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salsa. I pay 100$ ish for 10 weeks at my local university. Touching talking. Great stuff man
/r/seduction17/02/15 09:13 AM
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I guess whatever is coming from insecurity is bad and the opposite is good. I buy your reply. Also, the rest of your post is interesting. I think the idea of making a girl want to meet me later is a bit scary, because it means that I have to push myself to increase the attraction. This is good, but scary. It is much easier to settle with the number. At least then you don't need to face reality and the rejection until you ask her out. I will have this in mind today. From now on, the number is onl…
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:05 PM
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I have a question: . On a side note I have also found it very useful to tell the girl when you ask for her number (number close ) that she should only give you her number if she is actually interested in going on a date, it puts them on the spot to make the decision and makes her commit alot more to the plans. I genuinely am curios about this. How does this work in respect to making a woman take a rational decisions as opposed to an emotional one? I have "forced" women to tell me if they are int…
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:50 PM
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Isn't this the exact opposite of what Mark Manson's Models is preaching? Vulnerability is sexy?
/r/seduction18/01/15 07:27 PM
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Thank you. I needed this. Last night I was surrounded by beautiful women. Still I couldn't get out of my head. I approached a lot but I didn't feel it and I was too serious and the girls didn't respond well to that. Like /u/TheSicilianDude said, I've felt burned out today and I lost a lot of hope. Too much effort. I didn't feel like drinking much either. I think less alcohol made it more difficult to let loose too. I hate that alcohol is so important for me :/ But your post built me up and made …
/r/seduction18/01/15 07:25 PM
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I don't think he means walking away means being scared. Here are the scenarios: 1:She has a boyfriend = Fuck it 2: She lies because she doesn't like you = Fuck it 3: She likes you, but feels she needs to be manipulative = Fuck it If you'd read the book you'd known that Mark isn't chasing everybody, just the honest confident ones. The very best for him. He doesn't deal with low self esteem girls using shit tests.
/r/seduction15/01/15 02:18 PM
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What are we to take from this? "Nice guys" we think about are not in reality very nice guys... Are you suggesting we get a wingman? I'm not sure what to take from this other than game theory.
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:16 AM
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Being 100% honest: what do you want with this girl?
/r/seduction06/01/15 12:02 PM
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Fair enough :) I am looking forward to the next opportunity! Thanks for making it clearer
/r/seduction06/01/15 07:33 AM
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Always interesting to get a woman's perspective :) And, btw, many of us want to get inside their head. You mentioned reading the stuff on this sub and putting it to action, how did that change your encounter compared to when you met girls before learning about this? How would you have proceeded before? Has that mindset become a fully integrated part of you yet? I mean, is your constant self worth at a higher level, or is it fluctuating? For instance when you met that girl was it at a high, but m…
/r/seduction06/01/15 07:08 AM
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haha, I never stopped breathing ;) I don't mind not getting a response as long as I have an idea why. I think being less drunk the next time and some other minor adjustments like same night texting might prove helpful.
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:55 AM
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Hey, thanks man :) That's encouraging, that last sentence. I will take it for what it is. Drink less next time and make sure to text them afterwards to make it less awkward the next day when I have to introduce myself. Anyway, I don't really care. It's just annoying to not quite understand entirely what I'm doing and having nothing to go on. Now I do though, and next weekend will be better :)
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:49 AM
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Actually, there was almost always a mention of coffee, to which they responded positively. I told them I would call, not text, they said OK, but I chickened out the day after. Mostly because I didn't really feel the rapport from the night before was strong enough. Still, I don't think a text instead of a call is a game changer. Now I'm just rambling, but I should mention I was not sending anyone a message the same night. So it was really awkward having to remind them of our encounter. Next time!
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:37 AM
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Hey, OP here. Thank you guys for your input. Of course, I was the only one here who might figure out the truth, but with your input I've gotten many interesting ideas. I hope this thread has been useful for other guys too :)
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:32 AM
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I'm with you bro.
/r/seduction10/07/14 07:06 PM
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I do actually appreciate him telling me what makes a man more confident. It's nothing I haven't heard before, but I like the reminder. Style, looks, interests and values make up a person. With everything aligned, you end up with a unique person. This is actually very inspiring, so thanks to mark for that. I just feel that for people, that haven't worked as much on self improvement as I have don't realize how insanely much work you have to do yourself. Just mentioning meditation in the text is no…
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:06 PM
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Well, I think he actually says go for all women you find attractive. When she opens her mouth and you have a problem with it, don't suck it up just to get laid. However, if your goal is to get laid as much as possible, and don't care that she is the biggest one direction fan, then that is pretty honest and she is a great girl for you.
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:49 PM
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I'm not impressed by the book in itself. It is a good start. He talks about the importance about confidence, but the way to actually get there - not so much. For that I would recommend meditation and mindfulness. I have never been as aligned with my values as when I was deep in that shit. It will also make it easier to make valuable decisions. I like the book as a reminder. Yes, good point, I have to choose better women. Now, let's meditate and reflect on what qualities I should be looking for f…
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:31 PM
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Read models. I started yesterday, and I learn so much. Based on that book, I would say you probably held back a lot of stuff you wanted to tell her. This because you were afraid of her reaction. Maybe actually bringing up more meaningful (and scary) stuff would have made you connect. If this is a sinking ship, I would just tell her about what's on your mind. I'm not saying this will win her over, but you get a real experience from it. For instance, maybe she reacts positively to your honesty, bu…
/r/seduction24/06/14 02:39 PM
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Late answer. Started reading yesterday. What I take from it is that when you are vulnerable and show your intents, that is only needy if you are dependent on her response. It is the combination of undressing your emotions, and not caring how she responds that beats the paradox. To really dissect your motivations, maybe you should investigate mindfulness. Then you can figure out wheter you are approaching based on fantasy (if I get her, then everything will be good), or if you approach because yo…
/r/seduction24/06/14 02:29 PM
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I'm new to this. Would you recommend moving in after completion as the smart friend? Or just casually dump some monster dongs in front of her? I've heard great stuff about both approaches
/r/seduction23/06/14 10:03 PM
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You are there to learn. Is this a field you want to work with when you graduate? Is this the firm you'd like to work at? And of course, this is your chance to learn your profession. If you don't like the people now, you wont like them when you get hired either. When you graduate, you will suck. 15+ years is a long time. Of course they master their skills. Do not get frightened over this. If they don't understand that you ask questions because you are an intern they lack a lot of insight and you …
/r/seduction19/06/14 11:47 PM
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I just want you to know that I WISH I started this at your age. You're going to learn so much about yourself. It took me too long to be comfortable around people I admired. Or "cool" people. Now I feel so much more free and it is all thanks to my journey. Pick up taught me about social psychology that I bring with me to work and all aspects of my life. If I want to say something, I finally have the courage to speak my mind, and people respond well to it. I wished I knew about this world when I w…
/r/seduction19/06/14 10:50 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I will definitively pay attention to new posts. I liked "How to Pay a Compliment to a Beautiful Woman". I like your mindset. What you said in your answer made me think that instead of pursuing a skill where I can approach every girl everywhere, I can make it easier for myself by seeking out venues that interest me, and approach women that have the same interest in that context. That way, I don't have to pretend to care when I ask her something. Compared to asking a ran…
/r/seduction18/06/14 09:27 PM
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I love simon sineks talks. Thank you. Very interesting!
/r/seduction17/06/14 01:38 PM
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Great story! And awesome! The next one is single :)
/r/seduction17/06/14 01:13 AM
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**You can read this To me, you come across as the "player" I want to be. I like this tempo, and to me it feels more relaxed. From this subreddit, and videos on youtube, I get the impression that everything has to be so energetic and almost aggressive. I don't necessarily say this is wrong or right, I just don't feel like acting up to steal attention from women. When I do, it's because I feel energetic and is high on life or whatnot, but that is very rare. I would prefer chatting up a beautiful g…
/r/seduction16/06/14 11:35 PM
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Thanks man :)
/r/seduction15/06/14 08:20 AM
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I do feel better :) If I see her again, I'll act cool, but it probably will be awkward as hell, haha
/r/seduction15/06/14 08:20 AM
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Probably because of vulnerability. I thought she would have found the suggestion silly. Therefore, I sort of tried to lure it out of her without risking to make a fool out myself. I could just play it off as a joke if she didn't like it. In reality, that probably just turned out to be weird.
/r/seduction15/06/14 08:19 AM
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I think in this case, ending it at a high note would've improved the odds of getting a number. I didn't think it was too long before you mentioned it. And it probably was. And you're right. I already feel more confident about approaching sober girls :)
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:58 AM
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I did not. At a club, I don't really have a problem with it. It just felt like it would be weird to start touching a girl I had only just met. But, I probably should have.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:53 AM
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I will keep this in the back of my mind :)
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:52 AM
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Actually, I think, for me, it would have been awesome do it, because it is something I never do. I could tell my friends and myself "Today I met a random girl, hung out and saw a french movie. It was awesome". So you're right. But I hope she didn't evacuate because she felt cornered by the suggestion. Yeah yeah
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:51 AM
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No kino at all. I was scared to scare her off. We talked about awkward situations and how she acts in those moments. I said I could probably trigger an awkward moment. In my head I was thinking that going for a kiss, and then when she moves away, would trigger such a moment. But I didn't tell her this. I was too scared to be off putting.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:48 AM
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Yes! It really isn't for only one part of your life. People respond differently to me. Just this thread is a great example. The response is overwhelming, I think it is because I seem honest. The nuances are so small, but we pick up on them and it can make or break your connection with another person. They just don't know what it is they don't like. They call you creepy for a lack of a better term. Now, with friends and family, I listen and I care about what they say. Instead of trying to relate …
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:06 PM
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Trust me, it gets easier. Remember, your whole life your brain has been programmed and trained to judge. It won't change over night, but when you are aware of your thoughts, slowly your thought patterns change to something new. When you judge yourself, be aware that you are judging, and it will go away. I promise :) Good luck!
/r/seduction31/12/13 04:20 PM
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Sure, I can try! My friends spoke of it in terms of currency. If all your value is based on your own ego, then words and action will hurt. Or they will please you. And everything you do will be driven by a need to increase your value(ego). Maybe you will ditch friends to hang out with cooler people. The choices you make are all based on what other people will think of you. Not what you really want. What you will, or maybe already realize is that none of this really makes you happy. And you go on…
/r/seduction31/12/13 04:12 PM
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Holy shit! Please come back after you've given it a shot and let me know what you think! :D
/r/seduction31/12/13 03:14 PM
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btw. I have to warn you. You might feel inner struggle as you try investigate your identity. It might be difficult to accept what he is saying at first. I hope you're not dealing with the most intense ideas tonight :P
/r/seduction31/12/13 03:13 PM
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If you do. Please let me know tomorrow of anything you'd like to share!
/r/seduction31/12/13 03:04 PM
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I can almost guarantee you that reading/listening to it for 20 minutes today will improve your celebration drastically.
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:28 PM
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you can google it with pdf and you'll find it. It started reading it online, and bought it afterwards. For all my friends, haha. But that way to can right it right now. Good luck :)
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:26 PM
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What Echart is talking about is having options. First. Be aware of your emotions. Recognize that something doesn't feel right. You have done this and that is great. Then. What are your options? Can you talk to him? I've learned that removing their excuses for being bitter makes them feel a bit embarrassed. For instance my father was angry when we drove to out cottage to celebrate christmas. He hadn't eaten for a long time and was complaining. When we made a stop, I returned with a sandwich. Imme…
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:22 PM
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My only tip is to really explore what it says. He talks about being aware of your thoughts. Do this and be firm. It is not going to be easier - but I can promise you, it is going to be easier in a matter of days if you are dedicated. Good luck!
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:24 PM
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Thank you for reading!
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:22 PM
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This is exactly what I am talking about! Thank you for sharing that :)
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:22 PM
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This is a common misunderstanding. I plan for making the bus and then I return to the present. I don't stay in the future and worry what will happen if I miss the bus. Or if the people on board smell. Or if the bus crashes. Or if this or that that could go wrong with negative consequences.
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:20 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:18 PM
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If you are not going to read the book, my only advice is to be make a habit of being aware of your thoughts and feelings. Now, anytime I'm judging, I bell rings "Now I was judgmental. Don't be that". It get's easier and easier. For your whole life, you have programmed your brain to be in control. Now of course it will take time and willpower to gain that control Actually, saying a HB15 is this and that because you want to build own courage talking to her is insanely arrogant. You have never talk…
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:18 PM
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Thank you for your response! I hope people see this and realize that my experiences are unique, but rather what most are experiencing.
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:16 PM
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Becoming a doctor because you genuinely want to is great. Becoming a doctor to get laid and recognition is not great. Also education and knowledge will make you make better choices.
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:14 PM
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I really appreciate you saying this. For the last weeks, honesty has been a key I think. And I get honest real responses for what I do. Inner game, hmm. It is about realizing about amazing the world is in it's own. You interpret the world. You try to understand it and makes it less complex so you can fathom it and explain it to yourself. I can only tell you there is A LOT that is lost in translation. When you get a glimps of the only world that exist, despite on how we see it individually, you w…
/r/seduction31/12/13 01:12 PM
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It's not easy to just throw away your ego on command. I'm not there at all, but what has helped get rid of lots of it is the realization that I am useless. Life for me is about exploring everything around me. My thoughts and ego are not interesting to me, because they don't bring anything new to the table. When you don't judge,don't think about the future, or past you experience the other person to the fullest. Then you are able to let every impression get to you. When you are doing this, you re…
/r/seduction31/12/13 12:54 PM
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I'll definitely check this out. Thanks!
/r/seduction31/12/13 12:49 PM
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Thank you! I'll investigate this!
/r/seduction31/12/13 12:49 PM
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I am not hard on meditating. But I have tried it and for me it is a great way to reset the brain. I have one experience though. After the session, I was just drifting around in a pleasant state. The last two days have been hectic and I've had a lot of noise in my body. I will try another session today. I don't want this to sound like I am against meditation. I just haven't worked enough on that yet to really have anything interesting to say. I would probably recommend you /r/Meditation for prope…
/r/seduction31/12/13 12:47 PM
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Before reading PON, I have been gaming a lot. I've really tried to make myself happy to make other people feel happy around me. I've tried listening to women after reading How to win friends and influence people. However, it was difficult to put what I learned into action, because at core level, I didn't want to listen to a stranger. I just couldn't force myself. I also felt people wouldn't share and that annoyed me. They have to share in order for my plan to work. For six years I had some issue…
/r/seduction31/12/13 12:41 PM
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What do you mean dropping her bf barrier? Is she turning cold on you?
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:11 PM
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Ask yourself 1) Is there a possibility of you ending up hurt? Love or having your ass kicked by this guy? Are there any negative consequences for you? 2) If your answer to 1) is no: Do you have any personal problems sleeping with a girl with a bf? If you said yes to any of these, then you probably shouldn't see her. 3) If you said no on both, and she's up for it, then go the fuck ahead and have fun. Her boyfriend is her problem, not yours. She's the asshole, not you. And please don't trust this …
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:20 AM
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Grab your balls and scream like a man and talk to a girl. Go to /r/motivation and read every post. That will guilt you into being a stronger person and stepping up to a girl and say hi. If the voice in your head was your roommate, would you still live with a condescending asshole as him? No - so ignore your thoughts. They have never ever helped you. You are not a loser because you failed. You're a loser because you don't even give yourself the opportunity to mess up with a girl. The option of me…
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:09 AM
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So I met her before I read your post :( But it was a nice meet up. She talked and talked so I guess I got friendzoned or friendzoned her. Also, she talked about how much she missed her ex that just dumped her. I kind of asked her. Being friendzoned does not mean I won't get out of there if I have to. Just that it's kinda nice to get to know someone a little better before I pull out the big guns without the pressure. Next time I will up the stakes and do more stealth attraction. Thinking about it…
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:20 PM
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I'm gonna meet a friend in an hour. Hang out from 10:30 am to about 12:30 am. I've known her for about 10 years, but only through other friends. Never been really close friends. I think she is cool, but I want to get to know her under her skin. We made out a couple of times many years ago, and I think it's in the air that I'm into her. I don't think it is reciprocated. I'm not sure what she thinks this meetup is, but I am a bit afraid to get friendzoned if I'm not enough sexual. However, I'm als…
/r/seduction23/07/13 07:39 AM
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First things first - interesting and very much fun to read! Second - I get the impression that the guys attractiveness didn't really affect their chances with you?
/r/seduction21/07/13 10:09 PM
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find someone who doesn't bug me Haha, I couldn't agree more with this. I guess I'm just scared that "doesn't bug me" replaces "makes me warm and fuzzy and makes me lose control in a good way". I think I'm still going to date women (how else am I going to meet a good one?) but try not to sleep with them before I've made up my mind about them.
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:55 PM
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at least explain why you disagree when you downvote
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:19 PM
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I think these are the best advice for my situation. I needed this. Thank you :)
/r/seduction17/07/13 12:33 PM
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Thank you for that insight. I've never been in a real relationship. I think it is because I jump too much. But I jump because I have no idea what I like. Some girls have been less annoying than others. One was cool, but we were competing on being the most fun. Tiresome. Also, she never worked out. But she was cool. Other girls are just way too insecure and therefore boring. Or with no opinions. I might be judging them too hard. Or not letting them open up and show their true colors. Or I'm just …
/r/seduction17/07/13 11:33 AM
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When I see a hot girl I want to bang her. Then I pray that she is cool and fun to hang around. If she's not, then at least I've gotten laid. Maybe I should stop thinking with my dick, and try to get to know women better before I put it in them. But, but, but I too want to go clubbing and seduce hot girls and hope that they are as cool as beautiful. When the main goal is to sleep with them, maybe I'm closing my eyes on experiencing them. I'm just thinking out loud. Thanks for your reply. I do agr…
/r/seduction17/07/13 11:26 AM
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/r/seduction17/07/13 10:59 AM
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Right now, my strategy is to just meet women, different types (even though I seem to attract the insecure calm women) and trying to figure out what I like. I've never had a real girlfriend. I just don't really know what I like, what to look for, so I just give everybody a shot (within reason). How long do your relationships last? Do you care that maybe you'll end up with a lot of women till you die, but never one to settle down with? Maybe this is what superstars struggle with and why their marr…
/r/seduction17/07/13 12:58 AM
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Thank you for the video! It was very interesting and I relate a lot. I get what he is saying, and I've actually been working on living in the present and accepting almost every aspect in my life. Or at least the parts I can't control. I don't have a goal with my life. I just want to improve on every aspect. Just get better and better and not comparing myself to others. But I can't do that forever with women? I can't be with - let's say 20 women - the next 60 years. I can, but I don't like that o…
/r/seduction17/07/13 12:52 AM
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Why are you more and more starting them up and engaging them? Alpha is about control, not being a douche because you have discovered you can get away with it. Don't buy drinks, just leave them and hook up with a cute girl...
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:54 PM
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The book is a great read, and your link is a great reminder. Thank you
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:28 PM
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Haha, funny :) I've never tried this out, but I like the playfull vibe they are sending out. Thank you and saved
/r/seduction02/04/13 07:21 AM
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what happens when you start believing it and genuinely starts loosing interest? That is what I am afraid of.
/r/seduction27/03/13 10:33 AM
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This popped into my head reading the last part
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:52 PM
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Interesting video. The intersection is so difficult. You are awesome, don't give a shit and attract her. She turns out to be cool and LTM mind sets in. You're loosing her interest because you want to be serious and starts being lame. The only way to save it is to don't give a shit and act like you did when you just met her. But that means you're back to STM mind and don't give a shit about her and she ends up like all the other girls you meet every weekend.
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:44 PM
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unfortunatly I already went with :"Ouch" To which she responded: "That's what you get when you stay in the city..." my god I suck at this
/r/seduction25/03/13 09:58 PM
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if you hadn't opened her, you would never even had a chance. I'm impressed! Next time ;)
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:31 PM
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Good job man! :D
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:41 PM
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I don't care how you guys THINK this line will work, only what responses you got from testing it out! Send it to girls, see how they respond and report back and then we can discuss the results. Everything else is completely uninteresting on this forum Edit: I sent it to a girl I've been sort of dating: Response:"And I can say you have a kinda boring Easter." Ouch, how does one respond to that without sounding grumpy?
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:48 PM
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