brains - but they’re still lazy and have a short attention span. so they send low-effort “doing good hbu” and “good morning.” texts and p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorthe cup sitting next to the bed on the floor… because reaching up to put it on the dresser is too much effort from his frame-less mattress sitting on the floor… omg eta: it looks like a highball glass too so is this dude just getting drunk on his floor-slab?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 5 | A question?I don’t believe in “post-nut clarity.” It’s just another excuse for men to evade blame for their own actions and reinforce the idea that “BiOLoGy” “makes” them do things / that they aren’t responsible for their own actions. Also a way for dudes to still get the brownie points with their fellow LV male friends for having sex with a woman, but get out of the teasing / shame for sleeping with an “undesirable” (ie ugly or crazy, in their eyes) woman. ETA: also a way for me to lead a woman on with gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Disgusting bedroom with the mattress on the floor and the tv on a cooler. Futon instead of an actual couch. Girl... all the signs were there already 😂😂you misunderstand me, I wasn’t endorsing it - quite the opposite actually. wasn’t aware small claims didn’t require a lawyer though! you learn something new every day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 03:17 AM |
| 7 | Disgusting bedroom with the mattress on the floor and the tv on a cooler. Futon instead of an actual couch. Girl... all the signs were there already 😂😂you have a point but this dude sleeps on a mattress on the floor, I doubt he’ll get a lawyer. not worth it either way but 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 9 | Expecting sex from injured/ill women 🤬These men think sex is more important than breathing or eating. Only slightly related, but a LVM once remarked “that poor dude will never have sex again!” in reference to hearing about him lose both his legs. He lost both his fucking legs and all he can think about is, how will he have sex? WRT pressuring ill / injured women into having sex.. they don’t give a shit about how women feel. I’ve had exes pressure me for sex while I’m on my period, ill or feverish, just not in the mood for it.. god f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 41 | What are red flags for online dating profile? Picture with other women?Yeah I consider pictures with other women to be a red flag - ex’s especially (ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY SCRIBBLE OVER HER FACE?? WTF??) I don’t care as much if they’re family but in my experience dudes that have pictures of them and their mom are momma’s boys that are way too attached to her, have never had a significant girlfriend and use it to say “look at me! I get along with women!” I also swipe left on “that’s my niece, not my kid” (it’s ALWAYS niece, never nephew or sibling, etc 🤔 ) because if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:30 PM |
| 31 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menI was diagnosed with severe depression and PTSD two years ago (based on symptoms I had already been having for several years prior, even) I had to drop out of therapy due to pandemic-related circumstances but I’ve been building myself up since then. I’m 19, bought my own phone and plan, got my license, my first car, got a reliable job that pays decent and am on track to be promoted rather soon 😌 No help or money from my parents, no taking out my mental health on others.. meanwhile every scrote I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 68 | Tell me again how porn doesn't cause brain damage and isn't intrinsically linked to paedophilia. 🤢This is fucking disgusting. Thinking about a literal infant in this way. Not only that but “I used her like women get used in porn” 🤢This dude is sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 22 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Can’t specify any timeframe for how long this will last, can’t give any reason as to why or what’s going on (not even “it’s private / personal”), and makes it clear you aren’t important to him. This dude either has another girl, lost interest, or this is his shit test to see if you’ll still be interested after a couple of weeks of radio silence - so he can be sure he’s actually “got” you or nah. Block and delete sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Pickmeisha horror tale. Hapless scrote nearly destroys mind/body of once-vibrant girl. She has an STD (prob bc of him)+ is at risk for cervical cancer. Jobless bum doesn’t care. Friends beg her to leave b4 this kills her. They “just can’t see the good”. And she’s STILL f*cking him. Mother help her!these aren’t even red flags this is just blatantly terrible behavior. all of this is a nightmare but “the fact he’d rather me get cervical cancer than renew his ID says something” SIS, THAT’S ON YOU. nobody is forcing you to stay with this loser. you’re the one risking cervical cancer because you refuse to break up with this scrote and you keep having sex with him. I feel bad for her, but man. sometimes people really do it to themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:25 AM |
| 10 | How about no.do you think he puts it on his resume? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 21 | How about no.ladies I’m a professional candy crusher, pls touch my pp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 20 | Got this in an email from a mental health organization I work for 🤮 libfems really think this shit is an issue 😭oh they’ll “advocate” all right, just that their “advocacy” is only ever throwing a fit when women talk about women’s issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 17 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedbut if you don’t wear makeup you look “sick” and “don’t care enough to take care of yourself.” you can never win 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 60 | Ad found on YT. Do you SEE what I see? Yeah, trash.girl the fucking stains on his shirt lmao 🤣 at least they know their audience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:09 PM |
| 105 | BINGO!!they forgot the free space, “nothing but group photos so you can’t tell who he actually is” lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 20 | A man trying to red pill his 14 year old son.that’s his scrotégée edit: I pray this kid realizes what a POS his dad is instead of being brainwashed into his RP nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 26 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?ALL OTHER bullshit aside, why the hell do men insist on “going their own way” but still obsess over women, want to fuck them and plan to get girlfriends and shit? Go your own way and leave us alone already 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 6 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡YES OMG you are reading that absolutely right, he’s mad because back in COLLEGE she had one-night stands and he had to wait three months to have sex with her. no cheating, he gets sex now, he’s mad because FOUR years ago he had to wait. smh and I thought women were the “emotional” sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:28 PM |
| 81 | yes, you read that title rightcalling his girlfriend “a deficiency in the gene pool.” 😬 LVM never cease to amaze me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:18 AM |
| 30 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!men get to say “I just want a women with a small waist, big boobs and butt, and a thigh gap because that means she’s good for carrying my genes” and everyone nods but if a woman says “I just want a man taller than me and with some muscle so he can protect me and my kids” it’s “wow women are shallow” and “just give short, fat, ugly guys a chance!!!!” and “that’s misandrist!! you can’t have standards!! why are men shamed for the two things they can’t change (but women are scrutinized for every sin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:56 AM |
| 23 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡love the fact that OP didn’t mention his own “count” because that only apparently matters when it comes to women 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:30 AM |
| 25 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡except, OP says his (hopefully ex) fiancée didn’t lie, just “gave off” a sexually shy vibe because she waited to have sex with him, he’s not even as mad about the men she slept with but the fact he had to wait ThReE mOnThS to get his dick wet, they had already been together for years - if your reasoning was anything like his, he’d already KNOW she has a different concept of intimacy and broken it off sooner. that’s not why he’s mad. men lie to get into women’s pants. women lie to avoid being ass… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:24 AM |
| 284 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡my favorite part is all the misogynistic comments agreeing with OP that she did lie even though all OP admits is that she “gave off” a “sexually shy vibe” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:46 AM |
| 24 | What is with this special breed of fuckboys?I insisted on paying him back for the ticket ... He was visibly disappointed and wouldn't take more than half the cash I gave him. of course, the only time LVM ever insist on paying is to manipulate women 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 16 | I’m honestly speechlessas if owning us and our bodies wasn’t enough, they want our literal organs to make their shitty political statements 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | If a man asks you for a 3some or anal, rungirl lmao 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 115 | If a man asks you for a 3some or anal, runworst is that they always want a MFF threesome, never MMF - cuz it’s really only about men’s pleasure for them that’s when you say “oh cool, I’ve always wanted to do a threesome! who’s the lucky guy?”. then leave his ass!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | ‘Good luck never finding anyone’that’s when you hit him with “If they’re anything like you, thank god!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 34 | I would like to inform you all that NOT ALL MEN are violent misogynists.men be like “I don’t treat women like dirt, you disgusting prudish old hag” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:54 PM |
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