How old were you when banging different chicks became your ordinary life?

xDillinTjx · 2020-04-29T19:46:14+00:00

23 lost my virginity but before that it took me 2 years to lose 100 pounds going to the gym and eating better, making me get more confident. 2 and a half years later I been with 15+ different woman from ages ranging to 18-48. Also a couple short lived relationships too. You can always change your fate.

RamenKing_ · 2020-04-29T19:15:50+00:00

I'm 18 rn and just because of cold approaching a lot before quarantine in college I had a three plate rotation going. You've probably heard this on this sub before but if you cold approach enough things will work out, plus it's kinda fun after a while. If I can do it, while still not ripped or anything yet plus unrefined game most can.

kollegah1337 · 2020-04-29T22:34:14+00:00

im 20 and im not fucking at all

RepresentativeMood2 · 2020-04-29T18:00:26+00:00

I found out about PUA at around 15/16 from the VH1 tv channel, plus had a redpilled uncle who told me things like "the worse you treat women, the more they love you".

Pimpcool420 · 2020-04-29T18:45:57+00:00

Age 21 was casual sex but getting overly-invested in every girl. 22-22.5 were a couple of stupid 3-month LTR attempts that helped me understand TRP. By my 23rd birthday I had the girls from the previous year reaching out to me and I left them all on "read" because I'd figured things out.

ddd1337 · 2020-04-29T20:49:05+00:00

23...Pretty much as soon as I moved out and landed my first job out of college.

I had a decent amount of hookups and dating experience in college as well. But I didn't feel as in control of my game until a few years post college. There was a lot of things that had to line up right and "getting lucky" was an apt description of a lot of sex in college.

After 23 or so there was no longer any luck. I knew what I was doing and how to get what I want.

DerpJungler · 2020-04-29T19:10:54+00:00

At 23. What's funny is that I was also a virgin who used to chase girls and get insane oneitis every. damn. time.

I've found TRP as I've moved out of my house (country), I've read "The game" and the sidebar and started applying the theory.

As I've lost my virginity and got confident, it snowballed. I stopped being needy, stopped chasing, stopped giving validation and instead, I would just flirt, express my sexuality and just being a fun social guy to be around.

Immediately I've starting seeing 3 girls at once and realized how my whole life has been a joke. How I was taught to be the exact opposite of what my nature indicated.

"Being a good, loving and patient guy, who must treat girls like princesses and love them unconditionally".

Fuck that. Life is about having a purpose, being masculine at your core and experiencing life to the fullest, with multiple partners.

It's now been 18 months and my n-count went from 0 to 8. And don't worry, I always wear rubber and checked for STDs twice.

MasculineRP · 2020-04-29T19:54:11+00:00

Last year, so 25 for me. Before that I had an LTR for around 3 years, so before then I was in the same boat as you my friend. Just keep at it. Keep approaching and keep working on yourself.

coldestmichigan · 2020-04-29T21:14:58+00:00

25-27. Might've slept with between 12-14 women around that time. Not alot by anyone's standards but thinking back now idk how i managed to do that superficial shit.

myfirsttimecoding · 2020-04-29T17:01:30+00:00

It really depends on your station in life. If you're just some guy living in a big city apartment yearning to go back to your 9-5 getting some strange ONS here and there is a blessing.

dellorello22 · 2020-04-29T19:24:54+00:00

Probably about 26. From that point on, Ive always been dating and sleeping with 2-3 girls at a time. I probably didn't start getting laid somewhat regularly until 23-26.

CloudFoxx · 2020-04-29T23:13:16+00:00

I was late to banging. But when I was 27 I started slaying about 10 different girls a year. Then I slowed down because I wanted to find THE one... Yeah that's not working out so I'm going back to dropping the hammer

jaw8625 · 2020-04-29T23:44:45+00:00

I wanted to at 16, but I didn’t actually start spinning plates until I was 25

SalporinRP · 2020-04-30T01:37:13+00:00

When I had just turned 23. Moved out after a year of working and living at home. I had a ton saved after graduation, no debt, a car I own outright, and I don't spend much on material things so I felt comfortable for "splurging" for a studio apartment (I live in a really expensive area).

After living with roommates in college and a year at home I realized that when it comes to living situations I definitely prefer to live alone. I essentially pay a $400 premium every month for living by myself instead of a roommate and it is worth every penny. I can come home from work and do whatever I want without having to consider someone else.

My game has certainly gotten better, but moving out and handling all my own shit has made me feel like a true adult for the first time in my life and it shows women I have my shit together.

Since I moved out, everything has just kind of been falling into place. I approach and game a lot more women because when I lived at home with shit logistics I would just think to myself what is the point when I can't bring them home and fuck. Now I don't have to worry about that.

cfbovernfl · 2020-04-29T17:36:52+00:00

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CrackDaMarco · 2020-04-29T23:30:53+00:00

I'm now 31. It peaked around mid-to late 20s though. Might even peak more yet, I don't know.

TuhTodayJr · 2020-04-30T00:15:21+00:00

23 for me too. Had a fiancé who I had a kid with. Final break up at 23 went through six girl in a month. Rotated three of them. Ended it all when I found who I consider a univorn. Wasn’t. Broke up with her numbers went up again another 5 or and now I’m with another one who I consider somewhat of a more realistic version of a unicorn but obviously my guard is always up and I do t mind walking away :) plus I had gained a bit of muscle after the first break up with baby mama. Watched some Rsd and bam you couldn’t stop me from going out. But at the moment that life doesn’t fullfill me anymore. Even though my n count isn’t so high it doesn’t bother me anymore because I realized I only wanted the high fuck count just for validation from my friends and people I interacted with.

Much more happier here.

superomar13 · 2020-04-30T02:06:03+00:00

Found out about the whole game/ red pill theories/ female psychology, etc. when I was 18 and a half in my first ever relationship. Of course that relationship went to shit eventually, pretty sure I was a cuck too at some point.

Soaked in a ton of theory over the next few years. Was a bitch in a few friendships. Smoked alot of weed almost all the time. Occasionally got laid off tinder, like 2-3 times a year.

Got older, realized how much of a bitch I was being, started standing up for myself. By 23 and half, cut off al the friends that didnt mean shit. Also had become known as a huge flirt with every girl in my friends groups. By 24, started day gaming hardcore and cold approaching for once in my life. At this point, I had slept with a total of 19-20 girls. Mostly from tinder, a few fatties, a few by luck. Had a few alpha moments, but were mostly facades.

24-26, banged 45ish girls (not sure of the number exactly lol). Had my first threesome. Had a foursome with another guy and two girls. Landed a 5 makeouts in one night sesh while out. I attribute this to the fact that I stopped chickening out and started cold approaching, and that I was traveling alot so met many foreign European girls.

By 26, bagged this hot 19 year old submissive blonde girl and we got in a relationship just as I was getting tired of sleeping around. All the blowjobs, all the sex, and all the support I could ever ask for. Just had social proof and game to help me, wasn't even in shape or anything lol. Had an incredible year long relationship and then went our separate ways as planned.

I turn 27 in a little over a week.

So, here's my take away for you.

1) Stop thinking you have to do so much to bang chicks. It's a common trap redpillers fall into.. "i'll get that girl once i get jacked... I'll get those girls once I find my passions" Those things certainly help, and are incredibly important for you to maintain your frame, but there are many ways to skin a cat lol.

2) My results came in when i finally stopped being a bitch and wanted to get laid more than I wanted to breathe. That pushed me to cold approach and face rejection after rejection until I got my game down and started closing more girls. If I had done at 18 what I started doing at 24, I would have been slaying pussy left and right by 21.

3) Focus on the fundamentals to just make getting laid much easier. Fundamentals are the way you're first seen when a girl takes a good look at you and talks to you for the first few minutes. Focus on high status behaviors, facial expressions, slow movements. Your walk, your voice, the way you dress, grooming, and your body. Focus on these fundamentals because they'll get you through the door and then your game will take you to the finish line. And yes, even the ugliest dude in the world can be above average with a nice body and everything else taken care of. Of course focus on everything else that can add to your base attraction levels as well, for the HIGHEST caliber of women. Your wealth, your social proof and friends base, etc. That's a life long journey. But to start getting LAID TOMORROW with all kinds of at the very least cute chicks, focus on your base fundamentals and put yourself out there over and over.

Half the battle is just showing up.

myfirsttimecoding · 2020-04-29T17:32:44+00:00

20-21 when I could consistently approach without giving a fuck and had a few plates in rotation. This was around 4 years into lifting

Yoasted · 2020-04-29T21:25:58+00:00

I’ve had an extremely good year at 24. 23 was awesome too. Found repill at 21. Was spinning 5 plates about 4-5 months ago and that got too much so dropped some and of course new ones just appeared and then I had to drop older ones. Got into a relationship about 2 months ago, and now I have her and 2 others I keep for about once a a week for each of them.

RompeChocha · 2020-04-29T22:51:25+00:00

urbancore · 2020-04-29T23:49:51+00:00

2020-04-30T00:08:56+00:00

29, but it was more to do with getting back into bodybuilding at 27. Two-three years of consistent working out and nothing else matters. I’m 5’8 with a speech impediment but it doesn’t matter. The confidence that comes with age is huge too - guys who know what they’re doing are so much better for 20yo girls than 20yo guys.

dutchgguy · 2020-04-30T01:38:20+00:00

Bruchibre · 2020-04-30T02:11:07+00:00

Before that I had been with 6 girls and every time it felt "exceptional". Then I went to the Philippines for a few months and casually banged 4 girls. After that my view on girls and relationships changed. One year later I was seeing 4 girls at the same time without knowing what RP or Plates means. Still have a few LTR in between.

Side note: I don't think girls are "easier" in Asia, if you're foreigner you are the exotic guy there, a bit like being black or arab in Scandinavia. I came back to Europe with the same mindset as I had in Asia and it worked as well there.

subaruguy14 · 2020-04-30T02:26:10+00:00

Thought I was a piece of shit for years until the red pill freed me. Always cheated and had options, never knew they were plates, just knew it made me happy.

2020-04-30T02:33:26+00:00

Had a different clam over each weekend evening and my mom told me to chill tf out. Eye opening early in life.

oooKenshiooo · 2020-04-30T03:42:05+00:00

It kinda worked for a while when I was 19/20. Then I went into a relationship for approx 10 years. Then in my 30s I was plowing a new chick every other week, whilst keeping a constant rotation of 3-5 plates.

Ricky469 · 2020-04-30T05:08:10+00:00

I was 19-20. I started having sex at 17. I had LTRs but started more enjoying variety and sex for fun. I was good looking but not pretty boy. I'm 6'3", I weighed 200 then, I was an athlete. But I was a good student in STEM classes.

I did not always go after the 10s. My sweet spot was cute girls who sometimes were chubby or tall. I am turned on by curves and am a boob man. I could date women up to six feet tall because even in heels they don't tower over me. I also found that those women are very sexual. They want to enjoy sex and men often overlook them. I often had one night stands back then but a couple of fun dates was worthwhile. I never manipulated or lied. I still don't. That would make me as bad as a woman who does that. I find women are attracted by humor, confidence, and being able to enjoy many activities.

In college after freshman year I always had my own room, this is key. You need privacy. I started way before cell phones, social media, tinder, and dating apps. Dates were arranged nj person and on the phone. Pickups happened on campus, in classes, in the dorms, in bars, and the library.

I would usually start over coffee or a drink, maybe a meal at the campus center. Then back to my room.

Sex before AIDS and herpes was glorious. I mostly used condoms to prevent pregnancy. I never caught an STD. Some if that was just pure luck.

The sex was mostly good. I usually liked when the girl left or I went home I sleep best alone.

mikkeldaman · 2020-04-30T06:23:26+00:00

About 15. My dad was quite a neighborhood casanova and picked up from him. Also discovered the PUA community because I had oneitis on one of my classmates.

Flip_Angelo · 2020-04-30T10:35:47+00:00

Probably my mid 20s, but by then it was because I finally went into idgaf mode.

But dry spells are normal. I would go from nothing to 3 or 4 girls at a time, and then they would all fall off and it would be up and down.

DF-RP · 2020-05-01T14:52:17+00:00

Around 24.

I was constantly moving between countries, so I couldn't really have a girlfriend. I was still trying to get regular sex which really led me to just waste shitload of times gaming girls in different environments.

I was horrible at it, but every now and then I would get lucky. Especially in the beginning, I feel a lot of the girls were doing more work for the lay than I was, since I was thick as fuck and couldn't read the social clues right. Getting 5-10 women a year for ~2 years gave me a pretty good idea on how to read women though, so I slowly got better and better at identifying who was interested and who wasn't. Also since I was going out so much, I developed a brazen style where I had a pretty DGF attitude which really changed my viewpoint. I realised that you can push boundaries a lot more than what most people imagine... and it works. Inviting a virgin girl home with you after 10 minute chat in bar line? Yeah, done that. Get a handjob in bar booth with 3 other people? Sure. etc.

Also final key point was working on my SMV. From the beginning I knew that being "cool" was important, and that included everything from body type to fashion. Started gym, worked on clothes, experimented with hairstyles, slowly improved on this front.

Pharmatt · 2020-05-02T01:57:39+00:00

20 when i got rejected from bidding a fraternity. I was a huge simp til then. It's a weird way to get into redpill, but i started watching those pick-up YT videos where a ripped guy will go around asking drunk girls questions. It opened my eyes and changed my life basically. Went from being a virgin to getting built, joining another fraternity, and pulling every party.

wyota · 2020-04-29T20:40:38+00:00

Going for 1-12 months at a time without sex is no way to live. Props if your dry spells last less than a month, but finding a permanent girl is the only way to go if you care about your own happiness, and some of those other advantages.

Sweatingtoomuch · 2020-04-29T20:33:57+00:00

Turned 20 n went off for a bit. 21 now n tryna calm down. Saw some crazy shit that really raised my standards and now I’m genuinely less interested, do what u need to do to let them come to you.

Lynch_king_1 · 2020-04-29T21:35:53+00:00

20, I saw a craigslist ad some 19 year old college chick posted. she dropped out couldn't find dick in a non-college town. met up had unprotected sex.

then tinder got big. 20-24ish, I had only slept with around 10 women.

25 and older I hit 30+ women

current age I've slowed down since the quarantine

RedHoodhandles · 2020-04-30T13:30:29+00:00

Late 20ies. But I guess I'd be more fun when you're younger. No I have a career and shit going on and random tinder chicks feel like a time sink..

drevenx13 · 2020-04-29T20:39:14+00:00

When I was 19 I could bang 3 different good looking females in the same week hahaha. Now at 29 it’s nowhere near that...

cfbovernfl · 2020-04-29T19:59:42+00:00

20, started trp at 19.

2020-04-29T20:30:04+00:00

16 but like late 16 almost 17 . The beginning of my jr year. I had got laid my freshman year and soft more year cause I had a different girlfriend goth year but I was just a skinny guy It took a good two years of lifting before girls started to really notice and that confidence change kicked in. Man between 17-22 jesus.
I dont know how I had that much energy on god .

Title	How old were you when banging different chicks became your ordinary life?
Author	ddd1337
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Date	April 29, 2020 4:50 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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