| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | My Exes New Profile Picture ☠ Glad I dogded that bullet. 🤷🏻♀️ | #JustLVMThings | iamwildflowers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.Bro, if your only attracted to men just say so 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 11 | Starting to Regret Getting TattooedWhat the actual hell. This is why men scare me 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 127 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands."Coffee date at his house" sounds like a horrible plan I would skip out on 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:22 PM |
| 142 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.Exactly my thoughts 😂 I can't believe he decided that reaching inside the trash was a great idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | This bio is sadWhat a catch 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 20 | This is why sex work is stupid. They don’t want to actually pay for it. Paying for it doesn’t fulfill their desire for power.I may be out of the loop, but I didn't know men who wanted sugar babies still existed these days. It seems like men are always acting like women are all gold diggers, I get alot of messages on instagram from random men asking if I want to be their sugar baby. But I just delete them and pass it off as a scam or a bot. Is this more common than I thought? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:40 PM |
| 19 | Collectively taking off the rose coloured glassesI'm dying right now 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:30 PM |
| 23 | Die mad, scrotes 😂Same 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Where is the lie?!?I would to now, not really attracted to shorter guys after those experiences. At first I always overlooked it, but not currently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 14 | Where is the lie?!?So true I've shorter guys and both were terrible experiences. I'm 100% sure it's not the height that women hate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 47 | OLD Red Flags and Field Report: Catfishing, Heightfishing, and more.The lift shoes had me dying 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:36 PM |
| 10 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.It just gets worse and worse as you read further. Yikes. I feel so bad about that situation. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢😂😂😂 I'm dead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 14 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Wow. The image in my head reading that is like the perfect diet fuel 👌😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:59 AM |
| 12 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Oh no 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:58 AM |
| 8 | A high-earning woman may never be fully rid of a scrote. Beware.Dam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 176 | The audacity is off the chartsHe really is trying to stuff his raw salmonella infested sausage into a poor unsuspecting victim 🚔👮♀️🚨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:33 AM |
| 54 | The audacity is off the chartsI take birthcontrol for medical reasons and the subscription website I order it from sends me 24 female condoms every 3 months. Me reading his post like:🕳🤚🤌🤏✌👀👅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:31 AM |
| 8 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDOmg I would have died right then if I saw that horror which you describe. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:42 AM |
| 9 | OLD is truly a dumpster fireAre you saying hinge was bad? Lol my membership expires in June. Wish I could get a refund. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 8 | Modern relationships in a nutshell💯 Agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Taking control of creating my own happiness - I bought myself a ring and the matching earringsQueeen👑👑👑👑💐🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.What if he's lying there's no way that all his exs are okay with his social presence. I would assume those are just hookups he had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 56 | Comeback queenOmg dead 😂😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 15 | LVM are not a prize, they are the pipeline to women's poverty. Financial, social, physical, mental, spiritual and generational poverty.Ugh my sister does that to, then she goes through periods of denial and turns a blind eye on her emotions. I guess it is a toxic coping mechanism. But, everytime she calls me for emotional support, I pep talk her and then she goes on to living and doing the same things 🤦🏻♀️. It really is heartbreaking, especially if they have daughters of their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 8 | LVM are not a prize, they are the pipeline to women's poverty. Financial, social, physical, mental, spiritual and generational poverty.Oh no, I really do hope our sisters do better! It really saddens me to see these women heartbroken. I just really don't know what to do anymore when I see it happen or it comes up in a conversation. Most of them take it badly. I had to take a break today from the drama of it all and focus on my own projects, but since FDS it really does bother me to see people living in misery and not speak up if they are close to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 63 | LVM are not a prize, they are the pipeline to women's poverty. Financial, social, physical, mental, spiritual and generational poverty.My sisters LVM husband who makes a decent amount of money as an engineer and provides for her and her kids is like this. He told my sister many lies. He told her I was jealous that she had kids and a family while I was in school finishing up my degree and building my social platform. First of all I would never compete with my sister and I was happy for her if she was happy. He would also get mad and suspicious if I was dressed up and going out and about with her, she can't even talk to me much a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenThank you! Just finished reading it. 🙏💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 65 | They will leave you for older women too.. And your looks won't determine how he is going to treat you 🌹Kinda sounds like something I heard a youtuber say the other day in a video. She was talking about how we date people we want to be when we haven't emotionally healed or matured enough. I forgot what she called it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenOmg definetly going to check that out 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenUgh his whole character is so unattractive. He's literally a snake 🤢, I hope to God that woman listens to her intuition and leaves this demonic soul of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 10 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenWtf is "frame and dread"? I was on that subbreddit when I first joined this one to see what that was all about. And what I found mostly on there were posts on Women hitting the wall 😂 like wtf seems very unproductive and toxic. These types of men make me want to vomit! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 30 | LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit.Lol I downvoted him to😂. Saw this when it was first posted on there to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 33 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?I'm at a loss for my soul 😔. I can't even 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 11 | r/BDSMadvice makes r/relationshipadvice look like a radical feminist wonderland in comparisonIf he's taking pueraria mirifica that causes breasts in men along with chemical castration. His penis will not work in a couple of months. It is also very dangerous and can cause the same things that a high amount of unregulated estrogen can do, including blood clots and pulmonary embolism. Dangerous stuff in this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:46 AM |
| 5 | "He's leaving her anyway, I don't mind. Should I give it a try and ignore that I'm an active participant in cheating?"Why is this the kind of "dumb" question I expect from someone who has never been in a relationship or is very young and naive to ask. 🤔 I am truely bamboozled.🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:14 AM |
| 14 | Society be like: women need to spend money, and cut their bodies to be “beautiful” instead of saggy and wrinkly. Meanwhile somewhere on the same planet, men be like ...This is gold 😂🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | From avoidant men to desperate men... just trying to find that middle ground?Thank you for posting this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 09:22 PM |
| 15 | Throw the man out! There, I fixed it😂 Thats fucking true. I kept getting annoyed at my uncles wife trying to give dating advice to us girls at the table. She said men are visual creatures, but men pull shit like this. Cheat on their gorgeous gfs with women deemed much less attractive. Like stop making it seem like men are "visual creatures" As a design student I am offended 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 09:16 PM |
| 15 | Emotional F*ckbois: The Subtlest Gaslighters of AllThis is why I'm taking 2021 to focus on myself. It feels great so far 😍. I was in a bad pattern of falling into relationships when I was in a vulnerable place in my life. I never gave myself enough time or did the right things to improve my self-esteem and self-worth during that time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:25 PM |
| 5 | My self love stackLove seeing these pop up on my reddit feed 👏💕👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’Dam what a psycho. These are the types of people who never take the time to "levelup" after a relationship and bring in all their baggage from their last one. Also clearly a psycho or sex addict. Like who says that?? Atleast he showed his true colors easily so you could teleport this trash dumpster from your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 12 | Queen sh*t from a real princess👑👑👑❣ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:00 AM |
| 11 | “But not too long, lol” WHATS THE POINT?!I hope he is trolling 😂... HIM: 😃😔🤬🤡🤡🤡? ME: 🤦🏻♀️🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Women have been way too nice for men, that's why they act upWait a minute...🤢....okay I'll survive having that mental image 😔😷🥸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | This woman is out here boosting a loser who let the mother of his FIVE kids walk around with a gum ball ring rusting away on her finger for 14 years. Struggle love ain’t a goal, sis."he’s spun his selfishness into a tale of how virtuous she is for accepting his worthlessness for years and how alllll the women who know their worth are just gold diggers for not accepting the trash men try to present us. And the pickmes are out in full force, screaming that the women in the comments clowning the dude are bitter and single. " Yup 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:10 PM |
| 4 | Cause a woman can’t be funny or cute without a catch 🙄 I get responses like this daily. OLD is a cesspool.Back before I knew Tinder was the OG Cesspool this guy literally spammed around 50 gifs after we were having a semi-decent conversation. It's like there's actually always a catch with these seemingly normal OLD encounters 😅. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:03 AM |
| 5 | O no hunnySeriously, he sounds like a big baby and was probably trying to make her jealous or insecure. Then she turned around and educated him which depleted his last remaining brain cells and now the scroter is speechless 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:28 AM |
| 11 | sigh😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:26 AM |
| 4 | Why friends with benefits is rarely a good ideaLove this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:17 AM |
| 13 | Height Correlation Survey- Do tall men infantilize shorter women?I dated a guy an inch taller than me and he still infantillized me. I'm 5'4, and he kept telling me how little I was. Like I'm not even extremely short or thin for a female. I'm very curvy and muscular in my bottom half even with low body fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 29 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡I only read the first sentence they wrote and was already unimpressed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:49 AM |
| 33 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?What did I just read? 🥲 This man is pure nightmare fuel🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Ex NVM slept with a prostitute before dating me and lied about it. His bff thinks it is okayI am severely vitamin D deficient, Borderline on B12 and iron. I should really supplement more often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:30 AM |
| 5 | I just escaped an abuserJesus, he sounded like a complete nut job! I'm soo glad you are out of there and safe 🙏💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:29 AM |
| 24 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.Me to. I am on both hinge and match.com which I paid for a couple months ago and my 6 month membership will be over in Feb/March. And I dont understand how people can even enjoy these apps anymore. I find 1 person I want to match with once every blue moon and tbh I've just lost interest. I was always the girl obsessed with getting matches & OLD, and now idk what has happened to me 😅. Something deep inside me has changed and I have become super picky/rather work on myself. I am applying to gradua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:58 AM |
| 47 | And then they proceed to tell the woman to 'smile more'That sounds like a good strategy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 9 | The gospel truthMy ex told me "I should have treated you that way, you deserve better" I told him your right I do, and he got so mad 😂. I'm like, you said it, I just acknowledged it. Did he think he was gonna reverse psychology me 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:27 PM |
| 168 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?I read this and had to take a nap immediately. He seems overwhelming. I would cancel, block, and delete him💤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentEw I cant stand the they are just "female friends" excuse. Like um okay good for you lol, you never like my pictures. But you will go on to like half naked, cleavage showing pictures of your "friends". None of which are going to date a cheap 5'5 man with the personality of a potato. 👀. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:40 AM |
| 7 | Idk if this has already been uploaded here BUT THE ACCURACYYet these men lie about their height too 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:19 AM |
| 27 | Thought You Queens Would Enjoy ThisI love it! I still have Hinge and Match.com, but after realigning my values and future goals I feel so much more picky about the men I see on these sites. Sometimes I get so over seeing LVM on there I come on this forum instead 😂. I think I may stay single for a while, we know our worth ladies 🥂💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 26 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentI had an abortion to, we were in a LDR. He got me pregnant around the time we met physically. And he flew me out to NY becuase he never once mentioned he wanted to keep it. Also I didn't think I could get pregnant at the time so I was in shock, in college, very distressed. Then after I come out of the operating room and leave he starts crying. Like wtf then he blamed everything on me. It was a very traumatizing experience for me and I'm sorry you went through that 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 48 | I spat my drinkThis reminded me of one time this guy I was seeing asked me where mine was, becuase it was "soo small". He would talk about the girl he used to have sex with and how she "was very loud". Well years later he found me on a dating site and confessed I was the first girl he'd ever had sex with 🤦🏻♀️. I just realized reading that how he freaking lied about being experienced. When he told me that I honestly replied "We had sex?!" I completely blocked it out idk why 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:45 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?That is exactly what happened. I screamed very loudly! 😂 that was around this time last year. It still haunts me 🤧🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:36 AM |
| 53 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?Seriously, and they are living in NYC. I stayed there with my ex weeks at a time. And the cost of living is way different there than in alot of other places. For example he lived in a basement apartment in Brooklyn and paid around 1,500 a month for it, could of been more I'm not quite sure. But I cant imagine the cost in Manhattan. Plus I found a rat one night when I woke up to go pee in his restroom 😭. It caressed my foot while running past me 😂🤢. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 29 | Why is this so accurate? Have men always been like this?When in doubt "Run, don't walk" 😄. I'm adding this to my list of 2021 mottos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:56 PM |
| 12 | Why is this so accurate? Have men always been like this?Omg this made my day 😂🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 41 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Lol ugh 🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Pretty girls with dumpster fire men 🙄I wonder if I have been doing so many diy home furniture renovation and decorating projects since breaking up with my ex, becuase I was in need of a project constantly 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:06 AM |
| 8 | FACT: MORE than 1 out of 4 men 30+ that are vehemently posting about women hitting the wall at 30 are literally BALDING noticeably!Since I first started dating which was around 18, all my bfs had some form of ED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:19 AM |
| 19 | If it feels wrong, walk awayI know if there was ever a strategic exit strategy it would be now. Perfect time to cut off something that feels off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:01 AM |
| 24 | When you’re out of a lvm/nvm’s league, he will do anything to keep your self esteem low so you won’t know you can do better.Ugh I've been there to. I hate that so many other women have experienced this 😔. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:07 AM |
| 5 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.I would also come to that conclusion on Google, yet ignore every sign 🤦🏻♀️. And the toxic females around me would tell me not to google things like that, and that all men are the same. It was a terrible cycle, and of course the men I was picking were not going to ever properly "communicate" with me. 🙆🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.Seriously this man would turn into an angry toddler when I asked him a simple question. 🙄 lol like if someone asked me such simple, non-threatening, and caring questions I would not turn into the hulk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | We simply don't care what you think👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:08 AM |
| 9 | Ex-Husband Contacted Me to "Catch Up" After 6 Years of SilenceAll my exs came back 🤦🏻♀️ Like you messed up so bad then you have the audacity to harass me after I move on. I never understood this. I've had exes make fake accounts years later and try and reach out to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:05 AM |
| 2 | This was posted by a “woke” friend on fb 🤢🤢Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:52 AM |
| 50 | Just let him goNever has the word "audacity" been so appropriate. This man needs to be slapped into the next dimension and forever orbit in outerspace. 😒🙋🏻♀️📦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:38 AM |
| 7 | A MASSIVE Red Flag When TextingWhen I was breaking up with my ex I deleted every app that had read receipts and talked to him on regular phone messages. Lol he lost it 😂. I never really thought about the whole read receipts thing till this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Being absolutely ruthless in 2021Cheers to that 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:12 AM |
| 10 | Here's to valuing ourselves this 2021 and beyond.Here's to 2021! 👏🏻💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:09 AM |
| 3 | FDS just hit 121k followers in time for 2021! Happy New Year's FDSers! 🎉🥂🍾🥳Happy New years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | This sounds like my last relationship!Omg 😂 this is literally my ex. Word for word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:00 AM |
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