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I hear ya, I guess nobody can answer this question but me. I'm trying to be honest with myself and I don't know anymore. I'm following the standard advice of "work on yourself and women will come" been doing that for over past 4 years though with no luck...
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:23 PM
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Women are often not held to account. Isn't that a problem with how society conditioned you instead of women being fundamentally different? I agree btw, but my approach is men and women are the same not different, therefore treat women how you treat men. Hold them just as accountable for their actions, and don't put up with their shit if you would not had they been a man instead. I feel like this is a just and fair approach, however instead of women being drawn to that, I find that they instead l…
/r/MGTOW23/04/14 04:00 PM
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A few years ago I was in a similar situation to you and got into PUA, but instead of focusing on picking up girls I decided to switch gears and put my effort to self discovery. To find what really makes me happy, and what society has brainwashed me into thinking makes me happy. What I independently discovered ended up closely aligning to what I am reading now about MGTOW. I learned how to be confident in myself and not give a fuck what others think. I realized that meeting women was not a priori…
/r/MGTOW21/04/14 08:36 PM
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How is being in college an easy street? Sure you can chat up girls in class and clubs, but you can do that anywhere else. And I find cougars to actually be more open and straightforward, but maybe my college is just conservative.
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:32 PM
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Well I didn't get a chance to live in a dorm (only about 50% of the people in my uni did), so how did you go about befriending people when you lived in the apartment? Did you just piggyback off the people you met first year? I'm putting in a lot of effort, but I started only recently and it seems like I am playing catch-up. Also I'll be switching cities soon too, which should be a challenging but hopefully rewarding learning experience.
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:41 PM
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This may be a weird question, but at what distance do you make eye contact? I think I never bothered to learn because I can't see distance really well and I hate wearing glasses or contacts. I can make eye contact fine with people that I am already talking to, but not from far away.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:07 PM
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I gave a bunch of clubs a try, but I found most of them sucked (might have been my attitude though). In my college there were pretty much just 2 things to do, study and go downtown to bars, and I did go, but could only take that in small doses.
/r/seduction26/07/11 05:06 PM
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Did you live in the dorms, is it really all that it's cracked up to be as compared to living with a roommate offcampus? (had no choice).
/r/seduction26/07/11 05:04 PM
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Thanks. Do you work in sales by any chance? I almost never have to interact with people at my work and I hate it! However I have friends that have to talk to a lot of people as part of their job, and after a few months they say they are starting to hate people :)
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:51 AM
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You don't go to bars to meet people and you are cold when people approach you. How do you manage to meet new people then? (Not trying to call you out or anything, just curious).
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:14 AM
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smile What do you think about this article: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hj80u/women_find_happy_men_less_attractive_than/ Do you think it might be more related to static pictures and doesn't take into account live interaction? I ask because simply put I suck at smiling.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:11 AM
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True, light smile is something I can manage, I just can't for the life of me do those teeth-baring smiles everyone seems to be doing ;) Agreed on the eye contact during conversation as well, helps more than I thought. Is the strategy any different before you approach somebody? The reason I ask is that I seem to maintain eye contact only after starting the conversation, I don't really do the whole eye flirty thing beforehand (probably because I can't see distance very well haha)
/r/seduction09/05/11 07:52 PM
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I use sarcasm, exaggerations and dark humour a lot. Yeah, sometimes girls don't get it and I would probably fare better if I toned it down a little and was more playful instead, but at the same time I kind of get a perverse satisfaction from getting a reaction and watching them squirm. On the bright side, the few people that get my humour usually become really good friends.
/r/seduction09/05/11 02:50 PM
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Everybody says that smiling is so important but I hate the way I look when I do, how can I improve on that? I can do a light smirk but it looks absolutely ridiculous if I do one of these horse-like smiles showing all my teeth you see people do, my facial structure just works better for a closed mouth smile, similar to this guy: http://www.google.ca/search?um=1&hl=en&biw=1920&bih=979&tbm=isch&sa=1&q=leonardo+dicaprio&oq=leonardo+dicaprio&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&gs_sm=s&gs_upl=-1304952165026l-1304952165026…
/r/seduction09/05/11 02:42 PM
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I understand how this works during an interaction, but I just can't imagine it as an opener, I have lots to learn!
/r/seduction29/04/11 07:47 PM
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Oh I fully expected it to be awkward, I just wanted to do it cause I want to stop giving a shit, kinda like exposure therapy. On a side note, how DO you # close during day game then, I keep hearing how day game is so much better, but from experience so far it's not very conductive to closing, people are just busy doing their jobs or going somewhere etc.
/r/seduction29/04/11 07:21 PM
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Well the general advice I saw is that in the clubs you might have a quick convo, and then you say something like "I gotta get back to my friends" in order to not seem needy, and then reopen the target later on.
/r/seduction29/04/11 01:39 AM
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Boring girls that just sit at home and watch TV.
/r/seduction28/04/11 11:46 PM
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Pick any place (beach, classroom, gym) and there will always be a guy saying I would, but it seems cheesy. Like the guys say, it's only awkward if you think it's awkward. I find that like any other place, having a wingwoman helps.
/r/seduction28/04/11 11:42 PM
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I don't mean to be "that guy", but shouldn't this be in AskSeddit?
/r/seduction25/04/11 05:21 AM
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