I'm female and I primarily frequent 2X, RA and Fitness. I just recently started reading Seddit and I have been very pleasantly surprised. There is some quality advice here, and I'm going to recommend this subreddit to my male friends.

For example, the "shit test". Holy crap I've been doing that for years. Occasionally I would wonder why I would unexpectedly be rude to someone I was interested in, but I was always unimpressed when guys became butt hurt about it and gave up.

I especially appreciate the advice that points out that women are afraid if they sleep with a man on the first date that they will be treated poorly or thought of as undesirable. Being aware of another human being's thoughts and feelings is important, and I wasn't really expecting to find that sort of thing in a subreddit devoted to teaching men basic seduction skills.

Though I have to say on principle that putting women on a rating scale promotes thinking of them as objects, I can't really scold anyone for that. I do it too. It is normal thing. Just remember that there is a complex person behind that number, and she could be more intelligent or more fucked up than you are expecting. It is a HUGE turn off when a guy approaches me with the assumption that I am brain dead.

Men who follow the better advice in this subreddit are more attractive, because they have taken the time to improve their appearance, fortify their egos, and engage in their lives. Being clean, fit, and happy is quite alluring.

In any case, if you have any questions for a bi-woman who approves, reads, and uses Seddit feel free to ask.