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| 1 | Any sedditors currently in Barcelona?Until the end of February | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you get out of a slump/funk? Been feeling constantly out of state lately.I literally check Seddit once a month max, just happened upon your thread. Let me know how it goes, you'll snap out of it for sure, just a question of how quickly. | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you get out of a slump/funk? Been feeling constantly out of state lately.What up, Prowl, long time no see (my fault). First up, let's stop being a little bitch about things and man the fuck up. Seriously though, this happens to everyone from time to time, completely normal. I start with focusing on the activities that make you feel good and/or confident. For me the first thing I look to do when in a slump is get back into the gym (I find I rarely have slumps when lifting consistently). After that I focus on not hitting on women but rather just getting into conversati… | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 12:34 PM |
| 3 | At a Loss For WordsHave you actually looked into any material about where to go after opening? Are you familiar with transitioning into attraction? If not I'd recommend finding some material on that, plenty of good stuff out there. Personally I'd recommend Magic Bullets because it provides examples/routines but in such a way you can really adapt them to yourself or use the concepts to come up with stuff truly unique to yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Please help me interpret this responseDon't ask. Lead and let her say no if it doesn't fit her schedule or she's not interested. "Let's do Saturday at 7 pm" rather than "What time works for you?" | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Please help me interpret this responseAssume it's a yes, doesn't matter if it is or not. By this I mean take the lead with a "Perfect, let's do Saturday at ..." If "cool :)" is a no then sending this won't make a difference, if it's a yes it'll set you up on a date. And yes, you're overthinking this. There is literally nothing to consider here. | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/9/13Whichever you prefer but if you go the texting before Sunday route don't overdo it. I would mirror her timing (if she responds in an hour wait an hour to get back to her and etc) if you do engage. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 02:30 AM |
| 1 | FR: The Hypocrisy of My GameI'm sure some guys do. It's a big group (300 members) so guys go out everywhere. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 07:18 AM |
| 1 | FR: The Hypocrisy of My GamePM if you're not already on the Bay Area Groupme | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Is it better to have conversation topics already picked and in a certain order or just let lose and enjoy whatever conversation pops up?The answer is both. It depends on where you are in terms of development. In the long run you want to let loose but if you're struggling to hold conversations with ladies then it might make sense to have conversation topics picked out ahead of time. What you actually want is a mix of the two where you let convo flow but have things to fall back on in case you can't come up with something to say on the spot. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 01:31 AM |
| 1 | FR: The Hypocrisy of My GameI wrote out a longer response but I'll start over and keep this concise to counter your verboseness: I don't see a problem here. She doesn't want anything serious and you like being single. You're not doing yourself any favors by acting controlling or "allowing" this girl to do things. Stop being so selfish and let her live her life and allow yourself to fit in where appropriate. When the timing is right this will happen for you but you're not doing yourself or her any favors by forcing it. Pers… | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 07:27 PM |
| 3 | I just finished a boot camp with Julien, Tyler, and Todd of RSD, AMAYou just talk to them like they're normal people ... because they are. I really don't get why so many guys struggle with this concept. Just have a conversation with them, jesus. | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 06:32 PM |
| 2 | What are the must read posts on kino?Vin Di Carlo escalation ladder is all you need for kino. Read it then start with step 1 in every single set you open. The move up. Once you get calibrated you'll wreck shit. | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 05:40 AM |
| 3 | What are the must read posts on kino?Vin Di Carlo escalation ladder is all you need for kino. Read it then start with step 1 in every single set you open. The move up. Once you get calibrated you'll wreck shit. | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Ethics of RSD?If you find value in the material they put out then continuing watching their material and apply it to your own value/moral system. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 02:20 AM |
| 2 | No more seddit until 100 sets!He said no more seddit not no more reddit ;-) | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 03:12 PM |
| 30 | No more seddit until 100 sets!Don't ask a guy who hasn't approached what the best book is (no offense to OP). | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 02:59 AM |
| 12 | No more seddit until 100 sets!Check out the /r/100sets subreddit. It's for exactly this. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Broke out of theFriendzone I think. Need advice.No dude, nice job. Go out to dinner and have a good time with her. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Broke out of theFriendzone I think. Need advice.Eh, that puts you in a difficult spot. You definitely want to back off in terms of the verbal aggressiveness but still get quality time with her. I'd scrape dinner and set up another hang out with her soon. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Broke out of theFriendzone I think. Need advice.Sounds like you're verbalizing a lot of things that put pressure on her. It's good to be clear in your intent but I wouldn't have told her you were going to kiss her ahead of time and, more importantly, I would have accepted that she wants to come over for a "friend dinner" and then escalated (physically, not verbally) when meeting up. She's down to hang out with you and has already shown interest, why push it? I'd see how she responds but overall just try to get her out with you again. Then tak… | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Wanting to improve myself and be better with confidence and women. Best seduction/self confidence books?Best inner game resource I know is the Blueprint by RSD. Long as shit but it helps explain and apply everything you need for unwavering confidence. | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 02:21 AM |
| 0 | Online game JUST DON'T DO ITThis is terrible, useless advice. It may be true for you specifically but advocating others do the same because of your fuck up is retarded. | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 06:09 PM |
| 1 | True Confidence vs. Fake it until you make itWhy not both? | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 01:23 AM |
| 3 | More for all you DJs and Casanovas since seduction loved my last post (tinder game and text convo)The Orange County Seddit group | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 08:25 PM |
| 2 | How successful are RSD type approaches?Nah dawg, fuck that shit. I'm right, you're wrong #alpha | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 03:42 AM |
| 2 | How successful are RSD type approaches?Agree and disagree, rookies should be doing a mix of each. Most of this stuff is about pushing your comfort zones. If you're not comfortable saying a girl is hot directly to her face as an opener then that's something you should do. It doesn't meant you should do it all the time but it's important for guys to push their limits. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How successful are RSD type approaches?The type of approaches they do are NOT meant for beginners or even intermediates This isn't true at all. Beginners and intermediates doing this will obviously be much lower percentage but they are good opens to do and yes, they work. High risk, high reward. It takes a very confident delivery and frame control and these openers are great for working on your body language and etc. Just don't expect them to work like in the videos all that often. Source: I've done these openers as a beginner and in… | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 02:36 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A lovely young lass went down on me in an elevatorThe girls in Orange County are much hotter but much bitchier. Some guys like that, I don't personally. Would much rather find mediocre girls I can put up with/don't mind than hot ones that make me want to shoot myself in the head rather than listen to them. I had other things in life that were bringing me down so it's not a fair comparison but I'm much happier now that I'm living in the Bay. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 12:40 AM |
| 4 | [FR] A lovely young lass went down on me in an elevatorI moved back a couple months ago | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Going to a party as a D D.Multiple of us in the Bay Area have been going out sober recently. It's not a problem at all. If anything girls are impressed that you're approaching and talking to them without liquid courage. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Lets talk ApocalypseIt's also a shit ton of fun even when you get rejected. I'm usually using the Apocalypse to put myself in a better mood for sets later in the evening and if it happens to work, even better. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 06:20 PM |
| 26 | Is it common to receive weak resistance when you are trying to set up a date or hangout?If she's not saying a straight "No." then take it as "Not yet". Girls making a weak excuse usually just means they aren't entirely sure yet and you need to put in a little more work (funny text, callback humor, whatever) or that you need be a little less direct to get her out where she's more comfortable. Either way, you're definitely missing out on a lot of chances by moving on from girls if they don't give you a solid yes the first time around. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 06:12 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My first cold approach in BARTNice job, man, it's a good start. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 06:14 AM |
| 0 | 3rd time posting!! Really need help on this guys!!!if I ask one more time and she turns me down, i wont have the courage to talk to her again, even over phone, and i dont think im ready to go for a "make or break" situation and never talk to her again. In that case please stop wasting everyone's time. If you've already made your decision not to take action then quit whining. I actually mean this in a constructive way. If you've already made up your mind about what you're going to do then all you're looking for from this thread is attention. This… | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Your recommendations of books that will help one become a master of seduction, influence, and being alpha?Focus on doing, not reading. You already have quite a list there and you should be focused on reading as little of it as possible because you're going out so much. I haven't kept up with recent literature but I always recommend Magic Bullets as a good foundation for someone starting off. Generally though you need to find an actual seduction "manual" that provides actionable steps and things to do. Then apply them. Then read some more, adjust and do it again. Kinda like the lean start up. You are… | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 01:48 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about acting "alpha" versus just acting yourself?You're fully aware the only way you'll get girls by this way is sheer luck, right? Never rely on someone else's action to achieve what you want. That's true with anything in life, not just seduction. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Liked based on my race?If you feel helpless then there is something wrong with your inner game. Simple as that. | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Should we stop congratulating ourselves on successful interactions?This nails it imo. In the beginning you need to build on your successes to gain confidence. Eventually you get to a certain point where it just isn't a big deal anymore and that's when your game moves up to the next level. I don't blink twice when I get a number. It occasionally pleases me to meet and get the number of a girl I really hit it off with but that happiness is completely about her, and not the external result of getting her number. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 08:29 PM |
| 10 | AFC, what's the best way to get started in the field?Breakdown: I'm a uni student at a London uni. London is notorious for being a place where strangers simply do not talk to each other. This makes it a little more difficult for me to defeat my AA. Excuse. However, there is a [1] pub near me. Is it worth it for me to regularly go there and just try to talk to as many people as possible? Of course it's "worth it". How else are you going to get better with people? Physically, I'm not at all impressive. I'm very short and skinny, and so it's difficul… | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 03:47 AM |
| 8 | Seddit, lets compile a list of simple exercises that improve your game (and more)My sister solved this one for me. Go out and buy clear nail polish. Paint your nails. Shit tastes horrible. 21 days later... no more nail biting. Been doing it my whole life and took 3 weeks to stop. | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 03:39 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Eardrums are overrated. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 12:50 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Am I the only one who does just fine conversationally at Vertigo? I mean, the dance floor is loud but you can pull a girl either outside or to the bar and chat her up. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Tips from a ~$6000/wk "dating coach"/former modelhttp://i.imgur.com/xRwR3TQ.jpg | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Looking for sedditors near Sacramento/Davis, CA! Lets get something going!Former Aggie here, nice | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What comebacks work best when an older woman asks ”How old are you, darling?” -obviously wanting to test/trash you.."Just turned 6" "83 next month" "I remember the good old days when women respected men and didn't treat young studs like me like pieces of meat" | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 05:01 PM |
| 4 | [College Advice] Sit next to random people on the first day and make friendsDisagree with you here. You're suggesting I man up and be up front with a girl at the beginning of a calculus class in college. I would say my approach, despite being deceitful, is infinitely better than your suggestion. And this is coming from a guy who absolutely loves direct game (why waste time?). This is a situational thing where "manning up" is pretty stupid. I don't advocate lying and I would never do this again but I would go with something similarly indirect but truthful. Also, this mov… | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 06:16 AM |
| 3 | [College Advice] Sit next to random people on the first day and make friendsDon't be results oriented. I don't agree with Fabio that this move was AFC but don't equate me getting the girl to me doing something right here. Truth is lying to her was very stupid and on it's own could have completely blown this for me. It's not a move I recommend or would ever use today. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 06:12 AM |
| 1 | [College Advice] Sit next to random people on the first day and make friendsActually, she had no idea. I told her a few weeks after and she didn't believe me until a friend confirmed. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 06:07 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)For the South Bay I would suggest PM'ing NotLurkingAnyMoar. He's in SJ and goes out quite a bit. As for the bars I got what you were saying the first time. I didn't like bars either, didn't see the point in going out like that. With that being said, going to the bars is the easiest solution to the problem you've presented to us. There are other solutions but if you're looking for sheer volume to meet women there really isn't a better answer. Keep in mind once you have a girl or two you're seeing… | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:33 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Are you active on Bay Area Seddit? You can find guys to go out with in SF almost every night. Easy way to find motivation and start working. Also, a lot of people don't like, or are not comfortable in, bars. Or rather they don't start out that way. I know I was intimidated when I started going out. Get over it. Most of seduction is about pushing your comfort zones until you're comfortable in positions where other men or not. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Does seddit know how I can become a better texter?Everyone downvoting this without providing a reason why can go fuck themselves. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:54 AM |
| 44 | [College Advice] Sit next to random people on the first day and make friendsThis is how I met my first gf in college. 2nd day of Calculus, I hid my notes from the first day, introduced myself and asked to copy hers. Such a genius opener. facepalm.jpg | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:51 AM |
| -1 | Does seddit know how I can become a better texter?Look up the Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game. It's a 250 page ebook that'll help you develop your own effective style. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR/Storytime] - Some dude I originally thought might be homeless just handed me a girl on a silver platterSorry brah | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Santa Barbara or San Luis Obispo?Gracias, Senor, let me know next time you're in Cali | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)You're either a really negative person or a really whiny little bitch. I'm not trying to be mean but you're in complete denial here and something has to snap you out of it eventually. It's obvious just from this thread that you aren't truly looking for help. If you were you would have listened to any or all of the great advice Tofu has tried to pass on to you. When you're ready to actually improve yourself and listen to what others have to say, especially those that actually know what they're ta… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Can We Get Some Love for r/100sets?Thanks for the shout out. Heckz and I haven't been keeping it active unfortunately. Luckily it's more a journal entry style for yourself so it's doing alright. Glad it helped you, it got us off to great starts and we thought it might do the same for others. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:44 AM |
| 2 | San Diego Wingmen. Show yourselves!Orange County mod here: check out San Diego Seddit but it looks pretty dead: http://www.reddit.com/r/sandiegoseddit I'll be trying to help get that started at some point soon once another guy or two from the OC can roll down with me on weekend nights. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How to quickly gain GOD MODE and overcoming AADid you remove your post or was that a moderator? | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 10:19 PM |
| 2 | So I've been told to NEVER lean in if you can't hear someone. I have a hearing problem and need some advice.There is no NEVER in anything. There's no such thing in social dynamics as a set rule. I didn't read your actual post but trust me, you can lean in all you want and succeed. Doesn't mean it's best to but if you can't help it, there's nothing wrong with it. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 10:12 PM |
| 0 | What is a really social city?Crime is completely dependent on where you live in the City but it's not too high. Rent is going to be high no matter where you live. Anything half decent will run you over $1000 a month for your own room assuming you're not on the outskirts. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What is a really social city?I'm good looking, fashionable and straight as fuck. Just sayin ;-) | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 11:22 PM |
| 1 | For science: What are the most common *Shit tests* that women put guys through?Good luck. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:26 PM |
| 7 | How can I come up with better shit test responses?It really depends on where you are with your game. I'm to the point now that they don't even register with me. After the fact I can look back and see exactly where I smoothly moved the conversation forward where other guys would have fucked up. It took a long time to get to that point though. Learning anything goes like this: Unconscious incompetence (not knowing you don't know how to handle shit tests) Conscious incompetence (being aware shit test exist but not knowing how to pass them, this is… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:24 PM |
| 1 | For science: What are the most common *Shit tests* that women put guys through?That makes no sense. You're going to shit test them so if they do it to you they're useless? Wot? | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:17 PM |
| 3 | What is a really social city?San Francisco sounds like a perfect fit for you and the Bay Area Seddit is by far the most active with guys going out 4-5 nights a week consistently. It's pretty awesome because virtually everyone in the City can reach the 4 major bar scenes with ease. No DD's, girls always down to go home and figure it out later, etc, etc | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 08:43 PM |
| 1 | For science: What are the most common *Shit tests* that women put guys through?You seriously doubt a woman's mental faculties if she shit tests? I hate to break this to you but women shit test to separate the men from the boys. If they do take it too far, by all means walk away, but believing or even saying that a girl isn't worthy of your attention because she shit test you a little is going to hurt you big time. Like seriously, you'll only find the easiest girls who are looking for any guy. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 08:40 PM |
| 5 | How can I come up with better shit test responses?It's both. The more pocketed responses you have in your arsenal the more confident and competent you'll be in making up random answers. My advice would be start identifying as many shit tests as you can, both those given to you and to others you see in every day life and take the time to think about what you could have done best in that situation. With a little practice (understatement, it takes a fuck ton of practice) you'll start passing tests with ease and eventually barely registering them a… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 08:38 PM |
| 35 | Pickup lines or ice breakers for a shy guy that is in a wheelchair.This will take some balls but you must do it: Approach small groups of girls, make eye contact and: "They see me rollin, they hatin" I might be a terrible person. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 05:44 PM |
| 9 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"Your response was just fine. You were non-reactive and unphased. Paul's suggestion is probably slightly superior but it doesn't take away from the fact you dealt with this great. Nice job. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction?5'10. I stopped with Gomad a long time ago. Now i just vaguely watch what I eat, keep it high protein, low carb | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 04:01 AM |
| 2 | How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction?Gracias, senor. Link has been fixed. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 08:42 PM |
| 6 | not drinking while at a bar?You shouldn't be taking anything on this subreddit (or anything in life for that matter) as an absolute. There's nothing wrong with drinking at the bars to enjoy yourself. If you want to drink, drink. But if it starts hurting your game you should take that advice. As for solutions: "I don't drink alcohol" or "I'm taking a little break from drinking". It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Girls won't care unless you do. So don't be a pussy about it and try to make excuses. Just man up a… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction?I didn't mean to imply that it did. I was just saying when you're big and you're confident, things are highly likely to go your way. When you're small and confident you can still be taken as a joke or as having a Napoleon complex. If you're not confident being big doesn't do much for you, same as with anything else. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction?it really is all about how you approach them and how you see yourself This is all that it's about once you hit "big enough". Before that you can be as confident as can be and there will still be a sizable number of girls that won't take you seriously. That's kind of why I was saying you're not one to chime in here. I seriously doubt you've ever had a girl not take you seriously because of your stature and hence for you (and now for me as well having gained weight) everything is definitely about … | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction?You aren't really one to be responding to this question. As a large man the way girls react to you is going to be totally different than that of a skinny guy. Even if you aren't in shape girls would get the impression you could throw them around the bedroom if you so chose (not in a Chris Brown sort of way, you know what I mean). For us skinny guys (I'm a former skinny guy) it is actually very important to put on enough mass to give girls the vibe we can do the same. I agree all of this has a lo… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:37 PM |
| 3 | How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction?I went from 138 to 150 in a very short amount of time (2 months or so) doing crossfit and the GOMAD diet. It helps so much it's not even funny. And not just with women. Other guys take you way more seriously when you put on a little weight. It appears you're concerned about looking "bro-y". That's dumb. If you're a skinny dude you have years of work to make you look like a frat guy. I've kept gaining and am up to 160 (goal was originally 165 but I'm probably going to up that) and I'm nowhere nea… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Just letting everyone know that we're one of the largest and most visited subreddits!This is absolutely a testament to the value Seddit provides. For all the shit it takes around the site there are plenty of people that consistently return to take in content or provide their own. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 04:54 PM |
| 1 | One-year anniversary in the game! My cock ring is now 24 caratMake sure to get with San Diego Seddit. Our group in Orange County is waiting for you guys to get started so we can come visit (read: party) | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 05:58 PM |
| 2 | One-year anniversary in the game! My cock ring is now 24 caratThanks for the shout out, broski, great write up. I've been hearing from a lot of the guys you've overtaken me as the auto-opener by a long shot ;-) Feedback... Opening is bullshit. I don't necessarily agree. Opening is easy and shouldn't be something to worry about but I take every opening as an opportunity to set the tone/mood/vibe and make an impression. You're absolutely right what you say doesn't matter but there are still better openers than others. Likewise, Tyler claims that it's okay to… | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | One-year anniversary in the game! My cock ring is now 24 caratJust message Heckz a couple of times, he's a busy dude. We don't keep anyone out of the GroupMe, if you want in just be persistent about it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 05:00 PM |
| 1 | One-year anniversary in the game! My cock ring is now 24 caratJust message Heckz a couple of times, he's a busy dude. We don't keep anyone out of the GroupMe, if you want in just be persistent about it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Are there any sedditors from Bangalore, India in here?Heading to Kolkata in December or January. Goal is to find and meet a Bollywood star lol | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 09:26 PM |
| 16 | Why women shit test - From a woman's perspective. (this might just open your eyes to the female psyche)This is a really good article. It's unfortunate to see guys on here commenting that it makes them hate women. It's a delicate balance but it's possible to be a really nice guy and pass all these shit tests. It's kinda fun actually to push girls buttons when they do things to get you to react and you just ignore them until they come around. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Went out for a friend's birthday yesterday, situation at the bar that I just want to get your opinion on.^ this. He got in between the guy and his gf and stood up to the guy's challenge without starting a fight. Made the other guy look like the asshole | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Does being fit help a lot?Yes, absolutely. Looks are not necessary but a lot of guys seem to underestimate just how much easier it is when you're in shape. It definitely helps your confidence but it's also important physically, especially if you're a smaller guy. Moving up a weight class totally changes how girls of varying attractiveness react to you. There's a great post in the Book of Pook that talks about this. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Indie's 11th interaction.She was practically begging you to ask for her number or bounce her somewhere else when she said she knew the pool table line was long. Clearly hinting she wanted to talk to you more but it wasn't going to happen over pool. Nothing to beat yourself up over but next time you have good conversation with a lady ask for the number for the hell of it until you get the feeling when girls are down to give it to you and when they're not. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Question for Seddit: Approaching a girl on a bus?If you're just looking to talk to her ask her an opinion question on just about anything. Or you could go with something a little more direct like "I've seen you on the bus all week and have been meaning to ask: [insert random question about her here then introduce yourself] | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 05:12 AM |
| 2 | To anyone who thinks looks matter....It's not just one thing or the other. Status definitely means something, but like everything else, it's not the end-all-be-all on it's own. You're correct that it is in large part because of how he carries himself but think about how much his status plays a part into that. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 09:44 PM |
| 2 | To anyone who thinks looks matter....Looks do matter. They can be completely overcome but looking better helps a lot. In this case I don't think your example proves a single thing. She finds him sexy because of his status, nothing to do with his physical stature. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 08:29 PM |
| 0 | [FR] One success and one failure from a D2 yesterdayCan you give a little background as to how you met this girl? How long of an interval was there between the wine suggestion and you two actually leaving and making it happen? It sounds like something happened in between. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 08:06 PM |
| 12 | The Value Of Having "Your Spot"This is very, very good advice and definitely makes closing easy. Social proof is set up (you've done the work well before the date) so you can focus on what's important: the girl. Best thing about this is you look like a total boss but you're also showing a lot of interest in the girl which is a huge turn on and sign of value. The only input I have here though is don't get too attached or reliant on these locations. They're great to have but if you're finding that you can't pick up outside of t… | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 07:09 PM |
| 2 | FR - Need opinions on what I think is the ultimate wingman openerThis works just fine if you have a gay friend. Good luck getting a friend who isn't gay to come up and wing you in this manner so you can get some. I don't think the effort is worth it compared to a regular opener that needs no such backstory. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 11:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First night out in OC – 3X #-close, 1 Date/K-CloseOnly feedback I have for you gamewise is try to pull numbers earlier in the set. Sounds like you're leaving it until almost too late but you're also hooking the girls well so it won't make too much of a difference. Getting the number earlier in the interaction makes it much less of a deal than going for a Hail Mary at the end. It also makes the conversation from that point forward a little more interesting because there is the pretext that you could be seeing each other again in the future. Or t… | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First night out in OC – 3X #-close, 1 Date/K-CloseParty down the street from my place this evening, I'm not 100% if I'm going yet but date suggestion would be start there, get some social proof from myself and the guys (couple of ladies will be there as well) then walk down the beach to the pier. If you don't get laid off that shit you're doing it wrong lol. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Flirting while high.. : treesI pregame with a couple bowls. I stick strictly to Sativas though (not that I'll turn down an offer to hit a bowl of anything else lol) | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?My apologies, I only use that word when I really get worked up as it bothers my sister very much as well (who is an advocate of gay rights). I'll edit it out. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 06:09 PM |
| -3 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?You're on crack if you think those faggots fucking dipshit losers were down to Earth. I don't speak ill of many people, especially ones I've never met and have no right to judge, but seriously, fuck those guys. They came in and tried to shit on everyone else while only providing value in a way that benefited them. They spammed the shit out of every user on Seddit and other places around Reddit and generally conducted themselves with the class and maturity of a 6 year old retard (and that might b… | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 05:35 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Two nights, two back-to-back F-closes** Conclusion ** Indian girl did not hold a candle to Mexican girl. Mexico: 1, India: 0. GFY. Seriously though, I'm after a Mexican chick that does yoga, can't wait for that. Looking forward to having you down here in SoCal, I didn't realize you were moving so soon. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 06:08 PM |
| 3 | How important is having your own place?and I'm not really able to afford my own place Then why are you asking this question? If you don't have the option to own your own place you should be asking how to make the most of living at home or how to best present it to girls so it doesn't hurt your game. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 08:47 PM |
| 5 | On being honestHonesty is the best way to go. No man here should have anything to hide (but if you do, that's ok too, just find ways to avoid those topics or reframe them positively). Lying is a big no-no that can and will pretty much blow you out with every girl if you get caught. White lies and jokes are ok though. It's not like you can't have a little fun with it. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 06:13 PM |
| 0 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Communicating with women is a language. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | X-post from 3AM: I really need your help planning an epic road-trip (bad reddiquette I know, but if you've seen this I implore you to ignore it rather than downvote)Listen to the BluePrint while driving. It's 20 hours and will help your confidence tremendously. Trust me, it's the best use of your time while in the car and you can even do it after picking up chicks and while getting road head while bro-fisting your friend. Winning. Is your trip taking you to California, by chance? | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you get in state?The BluePrint is essential for everyone that's wants to get good and have these skills translate to other areas of their life. Most "naturals" and guys that get good on here are confident for very specific reasons that if you take away destroys the belief they have in themselves. It's impossible to totally remove this but the more so you do it, the better off you'll be. For example, I derive my confidence from Jiu-Jitsu, being a bad ass with women, being financially secure, having great friends … | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together"Keep up that attitude and you're going to end up as one of the fucked up PUA douches you read about that hates themselves and their lives even after they get good with women. You'll never be able to keep an attitude or healthy relationship with that kind of thought process. There's a hell of a lot more to life than women, bro. The video on the front page of reddit describes it better than I do: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRVOOwFNp5U&feature=youtube_gdata_player First part is more directed at… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together"I don't see an internet keyboard warrior as having solid core confidence so that comparison doesn't really work lol. My opinion is the opposite, I'd rather be a guy who has core confidence and can go out and enjoy himself without approaching girls or even being all that comfortable with them. I'd rather be that than the guy that has no true core confidence but can go talk to all the ladies, and even get laid. Maybe it's a difference in goals but I consider the latter a hollow victory if that "co… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 04:25 AM |
| 8 | What To Do if Girl Prevents Escalation?Im_a_rapist can help address the issue brought up in this thread... | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together"Good luck with that, bro. Look at any guy that's been completely fucked by PUA (there aren't many on Seddit, check out local lairs) and you'll see what happens when guys become confident because girls externally validate them. The confidence I'm talking about is not the confidence you need to approach a woman. That's easy. I'm talking about the core confidence when you know and believe in who you are and no woman can shake your reality. What you're talking about is the exact opposite of that whe… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 04:08 AM |
| 1 | thedarkline insights: avoiding flakesYou suggest ways to build comfort and attraction over text to help guys that failed at each in the set. Obviously it's a whole other topic but there are some little things you might do to come across as more attractive or build comfort in a few quick texts before setting a meet up | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:10 AM |
| 2 | thedarkline insights: avoiding flakesTLDR: Be attractive and build comfort Seriously though, it's a nice presentation of material but I didn't gain anything from it and doubt others will either. Your solution is to this appears to be prevent flakes by building more attraction and comfort. Everyone here knows that. If it was as easy as "build more attraction and comfort" we'd all be getting laid like rock stars. I identified my problem is more often lack of comfort than lack of attraction when girls flake on me (which is rarely) but… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you get in state?The best guys can consistently keep themselves in a better level of state for longer than other guys. It's really about whatever works for you but the idea is that you ultimately get to a point that you just constantly feel good. I'm to this point now where I don't need any sort of ritual or anything, I can just feel great in any pre game setting and take that state with me to the venue. The BluePrint by Tyler Durden discusses this in depth. Edit: Realized I gave you insight on state but no actu… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:11 AM |
| 1 | r/seduction seems oriented toward the straight male, not that it's a bad thing, but why not branch out?It's by the biggest group on Seddit by far. Multiple guys going out almost every night. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 11:51 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction seems oriented toward the straight male, not that it's a bad thing, but why not branch out?Are you going out with r/bayareaseddit? | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Quick question: is it ok to say this?No, this is not ok to say. It does nothing for you, it just makes the girl feel awkward. The suggestion of saying you made other plans after not hearing from her is a good idea, might elicit a response and won't make her feel awkward. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Read List for Beginners v2You need to stick with the BluePrint. I felt the same way about Tyler's presentation and over the top attempts but trust me once you get to around hour 6 or 8 it really picks up and the last 12 hours of it will blow your mind. Edit: I should also add that I felt the same way as you to the point that I dropped it and moved onto other material. Since finally finishing it I've relistened to the entire thing (20 hours) twice over the past couple years. It's THAT good. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 07:51 PM |
| 48 | Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together"You're absolutely right. Girls are attracted to confidence. And the easiest way to have confidence in life is to have your shit together. It's not necessarily what attracts them but the by-product that comes with having your shit together is what attracts them. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with rejection in the workplace? How do you minimize the awkwardness afterwards?Yeah, that clarification voids my entire advice. Best of luck, bro ;-) | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 04:24 PM |
| 5 | this is painful... an FRA) careful with drunk girls. Seriously. B) leave out the fapping details, please. It doesn't add to anything. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 03:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with rejection in the workplace? How do you minimize the awkwardness afterwards?I'm not why people are even advising you to do this. Don't do it. You've met her twice? Why are you risking awkwardness at work? Go out and approach girls elsewhere when it won't matter if you fuck up. No offense but even posting this about minimizing your damages/losses says you aren't confident enough to have a realistic chance at succeeding with this girl with only one shot. TLDR: ABORT. SERIOUSLY. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 06:27 AM |
| 9 | Maybe you don't belong here...Thanks, man, I'm trying to be more active these days. Don't have much time at the moment but I'm trying to collect my thoughts on this and make them more concise. I just feel like what you're describing is more pick up geared than seduction geared. The stuff we discuss and advocate here is not limited to cold approach. In fact, I cold approach because I find it fun and it greatly enhances my game in every other part of life. I rarely get laid through cold approach in comparison to OKC and day si… | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Maybe you don't belong here...This post is total trash. R/seduction is about helping guys get better with women. It's perfectly ok for the guys that don't go out consistently but just want to do better with the girls they do meet, even if it's not through cold approach. As a former avid reader of Seddit and someone whose gotten to exactly where I wanted because of it I'm pretty sad to see this post getting so many upvotes. This isn't what our community is about. You seem to have /r/seduction confused with the douchebags from… | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Is this normal?This isn't a spot you worry about other guys. If you aren't feeling this girl sexually anymore that's the end of it. Not sure if you can turn it into a healthy friendship but don't lie to yourself to pursue this. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 02:38 AM |
| 14 | Instead of feeling rejection.Remember it's also possible that they're very nice girls and you just caught them at the wrong time. Boyfriend, out with judgemental friends or there to consile a sis... I rarely think a girl is mean or bitchy, they just weren't into me at that particular time, for whatever reason. And you're right, it's a great way to reframe and feel good. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 02:36 AM |
| 1 | if bad luck or not, me (nice guy) dont get laidI'm a nice guy who gets laid. | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Question about how to avoid confusion/dismissal at parties where alcohol is servedIf you're coming across as drunk, you're doing it wrong. Kino is not meant to be blatant, it starts with light elbow touches and things of that nature. There should never be any question of you being that drunk idiot whose all over girls. That means you fucked up. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Tips for going to bars by yourself?The best way to approach this is start early. Chat people up in line and on the street. Approach groups of girls and tell them you're visiting, looking for the next big party bar to go to. You'd be surprised how intruiged they might be by you and how easy it is to get invited along places. Once you're there you have social proof and are probably in a pretty good mood. This also holds true for bartenders and bouncers and you should definitely chat them up every venue. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Any minority dudes have trouble with seduction?You're making me blush | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Quick thought on a good openerWho are you talking about? "Hi, I'm sparkydoomcat" is a good opener. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Any minority dudes have trouble with seduction?5'10 Indian here. I may not attract as many or the same types of girls as 6'4 white guys but I do just fine for myself. I can approach any girl I want. I don't have to be careful with it though I'm in California where it's a little more relaxed. You don't have to be "careful" though, that's pretty dumb. Just be chill, talk to people, add value and you won't run into many issues, if any. And no, you shoudn't wait for a girl to come to you. In fact the more you go after girls and get good with the… | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 05:31 AM |
| 3 | "Can I buy you a drink"... when will they learnDown voted. This post doesn't provide any value to any of us without sharing your opener. The lesson of your post was be cooler than other dudes without giving a single insight as to how. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 11:02 PM |
| 3 | This got me thinking:Just because guys don't agree with you doesn't make them AFC. I see your point here and how it might be beneficial but still don't agree with advising guys to do this. Nor do I feel like I'm losing any value by hugging a hot woman, whether she's alpha or not. You put up a post that you thought out well and it was received as you'd have liked. You can either take people's input in this thread or don't, it's not a big deal. Maybe this will work for you and not for any of these guys. Maybe not. Eit… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Hey, you. Why do you give a fuck?Exactly what easier said than done means? It is much easier to say "Just don't give a fuck" or "I don't give a fuck" than it is to actually "do", in this case meaning truly feel that way. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Hey, you. Why do you give a fuck?How so what? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 04:00 AM |
| -2 | Hey, you. Why do you give a fuck?Oh, trust me, bro, I do a lot more than just open. Any guy that's met me in the SF Bay Area can vouch for me on this. And a lot of guys in Bay Area Seddit have seen me. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Hey, you. Why do you give a fuck?This is not true if you're coming from a high enough value that you are approving of her rather than trying to gain her approval. Source: I don't know but I open with stuff like this regularly, almost by default, and open successfully | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:00 AM |
| 12 | Hey, you. Why do you give a fuck?Easier said than done but thanks for telling us all again | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Calibrating a little after a couple nights out. Noise levels, opening eye contact and one of Tyler's strategies.Actually, yeah they do. I hadn't thought about that. Girls used to tell me that stuff when I first started getting this but they don't anymore. It's congruent with who I am these days so I don't get tested much and probably don't notice when I do. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 06:09 PM |
| 2 | My first attempt at being outcome independent over text, how can I improve?There's no reason for her to reply to your last text and there's nothing wrong with that. Chill out and text her next time you want with something fun (not logistical). | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Calibrating a little after a couple nights out. Noise levels, opening eye contact and one of Tyler's strategies.saw Tyler talking about [1] this trick. Tried it out on the second night and it was weird. Just watched that link, which part did you try? Regardless, most things are going to feel weird at least the first couple times you do them. Don't judge the technique based on one night. Edit: you should watch the link all the way through again. He explicitly says you're going to run into the exact problem you describe. It's part of the learning pains. Also, what he's talking about isn't even a "strategy".… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone tried the full on asshole approach?You're kind of asking two separate questions here. First: Yes, asshole game is tremendously effective for Tucker Max. He has plenty of terrible qualities but he has almost all of the qualities that make a man extremely attractive to a woman. Mainly not giving a fuck (absolutely nothing affects him or takes him away from his reality) in addition to bringing the party all the time, even if he takes it too far. Second: I wouldn't say I've used asshole game but when I was first starting out I'd push… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, please help me out. I am a woman wanting to learn kino but not for seduction. I need info please!If you're looking for baby steps, start touching the person's elbow when you speak to them or thank them. Just a little touch to let them know what you're saying is directed at or pertinent to them. Really goes a long way in making a girl come off as friendly and comfortable. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:09 PM |
| 1 | My post keeps getting caught in the spam filter, so I'll try it one more time: If you are in San Diego, there is a new subreddit called SanDiegoSeddit.LA and OC Seddit Mod here, good luck getting started, we have a couple guys that would love to roll down for a night once you're established! | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Essential ReadingThe Game was where it all began for me, and it helped eliminate the mental stigma of sarging from my mind. That's exactly what I said. The Rules of the Game has an excellent 30-day challenge designed to gradually raise your comfort and eliminate AA. I also said this. The Mystery Method does explain the hows and whys, in fact it goes into them in what I would consider to be more than adequate detail And this is where I disagree. Almost every system out there is MM rehashed in some way or form but… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 10:04 PM |
| 1 | She cancelled our date. What would the best approach be?What? | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 09:59 PM |
| 1 | She cancelled our date. What would the best approach be?Like I said, it's clear she likes him when she tries to reschedule for another time in the same text she cancels on him. There's not reason to play games or do anything complicated. She likes him enough to want to meet him, that's the next step. Playing hard to get and canceling here is not intelligent. You think she's going to like you more because you're unavailable when she was down to meet you in person? Under other circumstances I'd absolutely agree with you about how to play this but the d… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 09:59 PM |
| 1 | She cancelled our date. What would the best approach be?Good question: she clearly likes him because the first thing she did when she realized the original time wouldn't work is to try to reschedule with him. Simple as that. Girls simply do not do that if they don't want to see you. Also, as a generalization always assume attraction but in this case there's a specific reason to do so. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 09:56 PM |
| 4 | Essential ReadingThese are all good books but are not what I'd recommend learning from. The Game is entertaining and somewhat educational for a noobie in terms of just expanding their reality and belief of what is possible. Mystery Method is not what I'd advise any guy learning game to start with. It may be where most systems came from but it does not provide a solid, healthy base but rather routines that hide the true issues. I'd probably recommend Magic Bullets by LoveSystems which is clearly based on MM but h… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 09:05 PM |
| 1 | She cancelled our date. What would the best approach be?She's clearly into you, no need to play games. The question is what do you want to do? If it's convenient for you to see the movie at that time just let her know that's fine and you have a date set up. If not, reschedule for another time. I would scratch the two movie idea, sounds like it'd be a bit long. Also, considering cancelling when you can conveniently make the alternate time is nothing short of retarded in my humble opinion here. TLDR: She clearly likes you. Do what you want. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Where are the best places to meet happy, fun and attractive American citizens?Look up Tripp in /r/losangelesseddit, his next scheduled meet up is July 15 which I should be at. I can put you in touch with one of the OC guys who just moved up to LA as well, need to look him up again quick. As for coming down to the OC, you're welcome to crash at my place if you want to come party for a night, there are plenty of couches. Where in LA are you? Any chance you're close to Occidental College? | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Where are the best places to meet happy, fun and attractive American citizens?Most places are dangerous in certain areas. LA is no different. Anyone with common sense and the willingness to ask people for advice on where to go shouldn't end up anywhere dangerous. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Where are the best places to meet happy, fun and attractive American citizens?In Orange County it's just three of us but we only met a couple months back and are going out consistently. LA seddit is meeting once a month with Tripp (coach) but doesn't seem to have much activity going out. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Where are the best places to meet happy, fun and attractive American citizens?Ever come down to the OC? It'd be great to get more guys out with la and OC sedition, both of which are dead | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:35 AM |
| 1 | It looks like there are only a small handful of cities that have Seddit lairs. Why don't we post where we're from and potentially start some new lairs?Keep an eye on LA Seddit though, Tripp started organizing monthly meet ups that are during the day. There were some young guys there last time. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | It looks like there are only a small handful of cities that have Seddit lairs. Why don't we post where we're from and potentially start some new lairs?Neither of the groups are really active. Orange County is beginning to see some traffic but the only consistent guys are myself and TheKount and we go out in Newport/Huntington mainly. We did have another guy join us from Anaheim who will hopefully be a regular as well. Problem is we usually go out at night, not the best set up for those under 21 | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:48 PM |
| 2 | It looks like there are only a small handful of cities that have Seddit lairs. Why don't we post where we're from and potentially start some new lairs?Orange County, CA | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 05:27 PM |
| 2 | It looks like there are only a small handful of cities that have Seddit lairs. Why don't we post where we're from and potentially start some new lairs?I've been trying to get LA Seddit back up and running but it's a struggle not being there. It really takes the right situation to make a Seddit lair work. I'm down in Orange County now and even here it's hard to get started because there's only so much one (and even a couple) can do. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I am relatively confident in my abiltity to keep a conversation going. My trouble is starting the conversation.Approach anxiety happens to everyone. You're approaching some girl who you've never talked to before and you don't know if she's going to reject you or not. Until you start finding rejection fun (which does happen) you're going to feel anxious a large percentage of the time no matter how much you do it or are confident. My advice is find an opinion opener that amuses you and get it locked in so you can deliver it automatically in your sleep. Once you do this you never have a reason not to approa… | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 10:33 PM |
| 1 | How does one learn bar game?You just have to get out there more and get comfortable with it. Definitely have to work on projecting if you want to be heard as you're right, it can be quite loud. Not sure what you use to open during the day but almost any opinion opener works and will get you more used to the environment and how conversations differ . Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I have mediocre frame control, I don't know how to rip into my friends to defend my frame or test theirsFalse. Being clever is the ability to quickly reference experiences from your past and interpret them in ways that amuse yourself and others. Being clever is a skill you can work on and develop. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Looking for subreddits that can be used for pickup but not necessarily seduction subreddits.Also, /r/sex | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Looking for subreddits that can be used for pickup but not necessarily seduction subreddits./r/socialengineering /r/askreddit (if you're ever looking for an opener for the night) Lots of other subs I have play a part in how attractive I am but aren't seddit related. Examples in /r/fitness, /r/bjj and /r/getmotivated | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 07:47 PM |
| 3 | "Apocalypse opener"Throwaway is known for being a bit negative about things. I'd suggest considering but ignoring most of his advice. You're dead on about all of this being about trying new things. As I've posted twice elsewhere in this thread the Apocalypse Opener is a lot of fun and has worked for myself and other guys in Bay Area Seddit. We do still use it but not as much. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:55 PM |
| 3 | "Apocalypse opener"It's still mind blowing to me that you're a mod with such a poor attitude. Myself and multiple of the guys in Bay Area Seddit have used and continue to occasionally use it. Any guy on this board can and should try it. Yourself included. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:54 PM |
| 2 | "Apocalypse opener"A lot of the Bay Area Sedditors have had success with this line. NotLurkingAnyMoar got multiple make outs in one night using it exclusively. Now we just use it on occasion to blow the minds of rookies and put us in a better mood if the night isn't going well. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Traveling in a foreign country as a teen. Hears the catch: I look like I'm a native.Every native there is going to know something is up the second you open your mouth, maybe before from the way you dress or carry yourself. You may as well be different looking. I have an easy time with pick up in India despite looking Indian because it's still obvious I'm American and more importantly, a total badass. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Just some stuff that's happened to me since I started reading r/sedditI've stopped seeking a "soulmate." Quick note: there's nothing wrong with seeking a soul mate, it's about how you treat them (as an equal as opposed to one-itis type actions). I believe I've found mine (distance is preventing that at the moment) but I've been in this (seduction) from the start because I knew I wanted to be the best man I could be when I met that perfect girl. And I was. Cold approach in a bar, actually put up an FR about it lol. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Need Advice on JugglingNow, anybody with half a brain knows that when you're juggling multiple interests, you never ever allow the interests to meet, talk to each other, be in the same room. All that can ever happen is bad. Curveball was little harsh (only a little) on you but what he said was accurate. Your statement here is not true. At all. It's quite possible to manage multiple women in the same location. I regularly have girls I'm sleeping with with me at a party or venue where I'm chatting up other women, talkin… | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Why not have a Consistent Contributor flair like /r/malefashionadvice?I think a weekly thread on here would be much more effective than AskSeddit. If I could go through a thread and respond to a bunch of guys with their weekly problems, I'd probably check it out and would be more likely to contribute and help people out. Can't say the same about AskSeddit where even visiting it causes me a headache. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 06:20 PM |
| 13 | How to keep yourself in the right mental zone everyday. Write one of these lists for yourself and read it often. Make yourself believe it. It works.I think you need to replace "instead" with "in addition". Every thing the OP wrote makes doing every thing you suggest easier and will likely be done with more confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 05:13 PM |
| 1 | "The richer the statements you give, the richer the responses you can potentially receive"And what you were basically saying was incorrect, as I pointed out. If you've had a problem with this it means your smile probably didn't come across as genuine. The solution to this is tone it down or work on your smile (which is possible). The solution is not to post telling everyone not to smile. It only comes across as "picking up" when the girl thinks your faking. This is true in all interactions. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone use the Emotional Progression Model?I've had some pretty good success by sticking mainly to attraction material then letting the conversation flow naturally from there. This is probably because, like most guys on here, you already knew how to get comfortable with a girl and qualify her (commonly known as getting to know a girl) once she was attracted. I don't focus on anything in set anymore but when I did it was all attraction. Most guys coming from the frustrated nice guy past have an easy time with this. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 12:02 AM |
| 8 | "The richer the statements you give, the richer the responses you can potentially receive"Side note: No game at all is needed during "day game". Just act like a normal person starting a normal harmless conversation with a stranger. Keep the smiling to a minimum when opening, and then as she starts smiling, begin to smile with her in conversation. What are your thoughts on this? I was with you until the smiling part. Keeping smiling to a minimum is simply not good advice. Not saying a clown smile is necessary but I can't think of any situation where smiling would hurt the interaction. | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Are these shoes too feminine or should I look for a darker color?If this style works for you I see nothing wrong with the color. Might want to dress it up a little though, just a step above most everyone else, not enough to make people look bad | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Are these shoes too feminine or should I look for a darker color?Are you in high school? | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | abcs of attraction bootcampIf you aren't in touch with the Bay Area Seddit guys you need to. Immediately. Going out with those guys, both in the South Bay and in SF, will do more for your approaching ability than any bootcamp could. Once you're approaching and beginning to work on other things then you should look into a bootcamp. TLDR: Paying for a bootcamp to learn how to open is a waste of money, particularly when you have the most active PUA group likely in the world at your doorstep (that's not an exageration when gu… | /r/seduction | 28/05/12 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Post some of your favorite FRs or threads from seddit. [Best of seddit]There's literally a button on the sidebar for "Field reports - Top" lol | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:21 PM |
| 0 | What's your best general opener at a bar?Are you Indian? We might be soul mates. Pro Tip: If the girl is white, ask her if she's white. Works on any race. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What's your best general opener at a bar?As an Indian person, I feel the need to use this line in field. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 04:42 AM |
| 1 | abcs of attraction bootcampHow would you currently rate your game? Makes a big difference on who to go to... | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Any interest in a Denver/Colorado Springs lair?I know a sedditor in Denver who might not see this thread, I'll PM him the link, he was out with me pretty often in Orange County. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 01:38 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Solo Night Out - HARDThis is what's called a negative belief. It's all in your head. You can meet girls anywhere, including clubs, and most of the time never have to buy them a drink. You can if you want to by them a drink but if you don't, it's virtually never necessary to get the girl. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 09:54 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Solo Night Out - HARDNo offence to Cubs07 but his advice is terrible. You don't need to buy a girl a drink in order to get her at a club. Be a fun guy and you'll have no problems attracting women. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 09:51 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Solo Night Out - HARDThis is not true at all. Not even close. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, what do you feel are the most important things to look for in an apartment?Location location location. Closer you are to venues the more often you go out. More often you go out the better you get. Better you get more you pull. Closer you live to the venue, easier it is to pull. Location. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 06:23 AM |
| 3 | What's Mystery been up to lately?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQh4UvickD4 There you go. Perfect timing. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Travelling to San Diego in early June. Any San Diego sedditors have advice / want to meet up?Was just about to respond. It's 1.5 or less but I'm going to be partying with you in SF that weekend ;-) | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 06:48 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Making Changes to SedditAlready there, my friend. Haven't been reading or posting as much (I post with another username) because I can't roll this month but I should be back on the 1st. I agree about handling yourself. I barely know to kill anyone yet (submit) and it's made me more confident but so much more humble at the same time. It's an interesting combo I'm quite thankful for. | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Does all this stuff become natural after a while?What Throwaway is discussing is only first step in this. He's referring to if you're getting some success but are still using routines and lines that push girls buttons and make them and other people react. This is not the end goal. This is you still relying on other people to put you in a good mood. Pick ups in this mindset fail when you use lines and routines and they fail to get the reaction you're looking for. Eventually the best guys drop routines and lines and go totally natural. You get t… | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Dear Guys In Clubs (Mini Rant)You're only focusing on this specific night. They probably did not get laid, no. But they went out, approached and like Gnom said, generally gave zero fucks. That's why they will get laid. And that's his point. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 10:33 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Making Changes to SedditQuit asking for other people's approval, you big puss | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 10:06 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Making Changes to SedditTotally not on topic with your comment but BJJ is bad ass. One of the SF sedditors first introduced me to it and taught me a standing submission or two (RNC). Started it back in October and man, it's addictive and helpful in so many ways, including improving your game. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 10:05 PM |
| 77 | [Challenge] I'm going to cold call 100 peoplePlease update this, I'd love to see the results. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 10:02 PM |
| 2 | [xModx] Paging all Austin, TX sedditors...reddit.com/r/dfwseddit | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 07:10 PM |
| 1 | [xModx] Paging all Austin, TX sedditors...I had ElectronPUA come hang out with me yesterday in Orange County and hosted another sedditor from Dallas this weekend as well. Hit me up sometime. I'll probably post if I'm coming up to Hollywood soon. | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with a black eye.Are you on crack? What does having a black eye have anything to do with hanging out or this girl? You're naturally peacocking, mother fucker. That makes you a damn natural. Now go kill it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Well-written wall of text analyzing Neil Strauss, Mystery, and the PUA movementDid you mean to link directly to page 4? | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 09:58 PM |
| 1 | More foreign advice: Delhi IndiaFIFA is how I prefer to spend my Friday nights as well lol. My suggestion is find a guy (in your group or outside it) whose down to go out and etc. Start there and build up. It's difficult to get people to join you as an individual but as soon as you have another guy or two committed you'll see a snowball effect. Also, obviously make it a point to not make plans over the weekend with your friends that don't go out. Spend weekdays with those guys. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 06:19 PM |
| 1 | More foreign advice: Delhi IndiaNo specific advice here, this situation isn't really all that unique. You need to get out and do some cold approaching wherever you can to improve with seduction. This'll increase your confidence and allow you to find more friends. As for your current circle, that can be way difficult. I'd focus on spending more time with the fun people you enjoy and like and less time with the assholes/ones who bring the group down. Little change like that can make a huge difference over a couple months. More f… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Issues with preconcieved status and social circles. I need reset my social life but am having trouble doing so, adivce from those who've been there?Start over by smarting small. This isn't something that happens over night. I used a concept I learned from the Four Hour Work Week: the Pareto efficient. 20% of the people in your life contribute approximately 80% of the happiness you get out of spending time with others. Similarly 20% of the people in your life are probably responsible for 80% of the misery. Identify who these 20% are on each side and make a concious effort to spend more time with those who make you happy. This begins an upwar… | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Semi-related to seddit: Does anyone have a good guide to lifting weights/getting in shape? What do you do?The +15 I ended up with overall was all muscle. That first 12 I gained was 8 muscle or so, 4 of fat. I had to keep doing crossfit for a couple months after stopping GOMAD to drop the fat. It hurt to shit a decent amount of the time. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Semi-related to seddit: Does anyone have a good guide to lifting weights/getting in shape? What do you do?I wanted to put on weight as quickly as possible with the least amount of time/effort (always been a sports guy but hate lifting). I chose CrossFit + the GOMAD Diet. GOMAD = gallon of milk a day in addition to what you normally eat. Put on 12 lbs in 30 days and ended up +15 overall when I even out after 4-6 months of doing it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 12:46 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Was my Prom a bust?Doesn't sound like she's into you, bro. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What are the best jobs for pickup?You should probably be aiming for the best sales position available to you. Not sure what to say. Not retail sales. Try to find something that's more of a challenge. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 11:18 PM |
| 2 | What are the best jobs for pickup?Sales and seduction require virtually identical skill sets that are used for very different purposes. (I do sales) | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 10:32 PM |
| 7 | Words of advice to those who get good at this...My style as well but I keep forgetting to actually get laid lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Should I try to pick up girls in my current situation?Yes, you should be going out. Right now you have the opportunity to master opening. Go out when you can and try approaching. If anything it'll toughen you up for when you move out. I made the most of the time I was living at home with my parents (though I was allowed to go out) and it's a big reason I'm where I am today. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Understanding the two types of judgment helps you stay congruentLook at Paul Graham... what a piiiiiiiiimp lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 12:18 AM |
| 7 | 3 Basic Things to Cover on a First DateI'd say confidence and kino should be happening all the time (as in no difference between first date and any other time) but definitely agree all three are very important to the first date. Nice post. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Sedditors, from how many of your interactions do you actually try to get the number?Guys just starting out/who have problems getting the number should be asking for numbers in just about every set until they get to the point you're at. For me it pretty much comes down to two things. How much I want to see the girl again and how much effort I'll have to put in to make that happen. Recently I've been going for same night lays so I don't bother with the phone number but if I was it's pretty much a question of how realistically meeting again is (with minimal effort). I might start … | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 08:21 PM |
| 25 | Where The Wild Things Are...Smoothest FR I've seen in awhile. bro fist | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 05:58 PM |
| 62 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himAt the very least it'll let your girl know she has to put in some work if she wants you. If she wings your friend great but even if it just makes her realize she needs to ditch her friend that night it's moving you forward. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 04:06 PM |
| 8 | [FR] F-close Zooey Deschanel lookalikeHow did you meet this girl? I'm giving up on wings here in SoCal and need to start rolling solo. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else have trouble seeing themselves as sexually desirable?I guess the only cure is more practice right? Pretty much. First you have to start by telling yourself you're attractive or you should feel attractive. Then you have to go out and find examples of that in the real world. Any set that goes well reinforces that you're a sexually attractive guy. Keep going out and meeting and hitting it off with as many women as possible and eventually your reality will begin to change (for the better). | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Do girls still give you big shit tests after you've slept with them a few times?It might not be a shit test... maybe she actually does want a relationship. I'd get on the same page with her about what you two have, ignoring her probably isn't going to get you anywhere at this point. Just my $0.02 though. | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 04:21 PM |
| 3 | how to respond when she calls you smartThis is the exact same question posed by someone else about two days ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t5nf3/best_response_when_a_girl_asks_youre_really_smart/ | /r/seduction | 05/05/12 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Nuke friendship from orbit?What's the upside though? If you fail, you're going to lose out on a potential friend or more for the future. Not a big deal, really, especially if she's not in your social circle. If you succeed however... what happens next? You close this girl, she leaves her boyfriend. Now what? Are you going to date her? (the answer is no). It's literally risking a friendship and ruining another relationship so you can get laid a couple of times. There are plenty of single, hot women out there. You don't nee… | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Best response when a girl asks "You're really smart, aren't you?"Thanks for adding that, it's what I meant to say ;-) | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Nuke friendship from orbit?No offense but this does not sound like a very likely proposition to happen. You don't come across as confident enough from what I can tell and you admitted your game isn't great. Chances are this will not work out in your favor. Hell, this isn't likely to work out for anyone, no matter how good, when she has a BF. I would keep her as a friend, see if you can get more into chicks' minds and maybe get a wingwoman out of this. By playing it cool this way you also have a legit chance when she's sin… | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Best response when a girl asks "You're really smart, aren't you?"That's a really good idea. You could take it step further and ask the girl what she's best at and use that as an example. It would make her feel special while making you look humble and like a boss at the same time. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 10:23 PM |
| 3 | What Alpha Male does when his social circle is turned against him by girls offended by failed f-close?That would definitely be enough to get you voted off the island ;-) Don't worry about it though, not a big deal and you can't change it back. Keep on keepin on. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 10:22 PM |
| 3 | What Alpha Male does when his social circle is turned against him by girls offended by failed f-close?This is the problem with running game within your social circle. You seem like you have decent game but you are clearly pretty aggressive which can be a big no-no within social circles. Honestly, I am with Unapologetic in saying I don't think this is the entire story. You might have made them uncomfortable by being so aggressive or creeped them out in some way. If you were adding value to the group and a fun guy to be around they'd invite you regardless so when they're not it means something wen… | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 08:36 PM |
| 6 | A week in the big city - what to practice?You should be working on opening as much as possible so you're comfortable with that when you go back and can't practice as much. Also, Seddit is extremely active in San Francisco. We don't have many day gamers but if you're looking to go out at night I can guarantee you we'll have guys out 5-6 of the nights. Check out r/bayareaseddit. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 08:30 PM |
| 13 | Best response when a girl asks "You're really smart, aren't you?"Shrug and say "It's all relative". Or any other way where you don't deny being intelligent but show your humble side by mentioning how much more there is to learn. Or something along those lines. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 08:28 PM |
| 6 | [FR] D-2 flaked. Called impromptu D2 with a #-close I got yesterday. F-close.winning | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 04:48 PM |
| 11 | [FR] The same evening after finding seddit...Nice job, man, keep up the positive momentum | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 04:30 PM |
| 5 | [FR] D-2 flaked. Called impromptu D2 with a #-close I got yesterday. F-close.I tried a "Why over think this? Let just go out and have fun together." She was not buying it. "I just need to spend time with my friends. I'll see you [in our little social circle]." Sounds like this is more situational than anything you could have done. When you're pursuing a girl in your social circle a lot of factors come into play because she has to interact with you going forward. If things go south it sucks to be her (and you). I don't really think you need any advice here, just keep livi… | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 04:27 PM |
| 2 | If you are on OKcupid take a look at my profile? I'm asking on the okcupid subreddit as well, but want to see the difference with the Sedditors.I think you're trying way too hard. You shouldn't have to explain that you're a confident guy. It should come across in the profile and how you message and interact with girls. Some of your other stuff seems a little forward (like sex in things you're good at and the story about the girl with the bf). Just my $0.02 though. I do alright on OKC but it's really about coming across as yourself. If you're getting results with this, do it to it. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Advice with a situation and text responseAs always, you should do what you want to do. In this case it doesn't sound like you really want to be communicating with this girl. I'd say ignore her and don't think twice about it. The only thing that should matter in this decision is you and what makes you happiest. This is stress you don't need. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 03:43 AM |
| 1 | First post please be kindYou don't have to delete but you might want to try to summarize it or split it up. Save it somewhere before you get rid of the post if you do, it was obviously important enough for you to write out and share. | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 12:07 AM |
| 1 | First post please be kindYou might want to break this up into multiple posts. I'm not sure how many guys are going to read through that without a title or TLDR to let us know what you're vaguely talking about. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Is it worth trying to find time for a girl who's very busy?You should not be wasting your time with this girl. That does not mean that you should stop pursuing however. It just means that you should be hitting this girl up when it's convenient for you. Send her a text when you're doing something and invite her to join. If she's busy, no big deal. Rinse and repeat until you meet up with her. In the mean time (when you aren't doing something to invite her to) act like she doesn't exist and go after other girls. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:45 PM |
| 3 | In passing, eye contact then she looks away and smiles.Does it matter? No? Then just approach. Even worrying about something like this take you out of the present and into your own head. It doesn't matter what her reaction means. Go talk to her. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Related subreddits?/r/GetMotivated /r/Fitness Any seddit locations you're near (SF and OC in my case) | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome typical armchair-pua inconsistency?Go out as much as possible. It's as simple as that. Anything else you're told in response to this is just you wasting more time in the arm chair and not out opening and getting real life experience. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on a situationThat sounds pretty damn needy. Something like "Hey, I know you're only in town until tomorrow, let's grab brunch in the morning" or something leading like that is probably a better idea (obviously I don't know the actual logistics here). The point is that you finding her on facebook and all this crap you're babbling about is only important if you make it important. Ignore it and just send her a message moving the conversation forward. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on a situationIt doesn't really matter whether it would be creepy or not. It's the only way you're going to contact this girl again so if you want to see her again you HAVE to hit her up on facebook. You should be worrying about what to say. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Can I get a diagnosis?Maybe you need to stop just settling for girls that come to you and start going after girls that don't just come up and approach you. Find hot ones and start chasing a little bit. It'll remind or open your eyes to what most people feel when they like someone. You don't seem to really be in touch with that when girls are just coming to you. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 08:42 PM |
| 3 | I give up trying to find out on my own, what is the next step after flirting to lose my virginity?However long you think this is going to take, multiply it by 10 and that still won't be enough. This shit is complicated. You have to be congruent and your true, attractive self from start to finish with girls. I can't give you some line to help you close once you reach a certain point. From that report that you posted... I can't tell if you opened offering to buy them a beer or to just go get one together. The first option is obviously pretty bad, the second much, much better. she goes "ooh tha… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 08:27 PM |
| 2 | I give up trying to find out on my own, what is the next step after flirting to lose my virginity?Just keep going out. There are lots of little things in the post you could have done better that will improve with experience. Overall it didn't seem like anything glaring, you just need to keep interacting as much as possible and it'll get smoother and smoother. Also, keep in mind that guys get flaked on all the time. I'd rate my game pretty highly (at least until the f-close, I need to raise that rate) and I get flaked on all the time after generating huge amounts of attraction. Don't beat you… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 08:03 PM |
| 3 | I give up trying to find out on my own, what is the next step after flirting to lose my virginity?Your next move is to keep doing what you're doing. Lifting and triathlon will do wonders for your body language and look but most importantly will dramatically raise your confidence. Keep going out and talking to as many girls as possible. Figure out where you're usually getting stuck in conversation and read up on that. Finally, just realize that there are guys everywhere getting laid. If they can do it, you can do it. Accept that into your reality and really believe you can do it too and it'll… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 07:32 PM |
| 6 | [FR] "I got no game it's just some bitches understand my story"Snarky? Is that you? With a FR??? Awesome, man, sounds like it went well. Be patient with it and you'll definitely close. Also, make sure not to hurt anyone with that 5 inch brown diamond cutter. You're huge, bro. FUCKING HUGE. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 06:53 PM |
| 15 | Whats a good reply for "Do you have a gf?I don't know that I'd say they're the most desperate responses. Delivered properly a lot of them could be very clever and make girls laugh. With that being said however I'm surprised the obvious answer for any question like this hasn't been stated: be honest. Girl: Do you have a gf? Boy: No, do you? or Boy: No, do you? Because that would be fucking awesome. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Alpha Social Thought Vs Beta Social ThoughtThis is a great post. Guys often think it's alpha to never chase but they don't realize that if that's the only way it's ever going to happen then it is in fact the alpha thing to do. You put it best with: "Alphas get shit done, they don't wait for shit to happen to them." Dead on. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Social Thought Vs Beta Social ThoughtJust posted back to Libido as well: he's a friend of mine from Florida who helped me get my start before meeting you. He's the only other guy I know personally whose on your level when it comes to bringing the party. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Alpha Social Thought Vs Beta Social ThoughtBido, this is Ghosebag from TOP. TofuTofu is a good friend of mine from out here in SF. You guys should definitely meet up. Like I just mentioned to him, TofuTofu is the only guy I've met whose on the same level as you in terms of consistently bringing the party. Also, welcome back to Seddit. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Success has gone up but satisfaction gone downOh, you're only 18? In that case you have nothing to worry about. That age is probably the most difficult socially. And being in a social circle there are a lot more ramifications to sleeping with a girl which can really kill the vibe when it happens. TLDR: You have nothing to worry about. Keep working to improve and change this for the better, but realize it's totally normal and there's nothing wrong with what you're feeling. Also, you should check out the BluePrint by Tyler Durden. It's 20 hou… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 01:06 AM |
| 5 | Success has gone up but satisfaction gone downWhen you talk to girls do you feel like you're being yourself or that you're putting on a front to succeed with them? If it's the latter that would explain a lot and a lot of guys go through it. You become successful with lines and routines and presenting yourself confidently but you don't feel that way on the inside. Keep applying this stuff positively to your life and with time it'll internalize and feel natural. Until it does feel natural there's a good chance you won't be comfortable with wh… | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Next question...No need to be an asshole. I did in fact read your previous comment. The point of my comment was that you're incorrect in saying that Mystery would rather sleep with Oprah because she was higher on the scale. Whether that scale be HB or SV. Either way, just because a girl has a higher rating doesn't mean Mystery wants that girl, it simply means that if he did it would be more difficult with that girl than one with a lower rating. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 08:19 PM |
| 1 | has anyone here actually been hit, or beaten up, by an AMOG or jealous bf?Heckz on the boards pulled a girl to the dance floor in San Francisco at one of the bars a lot of the Bay Area Sedditors frequent. Girl had a boyfriend in the crowd who saw this, shoved by me and went for Heckz. Luckily another sedditor had just taught me how to properly headlock (rear naked choke for those of you that do Jiu Jitsu) literally a week earlier. Put the guy in a headlock, dragged him off the dance floor. Bouncers grabbed him and walked him out. Heckz and I went back to dancing. Like… | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Next question...That's not what Mystery was saying at all. His point was that if Oprah and a hot girl were in the same room it would actually be more difficult for him to sleep with Oprah because of her status than it would be to sleep with the hot girl. Hence Oprah might be a "HB10" and the girl a HB9. Mystery will still want the hot girl but he's acknowledging the fact that Oprah is in fact the harder one to take home. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Don't know what to do hereI meant for you to hit the edit button first and actually split it into paragraphs so I could read it lol. I read it anyway: you need to get out there and focus on improving with all women. Go approach as many people as you can and the more you do, the less it'll hurt to think about this girl. Nothing wrong with her being important to you but don't let that get in the way of you becoming a better person. It'll make you more attractive to both her and everyone else in the future. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 04:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First step in my PUA journey. No close but a small milestone.A lot of this is about experiences that build confidence. No matter how much you read on here it's not going to change overnight. Keep going out and interacting with strangers and you'll quickly begin to see conversations getting better and more interesting, people responding to you and so much. Also keep in mind that this is only the first step. Approaching is the easy part once you get used to it. It's what comes after that makes it all worth it ;-) | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Don't know what to do hereHit enter twice after a line to create a new paragraph. It's pretty difficult to read that wall of text. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 03:34 PM |
| 7 | how do those of you that don't quite have their careers/lives in gear yet deal with it?Ultimately you need to believe in who you are not what you are. Be confident in the fact that you're going to get a full time position and be killing it here shortly. As long as you're doing everything you can to make that happen and you're confident it's going to you can talk to girls all day long about living with your parents and you'll get a lot of attraction just by being confident in who you are. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 07:07 AM |
| 2 | If you could have a chance with any one celebrity, who would it be?It's on my bucket list to date a Bollywood Star (I'm half Indian in the US)... but man, so many white celebs I'd go for if given the chance lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 04:17 AM |
| 2 | So, an innocent question...It might have been a shit test but it was definitely possible to do alright for yourself after you "failed" it. I say "failed" because it's not that difficult to be a polite guy who will hold her cup while remaining alpha. So... A) Pass the test by making her ask again or saying something ridiculous. Others will probably contribute better examples on this than me. B) Take the coffee, put it down and start talking to your friend. Politely hand her the coffee when she needs it and strike up a conv… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 04:16 AM |
| 2 | A quick questionUltimately you just want to be that confident guy who doesn't worry about this thing but that's more of an inner game thing (as you get better your level of state gets consistently higher making interactions like these more and more comfortable). If you're looking for a quick fix here I would recommend immediately making it a point to smile. It'll make other people feel good when they see you and it'll consciously make you focus on being positive, putting you in a good mood. One of the best tips… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 04:06 AM |
| 2 | I am Chris Shepherd, AKA Tenmagnet. I've been in this scene since the beginning and I've met pretty much everyone and been everywhere! AMA.That's more my style to be honest but I'm pretty set on getting way better at same night lays even though I think I'll ultimately go back to more of a first date close type approach. It's just something I want to be able to do when I feel like it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 03:55 AM |
| 9 | I am Chris Shepherd, AKA Tenmagnet. I've been in this scene since the beginning and I've met pretty much everyone and been everywhere! AMA.I'm well aware of that. Let me rephrase: If I'm visiting another city, leaving the next day and I hit it off with a girl in a bar or club, how do I best go about getting a same night lay? Is there anything I should focus on? Hint at? etc Thanks again | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 02:34 AM |
| 11 | I am Chris Shepherd, AKA Tenmagnet. I've been in this scene since the beginning and I've met pretty much everyone and been everywhere! AMA.Hey Chris, Thanks for doing this, it's a big help to a lot of people. I think I already know what I need to do with this but I'm asking everyone I can just because... What do you focus on when it comes to closing? I open great and find and hook a girl almost every night I go out but I'm still struggling to close (by that I mean same night lay). Currently my focus to deal with this is creating good logistics, kino kino kino and as many bounces as I can with the girl to get her comfortable. Any th… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 02:13 AM |
| 2 | My Life as a Pick Up Artist - Interesting ReadI double checked. You weren't attacking everyone, you were just condescendingly being a giant douche who wouldn't consider what someone was saying without "scientific evidence". Then you started attacking everyone after they tried to explain their positions but to no avail because you wouldn't listen to anything they wrote. Clifton or whatever addressed your question of scientific evidence with his reasons for believing it. They weren't scientific so you posted back "just waiting on that scienti… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 10:51 PM |
| 2 | My Life as a Pick Up Artist - Interesting ReadI know you're getting a lot of shit on this thread but you really need to start looking past people's tone online if you want to improve yourself much. Almost every guy in this thread that has called you an idiot or referred to you as a wall has presented evidence of some type to back up their statements. Most of them are correct even if they don't have the sufficient evidence to back it up. Also, I'd like to add that you're the one attacking everyone here for not having sources despite it essen… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 08:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Sorority FormalSounds like you're totally set for this to hook up when the logistics work (ie you're both single and in the same location). Keep it on the back burner, text her when you legitly want to (or if you just don't want to text another girl) and this'll happen eventually. Or it won't. No big deal either way. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Success! Thanks for the boost Seddit contributors! [FMM]3some 5-#close, and 3 k-close in 3 nights.Post a link to this in the Orange County Group, please | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 02:41 PM |
| 7 | What is the best compliment that you ever received from a woman?It's a great feeling when someone that really knows you says that. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What is the best compliment that you ever received from a woman?It's become my style so I don't really think about it anymore. Just really direct stuff. Introducing myself or starting with a complimentary opener. Sometime just saying I think they're sexy and going from there. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 04:09 PM |
| 7 | What is the best compliment that you ever received from a woman?"There's something about you..." and "You're different..." I get every now and then with reality destroyer openers on hot girls | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 03:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Blonde, long legs, almost exactly my height in heels and a sexy accent. [with Orange County Seddit]Such as?.... To be honest I went pretty beta and texted her a couple times just trying to convince her it didn't happen. I knew there wasn't anything wrong with it even if I had but this was about what gave me the best chance with the girl. It's one of the few times I can remember in recent time that I let something like that go and apologized to appease someone. Luckily it didn't matter. you should've blown her a kiss and then winked... it would've been funny to see her reaction. She wouldn't l… | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 10:45 PM |
| 1 | NEED HELP with Kino game.This right here is all you need. Take your current game and go out and try to kino in order as far as you possibly can in every set. Do this for 20 sets and you'll be way better. 100 sets and you'll be a boss. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Almost getting there. . . something is up though.You need to do some research on LMR (last minute resistance). Also, more kino earlier in the interaction will make this easier. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Anyone close to or in Seattle?Shoot me a PM if you don't reach him and I'll send him a text. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Anyone close to or in Seattle?Find and message shortofbeinghelpful. He started the Bay Area Seddit group in San Francisco and now lives in Seattle. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your concrete goals you've set while practicing pickup?I've had this talk with a couple of the guys from Bay Area Seddit: you need to avoid setting goals that are results oriented. Result oriented goals in something as complex as pick up is a bad combo because you can do so much right, and show so much improvement, but not get immediate results. For example: Getting a same night lay - Focus instead on kino-ing as far as possible with every girl. Or on bouncing girls from location to location. Both will help you with same night lays. F-close a HB9/10… | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Sarging alone on a Friday night...We're having an Orange County Seddit meet up tonight in Costa Mesa at Sutra (club). You're more than welcome to join if you like. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Maybe there's something to this stuffNice job, man. Takes balls to do that. Especially when you aren't used to it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Seddit...Has anyone tried the Apocalypse opener? If so what were the results?I use this line and similarly direct ones all the time in SF. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 10:54 PM |
| 1 | any non-PUA book recommendations that deal with social skills that can be used in other aspects of life. (ex. Work, Networking)Networking Awesomely (e-book) and the Four Hour Work Week. Second book isn't really social skills even but I think it's played a huge part in everything I do that plays a part in being attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are you always so happy?Tell her you're laughing with her, not at her. When she says "but I'm not laughing" your response is "True. But you should be." | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 06:55 PM |
| 9 | Why are you always so happy?"I love my life." | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to a guy who..Should I just focus on myself, leveling up my job potentiality in the man-cave, or force myself to go out? Going out and getting more comfortable with people, girls specifically, will shoot your interview skills and confidence through the roof. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 04:35 PM |
| 100 | Social Momentum: Why You MUST Go OutDude. I haven't read Seddit in 6+ months. You're bringing it back. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 01:29 AM |
| 10 | My review of the Simple Pickup guys and Tyler Durden (RSD) after having seen both in field during the past weekThis makes me want to work so much harder. I'm pretty much that on the surface but really struggle with closing :-( | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Lets meet our minds and discuss how to be more honest.Just remember you can be honest without being serious. This entire thing will be very good for you but don't lose your sense of fun because you never want to give a smart ass answer back. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 11:27 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Quick write up of the Orange County Meet Up last nightKumar: Quick question. Would you ever date a guido? Girl(s): Inquisitive look or answer Kumar: Let me clarify: I'm not talkin some smooth Italian guido. I'm talkin Jersey Shore, fist pumpin, GTL mother fucker Girl(s): Usually stick with original answer of "no" or change answer to "no" Kumar: Nice, you ladies have standards. bla bla bla And transition. Gets an easy laugh every time, works virtually anywhere. Worst case you have to explain what a Guido is: Giant meathead who looks like an oompa lo… | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 08:56 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First. Got a great girl due to confidence.Don't know why you're getting downvoted. I lol'd. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 07:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl tells me to "Shut the fuck up", another tries to make me buy her a drink, and one other I get cock blocked. What should I have done?Orange County Seddit. | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl tells me to "Shut the fuck up", another tries to make me buy her a drink, and one other I get cock blocked. What should I have done?What happened to the guys can pick-up any or almost all women? I thought we are suppose to be able to seduce about any women we want if we practice enough. Dude, you're so off base here it's not even funny. No one in the world can get even 50% of the girls they approach (the best is probably much lower than that). The idea is that any guy has a chance with any girl based on who they are. Nothing says the situation is going to be perfect but the point of the statement is that you believe you're g… | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl tells me to "Shut the fuck up", another tries to make me buy her a drink, and one other I get cock blocked. What should I have done?Yo, couple things. First, post a link to this thread on OCS. It's the best way to get feedback: from guys who know you. I agree with MetaSnow on quite a few points, specifically inner game (though I didn't see any inner game issues with you when we met). You mentioned in an earlier comment to me that we were "going to battle" with everyone else. I pointed it out then and I'll point it out now: that is not a healthy mentality and directly leads to you getting pissed off at things like the girl le… | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Problem: I find working out boring as fuck.I recommend looking into two things. I started lifting for seduction type benefits and hated it. I gained 15 lbs of muscle in 2 months and it did wonders for my game. I did crossfit because workouts are really short and get you good results, though it's possible to do better other ways. Also, crossfit classes mean girls. Hot girls. Second thing is look into something like Brazilian jiu jitsu. I started doing this and am getting pretty ripped. I don't consider it anything like lifting. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 05:12 AM |
| 2 | What are the best places to live to date/meet girls?You should check it out. By far the most active lair we have. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What are the best places to live to date/meet girls?Hey man, check out the OC Seddit group before you take off. I work in Tustin and met up with guys twice this week | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 03:54 AM |
| 0 | Best Places for dating 2012That list is terrible to the point the entire thread is useless. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What are the best places to live to date/meet girls?Are you part of the SF Seddit group? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 03:47 AM |
| 2 | What are the best places to live to date/meet girls?Your friend might be gay. Or going to the wrong areas. SF is heaven. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Revisiting Seddit FlairBut tofuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu I wanna get dat sic flair yo | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 03:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Rockin' a gay bar with a couple sedditors - mixed set gameI won't be in the area but give me a heads up when you make it out again and I'll make sure you're set up ;-) | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 12:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetPlease don't listen to this guy's thoughts on "attractive frame". He's probably never going to see that girl again but continue thinking he "played" her so well. I'm not saying kiss every girl you can but you don't avoid kissing a girl to play hard to get when you have no real intention of going for her. The OP probably thinks he was going after her but any guy who closes will tell you all you had to do was stay with that girl and it's a solid close (as in guaranteed see her again if not same ni… | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 05:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetI don't know about not reading pick up but seriously, OP? Are you on crack? She was opening up to you by asking about you. She wasn't ready to give you her number yet but she was interested. Edit: it sounds like you had multiple sets where if you just stuck in for the night you could have made real solidcloses. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 05:05 PM |
| 2 | [Basics] Lurkers, it's time to man up and sarge.Pretty sure I've been in well over 2k sets but still can't close to save my life and can't exactly work on it now ;-) | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 04:58 PM |
| 1 | mASF websitesI see... and you refer to them as bar sluts as well or is that his words? Don't get me wrong, I like the guy, met him multiple times but it sounds like you're white knighting by criticizing guys for how they look at women while referring to them as bar sluts. This is just what I'm observing though, don't mean to offend. | /r/seduction | 17/11/11 09:05 PM |
| 2 | mASF websitesI seriously doubt you're in need of any more material. Just sayin you probably have enough how it is. Get in field. | /r/seduction | 17/11/11 08:51 PM |
| 1 | mASF websitesLet me get this straight. You avoid RSD due to their view toward dating and women but out of all of them Jeffy is the one whose cool with you? That doesn't make sense. | /r/seduction | 17/11/11 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Are You Living The Life You Want?I'm not sure why this is getting upvoted. It's idiotic. You're saying settle for what you have now. Wrong. Appreciate what you have now but never stop striving for more or what you ultimately want. Don't be a fucking pussy and say "I should just be happy with what I have now". Fuck. That. Take control of your own life. | /r/seduction | 14/11/11 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me...?My observation as a brown man is that it's significantly easier for me to attract darker ladies. Not sure that means white girls don't like Indians/etc as much but I definitely see white girls as taking more work. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Regarding these posts about success outside of seduction, what do you do that leaves you feeling satisfied?Crossfit took me from being on the smaller side to athletic/average (small frame) in a couple months and did wonders for my game, results and life. Just started up Brazilian Jiu Jitsu which I think is going to be huge as well. It's really about finding passions in your life that make you more attractive. I've become really big on pushing my comfort zones recently and am learning to ride motorcycle and surf but that's just me. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Regarding these posts about success outside of seduction, what do you do that leaves you feeling satisfied?Crossfit is insane, did wonders for my game and more importantly my life. Where are you working on that software startup? | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 08:04 PM |
| 2 | I've been working on my game (on and off for quite a while.) and it's really paying off but I have some questions.I think guys around here really underestimate how long it really takes to develop. Do you really think its easy as being able to get numbers, post a thread about going from that to f-closing and boom it's going to happen? It's not. I still don't close as consistently as I would like and I was pulling similar numbers to you well over a year ago. And yes, I go out and develop a ton. Not trying to be a buzzkill, just making sure expectations are realistic. | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to choose good friends?What up, TMP. Almost missed this thread as I'm not on Seddit much these days. Here's what I do every couple of months. Are you familiar with the 80/20 principle? A simple way to summarize it regarding to friends is: 80% of the quality in your life comes from 20% of the people. Every few months I go through and analyze which of the people I spend time with actually contribute to my life. I then make a conscious effort to start replacing just a little bit of time with the people that add less qual… | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 05:23 AM |
| 2 | In Orange County? Join the group!Tolerant. Like Saruo said most of the guys probably will be (we haven't met yet). | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 03:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Trying a more direct gameThat's the problem, my friend. You aren't going direct. You're showing way more intent and coming across as a sexual being but you're not going direct. Direct is "Hey, I'm talking to you because you're hot and we should have sex." Opening observationally by definition is indirect game. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 09:02 PM |
| 3 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Genius. Nothing short of brilliant. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 01:02 AM |
| 2 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?I wasn't in set. I was helping out a friend. Still though, I'm never going to just walk away when a guy does that. I would not give up because some asshole was throwing sunflower seeds. If the girls hints she's ok with such behavior, fine, I walk away because she has no standards. That's the only case in which I'd let it go. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:41 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?If that doesn't work, tell him to fucking stop that in a loud voice, get a bit confrontational. I started with this except I was went with the I'm-quiet-because-I'll-fucking-kill-you delivery and asked him to stop. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:02 PM |
| 6 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?We have a winnar lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:01 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Don't think you're going to be able to find the girls you want if you give up at this kind of resistance from another guy. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:01 PM |
| 8 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?That's how you should have handled it. Like a boss. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:00 PM |
| 0 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Wasn't possible on this particular night. Halloween Saturday in SF. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 09:47 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?In response to your edit: What you assumed was correct. He was outside the set, looked like he may have known them but wasn't sure. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 09:46 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Sounds about like what I did. Asked him to "cut that shit out" and put myself between him and NotLurking. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 09:25 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Seems really indirect. I might do what you're suggesting if I was part of the set but because I wasn't there was no way I was going to go stand in his way and hope that he got the hint. I think it needed to be more confrontational to be effective. Edit: I think I would follow your advice if I was in set with a target. Definitely wouldn't take my focus off her. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 09:01 PM |
| 18 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Put my hand firmly on his shoulder (no homo) and politely asked him if he "would like to cut that shit out". He said "Yeah, thanks man" a bit sarcastically. At which point I told him he was welcome and walked away lol. Would have socked the fucker if he did it again after that. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:57 PM |
| 3 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?It was Saturday night, Halloween, bars were absolutely packed. Not a chance I was going to get security over to the guy (I know all the staff there, including security, and there was no way). I was a little more direct about it. Don't think using body language is the way to go when a guy is chewing on and throwing seeds. Takes too long :-) | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:42 PM |
| 10 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?He was chewing them first lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Trying a more direct gameLet's start from scratch. What were the lines you were using? I wish you'd told me you were trying to go direct, I would have paid more attention to your sets/maybe opened one or two. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 06:19 PM |
| 11 | I just dumped an HB10 because...Fuckin A, Heckz. I clicked this thread to bitch about the HB scale. | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 06:25 PM |
| 2 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...Awwwwww | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 12:39 AM |
| 2 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...Snarky's with me tomorrow night, asshole. Git yo own! | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 08:44 PM |
| 1 | After getting rejected by a woman I was into, I'm actually ok. See? It's not that bad for them to say no.Same here. Just moved into a place in Newport a week ago but home base, especially for seduction is in SF. Let's meet up sometime in Newport. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 10:24 PM |
| 3 | The breaking point...Care to respond what you're saying no to? This guy wrote out a quality response to your post and you give him a one word answer. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 10:11 PM |
| 2 | After getting rejected by a woman I was into, I'm actually ok. See? It's not that bad for them to say no.Do you live in Newport? | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?I'll help get it started up. Won't be here for too long but I've done this before. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?I'm Indian. Not usually a fan of Asians but definitely go after Persians. Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Newport Beach/Orange County?Please subscribe to http://www.reddit.com/r/orangecountyseddit. Let's get something happening. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:29 AM |
| 1 | So... I was gone a while. Where the hell are the mods?My limited knowledge regarding at all to Throwaway is that I mentioned to Tofu on 2-3 occasions how Throwaway's attitude on the boards sucked and each and every time Tofu defended Throwaway. That's all I know. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:00 AM |
| 5 | So... I was gone a while. Where the hell are the mods?I was never a fan of you as a front scene moderator but Tofu has told me multiple times how much you've done for everyone behind the scenes. I had no idea you weren't informed of the coaching. I would have talked to you if I knew you had issues with it. It clearly was not as well thought out as it should and I'm guessing your perspective would have been gold. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 05:36 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] FREE Personal PUA progress tracking APP: Reviewing and getting features addedIt's cool, it's not going to change, we were just have a discussion about it. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 01:18 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] FREE Personal PUA progress tracking APP: Reviewing and getting features addedYes. Still in beta phase. I just don't like you promoting something like this as a moderator. This has been posted about before, I remember the thread. There is absolutely nothing that links this app to Seddit that warrants an official moderator post to announce it. Edit: I'm also getting the feeling and hence assuming that this is something you've done on your own accord without talking to the other mods. Do you even know if this app has competition out there already? Why is this the one that t… | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 04:49 PM |
| 0 | [xMODx] FREE Personal PUA progress tracking APP: Reviewing and getting features addedI might be sore about this because you may or may not have just plugged a competitor of mine on Seddit when I didn't bring it up because of the coaching reaction. I think its cool and good for Seddit and I'll be taking notes off the thread but still seems unfair. Free or not, they're probably making money off it somehow. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 08:28 AM |
| 0 | [xMODx] FREE Personal PUA progress tracking APP: Reviewing and getting features addedHow is this any different than promoting coaching on here? | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 04:04 AM |
| 2 | A word of caution...Somehow I don't think you're applying what you're reading properly. If you did and thought for yourself in addition to that you'd be way ahead as opposed to learning from your own mistakes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 09:37 PM |
| 1 | ON GIVING VALUE: Why you're not being invited out to do cool thingsToplair | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 07:15 AM |
| 4 | ON GIVING VALUE: Why you're not being invited out to do cool thingsI can say I've been guy #2 since arriving in Newport. Thanks for this, bud. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Opinions of RSD, Lovesystems, Stylelife, PUAtraining, independentsCouldn't agree with this comment more. 5% for inner game for a beginner? Are you kidding? | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Did the regulars/mods stop posting?As one of those "top" users I can tell you I'm not making money or writing ebooks. We only advertised to Seddit to help Seddit and didn't market elsewhere. It obviously wasn't popular and you don't see us going around promoting it here inappropriately. It's on the sidebar, people can reach out if they like, otherwise I work my 9-5 and help out guys where I can. | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Did the regulars/mods stop posting?What up, player, long time no see. I'm never on here anymore either, similar reasons to you. | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you bother to game girls taller than you?Absolutely. Fucking love going after girls taller than me. The BayAreaSeddit guys have seen me do it probably 50 times. | /r/seduction | 08/10/11 07:34 AM |
| 0 | Rookie here... Help me out!If she doesn't have your number yet you should text her. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Rookie here... Help me out!No offense but if doing something crazy in public is not something Op would naturally do then this is terrible advice. And beyond even that you clearly have a limiting belief about girl's comfort. OP can easily get get her to his home. There's no "risk" or whatever your implying. Point is he should at least try for that first and he can tone it down to your suggestion if she says no. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Rookie here... Help me out!You already have attraction as evidenced by making out so just keep the texting to a minumum and set up a date soon. Don't be over eager but make sure to get her out before she forgets why she likes you. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 09:58 PM |
| 7 | Young Guys: Why your not getting laid and can't socialize with hot women.I don't think you understand where most of the guys on here are. I totally agree with you: having a girl or two on the backburner removes all neediness and does wonders for your game. But if most of the guys here had the kind of ability to just do that in a way as easy as you make it sound they probably wouldn't be here in The first place. TLDR: I think your post is correct but not very useful at the same time. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The five stepsWait, what? | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 07:20 PM |
| 6 | What is the point of "touching???" can anyone explain what it does and why it's so importantThe point of this is to get physical with the girl. Most guys here are "good" at being friends with girls, it's getting to sex they need help with. Is it possible to get her attracted without touch? Sure. But think about how much easier it would be if she were already comfortable with you physically. How can you expect a girl to be thinking about you physically/sexually if you never touch her? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 10:04 PM |
| 4 | I've finally admitted that I need to improve myself, and r/seduction is where I want to learn to do it.Sidebar. Read up on opening and start talking to everyone. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Females are rude as shit. I gave a girl my number told her to give me a call at a specific time--It is now 3days past the time I told her to call.I think you need to completely start afresh with seduction. No offense but you clearly have no idea what it's like to be an attractive girl. Of course this girl isn't going to call you. She gets hit on all the time and it's not just at work. She has multiple guys giving her attention and you want to be some chose who tells her to call you and then you whine when she doesn't? Come on, man (rights to the previous statement are owned by NFL Live and ESPN productions) | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerFor $300 I don't think you can really get better value. I don't even have expectations for it but I know if an hour of it really hits home with me the money will be totally worth. That might just be because I'm to the point where when anything new hits home for me it's pretty game changing. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerBayareaseddit gets a hot seat right here in SF next week, no need to venture to LA | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Can someone challenge me to do some basic seddit goals with a due date?r/100sets | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 11:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Solid Attraction Game + The Emergence of a New Sticking PointGive me a call this afternoon. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 07:52 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Solid Attraction Game + The Emergence of a New Sticking PointThe issue here is that you're thinking you need to "turn something on" to move from the number towards the kiss. In reality its all one smooth escalation during which you get the number. Rather than trying to kino up after the number you should have done that the second the boy left, gotten the number and continued escalating like a boss. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 07:27 PM |
| 3 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?I would have shown that guy zero respect once he demonstrated he wasn't going to show any to me. No joke my response would have likely been to ignore him and mention how many asshole there were in these parts. Telling him to go fuck himself is another option. The point is to get it over with quick and immediately return to your conversation with your target like nothing happened. That's just me though. I'm completely willing to blow out the entire set or ruin the night of the entire night with t… | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?Sorry bud but that's a load of bullshit. I'm "Indian" and don't know the difference between North and South Indian and neither do the vast majority of girls at a bar. In other news, if you're in SF you should check out r/bayareaseddit. I'm in SF as well. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?so you guys might not understand. I want to reach across through your computer and slap you right now. Seriously. Stop making excuses. We all understand. It's not a very complex situation. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?I'm barely Indian. I look the full part and use it to my advantage in set but my (birth) mom is actually a redhead with freckles and I just happen to look exactly like my dad. He's from Kolkata. Are you in India? | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?Like I said in my original response to you: you can't let this shit get to your head. Either be ok with who you are or do something about it. Either way you need to get it out of your head that it matters how the hot girls react. Act like a boss no matter what. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 04:09 PM |
| 1 | a short [FR] and a couple of questions.Read the Vin Di Carlo kino escalation ladder from the sidebar. Apply it asap up until sex. It's seriously that simple (which is different from easy). | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Bus Game?Talking to her would be the first step. That is not sarcasm. Say something to her. Say anything to her. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?I'm Indian so I naturally have a pretty small frame. Went from about 140 to 152 in a couple months. I'm just over 5'9. I entered college around 128. People responded noticeably better as I gained more weight. The thing is they were reacting to the way I began to carry myself, not the actual muscle (after all I was still skinny). Yes, I slept with plenty of women while scrawny including hot ones. If you ever want a girl near your height though you'll probably need to get bigger. If you don't look… | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?This. Getting physically bigger helped the reactions I got from women but really it was the work ethic that lifting instilled in me that made the difference in my game. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?From a mindset perspective, you can't let this get to your head. You're exactly the way you are and there is nothing you can do about it when you're talking to a specific girl. Focus on what's important that is in your control. With that being said, you might want to do something about being skinny. I gained 13 lbs of solid muscle doing crossfit and GOMAD. I was scrawny before, now I'm on the smaller side but no longer scrawny. I was going out 4-5 nights a week the entire time I was going throug… | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 11:16 PM |
| 2 | FR -- SLC with Loki345 and kemaniaGlad to see the SLC group getting off the ground. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How much of a killer with the ladies is acne?When I want to be happier during my day, I think about you, Snarky. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Don't need advice. Just need Motivation from all my seduction artists out there. PLUS I HAVE SOME HOW- TO FB GAME. Ask if you want more detail on it.Advice: don't smoke if it makes you awkward. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 10:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR, kinda] AFC here... gonna try to cold approach frequently and post how some gor/100sets | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 09:11 PM |
| 4 | A Social Experiment: Building An AvatarI'm on my phone and wish I could say more than just this but hopefully someone sharing my viewpoint can expand: The problem with this is that seduction is meant to improve your entire life, not just when you go to the bars. This is advocating "turning on" your PUA avatar or mindset when really you should always be an outgoing, attractive guy. Edit: at the same time, I can see the value of following this post so everyone has a more defined idea of what they want to work towards being | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 07:05 PM |
| 3 | [FR]First night outAwesome field report, it was great seeing you get in there and chat up some ladies. That Happy Birthday opener was really funny. Heckz told you to say that and I thought it might be the worst opener ever but you killed it. She was hot too ;-) | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Tall girls are perceived as hotter. Check the comments. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Stumbled into a #-close, going for the k-close/f-close tonightIt's all about body language an kino. Strong eye contact, escalate physically. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How's pick-up working in the USSidebar. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [LR] – A Culmination of the Three Things I've Focused on RecentlyYeah. That includes mini bounces within a venue. What do you want to know? | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I've been lurking this subreddit for too long and have decided that it's time for me to get to it.I'm probably the one that posted the ejection challenge. What do you mean by you want to be more demanding? | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 12:08 AM |
| 4 | [LR] – A Culmination of the Three Things I've Focused on RecentlyHeckz is a perfect wing. Has solid game and willing to jump on the occasional grenade for me lol. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 11:53 PM |
| 2 | [LR] – A Culmination of the Three Things I've Focused on RecentlyWhite Castle by day, Club Kumar by night. The only LMR I ran into was when the girl was worried about her roommate. She walked in on Heckz and her roommate, turned around came back to me and asked if I had a condom for us lol. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 10:48 PM |
| 1 | [LR] – A Culmination of the Three Things I've Focused on RecentlyAnswered above, don't know if it was helpful or not though. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 09:40 PM |
| 2 | [LR] – A Culmination of the Three Things I've Focused on RecentlyI scroll through my text conversations at least once a day to make sure I'm not forgetting any girls. In terms of getting back to girls in a timely matter they're shit out of luck. My life, my schedule. It happens to me pretty often where girls ask how my day is going only to get a ping from me the next day. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Any veteran PUAs willing to be my mentor?Check out r/100sets, it's helping a lot of guys take action. Also, where are you located? | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Balding SedditorsDa fuck? Since when are you balding? | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Direct Approach in Class?Bad idea. Might work but could be really, really awkward. Talk to her. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Night vs Day game, which do you prefer?I like bar game better. Then again, I don't day game ever. Opening girls during the day is just a part of every day life. Also, there is a big difference between bars and clubs. I don't like clubs for the same reasons as you but that doesn't hold true in a bar where you can make girls laugh. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Ultimate Wingman (X-post from /r/videos)Pretty funny, bit over the top. The guy doing the winging is actually a great example of being self amused and not seeking any external validation. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 07:40 PM |
| 10 | Don’t Read This…....... Unless You are Serious.That is a baller quote. So true. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Any Salt Lake City Sedditors?No. Don't tell me what to do. Edit: you're not my mother. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting CloserSounds like you're way deep in the friend zone. My advice is to focus on other girls and let this one fall where it does. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.Good solution, I like it. Now come back. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 07:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.What book? Might look into it | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.McTeagues in SF. I met Jeffy for a minute, don't really know who he is. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.I actually needed to borrow a girl earlier in the night from a 3 set and realized it would have worked regardless. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] College Party K-Close//Pulled a Good Sam and Made a guy's day like a BOSSHey man, good field report. You hooked her hard, great moves. Why would you pass on a girl that's totally into you though? This makes you look cool and all but you're missing the point. Take her home, dude. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Are you happy?Yes. I'm happy. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 10:23 PM |
| 6 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.Are you kidding? R/bayareaseddit. We have 250 subscribers. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I fell of the stage in front of my ENTIRE freshman class the first week of college.Own. That. Shit. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 06:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.San Francisco | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Things you do NOT Neg/tease aboutRape and the Holocaust. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 05:03 PM |
| 6 | [FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear.Thank you. I do what I can. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 06:22 PM |
| 35 | [FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear.You're still learning game, I would suggest focusing on girls that are not in your social circle. The fact that you're telling me online who you're going to approach next is an issue. I don't know who i'm going to approach yet because I have no idea which cutie is going to be in the next elevator with me or on the bus or at the bar. Go game somewhere you can totally fuck up with zero consequence. As in stay away from girls your friends know. Edit: also, this is just my opinion but IOIs are bulls… | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 03:57 PM |
| 52 | [FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear.Awesome field report, bud. It didn't go your way but you're making moves and that puts you ahead of 95% of guys. She may not have been attracted to you or even liked you but I guarantee she respected you for having the balls to ask. Where to next? Let's get you approaching a lot of ladies so you forget about this one ;-) | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Denver sedditors! I'm visiting this weekend 8/26-29What's the point of a throwaway if you identify who you are? | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 01:49 AM |
| 3 | After 10 years I am back in the wild.... Now what?No, things have not changed. There. That was easy. Like Staples (TM). Happy Hunting ;-) | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 09:02 PM |
| 0 | I hate posting this... Someone help me.Usually the advice here is to man up and just do it (Nike!). But sounds like you need a little help from a k-close routine: Asking "Do you want to kiss me?" is a good way to get started. It's the only one I know. Just saying I think you should be asking guys for k-close routines not to diagnose your current lack of confidence (kiss this girl and it gets much easier the next time) | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Being social vs. having strong viewsThis. Sounds like it's totally on you being closed minded. There really isn't a balance. You don't have to like everyone but disliking people for themajority if your everyday differing perspectives is on you. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Don't know what to say? This one's pretty simple.You make some very good points. If you're ever in SF hit up Bay Area Seddit, I'd love to wing you with some hotties sometime. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, what are some quick tips someone can do to improve their game? I'll start.I do what I can. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Don't know what to say? This one's pretty simple.OP, I've read through the thread and think its great all your involvement and insight. This advice though is pretty bad. Lower your standards if the girls aren't physically attracted to you? Are you kidding me? Go lift weights, learn to plow, get some confidence. Lower your standards might be the worst possible thing you can do. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:29 PM |
| 21 | Don't know what to say? This one's pretty simple.Also, asking for a name in the first two sentences of dialogue is lame; don't do that, either. Not saying this is the norm but I do this and use your almost your exact opener ("Hi, I'm Kumar [insert something direct here]") with success on a nightly basis. The advice OP is giving here is going to have a lot of guys giving up. Not going to lie, I don't really like it though I appreciate the post. Asking her some indirect question then "feeling" her out for interest is not the way to get shit done… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Don't know what to say? This one's pretty simple.Also, asking for a name in the first two sentences of dialogue is lame; don't do that, either. Not saying this is the norm but I do this and use your almost your exact opener ("Hi, I'm Kumar [insert something direct here]") with success on a nightly basis. The advice you're giving here is going to have a lot of guys giving up. Not going to lie, I don't really like it though I appreciate the post. Asking her some indirect question then "feeling" her out for interest is not the way to get shit don… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Seddit, what are some quick tips someone can do to improve their game? I'll start.Getting laid is fun. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct?Usually post to Reddit from my phone so difficult to give an extended response but: going direct with your opener creates instant attraction when done properly. You can just start qualifying with questions or do whatever you want really. I don't think about this stuff much anymore but I'll try to remember if I have any go to lines other than "so how's your night going?" | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct?Good results. | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct?To each his own. Definitely works for me but yours is probably best for you. Try it sometime though. Even if you don't keep going direct you can learn a lot from it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct?I take most of my openers direct in one way or another | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct?Direct: hey, what's your name? ... You're the hottest girl in the bar, just an FYI. Situational: sweet dress. Blablabla Opinion: would you ever date a Guido? No? What about a midget? No? What about Indian? Sweet, i'm Kumar yo. | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct?Direct > situational > opinion. For me personally at least | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 06:47 PM |
| 13 | [FR] I #-close two groups of girls within 10 minutes of arriving, end up on Public Enemy's bus after their show, then go home with 2 girls for sexy time.I think we should start posting to r/firstworldproblems lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 07:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I #-close two groups of girls within 10 minutes of arriving, end up on Public Enemy's bus after their show, then go home with 2 girls for sexy time.I was so torn lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 07:20 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I #-close two groups of girls within 10 minutes of arriving, end up on Public Enemy's bus after their show, then go home with 2 girls for sexy time.Fuck man, I was so down to join you but I already had the 3 girls staying with me, couldn't ditch them. I missed out on another girl I met last weekend for the same reason last night. Fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 07:10 PM |
| 16 | [FR] I #-close two groups of girls within 10 minutes of arriving, end up on Public Enemy's bus after their show, then go home with 2 girls for sexy time.You misspelled "the" a lot. I worry about you sometimes. | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Restarting my education today, can you help?R/100sets | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 11:27 PM |
| 4 | My thoughts on PUA community and fulfilling healthy relationships. Long read, please take the time.Yes and yes. That was easy. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Field-tested opener from yesterday - easily opened a three set: "Entertain me for a minute."Solid advice, as always. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 05:05 PM |
| 12 | Trolls on SedditHoly. Fuck. You can do that?!? | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Not quite a [FR] but I'm still proud of myselfAwesome work, man, keep it up and this will be a normal occurrence! | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 09:15 PM |
| 19 | If you don't sarge, you'll never improve.You can improve your game no matter what stage you're at by opening ANYONE and EVERYONE. Who gives a fuck if its "sarging". Become comfortable in all social situations and by default you'll be a badass during the ones you really want to be comfortable in: when smoking hot girls are around. | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 09:29 PM |
| 1 | New to Seddit! Where do I start?In that case browse the top Seddit posts of All Time. | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?Come out with us, you'll see Jeffy | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 04:31 PM |
| 2 | An interesting observation.Thatta boy. Everyone wants you ;-) | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 12:01 AM |
| 2 | An interesting observation.Not going to lie, I was on my phone and only read the beginning. I shall finish now and properly observe your point :-) | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 12:00 AM |
| 2 | An interesting observation.I think you're way overthinking the original interaction. The guy was hitting on you because he mentioned salsa dancing? I don't see any correlation whatsoever. Everyone drops DHVs into stories. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamTotally agree, the threats are not acceptable. Thanks for posting this by the way. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamThe way that I see it is there are two separate issues. First, everything that led up to the threats. Second, everything after that point. In regards to the second point, I can not defend Discovery and how he dealt with the situation. Do I think it's acceptable? No. That doesn't not mean however that he isn't fit to teach anybody. On the first point, its my opinion that OP was entirely in the wrong. If he wasn't happy with the services he should have dealt with that. Ignoring someone who you agr… | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamHe had already recieved all the services he signed up for before any of this happened. I've said below I don't agree with the guy making the threats but it is understandable that he would take action when OP stopped contact while owing him $1000 or whatnot. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamI don't agree with him threatening but you falling out of contact with makes that action understandable even if it isn't justified. Not going to lie: hearing it from your side still makes it sound like you're in the wrong here and should pay up. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?Sounds like a more accomplished version of me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamI didn't notice that part you quoted. It's important. Definitely not appropriate. Only thing I want to point out is sending an ex-army buddy to his house is not a threat: it's the dude's job. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamTwo things. First I agree you haven't been defamatory or harassing. Second, Throwaway is not being contradictory in any way. No one here is associated with Venusian Arts. That's your problem, not Seddit's. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 08:52 PM |
| 0 | Venusian Arts ScamI'm really confused. You owe him £1000 for services you signed up for and he was willing to complete and you're the one getting scammed? | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Ladies of seddit, I need your input.It's not even a "I suppose". Seriously. Ask the men. I'm not saying women don't know what they're talking about. They do, but in their own way. This question should be directed at the men of Seddit. And in response to it, you need to stop worrying about women liking you. Stop trying to figure out which girls like you based on whether they twirl their hair or whatever. Find the girl that YOU like and go after her. If she's the one, she'll say yes. Women rarely just approach. You might be an excep… | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Venusian Arts ScamMaybe I didn't read it close enough but I didn't feel like he was being unnecessary or threatening you, really in any way. You owe him money which he feels he has reasonably tried to collect. He's "threatening" to take away privileges he provides through their boards and coaching. Mentioning your parents might seem a little out there but honestly, that's what's going to happen if he takes it to a debt collector or whatever. It's really more forewarning than threatening you. Just my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Ladies of seddit, I need your input.Why is this addressed to the women of Seddit? | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 07:07 PM |
| 3 | 3 Dates in - EXTREMELY Mixed SignalsI didn't downvote you but it's definitely because of the general tone to your post. Your advice is pretty dead on but starting with What is this I don't even... literally makes every sentence you wrote after make you sound like a huge, huge douchebag. (I've had the same problem in the past, just letting you know) | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?I texted you something along these lines as a response earlier: "The two of you decided it's a no-go? I guess I'll have to settle for just you then" Girl sounds like a total cunt though, exactly the girl I'm after lol. Except that she's Asian. No soul. | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 10:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightTwo different schools of game. I prefer to place my value above the girl's by coming in direct as opposed to trying to lower hers below mine. Both work. | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 06:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightYeah, she was chill. Her friend shit test a lot which was fun. I think I'm a couple months away from aggressively going after those girls and expecting results. | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 03:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightSeriously man. You're really slacking here ;-) | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightOh yeah lol. Hope that helped. Make sure you lean back and project when you're talking though | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightWhich girl are you talking about? And yeah, Persian girl was cool. Come up next weekend lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightHer friend is the married chick | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:51 PM |
| 4 | [FR] – Asking a 7 to Come Home with Me, Making Out with Another and a Genuinely Awesome NightI called you out on your bullshit? I don't remember that... | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:07 PM |
| 3 | What pickup material is actually worth spending money on?Roofies. | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for all of seddit to answerThere are thousands of available single girls out there. Going after any girl with a boyfriend is a lack of abundance mentality in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 07:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Apocalypse opener to kill some approach anxiety and experimentThat's fucking sweet, man. Keep up the good work. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Noticing a lack of feedback on FRs, lets fix that!I'm going to write a field report from last night because I know you'll thank me. Awesome. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 07:16 PM |
| 2 | What do you think a girl would say...How about you go ask a girl this and report back. | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Banging 9s Is Not All It's Cracked Up To BeDa fuck? | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 08:09 PM |
| 10 | HB 10 advice, SedditJust a note, this girl is not a HB10 unless we'd know her name. Not clear on why you think her value is that high but it's definitely a problem. Take this girl off the damn pedestal. | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 07:07 AM |
| 3 | Where to go for more "advanced" strategies?This is why NotLurking is getting annoyed. He isn't a noob. This isn't helpful advice to him. Not saying you aren't correct though ;-) | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 10:50 PM |
| 5 | I did your damn homework last night.. before you even assigned itI don't see you going to as much effort as me, or in fact, just about anyone, to help other guys. It may not be working, but at least you're trying. And so you know I help more guys through Bay Area Seddit than you do with your shitty advice here. It doesn't always have to be the advice people want to hear but trying not being such a fucking dick and maybe people will thank you a bit for doing what you signed up to do. Edit: Also, you should check out the San Francisco Lair (not Bay Area Seddit)… | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Where to go for more "advanced" strategies?In a club. Talk to a girl. Build interest. Eject for w/e reason, go on with your night. Catch her casually looking at you. How do you reapproach? Do you start with attraction, or go into rapport? What if she's with friends? Do you just approach her or her friends first and ignore her? My advice would be to post exactly that as a new submission and see what comes back. If you want the input of more advanced members make it a point to reach out to them to ask for feedback on your specific post. I … | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 09:18 PM |
| 5 | I did your damn homework last night.. before you even assigned itActually, you bitched and whined to me rather extensively about why your life was hard as fuck and mine wasn't when you didn't know me. So I do know a bit. Regardless, I do know what advice you give around here and honestly, sometimes its dead on. But even a stopped clock is right twice a day and the majority of the shit I see you post on here in useless to those asking for help, unbelievably negative and generally not how a moderator should carry oneself. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Where to go for more "advanced" strategies?Be more specific. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I did your damn homework last night.. before you even assigned itTry buying it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I did your damn homework last night.. before you even assigned itDon't listen to throwaway. The guys on Simple Pick Up have extremely solid game. Keep in mind though they are going for show rather than actually trying to close and get the girl so what they do should be taken with a grain of salt. Overall though they're a perfect example of how self amusement is pretty much the key to hooking girls. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 08:58 PM |
| 6 | I did your damn homework last night.. before you even assigned itI really wonder about a ton of the advice you give around here. For a moderator you have to be one of the most closed minded people I've ever come across. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here try Barney Stinsons crazy schemes?Friday or Saturday of this weekend lol. I have too many fun things to do these days. Still need to try the Apocalypse 100 times, now this, plus my 100 set challenge or two lol | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 08:10 PM |
| 14 | Anyone here try Barney Stinsons crazy schemes?Link me a couple openers you want me to try and I'll give one or two ago. Tired of Throwaway's attitude: time to prove him wrong. It's all about having a good time in field. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 05:39 AM |
| 2 | I am ruining girls lives. This isn't fun anymore.You're not making any of these women unhappy. THEY are making themselves unhappy. If anything you've shown them how happy they can be. They should be looking for a guy of your quality and if they aren't finding that it's on them, not you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What are the fundamental differences between a guy with natural game, a PUA and a guy with no natural gameDoes this mean no one who has studied PUA can be a natural? Personally, I think that would be the pinnacle of this stuff. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Kiss Gambit Collection?Hey How's it goin What are you up to later Wanna go home with me? Kiss | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Need some expert advice. Follow up on a former FR with a cover girlCan we get this done already? Invite the 26 gorgeous women. I will sleep with them. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Where to find single women when you are 22?You aren't going to the right bars. Might need to travel further from where you are but that's where the single 22 year olds are. Where do you live? | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Whats your favourite 'Pickup' book?Outer game: Magic Bullets Inner game: The BluePrint Evolutionary Understanding in plain English: The Attraction Code Bonus: The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightOh, I gotcha. Totally my bad. I was wondering why you were stalking guys I wing for a reddit lol. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightOnly thing is that Tofu was no longer in set, it was just me. I agree completely though. I was winging it and had nothing prepared going in but I definitely didn't like the feeling that I was coming in as like the "better" friend or something. Asking that question made it come across that way. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightThe two of you are going to be waiting for quite awhile lol | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightDefinitely misspelled, I've only seen him post once but know him IRL. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 07:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] OK Cupid SNL #3 - Pro-tip: ALWAYS BE CLOSINGThis is one of the sickest streaks I've seen in a long time and you're only 3 days. How many more dates do you have this week? | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 05:41 PM |
| 1 | General Rules for Dating WomenI'm thinking about it... I know what you're trying to get at but like you said, it's being misconstrued. My personal view is the only people I take the time to fight are the ones that deserve a beating, which is pretty much limited to guys that go over the top AMOG'ing me. I don't want to get in a fight with someone not looking for one. Makes me feel like a bully. Not sure if that helps but I'll get back to you if I can think how you should reword it. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:46 PM |
| 2 | General Rules for Dating WomenIf someone picks a physical fight with you, beat the shit out of them. I'm not sure why all the copypasta is necessary. Please read what you have written before responding again. The above is not advocating self defense. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:23 PM |
| 2 | General Rules for Dating WomenIf someone picks a physical fight with you, beat the shit out of them. Yes. You did. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:16 PM |
| 35 | Text game: i miss you?Does it come over needy if you text a girl that you missed her? Yes. /end | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:15 PM |
| 2 | General Rules for Dating WomenThere is a very big difference between being prepared for a fight and actively looking for guys to pick one with you. I'm about to learn BJJ or Krav and if anything I expect these things to prevent the number of fights I'll get in, not the opposite. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightDo eeet | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:11 PM |
| 1 | General Rules for Dating WomenBe cooler than everyone around you. Striving to make this true will prevent you from doing so. It is not a good thing to have in mind. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Peacock LiteAgreed. Don't peacock. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Peacock LiteTouche. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Peacock LiteThe most peackocking I ever do is a bright, bright yellow Brazil jersey that I wear under a nice blazer. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightSF | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightAnother opener from last night: Walk into the middle of 4 Indian girls. Kumar: are you indian? Like all of you Indian girls nod Kumar: deep breath we might be soul mates. Like all 5 of us. Indian girls laugh Kumar: but seriously... How about a fivesome later back at my place Don't really remember where it went from there but walked away a minute or two later after putting blofeld and another in set with these girls. Kind of an apocalypse opener but too many girls to be taken seriously. | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 11:01 PM |
| 24 | Two fun, field-tested openers from last nightKumar: so what was the issue? Girl: he came in with such a lame line! No way I could talk him! Kumar: was mine any better? Girl: ... No... Kumar: ... But you're still talking to me Girl: silence Winning. | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 10:43 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:27 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:26 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:26 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:26 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:24 AM |
| 3 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:24 AM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengehttp://www.reddit.com/r/100sets/ | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 03:24 AM |
| 10 | Hey, Hey Approach Anxiety.... Go Bang Yo'Self!!It bothers me that this comment is getting upvotes from Sedditors | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 06:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] SNL #2 from OK Cupid (setting/keeping frame & being self-validated)Awesome. We didn't have too shabby a night after either lol. I need to work on bouncing girls to even get to the seduction phase. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] SNL #1 from OKCupid (my OKC strategy within)I'm keeping my Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays free if possible lol. Sunday - Wednesday is for closing. No idea what's up tomorrow but you know I'll be out. I'll send a text in your general direction shortly ;-) | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeIts way more about going out there. Honestly, I would start with simply 100 sets. You'll know what you need to work on by the end of that ;-) | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeIf you're designing this challenge based on going out once or twice and drinking too much there are probably much better things you could be focusing. Do you open solidly? Create attraction? Qualify? | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 08:58 PM |
| 6 | [FR] SNL #1 from OKCupid (my OKC strategy within)I have near zero desire to start an LTR right now. I just breathed a huge sigh of relief. See you this weekend. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 08:53 PM |
| 2 | ImKumarYo "Challenge Accepted", now my field reports will be numbered....like this [FR1]Great field report, man. Glad you're taking action. Looking forward to the rest of your reports. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 08:49 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeThat's pretty tight, dude. Thinking about doing something similar. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 08:46 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeUpdate? | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 08:45 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeAwesome man, make sure you're still having a good time though. If you want to go have a couple drinks, do so. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The 100 set challengeEventually yes. For a new guy who is learning game it makes for much faster development if you push way past what's appropriate then learn what level you have to tone it down to. If I personally were to get slapped at this point in my life, you're absolutely right, I probably had a fucking clue and decided whatever it was was worth being slapped over. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeSo confused, trying to multi tast reddit, work and life right now lol | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 06:44 PM |
| 3 | It's time for another installment of seddit gems!Credit: TofuTofu | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 05:04 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeYou are very welcome. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeI might need to just pull 100 sets to the dance floor. Terrible at dancing. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 04:52 PM |
| 0 | The 100 set challengeDepends on how you define success. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 04:51 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengePerfect. Focus on following the method and results shall follow naturally. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeDon't make excuses. Do a 100 set challenge starting now. No one said it needs to be fast. Guys doing 100 opens can be done in 2 weeks, guys opening 9s and 10s may take months to finish. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 04:41 PM |
| 4 | The 100 set challengeOf course, my friend. A set is any group of people in which you have the opportunity to interact with socially. 3 dudes at the bar can be considered a set as can the old lady on the elevator. Most of the time though sets refer to the groups of people you open when you have a target in mind. I'm pretty sure "bounce" is not a technical term but what I mean is moving the girl from one location to another. Like I noted about my first two bounces moving a girl within a venue is what I consider a "min… | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Manwhore: You Must Continue To Lead HerThe man must lead and be able to be completely independent without relying on his woman for emotional validation or motivation for self improvement. This is dead on. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 11:17 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeI can approach a girl with no effort at all in a bar/club/pub, no problem So can I. But I have trouble pulling same night, hence my challenge. Point is that unless you're totally happy with your night game, not just your approaches, you should come up with a 100 set challenge that will take your night game to the next level. Unless you plan to stop night game entirely in which case just focus a 100 day game set challenge. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 11:01 PM |
| 3 | How is this at all sustainable?This is just a personal request from me but please don't downvote links to other websites if you didn't read the article. Lots of great material from other sites gets posted and yeah, its annoying it takes you away from Seddit but it really isn't justified to be downvoting something for that reason rather than what the content linked can bring to individuals on this board. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:40 PM |
| 2 | How is this at all sustainable?I want a woman that I can constantly text/call/talk to, I want to be able to tell her how beautiful she is all the time, kiss her, send her letters, I want to rely on her for my happiness...and I want her to do the same things and feel the same way...but I know for a fact that doing this doesn't work. It turns women away. I think you're missing my point. You can be the affectionate guy you want to be and find a girl who reciprocates that. In fact, I bet you there's a girl out there that's perfec… | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:38 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeI mentioned this in the post but it's not really productive to just set a results oriented goal. I would suggest doing kino escalation as far as possible for 100 sets and by the end you'll be getting consistent kisses. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challenge100 sets in which Kumar feels threatened? ;-) | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:15 PM |
| 5 | How is this at all sustainable?I think you and OP have slightly misguided thoughts on Seddit's relationship advice. You seem to think that what we're talking about here when winning a girl over for the first time holds true all the way through relationships. Nobody on Seddit is telling you to not get close to any one women. That's bullshit. We're simply advocating never relying on a women for your happiness or sense of self worth. Honestly, its not just women. I should not be able to eliminate a single person from your life a… | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:12 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeThe problem with this is that its still results oriented. The point of this exercise is to do everything within your power to improve on your sticking point and it shouldn't matter whether you succeed at first. Aiming to go on a date with 100 girls is a goal, not a challenge (in the sense of the title of the thread. Dating 100 girls is definitely a challenge lol). Its all semantics though, I know what you're getting at and doing it either way will greatly improve your game which is obviously my … | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeThat's the one thing I don't like about threads on Seddit compared to other forums which make it easy to do something like this. We'd probably have to create a new sub for it which seems a bit overkill in my mind. I would note down everyone joining you in this challenge and make it a point to network and keep in touch. Also, the more full field reports you post the quicker you'll improve so might as well spam the boards a little bit. Like I said just make sure to go into one set in detail per fi… | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:54 PM |
| 2 | The 100 set challengeI mentioned this above that this type of goal is not as productive as it could be. You're focusing on results not the process that gets you those results. Ultimately the process is what will help you improve not the results. My suggestion would be to figure out what it takes to get girls consistently on dates after meeting them then setting that as the goal. In this case I would think the goal should be to reach the comfort phase solidly with 100 girls. As long as you get to comfort after the pr… | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:50 PM |
| 1 | The 100 set challengeGiven how much we go out at night I think you should have two challenges. I really think our focus should be on pulling/closing, at night at least. I'm down to join you for the day game challenge though. I assume you're mainly talking about day to day activities, MUNI, etc? | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Can someone help me clarify "sixty years of challenge"'s method?Hey, just noticed you got no replies on here. Honestly, I've never read the method you're referring to nor I have ever heard anyone else mention having read it either. Don't think that's really all that helpful but if you want to expand on what you're looking to clarify... | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:30 PM |
| 1 | One-on-one elevator conversations.I'm not a big fan of Throwaway either. You're both my friends on Reddit though ;-) | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:26 PM |
| 2 | r/seduction, can we have a serious talk about sexually transmitted deceases?I feel like everyone says this. Pretty sure if we polled Seddit virtually no guy would be looking to sleep with as many women as possible. Its just some retarded stereotype we (and all guys) get and even give ourselves. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:21 PM |
| 8 | The 100 set challenge"Went up to girl. Said hi. She screamed 'NO NO GOD NO' and ran off." I see you run game similar to mine, good sir. I should have clarified that you don't have to post every set, only log it. You can do this in a notebook at home, somewhere else online or as a field report. My opinion would be write FRs when you have a good set you want to discuss and include the one line sets to give people an idea of the rest of your night. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Gaming without getting laid -- the two-month updateThat's awesome man, just watch out for that E. This post is a great example of how this shit can help your life out tremendously even if your focus isn't on getting laid. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 08:33 PM |
| 2 | The 100 set challengeThat's the spirit. What are you focusing on for 100 sets? | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Dating within the same group of girlfriends.This could definitely get ugly. Doesn't mean you shouldn't do it but just be aware that if the shit hits the fan the likely way to deal with it is going to be to stop talking to this crowd on a permanent basis. If you're ok with that risk, go for it. If not, find a way to make it happen otherwise ;-) | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 07:29 PM |
| 5 | How is this at all sustainable?I'm not clear what this rut is you are talking about. Honestly, it doesn't sound like you've had very many healthy relationships. These girls do not sound like they're high quality girls. That's just my opinion though from reading this. Regardless, all you have to do to get over whatever rut it is you're talking about is to get out there and talk to people. Improve yourself, take action and make yourself the man women want to be with and you'll find the relationship you're looking for. That's wh… | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Couple of Questions/SituationsMoved in Sunday. Already set up ;-) | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Couple of Questions/SituationsWhen are you going to be back in the Bay, CB? You, NotLurking and I should go out | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you f-close a 'make out buddy'?No lawyer necessary? | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Couple of Questions/SituationsSecond girl actually sounds pretty interested but you have to keep in mind she's a hired gun and is paid to be nice. You might just be the guy who brightens her day at work but she has a boyfriend. Just saying it looks like you're running solid game and its doing good but it doesn't mean she's actually into you. Keep being a pimp and making her day when you see her and you probably want to make a move soon. Just don't be surprised if you get shot down for a totally legit reason and when it happe… | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Couple of Questions/SituationsCould it be that I should have shut off my "game" once we were outside and focused my attention on building deep rapport? Letting her get to know you would definitely lead to her thinking you're an asshole ;-) Seriously though, that wasn't the issue. You're more likely to be called an asshole for running game. I'm guessing you probably just overdid it a little when you were talking to her. Honestly, if she was serious about it when she called you an asshole the problem occurred well before then.… | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 06:08 PM |
| 8 | How do I act around coworker I've developed oneitis for, while killing the oneitis altogether?Stop initiating interactions with her. Go fuck ten other SINGLE women. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Heckz and my souls are not dead. Give us challenges.You gave the most serious response to this thread actually lol. You get in on those free ones because you know the girl though, right? I guess I should probably do the same though. Tell you what: come up to the City and I'll join you for one of the events ;-) Also, didn't mean to insult speed dating, know you enjoy it. Definitely is a challenge, its not like I think I'm too good for it lol | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Heckz and my souls are not dead. Give us challenges.The girl has to be real? Fuck. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Heckz and my souls are not dead. Give us challenges.Thank god my boss is out of the office. Totally inappropriate but I laughed so hard at this. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 08:49 PM |
| 2 | xpost from pics, but conveys a seddit mentalityWow man, you have this all wrong. Seriously you're not even close. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Heckz and my souls are not dead. Give us challenges.Thanks bud, but not interested in paying to meet girls like that. Maybe when I'm making way too much money. For the time being I can meet so many at the bars its not even funny. And we know all the possibilities, we're just looking for an actual challenge :-) | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How I've failed with this girl,yet learned a lot in process... thanks to the community.Winning. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 08:01 PM |
| 3 | My soul is dead. Give me challenges.NotLurking posted a field report from last Saturday night using this opener. http://www.reddit.com/r/BayAreaSeddit/comments/j4y68/fr_sat_nite_in_the_pa/ It's a pretty good report overall, the opener is towards the end. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 07:02 PM |
| 4 | My soul is dead. Give me challenges.I'm on your side. You sound like you need some challenges. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 06:58 PM |
| 3 | dangerously close to friend zoneIs there anything I can be doing/am doing wrong that might get me permanently put into the friend zone? Having sex with her would help. Seriously, if you haven't closed and removed yourself from being considered as just a friend you need to do so ASAP. Kiss her tonight if its not already too late. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Reddit, I am so fucked off at my inability to take action. Please help.I have lurked around here for a while, read the side bar, read book after book, video after video and podcast after podcast. Yet there is something that is stopping me from having what I want. That's because reading the sidebar, book after book and video after video is not going out and actually doing the thing. Stop assuming you'll just be able to do this stuff because you've read it in a book. I probably have the least AA of anyone I know and I still have moments like this. The point is that y… | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Great success!I have nothing to add. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 09:09 PM |
| 0 | What is the PUA dress code?Relevant | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Where to start? Where to begin?The Game is not good material for learning though it is a very fun read. Make sure you're aware of this, OP. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Where to start? Where to begin?Who gives a fuck whether they are giving you a "nonverbal invitation". Go say something anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I need help with approaching girls in public.When I see a girl I'm interested in, in public and she's ALONE how should I go about approaching her? "Hey, I'm Sam" and see where it leads to? How do I know when to go in for the kill and get her number? How can I tell if she's interested or not? Stop trying to bite off more than you can chew. Stop worrying about getting the number or being able to tell if she's interested. By your own admission you can barely even open right now (though you clearly did well in your example set). Break it down.… | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Where am I messing up? Frustrated..How quickly are you kissing them? | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 08:57 PM |
| 2 | So my ex, mother of my kids, who left me and I was just getting better from, txts me...I don't think this is one any of us can answer for you, bud. You gotta figure out what is going to make you personally the happiest. Only thing I have to say is your relationship should be built on trust. If you can't trust her, you're setting yourself up for later down the road. At the same time, getting back together with her might be worth it just for time with your kids which obviously has to be factored in. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?Winnar. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Need help breaking outYou're in luck if you're near... Tokyo Los Angeles The SF Bay Area New York City Seattle Otherwise get out there and network, talk to everyone, number close guys and hit them up when you go to the bars. Use OK Cupid or anything else to meet a girl or two so you have a little abundance then hit the bar game hard. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 04:35 PM |
| 2 | What To Do When Self Esteem Is At A New LowRead, network online, there's tons of things you can do that will make a huge difference in your life and have you better prepared for when you can get back out and can do the shit you want. Have fun with it, there has to be stuff you'll enjoy doing in your current situation even if that situation sucks. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 04:31 PM |
| 2 | possible SNL foiled by LMRThe only input I have is I make it a point never to sound bitter about things not getting as far as they like. I've always felt like doing so makes you sound needy but that's just my opinion. Not sure about your delivery on the "it could have gone better thing". If she takes that the wrong way she may not want to see you again. Playing it cool when she's that turned on but still not putting out would get you the lay later. Also, important question: What's your game plan now? Sounds to me like yo… | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 07:47 PM |
| 2 | possible SNL foiled by LMRThis would have been good. You're just such a great guy she didn't want to put out first night and ruin her impression ;-) | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 07:43 PM |
| 5 | HB wants to hook-up again but I'm not interested. Advice?Honestly, no_fucks_to-give is correct that you're going to look like a dick no matter what. With that being said there are still better and worse ways of doing this. I always advocate for honesty. If you don't want to hook up with her again then don't. It's not fair to you, it's not fair to her. My personal opinion is you should tell her but ignoring her or any other way works as long as she gets the hint. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 11:23 PM |
| 14 | When does your age start to matter?I was quite the pimp in preschool. It's been all downhill from there... | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 02:18 PM |
| 1 | I lived too much by seduction "rules" and now I've found a girl who doesn't really respond to this stuff. Good story.btw, I'm really new at this seduction stuff. I was in relationships for 5 years and only became single 3 months ago. No offense, bud, but this summarizes your entire post. You have no idea what you're talking about. You haven't even pointed out what it is that she doesn't like that is "gamey" or whatever but trust me, there is nothing special or different about this girl, only that you've known her for a long time. That alone changes all the dynamics. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Douche Bag of Epic Proportions (the_kitten, et al)Come on meow, Alpha_Cat, you have no fuckin clue what you're talking about. You're calling out ImKumarYo??? Really?? I guarantee you I'm much more of a dick than he is. Why'd you pick him? You definitely are. Not only am I Indian, I'm also a saint. Meow! | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Douche Bag of Epic Proportions (the_kitten, et al)"Sarcastic, douchey, biggest asshole I've ever met, but at the end of the day I know you care and you're a genuinely nice guy" seems to be the theme among the ladies I get along with but yeah, you're close enough ;-) | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Douche Bag of Epic Proportions (the_kitten, et al)I have no investment in okc. Literally used it twice months ago. For the record. Other than that good points. Oh and so you know, it's a girl, not a fellow sedditor. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Douche Bag of Epic Proportions (the_kitten, et al)How come the_kitten got a shout out in the title but imkumaryo didn't? What a joke. In all seriousness though, here's a quick response, seeing as you called me specifically out: 1) What are you trying to do with this thread? If the point is at all trying to make myself and the_kitten feel bad and change our ways then YOU are manipulating us. Absolutely everything in social interaction is manipulation in one way or another. Everything has some influence. Do not criticize us for simply choosing to… | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 09:04 PM |
| 12 | Seddit, I need some clarification...I think it really depends on the person. Personally I'm not a one night stand type of guy but I'm focusing on same night lays because I want the ability to have it should I so choose. I have no interest in cheating on girls when I'm with them or sleeping with girls for the sake of sleeping with girls. But when I do want to find a woman, whether it be for the night or long term, I want to have as much control over who I get as possible. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 06:05 PM |
| 1 | One thing I've never really understoodNo. This is not for the weak of heart though. When you walk up to a girl like this you have to be ultra confident and you have to stay congruent with that throughout. Actually I guess you would want to pull as quickly as possible but I don't think that is any different from a usual set. Girl I've been seeing for a couple months now I opened tremendously direct and took over a month to close on originally. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Any suggestions on self improvement?Here's what I've personally done: Fitness (13 lbs muscle) Speed reading Extensive reading of body language and reading people (used to play poker) Networking Financial independence Career Appearance (dressing better, haircut, etc) I'm sure I'm forgetting more. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 01:09 AM |
| 2 | One thing I've never really understoodI don't think it's possible to answer this though Frogma does a pretty good job. It's pretty much experience which helps with your congruency. I'll try to think of something more productive for ya next time we hang out. Oh, second point. You can come up and show interest right off the bat. The key is to do it in a non-needy way. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Seddit 27kLink? | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 09:01 PM |
| 28 | Nexting someone...Are you technically together? If not, just stop texting her. Chances are she'll get interested again and if not, you get the exact same outcome you're talking about now. Just don't react, stop texting her, live your life and that's that. Whatever happens happens, you'll be fine either way. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Teach me about OKCupidThis was TheEngDude's doing, wasn't it? | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 07:32 PM |
| 2 | When does one consider themself a PUA?I'm pretty sure I'm very, very close to being considered a "pua" by most. Honestly I hate the term though and never want to consider myself one or be considered one. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 06:34 PM |
| 3 | When does one consider themself a PUA?I'm guessing this is getting downvoted for saying opening is easy but you're dead on with that and every other point. Hope more people see the value in your response. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 06:32 PM |
| 3 | REMINDER: If your post doesn't show up on the front page of seddit immediately after posting, message the mods.I didn't listen to what you posted because I'm on my phone but I appreciate the effort. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there an "advanced" seddit?You are not the only one but we don't have a section that really caters to the advanced. I would suggest posting asking for feedback from the better guys or do what I do which is know who those guys are and message them asking for feedback whenever I post a thread. | /r/seduction | 19/07/11 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Where do you draw the line between being persistent and pushy?The worst that can happen is she actually just says no. If she's giving legitimate reasons for delaying go for it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/11 10:47 PM |
| 16 | On "Cheating"That guy sounds like an insecure douchebag but he does have a point about how women react to you having options. Personally, I sleep with multiple women without cheating. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Just make them laugh?Glad to hear it. Good luck out there. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Just make them laugh?Alright, here's how you start then. First, identify the awkward situations that OTHER people ALSO think are hilarious and insert your humor there. Second, as long as you're not talking about making fun of people in a mean way, it just takes a little calibration to make you quite likable. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Just make them laugh?Oh wait, you're serious? My game is all humor based. Ask away. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 06:42 PM |
| 27 | Just make them laugh?No. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 06:30 PM |
| 5 | field report :(Awesome field report, bud. Most guys have trouble making that move to kiss a girl, drunk or not. Focus here on actually going after what you wanted and turn that into a habit. Eventually it will come. Every question you're asking about this interaction though is a waste of our time and your time. It's not important what any of them think. What's done is done. Ask questions that will help you get better, get answers, apply them and move on. | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What I WantPardon my french | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What I WantWhat the fuck are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, Recently Single, Going to My First Wedding Since. Advice?Would this wedding happen to be in the SF Bay Area? I'm hitting a wedding tomorrow as well. | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, Recently Single, Going to My First Wedding Since. Advice?Going to a wedding tomorrow, this shall be used. PA tomorrow night? | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 08:13 PM |
| 1 | A Most Adroit ManeuverI think you're missing my point. Regardless of whether you can say that about any piece of game (not agreeing or disagreeing), the point here is that when you make a statement like "kiss close every time" it's a simple fact your game must have been EXTREMELY SOLID up until that point. Not acceptable as you state, not good. Extremely good. For you to have anything close to that kind of close rate (which by the way I'm not even taking literally) these girls must have already been very, very close … | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 02:00 AM |
| 5 | A Most Adroit ManeuverI've never received anything less than a K-close with this one Then your game is extremely solid and was solid in all the sets you've ever used this on. I'm guessing you don't use it on very many sets, just the ones that are you're pretty sure would find this amusing. Don't give noobs the idea that there are magic lines that work every time. With that being said, I'll probably try this at some point to get a girl whose already hooked isolated. | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?I've been really out of it past couple days, tired from my new job though that's not an excuse for poor reading skills. My apologies. I agree about the whole calibration thing but keep in mind there is a huge difference between calibrating yourself and calibrating with a girl. They are two very separate things. That being said, I think I read what you said in the wrong context. You are correct. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?Have an upvote. We would definitely know each other if we were in the same area. I do plan on posting videos in the future, trying to get on my feet in SF first though in August. Always open to a little friendly competition. | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?If you don't know how your not a PUA your a creeper, and its really that simple unfortunately. You should really work on not being such a condescending douchebag online. I have no idea whether I'm better than you or not but I can say I'm pretty good and would be considered a PUA by most despite me hating that term. I'd be more than happy to back that up in person. You don't see me sitting here and telling you you're not a PUA for disagreeing with me. Have a little respect for those who haven't s… | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?I reread his response and definitely misread it the first time. Still think its poorly explained to say the least and his original point about good looking guys doesn't address the question at all. Being good looking has nothing to do with calibration. Good looking guys need just as good calibration as we do. | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?What? | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 06:57 AM |
| -1 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?This is a load of bullshit. Better looking guys than you may have it easier but doesn't mean you can't achieve the exact same thing. I am not good looking but I make the most of what I have and I get girls to hook by going direct and being genuine exactly like is asked. | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever approached women without giving a damn about how she might react while simply being genuine and sexual? How did it go?This is what you're supposed to do. Edit: It went okay | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 04:48 AM |
| 2 | day gameA) where do you live. B) bookstores, grocery stores | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 01:56 AM |
| 2 | What's your opinion on swearing? Okay, not okay?I use swearing about little things to set myself apart, mainly because guys that are trying to impress girls don't do it much. I definitely avoid being crude or rude though when doing it, just harmless f-bombs for emphasis here and there. Only reason it gets on my nerves sometimes is its one of the few adjustments I have to make when I get to my job every day. | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 02:08 PM |
| 6 | People keep asking me if I'm drunk"I'm high on life" Though in my case I'm usually actually high. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 11:51 PM |
| 4 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.Are you getting a lot of out this AMA? It's adding value for a lot of the guys here and I'm thinking of doing one soon as well. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Help! I've got awful game and limited time.Uh, good luck buddy. This isn't something you just learn in a week. Best advice I can give you is go out and have a good time. Easiest way to be naturally attractive. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Has a target ever realised what you're doing?It will happen to you in far less than 1 out of 100 sets. Probably 1 in 500. It is not something you should be thinking about or worrying about. And taking the time to prepare yourself for such an unlikely occurrence is a waste of your time and resources. Focus on something that happens in every set. Like opening. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Can't get off the puppet string...help (NOOB)Try hitting enter a couple times sporadically. That wall of text is absurdly difficult to read. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 12:36 AM |
| 16 | I'm TofuTofu. Ask Me Anything about Japanese girls.Not sure if I'd go as far as "normal"... | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 10:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)I'm an exception, I believe. I go out with 10 or so sedditors a week in the bay area and only myself and SnarkyMcChode manage to smoke on a regular basis (all the time) without it destroying our game. Sounds like you guys know yourselves well and that's what it's about. Good luck in the field, bud. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 10:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)To each their own. Weed has the opposite effect on me. Light one up, want to talk to everyone. It's all about knowing yourself (be congruent, yo) | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 08:33 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)Read your first thoughts, gave you upvote, skipped to comments lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The fundamental key to success.This. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Going out more often w/ friends, need a gameplan for solid improvementOpen, open, open until you can start a conversation with anyone. Then figure out how you want to attract girls (most guys drop DHVs, I use humor). After you figure how you want to do it, go out and get into every set possible and focus on that. Then the next stage, then the next. Important thing is to break it down and focus on the first part of the interaction you need work on. In other words you and your boy don't need to focus on comfort, qualification or seduction if you can't attract. So ye… | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Taking a girl I'm interested in to bikram yoga? What does seddit think?If we tell you it's a bad idea, will you change your plans? What you should be asking is how to make the most of the date you already have arranged ;-) | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Qualifying resources + adviceSearch "qualification" on Seddit. I made a long post about it that seemed to help people. | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 03:36 AM |
| 3 | The Cheat Code: My Contribution to SedditWe don't advocate blatant lying to base relationships on, we advocate for white lies that help guys learn the concepts. Pretending to be something you are not when you're doing more than just harmless chat in a bar is really inappropriate. | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 03:29 PM |
| 1 | A Must Read To Get Real Success...You should be trying to find friends to do this with. It's not going out 4 times a week, it's hanging out with your chill buddies 4 times a week and opening girls while you're there. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 08:28 PM |
| 3 | A Must Read To Get Real Success...Seriously man. Just hit the enter key twice sporadically. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Is r/seddit for real?I personally started with David DeAngelo back in the day. I've been a part of the community since and yes, its all about core principles. People think its manipulative because often times noobies will use routines, lines and other made up material in order to help learn how these core principles work. All of that stuff functions essentially as training wheels. So yes, its all about the principles. The other thing is that YOU are the one who applies all this crap. If you read something that sound… | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Random field-tested opening line of the day: "Ladies, I sent five innocent lobsters to their grave today. Console me."The reason people seem to be having trouble comprehending this working is because they think it's "weird". It's not. It's different and creative. The statement is meant to catch a girl off guard but the meaning is still very clear. Hence it isn't weird or confusing, it's simple but unique. All about spin control ;-) | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Random field-tested opening line of the day: "Ladies, I sent five innocent lobsters to their grave today. Console me."It's not. Its another way of saying "hi, I ate lobster for dinner tonight" | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Random field-tested opening line of the day: "Ladies, I sent five innocent lobsters to their grave today. Console me."Not only will this work like a charm it also DHV's with the whole lobster eating thing and the sheer courage to go up to girls and demand they console in such a humorous way immediately sets you apart from the vast majority of the competition. | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 05:52 PM |
| 9 | IAMA Mark Manson of Practical Pick Up Q&A!Looks like I'm throwing my approach coach idea out the window... thanks for this, Mark. All of your responses have been unbelievably insightful. This one particular opened my eyes up to where I actually am development was. Needed a wake up call and this is a start. | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Help me try to understand this. I really don't know..Are you kidding me, dude? Read all the damn responses. | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Some useful frame exercisesFormatting, bud. Pretty rough to read at the moment. | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 12:17 AM |
| 9 | Help me try to understand this. I really don't know..You need to move on from this girl. Even though your opening seems pretty weak just doing so puts you ahead of probably 90% of the guys out there. At this point though, you're clearly making her uncomfortable. She's pretty obviously trying to avoid you and you know that. She straight up told you what you did was strange. It's not a bad thing, it just means you weren't well-calibrated. And hey, that's why we're all here. But seriously, leave this girl alone, nothing good is going to come of it. I… | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 12:07 AM |
| 2 | As a way of saying "thank you" to the Seddit community, I'm giving away one subscription a week to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS to the first Sedditor to respond to each weekly post.Geaux, you're such a tease | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 09:16 PM |
| 2 | As a way of saying "thank you" to the Seddit community, I'm giving away one subscription a week to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS to the first Sedditor to respond to each weekly post.I skipped your whole post after getting to "11". Let's play. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 08:46 PM |
| 2 | In the interest of starting fresh...A) Social proof is one thing that helps attraction. Not having it does not kill your game and is not an excuse not to roll solo. B) Google some goddamn bars. Try a couple for yourself. Seriously you're just looking for excuses to not go out. There are plenty of bars in Atlanta. Find one and go there. It's infinitely better than not going out because you haven't found the "right" one. Just don't get shot. C) In an example of how networking works, one of my good friends who was huge in my developm… | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 08:46 PM |
| 2 | In the interest of starting fresh...Where are you located? Have you tried finding other PUAs and making friends with them? (Notice I say "make friends" and not "find wings") If you can do that your problem is solved. Rolling solo: I've been in the game for a long time and I still am not very comfortable on my own (in a bar atmosphere that is). Here's the way I look at it when I do roll solo though: the vast majority of sets that you'll open you'll do so alone, even if your friends are standing 10 feet behind you. Think about that.… | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 08:32 PM |
| 2 | In the interest of starting fresh...Sounds like she led the entire date. You didn't kino at all from the sounds of it. Also, you make it sound like you're asking for general help in the beginning but all this is is a field report. Edit: suggestions on where to start? Suggestions regarding what? | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Just looking for some adviceThis is not how you win a girl. For future reference. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:58 PM |
| 2 | I can't help, but feel beta. Any free links to books for my inner game. It's really taking over. I know I have one girl-itisCareful with this one. I really think its only good for those that already have a solid grasp on game. Might really fuck with a noobies head. Just my opinion though. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm frogma. AMA.I'm talking about your background with the game. You mention in your post what you consider yourself good at but we have no idea the path you've taken to get where you are. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on body language?The idea behind all the routines and most of the material provided is to give you the confidence to naturally fix your body language. Body language on Seddit is primarily emphasized through "delivery". | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:19 AM |
| 1 | 17 year old awkward teen would like some advice.Also check out the high school section, should be linked in the sidebar as well. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:17 AM |
| 1 | 17 year old awkward teen would like some advice.Sidebar. Delete this thread. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Taking a break from gameIt may not be necessary but getting into better shape than you are now will help you with women. Period. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Taking a break from gameI'm between 5'8 and 5'9 and was 140 back in Nov. Crossfit 4 times a week + the GOMAD diet (check r/fitness) and I'm now at 153, almost all muscle. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Juggling between multiple girls without lying to anybodyIt sounds like when they're asking you know they want the response they're giving. You have to be aware when a girl is ACTUALLY asking you at which point I usually sit them down, say something along the lines of "Hey, I think you're awesome and perfect .... but we're not exclusive" | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Who are your favorite Seddit posters?TofuTofu. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 03:17 AM |
| 7 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?I'd like to add that this advice is good for you to start but don't let it limit you. You can start talking to anyone. Right now. Don't avoid that so you can start with your first cousins. The point of this advice is if you're starting out building a social circle make sure to take full advantage of the relationships that will make it easiest to start. Like family and friends of family. | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Stuck on a text, need to seal the deal but don't know what to say!Thank you, I thought of it myself. | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm frogma. AMA.Very good idea. A little more information about yourself might be nice so we can get to know you better as well. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Seddit i need your helpMagic Bullets for foundation. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit, should I go for it? [more inside]I can't wait to game in India. Sleeping with an Indian celebrity is on my bucket list. Edit: a female Indian celebrity | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:18 PM |
| 2 | So, Seddit, what's the weakpoint in your pickup chainmail?Ok, your question is how do you fix it? Follow the Di Carlo ladder until you close or get blown out for 100 cold approaches. By 30 or 40 you'll have it down, by 60-70 you'll be so bored with it you won't want sex. Maybe not that last part but you get the idea. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:16 PM |
| 19 | Stuck on a text, need to seal the deal but don't know what to say!"Challenge accepted. Tomorrow night, my place. Is there a particular movie you want playing in the background while we (fornicate/have sex/play hide the sausage/fornicate under the consent of the king (fuck)/just the tip)" You get the idea. I think she'll get the implication pretty clearly. Or: "Challenge accepted. Tomorrow night, my place. Is there a particular movie you want playing in the background while we.... watch it?" | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:12 PM |
| 2 | So, Seddit, what's the weakpoint in your pickup chainmail?Get the Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game by Lovesystems. It'll help your text game and the concepts all carry over to normal texting, conversation and sets. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:09 PM |
| 2 | So, Seddit, what's the weakpoint in your pickup chainmail?OP: have you read the Vin Di Carlo escalation ladder? | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:08 PM |
| 1 | So, Seddit, what's the weakpoint in your pickup chainmail?Closing the first night. Solving this by getting my own place then doing a kino escalation challenge. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Short dudes: two schools of thought. What are your opinions? Ladies encouraged to comment too!You know I'm 5'8, right? | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:04 PM |
| 3 | [FR] HB9 that I've previously tried to game came into my work today.Wrong. The whole point was to give your relationship a chance to move along. Something that would not be possible without the phone number or extenuating circumstances. Getting the phone number is something you should feel awesome about (you're awesome) but it's not an end goal by any means. Second, keeping in mind that you were at work it was still a boring follow up text to send no matter what you're trying for. (I'd also like to add that I use the same text you did often and its just as non-i… | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 08:20 PM |
| 6 | [FR] HB9 that I've previously tried to game came into my work today.Your standard follow up text is boring. It's exactly what it should be only if you have nothing else to say. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 08:02 PM |
| 49 | For all the guys who ask "what does this mean?" or "does this mean she's interested?"ALWAYS ASSUME ATTRACTION When I saw the thread title and clicked I told myself I was giving up on Seddit if the exact words above were not in the post. Well played, OP. Dead on. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 07:53 PM |
| 3 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!5'9 Indian here. Welcome to the club. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 01:34 PM |
| 0 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!He responded to yours. I removed mine so as not to clutter the thread. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:37 AM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!I just realized we met in Orlando about a year ago. I came from Tampa to kick it with some of the guys after the 21 convention and met you and another speaker for awhile. We were just kicking it for an hour or so by the elevators of the hotel. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:35 AM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!I like my style more ;-) May the best man win. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:30 AM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!On it. But only if you promise to get a place with Heckz and me in SF soon. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:23 AM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!About to move to a place in SF. Already live in the bay and have good amount of friends there. Planning to branch out and build a network and places to frequent as quickly as possible but any thoughts on starting in a new place? | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Need pro-level advice only, I just got out of an extended breakup after a two year relationship and need to get back on the saddle.I was actually just looking for a random thread to hijack with you. I'm thinking about rewriting all of his point summaries in "healthier" language. His stuff has value but its really really fucking dangerous for noobies because of the mindset it creates. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Need pro-level advice only, I just got out of an extended breakup after a two year relationship and need to get back on the saddle.Honestly, man, its really easy but really hard. You just have to stop focusing on all this and just go out and have a good time. Stop focus on getting laid. If you really want focus on being social with your best friends where there are girls. Its easy in theory but it takes time. There is no quick fix to it, everyone needs time after a rough break up. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Need pro-level advice only, I just got out of an extended breakup after a two year relationship and need to get back on the saddle.This. By the way, Throwaway: read over the Art of Seduction. You were dead on. That guy is a manipulative psychopath. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 01:21 AM |
| 3 | EPIC SUNDAY: Picking up a Princess and more - PART 2 (pics)I didn't realize make the connection with who you were from previous posts. I guess I'll go back and actually read these damn posts now ;-) Nice job, only reason I looked was the photos... thought process was "I recognize that guy from that other thread. She's hot, I'll read the report" | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How to get past a wall, generally speaking ofcourse?You're still being extremely vague. Perhaps you should try being concise and to the point rather than.... Whatever this is | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 01:50 AM |
| 3 | How to get past a wall, generally speaking ofcourse?What the fuck are you talking about | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 01:18 AM |
| -1 | What is the best material for learning how to build sexual tension?Not a specific enough question. No idea what you're asking. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 08:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Something observed out in the field (along the lines of natural female competitiveness) that there might be a way to take advantage of.The end is not good, but maybe you can take the lessons and put them into action. I suppose this is a FU, but lessons were learned, which means it wasn't a total loss, so here I will share. There is no such thing as a fuck up when you approach. You succeeded by approaching you just still have things to work on. Basic mentality shift that will take you a long way. Now before you come at me with "where was your neg?" Only noobs will ask you that. About not finding the girl again/this being a fuck … | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 08:11 PM |
| 3 | If you're using OKC more than you're going out...I'm no longer on OKC but even when I was it was a no-no to be on there Thursday-Sunday. Using it can definitely help you develop your game but it's not a solution or anything near a replacement for real social interaction. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 08:08 PM |
| 8 | Very easy trick for better sex :pI shall try this this week and report back. (I'm not actually going to report back though) | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 08:06 PM |
| 3 | The two compliments that are most often used to describe me are "cute" and "nice".Now you're thinking. The question you asked had a very simple answer, the one I gave. The one you're asking now is much more on point so here's your relevant answer: The advice we give on Seddit makes every man more attractive regardless of where they are starting off at. None of it only works for attractive men, it just works for them better. So, again, no there are no different strategies you should be using, just be aware that you may have to work harder at attraction and other things than th… | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever successfully stolen someone's girlfriend using PUA know-how?Nope, nor do I have any interest in doing so. More than enough single girls to go around. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, I ask for your help.Did anyone else notice OP's username? | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 05:58 PM |
| 2 | The two compliments that are most often used to describe me are "cute" and "nice".Let's be clear on one thing: I'm wasting my time helping you. You may not like what I have to say but I'm correct and my point is valid. You're welcome. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 05:51 PM |
| 5 | The two compliments that are most often used to describe me are "cute" and "nice".You're inquiring about something that you can do nothing about. And even if you could, looking like a bad boy or being handsome will not solve your problems. Not even close. It may not be whining but its a damn sure waste of time. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 01:32 PM |
| 3 | The two compliments that are most often used to describe me are "cute" and "nice".Not really. Is there anything you can do about your "babyface" or that you're not handsome or bad boy-ish looking? Not really. Hence discussion is not worth. Focus on something you can improve instead of whining about shit that's out of your control. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 03:59 AM |
| 6 | The two compliments that are most often used to describe me are "cute" and "nice".No. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Willing to compile a bunch of motivation for those having trouble approaching. You interested?How on Earth is opening hard if you already figured it out? Perhaps we're both just naturally awesome in our own ways? | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 11:42 PM |
| 19 | Inner-Game ExerciseI can't believe I just sat here and watched that. | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 09:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] multiple # closesDon't even fret, bud, I got this shit ;-) First of all, should be getting a place in SF within a month where I'd be living with another sedditor. That's not even going to be fair. Second, it's actually fun having the challenge of pulling girls elsewhere. I have to build a lot of comfort usually to get them to do it late at my parents or in the car but whatevs, it works out. | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 09:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] multiple # closesDo you keep regulars or is it more of a once or twice and done type deal? I don't currently have the logistics to get SNLs so I go for the latter. | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 07:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] multiple # closesHope you don't mind me inquiring about this but it'll tell a lot more about your game than this report (which is pretty sweet btw): what's your dating situation like at the moment? You're clearly able to open and hook a lot of girls but how are you doing with day 2s and etc? | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I have reached the point of Zen.Aw, I feel like I made a new friend today! | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What Seduction techniques should I practice with an entire week free?Couple things to this... You aren't going to get good at game in one week. Focus on what you need to write now and try to blow through it this week. If you're just starting read up on openers and get your ass out there. If you can already open, focus on staying in set or kino. Don't overthink it. Asking "what techniques" to practice is already a weak mentality. Just go out and be social and actively learn from every experience from what you've read on here. Going in with a mentality of I need to… | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Willing to compile a bunch of motivation for those having trouble approaching. You interested?Throwaway is correct on this one. It's not different problems for different folks. Opening is WAY easier than any other step. Escalation is harder, attraction is WAY harder. Its going to depend from guy to guy but don't get confused that opening is harder than anything just because you can't do it right now. Trust me, you'll figure it out soon and when you do its the easiest fucking thing ever. Even when you figure out attraction its difficult to do in set. | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 06:48 PM |
| 6 | I have reached the point of Zen.Feels good, man | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Opinion from people who know: Hot ColdThis. Every girl is unique and should be treated as such. | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Girls get suspicious of me and I come off as a mistrustful character from time to time. How do I avoid this?Not to be a smartass but you're probably considered mistrustful because you... lie. | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I have a great opportunity and am looking for some advice.Two things: focus on remembering everyone's name at the end of the interaction. They'll like you more. Also: smile. | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 06:44 PM |
| 1 | I need PUAs or Men who have haremsI'll at least fill out a questionnaire. PM me. | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Not seduction but this, in my humble opinion, is an Alpha. Not the biggest or the toughest but he stood up for the right thing when no one else would (X-post from somewhere else - Vancouver Riots)Keep fighting the good fight, bro. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Not seduction but this, in my humble opinion, is an Alpha. Not the biggest or the toughest but he stood up for the right thing when no one else would (X-post from somewhere else - Vancouver Riots)It's a small battle but he's trying to defend his city. Has nothing to do with the car and everything to do with people doing what's right (or just not rioting in this case) | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Not seduction but this, in my humble opinion, is an Alpha. Not the biggest or the toughest but he stood up for the right thing when no one else would (X-post from somewhere else - Vancouver Riots)I disagree. The guy standing up to those skateboarding punks was in very little danger. Worst case he takes a shot or two. And he's making a point about everything that is going on. That entire situation was retarded but stopping it has to start somewhere. You can continue to wait for others to lead and follow blindly like the majority of the rioters. Or you can be a boss, stand up for what's right and give people some faith again. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I've been noticing a lot of female interest in seduction...Shortly, for ImKumarYo: Thanks for the summary there, buddy. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, I've been noticing a lot of female interest in seduction...Because it's not different enough to warrant a separate discussion of material and field reports. It just limits the amount of input you get to high schoolers and uni students who, more often then now, have no idea what the fuck they are talking about. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 06:15 AM |
| 7 | Seddit, I've been noticing a lot of female interest in seduction...I have no issue with the fPUA section. I do have an issue with the high school and uni seddit. That's bullshit. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in the subway?Yes, that's what I meant to say. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Rob Judge is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME!Once you lock-down a girl for the night, turn the "community" part of your brain off. Holy fuck. So obvious yet I never verbalized it that way. Of course I never close, I'm too busy looking for the next set. Rob, I might love you. No homo. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Rob Judge is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME!Follow up question (thanks to Heckz for pointing out to me I need to improve on this): I've successfully moved to natural game. Despite that, I still give off the player vibe to girls. Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Rob Judge is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME!Any thoughts on getting into the seduction community as an instructor? I know I could already be an approach coach (pretty much am for the Bay Area guys on here). Recent grad searching for jobs with little luck and honestly, this is what I do 3 nights a week, might as well take a shot at making a living on it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in the subway?I don't have much experience with this (yet. about to move to SF) but it's all about natural openers. Being direct might not make the girl feel comfortable because there isn't really anywhere for her to go so using opinion/indirect openers probably makes sense. I'm of direct at night and indirect during the day. That's just my thought process though (and that last part is exactly the opposite of most theory), so try whatever and see what works for you. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Approaching in the subway?No. It's not. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Rob Judge is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME!Rob, I've seen some of your stuff and love the natural approach. It's taken me some time but I've been getting great results with no routines. I'm happy with my results given my current logistics (living at home with the parents) but I'll be getting my own place soon in SF. I was wondering what your general thoughts were on same night lays (as that'll be my next focus) and how natural game can play a part in pulling. If that's too vague I'll think of something else, just trying to give you somet… | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How to practice game without trying to get laid?Listen to Heckz. The man knows what he is talking about. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 09:09 PM |
| 10 | I live with my parents, haven't graduated college, and work a crappy part-time job. Should I even bother?I'm a moderator of Bay Area Seddit, organize and go out with the guys 3 nights a week in SF and consider myself half decent with women. I'm the youngest one of the bar group (23) and I live at home with my parents while working as a valet. So to answer your question: Yes. You should bother. Edit: I'm clearly not embarrassed about it either. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Another example direct opener and essentially a "set" in between sets that became a [solid] # closeThat's exactly why we have canned material. Eventually you won't need it but at the moment having it aids you tremendously. Awesome. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Another example direct opener and essentially a "set" in between sets that became a [solid] # closeThank you. Definitely give it a try. The opener itself isn't too difficult once you get the body language right. The difficult thing is backing it up after making such a first impression. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 08:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Another example direct opener and essentially a "set" in between sets that became a [solid] # closeMy last reply was from my phone. I'll expand a little: Elbo Room is a bar. Try to keep in mind that what you're "supposed to do" is NEVER more than a guideline. Every single "rule" in PUA can be successfully broken. Personally, I almost never follow the 3 second rule yet am happy with my results. On what you mentioned, I've found that direct in bars works best and opinion and indirect openers are better for day game. That's just what I've found and its what I do despite what the "book" says. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Another example direct opener and essentially a "set" in between sets that became a [solid] # closeIt is a bar. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Fake FRs on here?I need to post more of my blowouts. I'm just so direct these days that failing sets don't waste my time and there's nothing to report. "Hi, I'm Kumar, yo, and I think you're sexy, yo" HB9: "Uh, yeah, I can't say the same about you" The end | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Fake FRs on here?Can I ask if you believe that about any of my field reports (check my history if you're not familiar with any)? I get the feeling mine get reactions like what you're saying but as Heckz says elsewhere in this thread, its verified. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 11:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Go Direct, Go Big.Good approach, very direct and actually pretty concise. Shows a lot of confidence and generates instant attraction when successful. Nice job. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 09:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeYou're welcome. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeAh, Snarky, you're finally beginning to hit that point where you don't actually open any sets anymore. You legitly just talk to everyone and turn on your game when its a girl you want. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 08:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeGracias, senor | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 08:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeIt is actually kind of cool given how close in timing our approaches were to the same girl. High Five! | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 08:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeYou're not following my point. There is no general advice to give in this situation. Each one is so unique and different they all need to be dealt with according to completely separate and contradicting "rules". In this case I actually had the obstacle on my side enough that she probably would have looked for any excuse to remove herself from the conversation (bathroom, other friends, etc). Not sure what you mean about offending the non-target. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 08:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeI feel like this is a bit of a cop out but you might have just posed to me the first question I've been asked on here that's just too complicated to answer. How to entertain two girls on your own is a difficult enough science how it is, adding in going direct makes it just too set-specific for me to explain. I could tell you the different ways I could take this particular set but again, they'd be so specific I don't think they'd help transfer over for you into another set. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 06:56 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeAgreed. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 01:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeAwesome, my life is now complete. You been around recently? Haven't seen you on the boards much. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 01:22 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Extremely Direct Opener on 2-set - # closeIf you steal it, I will find you. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Those Rules of Not Giving a Fuck or Whatever. Someone just posted them as an image in r/gm. Looks iPhone background friendly if anyone is interested.Be resourceful and find that shot yourself. Bitches love a resourceful man. (and I'm on my phone) | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Those Rules of Not Giving a Fuck or Whatever. Someone just posted them as an image in r/gm. Looks iPhone background friendly if anyone is interested.Chill, bro. He wasn't acting entitled at all. | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Those Rules of Not Giving a Fuck or Whatever. Someone just posted them as an image in r/gm. Looks iPhone background friendly if anyone is interested.You should find the original post of this from a couple days back here on Seddit. Read the discussion. You can be the coolest on the planet without being better than anybody else the same way the strongest person on the planet is not necessarily better than anyone else. Also, r/gm = r/getmotivated | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Stop believing her excuses. [Text game]We should record a Skype session about this topic. Look at the way you reacted to... some event... If you do this and you're trying to understand all this stuff, imagine how bad it is for a guy that just has no idea what is going on, doesn't try to understand and just gets angry. Seriously, think about that for a second. That's the type of shit girls have to put up with when they pick the wrong guy to consider and he reacts badly. Most of what you're complaining about are simply shit tests. Yes,… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 04:13 AM |
| 8 | Stop believing her excuses. [Text game]PROBAMA, I WANT YOU TO READ THIS VERY CLOSELY BECAUSE I'M YELLING AT YOU. THE GIRL IS NOT SAYING "NO"! SHE'S SAYING "NOT YET"! Think about it. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Did my respect for a fellow man kill my chances?Go for it and be cool with him. You may even get his blessing. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Welp, I'm taking a bootcamp this weekend.Is it in SF? | /r/seduction | 03/06/11 02:31 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Received an IM on OkCupid; Had her in my bed 2 hours later. Breaking down how I did it.I smoke weed. | /r/seduction | 01/06/11 10:54 PM |
| 3 | I don't know how to beginFind wings. If you're at Davis I can hook it up. You need to start going out and talking to people. That's the first step. You don't need to read anything to do that. Just ask people how their day is when appropriate, cashiers, people on the bus, etc. | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Single once again...You're single again? Congrats! | /r/seduction | 30/05/11 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Any inner game book recommendations?The Attraction Code and the RSD seminars (Blueprint and Flawless Natural) | /r/seduction | 29/05/11 03:04 PM |
| 1 | An apology and some questions.Start by talking to everyone. You'll make new friends. You do need to get yourself out to the bars though. Where are you located? | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Grooming Advice - Part 3You clearly haven't been with enough quality women. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 03:49 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Mission 24 - CheckoutBut that is just an excuse, of course. Policing yourself, I like it. You didn't need much more time to close on this girl. You already had her attracted through the confidence in your approach. If you'd focused on quick comfort and qualification you could easily number close and get a call back. Keeping up the solid confidence will keep the attraction high. Even with where you were at I would say you would have succeeded in getting her number a small percentage of the time if you'd just asked wi… | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 03:29 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Mission 24 - Checkoutfree 12 pack of soda if you spend over $25. I only came in for about $7 of stuff so I'm looking for other crap to buy. I'm trying to buy healthier foods lately Trying to eat healthier by adding on until you reach $25 so you get free soda? To each his own :-) And it's always a DHV to be willing to walk away, right? It's badass in theory but when walking away like there's a fucking explosion behind you (pretty much the definition of badassery) it doesn't really help you if it ruins your logistics.… | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 03:17 AM |
| 4 | An apology and some questions.1) It's about being confident in who you are and valuing your time while still being a pleasant guy. You were not valuing your time with this girl when you gave her all of it for nothing in return. It's not a quid pro quo thing but she needs to have earned the right to your time and she didn't. That's why she lost attraction. You could still be nice without listening to her bullshit. 2) Bars. Pre-game and drink water and Red Bull at the bar. Easiest places to find lots of sets and improve fast. … | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 02:54 AM |
| 7 | RFC: REALLY Frustrated Chump seeks help from you all!You need to get it out of your head that you are disadvantaged in the South. Regardless of whether it is actually true or not, all this bullshit you're saying makes it true in your head and your head is what's most important in the game. Focus on getting as many girls as possible in the South and IF its easier elsewhere, you'll have sick game. But worrying about it just leads to whiny threads like this. You definitely have AA under control which is awesome, that's the first step. Just keep work … | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird/creepy to go to a bar alone?No. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Friends are holding me back from meeting girls. What should I do Seddit?Where are you located? Find a wing or two and make friends. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 03:50 AM |
| 1 | from messaging to texting to meeting. okcupid. give me the plan!And that's probably where you're failing with most girls... again, not a good attitude to have. Read up a little bit. Especially on inner game. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 03:40 AM |
| 1 | from messaging to texting to meeting. okcupid. give me the plan!You don't react well. Do you know how I know? Because you're saying you react at all. Girls want to see guys that are above that. What they're doing, when they maliciously try to get you to react, is called a shit test. Again, that's decently basic concept so I'm going to suggest you do a little reading. Sounds like you're already solid naturally but you don't have a true foundation. This was my response to just your first line + two words. I'll finish reading your response now.... Edit: ... alr… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 03:32 AM |
| 2 | from messaging to texting to meeting. okcupid. give me the plan!Couple things. First, don't call her a dumb old bitch. It's disrespectful and generally an unhealthy attitude for anyone to have. Second, you did not get rejected. She responded. That means you still have a chance. Worst case you have someone to go back and forth with so you don't appear needy to other girls. Don't assume you got blown out because you didn't get the number first try. It just means amp it up. Also, you definitely need to reconsider the following: in other words. I am the master o… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I need the essentials to meeting and flirting with womenI was totally serious until those last two lines. Read the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 02:54 AM |
| 2 | from messaging to texting to meeting. okcupid. give me the plan!Think about it this way. What do you want from this girl? Which way best gets it done? I think you know the answer. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 02:31 AM |
| 1 | I need the essentials to meeting and flirting with womenI ran into this problem sometime ago after breaking up with my college girlfriend who wasn't too shabby, to say the least. It took me a lot of time and seddit definitely helped a ton. I suggest putting time into the sidebar as there is a ton of material. I'll warn you though that it sounds like you think this is going to be easy. I've literally been working on this for a year now going out an average of 4 nights a week and I'm only getting good in the past month or two. There is a pretty big sho… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 02:27 AM |
| 4 | from messaging to texting to meeting. okcupid. give me the plan!If these girls are as hooked as you seem to think they are you can just start making plans with them. Example: "I'm flying to Paris to base jump the Eiffel tower. You should join me, I'll need a ground camerawoman for YouTube." Her: "Haha, let's do it!" You: "I feel like logistically I'm going to need your number for this to happen." Her: "REJECTION" ... but seriously, she'll give you the number. First text you send her is call back humor about this trip. Then you move on and get a date. The bea… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Friend Zoned yet again. Fuck everything about this.No, you didn't. To answer your question, the best way to get this girl back is to go out and get as good as possible with all women. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Friend Zoned yet again. Fuck everything about this.I lol'd at this but seriously, let's give him some feedback... | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Friend Zoned yet again. Fuck everything about this.The seduction community about improving yourself, my friend. What happened to you has happened to many of us but you need to get it out of your head that you did everything right. You didn't. There are glaring mistakes just from reading this and I'm sure there were many more along the way. Its a good thing! Focus on yourself and what you can improve on for the next time. Hating her or yourself isn't going to get you anywhere. Best of luck, and please take the feedback from others without getting… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Kudos to SedditYou are absolutely correct: by definition you are not aware of your subconscious. Also, I'll be taking a look at 2XC. Thanks for the thread. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Tips on how to improve your openers - The Pre-OpenerDoes anyone else pre-open verbally? I know the Bay Area Seddit guys have seen me do it multiple times where I'll compliment a girl walking by or make a sarcastic remark that isn't meant to stop or engage her but rather to make her smile and have a positive association with me for future opening (usually 10-20 minutes later though I've preopened at 9 pm and had it pay off at 1:30 am as well) | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Dear Seddit, I'd like to share something with you... (+pics)I'm usually all for people having different perceptions and how the same things can be viewed multiple ways... and I don't mean to sound arrogant or like a know-it-all but... you're bragging, plain and simple, not my perception. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Dear Seddit, I'd like to share something with you... (+pics)I'm not going to lie, your posts on this are definitely going to have me taking a look at this book. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 07:46 PM |
| 1 | jazz and pickupYou clearly don't understand the concept. We're talking about a girl's percieved value not percieved attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 06:25 PM |
| 13 | Dear Seddit, I'd like to share something with you... (+pics)The bragging is totally unnecessary. How good you think you are has nothing to do with your question and I find it highly unlikely you're going to come in here and enlighten us. Repost this with what matters and get feedback. If you have something specific to post about that will add to the community, do so. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Tip: How to increase the chances of a response in a # closePretty sure it's from the ultimate guide to phone and text game also by lovesystems. Nice post, Clutch, should help a lot of guys here. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How long does the conversation regarding YOUR opinion opener last?I'm well aware of the differences between clubs and bars but thank you ;-) | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How long does the conversation regarding YOUR opinion opener last?Haven't tried it yet in clubs but it works for me in bars. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 06:18 AM |
| 2 | How long does the conversation regarding YOUR opinion opener last?Too quick and the opener comes off as a scam, too slow and you bore them. Keep in mind most girls know you're hitting on them. Also keep in mind that if you ask an opinion opener and the girl responds with something you can ask about her, you can transition immediately. The beauty of doing this (especially if you're new) is that when the conversation dies down you can go right back to your opener to get it all flowing again. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How long does the conversation regarding YOUR opinion opener last?Not sure if you're setting the low limit at 2 minutes but if you go direct it'll be much, much faster. | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How long does the conversation regarding YOUR opinion opener last?It definitely depends on the opener. My opinion opener can stay on topic for as long as 5 minutes because its a fun conversation and actually allows me to show a lot of humor and confidence. Currently I transition within about 20 seconds if not faster. Every single time. "Hi, I'm Kumar (yo). You look like you need a guy blatantly hitting on you right now. How's your night going?" | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 02:54 AM |
| 6 | jazz and pickupDo you think women are into most of our DHV's? Do you think they like football or soccer or whatever the fuck it is everyone brags about to women? They don't care. They don't give a shit. All its telling them is that you strive for something in your life. That's the point. So to answer your question: Yes. Being a high level amateur jazz pianist is something you should be mentioning briefly or having brought up in conversation. And to answer your elaboration: You should not be trying to show this… | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 02:49 AM |
| 17 | I'm a female. I'm in love with my best friend. Advice?Work on yourself. That's all seduction is about. Given that you're a women, you're probably going to want to focus a bit on the physical aspect, getting into better shape or more physically attractive. Kinda sucks but its true. Funny thing about that is that not only will your boy like you more for looking better, he'll respond just as positively to the fact that you actually took charge of something in your life and became the change you wanted to see. I don't really think that'll help much but… | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Texting Report: Please analyze and tell me what you think.Why the fuck is this girl telling you about other guys she's seeing? She's pretty much telling you to back off. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 01:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.This is actually one difference I think you will find between America and Japan, reseddit. Trying to pull something like that will work some places but the majority of guys at bars here are not going to sit there and react the way these two did. I don't think you'll get stabbed but guys are not going to sit here and act like little girls or be anywhere near as non-confrontational as most Asian cultures are known for. | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 06:10 PM |
| 0 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.If you have a question, ask it. Don't sit here and whine about lack of detail. He openly stated he'd address anything you guys wanted to know more about. | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.Well played. | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.Really what it comes down to is that thinking what you're saying will only hurt your game. It doesn't matter whether its true or not (so I'm not arguing with you here). Its not the only reason these guys are getting laid, its because they do a fuckton else right as well. Focus on that. Both in your set and in other sedditors and you'll go a long way a lot faster. | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 06:03 PM |
| 0 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.I'm brown in the US and kick ass. Everything you're saying, regardless of whether its true or not, is just going to hurt your game. Edit: let me compare to you. I too am good looking, way too confident, extremely socially active but I work as a valet part time (just graduated college). Oh, and I live at home with my parents. Still want to complain about logistics? ;-) | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 05:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.Good fucking response. Why should you have to spoonfeed everyone? If they have a question they can ask it and if you want, you can respond. You don't owe anyone here shit and people need to be way more appreciative when you, or any of the other good sedditors, take the time to post. | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Moving to San Francisco from England next month - any advice / cultural differences with girls?r/bayareaseddit. I like stereotyping too, its faster. Which football team do you support? | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?I preferred the Flawless Natural by RSD for inner game but just my opinion | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting the DJ Forums Pickup Bootcamp this week. 8 weeks of self-guided exercises assembled in a PDF by one of the forum's members.Exactly this. Everything is about delivery. If you don't think it's possible to get 10 photos from strangers without being creepy it means you need to work on something. Has nothing to do with the act (though there are exceptions) | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Roissy Maxims RemixYou mother fucker. This post was top of my to do list when I got home in an hour. Have an upvote. | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 07:28 PM |
| 4 | A DC taxi driver said this to me this and I thought you guys might like itOn behalf of brown sedditors everywhere I am going to really, really lower my standards and fuck the shit out of your mother. If she's down, which I'm guessing she is, Snarky's going to join us. Best part is that we won't even be assholes doing it because she's going to love it. Edit: PM me your address, please. | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 01:05 AM |
| 1 | For the second consecutive week: Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this…I believe I advocated for or at least said it was ok to read field reports and the like. They can be motivational like you said and help you gain feedback. | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 03:22 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Weird night. Got kicked out of a wine lounge. Told offensive jokesIt sounds to me like he wants to agree with his PUA wing who said it was ok. His natural friends are the ones saying it was inappropriate to say to girls. I get told that all the time by my natural friends but even they concede it works later. | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 08:45 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Weird night. Got kicked out of a wine lounge. Told offensive jokesI defended you against Throwaway above about the humor used but this one is too far in my opinion, even though you got a positive response. I've told the Bay Area Seddit guys this and I'll tell you: I legitimately believe that I can get away with saying virtually ANYTHING in set. Really, the ONLY two topics I don't breach are A) the Holocaust and similar happenings and B) Rape. Simply put, in the first case you're way to likely to really, really offend or hurt somebody and it's not cool or funny… | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 07:30 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Weird night. Got kicked out of a wine lounge. Told offensive jokesReading this field report I really don't feel like Lurk was really an asshole at all. He got kicked out of a wine bar for approaching women. Fine, it happens, but he wasn't being a dick. Second incident his friends are telling him its not cool to jokingly ask a girl if she's native american? I mean, its not the funniest line ever but it is somewhat clever and really, whose it going to offend? | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 07:25 PM |
| 1 | New powerful opener - field approved.It could be argued that none of what you say really matters. | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] You know what, fuck it you read inside if you care. #na-na-na-na-nummmberrr.Nice result but this isn't a field report. | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Great ping that expires after today.I really don't get Seddit sometimes. I posted about an idea for a ping in April and got downvoted to oblivion as well. Anyways, two things. A) if they don't get it it kills all of your emotional momentum. There is literally nothing them not getting it does for you that would allow you to game them better then if they just got it the first time and you moved on. B) I only decided to text it to two girls, one I've been sleeping with who had seen it before, and the other girl I'm working towards fa… | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Whats YOUR favorite story to tell?Last summer when I first started taking this seriously I had a bunch of DHV stories. To the point I had them all written out lol. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Whats YOUR favorite story to tell?Barely. The more I think about it... I barely talk about myself until comfort. Until that point I'll mention little things during attraction and qualification but I mainly run humor based game that drives attraction. I'm going to start recording my sets soon, I'll post a couple. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Whats YOUR favorite story to tell?No but asking an opinion opener is being honest and is a line. Direct and honest != line imo | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Whats YOUR favorite story to tell?Yes and no. I meant I don't really use DHV stories or lines. Openers are different. Still, I don't consider my direct stuff to be lines. "Hey, I think you're cute. I'm Kumar" isn't a line. Its being honest. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 08:31 PM |
| -11 | Whats YOUR favorite story to tell?This won't be helpful to anyone and probably should be downvoted but I just realized I don't use lines or stories in set anymore? | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Whats YOUR favorite story to tell?That's fucking gold. May I steal it? I'm stealing it regardless. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 08:12 PM |
| 3 | [BAFC] Where/How do I start?Let's focus on what you should do right now. Don't get ahead of yourself, there is a lot of shit you're going to have to focus on to get to where you want to be. Do the following today. Re-evaluate at the right time. You'll know when. First, start talking to everyone you can. Start with cashiers and what not, just ask them how work is going, when they get off, what they're looking forward to after, etc Start reading Magic Bullets. Buy it or procure it somehow. Now. Edit: Magic Bullets lays out a… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Great ping that expires after today.I lol'd. Will use and report back results. Edit: better phrasing so girls are more likely to get it the first time: "5/4: May the fourth be with you ;-)" | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Additional materialI'm halfway through Blink by Malcolm Gladwell right now. Very good, seen it recommended elsewhere on seduction boards and couldn't agree more. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 04:09 AM |
| 3 | You aren't fooling anyone...Well played, sir. | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting calm without weedI should probably deal with this problem as well. I continue to live up to my moniker here even in set lol | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 07:39 PM |
| 7 | The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary success: You.I literally lol'd. What Morkskogen was trying to imply was that like all of us, slugs should have tremendously solid inner game. They should all be able to nail the shit out of each other because they're asexual. On second thought though, slugs knowing seduction might fuck it all up. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I failed in my goal to post 10 FRs in April. Give me a punishment.I'm holding you to it. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone noticed the recent lack of seduction discussions on theory and methods?Too lazy to PM. It's a hassle on my phone. I'm interested. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone noticed the recent lack of seduction discussions on theory and methods?Absolutely. I know it's dumb for upvotes and downvotes to bother me but it's been seriously pissing me off when guys post "field reports" about getting laid with no insight and get 50 upvotes. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary success: You.We do have sweet memes though. Cavemen would be jealous. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 05:59 PM |
| 5 | The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary success: You.Thank you for sharing your perspective. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone noticed the recent lack of seduction discussions on theory and methods?Yeah, it's been a lot of field reports lately. I'd like to see some discussion on specific theory more like it used to be. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...I replied higher up in the thread to a question on plowing. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...I don't usually give out this advice (anymore) but totally agree. I'm at a complete different level these days and something that's definitely taken me a long way was lifting 4 days week starting in November. Gained 10+ lbs which is like doubling the size of a scrawny Indian like me. Also, dead on about the delivery. I can get away with virtually anything these days in set because of my delivery and confidence. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Been thinking about posting about this as well. Plowing is essentially just refusing to get blown out. For example: Last weekend I joined Heckz from Bay Area Seddit in set with two smoking hot blonds. A couple minutes into the conversation one of them kinda turned and addressed me with "Well, you guys have a good night." My response (plowing): "I'm going to take that as a cue to leave... [half turns away then turns back]... and I'm going to ignore it" then I continued my conversation with the ot… | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...I was reading a comment from you elsewhere on Seddit that you started with like no approaches a month ago and are fast closing in on 200 today? Fuck the deep end, it sounds like you jumped in the ocean, broski ;-) | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Anyone ever go to a bootcamp? What was your experience? Did it help? Ripoff? AFC rant inside.Don't do it. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever go to a bootcamp? What was your experience? Did it help? Ripoff? AFC rant inside.Cajun did a AMA on here (the actual IAMA section) awhile back under the moniker CajunPUA. Doubt this is him. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Beginners/AFCs: You're presented with a choiceFocusing on shit like this is exactly what women want to see. Keep handling your business like a man. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Very true. Everything requires calibration. I tone it down for 6s and 7s and use "cute" instead of "hot". Works well. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Bay Area Seddit. We roll in SF and the rest of bay area a couple nights a week. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Agreed. To me a HB9 is about as close to physical perfection as a woman can come. Only things that could possibly make a girl a 10 are being the birthday girl or party host AND being that hot. I'll also clarify I've never met a girl I considered above a 9. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 12:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My first direct openerGlad I could be of assistance lol. Nice job. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Trying to get girl to come roundYou're entitled to your own opinion but the way that Seddit is currently set up, brnagn is right. This question is about a specific girl with no field report required. It belongs in AskSeddit. Period. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Did something last night I never thought I could do. Guys, this shit works. [FR-1]Sounds like social proof at its best ;-) | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...They all work. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...I wish I could upvote you again for your proper use of the term bitch-ass. Use that in set. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Because taller girls are generally more intimidating and getting approached less. Also, there's something about approaching taller girls that just takes more and its a big confidence boost when that goes well. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...That's correct. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...What up Throwaway, glad you checked this out. I wasn't trying to imply the two were the same but rather as distinctly different options: exactly the way you explained. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Your reason is solid and ethical, good sir but your statement is incorrect. I do this all the time and it works. The BAS guys can confirm. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...That's what upvotes are for ;-) | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 10:39 PM |
| 11 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...For most guys what you said is exactly right. It is possible to come in with such high entitlement that you're simply stating a fact and the reason you're talking to them without putting them on a pedestal. Regardless, you're overthinking it. Just go out and try it and see what kind of reactions you get. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 10:32 PM |
| 14 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Read my response to RobotGymnast above. Using a line like this requires very strong plowing ability afterwards and really isn't for noobs. The point of this is to push your comfort zones a little bit and this definitely does. You'd be surprised how many girls will be ultra receptive to this. To directly address your question: I use very, very direct openers and my follow up is usually "So what's the special occasion?" or "So what's a sexy girl like you doing not getting hit on already?" Again, t… | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...It takes some solid game and confidence to follow up this line. If you aren't comfortable using it then don't. But you'd be surprised how many hot girls don't get told they're hot by genuine guys. Edit: the other thing is that the point of this is really not whether you sleep with these girls or not. They're hot. Chances are you won't. I don't. Yet. Who cares if you don't have a follow up and blow yourself out? Live a little and try it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 10:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeCome out. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeApplying to Google. It's a very long shot. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 10:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeI'll have to create my own throwaways to balance out the power on these boards ;-) Coming to SF tonight? | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 08:00 PM |
| 0 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeWhen I feel like it? There's no rhyme or reason behind it | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 07:58 PM |
| 4 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeI look Indian. Half Indian, half white. I play up whichever works better in the situation. Did my moniker give it away? ;-) | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 05:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeWhy are you so surprised, Lurk? Most girls take offense to being shot down but when you've generated enough attraction and value, both go up even higher in the girl's eyes. I hit that threshold point where shooting her down just made her want me more. I honestly had no question in my mind when I walked back outside that I was going to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 05:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeI really had to put it in my head that I wasn't coming in and begging or asking for a kiss once I realized I kinda fucked up. Had to come from a place of entitlement, hence the cavemanning. It's also just way more fun that way ;-) | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 04:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeStill a long way to go though. All this is nice but I'm still not getting f-closes. Real close however ;-) | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 04:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeI'm used to it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 04:44 PM |
| 7 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closeEvery time someone posts back to someone they know IRL they look like a total douche to everyone else lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 10:17 AM |
| 9 | Awesome forced approach anxiety test todayYour follow up when they looked at you was fucking awesome. Totally the difference between them thinking you're strange vs thinking you're awesome. Nice job. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Pickup approach with distracting dancing guy.Little bit try hard but he's solid. Very engaging and the chicks are too bad lookin lol | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 11:16 PM |
| 2 | [Mini-FR] How'd I do on shit testsUnless she's obviously not fat. In which case comparing her to the titanic would be in order. | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 10:14 PM |
| 11 | Alright, enough of this HB nonsense. Here's the best way to discreetly "rank" the other sexIf I can look at a girl and think "I'd hit it" that's good enough ranking for me. | /r/seduction | 27/04/11 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Just quick info I learned in field from text-game. You will find this very useful.This is not good advice. The ONLY girl I would consider doing this with is my current FB and if I did, I'd feel like it would come across as needy or subconciously communicate that I want more (as in actual relationship). And if it's going to do that to a girl that I've been seeing for a couple weeks now, its highly likely to scare away girls I'm not far enough with or send the wrong message to those I'm pursuing. | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 01:33 AM |
| 5 | The Importance of TanningI love being Indian. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Text game: the importance of 'pinging'Solid advice I posted on 420 telling everyone to ping their girls with a "Happy 420" and got downvoted to oblivion. Beginning to lose my faith in Seddit but nice to see someone knows what's up ;-) | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Suggestion for a surprisingly obvious free demonstrationAnd this is why I'm about to start a quick a career in sales until a marketing department likes my resume... | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of joining local lair. Here are pros and cons. I'd love to hear your opinions.Nice man, let us know what you think. Also, ignore Throwaway. He has good insight on a lot of stuff and will really help you grow as a person and PUA if you start posting a bit but he can be a bit of a dick sometimes. Often the best guys are like that and he kinda fits that bill. He knows his shit though. | /r/seduction | 24/04/11 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Thinking of joining local lair. Here are pros and cons. I'd love to hear your opinions.I also hate the terms lair and sarging. And I'm a mod of Bay Area Seddit. Some terminology is useful for us to communicate, some terminology is just unnecessary and creepy. That doesn't take away from what it can add to your life though. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Thinking of joining local lair. Here are pros and cons. I'd love to hear your opinions.I'm not going to advocate being in a lair or not but as a member of two (if one can call Bay Area Seddit a lair) I can tell you you'll likely make some very good friends even if you're quickly turned off by the whole thing and leave. Some of my best friends from living in Florida for 3 months came from a lair out there. Keep in mind every one is here to go out, get drunk, laid and have a good time. That always makes for good friends and stories. Edit: actually, I'll give a real opinion. Join and… | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Need help!, motivation, or any good comments cuz I had alot of shit and still receiving more!I'll try to take the time to read this whole thing later but a TLDR would help. You need to give up on this girl, dude. Who gives a fuck whether you deserved or not. What happened happened and what's going on with her now is not going to change regardless of what you do so putting any effort into it at all is a waste of your time and resources. Focus on what you have control of. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 03:43 PM |
| 1 | If you haven't already, check out 'Keys to the VIP' for some awesome in-field videos. (For free!)This is solid advice. Most of what you learn from these videos is what NOT to do. Even with Cajun's episode, you're only looking at what works for him. Don't try to be him. Take what he does well (everything) and add it to your game so its congruent with who you are. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 03:27 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - "It's a numbers game" - How's 5 numbers from 7 sets?That's a good point. Its hard for me to give details for feedback on sets when they go as long as they do for and I talk like a fucking machine gun. I should invest in some mics for the BAS group. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 03:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - "It's a numbers game" - How's 5 numbers from 7 sets?lol. What's up man. You're obviously a little new. Lets do a quick reddit tutorial. To reply to this comment, you need to click on the reply button below. What you've been doing is typing in the response box at the top and that responds to my actual post, not this particular comment. Upvoting and downvoting are the two arrows on the left of every comment or post. Upvote if what you read was worthy and insightful, downvote if it wasn't constructive or was plain wrong. And welcome to Reddit ;-) | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 03:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Acted like a beta but had a great time.Ok, so you know how you're realizing that rejection isn't a big deal? Well the same holds true with rejecting other people, especially girls. It's not a big deal. Just say no to girls' requests a couple times and you'll realize often its not going to make them leave. They may not like you, but often they'll be more attracted because most guys are pushovers and simply saying no communicates you're not. And that you're high value. Maybe this was not the time, but you need to learn to say no and no… | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 02:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - "It's a numbers game" - How's 5 numbers from 7 sets?Is there any way to see who downvoted this? I write a solid report and get 7 downvotes with 0 feedback and its fucking annoying. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - "It's a numbers game" - How's 5 numbers from 7 sets?Agreed but at the same time my results here aren't actually good. Yes, they show a lot of improvement and I'm used to hooking most of my sets these days but honestly, hooking 7 sets and not getting further than a number? That says something about my physical escalation game.... | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 01:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - "It's a numbers game" - How's 5 numbers from 7 sets?Agreed. The last one I closed wants to see me tonight. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 01:49 AM |
| 2 | PROTIP: it's 4/20. Any girl you haven't been talking to recently should be receiving a "Happy 420!" ping from you. Do it now and see if anything from the past rehooks.I'd really like an explanation from someone who is downvoting this. Here are my results ::: I texted "Happy 420!" to 8 girls about 3 hours ago. All to girls I've not been in a lot of contact with for at least a week or two, in most cases considerably longer. Responses... "Lol" "Ha, enjoy" "Same to you!" <-- this girl had ignored 5 texts from me over a two month span. She doesn't give me much to work with but it's more than I had this morning. "I am having a house party Friday night u should come… | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 11:45 PM |
| 1 | PROTIP: it's 4/20. Any girl you haven't been talking to recently should be receiving a "Happy 420!" ping from you. Do it now and see if anything from the past rehooks.How about one you fuckers explain why you're downvoting me. I think I put out a pretty solid argument and if it's flawed, someone should say something. There should be a response here to mine with upvotes from most of you downvoting me. So please, someone... PS I use fucker as a term of endearment, no offense intended ;-) | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 10:25 PM |
| 2 | PROTIP: it's 4/20. Any girl you haven't been talking to recently should be receiving a "Happy 420!" ping from you. Do it now and see if anything from the past rehooks.Real life pal of mine lol (he speaks the truth) | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 08:55 PM |
| 0 | PROTIP: it's 4/20. Any girl you haven't been talking to recently should be receiving a "Happy 420!" ping from you. Do it now and see if anything from the past rehooks.I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume you're a female. That's totally fine that you don't like it but you aren't every girl. For example, I just sent it out to 5 girls I hadn't heard from in some time. Only one response thus far but it was from a girl who'd failed to reply to my last 5 texts (over a 4-5 week period). That's already a success in my book. Also, you just say you hate them. You didn't say whether you'd respond or not. If you respond, it shouldn't take much conversational abi… | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you're running late?Yeah, totally fine to say "my bad" or "sorry" but only because you're legitimately at fault as opposed to supplicating to her because she might be annoyed. Definitely agree I'd drop a girl that didn't understand me being 15 minutes late if I let her know ahead of time. Showing up 15 minutes without telling her if she's on time might piss off a few girls though. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What's my next progression?Disagree. In my opinion this was written to get a specific question answered for a specific girl. While this happens with field reports, a FR is meant to allow the writer to reflect on the interaction and improve that way as well as deciding where to go next. Also, starting out with "I hooked up with..." and then continuing on from there =! field report. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you're running late?What bangthemermaid said. Send her a text before saying "Hey, I'm running a couple minutes late, my work out went longer than expected" or something along similar lines. No apology. When you get there its fine to apologize quick as long as you don't make a big deal out of it or draw attention to it. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What's my next progression?Then keep the small talk to an absolute minimum. Like I said, ping every few days with something funny and light (you should text her tomorrow and ask her how she's celebrating 420 if you can't come up with anything better) | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 02:33 AM |
| 4 | What do you do when you're running late?Quick text "hey, running 5 minutes late". In my experience girls usually run 15 minutes late or so if you meet them out on a date so its not a big deal but its nice when you send that text and they don't and they're running late as well. Makes them look like total dicks which I playfully don't let them forget. Note: I feel like this goes without saying but don't apologize for being late. Just acknowledge it, even that it was your fault but don't apologize unless absolutely necessary. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What's my next progression?This relationship does not sound like something you should be consciously pursuing. You're going to see her once a month at best and not for another 3 weeks. Go out and meet other girls and don't worry about this chick. If you can keep small talk going do so, but not too often. Ping every few days until getting closer to a meet up. Quick thing to mention is don't text back quickly. I'm talking like wait 5-6 hours before texting her back. Why? Because if you two start sending 4-5 texts to each ot… | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What's my next progression?This belongs in r/AskSeddit. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Quick and easy texting tipsI think it's because he's referring to acting dumber than you are. What you're saying is basic communication skills. If you're talking to a 5 year old, you dumb down what you're saying, but not in a condescending way. Same thing when you talk to someone with less vocabulary than you. Doesn't mean they're dumber, just means they aren't familiar with your lingo. What OP appears to be more advocating is literally hiding your intelligence to nail dumb hotties. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 01:48 AM |
| 14 | Quick and easy texting tipsI'm going to have to totally disagree with quite a bit of this. If what you posted are suggestions, fine, but definitely not rules by any means (and I don't mean exceptions). There is nothing wrong with writing out full words and using perfect grammar and punctuation. I'm pretty OCD about it (I don't go back and fix stuff but I'm very particular when I text) Be true to yourself, both ways work. Except when you text like a teenage girl. That shit's fucking horrendous. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING … | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 08:48 PM |
| 3 | I think I just ruined a good thing because of my lack of solid text game. Your thoughts?Glad I could be of assistance :-) | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Starting a new job, new to the seduction community. Thoughts?I know its way easier to start gaming with people you already know but trust me and everyone else on this board when we say its a terrible idea. Clearly you're not to a point where this will likely end how you want it to (with one of the girls or all of them as hot girl friends who love you). I would just chill out, make conversation and work on your SOCIAL SKILLS but not your game. Save that for people you don't know until you have an idea what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 08:05 PM |
| 4 | I think I just ruined a good thing because of my lack of solid text game. Your thoughts?In other news, how you should proceed from here is like nothing is wrong. Why? BECAUSE NOTHING IS WRONG. Hope that helped ;-) | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 07:52 PM |
| 14 | I think I just ruined a good thing because of my lack of solid text game. Your thoughts?Dude, what the fuck is wrong with Seddit? I'm seeing threads like this all over the place over on AskSeddit and its damn frustrating. Please excuse me if I come across as rude, I just can't take many more of these threads. I feel like reaching through your computer and fucking slapping you: WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU THINK YOU RUINED ANYTHING????????????????????????????? Clearly you guys don't get back to each other quickly. There are a billion reasons she could have not responded to you yet. You ha… | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 07:50 PM |
| -1 | I think I just ruined a good thing because of my lack of solid text game. Your thoughts?This belongs in r/AskSeddit. | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 07:45 PM |
| 1 | A challenge for seddit!Whether you are throwing or backhanding a female, the key is the follow through... | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Any advice from wise sedditors?Title your thread better next time. It's currently a waste that tells us nothing and honestly, every guy probably wants advice from the "wise" sedditors. In other news, A) this belongs on AskSeddit and B) nothing you said requires a wise sedditor: you're completely overthinking it. If you already know this girl, coming in and gaming her ONE time before asking her out won't change a god damn thing. Man up and approach her however the FUCK you want to. Any way that will make it fun for you. Don't … | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 07:14 AM |
| 1 | "Make meeting women normal": My full speech from the 21 Convention (free)You look like Seth Green ;-) | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone watch "The Flawless Natural Method"? Opinions?Highly recommended. Definitely worth investing 6 hours into watching. Getting into state is way easier after. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 11:54 PM |
| 32 | I'm fucking going for it.A suggestion would be to not let this day determine your whole life. That's fucking stupid. Seriously though, a key to getting what you want is not being outcome dependent. Sounds like you'll be devestated if she shoots you down and that's not a healthy mentality. Edit: on my phone, I'll try to write something a little more constructive when I get to the comp | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 08:26 PM |
| 2 | "Make meeting women normal": My full speech from the 21 Convention (free)A lot of our guys seem to have this problem. I haven't watched this yet but if it's helping you I'm sure most of our boys need it as well. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Not sure where to go from here.This. Sounds like you're in the friendzone but more details would help. Regardless, I'd advise against talking or texting for a couple days unless she initiates. Read Seddit, hit on other women, talk to her later. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 06:17 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, What kind of women are you attracted to?The geniuses all seem to be too smart to sleep with me personally. Just sayin... | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, What kind of women are you attracted to?Bitches. No joke. Girls I like the most are the 8s 9s and 10s that can banter and be mean and generally take as much shit as they give out. Anything less than bitchy usually bores me. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Can't believe this worked! Don't know if this counts as a FR though.Congrats on moving out of your comfort zone and making a move but this is a pretty chump move and pretty much against everything advised here. Doesn't necessarily make it wrong, but read MadCaesar's response, it explains why pretty well. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Can't believe this worked! Don't know if this counts as a FR though.Reddit may love it but Seddit won't. And for good reason. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Appropriate action for a certain situation? [FR, kinda]Way to copy my style, asshole. Like a boss. I like your approach too, mine is more likely to fail but generates higher attraction (more ballsy) but yours is direct, to the point and surprisingly high percentage. | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 01:53 AM |
| 5 | How do I approach this?Side answer: Make real friends. Do things. Anything(s). Seriously. Start by reading the sidebar and talking to everyone. Everyone. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Whenever I have approach anxiety, I think about this video.This man knows what's up. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Appropriate action for a certain situation? [FR, kinda]I probably would only do this in front of the Seddit guys but open while still seated and be fucking loud. "Hey, come here for a second" stated confidently will do. Get her over to you, introduce yourself with a handshake. While shaking her hand stand up, put your other arm on her shoulder and guide her wherever she was walking into isolation. Like a boss. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Friends and your game: Asset or Annoyance?You should always be shooting for one on one. Having friends on there own at the same venue is chill but not with you in any way. Have them roll by, say what's up and move on. If she says she's bringing friends then it's ok to invite out a couple wings that won't blow you out. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Flaked on hard... Get a text a few hours later asking what I am up toHey man, that's awesome. Perfect response. The way I approach this is I always give the girl the benefit of the doubt the first time even if I'm 100% sure they'll flake. Once they flake though, I don't make a big deal about it, I just don't go out of my way AT ALL for them unless they're very direct. None of this "come hang out with me and my friends" bullshit. So at least imo what you're doing is perfect. Just find a time that is LEGITIMATELY convenient for you and hang out with her then. Keep … | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Any Tips on Picking Up Girls in Public?I would certainly hope so ;-) | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 10:10 PM |
| 1 | today i learned what average "FRUSTRATED" chump is all about....Nice. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 09:51 PM |
| 17 | Flaked on hard... Get a text a few hours later asking what I am up toTo answer your question: no, do not ask for any explanation. It fucking sucks but what she, and every other girl in this situation, wants to see is you be non-reactive and unphased. Why? It's a shit test. Girls want a rock and if they can throw you off emotionally by just flaking, there's no telling whether or not you can deal with real life shit. And guys that prove they can are the ones who get the girls. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Flaked on hard... Get a text a few hours later asking what I am up toThis will not get you laid. It fucking sucks when girls and people in general flake but if you want the girl you have to act (or be, in my case) unphased. Throwaway nailed it with his response. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Courage wolf reminds you...Amen. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Had a good line used on me last night, thought I should share.Alright, I'll expand a little on my thoughts. I don't think its right to judge a line to be good or not based on whether it worked. Virtually every line has a situation in which it could be successfully delivered. Honestly, this guy got the best result he could short of getting the number and there is something to be said for that. Given how many hired guns I hit on, I wouldn't mind getting blown out a few times trying this line to see if it works. PS You me Snarky --> SF pad. Next month. Let's … | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Had a good line used on me last night, thought I should share.I disagree. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Step by Step Advice For Getting GOOD with Women.Awesome post. I really like the take pictures one. Never thought of that but I'm sure it'd make every night way more fun. Going to implement that with the BAS guys. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Sooo I read Magic Bullets but it seems like it is directed towards older peopleNot really. DHV's in college are different but the concepts are all still identical. When you meet a girl at a frat party you take her through the same steps as you do with any girl you meet at a bar, no matter the age. Social proof is usually more important but again, how social proof affects everything is no different than how explained in Magic Bullets. Just think for yourself and apply Magic Bullets where it makes sense. It's a great foundation but as with everything in the community and in … | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit what makes you awesome?Like Barney. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Blueprint Decoded 01: Being vs. doingIn my opinion the first 4-5 hours are pretty slow. It get WAY better after that. Just a little disclaimer. Thanks for doing this, I might follow your lead and review the Flawless Natural for everyone. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 03:10 AM |
| 2 | This week in AskSeddit: blanking out mid-conversation, conversation threading, and girls' staresThanks for the shout out, bdd. Not going to lie, I thought these threads were kind of unnecessary but gave this one a chance and thought it was an awesome read. Feel like I earned a little reward when I got to the bottom :-) Also, I really agree on your thoughts for #2. Everyone is aware of people's lives falling into these so called downward spirals but no seems to think of the exact opposite happening. You can definitely create a monster positive spiral in your life. Equipping yourself to deal… | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Here is a great collection of books about every subject related to picking up women. Do not download since it is a torrent hence it is illegal in most places. tf.jpgI see what you did there... | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 06:45 PM |
| 2 | A Self-Evaluation of my PUA Transformation ProgressI browsed this quick (on my phone). Brief comment: only one of your listed sticking points is actually a sticking point, the last one. Not having been laid is not a sticking point. Based on the other comments though it looks like you're on your way. I believe in Heckz and Heckz believes in you ;-) | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Where's the line between asshole and not a pushover?Good answer, never thought of it this way | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Where's the line between asshole and not a pushover?Reading your title (without the post) I was going to say there is no clear defined line. I push the limits in most sets and when it works, girls hook. When it doesn't, I usually offend somebody. It happens. Sounds like you have a totally different issue. Whoever this girl is (are you sleeping with her already? Just a friend?), I'm wondering why she would be asking you to get her something from the other room. Unless you're dating a cripple. Seriously. There are definitely times a girl will reaso… | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 02:24 PM |
| 2 | How exercise helps your game in more than one wayThe point is to start doing something. Play to your strengths to gain momentum then focus on your weaknesses. Otherwise most people give up too easy. I mean, you personally know me, where I am now is 13 lbs of solid muscle heavier than back in November. To any of you guys reading this, if you're skinny GOMAD and hit the weights. You won't regret it. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Buying girls drinks...DUDE! You too? I fucking love that. Get a phone call once every two weeks or so: "Hey, I have a hot date in [your town] tomorrow night. I want to see you after." | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 09:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] – OKC - messages + k-close on second dateYeah, I kino'd up until the kiss on two dates and didn't go for it either time. Both girls wanted nothing to do with me after. I actually look at those as really positive experiences because I think I'd have stuck with either girl if I'd closed. Not doing so motivated me to really focus on this and I couldn't be happier. | /r/seduction | 06/04/11 06:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] – OKC - messages + k-close on second dateYou need to be in state for what to work? Also, did you get my PM | /r/seduction | 06/04/11 06:50 AM |
| 9 | Why do girls think this is acceptable? (X-post from F7U12)You, sir, are a good man. | /r/seduction | 05/04/11 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Are there any good FREE books for Seduction?Yo dawg, you're new here and as such I'd recommend Magic Bullets. BUT NOTHING ELSE. You need to go out and apply what you read in there in the real world before you touch anything else. Otherwise your head is going to be filled with too much crap. Keep it simple. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Just do. GetMotivated x-post.Good video. I've been meaning to write up a post about how every approach is a success no matter how hard or quickly you get blown out. Why? Because you're doing something. Anything. Just like the artist states. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls just don't seem to be attracted to me. How can i change that? Tips on dressing better and sending out positive vibes?Getting funnier would help considerably with attraction. There are plenty of other ways though. Frogma's inner game post above is a start. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 11:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - How to Hook a Set like a Boss (under 30 seconds)... then not close and let them walk away like a fuckin' chodeThanks Tofu! Look forward to your visit to SF. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 10:15 AM |
| 1 | The Importance of Sleep With Being SocialWe are running on empty lol. It's 3 am and I'm up because I fell asleep at 7 pm last night after the weekend Seddit created for me :-) | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Redditor gets 'in state' for a day and has an awesome day. AskReddit can't figure out what it is.Re-reading your title after seeing where it linked made me lol pretty hard. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Rating GirlsWe've had this conversation before but I'm still not totally following. My projection will make them do the same? Also, I find that doing this helps no girl fall "out of my league" (I legitimately believe this these days, no longer an act). Final note, as we've discussed in depth, I don't recommend this for anyone else really. It works for me and keeps me in a very positive and productive mindset but its not effective to communicate and use as a group. That's what the established HB system is fo… | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 07:25 PM |
| 2 | There's no way this is real... Right?I approve of your username, sir. Welcome to the boards. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Rating GirlsThough I use and value the established system here of rating girls on a scale of 1-10 the system I actually use in the field is binary. There are girls I'd sleep with given the chance and those I would not. It helps me to never be intimidated by girls. I will recognize good looks and social proof and adjust accordingly but I try not to treat a HB 10 different than a HB7. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 05:32 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - How to Hook a Set like a Boss (under 30 seconds)... then not close and let them walk away like a fuckin' chodeActually, here: lets just say that I should have pursued harder and for longer and made the decision about their level of innebriation later on in the evening. I pretty much gave up at the first sign of resistance and that's not good. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 12:28 AM |
| 26 | [FR] - How to Hook a Set like a Boss (under 30 seconds)... then not close and let them walk away like a fuckin' chodeQuit being a fucking pussy. Them being too drunk is you making an excuse, you lazy fuck. | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 08:32 PM |
| 3 | I'm witty as fuck, I always have clever, smart, and funny responses to stuff, but I can't take this skill and apply it to bar or club talk.Where does this wit show through in your life? Also, what kind of humor or wit do you use? I used to have this problem. Last night I was asked for the second evening in a row if I was a stand up comedian. If you give me a little more info on your game I'll see how I dealt with it is applicable to you. | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Awesome Indicator of Alpha - Being told you look like a celebrity/actor!Absolutely. Or come up with a canned opinion opener. I have one I use to get in state or when I can't come up with something, which rarely happens anymore | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Awesome Indicator of Alpha - Being told you look like a celebrity/actor!The birthday song from the league is fucking awesome | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Awesome Indicator of Alpha - Being told you look like a celebrity/actor!Just say anything. Its way more important to actually try than to deliver a great opener. Honestly, there is no such thing as a great opener. Only a great delivery. And that takes practice. So open. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Awesome Indicator of Alpha - Being told you look like a celebrity/actor!Archer? Dude, that's fucking boss. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Awesome Indicator of Alpha - Being told you look like a celebrity/actor!I get Kumar, Aziz Ansari and Barry from Beerfest. Pretty content with that list. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 11:18 PM |
| 22 | "Those who wait until everything is perfect rarely do much of anything"In life, not just in pick up. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 10:47 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Random text from a stranger...Your banter looks pretty good given you're new. You'll get the hang of it as you do it more but overall, awesome job. Remember to play a little hard to get when giving out info on yourself though. It sounds like you almost made it into an interview towards the end about the movie and what she does. Final thing... something you're already doing awesomely whether you realize it or not is you make a lot of statements and even your questions aren't really interviewy in the beginning. This definitely… | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 09:06 PM |
| 8 | [FR] F-close all weekend!Paragraphs, buddy. Little difficult to read. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Many posts regarding high school don't get answered. A new subreddit for high school PUAs. Reddit.com/r/highseddit"highseddit" sounds like it should be for me and some of the SF Bay Area Seddit boys. Couple of us blaze it up fat before sarging ;-) | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Looking for feedback on convo, I plan on bringing her Kettle Corn to her work tomorrowI don't think FB was necessarily bad for you. For me I don't like having that out there for her friends to bring up to her. "Who's that guy who asked you to go the zoo Saturday?" <-- If this question is asked by a friend of hers, it'll take no time for her to go from thinking "this guy is cool, lets see what he's got" to "Wow, Alyssa is right, I barely even know this guy. I shouldn't see him again." That might be a little drastic but just a thought. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:42 PM |
| 9 | Day Game - First Time Ever Asking A Girl Out, I may have fucked up big time.There is nothing wrong with your dinosaur of a phone. Only a problem with your perception of the phone. Seriously, if you act like you're a badass and rebel because you ROCK a flip phone, you'll be a badass who rocks a flip phone. Its as simple as that. Thinking you should be embarrassed about it is exactly what causes that and what would cause her reaction to be negative. Edit: and yes, it is always better to get the girl's number unless you know you'll be seeing her again if she doesn't call. … | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Looking for feedback on convo, I plan on bringing her Kettle Corn to her work tomorrowt looks like she's at least a little interested because she asked what was up after you didn't respond. Nice little IOI there. But for actual feedback... you appear way too available. Following up her saying no to Saturday with "well what about Sunday" is pretty bad in my opinion. I would suggest just saying "Hey, zoo this week?" and let her get back to you on scheduling. Its perfectly fine to be flexible and fit her into your plans but you're really appearing to be willing to bend over backward… | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:28 PM |
| 3 | How did you get over your Approach Anxiety?I came here to post this, Tofu. I think we should consider a link in the side bar that's bold, italicized and underline in all caps saying "APPROACH ANXIETY" because seriously, this is the 8th or 9th thread on Seddit and AskSeddit in the past week about AA. Or we could just have on the said "READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR BEFORE POSTING"... whatever works ;-) | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Females please answer..It was a joke, Frogma. Totally agree on all your points and did prior as well :-) In fact, for those of you looking to get this kind of crap out of your head, try what I did: every night you go out make it a point to talk to hottest tall girl in the venue. Haven't had much success yet but it makes them less intimidating and now there's no reason not to open every girl I see I want because I've opened hotter. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Females please answer..Why exactly are you asking this? What are you going to do if the women say they think ______ is really hot and you don't qualify? Also, this has already been beaten into the ground with other comments but don't ask women what they want. Its fucking stupid and futile. Not their fault, but its not going to help you. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Females please answer..Why can't we ask you? Are you a midget that never gets pussy? | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 08:42 PM |
| 1 | This little fledgling wants to leave the dating nest, help!Read the sidebar, bro. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Body language question^ this. Open these girls. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] OKC - 8 messages in an hour - # closeYeah, I agree, my results are way better in real life. Again though, its not like I'm sitting on OKC at night instead of going out. I go out three times a week and use OKC during the day when bored (like now). One thing about abundance mentality is that it doesn't have to lead anywhere, its just a place you can always be "opening" girls. Makes you realize how many fish there are in the sea. I'm currently texting 4-5 girls and 2 are from OKC. Definitely helps my text game naturally as I'm never, … | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 08:27 PM |
| 3 | An unfortunate truth..No offense, but what's the point of posting this? I mean, you're right, its unfortunate. But making a thread about it isn't going to solve anything. Go out and make yourself the best you can be and don't worry about things out of your control. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 07:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] OKC - 8 messages in an hour - # closeMy current FB is from OKC. I would say its a waste but I mean it helps with some stuff and allows you to actually work on some stuff to a certain extent during the week. Its just another way to meet women and develop abundance. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 06:11 AM |
| 1 | seddit who is your favourite alpha male?Awesome fucking list. | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 06:26 PM |
| 2 | seddit who is your favourite alpha male?That movie about Sam Axe comes out on USA soon lol | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 01:32 PM |
| 14 | seddit who is your favourite alpha male?Myself. | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I need resources for improving Bar-Game.Virtually everything on this site applies to bar game. | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 11:59 AM |
| 2 | PUA Hate??Link? lol | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Ask Seddit: What were your "game-changing" seduction experiences or materials?Material : The BluePrint. Totally changed my inner game. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Too many new Facebook friends?You're way overthinking this, buddy. You're friends with these girls, why the fuck would you care how it looks to some other girl? You're being real. That's what counts. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Alright, this is cool and all, but, fuck...I actually use over the top pick up lines. Why? Because they're naturally hilarious. Oh, irony. Edit: yes, they work. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Creating a List of things that will keep you in a motivated and sexual state. I need your opinions seddit.That song is not great but sends a really good message. Love it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 02:14 PM |
| 2 | [RANT] Text and ChatI've heard this a lot. In my opinion if you make a solid enough first impression texting can take you a long way. I actively use text to build attraction, qualify and comfort at times. I do agree its much better to do in person though. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 02:12 PM |
| 7 | What makes you happy?Give me a soccer ball and music and I'll keep myself as happy as can be anywhere in the world there's weed readily available. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't Seddit have more program routines for getting in the field?I agree with that. Its something people have to take into their own hands. Personally, my lair has me doing 100 set challenges that we set up to focus on certain sticking points. Not quite what you're talking about but similar. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't Seddit have more program routines for getting in the field?Seduction is far too dynamic and unique to each person for generalized programs to really be successful. There's a reason bootcamps usually have like 6 guys. It takes a lot of special attention to fix everything necessary. Lifting or running, though difficult in their own right, are much easier to create a program for the public. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Does everyone in seddit use the Mystery Method as their go-to reference?Also, you don't need to brush up on Mystery Method to understand terms. Honestly, I'd recommend starting with Magic Bullets. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Does everyone in seddit use the Mystery Method as their go-to reference?Mystery was fundamental in the creation of the overall community and where it went. The terms he applied definitely became mainstream though they've changed considerably. Just because you see a bunch of jargon on here reminds you Mystery doesn't mean its everyone default. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The portrait of a lonely pick up artist as a young man catching fish and making love to them..What do you want? A relationship? | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Duke Nuke Alpha IM Game.Upvoted for content. I'm using one of those lines as an opener. "I realized its time to talk to beautiful girls and chew bubble gum, and I'm all outta gum" | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 10:48 PM |
| 1 | New Shoes Routine [FR] - A routine request.How well put together she is? Have her stand for a spin? That's where I thought you were going with it at least lol | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 10:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 4 sets – 1 opener, 1 productive blowout, 1 successful pivot and my best interaction to date :-)I agree about the kiss closes. I'm getting better every night . The reason I still think it's a big issue is because the girls continue to give me chances. In both cases hotter girls wouldn't have given me more then that first shot so I need to focus on pulling the trigger then and not waiting for everything to be perfect | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 12:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 4 sets – 1 opener, 1 productive blowout, 1 successful pivot and my best interaction to date :-)Thanks for the response, man, much appreciated. For the blowout girl it was too late, I think. I like your suggestion on turning what she said into a disqualifier but I pretty much felt her attraction to me just melt away in an instant when I said that. Always next time :-) I focused a ton on kino in this field report but I wasn't overly touchy feely with her. It was when appropriate and I never drew attention to her pulling away so it never got uncomfortable or awkward. I think leading in anoth… | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 11:18 PM |
| 4 | [FR] 4 sets – 1 opener, 1 productive blowout, 1 successful pivot and my best interaction to date :-)Anyways, I continue to escalate and focus on getting some facial and hair/head touches in. We go back and forth between dancing and sitting in isolation. Dancing I get tons of IOI’s obviously, hand holding, little grinding, etc. Wasn’t a crazy dance floor so wasn’t like she was going to go nuts or anything. While sitting down I finally managed to breakthrough with her. Got her to take off her fedora after teasing for not taking it off and how she might have a bald spot she was hiding from me. Wh… | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 08:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Great night with Bay Area Seddit thanks to wings, Wu-Tang sweatshirts ain't nothing to fuck withThe reason your herd comment is perfectly fine is A) it comes across as genuine and B) its actually a cold read. You're calling her hot but you're also saying hey, I think you're a nerd. You show confidence by not asking and just assuming your reality. So essentially you're perfectly showing interest while still remaining totally alpha. Nice job ;-) Oh, even if the girl isn't a nerd, she's going to think to herself "Yeah, I'm pretty smart" when you say that, but not in a conceited way. I think y… | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 07:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making out with the Bday girl on St. Paddy’sI think I blew through this tonight. I'll have another field report tomorrow. Just got back from a pretty sweet night ;-) | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 11:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making out with the Bday girl on St. Paddy’sI totally understand, man. I definitely do not mean to be making a joke of the situation. One of my best friends is Japanese and happened to be there on a school program so I'm taking it seriously. The humor there is definitely crossing a couple lines and I really didn't use it again tonight even though I still pimped the scarf. My apologies for offending you or any of the of the Tokyo sedditors. I wish you all the best. | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 11:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making out with the Bday girl on St. Paddy’sI'm going to post about it at some point. This is not the challenge for you. Start with just opening 100 sets. Doesn't count unless you log it in a Field Report though. You'll be a different person after 100 sets lol. | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 02:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making out with the Bday girl on St. Paddy’sI was thinking the same thing as I wrote it lol | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 01:58 AM |
| 2 | A little piece of clubbing advice...We're doing this tonight, Snarky. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I learn to read body language?Then upvote his comment, you fool. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Fearless.Thank you. Very well put. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Brad Branson of RSD here to answer your questions! AMA!Thanks for the speedy response. My current sticking points are qualification (I come across as a man slut at the moment when I successfully generate attraction) and kino (I feel like I consistently get to lower back touches in successful sets but never push it farther). Not having someone to emulate kino especially has really held me up. I'm taking advice from a close buddy in Florida and doing a 100 set challenge where I push the kino ladder until I close or get blown out. Any input on this or … | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Brad Branson of RSD here to answer your questions! AMA!Brad: First of all thank you for doing this AMA. Very insightful and I love the inner game stuff you guys provide. I hadn't heard of you before this was promoted and I must say I'm an instant fan. Question: I'm a new moderator of the reddit SF Bay Area Lair. I don't consider myself very far along gamewise but compared to most of the other guys I am. When I was in Florida before this I went out all the time with guys that were better than me and helped me out. How do I continue to improve at high… | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:52 AM |
| 10 | Quick [FR] for fellow newbs on the importance of wingmenYou're welcome ;-) | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Seddit, a quick plug for r/FitnessPersonally, I found fittit back in September and did the GOMAD diet for a couple months and started a lifting program. Went from 139 lbs to 152 lbs currently and trying to gain another 2 before the end of the month. Everyone in my life has noticed and my body language in bars is naturally alpha, never have to think about posture, and always look like I can handle myself. Its done wonders for my confidence and game and I'm starting Brazilian Jiu Jitsu next month ;-) Edit: positive reviews in the … | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | IAMA mPUA Interview Series #3 - Tuesday, March 15th at 7PM PST - Brad Branson from RSDThanks. Trying this tonight. | /r/seduction | 13/03/11 01:51 AM |
| 1 | [Theory and Challenge] I know why the caged bird singsJourney. Don't stop believin'. Know the guys part and bust it out whenever appropriate. PROTIP Journey is always appropriate. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How do we have 18,000 members in Seddit, but only 780 members in AskSeddit?Touche. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Is there a great way to respond to "I can't go home with you tonight, I just met you"?We have a winner. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do we have 18,000 members in Seddit, but only 780 members in AskSeddit?How do we have 18,000 sedditors and no first page posts with more than 100 upvotes? | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Starting my journey (this weekend)Start by just talking to more people. Its fine if you haven't worked on opening yet, just make more conversation with people you already know. Then small talk with strangers. | /r/seduction | 11/03/11 04:59 AM |
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