I had a bit of break from women in the last year or so due to depression and a lack of libido. Suddenly, I'm back on it again but have been failing hard. I went through loads of old messages between me and other girls I'd hooked up with before this, just to compare and see what I was doing differently back then, and one thing I did notice was that I wasn't trying as hard - these girls were throwing themselves at me, asking me every other night to come round to their place for a "coffee". I don't feel like I'm trying too hard at the moment, but something is definitely off and I can't put my finger on it.

Disclaimer: I'm not trying to hook up with old flings. I understand quarantine is affecting everything as well.