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In some cases, their populations are actually thriving more than others (NZ for example). Being in NZ, I don't agree we are thriving under this leadership.
/r/MGTOW217/09/20 03:59 PM
6

At this point, dude, fuck it, I'd rather get a kitten.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:29 PM
5

Move forward with your own life. Get the best legal counsel you can to sort out access to your child. You don't proceed with this girl at all, you leave her in the dust. In the story of your life, you can make this trouble with her the central story, or just worthy of a few lines because the rest of the story is so much more interesting. You're writing the story, which would you prefer?
/r/askTRP19/06/20 09:06 AM
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I've known a few girls, but I only knew one girl that liked to watch porn, she was fucking crazy.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:49 AM
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I agree. If the issue here is this important to him there's probably more to it than you think. If this is between wearing some more modest clothing or losing your marriage, make your choice. There isn't any right answer here, it comes down to what you want. It isn't hard to just wear sweatpants, and it'll probably mean a lot to him that you are making an effort.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:24 AM
3

She has recently wanted to push to move in together even though I am not ready. ... Again says she is being patient but then when I say maybe not this lease term, she gets extreme and says that oh well if we don't move in now then we won't until seven years together and what would other people think about that, not living together and being together for 7 years. I feel this, not in any hurry to move in with a girl. Either they understand or they don't. If they are committed to you, details like …
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:44 AM
2

Have a caffeine pill or two right beside the alarm clock, and swallow them as soon as the alarm goes off.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:17 PM
3

Had to learn a lot of lessons the hard way. Kinda sucks but then again I wonder if I would be the man I am today if I had it easier, probably not.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:19 PM
5

You're better than this, king. You'll make the next one better and when you do, you'll think back to this time about how close you came to ending it, and feel glad you didn't
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:20 PM
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I went to a coffee date once with this girl who was constantly on her phone. I just picked up my phone and started texting too, didn't say a word. When I was done, I just said nice to meet you, and left. She threw a tantrum but I was already on my way out of there, no time for that shit.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:37 AM
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High interest always
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:45 AM
4

Identify and avoid BPD women Pt 1 Pt.2
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:20 PM
7

I can’t get rid of the idea of ‘her’ this one hits right in the feels time heals, king
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:10 AM
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Get a guitar and teach yourself how to play with youtube videos, the reddit guitar sub and check out the guitar discords on disboard too. It's never been easier to learn a musical instrument on your own with all these resources. And it's fun and you can now get to know some other bros who do the same thing. If you prefer bass or piano or whatever other instrument then do that, same things apply. Lift. If you are stuck working from home every day it is a mindfuck. I've been there and done that an…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:12 PM
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Would be more interested in the timing and delivery of how this little fact was imparted to you. Alpha widow? What does your gut tell you?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:11 AM
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You want the long answer, read the other comments. You want the short one, here you go. Should I drop her? Yes. I don’t want for her convos with this guy to turn sexual. Won't matter when she's in your rear view mirror.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:01 AM
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I don't even know where the fuck to start with this mess. I truly hope you learned something from this. Did you?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 04:32 AM
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Good luck, is all I can say. In this day and age, even those requirements are considered "high standards", but of course that doesn't mean you should change them.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:48 PM
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I think you did alright and you'll be fine. Hell, read half the shit posted on this sub and I think you'll realize you come out of this head and shoulders above most of these fellas. Learn your lesson and make the next one better.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 06:51 PM
5

Haha yeah, u are not alone
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:40 PM
1

Usually go on the cross trainer 30 mins 4-5 times a week (I lift 6-7 days), wind up the difficulty until im dripping sweat, it's a good workout I like it a lot more than running or treadmill. Sometimes I will do that in the morning then go back in the evening for lifting, it's a cool way to start the day and probably helps keep the fat off.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:54 AM
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neoteny
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:07 PM
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Quarantine's over here, I can lift again now (thank god) but what got me through was practicing music every day practice EVERY SINGLE DAY, doing some light home workouts to keep up my strength and basically sleeping the rest of the time. Think of the man you'll be in five years looking back on this time, you can say you learned that piano piece you've been meaning to work on, or that guitar riff that always seemed too hard.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:09 PM
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I doubt it was anything you did at all. She just made up an excuse to place the "blame" for breaking up on you, so she can feel better about herself. You're right: if she wanted a relationship she would be bringing it up herself. When it inevitably falls apart with her ex for likely the same reason it did the first time, she's practically guaranteed to hit you up again with bait lines like "I miss you". Expect that and ignore it when it comes.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:31 AM
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Yes of course nobody wants to be the guy with the town bicycle on his arm
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:56 AM
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Glad this isn't a post asking what to do. Good on you for nexting her immediately. Always trust but verify.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:37 AM
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agreed. what the fuck is it with these zoomers and their snapchat streaks. whose life is so empty they give a single fuck about something so trivial
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:46 AM
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this right fucking here
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:08 PM
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Suicide or drug overdose
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:39 AM
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the plot of Avatar right there
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:22 AM
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rip off the bandaid and leave this bitch
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:44 AM
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Based on what you described. Read that sidebar article and part 2 and see how well you think they line up.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:20 PM
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it shouldn’t be like this It is like this, the redpill is about accepting it as simply a fact of life and moving on. There are women out there like this who will manipulate you and drain you of everything you have and simply move on. Learn to identify them early and avoid them. she cheated This girl is a crazy bitch appears cute and innocent biggest parasite psychopath you’ll ever see yet I know why I lost her and I know I fucked up in that regard It sounds like you didn't "lose her", rather you…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:13 PM
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I didn't say "just friends" just say she's a friend of yours. Everything's implied. That's what I've always said about my plates. She's not your LTR, so she's a friend, a friend you hangout with sometimes.. and fuck.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:22 AM
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just tell her that you are friends
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:46 AM
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reply with a thumbs up emoji and nothing else. she'll either suggest an alternate time or she won't, either way you have a good indicator of her level of interest.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:32 AM
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Either meet her and fuck her a few times or let it go completely. You described a bunch of red flags so I think this is a girl you're gonna regret pining over.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:32 AM
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Yes I would break up with a girl on the spot if she said something so fucking disrespectful to my face. The last thing I'd say would be "Good luck with him"
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:53 AM
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Your turn ended
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:40 AM
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6 maybe a 7 if she lost some weight
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:03 AM
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Run
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:07 PM
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Find a surrogate, pay her some money, get her to have the baby.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:47 AM
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bank balance and get sugar daddy arrangements or prostitutes
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:29 PM
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and vetting this new piece of information should influence your decision
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:59 PM
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Why even tell them unless you know they are going to be cool with it. Yeah a gram of creatine a week, all natural baby.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:55 PM
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well my health hasn't actually suffered to my knowledge, but yeah, pretty much that
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah b/c for the past 7 years. Don't care if it affects my health rather be the flame that burns twice as bright and burns half as long. more confidence, better body, more assertive, deeper voice, etc. But there is some drawbacks, like sometimes not being able to control my temper, being condescending, All of the above, yes. and having an insanely high libido 24/7 But strangely, not this one. Libido has always been totally normal even blasting on grams of gear. Actually I'm kind of monk moding a…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:48 PM
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They aren't your real friends
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:40 PM
1

nm, once OP finds a better one and has some new kids with her, OP's wife will get salty pretty quick
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:13 PM
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six paragraphs about someone that shouldn't even cross your mind again
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:04 PM
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Yeah pretty much this, except I'm in between jobs so I have that stress at the back of my mind as well. Bodyweight workouts, reading, discord, the highlight of my day is going outside to buy food every day or two then watching movies all night until I can sleep again. I used to lift 7 days a week (non natty). Trying to keep a routine and keep my physique as good as I can. Hoped to use this time to work on my music but more and more feeling like I just can't enjoy it, same thing.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:13 AM
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So what's the main red flag? well, let's see.. at my workplace 35 or so yr old cocktail waitress drives a rockin truck
/r/askTRP02/04/20 04:28 AM
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yes it's fucked.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 10:12 AM
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All gyms here have been closed for at least a week now. Feel like I'm losing motivation to do anything, just watching movies every day and passing the time. Like you, gym was the main productive thing and part of my routine, lifting or cardio 7 days a week. Also like you, I'm in between jobs and wondering if even when the lockdown ends whether the economy won't be so shattered that anywhere will actually be hiring. Finding it difficult to stay positive or even do any of the things I enjoy like m…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:53 AM
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she put herself in the plate drawer, king. one day she'll wonder why she can't climb out, and you'll know why, but she'll never figure it out
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:38 AM
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Sounds fine, no reaction is the best reaction. She's a plate, this is what plates do.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:47 AM
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when it heals in a couple months, but earlier than a full year
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:20 AM
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Use machines to maintain your mass. Chest flys instead of bench. Work on low weight/high volume. Ease into it gently, stay away from free weights or anything heavy until your arm is solid.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:26 AM
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Yeah, just tell her that it's a dealbreaker for you and if she still wants to go then better to rip off the bandaid now.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:56 AM
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For me it's a hard red line, any tattoo, visible or not, large or small puts her in the plate cupboard. I just don't like them. I'd maybe consider a girl if she acknowledged it was a mistake and wanted to have it removed though.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:15 AM
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if she's a prostitute she wants a baby even less than you do, she makes more coin from that than some child support, i wouldn't worry too much about it king
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:47 AM
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Up to you, if you want to see her again, do that, if not, do that. I can tell you that this is exactly what I don't miss about having plates - constantly worrying about STIs.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:55 PM
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I would have said "oh, maybe next time when you're not busy" and just walked off. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:27 AM
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option 3 Third is to ignore like nothing happened Do this, it's literally nothing, just an orbiter. She probably thought the puppy was cute. It probably is. He probably posted it for that reason but a heart react means nothing. The best reaction is none at all, go and fuck her like a champ and let small shit go, you should be above this.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:54 AM
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Thailand, Switzerland, Singapore
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 11:56 AM
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Shes 20 and has a history of self harm and an intense sexual past with a large number of partners I know that she wouldn't say no to brad pitt or chris Hemsworth regardless of how insecure she was shes only 55kg Bruh. i cant think of my next move, What am i missing? You're missing the perspective that you can just throw this one back and keep on fishing for a better catch. And... my desire to fuck it'll be more fun.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:33 AM
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From what you described, I think you made the right choice in the end. It sounds like she has been actually quite a nice girl. Maybe it's just my jaded impression, but they seem to be rarer than instagram models or fitchicks.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:05 AM
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Just started a new job fresh out of university. I feel like in several months OP will be posting the FR where he fucked up his first job out of uni. Your career and reputation is more important. When one or the other of you moves on, there's your pass to "catch up" with her and smash. So remember that card will probably always be in your pocket while you are with this company. Save it for a time when you have nothing to lose. In the meantime, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 04:20 AM
5

idk, cats seem to be like this. the more indifferent you are to them, the more they like you. just like another kind of kitty
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 09:33 AM
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this thread makes no sense without pic of her
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:44 AM
1

what did you expect?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:43 AM
1

If you want to have any chance with this girl, the best thing you can do is nothing at all and let her come to you. Don't block her or anything, but don't give her any attention, let it go, and meet other women. Less is more.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:47 PM
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Lol you're spot on. Mentally I still feel like I'm in my late 20s. I'm 37 too and getting the same weird fear coming up to 40 like I did at 30, but actually it's just a number. I have been lifting since my mid-20s and got on TRT and AAS at 31 so I'm in excellent shape still. Recently I watched at Brad Pitt in "Once upon a time in Hollywood" and realized that he's 56, that made me feel a whole lot better. It's possible to still look great into your 50s if you take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:29 AM
1

You end up falling for them from the work you put in and perceived value of her pussy. Your time investment will be your undoing. The worst part, if she arbitrarily pulls out after you've been chasing, you're the one stuck feeling played and cheated An excellent point
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:39 PM
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He's on track to burn out and lose it like Howard Hughes.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:00 PM
2

I get it, she's kind of a shitty person. Newsflash: lots of women are. I can tell you are still really bitter about what happened and while I guess the wounds are fresh because it's only been 3 months. My advice is that you spend this time in monk mode trying to let that anger go. Focus on the next one rather than letting her have so much space in your mind. Recognize that the way she behaved was part of her nature all along. The error, if there was one, was yours for failing to recognize that n…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:25 AM
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I think it's irrational and you're being paranoid, but it's a healthy paranoia to have next time a girl starts to show signs of crazy, you know to politely make your exit. Girls usually won't do anything deliberately malicious unless they are BPD crazy or there's some public sympathy to be gained from it (eg. Harvey Weinstein). Cut off all contact with her and give her time to forget about you and latch on to someone else, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:12 AM
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I'm pretty deep in the red as any of you can see from my regular comments on asktrp, but I have a confession to make, lads. I start to get oneitis and maybe once in every five years I'll start to fall really hard for a girl that seems different. I've learned to recognize this and to try to put these feelings in a box without really letting it affect me too much, but yeah it happens. I'm only human, and apparently I'm a romantic idiot sometimes too. So are many of you, and as human men, it's norm…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:16 AM
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lol I didn't even notice. makes sense now
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:52 AM
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The top comment there is surprisingly on point You give him penetrative sex once or twice a month to calm him down. Wow. Where do I sign up for that enthusiasm? You used to give lots of oral in the beginning to bait him out of passion but now that you have him, you don’t want to. You’ve simply made yourself both sexually not exciting and not available. No wonder he’s given up. You’ve made it clear that his favorite sexual thing “a blowjob” is the biggest thing you give him shit for. So, he eithe…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:54 PM
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I think you made the right move. As soon as it stops being fun for you, then on to the next one.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:45 AM
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Took me a few months to do the same with the stuff my ex gave me. Was difficult at the time but now I can see it helped me to move on. Forget her, she's already forgotten you. Promise yourself to make the next one better, man.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:48 PM
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lmao i seriously hope this is a trollpost. Have fun reading the comments on this one, OP
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:32 PM
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an eastern European country There's the answer. It was probably nothing you did at all. Random drunk guys looking for trouble are common in some places. You handled it just fine.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:52 AM
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Guitar, I have progressed a lot in just 6 months, can't imagine where I would be now if I had started 10 years ago
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:22 AM
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My guess is she's only telling you because someone might have seen something and you might find out otherwise. She sent a text at 5am lol that timing, there's definitely more to this story, but I doubt you'll ever find out all the truth 8 years thrown away just like that, you just found out your turn is over. Sorry about that dude.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:57 PM
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The answer to your own question is in your post. Meet college age girls. Stop wasting your time with postwall women with an overhead compartment full of baggage. Don't pay attention to what they say they believe, girls will change that on a whim. Give them a reason to.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:11 AM
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The reasons I drank and hated my life still exist and are with me daily. Mostly my family and friends. Everyone in my life is shitty and negative. Cut them out. How do you get away from this? Do you just drop everyone out of your life? Yes. What about family? Cut them out. How do I deal with seeing my beta alcoholic father drink himself stupid and kill himself with cigarettes? Either try to be there for him, distance yourself from him, or just cut him out too. These people can only affect you if…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:27 AM
1

Yeah but what I mean is they have an idea in their head going in, but they are willing to compromise almost anything if they find a guy they're attracted to. Girls who pick up your interests and hobbies, pick up your opinions on things too. This is why you rarely find a girl that has interesting hobbies that she didn't pick up from an ex. These girls often shape their personalities, interests and views based on their peer group or partner, to a degree that I think most men would find surprising.…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:44 AM
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It's really hard to find women that both aren't crazy and don't want kids upfront. But in my experience that's not something you ask upfront before the girl knows you. Here's why: Remember that girls' personalities and opinions are often like a fluid that will often take the form of whatever container they're poured in. Once the girl knows you and is attracted to you, they are a lot more open to it than if you ask them upfront.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:19 AM
2

While you're at it imagine how much that future-you would wish he could time-travel to the state you are in now, and what you think he would wish that he could do.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 05:33 PM
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He doesn't want me to mention to people, but we have many common friends and they ask me "how's so and so?" I betrayed his trust at one point and spilled the beans Dunno, but this would be it for me too. I would be done with you at this point. Write you off someone who can't be trusted. No wonder he won't talk to you about anything, what did you expect? When I cross paths, she wishes me a happy birthday and I say "Hi how's it going?" She ghosts me. For real? The guy doesn't cut you off immediate…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:05 AM
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Opportunity cost, my man. There's an actual cost to denying yourself access to the things that would benefit you right now. Reminds me of this greentext (I can't link) playing a single player shooter game spend the entire playthrough hoarding all the primo ammo types and never using them only use the shittiest weapons and ammo because "I might need the good stuff later" complete the final mission suddenly realize I got through the whole game without ever having fun with the coolest weapons in it…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:47 AM
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Yes she's cheating on him with you, of course she is, can't you see that? All the signs are there. Look at her actions, not her words, and you'll know the truth. She's fucking with your emotions to keep you on a leash or as a backup option. This is so toxic to your mental state right now while you try to stay focused. Best thing you can do is rip off the bandaid and cut her loose, focus on number one.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:38 AM
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that's smart, I do this too. take everything they say with a grain of salt, watch their actions for the truth
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:04 PM
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Not having them because don't want to. Seems like a waste of time + money, it's a big commitment.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:54 AM
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It's all about this. She's been fucking since she was 13 and had two threesomes in this time, she fucked OP on the first date and OP still believes he is the one with the "higher n-count" and feels hypocritical. With rose-tinted glasses you don't see the red flags. Putting aside any expectation that a woman is going to be anything but completely untruthful about her past sexual adventures. If OP genuinely enjoys her company and everything's going well in the LTR, I don't think it's worth ending …
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:05 PM
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I was always fit but I didn't notice a difference until I got on the strong stuff, I had probably been lifting 3 years before then.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:53 PM
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CorporateLand series in the sidebar
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:54 PM
2

Will be fine, just try 500 for a few months the first time. Second time around add tren or npp and see what happens
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:24 PM
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logistics. don't have a bunch of creepy animals living in your bedroom
/r/askTRP23/02/20 11:23 AM
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Sounds like a great plan, when she's had her fun fucking her new guy you can take her back and clean up the mess. Good luck!
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:30 AM
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Hard next, this is way too much to write about any woman, let alone one that "needs some space". So she wants space, she can have as much as she wants now she is newly single, and you can focus on making the next one better.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:20 AM
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She's a trad girl, one of them that "don't have sex before marriage" kind of girls. so you're going to wait until your wedding night before you find out she doesn't pop, and then she starts the trickle truth that she actually did fuck this guy? sounds like a risk, why aren't you the one setting the terms here? no marriage before sex.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 01:46 AM
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Can't see that you did anything specifically wrong, your turn just ended
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:13 AM
2

well if she still seems interested it can't be a bad thing, just proceed as normal
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:40 AM
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writes a song about you so far so good song is about telling you to grow up bruh
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:30 AM
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I'm 6'1" and 225lb, well built so I get this shit OFTEN and it's always angry manlets (often covered in tattoos and driving a big truck or a loud bike) who feel the need to prove themselves. See them from time to time usually in the gym and honestly I avoid the fuck out of these types because they seem hostile and unpredictable. I just want to go about my day or my workout and don't need some imaginary alpha contest fucking things up for me. Like they constantly need validation of their alpha st…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:25 PM
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Information coming from these organizations is designed to prevent disorderly panic, not give you the truth or save your life. They will lie up until the last possible moment to prevent panic and when the truth is finally exposed they won't face any consequences. Look at what China's doing for a good example of what's to come. Quarantine millions, build camps, set up checkpoints then try to get the rest of the country to believe "it's getting better, you can go back to work, we have this under c…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 05:44 PM
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Been going for 7 years, when I'm on blast doing it every day sometimes. Push through it and within a month it will feel normal. If you're running a cycle I'd advise against telling your gf early on, you can always tell someone later, but you can never un-tell them. Less people know the better. Also make sure the muscle is relaxed, don't try to pin into a tense muscle. Feel where the meaty part is when you tense it, then relax and pin deep into there.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:03 AM
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How long have you been doing it? When I first started it was tricky too, the first few times I could barely pin because my hands were shaking so much. I just kept doing it and got used to it, it's purely psychological. Try starting with an area that you can see, like delts or quads, or use a mirror.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:26 AM
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We call them red flags for a reason: works in a hooters party girl slutty friends What happened to you is a direct result of you ignoring these in order to LTR up this walking fleshlight. Don't feel too bad, it's happened to many of us. Learn from this experience so you don't get played again.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:00 PM
1

I used to LTR with a ballroom dancer. I don't dance and personally I didn't like the idea of her going off to dance with a bunch of dudes who I suspected were trying to fuck her (which you seem to acknowledge too). It seemed like one step away from dating a club girl who goes out each weekend. It was a large part of the reason I dropped her. Later on I talked to another guy who was into dancing, he said the female dancers get passed around a lot. Said it's hard for them to date outside the danci…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 03:20 AM
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I think you made the right decision and handled it well. I would have dropped her too, publicly disrespecting your relationship should be a hard line and she crossed it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 10:23 PM
1

Delete her at this point she's playing games. Your text seemed fine, it's true and doesn't matter now anyway, hard next.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:42 PM
2

finally
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:42 PM
5

If you want to, why not?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:36 AM
1

These guys all think they're the luckiest man in the world. When it all comes crashing down they are completely blindsided. They double down on the flowers and romance when the next wolf in sheep's clothing comes along, rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:26 AM
2

Yeah I think I get it. Maybe reply "ok, thanks" then just leave it until you want to meet her again next time
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:46 AM
8

Keep fucking her but don't bother dating with her or trying to talk to her, she's not your problem to solve. Demote to plate She isn't a plate already? You planning to wife up this diamond in the rough, buddy? This is plate-only material, the sort of girl you dump your load in and are out the door five minutes later.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:17 AM
6

🤛
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:30 AM
15

based mod
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:22 AM
8

don’t know what I’m doing wrong Your perspective has shifted and your abundance mentality/confidence has been shaken. Before you had DGAF mindset, now you're stuck in your own head. But life is fucking boring as shit and I’m doing everything I can not to fall into a depression. You don't have a mission. You listed all these things you're doing to self-improve, but you didn't list anything you're doing for yourself for the sheer enjoyment. if I’m being a bitch, let me know. Just a little bit, but…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:14 AM
1

lol maybe check for the ring next time
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:58 PM
14

Some of us never feel that drive to have children. We're just as perplexed at those of you who do have it, as you are about us.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:17 PM
5

know my diet is the biggest source of issues in my life today I'm afraid once I get back on a proper diet I will still be me Which is it, then? so to my question.. isn't it at least worth a try? ..your answer is no, it's not worth even trying? Much better idea to sign your life away to the marines where you will be bullied and completely broken if everything you said is true? The upside is that if it doesn't drive you to suicide or a medical discharge first, I think that by your time is up it wi…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:04 PM
4

Buy your own food from the grocery store, vegetables, canned fish, precooked chickens. Even those trendy premade meals you can just heat up. Get a rice cooker or instant pot, learn to cook and prep your own basic healthy food rather than live off shitty take outs every day. Once this is under control get back into the gym every day and start lifting seriously for results instead of half-assing it. Why isn't this an option? Because it sounds better than your ones. You said yourself you have an in…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:22 AM
2

First is to understand that she was manipulating you and just telling you what she thinks you wanted to hear. Replay those moments in your mind, those early encounters when she was just figuring you out, and if you're honest with yourself then I think you'll see what I mean. That feminine submissive girl was just a fiction - just like an actress playing a role in a movie. You fell in love with the role she was playing, a character who doesn't exist. Second is to realize that she's out there righ…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 10:22 AM
22

I feel exactly the same for the last 2 years now. It's not testosterone related. I've been on TRT and use AAS for years before and after this started so it's safe to rule that out. I feel like I gradually got sick of meeting randoms on tinder, dealing with their bullshit for mostly unsatisfying sex and having STD checks every 6 months. For me it was a gradual thing. I deleted my tinder last year, no girl on there is LTR material anyway. I'm not an incel, I think, I can meet women easily I just l…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:20 PM
24

next time tell her she's your going to be your favorite ex girlfriend, in front of people. then smile like it's a joke, but not really
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:56 AM
2

irony of it Yeah I noticed that. address it to her and get some proper communication out of it my sides... “ight, that’s how it is” and cut her off My dude, that is indeed how it is. Cut this one loose with no explanation, if she contacts you again leave her on read. You deserve better friends than all these people.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:55 AM
1

female "best friend" of 3 weeks "things started weirding out" fucks up OP's actual friendships ghosts him out of nowhere If you were my friend I would ghost you too for being this much of a bitch. I'm going to guess you already know what we're going to tell you to do, go on and do it.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:40 AM
54

Correct, best problem you can have at work is the women avoiding you and leaving you the fuck alone. Who knows why, probably one of them said you're a weirdo but who cares. It's better than the alternative, being constantly probed for info and getting caught up in their politics and petty dramas.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:49 PM
11

the rule on communicating with ex’s Don't trust any woman that stays in contact with her exes. "We're still friends" is trickle truth bullshit. Unrelated to your specific situation, it's the often-overlooked second reason why LTRs with single moms are a bad idea. The ex is constantly in the picture, meeting every few days to visit the kids, the relationship is usually on again when she's desperate and needs something, then off again when the crisis is over or she finds a new simp. Seen it time a…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 10:21 AM
4

Did I make the right decision to ghost her? Yes, my guess is this isn't the first time she told you what she thinks you wanted to hear, just the first time she got caught. relatively low n count orbiters on Instagram probably from tinder Especially this. One of these things is not like the others. I didn’t reply and haven’t replied since This is the perfect way for this story to end.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:56 AM
27

Go with her to file the police report. Give her the benefit of the doubt, but observe everything especially her facial expressions, voice and overall affect when explaining the situation to officers. What details does she give, what can't she remember. Is the story slightly different than what she told you? Where are the bruises, the evidence, the rape kit, the desire to see justice done. Weigh it all up in your mind for at least a full day after that, then if you need to do something you will d…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:51 AM
29

You know you did the right thing. In the future you'll be able to see that clearly and you'll be proud of yourself for doing it. Making a big assumption about lack of options, ask yourself why it matters if you have another LTR or how long it takes? Would your life be better if you have a LTR and if so, I hope that's not based on either your past experience, or your fantasy of meeting a unicorn (that we all have, to an extent). Think about it logically - your life can be still better all on your…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 03:22 AM
1

What are the next steps that I should take? I want to at least lose the 60 lbs that I gained. diet: establish tdee baseline and eat under it cardio: make sure you're getting some fasted exercise each day pharma diet pills like clenbuterol, albuterol, phentermine can help If you want it badly enough, you will make it happen. Let it become your mission, your obsession to fix this at all costs, give yourself a minor eating disorder focusing on this. In a few months when you're 60lb lighter then you…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:35 PM
7

do anything to piss me off hostile move on to the next one Good idea, she sounds like a bitch. Don't entertain her shitty behavior for a second. Let this wonderful young lady become someone else's problem.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:31 PM
7

She sent me a text on which she told me that she doesn't want to make our relationship oficial. this isn't a shit test, this is something you say "ok cool" and just keep her as a plate, that's literally what she's saying. why would you want a relationship with a woman that doesn't want one with you? who is the prize here? clearly set boundaries for what? this woman is basically saying she just wants to be a plate. so keep her as a plate. problem solved
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:49 PM
10

post before/after eye pics and we can tell you if it's all in your head
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:46 PM
3

Well for me, I guess it's always been something I have come back to often through my life and get a lot of enjoyment from it. It's something where the skills transfer over to other musical instruments or music production easily. If you love music then you can develop a talent that you will enjoy for the rest of your life. Girls love it too.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:50 PM
15

Great, remember your university will likely have a gym there so you could try that too 100% agree with you, club sluts will never be LTR material they are only good for P&D. You'll have better luck meeting girls in college, in your classes, study groups, clubs and societies anyway, it's probably the best place to meet girls that actually have their shit together.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:24 PM
27

start lifting start learning a musical instrument both these things, the earlier you start, the better
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:18 PM
7

Being in a group where you get roasted hard will make you much better at A&A, banter and comebacks, learning to pick up on other's weaknesses and insecurities. However you'll probably only notice it later when you are in a different circle and you start joking around and notice people getting defensive, upset and butthurt and think they're just pussies. It's kind of something you need to go through to make you stronger.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:45 AM
16

drink heavily I can tell you that this, although it is helping you cope, is almost certainly contributing to these things feel like shit super self-conscious contemplated suicide miserable extremely depressed I've been in this position before and I couldn't see it either at the time. At that time I feel like it was the only thing helping me cope. Felt like I needed that to be able to keep doing my job and having at least that little time each day where I didn't feel completely shit to be able to…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:55 AM
9

exactly, this is how women talk to orbiters
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:40 AM
6

why don't you just ask her out and regardless of whether she says yes or no, then you can forget about these other two guys that you sound like you're just using to get to know her, and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:44 AM
19

unhealthy = unattractive
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:40 AM
2

when you get a match just straight up ask him: his place or yours?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:32 AM
3

I don't know about you, but when I feel like that I always remind myself that even though it seems hard at the beginning, I ALWAYS feel better after going to the gym. Calmer, more confident, better mood, sleep better. Start the pendulum swinging in the other direction.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 11:14 PM
77

easier to rip off a bandaid than to peel it off slowly. you know she's not being honest with you, this guy isn't just an orbiter. you don't lie to your bf and sneak off with an orbiter, you do the opposite. maybe you're the orbiter
/r/askTRP03/02/20 11:16 AM
21

ok then, what's the reason for your doubt apart from the money?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 10:30 AM
126

walk away now and keep your money. this is on her, not you.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 10:07 AM
5

Yeah it's changed a lot. I agree even in 2015 it was possible to meet mostly normal girls on OKC and tinder. Now it's open rudeness, single word replies, girls giving out their instagram instead of their number. I just leave them on read and move on.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 12:04 AM
1

live for yourself first, others will come and go in your life but you'll always be content. being content on your own is in itself attractive
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:10 PM
13

I prefer slim women and feel pretty much the exact opposite to you. Different people have different tastes.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 08:28 PM
2

For me is one of those books that makes me feel like being productive and creative, whenever I'm reading it I always want to get shit done.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:11 PM
11

This is correct, it's just to get orbiters and build their follower count. Any girl that posts her instagram tag in her profile is automatically trying to do this, because she just wants followers even from the guys she swipes left from, guys who think they still have a chance if they like enough of her posts she'll notice them. Never fall for this, treat anything but a number or a messaging app as a rejection and move on. Fail fast is better.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:12 PM
3

hypergamy always wins. it's hard to compete with biological instinct
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:19 AM
3

my thought is that you are spending too much time caring about what two women you aren't fucking are posting on facebook
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:51 AM
1

Excellent advice
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:08 AM
0

If you hang around near certain 24 hour gyms after the staff have left you can often sneak in when someone comes out or follow people in the automatic doors. Sometimes you can just straight up ask someone to let you in (say you forgot your access card or are meeting someone there). Until someone comes along just chill out in your car or hang around near the entrance playing on your phone. Used to do this all the time when I was a broke student, still do it when visiting other cities. If you real…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:42 PM
4

I'm 6'1 and 225, I still don't feel like I look 'big'. Eat more food.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:45 PM
5

Probably means they're not interested, this is what I do when I see girls I'm not interested in, they're just invisible.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:32 AM
2

this is right, pay attention to your swipes, if you mass swipe you are definitely penalized
/r/askTRP26/01/20 12:05 AM
3

Got cockblocked by her friend. Should have got her number and hit her up later
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:46 PM
13

Would you split the bill? always split the bill, if she's not invested enough to even pay for her own food, call it a day.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:13 AM
18

I have a female business partner starting to see where this went wrong
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:08 AM
12

no it's normal, just hold your frame. actually I have the opposite problem, I pretty much hate girls sucking me off it feels fucking odd and they're all like "what's wrong". so I just say I don't like it and just want to fuck normally, it's not rocket science, just tell them what you want to do, you're supposed to take the lead
/r/askTRP25/01/20 07:12 AM
24

just ask her to do it, or keep expecting her to read your mind that seems to be working out well
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:54 AM
10

Started to fall outside the default age range setting which most girls don't bother to change
/r/askTRP25/01/20 03:01 AM
6

something about shitting where you eat.. now your turn's almost over and you have this kind of vibe
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:01 AM
31

Do you know why? Really? Let me give you my hot take on why. I think this girl is not what she seems. From your description and it sounds like she's telling you what you exactly want to hear and is constantly probing your personality for ways to better manipulate you. I actually think you might be dating a BPD sociopath. I strongly suggest you read How to identify and avoid BPD women and part 2 The chemistry seems insane because I think she has already learned what makes you tick. You feel jealo…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:14 AM
11

This sums it up beautifully. They won't be impressed at your transformation, they'll be disgusted. They want to believe you were always the way you are from birth, and it's your natural state. Let them. That's the difference in perspective between a person who has to build their value with their own hands, versus a person who was born with an inherent value (that rapidly depreciates).
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:36 AM
4

Go for it, as long as you're not breaking the law it's fine. Of course be prepared to deal with a lot of jealousy taking the form of moralizing, you see some of that even in here, so just imagine what bluepilled NPCs and postwall women are like.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:56 AM
3

The couple that has a relationship strong enough to conceivably make a long distance relationship work wouldn't let some trivial circumstances keep them apart in the first place. It's not like you're being drafted off to war and have no choice, if it's really important to a couple, they will find a way to be together. When a girl suggests a long distance relationship because of work, study, "travel" or whatever bullshit, understand that she's automatically not in that category.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:37 PM
5

Is he just afraid of telling her and dealing with the argument/fallout? Sounds weird. I would have told her it's over, I think this way he's headed for an even bigger blowout as she wonders wtf is going on.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:20 PM
1

So I sometimes get these paranoid thoughts or fucked up memories coming up from time to time. I'm dealing with a kind of stressful time right now (quit my job and looking for work) as well as being on tren which amplifies the paranoia and anxiety. I can easily stay up all night feeling tense, angry, or anxious about little things, completely bugging out imagining some worst-case scenario. I have been using excel and in one column I describe the thing that I'm worrying about then I try to fill in…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:57 PM
1

Well then that changes things a little, and that's the answer to your question then. You hold your temper because staying in college is more important than some shit talking.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:12 PM
0

Lol u fucked it up, spelling mistakes and weird capitalization, should have just copypasted what I wrote don't try to change it
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:01 PM
1

My rule is I don't care if they get angry, start yelling and posturing, I'll still hold back and even try to de escalate. But once they drop an insult, call me a fag or a pussy or something like that, conversation's over. At some point you need to draw a line. Talk shit you get hit.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:59 PM
1

when she tells you whatever she's doing then ask if she's free (now, tonight, tomorrow, whenever) and go for the date
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:29 PM
-1

"just getting myself out of trouble again. what's new in your world?"
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:23 PM
3

Keep it light, ask about logistics, go for the number. Get off the app asap or you're just going to be another sausage in the sausage factory.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:50 AM
2

They confirmed have, they recently got in trouble for baiting subscriptions this way. On mobile or I'd find the link. Isolation is a big thing for me too, it's hard to meet people organically in your 30s, and I dislike bars/clubs and drinking culture.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:48 AM
4

Dating apps have changed a LOT in the past few years. When tinder came out and then bumble I used to get a few new matches every day and they would be no games, down to fuck or at least to meet up first. It used to be easy mode to meet girls on these apps. Nowadays I get 1-2 matches a week on bumble/OKC and of those, 75% either expire without messaging (bumble) or just straight up don't reply to the opener. I don't doubletext so these just fade away. I'm similar to you, decent SMV, mid 30s, jack…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:57 AM
1

try some meetups, hiking, whatever groups ur into
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:41 PM
41

Just "lol ok" and ignore it, Don't try to be witty just treat it like something you already kind of expected (which you should, it's a plate after all). Now if she keeps bringing it up again and again then it's a bit disrespectful, in that case she's trying to get a rise out of you. But if it's just once it's probably just testing your frame or seeing how you react. Don't.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:32 PM
2

Girls still in contact with exes is a red flag.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:02 AM
5

I agree, be very careful when a girl displays this type of behavior. She's pushing your boundaries by demanding your attention on her terms. You need to shut this down straight away.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:59 PM
6

Just leave it for a while she will probably come back with a better time.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:25 AM
2

Had a similar situation to you, IOIs etc, but it made it weird from then on, to this day i still dunno if she saw it or not. I deleted socials soon after that and just avoided her from then on lol. Thinking back now it was autistic as fuck, I should have just asked her.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:00 PM
2

Yeah. What if she doesn't accept your social media request, you won't know if she hasn't checked it, or doesn't want to, or what's going on. Just talk to her next time and ask normally. There's no rush.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:13 PM
8

Roses , poems , romance all that jazz is for cucks to butter the woman up so she can show up at your door nice n warm then you can send her back so he can clean up the mess based
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:58 PM
8

Best of us do mate, I think deep down we all want to believe in unicorns but time always reveals the truth. Eventually all end up a lot more similar than they are different.. that is until the next one comes along and you again you start to daydream. I don't know whether it's BP conditioning or just the way we're wired, I think on some level we all want to believe that somewhere out there is a girl who is different. Recognizing that is useful in getting a deeper understanding of yourself, learni…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:00 AM
1

sedentary job/lifestyle Do you lift? How long have you been lifting? What's your height and weight? weird sleep, shitty diet Entirely possible, but you can change these too. chemicals in the water that make the frogs gay my briefs being too tight on my balls Let's not get ahead of ourselves. Fix your diet and sleep and lift some heavy weights. Have several more blood tests over the coming months. don't really want to see myself on some hormonal therapy TRT is nothing to be scared of, I'm on TRT.…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:23 AM
14

She'll deny it to the death, especially something like a snap where there's no concrete evidence. Turn on the tears and beg you don't throw away this wonderful thing you guys have built and she loves you so much more than anyone she met.... But inside, she will be learning to be more careful about hiding it from you next time.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:09 AM
7

Impressive detective work based on the timestamp. I tend to agree something shady is up, question is whether she is worth keeping around vs having this constantly wondering every time she sends out a snap. If your gut is telling you something's wrong, go with it. This is why girls who post gym selfies and sexy shit on instagram are a RED FLAG. They are constantly craving attention from guys that aren't you and this is pure poison in an LTR. Don't bring it up just next her and move on with your l…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:06 AM
3

I think you guys are reading WAY too much into this. Girls use these terms interchangeably, all these terms can mean the same thing or they can mean nothing at all. The only piece of information you need to know is that she's commenting positively on a man's appearance, that's literally it. Look at the action, the specific words themselves mean nothing.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:47 AM
1

I met this girl a couple of months ago So you barely know her, this is your LTR? What do you guys think? Break up with her and keep her as a plate only.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:40 AM
2

She’s been a friend, tells me her sex stories and would insist on looking at my dick pics. I’ve hung out at her place, cook and eat all the time. She usually texts me to take her to places groceries, etc. we’d go out to eat paying qual Congratulations, you're her orbiter. she’s definitely showing IOI What you described are not IOIs. Should I simply beginning the physical contact and kiss You could try this, but I wouldn't get your hopes up. However, it is still infinitely better than what you're…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:36 AM
8

It's called entitlement. I'd rather ask you why do you keep trying to continue things with girls that obviously annoy you? If a girl is lying or being late that's a soft next from me, don't even bother calling them out over it, they know what they've done.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:14 AM
16

Virgins can be good potential LTR material but don't make great plates. They get attached as other posters have noted. If you want a stable LTR that's good, if you want a P&D maybe not.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:04 AM
7

flake, it's just a plate and she would do it to you
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:59 AM
2

Honestly, it looks pretty fucked right now. Buzz it or shave it, radiating insecurity is just as unattractive. If people ask why you shaved your head just tell them straight up: your hairline was starting to go to shit and you look better this way. Smile, own it, let the world know you don't give a fuck. Remember nobody will care about it more than you do and people will only give you banter about it if they think it will rattle you. Make it problem of your past and you'll be able to move on wit…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:47 AM
6

I cannot hit the gym This seems like your first problem. You could join one today and start right now. heavily drinking alcohol This is your next one. You don't need to stop, but you can start cutting down. Switch to drinking beer, then start limiting the number you have, then switch to light beers etc. Start weaning yourself off this shit, it's not helping you cope it's contributing to your mental deterioration. shattered confidence and ruined self esteem You did it to yourself and you can undo…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:04 PM
13

An excellent point that a lot of self improvement memes ignore. People always want to believe there's just one thing that if they can fix then all their problems would be solved, but in reality it's rarely that simple. You need to be constantly moving forward in life, constantly improving, when you stop swimming you may as well be drowning.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 08:36 AM
4

I don't think he's all that interested in the royal life but she's isolating him on purpose. A lot of you guys can relate to how manipulative women will deliberately try to cut out your family, friends and support structure, it's a way of consolidating their influence over you. I think Rollo has said that when their relationship inevitably falls apart Harry will probably end up ODing or killing himself. I have to say I agree, that actually makes a lot of sense.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:09 AM
128

I offered to set her up with my friend, in exchange for her setting me up with her HB8 friend, so that we could both "explore a little" (I kind of want to fuck her friend) truly dgaf, I love it What the fuck is going on here? What am I doing wrong? Must I now dump her to save my pride/emotions and beat her to the punch? I do not want to but I have no idea what the fuck is going on in her head. Is this a deal breaker and she be demoted to plate? You're doing everything right so far. If you lose h…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:06 AM
-1

pre-workout, DMAA, steroid use
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:04 PM
15

TRP isn't about being a player with a 1000 body count and a new girl every day. It's just a set of lessons that let you have a more fulfilling and more realistic relationship with women. I think once you go through the player phase, unless you're a sex addict you start to realize there's more to life than just chasing tail. You no longer need the validation anymore, and you come to realize that plenty of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze. So you naturally become more selective about who…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:40 AM
4

Take her to a doctor but regardless of what she says if she walks out with a prescription, try to catch a look at what it is and google it up. She might have an STD and not know it, that would be my guess. If it didn't come from you then you might have an easy decision to make soon.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:21 PM
6

You know what happened, she came over to fuck but you missed your shot and when you brought it up later it was too late, now she probably feels embarassed about the whole thing and has ghosted you because it's the easiest option. Don't take it personally, don't take it as a blow to your ego. You were too tired and too drunk to seal the deal, lessons to be remembered for next time. However, one more lesson I would add is not to text her when she's not replying and you're wondering what the fuck i…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:50 PM
7

in the club wouldn't have taken her to a club, that's a terrible idea. but ok, let's suspend disbelief and let's say that happened.. approached by some guy in the club. I expected her to shoo him away, but she didn't what a surprising turn of events. so right now I'm considering what excuse to use to politely leave putting her phone number into his phone so this this is the point where I don't even care about politeness any more, I would have straight up left my drink, walked the fuck out and ig…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:29 PM
117

real answer in this thread. why the fuck are you taking your girl to clubs and being surprised when you get disrespected and she gets constantly hit on by sketchy dudes?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:30 PM
14

Deleting the messages and not telling you is a bit shady for sure
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:27 AM
1

Sounds like chronic anxiety. I used to have something similar for years when I was young. It was weird, like constant paranoia and circular thoughts stopping me from being happy. Talk to a therapist or a doctor and get it sorted out sooner rather than later.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:02 AM
1

it's a lot simpler and safer if you're already on TRT since there's no need to "come off" and spend months trying to recover homeostasis without losing your gains.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:24 PM
-1

Get on TRT and blast AAS, test levels start declining after your 20s, don't let it turn you into a weak bitch
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:30 PM
4

Brutal redpilling in my early 20s was the best thing that happened to me, got into lifting and decided there's no point unless the next one is better. Breakups make bodybuilders. Well that was 12 years ago now, lol. Never wanted kids or a wedding so that automatically cuts out a whole lot of ladies who want something from me rather than something with me.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:12 PM
3

Will be 40 in a couple of years, seems surreal. Fortunately never been married and no kids either.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:06 PM
3

facts right here
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:41 PM
1

how long have you known this girl? how long has she been your LTR?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:44 AM
13

Lol. Why help her after she flaked? Tell her you're busy
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:30 PM
3

just avoid going out with her, enjoy it for what it is while it lasts
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:39 PM
7

BPD chick drama my take is: what did you expect?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:20 PM
1

journaling itself will change your life. I've been doing it for 5 years now, it's crazy to go back even a year ago and read the things I was worrying about or just the different way I was thinking about things. really useful for tracking dates of things that happened if you ever need to go back as well (eg. your first date with a girl, what happened and how you thought about her then). just gives you a whole new perspective on your life. best part is if it's in excel you can easily search for wo…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:43 AM
3

it's a shit test "let's change that"
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:25 AM
4

she's just a plate, let her go. I'd rather jack off than deal with this type of shit but that's just me
/r/askTRP01/01/20 01:25 PM
1

there's a lot of subs on here that are full of stupid shit, so I avoid them. suggest you do the same
/r/askTRP01/01/20 01:24 PM
9

plating then who cares, just continue using her as a fleshlight literally everything else you wrote does not matter if she's a plate. if you don't want to fuck her any more because she's still talking about this other guy, that's fine too she's just a plate so who cares just let one go also her innocence lol
/r/askTRP01/01/20 01:18 PM
10

She's a wild girl, and there's a certain attraction about having a dangerous toy like that. But that's all she is, and she'll make your life a living hell if you try to LTR her. If you lost your LTR over this girl, I think you'd come to regret it. Go and jack off first, then you'll find out which head is doing the thinking. I know TRP is morally ambivalent but I think cheating is for pussies, if you want to try your luck, do the right thing and break up with your LTR first. At least that decisio…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:06 AM
6

Gained 100 lbs I'm down 45lbs. I'm missing the self respect I should have I'm not as quality as I believe I can be How do I build that self worth. 65lb to go. That's your enemy, treat it like one and destroy it. Then set your mind on the next thing. Should I Monk Mode Yes. I've made rash emotional decisions tonight. The best of us do. Don't dwell on it, keep moving forward and it will fade into nothing. It's the holidays, the last few months were stressful. I get it, I really do. But this is a n…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:00 AM
4

Leave early and go home. Don't waste your time with this bullshit
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:34 AM
9

why the fuck would she lie Lying is almost their default setting if it's an easier option than the alternative. If I confront her If you confront her AGAIN, you mean. What would that achieve except make her even more careful to hide her convos with other men from you. Then a year or later with you find out again she's lying about something else, WWYD then? What should I do? This woman is lying to you and definitely hiding some shit from you. This is not speculation, it's a fact that you have see…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:15 PM
3

This is going to sound like a simple and obvious answer, but excel (or google sheets or whatever spreadsheet app you want). Add a column for whatever it is and make a mark or a number in there. You can filter to get a count or pull that data out to a graph. Easiest solution, you can track literally anything you want to any way you want to, and it's totally free. I use an excel spreadsheet for a journal so I go back to each day, fill in things like how long I spent in the gym, whether I practiced…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:31 AM
15

Ignore. Let her come back to you with a new time to meet, otherwise next. You're in her orbit right now. Less is more.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:25 AM
79

You know what you need to do, it's obvious in what you wrote. Thank god she showed you her true colors now and not when it's too late. Call it off, back away, tell her you need more time, and start to demote her to just another girl you're seeing. Making a permanent commitment because of your temporary circumstances is something you will regret for a long time. Move back with your parents if you have to, anything but this.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:01 AM
11

avoid alcohol, it relieves it temporarily but makes it worse in the long term
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:57 AM
2

Should we ban you instead?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:07 AM
2

This kind of quality post
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:04 AM
1

Just say something like you're tired or just want some time out to let them know you're not mad, you don't need to open up to them.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 08:40 AM
3

Tyranny my sides
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:50 PM
6

How do I get rid of this feeling of wanting to get back with her? learning from your own mistakes is good, but learning from others' mistakes is better. go ahead and get back with her if you want to try the first option
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:16 PM
2

yeah you basically summed it up right there
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:15 PM
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