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CrackDaMarco/r/askTRP06/07/20 08:31 PM
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I've fucked most of the girls he wanted to get with, I didn't need to get big for that.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:48 PM
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So what does someone do about it?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:47 PM
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If he's gonna cock block you and won't learn from it, then you might have to, dude.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:51 AM
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Don't bring him along anymore. I once opened on a group of about 7 girls for some friends, and they all managed to fuck it up in about 10 seconds. Don't have a wingman unless you know he's a smooth motherfucker.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:41 AM
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This seems more psychologically hindering rather than physical. I do cold showers and exercise already. Diet and sleep isn't that bad apart from sometimes not wanting to get out of bed. I haven't started meditating yet though.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:18 PM
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I don't know exactly, I was very confident before all of this.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:17 PM
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Everything you've said resonates with me because that's exactly how I would approach sex normally, except I got off on them getting off which was more of a bonus. There's something weird going on in my head though where sometimes now when I think about fucking a chick, I think about how I'd used to want to dominate them more or less but for some reason I can't quite relate to that now. It feels like something has died in me. Or sometimes my libido will randomly be as high as it used to for a bri…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:02 AM
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I know it's not something to fear, I've enjoyed it most of my life, haha. I don't need a viagra man, I need to get out of my head somehow. Thanks though.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:58 AM
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I'm not sure NoFap did attribute to it entirely, but I did actively attempt it for over 2 months just after a breakup. I remember about a week after the break up, I realised I hadn't masturbated and thought to myself that I may as well just see how long I can go for. First month I felt like a god - women were crawling out of the woodwork to come at me, but mistakenly, I abstained from cumming during sex as well which I think may have been the thing that started affecting my libido... but not ent…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:47 AM
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Of course if you were truly red pill you'd not care anyway regardless of who it was. I didn't before. I looked forward to the next conquest because I knew I was good, and I enjoyed sharing that with them. If I fucked up somehow, or just wasn't vibing, I didn't take it personally, I would just move on to the next one. I can't seem to break away from self doubt and anxiety now after everything that's happened. So, yeah.. I'm not Red Pilled right now in the slightest. Even though it's deeply embedd…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:14 PM
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Thank you, brother.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:04 PM
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It's not about the OCD at this point, that was just the catalyst for all of this shit happening. I have therapy for that, but I just don't believe in myself anymore. That's the point of my post.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:15 PM
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OCD forums are a no-go. They're all in the same position as me, or worse. Either seeking reassurance, or not giving it. And you're right, the crux of my thoughts mainly revolve around a Red Pilled lifestyle of which I seriously doubt many OCD redditors would understand. The OCD I'm dealing with at the moment anyway - it was the trigger, but it's a separate from what I'm dealing with now. The OCD caused me to neglect the things I would usually enjoy doing, and now the OCD has lessened, I realise …
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:32 PM
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Thanks, man. I do need to chill.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:14 PM
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LMAO, you wish I was upset with your comments. I just don't see the point in you commenting here when you have nothing relevant to say. It's your own time you're wasting. Like I said, maybe I am being a "bitch", but that doesn't change the fact that you're redundant. Now fuck off.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:48 PM
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You obviously don't know what OCD is like, so your opinion is fucking irrelevant, man. I don't want a pat on the back, I want a kick up the ass and some perspective, you clearly have no other perspective than "lift", "stop being a bitch". Well done block head on being "alpha".
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:42 PM
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Maybe I am being a bitch and I can't see it, but I already lift, and I already eat healthily. If you don't have any advice besides "Stop being a bitch, lift, read sidebar" then why even bother to comment?
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:37 PM
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I'm in therapy currently. So, there's no compassion amongst brothers, no? I'm not asking anyone to tell me, "It'll be alright little Jimmy, you're a good boi". I'm half venting, and half needing someone to relate and give me some perspective. Just because you're a sociopath, dude, doesn't mean everyone else is. Appreciate your time.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:56 PM
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Someone send this motherfucker a PM, because that sub is not gonna help him.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 03:20 AM
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Yeah, I agree. It's finding that balance. Of course, on one end of the spectrum, I don't want to be a fucking motor mouth and fill every conversational gap with horse shit, but I don't want to be autistically silent either. I feel like I used to have that balance naturally, but you're right in that I am overthinking things regardless of whether I have anything to say or not. I'm not entirely sure though if this has anything to do with these women, as much as it does with myself. I feel like the …
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:01 PM
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I get you, but that would make me a sperg lord. I can't go and meet up with a new girl and say nothing. If my silence came from a place of confidence that would be different, but this would just make shit awkward.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:53 PM
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I understand this principal, I've kind of always said what I thought/felt regardless of what others thought. Self amusement. But I don't quite think this is it, it's more like I just don't have anything to say at the moment.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:46 PM
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It's not that I'm jaded, I don't think... I suffer anxiety rather than excitement now. Something about living with that chick before destroyed my confidence with women, or confidence in myself. There's lots for me to do, but what I was once good at, feels a bit alien to me now. Am I making any sense?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:30 PM
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I was very sure of myself, especially in bed.... Meeting a new girl was fun for me, and I didn't worry about what we'd talk about, or whether I'd be able to make them laugh, or flirt. It was exciting for me: the prospect of getting that lay, and the build up to it. Now I want to get back to that mentality but I'm stifled.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:05 PM
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Not disputing that what you're saying isn't entirely true, but this seems like it has more to do with the psychology of children/sibling rivalry than a gender issue. I'm obviously male, and I was similar to her when I was a kid. I've grown out of that shit now, but I was the first born in my family, and I was barely even 1-2 years old when my brother arrived on the scene - and although I don't remember any of my behaviour, according to my family, I was quite a cunt towards him.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 01:42 AM
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True dat. "daddy energy", lmao.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:08 PM
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Yeah... Good point.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:07 PM
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Dude, i didn't want anything serious with her anyway. That thought never crossed my mind. Too many red flags.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:07 PM
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All good points, and noted. Thanks, man. I am comfortable with helping others emotionally, but I was cold with her because I felt after 2 days of knowing eachother, this wasn't right.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:05 PM
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I'm aware this is mostly true, dude.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:03 PM
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Dude, fucking run. Any chance you get, just pack your shit and go without saying anything just make sure you've got a plan of action ready. I was dealing with the exact same thing. Cutting herself to deal with life, and I was considerate and tried to help her at first - big mistake. She wound up using it as a way to coerce me into giving her the attention she wanted, I called her out on it, and it just turned into arguments, guilt trips. It's hard enough to try and reason with women anyway and y…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:25 AM
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Thankfully another clueless idiot came along and gave her the attention and love she craved that I was depriving her of for months - I was living with her at the time, and had no where else to go. I was literally fucking trapped with the girl, and thought I was going insane. One day a new guy appears randomly at the apartment(during the height of the coronavirus), lies and says they've been friends for years when I can hear them talking as though they've just met, and I took that as my incentive…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:12 AM
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Dude, I've been through this shit before as well. This post was more about how to avoid conversations like these, and I definitely won't be dating her.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:54 AM
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Got ya. But seriously, is there ever a time to show that you care or you're there for someone if it isn't your family, LTR, or friends?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:24 PM
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Yeah, not after 2 fucking days no less.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:01 PM
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What would have been a better approach in your opinion? I feel like straight up avoiding her would have been brutal. I don't want the girl to hurt herself.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:46 PM
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I know this, but I wasn't aware she was BPD until I met her the once. We kind of know the same people, which makes it awkward (in my mind), but thankfully I met her housemates last night as well as her and I hit it off well with them, they saw I wasn't a weirdo. I'm just worried if I run away too quickly, she might try and turn people against me somehow? Or give me a bad name?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:43 PM
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Yeah, under the influence of Bob Thornton's abundance/IDGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:11 PM
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Fair point. It is a shit post, and I didn't think it through when I constructed it - I got excited. Feel free to downvote and move along.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:23 PM
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If you can be bothered, go through my posting history and you'll see why. I'm in disbelief because it's all at once.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:18 PM
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That's the thing, I found myself automatically qualifying as soon as I was on the receiving end of their desperation.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:16 PM
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Humble bragging. Nah, seriously. I'm genuinely in shock.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:15 PM
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I'm not ready for that shit, haha.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:15 PM
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I know all this, haha, but I am literally desperate - that's the biggest issue I'm having right now.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:33 PM
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She did eventually reply and said that I came across as a "tad desperate", which I guess is true enough, but she was all game for meeting prior to her roommates saying no. She was asking to come to my place, but i have family here, and then she was asking if there was anywhere else. It was actually a last resort attempt her having to asking her roommates. So yeah, maybe when they said no she kind of just gave up. Cheers though, man.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:43 AM
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Doesn't matter now, dude. Thanks anyway. She was up for having me over, and because she's been staying with friends she said she'd ask them if i could come round. She got back to me saying that they said no, and then she just ghosted me from there so... Shit happens I guess! I think I'm coming across as really fucking desperate to a lot of these chicks and I don't know how to kill that right now, short of actually getting laid which is exactly the dilemma I have. Fucking depression...
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:49 AM
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It's gonna be hard to be outcome independent with all of these micro insecurities. I know I'm the prize, etc etc... I get it all, but this feels similar to stage fright to me, after not having played a gig in a while. I might be completely fine once I'm there! It's pathetic that I even had to post this for reassurance. But I do appreciate the comment, thank you man.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:57 PM
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You're overthinking it, guy.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:50 PM
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Well, I could only get so far into the story before I was like "Pfffff". Has nothing to do with being weak minded, or having a short attention span.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 09:21 PM
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David and Goliath
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:19 PM
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The way he speaks about himself and how he perceives others react to him. He's either posturing hard, or he's deluded himself. Edit: A true "Alpha" wouldn't feel the need to post a fucking article about how great he is. I could be misinterpreting things though without the full picture, because I couldn't finish the fucking story - it was that tedious.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 09:02 PM
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Lol, he chose to post his story here - expect it to be judged. That's how it works. I don't see people being defensive, I see people calling him out on his "alpha" BS.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:57 PM
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Dude, no offense but you sound like an absolute cunt.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:50 PM
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Lmao.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:45 AM
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She started it.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:11 AM
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"You're like an oasis in the desert" = not good. Hahaha, in combination with "I'm very thirsty" though, I did have to laugh at just how bad that was. Laurence of Arapia. All amazing points though, man. A good refresher is what I needed after all this time. I try not to 'lol' and 'haha' unless it's warranted, because as you can clearly see... I don't generally give a fuck what I say, and it's to my own detriment sometimes. Thanks, brother.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:50 PM
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No, you're right. The real world is full of cowards and liars.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:37 PM
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That is true. You should always be trying to better yourself, but be happy with what you currently have as well. Utilise what you've got in the circumstances you're in, but don't lose sight of self improvement either.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:04 PM
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Just have the courage to speak the truth. That's all it takes. Recognise when you're lying to yourself or someone else, and just don't. Or you could say nothing. But the truth is powerful, dude.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:49 PM
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With a stiff upper lip, because directly after I said that I asked her "Do you know many rapists then? lol", and she said "Yes, actually I do". So, probably dodged a bullet ultimately... >_>
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:36 PM
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That's exactly what the joke was intended to imply, haha. Glad someone got it.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:23 PM
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I do have the balls, man. And it might be rich coming from me, given my current circumstances but don't allow the fact that you live at home to ruin your chances of hooking up. I was homeless on and off throughout my life, poor as fuck, sometimes I looked like a tramp and girls would still fuck me. I'm not proud of it, but I never allowed that situation to deflate who I was as a person. If you believe you're better than this, then that's half the battle - only you can do something about it.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:21 PM
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Lmao, I know I'm not a rapist. I can't even say it as a joke? Don't appear desperate, yeah, I agree with that 100%. Dude, she knew I was joking - actually, within the context of the entire conversation it's plain as day. But I understand messages can be edited/photoshopped. I'm not really worried, man. I don't think she's that kind of girl.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:18 PM
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I was trying to push her into playful territory, but for whatever reason she wasn't taking the bait. It's not the end of the World, man. I do like the girls who play the long game though, and they're always the most satisfying at the end of it. But your game has to be on POINT, which mine is not atm.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:01 PM
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I'm usually pretty good at texting game. My humour and intentions translate pretty well, but I've not gamed girls for over a year (seriously), so I'm rusty as shit and definitely thirsty which I know I shouldn't have admitted to. Bit too much honesty.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:58 PM
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Well, it could have, but it's not the end of the World.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:56 PM
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I agree with all of that apart from the bit about sarcasm. It does work if the person you're saying it to gets it. Some people don't even understand sarcasm when it's said in person though. Thank you though, dude. Confirmed a lot for me. As I said to another guy here, I think I've put her on a pedestal in my mind, and so my approach to her was 'cautious', rather than IDGAF. Like stepping on eggshells territory. I don't like that feeling, and that's what I'm trying to overcome so I can prevent my…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:35 PM
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Good points, and I usually would go straight for logistics, but because she's an HB8 I think part of me is putting her on a pedestal which is making me say cringey shit. Admittedly, I can laugh it off after and a lot of what I say to women is always meant partly in jest - to amuse myself, but this time not so much. How i can work on saying less shit like that? If I don't know the chick or don't have the opportunity to meet up immediately, sometimes I like to try and build some attraction through…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:18 PM
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Lol, I'm not orbiting her. I hit my shot and missed it by a mile. I'm done now.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:09 PM
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You mean provide more cringe? The context of it was that she's depressed, I didn't know that, and she's not responding to anyone at the moment, let alone strangers. I was messaging a load of fuckboi shit basically. My life isn't over if this chick isn't into me, but yeah, the shit I'm messaging is cringeworthy and I need to sort that out.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:05 PM
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Even better if you're the drummer in that band ;)
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 04:26 PM
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Thanks, man. Yeah, I think cortisol had a lot to do with it as well. I was really stressed and depressed for more than a year.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:32 AM
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Cool your ego as well. That's essential. Good to be confident, but too much ego can kill the vibe.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:53 PM
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It depends. I've had cougars turn into sluts for me at the drop of a dime, and they were some of the easiest to get, but then I've also encountered your problem as well. Ultimately, try not to take it personally man, and laugh it off. Whatever sad sap she ends up with is not your problem.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:49 PM
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Self-entitlement. It could be due to a number of factors, but even the grimiest hag can still get her leg over at the end of the day. Dating sites, social media etc, male orbiters everywhere. This is hypergamy in its most narcissistic form. Why even bother with older ladies anyway?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:34 PM
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If they're not literally holding you back, then 'soft next' as the people here like to say.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:44 PM
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Well, we'll call it 'abundance mentality'. I had that before.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:26 PM
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Yeah, I went into a deep isolation. Barely even left the room if I didn't have to.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:19 PM
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All sorts of ways. Experimenting with different openers, sometimes they message me first and then I'll fuck it up one way or another. It doesn't really matter what I say at the moment, because I feel there's a fundamental problem beneath it
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:12 PM
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I suspect this might be more than just a dry spell, just because of the time I've had off from women. But the masculine essence makes sense. I think I need to start lifting again, and re-read the RP bible. My SMV is also non-existent, it feels like lately.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:20 PM
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I regret not finding the Red Pill sooner in life, but very fortunate to find it at all. Yes, man... Capitalise on your life right now, and have fun doing it.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:56 PM
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Ideally, you wanna be fucking on the 1st.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:53 PM
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Too late for him.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:44 PM
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As painful as it might be, dude, the answer seems obvious... Do you have anything to say to her during bagging? Do you flirt? Tease? Anything?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:57 PM
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I see. Well, I don't live in the land of the simp, so I wouldn't know what depraved shit they get up to.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:46 PM
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Fat feminist women definitely don't get sex. Instead, they use gigantic glass dildos that also double as a canoe.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:41 PM
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Fat % caliper... Will look it up. Cheers, dude!
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:00 PM
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Because you want to make her pussy wet, not dry.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:51 AM
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Yep. You are spot on, man. I do basically know what I need to do, but thought it might be good to get some other opinions. Plus, I'm being a lazy fuck about it. I know that last bit of fat to burn off is gonna be a total pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:13 AM
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I haven't taken a dexa scan. I know it seems dumb, but I actually used this: http://fitness.bizcalcs.com/Calculator.asp?Calc=Body-Fat-Navy This obviously isn't full-proof, but a good rough estimate for now. I wouldn't know what my body fat was prior to gaining love handles, but they were definitely gained as I've always been cut - always been able to see the abs, the sides of the lower torso you could barely pinch. I'm not a "fitness" kind of dude. I'm not massively educated in it (which I now r…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:51 AM
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MMA style. Alright, I'll keep that in mind, man. Thank you!
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:47 AM
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As in dehydrate? Sheeeeeeit. To be honest, I need to drink more water lately.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:35 AM
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Yeah, I can see your point clearly. Nice one, man. Thanks for the tips!
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:34 AM
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I'll definitely be doing the ab work. What do you think of cycling over running as a cardio exercise? I'd rather cycle, but if running is immediately more beneficial, then I'll go for that.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:29 AM
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Yeah. That's exactly it. Just act as if you didn't hear it, unless it's a situation where you and her are kissing, or getting it on, and she stops you to say "I can't do this to my boyfriend". In that case, the best thing to do would be to eject. Or if you're one smooth motherfucker, play it off like it's cool, talk and escalate again - and re-engage later. But remember, a solid NO means NO.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:24 AM
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Not entirely familiar with fitness linguo. Do you basically mean just keep up consistent cardio through out the following weeks? I like u/holddadoordor's conclusion about not having a lot of muscle. I definitely lost a good amount of muscle in my lower and upper torso as a result of inactivity.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:19 AM
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I'll give you some basic tips: Don't talk about the BF. Treat her like any other girl you're gonna fuck. Definitely do not talk about the BF.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:10 AM
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I'm actually 5'9" and 154. It's definitely more skinny fat right now than anything else. I've been reasonably shredded most of my life, and never really experienced this before... So I thought I'd ask here instead of Googling this shit because I'm smart like that.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:06 AM
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Straight to the point. This is good.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:32 PM
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Thanks for the response, dude. I actually went for a long bike ride yesterday in the sun, and it was relieving to get out of the bubble I live in at home nearly every day. My family and I are quite different people - I love them, but they're fucking morons half the time as well, and so I feel like I can think more clearly when I isolate around them, and I can get more shit done such as working out for example. But there's a vast space inside of me, where I feel the need for human contact, and in…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:33 PM
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That's true. Because I haven't got any since lockdown began, I am like the Hulk with a boner at the moment, and so I am probably reeking of desperation. Plus a lack of abundance for the first time in a long time. I'm aware I'm not the only one. The depressive state is the cause though, not the symptom I believe.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:19 PM
2

I meant that this isn't post-Red Pill rage. Even when I'm not focused on sticking my dick in anything, these doubts keep recurring, and on a daily basis. I feel inept, no matter what I do lately. Socially inept.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:12 PM
1

Lmao. Get the chip off your shoulder, man. What are you so angry about?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:54 PM
8

Truth.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:46 AM
-4

Then you're winning.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:45 AM
63

Their bedrooms.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:04 AM
1

Wow Much Alfa Very Red Pil
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:00 AM
1

Having good abs was used as an 'in' a few times, I'm not gonna lie lol. If you've got something to exploit, then by all means, exploit that shit. However, I do understand the point you're driving home. I mean being a musician, being in shape, reasonably good looking, funny... were all things that gave me self confidence ON TOP of Red Pill understanding, make sense? Not necessarily that they were tools to get women. More like that's the makeup of who I am as a person, and was my source of interna…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:52 AM
1

And there are the little things you can learn from “pickup” type resources. Clever responses to shitty questions, lines, strategies for getting her home, things like the DiCarlo escalation ladder. Game is a combination of confidence, of these little things you may pick up or learn or memorize, and of your own level of attractiveness. These were the things I had internalised, and became natural to me. I'm a relatively quick learner, but due to a year or more of total brain fog and inactivity, I c…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:14 AM
1

Okay... I'm not disagreeing, but you could have made your point without downvoting a comment I made asking about a Michael Jordan video. That's just petty, dude. Edit: Thanks for putting it back and proving me right 👍
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:24 AM
1

I really do appreciate you taking time out of your day to not only not read my post, but to downvote every comment of mine as well... classy kinda guy.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:21 AM
1

Good point.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:16 AM
1

No, I didn't expect to take it all in on the first read, but I definitely applied what I'd learnt and use it more as a reference when needed. Nothing to do with laziness. I'm just stubborn, I believe I know what I'm doing but a lack of confidence at the moment is hindering that.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:15 AM
3

Well, I did say the answer seemed fairly obvious, but if you're not willing to read or discuss anything here, then that's cool, man. Thanks for replying.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:57 AM
1

I will check this out, dude. Can I find it on YouTube?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:55 AM
0

Thanks for replying, man. Would you recommend taking a refresher anyway, and re-reading all the relevant material? There's a part of me that thinks it's not necessary, and it would take quite a while though. So, that's why I've been hesitating. Just a stubborn fuck.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:54 AM
3

You're getting Facebook contacts and texting contacts confused my dude
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:09 AM
3

No worries. I'd like to add more, but it's fucking 3:23am for me lol. Look, you got the HB8. You're the prize. You may be feeling like a fraud; like you don't deserve her deep down. If that's the case, remove that poisonous shit from your mind. If you scored her in the first place, you were worthy to begin with... maintaining her after that depends on how strong your frame is, amongst other little factors. If you feel like raging, then firstly; remember what you're told here, and secondly; trans…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:28 AM
10

The best I can come up with at the moment, is that it's just your turn. Enjoy her while it lasts, or at least adopt that mentality. See how you feel about her in a month, but in the meantime, just chill out, have fun and enjoy this HB8. Don't leave your other plates so long that they eventually topple, and smash on the floor though. You may well need to spin them again.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:19 AM
8

Good looking women taste good. Good looking women take care of themselves. End of story.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:34 AM
4

And if you don't feel good about yourself, then you can't make them feel good either.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:30 AM
2

Whatever you want dude, just fucking do it.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:26 AM
1

Plenty of fish in the sea, man. No harm in him educating me instead of Google. Don't worry, I'm sure there's plenty of fat hoes to go around where you are.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:09 AM
1

I don't think I'm as fussed about the quantity of the matches actually, as much as the quality of them. I'm not taking it personally, but it does suck. I'm just not into fat chicks, I'm sorry to say. And I'm generally happy, dude! But I just sat alone tonight wondering about this. I know I need patience, and discipline etc, so I guess this was more of a vent than anything else. Thanks for the advice anyway, man.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:36 PM
3

I lost count before I properly discovered and internalised the red pill philosophy. Admittedly, I was fumbling my way through beforehand, but I got to roughly 30 something girls before I hit 25 years of age, and then after that it's just been a blur, and I still haven't fully internalised this shit.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:08 PM
1

Yeah, I'm not dicking this girl anymore. Cheers, mate.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:00 PM
2

Hormonal mood swings on top of drug dependent mood swings, bro.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:56 PM
2

Yeah, I feel that. I don't smoke weed anymore, but when I used to, I shared many joints with different girls over the years who were for the most part chilled as fuck. This is different, you're right, she's highly dependent on weed.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:50 PM
1

Yeah, all good points. She knew where I stood when I hit her up. Every time. I don't lead these girls on, but I don't want to be her emotional tampon now either. There's only so much I can do to help, but as you said, I can't save her.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:36 PM
1

Yeah, I've already considered abandoning ship. I just hope she gets her own shit together. I've told her I can't save her. I prefaced that before giving her any advice, so she knows where I stand. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:30 PM
2

Do you mean listen to my own advice, or that I'm unaware of what I'm saying?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:28 PM
0

Objectively, I realise this too. But I don't want to be an asshole about it just because we're friends, and we roll in the same circles. To my credit, I don't take her shit. If I believe she's talking shit, I will call her out on it and leave it as that, but at the same time, I don't want her convinced I'm trying to manipulate her. That doesn't sit well with me.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:26 PM
0

This girl is pretty much the same way, dude. It's a bit of a complicated situation. She wasn't this bad in the past, but I knew she was a little bit out there, but at the time I wanted a quick fuck or two... which worked out incredibly well. There were no strings attached at all, and so I just assumed she was a bit odd, but also cool at the same time. She never ragged on about me for anything. We could go without talking for a few months, bump into eachother again at a gig or something, and it w…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:23 PM
2

I get that, and she did want my help. I'm not forcing my opinions on her.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:19 PM
2

It's not oneitis, dude. I feel bad because she's a friend, and I don't want her to kill herself. I have options. I told her, if she's really convinced I'm gaslighting her then she only has to walk away, and I'll do the same. That's not a problem for me. I can't fucking save her.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:13 PM
1

Holy fuck. I have nothing to say.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:30 PM
14

Yeah, if she's also carrying your balls in her purse. Of course some women are better at asserting themselves than others, but I've had it happen to me where I was out with my then partner at a club with friends. She was talking to a couple of new people with some of our friend group, and one of the dudes in the new group started copping a feel of her ass discreetly while I was stood right beside her (obviously unaware that she was with anyone), and he didn't think anyone would notice - she assu…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:15 AM
25

There will be rare instances where you need to put a guy in his place. I've had to a couple times myself. But by and large, most of these scenarios you don't need to concern yourself with OP, if a man touches your woman without her permission in a promiscuous way, this is one of those times. Especially in your presence. Doesn't mean fuck him up necessarily, but put him in his place.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:30 AM
10

Well, for a start... He has nothing to lose apparently and obviously doesn't give a fuck. It's good that she was honest with you, and others saying it's to make you jealous might also be right, but how you personally handle that is what ultimately defines you. Don't go and fight this dude. That's first and foremost. You don't need to beat on your chest like a fucking silverback. Just be aware that if you value this girl, and others do, you're still essentially competing in the sexual marketplace…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:07 AM
2

I'm now 31. It peaked around mid-to late 20s though. Might even peak more yet, I don't know.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:30 PM
1

You're speaking my language, dude.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:24 PM
1

Unless you count lifting girls up to use your face as a seat, then not much actual lifting, no. But the drumming tended to keep my arms really toned, and I was also a scaffolder in my youth, which seemed to give me forever-delts. My chest was the main one I would work on in a focused way - my back was also naturally quite strong. Abs were carved during sex and whatever else; cycling, walking, etc. Thanks for the advice, mate. All good stuff I'm jotting down. The battle with drugs and video game …
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:08 PM
1

LOL. It's not that bad, dude. I can see what you're saying, but these paragraphs are beefy. I'm happy to see what the consensus is though. Maybe. You're. Right. I'm British, so maybe that factors in, due to the fact we know how to speak properly.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:57 PM
1

And I'm guessing you don't use any?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:48 PM
2

I'll ask you a question to answer yours: Why is it so painful to start working out if you've never done it before?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:35 PM
1

Nice one, man. I wish my story was exclusive of drugs, and then maybe none of this shit would have happened! But I suppose you have to be thankful for the lessons life teaches you when you're a fucking idiot. I will commit to the grind. Thanks, dude.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:32 PM
0

Her vagina bleeds
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:43 PM
1

make her your sex slave She's gonna gargle mayonnaise.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:43 PM
12

After what you've learnt here, try not to be bitter, resentful, or defensive towards her. She's just doing what she does. You're the one affected here, not her. She hasn't made you feel this way. Remember that - keep your frame. Knowledge is power. She can't hurt you.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:41 PM
13

A woman called me "babe". I must be winning in life.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:38 PM
1

So, I'm just missing the bold bit right now. I've done loads of interesting things in my life, but none them sound good coming out of my mouth anymore because I'm not living my life boldly. Low self esteem.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:05 PM
1

Hypothetically, I agree with what you're saying, but realistically, we don't even know if she is a bad person. We only have his side of the story, and boys with fragile egos will say anything on this sub to avoid being outed as "beta", I think. How do we know OP hasn't just scapegoated her, and that she's actually not at all as he claims? We don't know that. It's okay if you want to operate under the assumption that he's not exaggerating or lying, but based on what he's written, I can clearly se…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:46 PM
1

Apologising for something doesn't necessarily mean you're a bitch. It's good to recognise where you might have gone wrong, or made a mistake, accept responsibility and even apologise for it - He doesn't have to lose frame. The only way he'd lose frame is if he allows himself to get into a slanging match with her, and crumbles under his own guilt. Nonetheless, if he gives a single fuck about his family, he would apologise, not make the same mistake again, and then leave it at that, regardless of …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:24 PM
1

I agree with most of that up until the point where you fail to recognise that this is his sister, not some random fucking girl. Establish dominance, lmao. Be real, dude.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:46 PM
1

You mean insinuating? Anyway, lol, I don't think you know what a white knight is, dude. And yeah, he did do his sister a favour - I agree with that. She now knows he's not to be trusted, as well as her bi-sexual friend. And I hug my mum all the time, you should too. They aren't around forever.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:54 PM
2

Yo, I was homeless/sofa surfing for a year once, and I got some of my greatest conquests during that time, so actually that's a great point! It just seems redundant worrying about being "cool" - I never did before, yet now for some reason unknown to me, I do. To be fair, I haven't been able to do a lot of the things that make me proud to be who I am such as; performing music live, meet girls, see friends etc. Anyway, thanks for the reply, man.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:05 PM
2

You're the only fucking poser in here man. Stop trying to act like you're hardcore and edgy. It's not cool to shit on your family like that ever, and if you think it is, then you must be living a lonely fucking existence, my friend.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:26 AM
8

I'll give you the answer: Don't fuck your sister's girlfriend, you fucking idiot. Says a lot about where your morals lie. Bang other dudes chicks if you're not bros at the most, but never fuck your friend's/family member's partners. That should be an obvious no go, but if it wasn't, it surely is now, man. You obviously posted here to get a community ego boost, because you went from, "fUkcINg mY sisTEr'S gF ThrEW me OfF", to actually throwing your sister under a bus in the edit. Your sister being…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:19 AM
1

This isn't helpful to me, but I wish you the best in the future, and I hope the drug market where you are improves in quality.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:04 AM
1

That's nice. Maybe I don't even know what I'm asking myself. Thanks for trying though, come back and try again when you're not high on meth.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:44 AM
2

No. There's your answer.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:39 AM
1

I have no idea what you're saying, and that's not a joke. You're saying to not make my friends the butt of my jokes... okay. You're also saying emotionally retarded people are more inclined to spend time with jokers, right? If I don't laugh, I'll cry, but if I don't cry I won't laugh either. I'm fucking lost, man.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:36 AM
1

I know, man, haha. And thank you.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:18 AM
2

Listen dude, if you wanted to marry him, you should have just said. I won't stand in your way.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:17 AM
2

He's saying uppercut that bitch in the ovaries. But seriously, you can't control how a woman feels, only your own behaviour and actions. Just get out of your rutt, fuck some other girls, or at least talk to some other girls if you're stuck for now, and learn to excite them more. If you're pressuring chicks for nude photos all the time, they'll quickly get bored. What's in it for them?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:07 AM
1

When I say jokes, I mean just saying funny shit off the top of my head really. I don't have a list of jokes I stored in my memory for later use, it's usually funny shit off the cuff, or whatever I personally think is funny in the moment and have the confidence to say. That's what I'm missing. I'm not trying to be funny here, and even if I did, it would suck atm. Women do like to be made to laugh. I'm not longing to be a clown, because I never was a clown. Being funny gets women in to bed, and ob…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:00 AM
1

To be honest, as sad as it might sound, I'm a very young 31, and most of my friends haven't settled down yet either. We're all edgy still. I think the other guy posting vaguely hit the nail on the head with depression. I kind of just shell up with people now, and have this monotonous tone, because I'm too stuck in my own head thinking about this shit, and some other things as well - all insecurity-based, and I don't know how it's happened. I've just started ruminating on my self worth.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:25 PM
1

I'm actually a pretty funny guy but not all my jokes (maybe even more than half) are that funny. The "funny guy" is really just the guy that cracks the most jokes imo. So you said you lost your edge so to speak. Sounds like you're a little depressed and not being your old self. You need to find a way to tune back to your old self . This is basically it, I think. I'm not the sort of person to be cracking jokes all over the place, all the time. That shit would be exhausting, and needy. It was more…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:21 PM
1

Well, I'm a drummer, and my ambition from an early age was to be an excellent drummer, in a kickass band performing for loads of people, but beyond that... there wasn't anything else. I achieved that, and there are other things I'm good at but I just don't know which direction to go. I could do a lot more with the music. I could teach, do studio work; it's not like I'm incapable, I just have this self-limiting thing going on, so I don't even try.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:11 PM
1

I've wondered about my testosterone lately, as it happens. I haven't been as active in this last year as I was weaning off of a cocaine and mdma habit, I became depressed and isolated way before this Corona lock down business. So, it's possible that's an issue. Lost my libido as well for a while, which freaked me out. My libido has never failed me before. As for vitamin D, I know for a fact I'm gonna get rickets if I don't hurry the fuck up and get outside. So, that's definitely fixable ASAP. Us…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:56 PM
1

Transcribing audio books? How do you get into that?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:02 PM
3

Are you talking natural scent though?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:08 PM
3

Ugly girls smell like shit. Beautiful girls smell like unicorns.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:49 PM
1

What if you've got your shit mostly together, you're in shape, reasonably confident in most aspects of your life but just don't believe in yourself when you're talking to women anymore? I start to talk to women now, and the old muscle memory is there, and it always starts off well, but then I just start to give up when it gets good. I'm hitting constant dead-ends.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 09:20 AM
2

Even if there were any truth to these Black Pilled theories, how the fuck would that ever serve you in life? So, you're just gonna sit there and give up because you don't have a jawline you could sharpen a sword on? Mate, you need to learn to like yourself before you do anything. Those Black Pillers fucking hate themselves, and so they become the thing they despise, which only reinforces their delusional beliefs. Did you know, just your perspective on life, an attitude change, a positive belief …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:04 PM
1

Sorry, should have said can weaponize sex.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:06 PM
8

Women weaponize sex. Sex is a man's weakness. Understanding this is true to some degree can change this.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:54 AM
2

You seem to be lost, bro. This girl is fucking nuts,
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:28 AM
3

More likely he found a crazy bitch to fulfil his porn addiction fantasies. Something about Freud in there too.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:24 AM
1

Lmao, terrible advice, dude. He's so far below ground level even now.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:23 AM
1

That's why he's in love with her.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:18 AM
1

We've all been there, your problem now though, is that you're obsessed and it's consuming you, basically ruining all your potential future dates with too many expectations set in your mind. You need time to heal. That starts by not looking at shit with/of/about her; no sex vids you did together, any kinky pics she or yourself took of her, conversations, etc. Just get better and focus elsewhere for now, man. Plenty more sluts in the sea.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:13 AM
1

Moles burrowing in from relationships sub??
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:27 PM
4

Simple answer and solution to your problem is: Don't put your dick in crazy. You reap what you sow, dude. Take responsibility and man up. You've got three options right now to deal with this girl: Dump her on the spot, give her a vague reason as to why and watch the meltdown. She might handle it better than you think, though (Doubt it). Ghost her (This is the worst option). Get her to dump you. Although your integrity and self respect is at risk if you have to act like a bitch in order to get ri…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:10 PM
2

Yeah, it's not that small of a location. Pretty decent sized city with plenty of opportunities, but I don't currently have the options I once had mainly due to having not put myself out there for a while. I agree though, experience is definitely the most valuable way to learn, or re-learn in my case, but I could definitely benefit from looking through some theory again. Fuck... haha, I know this is gonna be painful, but I wanna get back to where I was, or better actually. Thanks for the comment,…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:24 PM
2

Have you dropped acid before?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:58 PM
27

Depends how old you are. If you're 18, then go for it. If you're 35, then don't bring them home, lmao. In fact, get your shit together right now.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 05:09 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3_DPW8hKTI
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:14 AM
1

I do need value again. I agree with you on this.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:11 PM
1

I had a healthy ego, that was the difference. There is definitely a lack of abundance, because I chose not to pursue any girls for a year, so that definitely ties into it, but because of the success I had with women most of my adult life, my ego is still tied to that version of me. I think I just figured out my problem anyway. Thanks, dude.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:08 PM
4

The music should be your focus, girls will follow that if you're good.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:37 PM
1

Do you recommend me doing the same then? Seems a pain in the ass. I had no clue about the ELO system up until 10 minutes ago, but I also don't want Snorlax's blocking my way anymore
/r/askTRP21/02/20 09:13 AM
1

The thing is, I've been out of the game for a while due to basically zero libido for the past year. So, the idea was just to get back on Tinder, and work my way back up from there.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:56 AM
1

I'm swiping right on all the chicks, because it's much easier to see what comes back and then decide from there
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:53 AM
-1

Is everyone in here fucking with me now? ELO? That's a 70's band. Edit: Nvm. Googled it. It's a thing.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:51 AM
2

True, after I did a bit of checking. I assumed a condom would prevent it.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:01 AM
1

Pretty obvious he didn't, otherwise he wouldn't be worried about it. Wearing a condom isn't 100% full-proof, but it's your best hope other than abstinence.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:57 AM
27

This "bitch" that you decided to fuck without a condom. You made the choice. Be thankful she's been living in your head rent free, because if you don't have herpes, now you know to be more cautious.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:21 PM
6

Just keep building muscle - keep consistent on your workouts, and it won't matter too much what you eat anyway, as long as you're not eating total shit regularly (ideally at all), i.e, refined sugars, loads of carbohydrates, processed foods, etc. Look up someone like David Goggins, and get inspiration. You don't have to be David Goggins, though. No one wants to be David Goggins.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:19 PM
1

Look somewhere else then. Meet a few older, professional chicks. Spice is the variety of life.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:51 PM
1

Younger women are arrogant in general, so they will be pulling a lot of shit because they expect the best, even if they're not worth the best themselves. Do as another guy said in here, and just flip the switch on your perspective of this. You're reacting to their behaviour with frustration and anger, when you can clearly see what's happening, but it would be far better for you to just laugh at it for what it is, and not be so affected. If these women are causing you to lose frame, then you've e…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:46 PM
1

Are you on good terms with your ex? Otherwise, I'd say avoid that one, but you need to go somewhere where you have the tools to sculpt and bulk yourself, not focus on anyone else, and if you know the gym is full of juiceheads, then what's to be intimidated about? They're essentially cheating to get big. Put in the hard work without that shit, and you'll feel a million times better.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:31 PM
1

I wasn't looking for pity. This is what I was looking for.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:03 PM
4

That's why I put 'self-esteem'. Whatever you want to call it. Maybe self worth is a better term. Aren't we all just losers here at the Red Pill? The sidebar is brimming with books for losers like us. I understand taking action is important, but I need knowledge as well.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:16 AM
2

Thanks for replying again, dude. This is a topic I want to get into, and be challenged on. I built up inner confidence over years of learning, practice, introspection. It's a constant education, and in doing so, I did build a strong foundational self esteem. Maybe not as strong as someone else's? But stronger than it was before, and it's always a work in progress - it can fluctuate, but I'm not happy because everything I worked towards is deteriorating, or has deteriorated now because of my inac…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:21 AM
2

I couldn't give a fuck about material things, so not sure what your point is about the Ferrari, or the penthouse in NYC. But yeah, I admit I must come across as arrogant, and I do have a lot of pride, but I don't equate those things to how I really am. If anything, I'm so self-absorbed now because isolating myself caused me to become more inward-thinking - I hate being this self-absorbed, believe me. I'm inside my own head all the time, my ego is really fragile, and I feel like I have to remind …
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:47 AM
1

Forget everything you know, and dive headfirst into self-discipline, self-education, self-help, self-motivation. Not all at once, but start with your physique first, when you have time to rest, read, learn, then repeat. Keep doing this until you build the discipline, discipline will turn into motivation when you see and feel results, then you can start practising what you've been reading about. You will want to give up a LOT, and that's fine, as long as you come back to it every time you do. Kee…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:21 PM
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There's quite a few people I already consider as my heroes; musical, people from history, actors, martial artists etc... but I kind of just grew into my own eventually, but with influences and traces of them, if that makes sense? It's been a while since I've done that, so I'm gonna take you up on that advice. And you're spot on there. I have that muscle memory too, but I'm living with the same fear you had back then, that I won't be as good as I once was, and that'll mark me forever. Placing a l…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:09 PM
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.... Well said. Yeah, I don't mean to appear defensive. You're just trying to help. Thank you for your thoughts, dude. I understand the stoic mindset you're talking about though, and honestly, I haven't practised it in quite a while - and it is something to be practised. Back to the drawing board.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:59 PM
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You're talking about modelling the behaviours of confident people, or admirable people. I understand. And I agree, man, monk mode/full social isolation is probably why I'm here typing this out right now, instead of out in the world, being who I normally would be. Fear has gripped me. I know better than to have done this shit to myself, yet here I am. You're just 19, right? My friend, you're gonna be alright in this world. Respect to you.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:54 PM
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I understand what you're saying, but no one has ever had the perception of me being a nice guy. I can assure you of that. I mean being friendly, and being a 'nice guy' are two different things. I've always been aggressive in what I strive for, passionate, I don't bend over backwards for people - actually I never have. I might help people now and again, and I think I am a decent person, but I've never been a Mr. Nice Guy. I'm not smiling all the time. As corny as it sounds, most of the time I'm b…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:47 PM
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It's hard to hold masculine frame at 5'9". I'm not shitting you. I consider myself quite a masculine, dude, as well. Not that I try to be. Anxiety and depression doesn't help either, and I had bundles of it this year. I'm not very good at pulling back, and maintaining frame when my psyche is shattering - but I think that's normal, and understandable. When you've got so much shit already going on in your head, it's easy to forget to pick your chin up, shoulders back, project your voice, good eye …
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:09 PM
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My mother is about my height, maybe just under now, and my father has always been about 6'0" - 6'1". Both my grandads were absolute units, well, one is still with us actually. They're both over 6 feet, easily.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:43 PM
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I think I may have stunted my growth by smoking early. I've got two brothers, both over 6 feet. Two sisters that are more or less my height, and the crux of it all, is that I am the eldest one. I have no idea really, man. Not many people in my family are under 5'5", if I had to guess. Edit: And like I said, I'm not really all that bothered about my height, as it's never stopped me from being confident, it's more the perception that I'm less than someone else because of it, and that perception is…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:38 PM
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Be a man, bro.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:35 PM
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I didn't really need to ask that. Thank you, sir.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:13 AM
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You are right. I have to be honest in this context, so you people will know wtf is up with me. I'm definitely a bit Ned Starkey these days with my honesty, but the idea of kissing people's asses doesn't sit right with me. That would make me a bitch in some respect. I just need to focus on myself again for a while, and find 'better' people, I think. More the former.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:11 AM
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That I'm being stupid?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:09 AM
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Yeah, compulsively as well. They have to in a way.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:04 AM
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She's just a plate, dude. After 7 years? She was probably dryer than the Sahara down there. Although, if she was unhappy, I do agree she should have been up front, but HARDLY anyone is capable of doing that - man or woman. She at least owned up to it to you, which displays a level of comfort and trust. It's a hard call to make, dude. I'd just keep having fun for now, put it to one side, and if more red flags come up down the line, then you need sink that ship.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:01 AM
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Haha, yeah but 5'9" feels like 5'4" now. I swear, the government are putting some shit in the water, and it's turning this generation into a bunch of fucking millennial giants. But you are right, I am definitely overthinking everything, but that's because there's some truth to what I'm saying, but the seed of that truth, I started watering it, and now it's a full-grown tree, with all kinds of branches, and leaves adding to the problem. My problem is I doubt myself now, a bit too much. I can't ge…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:32 AM
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I'm right there with you, bud. I get it, because it means something about you is causing them to size you up - I must be special, lmao. But after so long, it's worn me down. People I've grown strong bonds with, turn out to be kniving bitter cunts. It may look like everyone else is the problem in my life, so in reality, it must mean I am the problem but that's not the case, I feel. I am an asshole sometimes, and I do make mistakes, but I don't crab bucket anyone out of success, and I'm loyal to p…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:28 AM
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That's the thing - I kind of have always been unavailable, unless it suited me. That sounds selfish, I know, and I'm not begging for friends, but whenever I've needed one, only a rare few are ever around. I guess you could say that's normal, though. But I'm not the type of guy to burden people with my problems. I used to have good friends I could talk to, but even then, I didn't enjoy offloading my issues, and I can't do that with women because most of them don't really give a shit, and no one l…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:23 AM
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Might seem counter-intuitive, but next time she becomes like that, realise it has more to do with what's going on inside of her, than it ever does you, or anyone else. So, knowing that, what are you really worried about? Sounds like you may be unsure of yourself on some level. Just treat her like any other girl; joke, amused mastery, or tell her you don't like it, straight-up without anger or emotion. Just put it back on her, don't wait this long next time to do it either, because it shows you'v…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:10 AM
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Why would you not be concerned if it was a male? Regardless of gender, disrespect is still disrespect, right? Obviously you don't want to look butthurt about everything in general though. Can I ask, what she did exactly to make you feel disrespected?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:05 AM
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Some people are lucky to even have 1 friend who isn't like this, let alone 2 or 3. Everyone has shit on their shoes, but some keep theirs clean.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 04:28 AM
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I've been in this position a million times with so many different people, and it took me so long to recognise this is what was happening until I started learning Red Pill philosophy, and other great self help books. OP, heed what both commenters are saying above - learn to recognise the signs, but don't grow resentful. These people could be your family, your best friends, lovers, etc... And it might be hard to realise that even these people want to keep you at their level or lower, but understan…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 04:25 AM
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I know 100% my aesthetics are fine, but not being socially calibrated now and again in interactions is an interesting point that I think I agree with.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 12:45 PM
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I wasn't a 'nice guy' though, this was just for a hook up, and she knew it as well.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 12:40 PM
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Change the negative thought loops going on in your head. You think everyone hates you, because really, you hate yourself. So you're projecting that onto others, which in turn becomes like a self-fulfilling prophesy, and confirms your own beliefs. You need to cut that shit out. Start focusing on yourself, and learning to like yourself, whatever that takes; be it working out, gaining more knowledge from a book, or new skill, or improving the skills you have, learning to talk to yourself better, et…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:15 AM
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Rodent9 is on point, but the bit about fucking her right now - Don't, lol. As tempting as that may be, just don't. It won't be good for you in the long run. Just ignore everything. Trust me, man. Go and work on getting some fresh pussy, and perspective. Peace.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:07 AM
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You're gassing yourself, bruv. I'll give you this as well: When you successfully remove her from everything and carry on with your life education, she WILL notice, like she did the last time, but when she realises you're serious... That's when you're gonna need to chin up, and carry on. Don't be tempted by any thing she says. She may try to guilt trip you, tempt you, whatever tools she can use to get your attention right back to her, and it will be exactly the same result for you as it is right …
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:01 AM
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Yeah, I wondered if it might have been to do with some nervous/anxious signals I may have sent out. Definitely when I was in my teens, eye contact was a problem, after living like a hermit for 3-4 years before that.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:52 AM
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As fucked up as it is, at this point, you're both essentially using each other: It seems like you're hanging onto her for sex, or that feeling of intimacy you once had, which will only boost your ego temporarily. And she's more or less doing the same thing to you, but without the need for sex. The other poster was right. Start working on yourself, eventually get more chicks under your belt, and then see how you feel. The curve is surprisingly not very steep, if you throw yourself into it with an…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:47 AM
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That's just it, I should know that they're miserable deep down based on their behaviour, haha. I mean, if you're miserable, then I feel sorry for you, but... Not my problem when you're cunt to others as well. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:37 AM
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When you wrote that she said "she knows", I felt that sting. Brother, she's getting high off the validation you're giving her. You're literally feeding her ego, and she's loving it because she has another relationship where she gets all the sex she wants, but she has you as her emotional tampon, knowing she could have you any time of the day - all she has to do is click her fingers, and you know it too and that is the problem. Your best hope at fucking her right now, is if her relationship goes …
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:28 AM
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Well, I can see how the first one could see me as LMV, because I literally was when I was a kid. The second one had no reason to think that (IMO), especially since she was all for it before we were interrupted - I would say she would have been willing to cheat, even at the time. I just don't get why she needed to be that brutal when rejecting me months later... I've been rejected loads before, so it's not a big deal, but I was surprised by hers. My first instinct was to look inward, and see if I…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:09 AM
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Ultimately, it doesn't matter. But for anyone who can be bothered to read that, I'd appreciate some thoughts.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:06 AM
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It's just common sense, dude. OP has 'MUG' written on his forehead.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:11 AM
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Hamster is right. Don't explain yourself, at least not TOO much. Don't give her any reason to guilt trip you. Let the tears fall where they may, but stand firm. You don't need to be a dick about this, but you do need to keep a rigid backbone, dude, if this is the plan you're going for. If you can get through this, and she moves out, then you rebuild. Whatever shit you feel, use it as fuel to forge yourself into someone stronger, and wiser.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:06 AM
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This is about how you feel, totally. They've been given experiences, and as a result, it's made them weak, but you are right that they've experienced things most people probably won't be able to early in their lives due to being handed shit on a plate. You have the privilege of earning your experiences, which is a thousand times more valuable. You just need to go out there and get it.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:47 PM
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Fear is usually the reason we don't go out and experience anything. Doing the same job every day, meeting the same people, having the same hobbies etc, it gives us a sense of comfort, and it's good to have them to a degree, but to evolve as a person, sometimes you have to try new shit and stop being afraid.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:36 PM
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I'm just fucking with you, dude. Btw, there's a million cheap ways to make your life more interesting; just go out into the world, and say yes to doing more things in general. If an idea pops into your head about trying some new activity, sport, event, or whatever it it is, doesn't matter, then just say to yourself, "Yes". Fucking do things. Don't worry about what other people think of you, but if what they're saying bothers you, then maybe on some level you agree or are insecure about it.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:32 PM
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It's a huge void, having a lack of experience. You said it yourself. If you feel that way, then fill the void, my friend. And no one can make you feel devalued. It sounds like you agree with what they're saying on some level, and it's caused you to question things, which means you should probably get more experiences because it's bothering you for a reason.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:25 PM
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Just tell them it's "what have you done with your life until now".
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:24 PM
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Yeah, to be brutal, sometimes just slipping off quietly out of the backdoor is the best approach. Could be seen as cowardly, selfish, but you don't wanna get into a situation where a girl starts guilt tripping you, or emotionally blackmailing you with suicide threats. GTFO, strategically.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:04 PM
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Wear stilts.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:47 PM
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He'll be back with a new account once the dust has settled. He's just learnt a valuable lesson, and it burns.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:45 PM
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Thank you, dude. I have those moments of clarity, too, where I feel like I could easily turn this all around but because I've set myself back so far, I see the goal in my mind and I keep trying to run to it, instead of learning how to crawl again. I forget some times one step at a time is enough. May the force be with you.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:35 PM
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Thanks, man. I understand what you're saying, and maybe it's a case of needing to be reminded of that because in real life, I no longer have a social support system around me due to isolating myself, and pushing people away.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:26 PM
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Actual masturbation. You're right, I'm being an edgy cunt and avoiding real advice. Well, I stopped trying to escape my problems through video gaming, and staring at Facebook news feed. Managed to get myself laid last night, but didn't feel amazing after. I tried working out as well yesterday for an hour, for the first time in weeks, and I'm sore today. But woke up feeling like total shit as well. Had an interaction with the girl I got with, and I just felt deflated, and unenthusiastic. She was …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:16 PM
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Thank god it was unsent.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:06 PM
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The irony is, I wish I wasn't an over thinker, then I wouldn't be feeling like this, and could be content in life with ice cream dribbled down my shirt like a retard, sat watching Some Shitty Country's Got Talent.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:05 PM
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That'll be the copious amounts of cocaine then. You're right though, I''m gonna have to bite the bullet, and see a doctor.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:01 PM
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When they stop writing posts like this.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:56 PM
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Welcome aboard the HMS Misery. I will be your captain. Our destination is set for that massive iceberg over there.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:52 PM
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What, for 100th time?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:50 PM
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Then you haven't reached slavic nirvana yet. I don't feel like this is progress for me, though. Maybe in the sense that I've finally bothered to write a cry for help out, but the rest has been more or less the same for months now, only getting worse.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:45 PM
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