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Yeah you’re not. A) Women don’t want to just get fucked, they also want commitment + being fucked by the best. The definition of “best” is something you have control over. B) Alphas don’t really care and just want to fuck the hottest, which is why women put so much effort into looking hot.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 01:52 AM
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No it's not a good long-term mindset, which is why you see a lot of women over 45, 50, 60 who don't give a fuck. Not all of them, but many of them. See my post above for reasons why women don't develop personalities. It's a difficult process, and if you don't have to, why would you do it? It's like a popular start-up saying, sales solves everything. If you consistent, inbound sales, people asking you for what you have and giving you money for it, you glaze over problems. It's once that stops tha…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 01:24 AM
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Not online game or nightclubs. Situations where you have time to get to know a person for at least 15-20 minutes and can have an actual conversation. You’ll need to define the kind of girl you’re going after, your buyer persona, because a lot of girls will show interest in a guy like that, but for a lot of them it will only be as friends, which is not a bad start. This is more of an AlphaBeta / Omega strategy, where you’re not the “The One” or the “Dirty Little Secret” but you could be “The Regu…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 10:06 PM
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It truly is. Even while writing it, this part made me go “oh shit this is what it’s about”
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 09:29 PM
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No. This is the equivalent of a pork sausage manufacturer who sets up the factory and buys the raw material but doesn’t invest in transportation trucks, marketers, or relationships with retailers. “I have produced the pork sausage” he says “Those hungry for it will come”. Those people who even a few miles away may want pork sausages will have no idea he exists. What will happen? The produced sausage will ultimately rot at the gates of his factory as he waits for customers he doesn’t know he exis…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 10:39 AM
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I know it was. The original commenter knows my response was for those whom he was lampooning.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 10:11 AM
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I’m not saying women don’t have their own hobbies or interests. I’m saying her personal hobbies and interests have been formed as reactions to the hobbies and interests of those around her who she cares about. As a man, even if all my friends are PC gamers, I’m happy to be an Xbox gamer. As a woman, this situation is unbearable to her. She would rather become an Xbox gamer than have to bear being the only PC gamer among her friends, or keep bringing up PC games. To put it in perspective for you …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 09:48 AM
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Then she’s not the right girl for you and you’re not the right guy for her. Of course, if this keeps happening, it’s more the latter than the former. Build a world of your own, whatever it may be. But then don’t cry about the consequences. A pork sausage company doesn’t care that they don’t get orders from Saudi Arabia if they put the effort in to get Canadians.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 09:41 AM
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Let’s take you as an example. What are your hobbies or interests? Also, are you new here?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 09:26 AM
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Aka a man who knows what he’s doing or at least appears to know what he’s doing, and can show (not tell) her that
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 09:26 AM
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Good.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:21 AM
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Eric Andre is a professional comedian in a comedic context who has developed a persona and style over decades of acting and writing comedy work getting paid to act a certain way. If you are acting like him in everyday life, you are an autistic kid. Maybe you deserved the bullying.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:15 AM
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Yeah. I communicate for a living.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:53 PM
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I once had a girl like that. Letting her go or being more of an asshole to her than I should have been is still one of the biggest regrets of my romantic life. I can tell you this. You’re not happy she’s moving. You feel like she’s doing you a favour and you owe her one. This has upset in your mind the balance of the relationship. I made this mistake with my girl when I was younger. We moved in too soon, we both felt this obligation, and it was hell. Tell her you love her, you want a future with…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:36 PM
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Guy tried to AMOG you because he’s insecure and trying to fuck girl on your right. Hopefully it fails because attempts are weak.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:21 PM
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Cool, thanks
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:18 PM
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No. Yes. Yes. Yes.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:17 PM
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High interest turns to low interest quickly enough. When they block me, I effectively consider the plate broken unless they message me back, usually in 3-6 months.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:57 PM
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You break through this barrier by realising number closing is not a big deal. I know that I can go out and get 10 numbers tonight. It doesn’t mean ANYTHING, to you or the woman.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:55 PM
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Never, ever double text my man.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:54 PM
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It means they want drugs and rough sex, and low neuroticism. Maybe even to be pimped out. I do not lie to you.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:53 PM
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Crazy women aren’t fun to talk to. It’s like babysitting.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:51 PM
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It’s very good.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:51 PM
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Detroit. It’s where the future is. Good jobs, cheap af to live, and good black ass if you’re into that
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:50 PM
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Go home
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:49 PM
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How do you sustain interest, both in her and for her? After 3 weeks with a woman I’m usually bored af of her
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:48 PM
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What was it like being in a 5 year relationship? To me that’s like being married. My longest relationship was 9 months. I wouldn’t mind a long term main non-monogamous partner right now, aka a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:43 PM
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No. I’ve had plates pay for things. It’s like the reverse beta. They are willing to pay to hang out with you. It’s a sign of their desire to serve you. There was a point in my life when women would pay for everything, and there are times now when that still happens. It’s not a bad idea, because money isn’t what they want/need from you. They want your sex, your time, attention, and romance. Feels. So don’t worry about it. It’s never caused a problem for me.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:41 PM
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Cheers
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:24 PM
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In my everyday life, and online nowadays, just because of COVID. No I don’t meet all of them.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:23 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m talking about.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:52 PM
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To make sure I’ve understood correctly and you also have clarity, because this list is great and clear headed, but it’s also going in different directions, would this be a correct assessment of your financial goals, in this order of priority: Never have to be dependent on anyone for food, shelter or experiences while keeping expenses down Be your own boss Guy some cool things along the way
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:07 PM
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No, he’s right. Don’t confuse income and wealth, and don’t confuse either for financial security. Unless you inherit it, building a business is the only way to build long-term, amazing wealth. I’m starting a business right now. In a quarter, I’ll earn more than my annual salary, which is higher than practically everyone for my experience and age level in my role. Let’s take the example of someone who bought $10,000 dollars worth of shares of Tesla when it was at 0.33 cents. Today, if they held i…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:26 PM
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What are your goals? Be as specific as possible
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:16 PM
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Because you’re an orbiter.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:15 PM
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Make a move. Brush her hair. Touch her hand. See how she reacts, and calibrate from there.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:14 PM
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No. Because beta is also part of long-term sexual strategy. It’s all strategy and then tactics mate, there’s no “alpha good” “beta bad”, although we have found, collectively, beta to be a losing sexual strategy. But being beta, until a certain point, is a winning relationship strategy and sometimes professional strategy (don’t get in the way, put your head down, gain technical skills, laugh at your boss’s jokes, suck up to the consultants brought in for layoffs).
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:12 PM
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I think every 2, maybe 3 days at max currently, just evening out the odds. I’m practically chasing women everyday or every other day systematically. Focus on yourself, women will come. But women won’t come on their own, you don’t want to get oneitis, and self-improvement is not sexual strategy. Even Facebook needed a marketing plan. You have to go out there and get women, they will not come to you. Even in social circle game, you have to keep spinning the wheel of building social circles, social…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:07 PM
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18-27 with the occasional cool older than 31 MILF thrown in
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:46 PM
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Since my hook up plans are very clear after establishing interest through a long phone call early on, I never reach out except on the day to make plans
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:45 PM
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The side bar of this sub has clear instructions on what to do in this situation.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:42 PM
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If that’s your response, you don’t get what I’m saying. Ok kid. You’re an emergency case. Get off Instagram. It’s rotting your brain.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:34 AM
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Answer me two questions: Have I got your trust? Have I shown you my true self or anything substantial about me?
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:53 AM
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Cheers
/r/askTRP17/01/21 08:28 PM
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Yup, it sucks. You’re right on all counts. Both on the problem and the solution. Although I hope you can see how you’re veering close to the kind of the black hole of the Black Pill from where no man comes out feeling good about himself. This is part of being a man. That’s also why this community exists. Women aren’t the answer. They can’t give us what we need. It’s sad but it’s true. But I’m here for you brother. I see you, I see what you’ve done. I love and respect your work and your improveme…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 08:06 PM
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I’m glad you got to vent, and I do mean that. That’s the game. Although I think it may help if you pursue each girl as her own individual adventure rather than pursuing them in relation to the other. The main thing that’s coming across is you’re getting way too invested in women, or at least one or two but let’s be honest one woman, and being further honest, you’re frustrated because she or they are not as invested in you, and maybe never will be. Firstly, you can’t control that. But secondly, i…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:39 PM
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I don’t think there is a solution to this. I have the same problem. It’s pretty exhausting. That’s because as men, we communicate overtly, and women communicate covertly, which is such a more roundabout way of doing it, at least to us. It’s not our natural way of communicating, but as you’ve identified, it’s the only way to not be a guy who doesn’t get women, both in the literal and understand sense of the word “get”. Think of it this way. You’re setting up a covert contract with yourself when y…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:39 PM
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Checks out. Do you think you can do a better job than everyone else around you, that you have all the right answers?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 03:38 PM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:59 PM
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You may be the only good thing in her life. Why rob her of that?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:58 PM
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You are a moron.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:45 PM
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😂😂 I think it might be the most insightful going by your response. Take your meds.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:42 PM
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No. Mostly because the relationship is over. She doesn’t exist anymore, to you
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:46 AM
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I have no photos on my Instagram, apart from my profile picture. I’ll answer the larger question. The secret to mystery is giving some away, without giving the whole thing. Not knowing is very painful to the human mind and we are strongly motivated to find answers when there are holes in our knowledge. The human mind works on narratives and likes conclusions to them. But if you don’t have enough specifics, you don’t look credible. For example There are two secrets to my success. No. 1, I never t…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:42 AM
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Does your LTR know about plates or were you cheating on her?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:39 AM
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I’ve put the wrong age sometimes. Just a mistake in typing or I was thinking of something else and put in a number. I don’t think Tinder let’s you change it or I’ve never bothered, but I may put in the bio that I put the wrong age. Nothing to really worry about
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:37 AM
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“You get to meet me ;)”
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:35 AM
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Yes. Start with 1 day. 90 days is just a collection of 90 1 days.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:30 AM
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Are there a lot of murders in your town?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:29 AM
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I refuse to date girls who don’t like serial killers. How else will I know if she’s into me for me, y’know?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:28 AM
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So this is what we are now then. Just a community of the mentally ill, unstable, and socially inept, arguing amongst ourselves about the hypothetical? This is fantastic
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:27 AM
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Awww. Don’t forget to stock up on tampons for your time of the month.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:22 AM
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No. It will only make her think of you as a provider, aka a beta. That’s a valid but completely different and ultimately losing sexual strategy. Never for women you’re fucking, and never in large sums. You can book her cabs back to her place or buy her the occasional meal or drink or movie ticket, but nothing more. In fact I ask for money back for the above stuff, except very occasionally. Only women you spend money on are relatives and friends, not women you’re fucking. Not even a birthday pres…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:16 AM
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Wait, it’s after you hook up? Sounds like you need to improve your sex game mainly.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:07 AM
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I genuine wanted to help but I can’t read this. Please use para breaks and capitalise your ‘I’s.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:06 AM
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Him: imaginary problems from an Instagram DM conversation She: Lol this random guy is texting me on Insta, it’s a great break between all the sex I’m having (self-cringe) with Chad
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:05 AM
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For the love of God please do not message her that. Do nothing except confirm 4hours before on Sunday. If possible, see both girls on Sunday.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:01 AM
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Leave Greece asap. If you want to do anything worthwhile with your life for a long time, leave Greece asap. There is no future in Greece, and everyone, including the Greek, accept and know it, and I think you do too.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:57 PM
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So this is what the hamster looks like. Good to have such a clear example to keep in mind, in case I ever forget.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:46 PM
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Always communicate covertly, not overtly with women, if you can help it. Say the something came up line, she’ll get the message much better than if you call her a bitch.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:39 PM
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You are a moron.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:37 PM
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I was going to support you but after going through your profile I’d say your life is going to be fucked either way, with a college degree and education you’ll have it less fucked. Just the thing you need to hear, not want to. So go to the best school you possibly can, graduate as fast as you can, and move on. That’s not what I did, but you’re not in a position to do what I did and succeed
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:32 PM
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He hooked up with her right in front of you?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:24 PM
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The difference between an alpha male and a narcissist with a fragile ego that’s overcompensating is the alpha male knows what he’s doing, and has the goods. That the narcissism for an alpha male is tactical. That’s it. That may be the only difference. If Donald Trump hadn’t spent 40 years cultivating the image of a rich man and a brilliant tactician, you think anyone would take him seriously? Alpha men have some obvious way of answering the question “show me the money”. For example, which is mor…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:20 PM
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I want to kind of change your perspective on the question and say what makes the non-negotiables non-negotiable is that none of them is more important than the other. Getting great sleep but haven’t been to the gym in a week? By 4pm, you’re out of energy to find girls or do anything except watch Netflix. And vice versa.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:11 PM
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Been in a similar situation, just the random threatening part, not the rest. Cops. ASAP. Don’t even think about it. Only way to get rid of them.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:19 PM
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I think, genuinely, the best way to get a girl’s respect is to respect yourself and behave, not act, like it
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:16 PM
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For me personally, no. I just don’t like stoner culture. Someone who’s telling me they are stoned all the time is telling me they are a loser with no ambition. It’s just such a huge turn off
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:15 PM
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There’s literally an entire website dedicated to this on the nofap sub Reddit
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:10 PM
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I don’t like doing a lot beyond what you’ve described to new plates, especially if you want to keep them around. I’ve found there’s a break in period of let’s say 6-12 weeks with a new plate till you’re at a point of comfort to really dominate her. That’s my experience. So keep at it with the rough sex, but don’t try too much rn. Otherwise, the nipples, and surprisingly the earlobes, are very sensitive areas.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:05 PM
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Chutiya response pe chutiya response. Bacche ja padhai kar, chutiyap nahin.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:59 AM
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Reads first paragraph. Checks username. Yup. Indian.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:51 AM
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Always take number. Never give number.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:48 AM
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Girl asks to fuck. Guy rejects the fuck because...well, we don’t really know. Everyone loses.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:46 AM
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Pretty standard. Shouldn’t have said she was cute, but that’s ok. Just say you’re not looking to hook up either and have some wine ready in case she doesn’t bring any, a Boy Scout is always prepared ;) don’t think too much, get laid
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:38 AM
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Yes. My advice is type up your story and self-publish it as a romance novel on Amazon, you’ll make a killing. Or a late 80s Bollywood script
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:33 AM
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Yeah, why not?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:31 AM
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Day Bang, and Roosh in general, is good for beginners, because it gets you out there, and that’s all you need right now. Day Bang really helped my day game when I used to run it, even if it’s old
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:29 AM
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Look up Shibari
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:28 AM
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Thought of you for this post
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:28 AM
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I (hope) he was joking. Don’t do it on purpose, because that’s cheesy, but yeah, it shows abundance and that you don’t give a fuck. I’ve been there. It’s really quite funny afterwards. I sometimes feel bad and want to keep track, it obviously feels embarrassing and dim witted, but I realised she doesn’t care, and I don’t really care, and the conversation isn’t really what it’s about, it’s just foreplay. So don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:26 AM
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Food stamps.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:22 AM
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Watch what you do, not what you say.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:21 AM
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Hello fellow mid-20s male. I encountered this problem a few months ago and here’s my solution. Firstly, and most importantly, if there isn’t time budgeted for it, for all intents and purposes it’s meaningless chatter and doesn’t exist. Promised yourself you’d go to the gym everyday? Where’s the 1.5-2hrs it would take for the workout and going and coming back budgeted in your day? Said you’d get 8-9 hours of sleep? Then why are you on your phone at 1am when you have to be at work at 9am? Met up w…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:44 AM
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Look up SMART goals
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:36 AM
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You’re ok revealing you’re in medical device sales but not your age as a number? I was going to bond with you as a sales brother but what a moron
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:31 AM
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Privacy from whom? This an anonymous platform and I didn’t ask for your social security number. That’s a very big and very different range. I have very different advice to give you if you’re 22 than if you’re 28. What a retarded response. I don’t care to help anymore. Bye.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:29 AM
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You are a scumbag
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:26 AM
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Your libido will drop. It will be more fun.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:25 AM
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Sales?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:21 AM
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Roman candle part made me laugh How old are you?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:19 AM
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16 responses and 2 days later, I’ll say the only response that matters. Ma’am, this is a male space. It is against the rules for a woman to join the discussion by talking about her being a woman. I invite you to participate in Red Pill Women, a female space.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:48 AM
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It’s whatever. Practically everyone has herpes.’
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:38 AM
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Ok. I’ve understood your problem. It’s quite a common problem, especially for young men but not by far exclusive to them. I’m going to do an exercise with you. In order to do it I’ll need your full attention. So when you have 15 minutes free, comment or message me, and we’ll do it, and I won’t promise you you’ll like the results but I can promise you you’ll feel better for doing it. Sounds good?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:31 AM
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I believe it was Kierkgaard who said, life is not a game to be optimised.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:27 AM
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The looking at the lips is such a good sign, from her. You can practically just kiss her then and there
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:25 AM
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Pretty much. I mean it’s axiomatic or like a proverb. Does a stitch in time really save as many as 9? Maybe. But it’s better to do one stitch than worry about 8, even it’s not true. It’s as good a sign as any, and what you make of it
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:24 AM
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The shortest time, the minimum, between when I met a girl and when I got laid was 3 seconds. I was drunk at a nightclub, I saw her and really fancied her when she did the karaoke, I bumped into her later and said “Can I fuck you?” She said “Yes”. We fucked at different sneaky places in the nightclub.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:18 AM
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I can’t believe this has been up for 6hrs and no one has said this. Wow. She wasn’t yours. It was only your turn.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:13 AM
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The biggest justice you can get is becoming a better person in such a way that you never think about him again. Get medical attention for the medical problems you’re facing, but come to peace with it. Move on. From now on, you no longer have an older brother. You never did. Ignore him. Cut him out of your life COMPLETELY. I haven’t spoken to a very close family member for an year now or even acknowledged their existence even though we live in the same house, a few meters apart. They’re a toxic p…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:23 PM
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Go Devdas for now bro. You need it.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:09 AM
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I think you should check out College Humor’s sketch real college movie on YouTube before you spend thousands of dollars
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:07 AM
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Short answer is yes. It will take times. Few days, weeks, months, or in some cases years. Eventually you’ll remember her bad traits and negative memories, and for as much you think she’s perfect now, in the future you’ll “know” she was just a person, with flaws, like everyone else, and you’ll find other women. Don’t worry about it. Allow yourself to grieve the relationship, for now. Use it as fuel. Turn that anger into action. Become someone she doesn’t deserve.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:06 AM
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Nope. Nope. Big fucking nope. Sorry man. It’s to not shit where you eat. It’s to not shit where you eat. It’s to not shit where you eat. What are you, a moron? You’re wasting your time with an year of RP mental masturbation if after an year you can’t figure out DON’T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT Picture this. Think about it. Practice what I say you to now. At work, you are an asexual being. You are not work to apply sexual strategy. You are not at work to get laid. You are work to do work. To grow your ca…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:51 AM
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You’re in the area, but mostly wrong. Give it another try and then I’ll give you my answer. It’s pretty straightforward. You’ve said it in your post yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:41 AM
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“Hey I have a hot tub, you can check it out anytime” Bit autistic but it’s a good start to get you going. Hot tubs are cool and people magnets. They also signify some level of success. You’re a cool party dude with a hot tub, invite them over Don’t push it though. And paint a picture of non-sex fun times. Like a movie, y’know. Beer and games and weed and the night. Have fun with it. You have a hot tub!
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:39 AM
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Ok. You say you’re RP aware and you know you’ve violated a TRP best practice. What do you think the best step moving forward is?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:36 AM
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Ok. Hmm. Here’s what I think would be a good first step for you. Stop calling it inner game. Be specific. You can’t solve a problem unless you know what it is. Name what exactly you want, and work on that, rather than an abstract concept like “inner game”
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:33 AM
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Say “Hey, sorry about this, but I may have given you an STI. I didn’t know about it when we met up. You should get tested just in case”. You can also add “Here’s my clinics number if you need it. They’re very chill and do a job. I’m feeling absolutely fine so it’s probably nothing.” And then after a conversation “meet up in a (timeframe) once we’re both completely in the clear?” All of this is hypothetical. Wait for the results. And wear a fucking condom. It’s so simple and it’ll stop you from h…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:28 AM
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You’re welcome :) Have a good one and let us know what happens
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:13 AM
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Can you stop? Can you just say no and move on with your life? The world will continue spinning. She’ll either fuck you for it if your notes are that valuable or she’ll just go oh ok. She may call you an asshole. That’s a negotiating tactic. Ignore it. The real problem is how emotionally invested you are in being nice to a person who’s just using you. Just say no.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:06 AM
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Oh ok. You’re 14. I was going to roast you but now this post makes sense. I’ll give you the same advice I’d give my brother. Also side note, 14 year old girl worried about getting rusty at blowjobs, even just as a throwaway excuse, yikes! Anyway Don’t worry about it bro :) A lot of good things happen in life by just saying yes and not thinking too much about it, as long as you want to. In fact, not thinking too much is THE no. 1 trait women find attractive in men since the 1950s research backs u…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:02 AM
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This was happening to me with an asshat of a someone in a decision making capacity. I needed to work with him to execute on many projects, overall a nice guy I suppose but just someone who would talk over you, keep talking, try to dominate conversations, cut you off etc. Very annoying. I realised it was coming from a place of insecurity for him when talking to me, someone who had gone to a better school and had a clearer idea of what I was doing in life. My strategy to deal with it was simple. I…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:43 PM
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I mean, I’m not saying I’m some Casanova, but do you guys not talk to people, let alone women? Of course it’s an interest issue, but it’s not even an issue. You don’t need to do anything. If she gets back to you she gets back to you. If she doesn’t she doesn’t. More likely she may never. Life goes on. Other women come and other women go. I don’t even see the problem.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:34 PM
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Hmmm it seems like this is one of those situations where trying to “give yourself an edge” will only backfire and lower trust among your friends-colleagues-competition-decision-makers. The best edge you can give yourself is to prepare to acknowledge your weakness and show that it’s not a debilitating weakness, your job performance is solid, you have what it takes, and you can more than make up for it. Understand the psychology of what the role would need from you, how would you think, act, and b…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:28 PM
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Stop. Overtly. Talking. About. Sex. Women. Don’t. Like. And. Appreciate. It. It. Shows. You. Are. Low. Value. And. Don’t. Understand. The. Game. Do. Not. Talk. About. Sex. On. Text. That’s. Evidence. She. Doesn’t. Want. Evidence. Of. Secrets. And. Shameful. Sex. Stop. Overtly. Talking. About. Sex.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:24 PM
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I’m very confused as to what this has to do with cheating. You’ve recognised the problem as pussying out and not some moral stance on adultery, and that your girlfriend is an excuse. Look do what you want to do man. You’re asking us to give advice on a past event. We can’t change that. This post is coming from a place of regret not like wanting advice. So I’ll just say, it’s ok man.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:20 PM
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I’m going to skip the romance novel you’ve put in the body of your post and edit your title to “I fail”. Michael Jordan doesn’t almost dunk a basketball. Tiger Woods doesn’t almost get the ball in the hole.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:16 PM
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No. Any kind of communication will lower attraction. Do not communicate till a day or two before the agreed date to set up logistics
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:14 PM
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Two words. Cuffing season. One more word. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:12 PM
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Is she still planning to meet up despite saying that? My understanding was this is a version of blowing you off
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:11 PM
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None. No one likes unsolicited advice
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:06 PM
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None
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:04 PM
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You have a low sense of humour.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:03 PM
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Neither. It’s LMR. You didn’t make her comfortable enough. Don’t worry about it. Say “Sure!” Spend 3 days to a week exchanging a handful of texts everyday, great if you throw in a call, and then ask her out again. Just make her feel comfortable enough to be ready to go like “ok, this guy isn’t a creep, now we get down to actual flirting”
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:01 PM
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You are now ready to enter the world of non-monogamy. Check out Black Dragon.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:58 PM
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This may shock you, but women are adults too. When we say women are the most responsible teenager in the house, we do mean that. Emphasis on the responsible. It takes men till their 20s and 30s to learn how to deal with themselves. Women start learning that stuff from their early teens, because they are biologically more mature at developing skills than men up until 18 and society expects them to. Yes, she’s still an 18 year old, but she’s quite developed biologically, mentally, and emotionally …
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:56 PM
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I like sex
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:21 PM
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There is no such thing as the signal! But yeah, Ted that was the signal. You can wait for signals. Or you can go after what you want. Worst case scenario, you get rejected.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:14 PM
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Give me $5000 and I’ll teach you
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:13 PM
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On Fridays and bank holidays
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:08 PM
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I think the one thing TRP emphasises is that women are motivated primarily by feelings. To walk away with the conclusion you have is to miss the forest for the trees.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:09 AM
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Your understanding of theory is so perfect that you’re application of it in practice is useless, and non-existant. It’s one thing knowing it’s called Briffault’s Law; it’s another to apply it and know what it means in practice. I apologise for my high horse, but y’know, it’s painful to see a brother who could be operating at a 100 operating at 95, and y’know, yeah, the circle jerk makes my ego feels good, which is also why it’s bad, but this was more valuable circle jerk than usual.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:06 AM
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I hope you can see all the ways you’ve contradicted yourself between the first and second comment, and within the second comment. The largest example is that woman can break out of their solipsistic nature to achieve the end goal of caregiving. By definition, a solipsistic nature means, no matter how many lightbulbs go off, you cannot break out of it. This is the cross for women to bear that they cannot understand, no matter how much they may claim to want to if you’re close enough, or explain, …
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:42 AM
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An important distinction to always keep in mind. I will say, it’s not the application of sexual strategy in its tactics, a good study of which RP does, but of the power and social dynamics that rule our lives. All things are sex, except sex, which is about power. I completely agree that over-applying RP to everyday life makes you a creepy loser, if you can’t keep it in your context pants.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:06 AM
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In my view, this is the only right response. The others, mostly, don’t get it. I agree with you. Although I disagree with how you’ve expressed it. In my view, you’ve got the idea bang on, but messed up it’s application. For example, no matter how hard his day was, a man can’t look to his woman to relieve stress because, being solipsistic, she will not understand, and further, view it to the weakness you allude to. Women don’t want to be “there for us” beyond the way a friend would be, and especi…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:04 AM
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My love and sex life from 18-25 has been a parabola. At 18, I was the king of the shits, slaying mad poon and didn’t have a care in the world. Between 21-24 I got into a depressed funk and while I still had dates, it was painful and I was getting nowhere. Now that I’m 25, working out, taking care of myself, and loving myself, the women are once again interested and eager, and younger women too, 18-22 year olds. My appeal has changed. The next two years are going to be a lot of fun, and I’m overa…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:28 AM
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