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iSkeetOnFeet/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 02:43 AM
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iSkeetOnFeet/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 03:27 AM
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Nothing in writing besides Reddit posts. She just relayed that lawyers told her since it's always been referred to as OUR house, and I paid rent via direct payments to mortgage, taxes, insurance, etc. that she is entitled to equity. She's now demanding to be put on title or she won't agree to anything. My parents said fuck no. So I guess I'll be saddled with her lawyer fees to fight this impossible battle.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/26 12:12 AM
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This guy divorces. In all seriousness though I really appreciate your response.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 08:53 PM
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Sorry you're going through this man. You guys both have lawyers? Have you filed? Good luck man. Keep us posted as well. I was originally hoping for an amicable split where we just hashed out an agreement like grown adults with kids. But greed is a bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:48 PM
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Its a small price to pay for peace. I can make more money. I can't get back precious time with my kids. I just want them to be ok.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:43 PM
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It hasn't been raised the entire time we've been here, unlike their other properties. Definitely overdue 😉
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:37 PM
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I got some sleep and I'm feeling much better today. Just gotta retain a lawyer and get this show on the road. We have no other assets but I'm also self employed in addition to w-2 so those business losses mean my income isn't as high as she thinks and support won't be as high as she's hoping for. Thanks for responding!
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:36 PM
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Yeah we rented the house from someone else, they unexpectedly offered it for sale for below market, and my folks bought it. Value has doubled since then. But she hasn't worked in over 20 years so I'm nervous about where my kids will live when they're with her. Without any equity shes just looking at debt and support payments. Alimony for life though.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:31 PM
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Yeah we rented the house from someone else, they unexpectedly offered it for sale for below market, and my folks bought it. Value has doubled since then. But she hasn't worked in over 20 years so I'm nervous about where my kids will live when they're with her. Without any equity shes just looking at debt and support payments. Alimony for life though.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:30 PM
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Yeah sometimes I forget who I'm talking to but its all becoming crystal clear now
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:23 PM
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Yeah sometimes I forget who I'm talking to but its all becoming crystal clear now
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:22 PM
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I don't know what she told whatever lawyers she spoke to but she relayed to me that since marital funds were used to make payments directly for mortgage, tax, insurance, she is entitled to equity and lawyers want to "take me for a ride". Plus they told her all legal fees are mine so she's feeling emboldened
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:21 PM
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Yeah when she finds out they don't want to sell and the courts hopefully won't force it, I think she's going to go apeshit. I'm so screwed regardless. But this too shall pass, right?
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 07:04 AM
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Yeah lawyers are telling her I'm on the hook for legal fees so I'm afraid they will milk fees and then we'll be stuck with even more debt to split?
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 07:02 AM
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Thanks, much appreciated!
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 06:57 AM
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Yes indeed. Thank you sir
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 06:55 AM
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I was planning on moving out when we had the talk but now no way in hell. Plus when I mentioned 50/50 she came back with every other weekend! The next day she left with the kids and I cried like a baby thinking about not seeing my kids everyday.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 06:18 AM
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Riverside. 9, 9, 12.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 06:14 AM
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Almost 15 years in California. She was a sahm entire time
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 04:22 AM
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Stay strong brother. We came from nothing and she never worked while with me. I supported my wife for nearly 25 years. Big house, luxury cars she wanted, girls trips, family vacations in 5 star hotels and mansions, jewelry, maids, spa days, daily foot rubs and massages from me while I got nothing but complaints. But of course I'm the bad guy and I never did shit for her. She literally told me her vagina is the reason she got a man like me and life that all her friends and family envy. Some girls…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 03:21 AM
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Yeah exactly what happened here. She wants support in excess of my income plus equity in a house we don't own. Modern women. Don't you wanna get married again?
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 03:11 AM
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I tried this. She said lawyers wanna take me a ride. I told her we have no money or assets, what are we fighting about? She's going to try and fight that she is entitled to equity in the house thats in my parents name because we made all payments with marital funds. Plus some ethical lawyer told her support will be based on my earning potential, not actual income, because of my advanced degrees. So she wants support in excess of my income. Yay for me
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 03:10 AM
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Yeah lawyer already told her they can take me for a ride and she's entitled to support in excess of my earnings based on my earning potential which is all BS but now anything less is me lying so I guess we fight it out in court over no assets! Wtf
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 02:56 AM
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You must have a crystal ball. We tried to sit down and work out an agreement. She balked at everything and said "lawyers wanna take you for a ride", "you have advanced degrees so support will be based on your earning potential", also "i can take my name off the car since I have no income and all debt belongs to you including my lawyer fees so why should I mediate anything" We have nothing but debt. The house is in my parents trust. Always has been although it was purchased after we were married.…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 02:55 AM
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Its already spiraling. Its been a week, now lawyers told her they "wanna take me for a ride". Our house is in my parents name and they don't want to sell. She wants to force a sale and thinks the court is going to award her support in excess of my income which makes no sense so I'm in for a long ride
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 02:48 AM
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She's taking the soul pole bro. Just imagine she's getting railed by foot longs all day and it will accelerate your healing. She belongs to the streets now.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 06:37 AM
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Been the sole earner the entire time. In California moving out as an impact?
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 05:28 AM
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This is America! Who has time to save when you gotta pay for a big house, nice cars, expensive jewelry, vacations, and girls trips to satisfy the wife's need to complain about it all and still say you ain't shit?!?
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 04:58 AM
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I have a lawyer but all we have is a house and underwater car we bought earlier this year. No retirement savings. Thanks for responding.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 04:17 AM
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I can feel it coming in the air tonight 🎵 But all we have is a house with a little over $300k equity and an underwater luxury vehicle we bought earlier this year. Figured we sell the house and I take the vehicle or take the hit on selling it underwater.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 04:14 AM
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Yeah its coming. Hoping to move out before the resentment of seeing me daily kicks in. Thanks for responding
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 04:00 AM
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Yes I agree. Only I was hoping to tell the kids once my new living situation is secured. But I need to tour some spots and I'm not sure how amicable she will be to working out a custody agreement this soon. Starting paperwork with lawyer tomorrow. Thanks for responding
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 03:59 AM
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Yeah almost 15 years. Consulted with a couple divorce lawyers recently but don't have the heart to sell the family home for the kids' sake.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 02:40 AM
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She's stayed home since marriage. I finance a few girls trips a year plus concerts and outings in between for her and her friends, then I'm still expected to pay for date nights, multiple family vacations per year, brand new car, big house, her credit cards. Plus we eat out almost daily because she's too overwhelmed and exhausted to cook. I had to work from home because it was too much for her to take the kids to school and pick them up everyday. Now I do the school runs everyday while I'm suppo…
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 04:54 PM
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Did you use a lawyer?
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 05:05 AM
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