Hey guys, so I'm comfortable striking up a convo with a women in a daygame setting, or even a public setting at night..but yesterday I went to a bar for maybe the second time and they had a couple of bands playing and they were extremely loud. I couldn't approach anyone and didn't know what to do. I did not know it as most were rock bands that were way too loud.

people were just standing/dancing to this band playing..... during sets people would chat but i'm not sure what you're supposed to talk about..you can barely hear anyone. this is all probably because i almost never go to bars

tl;dr how does bar game work?