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hufflepoofs/r/ExRedPill24/10/17 12:04 PM
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Social Issueshufflepoofs/r/MensRights07/07/17 01:33 AM
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And here’s a hot take: they want you to keep suppressing your sensitive and intuitive side so they can keep convincing you and others that brown people, women, and LGBT+ people are the real problem while they pick your pockets by giving tax breaks to corporations and such. They passed out red pills all over the south: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Southern_strategy
/r/ExRedPill28/05/18 02:33 AM
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Nope. I think the only form of Chad that exists is if you're rich, and the people going after them just wanna hang out with someone who gives them access to doing cool stuff, not any kind of love or sexual attraction or anything like people would expect of a "Chad". People who lots of people are attracted to sexually and romantically are usually just people who are genuinely nice and charismatic and just overall pleasant people to be around, but to a tee because obviously no one is ever 100% lik…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/18 12:14 PM
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This vibe is invisible to men. When they encounter a guy like this, they always wonder 'why does this ordinary dude do so well with women?' Fucking this so hard. My boyfriend has had some friends like this and quite literally didn't even notice. It made me start to worry that maybe he was like that deep down or something, but eventually he stopped being friends with them over their shitty behavior. Men need to also realize that even if you're friends with guys like this women will be suspicious …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/17 12:15 AM
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We die because it appears to be the only means left to solve the problem. But studies show it's because men refuse to try the path of expressing their emotions, like with therapy, and that they skip this effort and opt for suicide. It's a real problem, and I think one of the steps to fixing it has to start with men feeling more comfortable with the idea of even having and expressing emotions among other men.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:43 AM
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It won't happen as long as the risk for each man is growing old and dying alone. But the alternative, where we are now, is thousands of men killing themselves every year over this. I don't know about you but I'd rather risk dying alone over that.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:42 AM
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Start out small, get you and your friends to do it. Get other men in this subreddit to do it. Reddit is a good outlet for a start, you can share your emotions with other men relatively anonymously. Women don't even have to know you express your emotions to other men because no women have to be involved. And the more people do it, and the more it takes off, the more women have to accept it as the norm for men's behavior.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:27 AM
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It's not just men on TV, it's men in their lives behaving this way, as well. If you act emotionally distant to other men, and your son sees it, that's how you will perceive the way you're supposed to act around other men. Or if you tell your son "boys don't cry", "suck it up", "grow a pair", etc. Women do this to their sons as well, don't get me wrong, but it makes more of an impact when it's your father telling you these things and you observing him doing these things with other men.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:20 AM
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That's why I think men freely sharing their emotions with each other will help. It becomes the norm, and any woman who dislikes it just has to deal with it or THEY die alone.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:14 AM
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I dunno if you read the rest of that article I linked, but further down there's a really good quote that explains why: “Boys imitate what they see. If what they see is emotional distance, guardedness, and coldness between men they will grow up to imitate that behavior…What do boys learn when they do not see men with close friendships, where there are no visible models of intimacy in a man’s life beyond his spouse?” -Kindlon and Thompson, Raising Cain
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:13 AM
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I'm doing my part for sure, but I rarely see men doing theirs and sharing their emotions with each other. Men always come to me to share their emotions. Women are not going to socially shame men for sharing their emotions with each other, because they won't even be able to know if men are doing it or not, it doesn't involve women at all.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:58 AM
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Yes, because I want to settle down with someone who loves me, emotions and all. And without that it's going to be a terrible relationship, so why bother?
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:58 AM
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I personally do not do that, but I agree it's a problem that women do it. I tell other women I know that it's stupid, but what else can I do? And so you're telling me that if you had a wife/girlfriend who was supportive of you sharing your emotions and having friends, that would make it possible for you to share your emotions with your male friends? What about single men then? Why do they not share their emotions with each other?
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:43 AM
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I do this. I tell men that they should be free to share their emotions with other men. I tell them that I don't find it "gay" at all. In my experience it 100% makes no difference unless the men themselves are willing to do these things, and they're not for some reason.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:41 AM
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Then stand up for yourself, and rally other men to stand up with you. Call them out on their bullshit and tell them being close with your friends has no impact on your sexual orientation. Change society's view on men freely sharing their emotions or expressing affection between male friends. I can't do it for you, I'm a woman. All I can do is tell you that I support you and want the same things as you, but I can't go and be a man and do all of those things and change society. If you want change,…
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:34 AM
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Instead, it is the women in their lives who tend to be repelled when men show the chinks in their armor. Usually because men use women as their emotional dumps instead of also talking to their male friends or family members about problems, too. If all the men in your life often used you as an emotional sponge because they refuse to talk to other men about their problems, you'd hate it, too. Here is a Reddit thread where women talk about this problem and how they wish more men would share their e…
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:28 AM
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In the past men were like this, yes. But in the past 50-75 years they stopped. Here is an entire collection of old pictures of men hugging and cuddling with each other. Would you do this with your male friends nowadays? Why or why not?
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:16 AM
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but as long as the majority of women find men who share their feelings sexually and romantically undesirable, this isn't going away. In fact, the #1 reason women leave a marriage is because men are emotionally distant.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:14 AM
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So the OP of the post is about how women are less obligated to pay child support, and when that is proven wrong with statistics to back it up, your response is to move the goal posts to something completely unrelated? Sure it could be a problem that women pay less than men in child support, I don't know because nobody has posted any evidence, and I'm not going to just accept an anecdotal story pasted onto an image as evidence, either.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 12:51 AM
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Seems like they both are. Fascism doesn't discriminate.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 12:48 AM
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This needs to be higher up. The OP of this post is just an image with an anecdotal story on it, no statistical evidence at all.
/r/MensRights01/07/17 09:26 PM
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I'm pretty sure not ignoring it and taking screenshots of random teenage girls complaining on Tumblr and posting them all over Reddit is how it festered to begin with.
/r/MensRights18/06/17 05:29 AM
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I think it's different because of the context. Wonder Woman was the first female superhero, she has been a role model specifically to women for many years now. That's why it's not abnormal to have a screening with only women, it's kind of like a celebration of what she has done for feminism and women specifically. But a male only celebration of Star Wars doesn't make sense. It's always been a movie that has been for men and women both, so it makes no sense to have an event where only one gender …
/r/MensRights01/06/17 12:26 PM
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I'm an ex-TRP who is a woman and one of the most common narratives I heard is about how other women are out to steal my boyfriend from me and stuff. Another common narrative is that most women are feminists, and that if you talk to them they're going to get offended over nothing and blow up at you about it, even if you are also a woman. I can tell you now that both of these are ridiculously not true, and I'm embarrassed to even admit that I once believed both of these things. The real truth is t…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/17 06:39 PM
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That's never going to happen unless you view women as human beings and not on some separate plateau of standards and behavior that is being surrounded by a river of assumptions and generalizations.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:42 AM
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Yes I do. And if you don't care, why did you make this thread then?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:35 AM
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Well obviously you care, as you made this thread asking for advice, and I'm just trying to help you achieve what you're asking for.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:30 AM
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What did you say?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:25 AM
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What happened? Tell me the story.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:21 AM
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Okay but, have you tried talking to women like you do your male friends? You said you did, how did that go?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:16 AM
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Hear me out here, you just sat there and typed out an entire post to me telling me about how women need to be treated differently than men, in a thread where you are asking advice on how to view women as equals.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 06:11 AM
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Have you ever tried to talk to women like you do men?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 05:57 AM
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Well maybe that's why you're having a hard time viewing women as equals. You're already placing assumptions on what a certain sex would or would not do. Just chill, think of me as another fellow human being, and don't wonder so hard what is between my legs because it has very little affect over our conversation with each other.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 05:51 AM
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Why do you want to know?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 05:44 AM
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Well what do you talk to your male friends about? You could try talking to your female friends about the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 05:33 AM
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Do you have any hobbies in common with them?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 05:18 AM
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I think there are definitely some men who subscribe to TRP ideas because they have decided/have been told that the only "loving" and close contact they can have with another human being is if it is a girl who they are dating. And hugging their male friends or crying around them is "gay". So thus they put women on this ridiculously high pedestal as this supreme being that is the only way they will ever achieve any kind of closeness or affection from any other human being. I think a lot of problem…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 04:56 AM
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How often do you talk to or hang out with other women just in a friendly way with no expectations of a relationship or romantic involvement at all? My advice to you would be to seek out social gatherings with people who have similar hobbies to you, and speak to women there just as you would a friend, and get to know them and stuff. If upon meeting women your first opinions of them are based around forming a romantic relationship with them and nothing else, of course you're never going to view th…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 04:49 AM
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I think your best bet is to encourage him to find a hobby that involves other people, especially girls his age or women, and get him to do that more. Going out and meeting women and talking to them, especially about things he enjoys doing too, will help him to sympathize with them and realize that they're just humans like him.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/17 10:11 PM
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I would say it varies from man to man. I've met men who were more emotional than me as a woman, and I've met men who were complete robots. The counter question I have that I actually have no idea about, are there women out there who aren't very emotional and are they rare or more common than people think? Maybe the idea that men are not emotional comes from the stereotype that women are overemotional?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/17 03:10 PM
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