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humanwire/r/seduction24/07/11 06:58 PM
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What is she passionate about? What does she want out of life? What do you want out of life? Who or what inspires her? Who or what inspires you? What is she scared of?
/r/seduction12/04/17 01:03 AM
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You gain confidence by trial and error. While I agree, I'm not going to go around sleeping with girls just trying to gain confidence and make me feel better about myself. Maybe that's just me. If I like a girl, I'm already going to want to get intimate with her. I don't need to feel like I have to "lock her in" by getting her to her most vulnerable state just so she'll want to stay with me. It should just feel like the natural progression of two people who like each other.
/r/seduction09/03/13 10:57 PM
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Like we need more reasons, or "pressure" to get in her pants. While I do agree with "If you’re interested in a woman, you have to at least attempt to escalate it to sex. That intimate act isn’t only for fun, it creates a powerful and necessary bond between you.", I wouldn't put any EXTRA anxiety upon myself trying to achieve this.
/r/seduction09/03/13 07:46 PM
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I don't know anything about Android. :(
/r/seduction25/10/12 12:16 AM
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On the contrary, I have a text sound that's nothing but silence, and I set it for the girls I'm pursuing.
/r/seduction24/10/12 06:38 PM
1

Thanks for posting this. Your examples really help me see exactly what you mean.
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:36 AM
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Your describing the last girl I dated (for three months), and making me feel better about doing the same thing.
/r/seduction04/10/12 02:18 AM
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Check out this reddit post. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/10kvh6/your_thoughts_are_not_you_or_stop_listening_to/ Behind the scenes Your brain is a lazy asshole. Its only objective is to conserve as much energy as possible, and work on making sure things are going well in the short term. The very short term. This is why it seems to make more sense to skip the gym, eat a box of cookies, sit on the couch, and watch TV or play video games, than do anything else. It's easy, and you're co…
/r/seduction03/10/12 12:57 AM
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This is precisely why I don't like clubs or online dating.
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:04 AM
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I like to play the misinterpretation game. Intentionally misinterpret things she says to fuck with her and have fun. For example: You ask her "How's your day going?" She says "Oh it's great. I just finished a big project at work and I finally have a life again." (meaning she's been really busy) You respond with "So you've been a ghost all that time? What was it like not having life?" Continue with the ghost theme for a while and have fun and be silly.
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:37 PM
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Holy shit, I don't know where this came from, but this shit is gold. I think it's the missing link I've been looking for. Thank you!
/r/seduction21/07/12 07:41 AM
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I wish I could do that shit. I'm too busy being a debt slave. >:-(
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:09 AM
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This has much more use beyond seduction. Good writeup!
/r/seduction01/06/12 05:51 AM
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I like to think of Ryan Gosling in "Drive" as an introverted alpha. He's quiet the whole movie, but is still a badass and goes for what he wants. I like to use James Bond as my example of how to act. Classy, confident, flirty with women, and a badass when he needs to be.
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:36 AM
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I recently was "in state" and looking back I think it probably started by chatting with people as I went about my day. After a few people I felt good and realized I was "in state".
/r/seduction10/04/12 03:54 AM
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"The thing is, its not really about what you say, its the vibe you pass." I'll try and keep this in mind. I'm still trying to find out just how to not give a fuck.
/r/seduction08/02/12 08:01 PM
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But how do you build a basic connection, if you have nothing to talk about? I'm starting to attempt cold approaches, but I can never think of anything to open with. Once I get over that though, I'm fine (confident silences and all).
/r/seduction08/02/12 08:02 AM
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I naturally have a really deep voice and feel that my voice is so bassy and lacking it any treble that it gets lost in group conversation to the shrilly voice dudes. I need to talk extra loud, like some kind of silver-back gorilla for anyone to hear me.
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:11 PM
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I agree with the_fart_of_god above. I think it might just be travelers in general that are more down to earth.
/r/seduction29/12/11 01:22 AM
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Hmm, perhaps you are right. This is just what I've noticed from experience.
/r/seduction29/12/11 01:20 AM
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I just want to add that this Anna girl is from Australia. Her not being from the USA right off the bat makes her a million times more approachable and down to earth. I've found that girls who didn't grow up in the US are much more friendly, humble, and playful.
/r/seduction28/12/11 08:15 PM
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Fixed, thanks. I've probably written out the word "rapport" maybe one other time in my life.
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:05 AM
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I frequent a coffee shop nearly every work day, and I've asked out two girls who've worked there in the past few years. I've probably been branded "that guy" but I don't care. I see the same staff 3-4 times a week and I have short conversations when I'm not in a hurry and after a while I've gotten to know the girl I have my eye on and we develop a repertoire and some inside jokes. I look for the usual IOIs and if I'm interested I ask her out. It's easier because I see her so often and we're alre…
/r/seduction14/12/11 02:04 AM
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I watched that entire thing I don't think he came to a single point or conclusion.
/r/seduction08/12/11 08:32 PM
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Jesus... As in introvert, I don't think I could ever have a night like this. Unless of course maybe I had some cocaine, a lot of cocaine.
/r/seduction08/12/11 06:45 AM
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Wow, I never thought about it like that. You're basically saying that girls are getting approached way too often? That we're going too much for quantity and not quality (which I think is what the OP is getting at)?
/r/seduction30/11/11 04:41 AM
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Now guys will come on here and say that it’s all a numbers game – that you need to talk to 100 girls and get 20 numbers, play these little text games, and maybe get 3 dates out of it. Who has time for that shit? I have other demands on my time – I work, I study, I work out, volunteer, have hobbies, and spend time with family and friends. * THIS. I too have no time to waste. I'm glad someone has finally put into words what I've been feeling lately. This is especially true with online dating websi…
/r/seduction30/11/11 01:39 AM
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I'm saving the questions in the article and pulling them out on dates in the future. Thanks for posting!
/r/seduction09/11/11 04:10 AM
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That's what I figured. I have no problem going up to any girl and saying hello, it's just the next part that prevents me from engaging. I just gotta start doing it and getting experience and it'll eventually become easy I suppose.
/r/seduction29/10/11 09:37 PM
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Say hello, smile, and then what?
/r/seduction29/10/11 03:16 AM
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Ginger marinated Salmon from Whole Foods (or my own seasoning if I have more time to prepare it). Herbed Chicken Cous Cous. Fresh-cut green beans steamed with olive oil and seasoning salt. Either a bottle of red wine, or a 750ml bottle of Trois Pistoles beer. Everything prepared outdoors over a charcoal grill.
/r/seduction25/10/11 03:09 AM
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LOL!!!
/r/seduction25/08/11 06:50 PM
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I admire your spirit! If you can do it there, you can do it anywhere.
/r/seduction25/08/11 07:08 AM
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There's part of your problem right there. Such a shallow part of town. You either gotta have a lot of money or be really attractive. At least that's how it feels every time I go there.
/r/seduction25/08/11 06:20 AM
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Especially in their happy place!
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:19 AM
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A game changer for me was the art of Kino, which is finding small ways of touching, right from the start. This immediately makes a girl more comfortable with you and accustomed to your touch, in a subtle way, so that when you do finally go in for the first kiss, it's not so unusual for you to be suddenly touching them. I never did this at all before and it seems to work really well!
/r/seduction18/08/11 03:36 AM
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"The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place. It will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit, it is about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much can you take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done." - Rocky Balboa
/r/seduction28/07/11 01:56 AM
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"The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place. It will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit, it is about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much can you take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done." - Rocky Balboa
/r/seduction28/07/11 01:55 AM
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I embodied this exact state of mind for the first time this last weekend, naturally, without even thinking about it. I went out to shoot pool with my friends and looking back I was like what you described. There were a few girls there and I just had fun talking, kino-ing, and playing pool with them. I felt totally confident that I could have gotten one of their numbers if I wanted to, but I didn't because they weren't quite my type. The "me" from a few years ago wasn't like this at all. I was mu…
/r/seduction27/07/11 01:56 AM
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Imma have to check him out.
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:41 AM
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I'd love to do this one day, and have a girl totally bite and play back from across the room, giving me a smile and a nod. I'd just have to approach after that!
/r/seduction25/07/11 06:13 PM
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Haha, that's great. If you literally said that word-for-word I applaud your sense of humor combined with the confidence I can hear when I read that. Ideally this is exactly what I'm looking to do to, use some clever humor with confidence to get her to crack a smile and get the conversation going. That's all I need is to get through the first minute or two then I'll be fine.
/r/seduction25/07/11 06:10 PM
1

Oh my...
/r/seduction25/07/11 06:07 PM
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I agree!
/r/seduction25/07/11 06:05 PM
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I'm totally aware and assuming that if a girl isn't single that she just won't show interest or give me her number. That's just part of the game.
/r/seduction24/07/11 08:07 PM
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Haha! Perfect!
/r/seduction24/07/11 08:03 PM
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Dang, this is like....the perfect guide to pick up women. I can visualize everything, and how I would do it. I may just keep this in my phone somewhere to give me a guide on what to do. Thank you sir!
/r/seduction23/07/11 06:57 AM
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