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Dating apps shouldn’t be a part of your life. You’re a grown man. If you’re interested in a woman, walk up to her and tell her to face. And CALL her and ask her out.... don’t text like a middle school kid.
/r/askTRP02/07/21 04:51 PM
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You should go get your stuff back ASAP so you can continue no contact. Or atleast start no contact.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:59 PM
2

Humans are motivated by attraction. We life for sex. That’s all we care about. Even the professional people like doctors, lawyers, etc... all they care about is sex and attraction. Even at work. Once you accept that you’ll be able to adapt. Know 3 things. 1. Girls nights out is about dudes. 2. Girls trips are about dudes. 3. Of she’s social media... she's on there for the same reasons she’s on tinder. If she has SM or messaging apps on her phone AT ALL past mid to late 20s then you shouldn’t com…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:55 PM
5

And her new bf? If he’s gotta move across the world for pussy then he’s most likely that kinda guy that can’t keep pussy satisfied. Between that and the new relationship energy plus the IG attention/and validation... bro... you gotta be strong enough to weather the storm once all those things no longer have a hold on her and she tries crawling back.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:49 PM
3

Her wanting to be an instagram model should have been a deal breaker you... but you helped? And o spike gene pleasure in publicly outing her behavior and informing this dude that his girl is still crossing lines with behind his neck once I’ve built up enough evidence. As soon as I saw that you didn’t shut down her even being on Instagram, let alone her being an Instagram model, I stopped feeling sorry for you
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:36 AM
1

Yes... I’d tell her I’m bothered by it. And it has nothing to do with the other guys. I’m not saying “don’t look at guys hotter than me.” I’m saying don’t disrespect me with that behavior. I’d straight tell her that it’s effecting my interest in her.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:12 PM
1

No... vet is just the term given to a concept that already existed
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:09 PM
2

For who?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:36 PM
1

No. This is being an oak tree. My issue would be start by at other men right in front of me. My attitude wouldn’t be “I’m butthurt that you look at other guys boo hoo.” My attitude be “it’s disrespectful. I don’t disrespect you like that and I won’t allow you to disrespect me.”
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:35 PM
6

Like I said... that’s part of the vetting process. I’m more concerned with her level of her commitment to me....not if I’m going to lose points byp being “insecure.” I personally want to put her in that position. I WANT to see if I lose points. I’d rather know now before removing my commitment gets complicated
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:57 PM
3

Lying and avoiding is for pussies.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:49 PM
2

There’s a big difference between insecurity/jealousy and disrespect/disloyalty. I wouldn’t even bother saying shit. I’d just pull back. Start treating the relationship like it casual. And start treating other women the way she treats him.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:49 PM
6

I would ask her how she expects to gain a mans commitment if she gives other men access to her? And/or when makes the attention she ALLOWS other men to give her the frequent topic of conversation? I’d would tell her that all she’s telling me is to not take her seriously and consider her anything more than a casual fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:46 PM
2

You shouldn’t worry about displaying weakness in the moment by relaying your feelings on a particular matter. What matters is if you have the strength to serve consequences if she doesn’t care about your feelings after the conversation. Showing weakness/vulnerability and seeing how she reacts should be part of your vetting system.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:43 PM
-2

“I see 100 women a day that I want to fuck. But I would never disrespect you by rubbing your face in it. How much longer do you think I’ll allow myself to be disrespected?”
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:40 PM
1

Only way I would pay for a woman is if she’s the mother of my child and if I’m rich. Rich enough to where I wouldn’t care about paying for her even if the relationship went sideways.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:39 PM
0

Your a fool for not telling her to hand over her phone
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:16 PM
5

She knows exactly what dude too
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:14 PM
2

What you really should have learned was to take control from the start
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:11 PM
1

I would tell her that sounds fun and I look forward to our prom night. And I’ll let it slide that she didn’t come to me first about this date but just this once. And that I’m not cool with her being close to other guys and that your not going to go back and forth over Some other guy and that he needs to be sent on his way and that this will be the lady conversation you two ever have about another guy.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:11 PM
1

Dont commit to grown women that use Instagram. Doesn’t matter whose jacket she’s wearing.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:34 PM
3

It will make more sense once you accept that all of her behavior, including the breakup, has to do with another man.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:32 PM
2

The myth of girls making money off onlyfans is up there with people really believing armie hammer cut the heart out of animal and ate it.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:38 PM
2

You wont get charged. Everyone always flips about video and audio recording. Like a guy gets advice like this if he wants to try to catch his wife cheating.... “bro that’s illegal.” You should never worry about that. It’s not going to be some federal RICO case. You have nothing to worry about... most prosecutors only care about what was done with the recording. And having security cameras in your home is NEVER going to get you a wide tapping charge.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:02 PM
1

You’re a grown man without security cameras in and around your house?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:07 PM
3

I wouldn’t have punched him because I would have called him out publicly and cut him out a long time ago. And your mom encouraged every bit of this abuse. Dont forget that
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:09 PM
1

Her boyfriend is getting boring now that they have moved past the drama of reuniting. I personally would have told her bf everything to increase the chances of her leaving me alone
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:11 PM
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No she didn’t. She’s into another guy and this was the best excuse she was given.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:13 PM
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It has nothing to do with whatever your thinking. This is about another guy. Stop rewarding her shitty behavior. Wish the best in her future and tell her goodbye.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:12 PM
1

It’s just a code I have. Always gotta address it... fully... Atleast once. Whatever it is. And there no better way to gauge how important my feelings are to her then by putting right in her face. And I’m not scared of a negative outcome
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:10 PM
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I firmly believe in having atleast one conversation before you start full RP action mode. I’d sit her down and tell her how I feel. What I see. And that she’s been giving me signs of disinterest. And from experience, another guy is involved. And I’d straight up tell her that she’s making me think im wasting my time. I’d ask her if her actions are on purpose to send me a message and I’d tell her that o also won’t accept her giving access or attention to other men. And I’d tell her to step up or g…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:19 PM
8

It doesn’t take 9 months to detect HIV.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:13 PM
2

Best way to handle this is to dump a big bucket of freedom on her head, pull back about 75%, and start having your own dinner with “a friend.” Don’t even bring this up again. You shouldnt even call her or return her texts until the weekend. And it should be simply to ask her to get drinks... just like you would with a plate.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:49 PM
2

Yes. They are perfect for casual relationships. Taylor made.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:41 PM
4

There’s such thing as polyamory or poem relationships. There’s only “i want someone else and not you but I want my life to stay easy.”
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:40 PM
1

You should act as if it ain’t no big deal. You got other shit to do and women to meet. You’ll see her when you see her.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:31 PM
1

Let this weekend go. Trying to fit in all these moving parts isn’t needy but... it’s not... not needy. Just change it to next Thursday or something. Or maybe hit her up to meet up later in the night on one of those nights.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:00 PM
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There’s a reason the poly community is pretty much made up entirely of unattractive, liberal, white people. That non monogamy shit is for sexual market rejects. There’s a reason the two poly bibles “the ethical slut,” and “more than two” are written by 2 of the ugliest people who have walked this earth. Non mono is a coping mechanism for men that can’t keep a woman attracted.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:18 PM
1

Go over his head.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:31 PM
1

Found out how?
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:34 PM
1

Yes she would... and she’d make sure it was positive
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:34 PM
2

She only thinks you’re toxic because your plate talks shit on you. Her friends opinion of you is a direct reflection of what they told about you and how they are told. Now you know why she really broke up with you.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:32 PM
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Tootles
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:30 PM
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Na...no one would be talking about bdsm and dominance if the main character in the book wasn’t a hot, young, rich guy, with a big dick and that every woman in that book is obsessed with. I never read it... but I know that he had a crazy ex that stalked him. Some older rich lady was into him sexually when he was like 16... it’s non stop making this guy look golden dick mcswagger. That’s why women were into bdsm during this time when the books came out. They don’t care about bdsm... they care abou…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:29 PM
1

And making the changes and doing the work to earn you back... when it actually mattered... would have been the easiest thing in the world to do if she actually wanted to...
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:22 PM
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Dude... this is bullshit. She could have done countless things when the kids were school age. She didn’t because she didn’t want to. She literally married this guy so she wouldn’t have to work. She’s rewriting history, gaslighting, and blend shifting because she’s cheating that’s what cheaters do. There’s a thing called the cheaters handbook and a thing called the cheaters script for a reason.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:20 PM
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I’d be pressing my mom on if she’s cheating (spoiler alert: she is)...I’d even take her phone out of her hand and stomp all over her privacy. Even if I gotta follow her. I’d be making it very clear to her that her current path isn’t just ending her marriage... she will be completely cut off from her children too. And if she takes one cent from my father she will face my wrath for a very long time and I’ll make Sure she doesn’t haven’t a penny in her pocket after I’m through with everything she o…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:14 PM
1

50 shades of grey wasn’t about dominance. It was about hypergamy and pre selection.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:09 PM
0

And you didn’t call her out on the spot?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:08 PM
0

I’m not assuming anything. I’m going off someone else’s assumption. This dinner could be about that. Somebody said it could be about a job and I’m giving reasons that it’s unlikely. And if it’s a low level job It’s even more unlikely that it’s not a publicly posted job and it’s unlikely that this guy this guy would be jumping through any amount of hoops to make sure OPs gf knows about it. Nor would she be wasting her time. And she wouldn’t have said “catching up.”
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:01 PM
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Yes... plenty of businesses hire jobs that they publicly posted through networking... not some secret job society. Imagine there’s a black Woman. Mid manager level. Been at a company for around a decade. Moving up. Busting her ass learning the company and the lay of the land so she can continue move up. On a Monday morning she comes to work to see one of the c-level guys buddies got a VP job that she never knew existed... That company just fucked itself if she pursues any legal action.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:40 PM
0

Aaaaand.... none of those people ever got jobs that weren’t posted.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:36 PM
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It doesn’t happen in any field. Companies don’t like lawsuits. And I bet most of the jobs you got were also listed. Dude... I’m one step below c-level in a job I’ve been at for 11 years. You’re not schooling me on anything.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:18 PM
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No business is going to take the risk of appearance of discrimination by not posting a job. It’s very rare to have a company not post a job. And it wouldn’t be the type of job that would apply to either people in question nor would that guy be tasked with finding somebody either. And I work for one of the leading companies in the world in my industry.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:13 PM
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No it’s not. Every job opportunity is listed. And I bet they don’t talk about work at all. You don’t need to have dinner with someone to learns about jobs. You think he’s got all the jobs memorized or is he bringing a printed out list?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:14 PM
1

No bro. You step up and voice your boundaries. Don’t be scared to tell her this is unacceptable and talking to him behind your back in the first place is no bueno as well.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:12 PM
1

Humans beings are monoamorous. Always have been, always will be.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 12:11 PM
1

But another man while not he amongst those friends. One on one relationship of any sort between your girl and another should ALWAYS be shut down.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:14 PM
1

But don’t go out of your way. Don’t be afraid to tell her that he doesnt fit into the plans on that day and he’s not a priority. Tell her you’ll try to set up a lunch on the last day.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:13 PM
1

Guy friends are ok as long as it doesn’t pass a certain threshold.... like acquaintance level. And she holds him to be a friend of the relationship and treating you two as a unit. I’d be confronting her on why this is the first I’m hearing this guy and what their communication consists of.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:11 PM
1

Yeh... failing to turn over evidence is a violation in and of itself.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 11:25 AM
1

Both Politics and polyamory... let the clowns have their circus
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:07 PM
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Should have listened to me dude. She already knows you looked in her bag and she put 2 and 2 together. You should have told her what you found in her bag and told her to hand over her phone. Great job doing nothing and reminding her to get her opsec right. Your a pussy for not standing aboit your truth with confidence.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:41 AM
5

Being political is among the most annoying and unattractive traits a person can have.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:03 PM
0

I would have told them before I even put in the paper work.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:31 PM
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No I mean... “I don’t like how I’m treated so no i won’t honor the verbal deal. Should have treated me with respect if you want respect from me.”
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:10 PM
1

I’d have a one on one with her. I’d knock on her door and tell her it seems like she’s got a lot of red flags and lots of stakes in different places. And that my dad is a good man and if she’s not serious about him then to leave him alone.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:08 PM
2

Have you considered telling them the truth? Like a grown man....
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:04 PM
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Dude.... don’t date grown woman who use Snapchat.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:17 PM
1

You broke frame way before that. You trusted a promiscuous woman. Now it’s time to sit back and watch. If she ain’t getting rid of the “guy friends”, distancing herself from single party girl friends and cutting down on her social media usage... you might end up with a halfway decent girl.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:13 PM
1

No. I mean like “in this situation the only option you have to keep this relationship is to do what I ask.” By boundary I mean her giving me want I need. right now. And I need my questions answered and I need to see it with my own eyes.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:31 PM
1

If she’s not smart enough to get the condoms out of her bag then she probably left some evidence on her phone. Plus add in that OP dropping in unannounced. And a big chunk of my reasoning to do this is to see if she’ll be on board. That she respects and is on Board with how I want to handle it and transparency.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:34 PM
1

Yes. The truth. And yes I will get from asking her. Because my asking will involve her being transparent and handing over her phone or I have my answer. Taking control and serving consequences if she sges not on board is how he will get it.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:23 PM
1

Who would I be protecting?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:17 PM
1

Then it hasn’t been disproven.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:15 PM
1

Bro... hitting up your ex a couple times a month to go get drinks and go fuck is not “going back.” And I got security cameras... a girl going toxic and trying to ruin me won’t affect me either. Ive dealt with that too.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:41 PM
1

That’s exactly what I’m saying. To plate a woman, you need to not care what she does. You seem to think it means to Go back.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:22 PM
0

And I bet a lot happened in 2013-14 that you don’t know about.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:08 PM
1

Why are you so scared? Is that what you would do if your girl found a condom in your wallet? You’d freak out? “You went in wallet? You piece of shit! We’re done!” Youd just ignore her feelings on the matter? You wouldn’t be transparent to calm her nerves? And to dhow the truth? Jesus dude... you SHOULD tell her you snooped. And stand behind it. 1. It’s a power move if you have the frame. 2. Her negative reaction to it should be what helps you make your choices easier. If you’re scared to lose he…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:05 PM
1

And plating isn’t even close to “going back.”
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:58 PM
1

I’m a manager at a manufacturing plant and I made $93k last year. I’m pretty much invaluable there. I was very popular in high school and college. I was 6’2 220 at 16 and broke my high school bench press record also as a 16 year old. I played college baseball. I have a masters degree. I’m 38 and I’ve lost count of how many women I’ve had in my life and bed. I am the red pill. I’m more red pill than red pill. And I’m a better source of knowledge then most of the men in the manosphere. There’s not…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:55 PM
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I agree. It’s hard to have these kinda of convos through comments and get the full scope of each other’s opinions. It all depends a numbers of factors. Your wife of 20 years fucks your brother and best friend. Yeh... end it. Your gf of 8 months sexting her ex... plate in her. As for the business partner analogy. Depending on the situation I would stay working together if there was something beneficial to me while working on my next move.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:11 PM
1

The only men who get gaslighted are weak men with no frame. If this guy is scared of the snooping guilt then he’s definitely going to let himself get gaslighted.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:02 PM
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Don’t snoop through. Demand it on the spot.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:00 PM
1

No you need them to understand your boundaries. Full transparency and what yours is mine should be non negotiable.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:00 PM
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You’re my girl and nothing is off limits is the only excuse you need
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:58 PM
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Own that shit bro.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:58 PM
1

No... pulling back, focusing on yourself, meeting other women, giving a girl that disrespected you nothing but dick and indifference is as red pill as it gets. And it’s not rare. I’ve done it multiple times. Every infidelity forum on this planet is full of examples. There’s a dozen “my boyfriend caught me doing blah blah blah and now he’s rougher in bed, gives me less attention, and is texting/ hanging out with a girl from class/work. How can I fix this and show him I’m sorry” stories a day on R…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:57 PM
1

And that she worked through on the conversation and should be backed up when she haves over her phone. Which should be non negotiable
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:49 PM
1

The fact that so many men are like “if you admit to snooping, your screwed” is pathetic. Or “you lose your frame if you say anything”. They don’t know shit about leading a relationship or frame... I can’t imagine having that mindset. A lot of low testosterone in the dub today I guess.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:48 PM
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No it hasn’t
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:46 PM
1

It’s your job as a man to plow right through that.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:45 PM
1

She can only flip it if you allow her. I would shut down any snooping guilt trip before she even finishes her sentence. I would double down that I’ll look anything I want when ever I see fit. and I’d tell her not to say another word about it. I’d tell her to give me her phone and if she says says no or says another word about the purse... I walk out.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:44 PM
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Asktrp needs to cowboy. The. fuck. up. If you can’t look your girl in the eye in this situation and say “damn right I looked in your purse... What of it? Now hand me your phone or get out.” Any guy that cant do that should just stay in his moms basement.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:41 PM
1

That’s why you ask for her phone.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:38 PM
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If you wife up a girl that uses Snapchat then you deserve to get played.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:38 PM
1

And you should look her in the eye tell her that. right after that, you should tell her that she’s going to accept that I looked in her purse and not mention it again. Then she’s going to put her phone I my hand or we are done. Right here right now.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:37 PM
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And he’ll never learn anything about himself, women, life, relationships, game, etc... if be doesn’t challenge himself and his emotions. If you don’t have the balls to turn a break up worthy gurl into a fuck buddy than you shouldn’t be bothering with RP. I mean...Some of y’all are scared of her knowing he looked In her purse
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:33 PM
1

Probably wouldnt rat him out either but I’d distance myself from him.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:28 PM
1

You create the frame. This the first time I’ve seen this subs commenters all be wrong. Lose frame? How? You should Always confront on the spot. Always. And NO grown man should be scared of looking in his girls purse. I would make it clear that i went through her purse because I’m allowed to because i fucking decided I’m allowed to. And I’d tell her not to mention it again . This is a 3 step process. 1. Why are there condoms in your purse? 2. Put your phone my hand. 3. Look through her phone or d…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:26 PM
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You gotta crush that. Stomp all over it. Trying to turn it around on you should only result in more consequences from you.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:19 PM
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Everyone scared of the handbag...That’s where you lose me... I can’t comprehend it. I can’t relate. There’s not a chance I would hide that i went through her handbag. I’d literally dump it on the table right in front of her. And I would literally tell her I don’t care if it’s snooping. Damn right I looked in your purse. She’s my girl and nothing is off limits. I would hold up her purse and tell her its our purse. and I’d tell her her give me her phone or “here’s the purse and there’s the door.”
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:18 PM
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Nothing savage about being scared of your gf
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:13 PM
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Being vague and wishy washy is for pussies. Always confront on the spot. Fuck the snooping guilt. If she brought up the purse in this situation I would tell her if she mentions me going through her purse again, she’s leaving.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:11 PM
1

Dude are you serious? I would literally end the relationship if she has anything to say about looking at her purse. There’s no such thing as seperate private lives in a relationship. And you should never accept a relationship with secrecy. Her purse is your purse. Period.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:09 PM
1

Why? Being scared to look at her shit when you feel you have reason is beyond me. “Damn right I looked in your bag. And I’m going to look at your phone too. Put it in my hand right now or leave.” Kids these days.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:07 PM
1

Nobody makes money on onlyfans. It’s all bullshit
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:39 PM
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Dude. Jesus Christ. The internet is filled decades of porn. Way hotter girls doing way dirtier shit then onlyfans. I’ve been seeing those “I make $100k a month on onlyfans and my kids school is bullying me” articles floating around too. None of those articles feature attractive or young women either. It’s all bullshit. If you think anyone in this VERY flooded market is making more money then the top pornstars back when porn was a HUGE business then You’re crazy. If you think there are more than …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:38 PM
1

It’s not mate guarding if you state your boundaries and act accordingly if she crosses them. No woman I am with will have a one on one relationship with another man of any sort. And I won’t stop her... I’ll stop us.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:20 PM
0

She gave another guy her number. And there’s more to this just that phone call. There’s nothing ok with any of that. Me Abd my gf would be having a come to Jesus talk on the spot and she’s be putting her phone in my hand of hitting the door.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:44 PM
1

Should have asked her about it on the spot. I’d look her in the eye and tell her that my gut is telling me she’s lying and there’s a lot I don’t know. And I’d want to know why another guy has her phone number. Then I’d tell her that I need to see her phone or she’s free to do as she pleases and we can be casual or go our seperate ways.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:53 PM
1

No man with self respect should he caught dead on SM or dating apps and any woman that is on them should be nothing to you but a red flag.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:50 PM
8

Cancel culture exists for the same reason social media itself exists. Attention.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:15 PM
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If you’re a grown man on social media at all you get no respect from me.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:14 PM
1

In 6-10 years you’ll be seeing all your friends losing these houses and babies too.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:14 PM
1

Only if their actions earn it
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:13 PM
1

No... you move her to a spot in your life that has one or two specific purposes and you don’t let her get to a level where her disrespect even reaches you. I would take her out for drinks some time in the next few days with the express purpose of getting her in my bed within 2 hours. Then I’d let the rest be up to her and I wouldn’t even bother contacting Her for 4-7 days. And it would just be for the same reason. Drinks and go fuck. I would even encourage to feel free to explore whoever or what…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:36 PM
1

That’s exactly why he should make her a plate. Side stepping disrespect and dealing with his emotions is experience he needs.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:08 PM
-1

Just tell her youd like to slow down and keep it more casual and see other people.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:25 PM
1

“Let’s get drinks tomorrow.”
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:23 PM
1

Dude... you’re never going to learn anything about yourself, your emotions, game, women, etc.. if you just cut and run. Train yourself. You can’t train yourself without practice. This is an opportunity for practice. Change the game. Chance the dynamic, change your approach. Treat her like a fuck buddy. Literally act like this never happened. Act like you know other guys are involved and you don’t care. You just want fun and pussy. Ask her out for drinks this weekend and keep it light and flirty.…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:22 PM
1

No don’t say Shit, let her be a plate who can do as she pleases.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:18 PM
1

About halfway through your second paragraph is when You should have matched her lack of energy and effort and started putting her on the back burner, treating the relationship as casual, and meeting other women. The “fuck yes or no” rule is unbreakable. Dont even bring this up again. Just treat her like a fuck buddy. Just treat her like none of this happened nor do you care and ask her out on fuck buddy drink dates.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:17 PM
1

It’s time to start separating yourself from her. Let her be a plate who can do as she pleases while you focus on your future and self improvement
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:14 PM
1

Are you female?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:04 PM
6

You’re a clown for committing to a girl that uses Snapchat.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:20 PM
1

No. 1. You never should have committed to a girl that has a one on one relationship with ANY of ANY sort. You should always shut that down. Always. On day one. Hard no on other men in her life. Period. You should have let her be nothing but a fuck buddy until she sends the other dudes on their way. 2. And his wife deserves to know. You should have already told her.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:18 PM
11

No biggie. Just remove the “potential ltr” part and there’s no problem. Let her do what she wants. She’s not your wife or gf and if she wanted to be, she wouldnt be on tinder. I see zero problem.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:20 PM
3

She’s been fucking longer than you think bud. He was probably the catalyst to your break up
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:34 PM
1

Your last paragraph about being fair game too is all you need to do. And back up your words with actions when the time comes.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:20 AM
0

It’s should bother you that you’re a grown ducking men who uses Instagram. Cross dressing is the only thing a man can do that is more feminine then being on social media
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:21 PM
0

Texting girls and tinder is kiddie pool shit. Stop texting girls and delete ratings and social media. You’re a fucking grown men for Christ sake. Have some self respect
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:20 PM
1

It doesn’t matter if she’s fucked them in the past. It doesn’t matter if they still want her. It matters what she does now. If she stops having one on one relationships with them and moves them down to acquaintance level friendships where the guys treat you two as a unit, are friends of the relationship, are YOUR friend too, and she holds them to it or cuts them off then it’s all good.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:18 PM
4

There no such thing as low sex drive. Only low attraction.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:15 PM
1

She already comparing you two. And their interactions are more frequent and in depth than you’re being told. My answer would have been “he’s right next door, we could have your stuff moved over there in an hour. Tall guy is probably really strong too... he might have it done in even less time.”
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:11 PM
1

The part you guys don’t get about showing indifference and plating women that do this kinda stuff is that it IS the best thing for your new gal health. You’ll never improve if you just cut and run instead of adapting. You’ll never learn hard things about yourself, women, or relationships. It’s about training your mental health to be able to handle this shit. “Can’t do it... it makes feel bad” does nothing for you.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:09 PM
1

Not calling her is still showing lack of indifference. Treat her like this never happened and that you don’t care if it does again
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:02 PM
1

Her actions were all the explanation you need.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:01 PM
1

“Cool let me know when you want to meet up. Night” All that needed to be said. You should have showed indifference instead of that cringe game.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:00 PM
1

“No, you did it because you’re interested in him. And youve disrespected me in more ways than one. He seems like a great guy, you should explore your feelings. I won’t stand in the way. I can do some of my own exploring.”
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:58 PM
0

Straight up address it. But my attitude wouldn’t be confrontational or entitled. I would just be like “looks like there isn’t room for me anymore and if that’s the case, I’ll be on my way. Best of luck fellas.”
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:56 PM
1

Nothing. It was insignificant to her... so let it be the same to you
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:13 PM
2

There’s no such thing as an alpha male on social media. Alpha males have self respect. Grown men who use social media or dating apps don’t.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:14 PM
–

No. And The thing that makes them most unhappy about this is that their husbands do nothing as they disrespect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:02 PM
6

Stop acting like typing words on your phone and letting apps be a filter and do the work for you is even remotely “shooting your shot.” You’re not 14 year old... you’re a grown man. Social media and dating apps shouldn’t be a part of your life. At all
/r/askTRP15/03/21 08:55 PM
1

It’s the same thing. Being non possessive and non committal if the girl doesn’t operate within certain boundaries is the version of possessive I’m talking about.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 09:24 AM
1

They are straight up when guys are straight up.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:35 PM
2

There are very few things in the universe that are more simple than women. They’re not complicated in the slightest bud.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:28 PM
1

It’s ridiculous to equate not want to watch 2 fucks of you don’t have to... especially shitbag cheaters... with homophobia. and you should’ve expressed that instead trying to play games. And I’d ask her if her 2 best gay friends started hooking up after a night out drinking or something would she leave the room? and how she would feel being called a homophobe and tossed aside if she did?
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:26 PM
5

Having boundaries isn’t controlling or jealous. And not only SHOULD you be possessive... you should be proud if it. Damn right I’m possessive and I wouldn’t waste my time on a girl who isn’t
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:20 PM
1

I can’t respect someone as a man or take them seriously if they are over college age and use social media, dating apps, or messaging apps.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:44 PM
2

It’s only the “new normal” in your life if you allow it to be. Maybe you should read up on frame. If she does go out or meet men in real life then really all she has is a phone. A woman with dating apps and who is balls deep in social should be a red flag, not something you should feel the need to accommodate or join in.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:03 PM
1

He’s banging tons of poon.... but not because of his online status.... it’s because he’s good looking. He could fuck the same amount of women with zero online presence and a flip phone. And every woman he fucks would actually hamster his lack of online presence as a positive.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:00 PM
-1

No lift heavy. four sets of each lift. If you can get more than 6 reps of each set then you don’t have enough weight.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:30 PM
4

There’s not a shred of masculinity in dating apps or social media. The only thing a man can do that’s more feminine than being on insta, snap, or tinder is crossdressing.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:28 PM
2

Delete social media and datIng apps. You’re a fucking adult man... not a teenage girl. The only dating or social media app a friend man needs on his phone is “phone.” If you see a woman you’re interested in... walk up to her and tell her to her face... leaving your phone in your pocket wear it belongs. Simple as that. And if you can’t get a woman that way than your time should be spend on physical, financial, and social self improvement... not scrolling.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:27 PM
5

It’s not. It just depends on who you are. Nobody is calling the 6’3 muscular, all american college linebacker weird for not being on SM. The higher the SMV, the more he will be praised for not being on social media. Either way. No grown man with self respect should be caught dead on SM.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:22 PM
1

Take control. Fuck bdsm and tying her up if you don’t want to. Or don’t want to yet. The best sex woman have are with men that do what they want in bed and go after what they like. Trying to please a woman is a sure fire way not to.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:53 PM
1

You’re a grown man. CALL her. with a plan already set up. Stop. Texting. Girls. You’re. Not. 15.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 06:00 PM
3

Shame on you if you haven’t informed the friends husband
/r/askTRP11/03/21 05:58 PM
1

Yeh... never get married unless you can lead every aspect of your life, hone, marriage, and children. At all times.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 05:57 PM
1

If someone tells you that they will fuck you up, words should never be involved in your response
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:54 PM
1

No grown, masculine man should EVER be caught dead on dating apps or social media.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:52 PM
1

Monogamy is still the name of the game. Humans are monoamorous to their core. Monogamy is as a primal a need to humans as breathing
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:50 PM
2

It’s nice in theory and we all spout “women aren’t the goal.” But in reality... they are. There’s nothing more important to us than women. TRPs only value is when it’s applied to relationships... specially to get women or a woman to want you. Trp cares more about women than even feminism does... and so do all of us.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:49 PM
5

Nothing wrong with a high body count. It’s just that sluts don’t pair bond well and they don’t stop the behavior and/or relationships that put them on the path of a high body count after getting into a relationship.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:11 PM
2

Sounds like you got a girl who wants to serve her self up on a silver platter as a fuck buddy who can do as she pleases without you giving a fuck beyond getting your dick wet. I see no problem here.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:53 PM
4

Dude... drinks on a week night and back your place to fuck should be the extent of your relationship.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:51 PM
16

Study after study show that the best indicator of a man with many sexual partners isn’t an attractive face... it’s a muscular body.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:48 PM
1

And men dont understand the importance of training their necks either.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:47 PM
0

Masculine face and muscular body matter more than attractive face.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:47 PM
1

Attraction is the only thing that matters. Attraction is the most important in the universe and whatever is in second place isn’t even close.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:41 PM
1

They’re not involved in world issues or politics... they are involved in social media. Even the capitol riot was about social media attention for each rioter.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:51 PM
1

No it’s not. It’s better to learn how to deal with these emotions and learn how to let go or you’ll never have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:08 PM
1

Who said anything about not having emotions? This is about training your emotion/actions balance.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:30 PM
1

What she’s really telling you is that she wants to be a casual fuck buddy who can do as she pleases because you wouldn’t waste your time on a girl that does shit like this
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:43 PM
1

It’s a bad idea to be a grown man who uses dating apps at all.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:42 PM
80

Feminists love masculine men more than anyone.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:41 PM
-6

No. There’s no agenda for anything in society. Jesus. Masculine men get rewarded now as much as they ever have at any point in history. If anything Theres an unconscious agenda to expose the masculine men and filter out anyone else.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:39 PM
4

Yes do this. He should have reacted to her ljbf with indifference and he should react to this with indifference as well. She should be treated like easy pussy... including acting so un butt hurt that you still have no problem jumping into bed with her and that it’s all you want from her anyway.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:39 PM
3

This behavior should not be met with anger, it shouldn’t be met with indifference. He should already be planning things with another girl for that night and telling gf turned casual fuck buddy to have fun.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:15 PM
-3

He shouldn’t be worried. Not. One. Bit.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:13 PM
4

Na. Fuck that. Dont even bother. Let her be a fuck buddy who can do as she pleases. While he focuses on self improvement and meeting other women.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:13 PM
9

A one on one relationship of any sort with any man is my boundary.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:12 PM
3

I’d tell her that we entered into a casual relationship the minute she so much as texted another guy. And that she can just keep on doing as she pleases because I will be doing the same thing. And that I’m happy for her and he seems like a great guy.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:10 PM
2

I know the prevailing wisdom here is to STFU and next if she crosses lines. But you need to announce your boundaries. I’d personally tell her that going to clubs and drinking like a fish is single girl shit and you dont commit to girls that do single girl shit.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:12 PM
1

Ddlg is getting popular. Don’t understand how a “DD” can get sexually into that kind of situAtion though.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:33 PM
1

Trp IS misogynistic. Tell them the truth... that you dont believe or agree with all of it and only interact with certain parts of trp that benefit my life.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:31 PM
5

Nurses made good money and were in demand long before Covid. Home girl wants to party and get male attention. She’s going to start slipping away with sporadic spurts of gas lighting. He needs to focus on himself and let the street have her.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:55 PM
12

Nurses are always in high demand. Especially now. You know damn well what she’s motivated by. You need to let her go. She’s already gone and you know it. She’s already just a fuck buddy if I’m you.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:09 PM
1

Now you know. Nobody gives a shit about you... they only care about themselves.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:45 PM
2

This is the social media generation talking. Stop trying to front. Get off social media. Stop worrying about women. Your sole focus should actually BE focusing on your financial future.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:44 PM
3

Delete social media. Handle this shit in person.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:26 PM
0

So what exactly lead them to talking? Especially if they’ve never met. Because what you described doesnt exactly bring the boys to the Instagram yard. I would say to grill on exactly how this started and show you the messages... but really you just need to let go. And you shouldn’t trust her because she doesn’t care about your trust.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:25 PM
9

She removed you so she could hide you from him or hide him from you. What you should do is delete social media because you’re a fucking grown man and not a millisecond of your time should EVER be spent on social media... unless you identify as a 14 year old girl. Second. You should let her do what she wants and start treating this relationship as casual while you focus on improving your body, your career, and your social/hobby life. And meeting other women.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:20 PM
3

“Make me a plate and stoping giving a shit about what I do or who I do it with and give your time and attention to other women who don’t put themselves in sexual situations with other men and improve yourself.”
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:56 PM
1

“Put me in a group chat with all your friends. I’ll post them there so we can cut out the middle man.”
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:54 PM
1

Yes... a woman will always want to get to know guys shes attracted to. And will always want a relationship.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:53 PM
1

Yep. Only time you should text a woman is to confirm the date.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:03 PM
2

There’s no such thing as text or online game. That’s not game. That’s pretend.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:02 PM
-1

I’m a Millennial. And the rules havent changed at all. You make your own rules. I don’t want to hear people talk about frame and owning their shit on one hand and giving some version of “everybody is doing it,” on the other. Nothings changed... men these days just go the easy, lazy route. Because they don’t know any other way. And the absolute best way to vet a woman early on is to force her out of the “matrix” in order to be in your life.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:35 PM
1

Nothing. Put it in an investment account and forget you have it.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:11 PM
2

Stop texting girls.... youre not in middle school. Get off social media... you’re not in middle school. Live a real life. Meet girls in person, get their numbers, CALL them to ask them out.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:10 PM
26

Calling a girl out on her bullshit is beyond pointless. Speak with your actions.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:57 PM
1

You’re still letting her. Stop waiting. Stop making excuses. Covid, one last, “I’m planning.” Fuck that bullshit. It’s all excuses. End it now. Tell her that it’s time to go. Tell her brother it’s time to kick you both out. Fuck the Covid shit.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:04 PM
1

This isn’t about the relationship dynamic. This is about this particular situation. And it’s not hard to figure out. She took Steps behind his back with another girl. Then when she had her target, only then did she bring him into the loop. Threesomes should be the last thing on his mind... because he’s not wanted there. Trying to insert himself In This is akin to being in her frame. He should back off and encourage her to do as she pleases and that he’d like to explore too. On his own. He should…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:58 PM
1

Only if you allow it. Every single molecule of your life, personality, future, etc... is 100% completely your choice.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:31 PM
5

So... what were you saying about your mom again? Because you ain’t much better. Side note: what did you say to your mom after all this and what did she have to say for herself?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:44 PM
0

If you think there’s a magical fairy that lives in the sky... you shouldn’t be worrying about grown man shit at all.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:41 PM
4

No. Fuck be included. Continue you on your path. Let her do as she pleases and find other girls on your own.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:13 PM
6

Nothing is more pathetic than a guy trying to weasel threesomes out of a bisexual girl when he’s really not wanted there.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:12 PM
8

First of all... she’s not a 9.5. Second of all, don’t accomdate this. Don’t try to make this about you getting a threesome. That’s just pity. Tell her that youre fine being casual and seeing other people if that is what she wants.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:10 PM
1

I wouldn’t have acted like a little bitch. But I would have made it very clear that we are keeping our plans and I’ll pick her up at 7
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:35 PM
2

If your gfs friends don’t like you it’s always 100% because they’re just picking up what your gf is laying down.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:32 PM
4

Dude explain to them that she broke up with you. And another man was involved. That trumps just a normal break up. And that just because her plan to branch swing fell through doesn’t mean I’m going to sign up to be the back up plan that picks up the pieces another guy left behind.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:02 PM
1

Dude explain to them that she broke up with you. And another man was involved. That trumps just a normal break up. And that just because her plan to branch swing fell through doesn’t mean I’m going to sign up to be the back up plan that picks up the pieces another guy left behind.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:02 PM
2

He’s a guy with his own agenda with a woman he’s attracted to. It’s as simple as that. There’s nothing else to it. That’s how is and always will be with men and women. Tell your girl how you feel about it. She’s not powerless. Giving guys access to her is a choice she makes... a full on 100% bonafide CHOICE. And it could easily be remedied. Very very very easily. After you tell her how you feel... sit back and watch her actions and see if she shows you that your feelings are the most important t…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 03:06 PM
1

It wasn’t 2 years ago and it wasn’t a one night stand
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:48 PM
1

What does her fucking some guy in her past have to do with you? Or the relationship? Is she saying sheS traumatized? He didn’t manipulate shit. She was into him. She did it because she wanted to. And she’s still into him and she’s still talking to him.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:47 PM
1

Dude less than 0.5% of people in the US are trans. What you see in your little social media/dating app bubble is not real life. It’s like people saying the country is too PC. It’s not. People on line just talk about it a lot and everyone else on line joins in on one side or the other and project internet shit to real life. I’m not on social media. And none of this shit is a part of the real world nor do I ever come across it. The new Gender shitShow exists solely online. You’re a Grown man... it…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:44 PM
2

Why isnt he blocked?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:38 PM
3

Maybe he’s got his own shit going on and has lost interest and welcomes somebody coming to scoop her up...
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:01 PM
1

Or atleast going after what you want and making your desires and intentions clear.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:59 PM
1

Not I.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:34 PM
10

There was zero reason to text him. She didn’t give two shits about his surgery.... proven by how easily she blocked him. If he was 300 pounds, his surgery would have been nothing but a blur she scrolled through on Facebook.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:33 PM
3

“I’m not satisfied. I’d like to talk about opening our relationship or making it casual.” Own your shit. Forge your path.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:39 PM
1

And you absolutely should. I give what I expect and expect what i give in a relationship. and that’s what i expect from any women I date.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:37 PM
7

The problem is that she gave another guy her phone number and attention in the first place.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:36 PM
1

Soft next plus lowering your boundaries with other women if there’s a second time.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:34 PM
1

You already made it and problem solved. And I’d make it clear that this will be the last time we ever have a conversation about another man. That I won’t be in a committed relationship with someone to talks to other guys or so much as gives out her contact info
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:33 PM
1

Then own your shit. Lead your path with complete openness. Tell her what you think is going on. Tell her that you don’t like her shady behavior. That It turns you off that shes close with a dirtbag. Tell her, but now that you’re really not bothered by it because you’d like to keep it casual and see others and she can keep doing as she pleases. It football announcer terms, “get out in front of the play and take the top off the defense.”
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:21 PM
1

High value men don’t need social media to get women. And they would 100% be praised by the people around them for not using it. Seeking attention and validation is why people social media and that’s female shit. Social media is for women and children.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:03 PM
1

There isn’t a single chad in the world that needs social media. As a matter of fact they’d get praised for quitting.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:00 PM
13

No grown man with self respect should be on Instagram.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:40 PM
21

Uh... I feel like being visible to the human eye in real life will clear up those rumors.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:40 PM
2

Go. Who cares. Be her friend. No strings. Meet girls. Have a life. Don’t friends with girls without expectations has done nothing but bebefit my life. It’s the ultimate show of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 01:12 PM
2

No it’s not ok to talk to other guys. At all. Acquaintance level friendships with guys with low communication frequency and depth who treat us as a unit... is a friend of relationship and is my friend too? Yes. All day. One on one anything with a guy... even texting? Hard no. And theyrenot friends. He’s a guy with his own agenda with a girl he’s attracted to and she’s a girl who likes the male attention. That’s how humans are. Attraction is everything. It’s rules is. It’s the most important thin…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:47 PM
1

You shouldn’t forbid her from talking to guys. You should express that you don’t commit to girls that have other men in their lives in any way shape or form and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:42 PM
3

Dude. Delete social media. Stop texting like a 14 year old and start taking control. Stop communicating via songs on stories. You’re not in middle school. Call her and talk to her.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:47 PM
1

Only pussies lie. It’s very simple. Courageous men look people in the eye and say “fucking right I did/said it.” Men with integrity dont do shit they gotta lie about in the first place. Only. Pussies. Lie.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:39 PM
1

And this keeps you from making her a plate for what reason?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:13 PM
2

Lol well I mean... I don’t mean it to be a free pass to hurt people. I live my life without hurting people. I don’t have to lie to hide hurtful things from people because I don’t do hurtful things to people. i have have nothing to lie about in my life. I mean everything i say and stand behind everything I do. “Damn right I did” is how I will always be.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:26 PM
6

“I don’t date girls that text other dudes, let alone hang out with them. I won’t even bother trying to call you out on what possible reason you could have to sit in some guys car that you haven’t talked to in two years. And when we see each other again, you WILL be putting your phone in my hand and I know for a fact that your messages with him won’t reflect the story your telling me. So do as you please, my gut is telling me you already are anyway. I’ll be doing the same.”
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:12 PM
20

There’s never any reason to ever tell one single lie ever in your life. Not one. Lying is for pussies.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:07 PM
1

I forgot about the newborn baby scene too... Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:02 PM
1

What the main character does to his own son in that movie... people that like that shit go beyond horror fans. Even writing that into a script is psycho shit.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:51 PM
1

There’s a reason that the ugliest serial killer has more pussy thrown at him than all of us combined.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:48 PM
1

Tell her that your sorry they new guy isn’t as great as she thought but she made her choices. And how exactly did you treat her?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:10 PM
1

I think you meant hotwife... because that’s what you have bud.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:07 PM
1

Yes... getting to the bottom of that is what I’d be doing before moving on to other pointless things guys do in these situation like “stepping up around the house” or more romance like flowers and notes
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:09 PM
9

She’s going out frequently = giving her time a attention to other dudes. Girls night is about dudes. Always has been. always will be. And she’s at home all day doing nothing. Where do you think her time and attention is going? Angry birds? Most inexperienced men try to fall over themselves trying to “fix” this kinda rough patch and, as I’m sure you, and no matter how much they do it never works. Because they have no idea the real problem is another man or men
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:01 PM
10

Ultimatums work better than anything if you have the balls to back up your words. And OP is 100% being cheated on too.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:53 PM
3

You’re being cheated on bud...
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:52 PM
1

Training. Start trying different brands, different sizes, etc... and start jerking off with them on.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:55 PM
1

Kicked? Kicked his ass? Kicked him out of another chat group? Actually kicked him? I would just tell her I want to see the chats. And why are you with a girl that would be friends with a guy that bullies disabled people? And they are chatting with each other to find out what to do? What do you mean... what is there to do? Either way. I’d get to bottom of three things. 1. Why she left you out? 2. Contents of the chat? 3. Why she’s still friends with this guy.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:53 PM
1

I would have done it once. Not going to lie. I’d want to know what lies I was told. But then I’d stop because it’s pointless and having NGAF discipline is a good thing to teach yourself. And because I won’t learn anything that I don’t already know.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:10 PM
15

Wish her luck with him and move on.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:07 PM
1

Self respect is the only thing that should matter. And if should light years above easy pussy. And the easiness or getting pussy frat way should actually be the main deterrent.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:15 PM
1

https://medium.com/@RationalMale/the-medium-is-the-message-7df7f7bb5720
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:41 PM
1

and get the fuck off social media. It’s for feminine attention seeking little boys.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:39 PM
1

Dude... her interest in another guy is driving her disinterest in you. That’s all this is about... nothing to do with you. You should have just treated her like a buddy and flirted with her friends and not bothered by asking her to hang out after.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:38 PM
3

The pandemic has nothing to do with why youre on social media and dating apps. You were on it before and will be after. It’s about attention and validation. You’re on it for the same reason as a teenage girl. I have gotten myself pussy during this pandemic without any of that female behavior.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:15 PM
3

Delete SM and dating apps. You’re a fucking grown man. Not a teenage girl. The only social media or dating app a masculine, adult man needs on his phone is “phone.” If you’re interested in a woman... walk up to her and tell her to her face. Call her and ask her out. If she doesn’t answer then leave a voicemail asking her out. Don’t text her at all except to confirm the date, the day of or the day before. Everything else should be done or said in person
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:43 AM
3

If you meet a girl on a dating app (no grown man with self respect should be on a dating app.) and that uses social media more than a few hours a week (and no grown man with self respect should be caught on social media either) then don’t talk about “vetting.” I don’t understand why you would even take her seriously in the first place. When has anybody reading this EVER met an attention seeker who was trustworthy? Jesus.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:37 AM
2

Because she’s interested in another man
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:32 AM
1

Getting alcohol out of your life is good defense to this kind of shout...
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:31 AM
1

Slap in the face
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:50 PM
2

Where? In class? On the sidewalk? Alone together?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 05:48 PM
1

No. No biggie. This is just a pebble dropped in the ocean of your life. Give it no mind and let what happens next be up the pebble.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:54 PM
1

Just say yes. Do you believe in equality? Then use that loophole. You don’t have to get into detail or dig into all the different caveats of feminism...just agree that you believe in the surface level definition of feminism and move along. Or https://youtu.be/aM6eNQhmLHs
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:50 AM
1

You act like him picking up clues about something as big as his dads second family is the same as something small as how long he plays Solitaire on Tuesday mornings. And we are in a pandemic...
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:50 AM
3

How you can respect a woman that abandoned her child and how you can avoiding asking direct questions is beyond me.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:47 AM
1

Huh? Nobody on the planet is ignoring the evidence of their parent having another family.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:43 PM
1

You lay into your mom over this?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:42 PM
3

Being in my sisters life is a no brainer for me. That would be the one reason I wouldn’t be able to sit back and wait like you. And on a side note he deserves to face the consequence of his son fucking his mistress too.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:41 PM
0

Impossible if she doesn’t want that too.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:17 PM
0

Be boring
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:06 PM
1

Only if your scared to lead your girl and face down these dudes.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:57 PM
2

No.. he should invite himself and he if she’s says no then say alright have fun. Then he shouldn’t waste his time to To get even right now... he should back off and change his whole mindset on a larger scale by that I mean he should let this relationship be more on the casual end of the spectrum and start doing as he pleases with other women.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:47 PM
1

Bud... take the lead and invite yourself.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:44 PM
-2

“Yeh sounds fun. Any friend of yours is a friend of mine so I’m looking forward to meeting them. I’ll pick you up.”
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:43 PM
2

No shit. She’s a fucking bio hazard.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:12 PM
0

Why haven’t you informed the girls boyfriend just how at risk his health is? And never wife up a girl that condones cheating. I wouldn’t put my heart or health at risk for this girl. Fucking a girl that fucks guys that fuck other guys is like Russian roulette.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:10 PM
1

Dude she just needs to be the girl you kick it with and fuck 3-5 times a month. Ask her out for drinks sometime next week. Keep it light and flirty. No serious topics. Don’t even bring the relationship. About an hour in... ask her if she wants to go back to your place.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:37 PM
3

Calling out a woman on her lies or her bullshit is beyond pointless.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:34 PM
1

Start telling her about all the women you give compliments to.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:46 PM
1

“Find out for yourself. And neither of us are special.”
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:46 PM
1

You are a sapling blowing in the wind. I would have called them both out and sent them on their way
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:52 PM
3

She broke up with you for another guy. Unless there’s abuse, addiction, or mental illness involved... it’s rare for a break up not to involve a third party. Now she’s going public after a long hiatus so she can make it look like a new relationship. And you were blocked for a number of obvious reasons. She might even be hiding you from him too.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:18 PM
1

Dad bods are only talked about due to the A list stars that they are associated with. She’s really just saying “ I’d like for Leo DiCaprio to fuck me.” When a girl in a bar or party or wherever says shit like that... she usually surrounded by dad bods... and she wants to fuck none of them. Ignore her words. Look at her actions. Does her current and past relationship/sexual history back up those words?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:15 PM
1

Back off, let it go, treat her like a friend And start meeting other girls.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:10 PM
1

Yeh I dont believe in that. Her phone isn’t some magic thing that isn’t allowed to be touched. You having access to your gfs phone takes away from her personal agency to do whatever she wants in zero ways. Aside from easily hiding things from you. There’s nothing controlling about it. To say that grown ass adults in a committed relationship shouldn’t have access to each other electronic devices is beyond ridiculous.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:07 PM
1

Handy?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:00 PM
1

Taking control is exactly what he should do. And she has choices too.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 07:33 PM
1

How do you demonstrate that without words lol?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 07:32 PM
-3

“You’re being shady, hand me your phone or leave.”
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:44 PM
2

Shut your trap and make her a plate
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:43 PM
7

It’s completely fine for him to ask you and you should have told him that you and her don’t talk and they are free to do whatever. I wouldn’t have taken an issue with any of it nor would I have given it much thought after.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:10 PM
2

It’s time to stop chasing validation and start focusing on physical, financial, and social self improvement.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:08 PM
1

You should focus on self improvement and getting you’re own life and distance yourself from your so called brother.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:07 PM
1

You should be completely fine cutting out female friends in a relationship. And to be honest you should be fine with location services too. It’s really no big deal if you own your shit. But you should have looked her in the eye and told her not to bother saying shit until she cuts dudes out of her life AND deletes snapchat. And if you find out that she re downloaded snap or messages another dude then you should shut your trap and start doing you again.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:05 PM
3

But at the same time, life isn’t short. Life is long. and you have to live with the choices you make for the next 50 years...
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:09 PM
5

No you weren’t and no they didn’t
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:58 PM
7

Because she’s having fun being very not exclusive. Your should shut your trap and do the same.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:15 PM
1

She’s in your house but you’re “removing yourself attention?” Dude just change your mindset. She’s a fuck buddy. Let her do as she pleases and go meet other women.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:14 PM
1

No you haven’t
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:11 PM
2

Any cam girl that has a manager is a fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:10 PM
0

No you don’t
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:08 PM
19

“I know several pimps” lol
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:07 PM
1

Streaming, influencing, camming, YouTubing, whatever else.... only a hand full of people actually make good money.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:06 PM
1

Porn is dead. The OF girls are already the starlets.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:04 PM
5

Take charge or take a seat
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:52 PM
1

What was the argument about?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:50 PM
0

“Me too” all you need to say. But it still doesn’t mean she is allowed to act on it. And close with other men in any way Susie or form should a hard no for you.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:10 PM
3

You hangout and fuck... what changed? Do you guys “treat each other with respect” now. And what does that even mean? Instead of coming to you and waiting to make a change she just she’s but still does all the sane things with you. Yeh... sorry bud... you’re not the only guy fucking her. Your just the only guy that’s committed.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:08 PM
4

How are you so passive?
/r/askTRP04/12/20 06:02 PM
1

You tell her what you told us and then you tell her to hand over her phone or get out. And always always always address the micro shady shit on the spot. Like literally grab her phone and turn it back over. Right then and there
/r/askTRP04/12/20 05:59 PM
1

Teach her the hard way something that Samantha from sex and city taught girls of my generation 20 years ago. “Never play hard to get with a man who’s hard to get.”
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:08 PM
1

Experience
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:57 AM
1

The stone cold Steve Austin method. Every time he grabbed a mic he touched on 4 things. 1. This is the current situation. 2. These are the events that led up to the current situation. 3. This is how I feel about it. 4. This is what I’m going to do about it That should be your format in public confrontations.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:00 PM
1

By not giving a fuck if they feel insulted. I’d look her in the eye and tell her impossible for you to respect an adult who uses social media.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:57 PM
4

Neither tinder nor Instagram should be a part of your life. Ever. You’re a fucking grown man. And you shouldn’t be texting her at all. You should call her and ask her out.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:05 PM
0

You need to elaborate. And your mother dying had nothing to do with it.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:04 PM
2

You should call her up and ask her out. You shouldn’t be texting ting girls and you shouldn’t be on social media at all. Both of those things are for middle school kids
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:51 PM
3

What a woman is willing to do in bed is directly related to how attracted she is to the guy. It’s never the second act that matters, it’s the man she’s doing it with
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:50 PM
1

Dude... have the sex. Control the frame. Let this be practice. Physical and emotionally.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:51 PM
1

Yeh. Bud. This recent break up was because she was interested in another man and maybe you don’t see but so was the first one. And yes. You should continue to fuck her. If you can’t control your emotions and simply spin a plate, regardless of who it is, then you’ll never be able to do shit as a man.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:48 PM
2

Stop texting girls. You should call them to ask them out. Texting should only be for logistics. Everything else should be in person.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:59 PM
1

No. I have a great relationship with my mother. She raised me as a single mother. She treated me like a man and expected me to act like one. She promoted my masculinity.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:57 PM
1

It’s usually down to narcs being able to bring preselection and hypergamy into the mix
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:57 PM
-1

So you think she’s still fucking this guy? Confront her... tell her to hand over her phone. Stop living in fear.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:54 PM
17

No shit. If she’s not on a runway... she’s not a 9
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:53 PM
3

She’s not attracted to you
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:49 PM
0

Confront them to their faces
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:15 PM
1

Not if they have a Jaw line and tan. The beating off continues....
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:27 PM
-1

Yes you can. That’s one of the biggest giveaways of a steriod user
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:37 PM
-8

Tan, jawline, muscular physique, muscular neck is light years more attractive then the Joe Schmoe beard/bald look.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:24 PM
11

By ungrowing body fat
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:22 PM
16

Dude. Call around. Reschedule every thing and go on a vacation by yourself later.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:25 PM
2

Don’t forget a muscular thick neck. Most important thing a guy with a shaved head can have
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:22 PM
-9

A jaw line, a tan, and a thick neck gives 2-3 points over a beard. Never do the beard and shaved head look. It’s terrible and lazy.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:22 PM
-22

No
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:21 PM
8

I always say this when the weekly “I’m losing my hair so I shaved my head, should I grow a beard?” Post pops up. 1. A tan 2. A jawline. 3. A muscular physique 4. A muscular thick neck ( the one thing no one mentions about attractive bald men is there necks.) if you shave your head, Train your neck. Google “Channing Tatum shaved head” and try to imagine how he’d look with about a big neck.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:20 PM
3

Muscular physique and low body fat is a must have when your bald
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:16 PM
1

Go over her head and go straight to him.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:20 PM
1

Why haven’t you looked this guy in the eye and asked him to make fun of you to your face? And why aren’t you talking to other girls?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:19 PM
1

Why didn’t you say something? I would have told them they look like shit and you heard they live like shit too.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:17 PM
1

No... just be another chad that looks at her like a fuck buddy. Stop expecting to be a priority to a plate that isn’t your priority. This literally should be even close to a big deal. Just tell her that you went home and now she owes you and you look forward to collecting.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:14 PM
2

I’m not really sure what’s going on here but I meant like.... who cares if you get banned?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:48 PM
5

Dude... take a break from the Internet.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:51 PM
1

Say it with me...”girls with other men in their lives are only fuck buddies.”
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:38 PM
1

Don’t ever refer to soccer as football again. Lol
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:52 PM
1

And you should never be cool with your girl EVER having anything one on one with another guy. Never. No texting, no hanging out, no talking... nothing. Whether that means you have a talk with her or whether that means you downgrade the relationship and let her do what she wants while you do the same or whether you just break up with her.... whatever.... never accept your girl having another man in her life in ANY capacity. And yes even if he’s gay. The gay bff often creates dynamic thats worse t…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:52 PM
1

And “on deck” is a baseball term. The player in the “on deck circle” is up next to hit.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:47 PM
1

And so will any girl you meet... forever and ever
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:46 PM
1

I mean your ex talked to other guys while dating you. Maybe just texting... maybe more. But it was At a level that would have made you feel betrayed. He was one of those guys. The points she made were bullshit. It was about another guy. If you pay attention to her life as the years pass then you will see that neither of those points she made will a part of her life. She wasn’t looking for a better guy... she was just chasing the new shiny thing she was already crossing lines with behind your bac…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:38 PM
2

She didn’t replace shit. The guy was there in the on deck circle the whole time.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:13 PM
1

No shit. I keep trying to pound it into the heads of my younger employees. Stop. Texting. Girls.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:10 PM
1

You should have sent him on his way and put her in her place and told her it’s time to go on the spot
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:37 PM
1

First of all, the minute he said “we should run a train on her.” You and him should have had words. At that point in the night going back to the hotel should have been nixed. I’d still drop her because she showed what she values a her purest form (no inhibitions). But I would have taken control. The other dude would on his own and I’d be taking FWB back home. Period. Even if they didn’t want to.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:59 PM
1

And you should challenge to continue to atone by taking it upon herself to inform her friend. That’s the kinda shit that would rebuild trust with me.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:13 PM
1

And her friend still doesn’t know? And you challenged your girl on that being unacceptable?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:04 PM
1

Has her friend been informed?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:38 PM
1

Who wants to bet other men were involved at this time as well?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:05 PM
1

They are t on dating apps and they aren’t all over social media and you shouldn’t be either.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:41 PM
1

Use your feet and your mouth.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:51 PM
1

The only quote you need to hear about playing hard to get is from the red pill queen herself... Samantha from sex and the city. “Never play hard to get with a man who is hard to get.”
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:53 PM
3

There is no such thing as stealing someone’s girl.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:23 PM
2

Do you have a mouth and brain? Maybe I’m wrong but it seems like if you have those two things, you can easily figure this out.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:10 PM
1

You shouldn’t be in committed relationships with girls who use stealth messaging apps or more then one social media app.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:08 PM
3

Only weak men who operate on fear allow themselves to be gaslighted.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:07 PM
1

Win how?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:00 PM
2

Your mindset is all wrong. Anger at being disrespected is completely warranted and you should stand behind it. Sitting there without confronting both of them in that situation is the worst thing you could do. Letting yourself be disrespected and thinking through your reaction because you scared of certain consequences is the definition of insecurity.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:36 PM
1

The only thing you left out is telling her to hand over her phone and telling her that she’s free to do as she pleases but so are you and you won’t be with a girl that gives access to other men, even prestigious in her drivers. And he’s not in the military.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:33 PM
1

Yes. The “dream guy test.” I always tell guys to stop texting and messaging women and call them to ask them out. And the guys are like “no she’ll think I’m weird.” And my answer to that is, “oh really? So if Channing Tatum called her up she would pass it up because he’s weird?”
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:06 PM
8

First of all... the passive aggressive nature of your argument was a pussy move. Take control, set the tone, set the frame. An argument should never be had with a woman. ever. She has other options. There are closer to the batters box then you realize. And her interest in another man was also a factor the last time she was being wishy washy and seemingly pushing for a break up. And part of the reason she was pushing for answer about the trip is because she wanted to know which option she could p…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:02 PM
1

No beard. Lift weights everyday and eat with a purpose. Train your neck heavy 3 times a week. A muscular physique, a jaw line, a muscular thick neck, and a tan is how you look good with a shaved head. Look at picture of any attractive famous band man and they will those 4 features. Beards and shaved heads is goober shit.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:36 PM
1

She’s not your girl and doesn’t want to be. why waste your time? You need another texting partner?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:42 PM
1

First of all if a dude threatens me like you got threatened on the bench, I’m hitting him in the mouth before he even finishes his sentence. And second... why are you leaving your house everyday without a weapon?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:28 PM
1

I agree. But I’m older. I would never be with a woman that uses stealth messaging apps and attention seeking social media. But what I’m saying that she needs to rid her life of all that shit and rid her life of any friend that knew and didn’t tell you as a bare minimum to even START talking about reconciliation. She would need to change about 80% of her life.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:48 PM
1

I’m 37
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:43 PM
1

No it’s not. She’s would have to cut out all the avenues of seeking sexual attention if she wants to try to earn me her m.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:43 PM
1

Social media and messaging apps should not be a part of a grown mans life. Your phone already does everything these apps do. The only social media, messaging, or dating app a grown man needs on his phone is phone.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:47 PM
-2

Na. Telling her not bother calling him until she deletes Snapchat and messaging apps curcumvents that. You’ll keep her respect if you serve consequences and put it on her to do real work and make real changes to earn her way back
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:45 PM
1

Wife up a grown ass woman that uses Snapchat? Here’s your prize...
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:43 PM
3

I suppprt sex workers. And I super support them being somebody else’s problem too.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:42 PM
1

Ignore it. Continue on like normal. Call her and ask her out again. If she acts like this next time then stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:09 PM
1

Thats one of the many reasons that you should remove texting as a way to communicate with a woman in the early stages. Until you’ve fucked her 3-5 times and at least a month has passed since you started fucking with her, your phone communication should exclusively be you calling her to ask her out with a plan already in mind. If she doesn’t answer then Leave a voicemail asking her out. Everything else should be done in person
/r/askTRP30/10/20 05:01 PM
1

Go and have fun. 7-10 people will be very easy to manage. And her slutty costume will make for a fun evening. Do not wear a costume.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 04:58 PM
2

Understand that you are not the only suitor in her life. Abd she’s had dicks in and around her mouth and pussy multiple times since you’ve seen her last. And one or more of the afore mentioned ducks was the reason she put you on the neck burner. And stop communicating with her via messages. Call her and ask her out. Conversation in person, not messages
/r/askTRP30/10/20 04:55 PM
1

Call social services for what? Let her go. Who cares? Let her be nothing but an occasional fuck toy. Focus on self improvement. And yes fuck bet sister if you want to. Pursue her as much your interest in her drives you to but don’t do it as revenge. Do it because you want to and your ex’s feelings on the matter aren’t something youll ever bother taking into account.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:47 PM
2

I guess I didn’t explain that part well. I meant that you’d be calm cool and collected and just yourself in the moment instead of trying to get her to like you
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:38 PM
2

I ask myself two questions when I’m the company of a woman. 1. What if I knew for a 100% fact that she didn’t want to fuck me? How would I treat her? 2. Now...How would I treat her if I knew for 100% fact that she does want to fuck me? Oddly enough... you’d pretty much treat her the same in both cases, right?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:33 AM
1

Dude call her up and ask her out to drinks. Keep it light and flirty and after an hour or two, ask her back to your place.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:05 PM
1

Dude... give in. If everyone has herpes it would just be like no one has herpes.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:03 PM
1

Once you up your neck game... youll shine my guy! https://apexofmen.com/neck-training-for-posture-health-and-attractiveness/
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:10 PM
1

Yes. He’s less attractive because of that. If he had the physical attributes I have described as ideal in the neck/jaw area and he chooses to cover it up....Then yes, he’s choosing to look less youthful and less attractive. The neck is the single most important and over looked body part when it comes attractiveness and masculinity.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:21 PM
1

First of all, this place is full of dudes saying dumb shit and they could all learn from me. A beard is just a cover. Fix masculine characteristics at the source. Don’t cover it up. Train your fucking neck. Lose the double chin. Accept that your pale white face is costing you a few points. And do something about it. A linebacker with a muscular neck and sharp jawline is light years more attractive and masculine then any man with a beard.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:02 PM
0

It’s still second place. Jawline, tan, muscular neck is more attractive by leaps and bounds. Google any famous bald man. The attractive ones have those 3 things.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:17 PM
1

Yes. Get a jaw line. Meaning eat with a purpose and lifting hard everyday. Your jawline or lack there of is based on body fat. And yes. Get some sun. A tan is universally attractive.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:15 PM
1

Only reason I mentioned I have to shave a lot because someone said I can’t grow a beard. And no, growing a beard is to hide an unmasculine face and neck
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:13 PM
-1

I can grow a great beard. I’ve gotten tired of shaving so much that I just shave my face with my clippers everyday when I shave my head. Abd beard and shaved head is beyond a terrible look. Jawline, tan, and train your neck in the gym. There is no look that beats that.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:22 PM
-4

A beard is a cop out. A muscular physique, thick muscular neck, a jaw line, and tan should be your goal. Fuck beards
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:16 PM
2

I know I know... at this point my aunt should know the drill and we should just get down to business. My frame is shit.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 02:35 PM
2

Never text a girl you’re trying to get to know. Fucking. Call. Her. And ask her out for drinks. At night. On a weekend. Fucking coffee? That’s what I do when my aunts in town so I can fucking get it over with.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:41 PM
1

7 numbers and your voice
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:31 PM
3

If you’re interested in a girl, you should walk up to her and tell her to her face. Dating apps should have never been a part of your life. The only dating or social media app a grown masculine man needs on his phone is phone.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:59 PM
0

Stop. Texting. Girls.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:57 PM
1

No grown man should be on social media nor should it be something they even think about. Very few people make money this way. There’s a reason only fans exists. And very few people money there either.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:56 PM
1

Fuck that shit. Yes. He does. That’s such a low value analogy. If a wolf saw a sheep, the sheep would the wolf’s full attention. Just like this situation should have OPs full attention and he should be having face to face conversations with all these people.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:53 PM
1

I already would have confronted everyone who said something.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:49 PM
2

No. Pass a shit test? Fuck that. I’m walking her out on the spot.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:24 PM
1

Yeh. Who cares if she is bisexual? It’s not something you should feel the need to accommodate.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:29 PM
1

Who gives a shit? She’s attracted to other people. So are you. Doesn’t change anything. You should make it clear that you will not share her and her being bi just puts more of a burden on her to have higher boundaries if she wants to be in a relationship with you. Or she can do what she wants and you two can keep it casual
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:40 PM
0

Security cameras and n your house. You’ll never have to worry about your character being assassinated again after a break up.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:37 PM
1

Na, it was about the girls. He wouldn’t have treated OP that way if it was just them 2 or if his clients were men. And I wouldn’t have insulted him. I would use the stone cold Steve Austin format. Pretty much every time he picked up a mic, he touched on 4 main points. 1. This is what is currently happening. 2. These are the events leading to what is happening. 3. This is how I feel about it. 4. This is what I’m gonna do about it. If you stick to that main format you’ll do just fine in low stakes…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:26 AM
3

Now that was a passive aggressive cop out and a half ass way to avoid confrontation. He should have put his mat back and kept working out. If the guy said anything. I would have said something along the lines of “look man. I like you and we seem to get along. But every time women are around you try to pull some Wanna be alpha male shit. I’m not putting up with it. I pay my monthly dues just like everybody else. What your doing is disrespectful and unprofessional. And for this woman to say im mak…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:08 PM
1

Did you mean to reply to me?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:52 PM
8

Bullshit. OP was there first. They could have worked out in the location where his mat was moved to. This is a hill i would died on.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:53 PM
1

I would have grabbed the mat and moved it back to the spot and called him out for how his behavior changes when women are around. And for being disrespectful and unprofessional. Out loud right in front of the women. And I would have continued my workout. Hanging things in the moment is the most important skill a man can have.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:50 PM
2

Until she sends all these dudes on their way, I wouldn’t even consider her being more than a fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:19 PM
8

Not being able to bond with other women is one the biggest red flags there is on this planet. And none of these guys are her friends. They are just guys with own agenda with a woman they are attracted to. And she’s a girl that likes the male attention. If any of these were 300 pounds or if she was... she wouldnt even know their names. I wouldn’t even consider a relationship with her. I’d tell her that I’m not going to be in a relationship with a woman that surrounds herself with orbiters and I’d…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:17 PM
1

Jesus dude
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:12 PM
3

Na... I wouldn’t be close to either of them anymore. But I also wouldn’t blame them and accept that I’m not important to them. But she did nothing wrong. And he will move through life knowing he took a keeper for granted.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:56 PM
1

There are maybe a handful of you that have the experience, knowledge or correct mindset that I have. There isn’t a thing in any of this shit that I’m ignorant about. And there isn’t a si for one of you that couldn’t learn from me. I was red pill from experience before red pill was even a thing.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:38 PM
1

There’s not a person in the manosphere that can other men more than me. Period. And most of the comments are blaming her.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:32 PM
2

Dude. I am this Reddit. I’m 37 years old and more experienced with women then just about all of you combined. I can teach you more then this sub Reddit. Number one lesson... you’re on your own. No one gives a fuck about you. There isn’t a man in your life that cares more about you then pussy. He shouldn’t even bother dropping the friend because I guarantee he wasn’t much more than a drinking buddy anyway. OP didn’t lead shit. He just took and took and took and then bounced. Explain to me what th…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:04 PM
2

Why does the guy that took her tremendous effort for granted still deserve loyal and respect after he skipped town. You really think he wouldn’t bend his friends ex over a table if she was in the next town he goes to?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:45 PM
3

This isnt trash behavior. Read his first paragraph. Where did her good behavior get her? She’s supposed to give loyalty and effort that she never got in return? She’s supposed to keep her legs closed for a guy that doesnt give a shit about her? She’s not supposed to be single woman who can fuck whoever turns her on because a guy that she wants to fuck just so happens to know another a guy that is nowhere to be found and is looking for other pussy in other places? I doubt OP really gives a shit a…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 06:15 PM
1

Dude instagram and texting are so dope. Tell me more about them and how they should be incorporated into a grown mans life.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:50 PM
0

This isn’t hamstering. And I’m supposed to respectt and honor what exactly? His promise to see her on the future? OP is the king and everything he touches is his forever? If OP has been respectful and honorable at all i fail to see it. He sounds like a whiny narcissistic pussy who takes things for granted.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:48 PM
2

So after 3 months of living together and treating her as well she did you... if she told you that she’s got get going and you can’t come... you wouldn’t fuck her friends? You’d be ok with her still demanding loyalty?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:42 PM
3

He gave his turn up. A turn she seemed to work pretty damn hard for. And now he expects humans to stop being humans?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:40 PM
1

Where’s your loyalty big shoots?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:39 PM
3

Key word being “left” And she was a plate who gave a hell of a lot more than a plate effort. He thinks he can just lap up rewards, enjoy her tremendous effort, and then bounce and everyone is going to be “loyal” to him? Huh? If I treated a girl like and she just bounced on me... you best believe I’d be fucking whoever I want. Her best friend, mom, sister... doesn’t matter. She bounced. You’re telling me I’m toxic trash?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:38 PM
1

You, me, OP, and everyone reading this comment would have done the exact thing in this situation. If i watched a girl go out of her way to please my buddy and show her commitment with actions and one day he was like “welp I’m a rambling man... gotta get going thanks for all the sex and food.” I would have zero qualms about letting her climb this mountain if she so chooses. And if she bounced on him would you all be telling him not fuck her friend or Hes trash? His buddy and his plate are suppose…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:33 PM
1

I don’t think she’s toxic at all. I think I would no problem doing what she did in her situation
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:26 PM
2

Why?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:25 PM
0

What exactly is the issue? A girl you were fucking with fucked another guy after you bounced on her. People care about what they want in the moment more then just about anything. You should know that more than anybody. They fucked for the same reasons that youve done everything you’ve done in the last few months. Put your self in her shoes. What do you think the advice of all these guys would be if you and her switched places in this scenario? And try and tell me you wouldn’t have done the exact…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:25 PM
6

Why would ltr a girl that close to another guy? And they are not friends. He’s a guy with his own agenda with a girl he’s attracted to and she’s a girl that likes the attention. Simple as that. If either of them were 300 pounds, they wouldn’t even know each other’s names. Let go. Let it plan out how it plays out and start meeting other women.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:40 PM
1

Any man on snap or insta is a little boy.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:31 PM
2

I agree. But it falls flat when most of the grown men reading this are just as bad.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:25 PM
0

I’m of the kind that he shouldn’t maintain sexual relationship until his girl gives him a reason too. He should not have been ducking with other girls before this. Now it’s exactly what he should do.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:24 PM
1

Her going further underground shouldn’t be an option. It only is if you allow it.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:22 PM
1

The best way to handle this is also the best way not to cone off as beta. First of all, having boundaries and expecting your girl not to engage with other men is not even close to beta. You handle this by down grading her. Let her be a fuck buddy who gets about 25% of effort and attention you give her now and who can do as she pleases. You do the same. Remove your commitment and treat other women the way she allows other men to treat her.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:21 PM
2

If a girls friends don’t like you... 9 times out of 10 it’s because of how the girl talks about you. They are just picking up what your laying down.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:17 PM
2

Both sides of you are right. She is cheating and you should just let it be.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:56 PM
2

Why the fuck did you leave without your hoodie?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 09:35 PM
1

Buuullllshit
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:52 PM
1

First of all... she is not nor was she ever on your jock. You never fucked her... you even kiss her? And I’m not a kiddo. I’m less than a decade younger then you. And yes... the things I said about texting and social media are directly tied to masculinity. And you’re also very passive. You had no frame and you didn’t lead shit. You connect with girls the same way as my 14 year old nephew. A grown man with self respect doesnt fuck with social media nor does he text women that he’s trying to sleep…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:46 PM
1

You sure you’re not 16 and not 46?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:47 PM
1

“Don’t act like you have integrity now... the talk should have hapoened before you crossed lines with your new guy.”
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:38 PM
3

No grown man with self respect should be caught dead on social media or texting girls. That shit is for passive 14 year olds.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:32 PM
5

Your too old to be ignoring red flags. Girl flirting with you in front of her bf is a red flag... but you soaked up the attention and validation like a 14 year old girl. And stop texting and talking to women on social media. That’s middle school shit too.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:55 PM
4

Fuck needy. Tell her you find it disrespectful and dismissive. That you won’t be side piece for a girl who is in a relationship with her phone. I would straight tell her that when she is with me, I expect her phone to be put away or she should go date someone e-boy
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:05 PM
1

This is how you treat her. https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/ As for the sit down conversation. No. Tell her the sit down conversation should have happened before she cheated or... you know... at any point in the year since. What is she going to tell you that you don’t already know? Or you to her? Tell her you have no desire to make her suffer but she made her choices and now she has to live with them. I have to worry about me not suffering because I obviously can’t count on her …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:03 PM
14

Lol there’s a metric fuck ton going on with gf and atleast one of these guys that you don’t know about. “Y’all know each other?” Would have been my response to the first guy.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:26 PM
13

You shouldn’t be in a committed with relationship with a girl who still talks to her ex
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:53 PM
2

Just be boring. She’ll get rid of herself
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:09 PM
-2

Just remember, you might learn the hard way that if you think you can mess with another mans wife and nothing is going to happen to you then good luck with that
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:08 PM
2

Branch swinging and serial monogamy is as natural to humans as breathing.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:50 PM
1

I Agree. But in this guys situation, he should down grade her.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:30 PM
1

I wouldn’t be in an ltr with a girl on instagram at all. Pull back, focus on physical, financial, and social self improvement. Meet other women. Let her be nothing but a fuck buddy who can do as she pleases.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:56 PM
10

It’s rare for a relationship to end without a third party involved.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:54 PM
1

Social proof is nothing. That’s why sigma males are the most sought after. Only social proof you need is the people around you showing you respect. Respect you aint gonna earn by seeking attention and doing the same shit all day as your fucking 13 year old niece. And Having a muscular physique and financial success makes the need for game obsolete. If you look good, make money, and have self respect/abundance mentality (they are one in the same for me) then you really can just mostly “be yoursel…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:34 PM
1

No it doesn’t. Being high value does. Edit: online? As in pursuing women online? You. Should. Meet. A. Girl. In. Person. Only. Dating apps and social media shouldn’t exist in your world.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:37 AM
2

There no such thing as social proof unless it’s real life.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:12 PM
7

No grown man with self respect and masculinity should be caught dead on social media. Shouldn’t even be something you think about. The only thing a man can participate in that is more feminine than social media is cross dressing. If youre interested in a women then walk up to her and tell her to her face and get her number. Call her, don’t text. Texting is middle school shit too. Call to ask her out and everything else should be done in person. The only social media or dating app that a grown as…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:11 PM
3

You could say the same thing about anything. “Ok you got into a relationship with a girl. And then?” “And then” is up to him
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:23 PM
1

This is just a reminder that your feelings are misplaced. shes not your girl and if she wanted to be she wouldn’t be hanging out with her ex. So..., so what? She’s plate. She can do as she pleases. So have fun on the trip, fuck, and be free... don’t even bring it up. If you go out in a city you stop in on the drive and you meet a another girl your attracted to then Youre fully in your right to try to fuck her. And I would.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:14 PM
2

This ain’t gonna be the RP answer. But take it from a 37 year old man that’s been around the block. fuck all the bullshit and just straight up tell her the truth. Everything you told us in your first paragraph. Tell her you aren’t interested in being friends. You regret you choices when you were the one taking her for granted. I want back what I had. And that if she isn’t interested in getting back on track, just me and her then it’s best if we just wish each other luck and be on our way. Stop p…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:20 PM
3

I’d just let go. I’d focus on physical, social, and financial self improvement. I’d let her be what she should have been all along. A fuck buddy. Pull back and focus on you. I wouldn’t care enough to address it or the relationship. Let her chase you.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:53 PM
1

It wasn’t anything you did. If she was into you... you’d know.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:34 PM
2

She didn’t go back to her ex after you broke up. He was already well on the picture by then. And she reached out because she is running low on sources of male attention
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:32 PM
3

The decline only exists to people who choose to partake in an online life. Being a grown man who uses social media is worse than being a instaslut.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 11:52 AM
3

Polyamory doesn’t exist. Humans are monoamorous. The only women that want open marriages are ones that don’t want to fuck their husbands.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:44 PM
1

Tell her the safe word in “snorkel” and the have fun. And she’s not a virgin.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:33 AM
2

Why are you dating a girl that is in an mlm?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:32 AM
2

No worries. Let me know. Then crickets. Let her chase you.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:31 AM
5

You should only be meeting girls in real life. You should be calling them to ask them out. Only time you should text them is to confirm the date on the day of or day before. Everything else should be done in person. Texting and dating apps are for weak lazy clowns. Let every other basic Joe Schmoe aimlessly text girls. Be a man.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:29 AM
1

Dude. You’re a grown man. Get the duck off tinder and social media
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:38 PM
1

Tell her how you feel about it in a little words as possible. If she doesn’t care how you feel then shut the fuck up about it and show her what’s it like on the other side.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:17 PM
2

Stay out of political shit. publicly voicing your political or social believes makes you as annoying as her. You’re a pud if you even pay attention to politics. It could be donald Trump or a fucking cocker spaniel in the White House, I really don’t give a damn
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:45 PM
2

Shutting down her getting close to other guys isn’t about jealousy. It’s about boundaries respect and frame. You need to sit her down and explain the disrespect in her talking to him, keeping secrets, hiding things, lying, and especially how she acted after. I’d make it clear that NONE of it is acceptable. That this the last time we have a conversation about another man or this kind of behavior. And of this guy is out there cheating then it’s a red flag that she considers him a friend.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:12 PM
3

As long as it stays in the past
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:08 PM
3

No high value man is, was, or ever will be even remotely effected by not using social media in any way, shape, or form.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:24 AM
3

No they are a lazy and weak way to pursue attention and validation. Social media is for women. Just like jewelry
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:22 AM
2

Out of touch? My guy I’ve experienced everything you’ve experienced on this planet and probably a decade plus that you haven’t. There’s not a single thing on this planet that you can teach me or show me. And I don’t mean that as an insult. So name a single one of them that needs it? That wouldn’t be a chad without it? Show me one That would lose a single inch of ground sexually or socially if they got off instsgram. I bet they’d be praised by their peers for not being on social media as a matter…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:19 PM
9

If you’re on instagram or Snapchat or tinder or fucking whatsapp or whatever... all I wanna hear you talk about is one direction, makeup, and pretty dresses from forever 21 because you are a 14 year old girl in my eyes. The only social media a grown fucking man needs on His phone is phone. And the only thing he needs to swipe when he sees a girl he’s interested in is his feet on the fucking ground as he walks up to her to tell her to her face. And men need to stop fucking texting women... That’s…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 02:55 PM
-1

She wasn’t a 10/10 or she’d be on a runway somewhere. There are maybe a thousand 10s on this planet. Also have some integrity
/r/askTRP19/09/20 01:52 PM
14

How old are you? Instagram doesn’t exist in the same space as masculinity and self respect. Why the fuck are you on it?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 11:33 AM
3

Distance always means something. The term “rough patch” is so common that no one ever stops to think what it means. 9 times out of 10 a rough patch is the woman acting uninterested and unattracted to the man. And if every time a girl got distant her boyfriend did done digging..., 9 times out of 10 he would another guy involved. And when you notice something, confront it. On the spot. I would have called her out on the spot. And told her that if she’s not interested in being and would rather atte…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 11:30 AM
1

I don’t think you should do anything. I think you should just focus on yourself. Lift everyday and eat with a purpose. Put career goals into overdrive. Pursue a robust and varied social/hobby life. Meet other women. Pull back. Treat the relationship as a casual one where she can do as she pleases because you are.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:58 PM
1

Do it yourself, never ask her for a favor again, and never do a favor for her again until she comes to you hat in hand admitting she was disrespectful and she’ll never act like that again
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:54 PM
1

I’d post pics of us on her parents facebook
/r/askTRP17/09/20 12:04 PM
-1

I’d confront them to their faces and tell them nows their chance to look you in the eye and say what they gotta say.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 12:03 PM
2

Wish her luck with the new guy, tell her you got everything else handled and go no contact.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:59 PM
1

No you don’t
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:23 PM
1

There trouble in paradise with the new guy
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:58 PM
2

She met somebody else and her “what are we” speech was to see if he’d give her a reason to choose. After that she texted the other guy the same “what are we?” Question and he bit. Now she closing up loose ends. The “if I find somebody else” scenario already happened.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:57 PM
1

They always Trump it up 30%-40% And completely leave out their part in the conflict. The only thing more cliche then dating a girl with an “abusive” ex is the fact that she’s still talking to him.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 12:18 PM
1

In this situation, OP did the right thing. No escalation at all. But if he would have drunkenly sat next to her and continued flirting I would take it straight to the last level and just say that I consider what he’s doing direct and purposeful disrespect and provocation and that he needs to go away. Everything after is completely up to him.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:42 PM
1

He’s not the problem. And why the fuck is your default setting on “never break up with her?” Dude wish them luck and show her the door
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:07 PM
2

Ofcourse she’s looking to date. She just wasn’t into you
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:05 PM
1

You did good in that situation. Any further disrespect would have required more from you though
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:02 PM
3

He should have ended it for the simple fact that she was even that close to another man.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:39 PM
2

The content of the texts shouldn’t matter because you should be putting your foot down on her texting or giving her number to other guys at all. Period.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:37 PM
2

Jesus dude. Why would ever allow it in the first place?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:59 PM
4

It’s time to back off bud. They were never friends. Her interest in him is based on the same thing now as it was then... attraction. I’d start focusing on myself and improving my body, my career, and my social/hobby life. And I’d meet of women. I’d treat her like our relationship is one of casual fuck buddies and she can do as she pleases. I’d start giving her about 30% of my time and effort compared to what you do now.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:58 PM
1

All depends on your frame. Jealousy has nothing to do with it. And this involves showing how secure you are in walking away and how your secure you are in your ability to replace her. This is about policing her... this is her busting her ass to keep you from walking away.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:03 PM
0

You wouldn’t be policing her. She would have to police herself.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:17 PM
-2

That’s what I’m saying... part of your reconciliation standards is her going out of her way to make sure you don’t have to look over your shoulder. Let’s look at the typical married woman affair. They meet at work, get to know each other through texting. Soon a line is crossed during “work drink thing.” Then they move on to messaging apps or social media. Then there are more “work drink things” and more line crossing. And bam... now she’s found herself smack dap in a full blown affair. As a husb…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:45 PM
3

Stop texting girls. that’s little kid pussy shit. Call her and ask her out on a fucking date.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:59 PM
-11

This won’t go over well here on this sub but it doesn’t always have to be over after she cheats. And it’s easy to say that it should be until it’s your front door that it gets brought to. But that’s up to her to earn you back. And as for a woman losing respect for a man that takes her neck after she cheats... it’s not really the case when the guy makes her do actual work and make huge changes to earn a shot at reconciliation. Walk me through the details of her infjdelity
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:58 PM
1

Aka... “we’ve already had the threesome. And this wasnt out of the blue either.”
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:12 PM
1

There would be no arguement
/r/askTRP06/09/20 01:06 AM
3

Why do you give a shit about any of this? You’ve made this girl the center piece of your world.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:12 PM
1

I’d right her back and tell her to stop trying church it up with flowery language. There’s nothing poetic about any of this. This wasn’t something that just happened. She did it. She chose it. All of it. And if whatever bullshit she spewed about deja vu is true than she made her choices knowing damn well what would happen.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:07 PM
1

It’s time to quit talking about it with her. It’s time to back off, focus on you (lift, eat with a purpose, redirect your effort into your career forms and social/hobby life), And meet other women. Let her do what she wants.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:01 PM
1

https://youtu.be/ovbwSbijRwM This is how you handle it
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:38 PM
1

She felt the need to publicly put boundaries between you and her. Most likely due to not being into you/ embarrassed of your looks of status and/or being interested in another man
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:11 PM
4

Stop texting girls. Build a relationship through text? Here’s your prize
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:08 PM
1

Calling cuts through all that bullshit and gets you answers fast. It’s the best possible early vetting technique.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:49 PM
1

It’s good that you understand that texting vs calling is all about frame and you don’t give in to that “everyone my age....” bullshit
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:48 PM
1

Leave a voicemail if they don’t answer. Keep it in your frame. “Give me a call when you’re free.” Is all you gotta reply. The only time you should texting a girl to confirm a date that you’re picking her up for. And the only girls you should be having a conversation with over text are girls and that your fucking. Other than that save the conversation for in person. If she can’t get on board with how YOU want to run things than she ain’t for you.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:47 PM
-3

He needs it if he’s a grown man worrying about texting.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:31 PM
-8

I can give my guide to texting. Don’t.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:50 PM
11

Deny it if you want but she made that move because she brought somebody up from the on deck circle.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:33 PM
32

Wish her luck with him and move on
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:05 PM
1

Social media has been around since aol dial up days. It was used just as much then as it is now. I used AIM. The only time I used it was to try to get girls to meet up after parties. “We’ve all gone home but I’m still up and your still up” kind of thing. And i did it because it was easy. Easier then actually hitting on them in person at said party. It was only half real for lack of a better term. Us being logged on at the same time was my excuse to contact them without having to put myself out t…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:30 AM
2

Your time should be spent pursuing a muscular physique, a good career, and personal relationships, not scrolling on your phone.... especially when youre young. That’s how you become high value.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:04 AM
1

So what? Be weird. You think the all american 6’3 250 pounds of muscle, big swinging dick middle linebacker at ANY college would be thought of as weird by ANY girl if he didn’t have Instagram? If you’re high value the girls would be falling all over themselves to tell anyone who will listen how it’s actually attractive and unique that you don’t fuck with social media. Be attractive, focus on self improvement... that’s all you need. Social media should be domeone you think about let alone partici…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 10:11 PM
9

Everyone on IG is female
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:05 PM
12

No she wouldn’t. Thats fucking ridiculous.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:05 PM
1

And to add. Never meet a girl anywhere. Pick her up. Period. Before Jesse James revealed himself to a shit bag who can’t take care of his dogs and cheated on Sandra Bullock with the kind of woman that I wouldn’t let serve me food... he did something that respect. Something that I would do. After they got married and story cake out about their first date. She wasnt too sure and she wanted to meet him in public and bring a friend and blah blah blah. He said no... he said he’s picking her up at her…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 07:22 PM
3

I can tell you what you’re doing wrong but you young bucks are so stuck in your bullshit Internet world you won’t hear me. Fuck tinder and fuck social media. Fuck messaging apps. That shit is for teenage girls. Not grown men with self respect. Delete it all. Never use it again. Meet girls your interested in by walking up to them and telling them to their face. Stop texting girls. Period. Let every other bum ass Joe Schmoe aimlessly text girls and let apps do the work for them. Get their phone nu…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:20 PM
1

He hasn’t learned shit until he does it.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:24 AM
0

Same answer I gave to the comment below.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:23 AM
1

He can only use her if he allows it. There’s a lot he can learn about women and himself by seeing things my way. What better way to apply what hes learned than by commanding respect from a girl who thinks he’s a mark.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:21 AM
9

She’s already got some plans bud.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:41 AM
-9

To me that means he can hang out with a girl and genuinely be her friend without care if he gets pussy or not and find value in her friendship because.... he can get 10 others. My female friends have brought nothing but value and pussy to my life. I have a higher understanding of abundance mentality than most bud.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:31 AM
-1

Hard no. Meeting women should only be done in person. The only dating or social media app a grown ass masculine man needs on his phone is “phone.”
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:53 AM
-11

Abundance mentality is exactly why he should
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:51 AM
1

Being friends with a girl with no strings attached or expectations is the ultimate form of abundance mentality. And it’s good training.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:50 AM
1

Be a grown man. CALL a woman and ask her out. If she says no, doesn’t answer, or doesn’t respond to your voicemail... then don’t waste anymore time on her. Texting is for 12 year olds
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:32 PM
1

Stop. Texting. Girls. It’s basic as fuck
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:48 PM
1

Why didn’t you confront them and dump her on the spot?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:30 PM
1

Stop texting girls. Call them and ask them out. Everything else should be done in person. Let every other Joe Schmoe out there be lazy texters.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:52 AM
-2

“You should be with someone “smart” enough to accept your insults and disrespect. Best of luck”
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:20 PM
0

That’s not mate guarding. Not even close. Mate guarding would me messaging the guy... or whining about why she added a guy when she wouldn’t add me at the beginning. And mate guarding is dependent on being scared to walk away. And it’s also not weak frame. There is no stronger frame on this planet then “my way or the highway.”
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:33 AM
-1

Having boundaries isn’t beta. I’d tell her that I want to see her phone or she’s free to do as she pleases
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:55 AM
1

You should screen shot it and post the pics and caption it “got out just in time.”
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:54 AM
1

Yeh. No one said anything about talking about feelings on the phone. Ask them out, tell them your plan and hang up. Texting them to come over ain’t shit. My 12 year old nephew could do that. Don’t lower yourself to accommodating a girls low attention span. Make them accommodate YOUR frame. A low attention span and constant need for attention and validation from multiple sources should be something that makes you want to rule a girl out... not something you should work around. And bud... the time…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:45 AM
3

There’s no school like the old school and I’m the head master. But I’m still a millennial. Going old school with women instead being another e- boy sheep will do wonders for you youngins
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:38 AM
1

Good. Then don’t fuck with her.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:45 PM
1

That’s why i said to leave a voice mail.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:37 PM
0

Na. Don’t text at all and if she doesn’t pick up, leave a voice mail asking her out. After that everything else is up to her. Texting is for your gf or your fuck buddy. The only time you should text a new girl is to confirm the date the day of or the day before. Everything else should be done in person.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:36 PM
1

The only social media, messaging app, or dating app a grown ass masculine man needs on his phone is phone.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:33 PM
5

And it’s a good to do early vetting. If she can’t hold a piece of plastic in her hand, press a button, put it to her ear, and say words then what more do you really need to know about her? Or atleast what more do you need to know about how she feels about you?
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:36 PM
10

No you shouldn’t text her at all and you never should have. You should have called and asked her out. Or left a voice mail asking her out. If she doesn’t answer or call you back then that’s is that. Don’t be like every other Joe Schmoe. You’re just guy #46764368 that’s texting her. Texting is for kids. Be different, be assertive. And a grown man with self respect shouldn’t be caught dead on instagram or any social media for that matter.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:12 PM
6

That’s exactly my advice. This trip is how he’s truly going to find out what is what.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:44 AM
1

Na... let her wear them. The way she behaves in that bathing suit will tell you all you need to know about whether you should continue relationship this or not. Keep your mouth shut, gather information.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:43 AM
1

Samantha from sex and the city (who is a treasure trove of red pill wisdom) put it best. “Never play hard to get with a man who is hard to get.” Stop texting girls. You’re a grown man. And I’m betting your below derp in social media too. Have some self respect and delete that shit too.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:55 AM
6

Show up on a Friday night and track her down. You’ll find out the hard way that this has nothing to do with her little brother. message her mom some bullshit like “sorry about how hard it is raising your son and working, wish i could help.” I’ll bet my next paycheck she has no idea what you’re talking about He’s older and more independent And now she needs help? Riiiiight. When I was 10 I got myself to school, got myself home, and made my own dinner. And got my self to baseball practice
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:53 AM
17

Never argue with a woman. What are you thinking?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:49 AM
2

Start redirecting your focus and commitment elsewhere.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:01 AM
1

Dude... stop being a pussy and dancing around this. Never allow disrespect. Not even for a second. You should have confronted during the conversation.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:00 AM
1

I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that... I’m saying it’s lazy, weak, and feminine if you use and app to do it.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:39 PM
6

Never been on tinder. If you can’t get girls in person then your time is better spent working hard to become a version of yourself that can instead of swiping aimlessly and chasing the same kind of attention and validation that the we MSU’s fun of instathots for chasing.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:38 PM
1

Na. Well yeh that too. But she’s been giving other men access this entire relationship
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:36 PM
2

If he actually believes that this was about travel shit instead about one of the other guys she’s fucking with then he ain’t really there yet.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:48 PM
1

Bud... if a girl ever shows signs of disinterest its most likely because the dick to be explored is already on deck or is already being explored.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:46 PM
1

The only reason they don’t like you is because of how your gf talks about you
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:45 PM
1

And your missing that there is obviously another man in the mix here too.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:44 PM
4

It’s sheep like behavior. It’s feminine. All the dating, social media, and messaging apps are lazy and weak. Grown Men are acting like teenage females getting attention and validation online. You wouldn’t catch me dead on any of that shit. If I’m interested in a woman, I’m walking up to her and telling her to her face.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:36 PM
5

Deleted dating apps. Be a grown man with self respect
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:11 PM
1

Use the Dream guy test. Would she be treating Channing Tatum like this?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:37 AM
5

Serve consequences or shut the fuck up
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:43 PM
1

I already would have asked for her phone
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:40 AM
21

“If you were serious about me, the other guys wouldn’t exist.”
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:52 AM
1

All of this is going down and you’ve done nothing? You actually allowed this trip?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:51 PM
1

A beard will never be more attractive to a woman then a Muscular neck and sharp jawline... but if you can’t get those then i guess go for a beard
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:27 PM
1

No it ain’t. Find any Attractive famous bald man on the planet. He’ll have 4 specific attributes and a beard ain’t one of them. Beards are crutches for pussies with weak chins.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:20 PM
1

You should make it clear that you’re not cool with her going past a certain level of closeness with any guy. And if she does start getting close to another guy you should play it by telling her exactly how you feel and what you what. If she doesn’t immediately handle that shit then you should remove your commitment and about 70% of your attention and effort. And then let her do whatever she wants without ever bringing it up again she start doing whatever you want with whoever you want whenever y…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:19 PM
-1

She was never interested bud
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:16 PM
0

Yes. 100% yes.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:15 PM
-4

No beard. Never do shaved head and beard. It’s looks terrible
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:00 PM
1

Ive been shaving my head with no guard since was 15.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 01:56 AM
1

Na... clippers with no guard.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 01:55 AM
1

The 4 attributes I said in my comment are the common demoninator in this equation
/r/askTRP08/08/20 01:55 AM
7

You need 4 things to look good with a shaved head. 1. Muscular physique. 2. Jawline, 3. Thick muscular neck. 4. A tan.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 01:53 AM
4

the shortage of attractive, assertive, successful, quality men is just as big of a problem.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 01:51 AM
1

It’s an indicator of her bf finding out...
/r/askTRP07/08/20 10:40 PM
7

Sex
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:39 AM
3

The reasons girls are like guys like that is never really purely because they CHOSE them
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:39 AM
1

Sounds like there’s no problem if you ask me. You have your excuse to keep her firmly in the plate category.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:39 PM
0

I knew more about the red pill than you before the red pill even existed
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:56 PM
2

Red pill isnt the answer for everything. If you can’t go see somebody you used to know well as they lay on a hospital bed because your scared of your feels.. then you’re the bitch.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:39 PM
1

I come from a place that you do shit like this. I’d go see my old neighbor steve who kicked my dog and who I havent talked to in 10 years if he was in the hospital. It’s simply the right thing to do. I’d go, wish her luck, and be on my way. Red pill shit be damned.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 05:06 AM
3

No it aint. Shrugging you’re shoulders and doing you with out care is the right move. I wouldnt even bring it up. And he should delete social media too.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:53 AM
12

Any communication with an ex in any way shape or form is no bueno and OP shouldn’t let one molecule of it slide.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:52 AM
-1

Na... you shouldn’t anything. You should keep your mouth shut and let her do as she pleases. focus on improving your body, your career, and your social life. Meet other women and let her be nothing a fuck buddy like she clearly wants.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:51 AM
1

Shouldn’t be texting girls you’re trying to court like every other lazy joe Schmoe. Call her up and ask her out. Only reason you should be texting her is to confirm the date the day before. Everything should be in person.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:49 AM
1

“Cool, I have a new buddy now. Time to keep pursuing other women.”
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:36 PM
1

Yeh... it exists on the Internet. This whole phenomenon is on the Internet.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:30 AM
4

Ok... there’s a lot of data to help me out. Pretty much all of existence up until about 10 years ago. And the level of fame of actors, musicians, artists, etc... now a days is much less in comparison to how famous celebrities were before social media existed. Jordan, tyson, griffey, Deion, pac, big, tiger, Mariah Carey, prince, will Smith, brad Pitt, Tom cruise, Dave Chappell, jerry seinfield, super models, the list could go on. No one today even touches the colossal fame these people had. Socia…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:44 AM
9

Yeh... it’s crazy how people did both of those things for decades upon decades without social media. Dude... the only reason anybody is on social media is for attention and validation. The minute you log onto insta or snap, you be one a teenage girl in my eyes
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:34 AM
12

Yes... having social media when you’re a grown man is the wrong move.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:38 AM
0

No, real life is the best method of social clout and regular social connection. Snapchat shouldn’t a part of a mans life after the age of 14.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:35 AM
4

Get off Snapchat, you’re a fucking grown man.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:55 AM
1

Where is this power and validation average women have?
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:54 AM
1

I don’t care. Dont fuck with girls that pursue male attention in the form that hides the communication. Yes... let her be a plate. Don’t even mention the guy again. Ask her friend out for drinks
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:44 PM
1

Use fucking words
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:46 PM
1

You already should have told her to hand over her phone. You already should have called up best friend. If she’s keeping him in her life than what else do you need to know? Why are committing to a girl that uses Snapchat? All in all... let it go. Let her go. Focus on improving your body, your career, your social life, and meeting other women. Let her be nothing but a fuck buddy who can do as she pleases.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:45 PM
1

Yes, having a fucking blog is a red flag
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:42 PM
1

That shit only exists on social media. Get off social media. Live a real life... you don't really see that in real life.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:42 PM
1

She wants male attention, you already know this bud.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:42 AM
1

And will these be friends #2 and #3 that also face no consequences?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:41 AM
1

The minute you download tinder, you disrespected yourself.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:35 AM
3

You moved half way across the country and your ex fuck buddy (who is letting some rando around her kid btw) told some guy something. Why do you care? And why are you even still talking to her? She told him that to signal her interest and availability. And honestly I doubt he’s a stranger
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:49 AM
2

Have fun, get drinks, be buddies, meet her friends, have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:56 PM
1

Ignore the content of her message and set up drinks with the intention going back to your place after
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:57 AM
2

You got a fuck buddy that you dont have to waste your emotions on just given to you on a hot silver platter and you can’t figure how to put on oven mitts? “Good restaurant, wanna get drinks Saturday?” That should be your response.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:56 AM
7

Men and women can be friends. They just... aren’t. The normal busy adult doesn’t give a fuck about the common shared interests of the rando in cubicle 8. They care about people they are attracted to. Attraction is the most important thing in the world. To every human. I have female friends but only because i choose to. Every girl Im friends with are girls that I was attracted to and hit on. It became obvious that they weren’t attracted to me so I just let it go. And just let myself have fun with…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:52 AM
2

I get that... but there was still another guy involved. Should have left her as a fuck buddy if she was keeping other guys in her life. You don’t even know a fraction of what was really going on with her and that guy
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:03 PM
3

She’s not specifically losing interest. You just don’t seem to realize your just one of many guys Shes giving access to and she likes another one better.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:37 PM
43

First of all, never accept your gf being close with another guy. Ever. For any reason. Secondly, you should shut your trap. Give her all the space in the world. Focus on improving your body, your career, and you social life. And start treating other women the way she allows men to treat her.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:36 PM
3

Another guy was her priority the whole time. He’s started giving her attention again
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:33 PM
1

She won’t miss a beat. Promise her behavior is fueled by another guy already in the picture
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:32 PM
-2

I wouldn’t have told her shit. I pay my monthly fee and I’ll use anything I want unless it’s damaged and taken out of commission. I would have just used it.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:02 PM
2

Wish her luck and move on. LDRs are pointless
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:00 PM
14

This literally has nothing to do with her. And his mom was dead wrong.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:59 PM
16

You did the right thing. Welcome to the big leagues. Learning that no ones really gives a fuck about you, they only care about themselves, and you’re on your own in this world is one of the most important things you can learn. And you need to tell your mom that if she doesn’t really support you and care about your feelings then tell her maybe you two should take a step back as well.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:57 PM
1

Her reasons have nothing to do with what she said. There’s another guy in the picture and the 30 mins between breaking up and begging you back, she learned that he had no intention of committing. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:43 PM
1

That’s what you should want. Answers. If you serve consequences for how she treated you and she uses it as an excuse instead of making changes and amends then you next step is crystal clear.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:54 AM
1

No. You address it. Tell her that her behavior was unacceptable and your tired of it and you need space to think and you’ll contact her when you’re ready.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:53 AM
3

Romantic love is extremely conditional
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:51 AM
0

I’ve been called a bitch twice in my life by another guy. Slapped them both. Right then and there. Cuts through the bullshit and up the ante. Shows that he’s the bitch if he just keeps talking. This is how you handle dudes that disrespect you. https://youtu.be/ovbwSbijRwM
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:47 AM
1

I had a blast each time Ive gone there. I’ve spent about 30 days total in Vancouver in my adult life and fucked 8 women.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:34 PM
2

Atleast your admitting that instead of saying she manipulated you. No real man can EVER get manipulated or gaslighted
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:45 PM
1

She knows why you left. And yes you should fill her family in
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:44 PM
3

If I had the money... I couldn’t think of too many cities on this planet that I’d pick over Vancouver.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:52 AM
3

I’ll vouch for vancouver until I die.,
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:51 AM
1

Doesn’t work here. They removed romance from their relationship a long time ago.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:51 AM
0

Yeh. I do. But that still isn’t the relationship sub Reddit. And I have never advised people to reconcile with a cheater. Not once. As a matter of fact I advise that men should drop their girls flat the first time she crosses any like. And with my name user name /u/bedtimeshine ... I gave the same advice. I have advised for people to read that book to help them find their strength and voice to help them shut down their wives getting close to men. To not do weak mental gymnastics to allow that be…
/r/askMRP16/07/20 10:36 PM
1

I don’t fuck with that sub. And it wouldn’t be bitching. There would be one conversation and then action would be taken one way or the other.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 08:43 PM
-2

No... letting your wife get close to an enemy of the marriage and doing nothing about it makes you bitch. Calmly stating my expectations and walking away if they are met is not tantrum. It’s the epitome of frame and strength
/r/askMRP16/07/20 01:35 AM
1

I walk all over those situation and take back my girls attention. If hes flirting with her right in front of me, he’s getting told to fuck off. My girl is having my back and supporting exactly how I wanted to handle it or she knows where the door is. If she flirts back then she faces real consequences
/r/askMRP15/07/20 08:44 PM
-5

Dude. You have no choice because you live in fear of taking control. This women is only saying this stuff about your marriage because your wife is disparaging the fuck out of you. When she comes over I’m confronting them on the spot. And I’m telling my wife that this women is completely out of her life or I am.
/r/askMRP15/07/20 08:42 PM
10

Yes.. her mot being able to bond with other women is a red flag.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:42 PM
2

Google “not just friends pdf” and have her read the free copy online. I would simply tell that all these men need to be brought down about 10 pegs before I commit to her.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:41 PM
3

Dude they aren’t a real couple. They stopped having a romantic relationship years ago
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:00 AM
1

You have someone hold the camera while you do flips. My 12 year old nephew does that. Meet women in person, show women In Person. Social media is just a weak, lazy crutch
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:45 PM
1

That’s great. Bud. But you show that shit for attention. I bet half the reason you even do half the shit you do is to put it on instagram. Wanna know how I show women that im fun and wanted by friends? By letting women see it in real life.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:23 PM
1

You’re only her orbiter if you act like one. If you only have this one girl in your life. I have plenty of female friends. And I’ve gotten plenty of pussy because of it. Being friends with a woman with no string attached is the ultimate version of abundance mentality
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:18 PM
1

Every girl that was murdered was killed by a guy she met on social media.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:26 PM
1

There’s no scenario where I’d allow my girl to just get railroaded like that.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:59 PM
5

Most people with a big social circle don’t need instagram.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:18 PM
2

Hey guys, this girl practically has “you should treat me like fuck buddy who can do whatever she wants while you direct your energy, effort, and commitment elsewhere.” What should I do? Should I just say fuck it and continue to scroll through an app I never should have been on in the first place?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:21 PM
1

Let it go. Be friends with her... there’s a lot of value in being friends with a girl with no strings attached unless you’re some pussy boy like ducky from sixteen candles. Pursue other women.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:16 PM
1

Yeh go. Have fun. Why is this a big deal? Let yourself give less of a shit then she does.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:00 AM
9

Nope. The likelyhood of cheating is the same for all women because they cheat for the same reasons. Infidelity has nothing to do with morals. For every guy crying about his dumb choice to try to turn a hoe into a housewife, there’s a guy crying about how he thought he had a “good girl.”
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:59 AM
3

I would have wished her luck with him and sent her on her way a long time ago.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:51 PM
3

Putting out quickly has no bearing on her being relationship material or not. It’s actually the opposite. Girls that make you wait aren’t relationship material
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:47 PM
9

Tupac out alphas will Smith any day of the week. And I think will Smith is probably a bit of a goober and I can see how any women that is close to him for a long period of time would lose interest. His pre selection level is top notch though.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:40 AM
16

They don’t have a romantic relationship nor are they in love with other and it’s been that way for years. He probably doesn’t give a shit. She was alpha widowed by tupac anyway
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:41 PM
1

Guarantee that somebody that knows them both was telling tales out of school.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:34 AM
1

No. Taking control and kicking the door down is a ways the best way to handle shit
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:33 AM
4

Cheating isn’t a shit test dip shit
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:48 AM
19

There is nothing more red pill than confronting every problem you’ll ever encounters on the spot.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:47 AM
1

It’s never occurred to you to ask her?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:46 AM
1

The only messaging app, social media app, or dating a grown man needs on his phone is phone. You shouldn’t be texting people anyway like every other Joe Schmoe. You sh poo of be calling them with the express purpose of meeting in person. If they aren’t interested then why are they in your life. Fuck what everyone else does. Stop being a sheep and take control of your own frame
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:48 PM
4

“My girlfriend doesn’t have stealth messaging apps on her phone period.”
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:50 AM
2

You handle it by not dating girls that have whatsapp on their phone.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:49 AM
2

Ahh... back when white people just voted and shut the fuck up... those were the days.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:49 PM
0

She will of youre a good time and fuck her well. And after 5 dates you should have made some progress and being seeing each other multiple times a week. If she’s into you
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:47 PM
41

I would tell them I’m here to do a job and I’m not interested in talking about politics. And I’d make a record with HR atleast that your tired of being asked about politics at work and think it’s inappropriate. Keep your mouth shut about your political leanings.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:02 PM
-3

Ugh... you yungins. First off all delete tinder. The only dating app or social media app a real men needs on his phone is phone. Every woman you meet should be done in person. If you see a woman you’re interested in, walk up to her and tell her up her face. That’s it’s. No tinder, no instagram... none of that weak, lazy, feminine shit. You were just guy #65779767644 that was giving her attention. And all first dates... actually the first 4-5 dates should be nothing but drinks.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:56 PM
1

Who said anything about anger? I would have done it calmly.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:18 PM
1

Not if the negative attention is the final attention given. You pushed like a coward and your using coward excuses. Every problem you will ever face should be handled on the spot. Always
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:43 AM
1

The same way any woman disrespects any man if they allow it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:36 AM
1

I would have handled it like a man and kicked her out and told my mom not to contact her again.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:35 AM
10

The fuck it ain’t. It’s your business more then ever.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:35 AM
1

And you handled it by hiding instead of kicking her out and telling your parents that you’re going to have a problem if they communicate with her again?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:34 AM
1

Who said anything about arguing?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:07 AM
1

Expose him to his work place and everyone he knows
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:45 PM
0

Na. Fuck that. Gay or not, it’s inappropriate. My boundaries with other men in an LTR apply to gay men too.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:14 PM
0

That’s stupid and weak. “I feel disrespected by how you flirt with other men. I need some space and time to clear my head. I’ll contact you when I’m ready.” Stop being a pussy. Handle problems not the spot. Don’t run and hide.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:13 PM
4

Ofcourse this is about another guy. And the fact that you still allow her to be friends with him is pathetic. Filing for divorce, wishing her luck with him, and showing her the door will do more to save your marriage in a weekend then 10 years of the weak shit you’re doing now.
/r/askMRP02/07/20 03:42 AM
1

Just meeting her the way he did... the fact that he lives his life online shows me that.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:00 AM
3

I’d make it clear that I handled it exactly how it should have been handled and I’d do it again. And then I’d wish her luck and be on my way.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:59 AM
1

I’m 37 years old. I grew up on a rough neighborhood that required me to use my fists daily. I was immensely popular in high school... at every high school in my area actually. I was 6,1 220 pounds at 16. i tied my high school bench press record as a junior. I played college baseball and was very popular there too. I make 80k a year in a managerial position. I know it just seemed like I’m bragging. But my life path has led me to more knowledge and ability to take control of a situation. I know mo…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:32 AM
1

Yeh... I need to read Machiavelli and the art of war to deal with my cheating mom... This situation does not require the response of a king, politician, military general, or businessman
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:03 AM
1

If lies are being corral about me, I’m finding out who is saying it
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:54 AM
1

I can’t relate. I don’t see a scenario where I would ever let this slide with confronting them to their faces.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 06:50 PM
0

No it’s not
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:25 PM
1

Imagine fucking a married woman with children where you have a close relationship with her husband and thinking nothing is going to happen to you...
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:35 AM
1

Anybody that catches their mom cheating and allows her to fuck over the family is a pussy
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:58 AM
1

Fuck that. Look your mom in the eye and let her know that any lie she tells abd she loses you abd what she takes from my father I’m taking right back from her. I’ll even go public.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:56 AM
-1

Never be covert. That’s coward. Always handle problems head on in the moment with your chest out. NEver hide. Fear nothing, attack everything.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:55 AM
1

That’s pussy shit. If it creates a rift then so fucking be it. You need to put that dudes teeth down his throat too for fucking with your family
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:53 AM
1

Your supposed to hit the dude in the mouth, tell her that she 5 minutes to tell your dad the full truth, and tell your mom her next moves determine if you’ll continue to have a relationship with moving forward or not. And the guys wife needs to be told also
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:53 AM
1

No it ain’t... not the way i use it. I don’t use it to meet people or chase attention or validation. I’m literally anonymous. It’s no different the the f150 forums i use when I have problems with my truck.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:35 PM
5

I don’t think so. He showed toughness and courage. I personally would have got up and kept going after him. But he didn’t back down to start atleast. If he would up acted scared and avoided the fight that’s a different story. It’s not how many you win, it’s how many you show up for. That being said, anybody who leaves their house without atleast a knife is a fool. What if next time it’s a couple stray pitbulls.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:40 AM
0

Unless it is in person you ain’t shooting shit. Messaging girls is weak and lazy. No grown man with self respect should want to be caught dead on social media apps or dating apps. The only app a masculine confident man needs on his phone is phone.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:51 AM
1

Her treatment of you was directly related to her interest in and mine crossing with other men. And I’m guessing you made do no work and make no changes to earn you back. Probably not even deleting IG
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:49 AM
1

Yeh... she has a boyfriend
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:46 AM
2

The way I use Reddit isn’t even close to how people use insta and snap. This is no different then the f150 forums I go to to diagnose problems with my truck.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:00 PM
3

You can take blame for her losing interest but not for cheating.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:21 PM
0

You shouldnt be on instagram either
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:20 PM
3

Stop texting women. Period. Texting is for lazy kids. Call a woman up and ask her out. If she doesn’t say yes then wish her a good day and move on. If she doesn’t answer than leave a voice mail asking her out. If she doesn’t get back to you then that is that. Never text Unless it’s just one text to confirm a date previously scheduled date. Texting should only be for girls you are already established with.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:19 PM
5

If she’s not walking the runway and signed to a real modeling agency then she’s not a 9
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:16 PM
1

That’s not the “why” question that you should be asking yourself.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:15 PM
1

What!? Grown men who use social media are insecure clowns?! No way! Who would have thought?!
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:15 PM
3

I would. Abundance mentality level 100 is not giving a fuck about being friend zoned by a girl you’re in a hotel room with on vacation
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:11 AM
3

No self respecting masculine man should be caught dead online dating.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:13 AM
10

If she acts like this on the trip.:. Shrug your shoulders, friend zone her and hit on other girls.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:12 AM
1

Your plate fucking someone else should be welcome. Boundaries and distance are created for you without you having to go through the hassle of having to create it yourself. And Any guy who thinks his girl isn’t going to fuck on vacation is a schmuck.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:10 AM
1

Dude... you need to press her to report it. And if she doesn’t then you need to let her go because she likes the attention.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:40 PM
3

Ofcourse you let her know. She deserves the basic respect to make choices about her own life based on truth.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:39 PM
1

Any time a woman your with crosses ANY line... the absolute correct response is to drop her on the on the spot. If there is a chance of reconciliation, this is even the best route for that too. Break it down and put it on HER to build it back up. To earn you back. You can’t gaslight someone who has shown they aren’t scared to lose you and you can’t lie to avoid consequences that have already been served.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 05:44 AM
0

Jesus dude...
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:16 AM
1

If your scared to enforce your parental rights and you refuse to document her treatment of you then shut up and take it.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:15 AM
3

No grown man with self respect should caught dead on social media.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:11 AM
1

I wouldn’t care and I wouldn’t even bring it up. I’d actually be glad that there’s a boundary or distance in place that I didn’t have to worry about creating.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:10 AM
13

Then sue her
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:08 AM
4

No... you LET her gaslight you. Only weak men let themselves get gaslighted. And yes you should have already ended it.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:07 AM
1

Should have just done it without talking about it.?
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:49 AM
7

Na he should just pull back, invest in other things and other women, and let her be a fuck buddy who can do as she pleases. He should let his actions and indifference do the talking for him.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:23 PM
1

Don’t feel sorry for you one bit. You allow this.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:22 PM
1

“Because I wanted to”
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:39 AM
17

I wouldn’t even break up with her for cheating... I’d break up with her for giving him her phone number in the first place.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:41 PM
2

That’s not the question you should asking your self. Why you didn’t dump her on the spot is the question you should be asking
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:18 PM
1

I can’t comprehend why you haven’t stepped up and addressed everything with everybody a long time ago.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 10:42 PM
-2

I’d pass
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:52 AM
11

I’d just consider this a friend hangout. Let go of expectations. Make friends, meet people, have fun, have abundance mentality, meet other girls
/r/askTRP15/06/20 10:42 PM
1

It’s never the sex act itself women care about, its the man doing it to them that matter. 50 shades wasn’t about bdsm... it was about hypergamy and preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 08:45 PM
1

No. I think YOU become a 14 year old girl when you chase attention and validation. And follow the crowd and have no frame or mental point of origin. You say shit like “ok boomer” and probably send girls memes and shit.... know who else does that? My 8th grade nephew. No self respecting, masculine man with his shit together and a mission in life should be caught dead use dating apps or social media
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:58 PM
0

That’s exactly what I’m talking about. Teenagers say that shit. And I’m a Millennial
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:47 PM
1

Should be texting them at all
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:49 AM
2

Get the fuck off dating apps. If you see a girl you’re interested in, walk up to her and tell her to her face. Get her number. Call her and ask her out. The only reason to text a girl is to confirm the date the day before. Everything should be done in person. texting is for middle schoolers.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:47 AM
8

What the fuck is black pill
/r/askTRP12/06/20 04:36 AM
20

Being stoic without a muscular physique is pointless.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:38 AM
1

Both your wife and gf had/have other options they give their attention to which why neither seemed to give a fuck
/r/askMRP12/06/20 01:45 AM
1

Social media should bit be a part of your life what so ever. If you’re on social media all I wanna hear you talk about is one direction, makeup, and pretty dresses from forever 21 because you are a 14 year old girl.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:43 AM
2

I was wrong in my other comments. Sounds like you weren’t hiding the other girls. You got nothing to feel bad about then.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:39 PM
0

The pot calling the kettle black is weasel shit
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:38 PM
1

He already should have said that.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:37 PM
2

Its dishonorable to operate like that. You should have been up front from the start.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:36 PM
1

There’s no where I’d rather live if I had the money. Smoking a blunt on my balcony watching the sun set over la sounds pretty damn great.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:49 AM
3

I’d get a job I liked without worrying about the pay and live thrifty and free. Me, my dog, my truck, and my very nice one bedroom condo. Probably in LA or vancouver
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:58 AM
1

My phone has the only social media and dating app a guy needs... it’s called “phone.” It’s probably in your hand right now... try using it. And find new girls... don’t go drinking from the old well. And don’t text them. Call them.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:55 AM
4

Delete. Social. Media. You. Are. A. Fucking. Grown. Man.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:52 AM
7

You should even care enough to hard next. Take the pussy when she throws it at you, shrug your shoulders when she doesn’t. And yes there is another guy.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:51 AM
1

Kick him in the fucking chest, go after the arm holding the knife and then pound his face in
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:04 PM
0

And who said anything about that? I wouldn’t have done that
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:24 PM
1

I was being sarcastic. If you can’t shoot the shit casually with a woman without being used then you need to go back to the drawing board. Especially when it’s a rando you met on vacation
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:32 PM
3

Dan bilzerian needs more attention than a new born baby. His life style is fine... his need to show everybody is pathetic. The loudest dude in the room is the weakest dude in the room more often than not. And every grown on social media is loud
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:04 PM
3

No... you need to delete social media. And focus on the package you present in real life.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:02 PM
2

Yeh... facts and history don’t back this. Socially you might be guilty but legally it’s damn near impossible to punish
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:02 PM
1

Yeh... how could a grown man ever avoid that?
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:50 PM
0

Na. Going with the flow was the right move. No point in trying to stop this wave. I would have just had fun meeting people and the would been on my way back to the bars in an hour or two
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:44 PM
5

Na. In this situation It would have been no biggie to me. You live and learn and the world keeps turning.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:42 PM
2

Yeh. Who cares about the reasons. These are nights where you gotta suck it up. I would have accepted it. Enjoyed some beers and blunts, chit chatted and shot the shit with everyone, girls and guys. and then would have told everyone it was nice to meet them, thanks for the hospitality and popped smoke. 2 hours tops.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:40 PM
0

Shrug it off, be her friend with no strings attached. Let yourself learn shit about women, game, and yourself by being close with a woman. Pursue other girls. Being friends with a girl with no expectations or strings is the pinnacle of abundance mentality and setting a frame. Put HER in friend zone.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:27 PM
4

You got other things to worry about. You need to get ready for the 9th grade coming up after the summer bud. Stay focused.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:25 PM
1

Why didn’t you confront the guy that made the joke?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:24 PM
2

I only wear Levi 511s
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:08 PM
5

Her bf caught on
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:47 AM
1

Non reactivity is a beta trait. Alphas handle shit on the spot.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:46 AM
3

Seeking attention “occasionally” is still feminine as fuck. Social media is for women. Meet women in person
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:38 AM
-1

Get off social media. It’s for clown ass little kids
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:44 PM
2

And soon you’ll find out she’s lying about why she’s lying.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:02 PM
1

The system already takes care of its self. There’s never been a good president or a bad one and never will be. My only opinion about politics is that I don’t want any one side to have too much power for too long. Hold out your hands... I’ll shit in one hand and you “care about politics” in the other and you tell which one fills up first. I pay taxes... I pay my rent to be in this country. Beyond that... I care about me and mine and everybody else can go fuck themselves. I don’t care how our soci…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:50 AM
3

By being a grown man and deleting tinder
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:56 AM
4

Donald Trump could explode in a ball of light on national television. Then aliens could come down and force us to make a cocker spaniel our president. Not only would I not care... I wouldn’t even notice for like 4 days. Being political is among the worst traits a person can have
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:43 PM
2

It’s not about success/failure... it’s about self respect and pride. If you use an app then youre feminine, weak, and lazy.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:14 PM
1

Yes. And he should fast forward it. His goal should be to know what’s what right now. He shouldn’t bother trying to get her not to be attracted to him or anything like that. It is normal and he should address that. The issue is that her behavior and mannerisms around him is disrespectful to their relationship and to OPs life.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:05 AM
0

Look my guy I’m not trying to come at you. But you’re speaking from inexperience and armchair theory. I’m about 10 years older than you. I was popular at multiple high schools in my area. I was all- metro baseball twice. I played d1 baseball. I make 80k. I’ve lifted since was in high school... broke the school bench press record summer after my sophomore year. Ive literally gots promotions for being muscular. I’ve fucked more women then you’ve met. I’m not trying to brag... I’m trying to display…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:26 AM
1

I guess confront is a strong word. It has nothing to do with anger. It should be brought up calmly. I said confront her because thats technically what he should be doing. There should be nothing needy about it. And he shouldn’t be coming in with a mind set of being scared to lose her. He should be glad if this pushes her away.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:18 AM
1

Online should never be part of your game. Or life.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:50 AM
-4

That’s because any grown man on dating apps or social media IS a loser.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:49 AM
-4

No you should be reactive. You should confront her. Reacting and handling shit like this in the moment is as masculine as it gets. I’d tell her that I’m attracted to other people too but I don’t show signs of it and disrespect my partner. And I wont put up with it anymore. Not to mention the position it puts me in with my roommate. Put her on notice that caring about her instant gratification over your feelings and your life is unacceptable. Your advice hinges on not pushing her Away...which is …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:49 AM
1

Why are you still close to your brother at all? I would have already put him on his ass and cut him out.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:34 PM
1

Dude look your parents in eye and fucking handle this. I’d be telling them they are making me not want a relationship with them.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:08 PM
1

I would have blown it up right then and there. on the spot is the only way to handle any problem. Me and parents would have already had words and I’d distance myself from them.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:07 PM
2

It’s not mate guarding, its boundary enforcement. And I’d tell her that I’m not jealous of him. It’s has nothing to do with him. He could be anybody.. that your issue is with her. You dont feel jealous you feel disrespected. If you can’t shut your trap and speak with your actions after that by either wishing her luck and showing her the door or showing her what its like on the other side then you mine as well shut up and take it. If your scared to lose the relationship then there’s nothing to ev…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:40 AM
2

Oh he finally wants to meet you? They’ve known each other 14 years and this is the first time in your relationship that they are hanging out? Did she read the book?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:36 AM
1

No. Not just her not going to the gun range... you need to put your foot down on her having this guy in her life period.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:34 AM
3

Fear of losing a relationship is the only way it can be mate guarding. He SHOULD tell her he’s gotta with zero fear of the relationship ending.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:01 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:58 AM
1

Stay the course. You dont share. Anything. Ever.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:57 AM
1

Na. No you didn’t. And you should tell her that this and this will be the last time you two ever have a conversation about another man.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:57 AM
1

Put your foot down. Dudes gotta go. Google “not just friends pdf” and her read the book. It’s a good book by psychologist Shirley glass. And I’d tell her I’m not cool with her being close with other guys. Period. Ever. These are your boundaries and that’s how it will always be. That you won’t control her but you will control you and you fully expect her to control herself. That you practice what you preach and will never expect less than you give and there are no other women in your life. and th…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:56 AM
2

Experience
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:40 PM
2

If you’d post on survivinginfidelity.com like Ive told you to multiple times you’d see. You’d see that literally nothing unique is happening. This is following the same nauseating pattern as all cheating women. None of her excuses match her actions for the last 6 months because her excuses aren’t true. She’s cheating, caught up in the affair fog and now she’s blame shifting and rewriting history to not be the bad guy.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:38 PM
5

You shouldn’t deal with the male friend at all... he’s not the problem. You are for staying in the relationship without giving her a taste of her own medicine.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:39 PM
3

Yeh she started hiding around WAY before you were clued in. But hey maybe you’ll get the honor of having her take you back once she gets back to college. Fingers crossed buddy!
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:38 PM
1

Stop using dating apps
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:36 PM
2

It has nothing to do with it. If she though you weren’t committed then why all the secrets and plans to blindside? Why all the typical dismissive behavior of a woman trying to push a man away in an effort to weaken his commitment to her. Do those sound like the plans of someone who thinks their partner isn’t committed? Your commitment to her is literally the obstacle she was trying to side step. She’s the one not committed. She cheated, she’s got feelings for him, and she’s diving head first int…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:31 PM
2

You drunk right now? There’s nothing you could have done. Her cheating has nothing to do with you. Marrying her like an idiot 18 year old private wouldn’t have changed anything. She’s filling the container she finds herself in. If you think about it, she’s been doing that all her life. And her loyalty is to her feelings. What she feels right now is all that matters. She’s just doing the same thing she did to her lady boyfriend to get to you. And if you talked to her Sunday, then your not no cont…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:38 PM
1

He’s gone boys. He went pain shopping on the relationship sub Reddit and now he’s taking the blame. He’s taking about how she loved him “fearlessly” and it’s his fault for not committing. About how he applied to colleges near her and will follow her. Ugh. We tried.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:23 PM
1

He’s gone boys. He went pain shopping on the relationship sub Reddit and now he’s taking the blame. He’s taking about how she loved him “fearlessly” and it’s his fault for not committing. About how he applied to colleges near her and will follow her. Ugh. We tried.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:22 PM
1

cumming then coming to your senses is a tale as old as time
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:29 AM
1

She was never attracted to you
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:27 AM
2

No feminists still fuck dudes they are attracted to and still want a high value manly man.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:24 AM
8

No. You’re a grown man. You should remove instagram
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:53 AM
5

Yeh... I agree. After he gives the truth.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:50 AM
37

There’s no downfall. If society bullshit effects your personal life then you just simply don’t have your shit together.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 12:11 AM
14

This whole comment thread is exactly why you need to tell both her parents details about her behaviors and some of the cruel specifics about how Shes treated you. And that this ain’t her first tine cheating. You’ve already seen what shes capable of. You’ve already seen that her mom is capable of bullshit (even though it was small... that was just the first hour of this shit). What until the blame shifting and rewriting of history starts happening. Control the narrative with truth with the people…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:10 PM
3

That’s great and all. But you gotta stop leaving room for anything but the real truth. When you meet up with them next you need to give specifics.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:25 PM
16

Only thing you did wrong was not give some specifics. Like how she dismissed you when you called about your mom and how she’s drinking up all her and partying non stop and about how she actually planned bc to have her dad move her out and blindside you. And that you actually find it insulting that shes so desperate to talk now because Ive been getting blown off for weeks. I know it sounds petty. But every dipshit that has ever let his cheating ex control the narrative gets fucking destroyed. You…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 06:55 PM
2

No. Call him up and tell him you’ll be dropping off her stuff later. And then tell them thanks for everything. And goodbye. And if they ask tell them everything. The drinking, the guilt trips, the mom stroke call, her friends freezing you out, the planned blindside, the obvious cheating, even that it ain’t her first time cheating...and tell them you’re done letting her hurt you and you’re going no contact with her. And you’re moving on with your life.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:25 PM
1

Whose being tight lipped? His wife? And he just lets it slide?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:21 PM
2

Drop off the stuff and tell them thanks for everything and goodbye. That it was nice to know them. When they ask what’s up, tell them everything. And it doesn’t matter if you think you look like a bitch when you back it up with strength. Send the last text and block her. Seriously. You should have her shit packed and dropped off at her parents and the txt sent by the end of today. And never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:20 PM
3

I’d also tell her dad that this ain’t the first time she’s cheated on somebody.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:00 AM
1

I’ve been commenting a lot and I gotta say man... I know this is hard but you’re a fool if you talk to her again. I would send her the text message that I wrote out to you in an earlier comment and then I would box up all her shit and drive straight over to her parents. I would look them in the eye, tell them everything you told us, tell them thank you and good bye. And in that last final text before blocking her on everything I would also tell her that if I don’t receive my ring within one week…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:00 AM
2

My guy, stop waiting on her to allow you get on with your life. Stop waiting on magic words. If she tells you “I’m fucking another guy and I’m his now” are you gonna feel better? Nothing is going to make you feel better but you. You know exactly what’s going on. You’re in a battle with yourself and you’re losing. Take control. Your not the first guy this happened to and won’t be the last. This won’t even be the last time this happens to you. Welcome to the big leagues. Now cowboy the fuck up. Be…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:01 AM
2

What’s on Sunday?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:14 AM
1

You know who the guy is?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:05 AM
4

Nothing. This is just temporary. But Maybe it’s time to reflect on all the men who were laying in bed staring at the ceiling with broken hearts wondering why their girl was being so cold and dismissive as they were in bed with you. Now that I’m done with the guilt trip lol... it’s time to go start your life. Delete social media. Hell maybe packing your shit and heading west might be what the doctor ordered.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:04 AM
-2

You will never find that.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:00 PM
5

Na she’s shacked up with another officer as we speak
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:59 PM
7

My guy. Stop. You got the type of mental fortitude that most men don’t have. And you know this about another guy. Let them have each other. Lick your wounds and find your own life. There’s no lint is talking to why of them.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:58 PM
4

Bud... you were in the military. You know damn well EXACTLY what’s going on. Let her go. Block her. It’s pointless to talk to her. There’s nothing she can say that isn’t what you already know.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:56 PM
1

Yeh. Just focus on you right now. Honestly. Is 50/50 right now really the best thing for your kids? Get your shit in order. And then worry about custody.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:59 AM
1

Stop wasting time
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:48 AM
7

Na, he’s a stud who has countless options and your wife jumped at the opportunity to join the club and her family didn’t matter. And you shouldn’t even consider going back. She threw you away like garbage and tried to kick you on the way down because she though she was romeos girl now. She made her choices let her life with them. And you should tell your kids the truth in an age appropriate way. I wouldnt even be talking to her. We would only be communicating through a parenting app. You need to…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:43 AM
19

Yeh everything she did was because she thought she had a firm grasp of the branch of guy she was cheating with. Everything she’s doing now is because that branch broke.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:02 AM
1

How did that turn out? Because to be honest if I was a fly on the wall watching your relationship I bet I would see a girl who wasn’t attracted to a guy
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:53 AM
0

Once again, this wouldn’t be a “I’m scared of losing you” conversation it would be a “why would I stay” conversation. Once again, this isn’t about stopping her from cheating. My issue would be what she is already doing. And I wouldn’t limit her... I would tell her how I feel and it’s on her to limit herself or id consider myself free to do as I please. And you think it’s ok to not be ok with her going alone to parties or hanging 1 on 1 with other guys but you draw the line not bring cool with he…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:51 AM
-1

Na... it’s the opposite of insecurity. It’s only insecurity if you’re scared to lose her. I would never control a woman but I will set boundaries and I fully expect her to control her self. Telling her you feel disrespected that she communicates with guys that shit on our relationship and you will no longer accept it is a far cry from locking her in a cellar.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:37 PM
1

“Hand over your phone.” After months promise him complaining about him and saying everyone has a problem with him, you just accept that she forgot?
/r/askMRP27/05/20 08:42 PM
1

Any guy that makes advances on your gf needs to be completely excommunicated. Unless he is a friend of the relationship, he shouldn’t exist. Period. Did you set boundaries? The real question is why is she still communicating with these guys at all? The only play you have now is to start treating other girls the way she allows men to treat her.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:40 PM
0

And she should say “yeh no shit... there’s a reason I’m denying you sex.”
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:34 PM
5

Lack of attraction is the ONLY reason for a dead bedroom.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:32 PM
1

Told the guys wife yet? Her telling the guys wife herself would go a long way in redeeming herself in my eyes. As a matter of fact I’d demand it.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:49 PM
2

You didn’t get a lawyer?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:47 PM
3

They should have already known
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:37 AM
3

Stop. Texting. Girls.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:37 AM
4

Wayne from letterkenny
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:14 PM
1

Threesomes aren’t that tight. Unless they both serve you, your girl wants to watch you, or you and your girl tag teAm the girl together or vice versa... unless it’s one those three scenarios it’s going to be dumb. You seek hell bent on learning that the hard way.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:36 AM
1

God.... grown men who use social media... facepalm
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:11 PM
0

You’re a lot younger than me. And I remember my advice was to let go and just let her be a fuck buddy and find your own path. Which is what I would have done... but my experience helps with my mindset and my ability to let go. So I understand why you didn’t. But the cold gets truth... is that your going to run into some version of this (although not as extreme) with pretty much every girl you meet. I’ve learned that the hard way. Been there, done that... which is why I’m able to just shrug my sh…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:40 AM
1

Delete social media. Stay away from strippers type. Girl’s that work at hooters are strippers types. Hooters/ twin peaks/ strip clubs... they are sugar baby HQ. no man with self respect should even go there. Leave it to fat construction workers alcoholics whose wives don’t want to fuck them. You need to lifting everyday and focusing on you.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:06 AM
1

I dont believe in policing. Nor have i suggested to do so.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:52 AM
1

If he’s texting her and she’s texting him back... she’s neither shutting him down nor ignoring him. She still gives him access to her.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:42 AM
1

And she would doing it knowing full well I’m out.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:41 AM
1

No. Dude should be blocked and no guy should so much as get her contact info. You can’t control her but you can control you and what your willing to put up with.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:42 PM
0

No. It’s her cut to completely cut off access and OP should never except any less
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:41 PM
1

Yes. Always speak your issue. One time. That’s it. If it continues, drop her. And tell her that your not interested in controlling her but this will be the last time you two have a conversation about another man.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:40 PM
3

It’s always infidelity. Unless there’s mental illness, abuse, or addiction... every break up in this planet involves somebody else. And it is kinda funny watching guys make post after post for months not realizing the truth and operating off the wrong information. Atleast you’re out and you know alot more than you used to about life. She still with the other guy? What have her kids said about the divorce and her cheating? You tell the guys wife?
/r/askMRP15/05/20 08:40 PM
2

Most small lies are to redirect from bigger issues. Every lie matters.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:20 AM
3

Well how long have you been together? Has she done this before? Did she tell you before hand? How did you find out? Have you seen their messages? Answer those questions and you’ll probably come to realize that just one of those “it’s easier to ask for forgiveness then permission” type people. I hate those kind of selfish people. She knew damn well it wasn’t ok.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:54 AM
1

High N counts don’t really matter to me. Aside from the fact that promiscuous women don’t pair bond well
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:36 PM
4

I’m talking about her. She made herself available as this moved up level by level of their “friendship.”
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:36 AM
15

First of all bud. How do you think they got to that point? You think they went from zero to “hey my gf is cool if we fuck... she might even join.” There is a metric fuck ton that you don’t know and she’s crossed plenty of lines with him behind your back. This how I would handle it. Keep your mouth shut. When she gets home, tell her to hand over her phone. Fonelab is a good program for recovering deleted texts. A google search will show you how to recover data from apps. If she says no then show …
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:00 AM
1

First off she’s not a 9. If she was a 9 she’d be in the runway. Second, she’s not into you and you should let her go.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 01:55 AM
1

90/10
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:58 AM
1

I’ve learned through experience. Unless your an absolute pussy in bed. A muscular physique beats any advice anyone can give about women.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:11 AM
-2

They need a build up for men that haven’t already made them wet.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:32 AM
-5

My guy. I’m 37. I’m 6’1 220 pounds of muscle. I played college baseball. I make close to 6 figures. Been popular and a leader all my life. I’ve fucked more women than you’ve met. I don’t need to red pill to guide my life. I’m attracted to this place to guide youngsters. Because shows the truth to them. A truth I knew before red pill was even a thing. I am the fucking sidebar. Women are slaves to physical attraction as much as men. If OP had the physical attributes that made her want to submit to…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:59 AM
-5

Na women get turned on just like men. Only inexperienced fools believe the “women are complicated” bullshit.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:59 AM
1

No such thing as low libido bud... just low attraction
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:57 AM
49

“You’re too good for me” or any version of that kinda bullshit shit just means “I’m not into you enough to hold up my end of the bargain in a committed relationship.”
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:56 AM
1

No dates she be set up in person or by calling. Confirming the date can be done over text.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:18 PM
1

No you can face time
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:18 PM
1

A grown man should only text for logistics. Everything else should be done on the phone or in person until you’re in an ltr
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:18 PM
1

I think you should have told her why. And you should let her explain her side. Then you should move forward with talking over future expectations
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:16 PM
3

Bro. That last sentence is right. Learn how to game. Learn how to plate. Let her be training or a way to gain experience. Have abundance mentality. Don’t be butt hurt and let her be a fuck buddy. Let the other guy meet her emotional needs. Stick and move like sugar ray.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:50 PM
1

Who is “she?” Do you think I’m OP or something. You just went on a couple random rants?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:12 AM
2

What the fuck are you on about?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:57 AM
3

I’m spitting facts bud.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:56 AM
3

The is never a reason big enough to lie that’s small enough not to matter.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:54 AM
2

I can’t comprehend why this FaceTime call is that big of a deal to you. The real problem is that you committed to a girl that has a relationship like this with another man. Especially one that confessed his feelings. Can’t relate because I would never be in this relationship or situation.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:52 AM
8

It’s never the sex act itself that matters. It’s the guy she’s doing it with that matters.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:50 AM
1

Jesus dude
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:35 PM
1

Another grown man using tinder. Smh
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:44 AM
1

They get a bad rap. But I love girls like this. World class fuck buddies
/r/askTRP08/05/20 01:44 AM
2

Bud. This isn’t complicated. This follows the same basic pattern as all cheating women. Same behaviors. Even the moves she made toward possible false dv Charges. She was interested in another guy, you were in the way so you got the wrath, now he’s out of picture and she’s crawling back. If you think she dated a guy she met after you filed then you’d be wrong. He was already on deck. And yes you could tell her to hand over her phone and piece together yourself if you’d like. How long was it from …
/r/askMRP07/05/20 02:56 AM
1

He entered the picture before you realize and that was her catalyst to start the marriage talk in the first place. There’s a guy on relationship advice that made a recent post that I’ve been commenting on. His girlfriend of 4 years started bringing up marriage out of the blue and I’m commenting on the fact that another guy was the catalyst for her behavior and he just doesn’t see it. And ofcourse I’m getting down voted and disagreed with. But I’m right.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:44 PM
1

Go around and Ask all your female friends about their celebrity crushes and characters from movies and shit that they are attracted to. A brooding, stoic, muscular, sigma male will be what gets mentioned the most. Be funny really just means be attractive
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:39 PM
1

First of all, this never should have happened because you’re a grown man and snapchat shouldn’t be something you think about let alone have on your phone. And 2... she’s a plate. Who cares.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:04 PM
3

It hinges on 2 things. How your ex treated you before, during, and after the break up. And why you broke up.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:03 PM
0

Excuse, excuse, excuse. Step up and fucking handle it. Report it to the building and the police. Talk to a lawyer. This is something you should have done on day one.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:01 PM
-1

I wouldn’t walk out. I’d be a gentleman. Get her home. And let that be that.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:00 PM
3

Female friends and her ex and.... not you. Bud. Mate guarding is a frame of mind. “Stop talking to that guy because I’m scared you’re interested in him and I’ll lose you.” That is mate guarding. Now on the other hand... “I see 1000 women a day I want to fuck. But I don’t give them my time or attention. I’m not interested in sharing you. Other dudes gotta go or i do.” Thats not mate guarding. As for your situation. You need to pull back, invest in self improvement, and start giving your fine and …
/r/askTRP06/05/20 06:57 AM
2

Jesus Christ. This generation....
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:48 AM
3

she excludes you from something and hides it from you. But the simple fact that she has her ex in her life in any way shape or form means I’m removing my commitment. And I’m not going to lower myself by telling her shit she already knows.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:45 AM
1

Everything youre doing is pointless until you have a full picture of what’s gone on with this guy. Have you even looked her phone? Recovered deleted texts? Until you have a conversation with her about how you’ve come to realize she’s been crossing lines and having low boundaries with other men for a long time. Until youve made her understand that your not ok with this. That your not just “uncomfortable” ... like her personal relationships with other men stop. Completely. All dudes are to be sent…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 05:42 AM
1

I don’t get what she meant with her message. You told her it won’t be a fun night and she responded that you already knew that? Huh?
/r/askMRP06/05/20 05:34 AM
2

Wanna know what my experience and gut tells me? This is run of the mill. There’s nothing unique happening here. You’re wife started treating you like shit because she wasn’t attracted to you and didn’t respect you. There was also another man involved. Guaranteed. And I’m willing to bet she was all for the divorce at the start or Atleast didn’t seem too bothered by it. At one point that changed pretty quickly. I get that right? Take a guess why that is. I promise it ain’t because she realized she…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 05:21 AM
1

No. It’s not out dated. It’s actually more important than ever to separate yourself from the crowd. You mention that just about every girl is on social media... yeh... that’s how it should be. Social media for women. No grown man with self respect should use it. Period. Your pissing away your masculinity and living the same life as a 14 year old girl. The only things you should need is a muscular physique, your dick, your personality, and feet to walk up to a woman youre interested in a tell her…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:57 AM
7

You should shut the fuck up. Never bring this up. Delete social media because you’re a grown man. Let her do whatever the fuck she wants because she should officially be down graded to fuck buddy. And focus on your body, your career, and your social life. While meeting other women and finding your own life. That’s how this should handled
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:56 AM
1

No grown man with self respect should be caught dead on any dating apps or social media. Ever. Period. All those things should be demonstrated in person
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:54 AM
3

Don’t text girls. Call them and ask them out. Texting is for middle school pussies.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:53 AM
14

37 yo here. No.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:52 AM
1

Any man that gets nagged at only has himself to blame.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:42 AM
2

No they don’t.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:35 PM
4

They only treat men like that if they are not attracted to them and don’t respect them.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:54 PM
1

No. You just give yourself permission to pursue your crushes
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:41 PM
14

No. That’s part of having plates. And you should be glad. It helps keep a certain distance.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:40 PM
1

Yeh when I say be friends with girls I don’t mean orbit one like the sun like you’re duckie from 16 candles. I mean let women genuinly into your life at an intimate level of you like being around them and if they don’t want to fuck then shrug your shoulders and pursue it elsewhere.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:39 PM
1

Ironicly then best way to pass it is by not giving a fuck about passing it
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:58 PM
2

I’ve gotten laid more times than I can count due to female friends.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:06 PM
0

Everything you ever say should be said with as few words as possible.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:34 AM
0

Alpha and beta is far from bullshit
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:32 AM
1

“Let’s step outside then.”
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:31 AM
-3

That’s not a womans natural place. But it’s natural to be submissive to a high value man.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:29 AM
0

You’ll never have a true abundance mentality until you can be friends with girls with no strings attached. Understanding and accepting that has brought a lot of value and pussy to my life.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:28 AM
0

I wouldn’t respond at all because I would never meet a girl online nor would I be caught dead on social media or a dating app. Pandemic or not.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:26 AM
2

I knew she was cheating from the third paragraph. Best way to save your marriage is to continue doing what you are doing but file for divorce. And start pursuing other women. That’s how you save your marriage.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 08:43 PM
3

What did I just read? Your moms friends daughter won’t text you? So what? Why do you care?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 07:51 PM
27

Life pro tip: never have a threesome with an LTR
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:50 AM
10

Yeh. Never go through the side door with guys. Go right up front and knock. On the spot. Right in front of the girl.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:41 PM
1

My guy. I’m a 37 year old man that has been with dozens of women. There’s nothing that you or TRP is going to tell me that I don’t already know. And that assumption is nowhere near even remotely true.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:28 PM
9

You address it on the spot by going right back at him and call him out for trying to make you look bad to try to make himself look good
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:26 PM
5

It’s says a lot about you that you don’t have balls to address this when you’ve had about 500 Chances. And she feels guilty for cheating
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:24 PM
1

If your psychic
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:21 PM
1

Not always. Many women cheat just because someone made a move on them.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:11 PM
2

Once you get past the college age (and actually during college too) you will never have a relationship end or see a relationship of the people around you end without somebody else involved. 100% every single time. Unless addiction, abuse, or mental illness is involved.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:39 AM
6

It’s. Another. Guy. It’s always somebody else
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:44 AM
5

Yeh. This is about another guy. Any time a girl “opens up” like this you should always tell her to hand over her phone.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:44 AM
2

I don’t see the problem. You need to work on your weakness... because she’s grade A fuck buddy material. Absolutely perfect
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:42 AM
0

Still doesn’t change the fact of the choices she made. If she was truly into you... they dude wouldn’t exist
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:02 PM
1

Ask yourself why. What would posses you to behave that way she did if you were in her shoes. Honestly, what would your motivation be. I’d say it’s because I wanted the other one more. And don’t get caught up in the the old Reddit “she chose you” bullshit. Reality is that you’re most likely with her because he didn’t chose her. Confronting her is pointless.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:01 PM
2

There’s no point in fucking raw just to pull out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:43 AM
3

“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.” Is a red pill pillar. So yes they know and should embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:42 AM
-1

I would tell her my concerns and ask for yo hand over her phone. Non negotiable
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:45 PM
1

She’s really tell you that shes starting to be open to the other options that have been orbiting for years.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:44 PM
1

So what? Don’t let her have a hold on you. Stick and move like sugar ray.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:34 PM
1

You take her for granted right back. It’s all about your needs now. And you test the limits of your emotional control and ability to lead your own life
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:29 PM
2

Because your not developing or strengthening anything about you. Especially your NGAF muscle. If a girl cheats on me. I’m gonna wish her luck with the new guy and tell her we are over. After that I will plate her if she pursues communication. If she hits me up a month later with some version of the .... “I’m sorry/ I miss you” text... I’m gonna give one response. “Let’s get drinks on Thursday.” Then an hour into drinks I’m gonna ask her back to my place to fuck. And I’m gonna use those exact wor…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:18 PM
1

You draw the line by removing commitment. By focusing on your own life and letting her be a fuck buddy. I’ll tell you what. You tell me what trp means to you. What trp says about how you should be and what you should do in life and with women. And I’ll tell you why letting shit go and keeping girls around pretty much no matter what, is the best way to train many trp muscles on the way to becoming your best self.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:49 PM
1

By continuing to be how you want to be. By continuing to be EXACTLY how you are now and not caring about changing it. And the most Importantly.... doing it with a muscular physique
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:19 PM
1

Abundance is exactly why you should. You have so much to learn. About women and life and game and yourself if your able to remove your emotions and expectations And truly not give a fuck and just go for yours.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:38 PM
3

Because you will never learn all that you can about women, relationships, sex, game, atttaction, how to lead, your emotions, your strength, etc... if you dont experiment. If you just turn off the video game as soon as it gets hard you’ll never get good at video games
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:43 PM
1

The cesspool is more fun
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:02 AM
2

The reward is what you see in the mirror. If you’re looking for what’s in it for you then aint cut out for it and might as well join the sess pool.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:25 AM
0

Lol. Ok bud. But it still shouldn’t be a one on one friendship.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:42 AM
5

Meeting an engaged girl at bar or something and taking the pussy that’s thrown at you that night is one thing. Pursuing an engaged girl is weasel shit.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:39 AM
1

Being a sheepdog is it’s own reward.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:37 AM
3

So what? Be a lion. ALways do what’s right. I’ve done what’s right all my life because I’m one of the few people on this planet that is strong enough to do it. And doing what’s right usually comes with consequences... but that part of the deal. Being a sheepdog isn’t for pussies.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:33 AM
-1

Fucking him isnt the only thing that’s important. One on one relationship with members of the opposite is inappropriate period.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:58 AM
2

Never commit to a girl with one on one intimate guy friends. He’s just a guy with his own agenda and you know it. Now on the other hand if he’s welcoming of you and genuinely trying to be a friend of the relationship... that’s another story. Or if she puts him in place and tells him to get on board or kick rocks. But we both know that aint the case. I will never commit to a girl or even consider it until she sends away all the exs, texters, “guy friends,” and orbiters.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:57 AM
7

Your morale should be your personal guide. Nothing else.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:53 AM
6

Na. Ignore the band aid and shrug your shoulders. Let her be a fuck buddy while he pursues his own life.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:52 AM
6

That would be a soft next.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:51 AM
4

You don’t. You don’t even bring it up again. You mentally let her go. You get your own life. You put your effort into improving your body, career, and your social. You dump a whole bucket of freedom on her and let her do as she pleases without even asking. Meet other women. Get to know them. Spend time with them. Let her be nothing but a fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:51 AM
1

Who cares? It shouldn’t effect you personally
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:39 PM
1

Then complete your transformation to being a grown man and delete all that kid shit.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:31 PM
1

Cool. Can’t do it by walking to a girl and telling to her face?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:09 PM
1

You should be asking out women in person. Dating apps are lazy and weak.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:29 PM
1

Until you call him about in front of the girls and/or stop including him... this will happen.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:51 PM
2

Dude... it’s bad enough that youre actually on tinder... but this?....
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:49 PM
1

I think you got it wrong. Society says that men like the thrill of the chase and variety. But most men can’t relate to that. It’s actually women that like variety much more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:59 AM
2

Yes. But what is expected of us shouldn’t matter and society shifts shouldn’t effect you personally if you have your life on point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:56 AM
1

She can’t deny that YOU feel disrespected. And you should be impervious to gaslighting. That only works on weak people. And if she downplays and dismisses the way her behavior effects you then you should serve consequences with your actions. And you never should have let her disrespect you without directly addressing it the first time. “If you treated me better we wouldn’t be having this conversatiin.” All you gotta say
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:42 AM
1

I’d straight up tell her the truth. That you felt a certain way about her but her disrespectful actions killed it for you. What did she do?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:30 PM
1

She should been made a plate a long time ago bud.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:28 PM
2

She pro choice and she makes smart choices. Shouldn’t want any other kind of woman.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:00 AM
0

Are you kidding me? This is a full on Green flag
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:48 PM
2

I was referring to OP being on Snapchat actually
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:36 PM
17

You should turn her into the police. It’s disgusting that she’s in a relationship with a 14 year old girl.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:36 AM
1

Now you know you should have just kept your mouth shut, let her be a plate who can do as she pleases and focused on improving yourself. Namely your body.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:28 PM
1

It’s hard to feel sorry for you if your just going to complain and not take action. Shut your fucking mouth, let this shit go, and focus on improving yourself. Lift hard everyday And eat with a purpose. Put career/academic goals into overdrive. Pursue a robust and varied social/hobby life. Cut down the effort, energy, and attention you give to your girl by about 70%. Let her be a fuck buddy who can do anything she wants. Don’t even bring it up again. Go out, do your own thing, and meet and pursu…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:47 AM
1

Get off dating apps, you’re a grown man
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:46 PM
32

All the shit you listed about her shouldn’t even be things you know about her because any girl that still has her ex in her life at all should never be more than a fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:45 PM
1

I was thinking that the lockdown is going to expose a lot of cheating. And she probably already was
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:43 PM
0

That’s great. But now it’s time to get off social media and messaging apps. Your growth to being a grown man isn’t complete until you do
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:43 PM
2

There was one reason for this behavior. The men in her life that she had as options. And I guarantee she pursued those options to a pretty high level behind your back.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:00 PM
1

“And I hope he’s everything you dream of and if you bring this up again and keep disrespecting me and our relationship, you’ll be free to fuck whoever you want.” Edit: oh jeez just read your post history. You’re a shit show
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:57 PM
1

I work 60 hour weeks
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:54 PM
15

Congrats. She has the resume of a great fuck buddy and that’s all she ever should have been. And why haven’t you shown her what it’s like on the other side with some of this shit?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:48 AM
1

What’s worse is the grown man that’s actually posting that shit.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:44 AM
2

I’m covered in tattoos. It’s a cheat code to easy pussy
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:59 AM
1

You don’t
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:59 AM
1

You have to let go and not be scared. You have to address this once. Not just that you’re not ok with them hanging out but that you’re not even OM with them talking. But that you won’t stop her. Then pull back, treat her like a fuck Buffy, and consider yourself free to pursue other women until she sends him on his way.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:58 AM
1

She’s so empathetic but can’t understand why you might want to hide that you’re virgin? Ok.... You’re latching on the excuse that her learning of your virginity is why she’s acting this way. When in reality she’s latching onto this excuse as a way to shut down the possibility of intimacy before it even starts. This is about her not being into you bud. I’d let her go. And I can’t, for the life of me, think of a reason that your virginity was being discussing by them without it being ridiculed. Wh…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:58 PM
1

Monk mode is more important after getting cheated then it ever is. Please tell me you aren’t still talking to her.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:51 AM
4

Block her. Lol
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:39 PM
2

He’s a bad ass who takes no shit and lives on his terms but is super polite and always does what’s right and isn’t selfish at all... it’s a weird combo. Interested to see where you think he falls on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:21 PM
1

Not if your interested in him...I mean where you think he falls on the bad boy/good guy spectrum. But if you don’t watch the show than you can’t answer it. It’s on Hulu... I recommend it. You’ll binge watch all 8 seasons in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:25 PM
1

Why? You really need to study up to realize this girl dies gt give a shit about you. You were throwing pennies at her window while there was another guy in her bed.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:46 AM
1

I can’t imagine having your brain. Why are you doing any of this? Do you live in a town with just you and her.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:44 AM
1

Call her out for her shitty disloyal behavior. Branch swingers should t be rewarded. Don’t be like every other thirsty clown. This should be a turn off for you instead of making you think your special you should inform her bf.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:36 AM
1

Scouting isn’t as important to me. Because I’m not scared to be wrong and i have no problem swiftly unfucking myself if I am.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:44 AM
1

What do you think of someone like wayne from letterkenny?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:16 AM
3

They say women marry men hoping theyll change but never do and men marry women hoping they’ll never change but always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:07 AM
1

Why? Don’t get a new one. They are V6. Get the last model. The 6.2 liter V8. I have one. Fucking love it. Or check out a used rousch f-150
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:28 AM
1

Trade it in for 2015 raptor. Unless you have a child to take soccer practice and than an appointment at the salon after
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:03 AM
4

That’s not a shit test. That’s a comfort test. And don’t be a fuck boy. Be real with her. If you’re not interested in an ltr with her than come right out and say it. If you are interested in an ltr with her than tell her a time yall can sit down and talk about it.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:02 AM
2

You remove your attention
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:21 PM
0

The answer is to not worry about it. If you’re scared to lose her or if you’re scared of the pain of getting cheated then you need to cowboy the fuck up because your going to have a rough life. Stop texting her. Call her up. Tell her you saw that she was online this late so you just like to say hi and see how her day went. Texting is lazy and doesn’t put her on the spot enough. Blowing off your message is something she can just excuse. Blowing off your phone calls is a bit more deliberate. It’s …
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:18 PM
-1

If you let some society “system” effect or your personal life then you deserve to fail.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:37 PM
0

Society soschmiety. That’s not their responsibility. If women can bring a society just by fucking who they want to fuck then I don’t even know what to say.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:35 PM
1

And I’m willing to bet she’s fully aware of that fact
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:33 PM
1

You also don’t know what’s going on behind the scenes in her life or her relationships with other men.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:32 PM
1

In Vino Veritas. Drunk actions being sober thoughts has been something that has known since like 6th century bc
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:30 PM
12

The way the world works. You will never have a relationship end or see a relationship of the people around you end without somebody wise involved. Her attention is elsewhere now. Well... it was until the new guy started redirecting his attention
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:18 PM
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