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I think they just tend to get more rare as the years go by. I never went to college in another city cause i studied in my home town so never go to enjoy the freedom that going somewhere solo gives you. I never lived that party lifestyle that much (even though i am not the biggetst fan of it, i still enjoy it from time to time) and i guess that took its toll as something that has to be done , so now after college at the age of 23 and working, i find myself WANTING to party with a small circle of …
/r/askTRP17/09/16 05:49 PM
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Aside from the moral side, that everyone has a different view on that matter, i personally would not go for that anymore. I used to see it as a competition and even if you win its only giving your ego a boost for a short period of time.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:14 PM
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if you keep on trying to get her to like/want you, eventually you are the one who will get emotionally invested in her and burn yourself out. Some level on LMR is usually expected and sometimes it can be a little fun, but chronic LMR will get you nowhere. I have the same experience and things went spiraling down after the second time she showed retarded levels of LMR. Instead of giving up and moving on, my ego started its engines and it then became something like a game to me. After chasing her …
/r/askTRP22/06/16 08:01 PM
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i knew those answers were expected. For whatever reason, i am an anxious person. Its in my genes i dont know. For some reason i was certain i had it cause they symptoms made sense, but not for the doctors, so i imagined the worse. As for crying, we all get so fed from time to time. I rarely cry, but when i do, i do it cause i have been holding stuff for along time. Dont go full trp warrior on me saying shit you are not a man and what not. Some emotions still exist and when it comes to health i a…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 10:22 AM
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if you can explain how to procceed? Basicaly what i said? Like no contact but try and initiate again in about 6-7 days?
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:28 PM
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that is a very high possibility
/r/askTRP21/03/16 03:01 PM
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I understand what you are trying to say but having limited previous contact with the other person, i guess that she becomes unaware if she is willing to meet with someone she doesnt know too well. Thats why i was refering to text game, to get her to feel more comfortable with you
/r/askTRP20/03/16 02:12 PM
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i actually believe they though that the black man was really offended and they didnt understand it was part of a "show"
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 12:53 PM
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i honestly got shivers from this line alone. FUCK ISNT THAT GENERIC AS SHIT
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:15 PM
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The gut feeling is much more than just guessing what is going on. There is actually alot of science going on behind it. While interacting with others. Females for the matter now, your brain collects information without you realising. Your brain records movements, body language, eyes language, voice, the tone of the voice, words being used when feeling certain things, responces to questions, responces to emotions you cause her, reactions to everything. Your gut feeling usually is right cause of t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:13 PM
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The fact that you also made sure you returned the keys to her boyfriend is the icing on the cake! Besides the absolutely savage post, your info on sex discussion is rather enlighting. Good read. Good text lenght, nicely formatted and juicy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:57 PM
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Its a really good post that explains the leading part very well. But to be honest, i dont really seem to get the story so well. Please try and elaborate on points i will make and explain to me. The woman doesn’t work at all. She lives in an enormous house that her husband completely pays for. Everything comes from his salary and investments: their vacations, cars, everything. Now if i get everything correctly, this is an ideal situation where the man is in charge of financial shit and provides f…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 03:14 PM
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Thank you to everybody that replied and suggested the subs. I was at work and wasnt able to go online at all. I will check them out tommorow and start to slowly implement usefull parts of each into my lifestyle. Rome wasnt built in a day gentlemen.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 11:31 PM
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i have been lurking here for almost 1 year and a half. I have learned alot. I have changed as a person. Some good changes and some bad due to becoming way to cynical. I used things taught here and could maintain attraction to a very good level for my standards. The thing i still have not been able to understand is this. I was hardwired hardcore Blue Pill and i always believed about true love. I still believe it to some point. Its like a cycle. I dont want to stop believing in true love cause the…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:04 PM
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kids at that age dont have the necessary introspection to even think these actions. Some people called her DT. How the fuck can she be DT and machiavellian at 11 years old? Get ahold of yourself. You are throwing words around rather easily. It just displayed some small scale social dynamics and with her friends in present it became epic in her eyes. A chance to giggle at another's misfortune. But not to that deep a level as you guys make it be
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:46 PM
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it has nothing to do with being red pill movie or not. People in here need to stop with that. Fight club is a prety mindfucking movie. Alter egos and shit and when you are near paranoia it will not help you with your recovery. Being red pill is not the point
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 09:31 AM
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I think i can safely assume i can freely speak my 2cents here since i have battled with e mental illness called Depersonalization. I will not try to explain it here what it is, you can take a look here http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/depersonalization-disorder-mental-health This disorder came after tremendous ammounts of tiredness and not sleeping well since i was trying to balance work, school and army duties all at the same time. I had a burnout, that caused panic attacks, that then trigger…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:29 AM
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Its funny how you seeked out the opportunity to fuck his girlfriend, you did and even though you thought would feel nice, your conciense is now a burden. Some people ( including me) are just hardwired to feel guilt more than others. You think your actions turn you into something you dont like. You saw your limits. Dont break them again. You are not a cunt. you are not the pathetic kid you were back in the day either. Find a balance
/r/askTRP27/12/15 03:00 AM
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i do not try to think if its an alpha or not trait. Just part of his personailty. I can relate to this mentality. I have almost zero things that remind me of the past. I rarely take pictures myself. I just like to see what i am doing at the moment. If i even think about taking a picture i ruin it for myself. I have been to concerts, traveled , worked, partied. I never take pictures of that shit. Also that applies to material things as well. I am very sentimental myself but i dont need items to r…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 02:42 AM
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blue valentine anyone? although i dont really see an actual point here
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:40 PM
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she told me she got the pill and from what i understood she was quite frustrated over the whole thing. she can bash me all she wants as long as everything is fine
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 11:37 AM
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man i swear to god reading cases here makes me kind of sick to my stomach that woman can put their minds to work to such extend. I mean getting pregnant over some money. it almost feels like they think kids are disposable
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 10:32 PM
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thats the reason i went full paranoid and rushed her the pill. is the risk quite high?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 09:58 PM
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i dont really get your commend. care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 09:42 PM
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we will be waiting for you field report in a few months. i hate condoms as well. But trust me you dont want anything to do with that.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:47 PM
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I honestly do not believe she even got knocked up in the first place to begin with. But i just want to sleep well at night and make sure. Also i hope I DONT EVEN HAVE TO THINK about going into abortion stage. That would give a whole other level to the story About giving her the pill myself, the fact is my moral system just cannot handle such brutality. Even though i dont even like the girl physicaly nor sexualy i felt like i was obgliged to to this. Firstly for me. Then for her. She is a rather …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:44 PM
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look alcohol is fun. I cant deny that even after what happened. but it makes stupid choices seem like the best damn thing you ever though of. But to sum it up, yes. It is a complete fuck up and i am sitting on burning coals right now until the whole thing is over.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:40 PM
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hey bro sometimes you just FEEl you must do something. It gave me a little comfort. Personally i have learned my lesson and NEVER EVER even attempt no condom sex. And also i have turned it down in the past! Precum can get you paranoid as fuck. Cause deep down you kinda know that it is almost impossible for anything to happen but at the same time thats how people make the news. Its a fine line. The thing that scares me the most is that it is up to her to take the damn pill
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:29 PM
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is it karma that certain threads keep popping up the time where i most need them? Last night i went out with a girl i was in college with. She just texted out of the blue one year later saying that we should hang out. I knew before that she was kinda horny most of the time from what mutual people told me. We go out and get rather drunk end up at my place. Now i ALWAYS wear a condom but this time alcohol decided it would be a good idea not to wear one. So we start fucking condomless and my geniou…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:37 PM
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the fact that you can tell excatly the moment a relationship starts to crumble or you are starting to act pathetic is both exciting but also scary afterwards
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 11:21 AM
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My mother and father where extremely close to eachother. Had one GOOD marriage. They did things together, activities, social gatherings and whatnot. My father was a strong man cause he was in the Navy for almost 30 years. At the age of 16, when i started to slowly mature he passed away from a heart attack one morning. No previous health issues. Just like that. At the tender and tender age of 16, is the time that ones NEEDS a strong father figure i had none. Technicaly they both raised me, but af…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 11:35 AM
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My god this hits way too close home man. It takes alot of trial and error to get to a point where you dont open too much on a female. Like you said, women that are you are not intrested in, makes it SO much easier to unwillingly like you cause you dont put the effort in making your self seem worth. It goes against what we are being taught all these years. Be nice to someone you like so they will like you back. But the reality is so much from that. Unfortunately most people here( including me) ar…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 11:28 AM
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This is why seeing the world from a red lense is sometimes very satisfying. You not only take pride in the work you did (producer for example) but you take double the joy because you worked things out your way using social dynamics and keeping your frame under control. Social dynamics=Fun
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:08 AM
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I am actually afraid to become any more psychopath than what i have set for myself. I feel remorse and apologetic to a good degree for me. Anything else than that makes me feel kinda sick. Also it is said that we are what we think and do. So to be completely honest i do not want to test my limits. I dont want to get used to NOT feeling remorse for things i do cause then i am afraid of the way things might turn out for me as i would try and push things abit to far. I have done what you said about…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:55 PM
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I undestand why you might think you will get called out on acting. Maybe if when you first met the person you showed another side of you and when you want you fake something else then the guilt effect kicks in. Injecting ones personality like you said is harder and requires alot of strong frame. Just being machiavellian to a certain degree can be benefitial for your interactions. Anything else than that is truly egoistical, when you have nothing more to gain out of it and you are just doing it f…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:51 PM
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Trying to be Dark Triad when you are not geneticaly "made" for such behaviors can cause some stress at first. When i first tried to be bolder and not apologetic it would go against my brain's wiring. I would feel somewhat out of character. That something was wrong with me. It is not new that people new to the red pill go from tottaly shy to extremely cocky without a sense of balance. After some time one should be able to determine how much of an "asshole" he wants to be. After some point you sho…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:24 AM
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Dominance is the first thing when it comes to mind. Be able to emotionally dominate the other person but also show some Blue Pill sides of you so you can pet her feelings. One must find a balance in these two. Frame should be maintained at both times if possible. Attractiveness on the other hand is relative. One man's trash is another man's treasure they say. (something like that) Combine attraction and a clever switch on RP/BP mode and you should be able to maintain desire. I am new to the red …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:23 PM
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She was the one that wanted a LTR so making out with another guy is not a very good first step towards that. You should give the benefit of the doubt and not assume she did something more(although it is possible). As a new wannabe red-piller i have found out that it is very hard to keep emotions from developing. It requires alot of effort to maintain a neutral take on the matter. I am not blaming you for getting a few emotions and feeling towards her. It is human afterall. I do not consider what…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 01:33 AM
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There is a difference in stealing a girl and solely cheating. One is taking her away from one guy for good and the other is just fucking and talking from time to time. As someone mentioned, high value girls in a relarionship or not have lurkers all the time. Not just betas, but people who will try and take advantage over a small mistake. I am in this excact situation right now. I have a hard time understanding whether i am an emotional tampon or as she wants me to persue her more actively so she…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 09:08 PM
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its all about the ego, isnt it?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:36 AM
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This post is extremely valuable and speaks the truth. It definetely reminds me of my current situation. She likes me and is semi-attracted to me. If that is even possible. We havnt got pass making out grinding phase yet and i honestly doubt if we ever will. A woman can say one thing and mean something else or act against it. Go figure...
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:13 PM
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