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| 1 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice? | jamessnow | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 12:08 AM |
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| 1 | How should I reframe my inexperience with women in a positive way?Definitely. Some sexual innuendo in the conversation helps to get things rolling, but once you start making out and touching you can escalate it to sex. You should expect lmr though. Read up on how to handle it. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How should I reframe my inexperience with women in a positive way?A lot of the times girls won't bring up the subject of sex if you don't. But even if she does, you can't plan for every contingency. Sometimes you're going to fail. I wouldn't mention the fact that you're a virgin. If you can't figure out something sarcastic to say like "you mean today?" You have to improvise. Look up shit tests and learn how to handle them. Look up the kino escalation ladder so you just do it instead of talking about it. At least for the first time. Finally, you need to be okay… | /r/seduction | 28/05/12 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Hi r/seduction, I'm a girl and I need your help 'cause I know my friends will give me crap advice and I ain't got no game!Have him check your air filter and slip him your number (and name) on a piece of paper. He should have asked for it, but if you want it to happen you will probably have to do some of the work. | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Logistics ProblemThat is a bad experience, but you did it a bit awkwardly due to your inexperience. That type of approach is called a direct approach. Where you are upfront about your reason for talking to her. A lot of people advocate for that type of approach because it shows you are not scared and "big balls" are attractive to some women. And, while I think it can be effective in many situations there are a few problems with it: it takes extreme bravery to pull off it's not successful that often unless you ar… | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Logistics ProblemAlso, talking to random girls you see in the streets or malls may end up anywhere from getting a slap to landing up in a police station. Can you give an example of an approach you might do in the streets or malls that would get you slapped? | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect GameI'm planning on running the "pet shop" opener, I'll probably write an FR after I get the hang of it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect GameSo, he never told them why he was talking to them or why he stopped them? That does seem strange... But, there are legitimate reasons for stopping a girl on the street that are indirect. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect GameIf you read his book Day Bang, you will see that he advocates indirect game for day game too. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How the fuck did this happen?I make my intents obvious, and she turns me down. It's supposed to "just happen". It sounds like you handled it wrong here, but you are so vague here that I don't think anyone could know. I wasn't very persistent after that. Did you try to kiss her, rub her, warm her up in any way? She's avoiding me. She wanted sex and now she's upset. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I am a guy alone at a Cal PolyYou don't need a wingman to talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Far from home not good for chances?There was some guy on here that moved to NYC and lived in his van for a while. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 03:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Gaining an understanding on the psychology of PUA.I didn't mean to imply that's what all PUAs were for but it certainly seems to be the focus of seddit. If there's material I'm missing let me know, I'd love to know more. I can only speak for myself, but the focus on getting to sex sooner rather than later is helpful in forming relationships. Not all sex leads to meaningful, lasting relationships, but I don't think it precludes it either. Not everyone is in one girl/one guy/one love type situation. Here's a post that resonates with me (especiall… | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Gaining an understanding on the psychology of PUA.I'm not a PUA in the normal sense of the word; I'm at a stage in my life where I'm looking for a long term relationship instead of casual sex (been there!). So, all PUAs are just looking for casual sex? but I checked up on her and she was a bit of a slut so I kept it platonic. Tell us, what makes her a slut? | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Second date - first went ok but guys, I'm coming from a long way behind and I really need some help or words of wisdom.I'm sure you know, but don't use the "that's what she said" wording when you actually are talking with her. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Second date - first went ok but guys, I'm coming from a long way behind and I really need some help or words of wisdom.It's hard to overcome because I have to do it on the fly and I'm not confident in my ability to correctly judge any sort of sexual overtone so I just don't make one. You're doing it wrong. You need to misinterpret perfectly innocent things she says into sexual things and then tease her about it. (despite knowing fully what she actually meant) Practice with "that's what she said" to things said on TV. You have to set a playful tone to the conversation, you can't just drop these into serious conve… | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 01:44 PM |
| 2 | [Newbie PUA] Got a girls number... Now what???From the sidebar on /r/seduction: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/related/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/ You should be happy at your own progress for having the balls to get the number. Don't be desperate for this one to go better. Relax and have a good time. Don't worry if this number was a flake, it happens to everyone. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Guy grabs 1000 pairs of boobs before shaking hands with Putin. [x-post from r/Videos]This is a good way to get sued in the US/Canada, but in Russia the biggest risk is that the girl has a beast BF who is very jealous. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Need help regarding semi-nonchalante girl.If you don't move fast enough, you'll lose her. http://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-move-faster | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 05:29 AM |
| 5 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?http://www.seductiontuition.com/neil-strauss/5-questions-game.html | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 04:11 PM |
| 7 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?the five questions game | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 03:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Terms of SuccessI like that tactic as they are much less likely to be nosy and joking around at your expense ruining things. Plus, they aren't in your social circle so you don't have to relive failure and embarrassing moments. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 09:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Trying to get a date with a HB8 car saleswoman trying to sell me a BMW convertible.Or style. Style works best for people you don't really know. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 08:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Terms of SuccessSo, the birthday couple were your insta-friends? | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 08:11 PM |
| 2 | I've fallen into "acquaintance zone" with a girl. How can I get us talking like friends again?So, what you want to do is get into the friendzone so that you can somehow claw your way out in the case that you decide she is worthy? | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I've fallen into "acquaintance zone" with a girl. How can I get us talking like friends again?You want her as a friend or a lover? | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 02:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Highschool football game. K-close kinda not really. but stillnaturally | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 08:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Highschool football game. K-close kinda not really. but stillanyways throught the game we flirt a bit and she says she wants to put her penis in me ok... | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 08:29 PM |
| 1 | SMFH. Co-worker showed me pics of the girl that I'm interested in, sent to him by her via text.Have you seen this? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/related/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/ So, you chat with her and then you say "hey, I have to go..." (see the post) Or "hey, I have to go, give me your number and we'll hang out sometime." | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 05:26 AM |
| 1 | SMFH. Co-worker showed me pics of the girl that I'm interested in, sent to him by her via text.What words would you say to her if you had the balls? | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:59 AM |
| 3 | How can I build attraction?Check out "the first 3 to 5 minutes" http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/140411-first-3-5-minutes-getting-attraction.html | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 02:04 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on PUA community and fulfilling healthy relationships. Long read, please take the time.Many of the PUA here are poly and may have one or more LTR non-exclusive relationships. What is your take on that? | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep yourself disease free?You can get STDs from going down on her or her going down on you without a condom. If you want to reduce the risk, you have to use a barrier such as plastic wrap or latex. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 04:41 AM |
| 1 | She's extremely interested, but also extremely far away.Definitely not daily. That's too much interaction and you'll run out of material and mess something up before she gets there. The interaction you posted is great... if she was there. I don't know how long until this "break", but you might find it hard to maintain this level. So, you can ping her or have an interaction once a week if she initiates. Don't get your hopes up, the longer it takes before you see each other, the less likely it is to happen. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 10:56 PM |
| 7 | If a girl recognizes that you are performing a routine on her, how would you counter that?That doesn't work for everyone. A lot of guys need routines to start out. Routines work some of the time and many guys need some positive experiences to develop confidence. You have to walk before you run. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Trading Psychology applied to GameHonest question: How do you apply a stoploss to game? | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:48 PM |
| 1 | A HB which I used to game, but never closed just broke up. How long until I start gaming her?In your mind, what are the downsides to now? If you don't act now, someone else might. I think she's the only one who can know if she's really ready or not. But like karlbarx mentions, don't fall into the trap of being the emotional tampon to rehash all the shit that happened in previous relationship or you will get FZ'ed so prepare your lines in your mind for what you are going to say when she brings it up. "it's not good for you to dwell on it, etc..." | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Girls on the phone..http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/elq2s/gaming_a_girl_and_she_picks_up_her_phone/ | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 04:05 PM |
| 6 | I can talk to anyone.I don't think you need to brag by saying that you can talk to anyone. I would rather excuse myself than trying to salvage a conversation that has gone stale. If you practice enough, the conversation shouldn't go stale unless she's completely uninteresting or evasive. There are always lots of good topics to talk about and you should have a list of emergency topics before you go out. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Apocalypse openerhttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j386i/the_apocalypse_owner_based_on_shock_and_awe/ | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Apocalypse openerhttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j386i/the_apocalypse_owner_based_on_shock_and_awe/ | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 03:51 AM |
| 2 | So she says... "I made a lot of bad decisions that night"I'm sure you can see how that's a problem. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 03:43 AM |
| 2 | So she says... "I made a lot of bad decisions that night"our friends know we hooked up Who told? her or you? | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 02:03 AM |
| 4 | What do you talk about on a date?/r/askreddit has some pretty good topics | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Fun/Playful Gems to say in ConvoIs Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a bitch? | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 04:48 PM |
| 2 | One-on-one elevator conversations.David Wygant shows how he does it while shopping: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJdM1ywBJBs | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 02:05 PM |
| 6 | Former FWB hangout rules?Is it ok for me to flat out tell her that I'm only going to hang out with her if theres sex involved. This never works. It ruins the mood and makes her feel like a slut. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 07:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Time Exercise. Long read about all my approaches. Skip to moral if you don't care.Check out this article on the first 3 to 5 minutes: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/h6h2o/this_week_in_askseddit_the_first_35_minutes/ | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Going to ask a girl to hook up - direct. Any lines you guys want me to try?Compare the anxiety of asking her to hookup to the anxiety of making the first move once she's there. | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 02:36 PM |
| 5 | What does seddit think of this "get out of friend zone" lifehack?Yeah, sounds like you aren't confident enough to go out and find someone who hasn't FZ'ed you. This world is full of women, surely amongst the billions there is one who is better if you only try. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl didn't want kissed. Write her off?And remember to give her an alibi against being called a slut when isolating her. This is day game not nightclub game. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit. I'm back. :E Thoughts on "relationships killing game"These are problems with the exclusive type arrangement. You don't have to see other people even if you don't have an agreement. If you don't have an exclusive agreement, then you are free to see and act however you want. This is a discussion that we should have about exclusive relationships. It's what women say they want, but I'm not so sure it's for the best. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 07:15 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Never been hit on so hard in my life...For your own sake, you shouldn't have let it ruin your night, it's actually pretty complimentary that she was so attracted to you that she would risk the engagement. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 05:15 AM |
| 2 | I know it's wrong, but help me anyway.I don't even understand what you want or mean by "get the girl". If you live X and she lives Y and the distance between X and Y is large, what's your goal? Make her move back? Phone sex? Cam sex? Move there and marry her? | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How to move from friendship to sexual relationship?This should be in /r/askseddit. Stop saying things and start doing things. Use kino escalation to do it. Have a look at the Dicarlo escalation ladder. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 06:00 PM |
| 1 | First time [FR]. (Social Proof, Kino, Delayed Gratification and Heavy Bass)Check out this article if you think she's GF material: http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 04:07 PM |
| 4 | The Cheat Code: My Contribution to SedditIn case you didn't know, reddit itself downvotes submissions and adds some corresponding upvotes. It's part of the system used to hide whether or not spammer votes are counting or not. Also, don't take it personally if you do get downvotes. | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)I think it's okay, IF they do something for you first. Make them jump through a hoop to get the reward. | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)Poor guy... never given any shit... | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone know how to do this trick?You could preface the trick with "your minds have to be open in order for me to read it. Make sure your mind is completely open" then after the trick, you say that their minds have closed off to reading as "they are trying to figure out how it works". (another mind read) | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone know how to do this trick?Damn it, I knew the 4chan pickup would work... | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 06:59 PM |
| 101 | My secret that has been perfect (5/5) in getting women in the friend zone to get attracted to meYes, the PC term here is bitches... Bitches love doubt and confusion. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 07:08 PM |
| 100 | My secret that has been perfect (5/5) in getting women in the friend zone to get attracted to memjaumjau: Because you're such a nice friend... I think it's great that we're just friends. She likely won't want to push more towards the meaning of "just", but it plants doubt and confusion in her mind. Women love doubt and confusion. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 06:21 PM |
| -1 | Kudos to SedditI have to deal with the catcalls and all the women undressing me with their eyes, so I might as well say it, I'm an HG10 | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 01:55 AM |
| 11 | Kudos to SedditYou already have, haven't you? :p | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 01:04 AM |
| 7 | Kudos to SedditOh come on... You know what I meant. What's your rating? | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Kudos to SedditVerdict? | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 12:28 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend isn't physically attracted to me. Any advice?I have a couple weeks before this relationship is completely dead Is that what she told you? | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Are you studying seduction to get chicks, or to be a better man?I'm not personally offended. I just think that using techniques doesn't make someone a child. Some people have been socialized wrong and while they may be confident inside and have their personal life going well, the way that they present themselves to women comes off wrong and consequently they are often unsuccessful with women. | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Are you studying seduction to get chicks, or to be a better man?If your game is air tight and you need no techniques then why do you come here? Just to put down those who need help through the use of techniques? And how are you bettering yourself? | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Are you studying seduction to get chicks, or to be a better man?I don't like the implication that you are making. Even good men who have their inner game down need techniques to handle situations according to cultural norms. | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 07:25 PM |
| 4 | The Secret to Success with Women…If you are both not invested, then you are just like every other set of two people who don't know or care about each other. How can you get her to be more invested in you? | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Mystery speaks about IOIsHe doesn't say beauty doesn't matter. He says that beauty is secondary. He's a fucking douche to that chick...poor girl. She gets all dressed up to make him look cool in his video, and he responds by denigrating her. He said she had 2 out of the 3 qualities and that that was a good start. He also said that she was a stranger (that he didn't know her from a hole in the wall -(she's nothing special to him) but he is curious) I'm not sure how that's denigration. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Mystery speaks about IOIsHe says "there are specific hardwired ..." I take this to mean that there are some IOIs that are evolutionary hardwired IOIs. Do you interpret it a different way? | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Mystery speaks about IOIsYour nose is now itchy. :) | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Mystery speaks about IOIsI don't get what you are saying. Aren't false dichotomies something where the answer isn't necessarily either "this" or "that"? Yet, you argue that IOI's are "that" (conditioning). Couldn't the answer be both? And that some IOIs are evolutionary hardwired? | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Roissy Maxims Remixyou don’t need to be suspicious of them How can I not be suspicious? I mean, that's the whole reason why I don't get into exclusive relationships. What could I trust them for? | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Roissy Maxims RemixThe girl's either gonna fuck the guy who makes her horny, or the guy who doesn't make her horny. I honestly don't understand what this means. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Roissy Maxims RemixTreat women like human beings — you don’t need to be suspicious of them The gina tingle is the principal moral code to which women subscribe. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 02:02 AM |
| 1 | PUA mindset messed up my psychologyIf A2 is "Female-to-Male Interest" and A3 is "Male-to-Female Interest" where does you statement fit? I don't see how this fits in with the routine? If this is A3, this seems like a disqualifier and something that she can't qualify her way out of. You're supposed to be interested in her for something other than her looks. Something where you can deem her cool/worthy/interesting and "special". | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 02:01 AM |
| 1 | PUA mindset messed up my psychologywho lies more, men or women?" what's wrong with asking that? I've been asking her whole bunch of stupid questions, push/pulling, just to see how she'll react. If she's into it and having fun, what's the problem? Are you thinking this is a form of hypnosis or something? What's messed up about your psychology? Can you no longer go back to your old self? Do you think these stupid questions have messed with your chances at a serious relationship with her? | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 01:01 AM |
| 2 | The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary success: You.would it have made you feel better if he'd have labeled it as a crosspost? | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 08:44 PM |
| 4 | It all came together last night, I can see so much clearer now. [FR]"I dont know you, I dont talk to strangers" followed by: She responded with something about how im a stranger, Holy shit that worked well, nice! | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 01:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Coffee Shop ApproachHa, just read the tl;dr first. Reads completely different from the FR if you read it first. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Never satisfied?I don't see how you can marry her. You are setting yourself and her up for heartbreak. If you are itching now, just think about how it will be after you know that you are trapped. Just ride it out and keep refusing and if you need to see other people tell her that's the way it is and take it or leave it. There are other smart, caring beautiful HB8's in the world. Lots of them. I read that book mentioned in another thread "How I found freedom in an unfree world". That sort of cemented my position… | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Thanks seddit! Closed and BJ+FUCKED hot milfy at Daffys!Sorry, I have a bf" or "Im seeing someone" haha, from your FR, seems like "I have a bf" isn't worst case... | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 03:52 AM |
| 2 | I got myself into a weird spotI don't see you proposing something better. From the girl's point of view, I think it would be devastating to realize that he was never interested and she was just a toy to him. I don't pretend to justify his actions, but as I see it, this is the best solution for the situation for all parties involved. Maybe you should address OP if you have a problem with what he did. | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 05:11 AM |
| 5 | I got myself into a weird spotIf you say you are practicing, they will. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 05:29 PM |
| 9 | I got myself into a weird spotI think the full truth would be hurtful to her. I would just say "it's not going to work out between us" and don't give anything more. Just walk away if in person or say that you are hanging up now on the phone if by phone. Be aware that there may be collateral damage if you tell her more. You may be labelled as a player by her friends and maybe even her friend's friends. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Girl I have known for about 4 years is really flirty but I think she has no interest"I love me too" or "I know" or "You should" | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Breaking the friendzone... from the other perspective.I would also like to regain some of my frame/control You don't actually want control. You just want a release from the sexual tension. :) | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 02:37 AM |
| 3 | [April FR #1] First time solo in a while. A cougar, a goth, and an F-close. Epic win.What was the kino escalation order? | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 06:43 AM |
| 1 | [OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how.As per the discussion before that result wasn't separated out into males and females. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 07:53 PM |
| 1 | [OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how.If you don't like children, there's virtually nothing available. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Quick tip on dealing with White KnightsYou edited this post, didn't you? | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 12:03 AM |
| 2 | My rules of conversationYou might want to correct all the references to "conservation" :) | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 04:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Stop masturbating if you want to get laid, a mini-FRI certainly can't last longer if I've been holding out for a while. I'm not sure that I've been "over masturbating" though. The first article seems to be mixing in a description of the use of the "Death grip" which certainly could cause all kinds of problems. I wish the second link would have provided some sort of reference to peer reviewed information instead of just putting out a boatload of claims. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 06:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Stop masturbating if you want to get laid, a mini-FRWhat's your source for this information. I'm skeptical. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Qualification – How to not be a man slutIf you sleep with "special" ladies, then you aren't a man slut. It's about the quality of ladies you sleep with, not quantity. BTW, I'm not the one making the judgement. It's more of a case that the woman wants to feel special. | /r/seduction | 09/03/11 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Qualification – How to not be a man slutIf you sleep with "anyone" and not only special ladies (as qualified), then you are seen as a man slut. | /r/seduction | 09/03/11 01:50 PM |
| 5 | Common Pitfalls: Oneitis & Poor Inner GameWhat would TofuTofu do? | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 02:36 PM |
| 6 | You boys are dangerous.....promotion, promotion, promotion | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 06:29 PM |
| 2 | The Inner Game of Being AlphaSo a generalization would be to take the criticism and turn it into a constructive criticism in a playful way? I think that works for women that criticize you. What if a man had said this to you? | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 01:14 PM |
| 19 | A quick example of how I beat out a 'nice guy' and why he lostMe too. I turn the volume off though. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How a guy can impress his date before the date begins (x-post from TIL)Ask a favor from a hostess, spend $24 on a wine tasting menu, be a gentleman. It's surprisingly specific about the cost. First date?? Maybe I'm just a cheap bastard. :) | /r/seduction | 25/02/11 11:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Unsurmountable shit test & value of social proof, even weeks laterI don't understand why she would even say that. Is this a trick of PUAs in Japan? Like a novelty or something? | /r/seduction | 24/02/11 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD)Being as comfortable, or more comfortable than the girl -no leaning in to hear her, no standing while she is sitting. Get comfortable, relax, she should be excited to talk to someone as cool as you, not the other way around. Sometimes the girl gets a little shy around me. If I can't hear what she's saying because she's speaking too quietly, what can I do? | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Refresher on Passing Shit Tests - Agree and Amplify and WHY IT WORKSDidn't he actually say that one of the shit tests was her hitting you? | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Lesson 1: Primer on Being a Modern Alpha MaleExcellent post, thanks for taking the time. Respect. 3) Be self-validated What's the best way to deal with someone who is being overly complimentary? | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How to get into clubs/lounges solo in nyc?Is this the one? http://www.attractionexplained.com/378/world-pua-summi/ | /r/seduction | 17/02/11 06:20 PM |
| 1 | My successful, tested online dating tip: Change profile, try againcan you explain what you mean by a "generic travel email"? | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 11:10 PM |
| 3 | My successful, tested online dating tip: Change profile, try againI'm curious now what you replied. | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 11:06 PM |
| 11 | Mini (FR). 6 texts to closetell her I'll give her a one-time raincheck that expires next weekend. Brilliant. Stealing this. | /r/seduction | 11/02/11 04:04 PM |
| 1 | With V-day coming up dating sites are going crazy!Did you give an award to someone? Someone popular? | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Some wisdom from a BOSS, Reposting b/c of spam filter (?)It all sounds good, in theory. Several things don't work in the real world. For instance : If you’re good at something, anything, be proud of it, and be proud of what you’ve done. If you work in the wrong field, don't be proud of it. Women want something that they can tell their friends and family about. People make snap judgement and stereotypes about certain types of people. Right or wrong, it can ruin even short-term dating. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 02:34 PM |
| 5 | How do you counter a jab at being bald?What turns you on so much about bald men? | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 05:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I separate the AFC who's around all the time from the target?By telling girl that OP is bad news? I always thought the "bad boy" image was attractive to women... | /r/seduction | 05/02/11 07:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I separate the AFC who's around all the time from the target?AFC will be hostile after he finds how I'm there for the girl. What concerns you about this? | /r/seduction | 05/02/11 04:28 PM |
| 1 | A piece of adviceNo pressure, eh? | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 04:58 PM |
| 1 | My Indispensable PUA Tool - Google VoiceHa ha. Caps are going to be thrown out... Also, found a possible partial alternative: http://www.freephoneline.ca | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 06:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR 2] Solo sarging an F closeI look up and there are two separate girls (HB9 & HB 8) I've been working on slow burns (i.e, months) that I was just starting to make some really good progress with staring at me. I pretend like I don't see them but pretty sure I royally fucked those chances up. Be confident, don't assume you messed it up - some girls get jealous seeing guys making out. It doesn't matter anyway because you're getting some and have your game on. Nice one! | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 06:25 AM |
| 2 | 2nd day F-close with some weird LMR: "You know I have a boyfriend, right?"So, in this situation with LMR with the revelation of a BF, would you follow through anyway? | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 06:09 AM |
| 1 | My Indispensable PUA Tool - Google Voiceanyone have a canadian alternative? | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.POF sucks for finding girlfriends. Okay for ONS. Depends on what you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 04:42 PM |
| 10 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.Well, it did mention match.com by name. As well as, bust it as basically useless for most people and a tease at best. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 03:14 PM |
| 22 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.Nothing good lasts forever | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Climbed out of friend zone, now I need helpI would read over this post as well if I were you: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/etan6/seriously_though_dont_overtext/ | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Climbed out of friend zone, now I need helpEvery day? Really? And she's not your girlfriend? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fd5zd/availability/ | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 05:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] New pickup strategy discovered "Angel/Goddess Technique" - GREAT SUCCESSGenius, pure genius | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to keep your facebook profile attractive.What do you say to girls who want facebook? You say you don't use facebook too much... but if she says "that's fine, make a friend anyway" | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Oldie but goodie - AFC Adam's presentation on Social Proof, Entourage Game, and How To Work a Club - worth the watchHave you tried the close method he mentions? | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a girl texts you "Im sooo bored"Me: Hey when you gonna let me hit that? Her: Ha didnt know you were interested Me: After you used your teeth when you said goodbye the other night I was hooked Her: Wait what? | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 01:22 AM |
| 2 | male virgin in vegasReally, the big deal about sex is the girl. Her mind makes it good. It's exciting because of all the dynamic factors. Having sex with a slut who has to do it with you, on the other hand, is emotionally empty and mechanical. Not at all the same. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR #6] Shit test queen, I am disappoint.When can I pencil you in for a phone call to confirm? This was the test to see if she could flake on you. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:33 PM |
| 1 | New girl in my life. She says just friends, but every time we hang out it feels like we're dating. We cuddle and I feel so complete when I'm with her. She's still hung up on her ex. What should I do?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eii7u/seddit_is_not_about_helping_you_get_one_specific/c18c6g8 | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 02:58 PM |
| 1 | New girl in my life. She says just friends, but every time we hang out it feels like we're dating. We cuddle and I feel so complete when I'm with her. She's still hung up on her ex. What should I do?I thought you couldn't handle her being a friend if she's so compatible with you? | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Ok this is important! Need advice. Possible 3some opportunity.Make sure to follow up with FR post. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Ok this is important! Need advice. Possible 3some opportunity.IMO, it's not your job to make her comfortable. Just tell her that you are cool with it and play up the aspects that excite her. You can't talk someone out of being jealous, she has to be the one who makes herself okay with it. Logic won't work. Play up the exciting emotions and be descriptive. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.Escort service manager. Are you looking to make some extra money? | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Bitches love smiley faces? ;):) | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.She's a spy from 2X Chromosomes subreddit. She's trying to get the dirt on which shit tests not to use anymore. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.Ass model :p | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.I think women whining to you is a shit test. I've thought about saying "do you have off switch?" What would be something more funny that would get the point across? | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.How much do you make? You wouldn't believe how much some of these women pay! It's insane! No really? How much? No really! They pay top dollar for my precious booty. How much do you make? Why? You looking for a new gig? hmm... I don't know... | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.I think I'll stick to my guns and keep refusing to tell in a funny way. Thanks for your idea though. My new job is "Ass model" - I could show you, but I'd have to charge | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 06:35 PM |
| 9 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.I gave funny answers the first two times she asked me what I did for a living, but the third time she asked I told her. Now she ignores me. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.I'm not that easy... | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Shit Tests. Give me one shit test you got, how you dealt with it and if you got laid.Obviously she was or how could she mention them? Hey everybody, deadundead is a spy! Vote her up! | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:04 PM |
| 3 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Maybe this is a good topic to bring up with Love Systems, I was wondering that myself. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 12:08 AM |
| 5 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)He's quoting the "mystery method" almost word for word. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:06 PM |
| 7 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)impossible! | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Dissecting shit test passing measures (Tyler Durden)Q: What do you do for a living? A: Oh...you're one of those girls who's only into guys for their money. Any comments on this response? Good, bad? | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Dissecting shit test passing measures (Tyler Durden)Well, I wanted it to be a surprise, but we're getting married in vegas tomorrow! | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 02:55 PM |
| 1 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?I asked for her number, but now radio silence. Send her jokes by email? | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Dissecting shit test passing measures (Tyler Durden)What's a good answer? | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:57 AM |
| 1 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?Actually, I could get caught. She knows which profile is mine on OKC and it lists when you were last on. I don't really want to kill the profile just for that. I have other convos going. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:11 AM |
| 1 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?Let's say I write to her tomorrow and tell her this and she write right away and asks where I'm going and why. Do I just ignore the why question and tell her France (for instance)? | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:04 AM |
| 1 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?It's an interesting idea, thanks for the suggestion. I guess I'd need to go somewhere without internet access and there would need to be a reason I'm going there. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 04:39 AM |
| 2 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?Like asking for pictures of breasts? | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 04:32 AM |
| 1 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?I was looking for stories if people had preemptively backed out before. The general gist of how I fucked up was that I was boring and although I joked with her some, I also told her what I do for a living. I probably sounded too eager as well. Now radio silence, so I assume the attraction is gone or almost gone. I'd rather back out than make her tell me. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 04:28 AM |
| 0 | So, I was writing back and forth to a girl on OKCupid and then fucked it up (I think). So, I plan to withdraw before she she tells me it's over. Advice?Ha ha. How would I word that email? Yo, Show me the boobies or I'm gone. -James | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 12:18 AM |
| 2 | In the 10 years I have learned about seduction.. If I did it again, I would throw all of it away and follow this...How are you supposed to convey your state? The site is down now. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 12:50 AM |
| 5 | My new song to get pumped up.Justice Genesis http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThKNt-GY1ww | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Write this down guys: how to dismantle a shit test "Who is the hottest girl in our group?"Try to use comedy to diffuse the situation. But, I think you need to stand your ground, use alpha posturing, look mean. Sometimes it might end in fights, but you have to be prepared. | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 12:16 AM |
| 9 | Write this down guys: how to dismantle a shit test "Who is the hottest girl in our group?"I think David DeAngelo talks about this and he advised you to handle it the same way. Good job! The other situation that he mentions is when you have a date and guys are cat-calling at her. He advises to act as if they are cat calling at you. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Sick of winding up at total sausage fests? this app is for you. program aggregates 4square and other social location services to display bars/clubs with a higher ratio of women to men.what were those creatures I've been meeting here? | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 05:37 PM |
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