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I second this...
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/21 07:11 PM
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Losing your identity sounds familiar.. I wasn't the initiator but I'm glad I can spend more time on me now.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/19 02:34 PM
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Well simple answer yeah we got drunk and had sex once a week while divorced and living together... Was it confusing and we're we just using each other yeah possibly.. But there was the attraction in the moment be your own judge.. It lasts for a bit but don't expect too much..
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/18 05:28 AM
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We just finished the process I'm glad it's over and done with. Did the mediator really do anything.. I don't know I guess she offered an objective insight.. now we are waiting on the judge. Then we can make it official. It was better than wasting more money on lawyers... Do what you think is right and what you want to live with. Stay sober 😊 the kids need that We are starting with a weekend but have documented that we both intend to work towards coparenting
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/18 09:56 PM
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I guess i'm listening to her because i dont want her go through with the threat to go full custody with the kids.. just like all the threats of divorce over the years during our discussions.. the divorce is now becoming a fact.. i think now for the better.. but i do not want to lose the kids.. going to her party was indeed a mistake..
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/17 10:28 PM
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thanks, i need my kids..
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/17 08:54 PM
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Definite scotty doesn't know reference 😊
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 06:30 PM
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Italy trip... check Plowed by Italian Chad... check Looking for sadder sack.. check Bewildered ex.. well no good riddens...
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:20 PM
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Same situation here stbxw chatting with guys on the interwebs for years now.. now that divorce is happening she's hopping in bed with one of em... have trouble understanding how someone can do something like that
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/17 12:20 AM
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Well good to know it is possible to get back together
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/17 10:03 PM
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Yeah I'm the current primary bread winner, at the start of first divorce hoping shit gets better, but also wondering if it's even worth the effort, hating these arguments atm plus her relationship isn't helping I guess I need to move on..
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/17 08:50 PM
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You atleast know where you went wrong right?
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/17 08:47 PM
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Was work partly the reason for your divorce? I assume she also dated? I'm still in the middle of this divorce living in the same house and with the kids. I'm constantly blamed for stress and threats left right and center if something happens she doesn't like. Wishing everything was better..
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/17 08:45 PM
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cant tell you what to do with your life as it is yours. Hooking up with a girl not telling wife isnt good, good that the co-workers wife called you, not good that it happend in return to you. Sounds all a bit revengeful and unhealthy, will affect kids. In a similar situation but im not and never will cheat, thats her thing.. Hope your lunch went ok.. figure out what you want.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/17 06:42 PM
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i second that.. do not email that address :)
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/17 06:33 PM
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damn spirals always downward... power to the man :)
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/17 06:32 PM
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That or go see a therapist with her.. if you don't think that could help there's obviously something not right. Kids atleast deserve a chance for two happy parents right? You say the guilt is eating at you that has to mean something?
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/17 03:28 PM
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Sad to hear your situation sounds familiar kids and wife has found someone else, we're not even divorced yet and she's planning weeks with him.. they say there's no law against being a bad parent.. just show your kids your the man you want to be seems your heart is in the right place
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/17 03:22 PM
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