iCarryNoChange Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
43	Divorce over dishes	Rant	iCarryNoChange	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/25 09:25 PM
18	Menopause and (not?) staying married	Rant	iCarryNoChange	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/25 07:36 AM
0	Do you like or love your STBXW?		iCarryNoChange	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/26 04:32 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Lack of accountability Omg I feel like I wrote this, too. Friend, we are having the same experience	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 12:31 PM
2	Lack of accountability I feel like I wrote this. Wow.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 12:29 PM
2	Fundamentals: Marriage counseling does not work I’m right beside you here. She actually just cancelled all future couples counselor appointments. At first I was pissed. Now? Yeah, good.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/26 04:11 AM
5	Wife of 20 years is uninterested in me. Best advice I’ve seen on this sub. Your story is very familiar. And very sad. I understand that it’s not ONLY the r/deadbedrooms aspect… it’s all of it. You’re invisible. Tolerated. Maybe “useful” if you’re lucky. Don’t drop your portion of the shared life, OP. But do start giving yourself the attention you aren’t getting from her.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/25 02:03 PM
5	Divorce over dishes O no no no, see, SHE carries ALL the load and does ALL the emotional work and it’s absolute HELL living with me. As she just said, moments ago. Never mind any of my contributions	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/25 05:44 AM
5	Divorce over dishes A year of couples therapy. And nothing to show for it. She just screamed “fuck you” at me, threw something, and stormed off, crying.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/25 05:43 AM
9	Divorce over dishes Yes this isn’t about dishes. From my pov this is about her resentment. Not sure I can or should try to undo that	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/25 12:54 AM
3	Menopause and (not?) staying married I just mean that “lack of sex” isn’t the biggest problem we have. It’s certainly a problem (for me) but I think there are larger issues.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/25 08:48 AM
3	Menopause and (not?) staying married Thank you. Yeah. The money spent on therapy vs the money spent on lawyers. I don’t know.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/25 08:36 AM
3	Menopause and (not?) staying married I’ve flirted with the idea but I get stopped up wondering if this is all in my head. Am I making a catastrophe out of a rough patch? I don’t trust my feelings. I just know they’re bad	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/25 08:29 AM
6	Menopause and (not?) staying married Oh I get that. I know how this dad bod and grey hair isn’t in high demand. There’s her quiet resentment. Her judgment. Her disregard for how I might feel - feelings are a luxury for me here.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/25 08:28 AM