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| 1 | Girl pursuing me, then tells me she has a BF when I start flirting?Thanks bro, I'm still new to this but I'm learning it surely. I rather set my intentions on the table from the start than to wait until it's too late to find out we're not on the same page | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with women you want to date vs just have sex withayy thanks for that buddy. Always good to get others perspective. If it wasn't for you guys I wouldn't know how to lead a conversation with her and stray from talking about school. I was able to switch from school to asking questions about her then using what she said to talk about me. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with women you want to date vs just have sex withWould it be ok to take this girl on a date? I mean once I get her alone or outside of class I can communicate that | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | FreshmanI have anxiety myself so I know how it is. Take small steps to everyday to help you push yourself out your comfort zone. Mindfulness meditation really helps as well | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | FreshmanI used to smoke a shit load of weed then one day I decided I needed to stop because I have anxiety already and the heavy weed use was making the situation worse. When I stopped I started to work out in the gym seriously. I still smoke weed but not everyday, it can help with anxiety but it can also make it worse. The best things I've done to help me build my confidence are: 1. workout 2. take care of my skin 3. look in the mirror every morning for 5 minutes and tell myself I'm fucking awesome. I … | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | My first time opening a 2 set. I realize now I'm going to have to change my approach to have more successI agree with you on some stuff there. She looked at her friend almost every time before giving an answer. The good thing is after a rejection I look and see how I can improve on my next approach and I feel better because I did something that I once found extremely intimidating. I know people say to just be yourself, but I've been doing that and not getting much results that way. Since I've started to go in not giving a fuck and saying anything that comes to mind (even if it's corny) instead of a… | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How exactly to kiss on 1st date (length of kiss)Word, I go back to college Wednesday. My game and confidence has improved a bit since last semester so time to put it to work | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How exactly to kiss on 1st date (length of kiss)I mean a girl with experience kissing | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How exactly to kiss on 1st date (length of kiss)That's really funny though. Off topic, but I have only kissed one girl in my life. I doubt I'm that good at kissing, but I knew enough to know that she couldn't kiss at all. I have to find a girl that can kiss to test my skills. | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 09:23 PM |
| 40 | How exactly to kiss on 1st date (length of kiss)please DO NOT OPEN YOUR MOUTH LIKE A MAILBOX That shit is hilarious | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Had a really good approach and conversation with a girl today. Thanks sedditThanks brah. It felt so natural compared to my other approaches as well. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Bodybuilders, gym rats and other athletes of seddit, where and when do you find time to game?The drinking part isn't really difficult for me because I was never really much of a drinker before the gym. If I go out clubbing (hardly ever do) I'll drink though. It's ok to loosen up and had fun sometimes but drinking every weekend won't work well if you're serious. I actually haven't been dating really for a long time so that's why I've decided to work on my game. Not being that far in I'm already noticing I'm going to have some issues with avoiding alcohol, sometimes I'll just drink a red … | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Bodybuilders, gym rats and other athletes of seddit, where and when do you find time to game?I don't really understand the first part but thanks for the advice bro. Like yesterday I was out day gaming but didn't have anything with me so I ended up eating out. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Bodybuilders, gym rats and other athletes of seddit, where and when do you find time to game?Thanks bro, I'm going to reevaluate my schedule and find opportunities to game, because I can game just not a lot of night game etc. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Bodybuilders, gym rats and other athletes of seddit, where and when do you find time to game?I already meal prep that way. I don't drive so taking my meal with me wouldn't be an option really as I'll be stuck with the voila. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Bodybuilders, gym rats and other athletes of seddit, where and when do you find time to game?Thanks a lot for your in depth experience and advice bro. I try explaining to my friends but they don't understand. Yea I go out and have fun from time to time but doing that on a regular will result in less sleep and not enough of the right nutrition. I'll start using your method of gaming. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 11:01 PM |
| 2 | My self-esteem is taking a beating from consistently being rejected. How do I overcome this and stay positive?I'm just starting to game so my advice may not be the best for you, but I'll give it to you anyways. My first piece of advice to you is to get off of Tinder. I was using it a bout 3 weeks ago telling myself I'd use it to gain experience talking to women then I would start actually approaching. That was just an excuse to not approach for me and I deleted it and put myself into the mindset that if I want to learn I will go out and approach instead of using social media. I know you're positive with… | /r/seduction | 02/08/15 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Failure never felt so sweet, till I did my first approach todayLOOL, there you go buddy | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Failure never felt so sweet, till I did my first approach todayWell said | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Failure never felt so sweet, till I did my first approach todayThanks for the feedback bro. I'm going to approach again as soon as possible while I still have that confidence. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no gameDoesn't matter but I'm going to disappoint you with my answer. The guy was slightly below average looking. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no gameThanks. I'm going to take what was advised here and try it out | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 11:32 PM |
| 23 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no gameThanks a lot for the support my brother, I was sitting right there and actually heard everything he said. I took it down in my mental notebook like a gospel. I don't mean to dwell on it but when it was her stop he told her "Hey listen take my number down and if you ever need some good company you know how to find me" she responded by saying she doesn't really have to get off at that stop and she stayed his response was "Now look I ain't trying to rush you into anything you don't want to do" | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no gameThanks bro! | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no gameThat's how I've been looking at it | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What to do on a first date?Thanks I don't disagree at al with your opinion. I am always myself around her and she laughs even when I don't say humorous things (it does help that I have a good sense of humour). My main reasons for not asking for the date as yet is that I have been fearful of asking her around my classmates as I never see her outside of class. | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What to do on a first date?I do want an actual relationship with this girl. Thanks for the advice man. I will ask for the date in the confident way you pointed out, the first one does seem a bit needy. My downfall has been that I've been shy to ask her around all my classmates as I never see her outside of class, although I know she will most likely say yes. This week when I see her I will fight that fear | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 12:34 AM |
| 2 | How to overcome fear of intimacy?That's exactly the type of answer I wanted to hear. Thank you, I'll put what you said into action. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Looking fir experienced advisor on seductionI'm fine with it | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a girl you like, but don't really like her personality?I'll have to gather the confidence to talk to her, she's always sitting with her friend/friends in class. The first class we had together we had to talk to each other about hobbies and shit and I told her I loved working out and I saw a look of lust in her eyes, but couldn't be sure. Last class I purposely wore a tight polo shirt to show my muscles and she couldn't keep her eyes off me. I guess next class I start talking to her using simple conversation and just see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 20/02/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | For you guys that wear headphones in public would you say it has caused you to miss the opportunity to meet new women?No, that's not my mentality at all. I just think that because I refuse to take my headphones off sometimes that I deny myself the opportunity to meet new women. I completely agree with your second portion of the comment though :) | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Best way to find a quick hookup?I agree with what you said except girls at the gym. Most girls at the gym don't want guys trying to get at them while they're there working out. Talking from experience. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I risk getting with an attention seeker?Yea well you're in high school (I'm assuming, especially by this girls immature attitude), have fun. This girl may be hot and got angelic pussy but they're many more girls with that, who would be more with your time. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I risk getting with an attention seeker?It all depends n you, but I would NEVER date an attention seeker. I'll sure as hell hit it then quit though. However you said she's a rumour spreader so that a bit of a slippery slope, you can cut her off and have her spread rumours or fuck her, cut her off and have her spread rumours. I'd go with the second option. EDIT: On second thought I just read your post through and I'd say leave that crazy bitch the hell alone. She has problems! | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 07:54 PM |
| 6 | How do I get a FWB?Man I'm not the most experienced but I would strongly suggest that you don't say this. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 06:36 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a FWB?Holy fuck, fuck Reddit and what it has done to me for thinking everyone on certain subreddits is a guy, anyways back to the program. I understand perfectly what you're explaining and I'll take all the advice, I've been out this game a LONG time despite the young age but I'm getting back now. I had something similar to a FWB before, it was a bit tricky though. I used to have sex with this girl that had a boyfriend and eventually they broke up and we got together (someway, somehow) and she ended u… | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 06:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a FWB?God damn sorry for those grammatical errors, reading it over and wincing. Haha for sure man I'm not cocky at all just very confident, I try to stay as humble as possible though because around certain people confidence can be seen as arrogance. Anyways back to seeking out the forbidden fruit. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a FWB?I've taught about Tinder but been a bit scared to be on dating sites likes that. I know FWB don't last and I have no problem with that, if I fuck once that's enough for me as long as there are more in store and if they get to falling for me I have to fallback. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a FWB?Thanks for the advice man, what you said really makes sense. I'm not saying I'm the hottest guy alive but I'm pretty goodlooking especially body wise. I've actually taught about online dating like Tinder but was a bit skeptical of getting online like that, linking through Facebook and all. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 05:04 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a FWB?I'll take you advice and just make sure I straight up, I don't want to sell these girls any dreams and bees their hearts when they don't come through. I would be in a committed relationship if I found a girl I think is actually worth IT but now just isn't the time for that. In the past month or so I flirted with two girls seriously and didn't get through with either of them, but I've learnt a lot from this and it has boosted my confidence a lot. To the point that if I flirt with a girl and get s… | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 04:57 AM |
| 3 | How do I get a FWB?Thanks for the advice bro. In the past I've had issues of becoming too attached to girls, too early but these days I don't get that. How do you deal with a situation where it's a "good girl" that probably wouldn't cope well with just being FWB? I mean I could fuck if I ran some game but I'm afraid that the way I flirt may send the wrong message as well. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 04:24 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop falling for pepole strongly almost instantly, how can I stop this? [19,M]haha it's tricky, they don't actually have to be but tell yourself to think that way and you can't get put off if you get rejected. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I can't stop falling for pepole strongly almost instantly, how can I stop this? [19,M]I used to be in the same shoes as you somewhat and still am to some extent that I fall too fast. The way I approach it now is to have full confidence and set your expectations low but don't act timid. When I used to talk to girls I would smile a LOT and be so enthusiastic and say sweet things, but now I smile with a flirt and not that nice guy smile and just generally flirt while talking to them and not make it seems like I'm viewing them as the most important female in my life. It's not easy at… | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Think these girls were trying to hit on meI guess your right man, I wasn't really trying to hit on her though I was really using it as an opportunity to build my confidence and social skills. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 02:47 AM |
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