| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate paying | hotsauce1357 | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 12:31 AM | |
| 7 | Wait until relationship for sex, but what about before then? | SEX STRATEGY | hotsauce1357 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Trim public hair? | hotsauce1357 | /r/askFDS | 21/04/21 04:35 AM | |
| 4 | What sexual stuff can I do before getting into a relationship? Receiving oral sex and making out? | DISCUSSION | hotsauce1357 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How much should he be paying for our dates? | STRATEGY | hotsauce1357 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Shave vagina? | DISCUSSION | hotsauce1357 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:32 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingThank you for taking the time to respond to my question and point out perspectives that I didn't consider. You're right that he should be constantly investing and treating me during the dating stage. I will take it into consideration. | /r/askFDS | 08/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI’m trying to situate FDS philosophy through my own prism of life experiences and perspectives. It’s better to be critical and ask smart questions that will make your beliefs stronger in the end, rather than simply digest the FDS handbook. I feel like when FDS moderators ban or block people for simply asking smart and critical questions, it looks really bad on FDS, especially when it's the askFDS subreddit and not the main FDS. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI was simply engaging in further intellectual conversation about this topic, and I was not name-calling or saying anything mean. Also, I did not praise him. I said he cooked "decent” and was trying to sort out my thoughts about him because people are COMPLICATED and have good and bad qualities. Actually, Phoenix__Rising insulted me and said that all I wanted was to “fuck.” I’m trying to situate FDS philosophy through my own prism of life experiences and perspectives. It’s better to be critical a… | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI'm looking for other perspectives and discussion on the topic of financial stability, because I think it is more nuanced than finding a guy who will pay for my food. I think I'm willing to compromise on the food because he has other good qualities. However, I want to hear what you all think, and I like to think I'm also a high-value woman (Ivy League educated, fit, sorta pretty lol) and I can find other options if I keep looking... but I'm 32 now and I feel like time is running out to have kids… | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI live in SF (a liberal, progressive cosmopolitan city) so I'm sure he will be able to find a woman who will alternate paying/splitting with him. I don't want to lower my standards, but I struggle with also realizing that I'm 32 y/o now so I feel like my options are getting limited because I know I want kids. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI thought this forum was for ASKING questions, so it's so rude and lame for the moderator to remove this thread. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 03:45 PM |
| -15 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingOk, so I felt compelled to bring up the topic after I paid, but then we had a deep, long conversation about how food finances will work while dating and I learned that his previous girlfriends alternated paying with him, so I think he wants the same set up. His previous girlfriend actually broke up with him after 2 years. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 01:57 AM |
| -28 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingActually he has cooked for me and it was decent. And sorry FDS I know you teach don't have sex until commitment, but I already had sex with him and it was really good sex and I orgasmed. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 01:44 AM |
| -17 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI think he is financially responsible and not materialistic -- he doesn't spend on frivolous things like nice cars and I know he is trying to save money to buy a house. But he was emphasizing to me that dating is a two-way street, feminism blah blah blah and that I should put in equal money on dates. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 01:01 AM |
| -2 | Trim public hair?How long does it take to determine if he is HV? We dated for 1 month (5 dates) and then he asked me to be in a relationship and now it’s been about another month. | /r/askFDS | 21/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 15 | Ain’t this the truth 🤔Can you point to the research? Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 0 | What sexual stuff can I do before getting into a relationship? Receiving oral sex and making out?Thanks for the tip. My question was about making out and receiving oral sex, which the guidebook doesn’t explicitly address. Cunninglingus mostly benefits me though so I don’t see how i could lose if he goes down on me. I definitely won’t be sucking his dick though, so he knows who’s queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:00 AM |
| 5 | What sexual stuff can I do before getting into a relationship? Receiving oral sex and making out?Thanks for the insight... I might move onto another guy lol... is there a number of dates that passes the benchmark for relationship status? Or is that dependent on communication and what both of you say to one another? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:50 AM |
| 4 | What sexual stuff can I do before getting into a relationship? Receiving oral sex and making out?We were flirting and there was a lot of chemistry. Also, I felt really horny after being in quarantine for so long. Thanks for the recommendation to get a sex toy! Which one do you recommend that simulates cunnilingus? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:28 AM |
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