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Approach the girl and T-pose, this will assert yourself as a true alpha male.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:32 PM
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Simple, playful, and objective. Nice job man.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:31 PM
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Invite her (or request) to eat dinner and to HANG OUT AFTER. The latter part is important because it shows interest in more than eating food together. Break out some wine, direct things to a couch, hot tub, anywhere where you can sit directly next to her and escalate kino. Here’s the thing. If you ask to have a one-on-one dinner with her, she knows what’s up. Best of luck. You have one shot, make it count.
/r/seduction24/07/18 04:03 AM
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My guy. It’s time to make a move.
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:57 AM
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You can talk to girls, but not in the context you’re speaking of. Trying to pick them up in the gym is a recipe for disaster 9/10 times. There’s a reason girls have to tie sweatshirts around their waist, cause most guys are just creeps who don’t aren’t socially conditioned.
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:47 PM
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Really depends on the job. Shitty fast food, department store, or anything disposable? Are you leaving the job soon? Go wild. Corporate-level and professional career job? Stay far, far away.
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:45 PM
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Read the sidebar, this is probably the most asked question on this sub. Go t /r/SelfImprovement Also, start lifting.
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:44 PM
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No matter what your end goal is- whether that be a date, hookup, or future wife- you should always open with a creative and witty message that has a connection to their profile (name, bio, pics, etc.) When girls sift through hundreds of tinder messages, cheesy ass lines like “what drinks do you like” or “trouble you’re getting in today” are almost always disqualified unless you’re in the top 10% in looks. In that case, you can say pretty much whatever the fuck you want to.
/r/seduction19/07/18 06:00 PM
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I feel like you’re trolling at this point. One more time, women touch you because they... A) know they can get away w/ it at work B) find you attractive
/r/seduction19/07/18 12:49 AM
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Escalate kino at the parties. If she rejects your advances, don’t waste your time.
/r/seduction19/07/18 12:46 AM
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First of all, this post is annoying as fuck and hurt my mind to read. They’re touching your arms and waist because woosh they’re attracted to you and flirting with you. Agreed on the company harassment double standard though. If you were really uncomfortable about it, tell HR.
/r/seduction19/07/18 12:44 AM
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There’s no default text. If you use a template, you have already failed. You should see how many texts and DMs girls get from guys, it’s absurd. Stand out. ALWAYS make the text unique and catered to your specific encounter(s) that previously happened.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:35 PM
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Make plans with the girl to get drinks/club/Netflix and chill/etc, before you all three go eat.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:33 PM
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If you don’t feel a strong emotional and sexual connection, why would you bother dating them? Tbh I don’t even understand what you’re asking through this post.
/r/seduction17/07/18 07:53 PM
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It can suck if you don’t know where things are going on at. I’ll always live in a rural area, where I can do whatever I want to, whenever I want to. I absolutely hate every aspect of large cities. Gotta find a group of people to get together, man. Bonfires, hiking, swimming, fishing, kayaking, concerts, shooting guns in a cornfield... the girls are there. You just have to take initiative and get everyone together.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:43 PM
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So TL;DR: be confident, show you can have fun whether you’re with a girl/group of guys or not. This shit isn’t rocket science guys.
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:41 PM
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I too live in buttfuck Egypt. At your age, focus on getting big, reading some good books, playing some good video games, and most importantly HAVING FUN. You need a good social circle that attends events like concerts, goes on shit like camping trips and whatnot. That’s a great way to meet girls. Otherwise, try tinder when you turn 18. One more time: become part of a strong social circle.
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:28 PM
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I used to feel identical to you, man. Serious question, it’s a little bit of a tangent but still. Do you go to the gym? If not, you need to buy a membership today and start going hard. It’s the absolute number one way to increase your masculinity (testosterone levels) and overall confidence. Trust me, that shit works. Fix yourself before you try to chase women. If you’re depressed, every single rejection will only dig you deeper into a place you don’t want to be.
/r/seduction02/07/18 03:32 PM
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Here’s the deal, man. You clearly succeeded. Everything you did was right, and exactly what I would’ve done down to the joke in the bookstore. You handled yourself well, showed hella confidence by approaching her at the bus stop. And she asked for your number. Don’t rationalize. Don’t chalk that up to “she was straightforward”. Instead, chalk it up to the fact of you not being a modern-day beta male that populate college campuses. You don’t need to learn any more from this situation. You have a …
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:37 PM
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This whole comment made me laugh. Your statements are sadly true. You have to put on a fake, big ass show to get any attention on large campuses. And more often than not, you have to essentially pay for friends (frats) if you don’t know anyone. Live it up, OP.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:35 PM
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Step 1: look at /r/tinder for 5-10 minutes a day (gives you good ideas of lines) Step 2: watch all HowToBeast’s YouTube videos on tinder and texting. Those two things will give you more than enough concrete information to excel.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:32 PM
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No one will have an absolutely true answer on here because it depends on your morals. She’s a piece of shit for that behavior, but if you don’t care about cucking another guy then go for it. Personally, I normally wouldn’t do that because bros before hoes man. I hate to see other guys get screwed over like this.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:30 PM
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Good ‘ole Indiana.
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:35 PM
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The definition of insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting the same result. -Einstein There has to be pieces missing from your puzzle. Something you’re maybe not realizing is hindering your eventual success. Feel free to PM me and I’d be glad to talk with you.
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:13 PM
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I’m not a fitness nor medical expert so that’s kind of tough to answer. Could you have a medical professional recommend you some light workouts to stay somewhat fit? If you can’t work out at all, put extra focus on hygiene, hairstyle, and dress.
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:11 PM
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I would say to read every link in the sidebar. Not all at once. Read slowly and really try to digest the info there. Can’t really target to one single post here, however I can tell you what to avoid. 9/10 articles on here with cringe/clickbait titles like “how to make her worship your cock” are absolutely worthless. Again, this is just my opinion, but avoid anything RSD related. Most of that shit is just inner-game psychedelic fluff designed for one purpose: marketing. Also, don’t take the advic…
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:15 AM
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Huh. That’s weird. I’m using the reddit iOS app. The first part of that sentence is the number nineteen.
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:07 AM
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I answered that in the comment? Lol
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:05 AM
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?
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:05 AM
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Pure coincidence. Guess the stars aligned that day, because I would’ve probably never searched for it myself. It came across as a recommended subreddit on my phone app. One tap of the screen literally lead to my life being drastically improved. I don’t even browse other subs remotely close to this one.
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:00 AM
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Living in the Midwest USA.
/r/seduction21/06/18 03:22 AM
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:)
/r/seduction21/06/18 03:15 AM
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Good deal man. It’s important for us to reflect on how much we’ve improved. Even when it looks like the odds are against you, just know how many people you’re ahead of already. My friends think I’m a ballsy mastermind, when in reality I don’t know shit about complex PUA techniques. A little self confidence goes a long way.
/r/seduction21/06/18 03:14 AM
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I’m glad I can spread some positivity. I have a LONG way to go, but I can offer you one factual piece of advice: do NOT stop approaching. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been rejected. Some girl at a party told me got seriously pissed and screamed in my face because I said Cardi B is an awful rapper. The next week, I approached a girl because I thought she actually looked famailar from one of my classes. She said “nice try” and turned away. Serious wtf moment there. But you know what? Non…
/r/seduction21/06/18 03:11 AM
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I truly think that this is a individually different question. Everyone has their own niches and strengths. No matter how much you push yourself out of comfort zones, there will still be personal strengths. For example, I love parties, clubs/bars, and bonfires in buttfuck nowhere small towns. My opinion is the quality of women are actually HIGHER there... everyone is so much more genuine and doesn’t put on a show. But again, if you excel in those areas, keep killing it.
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:59 AM
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What the fuck is a red heart? Like you think she’s going to send you a heart emoji?
/r/seduction19/06/18 04:23 PM
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Your best shot is to invite her to get drinks and catch up. You said it yourself though. Don’t get overinvested. If she doesn’t want to hook up again, respect that and move on.
/r/seduction18/06/18 01:34 PM
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TLDR: stop being a bitch
/r/seduction14/06/18 06:34 PM
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This is most likely the root issue, OP. It’s ok to build small rapport over text (makes the girl comfortable and shows you’re not a creep), but you can’t beat around the bush too long.
/r/seduction14/06/18 06:33 PM
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Doing that doesn’t make you desperate. It makes you accountable.
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:14 PM
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First of all, I just wanted to say great job on your new hobbies. Don’t ever stop! Yes, you probably were giving out a more relaxed vibe. You’re much more likely to be noticed when you’re comfortable and relaxed with yourself, versus being clammed up on your phone with earbuds in.
/r/seduction14/06/18 03:48 PM
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We had a flirtatious conversation, I attempted to get a number but she actually turned out to be much older than me and engaged. Haha! Still a win in my book- she was surrounded by a group of friends so I really racked my nerves beforehand.
/r/seduction14/06/18 03:45 PM
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Give a friend $50 and tell them they can keep it if you don’t approach at the next opportunity. Quick side note. I approached this girl wearing a camo hat and asked if she really hunted. She looked at me like I was fucking retarded and I just bursted out laughing. Luckily I was able to recover.
/r/seduction14/06/18 03:18 PM
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My post definitely came off as overinvested, my bad. I’ve already powered through a huge oneitis stage, so I’m aware of what not to do now haha. Thanks for looking out for me though dude Anyways, I would definitely consider myself fun and active. I need to start posting more frequently though.
/r/seduction13/06/18 10:32 PM
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You’re asking a question based on morals, so there’s really not a “correct” answer. That being said, bros before hoes. Even if the guy isn’t a friend, I usually stay away from that because it can backfire very easily.
/r/seduction13/06/18 06:38 PM
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Good eye contact: you convey emotion through facial expressions. She says something that you actually think is funny? Open your eyes up a little bit and grin. Says something crazy or stupid? Show your disbelief by opening your mouth like you’re in shock. Obviously don’t over-exaggerate or excessively use this, but you get my point. Staring is literally just maintaining a blank “poker face”.
/r/seduction13/06/18 06:35 PM
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Have had the same thing happen. Don’t sweat it, man. No one knows the real reason why she ghosted- chances are you did fine. Instead of focusing on the whys, just put that energy into scoring more dates. To put it bluntly, don’t waste your time on those types of bitches.
/r/seduction12/06/18 02:15 AM
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Balance.
/r/seduction08/06/18 01:07 PM
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Not cool dude, not cool. Just FYI, she’s probably sending out pics to several other guys for validation.
/r/seduction06/06/18 04:26 PM
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Prom is your best bet. If she has a male date that isn’t her boyfriend, you better go for it. Otherwise, I’ve actually had some success replying to IG stories specifically. Better than “sliding in the DMs” but it’s too unreliable to count on as plan A. One more way, meet her at a party. Make yourself as socially present as possible. Throw a party yourself, if needed.
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:46 AM
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Really depends on the size of your class. Colds in high school will often bite you in the ass. First problem: word gets around. Kids love drama. High-school aged people are often not mature enough to handle cold approaches, as it’s foreign substance to them. Very high chance you’ll be labeled as a creep, just trying to get your dick wet. Harsh truth, unfortunately. I was in high school not too long ago. Graduating class of ~250. If I cold approached a girl I didn’t know well, I guarantee 100 peo…
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:39 AM
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Seems like salsa dancing is very popular among the pua community and this sub. Might be worth looking in to. I’m an awful dancer too. The only time I feel like I know what I’m doing is when I’m 8 beers in- and at that point it’s just a grinding festival. I need to work on that haha.
/r/seduction04/06/18 03:34 PM
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Damn, well said.
/r/seduction04/06/18 12:31 AM
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Bruh...
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:49 PM
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The things you listed (hard worker, social drinker, non-smoker) are NOT the reasons why girls perceive you as a niceguy/innocent. It’s time to dig deeper and really evaluate why you’re coming off that way. HowToBeast’s YouTube channel has a bunch of solid advice on stopping the niceguy attitude. Also, just wanted to say NEVER abandon your hobbies or passions to appease someone else. It doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you own that shit no one cares!
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:53 AM
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I’m pretty young so I don’t have much experience in any time earlier than 2015. I can say, however, that development of social media and dating apps have significantly changed the mindset of guys and girls alike. Girls are fucking glued to tinder, instagram, and Snapchat. It’s a constant cycle of validation and competition between each other to see who gets the hottest guy, the most likes on a photo, or the most “swipe ups” on their snap story. The times have definitely changed, and unfortunatel…
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:09 AM
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Start taking out your anger at the gym. Things will change subconsciously.
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:32 PM
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Because busting a nut isn’t the only satisfying thing to do in life? A successful man still wants someone to create a deep, emotional connection with, and to make memories together. We are sexual creatures, but also a lot more than that.
/r/seduction26/05/18 04:49 PM
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“I need a script” This is the root cause of your problem. You cannot be a robot, progressing through a mental checklist on a date. You’re probably coming off as artificial and uncalibrated. By the way, girls don’t really care how much money you have or your nice car if you’re a weirdo. Take a deep breath, relax, and immerse yourself in the conversation. Nothing else matters at the moment but the energy between you and your date. Pay attention to body language, small details, and most importantly…
/r/seduction25/05/18 10:46 PM
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I’m the same way- I’d take a 6/10 ambitious, focused, and successful girl than a 8/10 club slut any day. Coffee shops, book stores/malls, and obviously college campuses. If you’re looking for older age ranges, go to higher end bars/clubs and meetups (bunch of apps and Facebook groups for hobbies and whatnot).
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:20 PM
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1 and 2 make no sense why that’d be a failed date. Also, patriarchal for saying you don’t want kids? Come on, we don’t need that shit here. The rest sound like guys that don’t know what the fuck they’re doing. Are you using a dating app? Just keep putting yourself out there, and you’ll eventually screen through the betas.
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:45 AM
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You’ve already won half the battle. Go out there and kill it next time!
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:48 PM
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Respectfully disagree to this. You can build a successful life and focus on perfecting your personal qualities, but girls will only come if you make yourself available. That means you have to have a quality social circle, and put yourself in places where meeting girls is possible.
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:56 PM
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I’ll be straight with you, that reply wasn’t the best. I know you had good intentions and was trying to be playful, but you also subconsciously disqualified yourself. Not that big of a deal though, it’s just a text and she probably already forgot about it.
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:19 PM
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I feel like you’re probably texting too much. Just set up the date. Don’t clearly state intentions through an introductory phase of texting, and you won’t get messages like “I’m not looking to date.” Also, “I’m not looking to date” is a VERY VERY loose term! Trust me. For girls, it could mean anything from “I’m just wanting to hook up” to “I’m wanting someone to blow my socks off and have a LTR”. It’s just a self-qualifying statement, but you can easily see through that shit if you’re paying att…
/r/seduction23/05/18 02:14 PM
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There’s two things going on here. First, being with ANY person does increase your social value. Doesn’t matter who it is. It could be your best friend or grandma. Literally the first thing you stated is having social anxiety. I guarantee that you still do get attention when you’re out alone, and are just too self-conscious to notice it. Start standing up straighter and walking with your head up, eyes level.
/r/seduction23/05/18 02:11 PM
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Lifting every day and cutting soda/junk food is the best choice I’ve made in my life. Even though I’m the exact same person, my confidence blew through the roof in a good way. Your “plan” sounds good on paper but you really don’t need to go all-out. For example, you don’t need to be popping multivitamins. Just eat regular healthy foods like humans were designed to do.
/r/seduction23/05/18 03:18 AM
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Mods should sticky this post for a couple weeks. Great perspective.
/r/seduction21/05/18 11:23 PM
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Simple. Escalate next time you hang out in an appropriate situation. Time is ticking bud.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:55 PM
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It’s called self-consciousness. Best way to fix it? Focus on your successes, and look forward to the positives in life. Remind yourself that you are worth the time of others- they are no different than you.
/r/seduction21/05/18 04:56 PM
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Approach and T-pose in front of her, assert your dominance as the alpha male. Grab her hand silently and lead her to the school cafeteria for frozen yogurt :) Just kidding dude. Read the sidebar and countless posts on here just like yours.
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:59 AM
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Abort mission entirely. Snapchat streaks are meaningless and hold no real value to emotional connections between two people. I’m not saying I don’t have streaks myself, I definitely do. Just don’t do that shit with girls you’re trying to game.
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:57 AM
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I thought I was on /r/4chan for a minute.
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:25 PM
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No...girls talk like that all the time. She literally called you “hot” and you’re disqualifying yourself this heavily? Come on, you’re better than that. Ask her on a date. I don’t even know what else to tell you at this point.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:55 PM
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And?
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:51 PM
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Trust me dude. Girls don’t do that to annoy or poke fun at guys. Not too long ago I was your age and had the same stuff happen to me. Guess what? I was a fucking pussy and didn’t even try to make a move ONCE. Regret hurts much more than rejection. It’s time to man up a little bit. Consider yourself lucky that you’re realizing these things at 17 years old- you have so much time for success ahead of you.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:47 PM
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It is time to make a move, my dude :) First half of your post, ehhhh I wouldn’t say you have any conclusive evidence. Second half, holy shit man. Girls don’t do that to random guys. You just need some confidence. You ARE good enough. Just don’t put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:32 PM
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Her “guy friend” is a 5-star example of a modern day beta male. Keep asserting yourself, make moves on her. Be direct with her and take her out dude, just have fun. Invite her to the park to chill after school. Ignore the guy friend, I guarantee he’s very jealous of you right now.
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:50 PM
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I agree with what everyone said here. Go out and meet some people IRL. However, you can get a hefty amount of increased matches just by revamping your profile. If you want to PM me your pics and bio and I’ll give you some advice.
/r/seduction18/05/18 12:31 PM
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Yep, I would never try this in daygame but whatever works for those guys haha! Also the line “come here” is my favorite for nightgame when you’re escalating. Don’t overcomplicate things.
/r/seduction18/05/18 01:36 AM
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I was on OPIOIDS
/r/seduction18/05/18 12:46 AM
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There’s a lot for you to learn. Read everything in the sidebar, start lifting weights, and watch a handful of HowToBeast’s YouTube videos.
/r/seduction17/05/18 04:35 PM
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I’ve had my fair share of dealing with insecure, negative, and sketchy girls. STAY AWAY. Step back and witness the trainwreck from afar. Every time I’ve tried to hook up/date those types, it ends in a fiery explosion. I’m pretty good at detecting red flags now, thankfully.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:31 AM
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Honestly dude, your texts weren’t bad at all. I was expecting some full out cringepics material, you didn’t do bad. Just cut down on the emojis. My rule is two max, per five texts sent. Stop beating yourself up. By the way, that girl seems pretty “interested” in you, if you catch my drift. Relax and have fun!
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:41 PM
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Good deal! Push yourself and make your body suffer, haha. I’m not much older than you. It’s good to start taking care of your body at this age. We won’t regret it when we’re 75 and still kicking.
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:25 PM
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To add to what /u/Zoidberg22 said, start hitting the weights. If you’re a 6/10, the chiseled version of you will be an easy 7.5-8/10. Just remember that.
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:24 PM
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I always remind myself that men watching me approach ALWAYS wish they were the one approaching. Even if you get rejected. Some of my friends tell me how ballsy and crazy I am for cold approaching, even the times that I’ve got shot down. You are envied and make other guys jealous around you. Trust me. If you’re in a public setting, also remind yourself that you’ll probably NEVER see this girl again. Write these two things on your wrist before you go out. I bet it’ll help.
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:21 PM
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I’d say my texting game is pretty good. I’ve grew up around this shit (honestly I’d rather go back to the 90s where smartphones didn’t dominate people’s lives) but I’ve learned to use it to my advantage. I probably had my first smartphone when I was 14? 15 maybe. Those long, drawn-out messages that seemingly go nowhere are actually very important. It may not seem like much to guys (it’s just a fucking text), but you need to understand that girls are absolutely GLUED to their phones. It’s an inte…
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:44 AM
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I think a lot of people don’t realize that this shit doesn’t perfect itself overnight. You HAVE to fail. You HAVE to embarrass yourself, make yourself uncomfortable. And there will be a day when all of those struggles are worth it.
/r/seduction16/05/18 12:44 AM
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/r/seduction15/05/18 02:38 PM
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/r/CringeAnarchy is right this way.
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:08 AM
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If you don’t have practice in real-life approaches and daygame then I’d proceed with caution, because you’re probably going to end up hurting yourself mentally. Either way, here’s what I’d do since you’re being persistent. Search her name on IG and follow her. Wait for her to post something on her STORY, not a normal post. DM her something short, witty, and funny that’s relevant to the photo. If you get a one-word response, abort mission. It’ll be easy to gauge interest from there. If you are se…
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:45 PM
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Not a lost cause. Your chances of success are much higher doing a real-life approach. However, if you are insisting on DMs, hit her up on Snapchat or IG. I ended up in a girl’s bed 3 days after DMing her, but that was mostly sheer luck and coincidence. Don’t have high expectations for social media game.
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:39 PM
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Messaging over Facebook with a stranger? You’re looking at a solid 3% success rate. No dude, but seriously. Next time you see her in person, cold approach her. You need to start practicing cold approaches on other girls, now. There’s plenty of info already out there.
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:32 PM
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Text her right now. Hey X, let’s (do literally anything interesting or fun). Does 8pm on Friday work? Being an assertive man that knows what he wants is not needy.
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:20 PM
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Yeah. It’s called practice, trial, and failure. I really hope this post is a joke.
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:18 PM
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Keep it simple, stupid.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:36 PM
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About four weeks since our last date. The funny thing is, I’m not even sexually interested in her anymore. I’ve moved on from that aspect. Just an odd feeling that keeps popping back in my head. Weird shit, man.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:20 PM
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I’ll be completely honest, I have this issue too. I’ve had sexual experiences with far more attractive girls than her AFTER meeting. And she’s still stuck in my head more than any other girl. At this point I’m just suppressing any thoughts of her and moving on with life. I don’t really think there’s a secret to fixing that.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:13 PM
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“Come here.” There will be other posts here, but I swear by this one for nightgame and has never failed me once. K.I.S.S. Don’t try that line on a coffee date, lol.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:10 PM
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Sounds like you’re doing fine, my dude. If you’re getting a girl caught up in the moment that has a BF, you’re actually GOOD at seduction. Think about that for a second. You’re distracting someone from their realities, and exciting them with short-term possibilities of you. I’d say just keep going at it man. 6 out of 10 leading to dates is a solid number anyways.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:09 PM
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You don’t “pick up” girls on instagram. The most you could do is get their number. Having an active and interesting profile with a decent amount of followers will help.
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:57 PM
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If you see a handsome guy, give him some eye contact. Go over and say hi. Unless he is shy and timid himself, he’ll probably ask for your number or even a date right there. Sounds like you just need to make yourself more available. There are plenty of guys out there, trust me. Are you in any clubs or social activities? You could even try online dating like Tinder, but don’t have super high expectations as most people are looking for hookups. If you’re looking to get some action, that’d be perfec…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:23 PM
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Do you go to the gym? Hitting the weights is a HUGE confidence booster. It builds you mentally and physically.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:02 PM
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https://youtu.be/tNSUNbfpPNY If you mindlessly text and converse with them, you WILL be used as a validation tool and friendzoned. Just like the vid says. If you want to be just friends with her; that’s fine. Text your heart away. But if you’re actually trying to get some action, keep it subdued, yet friendly and fun.
/r/seduction13/05/18 07:58 PM
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That was a smart move on your part. You demonstrated self-value. Some may even think she gave you a small shit-test with that question. And after all, it’s just a fucking Instagram account. You could look it up on the search menu. PS- your friend may be a white knight and might hurt your game if you hang around him in the club too much. Nothing you said to her was even close to being a dick.
/r/seduction13/05/18 07:56 PM
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Lol the same thing has happened to me before. She said “come sleep in here, we’re not doing anything though”. I was hammered so I just walked in and passed out with her. Wake up, within 10 minutes we’re making out. Haha
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:52 PM
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Everyone has some form of approach anxiety. Even the “pros” will have some notion of it, tucked away in the back of their head. That’s the key, suppressing that feeling and using it to your advantage. I think cold approaches are fun and exciting. Almost no guys fucking do them, which creates an unconventional and fun vibe if you pull it off right. Not even kidding. I have met ONE person my entire life that cold approaches, which is the one who started showing me some light game...which lead me t…
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:36 PM
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Good shit man. This is the type of stuff that’s good to see on this sub. I would highly recommend against texting her. Just go for it again next time you guys hang out.
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:33 PM
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Okay, I’m glad you’re aware of the situation. I’m not Houdini but I can probably piece together what went on from your descriptions. I honestly doubt you did anything wrong. If you’re not a fat neckbeard, you shouldn’t have any issues with looks deferring girls. Your question isn’t off-putting. I was just saying the way it is phrased could potentially sound weird due to slang and general convo etiquette for your region. But again, it sounds like you did everything right. You walked up, smiled, a…
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:05 PM
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Ehhh this is a hard one to give a definitive answer for dude. I’m not trying to come off as a dick or harsh, but there’s a few things you’ll have to evaluate yourself. How awkward was the approach? Did you ask that question confidently with eye contact, or did you kind of half-mumble it while looking to the side/ground? Did you get her full, undivided attention? If she was walking towards you, did you extend your arm slightly and stop her? How good looking are you? This is a blunt truth, but gir…
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:52 PM
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I don’t think anyone actually enjoys the taste of liquor. Sounds like you just need to man up and stop depreciating yourself. It’s not hard to limit your alcohol consumption, take a few shots and go have fun. You don’t have to get blackout drunk.
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:48 AM
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Well, I’ll give a concrete answer instead of the usual hand-wavey and confusing shit you see on here. Drink some alcohol.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:07 PM
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It’s good to realize when you have a not-so-healthy relationship with people, but I really don’t agree with the rest of your points. Having a strong and close circle of friends that you truly care about, and can count on for almost anything, is an extremely important thing to have. If you want to hop from girl to girl, that’s fine too. Some guys get sick of ONSs and want something more exclusive, someone that they can share memories with and mutually benefit from more than sex. Abundance mindset…
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:02 PM
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Your college is huge. Go for it my dude.
/r/seduction10/05/18 12:46 AM
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You literally got catcalled and didn’t follow through? Duuuuude. Good job realizing your mistake though. Next time this happens, remember how shitty you felt after pussying out and use that desire and energy to approach!
/r/seduction09/05/18 10:09 PM
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Yes, it’s a pretty crucial aspect nowadays. Especially for younger age ranges (like 18-25), girls are glued to their phones and you have to play your cards right. I don’t think it needs its own subreddit though, there’s pretty much all the info you need already posted here.
/r/seduction09/05/18 07:09 PM
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I think saying this is 95% of the game is a little over exaggerated, but that form of body language is definitely important. I was just getting coffee with this girl and getting to know her. I decided to see how effective this method actually was; I thought it was mainly BS fluff. Boy was I wrong. When I was leaned in with my hands and shoulders forward, sure everything was going fine. But the moment I leaned back calmly with good eye contact, I could literally feel a positive tension in the con…
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:42 PM
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This question gets asked so many times every day. Start reading the sidebar and search for keywords in this subreddit. A lot of information still applies to your age range, just don’t worry about the more “adult” stuff like dating apps, drinking, and having your own place.
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:17 AM
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This has nothing to do with seduction. You’re asking a question that depends on your personal morals and ethics. If you’re just hooking up with her, don’t bother telling her. If you’re starting to get exclusive, you should tell her the truth to avoid explosions in the future. You’ll most likely get dumped, but it’s better than damaging someone’s own life because of your own greed and inconsideration. That goes for your religious beliefs and student status alike.
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:10 AM
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Well fuck, I just finished my semester last week! I’ll have to try this one out if I remember it for fall.
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:51 AM
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Good comparison there. For anyone else reading this, this post wasn’t advocating for you to make moves on girls who clearly aren’t interested. There’s a very substantial difference between being a creep and being a brave, confident man. For example, if she clearly pulls away when you try to hug her or avoids any conversation with you, you need to move on and respect her space. I’m still working on reading mixed signals as well. It’s pretty difficult and often makes me nervous... just because you…
/r/seduction08/05/18 10:37 PM
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Not sure why you’re being downvoted, as this is very true. If you don’t have the basics down and try to apply these methods, you will come off as a creep. Plain and simple.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:12 PM
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Good luck man. Remember the pain of regret always outweighs the sting of rejection. Soon enough, you’ll become indifferent to the outcome of the approach. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:47 PM
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Dude, you need a reality check. Adding each other on IG and having small talk over a dating app is not getting “far” by any means. Move on. Also, did you even attempt to schedule a date in those messages exchanged? You should always aim to set up a date within the first 10 total messages on tinder, or else things will go cold quickly.
/r/seduction04/05/18 07:35 PM
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Just call me Nicole.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:56 PM
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Yes. You look the same in every single picture you listed. And for future reference, you should stop taking calculator-quality photos if you want more matches.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:25 PM
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How many times are you going to post this dude. What the hell.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:24 PM
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Welcome to the world of females. Some form of drama always comes with it. It eventually goes away when they mature and become more sensible. From my experience, there’s a massive personality difference between a 19 year old and 22 year old. I’m still young as well, but I try to stay away from the drama shit. You did the right thing by hanging up, but that was really not a good idea to insult her. You didn’t actually solve anything, but just provoked her to become more pissed off and emotional. C…
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:21 PM
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Holy shit dude. I’m actually cracking up at this post. That’s literally the most obvious signs of wanting to “have some fun”. Now is the time to act. Chances are, you’ve got this one in a bag. Just remember to stay calm and collected, and if she doesn’t want to do certain things, respect that and don’t make a big deal. But like I said, you have this one on easy mode.
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:56 PM
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Practice in the mirror a little bit. Sometimes I catch myself with that bored expression as well. Just having a very light smirk on your face throughout the conversation will be beneficial. There’s not really any secrets to that, you either smile or you don’t.
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:27 PM
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Very important. Start out with a light grin/smirk, show your teeth a little when you’re shaking their hand/meeting them. Combined with solid eye contact, it creates a good vibe and positive tension in the conversation.
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:23 PM
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She’ll cuddle with you but not have sex? Lol. Sounds like she’s just being indirect and afraid as coming off as slutty. Which is understandable- girls aren’t going to say “I’ll fuck you” without some provoking first. Go cuddle with her, slowly escalate and feel her up if she is enjoying it. If she pulls away or takes your hand off, apologize in a lighthearted way and step back a little. If your advances keep getting rejected, just accept that and move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction30/04/18 10:20 PM
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To add to this, the best method to free yourself up again is just going out there and talking, not flirting, to girls. For the first three approaches, don’t even try for their number or anything. Something as simple as “That jacket is awesome” and leaving the approach will warm you up very quickly.
/r/seduction30/04/18 10:17 PM
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Message her with something lighthearted and funny about her recent timeline posts. Go from there. Just some words of caution. Facebook is plagued with creepy old dudes, scammers, and just weirdos in general. Social media game is hard and mostly unworthy to start with, but hitting her up on Snapchat or instagram is much more likely to be successful. You can give Facebook a shot, but don’t have any expectations.
/r/seduction30/04/18 10:12 PM
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Thanks for clearing things up man! I’m still pretty fresh to the entire pickup scene but this is very helpful. I hate the possibility coming off as a creepy, horny dude, when in reality I just want to meet some new people and do cool shit haha.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:43 PM
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I wouldn’t say I was “putting her on the spot.” Making a small comment about her being cute then directly moving to a more comfortable conversation about general life topics is common, as far as I’m concerned. So, going up to her and talking about indirect, random shit is a better approach method? I feel like that will just confuse her even more, why a total stranger walks up and chats about stuff with no clear purpose. To me, that seems odd and creates an unwanted tension in the conversation, l…
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:16 PM
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Shit test: questions or statements used by girls to evaluate your masculinity. Girls use them subconsciously, it’s not a direct thought of “I’m going to see if this guy is a niceguy”. Of course buying a woman drinks is a nice thing to do and generally harmless, but that’s the point. Almost every guy will submit to that, and girls get sick of niceguys doing whatever they say. Give them a challenge, a reason to be chased and wanted. Be different from everyone in the setting.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:00 PM
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Why? Especially in club/bar settings, they don’t give a fuck. They’re humans too, man. Ive lost count of the number of times girls say “i have to pee, where’s the restroom?” It’s no different for guys. If a girl is repulsed for you saying that, she’s a socially inept idiot.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:57 PM
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I’m having trouble understanding what you’re even looking for, and why a course would be needed on that. If the girl wants to fuck you, she’s going to be diving on you like a puma and will say yes when you ask. If she doesn’t, respect her answer and don’t advance. It’s really not complicated dude.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:55 PM
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Are you actually David? I had no idea you had a Reddit account lol. Fucking sick bro
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:12 PM
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The entire YouTube channel HowToBeast will answer your questions extremely well. I’ve found his channel to be the most effective learning tool out of any internet resource. He actually gives concrete, realistic advice that you can apply- no conceptual or hand-wavey shit. And no, I’m not being paid to say this.
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:37 AM
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Unless it’s a big school, like 400+ graduating class, don’t cold approach in high school. It will bite you in the ass very quickly.
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:36 AM
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First of all, holy wall of text. If you want some more people to read this you should add some paragraphs. lol. Anyways, I read through and somewhat understand your predicament. Your age is the point where many people are, in fact, slowing down in social activities, getting married, and buckling down on the current social circle. It’s a hard fact to swallow, but you admitted it yourself. HS/college was extremely easy to meet new people. Have you tried the app “meetup”? I personally haven’t used …
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:34 AM
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No, life doesn’t suck. Well, for the most part. Shit happens in all of our lives that we don’t have control over. Right now, you could be laying on a Brazilian side road with a .45 acp round in the back of your head, after trying to run from a robber on a moped. We all have so much going for us, and don’t realize until it’s too late. You are dealt a set of cards in life, it is only your choice if you’re going to play them, or sit and stare at them- hoping you’ll end up with a full house. Serious…
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:15 AM
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Bruh you look like RSD Tyler lmao Shave the hair, trim the beard, hit the gym and your confidence will subconsciously/naturally build.
/r/seduction29/04/18 11:56 PM
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Maybe try some day game? Clubs are generally not the place for extensive romance dude. People are there for a fun night, not looking for a serious relationship.
/r/seduction29/04/18 12:52 AM
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That’s a tough situation, man. Coming from a straight guy: When I’m making eye contact with another male, it’s simply common etiquette in conversations and encounters. It has nothing to do with romantic interest, it’s actually quite the opposite. I don’t want you to take eye contact as a “green light” and try to make a move on a straight guy, because that will end in a fiery explosion. Are there any other indicators besides the eye contact scenario? Do you even know if the guy’s sexual orientati…
/r/seduction29/04/18 12:50 AM
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I really don’t have anything else to say because I agree with everything you stated. Also, by the way, I meant “fucked up” in the sense that I’m seriously drunk. Lol. Thanks for the pointers and help man. I didn’t expect this post to blow up and get so many responses, it’s quite overwhelming to hear so many different opinions. Live and learn.
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:55 AM
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I would generally agree with all of your points, except the fact that she keeps texting me, seemingly very eager to make future plans. But when the time comes around, she flakes. I wasn’t trying to fucking kiss her in a coffee shop, that’s incredibly irrational. This entire situation happened privately when we were at our vehicles. One more thing. If she was discomforted that much, why the hell did she agree with a date on me in the first place? Our entire conversation was perfectly normal and c…
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:51 AM
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True man. I’m seriously fucked up so apologies in advance if this doesn’t make much sense. I wouldn’t consider myself a “casual sex seeker” but maybe my approach came off that way? I used the classic “honestly you’re really cute and I just wanted to say hi” line. I wasn’t pushing for a kiss at all. My post said quite the opposite, I bitched out when the time came.
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:20 AM
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Maybe you’re right. I wouldn’t say I was rushing anything forward, but it’s hard to tell over a Reddit post. The kino was very light and playful. The furthest I went was brushing her hair behind her ear and having my hand right above her knee, which is very reserved in my opinion.
/r/seduction28/04/18 04:03 AM
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I’m honestly not sure how you inferred I was being clingy and uncentered from that. We went to coffee/mall because she had work shortly afterwards and we were both on a tight schedule the entire week. I sent her a total of two texts after that date. The first one was later that night, shortly letting her know I had fun and we should do it again soon, which she (very enthusiastically) agreed. The second was a couple days later when I proposed a fishing/hiking date which is much more involved and …
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:14 AM
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I’m definitely not saying that first suggestion as that’s prime /r/niceguys material. I also feel like you’re going full out white knight in this dude. Fact: some girls are more interesting than others. Fact: some girls will fuck anything that walks, which is absolutely a slutty thing to do. Not sure where you’re getting at with this post.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:59 AM
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Pretty much. I just wish I knew what changed her mind about everything, because she seemed pretty interested at first.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:13 AM
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You might be right. However, I think I did a pretty good job of keeping distance from her over text and Snapchat. We were only sending mild flirty things over Snapchat. She was the one texting me paragraphs about her day, and I was simply responding with two sentences max and keeping things grounded. But yeah, I’m starting to realize that some factors are out of my control. I never saw her as a serious long term possibility, but I did see her as more valuable than the other girls I’m talking to.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:13 AM
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Yeah, I understand that factor. I have to remind myself that girls are just weird in that aspect, not ask any questions, and move on. I’m getting zero signs of interest from her at this point so it’s time to cut my losses and find someone better. Sucks to say, as we were both digging each other the first date. Oh well.
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:57 PM
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No way man, I just started watching your videos after finding you through David on YouTube. Now you’re posting here. Keep up the solid work and best of luck to your channel!
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:25 PM
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There’s not really a grade-a response for that comment. That girl sounds like a serious bitch anyways and I’d pursue elsewhere, but whatever floats your boat. Whatever you say, don’t go full out niceguy and try to prove yourself. You’d be falling for the trap. For me, I’d say something blatantly stupid and pointless to make her laugh. That’s just my personality, so don’t try it if you don’t operate that way. I’d say “that’s a great observation, have you considered asexuality?”. It shows you don’…
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:06 PM
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It’s generally not going to be acceptable to do. Women are there to improve themselves and likely blowing off steam and stress from their surrounding life. Now, if they’re clearly checking you out and staring you down, feel free to approach her in between sets, while she’s getting a drink, etc. If she has earbuds in, you better have something seriously interesting to say on approach. I’m pretty sure the YouTube channel HowToBeast has a video on this exact topic and it’s really good.
/r/seduction27/04/18 02:59 PM
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Exactly. I was in the eye of the fucking hurricane. She let me brush her hair back behind her ear, and her eyes were darting around like crazy. She was clearly anticipating something, but for whatever godforsaken reason my brain decides to abort the mission. I’m a fucking idiot. God, this hurts to type. Bros, don’t let this be you. I don’t want to see any of you guys fail.
/r/seduction27/04/18 02:37 PM
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I think you’re correct to a certain extent, but I wouldn’t say your thoughts apply to everyone. I was perfectly content with my life, fairly balanced lifestyle. I was just scared of rejection. Plain and simple. I wouldn’t say there was any bad habits that led to that, it’s just how I developed. Luckily I’ve been turning that around lately.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:57 PM
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I know it seems weird and hard to do, but literally stop responding to her- unless she asks you a direct question or comment. Trust me bro, I’ve been in your spot before. It is ALWAYS better to keep those conversations in person!
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:29 PM
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Do you have her phone number? Despite what you may think, not texting a girl often before a date creates slight tension and a “mystery” factor, which girls absolutely love. You should go against your beliefs and try it out. Impress her in person, don’t try to hold her interest over text. It seems like you already connected with her over music/etc, which is sufficient. Shoot her a text on Sunday afternoon. “Hey X, looking forward to seeing you tomorrow! Hope you have some good music ready to show…
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:26 PM
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True. I’ve done quite a few cold approaches now and usually transition pretty smoothly, but this one caught me off guard and dented my frame good lol. I’ll try to keep focused on advancing the next time this happens.
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:03 AM
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In your opinion, what’s something that’s “normal” and wouldn’t catch you off guard? From what I’ve read and experienced, opening with an outfit compliment or simply appearance (you’re cute/etc) are extremely common daygame approach methods.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:16 AM
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remember to drink some water homie
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:06 AM
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wat
/r/seduction26/04/18 02:58 AM
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What’s your problem, exactly? I cold approached a cute girl at my campus today, complimented her, and had a really funny and interesting conversation. At the end when I asked if she’d like to hang out, she hit me with the boyfriend too. There’s nothing wrong with that, and I still came out of the approach feeling great and confident. It’s just part of the game dude. It’s a game of numbers. I walked away and heard her friends in the background “that really just happened? whhhaaatttt” PS- a really…
/r/seduction26/04/18 02:56 AM
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In person would be the best way, and I highly recommend going that route if at all possible. If not, send her a few silly snaps that are lightly flirtatious to set the stage a little. Then simply ask to make plans directly after that. It’s okay if she turns you down man. That stuff happens ALL the time and it’s really not that awkward. Just act normal and like nothing happened.
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:34 PM
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Well, she’s clearly comfortable with you to a certain extent. However, close friends for 2 years- this one is going to be harder. Watch how to beast’s video on YouTube about getting out of the friend zone. Do NOT confess all your feelings to her at once. That will seriously creep her out, and you’ll blow your chances. You have to understand she has her guard down for you, much more than a guy she’d be talking to for a couple weeks. Tread lightly and gradually show her that you’re not interested …
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:31 PM
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Triangle gaze, light flirting, light kino. If she looks uncomfortable or pulls away, respect that and slow down. How long have you been “friends” with her? That will really dictate how far you can start this out. If she’s been a close friend for years, doing this stuff out of nowhere will be very weird to her.
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:57 PM
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I’m sitting here cracking up imagining a girl, half naked on a couch, hearing a massive bang from the bathroom and you walking out a couple seconds later with an erection. Lmao
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:01 PM
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You’re in a rut. We all have low points, but what really matters is what you do to light a fire under your ass and recoup. Bet you won’t cold approach a girl tomorrow. If you reply to this comment, I’ll PM you tomorrow and make sure you did. I have no idea who you are, but I know you can do it. The only thing stopping you is YOUR brain.
/r/seduction25/04/18 08:32 PM
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I would avoid smoking until you confirm that she does it too. Jeep is simple man. You’re over-evaluating your situation, and that’s when you’re prone to failure and it really can get in your head. Ask her out for some coffee. “Hey X, down to grab some coffee after class?” That’s always a good start.
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:57 AM
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The one you mentioned is pretty good, but it won’t get you anywhere once you’re actually inside a building. Here’s one that I’ve been using lately, that’s really effective and natural. If you’re standing/sitting next to them, simply lightly grab their arm directly after a “push” (not literally shoving them, im talking about push/pull). So for example, this weekend I make a playful comment about a girl’s poor choice on shoes to wear at the time (she was wearing brand new fabric vans at a forest b…
/r/seduction23/04/18 03:41 PM
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She’s not interested in talking bud. Nothing you did wrong. Just stop messaging her and move on.
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:39 PM
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Absolutely not. Find social events in your new town. Maybe even get on tinder if you’re in to that.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:42 PM
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Goal: have fun and entertain yourself Not the goal: directly getting laid
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:18 PM
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Really depends on your personal tastes, just listen to what you normally do. Been listening to KOD recently and that always gets me in the right mindset, but that’s your personal preference.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:18 PM
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First of all, I’ve never done anything in a professional environment like yours, so what I’m about to say is purely my speculative opinion. I would absolutely not get personal with her in the conference. From a rational standpoint, you are going to shoot yourself in the foot approaching her for a number/etc before/after the conference. At least in the US, that’s not really okay. Are you guys going to dinner after this meeting, or anything like that? You could casually invite her out for some dri…
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:39 PM
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/u/Nicks1234 the real MVP. This is the kind of shit we need to see on this subreddit. You actually have useful advice that can resonate with everyone on some level.
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:30 PM
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Maybe you’re focusing too hard on pickup, and not caring for other aspects of your life? Idk man, it’s hard to tell exactly what you’re wanting out of this post and I almost feel like you have an underlying issue that’s provoking negative vibes. Have you considered a LTR with someone before? You don’t have to be constantly gaming and your life shouldn’t be centered around females.
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:06 PM
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Listen bro, I’m not trying to argue with you. I was making this whole thing lighthearted. You do you, and if it works and you’re killing it, awesome. I was just pointing out a pattern I thought was interesting and kinda weird. Keep up the solid work though :)
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:02 PM
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That’s cool you have a pedigree of girls. I don’t doubt your methods. I’m saying that literally every post that has something to do with RSD’s teachings sounds like something you’d see on /r/insanepeoplefacebook. Like, scatterbrained thoughts, weird verbatim, and cringiness is common with all of them.
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:55 PM
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I swear to god, every time I see someone using RSD tactics on this subreddit, they sound either batshit insane or tweaked out. Seriously guys, scroll through this site’s post in the past 48 hours.
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:25 PM
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What’s done is done. No matter the outcome: Try to take this as a learning experience. You could’ve arranged a meeting time or simply talked to her the next time available.
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:21 PM
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You did it over text? Bruh.
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:12 PM
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https://youtu.be/jMK6EdMr4dw David’s channel is excellent and I highly recommend watching some of his other videos.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:25 PM
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What are you confused about
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:54 PM
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You’ve had sex 100-200 times and are claiming yourself inexperienced? What the fuck lol.
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:20 PM
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I don’t really think these are stereotypes, just preferences what girls think is hot. If you like girls with nice legs, is that a stereotype? Anyways, I’ll contribute one. Most college-age girls love well-dressed guys with a clean haircut. No baggy clothes, but no suits and ties either. Those two things absolutely scream confidence on campuses, which is a great thing to enact.
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:17 PM
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RSD is fucking retarded and is capable of brainwashing men into robots. I’m not a fan of any of their mindsets or tactics. But yeah, their course competitions are basically dick measuring contests.
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:14 PM
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Sidebar has everything you need to start changing yourself.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:41 PM
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Nope. You keep doing you. Guys love confident, chatty women. Well, at least most do. Men that feel “inferior” and intimidated around you are a) beta and b) have no self-value or appreciation. You’re obviously a high-value person and you know it, which is awesome. So surround yourself with men that value themselves and relationships with others, instead of toxic ones who put you on a pedestal.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:40 PM
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It’s okay to kick yourself, as long as you use that frustration in order succeed the next time. Keep killing it bro. You’re already ahead of 90% of men who sit at home and don’t do shit. take that to heart.
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:51 PM
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If you have any capacity of responsibility and self-control, drinking alcohol is a great “social lubricant”. If you control yourself, you’ll find that sober day-to-day conversations actually become easier after socially drinking a little bit. Your results may vary. A lot of guys like to hit the weights or go on a short run for day game. I haven’t really done warm-ups before, I generally just go directly in. I’m still a novice at day cold approaches, but I’m definitely improving.
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:26 PM
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Your last paragraph is extremely accurate, and you’re already halfway done with the battle since you have a good insight of what went wrong. To put things shortly, you got shit tested and didn’t make give her enough time to feel comfortable going home. First thing is, it’s okay to make out a couple times, but if she keeps going for it, playfully pull away. This almost ALWAYS works and makes girls quite literally lunge for you. If she goes in for the kiss, lightly pull away and grab her upper bod…
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:23 PM
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This actually happened earlier this week, but I was posting this for future reference. To answer your question, I made a silly comment about the tattoo and her panties. That was more of a specific situation where my comment was tailored, I was looking for more general lines here.
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:23 AM
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I feel like many girls (especially 18-early 20s) age range don’t send texts because they don’t want to come off as bitchy or rude for being uninterested. If you don’t want to hang out again, just tell me! You’re not going to hurt my feelings.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:24 PM
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It sucks man haha! I’m not a needy person. I have my life pretty settled out, I excel in school and enjoy doing tons of cool stuff. It just blows my mind how that shit happens to us, and we have to swallow it! I guess that’s just part of the game.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:09 PM
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Ghosting, in my opinion, is the hardest thing I’ve had to teach myself to fight in this game. I had an amazing first date with a girl two weeks ago, she texted me that night saying she was “totally down” for another date soon. She wasn’t the wild, sexy type girl you’d get with one night stands. She was straight gf material and I felt a good connection with her that was more than just fucking each other. I propose another date, she has a campus visit that day. No problem. Few days later, I hit he…
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:56 PM
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Ok? Congrats, you had conversations with strangers today. Not sure what you’re wanting from this post. You’re just rambling off cringy 4chan-tier statements.
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:03 PM
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The vast majority of the time, girls don’t think they’re the hottest. They use social media like IG for validation, and eat that shit right up. I GUARANTEE you that the guys you mention she “lets in her life” don’t give her the instant validation everyone else does. They spike her emotions, and make her feel exactly opposite of a pedestal. If you want to play the game, you should do the same. Nice guys always finish last. Ask me how I know.
/r/seduction16/04/18 11:19 PM
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First of all, having a racial preference is NOT racist. How can an Asian-American girl be racist towards you?? Not sure where the fuck you got that from. Some girls don’t like white dudes, some only go for black guys. Case in point, it doesn’t fucking matter. Start hitting the gym and bulk your upper body up. You don’t have to be ripped, but the vast majority of women are totally down for muscular Asian dudes.
/r/seduction16/04/18 09:50 PM
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I read your previous post, and I think I have an idea of what you’re trying to accomplish through this subreddit. Turn the computer off and start hitting the gym. You’re reading in to everything wayyy too hard. The one thing I’ve seen on this sub is a bunch of idiots who sit behind a screen all day, pay for RSD’s bullshit and hate their lives even more. You need to get out in the wild, man. Seriously. I’m not even answering this question because it’s such a weird and obsessive mindset you’re for…
/r/seduction16/04/18 09:33 PM
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So it sounds like you’ve got the polarization at least somewhat implemented, but I think you just need to double check things before they come out your mouth. Before saying anything like that, simply do a quick reality check to make sure it won’t end up awkward. We all say dumb shit, and the only way to hone your social skills is practice and failure. Your comment would’ve been funny at a bar, club, etc., but you were at work. If someone does call you out for being awkward, just own up to it. Al…
/r/seduction13/04/18 08:47 PM
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Give us an example of something you said that caused awkwardness, or made someone uncomfortable.
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:25 PM
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I’m assuming you’re younger. No, that isn’t what love feels like. You have an early case of oneitis. I know exactly how you feel man, trust me. The first thing you need to do is accept she doesn’t feel the same way about you. You’re probably thinking to yourself “no shit.” But have you really fully embraced that? You can do nothing about it. Say it out loud if you need to. If you really do respect her boundaries and aren’t a selfish person, you will come to terms with that. You have to find some…
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:22 PM
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Sounds like you have some personal issues, bud. A guy that’s rated 5/10 busts ass in the gym, starts showering regularly, and buys some fitted clothes and is looked at as an 8/10 before he knows it. Hell, you don’t even have to know how to speak to girls and your looks will instantly boost you up. That statement in itself is enough to disprove what you said.
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:09 PM
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Dude, you look attractive (no homo). Get a more defined haircut (light fade would look great on you), no facial hair at all. Hard to tell in the pic, but you look like a slender dude. Hit the gym and build your upper body, you will never regret it.
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:06 PM
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Just a casual term for “stylish”. I’m not talking about wearing a suit and tie. But a couple pairs of fitted chinos, leather lace-up boots, and button-ups are serious game changers.
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:04 PM
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Get out of your head bro! That’s absolutely not true. You have a premeditated mindset that “a bunch” of girls think that way. I struggle with the same thoughts, and realize I overthink EVERYTHING. The glass is always half full, and the moment you look at it half empty, you lose your inner game.
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:50 PM
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Yes lol, what’s wrong with that? I guarantee you could come up with three witty response lines, right now, to a girl commenting on your look/age proportion. How’s your current wardrobe look? Dress has a HUGE effect on age appearance, ask me how I know. I walk on campus with a shitty under armor sweatshirt and Nikes, no one bats an eye. Come in the next day fly as fuck, and I swear girls were turning their heads backwards. I literally changed one factor.
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:42 PM
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Correct. If you have Snapchat, it’s a really nice tool to share cool things that happened to you, and it’s generally more casual than text. If you’re about to text her and unsure if it’s a good idea, ask yourself how you’d feel if you received the message. Just don’t come off as needy. But it’s not required, just a good tool to have. Remember, guys have been gaming in some form for hundreds of years. If they did it without ANY phones, we have this shit on easy mode!
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:39 PM
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Own it. If you can’t grow facial beard, you absolutely can hit the gym and bulk up. Looking younger than your age (to a reasonable extent) is actually a good thing bro
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:31 PM
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This is great advice. You’re just using a smartphone camera, right?
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:29 PM
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I’m not a pro, but I have some advice that generally is echoed here. Texting should be CENTERED on logistics. Setting up a date or meeting time. I’m not saying you can’t have conversation with her over text, but your goal should be to establish a hard time and date to meet in person. For example, if she asks how your day went, it’s perfectly fine to respond with a short, funny event that happened to you. But you shouldn’t be sending paragraphs back. Also, keep it light on the emojis. One, or two…
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:25 PM
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I don’t know your situation and I’m not recommending this as a surefire solution, but you should just take drinking as a more responsible task. Again, if you’re that long sober and not looking back, congratulations, and don’t stop. But if you want to drink with girls, you have to be part of it. You can cut yourself off at two beers and still have absolute total control of your situation. You don’t have to binge drink, and sure as hell don’t have to drive. Call an Uber or taxi if necessary. There…
/r/seduction13/04/18 01:18 PM
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