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1

Yes, you’re absolutely right.
/r/seduction04/08/18 05:22 PM
3

Inconsistency/incongruity is offputting
/r/seduction04/08/18 02:21 PM
7

AKA an undercut. In this case I’d say undercut with quiff/sweep back on top.
/r/seduction01/05/18 05:58 PM
18

Don’t be awkward about it. Own it. Be comfortable with not drinking. It’s good practice and you’ll remember your highs and practice more. Don’t worry about what everyone else thinks, they’re mostly thinking about themselves. Don’t be disrespectful to people drinking, in fact be positive about alcohol so they don’t feel uncomfortable. “Hey I thinks alcohol is great, I’m just not drinking tonight / it’s not for me. You feel comfortable drinking, you do you” etc. Tip: make her order first if you’re…
/r/seduction20/03/18 11:19 AM
2

Sure, send me a link
/r/seduction29/09/17 02:16 PM
4

Pm me a link to your profile, I’ll give it a once over
/r/seduction29/09/17 10:42 AM
11

Literally comes with instructions. Some people...
/r/seduction12/03/17 09:27 PM
1

Not a medical expert so can't say for sure. If your BO is purely caused by sweating and not washing it off, then yes I think it would help. If you have BO for another reason (e.g. medical), I have no idea. I would definitely give this a shot, shower daily and if you still have BO issues I'd go see a doctor - it could be that you have a medical condition.
/r/seduction17/01/16 06:59 PM
3

Rubbing causes the cologne to dissipate faster because it's spread over a wider surface area. You should press your wrists together instead. I'm resistant to most anti-perspirants so I use this: http://www.amazon.com/Driclor-Antiperspirant-Roll-on-75ml/dp/B001TU1EPU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1453045775&sr=8-1&keywords=driclor It's unscented. You put it on the night before and then you basically don't sweat at all the next day. It's awesome. Edit: If you put it on two or more days in a row, the effe…
/r/seduction17/01/16 03:50 PM
1

I'm currently on 7.5 hours and training myself down to 7. 6.5 being the eventual target, used to sleep 10+ hours in my early 20s.... I'd say stick with 7-7.5: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-24444634
/r/seduction04/11/13 05:40 PM
-3

Don’t ask for permission. Be dominant. Force her to rebuff your advances. is a book telling people to sexually assault women. If you don't see why people have a problem with that, you need to take a breather from this whole PUA thing. So you always ask for permission every time you kiss a girl and you always say please touch my dick?
/r/seduction21/06/13 04:36 PM
48

How can you know they're obsessed with their phones without spending time with them?
/r/seduction18/05/13 10:12 PM
70

I guess that's the good thing about having a windows phone: Their "get in, get out and back to life" marketing campaign is true, because there's no apps worth using!
/r/seduction11/03/13 11:34 PM
4

It's the headset that really makes that one for me. Not sure why.
/r/seduction25/02/13 09:54 PM
1

I really need to get someone to take some better pictures of me. :| Also it looks like someone's going through all your comments and down-voting them, who'd you piss off today?
/r/seduction25/01/13 10:23 PM
5

Take her to cooking classes then ;) Edit: Actually that's a good idea, I'm using that one.
/r/seduction24/01/13 10:39 PM
2

You could always try a cook-dinner type date. Maybe make pizzas or bake a cake or something and have a decorate it competition...
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:29 PM
-1

Nah it's give two options that you wouldn't mind either way. In that scenario, the dude either gets the number and continues as normal or they arrange a date for tomorrow.
/r/seduction20/01/13 02:44 PM
13

Golden Mean Fallacy
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:08 PM
1

Sounds like your parents did a pretty good job.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:12 PM
2

Are you sure about that last one? Might be worth looking at the code, could be an easy fix
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:13 AM
3

[Invite a girl on a date] to do something that interests you. Halo it is then!
/r/seduction26/10/12 12:26 PM
2

In case anyone else hates reading text in images, this post seems to be a compilation of various posts from this thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/euo23/40_year_old_redditorswhat_do_you_now_know_that/?limit=500
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:38 AM
1

I swear I have been trying to crack a good meatball recipe for years. You know that one taste, that one ingredient that seems to be in every meatball/bolognese you eat out (restaurants, school, work canteen etc.)? It is my life's mission to find that ingredient. Along my journey I have discovered a few things: Don't put wine in your sauce, it messes with the flavour and consistency Boil/bubble that sauce for like 2-3 hours. At least until it's mostly solid (no fucking runny liquid/water/wine, bo…
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:48 AM
8

That's not bad
/r/seduction01/10/12 01:28 PM
23

I don't know why I'm surprised that /r/murder exists
/r/seduction29/09/12 04:13 AM
3

I haven't seen either one of those films, can you elaborate on the type?
/r/seduction22/07/12 06:57 PM
1

Haha $18 is pretty outrageous then
/r/seduction19/07/12 08:57 PM
6

Is that high or low? :non-smoker:
/r/seduction19/07/12 04:10 PM
0

Either that or the lower half of a woman's body (thighs + crotch) Edit: I've heard thumbs up before too but I can't see it :/
/r/seduction14/07/12 11:47 PM
1

I've been thinking about it :P
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:13 PM
2

God I know that feel bro. Right at the top of my list is the game of thrones series which comes up to my knee. Gonna take me all year to finish this lot
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:30 PM
2

This might help you out: http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation It's basically an elaborate guide on how to have conversations; it gives you information about (for example) asking the kind of questions which invite (and encourage) the other person to talk in depth and engage in the conversation.
/r/seduction26/05/12 07:12 AM
2

What do you mean by entertainment district?
/r/seduction18/05/12 05:21 PM
13

Those sound like perfectly good reasons. I wish I had a flat with a few people in it, living alone is pretty boring when you don't have people around.
/r/seduction18/05/12 05:20 PM
10

Haha, anal close
/r/seduction14/05/12 11:13 PM
2

I find it funny that you didn't once mention her attractiveness level and I still imagined her as being 9+ Stupid brain, can't trust anything it says these days
/r/seduction05/04/12 07:48 AM
6

"In a do I look fat in this dress kind of way? Yes."
/r/seduction18/03/12 10:44 PM
1

You full closed the pivot or one of the friends?
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:09 PM
11

Gotta man up son or you'll end up in the friend zone faster than you can say segmentation fault. Light kino escalation, escalate slowly but steadily. Slowly because any negative responses won't destroy a work relationship and steadily because if you're not escalating you're getting friendzoned. Maybe escalate on the subway, ask her to come out for a drink soon before one of you gets off.
/r/seduction15/03/12 10:22 PM
3

How do you handle it when more than 1 woman is being introduced; I've taken to holding just long enough to break their eye contact and then moving on to the next but I definitely feel like I'm dropping the ball some how.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:49 PM
1

I'm interested. Also, curious about what level of traffic bump you saw coming from reddit, (either as a percentage of normal traffic or as raw numbers)
/r/seduction09/03/12 03:09 AM
57

I watch the first 12 minutes or so; Does anyone else feel like this guy is a bit mentally unstable? The bit where he's pissing himself about the choo choo train and the croud are kind of just like "wat..." ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction08/02/12 06:39 PM
0

I had fun just watching that video
/r/seduction05/02/12 05:55 PM
2

How did it go? Link?
/r/seduction03/02/12 05:01 PM
64

Walk up to a girl, look her up and down, say "Challenge Accepted". I have no idea what this will turn out like. Edit: Going out later this weekend, I'm gonna try it too!
/r/seduction03/02/12 03:09 PM
2

Actually, yes: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hummer
/r/seduction30/01/12 03:49 PM
0

And wore clothes that didn't fit, didn't know how to talk to women and had bad body language :)
/r/seduction28/01/12 01:58 AM
4

I'm not sure but a couple of minutes in the song that plays is "What I've Done" by Linkin Park
/r/seduction08/01/12 08:48 AM
2

This is definitely a flawless open, and you'll probably get a second meet out of it I like that you realise that you can do everything perfectly and still fail. Failure is ok.
/r/seduction21/12/11 04:22 PM
1

It's a pretty intriguing method, gonna have to give it a shot myself sometime!
/r/seduction17/12/11 07:15 PM
7

Why did she mention she was Jewish? (Ignorant athiest/foreigner here) Good FR, some classic material in there (I'm looking at you "is she always like this"). That boyfriend bit was top class lol.
/r/seduction17/12/11 07:04 PM
2

I have pretty great text game but you're right; I've never actually called a woman's number before. It's time to go big or go home.
/r/seduction30/11/11 08:05 PM
2

To break the cycle all you have to do is escalate faster. Set up dates (i.e. just you and her), ramp up the kino, use sexual tension if you can and keep escalating. The only way to know for sure is to kiss her.
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:39 PM
-2

Seed a plan in advance, i.e. mention that when you meet you'll show her :super-secret-handshake: and then launch right into it when you meet (fist bumps, hand slaps, chicken dance, whatever)
/r/seduction21/11/11 02:40 PM
1

Could you define nice hands a bit for the community? If there's anything we can do to improve ourselves, it's worth knowing!
/r/seduction21/11/11 02:20 PM
2

Does she have genuine game or is she just ridiculously attractive?
/r/seduction21/11/11 02:00 PM
10

As I understand it the shit tests are more subconcious than deliberate. I have no idea what that 'test' was about, i can't see any logic in it. What were you being tested on? Your observation skills? :| :confuse:
/r/seduction12/11/11 12:57 AM
7

Just think of a social convention tto do with meeting girls and then break it. The apocalypse opener is a good one. Maybe something to do with asking them to buy you drinks Try and get loads of free stuff from female sales people / couter attendants / bus drivers etc by flirting with them. Try and convince your dates that they should pay for you Wear a dress to your dates and see how it goes :P
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:23 PM
1

I don't have time to read your paragraph (sorry) but on the title: The way to stop caring if you fail is to try so many times that you realise just how many opportunities there are. Then realise that whatever your success rate is, + that number of opportunities means that it doesn't matter if you fail this time and the next 10 times because you'll succeed on the 11th.
/r/seduction28/08/11 02:36 PM
2

Really it's Style game (well it used to be, no idea what the man's running now). It's a great fallback for the newbies (like moi) who are prone to mind blanking lol
/r/seduction20/08/11 10:46 PM
22

"LOL. Guess I'm going sarging tonight." :) Solid inner game.
/r/seduction15/08/11 11:32 PM
1

I think he's talking about the hottest chick in the bar (who gave you the genuine smile)
/r/seduction14/08/11 10:04 PM
2

Don't know why you're being downvoted; I laughed!
/r/seduction02/08/11 09:41 PM
2

The tactical vomit is a classic move when combined with the stolen mouthwash. I always feel like a million dollars after a good alcohol induced vomit. It's like an instant ticket to the in-state express
/r/seduction31/07/11 05:21 PM
1

I don't, guess I'm open to brain washing! You got some info I can look up on the relevent parts of NLP?
/r/seduction28/07/11 11:24 PM
1

Wat?
/r/seduction28/07/11 11:15 AM
2

I feel like this should be one of the verses in 'Like a boss' Edit: punctuation
/r/seduction24/07/11 10:37 PM
1

I haven't seen any of the downvoting (you're at 1 right now) but it could be because this: Look up the article of the same name on the webpage that 1950s_Space_Alien linked to. is hard to understand and relatively convoluted. It would've been better if you just linked to whatever you're talking about.
/r/seduction24/07/11 10:36 PM
4

But if you're the type to prepare jokes/stories in advance then you'll want to focus on food/whatever they sell there
/r/seduction24/07/11 07:23 PM
2

I don't even understand what's happening here. How can you 'fail to penetrate' unless she's blocked up or something :|
/r/seduction22/07/11 12:19 PM
1

I actually use it as a technique. If you want to give a situation a subtley sexual flair, just picture going down on whoever you're talking to; Works wonders
/r/seduction18/07/11 09:36 PM
3

It's probably your smile. Next time you're with an attractive woman (the more attractive the better), imagine her expression the first time you plow into her. I mean seriously picture how it would happen. Now do a self check, notice how your mouth is slightly smiling on one side, just at the edge of your mouth.
/r/seduction18/07/11 04:15 PM
4

Yeah sorry, I don't have any really bad rejections. Guess I'm not trying hard enough :D
/r/seduction17/07/11 08:08 PM
7

Should've asked the daughter if you could hit on her mum
/r/seduction17/07/11 07:57 PM
15

I've heard (though I can't confirm) that girls also make great friends :P
/r/seduction26/06/11 05:11 PM
6

Oh, I see, you don't want to give me your number again. I see how it is. That's cool That could come off as pretty AFC unless you play it well
/r/seduction22/06/11 05:13 PM
1

Great reports man. Quick Question: How do you get your hair to look like that? I have similar hair but it just falls all around my head (including face, fffffffuuuuuuuuu)
/r/seduction21/06/11 09:47 PM
3

Arrested Development?
/r/seduction30/05/11 08:33 PM
14

Could you explain how this relates to me? I'm genuinely curious about how you got the impression I have a bitch shield. I'll just quickly jump in on this: Tell you the truth I am quite cold initially to men I don't know who approach me so I might not be the best one to give feedback on this. I also only go to bars/clubs to dance, not to meet men. This is basicly the definition of a bitch shield - A woman who gets approached so often enough (as indicated else where) that they can freely weed out …
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:18 AM
1

I don't care if that was a typo, it's one of the best things I've seen all day!
/r/seduction12/05/11 08:12 AM
1

The first 4 seasons of How I met Your Mother total ~29 hours of video. That's impressive work for one day :P
/r/seduction12/05/11 08:04 AM
1

What the hell did I just read?
/r/seduction22/04/11 11:31 PM
4

Are you trying to say that people can't change? If so, what are you doing in this subreddit?
/r/seduction07/04/11 04:45 PM
2

As 'one of those guys' I think I'd panic react if she said that and try to cover it up. If he's a good lier then you'd get nowhere.
/r/seduction03/04/11 04:36 PM
3

That's a great post man. I'm a little sad to realise that if my teacher had said that to me in school i would've just assumed (s)he was just being a douchbag :|
/r/seduction22/03/11 09:30 AM
1

I can't really remember, it can't have been too outrageous though because I'm still a bit off a pussy when it comes to game lol. I think it was something along the lines of I said my wing was a photographer and she either didn't believe me or thought I meant porno, slapped me and walked off
/r/seduction16/03/11 06:11 PM
3

I've only been slapped in the face once and frankly it made my night! Rejection is hillarious sometimes
/r/seduction16/03/11 12:30 AM
5

Wait, she litterally blew you in public or you made a fake motion?
/r/seduction14/03/11 07:21 PM
4

Fixed your post. But BadLittleSexMonkey said it better.
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:15 PM
1

I'm ~185cm as well :| Probably just different body types.
/r/seduction28/02/11 06:30 PM
2

I hailed a cab IMMEDIATELY and got the fuck out of there. Ended up taking both girls to my place for more drinks and some smoke. This was definitely my toughest pull yet. These AMOGs were everywhere, and this time they had solid game. But not as solid as mine. I’m learning how to better deal with AMOGs now that I’m coming in contact with them more and more Would you mind elaborating a bit on how the rest of the night went? Did you pull both (wooo threesome) or just escalated a bit with one etc..…
/r/seduction27/02/11 11:18 PM
1

Oddly I'm all kinds of awesome at job interviews, not so great when it's just social interaction. I guess I find women more intimidating lol. (Definately stuggle to maintain the same levels of body language and particuarly eye contact).
/r/seduction27/02/11 09:32 PM
1

I'm ~155 and I have a belly :|
/r/seduction27/02/11 08:50 PM
1

Aww son, you sure she isn't doing that with other guys? Marriage is a hell of a commitment to someone who has been unfaithful in the past. If you're not 100% sure she's now faithful you've got to tell him.
/r/seduction20/02/11 07:10 PM
2

I don't think it's unreasonable to say that women rarely make the first move (IOIs don't count). Yes I could have worded that better. I didn't mean to imply that women should always be the initiators, I meant to say that in an alls fair, equal and perfect world it would probably be 50/50.
/r/seduction04/02/11 11:55 AM
1

I'm of the opinion that you can salvage anything with enough time and effort. I don't think you blew it, just need to take ThrowawayPUA's advice and escalate in small increments again, you may need to rebuild the holes in your attraction and comfort to her.
/r/seduction04/02/11 11:51 AM
1

Looks to me like she wanted something to happen (but was a typically useless woman and wouldn't start it). The spooning was probably her signal to you that it was going down. She thinks it's weird because he didn't start something (probably worries that he LJBF her). That's my take. tl;dr she wanted you to make a move
/r/seduction03/02/11 07:06 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/seduction03/02/11 01:30 PM
2

Attraction isn't a choice.
/r/seduction02/02/11 09:10 PM
2

FFFFUUUUU I'd rather not have know that :|
/r/seduction01/02/11 12:26 PM
2

Ha, I was about 5 seconds away from doing the same when we got thrown out. Lost it back at the flat same night. :brofist:
/r/seduction01/02/11 12:24 PM
2

I would LOVE to hear how that goes, i'm stuggling to decide whether it's kind of a dick move or not. If I went to someones flat expecting a party (and didn't yet know I wanted to bang them) I'd be pretty annoyed if there was no party
/r/seduction30/01/11 06:15 PM
4

I would put forward that the nerdy girls may be worth your attention more than you realise. (A lesson to be learned from my own oblivious high school experience). As for gaming the rest, there is such a thing as too alpha/awesome, might be worth looking up some of the stuff on Calibration and toning it down a bit.
/r/seduction29/01/11 02:08 AM
2

Can you tell us a little about these 'Japanese drinking games', I'd be interested to see how they go down over here (UK)
/r/seduction28/01/11 10:03 PM
3

Slight modification, "Excuse me, we were in the middle of a deep conversation... [optional pause] about porn/ridiculous-topic"
/r/seduction28/01/11 05:46 PM
2

Say peoples names when you are saying goodbye. The favorite word of every person is their first name. Instead of saying just "bye" its just as easy to say "bye john". This gives a more familiar feel and people will respond to it. Ohgod that's so simple but so true. I can't stop picturing Patrick Jane using that! (And I basicly aspire to be that man)
/r/seduction28/01/11 03:17 AM
1

You should try the little universal remotes, endless amounts of fun to be had in pubs by magic-ing to a better channel :D
/r/seduction27/01/11 10:00 PM
1

I don't know what's going on here but I can see that guys post and his account page doesn't seem to exist.
/r/seduction27/01/11 09:16 PM
2

Lol at ~7:50 when he compares her to a horse :D
/r/seduction26/01/11 09:11 PM
2

Do you believe your own advice works and fail to put it into action or do you not believe it works?
/r/seduction26/01/11 08:54 PM
1

Tease her about music choices (obviously don't put her off) Kino while demonstrating correct position Maintain standard pickup techniques, confidence, humour, eye contact etc If she could see you play a kick ass live show as a band or something that'd be a huge DHV Escalate Assume attraction
/r/seduction25/01/11 01:27 AM
2

http://www.jinx.com/men/shirts/coding_security/hacker.html?catid=1&cs=19&csd=hacker this one? Great work on the coffee chick. Curious how you feel about gaming women you're not actually interested in, I have a sort of moral dilema over it :|
/r/seduction24/01/11 07:06 PM
1

Lying is frequently encouraged and promoted here. "Fake it till you make it" "Opinion openers you don't care about" "ALWAYS agree with your wingman, no matter what he says" "We're going back to your place, but no sex, I have to get up tomorrow"
/r/seduction23/01/11 06:38 PM
1

Hey man thats a great FR/LR, would love to see more of these. Digging the the Simon Says routine, will have to give it a shot at some point. Even a short walk upstairs calmed her buying temperature a bit. I made her feel relaxed and clothes came off. Can you elaborate on the made her feel relaxed bit, presumably some lower temp kino and a rapid escalation?
/r/seduction22/01/11 02:24 AM
2

Sounds like you need to work on your transitions, in some of the stuff by mystery and style you'll find the term transition thrown around, might be worth googling it. The tl;dr is just say anything that'll draw a response, e.g. make an observation about her (not a compliment), or mention something interesting you heard today/on the news/reddit. Ask what she thinks of [local-event][band][something in your vicinity][your hair style]
/r/seduction21/01/11 09:08 PM
2

This guy know the score. Just gotta keep the right attitude
/r/seduction21/01/11 07:16 PM
3

This is great advice, I'm actually thinking of using it as a semi date idea, get some women to hunt around for a new favourite bar with me and use it as an opener while I'm out (so I need a new regular bar, know anywhere good?)
/r/seduction21/01/11 06:14 PM
1

Cheers!
/r/seduction20/01/11 10:14 AM
3

Harsh and blunt but it's a distinct possibility.
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:13 PM
2

Comfort sounds like a Mystery Method thing right? Can you point me at a definition/example or two; I'm getting my names mixed up
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:11 PM
4

I agree with this, I keep my films in my room (or on my computer - also in my room) and the TV in the living room, if they object when you get to the bedroom and you don't think you can recover enough to instabed then just say the movies are in here.
/r/seduction18/01/11 07:34 PM
2

That's a great idea, I'm a 1.5 as well.
/r/seduction17/01/11 10:23 PM
2

I think he does, he just genuinely thinks the left side from our perspective is higher
/r/seduction13/01/11 11:34 PM
2

Personally it makes reading easier if there's a 'type'. A rating + a hair colour or race or something is good writing imo.
/r/seduction10/01/11 01:04 AM
1

Can you explain this for me please? "Cac/Dff/htg"
/r/seduction08/01/11 07:26 PM
1

What sort of help is there?
/r/seduction08/01/11 07:26 PM
1

Haha I can't wait till I'm old enough to use that line :D
/r/seduction07/01/11 05:42 PM
1

This man speaks the truth.
/r/seduction03/01/11 05:42 PM
1

Haha I actually want to know the answer to this now :D
/r/seduction02/01/11 12:51 AM
1

Assuming club dancing, my best advice is just to observe other people, emulate, then stop giving a fuck what you look like and kind of wave/melt into the music. Chicks hit on my all the time while I'm club dancing and I've had no lessons or whatever, I don't even do anything special, just kind of wave with the music and occasionally headbang or 'get low' or something. Actual resources: Youtube searching is the best bet Actual club dancing lessons could be fun too.
/r/seduction23/12/10 01:20 AM
2

Read it in the voice of Big Mike (from Chuck TV Series). Epic.
/r/seduction23/12/10 01:18 AM
2

Ahahaha, I have no idea why that was so funny but I lol'd.
/r/seduction23/12/10 01:16 AM
1

It's not, I often use it as an opener (or the even better, what the hell are you drinking)
/r/seduction23/12/10 01:02 AM
2

It's more obvious if you write oontz/oonts :)
/r/seduction23/12/10 12:57 AM
1

They'll certainly let you know if you push them too far ;)
/r/seduction23/12/10 12:47 AM
1

It's the DBZ right? :P
/r/seduction03/12/10 11:26 PM
1

Seconded.
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:40 PM
3

Presumably EQ != everquest? :|
/r/seduction27/11/10 02:43 AM
3

Don't do it for the purpose of making your ex jealous; If the new girl is genuinely interesting and you want her around then bring her. Assuming she broke up with you, that's just what happens, people move on and she's got no excuse for getting upset about it (if that is indeed what happens). If it's the other way around it might be a little fresh but meh tl;dr if your new girl is awesome, do it.
/r/seduction20/11/10 12:26 PM
-1

Sounds like a massive shit/flake test. However you play this you have to let her know you don't take this kind of shit. Either blank/freeze or calm and cool tell her you're not interested in her boyfriend problems
/r/seduction19/11/10 07:45 PM
20

Even his post was written with passion; I read it slowly in my mind. Epic.
/r/seduction19/11/10 12:17 PM
2

I actually agree with you but feel i should point out it could be an extension of the 'here hold my drink for me' compliance test/rapport builder.
/r/seduction18/11/10 10:16 PM
1

Do you ever find that you're attracted to them while gaming and then when you get in bed you're either no longer or not as attracted to them? It's happened to me a few times. I think I just need to go for the 8/9/10 instead of 6/7
/r/seduction16/11/10 11:40 PM
2

Link to the seminar? (or a name or something?) - Sounds pretty interesting.
/r/seduction16/11/10 11:35 PM
1

She was in a lesbian event, i imagine the shields would be up there too (for lesbians). Women who know they're lesbian know to look for creepy lesbians as well. Women who don't know they're lesbian probably don't have the shields up around other women. Could go either way, we need more lesbians to field test this, For Science!
/r/seduction14/11/10 03:11 AM
2

To excuse it would have been to not comment on it. Try some helpful advice next time?
/r/seduction14/11/10 02:52 AM
3

BACK AWAY FROM THE DELETE KEY!
/r/seduction14/11/10 02:40 AM
1

high school girls aren't that hot, most haven't fully figured out how to groom or dress themselves yet, they barely know how to use their sexuality. You can use that to your advantage. E.g. something like "You know, if you [changed your hair colour/wore x item of clothing/whatever] you could be pretty cute. Come with me on friday after school and I'll help you [fix problem]
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:47 PM
1

My guide to text/IM. Don't reply too fast, reply as if you were just out of the room getting a drink. Keep messages short without being unreadable. If you're trying to build attraction, use the 2:3 send:receive message rule
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:36 PM
1

The best I can come up with is that he's gay and moves from one 'rocket' to the next too fast :/
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:32 PM
2

This one?
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:21 PM
1

Go for it but if at any point she clearly thinks you're dating you have to set her straight or 'break up' with her.
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:11 PM
1

Ahaha that's classic, I might have to try it some time high-five
/r/seduction11/11/10 03:10 PM
1

That's good advice man, I hadn't even realised that I'd been doing the last part already
/r/seduction11/11/10 03:08 PM
1

Fucking this. Everyone who has to sit near you in public wishes you would leave. Drinking is fine as long as it's in moderation (e.g. drink socially or because you like the taste, not because you can't stop) Edit: If you can't stop, get in a program.
/r/seduction11/11/10 03:05 PM
2

I'd agree with all of those except I'd give your 8 a 6.5/7
/r/seduction10/11/10 07:46 PM
3

The stuff RedErin said about negs + You have to use your high standards and work them in your favour, while you're at your teasing and your games, throw in bits about your ideal type of woman (personality wise aswell as physically) and make them live up to your expectations. If you're looking for a woman who makes you laugh then in your routines, casually mention that person x makes you split your sides laughing and say how much you love a good sense of humour. Then ask if they have a good sense…
/r/seduction10/11/10 04:33 PM
1

I get the best mix if I go to the club with a group of friends and we're all high energy and fun, then I leave them in one part and go solo around the rest of the club (or with a wingman).
/r/seduction09/11/10 04:31 PM
1

http://static.tvguide.com/MediaBin/Galleries/Imported/BioPix/Ro/Bio_Batch3/sarah-lancaster1.jpg Like this? :drool:
/r/seduction17/10/10 10:02 PM
7

Double post for double the negative points? :|
/r/seduction11/10/10 08:39 PM
1

Meh, the age/2 + 7 rule is good if you don't know anything about the woman but it's usualy pretty easy to tell if they're mature enough just from a few sentences.
/r/seduction07/10/10 08:12 PM
2

Set higher standards, enforce her qualification by teasing/joking/whatever that she lost her make up / gym closed / whatever.
/r/seduction31/08/10 10:31 PM
2

Wooooo! Edinburgh rules!
/r/seduction24/08/10 07:56 PM
1

So what did you go with (and how did it go?) Only just discovered the thread but I'd've gone with #2 :/
/r/seduction24/08/10 07:42 PM
1

Thats gold.
/r/seduction24/08/10 07:20 PM
3

Bet! He! Works! At! Yahoo!
/r/seduction22/08/10 03:23 PM
1

Dude that site is awesome, do you know if they have a UK equiv?
/r/seduction18/08/10 12:17 AM
1

Honestly I'm not sure if you can change those sort of long term perceptions, but if you can then this is how you do it: Gym, Hard. Get a girlfriend, be seen in public, be 'coupley' Do some stuff to stand out a bit (e.g. join a rock band, poker games at lunch time) Know shitloads of interesting bands. Also, sort of side note: Have a good look at all the girls in your age bracket, not just the obviously attractive ones and especially the ones who don't dress up too hard and are trying to blend in.…
/r/seduction18/08/10 12:14 AM
3

source?
/r/seduction17/08/10 02:24 PM
1

That woman is hot and is apparently legit enough to be invited to speak at a Ross Jeffries seminar but that video is 90% useless and her slow talking annoyed me throughout.
/r/seduction16/08/10 12:36 AM
1

Just wanted to say that the second video is really awesome, 35 mins in so far and it's got some really good examples of body language (the guy set up a bar with cameras and 30 single people and is video stalking them lol).
/r/seduction16/08/10 12:03 AM
4

Scotland \o/
/r/seduction15/08/10 10:29 PM
1

Sounds like you're either not meeting the right girls (change location, try day/online game) or you're steering the conversation in the wrong direction with interesting girls. A large part of game is taking control, framing the situation how you want it. Use this. Work out exactly what you want from a girl (personality types, looks, whatever), then use that criteria to filter/screen the women. Use it during conversation as negs, teasing, dhving etc, very often the target will try to live up to y…
/r/seduction14/08/10 09:13 PM
0

Only just got that now, thought he'd misspelled Hello :| When I figured it out, I giggled.
/r/seduction13/08/10 12:55 PM
1

You should do some mall-game FRs / write a mini primer on any differences/interesting things about mall-game. I'd read it. Like a boss.
/r/seduction11/08/10 05:14 PM
2

The only relevent information is that you bought a girl a drink who'd been having a shitty night so far. That could go either way depending on what you said, your body language etc. My default answer would be Beta though.
/r/seduction09/08/10 04:08 PM
1

As in, sex?
/r/seduction08/08/10 10:08 PM
1

One tip I picked up from Style's Annihilation Method stuff is to: Make your opener - Play around with that conversation for a bit, always be fun, joking, teasing, Don't forget your time constraint and to 'root' the opener (i.e. why are you talking to them - "Oh my buddies and I were just discussing ...) Crucial Point Just as you're about to leave from your opener (before/just as it gets finished/awkward), make an observation (usualy about the set). E.g. Hey I noticed you have your star sign arou…
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:58 PM
1

What? No i got it like 5 years ago. It's so old the hard drive has frozen from by my open window for too long lol
/r/seduction06/08/10 08:23 PM
2

Hard to say, poorly written OP was difficult to understand, the important points seemed about right. Step sister / sister of OPs brother Has kids (might not be right, couldn't tell from the garbled english who had kids, someone definately had kids) Left boyfriend for him Coming over for a week or two.
/r/seduction06/08/10 08:21 PM
1

Actually I got one of these Edit: Just remembered, Zune isn't even out in the UK :P
/r/seduction06/08/10 11:34 AM
2

iPhones are probably as close to a chick magnet as you'll get with a phone. Having said that, I can't recommend the iPhone because I want a windows phone 7 phone :)
/r/seduction05/08/10 02:59 PM
1

C. It's not hard to become 'passable' in the looks department though, looking average is enough to get by if your support game is good
/r/seduction04/08/10 12:44 AM
1

Ok, I'll say they don't. IMO natural looks are of pretty small importance compared to game
/r/seduction03/08/10 06:33 PM
3

Mystery's Seduction Model
/r/seduction03/08/10 06:31 PM
3

If you're good looking with terrible game then yeah you need it. IMO good looking people are just more likely to be naturals
/r/seduction03/08/10 06:21 PM
1

Hmm would you agree that looks play a much smaller part than say bodylanguage, social proof and Alpha status?
/r/seduction03/08/10 05:37 PM
2

she attempted to rub my hair Sounds like a certain amount of 'active dissinterest' cause a jealousy/attraction spike and you didn't realise? How did the situation end (importantish)? Did she leave angry/disappoint? Did she move on to someone else? IMO you probably didn't stop attracting her, you just didn't realise it because you were too stuck in your head
/r/seduction02/08/10 05:38 AM
2

If you do it right then it's good, if not then it's bad. Do it right and it hints at preselection, while also providing opportunities for DHVs, funny stories etc.
/r/seduction01/08/10 02:54 PM
10

Hey man thats great! From the sounds of it you have great body language and frame with very little effort. If you're not going to directly go for HB7 then you should consider taking your awesome new attitude out and sarging random people you don't know. Semi-related note: You could probably have inspired a bit of jealousy in your HB7 friend if you chatted up some of those women who were checking you out.
/r/seduction01/08/10 01:40 PM
1

Edinburgh, 19, 1 (armchair pua)
/r/seduction31/07/10 01:44 PM
1

Boooooooooooooo! :(
/r/seduction30/07/10 11:35 PM
1

My fav so far!
/r/seduction30/07/10 11:33 PM
1

Any chance you could a post on making your life more interesting? Thats the main thing I worry about, not having interesting (true) things to talk about when I converse with women.
/r/seduction30/07/10 08:49 PM
1

Women in the service industries collect numbers from AFCs as a joke. Could you elaborate a bit on that before I cast my vote? :|
/r/seduction29/07/10 06:49 PM
2

Dude, she cuts your hair, next time you're in get her to choose a style for you, then ask her if she'd like to go shopping with you some time (but do it in the proper pua way, "Hey you should be my personal style consultant" or similar)
/r/seduction29/07/10 06:48 PM
1

Yeah I bet most people would be glad if someone walked their dog for them once a week or something
/r/seduction29/07/10 06:44 PM
1

But if you're here, let's touch base and see if we have tricks to trade, or sarging to do. let's touch base and see if we have tricks to trade let's touch base touch base ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction29/07/10 06:28 PM
1

I didn't say good ones! :P
/r/seduction29/07/10 02:51 PM
1

I need to work on influencing/maintaining state. I genuinely wasn't having fun toward the end of the night. I had no energy, no alcohol, and no game. There's no reason for that when my only goal for the night is to have an awesome time. One of the best ways to maintain a high energy state is to fake it till you make it. I get really ramped up and energized just by dancing, you should try going on the dance floor and dancing like you're on E for 10 minutes, really gets me going :D Also being 2 sh…
/r/seduction28/07/10 11:46 AM
2

Take a vacation, soon. Write some songs. Read 1 chapter per day (or half if they're big chapters), try new authors Try taking up a new sport, martial arts, basketball, whatever. Make those two girls into your new challenge. Get a threesome :P
/r/seduction28/07/10 10:59 AM
4

2 looks like a good shout
/r/seduction27/07/10 11:31 PM
3

high-five
/r/seduction27/07/10 11:16 AM
1

That thread, best thread. (and the sequels)
/r/seduction27/07/10 10:14 AM
5

Be a good boyfriend Don't be a clinger Study up on AMOGing ???? Don't look like a chump
/r/seduction27/07/10 10:09 AM
1

I don't think so, except that 'game' is often targetted to the fire and forget types. I.e. It often won't work well on people who know you already and once word starts getting around you'll probably run into problems. OTOH if you don't troll around your own school it would probably work pretty awesome
/r/seduction25/07/10 01:51 PM
4

Wow, this is seriously gripping stuff! Hope you're enjoying this as much as I am, keep up the gaming (and the FRs!) Right before I read your turning point (conspiracy girl) I was about to suggest you try the planting exercise incase you were unnecessarily ejecting early.
/r/seduction25/07/10 10:52 AM
7

Personally I think it comes down to: *Staring is usually fixed eyes, no movement *Stong eye contact involves your face moving and reacting to theirs, specifically looking from one eye to the other rather than directly at one eye or somewhere in between (smiling also helps, real smiling where your eyes wrinkle and everything)
/r/seduction25/07/10 09:48 AM
2

ಠ_ಠ Seems like it would do no harm...
/r/seduction25/07/10 09:44 AM
1

Ask her when you can tap that
/r/seduction18/07/10 09:49 AM
1

If shes not, just 'browse' for a minute (the cases), look undecided and leave. Repeat.
/r/seduction18/07/10 09:34 AM
1

If you used it on someone who blatently was too skinny/no tits though it could work as a decent neg
/r/seduction18/07/10 09:30 AM
1

Commenting so I can find the awesome subtle 90 degree facing of 6/7s post.
/r/seduction06/07/10 09:58 PM
1

Statement of interest: "So, I have to ask, do you have a boyfriend" (Bit lame but can't think of anything better). Trying to think of a reference but that ones sticking out in my head as all wrong, mind blank on the why though.
/r/seduction06/07/10 09:45 PM
1

Elaborate.
/r/seduction06/07/10 09:30 PM
5

Because looking down is submissive (~fairly common knowledge). Logical train of thought, looking up is dominant.
/r/seduction03/07/10 02:18 PM
1

Fuck me if you don't go for it ASAP she's going to think you're gay. Watch out for the signs!!!!!!
/r/seduction03/07/10 01:25 PM
2

You could try incentives, like a challenge to see who can get a >=6 girl to buy them a drink first (winner gets another drink or something?) Also try to bring up any awesome skills, tricks whatever that they have (e.g. if they can do magic or if they've climbed mount everest or something, casually mention it in conversation :P)
/r/seduction26/06/10 02:44 PM
2

Looks like bragging might not've been the way to get decent answers :P Real answer: I'm a fan of thrown in at the deep end, try the classic have you met name
/r/seduction26/06/10 09:51 AM
1

Do the fake 'setting people up' bit. "Hey you know you and [guy-x] would be sooooo cute together drag her over to him. [girl-y], meet your soulmate [guy-x], he's charactaristic"
/r/seduction25/06/10 12:30 PM
1

One was eyeing me and i thought if i approached her i would be moving too forward..but i think i was being a little bitch lol....... Yeah you were being an AFC, should've just gone for it. Either the set goes well and you stay or it doesn't and you/they leave.
/r/seduction23/06/10 10:28 AM
3

Yeah but you're probably not a >=9/10 female who's into modelling, writing, music, culture/languages and IT guys.
/r/seduction21/06/10 10:46 PM
1

Definately should have talked to this chick more. Aside from it being good practice, it just sounds like it'd be a hell of a laugh
/r/seduction21/06/10 10:26 PM
1

Aye the coming up with stories to continue the conversation part is what's holding me back atm (inbuilt fear or nothing being said, fuckin awkward silences). Yeah just throw it out quickly/out of hand (if you could use it as a bridge between something they just said and one of your stories/routines that'd be best imo) Yeah being alpha looks to me mostly about body language, 'The Game' by Neil Strauss/Style mentions tom cruise a lot in this regard. (I'd definately recommend reading it if you have…
/r/seduction20/06/10 07:05 PM
4

Man I gotta learn me some Japanese! Great job. Are you thinking about where you'll take your game next? Any goals or targets?
/r/seduction20/06/10 06:57 PM
6

qq: do/did you speak any japanese or was it all English? Do most of the people speak english or were you in a special foreigners area? (or do you just target fellow foreigners? :D)
/r/seduction20/06/10 04:44 PM
2

From everything I've read (nothing put into action yet), you once you've opened your set, you should start the process of attraction. With the Mystery Method you seem to have A1 stage down so Demonstrating Higher Value is the way to go, combined with storytelling. A2 is all about female to male attraction which should always come before your signal your interest in her. Other things to think about: Introduce a false time constraint before you begin storytelling Peacocking can provide a useful co…
/r/seduction19/06/10 06:51 PM
3

Posting so I can find the awesome touchy post again.
/r/seduction18/06/10 09:47 AM
2

Confirmed.
/r/seduction16/06/10 08:37 PM
2

I'd go the classic when you're 'wrestling' with her, pause a moment (on top imo), and then kiss her. If she's uncomfortable with the wrestling thing, try outside on the grass or something instead of on her bed. Side-question: How much does she know of your other sexual exploits? (If you have any)
/r/seduction16/06/10 08:32 PM
1

Wow, can't believe I'd never heard of meetup.com Thats pretty awesome!
/r/seduction16/06/10 07:43 PM
2

How'd it go?
/r/seduction11/06/10 05:36 PM
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