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Applies how?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:57 PM
15

Obviously it feels like shit. But you're the one who offered to help her so it's all on you. Probably lost respect for you trying to help her so much. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:26 PM
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Appreciate your replies.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:05 AM
0

Because I feel horrible that she's severely injured?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:26 PM
0

It still hurts me to know that she has serious injuries
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:54 PM
1

This is very much the case, and yes, I'm aware.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:40 PM
1

I know man I run through all the disgusting truths about her, everything I read in her phone that made me throw up, all the lies, the nasty shit I read, the deceit, it was so much, but still, I don't like that she's in critical condition. I wish I didn't care.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:39 PM
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She's in an emergency room in a trauma center, that shit ain't happenin, but I get what you're saying and that I wouldn't like it. And yes, she should be dead to me, but I still care for her enough not to be injured in a car crash
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:33 PM
1

Having someone you cared for a long time in critical condition and being affected by it? You're saying you wouldn't care?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:50 AM
1

Very true
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:49 AM
2

I cared about her for a long time, and she's in critical condition, I'm supposed to have no feelings toward that?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:49 AM
2

thanks for the laugh
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:17 AM
3

She was full of bad decisions, and yes you're absolutely right. The day I found out the truth of her cheating, her friend (that drove the car today) and her drove to my house blacked out. It's a regular thing with these two.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:02 AM
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She wasn't the driver
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:02 AM
0

She wasn't the one driving.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:59 AM
-1

Appreciate the feedback. Truth.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:59 AM
-7

Sure she cheated but I wasn't just some random dude, but nevertheless she did a lot of fucked shit so I get what you saying. She cheated but doesn't deserve to be seriously injured, but then again drunk driving, and now a young guy is dead because of it and her friend is in critical condition.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:56 AM
0

I'm not, but I still cared for her a lot
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:52 AM
0

I definitely did, I haven't spoken a word to her in almost 6 months, but yeah, I don't know what visiting her would do
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:50 AM
2

Her friend was the driver, both notorious drunk drivers though
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:47 AM
1

Yep, glad I found out when I did. And agreed with the broken part, part of me feels bad for her because her childhood was bad but I can't do anything about that.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:12 PM
1

I did the next day, and miraculously didn't have anything.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:17 PM
1

For sure man. Thanks for the knowledge.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:43 PM
3

Your writing style and word choice is incredible.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:41 PM
1

I wasnt strong because I should have ended it so many months before I did, but finding out the truth was the last straw. As for the saying she loved me and made me feel good shit, that sounds sociopathic. Here I am taking it literally when in reality it was never fucking true. just gotta remind myself that the whole relationship I thought I was in never happened. I was seeing someone totally different. You've given me a lot of insight.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:50 PM
1

This makes a lot of sense. It took me over a year to truly get over my previous ex which ended horribly as well. So I know it'll be some time, but yeah, I do think that it's the trauma that's keeping me here. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:08 PM
1

Yeah youre right about it being a fantasy, just hard for me to accept that truth.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:08 PM
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I miss her personality she had when we were alone together, not the personality of her being a fucking whore. And yeah I miss the sex. The sex with her was better than anyone else I've been with. Best head, best feeling pussy, everything about it was amazing. Fucking a new hot girl isn't going to magically get me over this instantly. That isn't how emotional attachment works.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:51 PM
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Believe what you want man. I never said I fucked six 10s. My ex was like a 9 to me and the girls I fucked after her weren't close to her looks.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:29 PM
1

Obviously not, that should be enough right there for me to be okay with her being gone. I just miss the good memories because there were so many.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:53 PM
1

I don't think I've ever been physically as attracted to a girl in person as I was to this girl, so maybe there's some doubt there about finding someone I find more attractive. I can't get over that I should have ended it a long time ago, I can't get over a lot of the shit I put up with, this girl fucked with my mind so much it was insane. And if she apologized, it wouldn't really change anything. I just want some affirmation that she misses me when clearly she doesn't.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:50 PM
1

No she's 100% a prostitue, escort, blah blah. She just doesn't think so because she's a "sugar baby" and society accepts that as better.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:48 PM
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?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:47 PM
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She texted her friend and laughed about me finding out she was doing it. She wasn't guilty then so she sure as fuck isn't guilty now. Just gotta accept it for what it is.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:46 PM
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"It isn't the first time she's done this to someone, and it won't be the last. This fantasy of revenge, and making her feel guilt is never going to happen. To truly move on, you're going to need to accept that you no longer "need" her to do or think anything. She's already riding new dicks and probably has a new chump lined up. Pity the guy. she'll probably try to fuck some of your friends to make you jealous. You'll get over this sooner than you think, you just have to allow yourself to let go.…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:44 PM
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It's pretty fucked up that you can't want someone, but I understand that that's basic redpill/game stuff. I agree with you, I definitely wanted her too much. Granted she told me multiple times she felt like I was the one who didn't care about her, and she even said she loved me first. Appreciate the response and I will definitely keep this in mind moving forward.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:33 PM
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Chest tattoo, tattoos in general, hard drug use (coke, molly), party girl, slut friends, raped at a young age, no father figure, self-harm scars, dropped out of high school (in nursing school now), slut friends, wouldn't text back late nights as she "fell asleep", very easy to get into bed, told me she cheated on her exes but only because they cheated first, can't say no to anyone, easily peer pressured, ex boyfriend who she claims cheated and hit her, told me she'd cheat on me if some hot celeb…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:30 PM
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Yeah I remember you from my actual post 3 months ago. She was a twin peaks girl... I don't know why I expected something more from her. And yeah, the guys who guy there are exactly what you've said. Fat, ugly, old, dead end jobs. And the tips she got from these guy, insane... I lift every day. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:18 AM
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I don't. Just happened to see her on a story of someone else. My fault for looking though.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:16 AM
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Damn dude sorry to hear about that shit... fucking gutwrenching I know. Thank you for your words of encouragement, and yes it was and still is very "traumatic" for me. Makes me not want to trust a girl again even though I know not all women are like this.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:15 AM
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I was doing a lot better before my friends told me they saw her so yeah you're right. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:12 AM
2

Missed some and ignored some. She had red flags a mile long. I'll know better in the future.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:10 AM
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My story is true, have no reason to make any of this up. And you're right about the other shit, pains me to think about her fucking other people but that's what I just gotta deal with and get over.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:21 AM
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Didnt know this about her and when I did I ended it.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:19 AM
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I dont miss the public shit at all. I miss all the shit when we were together at the beach alone, my house alone. I couldnt care less about people thinking I'm with some hot girl.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:19 AM
1

Good for you. Did your ex ever try and come back?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:38 AM
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It is what it is. Good luck finding a woman who mans up for what she's done. And thanks, hopefully happens soon.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:37 AM
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Sorry dude. How long did it take you to heal from that? And how are you doing now?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:53 PM
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I wish I could disagree with you but I do believe you're right.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:49 PM
1

Lmao that's true. Everyone I tell the story to can't fucking believs it. Sadly it's true. But you're right. Thanks for making me chuckle
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:29 PM
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"Remember that much of what she said and did was lies. It's not your fault. I know how supportive a hot girl can seem to the ego - I really do, been there - but brother, you dodged a bullet here. She was studying you and shifting her personality to be what you wanted. She's a borderline." It's sickening thinking about how true this most likely is. I don't know know much about BPD, but she must have had it. I don't see how she can could just switch to the sugar daddy thing like you said. I could …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:15 PM
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Valid point.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:07 PM
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Don't see how I'd meet her later. I have no social media for her to check up on me, and we have no overlap in our lives. But I get your point. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:54 PM
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It was great being naively happy, but knowing the truth is better. Great point. I just miss all the fun shit and intimacy that we had. Never laughed more with a chick or gotten along better with one. I don't keep her around, I just hadn't blocked her. But I did now. There is no hope between us, because even if she felt bad and wanted me back, which she clearly doesn't, there's no going forward after this type of damage has been done. Expectations and future, yes. She was bad news from the start …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:50 PM
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I look forward to hearing what you have to say. Thank you.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:44 PM
2

I'm not going to fuck her again even though she was no question the best I'd been with. Wouldn't respect myself going back to her after all she did and all I know about her.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:43 PM
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The hardest part is the accepting it's over. Feels like I'm still in denial and have hope for something that there should be no hope for. I just blocked her phone number. Yes I train, am in good shape, but I wouldn't say I have a purpose. Luckily work starts for me in a few days again so I'll have something to occupy my time.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:42 PM
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Where do you meet them
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:39 PM
1

Agreed on me not being able to deal with her. Only thing I have to block her on is my phone, since I have no social media other than snapchat which I removed her from. I saw her in IG stories on my friend's instagram account. As for life mission, I do not have one. I have a decent job, next step up I'd be making 90-100k a year, which could take a year or three, and I'm not far off. Not something that makes me happy or passionate. I have no passions really. I used to be super into golf and fitnes…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:38 PM
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So she went out and fucked sugar daddies for money because of me? Not because she's just a whore? I'm sure there's ways I acted that could have been better, but I tried my absolute best not to act needy, insecure, etc. She felt that for the longest time I never cared about her, she said she loved me first, she would pay for me, drive to me, etc. But sure, I can entertain your thoughts. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:34 PM
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For sure, it's a harsh reality but what you're saying is most likely true about her not caring and you're 100% true about me being more invested than her. And I'm 100% for real about her doing this. The shit I read in her phone made me puke, no joke. I couldn't even give an accurate number because of how many different guys she was texting. As for the red flags, there are so many that I ignored, due to both inexperience and my attraction to her. A lot of lessons learned, unfortunately the hard w…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:31 PM
1

Then why the "Sorry nvm" and why nothing since. She was likey drunk when she sent this. And I agree, I could never just fwb her. Too many emotions for me. I didn't block her number because I wanted to see if she would reach out, again I don't know why I'd want to hear from such a terrible girl.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:40 PM
2

Yes, I'm sure you and I both miss the illusion. But I also find it hard to believe that when she was with me it wasn't the real her. Idk if they think about their ex guys either. You would think they would considering it's rare for a guy to leave a girl, and you and I both did that, but they're not begging us back which would definitely satisfy our ego. I remember when she texted me asking to see me, I felt better for that day and a few days after, then nothing from her since and I can't stand i…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:30 PM
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Main reason I made this post is because I peeked at some guy's instagram story and saw her on it getting drunk at the beach and shit and this is the first time I've seen a picture or video of her since the breakup and it just makes me miss her. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:12 PM
3

Well what do you think about the text she sent me asking "Can I see you" followed by "Sorry nvm" I WISH she was crying over me. But she isn't. I keep telling myself that by being the one who walked away and doesn't contact her, maybe that will set me apart from other guys... but it's probably just a lie to tell myself. I at least expected her to be somewhat sad about this ending but in reality I'm sure she doesn't even give a fuck that it's over. And it's hard to swallow that she isn't thinking …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:09 PM
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Gyms are closed but I still workout at home every day. Bought a small home gym, do 200-300 pushups a day on top of it. I've read the Rational Male, but don't read much. I start work again on Friday so at least I'll have that to distract me. She's very attractive, 100% my type with everything. So yeah very hard for me to get over. I'm very good looking too, but still. It's rare for me to find a girl that I was this attracted to.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:56 PM
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I don't have her on any social media. But I did go peeking today on someone's instagram and sure enough she was in their story. Feel like shit just seeing her.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:52 PM
1

For sure. What things did you do that you think helped you recover? Was it just time? Because it's been 3 months for me and it still hurts.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 02:55 PM
1

what was your situation? feelings and heartbreak etc I'd like to know as well, in my case I've been with my share of women and I feel able to pair bond. Classic advice here is that women can't but I'm not sure why it's different for them.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:51 PM
1

I'm sure she does develop feelings. But given the amount of dick she's taken in the past, currently taking, and has the option to, I believe girl's can lose feelings a lot quicker than guys can. Why would a girl pine over you when she gets attention 24/7 from men? If you disagree I'd love to know why.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:58 PM
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I read your post and it reminds me a lot of the last girl I dated. Her age, the DMs, the attractive actor comment, the sleeping on first date, and high N-count. I was told by guys on here to end it and I kept it going, I only ended up very hurt (still am) when I learned the truth about her. It never ends well with these type of girls. It's hard to lose feelings after they've developed which for you they clearly have. If you keep this up, don't be surprised if you're heartbroken.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:01 PM
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You don't think that a girl who texts you a month later after you dumped her for cheating is sending you that "I'm sorry/miss you" text as a way to see if she can still find her back into your life or she is she still has a hold on you?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:29 PM
1

So you date a girl for a year or 2 or 3 or more, she cheats on you. You just think "ah I don't give a fuck" I'll keep fucking her? I just don't understand. you don't think that shows a lack of self-respect? Why keep someone around who takes you for granted
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:22 PM
1

TRP means to mean understanding female nature, hypergamy, self-development, etc. You should do what's best for you, and not reward women who don't deserve anything from you especially if they do disrespectful shit. I feel like TRP says or should be is that when a woman disrespects you, cheats on you, especially if it's an LTR, you should just cut ties and be done with her. I don't see how keeping around a woman who was in a "relationship" and disrespects you or cheats on you is respectable. So y…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:11 PM
1

So if a girl disrespects you personally you don't care you just keep fucking her? What's stopping her from doing it? Or you don't care if she disrespects you? When do you draw the line?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:46 PM
1

I don't understand in this situation though or a lot of ones where you should next a girl. Why still fuck around with a girl you were in a relationship when she disrespects you? What's there to learn keeping her around for sex? With abundance being a huge part of RP, why keep her?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:48 PM
1

Your advice is always to keep fucking instead of ending things. Why bother sticking around?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:44 PM
1

Better to get out now than a year later with more emotions developed.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:54 PM
6

This is how to handle it
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:03 PM
7

Exact same way my ex did it. It's a warning. Which celebrity was it btw?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:02 PM
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My ex said this word for word, and she was already cheating on me at the time. I'd drop her if I were you.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:01 PM
3

Care to share what they told you?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:22 PM
1

Give some examples of what you changed
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:21 PM
1

Facts
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:20 PM
1

Can you elaborate on your dad being an asshole
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:17 PM
1

You said some new guy followed her on instagram so you decided to block her.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:29 PM
2

You're mad because some guy followed her on instagram? And he's 7/10?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:03 PM
1

Look I get it. Being heartbroken sucks but if she broke up with you, there's no reason for you to message her. She needs to be the one to reach out. My first breakup, it took my ex over a year to reach out again. By then, I wanted nothing to do with her. I'm in a similar spot to you now where I want to reach out to my recent ex, but I know that I can't so you just gotta find a way to move on with your life and forget her. I know it's hard.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:37 PM
1

Nah look at all the No Fap/Semen retention people saying the same thing. I can't get past 5-6 days so I haven't noticed it but I'm sure it happens.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 03:28 PM
2

How long on the streak do you notice it
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:23 PM
1

Why are you ending it?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 02:06 AM
1

Thanks for your comment. Still working on the moving on.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:17 PM
1

No I've never done gear, acne was from hormones or genetics, not sure but accutane cured it
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:10 PM
1

100% what you said.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:29 PM
1

One of the best decisions I ever made. Never had to do another cycle, and I never get pimples. It's amazing.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:28 PM
1

If I could go back in time, I would just fuck her and tell her to leave. I wouldn't have let her sleep over, meet her friends, go on dates, spend quality time, I'd do anything that avoids leading to an emotional attachment. I would have trusted my gut, read between the lines, not ignored red flags... And sure she disrespectful. She lied to my face, laughed at me behind my back, that's pretty disrespectful. Fucking other women will help, sure, but finding one that I was as attracted to as this on…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:14 PM
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It's been three weeks for me (read my recent post) and I can't stop thinking about my ex even though she is trash and I shouldn't be giving her any time of day thinking about her. I dream of her, think of her when at work... Don't know man. It's gonna take a lot of time. I think that's part of the process, just dealing with the emotions.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:51 PM
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Thanks a lot for your comment man. Really appreciate your advice.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 02:33 PM
2

I'd love to know why I developed feelings for her. Just so I can avoid doing it in the future. I truly don't know why I did.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 02:30 PM
1

Too emotionally involved with her to do that.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:33 AM
2

Lol are you saying because she was fucking dudes for money so that's why she was paying for me?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:16 PM
7

It's amazing how much better I feel today than I did yesterday. It's like a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders that she's no longer my problem.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:32 AM
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You couldn't be more right. I'll know better next time around.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:31 AM
8

Sounds like too much work when I could just be done with her.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:29 AM
2

Oh boy.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:58 AM
1

Yeah oh well. I'm sure I could get her back as a fuck buddy if I ever have a change of heart. Unlikely though. Won't be hard to find someone else
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:49 AM
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I had emotions for her because I met her when I was depressed about my previous ex cheating on me so she replaced her and I had developed oneitis for her.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:46 AM
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Idk how's she's acting now. She hasn't talked to me since and probably won't for a while. And I ain't gonna reach out to her or continue to see her. Fuck that
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:41 AM
1

Yeah probably. All the signs were there.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:37 AM
5

This is what she was on. And this is how she's probably been paying for her tuition, and everything else.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:33 AM
3

Hahaha for sure. I had to jump out of the shower to throw up just thinking me kissing and going down her when in reality she probably fucked some guy hours before me.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:30 AM
3

Nah you're absolutely right, but I grew emotionally attached to her. I tried for over a year not to but I wasn't able to.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:31 PM
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Lmao so close to being accurate. Except it's a chest tattoo, half sleeve, dropped out of high school, wouldn't text me back at night but always in morning and would say she fell asleep. Lmfao it's like a big fucking slap in the face.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:58 PM
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This is true. I didn't pay for anything ever. And the best thing that came out of reading her texts was her telling her friend that I was the best at sex that she'd been with. I guess there's solace in that. Thanks for the comment.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:29 PM
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I tried for months to keep my emotions out of it but once they developed I couldn't get rid of it. It's better for me that she's gone permanently instead of just fucking because I'd never be able to keep it to just that.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:25 PM
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I've never cum from a blowjob before her but she definitely knew what she was doing. Two hands, spit, you name it. And she had the tightest/best feeling pussy I've been with. Shit was like heroin but whatever. More to come. And are you saying I should be proud because I got it for free?
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:53 PM
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Thanks a lot for this comment. There were red flags that I'm embarrassed to mention that I knew she wasn't going to be good. But being with her helped get over my previous ex who cheated and I ended up liking this girl more than anyone I had been with. I don't have a purpose in life, don't have an abundant lifestyle outside of work. Yes, I made her feel good. But for the longest time I had a feeling she didn't care about me until she told me she loved and had feeling for me for a long time but w…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:52 PM
5

True that
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:41 PM
7

Amen.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:32 PM
12

idk how it goes. Just glad I'll never have to be a guy that pays for pussy.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:27 PM
9

She never cared. That's the hardest part of this for me.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:25 PM
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I went this morning.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:55 PM
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