humaninthemaking Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
342	LVMs can turn you into pathetic pick-mes.	Story time ☕	humaninthemaking	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/22 04:58 PM
112	Been there, done that, that & that	FDS SUCCESS!	humaninthemaking	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/21 06:44 PM
78	Word soup for “don’t be a pick me”	PICKME CULTURE	humaninthemaking	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 09:50 PM
17	Ghost of an ex haunted me today	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	humaninthemaking	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 02:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	Word soup for “don’t be a pick me” I guess the flair I’ve given to this post might be misleading. It’s not at all a bad article. I was pointing out the fact that FDS principles are slowly making their way into mainstream publications such as NYT. Also, good to know that the author was getting referenced in academia. I’ll check out more of her work.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 11:08 PM
259	Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to say Annoying af! Even more so when they say the exact same thing that you did a few days later, thereby contradicting their previous stance. Morons who can’t even powerplay right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 10:04 PM
64	Word soup for “don’t be a pick me” So is NYTimes “red-pill” now? “Emba’s argument is that sexual liberation, as currently conceived, has made people, and especially women, miserable. It’s created, ironically, new strictures and secret shames, at least in certain elite milieus, around “catching feelings,” hating casual sex and having vanilla sexual tastes. One anecdote from the book illustrates the perversity, so to speak, of the current moment. Emba describes meeting a woman at a Washington party who tells her about the man she’s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 09:58 PM
7	I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌 Came here to say this 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 04:14 PM
110	What are some of the reddest red flags you’ve ever seen on a date or during a relationship? NVM said over the phone - “I once went out with someone so ugly I wouldn’t even force myself on her”. I hung up without any explanations and blocked him forever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/21 11:21 AM
12	What was your moment of clarity? His drama. He used to keep storming off after every fight no matter where we were. Once he left me alone on a beach in Goa (India) at night after an argument. After our last fight, he stormed off the house with our dog. He returned 2 days back but I shut the door on his face and never looked back. Happily divorced since 2 years now 💫	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/21 11:11 AM
3	Ghost of an ex haunted me today Totally! Blocked him everywhere.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 03:18 PM
3	Ghost of an ex haunted me today Not to mention, his receding hairline and sun damaged skin. Ugh. Can’t believe I walked into this one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 03:18 PM
2	Ghost of an ex haunted me today I agree. Lesson learnt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 03:17 PM
68	This is what happens when you marry a Scrote and do the 50/50 thing You got me at “my husband 38M and I 24F…” 🚩 🙃	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/21 05:15 PM
66	This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things. I’m that Preeti some people don’t want to hang out with. A “friend’s” LVH even mockingly once asked her to stay away from me. Two years later- I live by myself, pursuing my hobbies, leveling up in my career and swimming in 💰. She lost her job and has been under a lot of pressure from Mr Scrotey who’s now “covering her expenses too” !!! 😱	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 04:04 PM
29	Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing” Sounds exactly like a creepy old man handing out candies to kids. ☠️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 04:08 PM
8	Oops I really wish the two images were swapped after she dumps the scrote’s ass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 06:16 AM
23	I've made a new friend To me, following those ig models and OnlyFans girls itself is a huge 🚩in the first place. I’m glad OP got rid of the baggage tho ♥️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/21 06:47 AM
12	Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLD Bumble’s a worthless piece of shit. For a sec, I read the last line as “talk about it more or move IN together”. Wouldn’t put it past Bumble to suggest this too tho LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 05:43 PM
77	We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes. This sub helped me reconcile the many internal conflicts I had against my annoying old lib-fem values - 1. “Splitting things 50/50” 🛑 2. “Don’t ghost, be bigger than that” 🛑 3. “It’s ok to initiate texts / dates” 🛑 4. “It’s just sex” 🛑 5. “So what if he talks to other girls, you’re his special one” 🛑 This newfound FDS clarity in my life has elevated me so much, really. Haters gonna hate, but I’m staying right here 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 05:14 PM
17	I hate everything about this 🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 03:16 PM
14	Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselves Why is nobody talking about that magnificent crown? 👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 03:23 PM
6	Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big house They’re going down and want others to go down with them 🤷🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 09:42 AM
2	Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big house I am so in love with the vibes on this post. 💕 I’m house hunting atm and won’t settle for anything less than a 3 BR home with a big enough yard for my dog(s?)and a vegetable garden patch.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 09:38 AM
3	Celebrate with me Congratulations 🎉🎊🍾 I too got officially divorced last month but had left him 1.5 years ago. Finally the baggage is gone. Enjoy this beautiful feeling of lightness! I’m so excited for you to explore and experience things that make you happy limitlessly. ✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 01:41 PM
145	It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise. Word! The first thing that I do after a date is stalk his Instagram. 9/10 he’s following tons of other women. This guy once took me out on an expensive dinner date, complimented me and acted all sweet and charming, until I caught him staring at my boobs, while I was perusing the menu. Stalked him on IG and confirmed my hunch. Block and delete. THEY ARE ALL THE SAME.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 06:37 AM
3	The lie of "The Wall" is just male projection of loss of control over an entire population of women. Amen 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 05:12 PM
6	My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable? He lives in a house she owns He wants to buy a house together His mom is his employer He wants to live close to his friends Where does he get such audacity from? If you’re reading this, dump his ass dear!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 03:40 PM
39	The lie of "The Wall" is just male projection of loss of control over an entire population of women. “Bossy”, “hitting menopause”, “restful bitchface”, “too agro”- are some of the things thrown at me by men when I don’t comply and they just keep coming, as I’m growing older. This post makes me feel good about that 😀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 05:44 PM
1	20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this. Exactly! It would be interesting to see the number if women in long term relationships were also included in the study.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 12:48 PM
23	I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media. Calling yourself a psycho is also a form of denial. Denying yourself the right to be mad and that your partner is a douchebag to avoid making tough choices.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 12:42 PM
7	I boiled over at work I related to this so hard. You go, Queen! I work in tech too and my manager recently insulted me in front of my entire team for delaying a project. Something like "Who asked you to go seek alignment from this team x!". I was just doing my job. I immediately called him out and asked him to never ever talk to me in that tone again. The audacity!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 02:14 PM
5	Been there, done that, that & that 😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 04:18 AM
5	Been there, done that, that & that Yes there is but I’m lucky to have a progressive family who have been super supportive. I even explained FDS concepts to my mom and we spent a whole afternoon the other day categorizing the men in our extended family into NVM, LVM and HVM. It was so much fun! 😄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 04:17 AM
2	Been there, done that, that & that Thank you ❤️ we are in super lockdown mode right now and not stepping now out of our homes for anything. It’s really bad out there though 😞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 04:15 AM
9	Been there, done that, that & that This is so spot on and you’re absolutely right. He also kept using my first name in every text that he sent which was so annoying. “Take care Sara (name changed ofc)”, “Stay safe Sara”, “that’s so good to know Sara” ugh. So fake!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 04:14 AM