hotvision Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	"A Rant Against The Pickup Community - Must Watch For All PUAs" - What do you guys think? I think he has it all wrong. Exactly right. The people that are criticizing the community are either doing so to promote their own shit (like this guy) or have no idea about the community and are coming in with their own expectations already set in stone and mouthing off. Its all about empowering yourself as an individual. PU has helped me do that.	/r/seduction	24/01/16 04:10 PM
1	This is the most important advice you'll ever read. I call it "The Trick." If you grasp one concept from seduction, it needs to be this one. Its the one that has always held me down.	/r/seduction	16/07/15 02:20 AM
-1	[FR] Tried the "wait" line on a first date Geez, was the 32 downvotes really necessary?	/r/seduction	26/03/15 02:49 AM
-32	[FR] Tried the "wait" line on a first date For advanced PUAs -- try this same move saying the word, "penis".	/r/seduction	25/03/15 06:16 PM
1	How does a shy girl go about getting a one night stand? Use the "wanna come over and watch a movie?" Line.	/r/seduction	23/03/15 02:14 PM
5	Getting Rid Of Your Insecurities! The amount of grammatical mistakes were concerning, but nonetheless great article! Powerful mindset to have.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 09:09 PM
1	How I love being nervous Thats a very convenient excuse. However, I have social anxiety as well that at times can be debilitating . Pike talking to my own Dad and brother has been challenging. But i have not accepted these feelings and instead I've challenged them. Whether its telling a short anecdote to five friends or doing stand up comedy in front of 40 strangers, every little action I've taken has alleviated my anxiety. Today I am a much stronger person because of it. Stop making excuses.	/r/seduction	06/03/15 02:12 PM
1	So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it. Pretend that it is not Valentines day.	/r/seduction	10/02/15 03:03 AM
15	What are your fun first dates? On a side note, this wasn't a first date, but I went on a date recently to the movie Selma. We get to the theater and there is NO ONE THERE, literally we are the only people in the theater. Sure enough we fooled around and I got a blowie right there while this politically charged civil rights biopic is going on. Felt strange. But hey, good movie.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 02:33 AM
2	What are your fun first dates? Girl knew of a piano bar in town. We first get there and there is an older man at the piano, and about 5 other people in the bar total. The old guy comes over and hands us a song list, sort of like karaoke with a live piano. We have our drinks, and after numerous calls from the old guy to sing, I finally go up with my date and we blast out a song. My date doesn't sing, but I do, privately. Never had many chances to sing in front of people, but for the rest of the night I rock out like 9-10 songs…	/r/seduction	05/02/15 02:29 AM
1	"I'm gonna go now" No, don't be a hero.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 06:19 PM
1	Went out with a guy from the local "lair" yesterday. It was the most pathetic experience of my life. I don't know if I can do game anymore. I would think the pinch of salt approach would be a given in seduction, I mean, you have a bunch of computer nerds trying to pick up chicks. What you should realize, is that men have been picking up chicks for years its not complicated but its certainly not easy if you aren't born with it. OP seems like a good, normal guy, probably like most of the community. Thus what you learn from here should be more fine tuning, and taking the things that work. I haven't had much success, but its primarily b…	/r/seduction	28/10/14 12:29 AM
18	Clever Pick Up "...And getting fired from the restaurant."	/r/seduction	05/10/14 04:36 PM
3	The "starting strength" of seduction Start talking with strangers. For example, if you are in line waiting for something, make some mundane, banal comment to a stranger, something as simple as "some weather today huh" doesnt even matter what you say. Just get the REPS of talking to strangers very casually. You never know what kind of people you will run into. Eventually, you can graduate to girls. Then to hitting on girls. Then to courting girls, etc etc. By the way, your edit, you've fucked more girls than I have so I don't know w…	/r/seduction	04/09/14 03:47 AM
1	This sentence has helped me so much. Maybe it will help you as well. Its the elements of motherfuckin style up in this bitch.	/r/seduction	13/07/14 12:25 PM
9	How to Pay a Compliment to a Beautiful Woman - Part I Beautiful post bro. See? The "bro" at the end I think decreases the proximality of that compliment and lessens the vulnerability expressed. We are strangers afterall. However, Id say its a level 2, because you offered some great knowledge in that post and felt you deserved the direct compliment.	/r/seduction	27/06/14 04:22 AM
3	A Deep Look Into Why You Are Afraid of Approaching Just say "hi" and go from there. If you say nothing else after that its still a victory.	/r/seduction	22/06/14 03:34 PM
2	How I Gained Confidence Great post. I recommend Models to everyone, that book reslly changes your water.	/r/seduction	20/05/14 11:53 AM
1	I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders. Nickels and pennies at least.	/r/seduction	07/05/14 02:10 AM
1	I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders. A racist PUA? Regardless of his skin tone, he's showing balls and he is showing that he doesn't give a fuck. Henceforth he's getting dimes.	/r/seduction	01/05/14 10:25 PM
2	I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders. I had 6 "we kissed"'s and I had 4 "and later we had sex"'s last week you guys	/r/seduction	01/05/14 09:59 PM
2	Learning seduction from George Clooney This is essentially what Mark Manson teaches: Be the best version of yourself, be true to yourself, stay fit and fashionable, be a good person, go after what you want, and good things will happen.	/r/seduction	28/04/14 05:35 PM
2	Models by Mark Manson vs. The Game by Neil Strauss- which book on seduction is more relevant for today? Is The Game outdated? Expertise needed! Models is much more practical, self improvement. The Game is a bit gimmicky, more auto-biographical, but still a good read. I got the most out of Models, it seemed like a much more refined and sensible take on "game".	/r/seduction	28/04/14 03:28 AM
1	After the age-old debate, and first-hand experience, "calling vs. texting" - this is what I've found. Hah this is great, ur like the admin assistant of love	/r/seduction	21/04/14 02:30 AM
3	Have two girls coming over, but Im freaking out because Im about to lose my virginity Dont worry about your performance or pleasing them, you are going to bomb it, but it will be glorious.	/r/seduction	20/04/14 05:27 AM
2	Having her invite a friend on a date. You need to let her snub you off.	/r/seduction	18/04/14 02:35 PM
2	How to tell if a girl is turned on? Just attempt CPR afterwards.	/r/seduction	10/04/14 04:07 AM
35	How to tell if a girl is turned on? Her vag is soaking wet and she wont stop breathing on you.	/r/seduction	09/04/14 04:20 AM
1	How To Be Attractive As A Man Some good points here, but on the whole very shallow and demeaning towards woman. There are many nuances to a particular girls taste and to think that all they want is a physically strong millionaire is silly. Although it doesnt hurt to have those things. I will agree with you that confidence is everything. You could have confidence and be horrible in every other category, and youd still be an attractive partner. It is the great equalizer amongst all the qualities you listed.	/r/seduction	05/04/14 04:45 PM
-1	I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspective Seduction needs more real chicks posting advice like this, very helpful stuff. Great post.	/r/seduction	02/04/14 06:33 PM
0	I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspective I lived with 3 girls, one of which was my gf, definitely a grounding experience. One thing, long hair blondes, hair every-fucking-where. This one girl was fat and mean and my gf and I secretly called her fat-whore-sheds. As far as learning about girls, it definitely makes you realize they are human, and that all they talk about are boys and occasionally their careers/jobs. I wouldnt say it helped my game that much though, cuz I was never really hitting on them, and I had a gf... But yea turns ou…	/r/seduction	02/04/14 06:32 PM
1	See her, DATE HER. Instant dates are are awesome. Yea I just think its about those sub-communications here. If you are feeling low, this is going to crash. If you are in a good state, then this will work. Just like anything else in seduction I suppose...I will try this though, thanks for sharing.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 03:47 PM
2	See her, DATE HER. Instant dates are are awesome. Perhaps you are right, I have learned that getting a girls number is surprisingly easy, so I should give this a shot.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 03:41 PM
7	See her, DATE HER. Instant dates are are awesome. My initial reaction is that this technique is not for beginners. It requires a certain degree of game and confidence to be able to execute this comfortably. I know, because my game and confidence is quite low at the moment and my eyes are still burning.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:25 AM
3	Im a 28 yo virgin who has hit rock bottom. looking to begin this journey and am in serious need of encouragement/motivation. any at all You are overthinking it, talk to strangers on the weekdays, and hit on betches on the weekends. Have fun, relax. You are alive afterall. Friend of mine died last week unexpectedly, she was 24. So stop being a pussy.	/r/seduction	28/03/14 05:24 AM
4	[FR] #-Closed the Bartender "Let me detail this #-close...ok so the bartender was asking about me..." Fml dude haha	/r/seduction	12/02/14 01:54 PM
4	Your GOAL should be to get rejected. I agree with OP here. To me, a night of failure is not a night when I approach girls and get rejected, drinks thrown in my face, get insulted, etc. A night of failure is a night where I didn't even approach AT ALL. I saw that cute girl, and stayed put; I had that girl making eye contact, and didn't say anything, etc. etc. These are the nights that truly weigh on mine, and many other men's souls within this community and abroad. These nights, are the true failures. While stepping up to the plate …	/r/seduction	10/02/14 07:35 PM
1	How do you maintain friendships with girls? I have many friends that are girls. They were mainly acquired through college as I spent a lot of time at my gf's place, and became close with her roomates. The history that we have, I think negates any prospect of us getting together. I just dont think of them in that way, long after my Gf and I have broken up. Thats not to say I havent yanked off to them, I have, but theres no real desire there. Its good to have these types of friends, girls are much more in touch with themselves emotionally a…	/r/seduction	08/02/14 04:19 PM
0	General Tip, tactics, and advice I've learned since starting pick up 3 years ago How can you find parking around the club?	/r/seduction	20/01/14 04:40 PM
1	How do I turn the conversation sexual when I am a virgin? "So have you ever had sex before? I hear its AWESOME."	/r/seduction	19/01/14 01:32 PM
3	The True Guide To Text Game I proposed to my wife via text..she said "lol obvi" and weve been happily married for two years now. /s	/r/seduction	13/01/14 05:23 PM
3	How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't! You just rub your genitals together, its marvelous.	/r/seduction	02/01/14 02:42 PM
3	If this encourages just one of you, then I've succeeded I know the feeling. Asking out my secret crush, and then kindly getting rejected, was one of the most liberating feelings Ive ever had. To anyone out there with a oneitis crush right now, by all means, ask this person out asap. The longer you wait , not only will you endure more self inflicted pain, but your chances of getting her will slim as times goes on. However rest assured that regardless of the outcome, you will feel great. Its hard to describe, its like breaking free from emotional shack…	/r/seduction	30/12/13 03:12 AM
8	Good text openers Just say something thats funny and something she hasnt heard before, or even better, something that reminds her of when you met/what you were talking about etc. Once you get a positive response, simply switch into normal/no bs mode and say "hey how about we go on a date this (day)?" Refrain from the "would you like to go on a date with me?" Verbiage. It sounds weak and your giving her the reigns. You wanna frame it like " I wanna take you out/ i want this to happen" then your asking "will you le…	/r/seduction	14/12/13 02:16 PM
-6	Good text openers Then your probably a douche.	/r/seduction	14/12/13 02:06 PM
8	Good text openers Some of these are hilarious and some girls would like them. Theyre not all "horrid". That person is just too british.	/r/seduction	14/12/13 02:05 PM
3	FR: Tinder Date. First time meet up. F close. Clarification, theres no notification, BUT, if you go on the Tinder fb page, itll show which friends are using it.	/r/seduction	12/12/13 03:10 PM
0	Being a male and a friendly male puts his arm around you over your shoulders. This is rediculous. But I think I see what you are saying. My advice would be to not feel or react that he us somehow being alpha towards you. The rest will take care of itself.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 08:28 AM
2	Tips from a Russian on college game in the US. Nosostroviya my friends! Good post	/r/seduction	27/11/13 10:10 PM
11	Could we make a list of comfort zone challenges? Wear something rediculous, outside of work. Find the hottest woman in any venue you are in and open her. Call an old friend to catch up. Stand up in the middle of a crowded restaurant and make a speech, recite poetry, etc.. Address the crowd.	/r/seduction	26/11/13 04:11 PM
2	Amazing Kiss Close trick that worked for me on 3 different girls in 2 weeks... I usef this ine last night after we were walking to the car at the end of the date.... " ugh i am tired...i have just enough energy to take you home, and maybe give you a kiss goodnight.." "Hah oh really?" She says, " yea i was gonna give it to you when we got to the car.." Kinda lame, but sure enough we got to the car and made out. I think theres a sort of boldness, vulnerability about just saying "i want to kiss you, im going to kiss you, etc" all in all, if shes flirting with you, she wants t…	/r/seduction	25/11/13 09:06 PM
1	Dating multiple women Im currently dating two and, while nice and certainly more success than ive ever had, the shits getting expensive. Im scowering the earth for cheap date ideas, went to the museum yesterday which was good. But typically were talking 50$ a pop...one of the girls will pay for things and thats great, i pay for the movie she gets the popcorn, for example. I am trying to limit it to just 1-2, while prioritizing one over the other in the event that you have to choose. A lot of time and money however. I…	/r/seduction	25/11/13 08:29 PM
2	15 Texting Mistakes That Stop You From Getting the Date Also, do you want good text game practice? Join plenty of fish, online dating. Gives you a pool of girls to randomly text and engage. Didnt respond to that statement? Try this. Then try this out. Literally its fun as shit, I do a lot of it just to amuse myself, but its great practice I think. Aside from the different dynamics of online meet ups vs real person, theres obviously big differences. If nothing else itll get you more comfortable, perhaps even give you the illusion of abundance with wom…	/r/seduction	21/11/13 04:11 AM
2	15 Texting Mistakes That Stop You From Getting the Date I can vouch for this article its a good one. Im on the first hot streak ive ever been on and Im talking to like 5-7 girks at once via text, dating 2-3 of them. Text game is critical. Dont even worry too much about answering too quickly or whatever, or texting too soon -- text when you want. Do avoid the consecutive unaswered, no more than 2-3, and this should be dine rarely. I always assertively come up with the plan. Girls fucking love this. Also I am always joking around, possibly too much. Bu…	/r/seduction	21/11/13 04:05 AM
33	Pain is the feeling of weakness leaving the body Great post. Anxiety has crushed me my whole life, and about a month ago I did something that was absolutely nervewrecking. I asked out my crush. I did it via text, say what you want but it was a direct shot. I had a crush on this girl for a year n a half. My finger was trembling as it hovered over the "send" button. I clicked it. I exhaled, oh my god, im crazy, that was nuts, but I was fuckin stoked. I was really happy. I didnt even care what her response was at that point. She said no, she does…	/r/seduction	09/11/13 03:14 PM
12	Good way to respond to compliments? Welp, thanks for showing up everyone. This ones a wrap.	/r/seduction	07/11/13 02:45 PM
17	If you had to give someone the best tips for pick-up using a maximum of 5 bullet points, which tips would you give them? Dont let external stimuli affect you negatively. If she says, "fuck off" just smile and walk away. If she starts playing games with you, dont dance along with her. Stand your ground. Know yourself. Be in control of your emotional flow.	/r/seduction	07/11/13 02:04 AM
1	If you had to give someone the best tips for pick-up using a maximum of 5 bullet points, which tips would you give them? -Be confident in yourself -Dont take rejection personally, adopt a "their loss" mind set -Evaluate what worked and didnt work with each "set", but dont get anal about it. -Be bold, most men are not -invest in yourself. Forget all that stuff and read Mark Mansons "Models" -- its ny far the best resource out there.	/r/seduction	07/11/13 02:01 AM
1	Above all, don't reject yourself Just rubbed one out. Thanks OP.	/r/seduction	01/11/13 11:06 PM
2	Thinking about her is killing your chances. Nice post. This hits home for me. I have a girl out there, Ive probably lived a lifetime with her in my head, when the reality is just a friendly acquaintance, far away from my illusion.	/r/seduction	07/10/13 09:53 PM
1	The super-romantic game (or) How I started being really confident Good stuff. I think it depends on what fits your game. Personally, being an asshole is just not congruent with who I am, this romeo game may fit my style more. Outside of a club once, I got this girls attention in this sort of way. It was late, the club had I just closed, 3 losers were hitting on this one hottie, I look at her, get down on one knee like Im going to propose... She immediately honed in on me, I mean, what girl is not entranced by this? If done confidently. Anyway, its kind of like…	/r/seduction	27/09/13 11:51 PM
3	Some of you will hate me, but this is how I defeated my AA I enjoyed this. Good post.	/r/seduction	12/09/13 04:55 AM
1	What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better? Well just this idea of resistance in your life. How it's the destroyer of creative momentum, or even more generally the destroyer of your true self, of your spirit. It really opened my eyes.	/r/seduction	02/09/13 08:29 PM
1	What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better? Agreed. By the way, started reading the War of Art, per your recommendation -- phenomenal read! Thanks.	/r/seduction	01/09/13 10:56 PM
5	What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better? Great post. I think too often people pidgeon hole the seduction community into being a bunch of horny keyboard jockey's trying to stick our dick into something, which we can be, but for me its always been about self-improvement, inner strength, growth, the courage to face yours fears...All of the things that make you a better man. A secondary by-product of this of course being, putang.	/r/seduction	28/08/13 10:56 PM
1	How does increased confidence lead to improved conversational skills? Exactly. In fact, the more you try to think of the "best thing" to say in a particular situation, from a perspective of approval-seeking, you will likely fuck it up. Because people will sense that you are reaching for their approval, and this will come off as fake, manipulative, or just plain boring. When it comes to conversation, you should not underestimate the power of instinct. Instinctively your subconscious mind has a very good idea as to what should be said, can be said, can respond with,…	/r/seduction	20/08/13 02:19 AM
4	How does increased confidence lead to improved conversational skills? What's freezing you in conversations is your internal filter, your insecurities, i.e. "Will they like what I say? Will people respond to this story? Oh geezz" Confidence destroys this. And naturally, your conversations flow smoother, you seem congruent. No matter what the fuck you say. Confidence gives you congruency, which is critical to good conversations. EDIT: This is coming from someone who has had horrible social anxiety for most of my life. But I have also had times in my life when I don'…	/r/seduction	12/08/13 03:02 AM
4	"I never do this..." [FR] No details on the sex though? You left me half chub bro. JK nice post.	/r/seduction	03/08/13 02:58 PM
2	[FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approach This is wonderful. I remember when the seduction game was just a bunch of loser dudes sharing their experiences, in the hopes of helping their brethren. We would reject female perspective as the enemy. Now females are learning the game, and joining this community in the hopes of also helping us men, which in turn will help them as well. Allowing the community to be filled with perspective from both sides of the coin. Humanity can be beautiful. Thanks for sharing OP, this was helpful.	/r/seduction	27/07/13 08:12 PM
0	If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out? Not sure why you are being downvoted. "Swag" to me is swagger, confidence, sex appeal, etc. I would have to agree with you there.	/r/seduction	26/05/13 04:32 PM
2	Stop reading theory and go out NOW Thanks man! This worked for a while but I shouldve brought more paper, cuz I do not know much sign language	/r/seduction	13/04/13 01:36 PM
2	FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. I think some of the frustration here, from the male end, is that women dont typically pursue like this. In 99/100 of pick up scenarios, men are expected to make the moves, initiate, and prove themselves to the worthy mate. This harkens back to that primal, early man shit. You still see this with goats. Anyway, what im saying is that its not the same, there is a different dynamic there. The results can certainly be the same; rejection, pick up, aa, etc. But the conventions are a little different.…	/r/seduction	10/04/13 04:32 PM
1	Just an observation here, guys... Just like standard boxers, I think they are blue and silky...calvin klein I think. Is this what they call flirting?	/r/seduction	10/04/13 04:18 PM
1	How do you maintain confidence without letting it become arrogance? Lead the way!	/r/seduction	10/04/13 03:36 AM
-1	Just an observation here, guys... Newsflash: the internet is filled with creepy perverts.	/r/seduction	10/04/13 03:25 AM
1	[FR] "She doesn't want bacon, she wants you". My month-long transformation from coward to alpha. I suppose there are some logistics there to deal with...5 foot 5 and below is realistically out of your range -- id be like fucking a garden gnome. Not to mention the constant stretch of your neck from looking down. At least your not on the other end of the spectrum, I am a pretty good height 511, 6', but I have a friend that is 5'1". Poor bastard. Either way, go out there and get it man! Good to hear you are starting to find your game.	/r/seduction	18/01/13 05:32 AM
0	The 80/20 rules explained as it applies to seduction. Pay attention nice guys the world over. So true, so true.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 03:55 AM
3	[FR] "She doesn't want bacon, she wants you". My month-long transformation from coward to alpha. Great, so OP is 6'5" and gets hit on by babes out of the blue, and he is now developing his game/confidence etc. congrats, you have it easier than you realize. With aa out of the way, you will soon slay bitches all over the world. Sorry for sounding like a hater here, but show me a good card player who was dealt a bad hand.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 03:47 AM