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| -1 | My little research on my Tinder deckAttractiveness just subjective. Your "research" is pretty much useless. Give your deck to someone else and thr results will be completely different | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 06:05 PM |
| -3 | Getting sexual. Where to start?did you make a move when she was at your place? anyways dude what you gotta do is touch. make physical contact. if she backs away then tell her to gtfo your house. if she doesn't then escalate | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Yesterday I went on my first real date ever and it went amazing! I'm now scared it can only go down.too early for this | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do looks really matter?yes it matters alot no matter what anyone says. I live in a pretty conservative country, where a guy is supposed to do all the chasing. Where talking to strangers is not really commonplace. Things like small-talk are almost non-existant between strangers. But I get girls approaching me in clubs, on the subway, on the street. Yet, this doesn't really happen to my friends or anyone else I know. My favorite is when I go to a store or a resturant and I get in the zone if the worker is a girl. (Stron… | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 04:43 AM |
| 7 | First Cold Approach Since the Divorce. Thoughts?imo make her feel some sort of emotion, whether it be happiness, jealousy, whatever, out of the short interaction. get her head spinning, thinking, etc. honestly though coffee shop approaches while someone is WAITING for coffee is going to be tricky though. Imagine being forced to talk to a stranger while you have no choice / way to escape the conversation. regardless of whether she wanted to talk to him or not, she kinda had to. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 04:35 AM |
| 2 | First story for a first experience.women lose interest very quickly you gotta go in hard, then fade out. Ghost her. Let her chase you. Because once she sends that first text / phone call. you're 100% in. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Tip of the Day: Insanely Easy Way to IG CloseTip of the Day: Insanely easy way to phone close. When you're talking to a girl, make sure your game is good, you're building attraction and creating interest. As you're talking to her , say, "do you have a phone number." If they do, open the phone application and hand them your phone. Tell them to put their numbers in. Important: Bounce after you get the number BTW Im not saying this is a great way to run game or will have a high conversion. But, if you are new to this, you gotta start somewher… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 09:15 PM |
| 3 | How to start Instagram properlyfake a hobby. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Can long distance work for me (17M) right from the beginning?not worth it at your age | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | been out of the dating scene for a while, okay to buy her movie ticket?i have a date tomorrow to see tomb raider and I bought my tickets online already for me and my date not a big deal. im sure she'll pay for the popcorn or something | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is my family trolling me?do you think chris hemsworth is handsome or ugly? | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:51 PM |
| 55 | First Cold Approach Since the Divorce. Thoughts?yeah you stood there interviewing her. try and answer this, where in the interaction did you try and build attraction? | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Tried having sex for the first time in years and couldn't get hard. Need life advice.stop jacking off | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is my family trolling me?cant answer your question without pictures | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | After the 2 minute openagain it depends on the vibe. but how comfortable would you be talking to a stranger on a street corner for 5 minutes while you have errands to run? keep it short. 1-2 minutes max, pull a number and gtfo | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 08:20 AM |
| 1 | After the 2 minute openyou're in a big city, people are busy. people are out and about doing things, on their way somewhere etc. im guessing you're street approaching, which in my case I think its going to be hard to find a girl who is willing to drop her plans and go eat ice cream with you after a 2 minute conversation. anyways man it doesn't even have to be complicated, even something simple like "Hey, I gotta run but it was nice talking to you, give me your number so we can keep in touch." will at least give you a … | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | After the 2 minute openIts about what happens in the two minutes. but in 99% of situations life is not like a movie where two strangers meet and then fall in love immediately and spend the next 6 hours together. pull a number, because you are a "busy" man who has to go do X right now, but want to keep in touch. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Sending another message after no reply to first? Would appreciate some advicehmm, just realize with text game you're not writing a novel. biggest mistake i see is dudes that be texting like their talking to their therapist or some shit. A girl asking a simple question like "how was your week" turns into a loser responding with a life story like "Not bad! Had to stay late at work because of a project we're working on.. can't wait for it to finish! How about you? How was your week?" badddddd.... just man up and realize that girls gave you their number because they are some… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:52 AM |
| 3 | still a virgin. Haven't even gotten a girl's number before. What am i doing wrong?define loser? someone who thinks that they fail at establishing attraction because of their race. essentially someone who blames their problems on external factors. honestly dude i'm not sure what kind of help we can give you if we don't know anything about you. "still a virgin, haven't gotten a phone number, what am I doing wrong?" theres possibly a million things you could be doing wrong. its impossible to tell you over the internet, but the main impression I get with that statement is that yo… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Am I just over reacting?yeah you overreacting as fuck "i asked her if we can do the sex thing on friday?" seriously bro? i get it you a virgin but don't stress it too much. let her know its your first time, go watch porn and learn some positions, and man up and have fun :) | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:32 AM |
| 5 | Sending another message after no reply to first? Would appreciate some advice1st one, no. What are you her therapist? Asking a stranger to open up about her life without knowing each other? 2nd one. cringey bro. why do you have to make things so complicated? "heard a joke that reminded me of your bio?" - this is borderline creepy, and makes it seem like your obssessed with someone who you havent even spoken too. 3rd. no. "lets pretend that first msg never happened?" bro your first message was cringey as fuck and by saying this, you're simplying bringing that cringey mess… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:30 AM |
| -5 | Today is the last day of lecture. How do I approach and ask some girls out in class if we talked only a few times before?What the fuck are you doing, interviewing girls for the school newspaper? "we talked once about her experiences as a college athelete playing basketball"? You don't win a girls heart by being friendly. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:25 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Know When A Girl Is Attracted To You?Depends what you want but if your just tryna get your noodle wet, it usually involves late night texts. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:22 AM |
| 3 | still a virgin. Haven't even gotten a girl's number before. What am i doing wrong?no it doesn't? this mindset you have is probably the reason you're not having luck. Confidence is key and if you're not confident in your own skin, it'll ooze right out and be obvious to everyone around you. Tell me, what girl would be attracted to a self-hating, self-doubting loser? I'm a minority too, (Asian) and I've been with girls from every corner of the world . Sweedes, Mexicans, Persians, Russians, Pakistani, Chinese, Korean, Thai, Brazillian, German. Trust me, race does not make a diffe… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | still a virgin. Haven't even gotten a girl's number before. What am i doing wrong?it has nothing to do with being a minority. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:11 AM |
| 10 | High school crushhigh schools these days. kids literally wear sweat pants and t shirts to school? wow... anyways you say you haven't tried to make a move yet because you don't know anything about her. Well how do you expect to know anything about her without making a move? Easiest way is find her when shes ALONE, (studying, getting shit from her locker, rest time during track practice) then remind her that you're on the cross country team. "Hey you're on the cross country team right?" then introduce yourself foo… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | so I think I fucked something up over text?hey whats up?? bruh...................................... start with a specific statement. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Need advice about picking up girls at 8am....?seriously bro are you new to life? if your going to do college pickups the best place is the library followed by cafeteria "Hey mind if I sit here for a minute?" | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | This girl really likes me but randomly ignored me how do I get things back on track?she really really likes you but ignored your text. do you see the problem with this statement? do you think she forgot to read your text (if she really really likes you) maybe she didn't get your message? (even though messaging apps have like 99.9999999% accuracy) do you actually think she's playing a game with you to see how you react, (ok no sarcasm here, but trust me she's not) shes not interested if she hasnt responded to your text within a few hours. for future reference, whenever you send … | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Had a date last night, unsure of when to text her. What works for you?you're using old ass pua techniques bro time to text if you're good and especially if it ended with a kiss is on the way home. like i just got home from a second date an hour ago and I already have this chick texting me how she misses me and shit, and all I did was send her a text like 30 minutes after we went seperate ways asking "Did you get home safely?" which led to a strung out text convo, plans for a next date and a "i miss you" text at the end. just hit her up asap, see how shes doing and… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Breakups are hell when you’ve got no social support netstop being a little bitch. by the way the time to bitch about exes is with your bros at a bar. so hit up your "friends" and let them know you broke up with your girl and you wanna grab a beer. a couple drinks later you and your bros will be singing backstreet boys on karaoke together and you'll realize that bros > hoes | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How should I ask her?If there was any initial attraction 3-4 months ago it would be all but forgotten by now. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Giving girls your numberI did this once when my phone battery died at a club. I just asked for her number, then said whoops my phones dead let me see yours, then put my number in there and saved it as a contact. Reminded them with "Well, I guess you'll have to text me first now." out of like 6 numbers that night, only 2 texted me the next day. So....ymmv but ideally its better to get her number. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Lack of motivation?Its not a fear of success. It is that you are inherently bored with the conversation you're having because you have so many choices in women. Because if there is a girl that you are geuninely interested in you'll arrange something. I can usually tell within like a few texts if im going to waste my time with a chick or not and you're reaching that point too where you can judge quickly. Good on you and keep up the good work bro | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Advice on escalationjust grab her by the p*ssy. but on a serious note, usually if you guys are just next to each other, first I will kinda grab her waist an then lean over and whisper something funny, or to point something out that is funny. Depending on her reaction to this, if its good than you're in. nose to cheek bro | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How should I ask her?3-4 months is way too late to make a move. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | I passed my first ever shit test this weekendWhere is the shit test? | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Why does nothing work (3+ years) nothing to show for itNever stop improving yourself. But this mindset that you have rn is very dangerous. It will lead to your wifeing the next girl that comes your way. But yeah man the key to getting better is practice. Go out more. Hit up clubs by yourself. If you truly want to work on your confidence, go out by yourself too, you don't always need a wingman. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:30 AM |
| -2 | Laughing at myself for this approach.Oh really? Why not? - bad response Why? Do you have a BF? - getting better but can be worded better. If i were to use this I would say it in a manner that implies she has a boyfriend and puts her on the defensive by saying she doesn't. How do you get dates then? ;) - no Oh ya? Do you prefer a guy walk up to you and just say hi? Her: Yes. Me: Hi :) - no | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:26 AM |
| 6 | How much do looks matter when trying to get laid and be successful with girls?its very important. Anyone that says personality is key is an idiot. like 90% looks, 10% personality. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:13 AM |
| 14 | Why does it seem like some people just 'get it' when it comes to girls?What I've realized is that people are simply attracted to different things. I'm sure you've heard the term, "one mans trash is another mans treasure". I think the same applies to how women view us. I've come to realize that I cannot get every women that I want (even though I hold the view and mindset that I can, deep down I know that i cannot). I'm mentoring a little 18 year old kid whos a nice dude but beta af and kinda fat. but hes a good kid and I've been bringing him out to nightclubs with m… | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:01 AM |
| 22 | Asked a girl out, gave her a date and time, she said she can’t do it because of work and did not suggest an alternative. Now what?I feel like the whole "blahblah location at 7 on sunday?" shit is wayy outdated. It leaves no backup plan in situations like this. These days I find myself just being honest and asking, "Hey lets grab dinner this week, whats your schedule look like?" and usually they'll have a few days free and I just pick. Otherwise if im busy too , I'll say something and suggest the week after. saves way more time than tryna slow game through some old ass pua shit from 2008 | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Don't overthink textingwasnt trying to be a dick, my point was that chatting apps like messenger, insta dm, etc show when a message has been read. So the dynamics are much different tha n back when regular text messages was the standard and the rule of thumb was "only text to arrange dates, respond very slowly, and never have convos on texts". Nowadays its more like if the "read" message is triggered you kinda have to respond asap otherwise its not good ettiqute | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 05:39 AM |
| 5 | She keeps looking at me!"Hey you're in my ____ class right?" | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 09:47 PM |
| 11 | Matched with this girl on tinder, not sure what she wants from me?your game is weak and its obvious shes not interested. but your game tho. This roleplay shit only works if both sides are playing along. You went way to far dude almost cringeworthy after her initial responses you should have just changed course. but yeah its not going anywhere lmao she ignored your message for drinks. block / unmatch and move on. shes kinda ugly tbh anyways | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Is there any way to get past "let's just be friends?"I've been friend zoned once in my life because I was a little bitch who didn't know how to escalate properly. never do anything for a women, make them want to do things for you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Seduce her with your eyes!Yeah eyes are the shit. I was at a club the other day and quietly walked past a booth (giant table) filled with dom perginon and armand. backstory: What had happened previously was I was scouring the dance floor and literally grabbed a random dude who was just standing around like a loser, to wingman for me as my friends were busy, and we brought 3 girls back to the dudes booth where I drank their $2500 bottles of armand lols. Like 5 minutes later, the girls friend was getting bored with the los… | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 09:35 PM |
| -7 | Don't overthink textingdo people still text? everyone is using messenger / chatting apps now that texting is outdated. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 09:25 PM |
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