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The weight argument isn’t a fair comparison, you can lose/gain weight. Can’t do that with height. Instead ask to see what they look like WITHOUT makeup on
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 12:15 PM
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It’s both bothering anybody, it’s just funny to see real time examples
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:46 PM
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It ain’t happening tomorrow
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:01 AM
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Yes that is beta of you, she should be the one texting you she feels disconnected. And by your tone, it seems the spark is dying between you two, I mean, you’re texting another girl, you don’t think she’s texting another dude? or talked to one on her “getaway” Also ROFL at “30 year old virgin” sure bro.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:00 AM
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Well said
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:42 AM
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That’s great. I’m actually just getting into evolution my self through Dawkins. Thank you!
/r/RedPillBooks26/11/20 05:06 AM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillBooks25/11/20 09:23 PM
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You subconsciously let her know that he’s above you in your own eyes. It’s called jealousy and it’s an unattractive trait. I’m willing to bet she’s sleeping with him bro, if not highly considering it. Now your game plan: You lost frame time to rebuild it. Get the fuck off those pills, workout, take MMA, Looks/Confidence max. Conversate with other women (just not in a way it would ever get back to your LTR) And you got to put your foot down without getting emotional, Let her know she’s gotta resp…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:58 AM
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don’t run from who you are, you will inevitably lose yourself. go by your first letter, a nickname, or middle name. if you don’t have one, make one
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:07 AM
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LMAO
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:07 AM
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thank you. just added it
/r/RedPillBooks03/08/20 11:51 PM
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What if you absolutely need the item, but the price is too much and the merchant isn’t budging and has other options
/r/RedPillBooks03/08/20 07:01 PM
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this is what the fuck i’ve been looking for. thank you a shit ton
/r/RedPillBooks22/07/20 07:58 AM
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thanks. watching connor is what made me ask this
/r/RedPillBooks14/07/20 08:31 AM
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what does it say about my nuts being on your chin?
/r/RedPillBooks14/07/20 05:47 AM
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you can eat my girl after i nut in her. as for my testicles youre gonna have to take them off your chin first
/r/RedPillBooks14/07/20 02:44 AM
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good recommendation. been talking shit since WaW, just want to sharpen the blade
/r/RedPillBooks14/07/20 02:42 AM
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thanks a fuck ton. also, google deez nuts
/r/RedPillBooks14/07/20 12:11 AM
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yes! im currently reading that. its amazing
/r/RedPillBooks12/07/20 05:27 PM
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its only an example. basic skills is what im looking for
/r/RedPillBooks12/07/20 07:49 AM
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im looking for a How-to type book, any ideas
/r/RedPillBooks12/07/20 07:03 AM
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maybe she wanted to leave him for a minute and is just using this as an excuse
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:22 AM
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could you elaborate how that gives up power, youre not the one apologizing
/r/RedPillBooks29/05/20 10:23 PM
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thank you!!!
/r/RedPillBooks24/05/20 10:11 AM
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beat his head in
/r/RedPillBooks24/05/20 09:58 AM
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thank you
/r/RedPillBooks13/05/20 09:58 AM
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do muaythai,bjj, and judo
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:36 AM
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i have to downvote you no hard feelings
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:13 PM
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not the best way to be a leader. calling people names and criticizing them will just get them to resent you
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:56 AM
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peaky blinders on netflix. such a good series and mc is a badass
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:50 AM
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what makes you say this, the wife and kids?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:49 AM
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appreciate all the info man. on the path of destroying my brain and rebuilding it as we speak. good luck on your journey as well
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 08:01 AM
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i get what youre saying im not a dragon slaying orbiter. thats why i want to know the alpha way to build an emotional attachment. i know attraction. or are the two equal?
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 05:17 AM
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because you gave a fuck about nichole, to the point alonso could tell, so SHE probably could tell. you need to not give a fuck about anything. you will never catch anything you have to chase
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 03:53 AM
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never outshine the master. easier in corporate america where you probably wont get your head chopped off
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 03:42 AM
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damn. i feel like with women (but people in general as well) simple genuine advice/something to lift them up would suffice. im not trying to fix their childhood trauma, but i want to be someone they know will listen and not view me as a orbiter, but a guy who genuinely cares with no agenda. i want them to have a long lasting emotional attachment to me ya feel
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 03:30 AM
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do you have any recommendations for how to give advice without being seen as a know it all or uncaring
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 03:00 AM
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amazing and just what i was looking for. thank you going to binge this book
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 02:55 AM
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im looking to get people to be emotionally attached to me. i do genuinely care about folks. but i want to improve it and do the best i can. thanks for the advice
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 02:54 AM
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i will definitely download it thank you
/r/RedPillBooks29/04/20 03:28 AM
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thank you
/r/RedPillBooks26/04/20 05:20 AM
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appreciate it man
/r/RedPillBooks26/04/20 05:20 AM
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thank you gonna try it myself
/r/RedPillBooks26/04/20 05:20 AM
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thanks
/r/RedPillBooks25/04/20 08:00 AM
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appreciate it man thank you. i need to learn how to cook too
/r/RedPillBooks25/04/20 08:00 AM
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(un)fortunately being black/red pilled makes you numb to things most people find appalling
/r/RedPillBooks25/04/20 03:11 AM
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thanks man
/r/RedPillBooks24/04/20 07:50 AM
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thank you a fuck ton
/r/RedPillBooks23/04/20 11:44 PM
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you left out watching hentai
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 11:37 PM
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SR increases testosterone which in turn means more DHT, which eats at your hair follicle
/r/RedPillBooks21/04/20 08:35 AM
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having a large lexicon doesn’t matter. geniuses simplify things, idiots make them complicated
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 10:16 PM
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thank you gonna check it out
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 09:17 PM
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well... do you get complimented on your head game atleast
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 08:23 PM
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thank you
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 06:20 PM
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its not but i appreciate it bro, i have that book waiting in my library
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 06:19 PM
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lmao. i still want to be a functioning member of society
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 06:58 AM
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sorry to inform you, but women look at men who eat them out as lower as them. why eat a girl out knowing she probably got dick in her an hour before. watch alpha male strategies, best in this shit
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 03:48 AM
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putting your head inbtween her legs to please her like shes your master, beta af
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 02:53 AM
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why would you eat a women out, thats beta behavior
/r/RedPillBooks08/04/20 02:38 AM
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u got donwvoted but this shit is funny and true
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 04:40 AM
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real alpha males dont go on these forums though
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 10:07 PM
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can you find a way to name it i want to see the post
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 11:35 PM
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why not just get a transplant
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:22 AM
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im sorry
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:34 AM
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it feels natural for a man to want to settle and provide
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:15 PM
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so... what are the benefits of marrying again? other than a tax break and (the illusion of) locking her down
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:11 PM
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this
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:29 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:13 AM
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kill them
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:58 AM
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thats the trade off with LTR’s. she’s gonna cheat, its better to learn how to be alone
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:15 PM
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this is one of the best posts on this sub. simple yet effective
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 07:39 PM
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Making plans the same day afternoon is waaay to available, plus as the 2nd thing being said it just comes off as thirsty. make some effort to show you have conversation skills
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:01 AM
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ive been there before, seeking attention. its the wrong kind of attention you dont want it. you have some growing up to do thats all i can say. good luck
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:47 AM
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that is to much of a reach. Kylie didn’t have to start her own make up empire. if that’s your take you can argue that a woman gave birth to Ray J and it trickled down
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 06:57 PM
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how does this apply to Kylie Jenner, she sells makeup and her family of females is what made her famous
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 06:32 PM
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treat her like you dont care what happens. you are in scarcity right now
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:22 PM
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got it from ams too, lowkey gives the best game. i would try the other dudes response youll be 10 mins late say u gotta close for work or some excuse. good luck
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:32 PM
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still sounds like confirming
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:16 PM
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i like this response
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:15 PM
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to set the date: when making the date initially, tell her you want to go out ~Thursday and that you will text her the place (thursday) morning (if she asks why say you need to think of a good place or some shit). on thursday morning send her the location of place and ask “6:30, does this work for you” you say this because you dk if she’s allergic or has a ex that works there etc. No response = you dont go.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:10 PM
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this is such bs when girls say this. as if if drake or someone famous came up to them they wouldnt be jumping on their cock. shes trynna get you to orbit.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:05 PM
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this is why you dont do LTR’s ... AWALT. why be in a relationship with a woman and let her disrespect, stress, and embarrass you like this. “shes perfect in every other way” is a excuse for scarcity mindset. get out bro
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:03 PM
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nice game man. and anytime a chick asks you “what are we” or “where is this going” just say you like to take your time (with relationships) before getting in one. lead her on as long as you can, just little crumbs to where in her mind theres a possibility of a relationship
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:58 AM
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that’s why you lead them on and tell them you just like to take your time. also insinuate maybe if they gave better head it might speed up the process.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:46 PM
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get your self confidence so high that you don’t give a shit. do you really get approach anxiety when youre going up to a 5 or 6
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:04 AM
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i would ignore the “but no sex” part of that sentence with an undertoned acknowledgment, basically take the convo elsewhere responding to the “we can meet” part only, with something like “does this place work for you?” (talking about a restaurant etc.) what this does is tell her that YOU have been with enough chicks to know they have to put up this dog & pony show, and that u know ur finna fuck & that part doesnt faze you. also she will look dumb trying to get u to acknowledge the “but no sex” p…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:30 AM
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purplepilldebate
/r/askTRP17/11/19 06:20 AM
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purplepilladvice
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:23 AM
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corey wayne teaching that purple pill shit, i would head over to that sub if youre looking for a relationship
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:03 AM
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have you done anything since? microdosing etc?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:48 AM
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the reason the black pill is dangerous is because it’s the truth. it will make you self aware of your flaws & depressed. either decide to not live in reality, or have your confidence tested by swallowing it.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 11:51 PM
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i see, in that case i would say it was a good move
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:43 PM
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good for you for being strong minded
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:41 AM
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i partially agree bro. memes arent gonna help you get laid. change your game up
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:38 AM
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you dont have to be life of party. as long as you can live in a comfortable silence. look confident being quiet like its not your job to amuse anybody. but i would suggest learning conversational skills and practice.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:32 AM
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dont help another mfer out bro. the worlds supposed to revolve around you. in that particular situation after she handed the chip maybe you coulda said “where’s mine?” with a attitude fitting in context
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:29 AM
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only see her once a week pal
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:25 AM
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be more emotionless my friend. watch alpha male strategies
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:55 AM
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guess i didnt need help as much as you
/r/askTRP04/11/19 01:29 AM
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hows he a chad but dating a 6/10
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:52 AM
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get shit on
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:19 AM
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disgraceful withdraw
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:10 AM
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the car > hotel
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:09 AM
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be clear and upfront so she’ll know youre a beta provider taking her out on vacation to a hotel. who needs game, be upfront and tell her you just want sex ! 🤓
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:03 AM
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I would avoid the hotel, she might just ASD you because she knows you paid and want to smash. plus youre showing her your willing to go to great lengths just to smash. if its 100% unavoidable, say youre going to spend the night at a hotel to get some quiet time etc. and want to hit the jacuzzi’s or some shit. play it off like youre inviting her & smashing is a product of that.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:57 AM
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take a break and don’t think about anything, the cheat code to life is not GAF about anything. handle what business you’re capable of handling and try taking a few days off to recover
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:06 AM
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this is true, dont be a rumor spreader
/r/askTRP26/10/19 10:28 AM
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fuck that. she’s about to tell the whole school he has a small D. its kill or be killed
/r/askTRP26/10/19 10:27 AM
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yes do THIS bro, crush her before she crushes you
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:48 AM
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you messed up by being curious and being suspicious of her. which leads me to believe youve done similar things throughout the relationship. go out there and focus on yourself instead of what a woman is doing, she should be worried about you not the other way around. nobody is supposed to topple the king
/r/askTRP28/09/19 10:17 AM
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this is sad bro. she’s stringing you along and you’re not aware of it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:55 PM
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this was well said
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:38 PM
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i feel your story man, last year i was 20 and 105lbs, low body fat. managed to get up to 125lbs. but yea thats not true a woman would prefer a lean muscular guy man keep it up
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:35 PM
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they dont have to be the exact same height in order to make a comparison, 5’5 & 5’7 are regarded as short in todays western society, so short and confident would describe napoleon.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:55 PM
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the comparison was Napoleon to OP, not to frenchman. 5’7 is 5’7, which is 2 inches smaller than the average height in USA which can still be regarded as short by many people.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:00 PM
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OP is 5’5, napoleon is 5’6. and how does being confident contradict being the most “power leader”
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:54 PM
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just gotta be confident like napoleon, learn amused mastery for all the potential shit talkers, and dont be afraid to use your jiu jitsu
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:27 AM
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neither do i
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:17 AM
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ill f**cking smash your skull into the concrete
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:34 AM
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he said she has a bf so it’s not like he can call the shots like that
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:08 AM
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Ask your friend how he feels about her and gauge his response. if it seems that he doesn’t give a shit or have pent up resentment towards her then ask him if its cool. no matter what always give a heads up to your friend
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:46 AM
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this would have worked on a plate. you cant really treat a GF of 6 months that your exclusive too this much like shit. if she asks if youre long term say “.. you know youre my girl.” this is giving her an answer without validating
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:15 AM
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this guys corny as fuck for writing those big ass paragraphs about his personal relationship. this guys big mouth could be the reason she stepped out
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:41 AM
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dont do the hun bro
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:54 AM
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that’s what makes red pill knowledge so powerful, you can look like anything and your life would improve.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:16 AM
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say “if your busy we can do it some other time” and dont pursue her after that
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:44 PM
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youre trying to hard man, i recommend keeping it simple
/r/askTRP26/12/18 04:07 PM
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never give validation, always try to find an excuse not to give it to her, Always imply it. e.g. “you know how i feel about you”
/r/askTRP26/12/18 09:41 AM
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you having to ask shows youre indecisiveness. if you really wanted something, you should have confidence in it & not ask for random people’s opinions.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:27 PM
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this. once you apologize you admit guilt. she made a comment about your height, but when you do it, it’s wrong? you messed up by apologizing, bro. that’s some ass kissing shit
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:43 AM
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don’t say it brother. that is INSTANT validation. if you want her interest to incline and not get bored with you, do not say it to her. if she asks you if you love her say.. “you know how i feel about you” play it off in a smart way, or more seriously you can say, “im just not there YET” yet = possible with time = her chasing your validation
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:56 AM
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you dont have an abundance mindset bro, let her know she doesn’t mean much to you by talking to other girls. personally, i would demote her from girlfriend position and move on to other girls.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:17 AM
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you shouldn’t have texted her bra. but at this point the only real move you have is to try and move on brother. hope you can figure it out
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:57 PM
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look man, this is the best advice i can give you. i know the kind of person you are, i’m the same way. if she broke up with you, the ONLY thing you can do is wait. might be a week, might be a month. you do NOT initiate contact, don’t get the idea that you initiating contact in anyway is going to benefit you or ‘show her you care.’ even if you do love her, you still gotta pretend that you can move on like nothing. if you were to beg for her back, she would lose attraction and respect. showing her…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:53 PM
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good analogy, men are like switches, women are like knobs.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:13 PM
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she’s a side bitch, you only care because you caught feelings for her. also, never do twice a week, to much validation.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:13 AM
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you could still go on the date if she says she’s available, but if i could give you some advice, i’d make the date and then cancel before it happens to put yourself in a stronger position since you weakened your position by saying ‘ok sounds good’. and if she never responds i wouldn’t justify a hard next, that’s Potential ass you could be getting if she ever decides to text you again, just play your cards right
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:03 PM
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never accept an “ill let you know.” when she says that, you tell her, “if youre busy lets do this another time” if she cant make the time, well then you got other shit to do. “ok sounds good” shows you got nothing else to do and lack of abundance because your date is contingent on how she feels. make it the other way around
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:22 PM
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bro you never see a girl more than once a week, before anything you must fix this mistake. dont feel bad about canceling. good luck bro
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:34 AM
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it shows your level of interest of her, validating her. it’s not like you’re going to fuck her right then and there. only kiss in situations where you can escalate to smashing, otherwise you might as well write a sign on your forehead that says “I LIKE YOU”
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:30 PM
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sounds like car is your best bet, and for future reference, unless youre getting reliable sex never get a hotel/motel. a girl can change her mind in 0.5 seconds and now youre out $50-60.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:13 AM
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man, you really just gotta put your foot down. you’ve been rewarding her for her doing nothing on her part. if you want a better/longer bj tell her that, and don’t reward her for not doing it. and if spicing up is what you’re looking for, really just slowly fall back, never be afraid to walk away, that’s your strongest weapon. soon enough she’ll see a difference and start chasing, play your cards right and make her realize she needs to start giving that sloppy top or you’ll be out the door.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:06 AM
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you can definitely hook up with old plates if you play your hand right. if you accepted a date for the same day she hit you up, that shows lack of abundance. If you want her to start chasing, do what all women do and don’t give a fuck about: cancel, tell her something came up and reschedule
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:56 AM
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you’re coming off as needy brother. don’t message them until they message you. Also. NEVER say “had a good time” etc.. you’re validating them, they don’t have a chance to wonder “does he even like me/did he enjoy it” also for the girl you “cut your losses” with, at that point you dont need to pull the left on read trick, that makes you look butthurt. Instead, put the ball in her court, “let me know when your available” etc. and don’t message again until she messages you.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:04 AM
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what would you say if she asked “what if she went out with guy”.. etc. which is also a shit test
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:59 PM
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personally i wouldn’t do an AA here cause it may not change the outcome if she really is busy. just say it’s cool we can hang out another time
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:52 AM
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the trick is to compliment the dress not her. “i like the color/pattern” (or just simply the dress) or a kino version, touch it and say (i like the fabric...” etc. complimenting her in any way is validation
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:35 AM
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i have to disagree there, while gaming, linguistics bare more weight than actions. i also think validation is better kept as minimal as possible. after she gets your validation she will just seek it from someone else. the results aren’t bad man, just thinking you could amplify those results.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 10:59 PM
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saying “hey X, youre cute” is validation and conveys your level of interest, she could be interpreting that as you DO care if you ever see her again. just because you get results doesn’t mean you’re getting the full potential of the interaction, betas still smash and get results all the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 10:48 PM
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good plan bro, i should have clarified i was looking for go-to first dates places, the events etc are good post hook up.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:19 PM
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just googled it, it’s a coffee bar ? sounds like exactly what i’m looking for
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:16 PM
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the bar/club scene really isn’t my thing, i dont drink/smoke so i feel like an alien in that place. thanks though man
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:15 PM
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thanks for the advice, i woulda kept it simple at chess or scrabble off the rip anyway, i’ve never heard of anomia but i’ll check it out if i see it
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:08 PM
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i would prefer not doing that
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:06 PM
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good for you finding a workaround, i’m trying to find one as well. hope things work out for you man
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:04 PM
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thanks. i’ve come to the conclusion the location doesn’t matter as much as the interaction itself
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:03 PM
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my place is also out of the question, i’m on my mission to get there but at this moment it wouldn’t work. what’s a good way to advance to her place?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:01 PM
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if we’re getting to the barebones of a social interaction you’re right about the pretense, doesn’t have to matter to much as long as the interaction goes well
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:59 PM
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l’m not sure i get what you mean, message me and we can talk brother
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:56 PM
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casino, i haven’t thought of that, ill keep that in mind. it’s not like that here in the US that i know of, either way its high security so safety isn’t an issue. thanks for the idea
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:25 AM
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i guess it’s contingent on how you carry yourself, it’s the difference between taking a girl to a coffee/ramen shop and being a broke boy, or someone who isn’t going to rely on fancy dates to impress her
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:59 AM
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maybe if chemistry is right and it’s spontaneous i could pull that off. planned meet up and going to the swings, even though that is good kino, I don’t know about that one man, gonna keep it a buck... lol thanks though
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:37 AM
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this is definitely up my alley bro, clever idea i’ll be doing this. lucky for myself my creativity is 50% of my personality. thanks for the idea
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:23 AM
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i gotta disagree, it’s too casual and friendly which hinders you’re seductive potential. i like the idea of something of a different ambiance, maybe dimmer with a moody aesthetic. super hipster, maybe, i just find that’d fit my personality more
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:20 AM
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maybe youre reading it differently, but i don’t see the correlation. thanks for the advice anyway
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:15 AM
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is a coffee shop appropriate for all times of day? i know not drinking/smoking reduces the options of “night life” places
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:12 AM
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what did i say that implied i was intimidated
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:11 AM
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this is genuinely creative
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:41 AM
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well, can’t say it’s completely out of the question
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:40 AM
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thats music to my ears
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:39 AM
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agreed, guess i should have disclosed i was looking for 1st date ideas. nonetheless still a good date location
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:33 AM
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you’re right man, i guess i was caught up on pump & dumps. the girls i’m actually into would be up for some hipster shit like that
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:27 AM
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thats g shit, and a good idea. might as well make it clear im not a simp thats gotta pamper the hell out of a girl to get her back to my place. what should you do if youre place isn’t suitable at the moment, can you advance to her place or is that basically out of the question
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:44 AM
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i prefer those man, if i’m keeping it a buck intelligence is the most attractive trait a woman can have (internally) you got it made brother. the question i have about psychology chicks is, can’t they pick up on your mind games or any tricks you’re trying to pull?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:24 AM
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i feel like it sounds wack asking a girl to go for a walk or something unless it’s post hang out, coffee, event etc. is there a good way to ask her that without sounding corny?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:17 AM
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yea i can see this working on someone worth the investment. i think it leans more on the romantic side and i don’t know about doing this with a random pump & dump. for a potential LTR or loyal plate however, def.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:11 AM
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fortunately it’s not, does you’re drinking/smoking enhance your anxiety?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:08 AM
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so anything regular activity is good? i feel being in the most seductive frame would need a location that mirrors that prospect
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:08 AM
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this is true, however i think he was trying to give advice on possibilities to overcome it. anxiety is different for all people man, even in stages of being confident my anxiety has broken me down. i wish it was as easy as just getting over it
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:28 AM
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thanks man. that’s the main focus, been on monk mode for about 2 months trying to get my life together. what you mentioned is most likely the origin of my anxiety. smoking/drinking’s also been the perpetrator of starting it, experiencing depersonalization and questioning my own worth. i should have said it amplifies my inner feelings, low self-esteem, social anxiety ect. but you’re right, if i feel good in my skin i have more of a chance of overcoming it.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:20 AM
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cant fucking argue with that at all. this is definitely it chief
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:57 AM
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thanks for the concern bro, ive drank and smoked plenty before, unfortunately for me it’s an anxiety amplifier
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:34 AM
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clever shit, i was pertaining more towards a hike though, there’s no way i can carry a girl up or down gravel if she asked me to hold something for her, what would be a good thing to do/say?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:58 AM
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that’s a good one too. I live in the desert here, plenty of trails and hikes etc. kino would be easy to inaugurate in those situations. Is a girl asking you to hold her stuff a shit test, if her “back hurts” etc?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:36 AM
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that’s a good addition to it, anywhere you can game and spend the least amount of money is ideal
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:20 AM
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that’s a good one. appreciate the input bro.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:15 AM
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good idea, something you wouldn’t normally do while intoxicated serves as a workaround. also seems like it would require more investment and budget. i cant hookah either cause of asthma. thanks for the input man.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:12 AM
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i like the idea, but i think it’d be hard to be in a seductive frame licking up a vanilla swirl
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:55 AM
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tell that ho to uber
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:17 PM
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you and i are in the same boat, anytime i see my ex i get this motivation boost, i want to be my best to shit on her, i want her to see me with badder bitches. there’s no shame in finding motivation in hatred
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:57 PM
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same man, games game. I hope it works out for you
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:55 PM
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the delay reflects your SMV. if a quick fuck is all you care about, sure most circumstances thats fine. If you’re looking for a plate or LTR then delay is Very very important. the patience and lack of validation drives woman mad, i want women submitting to me like slaves chasing MY validation. you can’t do that if youre hitting her up every few days because that shows your interest level
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:06 AM
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definitely not do that. no “lol’s” or “hahas” dont even mention anything of having a great time, that’s validating her, you want her to wonder what the fuck you’re thinking. wait 4-5 days, text her see hows she’s doing, and then set up the next date. you texting her like a friend is going to get you the exact opposite outcome youre hoping for
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:15 AM
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a woman changing the time of a date is a shit test in itself, at that point you say ~“if you’re busy its cool, we can hang out some other time” You agreed way to much bro, she punked you around, waiting 30 mins? calling? does that sound like a high value male with shit going on? na man.. that’s why i disagree with no fap, it makes you desperate and you think with your dick homie. the only point in soft nexting is if youre gonna change and show her youre not some punk orbiter. good luck bro.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:08 AM
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you’re lacking in motivation man, what motivated you in the first place? gotta get back on it bro. i hope you can find that kick in the ass
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:01 AM
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the sidebar isn’t LAW, she will forget you as you blend in with all the other guys gnawing at her like dogs to a bone. want to stand out? wait a week, the century old 3 day rule shows you have high interest in her, validating her. also, true alphas don’t care about a rapport, you sacrifice that & show you have high SMV by waiting a week. bigger payoff
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:57 AM
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if you’re attracted to them, it doesn’t work, that would make you an orbiter. I couldn’t imagine a platonic relationship with 2 girls i find attractive, not to say it’s impossible, more of just Why would you want that
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:18 AM
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i gotta disagree, they get attention from every guy is the #1 reason you wait a week to respond, all those guys still do the 3 day rule to build off the rapport. Alphas with true abundance don’t give af about a rapport, wait a week bro
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:09 AM
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