I [29m] married a [25f] without ever having sex with her (religious reasons). After the wedding I am surprised to see her avoid any sexual intimacy with me, while repeating she loves me and cries because of it. She's a virgin and has vaginismus (anxiety making her vagina hard like a wall, no penetration possible). And since we married 5 months ago, no sex, no handjob, no blowjob... And no progression, she became more and more bitter, and does little effort to heal her self. I've been very patient since the first wedding day, but now I am losing my mind, I don't want to be unfaithful. But my body is urging me to fuck hard a lot.

How does TRP see women with vaginismus who make very little efforts to heal it while saying they love their husband?

What kind of love is this if I can't have sex?

Anyone lived that and had any "good ending"?