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Which would you prefer? And what have you run into with redpill friends being sociopaths exactly?
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:18 PM
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Yeah I agree with you, I never really brought anything on them for their ways, it wasn't until I actually started getting some blowback for being myself that I started getting peeved and began to ask myself "wait, these guys have no sense of fraternity, loyalty, they gossip, there's even trust issues. This isn't right." which I then pegged to THEIR version of masculinity just not holding up, it felt like dealing with a capricious female. You're totally right on Fight Club rule, lesson learned th…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:09 PM
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can you trust them to not gossip or share secrets, can you trust them to have your back What you mentioned right here is what's gotten to me lately. The lack of fraternity and camaraderie, trust and even gossping. Is this something common in blue pilled guys? I was shocked tbh with some recent shit.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:04 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:59 PM
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I get what you’re saying and it’s true. I’ll do that with one of them but the other I am 100% cutting off for other reasons.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:23 PM
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Yeah, I guess I may have made the mistake of mentioning RP stuff around them a bit. It was kind of hard to avoid when they'd always be crying over some girl that nexted them when I'd very clearly saw that they had no idea what they were doing and it would lead up to that. I mean, one of them even said at some point in an unrelated conversation "This is the best era of humanity because now we have feminism" and I just WTF'ed so hard inside. I guess I was already kind of planning to move on, while…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:30 PM
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This right here. Like, who cares, got laid.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:09 PM
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Exactly. And that’s the basis that women are emotional which is why they run for the hills when a guy does it. You have to stay in your masculine and not let that make you lose your frame.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:39 PM
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That too, agreed. I swear some people are autistic on here.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:15 PM
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Get a grip dude. Women with dating experience will do this either consciously or subconsciously to filter out needy psychos. You’re making posts about her reply speeds, what’s next? You mirror what’s she’s doing. Imagine she takes a day to reply and you respond back within 30 minutes, might as well put on the clown makeup. She taking long to reply? So do you, and you don’t care.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:04 AM
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A lot of what's been said here is mostly true. Also western culture today was largely influenced by advances in psychology, even branches of it like psychoanalysis (which we now know is a pseudo-science).
/r/askTRP15/03/21 08:29 AM
0

So she was doing this BEFORE you and her became exclusive? What the fuck do you care what she did in a past life, do you think she's a unicorn?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:19 AM
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I literally spent years going out by myself and then just making friends/meeting girls on my outings. Later, someone remarked "man I think it's so cool when I see you around the bar areas just doing your thing by yourself". Had no idea people were watching.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:39 PM
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She literally told me “when I know a guy likes me I lost interest”. Lmaoo Imagine if I’d say “I love you” or some shit, just told her after a date that I wanted to see her again.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:51 PM
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I did the same thing about a year ago. I said "let's see if TRP is true" and I just played it how a normie does. She was gone a week later.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:17 PM
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You know there's a possiblity she'll fizzle out after you accept to be friends right and disappear? It's not like she doesn't have friends of her own. Bro she was shit testing you with the age thing.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 01:53 PM
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TRP isn't about becoming a mysoginist or hating women. It's about opening your eyes to the rules of the game that's really being played. Don't hate the player, don't even hate the game, that's just nature and society. Everything has a system and rules to play by, TRP allows you to do that when it comes to the opposite sex. And to take care of yourself and think of your interests first as a man, the way they as women should focus on theirs and we can hopefully achieve equality, until someday we a…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:31 PM
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It's a sign of her waning interest due to superficiality and who knows what else. LTR and only 2 months? Are you betaing already? You're the prize, it's her loss if something like that will make her over look everything else from you. What YOU need to do is man the fuck up. So you're shorter than other people, so what ? You gonna cower in a corner the rest of your fucking life about it? Man the fuck up, see it not as a weakness but as a source of strength, walk into a room and become that guy th…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 04:55 PM
2

The Tailor of Panama with Pierce Brosnan, a classic red pill.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:44 AM
1

You mean the "go with it, you get to see how fucked they are early on" ? If this is the case, doesn't letting them ramble about some fucked up shit kill the mood to fuck later ?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:02 PM
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I think you maybe misunderstood me. I do change the subject, either tactfully or with a "Hey we're having fun, lets not get into serious topics." What I was asking about was, you mentioning that it was a sign OP had gotten into their comfort zone, same for me then. Do you recommend hearing their blahblahblah to create emotional rapport or switch topics to something more fun?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:24 PM
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This sounds like autism.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 10:59 AM
1

Wait wait wait hold up. So I always had women doing this on dates or before/after having sex. I always changed subjects with the streategy of "only discussing fun subjects so she associates you with a good time". Was I doing it wrong, should I have been listening to this?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:54 AM
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Why are you friends with people like this? I ball bust my pals, but this doesn't sound like it.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:09 PM
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I live in a big city, hour-long commutes are the norm. Ain't no thang, playa
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:45 AM
1

For sure. For men, our real psychological age is our real number minuts 6 or minus 7 and women know that. At 20, you're like a 14 year old in an adultish body. Nobody wants that.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:22 PM
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Maybe it wasn't your turn last time, maybe you weren't good enough, who knows. Talk as if it's a fresh start then ask her out. If she rejects then, that's your sign she's just seeking attention and you can move on and she's dead to you, leave this girl on read if she ever does it again unless she's the one asking you out.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:38 AM
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What would a male of an animal species do if he saw this behavior? He'd make sure his little brother knew his place in the pecking order.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:22 AM
15

lmao right ? Imagine being on TRP and saying do permanent shit to your body for girls' attention
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:22 PM
1

Corey Wayne should be required reading for every man.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:29 PM
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Read Corey Wayne's the 3% Men. You can get a copy free, anyway, he goes into detail over several chapters on this, it's a sign that there's something wrong in the relationship causing her attraction loss. He talks about what you can do, to attempt to remedy it at its roots. You have to figure out what she sees you're doing wrong. That said, do be prepared for it all to come to an end very soon.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:14 AM
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I've heard it from girls who I made it clear to being just friends was never gonna happen, she was back in my apartment 2 months later. Said to a girl that had a bf, guess who she's coming to visit now that she's single?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:13 PM
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Disagree, can be a shit test or maybe her brain doesn't know what to do.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:08 PM
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I disagree, you're actually telling her you have options by telling her "write me or don't, it's whatever". A successful male always leaves the door open for women to change their mind about you, they're like cats after all. You show you have options by not pursuing, by not trying to talk her into how great you'd be together, blah blah blah. You send that message and psychologically move on, more often then not you get a message from them later.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:07 PM
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Not necessarily, at all. I have hooked up with girls who tried that shit by making my intentions clear, sometimes it is a shit test. You respond with something that lets her know you have romantic or sexual intentions and aren't about to become one of her girlfriends. Now she knows you're a man. Balls in her court to decide if she does next or not.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:04 PM
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Who the fuck cares ? Is your life centered around dating? Is that where you find your value? You might be employing the RP for success in your life especially dating, but it doesn't seem like you're swallowing and internalizing it. You're not supposed to give a flying fuck about chasing tails.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:35 AM
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Not gonna read all that, but for the cooking one, she probably met someone else. Don't take it personally, it happens. Women interested in you make it easy to meet you. For the one you texted the day after, you NEVER. EVER. do that. Women are the ones that do that. Be in your masculine. You do not contact her after a date, you let her be the first one, and if she does, this is a sign of A LOT of attraction. If she doesn't say anything within first few days (hint: most women won't unless her attr…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:00 PM
9

You might wanna get an HIV test.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:22 AM
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Which applies to every field, they'll still make broads swoon. As many as a pro player or Ninja? Nah, but a thin slice of the pie is still a slice.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:19 PM
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Lmao I was gonna write back “ok boomer” if that meant what I thought it meant.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 03:19 PM
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Everything the RP has taught you should have you ready to know that it’s only ever just your turn. Whatever the outcome, just be ready to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 03:17 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:57 PM
1

Dread game, follow the YTer chad and start acting like you may want to initiate an LTR with him.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:49 PM
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I don't know how in touch you are with the current internet landscape, somehow gaming YTers can be lowkey celebs. Drake was fanboying to Ninja ffs. Social context matters as well, some known gamer may have 0 SMV to some thot into law or fashion, but OP's girl seems to have a gaming background.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:49 PM
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I just msg them on insta, was sucking on the last thot's tits soon after meeting up.
/r/seduction07/09/20 10:10 AM
1

There's your answer. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:32 AM
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She was shocked and hurt seeing you on a dating app-- which she herself had installed and a profile on searching for chads lmaoooo I had a similar thing happen with a girl once, she'd send these messages of this sort. Back then I electric blue pilled and would reply back, she replied along the lines of "I was just seeing if you'd reply back to me." Attention seeking. Anyway, no one here is a psychic so who knows what this girl wants-- or thinks she wants out of you. What do YOU want?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:09 AM
0

Dread game her, ask her if her mom's single.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:35 PM
4

Covid? Lmao there are girls sucking dicks right now homey.
/r/seduction25/08/20 12:25 AM
2

Get out, she's digivolving into Amber Heard.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:50 AM
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Yep. Others just like the attention, social media and attention hits that dopamine.
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:47 PM
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You make it in person. You need to filter out the girls that are just on dating apps for attention vs the ones that actually want to meet. Hint: not all will, the ones that do you ask to meet out after some introductions and questions and they’ll be up for it. They’ll oblige. My sister literally has a Tinder account just to fuck with guys’ heads and never meet anyone.
/r/seduction18/08/20 08:53 PM
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My father is 64 and his LTR is younger than mine. Dating apps are fucked. Try meeting people irl. Dating apps should be like 10% of your dating prospects.
/r/seduction18/08/20 07:34 PM
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You're the prize bro. You're not here to entertain. Social media broke women and they feed off this attention now. It's not those 10 simps hitting her dopamine receptors through social media that she's going to slob on that night.
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:28 PM
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OP is talking about "moving from topic to topic" as if he's trying to have the discussions he should be having with her in person for her to get to know him online, through a text. What you're talking about is something else entirely. The "connection"? Bro, you're the prize. It's YOU that's filtering out these broads, not you trying to qualify to earn their time.
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:24 PM
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Right, so you keep shit brief, flirtatious, and once you toss the hook, it's logistics only. OP is talking about having full-blown discussions on there.
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:24 PM
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Successful males are having fun with the girls in their bed, not diddling on a keyboard.
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:23 PM
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Texting = logistics only. What the fuck are you talking about being more attentive to your texts? What do you care? Do you not have something else to be doing? Go lift, mountain climb, learn to invest, read, hang with your bros, see other girls. In seduction, your attention and presence is the greatest gift you have to give. Texting all the time says "this is the best thing I have going for me right now."
/r/seduction18/08/20 01:31 AM
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Texting is for logistics only. Trying to entertain via text is what all her orbiters do. You're a busy man with his own purpose, get the fuck off texting.
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:22 PM
1

HAHHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP17/08/20 02:10 AM
3

Healthy people seek out healthy people. Sick people seek out the sick. Which group are you from? Because if it's the former, no reason for you to be considering the latter.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:53 PM
-1

Did you google his face? He's not good looking.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:36 PM
1

Do chest cable flyes but only with the good side, 1 chad pectoral is better than no chest
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:04 PM
3

Ok
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:26 PM
5

I've done similar, that said, they're exceptions that confirm the rule. You want to play with the odds in your favor.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 06:52 PM
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You say you're busy during the day but would love to get to see her during that spare time you do have available-- in the evening. Successful males make dates that may lead to sex, that will build attraction, that will let a woman open up to a man to receive him, to cut loose and let herself have fun in his presence. Lunch dates are not it, walking in the park is not it, getting coffee around lunch is not it, going to a museum is not it.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:42 PM
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Whatever you do, do not come off as upset to her. Multiple ways to go about it from here.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:13 AM
1

How she know you saw your friend?
/r/seduction24/07/20 03:54 PM
60

Women will always test you. The more they’re in love the less they test. If somehow you see she’s testing again, that’s a sign of losing attraction, better fix the problem fast.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 09:11 PM
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For now it's that because they're young, but that's the same type of friend that later in life will try to hook up with your girl.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:38 PM
7

What "boys" would do that? Your boys should be there to have your back. I mean purposefully screwing with my intimate life? That's real fucking out of place. I'd start looking for new high value pals as you phase out of this group of betas.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:34 PM
1

Oh my God at first I thought this was a gonna be a troll post on everything you're not supposed to do, then realized it was real. Holy fuck. Alright dawg, first thing's first: don't have the girl pick you up. ever. Second: nothing wrong with being honest, HOWEVER, this is dating and seduction. Always think to yourself "is me saying or sharing this going to increase her attraction level for me?" if the answer is no, then be vague or cocky or reframe the question to benefit you. Don't say you have…
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:46 PM
1

lmao no, imagine her bf turns out to be a Jon Koppenhaver.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:55 AM
3

When I quit smoking cold turkey, I replaced the habit with drinking water every time I got an urge. It worked, and got really hydrated.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:06 AM
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lmaooo
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:13 AM
1

Exactly what OP said she’s complaining to him about: emotions, personal matters, deeper things you share with someone you might commit with.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:57 AM
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She's at the stage where either you start opening up more to her or she's going to bail knowing this isn't going to go into anything more. Up to you to decide what you want.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:19 AM
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They probably learned how to dress, use make-up, found a hairstyle that worked for them, fixed up whatever physical flaws they could (surgery, exercise) but the baseline biology process still stands.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:24 PM
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You did good thinking about protecting your family first over some hoe, you fucked up on home date lmaooooo what
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:31 PM
1

Yeah, OP this may turn out to be a very profitable venture if you play it right.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:31 PM
3

Blackmail the family friend for money.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:32 AM
8

Eating pussy is for me man, it's so fun.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:07 PM
1

You think she'd make Ryan Gosling wait a year to get on his dick?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:40 PM
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Yeah OP, if you marry her make sure you live in separate houses.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:09 AM
6

TRP is a pathway to many abilities some would consider to be... unnatural.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:31 PM
14

Where are you people getting this shit from?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:36 AM
1

My man
/r/seduction20/06/20 05:26 PM
2

Why note spin some plates on the side?
/r/seduction20/06/20 05:10 PM
2

You see the movie Get Out? Apply the title.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:07 PM
3

Let's not forget vetting and red flags. If the dude decides to marry a Playboy playmate that's on him.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 08:58 AM
2

Successful men will create dates that may lead to sex. That means no daytime walks in the park or shit. Evening, drinks, coffee, a quick bite, whatever. If things go well , have a plan for another place or two to go nearby, such as another bar, a place to go play pool, etc, this simualtes having gone on multiple dates in one evening. Near your place or hers so it's easy to introduce the idea of going somewhere more intimate afterwards.
/r/seduction17/06/20 09:39 AM
1

Why not down for threesome?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:27 AM
1

Attraction is a numbers game dawg, someone somewhere will be into someone.
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:44 PM
1

"Let's go for a walk in the park in the middle of the night and we just met and your friends are here" is way too fast, she doesn't know you well enough. ASD coupled with "is this guy going to assault me alone in a park" and on the friends' end "who dis". Next time become cool af with her friends, let them get to know you and approve of you and feel cool with letting their friend go with you.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:13 PM
1

what
/r/askTRP07/06/20 02:08 AM
2

This is some gay shit lmao
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:29 AM
14

I feel like I'm out of the loop... are all of you getting your assholes eaten out? What?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 12:47 AM
2

Not inherently gay, but to people outside of a scene that wears skinny jeans, it may come off as effeminate. It's not the stereotype for masculine. I was into hardcore and skating growing up and wore skinny jeans throughout my entire adulthood, more than once a girl that told me "I thought you were gay till you fucked me." Since I started lifting I will say I've been getting looser pants because when that shit looks like leggings stretched out over big thighs you look ridiculous.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:38 PM
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Yeah looks all good, the "I will let you know" is kinda the only iffy thing there. Try to set exact dates, I would've said something like "I've got a busy schedule (ties in well with the rapport you've established), but I would love to see you, when are you free for us to get together next week? If you can't give me a day ahead of time for me to schedule it then we'll just have to try again sometime". Those "I'll let you know" bluffs turn into never hearing from the girl a lot of times. Would sh…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:01 PM
3

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:01 PM
1

You communicate with her. You tell her that as much as you like her and like spending time with her, you also need time to pursue yourself, your future and your fulfillment. That is your mission as a man. What other time you do have free, you tell her you'd love to spend it with her and that's how she should know she means something to you, because what free time you would have you choose to spend with her. If you bend to her and lose sight of who you are, women pick up on that and there is noth…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:47 PM
2

Sounds like she wants something and you want something else. You need to think about yourself first the same way she's thinking about herself.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:29 PM
1

The oneitis is strong in this one. Go read the goddamn sidebar and internalize it. Lastly, I cringed irl reading about “I prepped a message for over an hour” “I asked for clarity.” Women need closure, not men, start being in your masculine. It’s done, move on, read the goddamn sidebar homey.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:25 AM
0

Just be confident and fun. She's over the wall, unless she's delusional, she should be all up for a young cat.
/r/seduction01/06/20 12:07 AM
1

Maybe met someone else, maybe she's busy, maybe she's discovered she's gay, who cares. That's the way it is. You did good thinking of yourself and working on your finals over sacrificing yourself for some ass. Next time, don't be vague, set a concrete date. Don't chase, if you have been talking to yourself in her inbox, that may be the kiss of death. She may come around, she probably won't. Ping back in a few weeks or so. If no response, next. You live and you learn.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:54 PM
1

Being accepted for who you are is a lie. We are taught to embrace mediocrity and believe we should be liked for it. Fact is, attraction doesn't work that way. Be better.
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:12 PM
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It's not always bad. It's just that men tend to become complacent betas. You never stop dating your LTR/wife, or someone else will. You never give up being you. You ever see those married couples with the dad pushing the baby stroller walking behind the mom? Don't become that guy.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:18 PM
2

Did you just seriously write a dissertation?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:00 PM
2

Yeah I second this. I went out with an art historian, Russian girl, gorgeous, smart, studied with me at a prestigious university. She talked about wanting to go to museums. I took her to shit bars. I fucked her at my place to bad grocery store wine. Always having fun. Later, as she got to know me more she dropped the "wait you're more intelligent than you look" line, but I didn't start off with any of that high-cultured frivolity.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:07 PM
4

That's actually very reasonable for you, how good is it of a first date scenario for you? Is it successful?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:57 PM
1

Have a similar problem. I'm deducing it comes down to: when you plate lower SMV girls, you start thinking that's what you can get and then see the hot ones as unicorns. My solution is I'm going to only start going for the hot ones, get enough of them until I become dulled to them.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:32 AM
9

Do a follow-up post if you go to prison
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:30 AM
4

You never text her the next day. Ever. EVER. That's feminine shit. Be in your masculine. You don't hear from her, you send a ping msg about 4-5 days later. You don't hear back then, you wait a week or so. You don't hear then, NEXT. Stop talking women out of liking you, let them miss you and wonder about you. All women, no matter how much they like you, will stop contact at some point. Girl may have been the one initiating and texting first, sending nudes, then silence. It's a test. This is how t…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:08 AM
9

It got removed, what did it say?
/r/seduction20/05/20 11:50 PM
1

But he sent the "eyes" emoji, gotta count for something
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:32 PM
4

What the fuck did I just read
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:07 PM
11

Conor McGregor sans the cocaine abuse is red pill
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:52 PM
14

Conor McGregor, the art of not giving a fuck, believing in yourself unapologetically
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:06 PM
2

What did you do?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:00 AM
7

It honestly works, girl I was on a date with had her best guy friend from childhood show up (weird af situation, we were at a bar next to the cafe he got off work at and she had just come back from a semester abroad, first weekend seeing her friends whatever), I was cool with the dude and he actually saw his way out to let us be alone a bit later then we fucked.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:18 PM
1

Right I mean I know these things I’ve read up a lot on body language, I was wondering if you recall why she’d make out with you but be uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:06 PM
2

So about did you learn from that as far as body language, what was going on that you didn’t pick up on/why did she make out with you to begin with?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:01 PM
5

I've had a girl do this by having a friend show up, but I was cool with the guy friend who then actually saw his way out to leave us aloneand then she went to my place to bang. Next time we saw each other same friend called for her to go to some going away party after we banged, who knows if the party was even real. Anyway, chicks do this shit.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:43 PM
38

He had his tongue in her mouth, seems like she was comfortable.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:41 PM
3

Jump
/r/seduction12/05/20 07:09 PM
2

Girls will tell you you smell good. I apply some on my neck, a bit on my cheek since I live in a country where we greet through kissing, a bit on one wrist and rub it on my other one so that where my hands go good smell comes with it and then on my groin. That shit is as important as brushing your teeth.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:20 PM
-5

And this is why you don't take advice from women, what they say they like vs. what actually builds attraction are two very different things.
/r/seduction06/05/20 03:32 PM
1

What does he do to them that's like shit?
/r/seduction06/05/20 11:20 AM
1

Could you expand upon why that’s an example of solipsism? Just trying to tie the concept to your example by definition.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 12:14 PM
2

Asking her out like how, you mean exclusive?
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:45 AM
36

Seems she was fucked up inside and something of an all-in desperate move.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 10:49 PM
39

She wasn't branch swinging. She was trying to piss you off and make you jealous hoping to get you to come after her, pretty clear when she wanted people that knew you to know so they'd get the word out to you. Watch Euphoria, it's the same thing the girl does when she fucks a dude at a party in front of everyone knowing that her ex that doesn't want to be with her is watching.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 10:44 PM
3

Both are great, especially when you combine their skill set and practice both. Personally, while I really like the bjj I’ve done, I love boxing much more, it’s the most useful of the fighting arts in a street fight (bjj will neutralize one person but then what about the friends what if you don’t get the takedown?) and wailing on a bag is so fun. Try both out see which you like or do them all.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:23 PM
1

It could, but let’s not go there since OP isn’t voicing any concerns there and might be a girl anyway.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:20 PM
2

That brings up a question, was the friend a guy?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:15 PM
1

2 dates in 2 months and no sex is... you need to relax on those feelings cowboy, but don't cop out on going out, this could've been sex time. Secondly, wanting you to commit to an LTR should come from her, not you, and as far as you she might not have the same level of attraction for you yet. That’s why you gotta calm that head down.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:50 PM
0

Sidebar this
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:39 PM
12

I mean honestly, having some time for himself after being on her beck and call for two nights straight doesn't seem bad. First time, ok, a friend came up, but that's still a bit off, friend can wait over your fucking HUSBAND who you've set up a date night with, no? Unless the friend is in some crisis situation. Second night, falls asleep? Yo, them games don't sit right with me. She could be crying her eyes out due to the delivery, but honestly, accepting to sit there 3 days in a row to get sex j…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:21 PM
0

Hahahahahahaha "makeup night" ahahahaha
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:17 PM
7

That's not what he's saying. He's saying if you outgrow your friends/are the smartest one in the room/the best one in the room it's time to find a new room to keep improving when you have friends that are not inspiring you, growing with you, have unhealthy habits, etc. This is one philosophy, I personally operate this way, it's not for everyone.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:28 AM
1

She cancelled but immediately offered another day, that's good, it shows high interest from her. There is no reason to punish, and if there were, punishing is juvenile, women are like cats, one moment they're here next moment you gotta be cool when they back off, you wanna look centered, you never know when it's a test. Be vague, tell her you're a busy man, but would love to see her later on in the week when you're available. And the idea that you're seeing other girls or might see other girls i…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:19 AM
1

I think OP is right in the first part, as men it's pretty toxic to not be able to complain and that shit will lead to psychological effects, one example being if you can't achieve that lifestlye where you have no need to vent, suicide is an option. Don't see that many females offing themselves. The second bit about her being a bitch and ditching her is off tho, while OP does have a right to feel something and discuss it, ultimately this is why we spin plates, to not care what a single one does i…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:20 AM
1

Is this a troll?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:39 AM
1

This one model told me “I thought you were gay then I knew you weren’t gay when you fucked me so good” What that post is saying if you don’t make a move you get put in those categories, so act
/r/seduction29/04/20 03:44 PM
3

Amen, coming here made me think women were out train hopping on dick every evening
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:30 PM
1

How long you wait normally? What would you open up with?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:33 PM
6

I mean I've hit up girls off their insta stories and that's led to sex. What am I doing wrong there?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:31 PM
1

You'd text her back months from now or what?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:26 PM
8

Yo I legit read this and said to myself "I'm gonna focus on my career now"
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:05 PM
1

Bro what. Go. This sub is a little autistic sometimes.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:34 PM
2

Saving this comment, well said.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:47 AM
7

Yeah I agree here. Women are like cats, if she wanted to be off, you let her cuz you don't give a fuck, you got options. She's the one that's gonna get curious when she pulls back and you're not chasing needily.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:57 AM
1

Exactly, I’ve seen it firsthand as well.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 09:48 AM
32

I'd love a field report
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:28 PM
1

I'd say after 21, the perishing of beauty has already started to set in. They'll never be as beautiful as that age. In the mid to high 20's the compound effects start being more evident.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:48 PM
1

You go out with any girl taller than you? How’d you okay that off of the height question came up or if she threw out a shit test about it?
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:17 AM
6

Question, how'd you own it not being 6 ft tall? I'm around 5'9 but was never conscious of this till moving to a country where men are taller.
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:13 PM
1

Thanks brother
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:03 AM
5

100%. I’ve been going for girls in their low 20’s for ages, hooked up with a 28 year old recently and it was... I mean wow. They lose their insecurities, they give back, they know what they like, they’ll talk dirty, they’re adventurous.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:07 PM
6

Better than your 20's. In our 20's we're just teenagers with a 2 in in the first age slot number. You will absolutely be able to pick up college girls, in fact they get real into the idea, 30's is like a sweet spot, you're more mature than their idiot age group, but not their dad age. However, believe me when I say this, there will be mental changes in your maturity. College girls under 24-25 will have nothing to offer you other than looks, and even then most will be pretty meh at sex compared t…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 09:08 AM
3

Calm down nerd
/r/seduction24/03/20 05:18 PM
1

Hell yeah
/r/seduction24/03/20 12:03 PM
18

Well, how did it benefit YOU then?
/r/seduction24/03/20 12:03 PM
1

As do I, what do you recommend I read?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 11:47 AM
1

A lot of the advice in here is good, also consider these like condoms that have some liquid in them to keep your dick harder. Works for me when I see FWB with no emotional attachment.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:49 PM
1

Good on you getting the number. Next time wait a few days to ask for the date, that just shows you didn't have the courage to do it in person.
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:36 PM
3

Not talking about any stereotypical character, sorry. What women say or don't say they like is different from what triggers attraction. It is not about being a woman or being a girl, it is biology and thousands of years of culture.
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:46 PM
13

And this is why as men, we should not listen to advice from women. What women think they want is very different from what will create emotional responses that trigger attraction.
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:02 PM
2

PREACH, BROTHER.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:09 PM
1

Great comment, what Youtube channels do you watch?
/r/seduction08/01/20 10:38 PM
0

I was at a party and I pointed out Bella Hadid to a friend of mine, he said he was going for it. When I told him "WAIT WHAT, YOU'RE GONNA GO HIT ON HER, WHAT HOW," he told me "You see her right? Now imagine her taking the filthiest shit, just pure diahrrea. She so special now?"
/r/seduction08/01/20 10:29 PM
1

Native spanish speaker here, no, that's fine. Just accept it, it's said like that. "Que tengas un buen dia" "Que te vaya muy bien" "Que la virgen te acompañe" etc etc.
/r/seduction03/01/20 09:15 PM
6

https://www.rtl.be/people/GED/05500000/5506500/5506592.jpg
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:57 PM
5

I do the same, though I'm interested in hearing his openers. Usually good success actually
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:40 PM
3

When you said her boyfriend did everything to get her back, and it succeeded, what did he do?
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:43 PM
2

Not give her the emotional edge? She's asked you to move back in with her dawg, what are you waiting for? Talk to her.
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:11 AM
26

Penis goes inside the vagina
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:13 PM
3

I thought I was getting an aneurysm reading this then I realized it really was just typed out with batshit crazy capitalizations.
/r/seduction26/11/17 01:03 PM
2

Yes exactly, the big thing about it is attracting women with honesty TO YOURSELF. As in, if you are attracted to a girl, but cannot speak to her/are too afraid to/don't know what to say you are dishonest to yourself and your attractions to her. This book is exactly what you need.
/r/seduction25/11/17 02:56 PM
2

Go pick up the book Models, you'll be glad you did.
/r/seduction25/11/17 02:53 PM
30

You are about to get your dick sucked 5 ways. That or become their new girlfriend.
/r/seduction22/11/17 07:19 PM
1

Just read this and said outloud "you go, my man". Well done.
/r/seduction03/04/17 04:42 PM
2

From personal experience, I was very into this girl, but she was in some relationship and I realized I was getting hardcore friendzoned. So I just distanced myself. This did bring her to call me out one day and ask me why I wasn't talking to her anymore. I just played it off and told her nothing was wrong and I'd just been busy. And then we hooked up.
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:16 AM
1

You don't tell about your "social proof" you let it show itself. Too true and I recently learned this the hard way. I'd always heard that talking about sex with a girl was a good idea tho, to get her mind into it. Why do you disagree?
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:42 PM
1

What made you cringe about it? Wanna avoid shit like this when it happens.
/r/seduction10/02/16 09:24 PM
1

It's like someone said, you get fucked over enough times. You learn to not project some fantasy dream future, but rather, take each relationship with someone as "Enjoy it while it lasts." If it ends up lasting a long time, then good for you. Otherwise, same shit.
/r/seduction18/07/15 02:32 PM
3

Look: the point of all of this isn't to be banging out women left and right for bragging rights and cred with the bros. That is actually needy, the entire thing seduction seeks to beat out of you because women are not attracted to it and for you to be able to find a really great partner. If you want to date a girl, you will have to compromise, because a relationship is about two people. If this isn't what you want at the moment, slow it down, don't get too attached, or even end it altogether.
/r/seduction24/01/15 02:00 PM
3

The big part 2 to this is: go to places where you can let these inner-game parts of you flow out. I for example love dancing, and when I choose to go out and meet women, I'll go to a club and dance with two or even three girls at once, something that I would've never been able to do in the past had I not gotten some of that inner-game part in check. If dancing isn't your thing, go and meet girls present at things where you're in your natural element and have something to talk about.
/r/seduction12/10/14 07:08 AM
7

This is precisely why I'm here and what I hope to get to one day. What did you do, I want to learn!
/r/seduction27/02/14 05:34 PM
1

Whoops, worry about that!
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:04 AM
1

This was so good, you don't even know. I really hope you come back with more FR's in the future, because this is exactly the type of content that seddit needs. Well done, you gentleman, you.
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:42 AM
53

Just get head then.
/r/seduction10/12/12 06:00 PM
1

Would you suggest just dropping any interest in this girl entirely?
/r/seduction25/11/12 03:40 AM
2

So did she, I found out she was with someone from a mutual friend when she'd actually told me she was too tired to go out. Seems it just didn't go over well on that end.
/r/seduction25/11/12 02:57 AM
2

Oh no, I was with some friends and #closed two girls that night! But the point was, was that what I should've done in that situation, or should I have had her come?
/r/seduction25/11/12 02:55 AM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgGkPrN61rw
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:37 AM
2

How'd you do this notifier thing? Seems like the best idea ever and I want in on it.
/r/seduction06/10/12 05:11 AM
1

But... but I was friend-zoned!
/r/seduction27/07/12 04:19 AM
1

They all backpack till they're broke?
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:49 PM
3

How'd you go about embarking on this trip? What were the logistics for it (travel, places you'd stay, money needed, etc.)?
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:09 AM
1

Stop being outcome dependent. Women aren't trophies. Could you explain this bit to me? I've heard this before and still don't really get the being outcome dependent outlook.
/r/seduction11/06/12 08:38 AM
1

Let's see it, PM me.
/r/seduction16/05/12 05:33 AM
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