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The thread here is hilarious. Using TikTok as a reference point, what young women are thinking in general is a rather daring position to begin with. Unsocial media never tells the truth. They are full of pretenders.
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:20 PM
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If I were a woman, I wouldn’t choose myself over hotter guys. What’s the point? Are you serious, dude? Do you have a strong feminine side that lets you know what women want? I can’t do that—if I try to think about men in a sexual sense, it just makes me nauseous. I don’t have a single clue what women find attractive in a man. How about you? How do you know how women feel? What do women like in a man? The second sentence in your post is the main problem.
/r/seduction11/02/26 10:45 AM
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I disagree. It might be an option for boys and young men in their 20s. But it's nothing for men that are not young anymore but not really old yet. I mean, for me, as a guy born in 1985, dealing with tons of women to stick to one sounds annoying. It is hard to be that popular in that age range. I am more in for quality beats quantity. I would not discourage younger guys to try it but I doubt it is the best way for every young guy out there too. It is strategy worth considering but I would not sel…
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:59 AM
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Thanks for your reply. I do not mind being wrong on that. There is certainly a point in what you are saying.
/r/seduction07/01/26 06:53 PM
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That's great for you, but not working for everybody. Some men need to fight hard to get attraction and attraction is not just passing by.
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:06 PM
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I like nightclubs because it is the place where the women are. It is as simple as that. It might depend on the country or region, but in my city in Austria, bars are something for the old folks. And with old, I really mean old. I am not young anymore either—I turned 40 in October. With 'old,' I mean people in their 50s or 60s and it is mostly dudes. Nightclubs are not pefect. The long lines can be anoying but sometimes it is nice to have some mindless fun with dancing and some drinks.
/r/seduction27/12/25 09:13 AM
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In general, what you're saying makes sense. Masturbation combined with porn can definitely be a bad habit — I get that. But that doesn't apply to me, as I don't watch porn and only rely on my own fantasies. Even if I stopped that, it wouldn't help me get more women. It would just make me hornier, which is an obstacle in itself. I'm already 40 — the golden days when potential partners were everywhere are gone. Dating at my age isn't a sprint, it's a marathon. And for a marathon, I need a clear mi…
/r/seduction16/10/25 06:17 PM
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No. I do not watch it all the time only once in a while. And watching it not watching it does not change anything in my way of thinking.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:10 AM
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Just do not do i then. teasing is double edged sword anyway. Some women might like, others wil think that you are jerk and say good bye to you. The chance that they are freaking out is there bu they are not very likely. You still should not do it it makes you feel unconfortable und triggers some emotional pain.
/r/seduction28/05/25 03:21 PM
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Good advice. Another good advice is It's important to stay true to oneself. Not for the women but only for yourself. It seems too many especially young dudes try to improve just to get women. They do not see growth as something to they for themselves and do it just for the ladies. Then they get salty whent he women do not fancy them for their efforts. This a negative feedback loop . Nothing good comes out of it. Most guys are ok with the ladies if they act normal and live for themselves and no f…
/r/seduction28/05/25 03:19 PM
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Cold approach is not perfect but is the only way of approaching that always work no matter what. You are right there are better ways but your advice with the social sphere is useless for me. Dude, I am 39 my social sphere only consits of married people, or married with children people, people in long term relationships or people or people that gave up on dating becaus they have seen too much bs. I`d rather find a snowflake in the dessert than scoring in such hostil enviroment for getting women. …
/r/seduction21/05/25 06:03 AM
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It's sad that so many young guys don't make anything of their youth and even resent it. I'm 39 and I wish I were 20 again. When it comes to dating, there’s probably not much positivity ahead in the next stages of life — more like a dry and boring desert. Sure, with some luck, you might still get lucky now and then, but the chances of meeting someone are much higher in your twenties. But so be it. We all only have one life, and we should make the best — whatever that may be — out of every stage o…
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:23 PM
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A good idea, but it wouldn't change much. Just because someone is good at picking up women doesn't automatically mean that they are also a good teacher. Game is also something very individual. There is no one method that works equally well for everyone. A lot of the classic pick up ideologies like push pull, negging and the other borderline methods of manipulation are against my character. That's why I'll never be good at it. Things like getting out of the comfort zone, socializing more and work…
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:21 AM
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I would never know. I would not waste my time with women like that. relationship should be based on mutual trust. What is the point interacting wit hsuch confused human beings.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:58 PM
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Just asking out curiosity. What is the origin of that rule? To me ist dos not make any sense at all. I am 39 and according that rule I am not supposed to date anyone younger than 26. Does not make much sense to me becaus 26 is also very young. I am sure that I would be too old for that kind of women.. But never mind. Still a funny rule.
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:53 PM
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how about not wasting time with the signals and just try to approach if you feel like it. Might be unpoplar opinion here but I do not believe in signs. If I would have waited for signs that women show interest in me I would be a 39 year old virgin. The worst rejections I got when "signs" were involved. I got my 3 long term girlfriends through a non sign policy.
/r/seduction23/04/25 06:06 AM
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Dating apps are merciless for the non-pretty boys. You only have your picture to shine. A picture is relentless when you have flaws. For young boys without any flaws that arev visible on the picture dating apps might be a worthwile playground.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:41 PM
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Depends on the culture. Have read many times that this should be the norm for people in the US. From European/Austrian point of view it sounds rather uncommon.
/r/seduction09/04/25 06:16 AM
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Nice motivation text and I am not saying you are wrong. But what can you do the women are too old. I am 39 (not young anymore) but I still run into old people all day. No matter where I go I run into grey and whiteheads or children. The only way to meet datetable /fuckable women is to hang out at night live places during the weekend. Could be worse but this makes gaming quite expensive. I wish I can find a less expensive way to be around women that are datetable.
/r/seduction09/04/25 06:14 AM
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Wealth. You do no need women/game to survive, but having no money makes survival difficult.
/r/seduction06/04/25 08:56 PM
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Online dating can work, but only if you are very hot. For average dudes, it is just a mediocre way to meet women. On dating apps, you only have your own picture to advertise yourself. So far, so good. What can be done if you are not just good-looking in pictures? How can an looking guy with some obvious flaws do get picked by women? In the real world, you can trick a bit. You can use some other character traits to get the attention. This way is not easier than online dating but you in the real w…
/r/seduction05/04/25 09:24 PM
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Just ignore it and move on. My journey in cold approaching tought me one thing. IOA are a big lie. Suble things like smiling or looking at you in certain way means nothing between strangers. I saw no difference in approaching women that gave signs and women without that signs. Some react cold, others react more friendly . I could not spot a single difference in behavior.
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:33 AM
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Yes this make sense. It always a question of the perspective. As long as being honest and not over doing it there should be nothing wrong with it. I will try some of the techniques out but without overdoing them.
/r/seduction25/03/25 07:22 AM
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it could work if you are hot. For the the average guy it is a bad advice. it is not a advice per se. Finding an other purpose in life than women is a good tip. It can help to have content life without women is always worth pursuing. But never expect to get a woman by just living a content life without women. This is not going to work for most dudes. Men still have to make a move. Girls are not coming out of nowhere.
/r/seduction23/03/25 10:41 PM
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You have a point. I think Pua is lot of useful tools that are worth learning and refining but am not a fan of talking everything literally.
/r/seduction23/03/25 10:07 AM
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Thanks for mentioning some very important points. I will try to learn from them.
/r/seduction22/03/25 09:41 PM
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Thanks for you interesting take. Yes finding it out in the field is the only to learn and progess. You mentioined many interesting points. I will think about it.
/r/seduction22/03/25 09:26 PM
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In my experience 15 per cent is way high for the yes women. I have never met a yes women in my life. I had all my 3 long term relationships with maybe girls. Also the dates did not lead to nowhere were with maybe girls. I have never met a yes girl. Probably never will. I am 39 already and the older you get the harder dating becomes.
/r/seduction16/03/25 10:33 AM
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In a way, the relationship between men and women needs to be redefined. It is usual for women to break down the classic role models while men are still expected to continue to fulfill the classic role clichés. This can lead to a particular imbalance in the dating sector, which can be a disadvantage for us men. I do not want to fall into the pity trap and blame society for my shortcomings, but we live in complicated times. Maybe it has something to do with my age as well. I am not young anymore b…
/r/seduction14/03/25 04:45 PM
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True words spoken. I was not looking for a magic answer that works all the time. I do not believe such an answer even exists in the first place. I was looking for answers from guys who are good at getting laid and have some favorite spots. The man among men can find women everywhere, I do not doubt that. But only a few men have the stuff to do that. For normal guys, it is better to look for places where the chances are higher that women might in the mood. You still have to convince them but it e…
/r/seduction05/03/25 09:55 AM
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Very well said. This makes lots of sense.. Great points to consider what which I will do.
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:14 AM
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Partially true. But location matters a lot. Places women visit for fun are better than places where women are busy with daily chores.
/r/seduction04/03/25 03:12 PM
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Yes, i would also be interested to learn more about the statement.
/r/seduction04/03/25 11:58 AM
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Demographics are important for sure. Maybe even more important than I though. Here in my Austrian 100.000k city the odds are against me. When I go out to do my daily stuff I just meet men or women in their 50s, 60s and 70s. Not the best place for day game. Just came back from my Vacation and the NYC is different world. It does not matter where you go. Even when just doing some daily things you might enounter into women to approach. In order to lots of daily approaches a city with good demopgrahi…
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:46 AM
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Maybe. I still think that are some bad things that were just bad. But in the dating context there might be some leasons hidden that could help me to get better.
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:15 AM
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So far I was just playing around. try to get into many basic converstations with women i do not know. The purpose was to make it feel natural to me to talk strangers. Still a long way to go make it really feel like my second nature I got better. I now want to get deeper into the topic to learn how to escalate and show the women what I want. For that purpose I will shift my focus to night game.
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:02 PM
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Good for you. The bad things that happened to me personally were just bad. Nothing good came out of it. That is all I can say.
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:51 PM
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Getting better with game to improve my interactions with the ladies. I do not mind getting another long term relationship. But some casual hook ups would also be alright. I have no definite goals. Just to get better with it and interact with as many ladies as possible and having more sex again.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:38 AM
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The internet is not the real world. It is hard to believe that women in general got tired of hook up culture. Not every woman in the world is into hook up culture general. The girls that want to it will keep doing it and the ones who have never been into it in the first place will stay away from it in the future too.
/r/seduction19/02/25 07:18 AM
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You make good points and describe the situation rather well. Getting a balanced look at things is indeed my main problem. So far I am rather good at keeping my emotional distance and acting indifferent. This is not bad per se but I lack the balance. I need open up a little to form a connection. Not too much to not fall for them again but enough to spark some interest that could lead to sex eventually. The concept of delayed trust like you call it sounds good.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:32 PM
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Yes, I can. In a financial sense, I got everything, but my mother was a moody person whose emotions were hard to read. So, I grew up seeing women as rather cold and unpredictable beings. The final nail in the coffin was my first love at the age of 15.. One girl in my class was a big flirt. She flirted with me, touched me it seemed that she was into me. Asked her out and got rejected. Since then I am careful with trusting women and I do not try to make any assumptions. I am not blaming the girl b…
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:56 AM
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I am from Austria. And yeah the women in my 100.000 inhabitants city are more on the average side.
/r/seduction13/02/25 07:15 PM
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No I am not from GB. I am from Austria. I also do not put the women down when I say most of them are average. I have not called them ugly. This would be an insult.
/r/seduction13/02/25 10:51 AM
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How old are you and what makes you think that there is something wrong with women nowadays? Did you have a time when it was better with your own eyes? I am 39 already and I can think of a few things that used to be better (tech, movies, games, music) but no women or people in general.
/r/seduction13/02/25 09:46 AM
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How many American women do you know personally to back up your claim? What makes you think that the op's baggage will not travel with him? Op seems to have issues forming a personal connection/bond with the women with whom he is interacts. Why should things be different in Europe? What does this guy have to offer to repel US girls and attract European Women?
/r/seduction13/02/25 09:21 AM
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How do you know that women in your region are not interested in dating? Wouldn`it be way more logical to conclude that they are just not interested in dating you because you are boring? Travelling is not going to save your problem because your issues are going to travel with you. Europe is a big place. In my European home country there is no abundance of attractive women. It is the land avergage. Tons of normal looking women. Not many women are sticking out because all are average at best. There…
/r/seduction13/02/25 07:25 AM
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An interesting point. But what do you mean by the law of nature exactly?
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:59 PM
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Yes, you were lucky. Women can be very fierce indeed when they reject guys. You need to have thick skin when doing day game
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:41 PM
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I do do not prefer day game but day game is the only way to approach without any further resources. I am 39 and I have friends. But neither my friends nor their friends have singles in their circles. Dating aps are not working because I am not pretty picture boy. I would not consider myself ugly but i have flaws and these flaws are very obivious on pictures which makes me more ugly on pics than I am in my real life. In day game you do not need friends to go out with you. You just have to brave e…
/r/seduction11/02/25 07:33 AM
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No offense dude but what is the point of that post? This not the right spot on reddit for the lucky few that were able to attract women by just existing. Most guys here are not good with that or they want to improve themselves. I cannot believe that any guy that is interested in the topic of seduction seriosly thinks that waiting and being passive is the key.
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:24 AM
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I do not believe in IOs so I do not see them. What I see is that some strange women react differently than other women. Sometimes strange women smile at me when I look in their direction or keep their door open. Some women look at me in a different way than others do (with dilated pupils which is supposed to indicate positive surprise) I never made anything out of that. I might have been some IOs or maybe just normal human behavior. The best way is just to take your fate into your hand and appro…
/r/seduction05/02/25 01:27 PM
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It cannot applied to me. The older I get the more difficult it gets. Too old to be attractive for younger women and women at my age or a bit younger are fed up with men already. It's still cool to hear that it works for some guys.
/r/seduction05/02/25 12:48 PM
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Changing the country just for dating is not very smart. You are not going to leave your problems in your old country. You will bring them with you into the new location. If you suck at home you will suck in the new country. I have to agree that location matters to a certain degree though. My home town has demographic problem. I am just surrounded by old people. And with old I mean really old. I am already 39. It would be great if I had to chance to meet new people just living my life. But whenev…
/r/seduction29/01/25 09:25 AM
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I understand you well. But yes let's agree to disagree. I know I am not attractive at all. There are too many flaws in my genetic code. I still manged to get 3 long germ gfs. I could convince them with other trades. Look can help but it is not the only way to get a woman. That is all I am saying.
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:33 PM
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Do you have proof that the men who call themselves attractive are always wrong? You say all you need to get women is looks right? I think that things are not easy. Looks can help sure but it is not the only or even the best way.
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:17 PM
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Op is not wrong. They are so many guys out there complaining about having no gf despite the fact they consider themself attractive. Things are not that simple.
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:07 PM
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It's good for you if you are attractive. Not-so-attractive guys also want a girlfriend. These guys have to be active to show the women that they exist. The value of your advice is rather limited. If you even call the statement that women chase attractive guys advice in the first place.
/r/seduction20/01/25 12:53 PM
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I am sure your advice will be gold for some guys because this problem is quite common. I am a rare bread who has the opposite problems. My standards are too high. By standards, I do not mean pure looks. It is more the vibe. I only meet a few women who have a certain vibe that makes them interesting to me. Having standards is a good thing but too high standards could also overcomplicate things.
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:34 PM
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Just wait until you are older. Until then approach just girls of your age and wait for girls of your age to approach you.
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:29 PM
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Thanks . I am sure I going to have nice time.
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:16 AM
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Thanks for the info. Yes, asking the bartender for information about the bar scene in the area is a neat idea. I will ask around for sure. I am open to trying out the hotel bar and curious about venues in the area. 3 weeks is rather long time and it is good to be busy in the evenings when my friends need some couple time alone.
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:51 PM
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Same here. I have to say that gaming in Austria as an Austrian citizen is definitely gaming on hard mode or even ultra hard mode lol...
/r/seduction13/01/25 07:06 PM
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So true. Europe can be very different from country to country. Maybe some countries are open to Asians but I doubt this can be said about every country. Especially the more conservative ones.
/r/seduction13/01/25 06:47 PM
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It's not feasible advice for some guys. Some men have to convince women to like them. If I had waited for choosing signals I still would be a virgin.
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:32 PM
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Me too is not a thing here in Austria. Never had issues with it and also have not heard any stories about it. As long as you respect the bounderies of the girls everything should be fine. I also had to google up the term white knight in urban dictionary to understand what you guys mean. Never seen such a white knight in real life.
/r/seduction13/01/25 07:00 AM
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I am too old to take this labeling seriously. What is a good man? What is a bad boy and what is nice guy? This stuff means different things to different people. I believe that women like authentic men. A man that does not change his ways to impress a woman. A man who stands by his convictions.
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:07 PM
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Can you elaborate a bit more? What exactly is a bad boy persona? What did you do? How did you act in front of women?
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:00 PM
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I am 183cm and never had the impression that my height makes me more successful than other men who are smaller than me.
/r/seduction03/01/25 09:44 PM
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I do not think so. Nothing has changed in the last 10 years. Women are Women no matter what year we have. But let us assume for a moment that you are right Op what is your point? You cannot turn the clock back. You have to adapt to new circumstances to succeed.
/r/seduction30/12/24 10:15 PM
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I appreciate your recommendation. Yes, it makes sense that places like the ones you mentioned are very good starting points. I will consider them .
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:48 AM
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Thanks for your recommendation. I will do that. Trying out as many options as possible is never a bad thing.
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:44 AM
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Appearance plays a role everywhere, of course. To deny that would be nonsense. But still, when interacting in person you have more weapons in your arsenal to convince women to like you. Things like humor and mannerisms might help to turn the tides in my favor. During online dating, the only "weapon" to use is a photo. A picture certainly does not show the best of me. A photo of just shows an average guy with bad hair. Not the best attributes to get a woman´s attention that is for sure. I have to…
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:57 PM
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There is a big difference between the Internet and the real world. In the real world, you can overcome a bad look with other trades that women might find attractive. On dating sites, everything depends on looks. A picture of mine for example only shows all my weaknesses and none of my strengths. For some people dating apps might great butI believe for us average guys they real world has many more things to offer.
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:36 AM
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I am still 39 but that does not matter. You have a point. Gaming at universities would not work. Here in Austria. we do not have that college mentality like in the States. Going to university here in Austria is like going to work. It is not seen as a lifestyle where everyone is open to meeting new people and just mingling.
/r/seduction25/12/24 08:33 AM
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I have to agree. There is no perfect solution for everybody and efficiency is debatable. I have no social media face, so dating apps are not designed to work for someone like me. I am 39, and most of my friends are taken are even married with children. So the chances that I got introduced to women by friends are very low. My only chance is to go to places where women are. Then interact with them, and see if anything goes. This is the most efficient way for me.
/r/seduction25/12/24 07:59 AM
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Everything about bar or club gaming is imperfect, but I prefer it. In theory you met women everywhere but bars are clubs are still one the best spaces where lots of women are that might be interested in socialising. Such water holes so to speak are gold for someone like me who lives at place which gigantic age imbalance. When I go shopping or do other stuff in town I am still one of the youngest guys out there. Which is quite scary considering that I am almost 40. Women with grey and white hair …
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:06 AM
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There is way too much negativity in the thread. I cannot such much about it besides I disgree. with. I want to learn more about point 2 from the OP. May I ask how old you are? You sound very young so how do you now how clubbing was in the 80s and 90s?
/r/seduction23/12/24 08:40 AM
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Good for you. But what is the point? How can other people learn from your "findings?
/r/seduction25/11/24 07:04 PM
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Bought loyalty is the worst loyalty ever. It just sucks. I would never want to be with a woman who is only after my money. Sounds like a waste of cash to me. Such money is better spend in my hobbies. Such money is well spent because I know what I got for that. Investing money in women is like playing in the lottery and I do not play such games.
/r/seduction24/11/24 01:47 PM
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You certainly have a point. The post above sounded very lame and my mindset must have aged at a very high. From the point of view of biological age I am not that old yet.
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:55 AM
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Relationships are certainly not the solution to all problems and every guy should realize that. If a guy has some psychological issues a girlfriend will not make them go away. Besides the sexual side, I am not mad about being Single. But during my horny phases, it sucks. Had work all the time is getting boring and long-term gf would be the only path for sexual interaction. At 39 I am too old to have the chance for casual dates and random hookups. That is only something for young people. But I bu…
/r/seduction21/11/24 11:49 AM
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Good advice but are there men out there who think that they have time until 45 or 50 to enjoy their dating life? That is the most crazy thing I have ever heard. I am 39 know and is already hard quite now. In 6 or 10 years it is going to even harder. Way less chances to interact with your peers because many are taken already. Going for younger women would be an option but not every women is into old meat. Young guys should really stop asume that they have time and should act now.
/r/seduction09/11/24 01:41 PM
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I can understand to some degree that you are against porn but what is wrong with masturbating using the own imagination? I would not call myself week-minded I am trying to interact with women to find another gf but no self improvement in the world can cure my problems. At least I have not heard against a cure against againg. With almost 40 my best days are past me and the older to get the less chances you have to interact with women in a easy going way. I am not giving up but it is not easy. I a…
/r/seduction07/11/24 01:24 PM
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It is debatable if cold approach is the best way to meet women. But it is the only thing that will always work even when you get older. I am in my 30s now and not hot enough for dating apps. my Work is male dominated and everything is older than me. The same can be applied to the few women that work here. My female friends and there friends are already mothers with children. What I am supposed to do? Live like a monk or do some cold approach? I prefer cold approach. It is not a very elegant solu…
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:59 AM
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Human nature is too complex to label people this way. I am not an Alpha. I do not want to lead, I do not want to be respected, and I am no Beta, either. I do not want to follow someone, and I do not want other people to make decisions for me. I just make my own stuff, no matter what other people think about it. And not a single man can be an alpha in old fields. A professional athlete is an alpha male in his field. Butif you make him play chess with a pro in chess he is no alpha anymore. He woul…
/r/seduction26/10/24 08:11 AM
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I think you should not speak for all men. You only speak for gen Z men. And probably not even about all gen Z men. As older non gen z guy I can just say it has always been hard to date. Blaming externalf factors for your problems is not going to help you. Women always had leverage over men. Men always had to convince women to interact with them. That´s not easy. Never was never will be.
/r/seduction14/10/24 06:18 AM
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No clue. Never been there and have not asked the people that go there what they are into. Was not aware that there are many trans people in Thailand.
/r/seduction19/04/24 02:15 PM
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Why Americans always think Europe is good destination to get laid? As European I am always amused by such sentiments. It is not impossible here to get laid but not easy at all. There is a reason why many Europans love places like Thailand if they want to have a Sex vacation.
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:25 AM
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In theory you should live among your peers the whole time. So this means there should be plenty of girls arround. How about just talking with the girls around you. It is not going to get any easier later. During adult life you will eperience a huge age gap at many places you will go. Use your chance being sorrounded by girls at your daily "workplace" by default.
/r/seduction16/04/24 12:54 PM
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Maybe yes maybe no. I cannot tell for sure. In theory there is a rare bread of japanese women called Gaijin Hunter, that are supposed to throw themselves on foreign guys. Have never meet them during my Japan visits. But plenty of guys are talking about them. There must be true core to this myth.
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:39 PM
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I have some potential fumbles. I will never find out if they were real fumbles a lot. in my teenage years I was to risk averse for a couple of times. Everytime when some girls made some weird sexual comments I was never sure if serious or just trolling. I played it safe all the time and saw it as joke. So I did not react. The lastest potentail fumble was the most embarrasing one. Meet a girl at a nightlife setting that introducted me to some of her friends. The girls recommended doing some shots…
/r/seduction15/04/24 10:33 AM
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You are not fully wrong. Can be hard to approach in the real world as well and some women might not like day game. But some women are not all women. Und the word self respect and dating apps should not be mentioned in the same sentence. No offense letting a computer algorithm chosing your next partner is weird. The women who are getting recommended to you in a app are picked by a computer. And maybe it is just me but in my case the algorithm has no clue which women I am into.
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:33 PM
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I hate dating apps. They are best place for me If I want to get ignored and see lots of pictures of ugly chicks that are not even my type. The real world is not perfect either but at least you can approach whoever you want and are not getting bothered bad recommendations from a bad algorithm that has no clue with women I am into.
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:29 PM
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Yes that's true. Despite the fact I feel that my country sucks for dating because I am not compatible with the mentality of that certain country the idea of moving away because of Women never crossed the mind. Although it would make sense for me in a twisted kind of way. It is a white country and visually I prefer Asian girls over white ones. But I prefer social security and I like my job so moving away for women never crossed my mind. I will leave Europe for few month next year to the states th…
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:54 AM
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Yes and no. It is delusional of course to asume that visiting another country would turn you into Don Juan despite the fact you are no ladies men in your own country. But being different than other guys can give a small advantage. And when visiting another country you are different than the average joe in the country you are visiting. This could spark of the interest of some women and could lead to some nice conversations and maybe even more. But yeah you are not wrong. The perfect country for d…
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:40 AM
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Would you consider Santa Barbara as one of these town with women? I need to there in December for 3 months for work related English studies. I am from Europe and never have been to the states yet. But I was just about to plan my first US trip when I got the assignment. I am mainly there for work of course as a let's say pua student it might be interesting to practice as well when being abroad. I just hope that I am not too old to game in such beach town environments. I am in my 30s already. 😂.
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:59 PM
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Why should other people respect you if you do not respect yourself? Have you already tried to be proud of the stuff you are good at? Why you need the recognition from other people especially women to feel good? People won't respect you if you do not respect yourself. And no offense dude but you really should try to learn how to act mor confident. You want to work in the medical field right? Nobody wants to trust his health or even life to insecure wuss. Sorry for the hard words but wuss is the o…
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:47 AM
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I am way older than you so please excuse my ignorance, but I do not get the gist of the snapchap/instagram "controversy. Why did the girl disrespect you with giving you her instagram instead of her snapchat? You really sound like a spoiled chat that does not know what true disrespect is. Not getting what you want is not disrespecting you. You should learn to respect yourself first and try to deal with rejection with dignity.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:09 PM
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That's good a question. A kiss close is still a good stuff it is not a f**K close. I am new to pua stuff I met my previous girlfriends just via social circle game but my old hunting grounds are drying out so I need to master the ways of cold approach. For my as a novice this guide did not answer an important aspect of the club hook up. How do you keep the girl in mood before you find a proper place to move things further. Must be hard to keep the women entertained until arriving at my or her pla…
/r/seduction08/09/22 07:53 AM
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Stop being a pussy and tell her the truth. I am sure your fake height is not the reason why the girls are such into you. I am really 183 cm (which is about 6.inch I think not so familar with the US metrics) and I am not a pussy magnet. Did not had any sex since my break up last in summer 2021 and there no potential matting candiats in my life. If you are not trolling us with the 12 girls then you have more to offer then your fake height. Work an that natural resources and accept your shortcoming…
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:09 PM
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Nobody with in intact seelf esteem would call himself ugly or use other negative attributes to describe himself.
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:43 AM
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It is hard and simple at the same. You need to go out and be there were the girls are. Then you need to interact/talk with them and hope that some of them are going to like you. It is a long and not easy way but in general it can work. I never got female attention in my hole life and still managed to get a gf here and there. I personally think that female attention is overrated and often just misselading. The so called chosing signals did not work out for me at all. Everytime I asked a girl out …
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:30 AM
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If that is the case you try some cold approach. Just do every time at different place on the campus. Doing it always at th same place could raise some attention. Good Luck.
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:06 AM
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Lol you got a point somehow. If you are into asian girls Japan and Korea are really good places. Have been to both places as well and I'd say I prefer South Korea over Japan if the looks are concerned. I had not much personal interactions with the girls during my vacation. Was too intiminated due to language barrier to try anything.
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:58 AM
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I hope a random post is allowed. I am just asking out of curiosity and it has nothing to do with me as an European. It makes sense that model types and cheerleader are not approached that often because guys are afraid approaching hot girls. But sorority girls? Are also often hotter than the average girls or are they forbidden fruit because they are in a sorority? We do not have the so called greek life here in Europe or at least not in my country. So I am not familar with the social dynamics.
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:41 AM
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As an European I am not really familar with the US college life but when thinking about my own unversity life I would say that social game could work the best. You should have plenty of girlst to talk too before and after class. Do you guys also have some events organisted by the college. Like college sport groups or other activties where students can do stuff together? If so it would also be a good chance. Cold approach is also not of the table of course. But you need to confident enough to bru…
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:35 AM
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Creep is creep. It does not matter if you are a ugly creep or a handsome creep. If the manager thinks you are disturbing the business you have to go. Really cannot blame him for that. But it still sucks for u.
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:06 AM
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Never done it. Meet my gf via friends and not in University. She is not even attending my Uni. In general I would say just go for it dude. It might work but your plan also has a few cons. You describe yourself a a individual with low social skills. So the chances are hight that your approaches are not very good. A dude with low social skills trying to talk to women might raise some unwanted attention in a college environment. Gaming in a bigger environment might be smarter but if you just have a…
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:03 AM
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It does not sound like a shell to me. Sounds like your main problem is that you do not know many people at your new place. At the place you used to live (Hawaii) you seem to know some people that could help you to meet new women. You can just try too meet new friends that can introduce you to their social circle . In that circle there are hopefuly some other woman. ​ I can neither confirm nor deny if the location change is part of your problem or not. I have spend all my life in german city and …
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:18 PM
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You really sound young and inscure. Just be glad that your sister gives you the change to meet new people an do some networking. Do worry aboutif it is weird. It is not. It is great change for you. It does not sound like you have the change to hang out with that type of people regularly. Do not have any expectations. Just go there to have fun. Do not worry that much what others think about you. Just do your stuff and try to have a nice time. ​ ps: Have to admit that I am just a dude from Germany…
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:39 AM
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Touché. Maybe I was not just effective enough with my game when being at clubs and bars because I never scored there. Luckily I have not to worry about that stuff at the moment as a taken person. Your point about clubbing is valid advice to the op and anybody else that wants to try some pickup in the club. I will also remember it for the future in case I need to do some pick-up again. Hope the moment won't come that.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:14 PM
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Maybe you are right. But depends on the girls and maybe there are even cultural differences. Thank god I have gf now and so I do have to bother with that stuff but when I was still on the market bars and clubs were not to best place to meet women. It is not impossible but women sometimes want to be left alone to hang out with their friends and are not especially interested in getting hit on my random dudes all of the time. But that applies not to all women and I am talking about Germany here. Ma…
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:26 AM
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I am based in Germany and I presume you are in the states and I do not know how different our Universities and Us Colleges are. In general, your idea does not sound bad. Choosing a comfortable location to work on yourself is always good. It would not work in Germany though. Parties and events are rather closed-door events. You could just walk around on the property of the University and talk to women there. It would rather be suspicious though if a non-University guy is walking around on the pro…
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:05 PM
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Thanks. That is good to know. Then I am gonna to talk with my travel buddies to reconsider our destination and switch either to San Diego or swith the state we are going to visit in general.
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:30 AM
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Sorry did not see your post until now. First thanks for your reply but what is wrong with LA from the point of view off a plain short time visiting tourist? I am aware that the city has a share of it's problems and if not super rich I also would not consider living there if moving to the states should ever cross my mind but I do not see there is anything wrong with LA from a tourist's point of view. It is a good choice if you want the atmosphere of big Mega City and beach atmosphere. The only ot…
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:39 AM
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Yes you are right. That was over thinking delexue. Just doing it is the best advice.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:25 AM
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Was just asking out of plain curiosity if there are any reports about such things. 8 days are rather short time to do stuff so I jus wanted to know if the plan of my 2 buddies interacting with the female population is wortwhile or if is a waste of time. Time that could be used for other stuff.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:35 AM
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Depends on the place. In bigger cities it is quite common. German dudes with Asian woman can be seen quite often. Sometimes there also couples between German and people of Turkish origin that live in Germany. Black and white couples I have not seen yet but that does not mean that they do not exist.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:26 AM
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Thanks. That is good to know for my 2 travel buddies. I will let them try their luck then. As a taken person i will stay in the background. Talking with the local girls on a pure casual non flirty level is also great thing for me. Enriches the travel experience for sure when you interact with the locals as much as possible.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:17 PM
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The girls in stockholm are nice indeed. I do not have any clue how approable they are. I was on vacation there with my new girlfriend. So I was not that interested in getting new female aquientances.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:15 PM
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Ok thanks for the advice. I will check him out on Yt.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:52 AM
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White yes. Tall hm good question. I am 183cm, my buddies are 181 and 182 cm. Sorry using the european matrics I am not famiiar with the American measurements to be honest. i am also not sure if that is considered tall by the standards of the US. It is also good question of the german accent is considered a good stuff... Never though about that to be frank.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:49 AM
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Thanks for your valuable insight. Sounds like it could be a interesting experience for my buddies. So I am going to let them do their stuff. Talking to local people is also a interesting experience for myself. You learn way more about the country you travel too if you interact with the local population. It enhances the travel experience a lot. I always enjoyed that aspect of travelling when I visisted other countries. Your notes on LA especially are very appricated.
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:17 AM
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No problem I would not mind. I am not sure if the answer is going to help you though. According to your post you are your mid or late thirties. I am 26, much younger than you. And when I had my online dating experience I was even younger 22, 23. The women I had to deal were also in their early 20s. Not sure if you want to deal with that age gap in your age. But ok I am going to tell you anyway. The differences were not that big compared to offline dating. Just the level of flakiness increased. A…
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:44 AM
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You are welcome. Just use your commen sense when you are on twitter though. Of course you can find creepy chicks also during offline dating but they might be more common in online platforms. That's just my personal opinion. You might have complete different experience. But my experience was not totally negative but interesting to say at least. But that was a few years ago things might have changed and maybe the situation is different in Austria altogether. Besides that if i got your post right y…
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:00 AM
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It has been a while since I am out of the game so I am not sure if tinder still offer the passport feature in their app but if they do give give it a try. It is not cheap though about 30 euro. But it helps you to enhance your reach. More woman in other cities could you your profile. You could check out bigger cities that way that are not in your normal vicinity. You can even change your country compleltely. That feature could be helpful for your America plans as well. You could try to get into c…
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:43 AM
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I have a gf for 3 years know already so I cannot give any practiable advice but from the locks of the girls in Spain (Bazelona) and Sweden (Stockholm) look great. For Germany my Recommendation as a German would be Berlin.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:32 AM
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Nothing wrong with it dude . I really meant it when I said respect. I consider it as really thinking and attempting such stuff considering the bad reputation the us ladies/girls have in in the interweb. But their bad rep could be exaggerated as everything thing is in the interweb. I personally have no experience with Us ladies at all. So I just parroted the stuff us guys saying about their ladies. And often that's not nice. But as i said it better not to take everything serious the internet says…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:31 PM
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Respect for your determination trying to keep the game up even when abroad. There is nothing wrong with that. But even considering a hock up is really brave and daring. I am not saying that is not working for a foreigner to such things but I would be to risky for me. We are neigbors by the way. I am from Germany and also about to go on a trip to America for the first time but just for vaction and not for the game. Wish you good luck with your training for the approach anxiety and the other more …
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:28 AM
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