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iatecthulhu/r/seduction24/05/11 10:32 PM
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iatecthulhu/r/seduction25/05/11 11:48 PM
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I'd second that with eat pussy with no expectation of return. Show generosity like that and ladies will not want to let you go AND they will brag about it to all their friends.
/r/seduction28/05/24 05:07 PM
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Those types of conversations are hard, especially if you are used to useless arguing. It will be very difficult and she will resist and want to yell at you and blame you rather than take a good hard look at what is going on inside her head and communicate it outloud. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:01 PM
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I read your short story and quite enjoyed it. Shared it on facebook. Look forward to following your blog.
/r/seduction26/09/12 07:38 PM
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Try talking to her when you both are calm. Sit down, tell her you want to have an honest, open discussion about what is going on between you. Ask questions. Don't accuse, don't say "you did this or that". Ask "why did you do this? what were you feeling when you did this? do you think it is okay to behave like this? This thing that you did made me feel this way, did you want me to feel that way? Why did you want me to feel that way?" Stick to questions. Don't get angry. Don't shout. Remain calm.
/r/seduction26/09/12 07:37 PM
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No, not really. He should think of a better one. That was just the first thing that popped into my head.
/r/seduction15/08/11 09:49 PM
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Only if you think you can leave her in a better state emotionally then when you found her. Don't fuck with her head. Also, just because you think you are being clear doesn't mean that her hormones are translating the same thing. FWB to her could easily mean to her that you are going to fall passionately in love with her after a long enough period of time. Also - card her.
/r/seduction04/08/11 07:41 PM
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Oh god. Most of these lines would make me instantly glom onto my nearest male friend and use him as a pervert shield.
/r/seduction24/07/11 08:02 PM
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You should check out professional story teller Mark Lewis. The man is brilliant and teaches classes.
/r/seduction16/07/11 09:23 PM
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subtle psychological warfare Specific examples?
/r/seduction08/07/11 11:51 PM
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Also Japanese AMOGs are absolutely brutal. Worse than American AMOGs. Could you please explain this in more detail?
/r/seduction08/07/11 07:31 PM
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This response would annoy me if delivered in the wrong tone of voice.
/r/seduction01/07/11 05:00 AM
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I thought this response was good because it made use of light hearted "oopsie I misheard" humor.
/r/seduction01/07/11 04:59 AM
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This one made me giggle.
/r/seduction01/07/11 04:41 AM
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Next time you recognize an opening like that just tell yourself "STFU brain, I'm going to go say hi and you can't do anything to stop me!" Then go say hi. With a smile. Like a boss.
/r/seduction28/06/11 09:17 AM
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Well then get back to it. Healthiness will help you be more confident and looking fit will help you get laid.
/r/seduction27/06/11 07:53 PM
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Do you work out?
/r/seduction27/06/11 07:48 PM
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Because the way he responds needs to be quite playful. If he is butt hurt when he responds it comes across badly.
/r/seduction26/05/11 07:21 PM
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Two, she doesn't really have anything interesting in her profile for me to start a message about. First, why do you want to date her? Second, just that fact means she really isn't out of your league.
/r/seduction25/05/11 11:49 PM
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Exactly! I quite like how Seddit offers guidelines for guys who don't know how to read women or interpret their behavior.
/r/seduction25/05/11 05:29 AM
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I appreciate that. I am not discouraged. Everyone comes from a different background and history that shapes their perceptions of the world.
/r/seduction25/05/11 05:29 AM
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The question is - do those little girl's parents take her to those games and include her in those activities? The women who love sports usually had a parent who loved the sport who included them. Also the number of men or women I know doesn't matter. Anecdotal evidence is only useful for convincing people who don't know the difference between a structured scientific study and anecdotal evidence.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:56 AM
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I should probably change that to I go to gay bars/clubs to dance and possibly meet women, not men.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:53 AM
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Please read the other comments in this thread. There are a few that describe the rating scale in a way that is totally fine.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:52 AM
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Ah yes. Well in that case I don't really have much to comment further. I do agree that in general there is a disconnect between how men and women communicate.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:35 AM
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I do not deny that. I have not personally done enough research on the subject to comment on that claim.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:32 AM
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Nope, thank goodness. I'm too much of an introvert for sales.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:24 AM
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I'm sure there are plenty of people who agree with you. For me, the body is the most important as well, because a person's body reflects their mind. You can't love yourself if you don't take care of yourself.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:24 AM
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I appreciate your intentions but I don't really need help. I understand your points and I think we are having a disconnect on how we define "cold". I define "cold" as not being smiley and friendly with every person who attempts to engage me in conversation when I am busy doing something else. I will respond, politely, but I will not continue the conversation if I am not attracted to the person or they aren't behaving in a manner increases my attraction or they are boring. the clumsy guy making a…
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:23 AM
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It is a pretty ballsy move. I wouldn't expect it.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:15 AM
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Flattery is always upvoted!
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:14 AM
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But we can recognize a general (with exceptions) difference between men and women, recognize they have different motivations and different thought processes, and still not be sexist. If men and women understood each other, we wouldn't have such trouble connecting There is a large difference between saying that men and women are different, and saying that women are not self aware.
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:11 AM
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I work with a large number of new people every day. I also engage in social activities that involve large groups, such as parties or group camping events. I also use online dating sites... though I haven't been counting the messages when I talk about approaches.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:17 AM
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I agree with the commenter anonymous_troll who said: Simply put, demonstrating that you're comfortable in a social situation is effective. Being happy (but not cheesy happy) helps with that. This study doesn't show you people interacting, it shows how women react to a set of photos. You can have "brooding" texture, but convey energy and vibrance. That's important.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:12 AM
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I have done that in front of guys, but always in situations where I could have not known that the guy was in the line of sight.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:09 AM
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I will rephrase - I would rather not rate myself publically on Seddit. As nice as everyone has been so far I have run into people who take great joy in attempting to tear down anyone who has a healthy opinion of themselves. There is no point in making myself a target for that sort of attention.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:08 AM
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Are you saying women have an income rating system? If this is the case I have yet to hear about it.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:07 AM
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I wrote my thesis on why there are more men in science and engineering. It doesn't really have much to do with the way men's brains work and more with the way that young children are raised. Young girls are actively discouraged from showing interest in scientific fields, by parents, teachers and peers. I am a big fan of the methodological approach.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:05 AM
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I would rather not rate myself.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:02 AM
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Income scale?
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:55 AM
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It takes A LOT of work to defuse a bitch shield that has been hardened by constant attacks (and I get this to a point) and then it takes a lot of skill to keep her interested. Could you explain how this relates to me? I'm genuinely curious about how you got the impression I have a bitch shield. The sad part is, that this kind of girl is very receptive to the switch to asshole mode from the guy. It almost always works, because they are not used to being treated like that from guys, and that is wh…
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:54 AM
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Based on the descriptions in this thread and the link about the HB-scale, I think it is a good thing as it provides a structure for men to follow. Anything that teaches men to approach me in more entertaining fashions is a-okay by me.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:34 AM
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Is it cool to date your ex-girlfriend's best friend? yes/no, oh ok, because I broke up with my girlfriend a while back, but her best friend has been hitting me up and wanting to hang out, and I'm not sure what to do. Gah! I love that one! Not only is it an interesting dilemma but it indicates the guy is high in demand.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:25 AM
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My advice to a girl in that situation would be to join a gym, join r/fitness, and become sexy fit. However I don't really know how to give a girl advice on how to seduce a shy guy.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:23 AM
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Meh. Don't really need a female equivalent to this subreddit as long as women are welcome to come here and ask for advice.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:19 AM
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Now here, you've had your own actions explained in terms of our PUA "behavioral psychology" and now it makes sense to you. I was surprised to hear you say your own behavior was "unexpected" like it was an involuntary or subconscious act. Perhaps you could discuss this a bit more. I actually have several times thought "Why did I say that?" when I've said something rude to a guy I was interested in. I don't like being rude to people. However guys who were playful about it became more interesting a…
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:15 AM
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Is there a link for various types of approaches? I would love to read up more on that subject.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:01 AM
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Kino! On both men and women.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:58 PM
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I would be happy to tell you how to seduce men but my opinions on the subject are quite sexist, and involve being physically fit and doing things like bending over to inspect things while wearing tight pants.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:53 PM
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Not necessarily! I know guys who work with the assumption that all women (and sometimes people) are less intelligent than they are.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:51 PM
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Tell you the truth I am quite cold initially to men I don't know who approach me so I might not be the best one to give feedback on this. I also only go to bars/clubs to dance, not to meet men. I work in an environment where I meet a lot of new people, so I'm exposed to guys who almost always attempt to start a conversation by asking me questions about what I'm working on or what I'm reading. I would much rather be reading or working than answering questions about what I'm doing, so I usually gi…
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:47 PM
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I've seduced women who thought they were straight before. It is a big part of why I think Seddit is awesome, because the advice here lines up with what I've already learned through practice. Edit: I also do agree with batshit_lazy's point that you have made a blanket statement about women, indicating that they are all not honest with themselves. Putting an entire group of people into a box impairs your ability to see the individuals clearly.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:32 PM
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Ah, well this is not going to be the response you want. I have been approached by guys obviously using lines and routines. If I'm VERY attracted to them I tend to give them shit and see if they stick around. If I'm anywhere below VERY attracted I reject quickly and firmly. Basically if all the other ducks are lined up (confidence, fitness, smile) then an awkward start doesn't matter as much.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:30 PM
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Generally most of the things I disagree with Seddit disagrees with as well. That is an interesting perspective on the HB rating scale. I like it. This also means that a girl can figure out her own rating based on how many guys approach her and how she naturally ends up reacting to them. Can you give me a description of a HB10 vs a HB6? Edit: Ah, silly me. I just clicked on the HB-scale link on the side bar.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:12 PM
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One-itis is only an attraction killer if she lets him know about it. If she keeps that shit contained then she has a chance of seducing him. Women have a lot more power when it comes to physically seducing men, especially if she is fit. So my advice to the OP is get fit, wear shirts that show off your boobs and spend a lot of time touching his arm, telling him how comfortable you are with him, being overly physically affectionate and also possibly walking into his bedroom and removing your shirt…
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:57 AM
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He has only started giving me positive signals recently. I'm pretty sure if I'm too aggressive with this one it will scare him off. Have to make him think he is chasing me and not that I am cock teasing him as much as possible until he bloody well asks me out.
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:44 PM
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I'm going to give him a chance. My main concern is that I don't want to scare him off. I am quite an aggressive woman so it requires quite a bit of effort to just flirt and not go "You, me, bedroom, now." Seddit is reinforcing the perspective that men do not prefer dominant woman.
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:42 PM
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I was thinking roofie + viagra. That should do the trick.
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:38 PM
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Well then bring juice! Alcohol is not necessary for a good time.
/r/seduction18/05/11 08:38 PM
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If he goes all out and gets a basket, blanket and some wine this will go over VERY WELL.
/r/seduction18/05/11 07:23 PM
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I'm actually reading it to learn how to pick up guys. I have a shy fellow I'm interested in and reading seddit is informing me that he is just shy, not messing with me.
/r/seduction18/05/11 07:18 PM
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