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Yo I get your point but I disagree. This is not a "this or that" situation. The lad wants to meditate, let him have a go at it. You're completely against taking 10 minutes out of your day to practice something new? How are we, as human beings ever get to evolve if we don't try new shit and learn from them? Anecdotal experience from me shows that In periods where I've meditated consistently and slept better, my testosterone was way higher than when I didn't. And yes, I do blood work every 3 month…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:53 PM
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Meditation IS backed by science. You can look for studies and articles up if you'd like but Meditation is proven to reduce anxiety, help increase sleep quality and serotonin levels which in turn makes a person healthier (i.e. higher testosterone, lower blood sugar etc.) I won't sit here and say "Yeah bro, meditation increases your squat by 100lbs", because the benefits are indirect. (i.e. better sleep quality and less stress = higher testosterone) Your brain needs training and recovery, like the…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:32 PM
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Great piece. Straight to the point. Everything you've written makes sense even if I'd want to disagree. But I really disagree with just one thing: Stop listening, start talking. This goes well with the rest of the text but I'd say that listening and critically thinking everything you listen is better than talking. Wake up every day by telling yourself that you know nothing. This will only enable you to be more open to new ideas, new knowledge. This is where true wisdom is generated. "The only th…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 08:27 PM
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This is the beginning of your journey. Go on and become the slay king.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:08 PM
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Are you kidding me? She's a complete liar and straight up manipulated OP. Not everything is about SMV dude. You know there's more important things in life such as integrity and morality and not being a liar right? It's actually people like you who are ruining this sub by making everything to be about SMV, dating etc. No, TRP is about being a fucking man with integrity and unbreakable values. Go back to the books.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 11:40 AM
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Fuckin hell man, this is RP in a single post. I really hope newcomers will see this (and your previous post) so they learn from your story. I'm sorry dude. The petty man inside me wants to say "Get her ass fired and make her sleep on a bench" but fuck that. Low quality woman right here. She'll end up where she deserves one way or another. I hope you move on asap brother.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:25 PM
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Dude being jacked does not build your identity unless you want it to (being a pro bodybuilder or smth). Work on your personality if that's what you're worried about and stop giving a fuck about what others think. It looks like these are all assumptions based on your insecurities. And that's okay. Just accept your insecurities, work on your personality and keep lifting weights. Build the physique you feel comfortable with.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:54 PM
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Your mindset is crushed. Re-evaluate your values, your opinions, your morals, everything. Take some time off, clear your head. You're acting like a whiny 9 year old who lost his little toy.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:36 AM
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Stop being pathetic. We all lost a high value chick. We all got dumped for another dude. We all "lived in the fairytale" and then woke up. You're not special. And most importantly, she's not special. Think about all her red flags. Then mute/block her on all social media (I know you keep following her and liking her shit) Focus on yourself. "Yes I lift weights". Fuck off. Do you? Do you squat 315+? Do you get a sick pump everytime you're at the gym? Go harder. Again, focus on yourself. Make money…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:32 AM
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Read the sidebar and lift weights. That's all you need.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:03 PM
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I don't remember clearly tbh but he was supposed to be some sort of right winger type and a cult leader. Season 7's main theme was also the US elections where Trump won but I cannot recall the connection with TRP. Overall, my initial journey with TRP was completely disconnected from any political beliefs.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:18 PM
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Funny story here. I was 22, virgin, just left my home country to study abroad. I was already lifting for 4 years but had 0 game. Didn't know wtf was wrong. Here's the story: I was watching American Horror Story one night and ended up pausing completely by luck on a frame where the protagonist was on his laptop and he was on TRP LOL. I ended up searching TRP that night.... Binge read the sidebar. I swear i've stayed up all night. I have never spent so much time on my studies than reading the side…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:35 PM
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Yeah I was thinking about this too. I think it's because theory ALWAYS needs to be accommodated with practice. And during a pandemic, it's hard for people to be going out all the time and practicing. I found TRP 3 years ago, I spent months reading the sidebar and the top posts whilst also going out, approaching, going on dates, working on my self etc. This is why it worked for me and this is the way it works for people. Read, practice, fail, reflect, learn, repeat. This is the recipe.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:25 PM
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My dad left when I was 11. Grew up kinda loving my my mom and hating my dad. Around 18-22 I got my anger phase in and I was pissed at my mother for no particular reason. 25 now and have good relationships with both of them. I forgive them about everything. They had their faults but I've recovered and I like the man I am. I also meditate on mine and their mortality. One day I won't have them so I'd rather talk to them now that they're here
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:51 AM
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Hey man. I get it. Really I do. I can related to like 98% of what you're saying. But it's not so dramatic. Sometimes timing works in our favor, sometimes it doesn't. I've been with a lot of shitty women and with a few "keepers". The keepers always felt like a "what could've been" but sooner or later, you'll meet another "what could've been". And another.. You're probably emotional due to the circumstances and mostly because your RP principles overlap with your human instincts of affection etc. I…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 11:06 AM
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Although Cobra_x30 hit the nail with his replies, I just wanna add my 2c here because I can relate. I am also 25. Been on RP for 3 years and it honestly changed my life. I've also spent these past 3 years fucking around, dating, gaining experiences having fun, living the good life. Recently, I've met a mature girl. We clicked. We had lots of fun during our first month but she had to go back to Germany to finish her studies (Medicine). We discussed and decided to stay in contact and whatever happ…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:13 PM
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I swear women feel like they are living in a holywood movie lmao
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:38 PM
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This. Wrap it up. If she was interested, she would definitely try and meet up. Not short on dick supply it seems.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:53 AM
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First, work on building your personality based on what the fuck YOU actually like. Build your identity and be proud of it. Then try to be relaxed, social, fun to be around. Don't get offended by stupid shit. Apply banter and playful convos. Show up at events, parties etc. That's pretty much it for high school lol
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:58 AM
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Yeah what was interesting in this is that even with the blue pill traits some red pill traits probably overlapped your behaviour which made her hamster spin. Also worth noting that this probably worked on this specific type of girl and wouldn't rly work on the majority. You got her all confused and shit lmao especially after she broke up and you nexted. Lessons to be learnt here: It's okay to text girls and engage in convos as long as you meet up close and maintain frame, being alpha and abundan…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:22 PM
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You talk too much. "Told her I won't chase her", "Told her I won't call" blah blah while doing all of these. Show her you're high value, don't tell her. If you got game she will be the one texting you after the date for sure.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:17 PM
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She just disqualified herself from the ltr conversation Perfectly said. She's a plate not LTR. Who cares about a fucking spreadsheet lmao. Women do all kinds of weird shit to stroke their ego. Keep fucking her and have minimal connection.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:14 PM
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Yeah this back and fourth only creates drama and toxicity. Never worth it unless crazy break up sex is involved. OP, save your testosterone and mental health. Walk.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:54 AM
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Lmao I hope you're joking. Coming from a fanatic christian family I know that religion is a double-edged sword. Observing my close family members excusing everything and surrendering all hope to "Jesus Christ" is one of the weakest mentalities I've seen in humans. I love my fam to bits but I hate how everything is mixed up. Religion turns ambition to greed, competitive spirit to jealousy, self-interest to ego etc. It put labels to everything and it's really a black&white, closed minded perspecti…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:46 PM
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The one thing I see a lot in my personal life is that women will say "I'm not into relationships", "I don't get attached easily" only to ask me to meet their parents after 1 night of going out and fucking. When you're perceived as high value, they wanna tie you down. Then they move to the next one. It's just the reality. I'm in my mid-20s and this is not depressing to me. I have fun and act like I'm naive, thinking they can tie me down. I get sex, I meet new people, new experiences and then back…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:32 PM
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To add to this. I always find myself regretting NOT going for it rather than regretting going for it.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:13 PM
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"Beyond good and evil" got me into philosophy and I'm glad. It's a long term investment on myself. "How to win friends and influence people". To the point. Helps with social awkwardness and people with high ambitions. "The power of now" has helped me on my spiritual journey. Listened to "Can't hurt me" by David Goggins recently and that guy got my ass on fire for a few weeks. Training and productivity through the roof while listening to it.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:34 PM
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Been there when I was 18. I've done some embarrassing shit just because I was obsessed with a girl. You'll get over it. Ghost people from your past and focus on your purpose. Create new social circles, meet new people, discover new environments. Once you start rebuilding yourself in new environments, you'll forgive yourself and start feeling proud of who you've become. You're being too emotional right now. Start being more stoic.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 10:05 PM
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Not being able to see my friends so I spend all my free time (Besides working & lifting which I do FULL TIME, no days off): Meditating and calming my self. I wanna become a really chill, collected and easy going person. Coming from an angry and insecure background. (Family issues, bullying, overweight etc.) Read/Listen to a lot of books. I'm not seeking for knowledge, I wanna accumulate wisdom in my mind. Developing skills hobbies. I lift 5-6x so that's my staple. Now with more free time, I also…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 01:47 PM
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You're her reserve lol. Been there done that. Don't put up with that shit. The faster you get out the better it will be for you.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:17 PM
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We'll see his post here in a couple of months
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:05 PM
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Smells bs. Proceed and fuck her if you will, but treat carefully. It's easy to get lost in superstitions though. My ex was into that stuff and sometimes she texts me when I'm with other women with shit like "I hope you're having the worst sex" or "I've cast a curse spell on you to never love again" and shit like that lol
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:48 PM
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What about actual sex? I get that fapping is useless and I don't do that anymore but semen retention implies no sex as well doesn't it? I agree with the whole notion but there might be some holes in the theory.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:17 PM
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Well put. Looks like OP turned himself from the "alpha" shiny trophy of a man to the well-known "beta-bux". She doesn't feel like she has to do anything to earn his validation/security/affection anymore. She's comfortable. And why wouldn't she? She's living the dream. She has a high value man providing for her, in money, roof, food, clothes and every other material thing she desires. OP needs to show her that he is not afraid to show her the door and bring the next one in. No talks, actions.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:28 PM
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Not OP but had similar success. I was a virgin blue pilled lil boy until 23 (early 2018). There's no secret but it's simple: Work on yourself. (Inside and outside) practice stoicism, calmness and being indifferent. Lift, groom, get better clothes, take care of your teeth, skin, facial hair etc. Smell good. Social skills and presence. Be around people. That's it. Talk to them too. Be sexually expressive when taking with females and confidence is key. Escalate and don't give a shit about rejection…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:43 PM
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She is 28 and my friend is 22. She is his first kiss, took his virginity and first LTR. They have been together for one year. Yeah that's a lost cause mate. Let him ride the ride, improve his bedroom skills and when he eventually gets screwed over, he might end up here, like most of us. Just make sure he's stable because some guys take this sort of stuff harder than others, especially when it's their first.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:59 PM
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No contact. Mute/Block her on socials. (I prefer muting, shows you're not butthurt) Accept the thoughts, memories, resentments, everything. Focus on your work and go to the gym, go for a run, find creative shit to do, work on yourself. Give it at least 30 days. Don't do it for her, do it for you. In the meantime, chat w other girls. Read the Rational Male and place emphasis on rule #3(?) "It's always time better spend meeting new women, than going back to previous, failed relationships".
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:27 PM
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Spoken like a true stoic here. Op listen to this man.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:01 PM
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That's the breaking point of a man's life. This shit makes or breaks one. I had to learn the hard way. And even after my eyes were opened, I still managed to get my balls cut off and become a kitten to a woman. You think you're the alpha once you conquer her but she will own you and throw you in the trash to move on to the next one. OP nailed it here. I hope all men who go through similar experiences end up transforming themselves to tigers and not continue being kittens and slave to the "narrat…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:07 PM
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In terms of Red Pill as a sexual strategy I'd say its top 3 along with The Rational Male and maybe No more Mr. nice guy. But in terms of being a powerful, masculine and dominant man, I'd say "The way of the superior Man" is probably the best book I've read.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:55 AM
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Read it a couple years ago and liked it. It's a fun read but nothing special. I am actually re-listening to it now during my morning routine before going to work. It helps me be a little more "aloof" during my day.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:48 PM
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This. Women love sex just as much as guys do. If she ain't getting it from you, she's getting it from someone else.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:56 AM
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Yeah that's weird af. I wouldn't even go out with that dude in the first place. Should've taken her on a night out by yourself but fuck the "should've". You already got the gist, drop them and focus on your other options.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:41 PM
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I think TRP expanding to self-improvement - no bullshit theory is a good step. Younger guys can benefit from fitness/business/discipline advice/literature. Still important to polish our memory on some RP truths every here and there.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 09:28 PM
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If the sex is good, keep her as a plate. DO NOT get attached to her and polish your rotation. Don't commit. She basically threw the entire CCCP flag on your ass and wrote "NOT LTR MATERIAL" on her buttcheecks with ink.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:39 PM
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Not everyone has it good mate. There's tons of people who make below average salaries in their countries.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 10:12 PM
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Meh, I consider myself to be attractive but literally nobody uses it in my home country. When I was in the UK I nailed 2/3 though so I guess it works elsewhere. I open it up once a month now and it's full of fake profiles, ig thots promoting their shit etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 10:13 AM
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You can probably pull hot 40-50 year old women and I'm sure there's plenty around. My mum is 52 and she has some hot friends. I almost thought of putting game on one of them.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:05 PM
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You are already self-aware that your lack of social skills is what's keeping you back. You need confidence and game, that simple. Go out and interact with random people. Talking to random people will start improving your social skills and you'll find it more natural to approach women. Lift more, you got a long frame to fill, but it's worth it. Raise your confidence and learn game (sidebar)
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:28 PM
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Bang her friends and ghost them all.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:57 AM
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Well, for context, my dad broke up with my mom when I was 10 because he wanted to be alone. I am okay with it. My dad encourages my lifestyle and he likes the fact that I don't have plans of commitment at 25. My mom on the other hand hates the fact that I sleep around but she's slowly coming to terms with it. She keeps throwing her "you should find a good girl to settle down with" and I keep saying "How will I find the one if I don't test them all?"
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 07:37 PM
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Your parents probably want grandchildren. My mom has similar beliefs but shes at least straight up with me. "I want you to make me grandchildren". I've also noticed how more forced it becomes when I react negatively so I just started applying amused mastery and keep doing my thing. Lately I've been replying with "You probably have some grandchildren walking around by now". Just ignore and keep doing what makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 07:54 AM
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I've heard too many stories of business partners backstabbing each other. I would never trust anyone besides my 2 best mates who never betrayed me. Now I don't know the guys you're mentioning but they seem like snakes. It's risky. If you feel like you can benefit from it then do it and take your share asap before it blows up in your face. Keep your eyes open if you decide to do it. Maybe even add more neutrals in the game or someone to have your back.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:34 PM
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The simps have taken over. Request for backup.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:41 AM
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There are enough hours to do that. Was a college student for 5 years (4 bachelor's, 1 masters). First four years I worked part time, studied full time, lift every day and went out on Fridays. I moved abroad during my master's and even when living alone (had to cook,clean,wash etc.) I would again lift every day, study full time, read tons of books, worked one or twice per week at bars for extra cash and went out pretty much every day. Those who say that there's not enough time are probably stuck …
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:09 AM
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Bruh you don't need monk mode. You've literally been in monk mode for your past 14 years or so. Take care of your self, your appearance, lift some weights, groom, get some good clothes and go out and socialize.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:29 PM
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Spend your time doing your own shit so you don't think about her. Don't overtext. Don't be available all the time. Keep in mind that she's not a unicorn and most probably you won't be with her forever. Abundance mindset even if you think she's the hottest.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:23 PM
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It's a sign that there's something she doesn't want you to know
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:38 AM
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Aight I get it. If you feel happy by letting her do most (if not all) of the house duties then who am I to judge. I am only trying to give you a perspective. I've been living solo most of my life and I've grown to like cleaning up my own shit. I also like when a girl is around and does stuff for me but when you're living with them, helping each other out keeps the relationship healthier. That being said, ignore her mother and apply amused mastery. Keeping your girl happy is the important task as…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:59 PM
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Actually, if you read the post, you'd see she told the mother I do help out. Which you followed with: virtually lying for me. Lol. I get that you're trying to come off as a high value male and I support the whole "I'm the prize" mindset but come on dude. Helping your girl out a bit is only gonna do good for your relationship. Women love it when their man helps voluntarily. I'm not saying you should clean and cook every day but I honestly believe that cooking a few times per week, tidying up the …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:47 PM
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Use this as motivation to generate your own wealth. Keep your head down and work for it brother. Also, like others mentioned, your chances of pulling girls at this age is not limited by wealth as long as you can afford having a drink with them or so.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:40 PM
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Yeah, having teenagers talking about TRP during a time where social media have massive social influence is incredibly risky. It gets a bad rep easily. Also, I feel like for every new "RP aware" teenager, there's 2x/3x the amount of BP/simps.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:53 AM
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No one cares about celebrities right now, there are too many of them and celebrity status doesn’t last long unless you come from a prominent family. Big truth right here. Everyone is chasing temporary clout nowdays. Real value is long term tho. OP, you can get a few hundred followers on IG if you want that, but what's the point? Keep making money, lifting, working on yourself. Develop your personality to be a stoic, a leader and a good friend. The pussy will follow. The good looking, jacked, cal…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:21 PM
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You're solid brother. It's good that you are aware of both his good side and his piece of shit side. Let his upbringing motivate you and his later actions teach you. I'm sure you'll turn out more successful than he was.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:32 PM
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Bruh this went from 0 to a 100 real quick. I hope you only got the good traits out of that asshole.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:58 AM
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By hanging out in places you like. For me it's the gym, local spots that appeal to me (cafes, book stores etc) or social gatherings that involve your interests.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:52 AM
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Been there done that. You simply developed feelings for her but you can never imagine yourself being with her in a LTR and you feel bad for breaking it off. She wanted smth serious, you were avoiding it and just wanted to have fun until you find something better. It's a shitty thing to do and it only boosts your ego. I've done it multiple times to get over an ex whilst in my transition phase. Just let it go and be more straight up in your next flicks.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:47 AM
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I mean, it depends on what you're looking for. Having sex in the first date is fun when you're not looking for a relationship. If it's a relationship you want, then yeah fucking on the first date is a red flag. But let's be real here, you're on a dating app, finding a relationship material female on a dating app is like looking for 60/40 beef in a vegan store.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:42 PM
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Not proud of it but I've done 1. and 2. and that shit's a nightmare. Beside the endless drama even months after the inevitable break-up, you also risk fucking her up and that's not what high value men do. I've also been guilt tripped into being a cheater while my LTR of years didn't even give me pussy for months. No 3. is never worth it unless you wanna "hail mary" a threesome. No 5. is the best option. Lay out the options, set the crosshairs and then break-up before escalating. Hell, if you are…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:24 PM
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"Yeah I don't really care if a guy is muscular" -Couple hours later "I love your biceps"
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:55 PM
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Don't hang out with women as "friends". Even if you think you trust them 100%, female nature doesn't care, it's impulsive and emotional. Maybe she felt jealous, wanted to shift the attention to her, wanted to feel the most important female on the table etc. Also, if you consider her as "an older sister" then talk to her and let her know straight up that you don't like that bullshit and if she wants to be on your side then fine, if not, cut her off.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:43 AM
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I thought she responded with "yeah" lol. What did she say?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:27 PM
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Oof. Next.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:04 PM
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Fake confidence, laid back personality (let her do the talking), banter (personal favorite), KINO once comfortable.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:14 PM
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Jump on gear, get massive and shredded af, grow a beard. Wear a face mask all the time and say you're afraid of covid. Even if a vaccine comes out, keep wearing a mask to protect your self from future diseases.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:10 AM
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Just liftTM
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:07 PM
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I'm turning 25 in a couple weeks and I've never been in an LTR. My two best mates have been in LTRs for the past 5 years. I kinda feel old when I compare myself with them coz i get lonely when I got no plates but in reality, yes, we are young, there's no rush. And I grew up in a conservative and religious culture. It's scientifically proven that men reach their peaks around their 30's. I think it's the perfect time for us to grind and figure ourselves out. Also, most endorsed contributors here a…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:58 PM
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Exactly. When I see the word "buff", I imagine huge strongmen/powerlifters etc. It's all relative. Just build muscle and don't be a fat cunt.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 10:05 PM
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Good point. OP already has natural abundance mentality and should always keep that on the back of his mind when eventually things are done with his girl. For the time being, enjoy the relationship. Then he can walk around and slay like a warlord.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:48 PM
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Same, raised (aka neglected) by a single mother and whenever I date a woman for a decent period I start to feel co dependent and act like a blue-pilled fuck.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:54 AM
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Good point. Yeah it works for me as well ngl. Recently I decided to drop IG/plating for a while and start seeing a girl seriously. Long story short, that was the biggest case of the "lighswitch effect" i've ever witnessed. I was shocked. Instead of bitching about it I posted some shirtless pics and fucked some old plates. It feels like I'm a junkie that resorts to weed or other cheap drugs to get going. It also makes me feel alpha but I think it's all an illusion and it doesn't have any substant…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 09:40 AM
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Yeah I'm also pretty apathetic and been through depression as well. When Im down and get invited to go somewhere I initially resist but when I eventually meet up with friends/women I never regret it. Having a social life is 1/4 of being healthy. OP, take care of your physical, mental, spiritual and social parts of your life and don't focus on finances so much.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:04 AM
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Fucks sake dude it's just tinder. Majority of chicks on Tinder are now using it to gain IG followers because you know, simp era. Once you calm down you'll realize how stupid you sound for throwing a tantrum over being flaked by tinder girls lol. You got good shit going on, good income, purpose, working out. Stay on your purpose and don't try too hard, for real. Once I stop caring and focus on my purpose, I just find that chicks will start chasing, you just have to pick up the signs. Literally my…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 10:26 AM
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This. It's all fun and games until you find yourself getting attached to a temporary unicorn and it all feels like you're 17 and emo again. It's human. The important part is to pick ourselves back up, learn and grow.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:23 PM
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As a 24 y/o who thought that was doing fine, this is actualy motivating to read. My numbers (in lays and lifts) are close to yours so I guess I have to push harder lol. Just curious, how much do you weigh? I'm 1.89m (6'2) and my lifts are kinda lower than yours (I'm 81kg, not too big) and as a former fatty, my body dismorphia always triggers when I want to get bigger. I also make only 15k /year and that sucks atm. Keep killing it.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:37 AM
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When I was studying in the UK, I used to go to this asian girls' studio twice per week. She would cook for me and then "put a movie on". One night, after we've finished fucking, we were lying and chatting a bit when the door knocked and guess what? It was a delivered gift from her bf, a diamond ring or smth that costs like 1k with a note "I miss you. Can't wait to see you next week". Her reaction was priceless, she loved the gift but just brushed it off. I didn't even know she had a bf lol. Few …
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:25 PM
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Women will test you all the time. They never get easier. "The way of the superior man" mentions it. "The Rational Male" mentions it. It's there. Either low interest or extremely high interest, women will test you. There's the spectrum of: Trying too hard (needy) and Nexting/Indifference (abundance), but there's always the perfect middle that will allow you to pass the tests, stay outcome independent and close. I've gotten my best lays with girls that rejected/tested me at first. Play your cards …
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:55 PM
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Exactly the same here my man. I am 24 and grew up in a shitty family environment and never really had any good relationship with family members and just became fully focused on myself and my purpose. She is really family oriented so she gives me a whole new perspective on that matter. Even if it's just our turn, it's great to have someone who complements your strengths and drives you to further improvement.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:29 PM
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Not OP but in my case, my girl is a hard worker who takes care of her family, is knowledgeable and fun. She motivates me to appreciate my family more, help my parents when they need me and be grateful of my family and friends. She also challenges my tjinking and my values because we often discuss political/social issues and I like being informed and having rational opinions. In general, she motivates me to be a more appreciative person and a better man.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 09:26 AM
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If what you're saying is true, you should have 0 anger issues. You're living the dream. Find a purpose in your life. Slaying should be your side thing, your hobby. Looks like your life is devoted around partying and fucking so find something else to use your time on.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:08 PM
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Insightful and rational. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 05:57 PM
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Yea that was/is my motto for the past 3-4 years and I still believe it's true. However, I am almost 25, I've been spinning since around 20s and it gotten kind of boring. It's gotten repetitive. I felt lonely. My few close friends are also in LTRs. I want a friend who I can have sex with. If it doesn't work out, I'll get back to my game and repeat the cycle.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 05:56 PM
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Lol that last part. No worries tho, I'm not sacrificing my purpose (career and sports) for any wild unicorn. Im on a quest to stay on my A game whilst maintaining a fun relationship until it eventually stops. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 02:18 PM
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In a practical way, how would you suggest one to shape/control his relationship? Ive just entered my first LTR (been spinning since 20) with this girl that we have great communication. We establish boundaries together and synergize but I always feel like she wants me to be in control and I've been doing fine so far.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 01:39 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/EdURt4n I've stumbled upon this gem during the first days of my RP trip so I'm sharing it for all of y'all autists here <3
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:54 PM
3

Where do I get frame
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:51 PM
14

That is why I uninstalled tinder
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:30 AM
10

Don't show them that their action got to your head though. It's normal that it did, but remain stoic about it. That will actually teach them to not fuck w you. Expand your circle and find some new mates slowly before cutting ties with them. Spontaneous isolation is dangerous even for strong people.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:17 PM
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And slaves in the bedroom. Give them a good fuck
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:40 PM
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One if OP's comments: she often gets paid in cash, which make me feel like it's just an enormously sketchy situation and she might get herself in trouble if she isn't careful. Fucking LOL I was laughing the whole time but now I feel kinda bad for the guy. Edit: there's people debating in the comments whether she's working overtime and her schedule is illegal or not, how can she go for long hours without eating and then a long discussion about intermittent fasting lmao That post is a goldmine and…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 07:44 AM
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Stop watching trashy fitness vloggers. Jeff Said is a sikkunt but he destroys my braincells. Same with David Laid and his crew. Instead, watch informative fitness youtubers if you wanna do that. Suggestions: Eric Helms, Mike Israetel, Omarisuf, John Meadows, Paul Revelia and my personal favorite: Greg Doucette. Instead of watching fitness vloggers, focus on the mirror and the weights you lift. Learn more, train harder, eat smarter and stay consistent and patient. We're all gonna make it.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:23 PM
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Flavdrops supposedly have no sugar alcohols in them. Just artificial sweeteners such as Stevia and Aspartame or whatever
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:37 PM
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The body is capable of synthesising new glucose from non-carbohydrate sources such as amino acids and FAT, this is what people mean when they say “burning fat”. You are right in what you're saying but this also might mean that you're breaking down muscle as well, in order for the body to get sufficient energy to function. It all comes down to thermogenesis in the end of the day. Calories in vs Calories out. All the rest are just tools to help achieve the desired result. Although I advocate fasti…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:59 PM
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The greatest lesson of TRP comes when you manage to change sides and see your mistakes In others. From blue pilled ("simp") crying when chads steal their girls, to being a chad and thanking the simps for their girls.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:13 AM
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Well, like I said, this was around my 19-23 years. So guess what kind of years have been the previous ones. Basically getting friendzoned by the first girl I started having feelings for (lol) at 16 and orbiting her (the worst kind, aka writing poems, driving her around, supporting her emotionally) while she was being passed around by alpha chads for 3-4 years. At least my LTR wasn't being boned by anyone (she had 0 social pressence) and I was still her first after 4 years. Yes, that was my sad a…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:15 PM
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I know right? We've all done stupid shit during our blue pill days. And trust me, this wasn't even the worst one in my books lol. I'm glad I found TRP 2 years ago and I've learned from every single mistake.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:58 PM
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Time for my special blue pill story: I was with my "girlfriend" for 4(!) years (19-23) and we've been through a lot but she never had sex with me. She wanted me to be her first but she would always back off when we went to have sex. It was something about how she couldn't fully trust me and other kind of bs. Eventually I nexted her and moved abroad, raised my n-count by 8 and after I moved back to my country she hit me up and within 2 days we had sex. Point is, she needs to feel like she's losin…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:27 PM
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It's an asshole thing to do but do it. It will make you feel better but only if you manage the fire that it will cause.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:51 AM
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Comments like that is what gives TRP the "lol incels" image
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:50 AM
133

Just go all in and bang his LTR while you're on it
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:48 AM
102

Imagine going to the trouble of sending fuck chats to your ex to feel smug only to get ignored like you are a worthless piece of shit. She deserves to feel like a useless piece of shit. Ignore is the best move.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:21 PM
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Yeah. Monk mode should be temporary, like 1 to 2 months.Longer than that and the mental issues start to kick in. Overthinking, anxiety, low self-esteem. Not even gonna mention those who come out as "enlightened" that basically went bat shit crazy. It's good to take time off, do your nofap shit etc. but self-improvement and fulfillment comes from actually doing things. Private victories -> Public victories -> Repeat. Find yourself, go out and conquer, isolate, reflect and go at it again.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:18 PM
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Plot twist: You are the fake female account. I look forward to seeing your onlyfans profile in a few days.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:38 AM
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True. I took finance advice from TRP a year ago and now I can't climb out of the r / wsb hole lmao
/r/askTRP13/06/20 05:07 PM
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Disclaimer: yeah, I got to this vid by first watching a pewdiepie video. No, I am not ashamed of watching the occasional pewdiepie video. TL;DW: 1 girl speed dates 10 guys without seeing them. All of them try their hardest to make her pussy dry and surprise surprise, the guy who ends up getting picked by her, is in a relationship. You can't make that shit up. The fact that this guy probably couldn't give a fuck about winning and spends his time asking random, pseudo-intellectual questions ends u…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 08:19 PM
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First of all, CUT (at least minimize) weed and alcohol. Both substances (along with others) are hormone fuckers. When I used to smoke and drink a lot, my libido was non-existent and I blamed my self for not being horny, same as you. Secondly, go lift some weights. Do some sports. Exercising not only raises your natural T, it also makes you look better which raises confidence as well (and also, libido). Fix your sleep and nutrition, cut out porn and stop overthinking. Do this for a couple months …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:37 AM
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[...] where women are able to sort men into one of three groups: attractive/desirable, useful/exploitable, worthless/vile. Only the top group, attractive/desirable, are worthy of female respect- This is oddly accurate. Explaining this is complex and may not be based on evidence but anecdotal experience 100% proves this. And damn if it doesn't feel good to know that you belong to the first group. Although validating, it also gives you the sense of being powerful and most importantly, confident.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 07:37 PM
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The result: Suspended jail sentence. The man is traumatised. Shameful.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 08:58 AM
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You are going to die, and if you have lots of children, you are still going to die, and it doesn't make a lick of difference that a few hundred years after you are dead, some people will be running around who share 1/1024th of your genetic code. They won't even remember your name. Well, that's a depressing thought. I agree with your points though. You seem to be emphasizing mortality and I encourage everyone here to meditate on that. Whenever I strongly consider my mortality I either feel like s…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:46 AM
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His newest album "High off life" is full of bangers. Takes me back to old school Future from beast mode. I also like listening to UK Drill music, especially during workouts. But yeah, tbh, 9/10 female singers I can't stand listening to more than a minute
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:04 PM
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How can I delete someone else's post?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:31 AM
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I mean, I get your point. But what you're saying is basically to ignore shit tests and be honest. However, nobody said that A&A is lying or being dishonest. It's about beating her in her own game. What are most people here seeking advice for? To get the girl. If you wanna get the girl, or any girl, then you must learn how to conquer her through her shit tests. What you do during a date, a night out, during a flirt etc. is amoral. But sexual strategy is amoral. Isn't this a fundamental aspect of …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:21 PM
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Yeah this screams either validation seeking, or just not interested. Sounds more like validation seeking, she wants you to say "Nooo, but shes not as hot as you!" or something like that. And if you say it, you will sound like a faggot and her pussy will dry up. Just another ordinary and completely irrational shit test.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:18 PM
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It's not about honesty or losing the girl. Needless to say that honesty is 0% effective when encountering a shit test. Coming out as a defensive guy in a shit test makes you look like you give too many fucks. On the contrary, A&A makes you look like you don't give any fucks and holds your frame.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:16 PM
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IMO, give him some space for now. This may sound like pussy shit but I know for a fact that people crave attention, validation and most importantly, company, during a lockdown. They might have some fun online chats which could be good for his mental health. However, I'm assuming that it will take a long time before he sees her again, so the best possible solution for him is to seek for new prospects once he's able to go out again and keep or drop the "long-distance" thing. OFC long-distance is a…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:49 AM
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Try in incognito mode
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:39 PM
5

Sold my snap shares when it hit 15usd and it kept rising :(
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:39 PM
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Hey man, don't be too hard on yourself. Take your time, grieve and honor your father. It sucks when a son loses his father but the strength that comes after is enlightening, trust me. The connection you HAVE with your father will only get stronger and will only make you for powerful and wise. Take your time and collect yourself, let out your emotions but don't take it out on others. Stoicism teaches us how to deal with each situation in order to be at peace. It doesn't teach a specific way on ho…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:15 PM
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They will miss dick just as much as you miss pussy.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:59 PM
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But just before starting to follow that instinct, you start thinking... "but what if he thinks I'm a weirdo cause I didn't laught at his joke? Better start fake laughing", "but what if she thinks that I'm not a good boy that she can trust, better not tell her how retarded she sounds", that's the voice of your fake beta that has been instilled in you, taking over your natural alpha instincts. Great point you're making here. No matter how alpha I feel, the instinct of being a "nice guy" frequently…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 11:06 AM
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There's something about women getting pregnant at early ages and not settling down that makes them crazy. Trust me, I've been with 3 single moms. Every man that is successful and high value is like gold for them. One night with them and they dream of a happy family with the fearless knight that has come to save them. Don't commit too much dude. Her history already proves shes unstable. Next her softly or you will regret it later on.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:05 AM
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Spot on. Our guy needs to apply dread.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:57 PM
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I agree. But since OP worded his post in such way, that it makes it seem like he does this often, I assumed he's referring to plates and not LTRs
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:17 PM
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Why not just ghost? If you have to go out of your way and taylor tailor your personality to get dumped intentionally, it means you have already invested something. If it's a plate, then you can just ghost. Non-applicable on LTRs ofc
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:36 AM
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I've never ejaculated inside without a condom. But I've done some weird shit. Light bdsm, masochist acts/foreplay, 69 and so on.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 08:15 AM
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Cafes, social gatherings, clubs, bars, uni, through friends.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 08:10 AM
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Hey man, it's 2020, I'm not gonna judge what you get turned on by! Intense sexual activity is good, no matter how you do it. (But please dont masturbate daily)
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:34 PM
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Your profession does not matter at all, imo. I am 6'2, with lots of tattoos and piercings, pretty buff for my age and I am an Auditor (full time) who spends his free time reading books and investing in the stock market. (besides lifting) Your profession doesn't have to affect your lifestyle. Nobody would guess that I am an auditor. Do what you love and don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:31 PM
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You don't need to get knocked the fuck out to "feel" like man. It looks to me that you have a lot of energy and nerve stored up. Recommended ways to release: Intense sex (preferably with a partner of the opposite sex) Lift. (My personal favorite) Martial Arts (Kick boxing and BJJ are fucking great) Other forms of exercise or intense activities (Run your lungs out, Skydive, Climb up a hill, push yourself) Channel your energy on something masculine and productive. Control your breathing and be con…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:20 PM
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At 23. What's funny is that I was also a virgin who used to chase girls and get insane oneitis every. damn. time. I've found TRP as I've moved out of my house (country), I've read "The game" and the sidebar and started applying the theory. As I've lost my virginity and got confident, it snowballed. I stopped being needy, stopped chasing, stopped giving validation and instead, I would just flirt, express my sexuality and just being a fun social guy to be around. Immediately I've starting seeing 3…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:10 PM
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Make sure you give her a good fuck every night and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:29 PM
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Hey dude. I made a post on the TRP sub recently and posted my home workout routine. Go to the main sub and search for the post "4 simple activities/habits to develop during quarantine in order to transform yourself". It's still on the front page. You'll find my workout routine at the bottom. Free to download.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:38 PM
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I can do that when I get off work. But it will be way easier if you search my post history for a bit. Ive posted pics in bodybuilding subs before. Just wanna see if you're gonna own up to your bet and I'll make a post giving you credits.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 09:11 AM
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This is great. Perfect time to be working on developing/creating your business.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 08:47 AM
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Hey, OP here. Took some pictures for my plates but since you like me so much, here you are Should I give you my paypal info?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 08:46 AM
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One more thing - do you talk to someone about what you have read and your interpretation of it to strengthen your understanding? Or is it just you? This is a great question. Sadly, I do not discuss anything with anyone. My friends are not book-readers, my girls read fiction, my family finds my book-reading "corny" because they'd rather waste their time watching TV and playing video games. So yeah, I do not discuss them with friends/family. I usually find good discussions online though and occasi…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 04:02 PM
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I love me some greek philosophy. There's so much knowledge in every few words. Nietzsche makes me question everything. I usually get lost in his words but what I gain from reading his work is that men need to rethink their values, the concept of religion and to find a stronger meaning in their lives. Of course, I'm no philosopher and I'm still new to this kind of literature. I appreciate how every sentence is open to different interpretations and I try to explain and comprehend things in my own …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 02:05 PM
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I agree with you. For those that have a strong purpose and discipline, not much has changed. But there will always be people who are still on the quest to find themselves, to discover their purpose and that lack discipline. I spend a lot of time on askTRP and the traffic in there has massively increased. There's an abundance of people who are panicking and have no idea how to cope with the situation. Tons of people are abaddoning their routines and waste their time playing video games and mastur…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 02:01 PM
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I already got 4 messages from people asking for advice, so I'd say yeah. People are reading and want to improve themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 01:50 PM
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Have you guys been to askTRP? I read at least 2 posts per day asking "Plz guys tell me what do in quarantine i dun know!" This is an all-in one guide for people like them. Not everyone has their shit together. People still need help and if you don't like it or don't need it, then skip it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 12:42 PM
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Discovering TRP, reading "The Rational Male", finding a purpose and working on myself changed my life. It was a chain of events that triggered each other and transformed me as a person. Grateful.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 11:06 AM
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I'm surprised people are buying her stories up, especially since she has been a "homeless drunk" and.. posted on twitter lol. Nonetheless, consult a lawyer. Just talk to a legal expert. And whatever you hear/read about you, remain stoic about it. You know the truth, those who know you, also know the truth. Never lose your temper.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:35 PM
1

I kissed a girl in HS and her boyfriend came the next day to my house, punched me in the face and we brawled outside my uncle's house (he lives in the same building) until he came and broke it off. We were 16 Safe the say, this started from rule 0 lol I agree with your points but there's people who are so conquered by their ego, or just straight up mental, who would rush to "fight" you immediately.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:32 PM
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Going by his post history, dude seems like a guy who can't handle shit in his life and feels the need to post a question here every couple days in order to move on with his life. I'm not trying to hate on a man, but wanting to be spoonfed with advice is pretty fucking pathetic, imo.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:13 PM
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Lol I had a similar experience. Found TRP 2 years ago. Few months into reading the side bar I was trying to apply the principles IRL, by flirting. Went on a few dates with this chick and ofc I blew it. I immediately found this sub and posted a question. Guess what? Everyone called me an autist. I was like "nO yoU gUyS, thIS iS whY i DiD thAT!" Turns out, I was an autist and still plugged in. Keep reading, keep internalizing, keep applying.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:24 PM
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I'd rather stay healthy than playing with hamsters and risking my health. "If you dont see her because of social distancing, she'll think you're a bitch". Fucks sake sometimes this sub makes me cringe. Also, FYI, in most countries it's actually illegal to go out without verified documentation. "Out to smash some pussy" is not accepted where I live.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:50 PM
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This is a common theme. Girls are not attracted to beta orbiters but as soon as they stop giving a fuck, find a purpose and raise their SMV, they go crazy to grab their attention. Same thing happened to you. She would orbit you and you found her unattractive and considered her as low value. As soon as she ghosted you and got on with her life, her SMV was magically raised through your eyes and feelings of regret are appearing. "I could've banged her when I had the chance" But that's all. Just fee…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:11 PM
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I live in Cyprus. And no, I plan on changing industry completely, work to bring up my own business at some point and most importantly, leave my country.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:32 AM
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I have a bachelors in Accounting and a Masters' in Management & Finance. I make 12k/yr (EUR) working 38hrs per week lol. And my salary is considered to be above average where I live. My ambitions are high tho and I'm still 24. Hope to make 50k/yr before I am 30.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:39 PM
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Single moms in general. I've been with three of them. All ended in a similar note and I think you all know how.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:10 PM
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I have the Iron Rules of Rolo Tomassi framed on my wall.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:16 PM
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Damn man, I had a really similar experience. Grew up with my mother and been addicted to video games until I was like 22 y/o. Lifting, moving out of my house and discovering TRP saved my life. Literally. And as an economics guy, your title attracted my interest, so I gotta give you that as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 07:36 PM
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Get the fuck out of there or simply tell him to mind his own business as you do yourself.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:45 PM
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Preach. I've met so many girls that have absolute 0 personality irl. It's not even funny. Posting the same pictures, same stories etc. and when you ask them what do they are passionate about, they freeze.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:43 PM
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Although this got dragged out of the main topic, I agree with the above posters' rationale, up to a point. Strong and meaningful relationships are essentially what some women need to get over the addiction and validation-seeking in social media. Tons of girls are up to posting their butts/faces/stories on social media daily and once they enter a LTR they stop, or wear it down a bit. As soon as they are single again, the mass posting begins until they find the next branch to swing. Hypergamy pres…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:38 PM
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Before I paste my comment from another thread, which is applicable for you, I just wanna say: Don't give a shit about what your parents will think. Do stuff. Do them passionately - Keep waking up early - You can stay a little longer at night and watch some Netflix or whatever, but don't forget to wake up early and get shit done. Stretching & Meditation - Keep doing those. You have time, you workout less. You have more time for your mind to wander around so meditate to keep your brain in check an…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:58 PM
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Although I still work (from home), I've tried extremely hard to maintain my productive routine and so far I've been extremely productive. Here's some tips for everyone: Keep waking up early - You can stay a little longer at night and watch some Netflix or whatever, but don't forget to wake up early and get shit done. Stretching & Meditation - Keep doing those. You have time, you workout less. You have more time for your mind to wander around so meditate to keep your brain in check and reduce anx…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:10 PM
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This. Girl I'm(was) seeing is begging me to meet, even for an hour just to fuck. Nope. I'd rather stay sexless for a few more weeks (at least) and protect others around me than to chase an hour of sex. Stay safe people. Pussy will come in abundance if you keep abundance in your mind after all this shit.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:32 PM
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Bro I would kill to last that long. I usually finish quick and just wait 10-20 mins for round two. What does it for me is having no control of my breath, pressing my glutes tight and going in a quick tempo. So this is basically what i am trying to AVOID. Which means it might help with your situation. You won't believe how many times I wanted to slap myself for lasting 2-3 minutes with a hot chick.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:46 PM
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Well done OP, that was incredibly autistic. 10/10 cringeworthy. First of all, I decided to try the red pill thing w a broad that’s definitely a 10. If you think there is a "red pill thing" then you should just head straight into the sidebar and stay there for a few months. Secondly, if you want to "approach" then you know what... Don't do it on fucking instagram and below pictures. Approach and talk to the girl in person. Fucking hell, I wouldve blocked you from the first message. And to answer …
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:12 PM
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It's not weird. Especially if you are a routine/structured person. I've struggled sleeping with my ex LTR. I always tried to find ways to kick her out when she wanted to sleep at my place. I like waking up alone. With my coffee. Taking a walk, reading the news, taking a shit and minding my own business. It's literally fine. But try expressing what you think next time. "Hey, do you mind if I drive you home? Long day tomorrow/Gotta wake up early/Gotta do X tomorrow morning". It's literally that ea…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:51 PM
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There was a post this morning where someone was asking why the girl she talked to at work didn't smile too much at him. He called me a toxic guy when I called him out on his blue pilled shit. What got me to internalize TRP is by getting slapped every day by comments here and especially the side bar. I got slapped so hard by what I've read that my head turned 180 degrees and I started seeing the world for what it is. I saw the TRP and felt it through my memories of being a blue pilled fucker. Peo…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:23 PM
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you're genuinely just a toxic person lmao You're obviously new to TRP. The best advice is the one that makes you feel bad. If you can take it, reflect and use that to improve, then it's effective and efficient. Trust me, you will remember my words in the future. Stop being so defensive and absorb. That's how this works. I hope I won't find a post of yours in a month complaining that goes something like: "help me I can't get the girl I overthink everything!".
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:22 PM
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The fact that you're taking this personal immediately and disregarding the advice provided, says a lot more about you. You should spend your time "over thinking" this instead of how big the smile of your unicorn is.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:53 AM
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I get it tho you call people blue pilled to assert yourself as superior because deep down you're insecure Im so glad I've stumbled upon the greatest psychologist in the universe. Good luck with the cute girl mate! I hope everything works out for you in your cute little supermarket world. I hope she smiles back with the brightest smile next time!
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:47 AM
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Anyway I have to go to the break room to get something and as I'm entering she's leaving, I give her a smile and as she notices she glances at me gives me a quick half smile and rushes off, this is where the overthinking comes into play, the smile could indicate three things; 1 - Her thoughts were preoccupied and she scrambled to reciprocate my energy, 2 - She was looking at me with contempt, and 3 - She was nervous and it was simply a nervous response. Wtf is this bluepilled shit? Are we seriou…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:41 AM
1

Oh shit dude. I would deff complain or pack my shit and bounce. At least I am alone here lol
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:14 PM
4

Yea i guess it's boring but it also sucks that some of us have to get to work with the current shit storm going around. And btw, I would recommend going for walks and listening to music/audio books. Learn cooking and develop other skills. Work out. Watch some documentaries and other informative videos. Read books and meditate a lot. Develop skills, stay healthy and work on your head space basically.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:26 AM
9

Yo am I the only one who still has to go to the office? Damn.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:48 AM
8

This. My bro has 0 social media presence. No facebook, no instagram and all that. He's average height, jacked and decent looks. Yet, he somehow pulls girls like a madman. He's been my bro for 8 years and there was NEVER a time when he didn't have a girl. Either spinning plates, FWB, LTRs. Fame is not necessary but it helps. Confidence, abundance mentality, decent looks, purpose and strong frame is the core of pulling, imo.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:39 PM
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Agreed. A friend of mine somehow found TRP and rejected it but never fails to see it often. He is always in denial and calls me an asshole whenever I tell him my perspective on some situations. Yet, he still experiences it through his LTR on a weekly/monthly basis. That's fine, some people enter the rabbit hole but will never believe or analyze what they see. But it's there. It's real. And it becomes more obvious as we we progress through this modern time.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:49 PM
5

Yea my best mate is RP'd but he still puts his woman above his friends. I respect it and just hope it doesn't bite his ass. You can't do anything about it man. If he went through all that effort to get back with her (after cheating?) then he is serious about her. Best you could do is chat with him openly but don't try to change his mind or anything. Hear his side, consider his rationale. Then, find another buddy.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:16 PM
50

Yeah. Once you start realizing shit-tests, the less time you will want to spend chatting up women. It eventually becomes a cycle: Meeting - interesting chat - excitement - dating - fun - sex - shit tests - annoying - boring - next.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:02 PM
2

IMO, the best way to deal with is, is to not mateguard and be over-protective. Small signs of jealousy so she gets her validation and keep reminding her what SHE has to LOSE. Not by saying it of course, but by fucking her to sleep, making her laugh, showing how successful and hard-working you are and constantly raising SMV so she will be scared to lose you. Write this in her mind: "You won't find better than this".
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:59 PM
11

Start lifting, raise your testosterone and develop a DGAF attitude. You are still young. I got laid for the first time way older than you and it only happened when i stopped giving a fuck about a fuck. Seriously, lift and dgaf. You will also find approaching women more natural and less awkward when you start being outcome independent and not giving any fucks about scoring.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:07 PM
18

My guy you were almost raped lol
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:04 PM
4

Lol yeah the supplement industry is fucked up. Im well aware. But are you referring to my workout program business? My rationale is that I have been training for 5-6 years so far (both powerlifting and bodybuilding) and have also finished multiple courses on programming (nothing to do with my actual degrees). I just wanna sell real programs to beginner and advanced lifters because Ive seen the generic shit that goes around nowdays.. Oh, you wanna lose weight? Do 3x20 on every exercise fast! Oh, …
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:17 PM
5

This. No hang out, no binge watching tv series until friday. Grind the weekdays, relax and have fun during the weekend.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:24 AM
14

Not OP but im building my own website and designing my own workout programs, so I can sell them. (dont know if it will actually work) Also, hitting the gym
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:17 AM
2

I see where you're coming from. Early stages of TRP may bring rage/anger and fear/confusion. You get over it slowly. Just don't get yourself ended up in sketchy situations. You can go out clubbing, have drinks etc. but stay away from drunk girls, drama etc. Game carefully and date girls with clear intentions and always have leverage in case something odd happens. (e.g saving conversations that prove consent before engaging in sexual activities etc.)
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:37 AM
1

She probably has something else in her mind. Probably thinks you guys are back in for a relationship. Were you upfront with her? Were your intentions clear? I've been there before and made the mistake of not being clear enough that there's no way of getting back together. Women think differently.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:31 AM
1

You're overthinking this. What does you being the prize has to do with drunk women? Not everything applies everywhere. You can't go write an essay on bio-chemistry while reading about philosophy. Keep reading and applying, but don't mix everything up. Is every woman drunk in your city? Fucks sake man. In cases where you hang out with a girl and she gets drunk, then be absolutely sure it's 100% consensual. Although if one gets drunk during a date, that's a massive red flag, just bounce.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:27 AM
1

You enjoy it? Do it. I enjoy it, so I do it, but never on the first fuck. Wanna make sure everything's clean first. Hygiene is important. Pleasing women turns me on, I find oral sex hot. If you don't, then don't do it.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:23 AM
9

Is there any way I can reverse this, or should I end it before the feelings get deeper? And how would I go about this. Fuck some other girl before you meet with her.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:20 AM
42

DGAF attitude Abundance mentality Lifting Meditation & Breathing (Helps with clarity of mind and not saying stupid stuff) Confidence (fake it till you make it, if necessary) Basics that have helped me during college.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:06 PM
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Stay busy. Keep searching for your purpose. Lift, read books, work on a business, practice hobbies, hell, even entertain yourself, like watching some series/documentaries, some football games, hang out with friends. Ask for a good friend of yours to grab a coffee or something. Go out and walk. DONT stay inside thinking about mysery. I've been there man. I've struggled through depression for many years. I still have bad days. But I control my emotions and act on my rationale. Lifting, reading, wo…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 10:36 AM
2

Dont get married , dont commit to one peice of fur. Test all the furs see which one feels the best and keep it at the top. But never have just one. Your a man , were not meant for that shit. Lift weights for god sake man. If your not stiff in the am lift harder. I like these the most tbh. First one is not a philosophy to live by ofc, but a good piece of advice to keep in mind for young dudes. The second goes without saying. Looks like your man has been through some shit. Being behind bars for su…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:04 PM
2

Props to you for realizing mistakes and admitting them.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:07 AM
9

The mistake was going for a relationship in the first place. Ive been there though so can't judge
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:46 AM
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David Deida, in his book "The way of the superior man", covers this aspect really well and in detail. He says that no matter how much a woman wants to be your number 1, she will always prefer if a man has his purpose as number 1. Great book, would recommend
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:55 PM
2

God damn dude you sound tough! Testosterone must be flowing through your body! We got ourselves the biggest Alpha of the world here guys. Take a look at him as he sits behind his computer screen talking about hitting women and squaring up with strangers
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:51 PM
4

Are you 12? Throwing hands on women besides foreplay and BDSM is a hard NO. It only says one thing about a man: WEAK. Get a hold of yourself.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:46 PM
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Damn, I just got through the exact same situation. She kept complaining how shes not as important to me as I am to her and blah blah. Well fuck yes youre right. I work a full time job and hustle on a side business, along with lifting during my afternoon. Gimme a fucking break. Youre unemployed and all you think about is what im doing during the day. She keeps telling me that we should break it up and i used to brush it off like you did. But two days ago i told her fine and hard nexted as well. A…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:43 PM
2

I agree. But I haven't mentioned the aspect of apologizing. Apologizing on your behalf for your own mistakes (usually when they directly affect others) is important. But apologizing on behalf of others, or on behalf of yourself regarding others' mistakes, does indeed make you look weak and vulnerable. The most important part is to truly understand where (you) went wrong and building on that.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 04:17 PM
5

There were some "dramatic" posts on the main sub, like a year ago. I tried to find them but they were likely deleted. I don't remember the exact story but he started being incredibly vocal regarding some controversial opinions. Additionally, he would host PUA seminars with some other dudes, who were all basically married with kids (including Rollo himself), which was hypocritical, especially considering the price of their seminars. And the quality of those seminars has decreased dramatically, ac…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:28 AM
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The Rational Male, by Rolo Tomassi. The man has gone crazy recently, but this book remains a great pillar for internalizing TRP. Be wary though, the anger phase may hit you after reading it, but it's definitely eye opening.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:35 AM
1

This. OP, go for the threesome and report back. 9 + x > 9 That's how you level up.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:50 PM
8

And for your own sanity, stop posting on "relationshipadvice" or "askreddit". You did the right thing now get on with your life and stay away from oneitis. She's no unicorn.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:17 PM
6

Do whatever the fuck you wanna do, but do it with confidence. Best way to initiate sex is with KINO. Playful, chill, even aggressive KINO works. Find excuses to touch her and play with her. Watching a movie should be easy mode unless shes 100% absorbed, so pick a boring one. Tldr; chill, touch/physical contact, confidence, close.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:58 PM
1

Mods deleted it lol. Proof exists on my comment from the other thread, which the mods have deleted as well, after seeing OPs bullshit. And i just noticed the comment you replied to. "This is wrong" was referring to what that guy was doing, which was seeking fake validation.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:14 AM
2

People value temporary and fake internet validation higher than self-fulfillment. It's sad.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:37 PM
1

True. But I'm trying to provide some value to this subreddit. Posts like these are doing the exact opposite and promote improper behavior. What we preach is what we practice. If people start congratulating fake posts, more people will be tempted to post such fake stories and seek validation. This is wrong.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:09 PM
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According to your post on r / relationshipadvice, i thought it's been two days since she came over and left you on read? Looks like you're looking for fake validation. No idea why others haven't called you out on this shit yet. And stop posting on relationship advice asking how to acquire a plate. You got some issues there buddy. Also: What do you guys think about this situation? Why does she instantly want to hang out with me again after that day and why didn't the girl that wants to meet me le…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:32 PM
30

Your texts look like they are written by a 13 year old high school teenager who somehow read the Red Pill Handbook. You need to slow down. You come off as a needy and an emotionally overwhelmed person. More rationale, less emotions.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:36 PM
13

My best mate's LTR once asked me to grab a coffee while my mate was at uni. I had some free time before hitting the gym and agreed. We hang out like buddies. It was like a "bro" relationship between us. I'd never touch my mate's girl and he trusts me. I guess it depends on how good the friendship is for OP. But some dudes are snakes tbh. We've all seen beta orbiters etc. doing their bits. Maybe we've been there ourselves.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 09:19 PM
3

Do not even attempt to find out how many dicks she's sucked during those 3 years. Move the fuck on dude
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:18 AM
1

I wouldn't suggest that tbh. But if she's hot and you wanna finish the job, go for it. Tell her that she owes you a home-cooked meal. Text logistics and don't do much chit-chat. Eat, bang and re-assess. If she flakes again, hard next and don't even think about it for more than 2 seconds.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:15 PM
1

It's alright man. At least you are aware, which is the most crucial step to self-improvement. Stay on it
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:09 PM
1

The fact that you care about "appearing butthurt" means that you're indeed, butthurt. Next.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:08 PM
1

Branch swinging in action. She wants to bounce on the closest dick to make herself feel better. She probably set that text on template and forwarded it to 80% of her contacts like a spamming company's e-mail list. I'd troll or drop.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:48 PM
14

In 3 words: Confidence, Abundance, Apathy. I used to be so beta that I would chase girls and thought that the sweeter I was with them, the more chances I had getting laid. Fucking bullshit. Biggest regret of my life. And that only changed after I was 22. Being confident, sexual, cold and outcome dependent is what drives women crazy. Basically, I started going out, being more social and less needy. I would go out to have fun without caring about approaching etc. I would throw looks at girls and t…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:09 AM
1

Arabic girls born in the UK are my weakness
/r/askTRP16/11/19 08:46 AM
12

I started going to the gym because I was skinny fat and never had any relationship with girls by the time I was 17. I worked out for a year but since I did not take it seriously and kept eating like shit, I made no gains/lost no weight. After the army, I have lost some weight but was still skinny. I started going by myself (after my friends left the country) and I would watch fitness youtubers to learn stuff (that was back in 2014/15). I would learn how to bench properly, deadlift, squat and all…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 08:43 AM
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I've had a tough childhood life and by the time I got out of the army (mandatory in my country), all my friends left to study abroad and I stayed back home, alone, being a complete beta and a reject. Depression fucked me over. I hated my parents, the people around me. I would smoke pot and drink on a daily basis. Even went on a xanax spree for a few months. I was actually studying for my University and had good grades but hated every minute of my life. One day I took my car and climbed a huge cl…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:34 PM
1

You don't even get my point. I feel like I'm wasting my time. Did I say anything about not having sex? Im talking about porn and masturbation, while debunking that empty logic of yours that life is about materialistic goals.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 05:09 PM
0

I'm replying to that "logic" of yours that money "just buys stuff". A rational man knows which are the best years for him to grind, build his wealth and then commit to starting a family and investing that money to retire early, live an enjoyable life (by himself or with his family) and then invest towards the growth of his kids. But yea, our generation would rather spend their energy on masturbating 2-3x daily and watching countless porn. Then you hit your 30s and wondering why you feel dead ins…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 05:03 PM
19

Implying that life is all about the purchase of material items... There is a difference bettween making money and becoming wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 11:16 AM
2

It's actually legit but depends where you live. Wealthy men and women pay big cash for muscle worship/strip tease/oil and touch etc. Be aware tho, you might end up in a g4p (gay 4 pay) business and before you know, you are getting pounded and recorded for a pornsite film. (see: Artemus Dolgin or smth) Learn more about it and make sure that friend of yours aint a talker. You'd be surprised. I also know a guy from r(slash)bodybuilding that does striptease and pole dancing in rich clubs and he make…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:36 PM
12

Have to learn our lesson: Don't talk much after you cum
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:54 PM
10

Lol, this sub has gone to shit. Few days ago someone got falsely accused of rape and a comment with 40+ upvotes advice him to beg her to meet up with her and talk about it. Go figure.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:23 PM
3

Wait until tomorrow when she posts on IG that you have sexually abused her. It's like a trend nowdays, thots using IG to claim that they were sexually abused lmao
/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:14 AM
1

Deleting himself will only make it worse for him, imo. He should just keep frame, he knows the truth. She's a psycho bitch. He also has the evidence to back his claims if it comes to that. I think it's better to not overreact and take her down silently.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 09:56 PM
5

You have nothing to be scared of if you play your cards right. Save those messages like they're fucking diamonds. Consult with a lawyer on how to sue her/find justice for yourself. And most importantly, keep frame. Don't let her get in your mind. You know that she's the psycho bitch and you're a successful dude doing his thing. Bring that bitch down for all of us. We're with you.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 09:54 PM
13

Thats the mindset you need to have. Keep absorbing everything and always strive for improvement. I wish I had RP when I was 16. I kept fucking up and being a massive beta until i was 22. Keep it up. And start lifting. Youre at the perfect age to hit the weights and turn into a chad by 20.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:17 AM
1

Nofap is helpful for the dudes that are addicted to porn. People need to realize that it doesn't apply to every scenario. For example, I've cut porn and kept masturbating regularly and it made me lethargic with no energy and intentions to go out and get pussy. I've tried nofap initially and I felt incredibly energetic, horny and always on the hunt for pussy. However, it also made me ejaculate so quick that I could even give girls half an orgasm on the first round. Bottom line: There's no perfect…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:28 AM
6

You're right. Applying RP principles at one point of my life has helped me get a few ONS's etc. but once I decided to get into an LTR, I had to hide that side from my girl. RP covers a lot of things, sexual strategy, purpose, being a responsible man, being a powerful man etc. Your girl will appreciate your will to succeed, to have a purpose, to feel powerful. But when maintaining a LTR, you need to change tactics. (e.g give her some validation, make her feel important, show your loving side). Th…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:24 PM
5

Read "The way of the superior man". It goes into great detail about how a man should always prioritize his purpose ahead of his woman and that his woman will love him for it. Deep down, women WANT to feel assured that you're focused on your purpose, as it gives them the sense of security and that you will always be a provider for her and your seed, which is a good thing in LTRs.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:52 PM
2

Wait until you get into the politics, start finding out about MRAs and Feminist bullshit. That's when you start realizing that the world is fucked and there's no hope. All we can do is to find a way to play into the system, make money and penetrate life.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:34 AM
8

Where do I send my CV?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:48 AM
35

Read Stephen Covey's "7 Habbits of Highly Effective People". Really good book that teaches you discipline and other productivity tips. Gives you a positive frame as well. Other than that, start lifting, so you feel more disciplined. Cook your own meals, eat healthy and get enough sleep to feel energized during the day. What I do lately is keeping a journal where I write a to-do list the night before, for the next day, which i keep with me and cross stuff off, while also writing some new stuff. K…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:56 PM
14

Simply put: looks, money, game, social circles, abundance mentality. Looks: haircut, good clothes, fit/lean/bulky, cologne, clean. (look like you take care of yourself) Some use social media platforms to boost their smv but that shit's mostly fake. SMV also raises when women flirt with you and show interest in you in the presence of other people. If you maximize the above factors, you will most likely attract women, therefore raising your SMV.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:39 PM
22

I recommend breaking up with her just to show her that his frame is there and so that he won't feel like she cheated on him, because that's inevitable.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:04 PM
8

Be grateful that you're realizing this so early. I know men who are virgins at 27 and beat their meat twice per day to porn.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:01 PM
4

I wouldn't mind getting paid by cucks to fuck their girls/wives, in 10-20 years, as long as they keep them clean.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:58 PM
5

Doing this feels weird as sometimes you fall into your own imagination and start thinking about crazy shit. But it's miles better than watching porn. Just don't do it often. I'm feeling a lot better masturbating once a week and have sex a couple times. Ejaculating feels good, but only lasts a few seconds, save it when it's worth it.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:56 PM
6

Even then, its reckless and risky to flirt at work even if you have shitton of money. Unless you are planning to leave anyway. And even then, "sexual harrassment" at workplace could ruin a mans career, no matter how much "fuck you" money he has. Always think long-term and don't sacrifice career for a pussy
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:27 PM
3

When you find yourself missing her, remember why you broke up. Remember why your mind was convinced that was the best decision for you, and for both of you. If you find yourself thinking that it wasn't the best decision, then just go back to her. But think about what kind of consequences will that have on your future self. It's simple man. You broke up for a reason. If that reason is valid, then keep doing what you're doing. Time and more girls will heal you. If you regret that and you are absol…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:56 PM
10

He had enough time to bust his nose, hit his teeth and make him require stitches before he was able to throw at least 1 punch back? Something doesn't add up here.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:16 AM
2

It's not about giving her attention, rather than getting the satisfaction one time before dumping. In the case of OP, he asks if he should demote to plate or next. He also mentions that he enjoys having sex with her. So it's a win win. Fuck her one last time and get the satisfaction of dumping her ass. Think about it, isn't that much more fulfilling than simply nexting her? Keeping her around as a plate or for one last fuck shows that you still tolerate her/her disrespect. First part, I agree. O…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:26 PM
14

Arrange a dinner at her place where she'll have to cook for you. Eat, fuck her to sleep, leave and ghost her ass. It will drive her crazy and you get a nice meal and a good last fuck out of it. Invest your time elsewhere.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:20 AM
41

after skimming relationship advice Why are you doing this to yourself? That subreddit is the fucking plague.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:48 PM
3

Always remember the Iron Rule of Tomassi (#3): It is always time better spent developing relationships with new, fresh, prospective women, than it ever will be attempting to reconstruct fail relationships. Next her. Go fuck other girls. Live your life. She's already chosen, it's your time to choose.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:34 AM
8

Recommending psychedelics online doesn't sound helpful to me. You never know how drugs can affect an individual.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:42 PM
8

What's up with people recommending drugs so often nowadays? Find other ways to sell your stash dude
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:10 PM
10

I eat the same with OP every day (cherry tomatoes instead of mushrooms) and I never get bored of it. Sometimes I'll add cheese, or change up the veggies. Also, 2 servings of fruit with it. Usually apple/kiwi/strawberries/blueberries.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 02:44 PM
2

I've been holding these thoughts for weeks now and yes, i've stopped posting lately and following the asktrp posts. I'd rather spend my time on my books and reading old TRP posts. Believe it or not, it was these kind of posts that helped me swallow the pill. These straight up, cold, raw comments/replies that makes you wake up and open your eyes. This is the manosphere right? We have to be harsh and raw to others, because at the end of the day, only the strong ones will survive.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:59 PM
4

No. Most of these guys have never read any piece of the sidebar, any literature, any pinned post from the main sub. They just come here to ask why their girlfriend does this or that and they never come back because they usually get sucked into the blue pill ways. Some of them have the epiphany to stop bitching and terminate their toxic relationships and they stay with the reality that is TRP.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:20 PM
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Srsly what has this sub become? Are we slowly becoming "relationshipadvice"? Why is everyone coming here asking questions about their damn girlfriends? ITS A MASSIVE FUCKING SHIT TEST MY GUY. She wants you to start acting like a beta fag and bend the knee to her so she can get some validation. Excuse the rant but im sick of reading these kind of posts multiple times per day. Get your shit together and focus on more important things than your girlfriends little hamster. I'm probably coming off as…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:06 AM
1

Basically, yea. Get jacked, learn&practice game, develop strong frame, abundance mentality, confidence, good clothes, go out and get girls.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:50 AM
4

First of all, screw your toxic family. Putting the whole virgin thing aside, what I would do is GTFO of that family/home/country. I felt depressed in my own family and managed to get the fuck out and move to the UK at 23 and I finally started to feel alive. Never looked back. When it comes to sex advice, just don't let anyone know that you're a virgin and stop reminding yourself, it will only hold you back. I was scared that my first time would suck (because it was late as well) but the woman I …
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:15 PM
4

I've seen this a few years back and got me into my anger phase. Then I channeled that anger and made it my goal to be the guy that these bitches are talking about. Make sure that next time they are having drinks talking about "fun sexual experiences", you are the "stranger that tried anal with".
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:28 PM
-2

Masturbating once or twice weekly, without watching porn, is completely fine and keeps you sane during dry periods.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:25 AM
9

Nice write-up. Ive seen a lot of people who read books like "No more Mr. Nice guy" etc. and completely miss the point. They start being cunts instead of "good" assholes. Going against the female narrative and still being fun, open and relaxed should be the goal. There is a sweet spot between being an asshole or a cunt. Being a cunt might work when you're 17-20 y/o due to the explosion of hormones by both genders, but as one gets older, he needs to shape his personality accordingly. Thanks for th…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 04:53 PM
12

Iron rule of Tomassi #3: It is always time better spent developing relationships with new, fresh, prospective women, than it ever will be attempting to reconstruct fail relationships. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:50 AM
3

Did Rich Piano become resurrected? I wish dude. I really liked Rich Piana. Yea he used to spit a lot of broscience bullshit in some vids to market his products, but he also said a lot of truths on other topics that everyone else was afraid to do.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 09:28 PM
6

The majority of the problem is attributed to watching porn. I could argue about things such as dopamine, unrealistic expectations and so on. Truth is, if you watch porn, you settle (to a certain extend) with NOT getting your dick wet. Empirical evidence (sample size = me) showed that cutting porn actually makes you go out and chase the real thing. (Results = sex) Nofap is extreme but it does help with porn addiction, masturbating daily etc. Everything in moderation. I also probably left out othe…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:56 PM
3

Cut the porn. Masturbate rarely. Like once or twice a week. To quote Mark Manson: "Think of it as a treat for yourself"
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:38 PM
31

Lifting & Stoicism = Tranquility
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:00 PM
3

That's some good talk right here. If you forcibly pull him out then he will only throw himself back in at the first opportunity and hate you for your efforts. Gold. This actually happened last year, although he asked me to take him to the gym. I will try and expose him lightly into some RP knowledge and hopefully, one day he wakes up and decides it's time to live his damn life.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:47 PM
2

Yup i did that and hurt her feelings, but she told me I was right. However, she also told me that she can't help it because she loves him and will always treat him like that. I couldnt give a shit about it tbh, so I just try avoid discussing this with her. I took him to the gym last year before i left, he stopped after a week. Too much time wasted not playing video games. I cant waste my time on him and spoonfeed him what ive learnt the hard way. I just want to do something that will force him t…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:56 PM
4

You're right, It's just that I'm their last resort. They live in Cyprus, which is a small country and we also have a lot of family living in the same building (3 family houses connected, weird, i know). She can't kick him out and she would never do it because, after all, he's her little baby. IMO, she SHOULD kick him out, but she's weak, sad and cares a lot about keeping the family "healthy". I wish it worked like that here.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:47 PM
13

Stop disrespecting others who try to help you. He is right. You come out as a weak minded virgin and when others are being harsh/straight-forward you get defensive. Soak up the advice or ignore. It's simple. This sub is a good source for self-improvement if you stop for a minute and listen to the advice. That being said, what u/sehns said above is what you should do.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:54 PM
1

Yeah thats true. Crazy night outs and sex parties are way more common in the islands you've mentioned. Ayia Napa is a religious temple compared to Mykonos lol.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 04:24 PM
1

I wouldn't say so. Our police are not the sharpest tools in the shed, and the feminist movement is more popular than any sort of MRA movement here. Basically, most of the men here are beta white knights. I've discussed this case with LOTS of people and most of them safely assumed that she was raped and that men are monsters. Also, tourists having fun in Ayia Napa etc. has been the norm for many years, but not many false accusations have happened in the past tbh.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 03:51 PM
1

I am from Cyprus and have been to two of our prisons (as a visitor). I can confirm that the conditions are shitty but it's not so tough as you'd think. Even for men they allow them to be pretty loose and spend a lot of time outside and hanging out with the guards. She'll have a hard time if shes locked up here.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 03:47 PM
30

Damn, did not expect to find a fellow Cypriot here. I was discussing this with some friends and they all made memes about it or saying that men are monsters. I was 100% certain that her accusations were bullshit. This story smelled bullshit from miles away, even considering what happens in Napa every summer. False rape accusations are getting out of hand and awareness must be raised. My inner MRA self is really tickling lately.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 07:33 PM
11

Try social activities, sports, martial arts Just like women, neediness kills attraction. Be cool and fun to be around.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 10:04 PM
6

While that's true, there's still a possibility of ruining a woman's life completely. Plus, STD's. Of course, if you're the type of girl that would let an unknown dude with a fake name to blow his load inside you on the first date, you're far gone anyways.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:45 AM
8

We shouldn't blindly follow what somebody has once said, but evaluate and apply it within our own context. They gave us the tools, we're building our houses.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:55 PM
16

Props to you for putting the work and contributing to spreading this knowledge among other men. I appreciate the collection of knowledge in the main sub. Ive found pieces in that sub which have shaped me as a person and made me a better man.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:51 PM
11

Well, at least is 0 calories! Now I know that morning sex doesn't break the fast
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:27 PM
2

Been there done that. Been orbiting a girl during my most valuable years (17-20) and missed out on a lot of shit. You have work to do, so start doing. Lift, read, meditate and stop masturbating to her pics or porn in general. Snap out of this pathetic condition and start working on yourself and practice game. There's an abundance of females around so get to work. The sooner you start, the sooner you'll get over this shit and fix your life.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:58 AM
35

The dude was a prime example of a blue-pilled beta orbiter with absolutely ZERO self-respect. I'm not gonna say that he deserves what happened to him, but if you reach the level of giving your life savings to a fucking streamer thot, you are fucked. Manipulating bitches have been around forever, and pretty much 9/10 female streamers got into streaming for the sole purpose of receiving money from thirsty virgin gamers. Just look at that fake thot that sold her bath water online for like 30 bucks …
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:52 AM
3

And this is how school shootings start
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:51 PM
5

Play the pokemon theme song next time
/r/askTRP06/07/19 07:46 AM
2

Yea I agree. I usually plan which days I meet with girls/plates so during chill days, I can stay up longer etc. But sometimes, when I got to wake up early or I'm extremely tired, I will refuse a 10p.m booty call. My muscles will thank me, my dick will hate me.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 02:14 PM
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Good post. No matter what the fuck is going on in my life, I never sacrifice sleep, not even for hot women. I always aim for 7 hours per night minimum and if I happen to lose 1-2 hours, I will do my best to compensate with a mid-day nap. During summers where I have more free time, I like to take 30-min to 1-hour naps post-workout. I wake up fresh and full of energy. Highly recommended. With that being said, I'm going to bed.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 10:05 PM
1

The Eunuchs of The Red Pill Main sources of knowledge for me is old posts from the sidebar and other sources frequently linked by seniors. And of course, books. There's a long list waiting to be finished over the next years.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 09:58 PM
2

Seriously what are you looking for here? I had internalized everything in the fucking pill You haven't done shit my guy. Crying while texting? Fuck, i've been there.. when I was 16. You are literally crying, begging for someone to give you THE answer, to show you THE way. I understand that, but since you claim to be here for a while, you should know by now. You should know what to do in order to NOT fuck up and hit the bottom, or what to do AFTER you hit the bottom. And fuck it, i'll say it. Don…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 08:48 AM
6

There's no point confronting a hater. The point is to not let them affect your mindset and confidence. If there's no way they can get to your head, they have automatically failed.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 01:44 PM
3

As a regular lurker, I appreciate the post. Free advice for the rest: Don't preach what you don't practice. It will only make this sub a better place.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:20 PM
5

Give her your bench/squat/dl numbers while you're at it
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:06 AM
2

Lol wtf is this shit? Unless i'm missing a "lol incest joke" here, this is horrible
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:01 PM
19

This is the time to give her validation. Spot on. Telling a woman how good she was (if she deserves it) after sex, WILL make her try to top herself. Of course, don't make a big deal out of it, or you'll end up sounding needy, even if you spin like 5 plates
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:59 PM
2

I feel like the culture here is completely different to America. What makes you so sure about this then?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:45 PM
3

You are right to a certain extend. Everybody knows that facial aesthetics matter, on top of body aesthetics. In every gym I've been, I've seen countless jacked mfers that don't take care of themselves. Patchy beards, smelly (duuh it's the gym, but that says something about you), ugly ass haircuts, huge armpit hair, shitty skin etc. What comes after taking care of yourself, is a raise in confidence. You fixing some facial characteristics, not only has boosted your appearance, but most importantly…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:02 AM
11

LOL For real though, if everyone who started reading "TRM" made a post, not even halfway through the book, this sub would explode with pointless posts. OP, i wanna be kind to you and congratulate you, but this is the point, you want us to congratulate you? This indicates validation seeking and neediness. It's good to take a step back and appreciate the progress, but it's even better to keep your head down and keep reading, as well as improving. Come back with a good question next time, or even b…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:56 AM
2

Read more. Talk less.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:42 PM
7

Non - Neediness Well explained. Just walk off idiot. She needs you more than you need her. Simple and incredibly accurate. Applies both to dating and relationships. Sometimes I catch my self trying too hard to keep the conversation/flirt going and appear needy, which could potentially be a turn off. The only reason a man will ever fear leaving a woman is because he has convinced himself there is no other better woman. Perfectly said. This should be a banner on AskTRP
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 09:40 PM
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First of all, please dont mention "many red pills" ever again. Your response was a common response by someone who has already invested in this "flirt phase" so you tried too hard by default. You should A&A or use light banter. Examples: "Oh yea me neither, thats why my mom will be joining us" "Thats fine, bring your dad along" "Dont worry, my secret torture dungeon is usually revealed on the 2nd date" You get the point.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:44 PM
8

She the type of hoe that digs the condom from the trash and tries to insert the last dying soldiers into her dirty foxhole
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:50 AM
13

No man, you dont get it! You see, the biggest lesson comes after the convention is over.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 09:39 PM
21

As long as she's clean and not insane. Why not? Think of any possible outcomes where your life is affected negatively, and take your decision upon that.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:08 PM
1

If you're planning to drink more than one beer, then skip the workout. Your other option is to just not drink and workout afterwards. If drinking is your priority, take the day off completely and just plan the rest of your week's workouts. And post-drinking, also drink lots of water, as alcohol has dehydrating properties. "Gainz" don't happen overnight. A slight, temporary decrease in your test is minimal to affect muscle growth, unless you drink regularly. But whatever you do, don't go to the g…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:00 PM
1

she won't go to the police
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:51 PM
5

Mate, if you wanna stay where you are just stay. It's not worth it to leave just to "save your public image". I mean, the girl is a fucking lunatic, so everybody already knows she is. And that's one of the (many) reasons she behaves like that. However, if you have planned to move elsewhere already, then this is an extra reason to do so. If she's not going to the police, try to keep her calm without ever letting your dick close to her and you should be fine. Unless there's more into it.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:19 PM
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Good reply. We should always keep it real in this sub, even if it hurts. Because that's the beauty of it. TRP HURTS. It always sucks initially but once you get more into it, your eyes open and then you start to become an emotional rock, nothing can break you down. To OP: I've read this story multiple times here, in the sidebar and through multiple books. Especially the part where you say "This was the woman I wanted my whole life". (Oneitis). It sucks, you will feel lost, depressed, treated unfa…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:43 PM
4

Are you okay mate? Looks like you're not getting enough love lately
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:34 PM
20

I like this, although i have to highlight some of these points: Taking things personally/ getting offended over dumb shit. True, getting too emotional, in simple words. (Read: Stoicism) Wearing "comfy" clothes (sweats, flip flops) Nothing wrong with that tbh, sometimes I like wearing buggy/comfy clothes when I'm around close friends. Not flip flops outside my apt ofc. Talking excessively about yourself (especially complaining) Could be a sign of narcissism as well. Or even entitlement. Thats a n…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:36 PM
9

TRP is not about deleting the "Love section". It's about applying a fuckload of filters to it. Being blue pilled means having 0 filters, the first female that gives you the slightest sight of attention/validation, the feeling appears instantly.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:16 PM
3

I agree with you. OP is very defensive in his comments. This is the criticism he should be absorbing, not the replies which provide him with the validation he is seeking. Hell, I wish i've read this comment 7 years ago.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:11 PM
4

This. Everything OP does or attempts to do will be sign of neediness and blue pilled behavior, which will only lower his self-esteem, SMV and self respect. Get over that bitch. I've wasted my high school years (and more - 16-19) chasing "that one girl" and it almost ruined my life. Everyday I'm fucking grateful i ghosted her and moved on, realizing my value and slowly fucking my way to greatness.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:32 AM
0

I've been trying to figure this out for a long time and it is kinda obvious tbh: Testosterone production is the key factor on how a young boy turns after puberty, and how he shapes himself during puberty. I'm pretty sure my testosterone was prob below average during puberty. The higher above average a mans testosterone is, the most likely he'll behave more towards the "alpha" side of the spectrum. Of course, RP principles are usually learned through experiences. My point is that Testosterone pla…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:10 AM
14

Embrace it. Hold your frame and never enter those men's frame. They will try to bring you down because it's the easier alternative than bringing themselves up. Hold your frame. Show them that you are unbreakable, it will only make it harder for them and make them look like idiots/haters. Next, go to the gym, get a sick pump, and flex on those fuckers.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:25 AM
1

Of course not lol. I'm saying "due to urgency", anything will be useful, assuming OP doesn't have any knowledge regarding Martial Arts.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:15 AM
1

Of course, my point was that it is urgent. Assuming that OP doesn't have any knowledge regarding Martial Arts, anything to be prepared quickly will be useful. Then proceed to learn proper MA by following classes ofc.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:14 AM
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Laying low is a good option but depends on your lifestyle. If your job/lifestyle in general requires you to be in the streets a lot then you'll have to be on the move ALWAYS. And avoid isolated areas by all costs. Another advice is to learn BJJ (Brazilian Jiu Jitsu). Just watch a couple youtube videos and practice, due to urgency. Depending on how dangerous those guys are (criminal record that implies heavy violence/guns/knives), you could potentially "outmuscle" them using jiu jitsu techniques,…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:30 PM
3

What's the rush man? U got out of a LTR, it's fine, take your time. No1 is forcing you to fuck girls every day. (unless you placed a huge bet with your mates). Anyway, keep doing what you've been doing and try to make it as interesting and attractive to yourself as possible. Keep lifting, eating healthy, relax/read a book before bed, sleep well and stay away from porn. One day you'll come across a stunning HB10 and you'll be like "bruh fuck this i need to get my dick wet", then take a look at yo…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:31 PM
2

Well, of course the side bar in our main sub is a given. It's also given that as you read the side bar you will be referred to "The rational Male", by Rolo Tomassi, which is a MUST read imo (it was also my first book). Other than that, i like reading books regarding general self improvement, mentality, values and philosophy. "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck" is a book that changed my way of thinking dramatically and matured me. It's also pretty fun to read. "Models" from the same author has …
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:02 PM
4

Im Greek (Cypriot) and i'm really ashamed about how little they taught us about our own history in school. And when they did, I did not pay attention and thought it was boring af. Now here I am, reading greek philosophy translated in english lol.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:12 PM
5

First of all, "the talk" is a giant shit test. You should've responded better and not go into the whole "blah blah my ex" and "blah blah i'm bad at this". Be more straight up and bold: "Aren't we having a great time?". What got you this girl is strong frame and abundance mentality (along with external characteristics of course). But as soon as you plant the thought of "She is LTR material", you destroyed your frame, you started operating in HER frame. This is because deep down, you don't care ab…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:06 PM
8

When I was 17 (2013), I won a local tournament of LoL, which was actually the biggest to have happened yet, in my country. I was by no means a gamer, but whenever I played a game, I was good at it. Anyhow, the "gaming community" in my country was small, so they decided to push us to compete in european qualifiers. We've actually qualified but eventually, I had to do my military service (mandatory in Cyprus), so I dropped everything and never looked back. It was tough, I was an incel that wanted …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:42 PM
5

I love accessories but I don't like spending a lot of money on them. Advice: Wear few, simple and classy things that suit you and your personality. A necklace is always recommended, a good watch and that's about it. If you have earrings, good. Now that I think of it, I have a lot of shit on me that i'm planning to cut out as soon as I get a decent job (finishing my masters). I have 5 fucking piercings (including nose and nipple), always wearing necklace, watch and a cheap ring I've bought recent…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 10:46 PM
1

Nothing you can do now to be honest. She fucked u over because you were nice to her. You should've kicked her out in her own clothes. That's over now. Good advice: Fuck first, then smoke. Damage limitation.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:14 PM
7

This could be a movie
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:10 PM
1

There's no reason to make excuses, you look like you're looking for validation. That's a big NO from TRP. I think you still have a lot to learn brother, but you're in the right path. My advice is simple, keep reading the sidebar, practice abundance and IDGAF mentality. That way, nothing will ever put you down and you won't need to make excuses to random dudes on the internet, like me. And yes, get back to lifting, even casually. Like 3-4 times per week is enough. Focus on Flat/Incline Bench pres…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:35 AM
1

Blowjob does the trick for me
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:35 PM
1

Shit man, your relationship with your brother must be cool at least. My relationship with my brother is super awkward but casual. I would NEVER had a threesome with him. He's also 100% blue pilled so there's that..
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:32 PM
0

you honestly got to listen to your body when you're tired and save it for when your body does feel super. Not trying to be a dick but how old are you? And do you lift consistently? One thing i've learned through lifting for many years is that pushing your limits is one of the best feelings, especially when combined with orgasm(s). If she's hot and she turns you on, you can find a way. What I did in some cases, is ask a girl to give me a mild blowjob, it's like fuel for me. However, I get that so…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:29 PM
8

My initial thought as well. Lesbians in LTRs are the WORST. It's like they are in permanent period-mood. You can see in their eyes how much they miss a good dick. Imagine having a partner for 3+ years and sex is just foreplay and the occasional dildo lol
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:18 AM
3

Within a year? It requires amazing genetics and still, rare. At minimum, a sports background is required, ex: yourself, but genetics still play a massive role. I've been lifting for 5 years (bb mainly), my genetics are below average and I'm just getting close to OP's numbers. My point is that squatting 495 and pulling 565 in 8 months is an extreme example of genetic jackpot, or an extreme example of poor form.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:09 AM
3

He doesn't mention lifting in his book IIRC, but deff increased his SMV through improving his looks and how he dressed. To answer u/thenewyorkmind 's question, he basically started hanging around the best PUA's and learned how to talk and seduce women. His strength were his words, his sexual intent and confidence. He faked it till he made it.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 10:22 AM
9

Keep your social circle tight. Identify other men that appear to have their shit together, are supportive, motivated and good looking, hang out with them. I like meeting a lot of new people, by partying like once a week, but I never stick around the party types, I prefer people with clear purpose. Other than that, don't give a shit about public opinion etc. Stay focused on yourself, on your purpose. Keep studying, working, lifting and reading. Focus on plating and meeting new girls and creating …
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:21 AM
2

Respect to you guys tho, insane season and I'm actually supporting you in the CL final. (City fan)
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:44 PM
7

Im 23 and my brother is 26. My brother was given the most attention by our parents when we were younger, he was their weakness. While they ignored me for the most part, i was getting bullied at school, got into fights, later started smoking, drinking and doing drugs, but my parents didnt support me. Eventually, I did my military service (compulsory), went into university and started working. That's when my father realized I was in the right mindset and started supporting me. Now i've moved to th…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:15 AM
1

Abundance mentality. Be outcome dependent. Always keep in mind: "No matter what happens, I have my options". Book suggestion: "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck". It's general IDGAF attitude advice, but applies perfectly to relationships as well.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 11:18 PM
7

This is great. I am thankful i wasn't "successful" with women in my younger years. If it weren't for that, i would never find TRP. And I'm slowly becoming the best version of my self now, as well as finally enjoying life without commitments.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 11:14 PM
3

First of all stop being autistic and a stalker. Second: Learn fucking ambundance.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:23 PM
3

You're missing purpose. Find what your purpose is, what will truly make you happy and start working towards that. One step at a time.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:59 PM
7

"Wait... what if I'm the one who isn't good enough? A woman would never think like that. Would probably be like this: "Wait... am I the one who isn't good enough? Shit i must get his validation, only to dump him myself so HES the one who isn't good enough"
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:58 PM
5

Old plate that wanted a relationship used to do this all the time. As soon as we parted ways she started texting annoyingly saying she "met another guy" etc. I would say "whatever makes you happy" etc. Next week she would confess that she was lying and we kept the same fuck - lie - confess - fuck cycle for a couple months until she was pushing for a LTR so hard that i had to ghost. Bottom line: It's a huge shit test. You responded fine. Keep doing the same (unless you WANT to be in a LTR with he…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:16 PM
3

No offense but the whole story sounds like some primary school shit. I read your comments and picture a 10 year old with his little girlfriend having puberty phase issues. Im gonna be blunt here, but figure your shit out and stop excusing yourself through her behavior. If you keep being a beta then no wonder why she avoids you. Fuck, i dont even know why she wanted to go out with you. This is controversial: A true male can be sexual with any girl, that hes attracted to at least. Show her how a t…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:21 PM
2

While I dont really disagree with you, it looks to me that you're coming off as a bit pissed. Everyone here who has done their homework knows "AWALT". However, its irrational to generalize women like that. We can search and explain the core of their behavior and their values, but saying that all women are just horny fucking robots and are willing to fuck unhealthy individuals with zero self worth is just dumb, imo.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:52 PM
2

I'm from Cyprus and i can see your point. However, you're picking a sample that consists of horny tourist girls that go on vacation and are basically thirsty for dick. You can't generalize all women by tourist/vacation standards. That being said, I agree with some of your points in the OP, but some of them are irrational. We're talking about human behavior (female behavior specifically, which is much more complicated). Women do have standards in terms of looks and personality. Sometimes they are…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:50 AM
3

"The Game" by Neil Strauss. Or start with "The Rational Male", by Rolo Tomassi, so you can open your eyes about how a man should think. Keep in mind: Game can help you seduce women, but lifting/taking care of yourself will increase your SMV, thus attracting more women. My advice: Don't stress it. I was a virgin until an embarrassing age. The secret is to keep focusing on your self-improvement and practice game whenever you socialize. It will come as soon as you build your frame.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:14 PM
1

I used to have that a lot. Confidence is a nobrainer. Try to embed the mentality of "I can fuck any one of those girls" I now have the opposite problem. I find it difficult to focus on the things around me sometimes due to making intense eye contact with other women. DGAF attitude + "Alpha" mentality. And of course, practice.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:28 AM
7

Give us the update lol. I cant imagine a scenario where this does not seal the deal. If you dont respond in the next 8 hours i'd assume you fucked.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:27 AM
1

I had a similar experience in the past. I also have to keep it real for you. My friend used to pull girls for fun, he was a chad, back then when I was a virgin as well. When he was in a LTR i've also come to notice some sketchy parts in their relationship and wanted to help him. Truth is, I was invested in their relationship (we hang out together), that eventually, it was just a way for me to ignore my own problems, aka not having a gf, aka not getting pussy. Also, sometimes i was seeing things …
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:38 PM
5

I personally prefer books and articles over podcasts, even audible when i'm travelling/walking etc. But sometimes i'd listen to Tom Torero. He has some really good videos/podcasts on gaming women etc. Most people would recommend Joe Rogan as well, but i'm not really a fan, although i enjoyed a couple of his podcasts.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:58 PM
18

3 things: Lift and practice confidence while at the gym. (you already do that so stay on it) Read books, listen to podcasts of people with expertise and practice the theories. "The Rational Male" (Rolo Tomassi) is the fundamental of RP imo. "The Game" (Neil Strauss) is a fun book that gives a lot of lessons on PUA side of the RP. Learn about "Cold approach", how to act like an "alpha" and how to game women in general. Most important thing: PRACTICE. Don't be afraid to approach and get rejected. …
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:40 PM
2

She weighs her options. You kissed, you were place in the options list. During that time, something might have tickled her - overwhelmed with feelings - brain, chose another guy from the list, LJBF'd the others to not feel guilt whilst seeking attention. She prob liked your response, but still chose the other guy. I'd ghost and wait until she comes back when the other guy fucks and dumps her so i can tell her to fuck off.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:22 PM
6

R u okay m8? Anw if this is a serious question, Jawline is mostly genetics. Or you can pin Tren Ace, lift like a crazy fucker and chew beef jerky and gums.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:16 PM
2

Play it cool and dont mention it, don't even stress it. Without mentioning it, try to get another alone moment and this time go for it. If she's up with you two lying on a bed alone, it means she's okay to fuck. So go for it, but don't push it to the point where it's obvious.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:24 PM
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First of all, if she's just a plate for you, just propose shit you like doing and she'll probably be on board. Enjoy it. After a few red lights, get the fuck out. On a more serious note: I'm a big fat bald Guy. Pretty disgusting actually. Why? Don't give me that "mommy" excuse you mentioned earlier. Do yourself a favor and lift/diet, so you can, not only get more girls, but enjoy sex MUCH more. Being fit makes sex 10x better. If you like being fat and disgusting, then by all means, go on. But it…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:43 PM
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but i FEEL i don't deserve these girls. That's the problem right there. Any idea? I feel you. I used to have the same problems for MANY years. (18 - 22). What fixed it for me is, like mentioned before, Lifting. Lifting raises your testosterone and serotonin, which as a result, will make you feel happier and more confident. Confidence is key, and to build confidence you need to hit the gym, work on self improvement (mental aspects as well), and keep trying with women. Have a DGAF attitude when ap…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:21 AM
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What i got from this is that RP taught you little, or you didnt externalize the theories and knowledge correctly. You said youve been on the sub for 3 years and you have a year old LTR. Did you play the game before entering the relationship? Did you experience different women etc? A common mistake some guys do, is using TRP just to get THE girl, their "crush" or however betas describe a girl that makes them blind. If you slept with other women you would understand ABUNDANCE mentality, which woul…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:20 AM
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Im an all or nothing guy. This is good. Keep being like this. Design your goals, objectives and ambitions based off this. BUT, women are important dude. The amount of confidence a man gets when he fucks a female is invaluable. Don't underestimate the power of good sex. Keep reading the theories and implement them in practice. There was a good post in TRP sub where someone described living his RP life like a video game. You read theories about gaming women, attracting and influencing people in ge…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 09:09 AM
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Good point. Intelligent women become feminists by nature. It also has to do with external factors as well. (Social Media, society, culture etc.) It's a shame really. I could date/have sex with a feminist woman but I would never ever consider having kids with one. Especially with the risk of having a daughter. (Personal opinion)
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 10:57 PM
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Not everyone will like you. And that's the goal. Having enemies is good, they keep your head in place. They make you work harder. On the same note, you can fuck a woman that doesn't like you, it feels 10x better than with a woman that worships you. Point is, you have to accept your self and build on that. DGAF attitude along with the lowkey desire to create enemies is how one succeeds. However, if you realize that you truly disagree with RP theories and ideas, then you should start looking for w…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:39 PM
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I got your point and i actually agree with you, no need to get defensive. Having clear intentions and self respect is the way to go and that's how I go by as well. I was just mocking your line, don't take it personally.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:54 PM
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I was in a really similar position. Ruined my "experimental" years (16-21) due to me being a blue pilled beta and looking for relationship material girls instead of looking for hookups. Anyways, my story is irrelevant. I had some blowjobs/handjobs and mess-arounds in the past, but had sex for the first time at 23 as well. No 1 rule for me: "Fake Confidence". Come on man, you know how to sex. You've seen it, countless times, in movies, porn sites etc. You know how it goes. You place your penis in…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:51 PM
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Yea man, i mean, that line works perfectly and definitely doesn't make you sound like a rapist!
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:36 PM
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KINO was as smooth and gentle as it can be in a club. Grabing waist and responds back by touching my chest etc. Didnt make out because such social parties are a nightmare for hooking up with local girls, unless isolated. I think isolation is the key. Will see what happens when we meet in private. Ill try more physical contact in a playful manner. Conversations have all resulted into reducing my SMV in the past (pre TRP). I think i can manage my way through it now. I like talking when the convers…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:23 AM
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We didnt hang out alone yet that's the case. We hang out at a club (society party for local students from our country in the UK). She wants to meet and talk more about my "ideas" and "views". This is why i asked, in order to not become her therapist or so. I'm not interested in holding conversations without sexual activity anymore I want to proceed into the sexual part smoothly, by dodging the whole "deep talking" thing I had no trouble with women that weren't interested in the whole "tell me mo…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:05 AM
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Two times at a club during social parties that our society creates (local society for students from our country in UK). People talk a lot in such parties so everyone is more conservative. She texted me about meeting and talking more about my "ideas" and "views". That's why I created this post. I don't plan on talking about such things with her but shes interested in that, within a dating environment.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:02 AM
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I never mentioned anything about "special" or unique. I wouldn't post a question here if this wasn't common and "vanilla standard". It's easier to seek advice on common topics, isn't? I assume some guys have more experience on this case, hence why I asked for info
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:30 PM
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Yea being playful seems to work, but we've just met and KINO is always smooth so i don't wanna risk a good fuck for deep conversations and "mental attraction" and shit. Having already established a relationship makes it easier i guess.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:21 PM
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Women who want to talk and have "deep conversations" have always been my weak spot. I explain more in my other reply. I'll make sure i record my next encounter with a woman so I can place a bet as well lol
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:19 PM
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She was asking personal questions about my past and my experiences with women in particular. I dodged the question because you never talk about the women you've slept with (Iron rule of Tomassi). She then proceeds to ask questions like "Have you been heartbroken before" etc. so i simply explained that i believe in a rational mindset and im always "outcome dependent". She keeps escalating on this asking me why do I value rationality so much. Do I suppress my emotions? Etc. I've had these talks wi…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:17 PM
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Lets keep it real here. Instead of thinking about a "lost" relationship, think about all the things and experiences you've missed out all these years. Get your feelings together and hit the gym, get jacked, improve yourself, read books about game and how to be rational. Do yourself a favor and meet other girls, this will make you realize how much you've missed out on. Sleep with as many women as you like in order to get completely over her. Find your purpose and don't let any other woman control…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:41 AM
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There's always hidden meanings in GayLubeOil's posts.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:37 PM
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I don't agree with this. Masturbating usually has the opposite effect on me so i try minimizing it during intense studying/working periods. Is there any evidence to support your statement? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:32 PM
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I believe today is the day when my transformation into an RP man is complete Don't get too comfortable. The transformation is never fully completed. There's always room for improvement, physically and especially mentally. The moment you think you are "complete" is the moment you stop improving and start declining. The story was interesting, her actions are explained by already existing theory indeed. My point is that we should never settle by saying "i am complete". We will never be, but every d…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 11:42 PM
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Never lose your frame. I smoke a small joint before bed for a while now, but when i smoke i try to do something productive in order to not let my self loose. Usually i listen/write music, or read books, instead of watching Netflix or playing video games, for example. Honestly, reading books while high for like half an hour before bed is really helpful and helps me keep my frame, which is productivity, knowledge and staying on my purpose. Weed affects you as much as you let it. Don't let it contr…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:29 PM
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No matter what, never commit to just one woman. And always be outcome dependent, if you choose to do so.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:11 PM
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The Rational Male is a given. It's the first piece a man should read imo. On this matter, I'd like to suggest a book that was recommended to me by a fellow TRP user and contributor: "Ride The Tiger". It relates a lot to what OP is referring to in this post.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 12:30 AM
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A woman will never be yours. It just your turn. Accept hypergamy, move on.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:57 AM
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Agreed to an extend. Every woman is "fuck-able". However, it's never worth it to bang your best friend's current plate/gf. Why would one destroy a healthy and potentially beneficial relationship with another male? Especially if that friend has some good values and he's not a beta/feminist dude.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:25 PM
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The iron rules of Rolo Tomassi should be the first thing a male reads when he starts his journey through TRP
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:55 AM
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She was either trying to get you to cancel, or was genuinely trying to get a bus to get to your place. Either way, if you were drained, you could've just told her to rest and reschedule. The "Im busy" might throw her off, which doesn't really matter, depending on her value to you of course. However, if her "ignoring" you was really that important, then your response was absolutely fine. You should not gaf if she ghosts, could accept if she looks for you.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:41 AM
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It only got to your head because you two fucked. If nobody in the room knows you fucked, her "insult" probably sounded like a racist comment, because you are Asian. (assuming you posses Asian external characteristics). 100% ignore. A female that forces herself to make such comments due to jealousy or any other female feeling, is just dumb and should me ignored at all costs.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:36 AM
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Well, i don't think i can explain females, unfortunately (or not). Psychology is not my major, however, i've had some situations recently that have forced me to put a lot of thought into it. Basically, most of women's actions depend on their underlying past issues. Could be father issues, family issues, ex issues, etc. Issues are individually dependent. Also, don't forget that women tend to take decisions based on their feelings and not logic. They are not required to be rational, and that's oka…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:51 PM
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It doesn't have to do exclusively with higher SMV. The abundance mentality drives women crazy. Girls that would never think of getting in a relationship start getting these thoughts just because you show unpredictability and abundance. They wanna know what you want. They wanna be your only option (doesn't mean they dont want to have other options themselves). If you hide feelings and give them good times, whilst looking good as well, it will drive them crazy, even if they are not.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:01 PM
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This is good sex advice for people who can't last long. I do it occasionally when i feel like going a bit more
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:57 PM
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Not a video game addict, but have been playing a couple hours a day, not too long ago. 2-3 hours a day may not sound much, but if you think that those hours could be spent on productivity and improvement, you realize they are a lot. "Do more productive hobbies/activities and less consumptive"[Champion's Mentality]. If something doesnt contribute to your self-improvement, do less of it. Yes, video games can be social and fun, but they offer absolutely nothing of value to you. Nothing to gain, unl…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:03 AM
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https://illimitablemen.com/2016/02/28/champions-mentality-how-to-stop-being-a-loser-become-epic/
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:47 PM
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This is key: Show Confidence. No matter how stressed and anxious you feel, show her that you are relaxed and confident. I'm sure you know how sex is done. Let your imagination run wild and give it to her. Even if it turns to shit, but you still get laid, its a win win for you. She will probably ghost you and then you won't be a virgin and you can start being a real fucking male and go out and live your life, instead of cute texting with your y/o crush. good luck and give us an update lol
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:46 PM
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-How to quickly forget? Don't say other pussy, right now I'm not interested. This is the problem. The only way to get over a female, is with more females. I know its tough, but you can fake it and have some fun. Once you realize that you can have other women, the abundance mindset will heal everything. For now, focus on lifting, eating well, reading books and improving your self physically and mentally, then find some interests (NOT video games, they will suck your time off, thinking you are fin…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:37 PM
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In order to get your shit together and reach your peak, you need to implement theories and practice in real life. No matter how much knowledge you acquire, it will become useless if its not being utilized every damn day of your life. Im 23 as well, trying to gather as much information, whilst going out and practicing at the same time. Yes, rejection and failure suck, but those are the most important lessons. Go talk to that girl, go apply for that job, go ask that teacher for help, even if you f…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 12:40 PM
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I can see it now, the moment she talked about LTR, i responded in the most BETA way possible by saying something along the lines of: "Oh yea i'm looking for a LTR too, i dont wanna screw things up with u". I gave her 100% validation and lost all my SMV in her eyes. I'm gonna have to work on the abundance attitude and stop giving validation to random females that appear to be "LTR Material". I'm an idiot.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:42 PM
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Just a month later of my arrival to UK, i met a single mother that i flirted with, we had sex on the 2nd date and had some good times afterwards, but she started falling for me and going crazy with texts etc. I shit myself because she has 12 years on me, and a 14 y/o son. I am at fault here because i didnt play the game correctly and let her dream, because i wanted to keep her around. Meanwhile, cute Asian girl from uni started asking for my IG etc, to "ask about the assignment", ended up inviti…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:37 PM
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You're right. Being around betas will sometimes affect you as well. But IMO he should sit down and have a quick talk with Joe before ditching him, lay down the fundamentals of changing his life and becoming rational. If he gets it; good, if he doesn't; poor him.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 09:21 AM
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This is so true. I lost my virginity a bit late and immediately after, A LOT more girls were attracted to me. Until I reflected and realized that even if nobody knew that i was a virgin, women could sense it. It sounds weird but it feels true. Once i cashed out my V-card, i found out how to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 05:26 PM
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Sending some pics like for example, she asks "what r u up to?" and u reply with a picture of a book, the gym, maybe a weird selfie if you're feeling it. Try and be unique. When texting, i usually think "what would a beta do?" and I avoid that. Keeping a conversation flowing by telling a smart joke, asking something unique/weird that doesnt make her feel uncomfortable to spike her interest. Also, keep it simple. It's hard to express feelings and allow the other person to know what you're thinking…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:52 PM
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Now repeat after me: Hoes get horny, n***as die Bless 2pac
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 01:48 AM
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