abdada said this as a comment in another thread. It is an excellent quote. For me it instantly sums things up.

Run your life the proper way and you will have plenty of opportunities with attractive women.

  • be attractive (lift)
  • have goals (do not make any woman your priority)
  • act masculine

Run your life improperly and the side effect will be very limited opportunities with only low quality women.

  • "Just be yourself"TM, eat cheetos, and play video games all day
  • put women on a pedestal *let her be in charge
  • base ALL your plans around her

Most of us had way too much blue pill growing up. Be nice, be yourself, the right one will come along. I can't wait to pull back the curtain for my sons and explain to them how to have options with women.

The main point is getting women can not be the goal. Getting women is a side effect of making the right choices.