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I had black beans!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:02 AM
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And the Johns want women with lower n counts than them… like ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:57 PM
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I mainly get approached by creepy old men (or even men who I don’t think are older enough to be creepy to hit on me but are still outside of my age preference)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:54 PM
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Someone once wrote multiple paragraphs about how I look like a nice genuine person in DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:43 PM
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You ignored me when I slid into your DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:16 PM
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I would block someone for that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:15 PM
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You will not be stopped!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:32 PM
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What happened to ok-party??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:47 PM
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The red pill collapsed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:25 PM
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Me too, hello!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:52 PM
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Yeah, my brother took my sister in law engagement ring shopping so she could pick and I think that’s a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:16 PM
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Prostitution is not good for society. Should we be subsidizing weed now instead of taxing it? It’s a (currently where I live) illegal vice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:50 PM
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So men have higher penis standards than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:47 PM
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I feel like if I were a lonely man I’d go to the nursing home to talk to the elderly or at least I’d shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:46 PM
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I got it once and I don’t even think I said anything that bad to set someone off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:43 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:18 PM
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Are they not already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:15 PM
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They give you the hot people first (if I remember correctly)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:15 PM
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I think there should be a dating app that when you join you rank people’s attractiveness and then once you do you see profiles around your same level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:50 PM
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I think it has more to do with the user base of Reddit being a bunch of nerds and not as many normies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:01 AM
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Or one who wants to get into a relationship. It is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:53 PM
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Yeah, that’s why I realized I would have better luck going for people I already know and am familiar with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:51 PM
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I already feel bad enough for firstborn daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:55 PM
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Unattractive people need to be more open to dating fellow unattractive people from what I’ve observed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:51 PM
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Nah, just no raw attraction there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:36 PM
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There’s no way it’s someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:52 PM
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He was so mad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:39 PM
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Not to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:39 PM
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I’ve stopped showing up to other places because creepy men kept bothering me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:30 PM
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Personality can definitely scare people away though (saying this as someone who was recently scared away by someone’s personality)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:15 PM
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Wait why is it funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:12 PM
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What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:55 PM
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I hate situations like that, you’re just existing and some guy wants to bother you and make you so uncomfortable you have to switch gyms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:47 PM
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Online dating takes all of the fun out of the beginning stages of meeting someone and turns it into a joyless slog. Edit to add: I can go to a bar and have fun even if I don’t meet someone, so even if I don’t get the intended results, the bar was still a good time. If I am on online dating I’m not having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:17 PM
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Therapy and forcing myself to go outside when I’m feeling under socialized makes me more confident than when I am a mentally ill shut in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:17 PM
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Weird manosphere dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:06 PM
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I would be benevolent. I like being a nice person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:31 PM
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Why are you making a bunch of new rules for my reign
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:25 PM
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I’d probably just get to know them and flirt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:22 PM
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If I liked them sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:41 PM
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I feel like I would date one of the cute court scientists after I get to know them after a while. I would try to rule fairly without violence but I am abolishing the patriarchy still
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:10 PM
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I generally assume men already know that diet and exercise could help in becoming more attractive to women. Usually I’m just trying to tailor advice to individuals under the assumption that most men already know that going to the gym could help with their luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:05 PM
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It’s obnoxious when I’m trying to go about my life and delusional grandpas think it’s time to shoot their shot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:01 PM
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As human lie detectors, women should have picked up on his character in the first millisecond of meeting him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:30 PM
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No, they’re usually weird old men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:24 PM
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Yeah because they go shopping as a chore, not because all of the items only go to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:46 PM
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How are women benefitting while men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:41 PM
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To tie your life together with someone you love and enjoy spending time with? You shouldn’t marry if you think relationships are only about sex, that’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:10 AM
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Some bisexual people have slightly different expectations for men they date than other genders, so I think it depends on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:46 AM
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So how much luck do you have there buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:32 PM
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Yeah, I would like it if he did something like volunteer once a week in his free time though since he has all of that availability
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:57 PM
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Sure, those aren’t my complaints with online dating though. I have trouble finding people I can connect with on my end too, I think meeting acquaintances and seeing if I vibe with them generally works better for me and holds my interest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:13 AM
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Idk I’m a vegan but a lot of women don’t like dead things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:17 PM
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A lot of women find the grind pointless too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:20 AM
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Idk hard work doesn’t get you anywhere anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:17 AM
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I think more young people should drop out of society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:50 PM
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Most men use porn whether or not they’re in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:34 PM
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lol this is an interesting take that I somewhat agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:32 PM
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You’re so right, only attractive people can be evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:29 PM
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Wait how are they being taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:28 PM
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A lot of other women and I would love a pony but we don’t want the government to fund that for us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:18 PM
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An ounce of personality besides liking to travel. Liking to travel isn’t a personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:57 PM
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No because when we date men they often don’t listen to or respect our boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:52 PM
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I know, but this is a Reddit space so I’m speaking to redditers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:06 PM
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No idea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:55 PM
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When I’m just going to work and back, maybe .5 times a week on average. If I’m going to social things as well or making longer commutes, maybe 1-3 times a week depending on how much I’m going out. I live in a neighborhood in a big city, 25 and I’d rate myself somewhere between 6-8
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:45 PM
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Yeah, not by that much, but imo if anything straight men should still be excited to date their percentile looks match because she’ll be more attractive to him than he is to her most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:35 PM
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What are all of the good men up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah like pick one or admit you’re a little shallow too and that’s ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:31 PM
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I’ve seen this a lot too. I think people should be allowed to find whoever they want attractive, but they probably shouldn’t complain about others not finding them attractive all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:24 PM
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I don’t think some men are. They’re saying they’re having a rough time and then pursue average women if they’re below average, or above average women when they’re average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:22 PM
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I think a lot of men are way more picky about appearance than they claim to be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:17 PM
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I needed my air conditioning set up, so my roommate did it for me. She’s a woman I know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:08 PM
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I don’t think ChatGPT is supposed to be used as a source
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:30 PM
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“I can’t believe you cheated on me!” “Well, at least I didn’t alter my nose when I fixed my deviated septum as a teen!” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:56 PM
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I would need a source for the “most men hate makeup” and maybe even one for the plastic surgery. I don’t think men are against plastic surgery if they don’t even know it’s been done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:51 PM
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Every age gap post I read here makes me even more turned off by the old men that hit on me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:41 PM
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Yeah I’d say class background is a bigger deal in dating a lot of times than just salary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:20 PM
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Women don’t agree on what a good life is, but they’re generally able to know their own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:48 PM
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I wouldn’t care that much if it didn’t involve so much paperwork. Otherwise, I just think couples should take the last name of whoever has the cooler name. I think sharing a last name can be a nice way of signifying that you are a family unit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:26 PM
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I would rather be shot than be pursued by someone with commitment or loyalty issues again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:44 PM
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Just like how a lot of porn insecure women compromise with their partners by making porn with their partner, I think a lot vibrator insecure men should make homemade vibrators for their partners using a mold of their penis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:13 PM
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How come no one gave my ex the memo before he dumped me even while I was meeting his stated conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:27 PM
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If I was a furry Celestia from mlpfim would be my fursona probably idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah, it’s a little hypocritical of me because I’m vegan but picky eaters annoy me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:35 PM
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I get to spend Monday with my kinda bf! Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:30 PM
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I have long hair and don’t even notice myself flipping it, but apparently others do? Am I a diva now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:34 PM
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Glad she was nice I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:41 PM
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I’m reading about mono-poly relationships. I would rather be euthanized
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:40 PM
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Does anyone know anyone irl who “passport bro”ed? I know someone who I suspect might’ve gotten with his ex wife with that sort of goal, but idk for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:04 PM
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I feel like that could be incorporated into the game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:06 PM
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The only thing that would get me back on online dating is if they made a club penguin-like game where you get on a server full of hot singles in your area and choose people on how they dress their penguin avatars and how well they can coordinate people to tip the iceberg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:57 PM
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I’d rather be left than a person on rotation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:18 PM
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What about guys who go into the encounter being dishonest about their intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:40 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@thecourtfort/video/7506563065157143851?_t=ZP-8wZgdrOvlAU&_r=1 what do you guys think about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:27 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:25 PM
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I wish I could figure out how to share TikTok’s without sharing my username
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:10 PM
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How can you be an incel if you could find a way to get a polycule to hook up with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:10 PM
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Someone is a fake leftist to me if they aren’t both
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:56 PM
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A lot of people consider self identified incels to be weird freaks too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:55 PM
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If incels read a bunch of leftist theory and get into stuff that poly people are into and no one knows about their incel-identifying past, a group of people dating each other might be willing to add someone to the group
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:40 PM
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Im so performative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:38 PM
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I’m thinking about one specific person I know because she annoys me so much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:38 PM
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I judge people who call themselves leftists and criticize their partner for not making enough (even though their partners make enough to take care of themselves). Doesn’t make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:23 PM
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Exactly, so they might fit right in if their problem is their appearance. Also the poly people I’ve met are often neurodivergent too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:10 PM
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IMO if some of the incels here scrub their pasts and take about a year to read some theory there might be some polycules who would accept them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:06 PM
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He’s my on again off again bf and I am a little stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:34 PM
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There’s a statistic that is thrown around here a lot that a lot more young women are in relationships than young men People think there might be different reasons for the gap (age gaps, queer relationships), but one may be that women are self reporting that they are in a relationship while their partners are calling themselves single. I would tell someone on a survey I’m not single but I think my partner would say he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:18 PM
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I probably am one of the young women who would probably put that she’s in a relationship while her partner puts that he’s not (skewing that statistic that more young men are single than young women) 😭 but he might make the cutoff for old, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:56 PM
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Could be more queer women who are dating, women more likely to say they’re in a relationship than their partners for example
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:41 PM
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Tempeh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:54 PM
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People ignoring evidence that goes against the argument that the poor men are discriminated against because people aren’t fucking them? In this subreddit? So surprising lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:54 PM
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I think the talking everyday and not being friends with exes are the only ones I agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:01 PM
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https://www.npr.org/2025/02/17/1263527043/its-been-a-minute-male-loneliness-epidemic-real How is it a male loneliness epidemic when men and women are almost equally reporting loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:00 PM
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Does anyone else here have parents that are happily together?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:27 PM
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No, part of being a good parent is showing what healthy relationships look like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:27 PM
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If there’s no damage, the person would probably not care enough to have someone check the cameras
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:26 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could force myself to believe in religion to be able to find a spouse more easily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:16 PM
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Where would you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:15 PM
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Ranked obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:11 PM
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I’m pretty good at rubbing my own bean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:03 PM
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Aw, that is sweet (I think?) gotta love free pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:44 PM
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In my culture it generally implies a deeper level of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:36 PM
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Is the “new friends” thing something someone can filter like gender or age, or is it a filter people have to pay for like height or political affiliation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:35 PM
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I like the idea of two people having the mindset of being committed to each other and aiming for the goal of forever together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:19 PM
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Yeah, the forever part is what makes me interested in marriage too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:12 PM
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Just no getting attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:11 PM
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Same here. I would prefer happy solitude over either a relationship doomed to end from the beginning or one that would leave me unsatisfied with the level of commitment for the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:06 PM
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For people who date to marry: if a fortune teller (in this scenario let’s say the fortune teller is 100% right) told you that you would never marry, would you give up on dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:59 PM
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I haven’t been on the apps in a while, but for some reason I kept getting a bunch of likes from poly people on hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:51 PM
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Why don’t dating apps automatically let you pick monogamy or polyamory as filters in the same way they filter by gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:37 PM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:15 PM
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Does she get free stuff in certain places like cities, or is this small to medium sized town stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:15 PM
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I’m not asking for instructions, I’m just curious what they think a woman has to do to receive the fancy gifts guys here assume women get all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah like I don’t see that happening to any of my friends who are also above average either though (also I don’t bum for cigs anymore, I’ve learned to chill out my drunk nicotine cravings)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:12 PM
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Sounds like you’re raking in that free stuff, so generous of him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:10 PM
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I’ve been offered a few free drinks back when I frequented bars, sometimes people of any gender give me a cigarette if I ask for one, and a guy who worked at a food court by one of my old jobs started giving me free lunches after I wore mascara to work one day. It was right before I moved and got a new job, though, so I’m not sure how long that would’ve lasted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:54 PM
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What do you have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:48 PM
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Yeah, the way guys here describe it I thought we were supposed to be handed free stuff out of nowhere without asking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:45 PM
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Do I just ask for free stuff when I’m on the dating app? Most dudes I’ve been on dates from online will also split the check
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:44 PM
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How much free stuff do you guys think the above average (but not model hot) woman in her twenties gets? I would describe myself as that and I’ve barely gotten any free stuff. I feel like I’m missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:35 PM
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I feel like it has more to do with the fact that she’s asking strangers to record her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:24 PM
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I think “only people who have experienced ego death on psychedelics” is an equally stupid statement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:15 PM
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Same except for I am not normal. It’s so hard to meet people and once you go on a date to get commitment (yes, even from “ugly” balding men) imo idek
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:08 PM
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I would be ruder to them to make them go away if I wasn’t afraid of being attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:56 PM
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Depends on their reasoning and if they would buy my new wardrobe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:49 PM
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Why don’t you tell the old men that they can approach you the.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:48 PM
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Exactly. I get so mad when I think I am being stopped by an old man to be asked for directions and they start asking me where I live and shit and if I want to go on a date. It’s just gross idc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:47 PM
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I’ve had an older woman hit on me too and I also think it’s weird and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:43 PM
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dont you understand? theyre just sad old men who want a hot lady to keep them company. I’m young and hot so I should be free game to approach without any judgement!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:40 PM
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Because they keep trying to date strangers via instagram I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:32 PM
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Is my mom approaching men my age who are minding their own business in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:31 PM
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I’m just surprised that would work on anyone unless they happen to be super attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:00 PM
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Defamation requires a false statement of fact. Calling someone creepy is an opinion based statement. If I said “old man Joe is creepy and hit on mid twenties me even though he’s 65” I would just be stating my opinion on the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:00 PM
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How is that defamation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:57 PM
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I hate it when people are like “noooo hungrychick404, you can’t call that man older than your dad a creep for hitting on you! He’s just a lonely old man and your prefrontal cortex is fully developed! It’s totally legal!” Calling gramps a creep is legal too though…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:51 PM
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I have an instagram and I’ve gotten propositioned a few times, but it’s always by people I have met in real life (not random strangers)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:45 PM
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Yeah, I have to take breaks from here because I can get negative feelings towards men. I have to remind myself that the opinions here are held by a minority of men and plenty of men are good people who don’t hate me just for my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:43 PM
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How many of you guys actually use instagram to flirt with strangers you haven’t met before? I keep seeing online people talk about finding people or cheating with random people who they follow on instagram, but I don’t know anyone in my real life who uses instagram like a dating app. Is this just something that younger gen z does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:29 PM
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Pretty much every man you know is stupid then and have fragile egos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:35 PM
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I think it’s most people, that’s why I didn’t specify gender
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:34 PM
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I think most of the men on here want to be Chad while they complain about all women’s supposed promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:29 PM
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Idk, I don’t see multiple people romantically at the same time personally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:26 PM
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Rosters and sleeping with multiple people at a time while looking for something serious is part of what ruins modern dating. Especially if you don’t let people know beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:18 PM
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I think younger people are more against diamonds because of blood diamonds though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:17 PM
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Left because he’s younger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:15 PM
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If you think “husband material” is offensive, you’re stupid and don’t know what monogamous people are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:14 PM
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Protein. I’ve been trying to gain weight but avoid the stomach area, and it helps to build muscle in places I want to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:12 PM
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Idk someone who is a friendly nerd not exactly the beauty standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:15 PM
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So cruel! So mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:15 PM
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No, I think they just cast a wide net/have a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:39 PM
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You guys mislead me so much. Every time I try to give a nice guy a chance they happen to be more promiscuous than the hot guys I’ve tried dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:34 PM
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Thanks ❤️🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:15 PM
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It sucks because I find other men to be so boring 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:15 PM
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I think I’m compassionate and a good listener. I like to help cheer people up and listen to them if they don’t want to be cheered up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:14 PM
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Accurate sadly, but I know some women cheat too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:11 PM
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I think I handle loneliness better than heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:11 PM
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I have no idea what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:08 PM
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I’ve been cheated on before and my self esteem tanked for a while. I don’t want to risk that again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:08 PM
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I like my men a little depressed (because they can relate to me), but not in a doomcel way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:04 PM
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Found out the guy who I’ve been talking to has cheated twice during his previous relationships. For some reason it’s always the kinda nerdy guys who don’t seem like the type to do that (from my experience, I know other types do that and those are the type of guys I usually like)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:00 PM
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I don’t see neoteny as the pinnacle of beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:01 PM
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I feel like this helped with me. My face is slimmer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 PM
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You find 16 year olds attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:12 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:08 PM
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So I don’t care about the wall you guys just want women to feel bad about aging
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:32 PM
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I look better at almost 25 than I did at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:31 PM
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I knew a girl in college who told me she tried out Fet life. She was interested in a specific but moderately common kink, and she told me she wasn’t able to find many men in her age range besides an out of state guy. I didn’t get too many more details, but I was surprised she couldn’t find someone more local
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:52 AM
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Sex can get someone pregnant and spread STIs. Massages don’t generally do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:04 AM
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From the way you describe sex I’d say that’s a red flag for a lot of people. Sex is a lot different from a massage. You generally aren’t going to be traumatized from giving a massage, but I know some traumatized sex workers and former sex workers. I personally would never date someone who has paid for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:41 PM
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Because they want you to make the move if interest is shown, not if she sees the whole thing as platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:08 PM
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Where are you getting this idea? Do you have any data to back up your claim, or is this just how you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:52 PM
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Why is someone stupid for taking someone at their word? How should they weed out the liars when they barely know the person on the other end because they’re strangers on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:51 PM
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Getting tricked into thinking someone is single in a place meant for single people to meet each other and someone getting tricked into thinking Only Fans models like them on a porn site are two very different scenarios like electric icy said. The comparison makes no sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:50 PM
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There’s a subset of insecure women who are attracted to married men, but a lot of women are tricked into thinking the man is single. You might be in some weird circles if all women around you go for married men, because that is not what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:40 PM
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It’s weird if she doesn’t dance when going out with him, but who tf twerks casually at home? If she’s not twerking ON someone, who cares, she’s having fun and dancing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:56 PM
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lol women also work hard jobs like medical care? That certainly keeps society functioning. It’s almost like people’s value to society is independent of gender!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:00 AM
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1,205 women died due to maternal causes in the US in 2021, 4,781 men died due to workplace accidents in 2021 US, 448 women died due to workplace accidents in 2021 in the US. I think lives sacrificed to keep civilizations running isn’t a good way to measure who has it worse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:58 PM
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Guys working in those jobs aren’t doing that to keep civilization afloat either 😭they do it for a paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:53 PM
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Idk, if it went poorly there could be drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:52 PM
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They die in childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:51 PM
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I can’t tell you for sure because I’m young, but maybe that’s like a 90s thing that used to happen but doesn’t happen anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:47 PM
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Have you ever had a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:44 PM
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It’s almost like women also risk their lives to keep civilization afloat! Wow, maybe all genders make good contributions to society!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:42 PM
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How bad is it to date a coworker who works in a different department/building? There’s this coworker my other coworkers have been teasing me about who they think was flirting with me and he’s kinda cute but he was only training with us for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:40 PM
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I’d say it’s the goal of the majority of men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:00 PM
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I know, women are so scheming and evil smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:04 AM
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I know, so evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:57 PM
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That’s kind of thoughtful of you though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:35 PM
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Me, a woman (evil), wearing a push up bra to bamboozle all of the innocents into thinking I have larger boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:28 PM
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Those loser doctors and lawyers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:29 PM
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That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:29 PM
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He had a video about how finding a girlfriend isn’t a manageable goal but things like going to the gym twice a week is, and I think that is good advice to let go of the expectation and find different goals that are more dependent on things that are in your control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:15 PM
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Wow, I thought I was going to expire!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:46 PM
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I’m so down to meet some cute nuns
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:03 PM
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I’ll name her Ms Whiskers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:02 PM
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I’m about to be 25, will I be a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:49 PM
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I think most people on this subreddit of any gender could benefit from watching or listening to Healthy Gamer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:40 PM
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But aren’t women less open to being approached on dating apps too these days? I’ve heard dating app usage is going down, especially with women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:05 AM
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I’ve been to something similar recently and I think it’s a good place for women to go to meet people, but the gender ratio is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:53 PM
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They’re being cucked by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:03 PM
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Have fun! Just remember it’s similar to N count for some women but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:04 AM
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Irl sex is so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:03 AM
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If technology stopped working you’d probably watch in a corner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:02 AM
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Men who watch porn are cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:43 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:24 PM
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How does stating that men are more shallow than women imply that women don’t care about looks? Do you hear “women generally need more sleep than men” and think men don’t have to sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:15 PM
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Just realized I missed my 3 year singleversary yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:55 PM
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I wish there were more hobbies for adults besides over consuming. Why does it feel like half of my conversations with friends and acquaintances is about their shopping habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:55 AM
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Go to another church if you’ve already exhausted the pool of singles at your current one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:08 PM
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Why are the responses to this so mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:26 PM
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Go 2 church
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:21 PM
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Well women don’t find that respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:13 PM
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Shouldn’t you save all of the repeats for the kissless virgin because they wouldn’t probably be hearing any repeats since they’ve never had a kiss?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:22 AM
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How can I love somebody if they’ve said the same thing to 200 other people? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:55 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:22 AM
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Alright, this has convinced me to never settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:22 AM
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I think they’re sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:20 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:19 AM
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Anything with dead animals is a huge no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:35 AM
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I want to get a tattoo of Petey Piranha on my arm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:35 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:20 AM
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Loser behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:13 PM
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Nah, more bumble and hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah, that’s why I try to meet people irl more than on apps. Having apps doesn’t mean I can’t also meet people irl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:52 PM
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Yeah, but who tf has time to go on dates with 50 people? Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:51 PM
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Until they learn about what my unmedicated adhd entails! That’s why I like it when people read my profile first
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:59 PM
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Idk, I’d like to say my profile still gives a bit of an idea that I’m a bit of a nerd who is a little disorganized, but I might have to check out the 8 swipes a day app And I agree, I think it’s really unromantic too. Ideally I’d meet people through friends, but I don’t have too many in my city currently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:58 PM
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Hinge gives out one rose per week (hinge’s version of a superlike) so I just hope the people who give me roses are just using their weekly rose on me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:56 PM
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Yes, but if they’re liking fifty people a day, it still gives me the ick because I want someone who wants me rather than being ok with 50 people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:52 PM
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It’s a special like that shows extra interest. People either get only a few of them to give out or they have to pay for them. I would be less impressed if someone paid for them rather than using their one super like a week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:51 PM
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It’s a special like that shows extra interest. People either get only a few of them to give out or they have to pay for them. I would be less impressed if someone paid for them rather than using their one super like a week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:50 PM
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Commit a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:45 PM
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I’ve decided to only take super swipes from men seriously these days, cause I know they hand right swipes out like candy on Halloween. I like people who show extra interest in me instead of settling for whoever will swipe right on them back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:43 PM
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I only whine and cry because I want to show that dating sucks for everyone not just men. He probably just wanted something casual too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:37 AM
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The guy who hit on me at work waited until after hours to ask again outside my building. I feel bad and I don’t think he meant to be creepy but like ahhhhh that is just so awkward. I hate rejecting people. It makes me feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:25 AM
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Yeah, it made it awkward for both me and him. I avoided the question around his friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:29 AM
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Oh noooo, a potential client at the place I work at recognized me from dating apps and asked for my number. I ended up telling him I don’t give out my number at work and it was the most awkward exchange ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:37 PM
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As a blonde, guys who think like this and are that obsessed with blondes like this are a red flag to me and seem kind of racist, plus people often like to be seen as more than their hair color
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:42 PM
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So stylish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:43 PM
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Bruh, how do you think real men compare to LEVI fucking ACKERMAN?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:24 PM
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As long as I get sex robots too. Maybe one male looking robot and one female looking one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:23 PM
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The shape and length is a little frumpy for my tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:21 PM
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I judge people for falling so easily for stupid trends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:19 PM
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I would be mildly jealous of them, but also happy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:17 PM
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It makes me so sad/angry when old men check me out when they’re with their wives. So terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:16 PM
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All the weed I smoke still hasn’t induced it yet. I may be doomed to fail at schitzo-maxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:14 PM
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I’m an aunt to my rooommate’s cat but she isn’t home half of the week, so the cat is starting to like me better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:12 PM
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Yeah, I get the manipulative part too. I would feel wrong exchanging sex for resources on a personal level. And just remember, OLD is designed to keep you on it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:12 PM
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I can find plenty of people who want to stick their dicks in me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:31 PM
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I’m going to start moping around and blaming everyone else too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:27 PM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:48 PM
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I’ve already started getting back to drinking more than I want to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:26 PM
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That is true. I try to stay hopeful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:25 PM
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Life is so long and it kills me to wonder if I might spend the rest of it alone, but I could honestly have some fun as a cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:20 PM
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I’m going to start doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:17 PM
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They had no idea what I looked like, only that I was a woman whose kink was taking money from men. And honestly that sounds kind of sad, I’m glad you chose not to take her offer. Maybe I’m a girl but that would make me feel sad and undesired
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 PM
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Male privilege is not being a good parent to your kids yet getting credit for being “not a deadbeat”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:08 PM
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I think it’s because I’m a side sleeper
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:08 PM
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I made a joke on Yik yak back in the day that my kink was men giving me money and one man reached out and offered to give me money but I felt too bad to accept
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:03 PM
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I don’t go to the gym but shirts are flowy and I can imagine them getting caught on the equipment or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:01 PM
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You only started hating us once you started caring about sex? Sounds like an average ppd man experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:59 PM
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Idk any old ppl ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:58 PM
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Yeah I only was there for like an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:13 AM
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Oh I went home like a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:40 AM
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Idk what that means but I think I look alright
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:49 AM
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Oh my god when they’re gentle with animals 😍😍😍♥️💙💗🖤💛💞
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:19 AM
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Two tiers below maybe idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:17 AM
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Men who are good with children >>>. I don’t even want kids but like idk maybe it’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:14 AM
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If they’re flirting I’m gonna be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:12 AM
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Aw shucks. No u
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:11 AM
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I wish the problem was my face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:07 AM
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Lmao y’all need to stop thinking only people of a certain body type can be hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:06 AM
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I know, but I know that I’m cute so I choose not to be offended
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:52 PM
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I went to a bar for an hour and no one approached a lonely woman to give her company!!!! Female privilege is FAKE and I am so lonely tbh but at least I proved y’all wrong so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:48 PM
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I think my sad and lonely face got mixed up with my bitch who hates everyone face unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:47 PM
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I’m at the bar rn and no one has been speaking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:19 PM
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I pullled out the big card
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:17 PM
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No hate though! Just would probably clash with my personality a little
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:18 PM
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I just get sad around smart people who use their brains to funnel more money into shitty corporations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:14 PM
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It depends on the date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:09 PM
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A cool degree that isn’t something like finance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:09 PM
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Being able to pick up grad students at bars or not determines the difficulty of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:08 PM
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I look cute today. Might go to the neighborhood dive bar and pick up a nice grad student (after I get off work)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:01 PM
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So it was technically a “cute” version of the Waluigi outfit with no mustache, but the people seem to like it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:47 AM
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I’m getting so many more super likes with my waluigi costume on my profile. A lot of hinge people telling me they have a Waluigi kink now. Didn’t know waluigi was popular like that, but he is pretty sexy, so I guess it makes sense (also is attracting more nerds, which is nice)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:22 AM
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I’ve been tempted to write erotica. Readers are more forgiving of grammar and plot errors, plus it makes a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:56 PM
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No we don’t, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:55 PM
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So true, I always forget to include the random old men on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:34 PM
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Keep the romance alive and remember to “preheat the oven” if you want your “food warmed”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:12 PM
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Oh… I guess I meant looking for a third. I haven’t seen any MM or FF couples looking for a third (at least for women, I am not a man so haven’t seen the other side as much)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:27 AM
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I meant opposite sex couples… oops
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:15 AM
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And saved for the last picture 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:14 AM
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Why are unicorn hunters always opposite sex couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:55 AM
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I black out at like 5-7 shots worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:17 AM
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He looks like his pics are edited
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:16 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:09 AM
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I’m sorry for your pain even though it’s kind of funny ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:08 AM
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What’s she supposed to do, call herself ugly if she’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:44 AM
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I don’t remember a specific example, but the men on this sub don’t know what a dump actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:41 AM
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It’s projection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:13 AM
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Plenty of women say size matters. Not to every woman , though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:58 PM
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Asexual people also desire things like money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:58 PM
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You know skinny people can also get hungry, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:56 PM
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Nah, they’re going to go to the buffet with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:53 PM
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Wow, pretty edgy! Glad you have someone though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:51 PM
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Awww, so sweet. Glad there’s someone out there who’ll keep the JP guys from becoming incels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:40 PM
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Yeah, it’s almost like being “red pilled” is unappealing to most women! Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:36 PM
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I would be pretty annoyed then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:10 PM
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If it’s a class for university, I would accept the reschedule. It’s the beginning of the school year for a lot of people, so maybe they didn’t have their class schedule yet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:09 PM
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Secrets are fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:08 PM
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Idk, you seem pretty angry with women, but not as bad as some people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:07 PM
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No, I don’t remember who that is tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:44 PM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:43 PM
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Very dual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:43 PM
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Ooooh are you down to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:15 PM
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It’s a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:15 PM
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If all of the PPD guys were in my city, I feel like I would actually be able to date one of them. But besides him, most of you guys are scary and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:54 PM
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Probably the brown bear based on weight, but maybe the Siberian tiger if it has a sneak advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:53 PM
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How can people tell if they’re attractive or just approachable looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:32 AM
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I like introverts with a vivid inner world and extroverts with a vivid inner world. I guess it depends on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:18 PM
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I personally don’t want to make someone else pay for everything on a date. However, I don’t want a man who seems stingy with his money. I would rather be in a relationship where we can treat each other generously while not nickel and diming each other. While I like to offer to split the check, I have asked people out on dates and paid for both of us because I was the asker, so I don’t see much wrong with wanting to treat someone that you chose to take out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:16 PM
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I think some of the stereotype might have to do with the fact that women are more likely to be the household shoppers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:50 PM
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Can you provide a source with the literature?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:48 PM
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Yeah, that’s gotta suck for them. But it’s definitely not other people’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:50 PM
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Idk why incels get mad at Stacy for rejecting them for Chad when everyone’s just trying to get with the hottest person they can get. It’s not like the incel wants the below average looking girl either. He would reject the ugly girl for Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:09 PM
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He would also reject Beth for Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:06 PM
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hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:50 PM
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That’s number 11 for me. I’m not too much of a lone traveler
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:19 PM
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I can get it for free (feeeeeemail privilege)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:10 PM
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See? It’s not that hard to just answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:09 PM
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Like it is pretty personal? You personally spend a lot of your time at work. I don’t give a fuck about where people work or how much money they make, but it’s just a conversation topic, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:05 PM
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It’s number 8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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How dare people ask you how you spend 40+ hours a week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:01 PM
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If there’s no way to tell, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:49 PM
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Because people also need to be educated for after they get married and we don’t want all of the unwanted pregnancies from people who do want to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:31 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:29 PM
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It was better than I expected for a red state. I mainly got info on STIs and birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:26 PM
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My dream job is to be a court jester
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:24 PM
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They want me to handle stuff that isn’t really in the job description but aren’t explaining well what needs to be done. I’ve given a couple of residents incorrect information because idk what to do. It’s my first office job and so frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:54 PM
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I hate working like how come I get no actual training and I have to figure shit out with no background or instructions? Do all jobs not train or did I just get stuck with jobs that have shitty training?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:37 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:38 PM
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They just know! Without sources or anything! They must be geniuses!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:28 PM
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I can’t ever see why anyone would want to cheat on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:25 PM
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Idk, maybe to get money from the creator fund
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:23 PM
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Pro-life people just don’t give a fuck if pregnant people die, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:22 PM
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Wow, you set a trap and these evil women didn’t fall for it! Maybe next time you will expose their wicked ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:01 PM
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What did I get from imagining all of that? Cheating on your spouse is bad, including with a celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:14 PM
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I just try to treat everyone nicely in public spaces, so it is weird to me when people are grumpy at me for no actual reason. Not because I think they all want to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:05 PM
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How are men more likely to honor the 90 day rule? And I thought you were trying to convince people to do the 90 day rule in the first place, not trying to convince people to stick with it if they claim to follow the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:24 PM
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Maybe we should police men’s sexualities more if we are trying to get rid of whores. They’re the ones on the internet shouting about how they want sex all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:09 PM
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I encourage them to shoot their shot if I think they are likely to succeed. If they are going for someone I don’t think will reciprocate, I just don’t say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:17 PM
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Fuck I wish there was a way to objectively see how attractive I am
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:32 PM
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Don’t let them know you have a thing for blondes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:29 PM
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Colleges usually care, but it depends on which colleges you aim for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:22 PM
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Yep, and she became the most decorated gymnast in World Championships history!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:21 PM
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It depends on the grade inflation at your school
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:17 PM
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Idk who Simone bile’s husband is but I sure do know who Simone bile is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:17 PM
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Oh I think she meant movie theaters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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Damn, they can’t wait a single year? Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:34 PM
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Get some VR goggles and a good fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:33 PM
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You want pity sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:29 PM
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I hope so too. I am just trying to exist in this world like everyone else. The fact that I’m an attractive woman shouldn’t advantage nor disadvantage me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:07 PM
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I’ve flirted for free drinks before. Does that count? Coworkers have hit on me before, but it’s never affected my work load and I haven’t gotten promoted Also, is the fact that cute girls blow up on tiktok their faults, or the fault of all of the people liking videos with pretty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:00 PM
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Yeah, there are no bows or anything on a fucking Stanley cup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:05 PM
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Gen Alpha is evil istg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:47 PM
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They’re usually just funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:46 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:27 PM
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I wish I was some childless millennial’s housecat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:08 PM
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I actually just need to get my shit together and be better at cleaning. Also gotta change my style to look more gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:04 PM
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It really depends imo. I know plenty of attractive women with less attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:59 PM
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Unfortunately for me, I’m not as popular with the ladies as I am the men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:57 PM
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Ok, so any guy who has ever been in a relationship is a Chad, got it. So I shouldn’t chase anyone because they will one day become Chad if I dare them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:42 PM
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And the reason isn’t because they weren’t Chads, it’s because they treated me poorly and one was flirting with his buddy’s ex (yes, ugly guys can cheat too)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:39 PM
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The bread is actually pain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:32 PM
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Why don’t you guys believe that women have dated non-Chads before? If a woman dates someone, they automatically turn into a Chad? Like I didnt want to say it because it’s rude, but one of my last boyfriends was a shy guy who was in discord groups and the other was a little more charismatic than the first, but my friends considered him unattractive. I can attract people in “higher leagues” these days, but I don’t automatically go with them just because they’re high status. You guys make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:32 PM
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He’s pan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:00 PM
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He has other options besides women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:51 PM
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Who ever said I dated Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:51 PM
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I don’t think society would collapse if any one individual stopped working, or else there would be an apocalypse any time someone important dies or retires. If a large number of women took the week off, a lot of things would close and not run optimally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:47 PM
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Reading this, I’ve realized I’ve had long relationships, but no successful ones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:44 PM
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I mean, I would hope it would be his choice too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:43 PM
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I have a job too, this society is also being maintained on my back and the backs of many other women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:41 PM
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Because I’m an adult and swearing on the internet is not against the rules, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:36 PM
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Should I go on a date with this grad student from bumble? He seems cool and nerdy, which I like. But I am also socially anxious and haven’t been chatting with him for long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:35 PM
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When the fuck has a man had to fight for me or defend me? Men can cook and clean, just say you don’t want to cook or clean. I don’t like cooking or cleaning either, but I do that because I need to feed myself and live in a habitable environment as a grown ass adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:31 PM
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They get mad when women start to imitate their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:19 AM
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I was trying my best to not be rude about it but like goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:18 AM
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A conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:13 AM
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I guess that’s fair. I don’t know if I would consider them to be mermaids, but I’m sure there are some weird, undiscovered animals in our oceans
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:46 PM
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My coworker doesn’t believe in dinosaurs. He believes in mermaids, though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:30 PM
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I’d probably move to a small, religious town for the best options. You would’ve loved my hometown where plenty of people want to keep their virginities for a while and girls break up with guys for watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:25 PM
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Lol not my roommate saying she understands why people cheat when my last relationship ended because of that and hurt me a lot 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:07 AM
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I’m 24 though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:47 AM
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That is true, I guess I meant to say I’m surprised it turned into a trend because there are some more conservative people who say stuff like that all the time, but still understandable to be offended
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:42 AM
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Why are so many people so offended by the modest wedding dress woman saying that “immodest brides” were ugly? They wouldn’t last an hour in a smaller town in a red state
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:25 AM
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I would feel so comfortable around him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:07 AM
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I have a huge crush on Mychal the librarian from tiktok for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:52 AM
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A-line is so classy imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:50 AM
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I think I would think it’s actually very cute, but I wouldn’t be mad if it didn’t happen (I think). But idk, it’s been a hot minute since I’ve thought about potentially marrying someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:49 AM
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It’s always an amazing feeling when you can find one you can get hundreds of hours of playtime on so you don’t have to search for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:47 AM
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That would be super cute. Would it be more form fitting or a line?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:44 AM
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No, cause I don’t think I would cry seeing my imaginary wife walking down the aisle, so I’m not doing those double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:42 AM
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That’s why indie games are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:38 AM
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As long as I get to take pictures in a super fancy dress (and my spouse too if they are a dress type of person)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:38 AM
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Yeah, I definitely think it’s possible for men to put themselves in a woman’s shoes still!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:36 AM
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Idk, maybe Jean Valjean from Les Miserables or Truman from the Truman Show. For some reason I can’t think of too many examples of any gender right now. In my opinion, it’s probably easier for women to see themselves in male characters than vise versa, as most media is pretty male-centric (movies with female protagonists are seen as “girl movies” while movies with male protagonists are just movies)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:53 AM
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I mainly use ig for people I’m already friends or acquaintances with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:39 AM
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I already missed day 1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:35 AM
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Do people hook up with strangers, or is it a way to facilitate things with people they already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:35 AM
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I just think it’s a weird thing to do, especially to a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:33 AM
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Who the fuck am I freeloading off of rn though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:31 AM
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It’s so wild to me that people think of IG as a hookup app
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:18 AM
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I feel like it always devolves into sending shitty selfies back and forth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:16 AM
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I know, I probably just wish I had more vacation days or just worked part time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:15 AM
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Living the dream. I would feel a bit bad if I was just freeloading and not doing anything off of someone else’s dime, though. But maybe if they were cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:06 AM
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I can’t sell my soul and marry an old crusty 😭 I still believe that one day I may find love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:50 PM
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Exactly, the haircut test weeds out the weak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:44 PM
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Sleeping whenever I wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:42 PM
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I felt like society benefited from me being unemployed more than it benefited from me working at my last job, but calling it a sabbatical probably sounds better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:42 PM
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I miss being unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:26 PM
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Builds character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:25 PM
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I personally have no desire for that sort of dominance over others and would prefer a world of cooperation and no fighting, but I can’t say that every woman thinks similar to me. I might like to fantasize about outsmarting someone trying to attack me, but it’s not something that happens all that often
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:01 PM
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Telling kids that sometimes someone might have two mommies or two dads is not grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:38 PM
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Good on you for working on that, I know it’s hard for some people to do with all of the influencers and advertising that surrounds us these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:37 PM
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I probably don’t relate to a lot of male characters (I haven’t seen Breaking Bad, but I doubt I would wish to be Walter White), but I imagine myself as some male characters. It depends on how relatable the characters are to me. I feel the same way with female characters. If they have a life I would like to emulate, I could imagine myself in their shoes, but if they don’t, I just see them as a character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:27 PM
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When I was younger and less experienced, men who approached me who were even just three years older terrified me (wasn’t trying to be mean, they just made me really anxious). I can’t see someone of a younger age liking older men because some of them “just didn’t get a chance to get experience earlier”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:23 PM
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I’m going to go out of my way to meet people more this year. I might also start doing some squats and going back to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:02 PM
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I hope so! That would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:56 PM
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Third wheeling my roommate and her partner at a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:05 PM
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Unpopular opinion: I don’t like kissing that much. Noses get in the way, it’s a little gross to put your mouth on someone else’s mouth, and people get mad at you if you don’t like French kissing (which is even worse, imo). No, I don’t feel differently with Chad. His kissing skills are even worse. But if anyone is going to offer me a new year’s kiss, I’m not going to turn them down if they’re cute
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:04 PM
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It’s backfiring, I have dedicated 2024 to me gaining so much weight to personally offend you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:30 PM
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Does walking twice a day count? I use public transportation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:01 PM
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I wish I could dress cute and wear pretty dresses everywhere without any occasion to dress for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:00 PM
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I wouldn’t want my son jerking it to random women on the internet and commenting horny shit under their pictures, but you just can’t stop some people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:59 PM
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I don’t want my nudes out on the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:57 PM
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I don’t think it’s empowering nor disempowering. I’m neutral about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:40 PM
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Thot daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:19 PM
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I probably wouldn’t suggest it, most women would think it’s weird if you pretended to be gay (at least women I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:17 PM
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So true, that’s why I’m not saying that I 100% know for sure they’re a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:11 PM
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Nah, it’s just that there’s a little something about most of their posts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:07 PM
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Women have plenty of their own struggles with dating, just because men would swipe right on anyone on tinder doesn’t mean women see it as a good thing either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:07 PM
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I just saw your edit, but it generally takes me a bit to open up to men at bars because they sometimes think that because I was willing to converse with them that I am down to go home with them or that they have permission to grope me. I would just remember that all women have different levels of comfort and try not to take it way too personally. Hope things go well for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:04 PM
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If I’m in the middle of talking to someone or they come on too strong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:57 PM
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Whatever you say, buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:54 PM
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When I go places in public, I generally try to keep to myself. If I go to a bar or something, I’m generally more open to meeting people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:52 PM
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Yes (there’s a lot wrong with what you said)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:46 PM
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I mainly see men claiming that women don’t have enough empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:57 PM
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No, you’re just salty and want to take your anger out on women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:54 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:53 PM
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Do women go around claiming they’re the empathetic gender or do you just think they are because your mother was empathetic to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:45 PM
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You pushed them away with your infidelity and wondering why previous women rejected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:39 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:36 PM
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No, but we have rolls somewhere? I fucking love bread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:34 PM
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Aren’t red flags important to notice so women won’t end up with drug dealers and ex convicts? Isn’t it good for women to notice those so they can “choose better”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:33 PM
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I’m not trying to be attractive, I’m trying to spite Reddit user AutomaticMeaning3844
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:31 PM
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Lol the whole “HVM” “LVM” thing is so stupid to me. Like I just imagine some woman going to a date with a clipboard tallying up points to determine the value of her date. Also, where are the medium value men? You’re telling me people are either one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:25 PM
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We all know men are shot on sight if they gain weight!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:23 PM
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I don’t have time to get any grapes, my 2024 is already doomed!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:19 PM
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I’m going to become obese just to spite you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:18 PM
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If you literally just google “hoarding death”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:48 PM
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Are you sure you’re a purple pill woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:59 PM
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As long as they take me with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:33 PM
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I like it when I can find my partner attractive, sue me!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:07 PM
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Why would anyone want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:05 PM
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I hate how difficult it is to make friends as an adult. Why does everyone seem like an npc who can only talk about their career? I can’t give a shit anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:27 AM
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I mean, why do female like flower? So interesting of female to like flower.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:37 AM
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I feel like there are way more undesirable women out there than 30
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:25 AM
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I was jk, the reason is because you’re actually a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:30 PM
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I’m annoying and difficult when speaking to someone so boring that i have to find a way to entertain myself somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:24 PM
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Why can’t she just block him? How come she has to delete her entire social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:28 PM
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Goddamn I just want to see who all from my high school is getting married and stuff and my friends’ vacation pics. Just because you guys use social media for your horniness doesn’t mean everyone does that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:25 PM
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I’ve never had a hookup happen through Insta DMs. Sounds really cringey and embarrassing. And I’ve talked to people I’m interested on Snapchat, but it’s not like they’re randomly finding my bitmoji and reaching out to me. They’re generally given after some initial contact has been made
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:00 PM
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Most people have things like Instagram to keep up with friends rather than have guys slide into their DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:54 PM
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I just think it’s fun to get drunk, dance, and look cute with the girlies. It isn’t that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:49 PM
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I like dressing up so I can look lustfully at myself in the mirror while drunk. Just because you don’t understand our motives doesn’t mean they’re not real
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:44 PM
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That’s why I get violently high while consuming three different forms of media all at once
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:40 PM
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I don’t think sugar daddies are less creepy, I just think people might feel better about being financially compensated for the creepiness? Either way, not into either older men or sugar daddies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:36 AM
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I truly have started to blend in 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:41 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:23 PM
7

You’re mad that I’m not interesting to you? We just aren’t compatible, no reason to be upset
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:23 PM
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Why are you so mad? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:28 PM
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Idgaf about celebrity gossip, but I like to talk about philosophy, art, and current events
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:27 PM
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I was like 6 back then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:11 PM
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Maybe with some people, but plenty back off once they realize a friend is interested
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:06 PM
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Complaining about past relationship issues isn’t indoctrinating girls into hating men, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:05 PM
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Lesbians have experienced the highest rate of domestic abuse, but a lot of the abuse comes from men, as a lot of lesbians have been in previous relationships with men. The rate of domestic abuse is even higher for bisexual women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:04 PM
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I also find cars and sports to be the dullest topics in the world. I like it when people make the effort to find some common ground to speak about. If there is no common ground, then we simply aren’t compatible, doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with either me nor them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:58 PM
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Covid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:49 PM
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Most women don’t hate other women, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:49 PM
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Why does he have so many pictures posing next to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:48 PM
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That’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:28 PM
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Like I said, it can go too far, but a lot of the time I see it used it just seems like a man is doing something for a woman he cares about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:28 PM
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Taylor swift didn’t start a sex trafficking ring
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:12 PM
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I only see one that can be considered anywhere close to that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:09 PM
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It seems to work pretty well for her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:07 PM
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Half of the time when I hear about simping, it just sounds like a man is being kind to a woman. Of course, you can go too far, but a lot of times “simping” is basic human decency
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:07 PM
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I’m part of the LGBTQ community and I find it pretty offensive, but at the same time a lot more artists would have to be cancelled for similar lyrics from that time period
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:05 PM
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I don’t even like Taylor swift but she’s not trying to indoctrinate girls into hating men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:04 PM
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Just do missionary instead
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:58 PM
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I think he should go to the police for kidnapping
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:57 PM
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I mean, that’s why she changed the lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:48 PM
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A lot of my friends who are in relationships are dating quiet men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:47 PM
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The conversations can make me sleepy. Sometimes I wonder if some people have any internal dialogue besides “what’s for dinner?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:45 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:44 PM
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Actually trying to meet new people and interacting in groups, not necessarily “cold approaching”, which has never worked on me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:44 PM
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It’s so sad there are such misandrist lyrics out there like “I don’t have to pretend I like a die rock or that I’d like to be on a mega yacht”. It makes me worry for the young men who have to deal with such misandry all around them :( poor babies!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:43 PM
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My lesbian and single friends are generally pretty stable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:21 PM
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So like kidnapping or something? Why aren’t the men able to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:20 PM
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Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:19 PM
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I’ve known some guys who are pretty good on paper but are pretty boring conversationalists who have difficulty dating. One guy who talked about himself mainly and was bad at asking questions and listening. I also know some guys who were pretty stable who thought they struggled with dating, but they considered a few months without meeting anyone a “dry spell”, which I wouldn’t personally consider a dry spell. I also know guys like that who are single because they aren’t really putting themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:15 PM
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Is this supposed to be some shitty “gotcha” having to do with some people not opening their legs for a date the first night?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:48 PM
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Why would anyone want their plate fixed? It’s way better to pick the portions you want rather than rely on someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:04 AM
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Did the person with the bad role models have trouble seeing things like marriage/planning for the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:59 PM
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Have any of you guys ended up in a healthy long term relationship with someone who doesn’t have many examples of healthy long term relationships around them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:06 PM
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Would you be happier if you decided to be resentful, or would you be happier enjoying your newfound success? I didn’t get any attention in high school and only found it once I reached college, and I felt happier dating without resentment than being angry at people for not giving me attention earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:46 PM
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It’s as if you’re obsessed or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:29 PM
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Having a decision for a character to make makes for a more interesting plot than for something to just land in the character’s lap (ignore my grammar, my brain is too tired to function)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:41 PM
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I think it should be legal because it helps keep SWs safe, but it should be discouraged as a whole by society. There should also be easy avenues for sex workers to choose a different job if they would like, as no one should be stuck in the sex work industry if they do not want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:58 PM
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I have a very anti-consumption philosophy and do my best to get ethical products when I do have to consume actually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:21 AM
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Yeah, it’s unfortunate that you would risk that if you’re not 100% sure it’s not exploitative to me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:18 AM
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Do you go out of your way to make sure the actors in the porn you watch aren’t being coerced and are treated well? Or do you just look stuff up and watch it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:01 AM
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Way fewer women use toys than men watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:53 PM
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They can masturbate to other things that aren’t exploitative
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:50 PM
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Ugly guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:49 PM
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You can release into a tissue without looking at a video of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:49 PM
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I’d rather they quit than still watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:48 PM
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Modern men would be so much more attractive if they weren’t all porn addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:32 PM
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“People deserve to get abused!” Good god people, so thankful that thread got deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:59 PM
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Most don’t spend money on mobile games, but there are outliers that make those games profitable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:54 PM
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I feel like cheesecake can either be really good or really bad depending on how sweet it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:53 PM
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If you insult strangers who have done nothing to warrant an insult, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:56 AM
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Ok, but judging someone for judging heavier women is also ok, because being rude is easily changeable and caused by immaturity and low self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:52 AM
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I would personally find that offensive. I don’t like people who judge others who are just living their licez
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:43 AM
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Yeah, which is why it’s bs that all of these men say that women are privileged because they can “just make an OF”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:22 PM
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I’ve seen men of all sorts say disrespectful stuff. All are immediately unattractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:21 PM
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I hope you guys know thin girls see how you treat their heavier friends and care about what you say about fat women. It’s way easier to just be respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:58 PM
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Egg nog is my favorite drink. The vegan version just doesn’t hit as hard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:54 PM
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So how do you virgin lovers find out if a woman’s a virgin? “Hello m’lady, may I ask if a man has inserted his penis inside of your vagina”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:30 PM
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My assistant manager said I have a “secret admirer” from the company Christmas party. I have no idea what that means, but I’m scared that they told her about it and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:27 PM
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I’m sorry you are surrounded by miserable couples. I hope you can move to an area with healthy couples who care about each other, because that does not sound ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:24 PM
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I think some of you guys need to look at stable, real life couples. Most long term couples I know are healthy and care about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:02 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:36 PM
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Are you saying that your grandfather and his wife were a good situation? It didn’t seem like it went very well for her. I don’t see anything wrong with falling in love with someone outside of your culture, but that seemed like it is an example of how those situations don’t always turn out well for the women who enter them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:10 AM
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You want to date a minor?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:01 AM
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That basically is the same thing as looking up their salary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:44 PM
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How the hell is an Olympic gold medal holder not high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:43 PM
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I just buy things based on vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:42 PM
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Any opinions on Simone Biles’s husband thinking he’s out of her league?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:14 PM
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That wasn’t the question though. He was asking if it’s common to look up your date’s salary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:11 PM
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Maybe he has too many stereotypically masculine interests that fewer women are going to be interested in or something like that. I’ve rejected men who are “better than me” because their interests were too different than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:53 PM
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Or he could just not be compatible with her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:38 PM
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Are you going to supply 100% of the money so your partner won’t have to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:22 PM
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How dare she ask him to do any part of the house work. We all know that’s a woman’s job and men are entitled to sit around and do nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:16 PM
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Isn’t she saying all of that in response to being forced to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:14 PM
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Why would having bad options be cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:02 PM
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What if all of the options are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:41 PM
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Q4All: would you rather get with someone above or below your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:37 PM
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Once you’ve already gotten with a bum, you can’t get into a Time Machine and unfuck that bum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:37 PM
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Why is it always “choose better” instead of “be better”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:15 PM
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Ok so you weren’t a young child, but in the United States at least people don’t become an adult until they are 18. I’m glad your relationship has helped you with those things, but it is still not advisable for adults to date people who aren’t adults. Like I said, I genuinely wish the best for you and I’m glad that it’s working out for you, but most 17 year olds would probably be better off dating someone their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:13 PM
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You were legally a child at both of those ages. I wasn’t trying to call you childish, I was saying that you WERE a child. It doesn’t make you silly or a bad person, it’s just the age you were. Even though you may have been ahead of your peers at that age, you were still under the age of 18, which personally concerns me. I have never been in an age gap relationship or been interested in one, but I just personally don’t think a 23 year old should get into a relationship with a child. I wish for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:52 PM
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No. I’ve never met anyone in my circles who does that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:46 PM
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You were a child at both 13 and 17 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:37 PM
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I thought he was trying to save his country from Russia? Probably not the best example because I don’t know much about the conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:27 PM
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Misogyny and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:57 AM
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I have no idea what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:52 AM
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One thing that I did actually appreciate about my religious upbringing is an emphasis on people having inherent value. I know most religious people don’t act like it, but it is still a nice ideal to strive towards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:50 PM
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I hunger for kindness across all the land 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:38 PM
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Bro’s larping
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:23 PM
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I do not have any contempt for people because of their social status, appearance, or salary. I don’t like people who act entitled, put others down because of their own lack of self confidence, or advocate taking other’s rights because of their anger. So it depends on how they treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:20 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:15 PM
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So you’re just going to continue to wait for a fellow virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:05 PM
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All of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:04 PM
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Good point, haven’t considered that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:00 PM
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I didn’t want to hurt my friend’s feelings plus he wasn’t as attractive to me after I learned he was also with my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:57 PM
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Isn’t there always going to be a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:50 PM
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I feel bad hitting on someone on the job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:50 PM
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That’s happened to me before. Stopped talking to him after
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:44 PM
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Why aren’t the ladies crying about Stacy all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:21 PM
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Any man that other men are jealous of seem to be alphas here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:20 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:19 PM
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“Alpha” and “beta” labels are stupid and unquantifiable. Women can lose interest in sex in a long term relationship or marriage for multitudes of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:25 PM
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Oh god
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:23 PM
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So someone who is super horny just wants to have sex with anyone and everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:04 PM
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Because I have a high libido and not every woman is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:02 PM
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How do you quantify horniness? Via how often people are down to have sex, or by how many people someone is down to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:55 PM
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I wouldn’t say that makes women self centered for enjoying being the ones who turn their partners on. They just don’t lust after men in the way men lust after women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:53 PM
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I generally could have sex all day with my partners if they were down/able, but I wouldn’t have sex with random people off of the street and don’t get turned on for randoms as much. Since I could go all day but most men need to “recharge” before their next go, does that make me hornier than most men? Or am I less horny than most men because I wouldn’t fuck any random person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:48 PM
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On the light days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:43 PM
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So people are comparing working class women to people with Down’s syndrome. Idk if that’s ableist, sexist, or classist at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:50 PM
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Volodymyr Zelenskyy maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:32 PM
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The virgin women I know break up with their boyfriends for watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:52 PM
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Men who sleep around yet judge women for sleeping around are not husband material for the women they want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:39 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:59 PM
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Does she like posters? You could get her a cute poster maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:06 AM
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Maybe, I actually made this account when I was looking for recipes. Quite ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:16 AM
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Tell me more about your gf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:57 AM
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I’m a vegan so vegetables yes, salads no though. They are too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:53 AM
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I don’t dye my hair but I have friends who do. Some of them have had to switch to darker colors later on due to hair damage from lighter colors
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:46 AM
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Nah, I just eat a lot of frozen stuff, prepackaged stuff, and rice (which I guess is cooking) with a can of beans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:44 AM
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I probably should but I actually hate cooking. I will hopefully start meal prepping once I get a dishwasher again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:43 AM
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Idk an assortment of different things I either had to eat out of the package or just microwave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:41 AM
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You have to do tiktok dances to become a nurse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:37 AM
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I can cook but don’t because it’s easier to be a bachelorette who doesn’t cook three course dinners for herself. Why would I make myself fancy dinners every night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:36 AM
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Damn, you just see relationships as how much work you can make a woman do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:24 AM
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They’re the exception because they’re good people (usually)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:43 AM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/09/police-officers-who-hit-their-wives-or-girlfriends/380329/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:13 PM
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I personally like people who are in a profession where they can have enough free time to spend time with me. I also don’t like people who are arrogant about their profession or look down upon people who they consider to be “less than”. I would never, ever date a cop because of the rates of domestic violence. Other than that, I can’t think of all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:58 PM
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I’ve refused to commit to men if they broke boundaries in the bedroom (usually choking/other behavior without getting prior consent, I ghost in this case), if there’s compatibility issues, or if they are rude to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:24 PM
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Some of us are gay though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:36 AM
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Wait so the media wants you men to have fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:29 AM
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What type of validation and attention do you want from us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:27 AM
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I would be concerned and talk to my partner about how they’re feeling about their body image and if there was any way I could validate how beautiful they are to me. If they seem to want to do it for other reasons and have thought it through a lot, I would support them in their decision
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah, I feel terrible for them. Imagine being seen as “practice”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:12 PM
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It depends. If we have nothing in common, people might find me boring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:28 PM
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I haven’t seen vitriol towards men like I see it towards women. Most of the discussion centers around men’s dating problems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:30 PM
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To impress the men on purple pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:23 PM
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I think they’re mad that they’re attracted to it. They secretly wish women naturally looked how they look with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:23 PM
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If you read this subreddit, misogyny is alive and well. Feminism is still needed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:13 PM
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My younger brother has gotten attention from women and ignored it because it’s “too much work”, some people are just busy with other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:49 PM
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Idk, it seems like they don’t actively try to date from that paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:46 PM
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But aren’t I shaming my roommate for being jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:20 PM
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Maybe with someone else who is older and has a lot of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:19 PM
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No, I have a nice enough body with just walking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:19 PM
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I hate it because I love complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:56 PM
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Parents these days are useless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:53 PM
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And she always brags to me about being as mature as her partner (who is 7 years older) because she had back surgery as a child. Like girl, I don’t think you’re as mature as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:49 PM
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I can’t wait until my lease is up 😭 but also I have no idea if I’ll be able to find a new roommate by then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 PM
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Has anyone here claimed women don’t get jealous? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:33 PM
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I’m demonizing my roommate because she’s acting insane
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:31 PM
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No, women get jealous a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:26 PM
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Idk, I think she watches too much tiktok and I genuinely worry about her levels of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:03 PM
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I love to be a girl’s girl but I can’t agree with my roommate that her partner needs a new phone because they took pictures of their ex on it anymore. I think she needs therapy fr. If she’s that obsessed with her partner’s ex, maybe she should’ve dated someone who doesn’t have an ex fiancé
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:00 PM
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If he has girly interests that are the same as my girly interests, sure. Guys have tried to impress me by telling me they like Taylor swift and it doesn’t work because I don’t care that much about her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:57 PM
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What the helllll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:54 PM
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Need them for the sacrifices
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:53 PM
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“Be yourself” is good advice for LTRs because you can only pretend to be someone you aren’t for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:51 PM
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Creep who scares the women away ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:42 PM
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I didn’t go around advertising to guys I was a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:40 PM
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Not normal ones
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:39 PM
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Nerdy, kind to me, and someone I found attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:39 PM
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I didn’t let them know when I was talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:37 PM
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Idk give up and go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:37 PM
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One thing I know my fellow bi women love is a man who objectifies us and uses us for threesomes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:34 PM
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No, those poor cosplayers already get harassed enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:30 PM
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Ones that weren’t creepy and obsessed with my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:28 PM
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It’s the best game ever even though it’s a few months older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:27 PM
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How much screen time do your kids get
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:51 PM
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Yeah, I don’t think I can pick either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:35 PM
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Why do I have to get stuck by the guy who is rapping at the train station 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:18 PM
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Wooden roller coasters! Also log flumes if I don’t want to have nice turns
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:08 PM
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Roller coaster tycoon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:47 PM
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He’s a right leaning centrist who isn’t even funny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:32 PM
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A, E, and F
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:20 PM
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Men here claim women aren’t ever mistreated in the dating world, then when women state that they’ve had a bad experience, it’s just because they got with Chad. I know plenty of women who have been treated poorly by below average and average men. I hate it when a lot of the men here decide to deny other’s experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:55 PM
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I’m reading their post history and I’d be surprised if they’re not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:06 PM
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I thought you were a man all this time ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:17 PM
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Well, you clearly seem to not know as much about women as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:37 PM
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I don’t think it’s gender specific. I’m a woman who grew up in a strict, religious environment, and I had to unlearn a lot of things before being confident in my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:21 PM
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If you have way more options of one gender than another (as most people are straight), doesn’t it make sense that more people would end up with the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:51 PM
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Nah, he sounds like a garden tool…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:49 PM
6

Not if he’s not loyal. And you can claim anything anyone says about their internal thoughts is not true, but that would just mean that you don’t trust anyone about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:04 AM
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He reallyyyyy wanted us to say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:41 AM
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All of the responses from actual women disagree, but you’re a man, so you definitely know better!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:41 AM
9

I would feel miserable. No way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:37 AM
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They’re responding to the misogyny they see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:15 AM
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I feel like a lot of them are busy with their partners rn 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:54 AM
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I was thinking female creators, but could be a male creator too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:31 AM
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Nice! 👩‍⚕️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:59 AM
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You have good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:45 AM
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I’m just sharing my opinion, as some people might want to know that some women will think of them as a loser if they just slide into their DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:44 AM
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I wish I liked Marvel, but I just can’t. I hate how everything in theaters was a fucking superhero movie for years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:41 AM
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You are so right. I don’t drink often though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:33 AM
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It’s a personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:32 AM
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I don’t see how it’s obvious, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:15 AM
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It wouldn’t be my favorite, but as long as he can still pick me up and meets all of my other requirements, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:15 AM
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Idk, regular porn watchers are more likely to contribute to the abuse of the sex workers who are in those videos, so probably creator still
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:14 AM
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Fuck, nvm, I just get really drunk in places I shouldn’t get that drunk in every once in a while I would love to do things like explore the new city I’m living in, play silly games, make a flyer with a secret message to lead people to a website to see if people are bored enough to crack a secret code, or go out and lie to people about my identity. Basically anything besides staying in and talking about furniture or watching TV
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:13 AM
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Still a creator, I don’t like people who want to spend money on other women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:03 AM
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Fr, where are they???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:59 PM
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I’m bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:58 PM
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I’m eeeeevillll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:58 PM
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Like maybe delete it and make a new one, then? I hate those excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:58 PM
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Almost 5’5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:57 PM
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When did I say I hate LVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:57 PM
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I do some crazy shit, but it can get quite lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:50 PM
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At least an OF creator is hot enough to have people pay them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:50 PM
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I hate being an adult. All of my friends have become boring asf and I still haven’t learned to be satisfied with being boring asf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:30 PM
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No clue, I have body dysmorphia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:28 PM
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Are you a mega Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:27 PM
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What about single fathers? Upstanding citizens?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:21 PM
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I wouldn’t date any OF creators OR subscribers personally. But if I had no other option, I’d date a creator over a subscriber
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:20 PM
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She’s really pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:19 PM
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Earrings, no gauges though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:17 PM
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A lot of them probably lie about their age tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:15 PM
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Ooh, so maybe I’m ugly then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:15 PM
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I generally don’t connect to my friends in the way I would a romantic partner. I can be friends with a lot of people, but I usually need more compatibility interest-wise to date someone. I can get along with someone well yet still not see any long term compatibility with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:14 PM
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Even aliens have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:59 PM
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I don’t date single mothers or fathers, but I still value them. I’m not a shithead with 0 empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:56 PM
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No offense, but I automatically see any random man who I don’t know in my DMs as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:54 PM
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“Elbert” hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:53 PM
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Yes, I think the outfit’s kinda ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:48 PM
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Girl… what’s your age range on there 😭 older men scare me in general but on the apps they’re even more frightening (no judgement though)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:47 PM
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If it was in her 20s, she’s probably changed a lot by now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:43 PM
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My friends who even follow celebrities in the first place usually follow them because they like to keep up with the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:32 PM
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People like following them, but it doesn’t mean they’re trying to copy their lives and need to be with someone who’s exactly like the spouses of these famous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:30 PM
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I can see that. You only seem to care about your strange little opinion about how women act that isn’t backed by any evidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:26 PM
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They might be able to sleep around, but they generally aren’t settling down in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:24 PM
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I don’t have one, though I’d probably prefer a man to be taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:23 PM
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Lol, I don’t know anyone who acts like that, tf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:20 PM
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I thought that’s what you were doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:39 PM
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How do the algorithms ruin women’s standards? I don’t know any woman who looks at men on social media like a lot of men do. Most women use social media for other things than looking at hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:41 PM
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Exactly. Agreeable men are often taken, no matter their attractiveness level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:36 PM
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What happens when I get too litty again though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:09 PM
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I don’t think so? But maybe that’s why she was hiding in the bathroom trying to compose herself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:08 PM
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Thanks! And good luck to you too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:04 PM
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He lives too far away for that, sadly. I apparently called him after I got back, but I guess the last drink finally hit and I don’t really remember the conversation I had with him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:04 PM
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Thanks! I try not to feel too concerned about the judgements society puts on me, as I believe I am still a human who has inherent value. I hope you remember you have value too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:02 PM
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They made those drinks strong asf. Chatted with a girl in the bathroom about it because her friend was trying to help her get composed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:00 PM
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Retail, blue collar jobs, doing salesforce stuff in the office. I meant they don’t spend time with anyone besides their SO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:00 PM
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Aw, thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:46 PM
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No, just followed one around a little because I have social anxiety 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:44 PM
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I’m just proud that I haven’t given up and died yet tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:37 PM
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Survived my first work party yesterday. Drank way too much and the guy I’m talking to is concerned for me, though. Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:36 PM
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Ok, those two are fairly average, but the other requirements seemed a little above average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:34 PM
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They’re kinda ugly to me, normal jobs, some make less than my friends, a lot of them don’t have any friends and just hang out with my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:33 PM
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Idk, not everyone can be team captain, and if someone is ahead on their career path, doesn’t that automatically mean they’re above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:31 PM
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Oh my god, I’m ugly asf????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:30 PM
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100%. It’s disgusting there are so many without shelter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:11 PM
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Where else are they going to sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:10 PM
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Why are all of my friends with seemingly average men then? Some of my friends who have a degree are dating men who have none. Most of them are just average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:09 PM
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My profile is public and I have under a thousand. I think you might just notice a lot of the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:03 PM
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I exist to live, laugh, and love. Not to consume
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:56 PM
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I saw that thread too. I spend probably $200 max most years on my appearance. Some of the numbers people gave were insane to me. I don’t know if they are in rich circles and trying to keep up with the Joneses or what
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:51 PM
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So we are supposed to be suspicious of women when they report a crime? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:20 PM
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Are bi people just not allowed to interact with anyone besides their spouse? She seems like she was keeping good boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:19 PM
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If a man I’m dating is kind and has manners he will stand out to me. It just shows that he cares about me. I like to be kind to people who show me kindness. Holding a door for me doesn’t mean that you should get access to sex from me, though, because I’m not a sex machine that you can just pay with kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:47 PM
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That’s along the lines of what I was thinking from my experiences as a bi woman. Thanks for sharing. I’m sorry you’ve had to experience the harassment and lack of acceptance from your family
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:22 PM
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Omg, so equalitypilled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:39 AM
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I’m not ENM but I have ADHD what’s wrong with ADHD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:37 AM
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I’m always pessimistic so I can be either pleasantly surprised or right about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:11 AM
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Idk many people who had a gf in 7th grade
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:09 AM
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How is being a shitcunt going to help someone who is already hopeless in your eyes because he is physically unappealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:54 PM
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I don’t really care that much about celebrities unless I’m bored and super lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:53 PM
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You think women like ugly shitcunts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:50 PM
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Celebrity crush would be more of an “ugh, whatever” but would probably take a couple of points off of my attraction to a partner. I would feel less emotionally attached
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:15 PM
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Omg, literally every woman has said that! You know the minds of every woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:04 PM
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I find it attractive when people have eyes for only me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:03 PM
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I love soyboys ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:32 PM
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I’m a white chick who doesn’t own a car partially for environmental reasons, so checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:31 PM
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You gotta play into it a little. Rant about car centric cities or something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:23 PM
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Idk why guys without cars aren’t marketing themselves as eco friendly guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:15 PM
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Bi doesn’t mean polyamorous 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:13 PM
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I feel bad for finding those memes to be kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:55 PM
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For Vietnamese versions you can just wet the wrappers and put chopped veggies in them. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:48 PM
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Glad that you were able to change your perception on them! It takes a lot to change our biases, and sounds like it worked out for the best for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:45 PM
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Dumplings 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:26 PM
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Homophobia and misogyny are interlinked, though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:48 PM
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If you’re tested and monogamous, how’s it going to matter? What difference would it make in your partner’s life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:38 PM
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I don’t know if I’ve really had any mentors to teach me about femininity besides my mom. I just think mentors are rare in this society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:05 PM
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Cute eyeliner and pretty lipgloss? Yes pls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:50 PM
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Nah, they’re just hot with darker eyelashes and sparkly eyelids now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:18 PM
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I’m a bi woman who wears makeup and has a preference for women who also wear makeup. Idk why you’d complain about women improving their appearance. More hot girls out there for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:47 PM
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My physical type is just “not ugly” for the most part. I don’t really check out men unless I’m super bored
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:58 AM
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No clue. Usually have to get to know their personality first beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:10 AM
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So every time a talking stage doesn’t work out it’s because the man is Chad and out of the woman’s league? Sounds a little wish fulfillment-y to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:49 AM
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Do you mean heterosexual men? Sexuality doesn’t equal gender btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:44 AM
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They have to be attractive to me, kind, smart enough to understand some things I like to talk about, at least some interests in common, good listener, likes animals, doesn’t want kids, liberal or left, not submissive in bed, atheist/not particularly religious, two years younger/three years older, and fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:23 AM
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Have you ever considered it might’ve not progressed for reasons other than physical attraction? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:14 AM
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If it’s about looks, sure, a lot of people could be a little more open minded about that, but about personality? If you want a lasting relationship that has the potential to last a lifetime, why wouldn’t you want somebody you can stand to be around for decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:07 AM
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No, most people don’t take kindly to cheating in general. Genitalia doesn’t mean one wrong is less bad than another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:35 PM
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Noooooo not Clio being featured on PPD just so someone can comment on her makeup 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:10 AM
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Idk I’m not that into romance but I like While You Were Sleeping
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:07 AM
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I have grown out of this, but when I was younger I wanted to be prettier/funnier/more interesting than my peers who were girls. There was also a bit of a “bragging about how many boys would ask us out” culture. Also a lot of competition related to body image, unfortunately, though I tried staying out of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:18 AM
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The men on here are too monolithic to me (except for the few chill ones) and I would just marry all of the women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:39 AM
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Because it sounds like the situations are actually pretty different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:20 PM
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They are waiting until marriage to have sex and more likely to adhere to “female traditional gender roles” like cooking and cleaning. They still went to college at a religious school, however. I know one woman who broke up with her boyfriend due to him watching porn, another one who didn’t get as much attention from male peers, and others who I don’t know the background of. It’s not a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:27 PM
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I don’t think anyone should make anyone else a placeholder no matter the gender, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:12 PM
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Yes, I don’t think women should settle for someone they don’t like as much either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:51 PM
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Sure, but she dates men so that’s what she notices
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:50 PM
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A lot of the success of relationships lies in what you’ve built together, not just who each person is individually. Not everyone would cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:31 PM
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She’s complaining about men who center their personalities around it, not ones who identify as feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah, just wish there weren’t so many people I have had to get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah, that’s what I’ve been trying to do my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:57 PM
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Haha, that’s good considering you’re married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:54 PM
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He’s on bumble, not tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:43 PM
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I’m just impatient and it’s been almost 3 years since I’ve been official with anyone. But that’s just how life goes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I kept reminding myself not to get my hopes up, but it’s always disappointing when another thing doesn’t work out. I’m trying not to cry at work right now, but if all else fails I’m used to being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:16 PM
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I tried saying “is there anything I can do to make the conversation more interesting”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:55 PM
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Annnnd he’s on Snapchat but not texting me back. RIP 🪦
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:51 PM
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Thanks, me too. I’m just waiting for him to reply now 😀🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:36 PM
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I’m going to try bringing it up to him because I do like him. I just don’t like that I feel like the only one who tries conversationally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:30 PM
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I’m not sure if the conversation has always been this dry or I just noticed it after we met up. I’m scared we secretly aren’t compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:21 PM
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Idk, some of the guys in the group might have friends who are women or girlfriends who have friends who are women. While the activity might not directly give you interaction with women, expanding your social network can still allow you to meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:09 AM
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I know plenty of women who would probably prefer a trad wife life who failed to find a husband by 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:53 AM
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Yes, and many women are deeply hurt being a placeholder. Good points here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:23 AM
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People lie and invent sources too, but some people are more likely to believe AI if they’re not educated on what AI can and cannot do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:47 PM
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ChatGPT has invented sources and lied before. AI unfortunately doesn’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:51 PM
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I just started to play that again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:59 PM
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Having that many options is tiresome to try to navigate and find one you like. Plenty of people also claim they want something serious with a woman just to get them in bed. Sometimes it takes a while to recover from that and find someone who actually wants a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:27 PM
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Maybe you can’t pull it off but plenty of men can have sex they enjoy with people they enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:05 PM
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I laughed. Too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:04 PM
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Not any of the women I’ve been around, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:41 PM
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Who’s been telling you looks don’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:11 AM
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High value people usually don’t use silly metrics to determine their sexual value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:16 PM
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Sounds a little insecure to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:41 PM
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I didn’t want to read all that but I think the best sexual achievement is having sex you enjoy with people you enjoy having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:34 PM
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We made out in college before he was rich and traveling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:21 AM
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I think you are projecting a lot of anger onto me. I hope you can heal from whatever is bothering you. I know it’s tough out here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:14 AM
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Nah, I’m extremely single right now. You just happen to not know everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:28 PM
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I’ve left plenty of “Chads” on read, you silly goose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:26 PM
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If he wants to hit it, he should maybe have some personality besides being an engineer with money who travels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:23 PM
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Do you have problems with reading comprehension? The main reason I don’t like him is all he talks about is how he’s a fancy engineer and how much he travels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:22 PM
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Then why does he keep snapchatting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:21 PM
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I love sex, I just mainly like it with someone I care about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:17 PM
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This guy I made out with once multiple years ago is trying to Snapchat me again. He seems to have a problem that many of the guys here have: thinking there’s a formula to get women to like him. Just because you’re rich, attractive, and travel a lot doesn’t mean women automatically should like you. We generally like a bit of personality too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:16 PM
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A lot of surrogacies still end in court battles. It’s also pretty expensive to find and hire a surrogate. If you want to go through all of that to be a single father, great, but I doubt most will find that worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:57 PM
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I’d say men here think women get approached a lot more often than they do. I consider myself above average, and most of the attention I get is still from cat callers or weird old men. If you want men to approach you, you often have to signal interest via eye contact or swiping right on dating apps. You also have to be in an environment where men are more likely to approach. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:18 PM
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Not a huge thing, but I’ve seen it here and there. I brought it up because I saw a post earlier today asking if a guy was a misogynist for putting “no swifties” on his dating profile. I think people equate not liking her to making fun of women for enjoying pumpkin spice lattes sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:53 PM
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I hate Taylor swift fans who act like not liking Taylor Swift automatically makes you a misogynist. Swifties are so obnoxious. Not liking the music of a billionaire white lady doesn’t mean you hate all women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:42 PM
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Every time I read the Bible, I circle the parts that talk about how gamer men are the epitome of biblical masculinity!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:36 PM
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I had Covid last month and it is not fun. Feel better soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:57 PM
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Are most of the guys who are getting “beta buxxed” married to women who they previously made attempts with, or are they just women who they imagine rejected guys like them in their youths?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:17 PM
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Went for other popular girls for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:13 PM
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Around half of the guys in my high school class only had crushes on the three or so most popular girls in the grade, yet you don’t hear me bitching about being beta buxxed when men like me now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:59 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:57 PM
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That I’m going to do certain things in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:49 PM
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Don’t have any
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:48 PM
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Ew, sounds terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:42 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:32 PM
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The algorithm feeds you what you watch, unless you downloaded tiktok two minutes ago
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:28 PM
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Most women don’t pay for premium and therefore don’t have access to height filters lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:27 PM
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Idk a church maybe? Ask one off the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:25 PM
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Oh god. Is porn the reason men have assumptions about my sexuality before I bring any of that up? Gross. I dont even know what pawg means
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:24 PM
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I became interested in feminism and wanted to learn about why some men hate women since gamer gate when I was around 15. Kids and teens especially notice this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:30 PM
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I never have thought about it as a safety thing for me personally. It’s more like “this dude is annoying and I don’t want to have to see his messages anymore” or “I don’t want to be tempted to check up on him” if I actually used to like him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:26 PM
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I don’t get why they’re so offended. Most guys only get with me because I’m attractive, why can’t I act the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:22 PM
1

I find it annoying and disgusting. It just reminds me that if I end up with some guy he might start to be the creepy old man leering at me at the grocery store next to his wife and I might become the wife I currently pity. I didn’t have housing for a bit and decided to rely on my friends to couch surf for a bit, but I would stay in a shelter before considering sleeping with some old man for housing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:45 PM
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I can ask ten men off the street if they want to go home and have sex with me and at least a few would probably agree to it. Doesn’t mean I’m going to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:14 AM
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Usually it’s just a bit of a phase. Most people don’t see partying as the epitome of existence after reaching a certain age or level of maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:12 AM
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Can you schedule it when other people in the house are out and about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:11 AM
6

We’re scheming against you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:49 PM
9

He was telling me he was moving to my city, but he didn’t tell me he was only moving there for three months
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:59 PM
11

I feel like these things happen with people of any gender. I have experienced rejection after investment (but before commitment) from men and women. I recently told a guy things wouldn’t work after he got a little invested, and he seemed to feel similarly to you. However, my reason for rejecting him did not feel petty or insignificant to me; it was a dealbreaker. If I had known about this sooner, I would have broken things off before he got attached. Some things you can’t necessarily plan for. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:31 PM
2

I think she just wants them to wait to get to know her a little bit before they approach
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:37 AM
19

I was worried about that too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:35 AM
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No shit. I’m talking about someone who I might want to be in a relationship with, not some old fart
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:34 PM
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I find a lot of fulfillment through my friends when I have a thriving social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:59 PM
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Do they still need to seek out porn if their partner gives them pictures and videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:23 PM
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Ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:18 PM
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Ok, then I would find your unwillingness to compromise unattractive if we were on a date 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:18 PM
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Once you’re in a relationship, it often comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:08 PM
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Idk, use your imagination or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:08 PM
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I had pretty strict parents who managed to keep me from being exposed to that stuff, but it did take a lot of effort on their part and I did feel very restricted compared to my peers. But it is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:07 PM
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My ex was first exposed to it at the age of 8. I’m scared kids these days might be exposed to it even earlier, as parents do a shit job of monitoring what their children are watching and doing on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:29 PM
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Good, a lot of the actors are treated terribly and it probably isn’t great for your brain anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:26 PM
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When did I say that was my only requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:25 PM
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I don’t know why men can’t get their sexual release other ways. Men obviously masturbated before they could watch porn It’s crazy to me that parents aren’t more careful about what their kids are exposed to online. It’s awful that parents don’t care enough to monitor their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:19 PM
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Modern men would be a lot more attractive if the majority didn’t have a porn addiction. Something is so hot about someone’s sexual energy going entirely towards you instead of people through a screen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:09 PM
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Accidental pregnancies do happen from that 1% and plenty of birth control methods have higher rates of failure. There can also be human error involved with birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:57 PM
1

It’s fun to look at my reflection in windows passing by when I’m wearing something I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:32 PM
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Just don’t go for people who don’t have any full body pics. Height is also less likely to change in adulthood than weight, so why do you think someone would update their dating profiles often enough to keep up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:40 PM
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Younger women can be promiscuous and older women can be not promiscuous. A lot of the assumptions in your post are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:06 PM
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I want to be the craziest woman in his life so /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:43 PM
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I’m not that much of a music person. I’d rather listen to a podcast usually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:32 PM
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Women also have to have somewhere to live and the vast majority also needs jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:32 PM
4

I would be creeped out that a stranger watched me long enough at the beach to know which car is mine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:17 PM
6

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:13 PM
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Did the lady blocking your path tell you she thought you were trying to seduce her? Did the woman you were trying to sell stuff to tell you she thought you were a flirt? I don’t get how you just know that that’s what she was thinking. I sometimes don’t catch when someone is hitting on me, and sometimes I wonder if someone is hitting on me when they’re not. I think it’s more because a lot of flirting has an aspect of plausible deniability to save face than being a conceited bitch who thinks every…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:52 PM
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I prefer to date people in their 20s because I’m also in my 20s but I find women in their 30s attractive. It’s mainly weird guys who want a gullible younger women to manipulate and sad incels who claim that 30 is old hag age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:38 PM
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I’ve seen people of all genders feel awkward after rejecting someone. To me it seems like more of a social anxiety thing than a “I hate this person who asked me out so much I’m going to ice them out” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:35 PM
3

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:00 AM
3

When
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:56 AM
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Source: infowars idk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:54 AM
4

I think some couples/people do a good job of setting boundaries for themselves mentally to not think of people outside of their relationship. They appreciate the importance of time and growth in a relationship rather than throwing it away. Other people would also just break up with their partner. It’s just easier to not cheat than it is to cheat, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:51 AM
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Good point. I guess it’s the only “hard” drug that I know of friends doing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:02 AM
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It’s a psychology thing. How your parents and caregivers treated you as an infant and young child will affect your future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:34 PM
2

The only people I know who do coke are college educated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:30 PM
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She may have an anxious attachment style that tends to unfortunately attract people with avoidant attachments, who are less likely to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:56 PM
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Go to therapy maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:33 AM
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Some of us live in blue states, buddy Edit: banning interstate travel for abortions is also unconstitutional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:28 AM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:56 AM
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Lol hopefully she can just get an abortion cause it sounds like that’s what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:42 AM
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Probably because it’s too late to think about abstinence because she’s pregnant… what’s she supposed to do? Rant about how she shouldn’t have had sex? What good is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:38 AM
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A lot of women these days are turned off by men who can’t control their horniness when in a relationship. I don’t think it’s wrong to want your partner to put their sexual energy into you instead of people online who look nothing like you. But everyone has their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:26 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:56 PM
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No, but I take public transportation so I get a medium amount of walking in there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:23 PM
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Truthpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:21 PM
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Good advice. Most of my friends who are women who even use dating apps in the first place don’t even meet up with people or use it seriously. “Try real life” isn’t supposed to be a dig, it’s a suggestion based on how few options there are on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:48 PM
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Dicks are poison, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:46 PM
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So sleeping with a man makes a woman tainted, yet men are confused why they are hesitant to “ruin” themselves? Way to make sex sound appealing, guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:45 PM
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Oh my god, what a whore! I guess it would be better for you not to lose your virginity at all then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:40 PM
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When I bring attractive women to parties as dates, I don’t mind people knowing that she’s attractive. She’s with me, not them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:23 PM
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What’s that gotta do with the comment about the rotary club though? Lol. Ur so silly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:58 PM
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The horrors of being called cute. Should I be offended if someone calls me that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:56 PM
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I said most of the time, not every time. There are people who use more subtle editing, but from what I have observed, a lot of times it’s an obvious Snapchat filter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:49 PM
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If you’re that horny and testosterone filled that you can’t tell that someone who has a dog filter on Snapchat is using a filter, then maybe you deserve to get tricked 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:48 PM
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What if she’s way hot? Are hot women not allowed to date hot men? Or is anyone dating any hot man automatically hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:48 PM
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I’ve told men I’ve slept with they’re cute
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:47 PM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:46 PM
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Women like feeling special too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:34 PM
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Familiarity makes people so much more attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:30 PM
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I know someone who has a banana allergy, could be worth considering. I’d maybe try other fruits that don’t make you so sick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:18 PM
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Eh, most of the time they do a pretty bad job. Most people don’t walk around with a crown of hearts floating above their heads
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:14 PM
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Better than a rotisserie chicken imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:58 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:36 PM
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I think I agree with this one, as I’ve been there too. Most people aren’t human lie detectors and it’s easy to fall for the wrong person before they show their true colors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:21 PM
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Hate to be on the side of the red pilled dudes on here, but as a bi woman I do see some women with Snapchat filters on them in most pictures. I wouldn’t say it’s the majority, but they’re definitely there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:04 PM
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Women who smoke and drink like men who smoke and drink. I avoid dating people who don’t smoke because they’ve tried to stop me before, which isn’t really what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:43 PM
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I’m a woman and I want someone at least close-ish in age to me (I don’t even consider people who aren’t in their 20s), someone with similar values, and someone with shared interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:01 PM
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Idk, I’m not usually angry, just a little annoyed and perplexed that people can have such strange views. I have way more than this subreddit going on in my life for it to really make much of a difference in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:57 PM
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I meant that a lot of women are turned off by someone dating only because they’re really desperate for sex. I know dating to marry is also a lot of work, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:56 PM
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I’m a little lost about what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:52 PM
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Finally got my body count to 68! I’m just looking for someone special to be #69. It better last, or I’ll have to wait until 419! Ugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:01 PM
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That’s true! I just think there are fewer straight women out there looking for sex than straight men, so it might be harder to find someone compatible, but who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:00 PM
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I’m a fairly average woman and I don’t know anyone who has had a CEO of a multi-million dollar company as an option. Just because your friend had that experience doesn’t mean it’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:54 PM
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Nothing, technically, but you’re not as likely to find a woman to date with that attitude because most people want more than that in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:49 PM
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You can write a book or start a revolution that affects much more than just the lives of your offspring. While having children can be a nice goal for some, it is not the only fulfilling thing one can do in their lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:08 AM
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Your offspring will also one day be useless once they die (if we’re going by your logic). Who cares what decisions other people make with their reproductive choices
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:58 AM
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A lot of times people feel like they have to follow a life path and most people with college educated, not very religious parents are encouraged to wait to seriously date or marry until after they are established and have enough money for a house/another societal marker of adulthood. Because younger generations are taking longer to afford those things because of the economy, I see people of all genders wanting to wait for something serious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:16 PM
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Don’t call yourself an incel if you’ve never snorted coke /s (but also maybe don’t call yourself an incel)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:06 PM
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I’ve been with a guy with a low sex drive, and I got nervous that he was only initiating sex to make me happy and the communication around that could have been better. When I like someone (not just because they look hot, but because we click and have chemistry and a chance of commitment), I feel a lot of desire towards them. So a low sex drive wouldn’t be ideal, but with good communication around it I would accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:04 PM
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Middle aged women are hotter to me than middle aged men. But that might be a me thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:56 PM
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There’s still a huge gap in interests for a 35 year old and 50 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:38 PM
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Age doesn’t necessarily give these old guys a compatible personality. What’s some old fart going to talk to me about? How my tiktok habits are stupid? Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:21 PM
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“A lot of people in the sex work industry are trafficked. I don’t think you should take the risk of paying for someone’s abuse just so you can have sex. I’m willing to help you meet people who want to have the type of sex you want to have, but I will not help you do something illegal like that. Find someone who will consent enthusiastically!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:43 PM
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Some of y’all just need to go on some SSRI’s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:53 AM
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I would consider that inappropriate to hear in an environment where you’d hope your banker is supposed to be professional and probably report her for asking a customer for advice about illegal activities
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:45 AM
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With men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:38 AM
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I would be weirded out by it and consider it a dealbreaker for dating (if she paid someone of any gender for sex, tbh). I wouldn’t be friends with someone who paid for sex. I don’t think I would be able to tell if my banker paid for sex, so those examples don’t really apply for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:24 AM
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It can be hard out there being bi in this world with straight and gay people sometimes both not trusting you but I wouldn’t be anything but bi. Bi people can also have preferences towards one gender over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:21 AM
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Yes you are in denial. I think you’re probably bi
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:19 AM
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Straight women tell me that they wish they were lesbians all the time yet none are dating me still. I think you just might be attracted to more people than you think, and that’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:19 AM
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I bet no woman has wanted to get to know you in your life lol See how doubting the experiences of strangers is weird? You know nothing about me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:17 PM
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I try not to think that men are trash, but my mindset sometimes gets that way due to seeing what men think online and how I get harassed just walking around on the street. I think it’s sad to act like there are no good men, and I strongly believe that men can be good people if they want to be, and I know men that are good people. I also think it is reasonable to exercise caution around them, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:08 PM
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Where is auto mod for me to leave my comment under? Anyways, I don’t agree with you, but based on what men on here always talk about, I don’t know why they’re mad about your claim. They always say that “oh, the reason you got stuck in a situationship is because he was too hot for you” or “you got cheated on because he was too hot for you” (this one hurts my feelings a little low key).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:34 PM
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No, but I don’t like tinder and the voice function doesn’t help, it still sucks for me low key
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:21 PM
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What on earth are you talking about with France? Cheating is awful for either partner. I am just curious if you would think it is fair for a pregnant person to have access to their partner’s phones during pregnancy to make sure their partner isn’t wandering with a child on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:22 AM
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I’ve known people who play the long game
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:07 AM
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I hate texting so much. I have trouble connecting to people off of dating apps. I can tell more easily if I have immediate chemistry with someone in real life, or build it from a friendship in rare cases, but it feels like I manually have to sift through more people via apps. Also all of the sex pressuring and stuff others are talking about that a lot of men do. I’m not a human lie detector who can automatically tell if someone is a good person or not. Some people can be manipulative or pressuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:35 AM
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The problem isn’t with the standards, it’s with the hypocrisy!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:12 AM
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You miss out on how hot it is to get someone off low key
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:04 AM
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Why would you just admit that 😭 I guess have fun not getting anyone off in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:00 AM
1

Like a third of my anxiety issues have to do with people secretly hating me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:37 AM
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I haven’t completed my degree, so I don’t hold people to a standard I can’t meet, but I like people who know how to critically think. I did go to college for a bit, so it can be nice to date someone who knows what college is like. I’m scared to date someone who has a higher degree than a Bachelor’s though, if I’m being completely honest. I have some insecurity about my success with some past partners. I just don’t want my partner to look down upon me (I know there are plenty of nice people who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:27 AM
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Body language
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:10 AM
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As a former CS major, I have to agree with you on the tech bro thing. A bunch of cocky assholes low key
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:01 AM
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She’s skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:47 AM
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It’s almost been 2 weeks. Why do I still have a headache from Covid? Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:41 AM
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Damn, who shit in your soup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:40 AM
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That’s why I’m waiting to find someone to make it fun. I’m down to wait for as long as I need
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:09 AM
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I havent eaten meat in years and I don’t know if I’ve ever tried an oyster, but aren’t they kind of small? I don’t know why people would pay that much for so little food
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:06 AM
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Has anyone posted about the 48 oysters woman yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:23 AM
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Get a cat or smth instead. Way cuter and way less work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:51 PM
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Wow, you’re not like the other boys. You’re different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:41 PM
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Get tested? What argument are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:14 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:48 PM
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Yeah, that’s kind of hard to compete with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:33 PM
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Just a reminder that you have to get consent before doing shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:28 PM
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If some asshole rips out my hair by trying this, I’m reporting them for assault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:22 PM
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I’m sorry. I would low key get so jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:14 PM
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No, I don’t want you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:13 PM
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Why do men always assume they know more about women than women? Oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:54 PM
3

Most women don’t want to be wrangled. That sounds terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:51 PM
9

Since women can find hot guys so easily, why wouldn’t I just find a different hot guy who isn’t red pilled? Ez
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:12 PM
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The reason I’m embarrassed to admit to people that I use Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:47 PM
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Kanye refuses treatment for his serious mental health disorder…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:34 PM
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Plenty of women like casual sex, but plenty of women (like the ones on forever alone) would be hurt by only being desired for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:32 PM
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Was there an ADHD poly woman running around here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:29 PM
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Taking the Covid vaccine turned my frogs gay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:25 PM
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I’m scared my roommate’s cat is going to start to like me more than her. That would be awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:24 PM
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The men on here don’t get that getting pumped and dumped usually hurts worse than getting ignored for most women. It basically is like someone giving people false hope for love and then suddenly taking all of that newly found oxytocin away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:23 PM
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Oh, didn’t know it’s worked before. Glad it worked out for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:20 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:19 PM
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No? I don’t use sex as a bargaining chip. I’m not saying people can’t jerk off, they can just use their imagination instead of watching people fuck. Porn does not equal masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:17 PM
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I just see it as cheating. Like if someone went to a voyeur’s house to watch them have sex. I don’t see it as that different because it’s behind a screen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:11 PM
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Well damn, guess it’s good for men that I’m not enthusiastic about dating them right now then!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:57 PM
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