howdoyoudo1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid.	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	07/05/12 04:36 PM
9	how can i pick up cool guy friends?	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	03/09/12 02:06 AM
9	How do i even start to be charming?	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	13/12/12 03:22 AM
6	Why did I freeze up in this social situation that should have been in my favor? what should i have said?	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	16/12/12 03:44 AM
3	people can't understand me well, how do i improve?	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	21/05/12 08:41 PM
2	what would you say to this guy? a forum post i read that strikes fear in my heart	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	09/07/12 09:41 PM
1	How do i even start to be charming?	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	10/12/12 09:00 AM
0	trying to get my shit together. but I'm still weak.. do i really have to cold approach?	howdoyoudo1	/r/seduction	02/09/12 03:54 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why did I freeze up in this social situation that should have been in my favor? what should i have said? i like that. It helps to know what type of mindset i need to be in. I instinctively went into the withdrawal mindset where all i want to do is stay quiet and hope people will stop paying attention to me, but that made the situation way more awkward. The guys' comments were a small part of that interaction though. Most of it was the girl i'm not into hitting on me and i had no idea how to react. and I ended up making her look stupid and making me look totally awkward, when i know there was a way …	/r/seduction	16/12/12 07:56 PM
1	Why did I freeze up in this social situation that should have been in my favor? what should i have said? sigh i wish.	/r/seduction	16/12/12 07:52 PM
2	How do i even start to be charming? is that really what i should be thinking of? Of ways to hurt his feelings and make him feel down about himself? Logically i would think the solution would be to not give a fuck. but other people here are saying that's making myself into a doormat?	/r/seduction	13/12/12 08:28 PM
1	How do i even start to be charming? thanks. i like your advice. being comfortable with awkwardness is something i'm going to strive to do.	/r/seduction	13/12/12 08:26 PM
1	How do i even start to be charming? when you call him a bully, that fills me with feelings of resentment and makes me feel like a victim. I wish i didn't feel that way. it's not like he's totally mean to me. he helps me out at work and he doesn't say anything that's outright mean. He just takes small jabs at me once in a while to make himself look more alpha. Those jabs are small enough that everyone else can say that they're light hearted and all in good fun, so it's not like i can lash out at him without seeming like i'm the one…	/r/seduction	13/12/12 08:26 PM
1	How do i even start to be charming? thanks for that link. that's some good shit, and i'm going to start implementing that into my life. my body language really is awfully submissive.	/r/seduction	13/12/12 08:24 PM
3	How do i even start to be charming? he's fucked with me so many times before. and everyone seems to like him, including the girls. even the girls that are nice to me hang out with him. he's not even that good looking, but he has charisma and he uses it to fuck with me :(. but if i drop that line on him, i'll just look butthurt. i really don't see how saying that to him would convey anything other than me getting my feelings hurt and trying to get back at him, which would make me look bad. i know there has to be something i could s…	/r/seduction	13/12/12 06:42 AM
17	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story so its not that their standards are lower, but i would just be more confident around them?	/r/seduction	04/09/12 09:00 AM
27	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story hi.. i am almost 27, just a couple more years, but i'm still a virgin. but your story is pretty inspirational to me because i can really relate to that.. i hope you don't mind if i can pick your brain a little. i'd like to hear more about this whole "sleeping with unattractive women" thing... where do you find these women? is it really that much easier to talk to them? i'm kind of... a scrawny asian guy, would these women really be that into me?	/r/seduction	04/09/12 08:28 AM
1	how can i pick up cool guy friends? i am not really fun and interesting, i have many bad emotional insecurities and i don't have a lot going on with my life and i'm very low on the social totem pole. so obviously i need to work on that. but can i still "pick up" cool guy friends? i use the term pick up because the relationship won't be genuine.. i won't be on their level.. but i still want them as my friends.	/r/seduction	03/09/12 05:45 PM
2	how can i pick up cool guy friends? but how do i talk to them? how do i connect with them in a way that'll make them want to be my friend? that's what i have trouble with... i feel like i'm kind of weird and a loser and they don't want to be around me.	/r/seduction	03/09/12 05:11 PM
0	how can i pick up cool guy friends? hah.. you can tell i sound "really needy" just from a couple sentences? that doesn't bode well for when i actually open up to someone and show them more of my personality... I just want some help man.. i want a bro. i want to go on a brodate with a bro and do bro stuff. where do I pick up bros?	/r/seduction	03/09/12 02:48 AM
3	I’m Eric Disco. I help nice guys get past their fear of approaching women. AMA is it because by being sexual, you either get laid or you get rejected so you won't have a chance to be obsessed with her?	/r/seduction	25/07/12 09:44 AM
0	Too awkward and ugly for any woman to take seriously (xpost from /r/depression) you make the most of what you have. Sure, you might not look that great, but that just means you need to compensate for it with your personality. You could either be ugly and depressed/low self esteem, or be ugly and have an extremely fun and confident personality. does this make sense? your personality is something that you can work on, and it won't be easy, but there's no alternative other than being depressed and lonely forever. It's your only option if you want to be happy: to take the steps…	/r/seduction	24/05/12 11:01 PM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. i try. i really do try to act confident, but i can't keep up with the cool people. their jokes, their conversations, stuff like that just fly over my head and then reaffirm my beliefs that i'm below them. so many things holding me back.. i mean i don't want to just be a whiny bitch right now, but this shit is so hard and i want to make it so badly but the journey is gonna be so difficult. ill still keep trying though, gotta do it. gonna start just being more social and talkative as a first step.	/r/seduction	08/05/12 10:02 AM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. i have a very very hard time believing that video, even though i very much want it to be true. i haven't seen a guy like me pull a bunch of women. weird speech/voice, homely looking face and body.. i don't know. tyler really doesn't look that bad at all, wtf. i could buy that pickup will help boost a guy who's a 5/10 up to a 7/10 or something, but to say that a 5/10 can be better than a 10/10 who also has mad game but the 5/10 is slightly sharper.. isn't that quite a stretch?	/r/seduction	08/05/12 09:53 AM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. ah. i've been meaning to do that for a while. be more social, go to some meetup groups, and just meet new people. gotta push myself to start fucking doing it already..	/r/seduction	08/05/12 09:50 AM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. i don't know. i fantasize about her and it's bullshit. just another thing that makes me depressed and lethargic. so picture a very dorky homely looking male. scrawny, bad skin, unappealing facial features. you're saying that it doesn't matter? you're saying that person has as much a chance to attract women as a more handsome guy?	/r/seduction	08/05/12 09:48 AM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. i'm not even "average" though. i'm more in the dorky awkward homely category, so mediocre/below average. and I actually do care about a woman's personality.. right now i'm still infatuated with this girl at work who would normally be a 6.5 but because of her personality and flirtiness she's a 9.5 to me. so she basically gamed me. and then led me on and ditched me and made me feel like a pathetic little shit.	/r/seduction	08/05/12 03:31 AM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. i already did, and the consensus was i'm not hideous but not good looking either. imagine a dorky homely looking guy, that'll be me.	/r/seduction	08/05/12 03:26 AM
0	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. i've been telling myself i'll go to the gym for a couple weeks now. things like money and time are an issue but also just excuses to sit at home and be lazy. for the other steps like "talk to everyone" i assume you mean in a bar setting? because even taking that step to sit at a bar for an hour or so would be a huge accomplishment for me. i'm a bit of a social hermit. i very strongly want to do this btw, i have a lot of motivation to make my life not be awful and shitty, i just need to get the b…	/r/seduction	08/05/12 03:25 AM