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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What made you question or doubt if your abuse was abuse? No it’s self-defense	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 07:03 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020 Maybe this is obvious but, first thing first, pay any debt down!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/20 02:27 AM
10	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020 One month?! This is WAY too soon to be living together. No matter what the “conditions.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/20 12:13 PM
2	Don’t write the paragraph sis, he don’t care. Unmatch, block, delete. This would be an amazing Idea for a weekly thread. A place to send your paragraphs to the void not the mo**.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 03:13 PM
233	LVM proposals Once witnessed a proposal where the dude didn’t bother to pause the basketball game he was watching on his phone. He sat across from her and asked, while occasionally glancing down at the phone balanced on his knee. He then went back to ignoring her and straight up watching the game while she excitedly called her mom. This was when I was waitressing in fine dining so beware the faux-Tuscan heart that can emerge even in finer surroundings.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 09:38 PM
49	She had 2 babies. Men sabotaging birth control is a well-documented phenomena called reproductive coercion. It’s a means of domestic abuse. Of course somehow we’ve wound up with the trope that women are the ones “trapping” men with children. Good article with links to the studies: https://www.thecut.com/2013/05/when-men-sabotage-birth-control.html	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/20 03:59 PM
15	I would love some perspective from you all right now I think FDS is about honing your own instincts. This means teasing apart the shitty social messaging we’ve gotten our entire lives as women and honoring our protective sense of what is best for us. FDS is the way some of us develop the tools we need to fight years of conditioning that have us working against ourselves. It sounds like you’re needing some FDS training wheels through this process. You seem to have a good sense of what is red-flag territory and what are positives. You’re cautious an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/19 06:12 PM
1	It hurts to see other women have such low standards. DON'T BE THIS GIRL. She wasted 2 years on a man that literally told her to see others... Wow your first paragraph described my situation exactly. I hear many similarities in that woman’s relationship advice OP. I got out 3 months in and yet still I look back and think, “wow that was just so humiliating.” I feel like I had allowed myself to be degraded by a man who really didn’t care. That feeling of humiliation and degradation has been much harder to recover from than other “breakups.” This sub has been a real lifeline.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/19 06:41 PM