iamkikins Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	I am lost for words!	THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES	iamkikins	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:26 PM
1	I am lost for words!	THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES	iamkikins	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:26 PM
1	I am lost for words! This is becoming the norm.	THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES	iamkikins	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:27 PM

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1	John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress . Me too and I had surgery last week and was told by nurses and other patients that day that I looked 15? I was astonished but kinda felt good about it too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 06:49 PM
1	Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples? Tom hardy and Charlotte Riley are a HV couple and goals imo ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 05:04 PM
9	I found a HVM I have one too!!!! ❤️😍 but I also have a bitch 😂 and I tell you she is a HVW and she takes no prisoners...so inspirational and I love them both but her more as she takes no shit!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 10:31 AM
2	Pleasing yourself sexually after a break-up The only HVM man I can find 👀🙄😂 but on a serious note pick someone/anyone who is HV to fantasise over as you will only further trauma bond yourself to your ex partner which is so damaging ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 09:18 AM
4	Pleasing yourself sexually after a break-up Keanu Reeves until my HVM is found 😉	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 12:03 AM
3	From Legend of Korra. I thought it fit. Lol. My ex said this and I told him to JUST HURRY T F UP!!!! 😂..... spoiler.....mother fucker still walks the earth! 🤷🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 12:01 AM
7	They’ll try to gaslight you if you point out anything similar to this too 🤡🤡🤡 So true the..bellends.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 11:34 PM
16	They’ll try to gaslight you if you point out anything similar to this too 🤡🤡🤡 😂😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 11:32 PM
2	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 It's not easy that's why they (we) stay, that and the trauma bond which is so strong. Don't blame the women they are victims like their children. It's why this sub is so important. You sound like you're on the right path so stick to your guns and you will do well in life and avoid major issues like this. I am proud of what I have achieved but it is exhausting mentally and physically and obviously worth it but it's not for everyone unfortunately. Hopefully this sub will inspire women in these sit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 09:22 PM
3	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 Aw thank you lovely, it took me years, it nearly destroyed me and my family but I persevered and read everything and educated myself and started again. Everything on here is gospel and gold as it took me years to gather and process the info that has been put here by the fabulous FDS ladies...I wish this was around years ago as it would have saved me from so much. My children have luckily averted any damage and have had a FDS woman raise them, it could have been so different and generational trau…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 09:03 PM
7	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 Well you know what they say! You leave a vacancy right? He was a pathological liar and constant cheat so when she came along all brazen with bags of money 💰 I walked away. Two 🤡 🤡 together. He tried triangulation and hoovering and I didn't fall for his clownery all the while he was doing the stuff in the video above! He absolutely destroyed her and now he's with another woman. They don't know when to stop, or who they hurt and they never change. I found the above video triggering for this very r…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 08:28 PM
14	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 Ah no it's fine as it taught me a very valuable lesson about men and what they are capable of. I just sat back and watched him ruin her life; absolutely chilling. I was just glad I didn't have lots of money and refused to marry him as he would have annihilated me. FDS has the right idea and it's all for our protection so I recommend following all advice. Just vet them, especially when they're extra nice as they're usually getting back at their ex leaving after leaving a trail of destruction behi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 08:16 PM
4	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 Yes I do too, I guess we just have to vet vet vet. I wish you lots of luck and hope you find a wonderful HVM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 05:13 PM
23	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 Yeah or he's just a narc love bombing away and then after a few years he takes half of all you have and a nasty custody battle ensues because narcs can do this for however long it takes them to get real comfy under your table pretending to be something they are not and then BOOM! The mistress found this out the hard way and I bet she wishes she hadn't enjoyed a single moment of that now that she has been ruined by him. It's a minefield unfortunately; I'd rather be single.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 04:17 PM
238	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 My ex did this.....for his mistress!!! Never for me or anything nice for his kids. Don't let this fool you...context is everything. Doesn't mean he's a HVM at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 01:01 PM
5	Watch out for the Peter Pan’s! Avoidant personality/narc!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 11:22 PM
6	People really be cheating like this? I’m shook? This subject matter is discussed in the show ; 'I may destroy you' by Michaela Coel- highly recommend!! The subject of consent is throughout and so is misrepresenting oneself in a particular episode. Also for light relief her show 'Chewing Gum' is worth a watch it is absolutely hilarious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 09:42 PM
1	I’ll admit that younger me fell for some of these guys! I absolutely hated Murray and the way he treated Stacey dash's character (Dionne). He was absolutely vile and I went to high school with these type of insecure boys... everytime he opened his mouth I 🙄🙄🙄😠	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 03:53 PM
2	I’ll admit that younger me fell for some of these guys! I think alot of us were 💓😍 when we saw her in that film and I'm straight...Cusack was on the back burner that whole film 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 03:46 PM
2	I’ll admit that younger me fell for some of these guys! Ione Skye, she is beautiful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 03:30 PM
4	How to bring up height without seeming shallow? How about how to bring up TEETH!!!!? That's a minefield too it seems 🤦🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 12:13 AM
11	If you want a good movie more on the FDS side Loved that film so much!!!! It is so inspirational and funny ❤️💓🏃🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 11:42 PM
1	How do I know if my boyfriend is safe? JB is the worst! You have all you need right there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:54 AM
6	When men are amused that you don't know how to do home improvement things? I've always had the opposite response as I can do all DIY...hence the "dangerous woman" comment! Listen ladies if I can do it so can you, never ask a man for advice, look it up and believe in yourself- currently teaching my son and daughter DIY skills during pandemic so they too can be seen as "dangerous" 👌 The ones that are misogynistic usually chuck themselves in the 🗑️🙏 but the HVM will meet you at your level and offer help or refreshments!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:47 AM
9	What common bio phrase you’re tired of seeing on OLD? 😂😂😂👌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:20 AM
21	What common bio phrase you’re tired of seeing on OLD? Ngl but there has been a shift since the pandemic. I was horrified to see men openly displaying their kinks online now, such as seeking a DDlg dynamic and choking, slapping etc...I was horrified- that was a sign to me to delete and never return. Be careful out there ladies they are no longer hiding their depravity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 09:10 AM
13	He actually gets it. He really REALLY gets it. 💓❤️💜 100%	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 10:19 PM
4	What do you think about Bumble? It was awful and I had no idea they could call you directly on it! I was shook and disgusted by the reptile that had the balls to video call me 🤮 he was drunk and arrogant; shut him down in 10 seconds flat. Never again. At least tinder keeps you safe in that respect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 06:20 PM
1	Just watched Jerry Maguire for the first time... Bridget Jones 🤮- RZ again! On a side note I watched the much revered Teen Witch for the first time a few weeks ago- WTAF!!!!? Followed by the film Fear- No words; absolute trash. I no longer enjoy Hollywood films or men anymore!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 10:02 PM
19	For shts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign? Mine was a gemini, born on the same day as me! Well f*k me!!! Even I will never make that mistake again! Full on avoidant personality - narc- sex addict! I dodged a bullet and found FDS not long after and I agree with all your handbook; follow it to a T ladies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 06:35 PM
1	Assertive Women/ HVW on TV? Amy Poehler/Lesley knope - parks and recreation Rhetta - Parks and recreation, extremely FDS Trinity- Matrix Pamela Adlon- Better Things agreed Miranda- sex and the city Gillian Anderson in anything- X-files, The Fall, Hannibal, Sex Education *Dr Alana Bloom- Hannibal Tina fey/Liz Lemon- 30 rock I found very disappointing tbh and quite problematic after rewatching recently having learned about FDS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:01 AM
1	IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED! 8 digit code please, thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 03:08 PM