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jaw8625/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:51 AM
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Normies? Or judgement? Normies are a dime a dozen. You are carbon copies of one of several avatars. You experience life and emotions, but not the full scope of them. Another term might be NPC, or non playable character. Meanwhile you believe, probably from your false sense of security due to your normie-dom, that you have the authority to be a moral arbiter and judge other people's behavior. I feel zero guilt or remorse about my love of women or my love of methamphetamine. Sure there have been t…
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:17 AM
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thanks for your judgement, must be nice to be such a normie
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:33 PM
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Wow thank you for the insight. GHB is natural, what do you think about that? And I had no idea that these supplements were harmful. I’d love to hear more about your experience
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:10 AM
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Lol what
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:05 AM
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Damn, now you seem to know what you’re talking about. Been taking a lot of supplements; l-tyrosine, NAC, and 5htp as well as b vitamins and fish oil. I have 2 tabs of lsd and was thinking about tripping or microdosing. Would you recommend either? I also am taking GHB (planning to wean off that next) and have cannabis and benzos but don’t use them.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 11:28 PM
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yeah man! I've noticed - I took like a month break somewhere in there - and when I came back holy shit these bitches are insane now!! And suddenly every girl that's a 6 or above has an onlyfans?? wtf happened?? And yeah I am doing so. Also starting law school this week. There are no gyms though....I guess I need to learn to workout outside? I do live on the edge of a huge park
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:55 PM
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Dude you’re confidence shouldn’t come from your hair. I know plenty of bald dudes who clean up. Embrace it and make it you
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:31 AM
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This. I've noticed the more sophisticated types are much easier. Being that they have full minds and lives they are able to compartmentalize sex easily. At first, at least. These are the same types who get widowed if you give them good dick because believe me, their grad school gender studies phD candidates aren't throwing much of that around. As far as the "might just get lucky" behavior (nothing makes me sicker) I should note though that several times when I was vetting for LTR, I turned this …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:47 PM
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exactly
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:21 PM
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OP is making it sound like she is constantly reaching out and getting sadder as the months go on. And again, what does OP have to lose? Although rereading this post carefully again, I missed a few important details. And I am now tending to side with you
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:50 PM
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They don’t try that hard for orbiters. I’ve prob gotten pussy more than anyone on this board. Sometimes you guys are way too dogmatic about shit. Even if it doesn’t work. Who cares? It’s not like he has anything to lose
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:45 PM
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It’s soooo much better. I don’t want to fuck a garbage bag, I want to fuck a woman
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:12 PM
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Lol. Probably true. These hoes already get addicted to me. Idk if I’m ready to create that kind of Gollum
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:10 PM
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Once you go raw you can’t go back lol. I do it with all of them now as long as they don’t seem like trailer park trash. Probably fucked 30+ women raw in the last 2 years. I’m still negative for everything. I pull out and make sure to blow a load before they come over. I haven’t had any issues
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:58 PM
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They already get that from getting fucked normally by me. They don’t enjoy getting impaled if it’s excruciatingly painful. I’m talking actual tears of pain here
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:55 PM
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Lol I’m actually serious. I’ve fucked a few hundred pussies. 3 women made it a point to beg me for anal and said they were anal queens (yes only about 3 out of 200+) with all 3, I couldn’t get it in without them screaming in pain. I have a fat dick and a real true mushroom head - it’s the fattest part of my dick. Even if I got all 4 fingers in the girls ass it still wouldn’t be as fat as my dick. So it seems impossible for me to do
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:53 PM
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This is gold lol. What if you can’t fit
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:58 PM
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This right here is facts. I’ve nutted in more than I can count on two hands. Ask me how many times I’ve worn a condom. Live a little you’ll be fine
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:56 PM
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Lol excuse me
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:00 PM
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exactly. Its really not hard to read body language. When theyre saying no but letting you take theyre clothes off, moaning and shoving their ass in your face....while weakly protesting "no.....but we cant....." that is HOT. When they are serious about meaning no, they will make it clear. They will be stern, or at worse visibly scared. They definitely won't be rubbing their ass in your face with a wet pussy
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:46 PM
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What makes you think that either kind of sex makes any difference whatsoever? The girl can claim rape whether you were an animal or a gentleman. You can never be certain. What we can be certain of, however, is that women prefer the animal. And the metoo thing is really overblown, haven't you noticed it is always happening to men with power and wealth? Its not happening to Johnny on tinder who choked a bitch till she squirted in his bed
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:38 PM
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Oh that’s nice. Did you scissor with your vaginas at the end? No I’m kidding, of course it exists. I’ve had plenty of that too and it’s great. The sex I’m describing is only sometimes; but it’s usually the hottest sex of all. And I made the mistake of being the “gentleman” when I was younger too many times and missed out
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:59 AM
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imagine literally not having good sex, ever. Do you ask consent before you pull her hair too? Before you change positions? And btw you should know, there are no such thing as girls who play few silly games. The entire sexual process with a woman is one silly game after the other. Make it fun for you and for her.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:53 AM
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this idea is honestly way over blown. I fuck so many girls, and I piss a lot of them off and get blocked ect. I mean a lot. Prob fucked 300 girls in the last 5 years and probably been blocked/told to fuck off by almost half of them. Never once have I had to deal with a potential rape case. Dont be creepy. Creepy is what gets you me tood. Fucking their greatest fantasies into them and then not giving them sufficient attention afterwards until they cut you off but then you still hit them up is not…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:51 AM
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Have you ever met a woman? lol
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:48 AM
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Well that cancels out probably 50% of the hottest sex Ive ever had. Women who Ive remained friends with for 6 years after the fact and still will occasionally hit me up for sex when they are single and horny. I'd say its very worth it. That being said, use common sense. Unless youre a complete autist, you should be able to discern an actual no from a no like I described
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:48 AM
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yeah I had one like that took me forever to get over. Just get more pussy. Do more things. Work out, a lot. Learn to cook. Get into wine. Stay on tinder and keep a stable of plates. Eventually, shell be nothing more than a bad memory, and you'll regret your behavior over her more than you miss her
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:46 AM
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oh yeah, I was referring to a very professional environment but I served tables for years. But at restaurants, at least I can be my larger than life self and if no one else likes it fuck them. My tables like it. And in restaurants everybody constantly is sexually harassing each other, its part of the culture. Ive worked in restaurants where its customary to grab whoever dick/boob you cross paths with in the kitchen. Add in the drugs and you have a real fun time. Ill always miss restaurants
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:44 AM
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trust me, do what I just said and you'll have her dripping. She will swallow your cock and do anything you tell her to do. And she will not press charges on you, ever. The guys who get metood are the creepers, not the guys who actually satisfy these women
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:41 AM
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ahhhh I think im picking up what youre putting down. and yes
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:39 AM
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selfish? I dont understand your thinking here. This was a serious gf of yours im guessing?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:39 AM
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No; I meant that in the context of an LTR. Always know who you are even without her. Keep a part of your life that’s just for you
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:30 PM
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Yeah man take it easy. Trust me I relate. I get real pissed at bitches when they reject me for reasons I don’t understand, especially if I really gave them a good time sexually. But even just texting them “hey how are you” ends up becoming harassment. Like I said, learn to take it in stride and don’t burn the bridge. I’ve been rejected, accepted it, and hit the same woman up 6 months later and fucked her
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:28 PM
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oh. INVEST WISELY. DO NOT TRY BIG RISKS. I lost so much money investing in penny/pink sheet stocks and friends businesses that eventually went no where. I would have a small fortune had I just done mutual funds instead. Be smart, always have a long term strategy. Gambling is for fools.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:46 PM
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One last one - no does not always mean no. Despite what they say. If a girl is saying no, yet is dripping wet, shoving her ass into you, and letting you remove her clothes, she really means yes. Give it to her and give it to her hard. When I was younger I made this "respecting women" mistake and you know where it got me? No second date. She wanted it, and she viewed me as too big of a pussy to give it to her.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:45 PM
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Also, being too open with coworkers in a competitive environment. I am outgoing, fun loving and flirtatious. I worked at a very prestigious job. Being me, I let it all hang out. And yes, a number of the women wanted to fuck me for it. But my male coworkers were envious and they attempted to sabotage me through information I had given them about my past drug use. Use more discretion than I did.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:43 PM
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Oh and do not give your heart to a woman, ever. Even if you like her and you build something with her, be prepared always that she may leave you, and keep a tiny part of yourself for you. When women do reject you, and they will, take it gracefully and dont burn the bridge. Keep their number. 6 months from now they might not reject you. But if you are mean to them or harass them in any way, you will make an ass of yourself to them and they will remember you not for the orgasms you gave them, but …
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:41 PM
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Letting drugs and alcohol be a way to escape my pain. Don't do it. I'm one of the lucky ones, and I haven't used hard drugs in 9 years, but I still struggle with other substances to this day that hold me back in various ways. Ive come to a point where life without a buzz just absolutely sucks, It is honestly a handicap.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:39 PM
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Yes. you feel independent and in control of your life. Bitches automatically respect you more, and are much more willing to come over if there is no chance of running into others. I lived alone one semester in college, and I had so many sorority girls who normally would have nothing to do with me sneaking over since no one would ever know. Also, you can fuck them all over every room in the apartment. Nothing like having them cook you a meal naked, and interrupting them with kitchen sex
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:19 AM
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Thank you, youre the only person who actually provided constructive criticism here.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:12 AM
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thats what im thinking. But is it really emotional investment? I wouldn't say there were any "feelings" involved nor was I ever planning or considering to date this girl. It was a pure sex thing. But there was so much energy and momentum, and for it to just end is beyond disappointing.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:11 AM
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lol thanks for the constructive criticism
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:10 AM
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I tried this today. Invited for a drive. Not crassly, just nonchalantly in an "are you done being mad" type of way. I got blocked. Women man
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:18 AM
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I think the comment back to her was my downfall. She made it abundantly clear that she is not interested in me anymore. How do they go from so hot to so cold so quick man....its crazy
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:51 AM
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Haha maybe it has to be intuitive
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:07 PM
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I DONT have oneitis, trust me. I have 5 girls right now all waiting to go after lockdown. I’m just super sexually attracted to this one. I’m not sure how to balance this comfort tesr
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:07 PM
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I feel like clearly she is monitoring me to see if I will delete the insta page. I absolutely do not want to do that. But I also absolutely want to fuck this girl. I was on over 50 days of no female contact due to this stupid virus....I am ready to fuck like an 16 year old on trenbolone. I want my cake and eat it too, and that is what I'm looking for advice about
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:16 AM
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Update....still not going well. She still hasn't blocked me on anything else, but she never responded to those cringe texts that I sent her. Extra butthurt because shes been my quarantine go-to when up late masturbating the past week. Also, Ive had like 8 of you dm me about these massages....should I like do a webinar or something? lol
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:13 AM
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Oh well yeah, obviously
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:20 PM
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And yeah sure dm me
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:58 PM
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Lol. If you learn to massage a girl like that, she’ll never leave you alone. I have plates that have been on and off for 6 years now
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:58 PM
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Haha I do. Although 95% of the time it leads to fucking
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:50 PM
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I don’t understand what you mean exactly
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:50 PM
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Yeah. Do you think I should just pretend like nothings wrong, and try to get her out for a drive?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:49 PM
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Yeah it was a little cringe wasn’t it. The private massages are on hold rn cause of quarantine. I’m staying with family atm
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:48 PM
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She wouldn’t do the car sex though, I tried. Too worried about “privacy”. She wanted my house or a room. My house is a no rn; and I don’t trust rooms with covid going on
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:16 PM
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Lmao. This made me laugh. Probably would work too
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:14 PM
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I wanted to at 16, but I didn’t actually start spinning plates until I was 25
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:44 PM
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This was a great read, you are right on the money
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:49 PM
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do you think women are better behaved in the black community
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:45 PM
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Yeah youre right, I shouldn't have called it black culture. Its ghetto culture, definitely a difference. But yes, the black rappers do have a massive effect. Along with reality TV and all that shit. But to me, when you watch that, it seems like ghetto culture coming to white people
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:25 PM
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Theres larger societal forces at play here. Its not your fault. It was sold to them
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:23 PM
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I usually focus on 2, maybe 3 of them. The rest I ignore, disappear on, don't put any energy in but go fuck on a night when my main girls aren't available. A lot of them will move on eventually but a lot will stay in this status for years in between boyfriends ect. 7 on the go is definitely a lot to handle
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:03 PM
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Yeah man, whenever I have sex for like 24 hours after that women respond more positively to me. When I'm having sex with multiple girls a week, the effect is amplified. When its been awhile, I dont get the same reaction. There has to be some science there.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:01 PM
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Goddamn what a great post. Getting into top 20% really isn't that hard to do. And once you're there if you have game you'll get laid like crazy
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:55 PM
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My mother was like that as well, and it was very common where I grew up, which is an affluent town. Parents smoking weed with the kids was commonplace, and allowing alcohol was pretty much standard. My generation (I'm 31) is still somewhatttt ok in spite of this, but just a few years below me the trouble really starts. And feminism is the RP for women. They believe all of this shit is empowering them. They really do. They dont see that it moves them in a negative direction, and at this point why…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:49 PM
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lol, ive fucked a lot of Russian/slavic women on tinder and believe me, those chicks get around
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:45 PM
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Yeah its not just the women, its everyone. Have you ever spent time with older women? Even single ladies in their 30s/40s - while usually having their own issues - are leagues above the women you've described. I'm so sick of seeing it, they are absolutely insufferable. But, they also have a severe shortage of real men to guide them
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:44 PM
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Lol it’s worked for me a lot in the past
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:29 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:27 PM
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No?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:26 PM
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Lol that’s true
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:26 PM
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Also I have the problem of getting lost in youtube/reddit....and with quarantine that habit has come back full force. Not looking forward to breaking it lol. But you just have to be aware and not really allow yourself on those platforms until your responsibilities are done for the day. Then you can watch YouTube guilt free at night when your relaxing, on the nights you dont have a girl over
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:26 PM
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yeah occasionally you need to indulge yourself and let loose a little. But I second the little steps at a time. And with the gym....if youre too tired (sometimes thats legit) you might not need to do a full workout. Listen to your body. On days like that, still go, but maybe just do some light cardio or something. Keeps you in the routine. Overtraining is counter-productive
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:24 PM
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Man, I love that dynamic too. I love the ones who hate you, and admit they hate you, but one touch from you makes them melt. I love making them go from angry to horny
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:42 AM
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Fuck yes dude. This is what I keep saying to all these "I dont care about sex" threads. The entire game is an absolute thrill, an addiction even, but one that takes you on so many adventures. And yeah, after I fuck a girl 2 or 3 times, I have a hard time not being bored. With some rare exceptions, I tend to keep them around for awhile.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:41 AM
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lol wut of course they do
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:21 PM
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life is dull with no women in it
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:00 PM
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You probably could have smashed on your birthday. She just needed some reassurance lol. Proceed to sexting and fuck her after quarantine
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:43 PM
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There are an abundance of these threads lately. I’m not buying it. Sex is one of, if not the most powerful drives in human existence. If you aren’t fucking, you arent living. You’re all lying to yourselves
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:06 PM
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Its not that serious, women rarely drain me of my energy like that. I enjoy it just as much as they do. Flirting is fun
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:02 PM
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I dont understand men who don't enjoy the game. Yes women are brats/shallow/immature but they really are a lot of fun. The chase is just as good (if not better) than the catch, and I love chilling with my hoes. It sounds like you're mad that they aren't men with vaginas
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:05 PM
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Inspirational lol
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:13 AM
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lol yeah talking to women is only enjoyable because of the sexual tension......now I find myself not answering my matches at all
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:22 PM
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lol I've been seeing lots of "quarantine" thotposts. Bitches feeds are getting hilarious. I keep getting matches on tinder, but they're way more uptight than usual, I keep getting unmatched. We've got weeks ahead of us too. Idk about the bad decisions though, im sure some of the real trash bag hoes will go cock crazy but I think a lot of people are going to be nervous and prudish....this is going to cause a lot of cultural trauma. I know I wouldn't hook up with any hoes right now
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:28 PM
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Is it though? Because we are meant to ejaculate. If you go long enough you eventually will in your sleep. But yeah longest I did was 2 weeks, it was a Seinfeld esque bet between friends. We lived at the beach in the summer time too. Was fucking rough
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:37 PM
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Sex. Nofap for a week or two would be a challenge, requiring me to care
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:05 PM
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I have a pretty hard rule against relationships. I don’t plan on being in one any time in the near future. Women know they are all of the traits described above, and they will actually respect a man who sees their true nature through the princess unicorn myth. They also enjoy being teased. Don’t be outright mean about it, but gently rib her and accuse her of being these things in a playful way. Develop a roster essentially just means spin plates. I have some women who I’ve been fucking on and of…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:31 PM
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eh I never really liked to fuck on coke....always felt like id have a heart attack. Crystal meth on the other hand....WOW. Just can't do it that often. But once a year or so I like to have a weekend tweaker sex binge with an adventurous plate. Unfathomable glory
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:01 PM
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I like drugs and unprotected sex. If you haven't taken caps of GHB with a lady friend and had 6 hours of primal raw animalistic sex you haven't lived yet
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:02 PM
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This is really well put. Emotional closeness and spiritual intimacy is reserved for close friends or family. With women I am at my most caveman....and its a great time.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:28 PM
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This. Every time. They will use that shit as a weapon in every argument going forward.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:16 PM
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Take relationships off the table. Gently tease them about all of those traits you mentioned. Develop a roster
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:14 PM
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Testosterone. Idk how so many of you don't like sex. When I make eye contact/talk to hot girls, I get an adrenaline rush. The whole process from there is a high and an adventure. The sex is the cherry on top. Ive gone through a week or two here and there where I didn't care, but its always broken when a new target comes in my perimeter.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:12 PM
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Not at all. Imagine giving up that much of your independence....how many of these hoes do you think are worth it?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:08 PM
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Plus if you fuck the way I do, it’s like a second workout
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:19 PM
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I can always find some time for sex. Maybe not every day, but I only need an hour or two
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:17 PM
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Its a range. There are a few 6's in there, lots of 7s and 8s, and a good handful of 9s and up. Quality of sex ranges as well of course, although I'm pretty good at bringing the best out of them.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:57 PM
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I'm pretty insatiable, my count is well over 200. The desire is just now starting to subside, although I'm also just getting older. For me it has nothing to do with ego, I just have a very high sex drive.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:37 PM
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wow, your parents sound like mine. Kicking you out during a pandemic is pretty unforgivable. At least you have 25 grand, that puts you in a pretty good position. Pretty soon you won't need them at all
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:01 PM
1

No, it makes it look like you came to the conclusion on your own regardless of why she canceled. She gave no indication of why she did. Really you guys think way too much about some things
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:54 PM
9

Are you that desperate that you were going to meet during the pandemic? She probably is just practicing social distancing. Tell her "yeah we probably should wait until all this is over" - and then stay inside and don't try to make any more plans.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:40 PM
2

No one should be meeting up right now. Ive barely looked at my apps, a couple girls have matched with and messaged me, and I have been putting approximately zero energy into the conversations. Everyone will have lots of sex when this is over. Until then, stay inside
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:37 PM
1

This may go against the grain here, but I would give her a real sincere compliment about her body. Really talk it up. If you think she's hot, it should be easy to do. In my experience, this is the one area where it actually is good to pour on the compliments. Just make sure they are purely sexual/about her physically. It really turns women on to know how much they turn you on.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:31 PM
1

I guess im just in a nostalgic mood. Usually my winter harem is a lot hotter than what I have right now.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:32 AM
1

calm down, sir. What I meant was that I was deceived by the angles prior to a meetup. Once said meetup occurred, of course I was complicit in sticking my dick in those 4's. Gotta take some for the team
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:50 PM
1

I can see how that could happen. I just have difficulty using substances responsibly. How do you use it?
/r/seduction27/12/19 11:09 PM
3

No. I only used phenibut for one week of my life. Had 3 that week. I also used GHB for about 2 months....and those were some very enhanced lays let me tell you
/r/seduction27/12/19 10:14 PM
0

I wonder how one would get into such a thing
/r/seduction27/12/19 09:53 PM
1

It’s too late it’s all gone....the good stuff was in the comments
/r/seduction27/12/19 09:51 PM
1

It was fire. I was surprised at how good I was doing. I almost want to start a business now helping men out or something
/r/seduction27/12/19 08:18 PM
-1

uh....sorry mate not me
/r/seduction27/12/19 06:45 PM
0

or if the mods grant me permission to do it here.... It really was a great Ama. A few women complained and so the mods cited the "no permission" rule and deleted the whole thing
/r/seduction27/12/19 06:36 PM
1

maybe I'll do another one somewhere else
/r/seduction27/12/19 06:34 PM
1

why would I buy followers?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:58 AM
6

I did it. I had an LTR and fucked numerous women on the side. Snuck around like a drug addict. Don't do it, not even once. I said it would be once, but then you've normalized the behavior. Then you realize you can do it again. I never truly got caught by her, although she was torn apart by suspicion. The LTR ended when she cheated on me, and coward that I was - I absolutely crumbled and cursed her. I learned to never do that again. I will not be in another LTR unless its for children. Because no…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:31 AM
0

Then stop acting like a boomer
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:06 AM
1

Stfu boomer
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:01 AM
1

Idk man I’m 30 and I’m practically the only person I know in my age group who doesn’t have one
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:52 AM
1

I think I phrased my post incorrectly. Explaining to women that I dont have an insta has never been an issue. I just want to join the world of instagram, I think it's time. And I want to do it in the chadliest way I can, and not look like an idiot
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:27 AM
2

You right, there was a smattering of 4-6s in there. Usually by accident; where the pics were deceiving. It kind of was a bell curve....said smattering of 4-6s, but also a decent handful of 9-10s. The majority somewhere in between. And I have no problems with that.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:51 PM
1

Lol I’m not trying to lie about where I am. I just want to get all of this stuff up in a natural way that won’t be annoying and encourage people to actually see them
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:05 PM
3

Persistence, directness, not being ashamed. Also run tinder boosts and get good at turning them on through messages. Always give your best performance in the bedroom. When you consistently blow women’s worlds apart in bed; you will develop a confidence and sexuality that people seem to sense about you.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:18 PM
4

Did have chlamydia twice actually....but you just take a pill and it’s gone
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:31 PM
2

This is such an important piece of wisdom. I always have a few plates, but their quality directly correlates to how the rest of my life is going. Ive experienced several highs and lows over the past few years. Often times I find myself longing for the high quality plates of an era gone by but I realize now that I really am longing for the way my life felt in general during that time. Currently coming out of a low period (physically, financially and mentally) and on the upswing. Can't wait for wh…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:47 PM
1

does tagging work the same way as facebook? will other people tag me in photos?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:42 PM
1

yeah I wasn't really planning on it....I just wanted to finally join the party and not look like an ass doing it lol
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:36 PM
4

I thought I was over the rage phase long before I actually was.....I think only now, after being red pill aware for 3-4 years am I actually in acceptance of the way things are. And I feel just like you do. My friends who have girlfriends....I pity them. When they come to me with girl issues it just seems so silly to me. When I find out that a girl I want to fuck has a boyfriend, I just view it as a slight annoyance...that ill probably just have to wait until it inevitably ends to fuck her. Worst…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:02 PM
1

I meant it more in the way that you did it. I've actually done it off of fb messenger before, which is the holy grail of no-nos.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:18 PM
1

So I do interesting shit fairly often....in fact this whole idea was spawned by me wishing I had documented my holidays this year. Is that what you mean by an interesting profile? Documenting the places I go/things I do/people I do them with?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:07 PM
1

that sounds like a solid plan
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:36 PM
1

im 30 lol
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:33 PM
2

Id like to do all of that stuff as well. Im the only guy with a photography hobby and no instagram lol
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:16 PM
0

at that rate it will take me years lol
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:15 PM
1

There are many other reasons too. I have a lot of family and friends that aren’t on fb. I miss certain things in my social circle that are posted on insta. I’d just like to have a presence there. So the best thing to do is follow everyone first and then post only one pic per week around?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:11 PM
1

how does one even get followers? Is it just like facebook? I created an empty account and I have 10 followers now. A few of my friends I guess who saw that I made it.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:07 PM
0

Cool thanks. Could I post a few at a time? Or should I go one by one. Also....should I do this on Thursdays and use the #tbt?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:46 PM
7

some of you virgins on this sub are really irritating. I DO MEET GIRLS IN REAL LIFE this question was about making an instagram
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:45 PM
1

Yes, photos will have to become a much larger part of my life. I've never been a selfie guy but I'll throw a few up on tinder. Too embarrassed to post them for my friends though. Idk something about them never sat right with me. Yes as far as the old photos I was thinking of uploading blocks at a time with the same tag indicating the place and year (#Madrid2015) or something along those lines. A lot of them are just photos of cathedrals and whatnot, Ive just never shared them
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:36 PM
1

but instagram is so standard at this point. Its not just to DM chicks, I just want a profile attractive enough that I could do that. But I also just want to finally take the plunge
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:21 PM
0

That was my experience. Essentially, I believe my mind is always doing this as background noise, hence why I noticed it during meditation. And where did I mention calling it quits or having a panic attack? You just directly quoted me and I see no mention of either
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:04 AM
0

Never did I say I had a panic attack. Nor did I say I was calling it quits. Reread my post without making your own inferences, and then comment if you have something constructive to say.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:51 AM
6

God bless you Paddy, and Merry Christmas
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:01 AM
1

How do I fix the shadowban?
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:27 PM
1

I mean Ive made my profile over 3 times in like 7 years....this one I made in August and it was fine up until a few weeks ago
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:25 PM
2

What do you mean by resets? Also, I still do get the very occasional match, and I can still message all of my matches. Can that happen if I'm shadow banned?
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:22 PM
3

somethings happened to mine recently. I used to run a boost in the city and was guaranteed 20 or so matches. All of a sudden now I'll barely get one. My profile hasn't changed
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:14 PM
6

Just got blocked by a girl after we made plans for a date. I texted her to let her know what time I was going to be there and it wouldn't go through. Sure enough, blocked. Looking back, I was running lazy ass game on her anyway. But still, it sucks. It sucks when you've been lusting after a girl and then that dopamine rush abruptly stops
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:51 PM
-1

I eat out tinder sluts on the reg. Assholes too a lot of the time. I suck their toes. Barely even wear condoms. Everything can give you cancer. I want to enjoy my life
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:25 PM
1

I had a similar situation a few years back. Girl wasn't a virgin, but had only been with one and it was a committed long term relationship. Told me that this was the first time she was doing something like this since the breakup. Picked her up and brought her to my house. Naked on my bed within 30 mins. I gave her a full body massage with oil and fingered and ate her pussy, she came about 3 times. And stopped me from fucking. One week later she came over again and THE SAME THING HAPPENED. At tha…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:18 PM
5

I actually have very similar game, and it works well for me too. I also look at them like I want to ravish them then entire time. Break eye contact just to check them out. I've fucked on many, many a first date this way
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:02 PM
1

Right I get it, trying to understand why she didn’t deem me worthy of locking down
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:01 PM
1

most likely
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:21 PM
1

ok, obviously I saw that. That is why I expected some comfort tests out of her instead of the abrupt ending. It seemed jarring and out of place. I didn't fan the relationship flames, but I also didn't do anything wrong either....
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:09 AM
1

I guess I was expecting to get a few obvious comfort tests, and I found it a little bit jarring when it just went straight to her ending things. I’m wondering if this is a bad strategy
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:24 AM
1

Ok
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:23 AM
1

Ok, I should have clarified that I of course realized this is what she wanted. This is why I had her under consideration. I didn’t do much to fan the flames, I tried to play it cool and move things very slowly. What I’m trying to understand is what I did to deter her
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:55 AM
1

Who said I thought anything about what else she did? You people love to scold anyone who posts here as if the only reason someone would ever make a post here is from a lack of acceptance. I have acceptance, I’m not sweating it, I never assumed anything about what she was doing when not with me. It doesn’t mean I can’t try to understand what I could do to have things go any other way next time
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:23 AM
1

No, I’m sorry but I’m simply not. I haven’t invested anything other than a few nights with this girl. Barely even have a text history with her. Just because I would like to know why this happens does not mean that I was heavily invested. I’m tired of this sub always saying that to every post
/r/askTRP06/12/19 11:41 PM
1

Why can’t one try to self reflect even if they have more plates?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 11:26 PM
1

Believe me; I have no reason to lie to the internet. I asked her the same thing. I said “I treated you casually because you said you wanted something casual” to which she responded, as I wrote, that it was what she wanted but now is looking for something more, and that she does not have those feelings for me
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:39 PM
1

Seeing her twice a week which entailed sex, tv and food. Between hangouts we wouldn’t even text. It was the exact opposite of clingy, from both ends.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:20 PM
4

Not particularly, but I did think she was nicer than the usual thots who show up at my door. I had her under consideration.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:48 PM
2

Say it is the first scenario....what could it be about me that would make her think she couldn't have a relationship with me?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:44 PM
1

lol, I feel the same way
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:27 AM
1

lol, this is true
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:38 PM
1

honestly, I have no problem working out around girls who rejected me. Who cares. Its kind of small towny where I currently live, its very common for people to have situations like that here.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:15 AM
3

the girls in my gym are just too hot man
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:16 PM
4

sharing a bottle of red wine with the girl is the best move. Pinot noir or cab
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:10 PM
4

This has happened to me, its an anxiety thing. Work on your anxiety, or take a medication if you have to. For me, I started having a few drinks before sex. (Not a lot, like 2 or 3) After a couple times doing that, I never needed the drinks again. Also girls find it very pleasurable when you control them. By all means keep doing that.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:06 PM
1

are you in NYC
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:19 PM
1

lol the funny thing is, that is a 100% accurate description of my life. Its really not perfect, and the fact that you think it sounds "sick" shows just how weak your lifestyle really is
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:52 PM
0

the fact that this is making people angry is confirming what I thought. most people here are all theory, no application
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:20 AM
1

maybe not, but I said I'm still in a flawed place. I'm curious to see where others are
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:19 AM
1

not a brag, I have serious issues to still work on. I figured everyone on here must be getting as much or more pussy than me with the advice that they give
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:19 AM
1

yes, I was thinking something direct like that might work well in this situation. Can't hurt to try
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:38 PM
1

Have other girls
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:23 PM
1

idk if its because so many guys come here because they are pining after someone or what, but I feel like the advice I'm getting does not match the issue. I thought about this girl yesterday for the first time in quite awhile. Aside from 3 texts over a very long period, I have not fished for her; she certainly isn't paying attention to me, nor am I paying much attention to her. I merely would enjoy reinitiating a sexual relationship with this girl now that I live nearer to her, and was wondering …
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:21 PM
1

Yeah I understand this concept. I have no problem buying all kinds of delicious alternatives. But I do miss that old brand of pb they used to have. I’ve sampled about 200 brands and I’d put that in the top 3 or 4
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:52 PM
0

Now that I think about it, she did have some issues with me. I smoked at the time, she hated it. She’s a fitness junkie, I was out of shape. I remember getting the feeling that she was mad at herself for enjoying sex with me. As far as emulating the experience, no doubt I will, and have since. The reason I bring it up is that I’d put her in top 3 fucks of my life, and it’s annoying knowing she’s single and close by.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:05 PM
0

Yeah I’ve been thinking that too....I wouldn’t say I acted needy, but perhaps she took it as pestering. It’s just confusing, as it seems like such a minor crime in relation to the monumental porn sex we had. But I guess that is the nature of women
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:59 PM
-1

This post has become a waste of my time
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:25 PM
-1

Its a situation. Curious about TRP opinion on the matter. Lust does not equal oneitis. Id rather be a drug addicted thot than a sidebar quoting virgin.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:18 PM
-1

lol....shes not "this one girl"....you know if you do just a little less reading you might actually get some pussy....
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:02 PM
0

I understand this rule, however in my experience I have rekindled with women before.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:00 PM
0

I’ve fucked about 35 other women since I last saw her lol. Sometimes I feel like people here don’t actually practice what you preach. I am currently sleeping with 3 women, talking to about 6. Maybe I just would like to fuck this particular girl again. No, I have no feelings for her. No, she’s not a unicorn. The sex is just really great
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:20 PM
0

If only you could see the texts of her raving about it and demanding that I come back as soon as possible. This girl would be reduced to a quivering sopping wet mess by the end of it. There were some strange emotional problems though...she went to a therapist a lot. One time I asked her if she wanted to get a drink and she said “that’s not our relationship”
/r/askTRP19/10/19 12:24 PM
1

I have a feeling that’s what’s going on too. Just hoping transportation works out
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:15 AM
1

Well to update - I responded by saying "im not angry, and why are you assuming we will be hooking up? Haven't you been planning to come here for awhile?" to which she responded "I know, Im going to figure out a way"
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:38 PM
1

I didn't say I haven't....I like this one a lot and she is an ex plate because she moved.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:36 PM
7

I believe you
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:40 AM
1

I am a man who does well with women. I have 3-4 women I can call up at any given time, and its been like this for me the majority of the past 5 years. I have to admit that I can relate to and appreciate some incel ideas about women. To be successful with women I had to become somewhat of a monster, but the hoes made me that way. The more women I fuck, the more I develop a general disdain for the female population. And ironically, this only makes them want me more.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:03 AM
-1

It’s not against any terms....but it just pisses me off. I think it’s rude and grimey and disrespectful...is it not?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:59 PM
1

Agree 100%. But unfortunately many people are sensitive. I’m not worried I offended her in a snowflake kind of way. I think I actually hurt her feelings
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:35 PM
1

Initially when I found out what she did I immediately assumed she was just trying to scam me, and I gave a somewhat disgusted response. The only reason I'm thinking this maybe wasn't the case was that she got all sad and had her head down the rest of the time she was in there after my response. She also clearly didn't want to tell me what she did, she tried to dance around it and it took me asking several times. She is very young, maybe 19.
/r/seduction23/08/19 05:05 AM
3

If taken long term, speed also can seriously down-regulate your dopamine receptors, and possibly lead to Parkinson’s. Drugs are a cheat code for life, but you’ll always pay a price in the end. Better to just improve yourself naturally.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:04 PM
2

I mean if it’s prescribed and helps you that’s one thing. I was snorting adderal and smoking meth, staying up for days at a time and fucking tons of women. By the end of a run I’d be hallucinating and delirious. Nasty stuff.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:02 PM
4

GHB is great but very dangerous, and I would avoid it if you have an addictive personality (sounds like you do). When I first used it I thought it was a magical substance and seemed pretty harmless, but once I had a supply of it I was dosing all day every day. At that point it fucks with your sleep, I didn’t get a good nights sleep for 2 months. Stopped going to the gym because of that. Never mind the car accidents, the waking up in weird places in your house, face planting into your food.... Sp…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:43 PM
2

That depression will come and go, although much less often as time goes on. I had 3 years at one point; and around 6 months is when I really started feeling good again. By 18 months life was better than I could have imagined. That feeling would still come on very rare occasions, and one time after making a lot of life changes it took me back out
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:26 PM
6

I’m 30 years old and 27 days clean. Had 3 years previously, been drinking and using again the past 3 years. In my youth I had a major opioid problem. This time around it was uppers and gabaergics. I have avoided sex this past 27 days. I was using speed and GHB, both of which took sex to another dimension. I’m a bit nervous now about doing it sober. I’ve never made it past 3 years, how does it feel at 7? Do you have any reservations?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:24 PM
1

I mean that is possible in maybe a year or so. Not until then. And that all sounds great accept tbh I really don’t want her fucking other guys
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:53 AM
1

So how would you handle this situation
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:35 AM
1

So what then? Just do my original plan and do whatever I want?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:34 AM
2

How’s that
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:38 PM
1

Yeah...I think it’s about that time
/r/askTRP18/06/19 08:46 PM
32

HSV 1 - I have that shit. I only had one single cold sore in my entire life. When I take STD tests, the doctors don’t even mention in. When I asked why, I was told that it’s so common that I shouldn’t even worry about it. I literally don’t even remember I have it, let alone tell anyone else unless it comes up.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:34 AM
1

I know it is. It just still stings every time. They are horrible creatures
/r/askTRP01/05/19 02:27 AM
2

I usually just am very open about sex. I'll ask for details and am genuinely curious because I want to know what turns them on. I'll share some of my own stories too. I also love laughing with them about guys in their pasts who were not good in bed. Like everything with women, don't take it too seriously and be playful.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:26 AM
1

I mean, I fully agree. But I mean....being condescending about my hurting myself isn't a kick in the nads thats just being a dick. I thought I had a kidney stone and was in so much pain I went to the ER. Was out of work for 2 days. I didnt hurt my vagene nor had a booboo. I have since learned that the girl's bender started pretty much right after she left church after seeing the bumble notification....so it explains why she was nagging me to come over and wasn't willing to come to my house.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:57 AM
1

this was a great read
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:29 AM
1

I mean I can't see any other reason why you would leave these comments. The first one was constructive but after that you just trolled.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:54 AM
1

ok
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:15 PM
1

In what case would it be acceptable? And I'm not planning to stay with her at this point. Sometime way down the road if she really makes a proper amends with me, I may consider it.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:14 PM
1

Thats exactly what I told her.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:44 AM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:43 AM
2

Oh yeah. And she is in absolute shambles
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:41 AM
1

Looking back, I see that. I didnt want her to see the notification, it was an accident. I just checked the time and it happened to be there. And trust me, I didn't elaborate on the pulling but there was plenty of that as well. Even if she knew I might be sleeping with other girls, there is no way she couldn't have known she was my favorite. We used to talk about getting married and shit lol
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:41 AM
1

Thank you. Its going to be hard to do. She has been texting me absolutely broken all day
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:13 PM
1

This is a good answer, thank you
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:11 PM
1

That is exactly how I play it. And she failed in the most spectacular fashion
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:10 PM
1

Its not about the fucking. Its about the lies and manipulation
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:07 PM
1

Youre probably right about subconsciously investing too much. Her SMV is way above mine and she did genuine good girl LTR things. Told me she loved me. Sex was stellar. Perhaps it got to me a little. But my anger is also on a macro level....its like....I just wish there was one single honorable woman in this world. And if there isn't.....do I just have to settle for a woman who will act this way if provoked? I mean if AWALT is true....its really either that or MGTOW
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:38 PM
1

I loled at that....you really would think women would have evolved passed that by now
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:35 PM
1

I didnt expect LTR behaviors, I just noticed more and more. I absolutely maintained her as a plate the whole time, I never was exclusive with her. I have 4 other plates that I spin and try to see on a weekly basis. ​ Disappointment isn't the word. Its just a flat out anger. Not because of the sex, because of her lies and manipulation. I have no idea how to maintain the plate at this point, I will never look at her the same again.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:25 PM
1

of course and she knew that the whole time. As did I.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:22 PM
0

youre a troll dude....all you do is lurk here and talk shit to men. You probably have never even been inside a vagina in your life.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:15 PM
1

Exactly. Women are truly scary creatures. Its just not possible to emotionally invest in 2019
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:45 PM
1

But heres the thing.....knowing AWALT....is it acceptable sometimes to forgive them when you've broken their hamster? If AWALT is really true....wouldnt it be too much to expect a woman NOT to act like that? Is forgiveness ever an option for these kinds of scenarios?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:33 PM
0

God does anyone understand hyperbole anymore?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:31 PM
0

men who don't hit women aren't real men lol
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:30 PM
1

It's rutgers newark and its the med school
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:15 PM
1

Thank you. At least someone here gets it. Everyone seems to think I'm mad at her for fucking someone. I'm not
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:13 PM
2

Not upset she slept with someone. Upset about her lying and manipulation
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:11 PM
-1

Missing the whole point of the text. I was vetting her for an LTR. I'm not mad that she slept with another guy. She had every right to do so given our arrangement. I'm mad about the lies and manipulation
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:11 PM
1

That was hyperbole. Im very angry at her. I'm so angry in fact that I don't even feel like hitting up my other plates
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:28 PM
-1

yeah ok lol
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:27 PM
-2

I think youre missing a lot of the story
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:27 PM
-1

I want to get her in bed and beat the fuck out of her. And leave her laying there crying
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:09 PM
1

I don't think I could ever get over this. She proved to me what she really is. As much as I'd love to keep her as a plate and just hate fuck her - I dont think I could even fuck her after her behavior
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:09 PM
2

It's a real shame. I've yet to ever meet an honorable woman in my life.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:47 PM
2

if you read it, I was heavily considering and moving toward making her an LTR. I'm not mad that she fucked someone, that wouldnt be fair of me considering that we never defined the relationship, and I was doing it too. I'm mad about the lying, deceit and the games. Im mad that she spited me on a day when I was injured at home. I'm mad that she called me from this guys house. I'm mad that she texted me all morning begging me to forgive her literally while she was being dicked down
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:44 PM
1

Thats exactly how I think. One second I want to give her a chance, with all the weight of everything you just said. Yes the sex is amazing, and so is our relationship usually. But then as you just did I think about exactly how devious the lying was. And after that I don't even know if I could fuck her the same way
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:01 AM
1

I guess I'm looking for feedback on how to proceed
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:57 AM
0

Agree 100%
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:56 AM
1

I'm wondering now if I should give her a chance. Is it unreasonable to expect better from an LTR even if I know AWALT?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:44 AM
0

I do not believe in not hitting a woman. I'll smack a bitch if she deserves it and not feel the least bit bad about it
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:43 AM
1

So should I give her another chance? Should I be sympathetic to the hamster that I broke? And lol yeah smacking her felt great
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:41 AM
1

I wish. Its too early to tell really. But I did text her and tell her what a whore she is
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:32 AM
2

Its completely different. If she had just fucked another guy, thats one thing. Its the lying and deceit and spitefulness that bother me. And also, I disagree. Sometimes thots need a little discipline
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:29 AM
1

This is true. Unfortunately its just not something I can look past in this situation
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:28 AM
1

yeah....but to literally do it while texting me and saying she wasn't? Thats not emotional, thats just twisted. Plus she never asked if she could come to me, she just kept demanding I drive to her when she literally knew I missed work cause I was injured
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:25 AM
1

the only reason im considering TRT by 40 is that we all have so much less testosterone than previous generations to begin with.....our natural decline is going to be much more detrimental
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:29 PM
1

im about to be 31 and still waiting for that to happen to me.....i bet it is nice
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:27 PM
1

My mindset did right around 29. Started looking to settle down and began to act accordingly. Unfortunately, for me this entailed an overlap with some old blue habits. Then I learned all over again that AWALT, and ive been running through hoes again ever since :)
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:25 PM
2

wow I am going through this EXACTLY The one area I have completely failed at implementing TRP is with my family. Even when the women jump down my throat (my mom and sister constantly do), I engage them back. My dad has the exact same issue, and it hurts to see.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:17 PM
3

This is one of my favorite things I've ever read
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:12 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:05 PM
1

Maybe youre just giving really good dick. This happens to me a lot. I never tell them that I am committing and wait until they say something. When they do, I just tell them I enjoy hanging out with them and ask if they are trying to define the relationship. Usually at that point they will kind of back off, because that puts too much pressure on them. I don't feel like a dick because I genuinely enjoy each one of them, not just sexually, but as people.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:03 PM
2

AWALT
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:49 PM
2

I find that once they are in love with you its very effective to actually occasionally throw them a tiny peek inside. Something that really bothers you. But don't harp. Move on. Really gets them going
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:43 PM
9

what do you mean why do you have a lizard brain attraction? You say she's hot AF and you have great sexual chemistry. Thats an obvious answer. Its really up to you what you want to do. I would just keep fucking her as long as I could. Don't go beta, I've found that if I act that way with one plate it effects my relationship with all of them negatively. She probably has someone else she's more interested in on an emotional level. But if the sex is really that good, shell always come back to you i…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:33 AM
1

I mean it was a tease based off of a prior conversation - was just surprised by the response.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:01 AM
1

Never said I jealously asked her, she somewhat volunteered the information to me. Not surprised one bit that girls fuck other guys than me. Reread what I said. You've missed the entire point of this post, or maybe I didn't make it clear enough.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:25 PM
1

Yeah...not going to lie that was a thought when I was driving home. Just "what am I even doing here, is fucking this many bitches really adding anything to my life?" And yes, that sociological phenomenon is perhaps why I am disgusted. In my mind, this girl should have waited for sunday. I've been getting her turned on all week, and for her to go blow that on some average dude is honestly offensive to me. It also seems contradictory to female nature, as you just alluded to. This is the kind of di…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:39 PM
1

Oh, in that case then I agree with what youre saying. My bad.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:35 PM
0

The amount of hate I have gotten for the post is somewhat funny to me. I think there are a lot of guys on here who are jealous. I do not care that a tinder hoe went on a date with another dude. I've never even met her. This post was about me being conflicted about women being sluts even though my morality allows me to behave that way. The fact that this girl went out and fucked another guy turned me off, and I wanted to get a discussion about it. You don't need to throw the sidebar at me, I unde…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:33 PM
1

I didn't really think about that. I just assume these girls are all hoes. Maybe it was a revenge thing
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:58 AM
2

Exactly...I dont know if I even want to pursue anymore. But is that fair? Tbh I've always been a natural but whats really taken it to the next level for me recently is taking a small amount of GHB before sex. Shit turns you into an animal
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:57 AM
-2

I mean yeah a little bit. I wouldn't say I'm posting here for "validation" though, just wanted some thoughts
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:56 AM
-1

Really? You here on askTRP are disgusted with me for having multiple partners? Is that a joke?
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:49 AM
1

haha I've had similar results. They really love it when they know you haven't cum since the last time they saw you. I used to get so horny when nofapping that just getting texts from a plate would get my dick leaking. I would tell them this and they loved it
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:08 PM
1

I never said it is....but youre bound to come across a crier eventually
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:44 AM
6

If you never made a woman cry after sex you aren't doing it right. Sex is a much more emotional experience for women and she probably just has very strong feelings for you. Have you ever teared up from joy? That is what is happening to her.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:31 PM
3

Jesus some of the posts here are cringe. And so are some of the answers here. Sex often does make women sore the next day. It just means you're hitting it right. Different people like different amounts of sex. Sounds like 4-5 days in a row is causing her some discomfort in her day to day life. Listen to her.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:28 PM
1

oh yeah..duh. I know I googled it and watched the preview and I am def going to watch it
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:17 PM
1

I feel like all women have some degree of HPD
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:31 PM
2

Long term plate - I like that. LTP. I actually have a number of these. Plates who I have been seeing for 3-5 years. They'll sometimes get in relationships but when its over they come back to me.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:42 AM
1

Yeah she had match day a week or two ago. She already knew where she was going though.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:40 AM
1

This is true. It's a shame though because she actually would be great GF material if she wasn't moving. And maybe thats why I have a little bit of a soft spot for her
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:55 AM
1

She's gonna get really hurt I think. Idk. This one really goes out of her way to show me how much she is not being a thot and is being loyal to me. Even while she knows I see other girls. Her exact words were "I know I'm moving in June...but until I do...I'm yours" She doesn't really seem to want to/be able to pump the brakes on her feelings at all either
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:50 AM
1

I just looked up what movie this is from and now I have to watch it
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:48 AM
1

Yeah I kind of regretted it after I said the thought it was just sex thing. 100% agree if a girl said that to me I wouldn't feel comfortable with it. The two days is real shit, I was planning on going to her house this morning but I had extenuating circumstances that not only kept me up all night, but also cut deeply into my morning.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:48 AM
1

if she is your girlfriend why are you worried about it? This is how I fuck most girls tbh...nothing wrong with throwing a girl on the bed and railing her. That is in fact how women enjoy being fucked. Unless she's screaming no and your being violent anyway you are not raping her. Nothing to overthink here.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:02 AM
2

Bro, do not even worry about it. I wasted my life until I was 24. In a much more severe way. I literally was a heroin addict who spent 19-24 in and out of rehabs, off and on homeless, and several stints in jail. I now have felonies on my record. When I was 24, I got my shit together. I moved away, into a sober living house, met a bunch of guys. I started working as a bus boy and graduated to server making 800 a week. I lifted, I had fun, I got pussy, bought a car, put myself through college. All…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:59 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:23 PM
1

Had G sex three times this week. Usually mix with a little adderal to add a kick. Its been a good week lol
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:29 PM
1

I dont really use it anymore though. Ive found the ultimate sex drugs to be crystal and GHB. GHB has a bad stigma because its claimed to be a "date rape drug". But once I explain what it really is to girls they are usually willing to take it with me. About 20 mins after dosing you get that molly type feeling of wanting to touch each other except your boner is absolutely raging and ready to go. Most wild, uninhibited, animalistic sex you can imagine follows
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:47 PM
1

I am definitely going to sit on it for awhile before I make any moves. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:32 PM
3

Cocaine will always bring women around
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:12 PM
1

True, I'm going to sit on in for awhile.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:12 PM
1

You are absolutely right here. If she wants to hear from me should reach out herself. And I certainly do not plan on being a repeat customer. Thanks for the thoughtful response
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:11 PM
-1

autist
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:04 PM
1

Well at the time she certainly claimed to, tried to make me pity her ect. In reality? No, this is just the way she treats men and it feeds her ego. However, no one has ever exposed her like I did. I think it definitely crushed her to have her friends and family become aware of her lies and deceitfulness. At the time it felt good getting revenge but now.....idk. She was just being a girl, and looking back I was acting very cringe.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:25 AM
1

what I am saying is I dont know if I can move on for my own moral sanity unless I somehow apologize to this girl
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:06 AM
1

It was bad. She had a very complicated dynamic with her family and what I said to them caused them to not speak to her for weeks. Her roommate also realized she is a pathological liar. Of course, knowing women, she likely has rewritten history to make herself the innocent victim on all fronts and has been totally forgiven by all parties and has indeed moved on as you said. And it is possible she viewed that as closure and wouldn't want to reopen the wound.... I have moved on 90%. I have new plat…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:49 AM
1

I'm actually going to be in her town tomorrow, but I worry that showing up could come off as a bit too dramatic. As far as phone calls, she changed her number
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:45 AM
1

You could be right. But we talked 24/7 for several months and now have no contact. No matter who you are that is a definite lifestyle change. I also know the things I did to her caused severe trauma in her life and had lasting ramifications in her relationships with friends/family. I know this post probably seems like I am trying to get her back - I am not. She's a very disturbed girl and I have plates who I am currently happy with. But occasionally when I am alone I feel kind of haunted by how …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:30 AM
-5

lol ok
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:20 AM
1

Thats kind of what I was considering. Instead of writing a manifesto I was thinking about simply messaging her "I'm sorry"
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:19 AM
-1

really almost 2 months ago. But the reason it feels so distant is that I have gotten a handle on my alcoholism, changed jobs, gathered new plates, basically feels like a lifetime ago even though it was relatively recent. And I can only imagine she probably feels the same way. And yes, I learned a major lesson as far as spite and vengeance.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:18 AM
-9

Youre one of these autists that plague this forum. I promise you I have gotten 5x more quality pussy in my life than you. You can throw all those terms at me, but I have real world experience. And even the best of us still have emotions in our core. And I had an episode of weakness. I actually ditched all of my plates for this one and its taken a month in a half to get a new roster going. Why would I contact? Because I wreaked havoc on this girls life and she did on mine and I just dont feel com…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:16 AM
1

She was the only girl I've really fallen for in 6 years. I have been basically spinning plates or casually dating that whole time. This girl asked why I would do that and said that she would fix my cynicism. I dont want to get to into it but I bought her game hook line and sinker - and she proceeded to lie to me, game me, play with my feelings, remain on dating apps, fuck another guy, have me meet her family and then ditch me, basically the worst things a female will do if you give her the power…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:11 AM
1

I dont plan on plating her and honestly after all that happened I don't think I could anyway, Just curious - what do you think apologizing while holding frame would look like?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:09 AM
1

yeah - I dont want to game her. I just want to make things right. Of course its a fine line to tread. I'm just trying to figure out how to do precisely what you just suggested. Also I struggle with whether I mean it or not cause she did really do a number on me. But overall I know my reaction was wrong
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:07 AM
1

yeah thats true. I did. But I just feel I owe her an apology on a human level. Or maybe not an apology, but an explanation
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:58 AM
1

So you think its inevitable that it will bring back my "old programming"? I have changed a lot and I genuinely feel bad....
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:38 AM
12

I went to Rutgers, and I have to say 80% of the women who went there were disgusting. Overweight, no effort into appearance, wearing pajamas to class, radical feminists. The 20% that were hot basically got passed around by the fraternities. I only got with some of them because I had a really nice apartment and drugs/alcohol.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:27 AM
1

^^actual autist^^
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:05 AM
2

not true, I currently have 5 plates and a lot of friends in different areas and I talk about shit like that all the time. Admittedly, it does annoy my girls if I do it too much. But some of my male friends and I get real deep with those kind of convos
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:53 PM
1

Online. I've banged a number of milfs off of plenty offish and tinder, one of whom I've maintained as an on/off fwb for 4 years now. I just saw her last week.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:01 PM
4

This was excellent. I realized that I have spent the last 6 months in the bargaining and depression phase. I spun plates for 3 years and then met that "one" girl who made me believe in the unicorn again. It's over now, and I've been regrouping myself. Hoping I fully blossom into acceptance phase
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:25 PM
1

Thank you! You get what I am saying. Our endocrine systems are literally under assault by society. I have 2 questions about your prescription to the problem. Arent they just going to want me to start with that androgel stuff? Injecting testosterone cypionate would essentially be the same thing as doing steroids, no? Wouldnt this include all the harmful side effects of doing steroids?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:27 PM
1

I know, absolutely thats true and your first statement is a great thing. I'm really just theorizing here
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:05 PM
2

welp alright then
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:04 PM
1

Who?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:44 PM
1

wow, black pill. Can you expand on that? What does that implicate for us in the future?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:41 PM
1

I'm not talking about me. I think my T is fine as long as I diet and exercise. I'm talking about us as a society as a whole. We have a serious issue with declining T levels, literally we are becoming less men than our forefathers.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:33 PM
1

huh? You okay there bud?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:29 PM
2

Yes! That is probably the key. I once told a girl "hey listen I'd love to take you home with me but unfortunately I must inform you that my penis is basically an oversized clit....they call it the quarter inch killer. I dont think you'd be very happy" I did of course take her home. In between moans she caught her breath enough to get out "quarter inch huh?" to which I paused briefly and said "well, the top quarter inch is a quarter inch, idk about the rest of it" - and then rammed it in even dee…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:45 AM
1

I guess i've just started to come off as stupid lol
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:25 AM
3

brilliant
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:33 AM
1

lol fair enough
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:32 AM
2

I feel like a lot of people are misunderstanding what im saying. I do not have conan o brien style humor. look up pretty much any peter steele interview to see what im talking about
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:08 AM
2

Come to think of it, that is genuinely how I used it in the past. That, and I often make fun of my tattoos - only because I find it INCREDIBLY annoying that every girl I meet asks me about them. I dont even remember that they're there and everyyyyy single girl wants to know so badly what my tattoos mean. Clearly, because women are dumb, tattoos increase my SMV. I wonder if showing that I don't give a fuck about something that makes me attractive gives them the tingles - because ive never had a n…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:27 PM
2

I'm not saying I used it all the time, more for girls I was just meeting or acquaintances with. The last two times specifically were a girl that works the counter at my gym and a coworker. Its not as if I would just hang around my plates all day making fun of myself. But during casual banter it did used to be effective for me.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:54 PM
4

This actually applies to black males as well. Black people are nowhere near as sensitive as the media and colleges make them out to be. Casual racial ball busting is always fun with black friends, just like casual racial teasing gives black women the tingles. I think theres just something about acknowledging your differences that people respect
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:51 PM
2

ive had many black plates and you'd be surprised at how much they enjoy racial jokes. Nothing too serious, but just accusing them of black stereotypes ect. Its actually one of the most effective ways to flirt with black women, as long as you do it teasingly. I've had black plates that I was comfortable enough around to drop the N bomb around especially if I was quoting someone or something.......but I wouldnt even think about angrily calling one the N word in an argument. Pretty sure that would …
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:28 PM
2

oh ok. yeah im planning folic acid, thiamine, fish oil, lots of valerian root tea and a very healthy diet. I still haven't quit yet, but im thinking about starting tuesday. (I have some friends who want to take me out monday night). If things get too bad, I have some clonopins laying around
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:21 PM
1

what supplements?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:30 PM
2

In the past gym and women were excellent replacements
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:46 AM
1

I think that is possibly the primary reason for my downfall with women
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:44 AM
2

I know, I want to find a balance. The first year after I left AA, I had that. And that was a fantastic feeling. Its been a slow spiral since and now I'm in the state I am in. Really though I need to quit by at least 75% minimum lol
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:39 PM
1

the fuck
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:37 PM
2

This is a disaster. I am thinking about going back to AA but I just have so many reasons why I LEFT AA.......
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:34 PM
4

haha thank you. it was certainly a rough thing to go through. And believe me the revenge was excellent. Her mom even responded to my letter apologizing for her daughters behavior, and that she is ashamed that she had "gone so far astray." When she unblocked and called me, she hysterically raved about how her parents won't return her phone calls and went into an unbelievable hamstering session about how her ex didnt deserve to hear all of that because he had trust issues. She only talks to him st…
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 06:54 PM
2

they have truly become evil creatures
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 05:54 AM
1

what? the revenge?
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 05:54 AM
1

I mean its not that big of an age difference tbh
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 05:53 AM
3

ALWAYS
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 03:32 AM
2

Im 30 and she is 26
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 03:19 AM
3

oh im well aware. i always followed those rules as well, sometimes even harsher ones. Thats why this hit me so hard - it was the ONE time I let my guard down and try to do shit like a normie cause i fell under this woman's toxic spell. And I paid dearly for it
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 02:47 AM
2

when she knew she liked him already but just "wasn't sure yet" and banged like 3 guys off of tinder/from the bar one of whom broke her bed....and then she took him to ikea to buy a new bed the next day......
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:06 AM
1

how about the depiction of the women though? Very accurate and hard for the audience not to be disgusted
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:23 AM
3

not really alpha, I mispoke. But he is pretty masterful at what he does and I found myself rooting for him
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:21 AM
2

this. A lot of guys just dont know how to do it. Foreplay done properly will literally leave a woman body shaking in anticipation with a puddle on the sheets
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:39 PM
1

thats exactly what I want to give her, and I think I am pushing her in that direction and easing her tensions a little. But youre right, I am having a hard time maintaining a healthy level of emotional reassurance. I used to be able to be very dominant with her and it would have her dripping. Since that conversation though, she is much more shy and hesitant, and gets much more visibly nervous (the convo was last week, just went on one date since and did not have sex). But even with the kissing. …
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:11 PM
1

well to follow up, she called me after the guy got a hotel room and went there, said she didnt want to go there even though she was 2 blocks away and wanted to see me instead, i picked her up and took her home and stayed over her house while the guy called her 18 times and texted her that she "ruined everything"
/r/askTRP22/12/18 06:50 AM
1

ok, it was still a lie and i didnt freak out on her at all it was more of an ohhhhhhhh lookkkk what i noticed with a smile kind of thing. She is the one who freaked out and got all guilty
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:17 PM
-15

perhaps youre right. But perhaps ive had a plethora of big booty judies worship me in the past and im bored of it
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:02 AM
2

i definitely fucked her
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:23 PM
12

definitely this
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:10 PM
1

did that, she came back
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:40 PM
3

this is so true - ive had girls not answer me, i hit em up a month later and I get "youre persistent arent you?" - and im in their bed that night. I have other girls come straight out the gate with filthy messages and then after 10 mins or so of sexting block me. Dating apps really display how strange the female mind is
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:01 PM
1

I know right? Absolutely deplorable
/r/askTRP10/12/18 06:30 AM
0

she hasn't actually, thats when she made the two dates with me and was texting me how unattracted she was to him
/r/askTRP10/12/18 05:12 AM
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ok thanks. Definitely sounds like a plan
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:53 AM
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Yes. I know. I don't plan to do that anymore as I said. She's also made it clear that she doesn't want to fuck him again (it only happened once, the second night was when she was texting me). Regardless, if she's going to have this guy over again, or if she's not gonna let me stay over - im definitely going to go fuck this girl, and the others. Im just trying to figure out the best way to convey that to her without leaving her to run for the hills - cause trust me - this girl will. The usual TRP…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:52 AM
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well believe me, the other guys feelings are clear too. We were already an item in the past. So I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to portray my feelings being unclear. This is why im wondering if I should tell her about my date on tuesday. I should add: she still is grooming me like a boyfriend, so she has an "honesty" policy - she told me when she fucked barney, she told me how she didnt. She tells me everything she does, any other prospects she's thinking about. I, dumb as it may be, told her…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:47 AM
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that was true. Its been a hell of a ride already the past month lol. it probably would throw her for a loop if I just completely never brought the subject up again lol
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:39 AM
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idk it actually appears to have worked she always laugh when I say shit like that
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:37 AM
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Unfortunately - because of the former oneitis thing - were way past that. She already knows that I want her, although she's probably confused as to why I am acting different. This is why Im wondering if I should bring up the date tuesday when she tries to tell me im not staying over and she's still gonna see the other guy - which I know she will. Also - she and I actually were exclusive at one point. I am clearly number one, but I know barneys trying hard too. Apparently she even sent the poor g…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:59 AM
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Well yeah, that I of course would do. But I'm asking more about the conversation to have tomorrow
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:54 AM
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my last oneitis happened because the girl outwitted me twice during our first conversation. Its so rare I was swooped off my feet like a disney princess
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:45 AM
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I am absolutely mind blown by how horrible these girls are at conversation lol
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:28 AM
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dont u just love how fickle women are though - instead of just saying that she goes right to the unmatch lol
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:21 AM
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nah, instagram was linked and she works in my town and provided an accurate description of the location lol
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:16 AM
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It really is. Ive met some quality pussy on there before though, amongst a sea of whales and prostitutes
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:08 AM
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unfortunately my tinder is not working. I think I am banned
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I matched with a serious hottie (I mean the kind that you just see her pics and start getting hard) - she messaged me first "hey handsome" and we talked for awhile, similar interests, I even flirted with her and told her that I am very good at doing a particular thing in the bedroom and she goes "I'll be the judge of that". Later that night - I send her my number and say maybe we can get together sometime. Unmatched. lol
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:45 AM
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ok motivation still needed here in the past 3 days I have failed to quit drinking, failed to quit smoking, failed to quit jerking off, and I am still in contact with my oneitis. Need a swift kick in the ass here
/r/askTRP08/12/18 06:50 PM
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Damn. I really need to up my game in this area. What advice would you have as a very first step? I am already pretty outgoing and talk to pretty much everyone, but the conversations rarely turn to business. Im just a good small talker/flirter
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:50 PM
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its just so weird - I naturally have this attitude towards pretty much every plate and FWB that I have. And I've had a lot. Ive had plates that I maintain relationships for years. I have genuine female friends who I sometimes fuck, and sometimes well just chat through text for months. I have one night stands with extremely hot girls sometimes and am just grateful for the opportunity. There is just this nasty thing inside me, this hurt little boy that wants attention, and every now and then I mee…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:59 PM
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I actually interned in college at a company that would be considered a very impressive place to work. They are about to begin hiring again, and I do have some high up contacts within the company that I am sending my resume to. There are some extenuating circumstances however, so its really a shot in the dark as to whether I will be hired or not. Your life sounds great. Ive had my fill of adventure. I want the 9-5 and the girlfriend. I will continue to post as I work on it
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:56 PM
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Dude, I know. I can relate so much to what you are saying. I worry about society constantly too - and that definitely fuels my anxiety in general. Lets face it - it is completely set up for us to fail long term with a woman. Part of my whole thing is that I want to try to keep the old dream alive - I used to feel extremely nihilistic like you did but now I just want a wife and kids and picket fence - and raise my kids properly. For two years I put my finances second to my pussy. I could've gradu…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:49 PM
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I actually did some research on it when I was in college, and the latest studies have shown that consistent cardio in the moderately intense range actually has neuroprotective effects on dopamine neurons - it essentially prevents addictions from occurring and yes, will reset the system combined with abstinence from whatever you're addicted to. Intense cardio and weightlifting do not do this - and can even be addicting themselves because of the short bursts of intensity
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:33 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:31 PM
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this is very true. At least 20 mins 4 times a week of moderate-cardio. This took away my cravings for everything I was ever addicted to
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:47 AM
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I needed to hear that
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:35 AM
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You are absolutely right. And to be honest.....I wouldnt get married for at least 5 years. I just want to meet a girl who I can share my life with at this point. Although, I already know - I have to have my own life and let a woman enjoy being in it. In fact, thats exactly what went wrong here, I got so interested in this chick that I really wasn't invested in any of my real priorities. Its so ironic how doing just that will make the girl leave you. I guess I should have really phrased it as - I…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:50 AM
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it was way easier 3 years ago. I used to just swipe away. Then so many people started using it - I pay for the boosts and use them once a week. I live in a heavily populated area too
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:44 AM
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And its not all about pussy anymore. Tbh Ive had my share of casual sex and I dont really care anymore. Not that I would turn it down or not engage in it if I were single. Its just not at all a priority right now. I feel more in a life crisis than just a girl crisis. But you are right, I know I can pull myself out of it
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:07 AM
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Thank you for the encouragement. I guess I need to start with the little steps
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:58 PM
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This is excellent advice, thank you. I should mention I am going to graduate school next year. So something along the lines of what youre suggesting was my plan for this year in interim. Idk how I lost track so hard, I haven't saved any money, been drinking too much and obsessing over a girl instead. Smh
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:56 PM
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Honestly, that is what fixed me last time
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:54 PM
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I didnt feel like a loser at all in my 20s. Prior to I did. Although I feel like you are probably right, My feelings of shame were just masked by my external behavior during that time
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:53 PM
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I would definitely have to let one out every 10 days or so like i said. Just once is not enough to grab the dopamine system. 3 days in a row is though. Its literally like drugs. Idk - I went 8 days and that was a little rough - but I just kept looking forward to when I'd get to blow that sweet huge load on some chicks back (it wound up being in a girls mouth in my car - she teased it too stopping right before I came and then going back - she was blown away by how much she swallowed ("holy shit t…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:29 PM
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Try to nip this in the bud now. I'm 30 years old and no matter how many thots ive slain - I can still end up meeting that oneitis and have a beta breakdown over it. It happened to me all the time in high school cause I was beta AF - and since I learned some game (actually before TRP existed) through my 20s I could pull chicks effortlessly but at least 4 times I caught a oneitis and EVERY SINGLE TIME pushed them away by showing my feelings too quickly, or somehow getting all beta. ​ It literally …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:04 PM
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I feel exactly the same way. Not even just my game - its like life just feels dreary/dull/like im not all the way there. After a few hours of work or going to the gym, that feeling usually goes away. man, its as addictive as any drug - and ive been addicted to them all. I used to have days where I would jack it 7-8 times. Going out into the world after that you just feel like a ghost. I was doing nofap from september - november. Let me tell you - I never felt sharper, more confident, more conten…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:47 PM
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I think you hit the nail right on the head. This girl doesn't seem to understand her true value and its becoming more apparent that she actually has a lot of insecurities and jealousies. She also constantly talks about how intimidating it is that ive been with so many women, that I'm cleary someone who always gets what I want, ect. Out in public the way I act its clear she has never had an assertive boyfriend before, she always seems mystified. She always says I'm lying when I say I like her so …
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:46 PM
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Im sure that youre right. My hampster is just spinning. I am thinking of like 4 different courses to take here and trying to choose the one that feels the most right
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:52 AM
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Im really starting to come to the realization that this girl is not for me. Im struggling over being spiteful about it. For example, we have plans for tuesday. I would love nothing more than to bring this girl out - tell her that she clearly isn't the girl I thought she was, that she isn't who she made herself out to be, and that I dont really want anything to do with her - and then just walk out of the bar leaving her there. But Im assuming you'll say I shouldn't do that.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:35 AM
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youre right
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:17 AM
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But like you said - I still am in her eyes, she just thinks its a bad idea
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:12 AM
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That is very fair. If 2 weeks goes by without a nut, its time to let one out lol. Tmrw I am going to recommit myself to nofapping though, the past 4 days Ive gone all out....Im talking beating before I get out of bed in the morning. Imagine what that must do to test levels? I will look into that book you suggested, thanks. And I will try journaling. Come to think of it, when my ex broke up with me three years ago and I was living alone, I did do some of it in that exact method. I realized this b…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:11 AM
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this is true. Im heavily considering just blocking this girl. The pain is just so great knowing the connection we have and that Id basically just be handing her over to this other guy
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:03 AM
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I dont want anyone to tell me I didnt fuck up, of course I did. Ok maybe I do want a little hatred thrown at her, but who wouldnt? lol. To be honest, Im not even mad about it. Today I redid my resume and sent it to a high up contact for the job. I also reached out for two more recommendation letters for law school. I did all of this one hour after learning about what she did last night. I was at work and it was slow (I work at a restaurant now, and sundays are usually slow so I bring my laptop) …
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:59 AM
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yes, this is true. Just having a hard time coming to terms with it, and dont know how Im going to proceed with her going forward
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:54 AM
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read what I said to you in the other
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:53 AM
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You know you dont have to respond if you dont want to. Ive considered you one of the more reasonable voices on here. Not seeking validation, just telling you what it is. What could you possibly say to validate me? Clearly I am answering my own questions - I need to chase that job, chase that school, and chase that money and get some self respect back. I was just considering the facts of the past few months of my life and how that may have played into this situation - and that I think is an impor…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:51 AM
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lol arent we talking on another thread?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:49 AM
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well its not in her best interest to date another beta male who she will tire of either. One thing I know for a fact is that I was different that any other dude she had dated. Ive been thinking about this whole thing, and how I ended up in this mess. And I came to a realization. For 10 years, I lived on my own or with roommates. Just 3 months ago I moved in with my parents due to student debt. I was lined up for a dream job, but didn't get it (there is still hope for the near future though in a …
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:47 AM
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Yeah. Funny thing is.....this is what you'd consider a "good girl" - guarantee fucking 2 dudes in the same month is a new thing for her. She claims I turned her into a whore. She just moved out of her parents house with her friend who is a total fucking thot. So I really should have expected her to engage in thottery herself. She acted like such a respectable woman, but now that she's fucking two guys at once - fuck it, ill plate the fuck out of her. Problem is tbh, idk if I even want to fuck he…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:42 AM
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its truly unbelievable. I just created a thread about it right now. This bitch is something else truly. She says "I like you more, I just dont want to cause youre bad news. I'm trying my best to not like you"
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:36 AM
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Guess what? The bitch fucked the guy last night. She claims it was because I sent her that shit about my ex and she did it out of spite. Im highly disappointed, and youre right
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:09 AM
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I understand that. Youre right. I have let myself fall into a bad state mentally recently.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:54 AM
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idk, part of me thinks that there was really nothing wrong with letting her know I was seeing other girls. I never got mean about it or anything, just told her that she cant date a bunch of dudes and expect me not to see other girls. Id almost take how angry she got at that as a good sign no? The last thing I said was "Ill hit you up tmrw when you arent all drunk and jealous" - I also told her that I've made clear I like her a lot and that if she gets her head right I will be there to give her 1…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:49 AM
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exactly. She's going to be so heartbroken over this that she will act out in every way she can and that may even include fucking a bunch of dudes
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:43 AM
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interesting. problem is that will come off as a broken record because of what happened 2 weeks ago
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:39 AM
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lmao. Perhaps your right. But you are more insightful than anyone Ive met on here, because you balance some humanity along with TRP rules. So I'm really just asking you, how do you think I should play this tomorrow in your opinion?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:38 AM
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idk even what I should say tomorrow
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:37 AM
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This is a voice of reason right here.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:36 AM
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YES! I'm such an ass. The autistic parrots definitely fucked me up, because while ive been aware of TRP for awhile now, I have never actually came for advice. Combine that with some drinks....and fuck. ​ Im such an ass because I did this before. And came back from it, and now am doing it again, although not as bad. I dont want to be mean to this girl. I genuinely like her and I know she genuinely likes me. Ive been trying hard to work on the jealousy issue. I need to figure out how to apologize …
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:35 AM
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I understand that, Im trying to come back. When you say play reactively, what exactly do you mean? I really appreciate your insight btw
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:30 AM
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possibly, though Ive seen it
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:22 AM
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she is going to text me some shit tmrw morning im sure. Some kind of i dont think we should talk anymore type nonsense. Im considering just saying "listen Im just saying if youre going to date other guys im going to date other girls. if youre not okay with that then either stop dating other guys or else idk what to tell you" and just holding my ground on that. Does that sound like a reasonable strategy?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:20 AM
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Yes. But I know for a fact Im the one she wants to, and has fucked. Only thing she gains from them is validation
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:18 AM
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given how I treated her two weeks ago, I expected it and fully understand it
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:17 AM
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I have, although its been several years. I have told her those exact things actually. Thats part of the reason she came back. And thank god I didnt go total beta jealous mode on her. I more just teased her tonight with dread....but I just feel like it was the wrong move to make on this particular girl
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:16 AM
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I understand these concepts. They are not helping me in this specific situation. You say not recoverable. I can only think of 3 ways to go here 1. I disappear for a little while 2. Text her and say I was just playing a game with her like she likes to do with me 3. apologize and recognize that clearly the idea of me with someone else really bothered her of course what id really like to do is explain to her how childish and ridiculous it is that she could get so mad at me for seeing someone when s…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:14 AM
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what do you mean exactly by starting with the right frame or tell her what im doing? everyone says read the side bar, and im pretty sure ive read a large amount of it, but fit to this situation, what does that even mean?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:10 AM
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why do you say its not recoverable anymore?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:07 AM
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yeah, I really do. Thats the crazy part. Like I said though, Im just not that into the abundance anymore. Just one month ago I was spinning 5 plates. Then I met this one. I do know how I fucked up, but dont know exactly how to put it into words. I feel like I shouldn't have came here at all, because I feel like dread game was the worst thing I could've done tonight, but thats "TRP" way. Hence why I made this post to begin with.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:06 AM
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damn maybe youre right
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:03 AM
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I mean I feel like I did too but why is that fucking up? I then told her "i think its cute that youre so mad at me seeing people when you've told me you plan to continue to date your other beta boyfriends lol" I got a "k"
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:02 AM
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I mean I feel like I did too but why is that fucking up? I then told her "i think its cute that youre so mad at me seeing people when you've told me you plan to continue to date your other beta boyfriends lol" I got a "k"
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:02 AM
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why exactly
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:01 AM
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ok, so. We committed to each other 2 weeks ago. I went beta breakdown on her shortly afterwards and she blocked me. I mean it was bad. For 2 weeks I kept my cool and she came back, but obviously not committed anymore. In those 2 weeks she returned to seeing her orbiters. When I finally saw her again on wednesday, she confessed this to me and said shed be seeing the most beta of all tonight. ​ And yes, I couldn't resist, I send her a pic of some flowers my ex brought me and said look what my ex b…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:59 AM
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told her I saw my ex tonight. She totally flipped out. lol
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:49 AM
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basically what I did. didnt seem to go over well she stopped answering. Was considering flat out telling her im going out to meet someone now ill talk to her tmrw
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:41 AM
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so I said basically that, and she got extremely angry. Started giving me the "k"s and tried to give me dread game back inferring that she would find someone to bang tonight
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:31 AM
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youre right. But how? there are so many variables at play here. She is with a beta man tonight - I made a joke about it hours ago and said have a good time. She just texts me now "I hope I do too" - I didnt know what to do so I just said "I'm busy" - which WAS true my ex was over. But now im just thinking about how to play this next. She responded 10 mins later with "ok"
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:38 AM
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btw - can you elaborate on the red flags?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:31 AM
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so, she's on a date with one of the betas tonight. The worst one. Earlier I texted her something along the lines of "hope you pound the shit out of that ass later :) " (she's confessed she's always had a secret fetish for doing butt play on men) - this was actually funny because this guy doesn't even know how to kiss. she just answered me now - "I hope so too". I didnt know how to reply so I just said - im busy. good or bad? my ex was just here but I didnt quite want to say that
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:31 AM
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so, she's on a date with one of the betas tonight. The worst one. Earlier I texted her something along the lines of "hope you pound the shit out of that ass later :) " (she's confessed she's always had a secret fetish for doing butt play on men) - this was actually funny because this guy doesn't even know how to kiss. she just answered me now - "I hope so too". I didnt know how to reply so I just said - im busy. good or bad? my ex was just here but I didnt quite want to say that
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:30 AM
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how and why?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:50 AM
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Its just hard to lead when the precise thing I need to do is give her space
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:49 AM
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I'm trying to tell you, this is a woman who has a very solid frame. It is a true challenge, yet an exciting one, to be in that kind of competition. But believe me, if I went full TRP on her and tried to put her squarely in my frame, she would run away and go to a safe beta bucks. Just how she is. Thats why this situation is so delicate
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:45 AM
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well, it was what I wanted, so I looked at it as mutually beneficial. To clarify, in the past half hour, I have had 2 women ask me to come over. One Ive been fucking for years and one I haven't yet. I was on my way to the regulars house, when my ex gf called me and said she's in my area and wants to come by. Canceled on the first. So I have abundance like I said, plenty of it. I just honestly like this girl, and am bored of abundance.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:42 AM
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true
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:38 AM
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whats weird is that she always goes for betas. She's told me about her exes. Her sex life has been incredibly vanilla, she was so incredibly nervous the first time we had sex. Now the respect thing is an issue. I dont think she's ever respected a bf before. This is the tricky part, getting her respect without scaring her away
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:38 AM
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this is true lol. But no, it wasn't fabricated, she had multiple stories of her with her family during the time she was supposed to be with me, as well as stories of her having breakfast with her sister in the morning
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:36 AM
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see now thissss is the kind of reply I was looking for. You get it, and this was very insightful. I will definitely be considering what you said.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:27 AM
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For example, last night was as I assumed, a shit test. She was not fucking anyone. She was at her sisters house and she flaked on me to do important family shit. Her snap stories confirm this, and she even apologized and literally said "i was testing you to see if you'd get jealous" so i mean, its not always so cut and dry
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:22 AM
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it is what it is man, I told her the next day I needed some pussy before a big test I had, she was trying to flake on me, I said ok lemme make some calls. She then said I want to be exclusive and I agreed, she knows I like her. Went over and she sucked my dick in my car that night, crushed my test the next day. Yes, when you care about someone, you sometimes need to ask for their forgiveness if you were actually in the wrong. Only a sociopath would say otherwise. Yes, alpha female as in we are c…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:20 AM
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No, im really trying to get a discussion started about those instances where all the standard protocols might need some tweaking or special consideration
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:18 AM
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no I mean seriously, there are variables to things. I know you have answered my threads before.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:17 AM
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Ive seen some fat dudes with extremely hot GFs. I dated some very hot girls before I got any muscle (I still am nowhere near where I need to be) That being said, once I began working out, dressing nice and got tattoos women in general did treat me much differently. But thats really just to get your foot in the door. I know tons of guys who are jacked but cant get laid for shit. The real answer is just confidence, and charm. If you have those, you will be attractive to women. Muscle mass just smo…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:45 AM
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I love when women squirt, and I have even taught a few to do it who didnt think they could. In my experience, there may be some piss in it, but it is not at all like everyone is saying. Ive never had the room smell like piss after a squirt. Sure if you put your nose right up to the sheet you'll get a whiff of urine, but if it was really just piss your whole room would smell like it. I'd say there is some urine in it, but definitely not the majority component. ​ Women squirt because you hit the r…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:39 AM
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lol i wonder what would happen if I did
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:24 PM
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She texted me early this morning, said she was just messing with me last night and she's actually at her sisters and they are doing something with her nephew tomorrow. (they've been having issues so this is obv a top priority for her) Her snapchat all day confirms this. So it was, in fact, a giant shit test. Also, she gave me the passcode to her phone without me even asking. I did a little snooping. The guys she talks to are extremely needy and desperate, I mean pathetically so, extremely polite…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:45 PM
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See, this is where I disagree with a lot of TRP. Yes, I know in general its all true. But every woman is unique and there are nuances. Im no chump, I've been with nearly 200 women. But sometimes yes, I do fall for a girl. I do crave a real relationship. And sometimes this blinds me. But regardless, they are not 100% the same. What I just told you I believe in complete confidence. Now, thats not saying she doesn't have a hamster or is considering a carousel ride. But she just won't do that becaus…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:17 AM
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well I will say she just responded "take me dec 9" to which i said 'no, ill pick you up tmrw as planned, I have a date dec 9"
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:11 AM
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can you explain that bonus to me a little more? I am so tempted to call/text again rn and am very much wondering what will happen tomorrow. I told her that our date is still happening, and she never said no, she just never answered. I also based on things she said think she's lying about being out for the night, I think she's just trying to test my jealousy
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:50 AM
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I keep saying this to people. Its not that simple. This girl does not sleep around so casually like that. She will go out on dates tho. She was extremely interested in an LTR with me until I went beta on her and her friend convinced her I was psycho. But I slowly came back from that and we had an amazing time on wednesday. It is very understandable that shed be hesitant to jump right back into things with me, and she made that clear. Honestly, it makes sense. I'm asking specifically about her be…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:48 AM
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damn
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:31 AM
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damn well I already sent it. Guess its RIP
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:31 AM
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so, I left it at that I didnt accept her attempting to cancel our plans tmrw. Should i just totally ignore her? Or in the AM just go to her house as planned? The way she's been acting its feels more like she's playing with me to see how I react, but still wants to see me
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:26 AM
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she is absolutely well aware of that fact. But she is also well aware that I like her more than the others and will cut them off for her
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:23 AM
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it was the week before I went all beta on her. After that, I would fully assume shed be seeking out other dates. Since then I just had the date with her wednesday - we were in public the whole time so no I didnt give it to her then. But we did about as much as you can do midtown manhattan.... You're right about the actions conflicting - but it seems to me she just likes the attention, and doesn't actually sleep with the men.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:23 AM
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Youre right. I was her top priority, then I went beta on her. She even went out of her way to show me how she was cutting other guys off. But I went beta. So since then she went back in the field. I won back a date with her, it went amazingly, she def is extremely attracted....but she did flat out tell me that Im not just gonna come back and take over and that Im back in the running (though at 1st). I said whatever thats cool - but I will not tolerate her breaking plans with me at the last minut…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:00 AM
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Also, I do know he is. Ive heard her and her girlfriends making fun of him. Ive seen him desperately texting her. She kissed him once and she said he didnt know how to
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:57 AM
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I do. I have several actually. I just dont really care to see them because I do like this one. What kind of dread game would you recommend?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:56 AM
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why whats your experience?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:51 AM
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I know for a fact the other guys are way worse than me in that regard tho
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:41 AM
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also to your edit, thats true. And ive been fucking around too. But I still do genuinely like the girl
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:38 AM
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Honestly, normally I would agree but (and i know AWALT) I dont think so. The other guy is extremelyyyy beta, she's told me about him. Idk about the other one but I mean if she came to see me after what does that say? She has a very low n-count for someone her age, all her friends backed that and she was extremely awkward the first time we had sex. Said she was scared I wouldnt think she was good in bed. She has a history of dating betas, and I know for a fact that I make her wet as fuck. On wedn…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:37 AM
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I was thinking about texting her something like - "I think its really cute that youre trying to make me jealous and all with your ambiguity, but we've had these plans for days now and unless you give me a good reason why you can't - I expect us to be going."
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:34 AM
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I actually am in the same situation. I realized today that I initiate contact literally EVERY time. I have actually given the girl the dick though, on two occasions. But it still cant be good
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:23 AM
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thats basically what Im trying to do. Since she's going on dates I figure Im gonna do the same. Ive been hitting up all my old girls and even gained a new plate in the meantime. Problem is, 2 nights in a row now NONE of my plates were able to hang. Now normally thats not a big deal, but its definitely hurting my abundance mentality. ​ Im just trying to play cool and not worry about anything. Its working. And its freeing.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:13 PM
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I have gone through periods where I was fucking 4-5 girls a week. Some would be only once, some would be regulars for months. Some would get into relationships and hit me up years later. But it did take a lot of work. Lots of swiping on tinder, lots of rejections. And the girls of higher social quality take a lot more work. But if you put the work in, have the time and desire, there is no reason you cant pull like that. Ive pulled over 100 from tinder alone, let alone girls I met irl
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:17 AM
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This. Its easy to get pussy.....but getting quality pussy is a different game. I used to just be happy to fuck any halfway pretty woman with an hourglass shape......going after girls that you'd be proud to introduce to your family and friends takes a lot more finesse
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:12 AM
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It is tricky, because they all truly are different. I can use the exact same techniques on three different girls and they will have three very different reactions. Some girls can barely stand to have their clit licked, others absolutely exploded when i literally nibbled on it. The one thing consistent that works with cunnilingus ive noticed is start with very passionate licks and kisses and exploring, make her know you want it. Then settle into a rhythm and figure out how hard she likes it. Then…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:45 PM
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youre right. I didnt get the burn though
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:51 PM
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whys that
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:51 PM
1

youre right. After I confirm tonight (the cream is something you use before bed, and if it is scabies it will burn on application) - I will bite the bullet and do it. Although I have a big date with potential LTR girl tmrw night so I honestly may wait a few days on her.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:52 PM
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I will. Just maybe not today
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:50 PM
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yeahhhhhhhh.........idk incubation period is a month.....i have some time...... ​ none of them have symptoms yet, at least not that I've heard of. And I did actually warn one of them that I maybe shouldn't come tonight because I have a rash and idk what it is - she said im sure its fine (scabies is mostly on your arms) - that was a month ago, and I just saw her again the other day, no rash. Doc did say its possible that its just eczema - I guess ill know for sure after I take the scabies treatme…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:00 PM
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Ugh thats rough
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:54 PM
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I got the treatment, after today I will no longer be contagious. But yes, some of them are current, actually none were ever broken off. And one is a girl I've been trying to LTR, went beta on for a minute and just recently am getting back in her good graces.....
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:52 PM
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I know, this is the whole point of my post. It happens every few years. Something I seem to be unable to get over
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:51 AM
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lol she is not fucking them. she is addicted to meeting people and trust me, she finds most of them boring
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:06 AM
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btw - we are now in regular contact again and its been good. She says she might come by tonight to see me maybe. But the reason she is nearby is she is meeting a guy from tinder at a bar to watch a game. I am having a very hard time not texting her, even though I recently just got 2 new numbers off tinder tonight
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:54 AM
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That has always been a problem for me. I have used sex for validation for years. I do lift, 4 times a week and I just taught myself piano, play guitar regularly. However, it all falls second to having sex.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:52 AM
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I am happy to report that while I did text her the apology, and got a favorable response, I have been playing it cool ever since. Wished her a happy thanksgiving to which she replied "you too Handsome" and haven't messaged since. What I have done, is fuck my old plate, meet a new cutie on tinder and fuck her the first night, and went out to a bar on thanksgiving with my hometown friend and get the number of a very very attractive girl. So I have been doing what youre saying? Is it helping? Yes -…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:07 PM
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will edit so its shorter so the ADHD amongst us can read it
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:47 PM
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To update - I did not respond after she said "thanks" to my apology. Went and fucked a new plate instead. Yesterday, (2 days later) I did text her "Happy thanksgiving, I hope you have a great day with your family" to which she immediately responded "Thank you Handsome" I did not respond, went out to the bar with my friend and got an hb8's number instead. Im thinking if I dont hear from her by Sunday, maybe sending a little inside joke or something like that. How absolutely opposed to that would …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:51 PM
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So to update the situation, I did text her that apology. She did respond 8 mins later with "thanks." The fact that she responded at all I am taking as a good sign, as I was somewhat expecting her to ignore me. I went on that date last night. Girl was beautiful, scandinavian looking queen who is a professional singer and a freak. It ended in 4 hours of marathon sex that was absolutely incredible. Although as soon as I left - I didnt feel accomplished, I felt a void. I felt empty. Woke up today an…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:34 PM
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Honestly I wouldn't mind dealing with that. If I could come from a calmer, more stoic place, and hopefully learn a lesson from this whole nightmare, I wouldnt mind slowly returning the relationship to a balanced level. I really do actually like this girl
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:26 PM
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Idk.....read down. I did send an apology and she did respond, although briefly, rather quickly. I think there may be slight hope for salvation. As far as B and C......will definitely try to practice that
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:47 PM
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ok
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:45 PM
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remain stoic from here on out meaning from this moment right now. Why u being such a dick lol
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:36 PM
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Youre very dogmatic arent you? lol. Im kidding I really appreciate all of the advice. I have kind of the same feeling that the reply means she will unblock when she is ready. My challenge is to try to remain stoic about the whole thing. Because she might or she might not, and I have to be ok with that. And no I never read the entire sidebar, more just been a lurker and read a decent portion. What in the sidebar applies to this situation of the one word reply to an apology?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:30 PM
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I was just confused why us fucking has anything to do with the current problem. We were very much already fucking and past that stage
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:28 PM
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I will not. Im surprised I even got a thanks outta her lol
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:25 PM
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Im assuming the best thing to do here is not respond to the thanks at all and just go bang my date for tonight correct
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:24 PM
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this is the whole problem. I dont actually know that, I'd say its 60/40....but felt I had to take the chance. And I said basically "hey, I just wanted to apologize to you for the things I said to you last night. Nobody deserves that kind of language, especially you. I miss talking to you already, and I'm sorry that last night happened." She actually just responded with "thanks"
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:24 PM
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Again, we've been seeing each other for well over a month. We talked literally all day long. The topic came up a few times it wasn't all we talked about. We already did fuck (although she made me wait 3 weeks which is the longest ive ever had to) and she sucked my dick just several days ago when she was on her period. We were supposed to fuck again tonight....but yesterday happened.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:20 PM
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Im confused......this just all happened yesterday. I was saying that this is the longest we've gone WITHOUT talking in the past month. So I am saying it in the first two days. I actually just sent it. I have a feeling she probably will just not reply but we shall see
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:17 PM
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That is true - and yet she always told me it she was skeptical of my intentions because I was so "manly" and that I "create massive waterfalls in her vagina and I dont know why". Its not exactly what you think. This was a unique situation that doesn't fit snugly into typical TRP rules. For example she only knew about my plates because she was fascinated by me (and I dont lie)...so she would ask me and get horny from it. Like I said, she's very traditional - the stories were very exciting to her …
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:08 PM
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i mean im trying to be stoic about the response and I will post it. I am going to meet a new hottie around 830 who just asked me if Im bringing condoms. So I will be filling my night at least
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:04 PM
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She's very traditional and was actually very worried about my past as a plate spinner. Her last boyfriends were all nerdy guys who worshipped at her feet just because they were able to have sex. She definitely never had been with a man as experienced as I am before. So I often emphasized the fact that she made me want to give up my abundance.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:59 PM
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I mean in there eyes I did - and there were times they pushed me and I was just as verbally abusive yes - but usually I would feel bad and text them via other media the next day. I believe they usually unblocked me maybe a day or two later, sometimes up to 3 months later, once or twice never.....
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:52 PM
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also - I swear to god I dont know how this happened, its like high schoolers - but from 9pm last night to now is by far the longest we have gone without speaking to each other in over a month. So subjectively it feels like quite a time has passed, I'm sure for her too
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:47 PM
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well I did blow up on her and call her a lot of terrible names, thats the part I was going to apologize for.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:41 PM
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All of your advice is spot on man thank you. I need to hear this right now. Unfortunately, I do think I am likely going to send her the apology. I will let you know what happens. But I feel like it cant really hurt - only not make things better. Also, I have been blocked and unblocked before several times by plates who caught feelings for me.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:34 PM
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Dick?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:26 PM
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Yup. Its just the problem of wanting a family lol. I just royally screwed it up big time man, its not easy with that knowledge. When plating its great.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:14 PM
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I do genuinely feel bad about my behavior last night. And based on the amount of genuine interest this woman showed, I am fairly certain she is grieving the loss as well. I mean she was glued to me and I took her places she hadn't been before (very traditional background). Her friend and roommate I believe was a major player in this incident - as she didnt like me from the start and has been constantly telling her to leave me. She is very, very concerned with her friends image of her. So much so…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:13 PM
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Thanks, that is interesting advice. Sad, but maybe seems necessary unfortunately. How I wish I lived in a different generation......getting pussy is fun for a few years......but then I just want companionship. Its just how I am.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:07 PM
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Also.....I always hear dont let your emotions control your actions. But what are some good strategies for actually doing this?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:04 PM
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I do have a date tonight with a new girl that is almost certain to end in sex based on the convo we have had. But it just sucks because I really did like this girl. I haven't connected with someone like that in a long long time.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:01 PM
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I think you're confusing us with the PUA community...... ​ and if that guy sees that comment DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE LISTEN lol
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:58 PM
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I'm in this phase too. Idk what you call it but I had a similar realization about a year ago. Sadly it has resulted in me having major major jealousy issues when I did meet a woman I wanted an LTR with. And she wasn't even doing anything that bad, just chatting with a lot of men who wanted to fuck her on the internet. I ended up blowing up on her and completely losing my cool. I still don't know who is more to blame. ​ Well, I know I am. But it is just so hard to accept
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:47 PM
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why are you here?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:42 PM
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My other thread is "why do I still occasionally get oneitis" - if you read there you'll understand more. But the FWB thing wasn't really meant to be dread as it was an inside joke between the two of us, although I definitely subconsciously was using it as such
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:22 PM
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it actually is similar to the way my last LTR ended. She did me very, very dirty. I think I have PTSD or something because I never used to be like that.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:21 PM
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I dont understand why women feel that a man trying to salvage something sounds like a serial killer. If its important to me - of course Im going to act like its important. And I wasn't manipulating anyone into being addicted to abuse. If you read my other thread, it was actually likely that that is what she was doing to me. The FWB thing was an inside joke between the two of us, not something I was using to make her dread. Be gone thot
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:18 PM
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I have a job that allows me to use my cell phone relatively frequently even while completing tasks. I goto the gym but always can text between sets. The only time I dont really answer is when Im on a social outing, but since I started talking to her I cut my plates off. Actually, the whole text game thing is something I entirely missed the whole time. I just never have met a girl I wanted to text this much lol. I was unaware that if the texting was mutual it was a bad thing. ​ And yes, I lost fr…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:28 PM
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sorry, will edit
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:24 PM
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any other advice from anyone would be great, im really going through it right now
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:15 PM
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my man, I WISH I saw this yesterday. I fucked up royally. So bad, in fact, that I'm having a mild identity crisis here. I am actually shocked at and scared of my behavior last night. So wed been texting all day like teenage girls, and at one point she just stopped responding. Clear shit test, wanted to see if I really had my frame back. Couldn't see it. Im telling you the oneitis thing is real. Its like I had such bad experiences with women when I was younger and when I was older saw what hoes t…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:50 PM
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I just posted about this very thing. I was living TRP life successfully and happily for three years and oneitis struck. Made me an emotional wreck and I went full blue pill for about a week. Im still struggling with it
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:24 AM
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Wow, thank you so much for clarifying that. I see now how completely right you are. She ended up calling me and telling me she really liked me and couldn't go through with it blah blah, and I've gone full stoic on her. One word answers all day. Ambiguity. She is blowing up my phone as we speak freaking out. ​ Ahhh. The sun is out and I feel like a man again.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:41 PM
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my thoughts exactly. I actually feel so free now that I told her I blocked her and left her hanging on the "really??" - I plan on just not answering a thing she says - and if I choose to in a week or so - it will be on my terms. In the meantime, I need to show some plates who Ive been ignoring some love
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:33 AM
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So - an update. I made my position clear. She said she will continue to go along with her plans although they've been postponed until tomorrow. I told her that she is not the woman she made herself out to be and that rather than being the good girl she claimed to be she is actually one of the most manipulative, sadistic and duplicitous women ive encountered. At that point she claimed "awwww im sorry next week im all yours" I said - "nah, stop texting me" she responded with "I didnt realize guys …
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:15 AM
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so what would you recommend I do in this situation?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:45 PM
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and maybe that is what ive done here. Thats the other side of the coin
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:46 PM
1

its actually not a new man - hes a super beta who is obsessed with her and blows her phone up every day and she always blows him off. He was the one guy she met on pof before me. Says they kissed once and he didnt know how to lol. Ive even heard her and her girlfriends making fun of him. This guy is definitely not a threat. But she says she "feels bad for him" Its more the principle of the issue, the game playing, the fact that she's only hanging out with him to make me mad......I told her thats…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:01 PM
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It pains me to admit that youre right. I disagree on the meeting on apps thing - because literally everyone is on them. She just got out of a 2 year relationship a month and a half ago, so I dont blame her for making a profile and seeing what its all about. As soon as she and I started talking, she never became active again on the site (i was checking lol) ​ The haunt is real. But whats confusing is that she did warn me that this is what she does to her boyfriends on her periods. Says "I dont kn…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:36 PM
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