LTR Hypothetical Cheating

RedRiver0415 · 2020-04-14T10:31:36+00:00

Yes.

cat_magnet · 2020-04-14T10:52:13+00:00

Start fucking other girls and then if you get caught just mention that you thought it was an open relationship on account of all the celebrities she wants to fuck. Obviously there is no future with a thot that disrespects you like this.

Soms619 · 2020-04-14T12:07:16+00:00

Shes testing you dude, gauging you up. To see your reaction. She may not fuck that celeb, but say she goes to the club or somewhere and she's see Chad on the club, she Wil fuck him no doubt. It does have to be a celebrity.

It just takes a hot guy to fuck her.. With or without your presence. It too plain for me.

If I do that to a chick, I am basically saying, I am prone to cheat, so don't judge because the girl was a 10.

That's what she's feeding your brain. You tolerate this conversation means it is a green light for her as long as the guy is hot. That is the requirement.

Jesus christ... She is basically jiggling with your balls right in from of you.. God dammit

bakachelera · 2020-04-14T11:18:32+00:00

The act itself is not a redflag but let me tell you. It makes you feel uncomfortable. Hence why you are here bitching about it. She KNOWS you don't like it and keeps doing it. That's the red flag, she is disrespecting you.

hopingforclearskin · 2020-04-14T14:01:21+00:00

My ex said this word for word, and she was already cheating on me at the time. I'd drop her if I were you.

Fabulous-Craft · 2020-04-14T12:26:45+00:00

Normally this is just a shit test, but if this happens "often", then red flag.

319Skew · 2020-04-14T16:21:29+00:00

OP you're either not getting TRP or you're not understanding what an LTR is. From your post history, it seems like your LTR should have been demoted to a plate at best or you should have gone.

At this rate your next question would be "My LTR left me to do a MMF. How do I apply dread to get her back?"

monky-loves-you · 2020-04-14T10:53:56+00:00

Yes I would break up with a girl on the spot if she said something so fucking disrespectful to my face. The last thing I'd say would be "Good luck with him"

RedSkeller · 2020-04-14T15:48:07+00:00

It's only a red flag because she feels comfortable to mention this in front of you.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-04-14T16:32:53+00:00

so the red flag is the fact that it's chronic on her part and is a nuclear shit test. (not that it's about a celeb) meaning, women have automatic abundance. Men must work at getting laid (see the axiom: women control access to the poon, men to commitment (their time and attention)).

So this is a red flag because it demonstrates that either/both:

1) she doesn't' respect you (her idea of this being 'funny' isn't the excuse)

2) she doesn't understand that men and women are different. your abundance (the social proof of you being wanted and desired and able to fuck other women on demand) WOULD raise your stature in her eyes. Her being able to bang another dude means nothing, other than - duh- she's a female and can get laid by falling over at closing time at a bar with her legs open.

If you really said "so would I" then you A&A'd and AM'd it and that should put it to rest. If she keeps going, this is her problem, not yours.

So, what next? Source: http://archive.is/l9rdA

IM MAXIM #153 – All sensations of dread inflicted onto you by her should be responded to with equal or greater dread.

So withdraw a bit, be social with others, and go flirt with and meet other women.

trpppp123 · 2020-04-14T12:56:50+00:00

Just seems like a shit test. I would just A&A. I wouldn't make a big deal for once or twice, but if continues then you need to seriously up your dread game or move on.

AlpacaStrap · 2020-04-14T14:48:52+00:00

“Then you’re clearly not worth my time”

And ghost. Stop LTRing whores.

Fuck, have some self respect.

xerxes3 · 2020-04-14T22:01:33+00:00

It's just a shit test. But if it happens "often" why LTR her? Is it gonna be in your wedding vows? "I wasn't sure about her, but after she kept saying how she'd definitely cheat on me with Ryan Gosling, Brad Pitt and Andrew Cuomo, I knew she was the one."

I'd probably silently demote to plate.

In the future when you hear this, here are some responses:

-Yeah let's call him up now. I'll pay him to take you off my hands. -Really? I think zack galifianakis (insert any ugly guy) is more your type. -How are yall gonna get together, Love is Blind? -Let's make a list of celebs we'd cheat with. You go first. Your list: her sister, her bff, your ex, her mom. As a bonus point put a check mark next to anyone you've already done the deed with.

Tambamwham · 2020-04-14T19:57:04+00:00

“And I hope he’s everything you dream of and if you bring this up again and keep disrespecting me and our relationship, you’ll be free to fuck whoever you want.”

Edit: oh jeez just read your post history. You’re a shit show

onionknightofknee · 2020-04-14T20:33:47+00:00

red your previous post, dump her

moontripper1246 · 2020-04-15T03:20:04+00:00

ay-fuh-q · 2020-04-28T14:41:35+00:00

Oh, it's you. I remember reading this. You guys can have flashing red signs all over the place and you'll ignore them.

Tousen71 · 2020-04-14T15:28:10+00:00

Sounds like a joke. Listen to the dudes who actually get pussy on here.

Waikku · 2020-04-14T11:12:57+00:00

Not a red flag, I do that too. In a jokey manner of course.

SanatanaDharmic · 2020-04-14T13:11:55+00:00

Slap her. Tell her the next time it would be the end of us.

Zapche · 2020-04-14T11:16:35+00:00

No it’s not you should say good hope he fucks you till your bladder falls out. Women work off of how much you care if you don’t give a fuck she wouldn’t do it

Title	LTR Hypothetical Cheating
Author	depressedthrowaway3y
Upvotes	22
Comments	47
Date	April 14, 2020 10:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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