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trpppp123/r/askTRP17/01/17 01:42 AM
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trpppp123/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:23 PM
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trpppp123/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:18 PM
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If you have oneitis for the bitch, which it seems you do, then don't spin her as a plate. You don't seem to have the abundance for that right now. She'll be sleeping with other dudes while you are struggling to bring new ones in. It won't end well for you. Best is to cut her off
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:31 AM
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Depends on your reason for moving, but generally speaking, I'd say do it. You get to try something new and worst case you don't like it and come back.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:36 AM
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Either accept that she's a fat fuck and she will continue to get fatter or get rid of the fatty (no idea why the hell you would surround yourself on a regular basis with a fatass tbh) and upgrade.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:37 AM
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Honestly, these girls are good plates, but not good LTRs. You generally don't want a girl whose business/income is synonymous with attention-whoring on instagram for an LTR.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:34 AM
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I don't really ask for it. I noticed girls with lower numbers tend to mention it themselves early on while girls with bigger information will wait longer or simply not ever mention it. The number itself is pretty irrelevant, it's more about the behaviours/lifestyle of getting to that number. Again, you can never know the true number, you can only guess based on other indicators and those are what you should look for, not the number. That being said, if a girl straight up offers a number over 20 …
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:51 PM
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The easiest/obvious ones are: used to be or is a party girl, travels a lot with friends especially solo, drinks a lot, lots of tattoos, lots of smoking, daddy issues.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:45 PM
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You'll never really know the true number so look for other hoe tells.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:42 AM
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It sounds like you don't smoke yourself? Personally, I don't smoke so I don't date smokers and besides the obvious of dating a girl that's a smoker while you're not; this is part of that reason, she'll always go out for a smoke with dudes and what not.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:40 AM
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This won't end well for you... the fact that this is happening and she is ok with this means she was never GF material and you failed somewhere in the vetting process. The best option here for you to is to break up with her and when she goes crazy simply say that you do not date girls that keep in touch with men they have slept with. Hard next and disappear after that, no contact. Also, she WILL sleep with him right after you breakup. Know this and do not look back.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:33 AM
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Why would you have kids with a woman who you consider average?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:56 AM
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Start with uber or uber eats if you have to. Just do something and work from there.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:55 AM
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Since it's a temporary job, it doesn't seem like a big deal, but she clearly sees you lost frame and are butthurt about it. This combination probably does not end well for you.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:17 PM
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Doing 1 girl a day might not be ideal if this is something you're still new to. It takes 1-2 girls to just warm up sometimes. But at least, are you trying to push the interaction as far as possible. If you've got the approach part down, try to hold a conversation for a few mins, then shoot for a number.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:11 PM
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I've had similar thoughts since I'm a software eng and I'd essentially make a lot more money moving to the bay area. I've avoided it for mostly the reasons you stated and but I've thought about doing it for a few years to build a nice stash of cash and then take a paycut and move somewhere else.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:44 PM
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Look into invisalign instead of braces if you go this route
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:38 PM
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It's over when you want it to be over. As you get older, that lifestyle naturally loses it's appeal and you decide to prioritize other things but that's a choice you'll make most likely. If you decide you want to be partying even as you're older, just find clubs that are little more posh.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:30 PM
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6" 145lbs is not muscular. Go lift some weights you twig. Go outside, get some sun, eat lots of nutritious veggies, get enough protein.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:23 PM
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Talking from experience, don't go down this path. You might fuck her and have a few more good rounds but this always ends with a bitter taste in your mouth.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:46 AM
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You have to tell her where she fucked up first and then soft next. I wouldn't recommend the ultimatum part though. "I'm disappointed that you would do [xyz]. I expected more from you" And then withdraw your attention for the next few days. That being said, a soft next should be very rare and only when the girl is actually invested in you. If you're still newly dating, you don't have that kind of leverage; you'll have to ignore whatever you didn't like or drop the plate.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:44 AM
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She's 4 years old than you, date younger broski and don't tolerate this nonsense from a girl who's about to hit the wall.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:39 AM
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Don't need to go into details, but I also don't think there's a reason to actively hide it. A simple "Yeah, I've started hitting the gym here and there" is enough.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:36 AM
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I stated in Thailand for a few months to learn some muay thai in the past. Personally I was mostly just banging tourist girls since thai girls don't interest me (and the fact that a lot of them can be lady boys). I enjoyed the hell out of that place, and while I'd love to go there again for a long bout, it just didn't seem like a place to me I'd like to settle down or live for a long period. I think it had to due with the fact that it's hard to pursue a long-term meaningful goal there. Doing it …
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:29 AM
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lol don't make the mistake. It'll only put you in a worse position and give her closure.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:45 AM
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Been in an LTR for 6 months with a 32 yo woman That's where you fucked up.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 03:24 AM
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As long as she's draining your balls and you don't care to LTR, who cares.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 03:12 AM
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Just know, to keep this girl now in check, you must continue to occasionally stir the pot with some side girls.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 12:05 AM
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Most guys can work their way up to the top 20% if they put in the work into all aspects of their life.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:59 PM
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Try meditation
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:57 PM
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It's only been 4 months, why are you exclusive? Let me guess, you don't have other options. You already messed up. Go smash other chicks until her pussy is fixed.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:55 PM
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You're pretty fat right now so you can continue to cut. 1200 for your height is way too low though. Cut at a 500calorie deficit and lift heavy. You should be able to make some newbie gains while cutting. Once you get to a somewhat decent bodyfat, start eating at a 300-500 calorie surplus while lifting.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:52 PM
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Well done for standing up for yourself.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:47 PM
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In addition to what others have said about pair bonding, at the end of the day the sexual marketplace dictates whether this matters or not. If high value men care about notch count, then it matters. If they don't, then it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 01:08 AM
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Yes, live your life in fear like a pussy. Or you could choose to not date low quality chicks.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:57 AM
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Meditation helps with this in my experience. However, if you lose the habit, the chattering mind will come back. Aim for 10-20 minutes a day once or twice a day and try to be mindful throughout the day.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:54 AM
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I tend to get this in LTRs. How do you find a good therapist for this sort of thing?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:30 PM
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So what's the deal with it? Is it the dude that normally gets this? Do things just go stale at that point?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:19 PM
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Jesus, this is genius.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:12 PM
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Honestly, just look out for yourself at a job, do what you need to progress your career and nothing more. Don't get involved in the office drama, don't try to be friends with your colleagues outside of work (aside from enough to maintain a good social standing and to help you move forward). Do your work, get your bread, and get out.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:09 PM
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Can try out the recommended routine on the bodyweightfitness sub. Should at least be able to maintain on that with a hard enough progression.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:24 AM
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Girls that are "influencers" or "youtubers" are generally not going to be great LTRs because of the fact that they need so much validation from the internet and because there will be more situations you described. They're can be hot and sometimes make good plates though.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:57 PM
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She is fucking with you and it's getting to you. She knows she's getting under your skin because she's your only source of pussy (and possibly, any sort of fun) and the sadistic bitch has you exactly where she wants you. Dump her. Also, if you're not fucking, there should be no relationship. Abundance mindset is hard to maintain when you can't leave the house. When a girl does this normally, one could just go out with the boys to hang out, shoot the shit, go hit on some chicks, and be good. Now …
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:45 PM
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If you want to keep the relationship, just own it, acknowledge that it was a mistake if you think it was, and leave the ball in her court. Just know keeping this relationship potentially taints it and every time there's an argument, she will likely throw that in your face. There's also a chance she will try to get back to you.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:51 PM
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Do you lift?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:57 PM
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Give her a bit of time to explain whatever she's sad about, validate the feelings, and go do something fun.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:11 AM
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The grass is always greener but if you're not happy and would rather have a rotation, go do that. Can always try to demote her, or try for a OLTR.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:03 PM
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When I was in my LTR, I was pretty honest about doing my own thing once in a while and there was never any issues. Helps to set that standard early on, but if you didn't, just own it and tell her you want to do your own thing for those days.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:59 PM
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If YOU don't want to get married, then don't. You can either be up front about not wanting that by telling her (can blow up), or you can keep it vague and drag her along (she'll figure it out eventually though).
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:55 PM
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Just start investing in home gym equipment or calisthenics stuff honestly and work on that. The majority are not doing anything, so you can come out on top. Read books. Learn something new that you can at home. Double down on taking better pictures for online dating if you want. I really think the lockdowns won't end any time soon. They will keep extending it.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:11 AM
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Nothing is preventing you from doing that if that's what you want. It's simply not ideal because of the hit you take on your attraction, so if you understand the trade-off and it serves you, do it. I'm sure that there's dudes that go for exclusivity first and it worked out.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:04 AM
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Why do you want to chain yourself up willingly? The way wild lions are more appealing than caged up lions, the same is true for a man who is wild and free. It is her who should be trying desperately to put you in a cage to admire you, not you who should be the needy little lion who wants to be in a cage in a zoo.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:25 PM
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That number is probably a lot higher than you'd like to think. But regardless of n-count, there's other potential flags I see here. Sounds like you've known her or been friends with her previously for a while, which means you were friendzoned previously? Coupled with her age of 27, this screams alpha fux/beta bux and you're the beta she's ready to settle down with. Girls around that age are very convincing about being good to you because something tells them it's the last train before their cloc…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:23 PM
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If you have to ask a question like this, the answer is yes.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:14 PM
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If a women is introducing unwanted drama into your life, you can hard next her if you don't feel like dealing with it and pursue others who don't.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:11 PM
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Most red pill "coaches" are beta phaggots who don't lift and just sit on their ass making videos about stuff they read on the internet
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:09 PM
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Sounds like that's on you then. Some of you guys just expect girls to fall into your lap from the sky while you sit on reddit. Put in the work to create a social circle and go out and do shit.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:26 PM
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Yes, I'm 30 now and it's especially easy (almost pathetically so) with women over 27. Honestly, I think the true fruits will show once lockdowns end around here.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:17 PM
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Is riding a motorcycle worth it? Is driving a car worth it? Is going outside worth it? There are risks to everything in life. Decide if it's worth it for you. Generally speaking though, I don't think most guys should even consider LTRs until they're older and have been spinning plates for a while.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:15 PM
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Well, it's up to you to decide whether the package she is offering you is worth pursuing. There is no perfect girl, so you always trade off something for something else. Decide what things are important to you and make that decision.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:43 PM
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Study for your exam. Get a tutor if you need to. Stop crying like a little girl.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:35 PM
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I think what's more important is whether a chick is alpha-widowed. The higher the count, the more likely it is the case that she is. That being said, women who have been around the block sometimes make excellent plates ime.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:40 PM
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The pessimist in me thinks that "corona" lockdowns/control isn't really going anywhere. The govt. or people in power have found a way to control population and that's probably not something the govt wants going away. If not corona, another "virus" will come up. They will probably find ways to normalize it and push it further. It almost really does seem like a strategy to break the population's will. The give us hope that cases are going down, go back to normal, cases go up, lockdown, oh a vaccin…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 03:18 PM
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I usually just ask them for insta "you got instagram bro?".. most people do and I'm more likely to contact them by seeing a story they posted. If they don't then just grab the number
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:02 PM
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You're getting oneitis for her. Do you have other girls on rotation? Because you can be damn sure she has other dudes on rotation with how non-chalent she is after 7 months, likely higher SMV than you. so the emotional detachment is starting to come off autopilot i.e. no other girls in your rotation If you don't have other girls then this is basically your girlfriend and you struggle to maintain the detachment while she's fucking other dudes and is easily managing to keep her emotions in check.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:52 PM
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Your LTR should already see you as a champion in which case this is a non-issue even if you've been "out-alphaed" in one scenario here and there. If you feel you've been less of a "rockstar" lately, that's probably why you feel this way. Might be a nudge for you to acting like one again. Go lift, pick up a new hobby, go on an adventure with the boys, buy a motorcycle, etc.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:36 PM
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The sad part about being higher in the totem pole is you're even less likely to find something serious because you'll always wonder if this person only likes you for your success. How's TRT going btw? I'm 30 now and honestly want to look into it... but worried about side effects.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:00 PM
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It is what it is. As soon as she knows she has you completely and knows you can't live without her is when she'll put you to that test. Always have a purpose greater than your woman.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:51 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/12/the-myth-of-the-lonely-old-man/
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:47 PM
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modern women body count of 0 or 1 lol
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:45 PM
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I was agreeing with your post for the most part. I've read models, and Mark Manson isn't exactly the epitome of TRP, or masculinity for that matter.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:55 AM
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Why do you want to get married? You can have kids outside of marriage, which is the only real reason you would consider this.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:30 AM
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Yes and no with this post. On one hand, I tend to agree, once you have the abundance of sex and pussy, you realize it's pretty empty when there's nothing else on the table but sex (this can be somewhat mitigated by keeping higher quality plates around longer btw. instead of going for ONS). On the other hand, to truly internalize this view, you actually need to go out there and learn to be able to fuck a girl when you feel like it and usually this comes with a high body count. It's not enough to …
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:21 AM
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She's not interested, probably. You make it known that "it's not ok" by nexting her and talking to other chicks instead.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:11 AM
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I'm working with online dating right now. It's not the best but I can get a new chick here and there. Getting dates is harder but getting the lay from a date seems to be easier. My go-to date is a simple walk and back to my place for a drink/food, and at that point it's pretty easy to escalate. I'm not a big fan of online dating in general so it's not the best but I can empty my balls here and there.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:03 AM
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I've only gone solo clubbing a handful of time so take it with a grain of salt, but I pulled some of the hottest girls on most of those nights. There were also a few of those nights where I kind of just didn't get anywhere though and it kind of sucks in that scenario because you can't just fall back and have fun with friends in that case. When I go with friends, I usually end up solo for a portion of the night anyway and if you have a good group of friends, you can get in and out of your group a…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:36 AM
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I think this is grounds to watch her reaction first and foremost. She should at the very least tell him to fuck off and to not touch her, or slap him. From there if he backs off, you laugh it off and move on. If he comes back at her, that's when you step in and tell him to fuck off and try to get him to back off. It's not ideal but you need to be ready to fight at some point. This is another situation where lifting and martial arts helps. But this scenario is easily avoided if you aren't going i…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:19 PM
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My city is the same. I picked up a pull up bar and some resistance bands and started doing calisthenics at home. It's no gym, but it should be able to maintain.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:57 PM
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Block her everywhere and go full no contact. If she reaches out, do not respond. And go lift some weights.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:56 PM
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Life has never been and will never be fair. Stop worrying about what she's doing and worry about yourself.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:28 AM
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Ankle width? Do you get down and measure this for every girl you meet? How does this even work? Wtf
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:47 AM
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Why not spend some time travelling around? You have plenty of time to find your dream location. Personally, would just spend a few months at a time at a bunch of different locations and see which one I like the best. That being said, you're 30, I don't really know your plans, but just sitting around on a beach and doing nothing every day loses its appeal after a while. Do you have something you plan to pursue, other than women?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:43 AM
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It seems like you have the means to do that, so worst case it would be a cool new city to experience. Rather than moving everything for a better SMP though (you're just chasing pussy at this point), I'd encourage you to look at cities/countries you have genuine interest in, and pussy can be the side effect.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:31 AM
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Probably some ugly fat bitch. Not sure what the point of this question is.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:13 AM
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Block her (actually do it!) if you give in to the temptation of responding to her. She is using you to check that you're still thirsty for her and you keep giving it to her. It's over and there's nothing you could do to get this chick to fuck you again. You need to stop responding to her breadcrumbs. And go lift.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:36 PM
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Just go and have fun. And if she wants to go, encourage her as if you want nothing more than her to go. https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/comment-page-2/
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:27 PM
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Just ignore the news if you can't handle it.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:20 PM
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Females do this exact same thing with no remorse to guys. Just understand you aren't the only guy on their rotation and do the same with them.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:11 PM
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Just ignore it and continue talking about whatever you were talking about. If she keeps repeating him, then you may have a problem.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:22 AM
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Maybe your average girl, but not your average attractive girl
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:20 AM
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Lol, do you live somewhere in the middle-east? Anything under 10 for a 25 year old is low.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 02:39 AM
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This looks like a fulfilling schedule to me. Curious, where do you live that you can go surfing so regularly?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:02 AM
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I don't even get wtf you're talking about in that job offers text.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:22 PM
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Learn to smash hotter, tighter pussy.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:00 AM
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Honestly, social media game can be great if you're living a cool life. If you're not though, it can work against you and I'd even suggest not having it. You can always say "I don't have social media" which is better than giving a social media to a girl and her seeing you have no friends and post shit. That being said, work on creating a cool life and then introduce IG or whatever to your life and post that if you want. Or don't if you don't enjoy it. It really doesn't matter. It's just a tool th…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:50 AM
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You're 19, LTR should be the furthest thing from your mind. And you can do all of those things with plates or FWBs.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:45 AM
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Yes, I was 25 y/o hugless, kissless virgin. I'm no player, but now at 30, I can sleep a new girl every week or so if I'm putting in the effort. Covid quarantines aside, you have to improve yourself as you already know. Have a nice body, dress well, socialize as much as possible, approach girls and get rejected as much as possible, etc. You know how to do it, you need to grab your balls and actually do it.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:06 PM
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Are you leading the dates and escalating? It's up to you to touch the girl and slowly work your way to a kiss, to your place, make sexual advances, etc. The date not automatically going to lead itself to your bed.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 06:26 PM
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"This isn't working for me anymore. Good luck"
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:52 PM
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See if you can get invisalign, it's harder to notice... but ya I wish I got the braces younger, it's worth having perfect teeth.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:47 PM
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Thinking about invisalign, is it noticeable at all?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:47 PM
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Could always try to go to court for the dog if you deem it's worth it. If it's too much of a hassle, then let it go man and wish it the best with your ex. I always considered getting dogs and always told myself if I get one in a relationship, I will have full ownership of it... for reasons like this.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:43 PM
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It's possible you're missing a blind spot. Do you dress nice to compliment your physique? Are you flirty with girls rather than friendly? It's hard to say with your post, maybe you have a friend who can provide an external perspective.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:40 PM
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Who paid for the dog and who has ownership of the dog?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:58 PM
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It happens man, it's a part of the game. Don't stress too much about it, and keep finding new prospects. If the old ones come back, great, if not you'll have new ones.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:57 PM
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Pretty much what the others stated. He's headed for an ugly disaster and even if you tell him, he won't listen. Pretty much have to let him make his own mistake and be there when he needs someone to help him stand again, that's all you can probably do. That being said, I would probably tell him to absolve myself of a guilty conscience of not warning a friend... even if it means losing him.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:53 PM
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I use minoxidil to maintain what I have. I'm not really sure it does anything but I don't really seem to be losing hair... so I assume it slows things down. By the time I roll around my mid 30s or 40s, I'll probably stop and just shave it.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 05:40 PM
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It's more about your perception of it than a reflection of anything to do with her. If this sort of thing bothers you, then it WILL bother you later. Also you said you've been knocking her for a month, that's no where near long enough to consider an LTR upgrade. Enjoy her while spinning other plates for at least another 6 months before LTR considerations.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 05:23 PM
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Calisthenics is about gaining bodyweight strength though. It can help you add muscle but can only take you so far.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:52 PM
21

How old are you? This sounds a lot like me when I was younger. I came from a pretty sheltered family and I didn't hold my first hand/kiss/have sex until 24. And in my first relationships, it was felt like I was playing catch up with the girls I was with. There was always some resentment from me towards the girls I dated because I felt I had been left out of the fun and party years. After my first relationship ended at ~25-26, I decided to save up a bunch of money I was going to spend a year trav…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:18 PM
2

Waaa you made me feel like shit waaa
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:43 PM
1

Damn, that man loves to ramble on and on.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:38 PM
9

Easy, don't see her while she's on her period and be busy doing something else or doing someone else. She'll start to learn you won't see her without something sexual. Reward good behaviour, pull back from bad behaviour.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:31 PM
4

She is sucking all kinds of dick and getting loads blown on her face while you think about how you love this girl and miss her. You have a serious case of oneitis. It was an 8.5 year relationship and started while you two were fairly young. She probably hadn't had her slut phase yet and wants it now. It's about time you do the same and go learn to fuck some other pussy. What sucks the most about this is that she is getting a bunch of dicks plugged into her while you have a lot of work to do befo…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:26 PM
8

You're probably considering MGTOW because you're too lazy to figure out your issue with women.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:53 AM
1

I mean nowadays, you can get a girl to come over for free off of tinder and the likes if you're high SMV like you're implying. But ya, go for it if you want man, you do you. Patrice O'neal did that shit all the time in Brazil and that dude was a legend
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:00 PM
2

Keep going NC
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:50 PM
2

I don't think a book specific to travel picking up girls with red pill lens exists. That's too specific. That being said, you don't need a book for this. I did something similar when I was younger (travel just to party and partly because I wanted to bang loads of chicks). Honestly, I'd say don't travel with that mindset. Travel to have fun and meet people in general, the chicks will come to guys who are genuinely having fun (ofc approach when you see opportunities but don't let this be a success…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:13 AM
6

Break your text into some paragraphs bro
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:08 AM
3

Didn't even get laid until 25. You'll be alright m8.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:04 AM
8

Yes kind of. But I do seem to make friends more easily but they are no where near as close as the ones I had younger. I'm pretty cool with it; just join activities you find interesting. Martial arts is a good one.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:49 AM
5

30, probably 1 friend like that. He's gotten married now, settled down and moved away to another city. Our lives have naturally drifted apart, but I still have full trust in him. I just don't see him much anymore.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:59 PM
1

Honestly, knowing its great, but it just comes with time
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:33 AM
4

Don't look for fulfillment in women. COVID has messed up a lot of things, look for alternatives.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:30 AM
1

Do you want to fuck a lot of women? Then make time. Do you not care? Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:29 AM
3

Honestly, it's not the easiest time to be dating due to lockdowns. That being said, I've improved my pictures for online dating by a significant margin and I can easily get a date or two per week. I still really dislike online dating but if you're unable to do standard approaches, then double down on your efforts for online dating. Learn some fashion, hire a photographer if you have to.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:48 AM
1

She's a plate, who cares. Plates are sex only.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:51 PM
7

I mean she spooned with you, might as well have gone all the way. Is that like half cheating? lol If not you, she'd fuck another dude. If you want to watch for your fellow man, fuck her and let him know.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:48 PM
1

Women are talking to their friends pretty much all the fucking time about this shit. Their life resolves around guys and drama. They don't need to come to a subreddit for a "strategy". The ones you see on reddit are fat fucking whales most of the time. You really think a hot chick needs to be on here discussing sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:28 AM
2

Why the hell do you care what a plate does on her free time?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:53 AM
1

You invite them straight to your home? I hesitate to do this because I don't want to get catfished. I usually just go for a short walk and then invite them over.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:16 AM
1

Doesn't matter. All women have slutty pasts. And I'd even say most have probably been side chicks to some guy at one point or another.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:53 PM
1

I have decent enough SMV to get dates from on Tinder but I get rejected a lot. Like A LOT. I’ve gone out with 50 different girls, but only banged about 24 of them. I usually get ghosted after the first date, even if we hook up. This has been happening to me a lot lately too. I get a lot of first dates and can even hook up with a lot of them but don't really hear back from most when I text for another meet up. Most girls are from Tinder so I don't pay too much attention, but I am looking for ways…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:44 PM
1

Good advice. You know, most this of these pictures you will have naturally if you live a cool, engaging life. I find it absurd how we give the losers an alternative by "faking" it and they still get mad that it's not 'fulfilling'.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 04:22 PM
2

I prefer evening/night dates, but I'm usually busy with other things during the day.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:57 PM
2

What do you do after coffee?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:56 PM
1

It used to bother me quite a bit when I used to find out I was dating higher body count girl when I was younger (in fact it still does if I start to see a girl as a serious prospect sometimes)... I've come to realize that kind of body count is normal nowadays though. Make peace with that fact, and figure out how you want to play the rest of your cards.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:37 PM
2

Having cake and eating it too for men would probably be to continuously fuck as many hot girls as they want, not having to offer commitment, have multiple relationships where the girls don't bitch and moan about shit. Most, if not all, men can't achieve that, and laws and society are not setup for men having their cake and eating it like it is for women.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:30 PM
1

Solipsism
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:21 PM
2

Push day - Pushups/diamond pushups/dips Pull day - Pull-up/chin-up/inverted rows/(some exercise where I attach a resistance band to a par and do a row) Legs - Squats/Pistol Squat/Lunge (can wear a bag with books or something inside for weight) And I alternate those days for now. It's not much but hoping it'll maintain until gyms open up.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:20 PM
1

Good guess
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:31 AM
2

I hate online dating but unfortunately I think it's probably the only thing you can do right now. Keep working on yourself to come out of covid better though. The other option might be to start doing some day game.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:37 AM
7

No reason to marry, so never.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:33 AM
1

I'm somewhat the same probably because of being a software engineer too, similar to you. It's a bit of a struggle to get out of that. I'd say socialize with more people and be conscious when the conversation is logical and break the pattern by talking about random stuff. Maybe meditation will help too.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:19 AM
8

Recently, my city has entered full quarantine. Gyms, bars, restaurants etc are closed. We aren't even allowed to gather outside. It's for real getting under my skin. I work from home so that keeps me somewhat busy, but even then I have time on my hands I don't know what to do with. Noticing myself slipping into older crappier habits. I'm looking into starting calisthenics next week to maintain some edge. It's getting colder too so going outside to enjoy a walk is getting harder too. I won't lie,…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:35 AM
3

Lol my first ex, I dont know if she let herself go or anything but I definitely looked at old pics and realized she was like a 4/10 lol... boy my standards have changed
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:28 AM
3

Man, the whole metoo shit would prevent me from doing what you did. Good on you I guess but watch your back with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 09:55 PM
1

If you live in NA, chances are you earn a ton being a doctor. Honestly, the fact that you're asking this question makes me think you're much better off spinning plates for a very long time for now. Stop trying to find a unicorn first of all. Second, your SMV has only recently started its ascent; hopefully you're lifting, working on your style, etc as well. As a fellow 30 y/o engineer who earns well over 6 figures too, our best strategy is to spin as many plates as possible. It's the womans job t…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:05 AM
2

lol she said the sex wasn't in a relationship kind of way. Sounds like you want some serious, she doesn't.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:16 PM
33

Probably more common than you think. People just get caught less than you think.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:14 PM
1

lol I remember doing exactly something like this in Mexico once. Told some girl that I came here to fuck girls like her within 5 minutes of meeting her. She wouldn't leave me alone the whole night after that.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:18 AM
16

Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:15 PM
2

Contextual alpha probably.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:28 PM
1

Hey brother. I understand and can relate to your frustration. I could go into this loads with my struggles in LTRs with girl pasts but I won't do that. You get better at dealing with the feeling, but I'd say it still remains for the most part, it seems to be hard to unplug from it. They key for this getting better is probably having your share of a past too I think. I think this is where you really have to accept and embrace plate theory and don't go looking for LTRs and keep spinning them until…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:27 AM
3

Unfortunately, it's near impossible to know the truth of this matter. Even if you could know, 0 to 1 lifetime partners is not going to happen in this day and age; unless you what a fat land whale. Even then, odds are against you.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:18 AM
3

for long term relationships without having to worry too much about getting a false rape accusation the US is definitely not your best bet for this lol
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:43 AM
1

Like I said, only do it if you really don't care that she fucks other dudes. You might say it's a oLTR one-way but it never really is. It's funny because my LTR often made passing remarks about having it open just for me. I think she realized my SMV (or at least potential) was much higher than hers. I never really accepted it because in some form this would give her an out for cheating if power dynamics shifted for a slight period. And frankly I was pretty busy at the time and then covid hit, th…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:36 AM
2

Coming from a similar situation where I tried something similar, not worth it. Just break it off. It'll suck for a week, but your mind state will be so much better off without that BS in your life unless you truly think you don't mind her banging dudes. That wasn't it for me, so I peaced out. On a side note, I'm not 40+ but god, chicks 30+ or close to, are the worst with their biological clock ticking amongst other baggage.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:56 AM
10

You shouldn't have time to fuck 3 times a day if you're busy on your mission tbh
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:27 PM
1

Can try to rent an airbnb and pretend you're looking after it for a friend or some shit.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:49 PM
0

Fuck a couple of top notch escorts
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:44 PM
1

The funniest thing about this is when you finally get the balls to break up with her, she's going to ride another guy's dick within a week and make sure you find out about it.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:32 PM
2

I've felt similar. Especially since I lost my v-card at 25. I'm 29 now, and to get over this, I'm pumping and dumping as much as I can moving forward. I will be avoiding LTRs in my prime (30-35) the same way. I will also date younger girls 20-25 now. You see man, girls get their prime between 18-25 and need to use that short time span to collect as many dicks as they can because they just don't know any better about how this hurts their future potential. In that same respect, men only reach thei…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:09 PM
5

I'd say do it in moderation. I remember when I did the no fap thing for 90 days, by the end of it, I was willing to fuck any fat whale that moved. Not worth going that far.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 07:46 PM
1

Ah... the life of a man in pure scarcity. The only way to have a good shot of maintaining an LTR is having an abundant mindset throughout the relationship. Bit of a catch 22 if you place your cards in one LTR.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 06:42 PM
2

Patrice O'neal was fat and ugly as fuck, yet is a legend. Make peace with what you can't change and keep on improving and excelling at the things you can.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:59 PM
2

body fat %?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:02 PM
5

Noticed you said it's right after a breakup. Chances are, this is the reason why. You're still getting over it and still in oneitis scarcity mode. Let yourself mourn the loss, and focus on you for a little before moving on to fucking other girls again.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:20 PM
1

Reaching 30, somewhat disagree with 5. I spent a lot of time putting my head down on my career and not spending enough time building a good social circle and it caused me to struggle with getting any pussy. I lost my v-card at 25, and while I've been with plenty of women now, the effects of that are still lingering with me today. That being said, I gained a lot in terms of financial independence. I'm doing better than anyone I know my age so I guess we'll see in the next few years whether I can …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 05:00 PM
1

Where are horny girls? Especially during covid lockdowns.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:09 AM
1

Create one. Join some social activities you're interested in if you can, become a regular, try to introduce yourself. Over time you will see the same faces, and you can invite some of them to a house party or to a bar. Keep doing that and over time you'll start to form one.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:06 AM
3

If you actually have a dope life (travel, social proof, athletic, motorbikes, etc.) and good photo skills, then by all means flaunt it. If you're just an average joe, I argue it does more harm than good. It's just a time sink.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:04 AM
1

Stop looking to date again for a while. Forget women for a while and focus on you. Any dating you do right now will always be comparing the new girl to your ex and that's not what you want to do. Take a few months to lift, eat right, focus on your career, etc. Anything except women. When you've kind of moved on, start gaming girls again.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:00 AM
2

13 is on the conservative side nowadays
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:22 AM
2

In my case when she started refusing sex then it drew my attention to the fact that she didn't even initiate, which also made that fact that she wasn't verbally affectionate all seem like they were connected to something. So in looking for a possible explanation, the only thing that seem to make sense was her relatively high n-count of 15. Fair enough, I'm skeptical about this being n-count related but I don't know her. Being friends with dudes she's fucked was definitely an issue. One of her "c…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:20 AM
1

Right, she will compare you I'm sure. But the fact that she is doing this shouldn't enter your reality. It's also destructive and you entering her frame.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:09 AM
2

Personally, I'd say to find a way to really stop caring about the n-count. I've gone down the path of obsessing about that BS and it just causes you suffering. I'm not really sure it's the cause of a bad partner, I suspect its a symptom. I've had sweet women who treated me great who had so many partners that didn't even know the number. I'm not happy about it, but I will consider it a yellow flag and look at other things in combination. Partying habits, is she carrying baggage (friends with dude…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:49 PM
1

Idk man, while this is probably true and I don't like to date high n-count girls seriously anymore myself, I lean towards thinking this mindset is destructive. Comparing yourself to all these images of imaginary dudes in the past is a one way street to fuck up your self-esteem. The better mindset would just be to think you're the most alpha she's had. And if you care about n-count, then work that into the latter mindset by saying you don't want used up goods. But don't compare yourself.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:40 PM
2

It sounds like you're already living together and stuff. It literally can only hurt your relationship imo at this point. She will feel "locked in" after that and you will lose attraction and she will get too comfortable. And that's just perspective for your relationship. You are taking a SHIT load of risk getting married for literally very little value/reward, if any.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:34 PM
1

First of all, this is something you verify in the vetting period. If she is on social media, she always will be. If you didn't like it, shouldn't have made her an LTR in the first place. Stop trying to control her behaviour. Most women use social media nowadays, it's annoying but it is what it is. Good luck finding one that doesn't. This is pretty petty behaviour in general, pretty much like mate-guarding. Now to her lying. This would be grounds for a break-up for me. If she can lie about someth…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:26 PM
2

Create a routine out of all the things you want to do. For example, 8am - workout first thing in the morning. 9-9:15 - Meditate 9:15-10 - Shower/breakfast 10-2 - Study/Work/Read whatever 2-3 - break/lunch 3-6 - Whatever goal u wanna work toward etc. Just create a process man
/r/askTRP14/05/20 01:27 AM
2

Pretty solid honestly. Because I'm not able to go out with friends and ruin my diet with shitty food, has made me super consistent with eating good. I used to struggle when I used to see dessert or sweet food. I haven't had any in two weeks because I just don't think about it and follow my meal plan.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:17 PM
3

Right, the grass is always greener. I'd say I've made up somewhat for missing out in college for sure, but the grass is always greener I suppose. I'm sure I would feel the same if I were in shoes similar to yours so I'm still happy with how my life has gone but just know there's value in having been there, done that. You don't have to wonder.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:11 PM
1

Too muscular for what? That's for you to decide. I'd say the natural limit (maybe even a bit smaller) tends to be about the sweet spot for attracting women though. Your physique is good, starting to reach a point where you'll get diminishing returns. Also, that tat in the middle is hideous
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:36 AM
5

very very impressive if you were natty lol what, he just looks like an average guy who lifts here and there. There's plenty more he can gain natty
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:25 AM
1

EVERY girl does this. And not with one guy, multiple guys in their past. If this kind of shit freaks you out, you are no where near ready for an LTR. In fact, compared to most, yours seems conservative. But you're not ready.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:20 AM
5

Well one factor was that a good chunk of my time was spent studying and working minimum wage part-time quite a bit to support my college fees. I came out debt-free out of college because of it. Then the second factor. It was heavily male-dominated. My classmates were all video game nerds and while I didn't become super close to them, it rubbed off on me being in that environment and I spent my little free time doing the same. I'm sure I could have found a way if I really wanted to despite the od…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:56 PM
10

While I attribute software engineering to have negatively impacted my sex & social life in university (and somewhat even now), as I've gotten older I've realized that tradeoff I made back then has put me in a very good position now. I enjoy the work and don't mind the 40 hours unlike most people. I make more than any peer/friend that I knew from high school or college, I'm making 6 figures in a low cost of living city, not even 30 yet, I can work remotely from a different country or home when I …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:14 AM
6

Just seems like a shit test. I would just A&A. I wouldn't make a big deal for once or twice, but if continues then you need to seriously up your dread game or move on.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:56 PM
1

Yeah, this is something I've been thinking of doing more in general. It's naturally helpful if you have girls liking your pics.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:28 PM
2

I go out for drives and walks around parks occasionally, but all the mountains around here are closed. You're absolutely right though, and it's more in my head than anything.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:57 PM
8

The hotter they are, the more you'll see this. It still fucks with my head time to time. Not really much you can do.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:56 PM
1

That was a shit test and you failed.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:14 PM
2

No, the guy should never initiate this talk.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:47 AM
1

Ideally whatever you take the most interest in and commit yourself to being the best in.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:46 AM
2

Actually you can. Either walk off or set a strong frame from the beginning about what is tolerable/acceptable behaviour. But yeah with the options these girls have and the attention they have they think they can control a RP guy and when he actually walks away that's when they realized they fucked up. Right, I meant more broadly speaking. You might not personally have to deal with it, but there's plenty of BP dudes who will accept it. Also, it's getting more and more common, so you'll start to g…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:23 AM
1

Software Engineers make good money in USA (bay area is a good place to be if you're good in tech)
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:15 AM
4

You sound like a jealous bitch. Let me explain something to you- when you let a girl lock you down, you are taking yourself out of the game. You are putting yourself into scarcity, meanwhile, she is never in scarcity and dudes are hitting her up on Snapchat, IG, when she’s out, etc. The bitter truth lol
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:02 AM
6

Funny you say that, last few chicks I've slept with also had anti-depressant meds in their bathrooms. I think I called one out on it pretending to not know what it was and she said it was to "help her sleep/relax" lol
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:56 AM
48

Young chicks are always more dramatic, but the attention whore levels, out right sluttiness, and open displays of this desire for the CC while shaming betas is quite revolting. They used to be more subtle about it. Yup, I'm nearing 30 and very much seeing this as well. I think it's pretty unfortunate we've come to this level of open promiscuity and I really don't think healthy long-term relationships can come out of our current mainstream model. And really, individually, you can't really change …
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:55 AM
3

One thing I would like to find is a group of other bachelor buddies who are on the same professional level to go out with. That's my only complaint. I'm almost 30 and this is my biggest complaint honestly. Friends are becoming scarce as they marry off. When dating women in their late 20s and early 30s, the first thing they think of is getting married/kids before we've even gotten to know each other. The wall is strong. And as you get older, your chances of finding a quality LTR diminish if kids …
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:44 AM
2

I think as I approach 30, that's something I've noticed as well. While I feel successful and think that TRP is correct on a lot of things, it definitely is a lonely path to walk.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:38 AM
1

I'm focusing on a cut, so I just started doing HIIT based workouts (Insanity Max 30 is a good imo). I'm going to be shredded when this is all over. Use this an opportunity for monk mode.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:23 AM
4

Here are your options: 1) Stop playing the game 2) YOLO 3) Always wear a rubber, be selective of partners (maybe think to yourself if she's hot enough to take that chance of catching something), and if you get something, deal with it. Aside from like herpes, most things are treatable/curable or go away eventually.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:54 AM
7

Idk man, would a girl really tell you that she's not?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 02:50 AM
2

Nah, don't do it. Just keep it a mystery. She'll probably know when/if you guys fuck and never talk to you again, but you'll have nutted and you'll no longer be a virgin for the next one.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:44 AM
1

Anyone have a link to the original post?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 10:59 PM
2

Bullshit. Some of the best nights and pulls I've had have been from going out alone. I just act like I lost my friends in the venue and will find them later if ever asked (I've rarely been asked)
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:33 PM
2

Work towards new goals. I'm the same way and my fulfillment comes from pursuing new goals. It could be lifting or getting good at dancing, or whatever. And try new things. You might find something new that you fall in love with. Don't stay comfortable.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:34 PM
1

I'm not sure this is always true, do you research, but I know only one person that did it, and he told me his orgasms are significantly weaker and his jizz is more watery instead of thick.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:29 PM
2

I'm a software engineer and I'll share my life experience because it may be relevant. Honestly I consider it to be one of the bigger reasons as to why my life has been how it is; not software engineering, but the whole nerdy, video game, engineer guy persona. It was probably a big part of the reason I didn't get laid until 25. My friends were all nerdy betas who wanted to play video games and I was the same. I eventually graduated and became a software engineer working with a bunch of old guys w…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:37 PM
3

Considering marriage is a shit deal, what about having kids? How does one raise kids in an environment with an LTR when cohabiting is the same thing as marriage nowadays?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:02 PM
18

Unless you’re competing or have intentions of doing so, or your career choice requires it, there’s not much point of being so OCD about it because you can get 90% of the way there without being perfect with everything (ie have a cheat meal once in a while, have a drink with friends once every 1-2 weeks, etc) But if you enjoy it and don’t mind the opportunity cost, then it’s your life and you’re welcome to strive for greater. Just know as a natural, you’ll only get so far before needed to juice.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:17 PM
3

I may have something similar in this instance where I feel like I can't truly enjoy my LTR because of the things I've learned and I always seem to be keeping one foot out the door even though things are good. I wonder if it's something that just passes with time.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:12 PM
1

You set a poor standard from the beginning. When my LTR is on her phone, I take it out of her hand and put it away. She gets the message and doesn’t do it again. From the beginning, I expect her not to be on her phone when I’m there, that was my standard from the beginning.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:29 PM
5

Unfortunately, very few women are worth having kids with nowadays
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:46 AM
1

Sounds a lot like a situation I’m in. Honestly, it’s immoral and unethical to do this and if you care about her, you shouldn’t waste her time or yours. Women get limited time in their prime so they build these experiences in this limited time while guys will cultivate this over a longer period. That being said, I’m guilty of leading on my current girl as well until I’m in a better place and can cultivate some abundance. I also have shitty logistics and hers are good for me right now.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:56 PM
7

When you ask this question, the answer is yes.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:01 PM
1

I spent a good 6 months around SEA but honestly I don't get what you're asking here?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:32 AM
1

I didn't get it before my first relationship, but when I was in the relationship after TRP, I felt like I always had one foot out the door. In some way, I feel like I didn't fully let myself enjoy that relationship because of it, but on the other, when it inevitably failed, I moved on pretty quick.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:24 AM
3

It's normal to process emotions. Keep working on yourself, game new girls, try new hobbies. Eventually she'll occupy less and less space in your mind and it'll eventually fade. It's a process.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:22 AM
5

Yes, it's pointless to explain this to them and you look like a massive beta when you try. Fuck them, and if you don't like it, dump them and move on to the next.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:43 PM
6

I might be missing something here but it seems like a bit of an over-reaction to end it over something like this? Most girls have a past and she probably "lied" because she didn't want to cause drama. I mean if she was engaging with him by replying to him or texting him back, then I totally think what you did was right, but if a dude just hit her up from her past, and she didn't engage, what's the big deal? She was probably worried you'd be mad at her for it so she lied under pressure, but later…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:40 PM
2

Unfortunately it bugs most men because plating as a man requires a lot more skill than for a woman. Women have abundance by default while a man has to work to cultivate abundance.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:52 AM
1

I mostly only compliment while I'm fucking them. Or if they've gone out of their way to look good for me.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:18 PM
2

The problem is if they're too insecure/needy and if you're unable to provide comfort at the right time she is way more likely to find it somewhere else.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:15 PM
3

What about STDs?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:34 AM
2

What kind of leverage?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:29 AM
1

Most girls will have sex on the first date with the right guy. And ideally, you want to be that right guy so you should always go as far as you can on the first date. No such thing as taking it slow nowadays... don't value sex so much.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:37 PM
6

If you had text messages previously and deleted them, maybe you can call your cell phone provider up and get records of text messages sent and received. Most companies have those I think.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:06 PM
1

10? lol... where do you find girls with 10? Damn near every girl I've dated has ADMITTED over 25.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 04:37 AM
5

Yeah, this is pretty much how you find out n-count if you want to know. Honestly though, nowadays I tend to care less. If you give up the notion of marriage/kids... it really doesn't matter. Even if you LTR a slut, have your fun and when shit starts to suck, just leave.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 04:35 AM
0

She has asked me already twice and I've pushed it back on the account that I feel like I still need to get to know her better. How do I ask her about him the next time she asks?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:06 AM
2

I don't mind that she's played the field before me but if she's keeping an old FWB around, then I've got a problem with that. This is the mystery I'd like to solve before having the ducks in a row for the upgrade
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:34 AM
2

Honestly, the lack of a quality woman to have children with.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:52 PM
4

You sound like a pussy... learn to take a roast you faggot.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:39 PM
3

Indirect game
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:34 PM
1

People will generally mingle in hostels so you can at least get talking. The rest depends on your charmingness. Also, alcohol.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:52 PM
10

I mean there's foreigner chicks everywhere looking for dick. Idk about US because I'm Canadian but here I dont go out much because I'm in my routine, avoid drinking, etc. When I was there, staying in hostels you naturally go out more because you meet people who wanna go party etc. So naturally there's more opportunities. It's no magic though, still gotta play the numbers game
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 02:13 AM
15

Thanks. Every single person I knew was against it actually. Telling me I had a good job, that I should start a family, etc. Deep down I knew I wouldn't be happy going down that path because I hadn't experienced anything in life... but with everyone around you saying wtf, it makes you question yourself... but looking back it was probably the single best decision of my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:00 PM
4

I wasn't tracking my spending super carefully, but all in all, for the whole year, I probably spent like 30k total (including ~4k for a motorcycle accident in thailand). I wasn't being super frugal with my money or anything though, I could have done it cheaper if I wanted to. Most my time was spent in southeast asia. About 2-3 months in Europe.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:57 PM
2

Canada, but pretty sure they have planet fitness in the states. Yea, it's not the best, but for a beginner it's more than enough.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:55 PM
84

I used to be a gamer most my life and would play 8+ hours a day sometimes. Honestly, I can't even play them anymore, I get bored of them after an hour. I do wish I didn't spend so much time on games though and focused on developing my social skills when I was younger.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:41 AM
70

I quit my job a few years ago to travel for a year (mostly because I wanted to figure out going out, being social, getting laid if I'm being honest), and it was the single most important thing I ever did for my abundance mentality. I went from being a 25 year old virgin and now I've been with a little over 20 girls at 28 (I know that's not a lot for some of you slayers, but god damn I'm proud of my improvement).
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:38 AM
1

I pay like 120$ a year for my gym membership... idk how y'all can't afford that.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:34 AM
1

I mean, if you're smashing a chick for a year, then there's a 15% chance. That's still quite high.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:09 PM
0

You forget that chicks go crazy when reaching the wall even if they're "career-oriented"
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:15 AM
2

I always use my own condoms, no exceptions... but I still wish there was something additional I could do. What are spermicides?
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:07 AM
1

Idk, we were just talking about life in general and at some point she said she imagined she'd be at a different place when she reached the age she is now. She thought she'd have a family with kids by now etc. And mentioned she only has a few more years of fertility if she wants to conceive. I just kind of ignored that chat, but I realized later that her biological clock is basically ticking and I don't want to be around for the explosion. She's a great plate, super hot, and no drama, but I don't…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:05 AM
1

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-effective-are-condoms
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:03 AM
1

But are condoms alone enough? I've always been with girls on BC in the past and I still always used condoms. The BC was a good backup to give me peace of mind though in case condom fails and I'm not aware.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:03 AM
1

You take peace of mind from a woman's words but not from a physical device?? Well that's in addition to using condoms I mean. In case my condom doesn't work, I hope that her BC will cover those instances even if she forgets some days. But yes, I wish there was more I could do than condoms. Im thinking I'll also pullout
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:01 AM
1

Typical rates are 85% according to this: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-effective-are-condoms
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:00 AM
2

I'm thinking of pulling out now too. I used to blast inside because it feels best but I guess I'll stop doing that
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:59 PM
4

I just rinse it out properly and then throw it away
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:59 PM
1

She is losing attraction towards you. Up the dread game...
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:25 PM
1

Yeah, I get that... Like I said I'm not so worried about STDs... chances are low and even if you get them if you get tested regularly most are curable. I don't think I have herpes but even if I did, most people do, who cares. Pregnancy... you can't cure that shit. That I'm more cautious about. Be prepared next time and always have condoms when going to see a girl even if you're not sure if you're gonna get laid
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:16 AM
3

I get this paranoia sometimes... I'm more paranoid about pregnancy than STDs though. Look up Mark Manson's guide to STDs... most are curable and chances of getting most are pretty low... they're more scary for women than guys. Also, always use your own condoms.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:09 AM
1

I've partied quite a bit in the past few years. I have yet to meet a sober guy at a bar/club who was actually fun to be around during the party. Most times when I meet a sober guy at a bar or club, they're usually in the corner saying nothing. I get it because I was that guy and honestly, I hate alcohol and the taste of it, but it helps a lot with socializing, and I become a much more fun/high energy person when drunk. Dancing is fun, talking to girls is awesome, and I'm uninhibited. If I could …
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:30 AM
2

I have to agree with this advice. I avoided drinking alcohol completely (until I was near 25) for the longest time because of a somewhat religious upbringing. Although I don't regret or anything, I do think I missed out on a lot of fun experiences and probably a lot of girls. I think going to places like bars and clubs, which are places to drink, it does come off as a bit odd when you're sober. But the real problem is that usually when sober, you won't be able to match the energy/vibe of the roo…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:21 AM
1

Honestly, early 30s to mid 30s should be pretty normal to get an early 20s girl. I think after that the gap becomes larger, and your game needs to be tighter (which it should be because you've got more years under your belt). But bars/clubs if you're looking for a shag. Otherwise, hobbies/social gatherings, anywhere. Take the shots you can.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:07 AM
3

It depends on the vibe they give off. I've met a few 30 somethings and they had a very similar vibe to the younger crowd so most didn't even realize they were older.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:03 AM
1

I'm a bit in the same boat. Not sure about LTR material, but when I've been on my travels in Central America and parts of SEA, I've noticed the local women quality to be much higher. Unfortunately I don't live there or plan to so I can't say what their long-term quality is like, but it did seem that way.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:00 AM
1

Surprisingly good tip. When I'm in this situation, I assume non-interest and usually just do the same by leaving the ball in her court and moving on. I'll try this approach and see if it works better.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:08 AM
3

You sound like you got offended to easily.. sounds like a mere shit test and you failed.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:09 PM
1

Try it and find out.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:12 PM
2

What in your opinion does RP get wrong?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:11 PM
1

That's not a TRP tactic. Overt communication like that is definitely not TRP, in fact it's blue pill as fuck. You shouldn't look at a lot of the responses that people post here as TRP, most of them are still blue pills that haven't figured it out yet. I think the intention in that response is to instill dread, but that's definitely not the way to do it. In that specific example, you could read about the levels of dread. Definitely go through the sidebar because it doesn't sound like you're diffe…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:07 PM
2

What is a TRP tactic that doesn't work on them? lol
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:55 PM
2

I have already :)
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:53 PM
3

Corey Wayne's material is alright but god his voice and annunciations are so damn annoying.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:06 AM
1

It is a typical travel fling. Look up holiday flings, it happens to everyone. Enjoy the trip, but make sure you see it for what it is, a fling.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:03 AM
1

Firstly, you have oneitis mate. Flings when you travel always seem way too perfect. I've travelled a lot, and it's happened to me too, and one Norwegian girl I spent a few days with in Cambodia, 3 months later contacted me out of nowhere telling me she was in love with me and wanted to pay for everything for a trip together. I was pretty busy at the time and it was a bit creepy so I declined. I might just contact her and see if the offer is still on the table lol
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:02 AM
1

I retain less information driving too but you don't need to memorize the book, just need to get major points across. You will never remember a whole book especially if you want to read a lot.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:59 AM
1

Can you recommend particular brands of these items (HD preferred)?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:10 AM
2

lol asking for a friend.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:03 AM
1

I do audiobooks during my 20-min commute, it's the easiest way for me. Break it up into however many minutes you can focus. Even if you're only listening 5-10 mins a day. With practice, you're attention span will develop and you'll be able to go longer. I personally find audiobooks easier, but others prefer reading, so maybe read?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:46 AM
2

You have to be selective of these things before you get into an LTR, not try to fix them during the LTR.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:44 AM
2

The alternative is not having sex if this freaks you out. The chances of getting anything serious is pretty low. You probably have herpes if you've had sex with a few different girls, and don't even know it like most people. It's not even a big deal tbh. Search up Mark Manson's guide to STDs and read the article.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:10 AM
1

I'm still working on it but my best is doing some kind of group activity where the instructor makes you work with partners/groups and if there's a girl you can partner with, by the end you can usually ask for her number and it'll be more solid than a random one. I do boxing and we do partner work, and sometimes I'll partner up with a girl if she's alone and it's pretty easy to get a number by the end of it. You do have to be careful if you're a regular somewhere, because you don't want to be the…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:01 AM
5

Tinder is pretty shit like the others have mentioned. Try to get the date as quickly as possible, and expect girls to fizzle in general. It's not you, it's just they have so many options available there. If you had hundreds of girls matched with you actively hitting on you, you'd find it difficult to respond to all of them too.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 03:03 AM
1

I do well at clubs when drunk, mostly because I dance to have a good time but personally, I just can't deal with clubs sober. I can't really dance as loose as when I'm drunk. I'm trying to minimize drinking and I personally just look at other venues for meeting women. Online/day game. With day game, I generally meet a better quality pool of women too. Personally, I do feel a bit creepy when I'm at club sober, but more because my energy/vibe isn't in the same place as everyone. But who gives a sh…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 03:00 AM
1

I did a year off and spent 3 months in Europe in hostels. Honestly that year was probably the biggest factor to my game improving in short amount of time. Literally got practice every day. I slayed but not as much as I would have liked because I was still not that great at social interactions at the time. If I did it now, I bet you I'd rack some serious numbers. Like the other guy said, hostels are your friend. Idk where you're going but some places in Europe have party hostels and those ones ar…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:52 AM
2

You're not supposed to tell them there's other girls...
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:38 AM
2

Kind of a waste of time for you that she still came out, I'd rather the girl cancelled honestly. I think the better option would be to either just be honest and say, "no thanks" and walk off. Or if you have the game/confidence/good energy, proceed like she said nothing and make your moves. If they work, great, if not, cut it short and leave. Sounds like she got to you by saying that, so option 1 was probably just easier, so you could cut your losses. Next her for now, if she comes back, you can …
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:25 AM
3

I don't get depressed but, after a week or two where I haven't lifted, I feel my body being generally weaker, more prone to fatigue, and maybe even a little less confident.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:21 AM
1

Eh, it would've been better if you saw this when you started dating and never got into an LTR with a girl like that in the first place. Likely, you ignored the red flag, and then tried to hide in the sand by mate guarding. Point being, mate guarding is always wrong, if you need to, then you shouldn't be with that person in the first place.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:16 AM
5

I'm sure this works but fuck that. This approach can damage your reputation in social circles. Just rip the bandaid off.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:34 PM
1

This is a good thing
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:57 PM
1

So much broscience in this post lol
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:54 PM
3

I think RSD has been preaching this a lot lately. I honestly think it makes things a lot easier if you've got a solid profile, but it takes a lot of time to cultivate a lot of followers, and have a solid profile that shows the best of you.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:47 PM
1

Some girls are just flirty with everyone, and they're usually the most dangerous ones to catch oneitis for like you have.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:42 PM
2

lol can't believe you engaged in that. Law 30: Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless Make your shit look easy. What does it even matter who's more burnt out? Should've ignored her first comment, and told her come over and I'll help easy the tension.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:46 AM
1

No, I'd rather not be a faggot.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:43 AM
2

I don't see the problem... what do you want to do with women now?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:42 AM
3

Hard to say without knowing what the remark was. General advice is agree and amplify to make it seem like you dgaf
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:27 AM
2

I've never done MDMA but I've been in the IDGAF state w/ alcohol where I'm focused on fun/dancing instead of finding girls and it amazes me how many hot chicks approach me. I don't even realize it and the next moment I'm making out with a hot girl. It doesn't always happen though, but I try to chase that now instead of women.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:25 AM
2

5'11. Yes, although I'm generally fit and have some muscle on me, I'm probably 15-18% body fat. My physique is nothing to brag about, still working on it.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:11 AM
1

Yes, I was a hard case man... I've put a lot of work in to get where I have now, and I still feel like I haven't caught up sometimes...
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:10 AM
1

It's a good read.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:00 PM
1

It's a hard pill to swallow isn't it. Unfortunately, the reality is that any women in the right situation would cheat. The same goes for men (sometimes loyalty and honour in men allows them to bear more before cracking, but in the right situation, it can happen). There are good women out there, but again, they are still subject to hypergamy. When you look at a woman, you try to find women that aren't likely to put themselves in situations that would cause them to cheat. (i.e. party girls, girls …
/r/askTRP31/12/18 10:55 PM
3

I've met most of the girls I've been with at clubs too. Unfortunately I use alcohol as a crutch to meet women and I'm not as fun without it. I'd like to cut alcohol out of my life so I need other venues.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 10:48 PM
15

Good sex is amazing man, stop coddling him into not going after what he wants.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 10:44 PM
11

Hey man, to start off, I lost my v-card at 25 years old and was a hugless, kissless virgin until then. I'm 28 now. Since then, I've made out with countless amount of chicks, I'd say in the triple digits now and I'm at around 15 for lay count (and last week I fucked 2 in cancun, one of them being the hottest girls I've been with). I'm no player, but I think coming from where I did, I'm not doing too bad now and I am getting better. It took a lot of effort before things have started to click. Even…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 10:43 PM
0

You're already in danger territory from what it sounds like. You don't follow her advances, she gives you shit. You follow her advances, you bang her maybe, enjoy until shit hits the fan. I'd say just start looking for a new job.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:46 AM
1

Either continue working on yourself by lifting/reading/etc. or even relax if you've been working hard at college. Go travel somewhere for a week.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:58 PM
4

The paradox of unicorns
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:50 PM
1

Learn from him. If he's not super attractive looks-wise, he's doing something right that you may be able to adapt.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:33 PM
22

Sounds like you've got a lot of work to do. Join a gym, learn some fashion and get some fitted clothing once you have some muscle, start other hobbies that require you to be social, starting reading about and practicing some pua. In the meanwhile, get some hookers to learn how to have sex and get out of your head about it because you've got a long journey ahead of you
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:28 PM
1

lol is this actually a thing?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:21 AM
3

The guy in the story fucked up because he verbalized an opinion that went counter to the dominant narrative. Reminds me of Think as you like, but behave like others
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:20 AM
4

As a software engineer, in general I agree with this. Females on the job don't seem to catch on as quick as guys when you explain something. But I'll admit, 2 of my female team mates are an absolute joy to work with because they are super nice and when you ask them to do something, they'll follow your guidance and do it where as dudes on the team will claim they're busy even if they're not. This wasn't the case at most other places I've worked though. Females were always a nightmare there. So du…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:17 AM
2

If you're skilled at what you do, even if your job isn't safe, you shouldn't have any trouble finding another to replace it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:12 AM
1

Idk man, imo if you're not doing a lot of this stuff already, it may be setting yourself up for failure. I think a better process is to take on one habit at a time, and once it's solidified and you don't have to think about it anymore, you can add the next. If you take on a bunch of habits, you may successfully complete the 2-3 months, but in the long run, it'll fall apart because it wasn't built with a solid foundation.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:41 AM
1

I really enjoy the "Art of charm" podcast. It's not TRP but talks a lot about building better relationships with girls/people/yourself and general self-improvement.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:16 AM
13

Relative to what? He has an extra 7-9k per month. 4 nights of dropping 2k on a table and it's gone. Just for a few gold diggers. He's better getting a prostitute. He could use the money to develop himself, get a solid personal trainer, a private chef/nutritionist, a fashion stylist, travel to exotic places, etc.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:31 PM
2

Not sure about digital marketing so much, but I'm in the software industry, and learning to be a good dev is going to take some time. I'd say start by trying some basic tutorials and see if it's something you like.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:27 PM
17

Seems like an awfully expensive way to get some prime gold diggers
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:22 PM
2

Are you meeting them online? It's similar for me where I have trouble getting second dates from ones I meet online even though there's heavy makeouts during the date or even blowjobs ocassionally... and ghost after that. My guess is since the girls are online, they're dating other dudes, and I lost to one of the other dudes. When I go out on a date now (online especially), I assume it's the only date and I need to make the kill on that date. If I don't, at least the girl sees I was pursuing hard…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:09 PM
2

Lmao, I remember I had one of these condoms on with a girl once. It was the first time I was using it, and my dick was hard for pretty long, and I took it off so she could give me a blow job and her tongue got numb and she's like Idk why my tongue is numb. lol
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:39 AM
1

I do hot chocolate dates (instead of coffee) when I'm sober.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:17 PM
1

Man, I don't think you've read the sidebar. Trying to move past the plates phase of my life and think about starting a family. I doubt you've ever spun plates. I’m torn between nexting or just accepting that AWALT. AWALT doesn't mean you stay with them after they emotionally cheat you, you dimwit. Read the sidebar and absorb the info.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:13 PM
5

You should work on creating a better social life before looking for an LTR. Join group classes, once you become a regular at them, you'll start seeing regular faces, and you can initiate events outside class with people who are regularly talking to you there. From there, you can slowly meet them more frequently, etc.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:04 PM
1

You catch feelings because you lack abundance of hot women. I had the same problem when I was starting out. One date with a hot girl would have me down if I got ghosted. I'm still not where I want to be with abundance but it's definitely a lot more than it used to be, and I don't have this problem anymore. I may still get bummed when I don't hear from a girl that I really good chemistry with but it's usually a day at max and I move on pretty quick. It's ok to work through those feelings, just do…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:54 AM
11

hurr durr abundance hurr durr oneitis hurr durr spin plates
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:14 AM
1

Either switch schools, sue, or put your head down and work on yourself until you go to college. Honestly, it's high school, I suspect it'll be old new in a few months and it won't matter anymore... but if not, just switch and don't deal with this.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:09 AM
1

Do stuff to push your comfort zone. You've likely gotten comfortable in your relationship. Try something new, take a risk, etc.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:05 AM
2

I was travelling for a year and I partied a lot (take this with a grain of salt, because these were mostly party girls). Most women I was around, admitted easily to being with over 20 guys when they were drunk, and that was the low end. Age range was varied in the 20s-30s. One girl I slept with (she was 23 I think) told me over 50, doesn't know anymore. The number used to affect me when I cared about getting a girlfriend, but that year, seeing all kinds of crazy shit really numbed me to hearing/…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:58 AM
3

Don't tell her. When I lost mine, I was 25, pretty late bloomer. This girl, blatantly invited me to her place being sexual over text saying things like "Come over, I'll make it worth your while". I kept flaking on the girl for a while because I was nervous about losing it lol. I had told her I just hadn't had sex in a while. I guarantee I wouldn't have lost it if she knew I was a virgin. Yes, it was pretty awkward and I couldn't finish. I never heard from her again but she was one of the hottest…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:12 AM
1

One of the reasons I generally don't talk too much to female coworkers and keep things professional at work, always. Anything can be taken the wrong way.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:06 AM
4

How old are you? You seem autistic.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:12 PM
1

How do you get plates off IG
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:24 AM
5

He seems to end up with the hottest one in the end lol
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:01 AM
3

Mixed signals are a clear signal
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:46 PM
7

If 18 is too young and 29 is too old, one would think the middle would be just right.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:45 PM
5

Stop worrying about her. Go date other women and move on.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:43 PM
1

lol at her standards
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:57 PM
1

There was a guy version of this too lol
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:50 PM
2

This is exactly why you don't trust women with birth control and you use condoms every single time. Sucks to hear about your situation. I don't think there's much you can do if she doesn't want the abortion. Get a paternity test for sure, and hope it's not yours.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:01 PM
1

I suspect that you're a young guy who is, like most young guys, living in something of a state of deprivation of sex, even if you're getting laid. Maybe it's not enough, or not with the girls that you want. I'm 28, doing well for myself, and I still feel like I'm stuck here. Sure, I can get laid with a fatty whenever I want and occasionally a semi-attractive chick, but I can't seem to get laid on my terms with hotter girls.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:54 PM
1

Maybe you're trying to do too much from nothing. Idk what you want to achieve but start with focusing on one thing and make sure that one thing is done every day until it becomes a habit that's natural and you don't think about it anymore. Add one more thing, etc.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:18 AM
6

I wish more people didn't work out. So I could look that much better.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:31 PM
0

ITT: People trying to use TRP to fulfill their blue pill fantasies.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:21 PM
0

Lol no. It's idiotic to trust a woman with birth control. How are half of you on TRP?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:20 PM
1

Lol I wish I had a friend like that, would stalk his conversations and check his body language and learn from him.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:04 AM
1

Well, a lot of gains I saw were when I followed this program called "Linear Progression Based PPL for Beginners". It's on reddit, so if you google it should find it. It still has the core compound lifts, but also has a lot of 8-12 rep range exercises
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:18 PM
2

You know, people love to talk about themselves. You can be an interesting person just by letting others do most of the talking. Listen, ask questions and try to understand the motivations, goals, interests the other person has and you'll be solid just by doing that.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:36 AM
4

There's a correlation but they're not strictly tied. That's why you'll see a bunch of people who can lift tons of weight but are skinny as fuck or fat powerlifters. I wanted to become bigger and cared less about strength, and I didn't actually start getting bigger until I focused on hypertrophy.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:33 AM
1

I took a year off to travel around a bunch of places and when girls are travelling, they're generally at ease sharing that kind of information because they know nothing serious will come out of us and we likely won't meet again. It's a bit rarer back home but it happens. I act pretty non-judgemental about the whole thing. But really, eventually the flags can tell you what you're dealing with. I've never been surprised by the number because I think you can develop a general sense of what you're d…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:25 AM
0

Idk, but most girls ages 23-27 I've been with have openly stated 20+. 20 was on the lower end too. Remember once a girl I met travelling told me over 50 easily. She was 21. lol.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:46 AM
3

Neutral flag. Doesn't mean shit.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:42 AM
6

lol fuck that. Make her someone else's problem. Considering she doesn't even blow you, the vaginismus isn't even the problem. She doesn't want to please you, she finds you unattractive. Get out of this relationship you dimwit.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:41 AM
1

Yea, I only went to 2 meetups and both were just filled with "loser" type people. I mean they're trying, good for them, but I just felt I'd be downgrading. I mean, the logic is there too. Why would a cool guy or girl be at a meetup when if they're cool, they'd likely already be part of a social circle.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 10:35 PM
7

I did this as well, and I think my dynamic was different because being in a hostel allowed me to make friends very easily and I could just go out at night with them. While I got laid occasionally, by no means was I a slayer and never got to stay at a woman's place. Edit: That's not true, I did get to stay for a week at a girl's place in Europe. Surprised I forgot because she was the kinkiest woman I've ever been with. But damn, I really miss those days. That year of travel was probably my best y…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 10:29 PM
5

Curious. If you go out to a bar alone, do you just order a drink and sit around for approach opportunities or what? And in a club, just dancing alone until you can approach I'm guessing?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 10:27 PM
1

Do you drink when you go out alone? I'm generally not a big fan of clubs unless I'm tipsy/drunk.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 10:11 PM
26

lol she's good at doing her job if she's got you like this
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:15 PM
3

Pull off the bandaid
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:22 PM
2

Without one partying having feelings or desire from sex from the other? No, not possible. Maybe a friendship that's at an arm's length, where you hang once in a blue moon. But not a close friendship.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:35 PM
1

I am going to live with her as I want kids eventually. Marriage and a serious LTR goes under the same exception to that rule. You do you, but that's not true. I suggest reading more about the rule: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:27 PM
1

we have had many good times together (in groups and alone), after she initially rejected me few years back. Ah, so you're the friend-zoned orbiter. And she felt like throwing you a bone. If you keep getting more, you're happy, but if not you'll still stick around for the hopes of another eventually.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:21 PM
6

Yes, keep the process going and funnelling them through. If you're starting to get more than you can handle time-wise, start replacing your lowest value ones to you with more attractive ones.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:19 PM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:10 PM
1

Dread game
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:08 PM
2

What, you don't shoot the shit with your boys? I roast my friends all the time but they know it's all in good fun. It's just like flirting with women, but for men it's trash-talking, it's a part of bonding.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:01 PM
7

Nope, I'm 28 and I've given this some thought as well. Haven't found a solution, but my thought process is that I'm not going to have kids with a woman who can't be a good mother to them. And if I can't find a girl who's going to be a good mother, I'm better off enjoying my life living solo for myself and the potential kids I would have. ​
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:59 PM
2

I should probably make up my mind, but at the same time it would be interesting to have a clue about her intentions. Stop being a wishy-washy faggot. Only consider your own intentions. If you want to remain friends, remain friends. If you want her as something more, then do that, but it's really wasted growth for you at this point, judging by your post. If she says no, drop her out of your life. Why do guys still make close friends with women? The extent of women friendships should be being frie…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:48 PM
10

Skeptical it was the weed she was sad about. Based on what you said, it sounds like she cheated or something and she couldn't tell you, so she hamstered weed as the reason. But either way, you've lost your power in the relationship by giving in to her demands, so it's likely over. You're 20, go play the field, this isn't the time for you to be in a relationship anyway.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:42 PM
11

You know what's sad, once she inevitably gets past him or he finishes with her, she's forever broken because most other guys will not be able to take her through that roller coaster again.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:34 PM
1

Idk man, I'm 5'11 and really don't lift all that much, yet my physique is coming along and I get compliments on it and people tell me I should stop hitting the gym so much and asking me what I eat. I don't lift for strength though. I do my compounds for 3x5 (not that strong) and the rest is usually hypertrophy oriented (8-12).
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:27 PM
-1

Didn't watch the movie, but really don't think anyone on here should support it
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:24 PM
1

I did engineering. I wasn't ever bullied, but I was an outcast because most dudes in engineering were skinny anti-social nerds and I wasn't really about that. My old group of friends kind of drifted apart after high school so I didn't have them anymore. In university, for the most part I was pretty isolated doing my own work and working part time to cover the cost of it. It was pretty much 4 years of hell honestly. If I could go back and I could make the time, I'd definitely try to make a good s…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:19 PM
2

My anecdote on this is that I've experimented with this and it's 100% of the time a waste of your time. I've played the "text a bit" game ranging from a little bit of comfort building to spending a week texting the girl and every time it has been a waste of my time. Literally the only girls I'll get out from online are the ones that I really don't need to say much to. Hell, sometimes I'll open with "Let's get coffee!" and I'll set up the meeting from there. The quicker you get her out the better…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:23 AM
1

I think you just articulated something I felt before. I remember when I was long-term travelling and I'd meet an amazing girl, and spend a week or two with her day and night. Once we parted ways, it'd feel crap for like a day or two, but I'd move on pretty fast because I was constantly stimulated with new experiences. Now that I'm back in a routine, it takes me a tad bit more (maybe 3-4 days) to get over that hump.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:19 AM
1

Should that guy staring back at you really be chasing 9’s, or does he need to start off with 5’s and 6’s? Are even 5’s and 6’s above that guy staring back at you? Then the answers aren’t here on the internet. They’re at the gym where you hone your body and at your local bar where you hone your game. Idk man, I've been lifting for over 2 years now and starting to get a good physique, nothing great, but good. Been sober 1+ years, making good money (more than any of my peers my age), am well-travel…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 01:04 PM
1

Never go raw, period.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:40 AM
1

Always wear a condom, get tested frequently, stop worrying so much. Pregnancy is much more of a worry imo than STDs.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:38 AM
1

lol what did he say that remotely made her seem like a dog?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:36 AM
1

Sucks man. Join a hobby/group outside school. Sometimes one group will neglect you and in the other you'll be loved. Maybe try some form of martial art or whatever you're interested in. This way shit that happens at school won't bother you because you'll be too focused on getting better at boxing or whatever.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:35 AM
1

Bars/clubs? Libraries? On the street?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:31 AM
2

Making you wait or not is irrelevant imo. You can't find out, so stop worrying about it. Look for red flags instead.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:25 AM
1

Logistics are a big factor in getting laid, this will hurt your chances. I live with my parents as well, and logistics have been a drawback for me. It's so much easier to wheel her in to your place by saying, let's stop by my place real quick, need to pick up something/let me show you my fish collection/etc... The other option is her place. About half the girls have their own place/live on their own in my experience. Drop them off and ask to use their bathroom. The rest, I get pretty far with in…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:22 AM
2

I have a hunch that because they're probably dating a lot of guys, that you lose out to another guy. I remember one tinder date told me at one point she was dating 2 guys per day. You've gotta get to the point to where you stand out from that many dudes, and I think that's not easy.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:52 AM
1

I remember this one girl from tinder hooked up, got a bj in the car but i didn't get sex. She ghosted me after but still followed me on insta. I posted some pics at the beach looking ripped. She texted me like 'hey stranger' i invited her out for drinks hooked up then banged her. She told me she felt inexperienced compared to me and saw me as a manwhore saying she needed to ride the cock before we banged. Cause i wouldn't enjoy shitty sex or something was a weird reason. Lmao. Sloot logic. Hones…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:50 AM
2

Tell your boy if you respect his friendship at all... and be prepared to lose it
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:00 AM
2

ltrs are for suckers if you meet online, any format lol yup... except even the ones you meet offline now are online... so LTRs in general aren't a good idea anymore.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:52 PM
1

Personally doing some linear progression program I found on reddit, and i've been making good gains on that. Search `A Linear Progression Based PPL Program for Beginners`
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:34 PM
1

Yes, it sucks to lose someone you care about. She's choosing her job and her mission over you. And you should do the same mate. People come and go, especially girls.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:30 PM
1

He's talking about his girl leaving and you're talking about it being a healthy LTR. lol
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:28 PM
5

I'm personally in a similar situation. I haven't figured it out but I've gotten to the point where I don't care anymore and always assume that'll be the only date. The other day I had a date with a girl that I thought was mediocre from tinder. She actually turned out to be pretty hot when I met her and we got coffee in the evening, walked around, got some food, and I dropped her off. We were in my car making out for literally 2 hours, I tried to go to her place but she wouldn't let me the whole …
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:27 PM
5

I usually just get my social activity from the bars on the weekends which is fun but we all know the kind of women you meet there. Yeah? What kind is that? The ones you shag? What other kinds are you looking for? ​
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:19 PM
1

Personally never heard of him, but have seen his podcast recommended around here.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:13 PM
4

Really grip the bar as if you're trying to break it. Kinda crazy how under-rated this tip is for the gym. Really saw my gains go up doing this.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:11 PM
1

Do quarantined subs disappear eventually or will they just stay like that?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:24 AM
0

Welcome to 2018, dude. We’re living in a Golden Age of pussy. It’s because of women like the one you’ve described that you were able to spin plates for the past few years. I’m sure there were dudes who had oneitis for your plates. Now you know how they feel. I went out with a 37yo woman last night. She was nerdy, quirky, has a great career, and I guarantee you she’s probably fucked at least 20 guys in her life. And that’s a conservative guess. Women, especially since the advent of OLD, have not …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:20 AM
3

Her n-count is a lot higher than 4 firstly. I'm very skeptical about you having an n-count of 30 too. By then you usually have realized that most women have high n-counts, especially higher than 4 (this would be a virgin in today's day and age). I had this issue when I had a low n-count, and I'm sure it still lingers somewhere in me. You thought she was your precious innocent angel, yet you realized she likes sucking cock just like you like ramming vagina. Stop obsessing over it and let it go or…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:15 AM
3

I've done it once... think she was 38. Was meh in terms of the sex, but she paid for everything and had money lol
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:36 PM
2

I completely agree. It's one of the reasons I always tell people they should to have a good social circle to get girls, and really, maintain a high status position in that circle. In my opinion, it's much more effective than cold approach and if you get to that point, you don't even have to actively chase women, they'll chase you. ​ ​
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:33 PM
10

What a dumb question
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:23 PM
1

Really, someone should make a new philosophy of TRP, minus the sexual strategy material. That would be much more palatable to the rest of reddit although it'd still suffer the hand of feminist oppression to some degree. Then have the sexual strategy material seperate on the new site. TRP IS about sexual strategy. Without that, it's just self-improvement. Plenty on that around already.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:16 PM
1

I think calisthenics is dope for doing all those cool things like human flags and shit, but I don't think it can really replace lifting, and I don't think most people can get big just doing calisthenics
/r/askTRP24/08/18 10:53 AM
3

If you're a virgin, tbh, I think it's worth doing, even if once just to get out of your head about sex.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:51 AM
0

I eat primarily a vegetarian diet... Protein requirements are pretty skewed by the supplement industries too. If you look at any scientific studies (that aren't backed by supplement companies), you'll see you only need 0.7-1g per pound of LEAN body weight, don't remember the exact number. As an anecdote, I remember I used to take 2-3 scoops of whey a day to meet high protein requirements. I eventually got sick of it and stopped using supplements all together. My strength, size is still going up.…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:40 PM
3

Your other answer is passive aggressive/butthurt
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:35 PM
1

I did no fap/no porn for 90 days and all it did was make me super horny to the point where I had no standards and even fat chicks looked hot. But I probably wreaked of desperation too.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:55 PM
1

I don't mean just social media status but social status in general. If you're that cool, fun guy who is invited to all these dope parties with an abundance of 8-10s, and you have a high status in this circle, chances are you'll have a much easier time slaying them. I'm not arguing against fitness though, I 100% endorse that as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 08:08 PM
1

While I still have to improve my physique quite a bit, I'm not sure that's what it takes... I honestly think improving your standing in a good social circle is going to be a much better way to get hotter chicks. Or something like having tons of instagram followers that demonstrates social proof/hot women around you, etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 07:44 PM
19

Idk man, it's just a topic guys bring up because it's fun to talk about and shoot the shit. Ease up man... if it bothers you, just say something fun like "I don't kiss and tell bro" or some shit.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:22 PM
3

Of course they do, it's just a way to gather friends and have a good time lol.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:20 PM
9

While it's not impossible, I think it makes your life a lot harder. I have a similar issue where I don't have a high status social circle... and while I do alright slaying the average Jane, I haven't been able to pull anything above a 7-8. I honestly think being in a good social circle helps a lot when you want to get with hotter chicks. Imagine you had a social circle where your boy throwing a house party inviting a bunch of hot chicks (who invite their friends), etc... and let's say you're pre…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:18 PM
1

Totally man, I never fit in too well with the dudes in software aside from video games but also my high school friends ended up drifting apart so I was pretty much focusing on my school at the time. While job-wise I couldn't be more satisfied as a software engineer, I think it hurt me a lot with girls and solid friends. I do wish I had a solid group of bros I could go out with regularly. I've had to work on it a lot and I've made a lot of friends but I don't see them regularly; they probably hav…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:56 PM
2

I seem to get sex from mediocre chicks but now it doesn't do it for me anymore, I want hotter chicks because I still can't get them... that's my experience, not sure if that's normal though.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 06:50 PM
5

I did software engineering... biggest mistake was I got sucked into video games and had mostly nerd friends, so everything revolved around computers/games. Not many women in my classes either so I suffered with women. Biggest advice to you is, make sure you maintain a vivid social life outside of computers, and try to make outgoing friends too... not just the nerdy ones.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:09 PM
3

No sex yet? Sorry bud, but you're just another one of her orbiters.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:01 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:27 PM
1

What's the free bot called?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:43 PM
1

On average it takes 66 days to form a new habit
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:05 PM
3

If it matters to you, define your own number of what is acceptable. For some that's 0, some that's 10, some don't give a shit. I remember this would bother the hell out of me when I was with my ex because she let slip that her n-count was 19 (probably even more because that's the number she gave me), and I was at 2 at the time. It kept fucking with my head for the duration of the relationship... I didn't want to be seen with a girl so many guys had fucked before. I never told her we eventually b…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:45 AM
6

If she's sucking your dick, she's interested.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:35 AM
1

This happened to me for about a month. Noticed myself binging on my diet and I'd keep saying I'll get back on the bandwagon tomorrow. Try to create habits, grab a calendar and put an X on each day you succeed in following the habits you want. Do this for a week or two, and naturally you won't want to break that streak because you'd have a gap on the calendar you've been marking. Aim for 66 days of not missing a day.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:34 AM
2

amazing to have somebody around that's behaving like basically a wife Didn't realize a wife that fucks other dudes behind your back was such an amazing feeling and a pleasure to have around. You're being needy as fuck and desperate. Get a grip and go hit the gym.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:31 AM
1

How much money does she owe you?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:28 AM
1

sloots gonna sloot.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:28 AM
1

Looks like she had a thing for him from the beginning broski. You've got a lot of work to do, start by removing her completely from your life, and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:26 AM
5

That's a lot of hypotheses.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:21 AM
3

I've stopped drinking recently to focus on some fitness goals, but when I go out on a date, it's still "for drinks" and I just get myself a diet pepsi and the girl gets her drink. I'd guess you could've got the girl a non-alcoholic fruity drink or something. I'm doubtful this really has to do with her not drinking and being at a beer garden but more likely she wasn't into you for other reasons. But if you don't want to go to a drinking place, my goto is coffee or go for a walk around a nice plac…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:20 AM
1

You're in a shitty city then or picking bad hostels. Ones I stayed in had plenty of chicks. Even if you don't meet girls in hostels, you should be trying to make friends. When you go out to a bar/club later, you can meet chicks there.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:21 AM
1

I actually miss travelling and shagging left and right now that I wrote that out lol... I barely go out at home because I'm so focused on career/fitness gains now.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:22 PM
1

Stay at hostels, go party with them, approach.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:18 PM
6

Lmao I went to the full moon party on New Years expecting to fuck 3 broads in one night based on the hype that surrounded it. I'm glad I did it for a cool experience, and it was fun since I had a few friends, but was a sausage fest and I'd never do it again and not really recommend it. People getting into fights, pissing in the ocean, was trashy as hell.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:15 PM
4

I traveled the world for the whole year last year and I saw some crazy shit. For me it was never about becoming more cultured though, but rather living it up while I'm young. I've got incredible stories to tell, I've done so much, seen what most people dream of, climbed active volcanoes in the middle of the night at 1am, trained with some of the craziest muay thai fighters in thailand, scuba dived with sharks, got into trouble with Thai police, fucked a bunch of different of women from different…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:11 PM
1

Thanks I'll have a look into it
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:39 PM
1

Of course you're not because you have no valid arguments. Glad we're done here.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:38 PM
1

That's fine by me, I'm more curious about the quality of the followers.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:30 PM
2

That's not true. Plenty of people (like pro photographers) have amazing photos have good content yet never hit more than like 200-300 followers.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:30 PM
1

Are the bots worth it in your experience.. I keep hearing how you'll get followers but no engagement
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:20 PM
0

I have cool posts and shots, I don't have high amount of followers which is what the question is. Read broski.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:19 PM
-1

How do you do the 'up the followers' part?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:08 AM
1

Which bot do you recommend?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:05 AM
1

Can't you get banned with those bots? Wouldn't the users that followed you unfollow you after they realized you unfollowed them?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:44 AM
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Nah I have no selfies... most my pics are from my travels around the world... I'm back home now so I don't have much to post lately but wondering for the future when I have more content.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:27 AM
5

If it bothers you, you shouldn't have made her your girlfriend. In my experience, it's one of those things that if it bothers you, it always will.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:51 PM
1

I was a kissless hugless virgin until 25... I cared about that stuff when I was a virgin, doesn't bother me the slightest anymore.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:49 PM
2

Appreciate the advice man. So you went to a restaurant alone and just found a group of girls and joined in? I mean, that seems like a total cold approach, and while it might work to get laid, I don't see how that'd create a long-term social circle for me. I don't really understand the craigslist thing? Also, I'd assume it that'd be an even worse place to look for cool people to hangout with than meetup.com. Why would anyone post on there to make friends? I thought it was a website for selling us…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:16 AM
2

I've started to do better on Tinder in terms of getting dates but I get the same thing too. It's just a numbers game. Honestly, if they don't say yes to drinks within a couple of texts, I've never gotten them to go out. Girls that say they want to get to know me first have never actually been down to go out even if I tried playing the slow game... so I just move on to my next match really. You really have to go through the numbers in my experience. For every like 10-15 matches, I'd say say one o…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:47 AM
1

Pros: I'm motivated as fuck towards my goals, I can reach almost anything I desire. I have discipline and determination Clearly this is not true because one of your apparent goals is getting women yet in the same post you say you're passive about this goal.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:47 PM
2

Waste of time if you play too much. I used to play LoL a lot, got myself banned by trolling... and never really opened it again... I still play other games but after one hour I get bored and want to do something else. Not even sure why, I don't seem to get into games like I used to when I was younger. Get off of them, I feel like I wasted so much of my life on them when I could have been bettering myself and getting better with women.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:20 PM
1

The only thing I didn't was bang her I think. Only because I didn't have the rubbers.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:38 AM
1

She paid for my food even though... I’m not really assed about losing her but I wanna figure out where my mistake lies
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:13 PM
1

Well fuck, that makes it even more complicated. But I must say.. it’s weird after the first date she kept texting me and wanted to know what I was up to etc..
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:49 PM
1

Weird cuz I was pretty non-chalent about the whole thing and she kept trying to talk to me via text.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:48 PM
1

Fair enough, but why would she invite me on the second date then?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:33 PM
1

Escalate/kino? I did bro. My attempts were rejected lol
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:19 PM
1

That was the first date though, and she didn't, I had invited myself saying that I wanted to meet her dog, just to see if she was down. She was happy to let me on the first date. She kept texting me the days leading to the second date which to me was still a good sign, but definitely didn't go the same way when I invited myself in this time. I thought I had one in my wallet but I didn't, I should've been prepared for that for sure.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:18 PM
4

Same, SKYNs are my favourites
/r/askTRP08/06/18 06:35 AM
1

I live in a downtown area where there's people everywhere, so unless her and I get into a car and drive off somewhere quiet, I can't really just say "Hey, let's hang in my car for a bit"
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:33 PM
3

Since when is that cringey lol... I thought it was standard escalation process. It also gives me an idea of how she's feeling towards me usually. If I grab her hand and her grip is kinda loose it kinda tells me she's not open to escalation yet, and if I try a second or third time it's usually firmer which pretty much gives me the go for a kiss at the next opportunity.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:31 PM
1

So she just texted me (the next day at night) saying she can't that day because she's helping a friend move. But didn't recommend any days she'd be free.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:40 AM
1

So she just texted me (the next day at night) saying she can't that day because she's helping a friend move. But didn't recommend any days she'd be free.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:40 AM
1

I’ll give it a shot just to see what happens, nothing to lose I guess as you said
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:57 AM
1

Good to know. Just seems that’d be a minute detail for her to just ignore if the date was good though. I don’t want to come across as desperate so was thinking of just ghosting really.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:42 AM
1

Yes parents. Parents are pretty conservative so it wouldn’t go down well with them. If it was a gf or something they’d be cool but def not a bunch of randos. Working on moving out within the year though
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:28 AM
1

Idk, we made out and there was a lot of touching so not sure about that. I have 2 other girls in the pipeline that I got a first date with this week so we'll see if those come through. I'm just a bit baffled because I thought the date went super well and I think similar things have happened in the past so I want to fix whatever it is I might be doing wrong.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:51 AM
2

I did gauge if her place was free early by teasing her about roommates getting annoyed with her and she told me she still lives with her mom... so I figured her place was probably out of the question too. I think I should have told her let's get somewhere quiet and tried to escalate to car sex maybe. But I figured she'd be down for a date 2 after that so I wasn't in a rush and thought I could get my logistics down by then.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:41 AM
1

Actually a lot of my bros from the gym, while they are super cool dudes, very disciplined and goal-oriented, aren't really that social or confident in themselves. Most haven't spoken to a girl months if not years and some are damn near virgins. Maybe it's just my gym though...
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:50 PM
1

I'm in Canada, it's legal to fuck here in public if no one is watching lol
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:32 PM
3

This seems like a pretty good idea, just need to find a good/dark spot for stargazing. May drive around to find something like that.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:25 AM
2

Nope mum or someone is always home so yea it’s pretty difficult
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:23 AM
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Well if it were a gf, they'd be pretty ok with me bringing her over. But obviously the girl(s) I'm talking about are first/second dates whom I don't want to introduce to my parents. Parents come from a conservative background where sex is kinda taboo so can't do that really.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:39 AM
2

there’s absolutely no plausible deniability in this case, so she will feel slutty This was my thought too, which is why I was looking for ways to baby-step... but alas. I don't mind waiting a couple of dates usually, but yea. The car might be easier if I can turn her on enough :/ Ultimately, work on getting your shit together. It’s a lot easier when you have your place. Definitely working on it, saving up to buy my own place so I want half a year for that, but I still want to get whatever pussy …
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:51 AM
1

Idk man, I think I'm pretty above average in looks and I have pretty good pics and while I got a decent amount of matches initially, I only got one date out of them and nowadays I get like one match a day and most of the matches stop responding or don't respond at all. My first pic is me with an elephant in Thailand, second is me riding on a motorcycle, third is me scuba diving with a girl and a friend next to me (i'm in the center), fourth is me doing muay thai, fifth is me on a quad in the mou…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:59 AM
2

Does that mean it's not a good venue to meet women since you don't interact with them?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 08:52 PM
1

Ah didn't know you could do that, will try to check that out thanks.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:54 PM
1

I've been trying to find interesting meetup groups but none really caught my interest. Could go for a hike but honestly from the pictures it seems like it's mostly older folks (40+) doing it.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:01 PM
2

Thanks mate, not sure about tennis but I've been meaning to try climbing, might see if I can get into that.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:59 PM
1

What kind of classes/meetups do you recommend?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:09 PM
1

The 2 date strategy is kind of what I was going for tbh... I ended coffee quick, and didn't go in for a kiss to build tension... but seems like it didn't work as I thought it would lol Maybe I'm not advanced enough to really know how to pull that off yet.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:18 PM
1

I def think I could've made more moves during the date and in hindsight Idk what I was thinking. She wasn't actually travelling at the time I messaged her again, I was rushing a bit because I know she'll be gone and I wanted to set a meet before then. But yea, either way the only course of action seems to be waiting it out for a few days/week and trying to set up one last meet up.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:37 PM
1

Gotcha' thanks man. In case she contacts me, should I try to set something up or still ignore for 3 days?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:33 PM
1

I kinda realized how dumb I was in that sense after the date... why would I not go for it lol... Figured there would be a d2 so what's the rush, but I think I may have just been making excuses.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:28 PM
1

Women who are into you do not behave like this. This is pretty much what I thought. Always figured after the first date, the girl should be more eager to hang out. Will give it one more try before nexting though I guess.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:26 PM
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I've been backpacking for about 7-8 months now... I've seen girls with "boyfriends" back home... does not stop them whatsoever from grinding on dudes, making out with them, and sometimes even going home with them. Solo travel unleashes the slut in women because they don't have to worry about any judgement being held against them back home because no one finds out.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:00 AM
1

That's true but from my experience those just end up in instant rejection
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:11 AM
1

Yeah but that doesn’t help me get chicks that are hotter... is it just luck of the opportunity?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:24 PM
1

I’d say a 7-8/10. Full head of hair, 5’10, make decent money, travelled over 20 countries
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:23 PM
0

I think n-count only bothers men that want to get married or into an LTR with one of those girls. At least that's how it is in my case. I'd want to have some serious but with girls in the double digits, it's not worth it nowadays. Would you say it'd be different if you were looking for marriage material woman?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:14 PM
2

How do you find out a woman's number then (since they are damaged goods with high numbers)?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 08:13 PM
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For me it's I can stay hard but can't cum until I see the girl a few times. I haven't been with many women so I assume it gets easier as you bang more and more girls. The more you sweat it, the more likely it is to happen though so let it be.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:03 PM
2

How did your profile change from being BP to chad?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:51 PM
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As my first ex and I were breaking up, she said "I know what I'll do to get over you, I'll go have some fun." Stung like a bitch at the time. Still does a little if I think about it but I don't dwell on it.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 11:24 PM
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Then why do people around here say a woman loses her value the more men she has sex with?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:13 PM
2

But if he was fucking her all that time then he's a douche. Why? If he took her virginity and had the intention of giving her marriage later for that virginity, I don't see the problem. He later learns she wasn't a virgin that he wanted, and so he took away what he promised for it. This is all hypothetical anyway since we don't have details on the uncle or the woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 06:00 PM
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Idk man, I'm 25 all I did was hustle when I was younger and financially speaking I'm doing a lot better than my peers (could buy my own property if I wanted), I was even fit (got out of shape recently due to injury)... but women have never been in my cards. I don't really care as much as I used to anymore but I would be lying if it didn't make me sad occasionally knowing that the ugliest whale with 7 kids could go on Tinder and get fucked the same day whereas a guy like me who worked his ass off…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 12:49 PM
1

I know but I mean when someone like me who is looking for an LTR, I'm wondering if I should consider this a red flag or it shouldn't matter in the future
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:00 PM
1

How do you stand out on tinder? Seems like a crap shoot to me lately as they've updated it
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:55 PM
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For example, I don't LTR women who drink alcohol or use drugs. Including birth control or SSRIs or any of that shit. If she uses intoxicants, she can't be my LTR. If she's used them in the past, I'm cautious, too. Have never ran into one of these women even unfortunately. Every girl I know or have ever known has tried alcohol or at least tried pot. How do you even find girls like this? And you don't ask them to get on birth control when they're with you? Unless you have a vasectomy, in which cas…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:47 PM
2

Thanks... and do you expect exclusivity from your LTRs or they're welcome to fool around too?
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:24 PM
2

Curious, do you drop all your plates when you get into a LTR?
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:16 PM
3

Agree with this. Got to 25 without losing my v-card because I was too pussy to ask a girl out or do anything about it.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:49 PM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:52 AM
2

Goes both ways... if he's willing to risk fucking things up with his friend for a girl, he's not a very good friend either.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:11 PM
1

And were you able to deal with her past or at least are you able to deal with girl's n-count better now?
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:43 PM
1

Ah ok... misunderstood what you said.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:07 PM
1

I agree... feel like this is something I'd have had to go through no matter what and this is the best I could have hoped for.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:41 PM
1

Eh it's pointless to think of the what-ifs... because I damn well know I could say to myself "what if I knew all I knew today when I was 18?" I'd be in a much better position all-around.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:39 PM
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Yeah... and she had the tits to tell me "Maybe in 2-3 years after you've had your fun we can be together again".... shot that down pretty quick "not gonna happen"...
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:38 PM
1

There are girls I'm sure that are not riding the CC to such a large extent I'm sure... but since they're not on Tinder, bars or clubs, it's near impossible to find them unless via good social circle or something.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:34 PM
1

Yea, definitely think it's mandatory, no exceptions pretty much. Yeah I won't look for a unicorn, just a better girl when the time comes probably. Anyway, I'll see when I'm there.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:32 PM
1

It's always the ones you suspect the least... my now ex seemed like such an innocent nice girl when I first met her. Couldn't have imagined her being with so many guys... Anyway, abundance is my only goal now.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 05:19 PM
1

Rode the CC and got the urge to settle down early, with enough prime time to offer to her bonded partner. What comes is, men like you (and me) are not. I agree with this... she probably is a pretty fit woman for the right guy who has abundance already. But as you mentioned, I was not... I was a late bloomer and still am not that man and have a long way to go before I get to somewhere where I'll be able to accept that... Or I get with someone who's like me and has refrained from her optimal sexua…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 04:06 PM
1

Yep, already blocked everything right after the break up, impossible for her to get in touch with me... Already starting to look forward to the next chapter of my life. I've been wanting to travel for a while because I have the opportunity and resources to do it but didn't do it because I was with her... so my focus is back there now. Going to take a month to get over it and then start planning my trip.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:47 PM
2

I don't have the abundance you do but I feel the same way sometimes. From my understanding, you'll just have to keep spinning and hopefully one day there will be a woman worthy enough for you to give up the plate spinning and she'll make monogamy worth it for you.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:07 PM
1

I don't think the ex-bf was the true dealbreaker but it was definitely the tumbling point. I knew they were friends from the beginning and she told me on many occasions to meet with him but I had no interest in meeting him. Although they were exes, they never really fucked because she was a virgin and she got with the first guy that showed her attention. So I wasn't too worried about him but I was always looking for an excuse or something because that dick mileage was too much for me to handle. …
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:20 PM
2

In a way, I think she invested way more in me than I did in her. I knew it'd end because of her past and me not being able to get over it so I always tried to keep my feelings in check while she was going full force not knowing I had a problem with it. She said she loves me many times and I never said it once. And I guess she saw my feelings weren't reciprocated otherwise why would I want to have a one way open relationship. I wish there was a way to solve the issue of not giving a fuck about a …
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:13 PM
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My jealousy definitely played a part in it, especially the fact that I couldn't get over her past. It would be there in the back of my head even when things were good... and I knew I wouldn't be able to stay with her forever because of it. I'd have nightmares about it and shit, thought it would get better with time but it'd go and come. Think if I ever get in a relationship again like that, it'd be under the condition that I've done my fair share of exploration, spinning plates, etc.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:05 PM
1

It's that bonding you speak of that I enjoy so much... but yea, I have a long way to go before I allow myself to fall into an LTR again.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:13 PM
1

Yeah... I believed the whole "sex is special and meant to be with someone you care about" gig for way too long... I just need to have my own fun I think... lost a lot of hope for an LTR
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:11 PM
0

That's crappy as hell... I can't be in a relationship with that feeling always in the back of my head man. From my understanding abundance is the only way the feeling goes away.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:07 PM
1

That really stung like a bitch. I know it'll happen, no need to tell me when you're breaking up with me. Idk man, I think I'd cope easier if I didn't hear that part.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:06 PM
1

How were they?
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:04 PM
4

Seemed that way to me too.. she was crying quite a bit and she saw that not a single tear was in my eye and I was telling her "don't worry you'll find someone else" to comfort her... and I think the fact that she saw she couldn't get to me made her say "I know I'll move on by having fun..." that shit stung like a bitch.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:01 PM
3

That's harsh, some really are just worth pumping and dumping. What's worse is some day some guy will marry them claiming the past is the past and most of them will never regret doing what they did and society just gets worse... it's an ugly spiral.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 11:57 AM
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Gotta start somewhere I guess... on the bright side, I always kept my foot out the door so I'm sure I'll get over it soon enough...
/r/askTRP17/01/17 04:42 AM
1

I wish I lived in that era
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:29 AM
7

Thanks man, I admit it's hard swallowing the pill but I'm trying. This helps me feel a little better. I knew it would end from the beginning but I wanted the pussy and needed the experience... I'm sure I'll feel better with time.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:28 AM
4

That really does freak me out... want to have kids one day and really don't want mother of my child to have hosted so many dinks.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:03 AM
3

Nah she didn't recognize it... she couldn't understand why I felt that way... And that's the plan, just date casually, and sow some oats for a while... not even sure how to meet girls besides tinder. I barely go out.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:02 AM
3

That saddens me so much man... But yeah, I know I have to sow my oats, it's the only way. Fuck man, it's almost pointless being relationship-oriented in this day and age. I don't wanna just bang random girls, I would love to being in a good relationship with a girl who hasn't slept with every Chad on the block. It really saddens me...
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:08 AM
1

No but didn't feel like wasting my time driving there if we were gonna break up
/r/askTRP13/01/17 02:39 AM
3

I called her about an hour ago. Told her she can either break up with me or see each other non-exclusively... she was a bit put off at first but she says she is ok with the arrangement but my gut tells me she's probably not. Somehow she even agreed to remain exclusive to me while I wouldn't... again she says this but I'm skeptical. She's a plate to me now so I don't care if she breaks but might be interesting if it works.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 02:07 AM
1

Yes it's remote but when she doesn't have to keep her baggage tagging along with her and definitely not rub it in my face by doing what she did. I'm 25 so getting older now but when it comes to relationships I'm pretty behind I admit. And we've been together about 6 months + a few when we were just dating. Yes I knew the guy was in the picture because they're in the same social circle and I wasn't about to tell her to stop talking to her friend but figured she'd be smart enough to not put hersel…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 10:18 PM
2

This is probably insecure, but really no interest in being buddies with someone who can look at you any day and say "hey man, I used to bang your girl, and I was her first. Enjoying the sloppy seconds?"
/r/askTRP12/01/17 08:51 PM
2

This particular situation yes but she knew from the beginning I didn't like the fact that she was talking to an ex but I allowed it because they are in the same social circle and I really don't think there's anything between them. In the past she gave her number to a dude in Vegas and it was "just to know where the best clubs/casinos/parties were"... not lying I'm sure but shady so I didn't talk to her for a week then. Anyway, honestly just plan to do the non-exclusive route if I can. I really l…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 07:57 PM
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Yeah... my approach is gonna be "You broke my trust, I'll continue to see you if you want, but you no longer have my commitment"... will verbalize it, don't care if she "breaks up" with me
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:02 PM
2

She has mentioned quite a few times prior to this that we should meet and we'd get along. Tbh, don't want to meet an ex, it bugs me that she even talks to one. Maybe it's insecure, but I don't want to meet a guy who has been all up in my girl. I get they are friends, not going to make her stop talking to him because I know that wouldn't fly the other way around (her telling me to stop talking to a friend) but I want enough respect for the relationship for her to do it in a respectable way. Go gr…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:27 PM
2

She can branch swing, she can go suck other cocks, I'm not offering my commitment at that point and I'll find other bitches to fuck. And it's highly likely she'll just break up with me. Tbh, as soon as she did that I lost the patience to deal with the drama.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:20 PM
1

I know that's the better way to go about it but frankly I can't be assed with playing those games. If she doesn't agree to it, she can break up with me.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:12 PM
5

I think I'm going to just revoke my commitment. She can stick or kick based on that. I'll give her hamster the ability to "earn" it back, but in the mean time I'll pursue other girls.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:38 PM
0

Honestly think I'll go this route. Tell her she no longer has my commitment and has to 'earn' it again which lets her hamster into staying for a while and in the mean time I can build up my pussy funnel.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:35 PM
4

How would I plate her? Do I just keep going with the relationship while fucking other girls behind her back or what?
/r/askTRP12/01/17 02:07 PM
2

They hangout once or twice a month. I meant they text all the time, but yeah I agree with most of what you're saying... it's just something I wish I didn't have to accept kind of deal.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 01:54 PM
2

This is pretty much my thoughts... the worst part is she knew I wouldn't like her doing shit like that and goes and does it. I mentioned that at some point when I was leaving and she said "I thought you'd get used to it, he's my friend, like a brother to me etc. etc." She kept hamstering everything and couldn't even fathom why I was acting like that. She told me if I don't like it, she can ask me next time or I can make rules on when she can see him... I just wanted to leave at the time so I did…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 01:49 PM
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