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If your frame is fake then it's only a matter of time before you get checked. If you tell your woman you have certain boundaries, she crosses them (ex: girls trip to Miami), and you stay with her after... Congrats you just got checked and failed
/r/TheRedPill25/07/26 10:22 PM
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I am very glad you found someone, it is few and far between to hear guys on here find a genuinely good woman It took literally like 6+ years of dating around to find one I felt comfortable settling down with. I dated around NYC for 4 years as a single guy with a lot of success and I think I would have felt comfortable marrying maybe 2 of them. It's not like the rest were "bad" per se, just "normal" and I didn't want to settle for normal. My now fiancé had 1 boyfriend before me (6 year relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/26 10:15 PM
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100% There can be some overlap this was just disrespect, not a shit test lol. All the morons in here saying "classic shit test" are just idiots. And it's one thing if this is some chick on a first date or something but this is his GIRLFRIEND ffs.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/26 12:19 AM
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What decent chick starts saying other dudes are hot in front of you lol? Seems like we have different definitions huh
/r/TheRedPill25/07/26 12:12 AM
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My standards before I met my fiancé were: Is hot, is kind, doesn't hate her dad, isn't a whore, and isn't addicted to Tik Tok. Spent about 6 years searching and not finding anyone who met that until I found someone. The problem is standards like the ones we have eliminate about 99.9% of women. No (and I mean none) trashy friends. Zero. Not one bad influence in their orbit. This is just such a huge one. Even if your woman is "good" herself, if she is surrounded by dumb hoes it shows a lack of jud…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/26 02:53 AM
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But if a woman feels like you are 100% locked in, there is an overwhelming pressure because she feels like she can never get off the ride or get a break from you. His first question was: “How do the dates end?” I told him that I would tell the girls I had a lot of fun and was looking forward to the next date. My friend then gave me some good advice: He told me to always end the date first and with a note of ambiguity as to whether I was interested in seeing them again When I was a young buck, I …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/26 04:32 PM
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Congrats, you've outsourced all of your thinking Now, go back to the Chinese spyware brainrot app
/r/TheRedPill06/07/26 04:12 PM
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but once a girl alights in my presence she can turn off her "anxiety brain" and turn on her "girlfriend brain" and relax and enjoy herself, because she knows I will handle everything, This cannot be hammered home enough to noobs. Never really had issues getting women but always gave advice to buddies and have always had guys on here DMing me for the same. You would not believe how many guys had women completely ready to go on dates with them and they would respond with some reGarded bullshit lik…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/26 03:39 PM
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A "break" Bro you've been posting about the same situation for like a month and haven't taken anyone's advice in here.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/26 03:30 PM
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Because back in that era advertisers started putting the heat on reddit so a bunch of controversial subreddits got either banned or quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/26 12:46 AM
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What I advocate is not easy. How will you navigate reality? With a heart of stone? The man who has hardened himself is defeated; the cynic takes his pessimism for wisdom. Nihilism is actually the easy path. It is not hard to sit back and say the world is fucked and nothing matters.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/26 12:43 AM
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I remember your last post. So after I told you to never yell or demean your girlfriend you went and did it again? Dude, stop it. I have been RP during the first 3.5 years and only recently started acting beta due to this work friend insecurity. Then that shows how weak your standards and frame actually are. You should have never entertained your girlfriend having a work husband and entertaining it and then lashing out at her shows you are a weak man
/r/TheRedPill19/06/26 12:03 AM
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How the hell do you "barely have time" to gym at home when you wfh? That is a cope. You could literally hit lifts in between meetings if you truly wanted to
/r/TheRedPill06/06/26 03:04 PM
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Texting for logistics only is training-wheels advice so guys wouldn't come off too needy or put their foot in their mouth before a first date. When I was dating around yes I wouldn't text too much before the first date but once you've built some rapport texting is good if you are dating anyone under 35. Hell because of schedules and life stuff it could be 2 weeks between a 1st and 2nd date. You really think most Gen Z chicks are gonna keep interest with your only logistic texts over that timefra…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/26 03:03 PM
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Whatever cool hobbies that you have that women are into? Yeah find out where you’re gonna do those in your new spot. I'm thinking of making a post on this exact topic. A trap a lot of guys today fall into is not understanding the idea of Proximity When you're in public and you see some fat poor lardo with a woman who looks like a Latina fertility goddess you can best believe that proximity had something to do with it To meet women you need to put yourself in the proximity of women. Sounds simple…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/26 02:59 PM
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Quickest does not equal the best I dated around NYC as a single guy for like 6 years in my 20s. Yes I wouldn't be pussy to go up and talk to a woman at a bar or in line at the cafe but by far the hottest women I got with were from social circle game.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 10:57 PM
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You may not believe me, but unless you are morbidly obese or have some horrible deformity, you can become physically attractive enough to bag top tier women in less than 2 years. All you need to do is make a serious effort to eat well, go the gym, dress well, and take care of your personal hygiene. There are tons of “glow up” videos on the internet where guys that were fat, ugly sacks of shit completely turned it around and became 8s and 9s in a matter of months. Idk about becoming an 8 or 9, bu…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 10:55 PM
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I've been thinking of making a post about something that might give you something to think about. The idea of PROXIMITY. I wish I could credit the poster on this subreddit who said this. But I can't find the comment. It went something like this: "When you're at Walmart and you see some fat poor lardo with a woman who looks like a Latina fertility goddess you can best believe that proximity had something to do with it" To meet women you need to put yourself in the proximity of women. Sounds simpl…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/26 04:06 PM
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Don't ever yell at at your partner. Just not worth it and could land you in trouble one day. Secondly, so you're in a long distance relationship and your girlfriend is gaming with another dude and talking to him a bunch. Is that the kind of relationship you want?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/26 03:51 PM
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My speculation is that mending the relationship with him may be a redemption task in your sobriety that isn't fair to hold yourself to, because there tends to be a thousand food tow rope between change that we acknowledge in ourselves and others finally acknowledging it and modifying their archetype of you in their head. One of the many pitfalls of external validation. Really good input here
/r/TheRedPill21/05/26 03:49 PM
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I mean the things you mentioned could be genuine crossing of boundaries, not necessarily shit tests. The problem is by the way you described it as "losing your shit" it sounds like you got super mad and yelled or something. A few things: Why in god's name do you have a long distance relationship? Is this "work friend" a man?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/26 02:07 PM
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I mean if you are talking about killing the Disney fairy tale version of love we see on TV then sure. But no, being red-pilled has not killed my ability to love. I just approach love in a much different way and don't have the wool over my eyes
/r/TheRedPill15/05/26 12:51 AM
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I lived there for 6 years (LES -> FiDi -> Williamsburg in my time there), but now I live in Brazil. Been fully remote for 6 years so yeah just got tired of the almost $4k/month rent. Every year I spend 6 weeks in the summer and 6 weeks in the fall back in NYC visiting family and friends. Will be heading back in a few weeks
/r/TheRedPill15/05/26 12:46 AM
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More likely, in that moment K was intrigued because I was saying “no” and would not budge, which meant I was challenging and had boundaries, which is attractive to any woman, but extra attractive to hot women. Most guys immediately turn to mush around hot women and do whatever the woman tells them to do, so when a man acts challenging, he is a rare, intriguing and different creature. Nice post as usual Woujo. It basically can be summed up with then above paragraph. You're an NYC guy (same here, …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/26 01:36 PM
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I've seen countless men paralyzed with in action over the need to “ get it right”. “I will start my business once I have the best plan and credentials” or “ Once I watch enough videos on game and read more books, then I will talk to women.” Successful men don't think this way. Success is not scripted; The loser does not realize that this is also a covert contract,i.e. if I do x, y and z then I will succeed. Imagine only asking out a girl once you've 100% certainty of success; you will be single …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/26 12:06 AM
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If you don't have problem getting women, then there is no need to inconvenience yourself and be staying up waiting around so some dumb chick can come over at midnight on a Wednesday - if you want to get some rest
/r/TheRedPill12/05/26 02:44 PM
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I think you're right in the sense that you have to at least cross the minimum threshold of looks to be fuckable - but after that confidence, game, aura, etc. do a lot of the heavy lifting I was a single guy (by choice) dating around NYC for like 6 years. Party/club scene but also social circle, dating apps, etc. I'm 5'10, and if we're using a true honest scale I'm probably a 6/10 maybe rising to a 7 in the summer when I'm tan and have the abs. But I've always been in sales so I'm super social, l…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/26 02:18 PM
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I mean I can say that I'm jealous of you being semi-retired at mid 30s haha. At the end of the day that is where I'm trying to be. I feel you about balancing ambition and burnout. TBH I wish I had a better solution for it but if I'm honest with myself my personal path involved a lot of luck. I am definitely a decent salesman, but a startup I had worked for early in my career was bought by another company and I was able to cash out like $150k post-tax. Used that plus savings to buy a beachfront a…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/26 11:02 PM
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One of the worst vices that society has completely downplayed. Worst because it makes so many people lazy and complacent. I'm not saying it should be illegal or anything. People should have freedom. But the way it has been casually normalized to smoke every day is not good. Also there is a lot of (rightful) demonization of driving while inebriated from alcohol but almost every stoner I know drives while high. I even personally partake every few months, but I've seen it destroy too many promising…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/26 03:41 PM
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So a few things. It depends on what your definition of "successful" is, and your personal relationship with the hobby. If your goal is to be a multi-multi-millionaire, start your own company, etc. Then it's prob best to quit. You just won't have the time. It depends on what games you like to play - a single player RPG is way less addicting then the microtransaction lootbox games that are literally designed to hijack your dopamine center to make you addicted. It also depends on your discipline/mo…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/26 03:37 PM
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Who wants to lay a chick that was with a 300lb fat guy lmfao
/r/TheRedPill17/04/26 09:59 PM
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It might be obvious, but we need to say it: BUILD YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE. This is where TRP often gets it wrong on here. All this nonsense talk about daygame (aka shotgun approaching every 5 that walks by) or dating apps (yes use them, but they should not be your whole "sales funnel" so to speak. I lived in NYC for 7 years and had an active social life. By far the hottest and coolest women I hooked up with were from my social circle. Friends of friends, friends of friends of friends, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/26 07:45 PM
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It sucks dude no way around it. Feeling down or like a piece of you is missing is pretty normal. A few things: Immerse yourself in interests, hobbies, and friendship/family. No man is an island and while the natural inclination is to withdraw, it is the worst thing to do. I've been there before. Secondly, take solace in the fact that there are tons of great women out there and while I don't know your ex-LTR, there is a very high likelihood that you can do much better. In my early 20s I had a bad…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/26 03:22 PM
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I've had 3 relationships with blonde women and met dozens more on casual dates. Nearly all of them exhibited a certain 'unnaturally privileged' energy where they thought they didn't have to put in any real effort in dating. It's almost as though they thought they were doing me a favor by going out with me. And these girls were objectively of average attractiveness. Enjoyed your post but as a man who was single in NYC for 5 years and dated women of all colors (preference for dark hair latinas) wh…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/25 02:21 PM
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As you say you don't need a million followers, its just a really good way to market yourself. 100%. I talked about it with friends and we all kind of agreed that where I was (4k-6k followers) was a good sweet spot. Good social proof but not douchey influencer vibes. Just a guy with a lot of friends :) It's simple. Woman see man with other women, women thinks man has status, woman want to prove herself better than other woman. Funny how people on here will talk about the importance of social proo…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/25 02:15 PM
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They think social media isn't "stoic redpill" or some shit blah blah blah. Like bro, you play to win the game. I just posted good quality vids and pics about 8-10 times per year and just put effort into taking good ones. That's about it. They see some man getting womens attention on social media and think it's some kind of cheating. Like yeah that boat party full of IG models in Brazil or that fun night out clubbing at Marquis? I actually did that shit lmfao. I just took 5 mins combined of my ni…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/25 02:11 PM
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Me neither, but I realized that if you want 9s and 10s that the social status aspect is so fkn important. What's funny is that on here I always hear morons saying shit like "I just use dating apps and game on the toilet" or some bullshit like that. And apps should be part of your game if you're decent looking. But realistically through dating apps you are capped at dating 6s and maybe the odd 7. Unless you are a literal adonis, good luck talking to a legit 9 on Hinge as she receives 50+ likes ev…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/25 02:04 PM
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You're 100% right man. Many guys left on this subreddit just like to hate and act like they're above it because the vast majority know they couldn't pull it off. I was single in NYC and built up an IG of 6k legit followers and my page just showed my fun life of traveling and partying with friends. But I taught myself photography and editing so all my pictures and videos looked great. Helped my game out 10-fold. The thing is, autists on here will just parrot "If you're interested in a woman and y…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/25 12:05 AM
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Lmfao we live in the digital age. The reality is that many of the men on this subreddit who hate on IG/social media are doing it because they don't have high enough status to make it worthwhile and they like to circlejerk about how they are enlightened red pillers who don't need it or some shit like that. Any man on here who has a good instagram knows how easy it is to use it as a complement to your social/dating life. The reality is that social media is an amplifier. If you are a fat dork then …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/25 11:58 PM
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considering you've been telling others that you've found God, came to terms with women as a whole and "no longer care" if you're unattractive and no longer an incel or lonely. cope
/r/TheRedPill07/10/25 10:35 PM
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I mean, it's probably related but you see this kind of stuff even with guys who "hold frame". Because men and women simply operate in different ways. Women love attention. During the courting phase you obviously give a woman attention. Then many guys once they bag a woman, again they think they've "made it", and now give less attention to their woman subconsciously. That's where conflict happens. I don't know about your situation but yeah, if a chick is embarrassing you in public/socially then y…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/25 02:39 PM
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Yes of course, and I selected for that. My fiancé never had a party/hoe phase (partying is a direct link to body count) and only drinks at weddings and if we have a special date night. (and her "drinking" means 1-2 glasses of red wine). She had one boyfriend for 7 years and broke up with him because her older brother was out on the town and caught him on a date with someone else cheating. That was the only guy she had been with before me. What is extremely important (idk if non-negotiable but it…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/25 12:35 PM
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Lmfao do I have to come up with hobbies for them? I'm not saying that drinking beers with the boys is bad, but again, the type of dude to do that literally every weekend is a loser. And cool, I don't want average friends lol
/r/TheRedPill26/09/25 12:33 PM
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Just because someone becomes "red-pill aware" doesn't mean that they will actually go and do the hard work to enact it in their life and mindset. The vast, vast majority don't, especially as red pill hit the mainstream. Losers like Fresh and Fit brought red pill messaging to millions of additional people while also dragging them down by making people listen to them bash Miami club hoes for 2 and a half hours.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 11:09 PM
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I'm not even necessarily talking about marriage even. A lot of men get a good looking women to be their girlfriend and immediately think "I've made it" and stop trying. In any case, I’m not one to wag my finger at another man for enjoying his life. If he wants to spend his weekend with the boys and not his wife, who am I to judge? Yeah I mean time with the boys is important but the archetype of dude who just crushes beers all weekend while watching sports for 8 hours on Saturday and Sunday are l…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 10:22 PM
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I've considered making a post about this precise topic, but you're right. If you do want to be married and have kids you need to do due diligence like a business doing a multi-billion dollar merger. I was single and vetting for 6+ years before I found my current fiancé. I journal a lot, and it might sound unromantic but I literally wrote down a list of qualities I wanted in a wife and categorized them from "non negotiable" down to "nice to have". I met and dated a lot of women over those years a…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 06:32 PM
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It could, but tbh many guys think that they've "made it" when they lock down a woman so they subconsciously pull back on effort and attention.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 06:20 PM
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I feel like I see it more with men who can't stop partying. Because of many factors it's way more normal to be a 38 year old guy at a club than it is to be a 38 year old woman lol. And yea, the state of men today is generally pretty pathetic. A huge portion of the male population has been socially and economically castrated but that's a longer discussion. Too many men out there plough through the drudgery of working life during the week only to inundate themselves with booze and sports on the we…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 06:19 PM
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There are some very high quality women on apps. However, most of them arent on there or use them enough to actually get in reps Agreed. I often see people on here saying "high quality women aren't on dating apps" but that isn't true. But the reality is that high quality women either delete the apps because they don't like online dating or they meet someone quick and immediately focus on them, instead of dating around and playing the field. I was a single guy in NYC for almost 4 years. Genuinely …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 07:34 PM
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You're pretty spot-on and I say this as someone who was able to have a lot of success with hot women on Hinge. I was 26 years old with my own apartment in NYC in good shape (still am), good socially, and a good social media presence. The problem is truly hot women (I'm talking 8s not 5s and 6s) are basically impossible to lock down on the apps in NYC. Too much noise and competition. By far the best return on investment when it came to women was building up my social circles and making friends wi…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 07:30 PM
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I'm engaged not married, but I have a well-written pre-nup to protect my assets and I'm marrying into a rich family not in the US. The bigger thing over the physical contract is the fact my future wife comes from a traditional family with great role models (parents married for 30+ years, older siblings married for years), isn't a hoe, and thinks social media is a waste of time. I could go on and on, but I was ruthless in my selection criteria for a wife, and for a long time I thought I wouldn't …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/25 03:53 PM
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Yep ;) $250k/yr, apartment I own in full, and great relationship with the 'rents :D
/r/TheRedPill08/08/25 11:20 AM
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Oh em gee a redditor lost respect for me because I think a dude who jerks off and watches Netflix all day is a loser... whatever will I do
/r/TheRedPill08/08/25 12:17 AM
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lol you don't know who you're talking to. I have a fiance that is completely in line with my worldview. And the fact that a comment about not trying and spending all your time watching Netflix and porn is upvoted shows how far this place has fallen into the dirt.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/25 01:44 PM
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It's always the contrarian midwits who always chime in with the "but akshully blah blah blah" and then list a fringe example.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/25 11:02 PM
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Well it's a positive feedback loop and both play into each other. Women need validation and attention and in 2025 a women can get unlimited supplies while scrolling on her phone in bed. Majority of men today are simps and yes men hit on women more, so they are giving away attention and validation at absurd levels. This causes women to do more validation-seeking actions (bikini pics on social media) which in turn causes more men to give out free attention.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/25 01:12 PM
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It's something important to look for when vetting for a long term relationship. The problem is, looking for low partner count women is tough so most men end up settling.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/25 01:09 PM
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Any guy that has played the game long enough has been in a situation like that. I went through something similar where after a hookup I looked up a chick on Instagram only to see she was in a long-distance relationship lol. And it's a pandoras box I thought about with my current girlfriend. We dated for about 6 months before we became official. It just made me think, am I that guy in my situation, are we all at some point? I've decided to keep that box closed. The way I personally look at this i…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/25 01:07 PM
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Begone to some MGTOW forum
/r/TheRedPill05/08/25 12:55 PM
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A life of cowardice and isolation is no life for a man. Will you fight? Or will you perish like a dog?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/25 12:00 AM
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Lo' and Behold I didn't even remember that I commented under that post and said: Some guys really need to internalize this because they are ignorant to it. Women are NEVER single in the same way a man would be. The idea of a woman going like 2 months without any legit interaction with the opposite sex is pure fiction. She's either banging her ex, dating 3-4 guys from apps, one night stands, etc. At the VERY LEAST, she is talking over text/IG to a few guys. The layered Red Pill behind that realit…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 07:12 PM
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I find that as a man your two best strats are to go all in or not at all, because any half ass effort will be trumped by a more dedicated man. Not true at all. Plenty of dudes out there who have hot chicks hooked while they are giving 10-15% effort. 10% effort from a guy she's infatuated with is worth infinitely more than 100% effort from a dork.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 07:07 PM
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Really depends on the specific woman in question, but you're mostly right. Girls who score high on big 5 traits extraversion & openness (and lower on agreeableness and conscientiousness) are likely to also score high on sociosexuality (willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship.) There are absolutely girls who are afraid to meet men/go out and go work>gym>home>sleep repeat. The amount of truly attractive women who are not at least somewhat entertaining male roma…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 05:47 PM
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NEVER settle. I have been considering writing a post about this topic. I'm 30 now, and spent ages 23-29 single, playing the field, traveling the world, etc. I now have a fiance, but for a long time I accepted that I might not find someone that met my standards. I was just never going to be a guy that just sleepwalked into a marriage because it was "the right time" or whatever. It sounds Machiavellian (because it is) and is antithetical to the Disney ideal of love, but the best way to find a good…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 03:26 PM
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In an Hypergamous AWALT world, women are always receiving attention from someone, somewhere. It's precisely this reality that BP guys have to come to terms with. Even your stereotypical "good girl" is getting attention from somewhere. It just is probably limited to different settings than an IG whore who gets it from posting bikini pics on Instagram. OP— what has you reflecting on this? One of my best friends just got himself out of a disaster of a relationship, and I've been giving him advice i…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 03:17 PM
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These women are beyond easy to spot and to see through. Once you've been around the game long enough you can pretty easily tell
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 12:45 AM
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If you're a doormat with weak boundaries, your solution isn't stronger boundaries that others still won't respect. Your solution is a stronger frame that will give you more self-respect and bring you more respect from others. Ok, I get that. But if OP is a newbie then what is your actual actionable advice then? Enforcing and then most importantly STANDING BEHIND stronger boundaries is in of itself developing a stronger frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 12:42 AM
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Let's say you have a new girlfriend. She wants to go to Vegas/Nashville (or any other Whore Mecca) for a Bachelor Party. Do you really want to be in a relationship where you are sitting at home as your girlfriend is in another city boozed up partying with a bunch of hoes? Why would you invite that negative energy into your life? The sad truth many guys on here don't want to admit is that if your chick is even asking to go to Vegas without you then that is already a big red flag. She should have …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 12:40 AM
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I was a single dude from 23-29 just dating around. Combination of wanting to play the field and also I did the digital nomad thing for a few years. For me I would say the biggest indicators are effort, care, and sexual initiation/interest. Even for guys who aren't complete incels and can go out there and have hookups or ltrs, there is a complete difference between a woman that is just with you, and a woman that is invested in you completely. Many guys even get all the way into marriage without e…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/25 04:51 PM
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I'll give you the tough love that you need to hear. LTR just blindsided me 2ish weeks ago saying she 'lost the spark' and 'wants to work on herself'. This is her breaking up with you, you just haven't accepted it yet. No woman who truly loves a man wants space from him to work on herself. It just doesn't happen. going stupid beta simp mode and texting her twice what I want out of this 'cool-down' period (I cannot wait indefinitely, I still intend on visiting her/fighting for 'us') Be a man and a…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 11:59 PM
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This is chat gpt slop my friend
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 11:50 PM
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A lot of the time when you see a Latina built like a fertility goddess pushing a cart with three kids in Walmart married to some lard Mexican, PROXIMITY probably had something to do with it. LMFAO. Yeah people very much underestimate pure logistical things such as what you mentioned. When I was 25, I moved from an apartment in the suburbs to a 1br in a major city 5-10 minute walk from where all the post-grad hotties frequented. I already did fine enough for myself with women but just being in an…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 11:48 PM
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Saying that "men age like fine wine" is just a massive cope peddled by boomers like Rollo Hilarious considering he looks like shit lol. Like sure he's not fat but that's not everything.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 11:40 PM
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If you are talking about attaining a long-term female partner at their physical peak (23-25 years old let's say) then yes I agree that 27-32 probably sounds right in American culture. Rollo’s SMV graph is only accurate if it’s in reference to a partner of the same age. I'm American but I live in LATAM now, and because of many factors (cultural, socio-economic, etc.) it's way more common to see bigger age gaps. There's just far less cultural taboo about it.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 11:39 PM
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So the women who like me crave submission and compliance and wouldn't listen to this type of woman anyway. Their most likely reaction would be "These women are HIGH; I need a man." Yeah as I've matured and my dating xp has leveled up it became easy to "see the matrix" so to speak and be far better at selecting in terms of personality traits. Losers at life beyond any hope of recovery, who don't want anyone else to be happy. Crab-in-bucket mentality. Also that kind of mentality often stems from a…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 11:34 PM
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Ofc, another problem is that this set up is ripe for abuse - the men on it are basically being doxxed without their knowledge, with no opt out, no visibility, and therefore also without any redress or right of reply. So basically it's a Defamation Machine for bitter women. And maybe it warns them against the occasional dirtbag. Luckily I don't have to worry about this anymore (left the US and now have a fiancé) but I got posted on one of these "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Facebook groups a few y…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 10:01 PM
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When Covid started and I saw the writing on the wall I personally set a few goals: Kill it in my career (sales) + become location independent Build a well-stocked investment portfolio and savings Stay in shape, get sun, good food only, booze only every once in a while My goal of getting rich has nothing to do with buying a vacation home in The Hamptons or buying a Porsche. Only reason I've grinded so hard is because I will never again be the slave of a company or ideally anyone for that matter. …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/25 11:06 PM
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Most "redpill" youtubers are complete grifters trying to get you to buy supplements or memberships to communities.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 04:38 PM
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Those interviews of “women telling on themselves” are the worst part of the red pill to me. It's pathetic rage porn. Nothing more, nothing less. Like Fresh and Fit. Because yeah 3 hours of listening to two midwits bash Miami club hoes is totally a good use of time!! /s It's all some bullshit power fantasy where chumps get off on these women being called idiots or whatever. Completely sad and moronic.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 04:37 PM
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A very simple way to avoid this is to, as you said, avoid seriously dating women from certain “high risk” professions. Yup lol. Simply treat it as if it's some other trait that is a hard no from you in terms of finding a long-term partner. I would never date a woman whose life revolved around 12hr+ shifts away from me in a charged environment. The reason those type of women develop "work husbands" is because they fuckin see that guy more than they see you! The harsh reality is that most guys sim…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/25 02:44 PM
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Therefore, you have two options: 1. Cycle through women; good, reasonable women by Western standards 2. Wait for or go find a woman; young, attractive, impressionable women, with less experience than you. This is a catch-22. There are women in the former category who would make excellent partners even after playing the field. And there are women in the latter category who will be absolute menaces because they want to play the field. It sounds too Machiavellian to some and maybe antithetical to t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/25 04:54 AM
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The more presentable you are, the better you'll be treated off the bat. Vividly remember the moment where I shifted my mindset into being presentable at all times no matter what. I was 22/23 and had just come off a few days of being sick and went to walk to the local coffee shop. Hadn't shaven in like 4 days so facial hair was shitty, wearing a big comfy shirt that had a few holes in it, sweatpants so baggy I looked like a rapper from 2003, flip flops, etc. Basically looked like I had just crawl…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/25 04:23 AM
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That's just not the case lol. If you seriously think that all countries have the same culture between the genders as the cesspit that is the US then you're delusional
/r/TheRedPill18/06/25 01:03 PM
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Competence, while it is often overlooked in favor of its sexy cousin, Confidence, absolutely SLAYS. Anything that removes female anxiety and lets them operate from their “girlfriend brain” or their "sexy brain" In the last year or so I have 2 friends who got out of 5+ year relationships come to ask me for dating advice as they weren't seeing success despite being objectively reasonably handsome guys. One actually had OK game over messages, but was the most passive pussy when it came to actually …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/25 09:26 PM
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Historically, women did have an avenue for maximizing their strategy. It came from mothers, grandmothers, aunts: a passed-down framework that emphasized pairing sex with long-term value. In their absence, feminism and pop culture stepped in with no fault divorce and you-go-girl attitudes, dating apps replaced courtship, and the state stepped in to replace fathers. These are all things you have to look out for when you are vetting someone. Do they have a good relationship with family, are they ob…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/25 09:16 PM
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Shit bro. Puts things in perspective about how small some of our problems are really. I'm glad I was able to shine a bit of light into your life. I will pray for you tonight, and I hope you are able to find the best path forward for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/25 02:40 PM
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I have traveled all over the US lol. Lived in California, Illinois, and NY. Traveled for fun and for work all across the land. I've been to like 40 states. Not really seeing any value at all here. Higher QOL for lower COL is just one. The way I see it - you were a small fish in an ocean, and rather than becoming the big fish or shark, you moved to the pond. That's fine and all, but just calling it how it is. I just really don't care about being a big fish or a shark lol. I'm in sales I already e…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/25 02:38 PM
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Well, it might be a fringe case but I found a woman who was barely on social media before we met (only IG) and deleted it (on her own accord) shortly after we met. Like me, she is very into self-improvement and saw how it was affecting her mood, sleep, etc. So I don't really need to worry about dating anymore.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/25 06:24 PM
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Oh yes, lol at the dumbass “arguments” against moving, misery surely loves company. I see it in every thread about leaving the states, so just thought I'd get ahead of it lol. Glad for you man, wish I could do that. What's stopping you? Family? Job?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/25 12:38 PM
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You bring up a good point in your last sentence but let's clarify here. I did not move abroad mainly for dating. I moved abroad mainly for overall quality of life and cost of living. In a few years, the countries you guys start moving to will be reduced to a poorer and a less powerful version of the States, don't you think? Elaborate on this premise please. Do you mean that American culture via social media will be so pervasive that every country will succumb to it? Or that a influx of Americans…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 11:18 PM
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Usually whenever people discover a new way to win at life, it's only good when a select few men are doing it. Once the masses start doing it (likely after 2028), it loses its winning power. A few things. Firstly Brazil is not nearly as big of a long-term destination for Westerners as Southeast Asia and Mexico, Colombia, Belize, etc. This is due to many factors, including language, proximity to the US, worse exchange rate, etc. When your average Uber driver starts talking about moving abroad, the…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 11:12 PM
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I work in software sales and I have started to build up mentorship as a "side hustle"
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 11:08 PM
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I appreciate the discourse and you do make some salient points. The questions I always ask myself are am I ok leaving family/friends behind? Had plenty of friends (made more here) and family was all spread out anyways. I also have plenty of cash and the freedom to fly home and visit anytime I'd like. But they also have the most advanced healthcare. The largest capital markets, smartest people, the best education and biggest opportunities. I'm not locked out of the US markets, smart people... sur…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 09:56 PM
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I feel like I should say something about this whole Wizard Liz situation. I feel like you shouldn't. This is what this once great subreddit has devolved into? Armchair analysis of a Z-tier tik tok celeb's dating life?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 06:11 PM
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As my Dad used to say in regards to finding a quality woman... if you go digging through the garbage bin you'll find trash. Yes, if you go to the 2025 version of Sodom and Gomorrah and go after exclusively club girls, then you will find vapid and materialistic hoes.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 06:03 PM
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Yes it's a loss leader. They lose money on it but it gets people in the store and they buy higher margin items.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/25 12:49 PM
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Costco rotisserie chicken if you're feeling lazy and don't want to cook. Can turn one into 3-4 meals easy. Also if you don't care about organic free range, eggs aren't going to break the bank either. Also fruit is a good source of carbs as well. I buy blueberries, strawberries, and bananas in bulk and then freeze them. Then I make protein smoothies with them. Point being, good stuff. It's pure cope when people talk about how "it's way more expensive to eat healthy" and what these losers don't re…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/25 02:21 PM
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relationships aren't a science. I'm sure you could find a chick out there with a body count of 2 that will cheat on you no matter what you do and how much you hold frame and act like a man. I'm also sure you can find a chick out there who has banged 200 guys who if she met you would treat you like a king and always be loyal The point being is in general as a woman bangs more guys her ability to form an emotional attachment diminishes. This just makes logical sense. If you have a woman who has ba…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/25 09:05 PM
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You lose that frame the second you start negotiating your standards to avoid arguments or gain approval. The second you let disrespect slide because you’re afraid she’ll leave. But here’s the irony, she’ll leave anyway. Because once you lose your backbone, you lose her attraction. Women might test your boundaries, but they don’t want to be with a man who has none. mic drop What all the newbies on here need to understand. Being a supplicating kiss ass is not the move. And is in fact taking the ea…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/25 09:00 PM
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Women like fun, emotional experiences. Learning how to create impacting emotional experiences is in my opinion the most important trait of dating/attraction. Yes developing your life/career is important. (I have) Yes being in good shape and having good fashion/hygiene is important. (I do that) But there are plenty of good looking guys in good shape with good fashion and good careers who get absolutely walked over and don't hit 1/10th of their dating potential because they have about as much exci…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/25 04:01 PM
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Positive delusion is definitely better than a negative spiral.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/25 01:48 PM
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I did perfectly fine for myself in the states. Was a 24 year old with his own (small) 1br apartment in NYC. Was in good shape, social, went on dates, etc. Going to other countries simply took my status to a whole new level to be quite honest. If you're making $5k/month in somewhere like Colombia you basically are lower nobility. The problem is so many guys who were absolute lames in the US came down there and started behaving like fucking clowns
/r/TheRedPill08/04/25 01:54 PM
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Edit: You can be the biggest toughest MF out there, but it just takes someone knowing how to flip the switch to turn you into an intimidated 5 year old. As a former amateur boxer it was always funny to see the jacked new guys have their first sparring session because they would always be overconfident. Only to have a small hispanic dude 40lbs lighter than them whoop them as they could barely breathe after 45 seconds because their brain was so not used to being in a physical altercation. Managing…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/24 07:51 PM
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Every guy should learn a martial art sure, but I'd just be wary of jumping into it with that mindset because it could make you overconfident and get into a physical altercation that "pre martial arts" you would have shied away from. Yes be able to defend yourself but de-escalate, de-escalate, de-escalate.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/24 07:48 PM
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Girls like it when you have close friends who are girls lol I don't think they need to be close friends. My definition of a close friend is someone I could call to vent to after a family member died or a bad breakup. A close friend is someone you call up to "just chill" on a boring day with nothing to do. I have zero close female friends, and honestly I don't see the point. But I have a big network of female "friends" and acquaintances through social networks that I go out with, blah blah blah. …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 04:29 PM
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If you attract a beautiful woman, it does not mean one less for me, despite how it seems on the surface. You are looking at it the completely wrong way. If you attract a beautiful women, sure it's not less for some random guy lol. BUT When you attract a woman you are always taking her from someone else. Any woman who is even a 3/10 is going on dates, hooking up, or at the very least messaging a guy. The moment that woman chooses you, you are winning the competition against her other suitors. Tha…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/23 06:12 PM
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You've gone way too far in the other direction. Yes incessantly comparing yourself to everyone else is not good for mental health, and I'm all for leaving the rat race. But as another commenter said, life is a competition whether you want to acknowledge it or not. Just because it isn't as overt as "bro that guy benches 225, I need to bench more" doesn't mean it's not happening all the time. Every time a woman chooses you as a partner - competition Every time a client buys your service - competit…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/23 06:09 PM
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And I laugh when people act like it's a requirement. If you are deadlifting for the sake of increasing your deadlift then sure. You can talk about perfect form all you want. Even perfect form deadlifts put a lot of strain on the lower back. If your goal is athletic performance or aesthetics then deadlifts have one of the worst risk to reward ratios out of any exercise.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/23 06:02 PM
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I went through the same thing in college. Once you're out of the "college bubble" you go right back to the bottom of the totem pole. In addition to that, in college you have a level of organic socialization you will never have ever again in your life. My dorm buildings freshman and sophomore year had over 300 people each. For me, a large part of the problem is that although my social skills are fine, I'm not fond of spending a lot of my time socially interacting with people. If I'm being honest …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 03:40 PM
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which alone is a huge improvement in any one’s life As someone who worked a cubicle job for 2 years pre-Covid. Work from home is the best thing that ever happened to my mental health. I will never go into an office on a regular basis ever again. Dealing with moronic coworkers and bosses looking over your shoulder. Pretending to do shit while you actually search the internet 70% of the time. Spending an hour plus a day in a car just driving back and forth. Fuck. That. Now I can wake up at 6, hit …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/23 12:03 AM
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This is literally slave morality. Self-aggrandizement for dealing with shitty conditions. Instead of improving yourself Seems like you didn't read the post. face your challenges Do you think you can overpower the propaganda and disinformation enabled by big tech lol? You can improve yourself gain skills and be great with women and also find a wife in the western societies, US Canada Switzerland etc. Ok, I can do all of that in Brazil, have triple the purchasing power, and be in a society that st…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/23 11:59 PM
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Brazil southern states are amazing
/r/TheRedPill26/09/23 11:56 PM
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I'm speaking from experience here, if the connection was truly life partner material then you wouldn't even question if A would move across the country with you, and B is a club girl so who cares.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/23 11:53 PM
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Be on the hunt for deals. You will not be living in some high rise, and it will still be pricey, but you can find deals in NYC if you have your ear to the ground and you are luck. I was living in an apartment with 3 roommates in the lower east side. Was a lot of fun, but I needed my own space. Through a friend of a friend of a friend I actually found a crazy deal on a rent-stabilized apartment. Was a 750 sq ft 1 bedroom that was "just" $2200/month which is crazy. It had also been recently renova…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/23 03:50 PM
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I'm not saying to not strike up a conversation with a woman in public you find attractive. I do sometimes. But no guy worth a damn is spending 5 hours of his saturday hanging around the park chatting up any 6 or 7 that walks by. I could go on dates with literally unlimited 6s and 7s just off of Hinge, and that would be a far better use of my time. As my value has increased my standards have as well. And the type of women I'm involved with in the last 2-3 years are not chicks who are randomly wal…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/23 02:48 AM
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Dating apps should be a part of your funnel for sure. But they should not be all of it, and to say otherwise is a cope. I dated around NYC for 4 years. Literally limitless options. Yeah you can basically hook up with/date with unlimited 6s and 7s through Hinge if you have your shit together. But if you want to hook up with truly top tier women (in terms of attractiveness) you will not be doing it through Hinge unless you're an Adonis. You will simply not stand out as she receives 50 Hinge likes …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/23 02:22 PM
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The pickupsphere is cringe, but the one thing it gets right is getting dudes to actually talk to women. You can be an attractive guy, but if you don't actually go out there and try, you won't get laid. I think one of the areas where TRP falls short is guiding men on how to actually put yourself in the position to meet attractive women through social circles. Any retard can hang around a park for an hour and shotgun approach every half-decent looking woman that walks by. Positioning yourself to b…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 06:31 PM
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First day lays are honestly more about logistics than about raw attraction. You could meet a woman who is absolutely 100% into you on a night out. But it's her friend's birthday and she's at the bar with 5 friends so your chances of getting laid on that night are practically zero. You could meet a woman who likes you half as much as the woman in the first example but she could go home with you that night because you met her on Hinge and you're on a date just the two of you and she's horny.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 06:23 PM
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Consistency and discipline is key. You know what's crazy? A guy who goes to the gym 3-4 times per week and does low intensity lifting will have like 80% of the gains as the dude who lifts like a gorilla 6 times a week assuming diet and everything else is the same. Now I'm not saying that as carte blanche to slack off. There are other benefits to pushing your body and mind to the limit besides just pure muscle growth. What I'm saying is that consistency is key over a long time scale.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 03:22 PM
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If you read the comments you will notice the average redditor claim that the epidemic is a hold over from the patriarchy where men never learned to emotionally socialize. It's hilarious how much this bullshit rhetoric has been allowed to become "fact" in the zeitgeist. Yes, most men aren't prone to opening up willy nilly. But serious shit has happened to buddies of mine and we've had no problem being there for them. And no judgement for some tears shed because deep down we all know we've been th…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 03:30 AM
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If you want to GTFO out of the US and use geo-arbitrage to live as lower nobility in LATAM instead of toiling away on the sinking ship that is the US amongst slave morality blowhards raise your hand 🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 03:19 AM
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Who decides someone’s a fat broke loser? You a stranger or the person you’re looking at themselves? The world. I can't wave around monopoly money and pretend it's worth a million dollars. As for Patrice O'Neal you're bringing up a fringe example of a celebrity, and seeing as he was an acclaimed popular comedian, no he's not a loser. The idea of some dude who isn't worth shit but "accepts himself" being a loser because it makes him happy is some self-help garbage rhetoric
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 03:14 AM
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Until you genuinely accept yourself without judgement you will never be happy. ? This is kinda cope. So if you're a fat broke loser just accept yourself without judgement? Not everyone is the same. Many people have pushed themselves to do great things because they did the exact opposite of "accepting themselves without judgement"
/r/TheRedPill04/09/23 02:45 AM
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The other issue with a ‘broken picker’ is that a woman can gradually become a tingle chaser. If the guy she’s with isn’t doing it for her anymore, she’ll be out looking for a new source of tingles and all the drama and chaos that comes with it. One bad relationship becomes a string of them. Normal relationships become boring to the point she feels trapped in a cage. Great point here. So many women these days get caught on the hamster wheel of "toxic" relationships/situationships because 99% of w…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/23 03:49 PM
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Those outside her circle are mostly invisible. We all know the story. A hot chick who runs around with a string of dudes not giving her commitment and then turns around and says "all men are scum!" when there's probably 100 dudes in her Hinge likes/Instagram DMs that would treat her like a queen. The reality is as you said, those guys are just invisible to her. When people bring up how young men have it tough today 99% of good looking women cannot even comprehend it because the only thing regist…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/23 03:39 PM
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Whether it's a deadline for print, or whether you just need to finish it and move on, at some point it has to be done. This is what personally took me from someone who was training in boxing to an actual amateur fighter. I had been boxing for about 8 months and my coach pulled me aside and said I'm doing great, but if I actually want to be a fighter I need to scheduled a fight and make that my mission instead of just training to "get better". Having that deadline just made it "real" and took my …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 02:04 PM
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"Any man who must say I am the king is no true king"
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 02:00 PM
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You can't soley rely on game because you cannot negotiate attraction. You still have to be attractive and whether or not she finds you attractive is going to be the deciding factor the majority of the time. Yeah no one is saying to be a fat slob and just spend all your time practicing "game" (I personally think pickup culture is mega cringe).... Yeah you can't negotiate attraction, but female attraction is a lot different than male attraction. Women are also attracted to confidence and the gener…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/23 11:09 PM
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After an hour, I opened a set of 2 girls. One girl was talking to a guy, and the other girl seemed kinda bored. So I opened the set by sitting on the empty seat that was next to the bored girl. She told me that they were waiting for someone to join them in a couple of minutes. Told the girls "I'm about to leave the venue, just waiting for my bill" so they wouldn't be overprotective about the seat. After that, their guard was lowered. I sparked a conversation with the girl who I was seated next t…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/23 11:05 PM
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However if a chick wont so much as look at you twice in the venue....she isn't interested. Not true whatsoever. How is this upvoted? In a hectic nightlife setting a girl isn't necessarily going to be batting her eyelids at you like a movie or some shit. And besides that, while looks are important (I've spent a lot of time and effort on mine) female attraction is far less looks based than male attraction. A woman could be scanning a crowded bar/club and not look at you twice... but after an appro…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/23 11:00 PM
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You don't want a "hoe" but are looking to pick up chicks from nightclubs lol?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/23 06:45 PM
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Bucharest is one of the safest cities in Europe lol. Far more likely to get robbed walking around London or Barcelona
/r/TheRedPill17/08/23 06:42 PM
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Yeah once again.... the entire point is to not be the "average joe" who gets taken for a ride and gives his attention away like it's candy. And OP never said to deliberately ignore women. Just don't shower them with unearned attention. There's a difference. but of course it is a fine line between faking high value by the ignore her game and being overly needy and over investing. Yes the entire world of dating and gender relations is one of nuance
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 11:33 PM
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Yes the classic man-shaming rhetoric that deems anything that you don't like as not being a "real man". How predictable!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 08:35 PM
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You didn't address anything I said. Whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 08:35 PM
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Myself and the other gal are just shooting you straight Lol I'm good. OP never said to ignore women lol. Just to not give your attention out freely as you are squandering a precious commodity. And to revoke that attention if any bullshit behavior pops up. You can bring up your anecdotal evidence of your and your "girlfriends" and I can bring up my anecdotal evidence of dating around NYC for 4 years lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:51 PM
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Be in respectable shape, learn how to create/enable emotional experiences, and treat your attention like a valuable commodity and you will basically be above 80% of guys out there in the world. I'm personally not as black and white as OP about the divvying out of attention though. If I'm seeing a chick and she's doing everything right then I don't mind cranking up the attention a bit. I work from home so I don't mind having a brief message convo for 10 minutes before getting back to work. You ju…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:47 PM
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First of all, the average joe has zero game. You can't teach calculus to a person still learning how to add and subtract. The point of these type of male spaces online is to not be an average chump lol? this is why men complain about women ghosting. you ignored her and she ghosted you, duh? that ain't rocket science. Haha nice attempt to flip this back on men somehow. The vast vast majority of dudes out there who are getting ghosted are the ones who are overly needy/emotionally invested or simpl…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:37 PM
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Are you that dense that you don't realize you obviously need to go through a stage of initial courting lol? OP's not implying to just hang around in the vicinity of a chick and ignore her lol. I agree with her, you have to be a rich giga Chad for this strategy to ever work. And you really have to be smooth for it not to appear as thr game that it is. If she finds out, and chances are she will. Ghosts you Dated around NYC for 4 years. Completely average guy at first glance. I'm in decent shape bu…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:34 PM
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I also found myself becoming less and less judgemental of girls having sex in general too. I used to think “any girl who dates more than 1 guy is a total fucking slut” (Yeah, I was quite judgemental…) Since dropping that insecure view of female sexuality, I’ve been rewarded with much more honesty and trust. Girls open up to me now far more than they ever did in the past. Not only does that result in more honesty, but the sex is a million times better. A girl that feels like she can “let go” and …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:23 PM
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Here's some advice. Treat "club girls" how they should be treated, fun only. And have some god damned standards for who you get into a relationship with.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/23 05:10 PM
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People on here always talk about the social dynamics, but the economic changes over the last 30-40 years have been maybe the most impactful factor in the lower QOL for men these days. Ever decreasing purchasing power and the destruction of unions/pensions have had a massive effect. Let's say you make like $80k/yr. You're in the top 15% of income but if you are living anywhere close to a major city you basically cannot afford a house on that income unless your parents help you out or you live lik…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 03:28 PM
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A man's ability to "pair bond" with a woman is affected by an increase in partner count, but not to the same extent. I'm not advocating for it necessarily, but a man can go out there, fuck a chick, and come back home and be willing to die for his wife and protect and provide for her. If you're in an LTR and your gf/wife fucks another dude she will never respect you the same.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 03:14 PM
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I lost frame through anger many, many times through that relationship and she exploited me every chance she got to get revenge. I’m a (36M) and I’ve been through 6 or 7 decent LTRs. She is by far the only one who would make me explode with her narcissistic, attention seeking behavior. Two things. You're a grown ass man in your mid 30s. She didn't "make you" do jack shit. Take accountability for your actions.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 03:02 PM
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Men, it's time to be great. This new generation of "men" are so soft just step on them as you climb your way to the top The blackpillers will always hamster about "muh 80/20 rule" and blah blah blah. What they always seem to leave out is how fucking easy it is to become a top 20% man. The majority of men today are out of shape and addicted to video games and porn and completely bluepill. Make like 80k/yr, be in reasonable shape, have your own place, and don't be an autist socially and you're bas…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 04:32 PM
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If your girl is hot OF COURSE she is going to have lurkers trying to meet her. It is to be expected. To be honest, if a chick I'm dating doesn't have other dudes trying to get with her then she either isn't hot enough or never leaves the house lol. Every attractive chick I've dated has had some sad sap trying to worm his way in.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:43 PM
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If you're a newbie, then fine. But once you get out there and run the game a bit you realize that chicks often boomerang back at some point. My policy is to not burn leads for no good reason. And tbh blocking a chick so you can't see her Insta story or some shit is some weak pussy shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:34 PM
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Being "alpha" and "holding frame" doesn't mean be an uptight hardo and take everything super seriously. Dude, a word of advice. Yes don't be a spineless bitch but few things are more unattractive than a dude with a stick up his ass. It sometimes can be a fine line, but you're gonna need to learn to walk it. I've set up dates where we were gonna meet at the place, and then the woman asked me for a ride instead. As long as it's not too far out of your way and doesn't become a consistent thing of h…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:29 PM
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Yes, 8am is weird. Unless you are some fantasy Adonis Chad model no good looking normal girl who you've never met in-person is going to agree to go on an 8am first date with you.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:23 PM
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Hard to tell without being there to hear the tone and see the body language
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:20 PM
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Pretty much all that needs to be said ^
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:19 PM
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How can we transform theredpill into a revolution for men that betters society? What is causing this decline and how do we stop it? People will get into a fit of rage and say "but...but... you're a loser who's giving up" but there is no stopping it. If a person seriously thinks that they can go against the people and companies that literally control all the information in the world then they are deluded. The US is going down the tubes. That much is for sure. We have already lost the battle of th…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 03:43 PM
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If you can’t get it done in NYC you probably can’t get it done anywhere assuming you’re at least a viable independent man dating in NYC it’s like taking candy from a baby if you’re a decent man in my opinion 100%. If you're a dude with his own place in NYC (even a relatively shitty studio) that alone puts you above like 70% of the guys there lol. And while finding an LTR might be tougher tons of career women there just want to date and have fun.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/23 08:14 PM
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Asking for or accepting social media is merely a chance to join the other orbitors in chasing "her highness". I.e. treating her like a celebrity. If you have a shit social media and are a loser, then sure. If you have a dope one (like me showing off my world travels) and aren't a pussy then it couldn't be further from the truth. Social media is simply an amplifier, nothing more. If you're a fucking dork, then your social media will just hammer home that fact. If you're a well put together man wi…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/23 11:52 PM
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I’m in New York City and it’s a tougher game as I’m playing against chads with a bit of money as well lol. As someone who just did 4 years as a mid 20s guy making decent but not crazy money in NYC (75k to 115k by the time I left), this is kind of a cope. I'm a completely average looking dude at first glance (lean-muscular with my shirt off but women don't see that initially) and I had no problem pulling tons of women in NYC. Yes there's a lot "high value" men but in the young neighborhoods there…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 01:14 PM
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The places you go and the way you conduct yourself will perpetuate the kind of people you attract. If you live and think and act like a fuck boy, then you will attract fuck girls looking for a fuck boy. True that. I don't doubt OP's stories one bit. I've done stints in Miami for a 3-4 weeks a few times. But OP is literally banging around the whoriest of the whore women in the whore capital of the US (and thus the world). Miami is such a whore capital the term "304" (the South Florida area code) …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 01:11 PM
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As you probably know, there's no "a friend of a friend" date, it's just a plot to test the waters, since you didn't give her the answer before. ehh I'd push back on this a bit. Maybe it's a bit different because I spent so much time in NYC but yes chicks will go on dates with other guys in that initial courtship phase as a sort of "fuck you" to a man who isn't giving her commitment vibes. This is often because of egging on from their friends too
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 01:01 PM
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You can't make this shit up lmao
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 03:47 PM
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You guys are leaving because you are incapable of “rising to the challenge” I love this logic lmao. These people will literally complain about how the 1% are evaporating the middle class, the dating scene is awful and only going to get worse, blah blah blah, and the second you say "well ok I'm leaving" they pull out this bullshit boomerism logic of "real men stay and fight" or some shit. To feel self aggrandizement for surrendering to shorty conditions is slave morality. This 100% ^
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 03:46 PM
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Your average woman is far more observant about social clues than your average man. If you're a guy out there that actually has women interested, they can basically smell it on you. For instance, I recently moved away, but for a while I was living in NYC on my own. So I start to date a new woman and she sees that I'm decent looking, confident, in-shape, independent/mature, socially adept (witty, good at teasing her, etc.), adventurous, well-traveled, etc. A woman doesn't need to find a stray hair…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 12:46 PM
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Cocky funny is generally the overall demeanor you are going for, but making some shitty Marvel movie quip stating you bang a lot of chicks is some cringe shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 12:41 PM
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I don’t think you know what you’re talking about. I do. I was single as a mid 20's in-shape social man with my own 1BR in NYC for almost 4 years. Went on dozens of first dates. So you often talk about past LTR’s on first dates? It's not something I personally bring up, but plenty of women ask something along the lines of "when was your last relationship?" on dates. It's a pretty normal question. I just say "yeah it was about 3 years ago. We just weren't a good fit long-term" with a smile. 95% of…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 08:21 PM
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Not everything needs to be Agreed and Amplified or have some retarded Marvel movie quip in response. One of the worst trends to come out of PUA. You signal the fact that you have other women interested in you in covert ways, not overt ones. Especially on a first or second date.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 06:56 PM
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Dude this is terrible advice. Say that you didn’t find them attractive anymore. They were doing things you didn’t like so you ended things. WTF. First dates should be positive interactions. Shit-talking your past girlfriend makes you look like a bitter loser. This way she knows that you aren’t above walking away if you don’t get what you want. You do that with your actions and by not putting up with any bullshit that arises. Not bragging about how you dumped your last chick because she was an ug…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 06:52 PM
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“hmm that doesn’t seem relevant to us, and I’m not interested in knowing your answer to that so no need to talk about that” Autistic af and zero frame lmao. Chicks obviously dig a negative weirdo on first dates!!!!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 05:04 PM
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Jesus christ the amount of autistic answers in this thread lmao. Do you losers even go outside?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 05:00 PM
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Dated around a major city for almost 4 years. Not the case at all lmao
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 06:08 PM
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The capitalist wants your girlfriend to work a bullshit job sending emails all day The article linked here was incredible, and concisely put into words a lot of what I've been pondering lately. What's funny is even a lot of guys on here will rail on "useless HR chicks", but what about their own white collar job is that much more necessary to society? I say this as someone who has been working in sales remotely ever since March 2020. Similar to what Graeber says Keynes predicted, I realistically …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 04:47 PM
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What took my "game" to another level was simply having a well-organized modest apartment to myself instead of sharing one with 2 roommates (NYC). I leveled up in other ways, but it can seriously be that simple.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 02:09 PM
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RSD Owen is great socially but let's be realistic. He's a below average dude who through game can now bag 6s because he can chat shit for 20 minutes at the bar. He's not exactly hooking up with top tier women. Also I'd argue that for your average dude, dedicating thousands of hours of your life to learning nightlife game is a colossal waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 02:07 PM
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Improving your social circle is 100% the best return on investment. I don't care how good your "game" is, all other things equal, you are not beating out that guy who walks into a party and everyone says "Heyy, ____ is here!" and he greets everyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 01:57 PM
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Yeah no shit. But being an awkward dater is much more socially acceptable when you're 20 compared to when you're 27.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/23 10:07 PM
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Yeah that's kind of the whole reason why dating is hard for guys these days who start late. I had a gf in high school another in college, etc. So I managed to get most of the awkwardness out of my system by the time I turned 20/21. It was all just trial and error back then.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/23 03:14 AM
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It's not an absolute rule, but from my experience, texting so much before you've hooked up/built a deeper connection just gives you more opportunities to shoot yourself in the foot. Especially if you're a dating newbie.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 08:55 PM
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I used to be a big proponent of this, but as someone dated around NYC for 4 years and probably went on close to 100 first dates in that timeframe, I've changed my attitude about this personally. Yes for newbies I think it would be better to go for the kiss, but I'm experienced enough where I socially calibrate on the fly. Contrary to popular opinion, sometimes you are better off playing it a bit slower then rushing into a first kiss when the vibes aren't great and appearing to be thirsty/despera…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 08:52 PM
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Realistically, go live in a cabin somewhere in the wilderness or leave the west lol. If you think you can live in a major US city and somehow overpower the full might of media (traditional and social) I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 01:17 PM
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The old stereotype of old losers in their 50s moving to Thailand or Colombia because they can't get laid back in the states is 10 years outdated. Travel to Medellin and you will see tons of decent looking, socially fine, American guys with high paying tech jobs who moved down there because they did the mental calculus and the juice wasn't worth the squeeze to them. I am planning to move to Brazil by the end of this year for similar reasons. I spent a lot of 2021 "digital nomading" around the wor…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 02:58 PM
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Good point. You know what I learned after dating around the last 4 years in my mid-20s? It is far better to be try to escalate and be shot down, than to not escalate at all. Let me clarify a bit more. Obviously don't force a feeling that isn't there. If you're sitting across each other at a dinner table I'm not saying to lean over and start making out with her 45 minutes into a date. But after a 2nd or 3rd date if you're back at your place making out on the couch and things are getting a bit hot…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 05:16 PM
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In all fairness dating has got incredibly harder compared to a generation or two ago. Unless you were a super mega-nerd, pretty much every dude in your dad's generation at least was able to get a girlfriend in high school or college. And I'm saying this as a reasonably successful dude who had my own apartment in NYC and was dating around having fun with hotties for the last 4 years. Most of my friends are doing well for themselves, but I have a few buddies who aren't bad looking dudes, are reaso…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 05:11 PM
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Fresh and fit teach men how to move accordingly in a country full of hypergamous ran through whores. And what makes them qualified to give advice? The fact that they run a podcast where they bring on the top 0.5% of sluttiest women in the country and bash them? There is nothing constructive gained by these rage-fests. then shame men for using strong role models Who are these strong role models? Fresh, who was literally caught in 4K simping for a Seeking Arrangements chick? Or Fit, who while smar…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 05:03 PM
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Funnily enough I was talking about this exact subject a few days ago with a buddy of mine. It gives boys who are angry at the girls who would sleep with anyone but not them, the opportunity to masturbate and vent their anger. The frustrated chumps online will never even get within 10 feet of a trash Miami hoe, so in come the "Red Pill" hosts to knock them down a few pegs from their already depressingly low standing. The entire thing is a power fantasy charade where the hosts are a proxy for angr…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 02:29 PM
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IOIs will give you a bit more courage, but especially in a public setting you have to approach. Women are much less visual creatures than men. A woman might not look at you twice while scanning over a party/bar with her eyes but could be completely hooked on you after you talk to her for 5 minutes and spit some game.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 03:09 PM
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Look for indicators of interest, escalate, and strike while the iron is hot. You know what I learned after dating around the last 4 years in my mid-20s? It is far better to be try to escalate and be shot down, than to not escalate at all. Let me clarify a bit more. Obviously don't force a feeling that isn't there. If you're sitting across each other at a dinner table I'm not saying to lean over and start making out with her 45 minutes into a date. But after a 2nd or 3rd date if you're back at yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 03:07 PM
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Side effect is more men are single now - why? Because huge standards women have and men don’t want relationships anymore. They've not only desecrated marriage they've desecrated even basic long-term relationships. Growing up our parents likely went through their teens and early-to-mid 20s with 2-5 long term relationships before settling down. That isn't the case anymore. I'm 27 and sometimes I date women as young as 22 or 23. You know what's a common theme I hear from them? That they've NEVER be…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 02:18 PM
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Because it is much harder to move up the economic ladder. My hometown in the US had tons of immigrants from LATAM. If you probe deeper, almost all of them were here for economic reasons, or because pop culture portrays the US as some utopia. If you gave them the chance to make their US salary while living in their home country most would jump at the chance
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 02:05 PM
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If you live modestly and aren't flashing expensive watches and chains like a lot of morons, no, people will not hate you. In fact, Colombians are some of the most hospitable people in the entire world
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 02:01 PM
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I've seen plenty of brown dudes slay in Colombia, partly because of the novelty factor of there being like no brown dudes there.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 01:58 PM
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The whole point is to still make USD/Euros and live a better life doing geo-arbitrage... Like yeah no shit Colombia ain't that great if you're making the equivalent of $500 USD/month
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 01:56 PM
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Colombian women are great yes.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 01:55 PM
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Go to Eastern Europe then lol
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 01:35 PM
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Why the fuck do I care about "solving the problem" in the US? If you think you can go against the entire fucking media propaganda machine then go ahead lol. My "solution" is to go to a place where I can live the best quality life I can. And as someone who makes 6-figure remote income and loves latin women that is certainly not in the US. If you want to be noble and go down with the sinking ship be my guest
/r/TheRedPill09/03/23 05:23 PM
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You are simply moving to a poorer country where women will like you because you have more money and power than the native men. A simplistic take without nuance. Women generally like "exotic" foreigners no matter their income level. Secondly, plenty of women in "the west" will only think of dating you if you are above a certain income level lol. In no other place do men get laid more than in the West. You should just come to peace with the fact that you are simply unattractive, and try to work on…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/23 05:20 PM
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This brings me to my next point. Other women aren't her. And she's not special, I get that. But she has the most "value" out of all the women I've been with. (Maybe my issue is a lack of abundance? But then, how could I go about acquiring that?) She's the most attractive, most available, sexually open, well-off financially, and most enjoyable out of all the women I've been with. I know she's not the "one" but putting everything on paper, she's been the best I've had so far, and I'll admit that. …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 05:18 AM
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I don't have abs and I don't think I ever will because it's just not worth the invested time. No girl ever gave a shit about my softer belly. Congrats for you. It's only guys who don't stop hamstering how good abs are If you've ever been to a pool party and had a model tier Colombian chick you were talking to run her hands down your 8 pack (my exact experience in Medellin plus countless other parties in the states) then you would realize that saying that women don't like 8 packs is untrue. Is it…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/23 02:55 PM
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I work in software sales and my answer is: "I sell business software to companies. Basically just a lot of zoom calls, but it allows me to travel the world" (I was a digital nomad for a lot of the last 2 years). Pretty much no girl has wanted to know more than that lol, which is fine by me
/r/TheRedPill13/02/23 02:50 PM
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This is basically the entire reason why things like country/golf/boating clubs are a thing lol. If you have 50k/yr to splurge on a country club that just naturally filters out the poors. Then it's all about finding the people you connect with when money and status has basically already been filtered for.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/23 01:59 PM
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Yep, the v-taper is important. Completed by no slacking on lower abs so you get the lower ab V-shape as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/23 03:54 PM
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They've literally done studies that have shown that upper body physique is the most important when it comes to female physical attraction lol. A guy with solid shoulders, arms, and chest, and an 8 pack with mediocre legs will get more attention than a guy with insane legs and a mediocre upper body
/r/TheRedPill11/02/23 03:52 PM
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+1 I am a guy who has zero problem getting with women in the US. I'm in shape, social, confident, and had my own 1BR apartment in manhattan. Was like fishing with dynamite. That being said, the dating culture in the US is so fucked. Tons of hot, but just awful women out there being brainwashed by feminism and just in general acting ridiculously entitled because of the wave of IG and Hinge likes that flood their phone every day. I spent a combined 7 months of the last 2 years in Colombia and it t…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 02:49 PM
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I'm not sure what you're implying is going to end though? Remote work certainly isn't and even if Colombia goes to shit there are plenty of other countries out there.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 05:59 PM
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So really your only option is to pivot out of America, pivot out of America the culture and pivot out of America the mindset. As someone who spent a lot of time digital nomading in LATAM in 2021 and 2022 I cannot endorse this enough. I always kinda felt the US was going to shit eventually, but actually getting out there and traveling the world (mostly LATAM) and realizing how truly fucked it is. Get out of the US propaganda bubble. A few years back when I was planning my first trip to Colombia a…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/23 03:15 PM
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Long-term it's to find a good wife and start a family. And before all of the haters jump down my throat I have no intentions of doing that in the US. Society+legal system makes that too risky for me. I am 26 and have been fortunate enough to travel a lot which opened up my worldview and made me realize how fucked the US is in terms of economic/social/gender dynamics. I spent most of 2021 in Colombia and Brazil as a digital nomad which made me realize that making USD and exporting said USD to a l…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 08:58 PM
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it is, although every generation has their slang
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 08:14 PM
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The bar for female looks-based bar of attraction is far far far lower than guys think though. Because we often wrongly apply our male method of thinking to women. I know tons of average looking men out there banging/dating/wifed up with smoke shows that could easily get a better looking guy. But these men have other things about them (not just money) that make them more attractive to women. Iron wills, electric social personalities, etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 03:44 PM
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Take Woujo up on that free chat but go to his reddit profile and read his post from 2 weeks about about emotional experiences.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 03:38 PM
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Lol she ain't spoken for if she ain't shutting that shit down.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 03:35 PM
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A lot of my clients say things like "ill start approaching girls after I lose this weight." These people are just as bad. The "I'll start talking to girls after I: lose weight, get a better job, grind on my side hustle" It's a cope of a different nature. Yes you should be focusing on improving your value but the "spend your 20s grinding on yourself and they will come later" losers might piss me off even more than the "I'm too short to get girls" losers. These people act like it's impossible to a…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 03:31 PM
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It's NYC slang. Like a lot of modern slang it gets popular in NYC then spreads with social media.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 03:28 PM
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He needs help because if his frame is this flimsy with an "HB5 FWB" god help him if he ever gets a hot girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 04:51 AM
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Yeah lol getting triggered by a girl asking him out for drinks is "bad ass" ok.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 04:49 AM
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Lmao you sperged it up but tons of spergs in the comments too talking about how "she likes you" because she wanted to go out for a round of drinks 😂 It ain't that serious lol. You haven't seen this girl in a month. She's not necessarily trying to get to the next level with you by suggesting to get drinks first. well I'm not in the mood for drinks, sorry. We can catch up another time then Just a massive break in frame and you acting bitchy and emotional. Remember... "girls just wanna have fun". D…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 04:45 AM
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However, that does not mean you should never discuss your challenges with women. Women do not want a man who never faces a challenge, they want a man who faces challenges but does not break. And by sharing your challenges with women, you let them vicariously experience your alphaness, which brings them closer to you. In other words, women want to know the story will have a happy ending, but they also want to be part of the story. 100% agree. Long story short, my dad was on his shit until he suff…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/23 01:07 AM
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I'm in sales, and while not doing door to door, I started out with a fuck ton of cold calling and now that I'm an AE I'm on a solid 2+ long zoom calls with prospects per day. I was already decent socially, I never had a problem making friends with random people or getting chicks. But working in sales took my social skills to a completely new level. Next skill I want to master is storytelling. I'm decent at it, but my Dad and Uncle both are just masterful at it. They could be talking about shit t…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/23 11:21 PM
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I find social game and online game to result in the highest amount of lays as well. Cold approach is there to kinda keep you in your alpha flow or whatever. Kind of like an anti-bitch pill you have to swallow once in a while. It's useful when you see a gorgeous woman you have no other way of connecting with. 100% agree. The idea of trying to bill yourself as a high-value man, but then going and spending 3 hours of your Saturday afternoon at the mall or park talking to any 5 or 6 that walks by is…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 06:08 PM
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Stair master is great but incline walk is a bit easier on your joints
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 04:05 PM
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I intermittent fast every day barring a late night out at the bars and clubs where I'll grab a bagel or egg sandwich in the morning. I generally eat lunch in the 1-2pm range and dinner in the 7-8pm range.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 04:04 PM
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Circuit training and steady state cardio do different things for your heart.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:48 AM
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Depends on where you're starting from. For a complete beginner, sure. But that dude who lifts consistently but doesn't eat well so is sitting at 18% bf despite a fair bit of muscle, a shorter timeframe is perfectly fine.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:47 AM
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Sorry bro I've been doing Hot Guy Winter down on the beaches in Rio the last 6 weeks 😎😎😎
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:46 AM
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Yes works great for a cut but just be wary about taking ephedrine before a workout. Your heart rate will spike like crazy
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:45 AM
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I personally do coffee with a splash of almond milk (not a vegan, dairy unfortunately just makes my skin break out) and a tiny bit of Stevia. I do intermittent fasting and if you stay under 50 cals you maintain your fast so that in the morning works for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:44 AM
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I never said women don't care about looks at all. Of course they do. I said that the female gaze is less visual than the male gaze, which is 100% true. The study you linked of course is going to be skewed because it's based on women looking at pictures of guys not actually meeting them in real life. Of course when looking at a picture of two guys, they are going to generally always choose the conventionally attractive one vs the "normal" guy with that just has descriptors of being a good guy. Pr…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 08:07 PM
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What stats from 2022 support your evidence exactly? and what stats do YOU have from 2022 that support your bullshit kpop anecdotal evidence. Even if it could be on the rise asian men are still the lowest rated ethnic group compared to other races.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 01:29 AM
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The cope was just saying yes, but doing whatever he wanted behind his parents back It's the same with SEA chicks too. A huge portion of Americanized SEA women go to college and whore it up when they finally get out from under the thumb of their parents. And then when they're back home for the summers they would tell their parents they're "sleeping over at Jessica's house" leaving the house wearing sweatpants and instead going out clubbing until 4am. I find SEA chicks pretty attractive and now as…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 01:26 AM
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generational poverty IDK where you live but in the US Indians have literally the highest median household income of any non-white ethnic group in the US.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 01:20 AM
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Anybody can be a nice, supplicating, kiss-ass, it is much harder to ignore women, say "no," walk away, maintain boundaries, and stay confident and positive in the face of womens' bullshit. I am currently helping a good friend out of a rut. He recently got out of an almost 10 yr relationship with his HS sweetheart so he's not only rusty but his view on the dating game was completely BP. I'm slowly turning him around though. Love this particular quote though because it's 100% true. BP guys love to…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/23 05:57 PM
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Yep. Hotties see you with other hotties and instinctually feel that you're the man. Exactly why guys out there need to project that they get women (don't overcompensate of course) even if they aren't. Despite whatever BS people/the media spews, no hottie wants to get with a guy who doesn't get any. Also getting laid on the reg just gives you that abundance/IDGAF mentality that is intoxicating to women. When I had that hot college gf women who had zero clue I was "taken" were suddenly more attrac…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/23 03:32 PM
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You say he's in the "worst racial demographic for attractiveness" when millions of women thirst over kpop stars, anime boys, Asian celebrities, etc (whom men are less likely to see as attractive). The stats don't back up your anecdotal evidence. Yes, you can of course find women that like Asian guys. But statistically East Asian and Indian men are consistently rated the "least attractive" by women. We are speaking in generalities here, don't miss the forest for the trees. It's not that women car…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/23 03:16 PM
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Most guys are reluctant to discuss feelings with women, especially their own feelings of anxiety and insecurity in a sexual situation. But women are not turned off by men who face challenges; women are turned off by men who break in the face of challenges. If, in the story, you face challenges like a man, with confidence, joy, and positivity, and there is a happy ending at the end of the story, women will be more attracted. 100% agree. All of the best first dates I've been on have involved us "g…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/23 07:33 PM
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The female gaze is far less based on pure looks than the male gaze is. The majority of men would be completely fine with dating a 7/10 with literally nothing else going for them. Women aren't like that. I've mentioned this on here before but the biggest poonhound I know is a 5'5 sorta skinnyfat asian guy with a manbun. Now while he's not out here fucking models, he hooks up with cute 7s all of the time. He does this by being electric socially and all in all a very fun person to be around. This g…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/23 07:17 PM
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Women can sense when a man has options Women are far more emotionally aware than men are. Now I'm single and have options because I just am that guy. But pre-RP when I was 20 I managed to get a pretty hot gf and suddenly I was getting like 10x the attention from women compared to before. I swear they can smell it lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 10:00 PM
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"Hey I think you're cute can I have your number" just seems so immature. Social circle game has a much higher success rate, and you will NEVER find me doing some dumb shit like hanging around the mall for 3 hours shotgun approaching every 5 that walks by. But.... The problem with this line of thinking is it's in my opinion, a defeatist attitude. You mean to tell me that if you're at a bar or an event or somewhere and you see a woman who physically ticks all the boxes for you, it's not worth tryi…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 09:57 PM
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Being more engaging doesn't mean removing your filter, although the majority of men out there could probably benefit in being a bit more forward/risky when talking to women. Sometimes having a filter is 100% necessary. Saying anything that pops into your brain like dumbass isn't a good idea. The key to having a good conversation or telling a good story is making it emotionally engaging. You can do this with your energy/vibes and/or with the content of your speech. Preferably both. I'll bring up …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 09:36 PM
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Watch Rick and Morty. It will teach you how to be cocky in a comedic way. Lmao bruh you have got to be kidding me
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 09:25 PM
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It's exactly this. Part of the reason why you go to LATAM is to increase your standard of living. I spent time in Medellin. Got a 3 month rental agreement for $1200/month in one of the top 3 apartment buildings in the entire city. 2BRs, doorman+security, rooftop pool, hot tub, full gym, nicest neighborhood, etc. Compare that to what you'd have to pay for anything close to that in the US.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 04:11 PM
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i don't care if you shit money, life there is hard and everyone will make it hard for you Lol "LATAM" is massive so it's hard to generalize like that. There are massive differences between cities much less different countries. I spent 5 months in Medellin and life was not hard lol. Besides the odd street vendor trying to overcharge me. Luckily I speak Spanish and have local friends so it only happened a few times. Florianopolis is amazing. Amazing beaches, extremely safe, brazil party culture, e…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 04:10 PM
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Lotta guys in the anger stage in this thread lol
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:38 PM
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That dude is a fucking moron lol
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:37 PM
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No matter what cope people want to say, having success with women is an indicator of your value as a man. Because at the end of the day, can you really consider yourself a "high value man" if you get zero pussy? Hell no. It's completely natural to be unhappy because you aren't getting women. Sex and acceptance are basic human needs. The key is not becoming a loser incel or some desperate guy, and instead using that unhappiness to fuel self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:37 PM
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masculine women are attracted to feminine men Not true in the long term. Masculine women, while enjoying the power dynamics in the start will almost always come to resent a feminine man over time. Masculine women at the end of the day are attracted to hyper-masculine men. The type of men who won't entertain her bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:33 PM
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I hate when people say “chase money, don’t chase women.” It’s okay. You are still young. And getting upvoted by other young guys who think chasing money will be the answer. This is why redpill gets a bad rap. You guys make it so black and white. Lol it's such a cope. As you said, these dudes will just grind during their 20s and early 30s building up no XP with women and just expect them to flock. How about you use some calibration and just do both. Losers on here acting like it's some impossible…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:30 PM
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Think of your dating prospects like a sales funnel. Inbound leads, outbound leads, referrals, etc. For dating it's warm approach, cold approach, dating apps, social groups, etc. The percentage split will be different for each man, but any young man should be using all of them. The same way men have preferences so do women, when you cold approach you don't even know if you are her preference, or if she has a boyfriend. This is another reason I wait for choosing signals or IOI, this is her letting…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:56 PM
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What happened to “strong men build and conquer” bla bla bla. “Weak men get driven out” bla bla bla. I don't believe any of that shit. I have one life on earth and I am going to maximize my happiness. It's not the blue haired feminist driving me out it's the continual gutting of the middle and lower class that is hyper-accelerating. I make remote income so idgaf. Give me my $1k/month 2 BR luxury high rise apartment in LATAM over the $3k+/month you'd have to spend in any decent city in America. I …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:37 PM
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Seeing as like 55% of them are on anti-depressants or anti-anxiety meds the stats don't back you up. Just wait until the current batch of 20-somethings hit their mid 30s and want to settle down. It's gonna be even worse.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 04:38 PM
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Give them shit to do. Make her do certain things that either improve your life like massaging you, cooking and/or shit that reduces from your daily workload/stress like the mundane/small tasks so you can focus on the bigger stuff. But you need a decent blueprint. A good girl is made, not born. I think most guys on here just don't really realize how bad the dating scene/relationship dynamics are for men in genera these days. They've never had a woman do that type of shit (which used to be normal …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 02:44 PM
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Instead, you need a diversified strategy that exposes to a large number of relatively healthy, normal women along with a thesis about how to narrow this pool down to truer 'trad wife' types. The actual best advice is to GTFO out of the US and go to a more traditional country. I've been fortunate enough to travel the world extensively and have been all across Latin America and done a 4 month stint in Prague+Croatia. If you actually spend extended time there you can find more "wife material women"…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 02:34 PM
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What helped me get my shit together in my early 20s was writing down short, medium, and long term goals for myself and checking them off when I accomplish them. A short term goal could be something as simple as revise your resume. M-F I also personally create a to-do list on my phone for the next day.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 10:17 PM
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How older are you talking about? Because from my experience dating fresh out of college at 22 was the absolute hardest. Because I was making mediocre money at an entry level job still living at home for a year, competing against guys stacking cash 6+ years older. Once I crossed 25 and moved from an apartment with roommates to my own place and started making more money my options skyrocketed.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 12:53 PM
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See the thing is she's always like "I hate men" As someone who found this out the hard way in my college LTR - dude you gotta bail. Like maybe you could put all this work into coaching her and it would work, but it would be a fuck ton of lift from your end and might end up backfiring anyways. Why not just start off with a better blueprint to begin with? Trust me man your early 20s are tough as a guy but if you grind and start improving your value your dating value will just skyrocket as you age.…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 12:50 PM
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they frequently are being honest from their own perspective. I think this was the most annoying thing about my first hard breakup when I was 21. Women have this bullshit ability to just rewrite the past based on their current emotions. Their emotions will rewrite history and you're exactly right - in their mind they actually are being honest. Which is part of what drives men crazy I think.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 05:30 PM
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Stupidly high body counts say the same about women as they do about men. They really don't. Not if the guy is out there fucking attractive women and not uggos. A guy out there that fucks 100 chicks has to have SOMETHING about them. Could be looks, wealth/status, game, etc. A woman just has to show up. You can go into a shit club in ANY country in the world and find hot chicks. You cannot find a true high value man in anywhere near the same frequency.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 03:14 PM
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There are exceptions to any rule, but there are countless studies that show that as a woman has more sexual partners, her ability to pair bond (attach emotionally to a man) decreases and the likelihood of divorce/separation skyrockets. Now to a more emotional line of thinking. The reason why men are disgusted by a high body count when it comes to finding a suitable partner for a long term relationship is due to the evolutionary psychology behind needing to ensure paternity. The modern invention …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 03:09 PM
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I mean the why isn't that hard. It's due to decades of societal programming culminating in the modern Cardi B/"bad bitch"/social media hoe culture that promotes being a hoe. Now the thing is more guys agree with you than you think. Yes there is an ever-increasing group of betas and cucks that are completely fine with their girlfriend taking 100 dicks before them. Fine. But many men agree with you but don't say it out loud for fear of judgement/rocking the boat. If you interviewed 100 men and for…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 03:04 PM
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Maybe, if you meet them there, and they stay there. Bring that same Ukrainian to the States and your precious unicorn is done. Maybe, maybe not. I'd still take my chances with a foreign girl raised in a traditional family environment with good values in the long term over your typical American girl. It's the culture, and Western men are part of their own culture. Men are supposed to take responsibility for themselves and their environment, not bitch about which women suck the most. Stop with the…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/22 04:42 PM
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Tough love but that's what OP needs.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 03:40 PM
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Lmao, you know it’s kinda bad when even the gay guy starts protesting against his girl best friend. 😂😂😂😂 Exactly what I thought when I read OP's post. Like damn... that's the most incriminating evidence! This is where you went wrong. If you come from the frame of interrogation or a judgemental frame, you’re begging her to lie for your approval. You have to use some Akido to famoose this kind of info. You can’t be so direct and say “so how many guys have you fucked”. That’s how you get answers li…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 03:39 PM
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I know I fucked up on this one. Welp, you know what you should do - question is are you man enough to stick to your guns and do it? Liar, bad friends (chicks like that are the same type of chicks to encourage your GF to go suck dick at a bachelorette party, etc.), and hoe behavior. Now who knows - maybe there is a chance she gets her act together and is the perfect GF/wife. Stranger things have happened. But I think deep down you know that if you don't rip the bandaid off now, you're gonna get b…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 03:23 PM
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This is an LTR though. Why try to fix something that's broken when you can just find a better candidate to begin with. The only way I would ever be in an LTR with a girl is if I saw her as a future life partner. If not, what is the point? And in OP's post there are tons of red flags.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 03:18 PM
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Some guys on here have a massive hate boner for guys who leave the country… I can only imagine these are men who have never experienced life outside of the US barring some tourist trap bubble. Like you said, the US dating culture is beyond repair. And I am saying this as an in-shape decent looking 26 year old with my own 1 bedroom apartment in Manhattan. I have no problem getting women in the US, but I can count on 1 hand the amount that would be wife material. Once you experience dating outside…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 04:41 AM
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Self-care: Your mentality is fucked right now and you know it. You need to realize that while yes choosing your next venture is important, you are just 19. You are not deciding your entire life plan right now. You say you have been lifting weights but be honest with yourself. How is your physicality? Are you genuinely happy when you look at yourself in the mirror? I think that when men improve their physicality their mentality improves. How is your diet? Diet plays a big role in mentality as wel…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 04:44 PM
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Like I said in another comment, it depends on how you define cold approach. Because no, I don't think that for any guy with any inkling of social skills that hanging out at a mall for an entire afternoon talking to any 6 that walks by is a good use of time. If you mean going up and talking to that cute random girl at the coffee shop or at the bar, then sure. Essential.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 04:24 PM
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Agree that cold approach is a necessary tool to learn. In my opinion it depends on how you define cold approach. If by cold approach you mean going up and talking to that cute girl at your local coffee shop or at a bar? Sure. Essential tool. If by cold approach you mean the PUA method of hanging around a park for 3 hours on a random saturday chatting up every 6/10 that walks by? Not useful unless you're an autist who just needs to get "at bats" with actually talking to women. Like think about it…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 04:19 PM
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Because this subreddit trends younger (18-28) I think most guys out there really just don't realize how bad guys today have it in terms of dating compared to previous generations. I'm 26 but I've been fortunate enough to travel all over the world. Women are women everywhere, but when you experience women from LATAM and Eastern Europe you truly realize how fucked things are in the west. I've been to Colombia myself and I had women making me breakfast and cleaning up my Airbnb for me after our 3rd…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:21 PM
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Well the difference is that by making even a modest remote salary in USD (I'm talking 55k-60k) you can essentially live as lower nobility in a country like Mexico. Cities like Mexico City, Medellin, Buenos Aires, etc are modern cosmopolitan cities - not shitholes like the US propaganda machine likes to make them out to be. So YOU need to do your own mental calculus on what is better for you. Paying $2k/month minimum to rent the cheapest 1BR in any decent city in America. Or pay $1k/month to rent…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah I agree with your general premise for sure. And guys out here who act like maintaining a good instagram is some massive undertaking are really not living in reality. I post maybe 4-5 times per year with pics from my travels, posting pics I was going to take anyways. Not exactly a high lift. The reason why most guys are trying to ditch instagram isn't for mental health, but because they see they're in a competitive environment and they're losing. It's a form of cowardice. Ever notice how tho…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:05 PM
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but come on no one has ever gotten laid from Instagram. This just isn't true if you're a guy who has his shit together and has a good profile. It's the same shit as tinder/OLD. Uggos don't bother, if you're at least somewhat attractive and have good pics then go right ahead. I have a solid IG profile. 2k followers, pics from all my travels showing me doing shit like going to Carnival in Brazil, on the beach in the south of France, in the middle of the Amazon in Colombia, etc. It 100% makes a dif…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 02:53 PM
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That means if you bring a virgin wife from abroad to a western country, she is no less likely to be unfaithful than a woman with the same personality as was born there. Yes a woman from abroad with an n-count of 0 being brought to the West will obviously affect her, but in general she still is far less likely to cheat than the typical western woman. A early to mid 20s woman with an n-count of 0 is far more likely to have been raised in a stable 2 parent household with a strong father figure. If …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/22 02:10 AM
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I checked out one of your tiktoks and you bring up how Peterson and Tate are part of the problem. Peterson is a loser sure. But isn't Tate's mantra literally: action is the most important thing flee the west as it's burning down in real time "resist the slave mind" Now sure he's a grifter who is milking betas and wanna be alpha for all they are worth with his courses and shit (he already learned from his webcam business how to suck money from losers), but don't see why he would be lumped in with…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/22 12:57 PM
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Getting sex with women is super easy, so easy to understand that guys like you gotta make it more complicated to hide your own inadequacies. LOL projecting much? I never said getting women is hard. Have your 5 Fs in order (Fitness, Finances, Fun, Free Time, and Fucking) and they will flock. As a single guy in NYC with my own 1BR to myself I know how fucking easy it is. But circlejerking about how TRP is a science is firstly wrong, and secondly lame and contributes to a bunch of dudes on here who…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 07:13 PM
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Game is actually the furthest thing from a science. The reason why science/math is so valuable is because it gives you the ability to predict the future. You know because of the laws of physics, thermodynamics, chemistry, etc, that if you do X then Y will happen. You can run the same game on two different women and have completely different results. As a side point this faux-intellectual line of thinking that TRP is somehow an objective science and we are breaking new ground or some shit is a bi…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 02:20 PM
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You're a G for that. I date around plenty and been through plenty of breakups but I have to block them on Instagram at least. Just can't do the temptation and seeing them partying and shit. Would much rather do what you do and keep them around while I flex and travel across the world.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 03:46 AM
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Dude we've all been there at some point. I actually went through something similar with a girl I had been seeing recently although she had less red flags than your girl. It hurts, but you know the deal and why she wasn't a good fit for you. It's just a massive ego boost when you have a girl who floods you with validation like that. And pretty much all men are completely starved from that their entire lives so it's like a drug. You feel sick because you're basically going through withdrawal.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 03:42 AM
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They already made up their mind and this is the kill shot. Yep. Unless she's pulling some bullshit games seeing how hard you will come back for her, if she's breaking up with you it's already well over and no amount of negotiating will change that. It's why you can't pussy out and just gotta man up and say "ok makes sense" and cut contact. Women intrinsically know that 99% of the time the breakup is harder on the guy. Firstly, because usually the guy is blindsided by it. This is because women ar…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/22 06:59 PM
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Well that is assuming you are taking the breakup very hard. I've had a few relationships where things just didn't have a future and we said "yeah let's split". No hard feelings.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/22 06:54 PM
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The bar is really much lower than you think. The female gaze is much less visual than the male one. Not saying looks play no part, of course they do. But guys can really compensate with their aura/energy, demeanor, speech, etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 12:15 AM
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Always, always let her touch you first. Or just learn to read social clues and don't set unnecessary autistic rules for yourself. Some girls are too anxious to break the touch barrier first despite being very interested. So if some chump on here was to follow your advice he'd sit there all night with his hands in his lap and it would go nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 12:13 AM
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Damn imagine discussion on a DISCUSSION BOARD. Argument above aside, has the chinese shortform video spyware app rotted your brain?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/22 06:56 PM
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You are delusional if you actually believe it's impossible for a woman to emotionally invest in you lol Go outside
/r/TheRedPill06/11/22 01:05 PM
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Right, but if you do want to do that you have to be on your game 100% of the time. I somewhat agree but this is really overblown. I've had HOOKUPS (not even gfs) stick by me and hold it down for me when I had people close to me die and was depressed for a few weeks. Additionally, the amount of available options a chick has now has exploded astronomically in the last decade, specifically due to dating apps. Sure, agreed. American culture is going down the tubes. And it’s no longer being in the to…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 01:04 PM
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I never said to get too emotionally invested. I was refuting your point that girls don't have emotional investment. If you are on top of your shit and make the time you spend together an emotional experience then they will 100% emotionally invest in you.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 12:59 PM
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Spittin facts here. You at least need to go for it to remind her you ain't a pussy and you're confident
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 11:10 PM
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Lol they do if you make hanging out with you an emotional experience. No matter how hard society pushes hoe culture at their core a woman wants to hold it down for the RIGHT guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 11:07 PM
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I held frame the majority of the relationship and was able to dictate the course of it. Eventually she kept picking up this habit of breaking up with me then expecting me to chase her then get her back. Rinse and repeat etc. Do you not see how these two things are incongruent? Doing that shit once is grounds for telling her to fuck off for life. You say she did it 3 times in one month. It's an emotional hostage powerplay from women because deep down they know that 99% of the time the breakup is …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 03:02 PM
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It's a toolkit, meaning you can pick and choose what TOOLS you want to use to get a better sleep.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 02:56 PM
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Learn to be a good storyteller and capture the listeners attention. Both my Dad and my Uncle are the stereotypical "hold court" type of socializers. They just have a certain charisma about them where even in a room with multiple conversations people stop to listen to them speak. When I thought about why that was, a huge reason was their ability to tell stories. Firstly, they both lived exciting lives with a bunch of fun stories. But even when talking about subjects that would be mundane in a vac…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/22 03:13 PM
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I have a friend who did 1 year at the state school we both went to, and then transferred to an Ivy. Regrets it massively. Said it was literally the same level of education for 6x the price. He got a bit of scholarship help but he's still close to 6 figures debt. I think the most important thing for people who have a tight family unit is to just communicate with them. My parents (god bless them) were unselfish and set aside money for my college from the second my mom knew she was pregnant. With t…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/22 04:11 PM
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I'm in sales working a corporate job and while I do like it a lot, part of me wishes I had gone to school for what you do. I tore my MCL playing soccer and had an amazing physical therapist (my first time ever needing it) and I really was inspired. Alas, just a few years late in life :)
/r/TheRedPill24/10/22 04:02 PM
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while I've started dating multiple people once, have always dropped the others for the one I liked most. The layered Red Pill behind that reality is that every time you get a girl, you are taking her from someone else. And what exactly are you disagreeing with. The guy who you dropped the others for is taking you from those other guys you were dating.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 05:52 PM
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I've been living in Bangkok a while and I have seen tons and tons of very attractive high value men coming through who white women would drop their panties for in a heartbeat. They are just fed up with the offerings back home and coming to upgrade from 7's to 8's and 9's. Experience the same thing in Medellin. Went to a fair amount of digital nomad meetups and while there were a few creeps here and there most of the guys were honestly decent looking and in reasonable shape. Like you said, guys a…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 12:57 AM
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As someone who has also traveled and lived in some of the whore capitals in the world (Cartagena namely) these women are really quite easy to spot. The key is to actually meet normal girls through social groups and not just meet girls on tinder because you are naturally filtering for girls like that. I have traveled extensively across Colombia and to many of the smaller cities (200k-500k pop) with more normal girls... and contrary to popular belief, the majority of these normal girls would be pe…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 12:44 AM
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But now with the way the west is going, you see much more normal guys leaving for better women such as yourself, who aren’t old and fat, or bribing his way into pussy, blurring the lines of alpha and beta. I did the digital nomad thing in LATAM for almost a year combined in 2020/2021. I went to digital nomad meetups in CDMX, Medellin, and Sao Paolo. There were some obvious sexpats and older guys, but there were tons of normal, social, reasonably in-shape dudes in their 20s and 30s with remote jo…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 12:41 AM
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Ong bro no hate to the OP here but as soon as I read "text her ready for some wine by the fireplace", I cringed tf out. This is NOT THE MOVIES. The best thing about actually having sauce is that you can say cheesy shit like that and it works. Any player out here knows that.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 01:44 PM
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Has the short-form video Chinese spyware app destroyed your attention span? OP's post is like 500 words.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/22 06:59 PM
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100% man. I am actually ok at cleaning but this lady comes over for 2 hours every other Thursday (smaller NYC apartment) and leaves my house looking spotless right before the weekend. Worth every penny for me personally.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 08:40 PM
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Decent post but you get too bogged down in the minutiae I think. At the end of the day, if you have your own place, have half-decent furniture, and it was cleaned 3 days ago you're basically already better off than 90% of guys out there. No girl actually cares if you own a leather couch (I do) or if you have a Macbook (I do). Your general point of leveling up and not having your pad resemble your college frat house is solid advice though. If you have the cash I'd also recommend guys out there to…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 12:59 PM
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Your comment shows you didn't even read this post
/r/TheRedPill01/10/22 04:50 PM
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But, I met this girl, she is 24 and she might be wifey material. Regarding looks she is a 5.5/10 Does not compute 🤖 Prime example why "taking time off women" is some bullshit. Congrats, you took time off women and now you have oneitis for some average girl. High value men don't "take time off women". If you really have your life (non-dating life at least) figured out that much then finding a feminine traditional woman that is actually hot isn't a hard ask of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 09:45 PM
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And yet, here I am, trying to save them. 3 posts in 24 hours. You're doing god's work. Nice to see you active on here again.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 09:37 PM
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I was thinking about this yesterday; how all the best sex has come from women who look for it from me vs the ones that come from the chase. Whilst it feels good as a man to be able to charm a woman into bed with you, it feels fantastic knowing out of all the guys out there, a hot girl chose you to pursue instead of those guys. Of course. As fun as the chase is, having a women go out of her way to make it known she wants you is a natural ego boost and a welcome change of pace.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 08:59 PM
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Too many burning their leads/potential prospects too quick these days. Makes it harder to get laid if you are burning leads over the slightest resistance. It is vindictive guys on here taking the advice way too literally and applying zero common sense or social calibration. Because they probably don't get laid much a flake is a massive blow to their chances at sex and to their ego as well. So they sabotage themselves by sending them some passive aggressive text to the girl that guarantees no pus…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 08:57 PM
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I sent her some note that was amusing, and moved on. I did go over the game film, but girls are flaky, so dafuq does it matter? Now I can hear some of you already. “Vaz, how could you?! You should NEVER do that. Fuck that bitch! I mean…” Too many guys, even on here, would completely blow this situation. Because many are borderline autists with zero social calibration skills and are likely stuck in the anger phase, they would probably texted the girl some passive aggressive message, or leave her …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 08:53 PM
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After a weird reply to one of my comments in another thread, I looked through this guy's post history, and he is a frequent poster in a subreddit that believes Earth is a prison planet ruled by reptilian aliens. I wouldn't pay him much mind 😉
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 02:06 PM
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but Beyonce has 99 problems, of which at least 87 of them are entirely made-up scenarios in her head that will never happen but which she is stressing about for no logical reason whatsoever Why it's important for a guy to lead, even with something as simple as choosing a place for a first date. While you might think it's not a big deal, if you leave it up to a woman to choose a spot the whole time she'll literally be thinking of scenarios where you hate it and how she'll look bad. Not based in l…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 04:09 AM
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Maybe not a god but it gives you a much more fulfilling life than in the west. A guy making 5k a month in a major US city is a random nobody but put him in Argentina/Brazil/Colombia and he's upper class nobility and with 20x the dating options. If you want your own place without roommates 5k/month in my city (NYC) will leave you saving about $300/month after all your other expenses. I have spent extensive time in all 3 of the countries you mentioned. In Colombia I rented a 1BR in a brand new lux…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 01:54 PM
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The losers in here complaining about how this is "fan fiction" or "cringe" are a bunch of complete morons. Here is a guy who is actually going out there and talking to women in real life, and one of the only guys on here that still actually posts pickup field reports. Favorite part was this: "Oh theyre over there (points somewhere) talking to some cute girls so I decided I should do the same" The losers on here who haven't got any pussy and haven't run the game don't realize that when a girl is …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 08:34 PM
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It's the internet so who knows - but what exactly about this screams fan fiction? This is completely tame and I'd say normal for a vegas club, and this guy has been posting a field report 1x a month tracking his pickup process.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 08:31 PM
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It's a pretty well known phenomenon that Asian girls don't really like Asian guys.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 08:28 PM
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Off the top of my head: Feminine behavior - They might shit test hard to find the right man but once they've found him they have no problem being submissive. Will cook and clean for you no questions asked. Feminine appearance - When I was in Colombia I saw more beautiful woman than I'd seen anywhere else in my life and I'm quite well traveled. They were naturally beautiful, yes. But more than that, they took great care in their appearance. The US trend of some mid-20s girl leaving the house on a…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/22 10:08 PM
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Of course, you should ideally look like your life is an adventure AND actually have a life that is a fun adventure. No matter how awesome your life is, you will not catch womens’ attention unless you produce the feeling of adventure. This is something that I try to cultivate in my own dating life and that I advise my less experienced friends to do. On a first date this can be accomplished as something as simple as switching the venue. Example: Many of my first dates are at a local bar that has U…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/22 09:59 PM
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Agreed for now, but this depends on if this hot worker-favored market will last, and if so, for how long.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 05:41 PM
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Girls Are Never Single Some guys really need to internalize this because they are ignorant to it. Women are NEVER single in the same way a man would be. The idea of a woman going like 2 months without any legit interaction with the opposite sex is pure fiction. She's either banging her ex, dating 3-4 guys from apps, one night stands, etc. At the VERY LEAST, she is talking over text/IG to a few guys. The layered Red Pill behind that reality is that every time you get a girl, you are taking her fr…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 05:35 PM
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The reason being able to remain calm in high pressure situations is attractive to them is because they don't have it themselves. It's important for their survival. Great point. I wasn't born cold. It came through life experience. A few years ago I quit my job and started a business. Now I'm reaping the fruits, I'm doing very well, but the first year was extremely difficult. Screaming clients, delays, cash flow issues, nearly going bankrupt twice because someone didn't pay. High levels of stress …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 12:02 AM
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What point are you trying to make
/r/TheRedPill12/09/22 02:11 PM
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Man, half the dudes out there would be flustered if they were taking a girl to a bar and they didn't have any tables available - now imagine those same guys dealing with actual meaningful life pressure. That's why if you have a rock-solid frame you can almost become a magician in the modern age. Because it's becoming more and more rare as a trait.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/22 03:14 AM
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50% split would be of assets acquired during the marriage. Most pre-nups are decent at protecting what you already own. But with activist judges throwing them out who the fuck even knows anymore.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 03:06 PM
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And when you turn 30 nothing will change because men love experienced women!! Lol as you said, just a complete copium lie. I’ll stick to young, cute, bubbly and fun girls whom I can teach what I like. Men want to be the one who opens up their women to new experiences and the world. Men don't want a woman who's already been to 15 countries. We want to be the one that takes them there.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 03:03 PM
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I am very attracted to femininity, which is mostly dead now. I will keep banging my drum on this over and over again - but every guy on here needs to get out there and actually see the world. I've been RP-aware since I was 20, but it was only after I traveled around Eastern Europe and South America that I truly realized how fucked gender dynamics are in the West - I just didn't have the context and dating XP yet. Now I'll just get out ahead of the hating comments I usually get when I talk about …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 02:39 PM
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So telling guys to surround themselves with winners is leaving out a lot of crucial information in between. You just don't go outside and find winners. From my personal experience you don't have to be a winner to hang around with winners. If you are a good time to be around and show promise I've found that most guys are happy to give advice/mentorship to newbies. That is my personal experience in enterprise sales at least.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 11:02 PM
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Look at the first comment in the thread
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 12:14 AM
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I'm not his simp and he is 100% a grifter. You can see any of my other comments in this thread where I say that. But you cannot call a guy with BILLIONS of video views in the span of like 2 months and a guy who has been joint-banned by every major social media irrelevant. It's just not true.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 01:45 PM
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The thing about people like Taint is that they amass such a huge following that they have the power to change public discourse. And? The current gynocentric nonsense that gets peddled daily has been dominating public discourse for 10+years. Why are you acting like changing the man-hating public discourse is a bad thing? He doesn't create healthy strong willed men, he creates resentful, women hating incels. His advice has always been to get in shape, be disciplined, and become a man of value... s…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 10:12 PM
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If he was irrelevant he wouldn't be the most searched person in the world and he wouldn't be getting joint-banned by every social media platform lol
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 09:06 PM
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Good, balance is restored to the world. It's not though. If the social media companies policed "misandry" in the same way then not many people would have a leg to stand on. But they don't. One cursory look through social media will show you thousands of examples of people being able to say shit like "kill all men", "all men are scum", etc. as much as they want. Tate is who he is. He is a charismatic grifter who spits some truth amongst a deluge of other shit promoting his stupid courses. That do…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 09:06 PM
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Teachers are being urged to “listen to what children are talking about in school corridors” and be aware of terms such as “manosphere” to counter sexist social media trends which pupils may have been exposed to over the summer holidays. Yeah but the Cardi B/Kim Kardashian hoe culture and general misandry that is is rampant on the internet (how often do you see tweets in the vain of "kill all men") is allowed to go unchecked without even a peep.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 09:01 PM
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At the same time, I was watching a video the other day where the person was stating that sleeping around with lots of women is low value behavior. Irrespective of how much money you make, or how ripped you are. Damn well if some guy on Youtube said it then it must be true! Pretty much every King, Sheikh, Sultan, who ever existed had multiple wives or one wife + mistresses on the side. Sure if you go out clubbing every weekend and hook up with a bunch of ugly 3s and 4s then I'd concede that as be…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/22 03:01 PM
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I liked it a lot. Very cosmopolitan city and tons of things to do. The other cities in Mexico are great as well. Personally I preferred Buenos Aires a bit more, but I think that's partially because the USD goes even further there than it does in Mexico. I'm talking like $60 for a 3 course meal for two and a bottle of wine at the nicest steakhouse in the entire city.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/22 04:20 AM
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The only way I would be able to afford a mortgage in the next few years would be to apply for an FHA loan. I'm sure being in real estate you've already looked into that. You will have to pay mortgage insurance but your down payment can be as low as like 4%. I'm not sure about now, but many people before the pandemic used it to house hack aka buy a triplex with an FHA loan, live it in for 1 year (it has to be your primary residence for 1 year minimum), and then rent it out and have 3 tenants payi…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/22 04:17 AM
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So move to CDMX/Medellin and watch football at the same time as normal. I am not even going to speak about women. The US is fucked. 95% of people under 30 right now are never going to own a house unless their parents die and give them one. Rent makes up more than half of your take-home unless you want to live in a shoebox. Society is being pulled in two separate directions as the equally moronic super libs and trumpers battle it out.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/22 06:54 PM
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Doesn't have to be just for women. I'm still US-based but I did the digital nomad thing for 2 years and am currently planning to exit in the next 2 or so years. After spending tons of time in both Central/South America and Eastern Europe I've come to the realization that the US is fucked. Apartments in any decent city are starting at $2k/month minimum. Add in the increased cost of everything else and unless you are making over 6 figures you won't save jack shit unless you move to some podunk tow…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/22 06:51 PM
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India is a pretty shit example but despite all it's luxuries and technological advancements the majority of people in "western society" are unhappy, depressed, anxious, or all 3. They've done studies on this and indigenous people who literally still live in mud huts have almost ZERO instances of depression or anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/22 01:27 PM
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Don't buy into the glitzy tik tok editing. She is working an entry level rotational program making like $50k/yr in one of the most expensive cities in the country. Either she is spending literally every dime on keeping up appearances or her dad is bankrolling her rent.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/22 12:12 AM
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Guys in this thread are somehow proud of not reading it because it's "too long". Seems like the schizo tik tok generation with the attention span of gnats have invaded this subreddit. Great work as usual
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:40 AM
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They were friendly and engaging me so I was chatting with them. Just more group management. Basically, for the next 20-30 minutes One of the most crucial aspects of club game. Women go to clubs in groups and unless you engage with them a bit (essentially them vetting you to an extent) your chances of getting a girl to leave her group of friends and come home with you is slim to none. Some nights it's just not meant to be, but if you build up great rapport with her friend group you're usually set…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:36 AM
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It doesn't have to be as incendiary as OP's example. A date can't be all gas and no brakes and you need to pump the brakes at times. Could be something as simple as taking a view of the city if you're on a rooftop bar, going to the bathroom, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:30 AM
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A woman could have a low body count and hate men or she could have a high body count and adore men. She could have a low body count and cheat on her boyfriends or husband or she could have a high body count and never cheat while she's in a serious, monogamous relationship. The exception to the rule doesn't disprove the rule. It is literally scientific fact that the more men a woman has slept with, the lower likelihood that she will pair bond with you and the higher likelihood she will cheat on y…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/22 04:01 AM
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I think OP more meant it like the way you'd give a stern command to a dog or something lol. The "dad" voice where your tone gets sharper and your voice drops 3 octaves. I don't think he's advocating getting into yelling matches.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 01:50 PM
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Yeah I mean that, and the fact he's basically posted the same advice of "approach a lot of women" 2x a week for the past 3 months. If OP took notes about his approaches and asked for feedback I'm sure people would be much more receptive. But this guy who has gotten 1 number from a girl who told him to fuck off the very next day is the equivalent of a fat guy giving gym advice.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 01:48 PM
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As a guy who got cheated on in my early 20s and then went on to fuck many girls with boyfriends (no girls with husbands that I know so far) my trust with women is non-existent lol. I would only LTR/marry a true top-tier woman raised with by a very strong father figure and a mother figure who told her how to be a woman. It's not a foolproof plan, but it's the best plan if you don't want to get completely fucked over.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 01:44 PM
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Scottie Pippen was 6'8, in amazing shape, a voice like butter, and according to Madonna had a 10 inch dong. He was country as hell but wasn't really a goofy guy.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 12:49 AM
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Women love the narrative of "be yourself" because it allows them to find a man who is of high value, as in: Owns his own home, has a good job, works out and has good genes. It really burns women up that a fat, ugly man can get down to the gym, shed the weight and become attractive. They just want a guy who is effortlessly all of those things. Women out there say they want a hustler or a grinder but are they out there helping a man level up from the ground floor? For the most part, no. (Only IRL …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 01:29 PM
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I always think of chess. You can sit there and say to yourself "I wish my pawn could move this way" or "why did I do that 3 turns ago?" but at the end of the day the board is the board and the rules are the rules. You just gotta work with what you got in front of you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 01:23 PM
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LOL if you actually leave your cave, go outside, and are able to put yourself amongst hot women this story isn't even remotely far-fetched. I've partaken and seen far crazier shit go down when I was 19 on spring break haha. Now this is the internet so who the fuck knows, but this story is tame for fucking Las Vegas.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 01:17 PM
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Who knows. Some of these old chumps are super possessive. I'd wager if he literally flew a girl out to vegas to be with him he's likely upset.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 12:40 AM
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I'm not saying to not approach a woman you find attractive in public. I do it often enough, living in a major city. What I do think is a complete loser move is spending 3 hours of your saturday at the mall shotgun approaching every 6/10 who happens to walk by. If OP is doing this for the right reasons, then uplift your brother in arms because he's working harder than almost everyone else. I would take OP more seriously if he just admitted that he's shit at pickup but still learning (self admitte…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 12:38 AM
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The problem is that time you spend approaching women in parks like a homeless man panhandling for change would be better spent cultivating social circles so that you don't have to fucking approach 300 women to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 01:16 AM
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It actually is. Right below food, water, shelter, and clothing.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/22 05:37 PM
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100% agree. As I also mentioned in my comment I believe that social calibration is probably one of the most important skills you can learn in life, not just dating. You need to be able to read the signals and act accordingly. Too many men go overboard and blow it Probably the most unattractive trait in a man is neediness. I know from experience being thrown into the dating world in my early 20s, and making my fair share of mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 08:38 PM
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Don't go too far with the ideas I've expressed here. Unless you are a famous or extremely good-looking man, as the man, you are the pursuer. You will need to put more work into an initial interaction with a woman than an attractive woman will need to put into you. This needs to be an auto-comment on any post on here about dating as a young guy nowadays. As you said there is too much I am the prize There are too many guys on here who need TRP hardline rules to dictate their lives instead of build…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 08:32 PM
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Facts. That's why I never got into the PUA shit. All that PUA shit might work one night at a bar but if you're a dork masquerading as a chad via PUA techniques shit ain't gonna last.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 07:42 PM
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One part of dread is making your time scarce so we're just arguing semantics here.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 07:41 PM
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Trust me, I do get it. I'm 26 and live in NYC so the options I have on Hinge are essentially endless. I could likely swipe for 5 hours straight and not see a single repeat profile. I do tend to agree that you want to polarize early and you certainly don't want to be some girl's Hinge penpal, but think about this. If you are only filtering for girls who say yes to a date after 3-4 messages then I'd wager that you are likely meeting a fair amount of girls who will go on a date with pretty much any…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 01:30 PM
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I only see desperate women looking for a strong masculine man to tell them to shut up and put them in their place. Why put in all these effort trying to reprogram some feminist girl when you can just find a girl who hasn't been brainwashed? It's not fear, I just don't have the time to be undoing 20+ years of societal programming.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 01:14 PM
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Guys always ask this and the best answer is by integrating into social circles with high value men, because generally, high value men and hot chicks tend to cross paths a lot LOL. Pulling chicks from social circle game is the easiest, with the one caveat that you already have a social circle to pull from. In a macro view, social circle game is actually the hardest because it's a lot harder to become friends with a group of guys who hang out with hot chicks than it is to pick up some slut from th…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 05:08 PM
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Well the idea is that different locations provide much different hurdles. If a girl is at a bar, she will likely already have her creep deflectors up. Now obviously pulling from bars isn't necessarily hard, but it's just a different dynamic. Clubs for the most part suck unless you have a table, or showed up with a group of good looking women.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 04:59 PM
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I'm tired of guys having something work once and then thinking it's the ultimate rule forever and ever with everybody. Tons of people on here want these black and white "Alpha male" rules that they need to follow to avoid getting out of their comfort zone. A far better piece of advice is to just build up experience and be able to use social calibration to decide for yourself the best course of action. I've gone on plenty of dates using OP's strategy of 3 texts then set-up a date and some were du…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 09:29 PM
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It's pretty much the US and Western Europe. Unfortunately feminism is now starting to take root outside of those areas but I'd give it another 20-30 years before it catches up.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 09:22 PM
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However, sometimes I hate it here and want to leave everything behind for another country where the women haven’t been corrupted by feminism. I have traveled extensively around most of the world and man guys out here really don't know how bad they have it in the US. Yes women are gonna women everywhere in the world but the US feminist culture is disgusting. By far my favorite place was Latin America. Extremely feminine women, like I'm talking about making sure they look dolled up just to go out …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 09:21 PM
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Girls love foreigners lol. I've traveled a lot as well and if you are a foreigner, take care of yourself, and are social you can get laid like crazy.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 09:17 PM
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Maybe 2000 years ago. In modern society literally any type of person can go out and have 20 dumbass kids, it doesn't mean shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 09:15 PM
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I haven't had a successful approach yet. I haven't even approached 100 women yet. Over these past few months I approach quicker though This is him from a month ago. So his only "successful" cold approach so far has been a target employee who then told him a day later it wasn't gonna work out. And yet he's on here making 1 post a week about cold approach
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 06:06 PM
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In 2022 it is insanely easy to find a fully remote job. Basically every tech company is offering fully remote positions.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 02:22 PM
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Completely agree, and the hate you are getting in some of the comments is from people with zero reading comprehension that think you somehow are saying to be mediocre. Your dick could be in the right place at the right time often enough if you just put yourself out there. I think something people on here don't consider enough is simply context/location/logistics. In your mind imagine your typical hot girl. Now imagine encountering her in the following different scenarios: The grocery store A fit…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 02:14 PM
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OP, if you haven't figured this out yet, then you need to go back to READING this forum instead of submitting this kind of bad advice. Maybe you should take your own advice and actually read the post. When exactly did he say to not be great? All OP said was that the bar to go out there and get women, even attractive women, is not nearly as high as people think. Have a stable job, your own place, don't be fat, have good hygiene, and don't be a pussy and you are basically already in the top 30% of…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 06:04 PM
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There's not going to be some cool band playing every night, and if you invite a girl out for drinks with you the idea that you were just gonna show up to a random cocktail bar on a Thursday night by yourself is laughable to any girl under 30. I don't understand why you need to shy away from calling it a date and instead promote hangout vibes. Your actions once she gets there will be 95% of the equation anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 06:00 PM
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Ignore and move on since there's no way she didn't see the message. Women are tied to phones and even giving the benefit of doubt there's no way in hell she'll not respond unless she's a waste of time or playing stupid games. Sometimes I pop into the dating advice subreddits and it's hilarious when you see some chump there asking something like "Hey I really like this girl who I've been on two dates with but sometimes she takes 36 hours to respond to texts asking how her day was. Does she like m…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 05:55 PM
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It's also hilarious because he self-admittedly hasn't even had a successful approach yet. From one month ago: I haven't had a successful approach yet. I haven't even approached 100 women yet. Over these past few months I approach quicker though So why exactly should we listen to what this clown has to say? And as you said, the same basic shit over and over for the last 3 months.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/22 02:55 PM
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He brands it as access to a "masculine network" of hundreds of men across the world, but yeah it's RP grifting at its finest. I mean this is a guy who literally brags about how he made his fortune taking money from desperate guys through his webcam business, and yet somehow people can't connect the dots in relation to his $10,000 a year "exclusive network" or his $100/month "Hustler's University" course lol. Unlike all these other RP online gurus (cough Cuck Murphy) he obviously walks the walk (…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 07:26 PM
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It's more that Westerners are trying to do geo-arbitrage and live in low cost of living areas while taking home USD while Eastern Europeans are trying to put themselves in a position to earn USD in the first place. As a white dude who learned fluent spanish and loves Latin culture I'm considering moving to Colombia while just working my normal US job. My $100k salary in NYC is barely enough to live in a non-shithole 1 bedroom apartment whereas I could literally spend $800-$1000/month to live in …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 07:16 PM
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Easiest is a citizenship through your parents/grandparents/great-grandparents. Second easiest is LATAM. I'm looking into just up and moving to Colombia and if you can prove you make more than like $2000 USD a month it's super easy to get a permanent residency that just needs to be renewed every 5 years. I'm sure other LATAM countries have similar rules or are even more lax.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 06:50 PM
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And what war are you referring to?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/22 03:11 PM
1

Exactly. And if you truly have a strong enough frame your girl won't even consider talking to other guys
/r/TheRedPill11/05/22 02:28 PM
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I'm not exactly sure the exact timeframe it went into overdrive (I'd wager in the 1950s or 60s) but the institutions of the west have been hard at work trying to snuff out masculinity. Let's go one level deeper and ask ourselves why this is? If you think it's because they want to put an end to misogyny then you are sorely mistaken. The powers that be want compliant worker ants that they can farm for production and tax revenue. That's about it. All of this new-world propaganda all comes back to t…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 02:09 PM
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Coffee dates feel like a job interview They won't if you are not a boring person. I prefer a round of drinks but I've had great dates picking up a coffee from a local place and then going for a walk.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 01:48 PM
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Maybe if you are 20 years old... Realistically if you are a very interesting man with good social skills, good dating skills, and stories to tell, a date talking on a park bench will be more exciting to a woman than mini golf with an average chump.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 04:13 PM
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Places you will likely never be if you aren't rich/model tier attractiveness, or extremely well-connected. Exclusive invite-only events like yacht parties and shit. As for 7s or 8s they are pretty much everywhere but best way to meet them is through a wide social circle/network. I briefly dated a model (not super model, online catalogue stuff) earlier this year and I met her through a friend of a friend at a pre-game before hitting the clubs. I am very social so I have a wide net of both friends…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/22 03:53 PM
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I'm not as active on here as I once was (to be honest, I think 95% of what needed needed to be said was said in that 2013-2016 period), but I've saved my favorite posts of old to my personal hard drive in the event that they one day nuke this place. My personal favorite: The most important part of the game is not being emotionally invested by Woujo. Original comment got nuked when I tried to link it
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 02:48 PM
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Damn Zino this was a brilliant analysis. Don't delete this one! :)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 01:50 PM
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100% If a woman likes you, and I mean truly likes you (Not just some chick you're banging that likely is still on dating apps and talking to guys in DMs) you will not doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 01:30 PM
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What makes you think that a girl talking to Brad Pitt won't get bored as fuck because maybe he sucks in real life? Because mega-stars who have traveled all over the world for 30 years likely have enough exciting stories to fill up 500 hours of deep conversation. And even then, the allure of just sleeping with an A-list celeb is too much.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 01:29 PM
2

Yeah you're spot on with your analysis here. I will sometimes approach a beautiful woman I see in public but the spend 4 hours in a park approaching every 6/10 you see is just a waste of time. A lot of guys will take you underneath your wing and show you the ropes, if you show potential and aren't an asshol weirdo who will scare away girls. Spot on here as well. If you're a cool guy and you bring something to the table most guys have no problem inviting you to hangouts and wingmanning you.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 01:17 PM
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Again, I never said you don't want to get laid. I said that you are making women the focus of your life. That's what "game" does. You can still "game" women and focus on your looks/career. It isn't an "either or" situation. A red pilled MAN understands that women are a lagging measure of success. This rhetoric is just a cope from losers who just wanna circlejerk about how everything you should do in your 20s should be centered around your finances and "building status" or whatever. I banged tons…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:57 PM
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Clubs in the US are almost always complete shit unless you are going with a co-ed group of people. Why you need to build social circles
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:46 PM
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100% spot on. Great article you linked as well. Especially this part: Most guys and girls ALREADY KNOW who they were going to have sex or try to hook up with. (unless stupid girly drama ensues) The actual "Clubbing" part is a sideshow, an appetizer, foreplay - to the AFTER-PARTY where all the Red Bull, Grey Goose and bodily fluids are spilled. When you go to a pre-game and you build that sexual tension with a woman the club experience is just a chance to be able to escalate that a bit more in a …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:45 PM
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I have thought about this a lot, and have considered writing a post about this. People always talk about how "Social Circle Game" is the easiest game, and yeah it is... provided you are already in that social circle. If you look at it from a long-term scale of time, I'd argue that Social Circle Game is actually the hardest. Developing a social group is in fact much harder and requires much more effort than approaching some random bimbo at a bar/club who you mustered up the courage to go talk to …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:40 PM
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Once you actually read the sidebar Funny you say this because if you look right at the sidebar you'll see: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. What do you think sexual strategy is?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:30 PM
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Exactly, I don't see why it has to be an "either or" type deal. Lift in the morning, practice good hygiene/up your fashion game, work on your financial situation/status, and put yourself in situations where you will talk to women.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:27 PM
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It's an interesting thing to consider. I think think that with a low body count the risk is still lower for the most part. That being said, any man who gets married in the west is basically playing russian roulette. I have no problem with marriage, but if I do it, it ain't gonna be here. It will be in a country that doesn't have the insanity of alimony payments/ludicrous child support.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:25 PM
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100%. If I do get married, it will not be in the west. It's funny because in basically every non-western country, the idea of alimony payments is absolutely laughable. I'm 26 and I'm personally considering buying property in Colombia and re-locating there.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:23 PM
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The funniest part is the women who scream that guys only care about this because they're insecure that they're not the best in bed LOL (I'm sure this is actually somewhat true for some betas but still). There is a reason why the natural male response to finding out a woman has slept with like 40 guys is one of pure revulsion. It's evolutionarily hard-wired into us because despite the modern indoctrination guys naturally do not want to raise another man's offspring. And despite the fact that we c…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:10 PM
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No one is saying you need to ditch your 9-5 to become a crypto investor or dropshipper like all these internet gurus preach. But you should look at your future 9-5 at what it is. Something that makes you money and gives you the opportunity to make more money and little else. Realize that your company 99% of the time does not give a single shit about you and will have no problem throwing your ass to the curb if it can save them a single cent. So don't show an iota of loyalty, and if you get an of…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 04:05 PM
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The content of what you say is probably only 10-20% of the battle. The rest is confidence, energy, and existing attraction.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/22 02:06 PM
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The opposite of attraction isn't negativity, it's boredom. A good rapper once said: Girls only say "I hate you" to the guys that they love. No but seriously you're 100% right. OP needs to be more emotionally stimulating. I mentioned it in another response above, but on one of the best dates I've been on we spent 10 minutes discussing her family dysfunction after I said "I bet you're the golden child of the family" Safe to say she wasn't, but it was an emotionally stimulating statement that made …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/22 02:05 PM
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You open up and take advantage of the situation to talk about yourself. About your REAL self, not the things you would say to a coworker. Change stuff up, talk about you, her - the bad, the sad, the great. 1000 times this. Women need to be emotionally stimulated. An "interview" as you described it, is simply not emotionally stimulating. 9 out of the 10 guys she's been on first dates with treat it like an interview. I kid you not, the best first date I've been on, we spent about 10 minutes talkin…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/22 02:00 PM
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From your own comment: I haven't had a successful approach yet. I haven't even approached 100 women yet. Over these past few months I approach quicker though So what exactly makes you qualified to talk about cold approach? Because you've read about it on here and watched some YouTube videos? If you treat cold approach and day game like a fire walk to help you overcome your fear of rejection, you will have a lot of fun... even if you're getting rejected 90%-99.5% of the time. This is some self-he…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 02:58 PM
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It highly depends on the trade and I'd wager that your grandfather is the minority. There are people who live to be 90+ despite eating like shit and drinking like sailors. That doesn't mean it is what generally happens. I just think "the trades" get way too romanticized on here. It is a job like any other. We live in an amazing time of upheaval in terms of working a white collar job. The remote work revolution has been pushed forward by 10-15 years because of covid and salaries are going through…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/22 07:09 PM
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How many of those women are living within their means or are just walking debt magnets hoping for a bailout from an individual man (commitment/marriage) or the government (welfare)? I'm a younger guy who has been dating around in a major city for the last 2 years. Almost every woman I've met is absolutely horrible with money. And these are not baristas either. I'm talking girls in their 20s making 6 figures or at least close to 6 figures. They spend ridiculously on: food + drink (completely addi…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 09:46 PM
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Not sure about anywhere else, but white guys should not go into tech in the US, IMO. It's dominated by Indians and they are quite determined to hang together. Not true whatsoever. God this isn't a knock on tradesmen but this RP obsession over it needs to end. You know what people never mention about tradesmen? The fact that by 50 almost all of their bodies are a complete wreck. It is backbreaking work. I am personally in sales for a tech company and my best friend is a software developer for a w…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 09:39 PM
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Thanks for posting those links. I was genuinely surprised that the 2nd one was an official OKCupid blog post! I didn't realize it until the end and was genuinely shocked. Imagine if they tried to post it now. They would get lambasted.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 01:14 PM
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I'm glad you are growing. I did not moralize at all in my post. I just said OP's behavior that night was playing with dynamite because it put both himself and his girl in a precarious social position. And like I said, while it did work for OP this time, the next time/with the next girl it could just as easily blow up in his face. I don't care that OP was chatting other women up. I did that shit all the time in my last relationship. Just warning him that behavior like that results in these coinfl…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 05:32 PM
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All good, you seem like you have a clear head on your shoulders. When you're in these big group settings you just have to consider social blowbacks as well. Not even for you necessarily, but for your girl. As another dude said below, a girl's birthday party with a relatively new boyfriend is basically a chance to show you off. For many women, their bday is basically their superbowl for the year. By showing up late you just kinda fucked that dynamic up. Not saying what you did was right or wrong,…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 05:13 PM
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Lol, ok. Seeing as you have a now-deleted post on married Red Pill titled "is it medical or am I still a beta?" I'm going to assume you're just projecting your own insecurities onto me. OP said he is exclusive with his girl. Walking the line of infidelity in front of her friends is just playing with dynamite. Like I said, it seems to have worked out for OP but the next time it can just as easily explode in his face. There is not going to be any drama if you can “next” her as easily as OP can. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 05:00 PM
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Two things. Yes as you've pointed out when a woman you're seeing sees the possibility of you banging other girls it unlocks something in their brain and they will do all types of crazy shit in an attempt to keep your gaze from wandering. That being said, it was pretty retarded of you to do that in front of her friend. As you've found out, most guy friends who act all buddy buddy to your face would gladly throw you under the bus if it meant that they thought they had a better shot with the girl. …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 01:56 PM
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I was always social growing up and could generally talk to anyone but for me personally going into sales turned my social skills up to 11. Going on a bunch of dates with women helped too, but the stakes are a bit higher when on a client call that could mean me getting an $8k-$10k commission check. A few months ago I mentioned on here that I've probably been 80 or so dates the last 2 years (live in a major city) and some retard tried to come at me for wasting my money. First of all, my finances a…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/22 02:15 PM
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I know plenty of jacked dudes who are socially retarded and get ran circles around in group settings by guys with dad bods who can command a room.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/22 02:09 PM
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If by daygame you mean striking up a conversation with the cute girl in front of you in line at the cafe, then sure. If by daygame you mean the retarded PUA strategy of hanging out in a park/mall for 4 hours and talking to any 6/10 that passes by, then fuck that. I'm in sales, and at the end of the day dating is very similar to the sales process. You should have multiple sources for women entering the top of the funnel. Sure if a guy looks like an ogre then he probably shouldn't bother with Hing…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/22 01:51 PM
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I grew up in a house with all women as well, so trust me I get it regarding the feminine energy. I will admit I never really had a problem with making friends because I did a lot of sports/activities but in the past I've had bouts of feeling insecure. What helped me to progress was to write down actionable goals for myself. Both short-term and long-term goals. It can be something as simple as, "go to the gym 3 times this week" or something as big as "make X amount of money by the time I'm 30". W…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 01:48 PM
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That being said, they also seem to be more and more aware of the fact that getting pumped and dumped by alphas lowers their SMV. How old are you. I live in a major city and this is not remotely the case where I am.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 02:11 AM
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A few things: Moved out of my parent's house. Lived at home for about 18 months after college and was able to save up a fuck ton of money. Thankfully had no student loans. Career growth. Went from making roughly $60k to just over $100k after my recent job switch. If people aren't happy with their comp they need to switch jobs ASAP. The job market is insane rn. I have a good paying job at a great company with a great worklife balance. Finances. I am not rich by any means ($100k in NYC doesn't go …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 02:06 AM
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Being in sales helped me a lot. My first job was in a boiler room type sales role where I had to make 50-60 cold calls per day. I got used to rejection really quickly and learned to just not give a fuck. Carried it over to dating as well.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 01:49 AM
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But it's never too late. How can I get an edge? How can I shed the lil' bro vibes and become a man? How can I challenge myself to be stronger? For me personally this came from being more outcome independent, being more cognizant of my tonality+body language, and just experience. Outcome independence: If you have an air about you that makes a girl think "wow if I told this guy to fuck off and never even look at me again he wouldn't give a single fuck" it is intoxicating. I gained this from starti…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 03:57 PM
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I want to make as much money as possible ASAP not because I want to buy some overpriced houses and cars for a trophy wife because I want to GTFO of the rat race by 45 and retire. My goal is to rack up cash/passive investments and be able to live a modest but very comfortable life off of that.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 02:03 PM
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Fair point, not worth the mental energy having a discussion with him
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 01:56 PM
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Oh look another gaming addict crawling out of the woodwork to moralize on here. There's a reason why women who fuck a lot of people are just called whores and men who do it are called players, fuckboys, cads, etc. All terms said with a bit of a smirk. Because women fucking a lot of men is not the same as men fucking a lot of women.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 11:36 PM
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Men can be whoring around just as women can. Casual sex isn’t better because you‘re a guy. It's not better or worse. It's different because men and women are different. Do you even understand what the red pill is about? It seems you do not. Do you? What have you actually contributed to this subreddit besides some moralization cope comments? From literally the sidebar of the subreddit: " Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." And also, claimi…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 08:51 PM
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I meant it more for normal guys. I would push back on your statement that PUA only attracts spergs. I think tons of very "normal" guys who are just inexperienced get attracted to it and then get put on the robotic PUA path. PU exists, existed because the dating culture in the west was and still is absolutely masochistic for any socially uncalibrated men Fair point
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 08:41 PM
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There‘s nothing redpilled about being a male whore. Well "TimCrypto" let me say it for you again since you lack reading comprehension. "Men cannot be whores" Take your moralization somewhere else. Like I said, if you want to go and fuck one woman the rest of your life be my guest. Ironic you talk about post-modernism and unhealthy habits when all of your top comments are from a video game subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 08:39 PM
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How you handle a place not having any seats open, dropping your icecream on the pavement or having some street performers hitting on your woman. Those natural reactions are bigger status signifiers, than any rolex or lambo - because they can not be faked. Seriously stellar comment, especially this part here. You're right these status signifiers cannot be faked and in my opinion they are only built through XP. Which is why I was never a fan of pickup/PUA. Because if you start dating with that rob…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 08:24 PM
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Why did I use her company to hook up with other women but pass on a chance to hit that? She's hot and willing. Because she was nuts. Fine point. As I have gone into the latter half of my twenties and got dating XP the more I have become cognizant of this. Some women are truly not worth the trouble, and if you build up dating XP these women will be easier to suss out. I would rather bang a super chill 6 than a crazy 8 literally every day of the week.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 07:18 PM
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First of all, men can't be whores. Secondly, TRP is the: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men If you want to be a chaste man who marries his high school sweetheart then go ahead. Not every man wants that.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 07:13 PM
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Dude a blue pill man doesn't have to be a giga-cuck like your friend. 90% of BP men are just normal dudes who have bought into the societal programming. Plenty of very powerful and influential men are beyond blue-pilled. Instead of creating these extreme rules for yourself, build up social skills and be able to calibrate situations as they come to you. If you want to be successful in life there will be countless occasions where you have to put up with "blue pill" men.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 07:13 PM
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Was typing up a reply saying how half of this post is complete shit but scrolled down and saw you handled it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 07:09 PM
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They are, but not when they're driven by bimbo soccer moms high on xanax
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 04:05 AM
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Don't care
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 04:03 AM
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Assuming this is even true, there's only so much sympathy I can feel for a complete retard. This isn't a guy who "did everything by the book" (good house, good cars, good job) and got divorced raped in his 40s. Moving up a marriage timeline solely to get them cheaper health insurance and then working overtime to pay for all their classes while not saving any money is retarded in any era.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 05:30 PM
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I've been all across South America and Colombia in particular is an amazing country. Full of feminine down to earth women.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 11:14 PM
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The studies don't back up your anecdotal claims
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 11:14 PM
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My goal: make as much money as possible doing the least amount of work possible, invest well, retire early by taking advantage of favorable exchange rates. I work in tech sales, technically work 9-5 although I probably do like 25-30 hours of "real" work a week, as I've gotten very efficient with my process.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 11:12 PM
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Yeah I'm not being a pussy. I haven't checked out of the dating game, I'm just not getting fucking married. I have seen first hand how fucked the family court system is in America, so if I have a family it will be outside of this god forsaken country. If I ever ended up as one of those 60 year old guys slaving away at his white collar job giving up 60% of his gross in alimony and child support I would genuinely blow my brains out.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 11:10 PM
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The image I responded to is talking about muslim immigrants in western countries. Not muslims in muslim countries.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah because they're living in some slum working 80 hours a week working until they're 75 years old. Yeah if I worked myself to the bone until I croaked I'm sure I'd be able to raise a family no problem. But like I said, kids or not, my goal is to retire by 50. Not feasible with 3 kids in America unless you win the lottery.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 06:57 PM
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I was a bit off. The average person in American makes roughly 52k. The average man makes 57k. Not a crazy amount higher. For every man that makes over $1m there are countless bums out there making nothing or almost nothing.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 06:26 PM
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Yep, single men also historically don't spend half as much as women do. Women drive almost all the spending. Almost every women I know living in my city is practically living paycheck to paycheck. Most make decent money, but between exorbitant rent, food/drinks, traveling, almost none have money saved. If they woke up one day and had to pay a $7k hospital bill I'd wager 99% would be asking dad or signing up for a sugar daddy website the next day. Many men would be perfectly fine with living a si…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 04:54 PM
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Pretty spot on. More and more guys at the bottom of the food chain are being squeezed out of the marriage market, but I also know a lot of guys at the middle/top who are saying that with marriage the juice just isn't worth the squeeze. I personally don't want kids in the current west. Even if I did find a suitable partner child-raising is just insanely expensive to an absurd degree. But my personal plan is to make as much money from now (26) until I'm roughly 45-50, then retire in South America.…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 02:34 PM
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We are not talking in absolutes here, we are talking about generalities. The fact is women date up, and as women as a whole make increasingly more money the pool of marriage-material men drastically shrinks for them. And do you think this trend is slowing down? No, it's speeding up. 60% of students in higher education are women, and contrary to what some morons on here think, statistics show that a college degree is still an indicator of higher future earning potential. So the 80/20 rule is tren…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 02:25 PM
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Instead of : "If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?" Say: "I bet you'd enjoy a good spanking." A good date has ebbs and flows to it. Yes, establish yourself as a masculine man who is a sexual person but you can't just be making innuendos the entire 1-2 hours you're there. Yeah if you went through them one by one that would be autistic, but bringing up 1-2 of these later on in the date when you are trying to get a bit deeper is a good idea. A good conversat…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 01:13 AM
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Tinder was great 5-6 years ago but they fucked with the algorithms hard to monetize it and squeeze money out of poor saps. It's complete shit now
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:14 PM
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Tinder is shit but Hinge is good. At the end of the day online dating is only worth it if you're decent looking. It's one of the easiest ways to actually tell if you truly are.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:12 PM
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I understand you are likely just using the word tinder to refer to dating apps but Tinder is complete shit and has been for years. The algorithm is designed to flood you with matches the first week or so and then feed them to you at a slow drip while saying you have 200 people that have liked you so you will pony up the money for Tinder gold. If you are in a major city Hinge is king and has been for the last 2+ years. Now to address your point. Yeah do both, but you have to be vigilant about not…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:03 PM
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Women in real life (as in, not dating apps) don't just see just looks alone in a vacuum though. I have a friend who is probably in the worst demographic in terms of physical attractiveness. He is a 5'5 dad-bod asian dude with a manbun. He is the biggest poonhound I know and fucks genuinely hot women, not just 5s and 6s. Why? Because he is absolute dynamite socially. Despite being physically small he genuinely commands a room with his social energy. I have personally seen women at parties/clubs g…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/22 06:41 PM
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"in the fourth quarter of 2020, men earned a median annual salary of $55,744, while women made a median annual salary of $46,488" in USA. But we aren't talking about 2020, 2021, or even 2022. We are talking about 2030 and beyond when we will see the affects of higher education being 60% women. It's a mental thing. Too many people (men and women) are driven by outside sources like main stream media, social media, psychological trauma, false promises etc. I agree.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 11:21 PM
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To women it is one and the same though. That is the distinction you are not getting. Women are hardwired like this. It's not logical, but women don't think with logic.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 11:20 PM
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Of course people have to take responsibility for their actions but consider looking at it this way. The free attention and validation from social media basically ensures that almost every somewhat attractive female becomes a complete narcissist. I can guarantee that all the guys on here who are stuck in the anger phase would be behaving in a similar fashion if they had hundreds/thousands of women on social media/dating apps constantly reinforcing the idea that they are god's gift to earth. Women…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 09:41 PM
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The problem is that despite all these modern distractions we still have caveman brains. And women are just not attracted to a man who makes less money than them. So that means there will be a lot of women who reach 40 without getting married or having kids. Women are at least attracted to the security a beta bux man can provide even if they aren't attracted to him physically. But what happens when you don't even have that? Tons of single women who can't find a partner.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 09:37 PM
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when there are millions of women doctors/ lawyers/ dentists High salary doesn't equal wealth. Women are far more likely to rack up debt and far less likely to invest than Men are. social media stars An exception to the rule doesn't discount the rule itself. Compared to every dumbass trying to make money off social media, social media stars make up like 0.00000001% of the population.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 06:53 PM
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It's not worth getting angry about it. I honestly feel bad for them. They have been sold fool's gold by decades of societal programming telling them to slave away and be corporate drones and materialistic consumers instead of homebuilders.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 06:50 PM
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Hard times are coming for those unprepared. We are reaching a point of so much societal upheaval all coming to a head at once. You're 100% spot on. Women will almost always date up, no matter the circumstances. And with more and more women graduating college and making increasingly more money, the dating pool for them shrinks more and more. If a woman makes 120k/yr it doesn't matter to her that a man making 90k (roughly top 10%) still logically will be able to provide amply for her. He just isn'…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 06:47 PM
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Call her bluff, but you have to be ready to walk, which in this case, I was. The majority of guys really don't understand how powerful the ability to walk away truly is - doubly so for truly hot women. Most hot women have never been told no in their lives. And part of what will give a man the stones to walk away is what you said earlier: “If you were maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women, none of this would be a problem." The majority of the reason men give into every whim of thei…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 01:14 AM
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My whole point was that there are plenty of other factors to consider, and why barring an high N-count you can't just look at it in a vacuum. What if girl A ended things because in her mind she "never experienced being single" and you just happened to catch her right at the start of her hoe phase? My final point is that once you interact with a lot of women and gain real life experience, it's honestly pretty easy to judge a woman's character.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 04:18 PM
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Sure women who've been with a lot of dudes are more likely to lie... that's kinda the point on how it's retarded to ask? Because you won't get an honest answer...
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 01:14 AM
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You're spitting straight facts. Firstly you'll likely never know the truth and secondly there are tons of factors that come into play. I'm not saying go LTR up some turbo-whore but here's some food for thought similar to what you were getting to in your comment. Imagine two girls let's say they're both 24 years old. Girl A: N-count of 1. Just got out of a 7 year relationship with a guy who was her first everything. They lived together for the last 3 years and were fucking every day doing all typ…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 01:06 AM
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Women lie all the time especially when they are trying to make themselves seem more chaste for a long term relationship. You will almost never get a truly honest answer and most men seemingly will just become too invested in it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 12:57 AM
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Definitely agree with the fact that when it comes to someone I care about, I enjoy seeing them grow and get what they want from life. I will concede that it isn't a completely selfless decision on my part though. I think it's better to have a mature clean break then try to keep emotionally leading her on for months and months and suddenly the situation has snowballed and she is liable to go crazy. With my personal anecdote, it wasn't even necessarily that she wasn't good enough for me. She was d…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 04:49 PM
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FYI for anyone considering going to Mexico they are cracking down on tourist visas the last few months. Basically before a few months ago they would give you 180 days every time no questions asked. But lately they have been giving a lot of people just 2-3 week visas for no apparent reason. Seemingly just depends on the mood of the immigration officer you get. But yeah I spent some of 2021 in Colombia and loved it a lot. So definitely agree with the general gist of the post. My lease expires in a…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 04:12 PM
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It is very easy to generalize, but like most things in life context matters and no woman is the same. This is why guys need to get out there and socialize so they can calibrate on the fly instead of trying to think of what some TRP post they read 4 months ago said. One of my ex plates was a complete pushover and just hated rejecting anyone whether it was a guy, a friend asking her to do something, etc. We went out clubbing with mutual friends and when I stepped away for a few minutes guys would …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 09:16 PM
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Thanks for sharing. After being single in a major city the last two years and gaining tons of XP I feel I've changed my approach to women for my own happiness. This is not me moralizing (I'm not telling anyone how to live their life) and some of my best friends are absolute dogs with women and they're my brothers for life. But after a few years of doing dark triad/toxic game I changed to an approach that worked better for me. Now let me elaborate before some people jump down my throat: Do I act …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 04:37 PM
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For any man who's been unexpectedly hit by a barrage of bills in a short period of time, you know it's not good feeling. Car blows up, you or your family member ends up in the hospital, you lose your job, etc. Suddenly, the debt is stacking up, and you have to withdraw from everything aside from the bare essentials to pay off what you owe. Yep. That's why although I invested a lot of my money, my first priority after college was building up my savings. Now I got 1yr of expenses saved and I am at…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 03:19 PM
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Men Have Plans; Women Plan on Men Having a Plan. Ah, that’s it. Women have kids. Or don’t. They are hot, or they are not. And if they are hot enough they can simply bail on their own life and set up shop in someone else’s. I relayed my thoughts about this in a comment I made a few days ago. For context, I'm a 26 year old guy in a major city who's been living the good single life for the last 2+ years. Probably been on dates with 80+ women in that timeframe and have talked to countless more becau…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 02:29 PM
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Another thing that pisses me off is demographic. I swear on my life that in different regions different approach styles work more. I am from Germany and a lot of german girls cant handle direct approaches, they just cant. If I meet girls with spanish/french/eastern background its totally different because they grew up in a different culture where direct approaches are way more common. I agree the cultural differences can be drastic. I have pretty much never had a south american chick tell me to …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 01:15 AM
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Sex isn't necessary to be happy. And YOU don't need sex to survive. Sex and belonging is a basic human need. RIGHT below survival. Why do you need to be loved by someone else? When did I say that it was external love. If you are a fatass with no job why the fuck should you love yourself?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 05:22 PM
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Two gems in two days - Damn! I wouldn't say my game before TRP was "nice guy game" but it certainly wasn't optimized as well as it could have been. I didn't take enough risks - for example, I wouldn't make the conversation sexually charged often enough. I did fine with women because I was always in good shape and I was always social, but I definitely wasn't doing as well as I could have been. Took TRP's dating advice on many fronts: making the date an emotional experience. push/pull making the c…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 04:30 PM
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Ok so go find some MGTOW forum to be a part of then. The description of this subreddit: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Completely fine if you don't want to waste energy on women (at times I don't blame you) but if that's the case why are you here? For people so concerned about the grind, spend an exorbitant amount of time in bars talking to lesser minds, curating ways to get their dick wet instead of bettering yourself i…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 04:21 PM
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Great post as usual. What you really want is the “Fuck YEAH!” girl. The girl who is down for what you want, so if you say, “Hey, let’s stay in tonight,” her response will be “Fuck, YEAH we are staying in. This is something that I had to remind myself a lot when I was just starting out in my single journey after graduating college. A girl who is truly interested in you will not make it hard for you to see her. Trust me, I know from experience as a guy dating around a major city the last 2+ years.…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 07:56 PM
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She rejects me and tells me she's more of a relationship girl. I give a soft rebuttal of, "yeah, but good dick is hard to find" and give her my number just in case she changes her mind. I got rejected, but she may have a "moment of horniness" in between relationships. She gives me a call and jogs my memory on how she has my number. I set a date for us to hook up and I get the pussy. Lol. Delusional. How about instead of writing farfetched hypothetical fanfics about some girl bootycalling you aft…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 02:34 AM
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As someone who has been on dates with 80+ women the last 2 years and change, the amount of women who either take pride in not cooking, or think it is some quirky trait is unbelievable. Easily more than 60% of them. One of the many reasons why modern women living in cities have ZERO money saved up because they are constantly going out to dinner or ordering ubereats. Pretty much every woman I know in my city is BROKE AF despite some of them making good money. The online shopping, dinners, and vaca…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 09:07 PM
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Obviously you know you gotta lose the weight if you're a bigger guy the fit of your clothes matters 10x as much as an in-shape guy. Just gotta experiment a bit and find good fitting stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 08:11 PM
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Well treat your looks with some respect and don't look like a slob? It is very easy to look presentable with basic "athleisure" wear. Even if I am just popping out to the coffee shop or to pick up lunch I wear a some nice fitting joggers, a quarterzip sweatshirt, and some clean sneakers. Takes literally 20 seconds to put on.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 04:23 PM
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Lol such hypocrisy. If bet if you went through these women's texts you can find 100 examples each of them ghosting guys, treating them like shit, etc. Seriously. I read a quick article about it and two of the girls complaining are saying that he "loved bombed them on Hinge" and then unmatched before going on a date. Yeah, pretty weird but that somehow justifies doxxing the guy? This is also a warning to never put your fucking job on dating apps. Firstly, it's no one's fucking business and second…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 02:01 AM
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Dude NYC is basically like fishing with dynamite. Depending on the neighborhood there can almost be a 2 to 1 ratio of women to men. Add in the 80-20 rule and if you are a reasonably attractive guy with his shit together you should be absolutely slaying at casual dating if you're not an autist socially.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 01:53 AM
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You have to consider this: 80% of men are basically invisible to women. A decent number of these invisible men are also tall. And out of the 20% of men who get laid consistently, women generally prefer taller guys.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 01:52 AM
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Have you missed the thing about "expressing yourself with confidence"? This approach is the only real way to achieve true outcome independence, self-respect, standards, and enjoy interacting with women. Instead of feeling pathetic after each "rejection" and trying to find the best way to trick women into sleeping with you. Or deluding yourself that you aren't worthy until you become Chad, which can never happen anyway. Lol, I have been on a one man fucking spree in NYC the last 2 years. The idea…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 02:26 PM
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I do agree somewhat - if you actually have something going for you. The problem with this rhetoric is the "I am the prize" mentality is that 80% of men aren't actually a prize. You don't approach them to get laid, or to prove yourself, or to impress her with how cool you are. No. Approach women to show them who you are (by expressing yourself with confidence) and give them the chance to chase YOU. Unless you are a gigachad this isn't really compatible with reality. I do agree that you should app…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 03:58 AM
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No negativity from my end - I appreciate the discourse. The only problem with your more deliberate approach is that I fear that there is a possibility of getting a beginner caught in a mindset of pedestalizing the women by getting too worried if she will react poorly to something you say. Try to think back when you were starting your journey, did you spend time thinking about what you're going to say? Or have you, in the effort to be "spontaneous", kept babbling/blurting things and just got luck…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 12:55 AM
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Can’t get around the rejection thing. If I already know they’re going to reject me why am i bothering? How do you know they're gonna reject you. Are you a mind reader? Not talking to women for fear of rejection is like saying you don't want to work out for fear of being sore. Something you gotta put up with to attain your goals.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 03:52 AM
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Slow the fuck down when you talk. Don’t get caught in the moment and blurt shit out. S T F U until you have the answer. This isn’t a first person shooter video game; it’s chess. Consider every move, every word, take your time to react. I'm going to push back on this part. Any guy on here who has dated a bunch of women knows that body language and tonality (aka confidence) matters much more than the content of your words when it comes to talking to women. Maybe I just have been on enough dates wh…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 01:38 AM
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Although some argue that BJJ is better 1v1. BJJ probably is if you know that it is 1v1 but it rarely is. Also you have no idea if the guy has a knife or gun on him. Boxing allows you to keep the distance.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 05:41 PM
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Where as BJJ allows you to control the situation. Please explain to me how in control of the situation you will be when you are on the ground and his friend comes in and kicks you. We've already ran this experiment in the 90's with the emergence of MMA. You keep bringing this up like a street fight is a controlled environment. It's not. I'm not under any delusions in saying that a boxer would beat a BJJ/judo guy in a cage with anything goes rules. They wouldn't. What I'm saying is that your main…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 05:28 PM
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Boxers are just helpless once it goes to ground. This is what all the BJJ tards always say and here is the problem with that. If you are coming from a frame of self-defense, why would you prioritize a martial art that is SOLELY groundwork? In an actual street fight you never want to go to ground. That is the fastest way to get your head kicked in by one of his friends. Street fights are not like the movies where everyone forms a circle and it's "fair". In fact, I have never seen a fair street fi…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 06:05 AM
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If you are speaking strictly from a self-defense perspective best combat sport is boxing. BJJ is also a great way to get cauliflower ear which looks absolutely terrible.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 05:34 AM
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I agree with your general point that you need to set actionable and trackable goals for yourself in many aspects of life, but I am not sure if I agree with the specifics. I honestly think that in 2022 that PUA daygame is on life support - with it's death sped up by covid. Maybe I am biased because I have decent social circles with attractive women, and I am good looking enough to do well for myself on hinge. I just personally think the whole idea of hanging around the park (or the mall, a grocer…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 08:52 PM
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If you are good at your job is this basically the best time since the boomers were graduating college to be looking for a job. Tech companies in particular are fighting tooth and nail for talent, and to attract that talent are offering amazing salary plus crazy benefits. My current job is paying me 20-30% more than what it would have paid a year ago, 30 days vacation, free top-tier healthcare, can expense lunch every day, full-time remote, $1000 annual home office stipend, $2500 annual "learning…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 08:09 PM
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The other approach is to be able to talk about your life in a way that is exciting. Yep. If your frame is strong and you have confidence you can be into pretty much anything. If a girl is on a date with a chad and he says he likes to watch anime in his spare time (not my thing, just using a "nerdy" example) do you really think she's gonna pick some nerd into hiking over him? No. This relates to how when you are speaking with women (men too tbh), your energy and confidence matters much more than …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 11:10 PM
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The problem with this logic is that the people who espouse it are often selective in where they apply it. Do you triple filter all the water you drink to filter out contaminants in your water supply? Do you eat only organic food that hasn't been pumped with preservatives/hormones? Do you use only natural toiletries and cleaning products? Do you drink only out of glass/stainless steel in order to avoid plastic contamination? Now maybe you do all of those things, but I'd venture most don't. I pers…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 09:46 PM
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This is becoming extremely common. More women are just looking for short term smashes, even compared to 2020. Yep. I remember having a good discussion on here with someone a few months back regarding something similar. For context I'm 26 and live in a major city so I go on a lot of dates. A question I like to ask women on the 2nd or 3rd date (first if it comes up naturally) is when their last relationship was. It reveals a lot about the woman they way they speak about it. Over the last 12-18 mon…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 06:31 PM
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“if you aren’t a woman’s top option and you are texting her, the more she sees your name and not her top option, you get negatively reinforced into her mind as someone she’s not interested in.” Remember reading that on here a while ago but forgot about it. Makes so much sense when you think about it. I think about my BP days and how my heart would practically skip a beat when my text notifications buzzed because I was hoping it was a girl I was interested in. It's the same concept. When a girl's…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 06:27 PM
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The beauty of sales is that you get out of it what you put into it. I personally went into sales right out of college but I had a colleague who was 31 in the same entry level position as me after making a career switch. 3 years later he is a seasoned sales pro making good money because he worked his ass off. Companies, specifically tech companies, are hiring BDRs like crazy right now with great salaries because of the competition. My company is now paying almost $70k for an entry level BDR posit…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 06:25 PM
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Except in this case it's raining outside and will rain every day.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 02:38 AM
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Another great post man. Your last one was great as well. Stop Talking Good advice for newbies, and I agree the woman should do the majority of the talking but once guys get a bit more experienced this is something you can hone in on and calibrate on the fly. Certain girls will need a bit of prodding/leading to open up and the last thing you want is to be stuck on some boring as fuck date where the girl is giving you nothing to work with. I am in sales and I have tons of interesting passions, tra…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 12:50 AM
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Ok so go become mormon or some shit then. The Pandora's Box of smartphones + societal programming cannot be undone otherwise. 99% of the women you meet in your life has at some point gone home from a bar and gotten railed by some guy she met an hour earlier. Do you want to complain about reality or go live in the real world?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 12:24 AM
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Yep. My first place out of college was one of the shittiest studio apartments imaginable. It doesn't matter. Having your own place just elevates you so much and empowers you with a freedom you will never have living at home.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 07:16 PM
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If by day-game you mean hang around in a park/other public setting and go up and talk to random girls? No. If by day-game you mean that if I am getting a coffee and I see a beautiful woman will I go up and talk to her? Probably 50/50 chance depending on mood/if I have places to go. The older millennials/gen x-ers don't realize that the PUA heydays of the mid 2000s are over. And frankly, between work and boxing I don't have the time to be fucking around in the park for 2 hours every week chatting…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 07:16 PM
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Guy likely was huge. If you are a 200kg 1.95 beast, you will never have any problems with girls in your life. It's him being big plus the IDGAF attitude. Plenty of ripped guys out there who struggle with girls because they're massive pussies.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 11:15 PM
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Weak post, not enough detail It's not just that there is not enough detail. I have seen plenty of worthwhile short posts in my years of browsing this subreddit. It's not enough detail combined with the fact that your post has no thesis. Your post just meanders along with you telling us your backstory and how TRP led to more success with girls and then you left because you got a girlfriend. It's not really a field report.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 07:10 PM
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Well the whole point is that basically the entire social fabric of America has been slowly chipped away at over the last 50+ years and we are left with what we have today.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 01:13 AM
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Logistics are so underrated. After college I lived at home for a year while I paid off the rest of my student debt and if I didn't have a plate that had her own place the logistics for fucking would have been terrible. Now I live in NYC and I am a 2 block walk from amazing bars and clubs. When you can say to a girl, "hey I live 2 blocks from here wanna come back to my place and insert anti-slut defense activity here" it is a powerful tool. It also makes the logistics for late night booty calls s…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 02:07 AM
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though I suppose above average in the US is just not fat so your scale checks out LOL. Us Americans really don't know how bad we have it. I've been fortunate enough to travel a lot of the world and the difference is actually shocking. I was in Colombia last year and women were not only slim, but got dolled up just to go grocery shopping. Them going out of the house in sweatpants and a hoodie was unthinkable. The amount of fuckable girls just skyrockets under those circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 08:32 PM
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I only watched about 30 seconds but could already get the picture. Hopefully this dude gets out there and slays - but man 4 kids in his mid 20s plus alimony is gonna have this guy giving up 50% of his gross. We can talk about how she's a bitch, she's this, she's, that, yadda yadda yadda. At the end of the day we are seeing the current divorce epidemic for a number of reasons There of course is: Broken families = broken children (on the whole). So many people today growing up with divorced parent…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 08:26 PM
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I mean of course... dudes wanna get laid. Also it is much easier for experienced male salsa dancers to dance with inexperienced female dancers because the male is supposed to lead. I used to take salsa classes as well, and I saw guys make girls who had been to just 1-2 classes look like seasoned pros because their leading skills were so good. I don't understand what you're complaining about. Yeah no shit - high status males gonna try to hook up with good looking women. That's life. It ain't fair…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 08:03 PM
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he advocates for using MDMA as solution to Approach Anxiety, in order for the guys who are afraid to cold approach a girl to "unlock a person’s potential". He calls it "a useful means of coaching". Lol. Just a more extreme version of telling someone to go and get drunk to build up some liquid courage. A band-aid solution to a bigger problem, and another quick-fix instead of improving a man's foundation. Repeated MDMA use is also terrible for your brain.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 07:56 PM
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Lastly, we’re all friends and didn’t want to fight over her, or make ourselves look like a bunch of thirsty bumbling fools falling all over each other to get to her. I am not exaggerating that week we spent 20 hours in a group with her talking about sex, and her and our relationships to it. Anyone else seeing the irony here ? So this guy spends 20 hours talking to some random hoe about sex, never fucks her, and then tries to post-hoc rationalize it away by saying "well at least we weren't acting…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 06:50 PM
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Yeah the guy who hitched himself to the pathetic 21con is the "correct way". Ok. I mean have you even seen this shit? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HG0A9NaKrok Pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 03:12 PM
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No, because he was never even that popular in the first place. I do think over the last 3-4 years there has been a deluge of grifters, but that is because the "manosphere" is becoming more mainstream as a whole. When something becomes more popular there are always leeches trying to make money off of it. Tale as old as time. There are a lot of disenfranchised guys out there that are finally waking up to the fact that sexual dynamics in the western world in 2022 are completely out of whack. And th…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 03:11 PM
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100% yes. Don't go and get yourself killed, and the rest of your image/confidence needs to sync with it (if you're a beta pussy a car isn't gonna get you laid), but every single girl I've been with has liked me driving fast. I even had a girl tell me the way I competently backed into a parking space (looking back with my right hand pressed against the back of her headrest) was hot.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 07:21 PM
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Phase 5: The Second Wave - If you've followed these steps to a T, if your woman had any attraction left for you at all, she will eventually reach out to you. Depending on how dominant you were, it might just be a simple "Hey" or a 5 page letter where they confess their undying love and devotion for you. Facts. Out of all the girls I've been involved with on a level more than just a ONS, I think all except 2 or 3 have reached out to me after things ended. The advice you give later on in that para…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 07:14 PM
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Because this guy is posting every 3 fucking days
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 10:57 PM
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Damn man, this is the best post on here I've read in a long time. Spitting some serious knowledge. Learning how to master Push/Pull is honestly one of the foundational skills a man needs to learn when it comes to dating, on both a micro and macro level. By micro and macro level, I mean utilizing push/pull in the span of a single date, and also with the relationship as a whole. Micro example: Ok so you just had 15 minutes straight of great flirty banter. Now it's time to maybe pump the breaks a b…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 02:10 AM
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She's only with me because I'm confident, in great shape, have a good job, am adventurous and live an exciting life, know how to fuck, etc. I'm only with her because she's hot and not a bitch. At the end of the day who's being more shallow? :) In all seriousness, we can acknowledge the existence of hypergamy but the cat is out of the bag so not much use complaining about it. TRP speaks in generalizations, but there are girls who are way more likely to branch-swing than others, as you mentioned. …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 04:41 PM
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There is no way to accept that "closure is bullshit" unless you've made a fool out of yourself at least once when a woman dumped you. Yep. My gf cheating on me and dumping me when I was 20 was what led me here. For weeks I acted like a pussy and still called/texted her asking to get back together. Was a shit time in my life but wouldn't trade it for a thing because that was a crucial growing experience in my life. There is NO WAY to feel comfortable freely expressing yourself unless you have tem…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:30 AM
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Can't say more without knowing a ton of other factors. Namely, how long you've already been together. That being said, pretty much everyone's first true "love" feels like a forever love. I remember thinking "we could get married one day" about my college gf. Now I look back and fucking laugh at that.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 01:33 AM
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Alright to approach one or two but don't make it a consistent pick-up spot, as word travels fast. An approach at the gym works best when you've already crossed paths a few time and made eye contact.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 01:28 AM
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Dogs are awesome for opening women Could have just stopped there. I don't own a dog but I was dogsitting for a friend who had covid badly and was bedridden so couldn't walk him. A cute little corgi puppy. It was like being a hot girl at a nightclub walking that dog around the city. Half the time women were coming up to me, and the other half the time I could walk up to them with a smile, complement their dog, and boom instant convo. Must have talked to like 30+ groups of women in a week and not …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 01:27 AM
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Sidebar covers that. I'd also recommend you read through some of Woujo's posts. He has great posts about that subject. The problem newbies encounter is that they often tend to ask for advice because they are not seeing success with ONE particular girl. And they believe that if they start acting Red Pill, that one girl will see the change in them and start swooning over them. That is rarely the case as first impressions are very important for building attraction. Dating ultimately is a numbers ga…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 10:00 PM
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I know, but the point is that if you have the means to do so, you should diversify yourself geographically speaking.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 09:52 PM
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This made me think about an Andrew Tate video I watched a few days ago. Now I think Andrew Tate is putting on a bit of an exaggerated act for the camera, but doesn’t mean he doesn’t have knowledge to share. It was a video about how in the modern age, unless you want to live like a farmer from the Middle Ages you are not living “off the grid” His solution (which is unobtainable for a lot of men likely), is to be on so many grids that he can’t be kept down. Get a 2nd or 3rd passport, diversify you…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 04:30 PM
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Depends highly on the state, but the problem with pre-nups is that if they are not equitable enough they are often thrown out. What ends up happening is that yeah you don’t have to give her 50% but you end up having to sign away 35-40% anyways. You will not be leaving her with nothing. Also with these activist judges becoming more and more common, I wouldn’t be surprised if the pre-nup situation gets even worse for men.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 04:24 PM
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Everyone has a story like that. I don't know man, I was pretty plugged into the matrix until my first breakup at 20 years old, and I can assure you I never had a dumb whore steal $1000 from me and then cried begging for her back.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 04:17 PM
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I played chad (learned it here) to date my oneitis. It actually worked and I fucked her brains out for a year, but relapsed into blue-pill This is the problem with the PUA community, and how pickup might get you a hot girl for one night, but if you aren't a true alpha/high-value man, you won't hold onto her for long. Like you found out so harshly, PUA/Larping as a chad is a band-aid solution. Fine if all you want is to pump and dump until you die I guess. But if you actually want to hold onto a …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 04:14 PM
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"Hey you look hot, I figured we could get to know our bodies better." Like what the actual fuck. Probably a LARP but body language and tonality are honestly 90% of game. You can say some really stupid shit when talking to women if you are: A. Confident B. Have good body language C. Good looking
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 09:28 PM
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I do agree that the blackpill aka the whining 24/7 movement needs to fuck off, and if you look through my comment history I just wrote about how while women are increasingly only fucking the top 20% of men, it is also easier than ever to become a top 20% guy due to the state of men. If you are just interested in hookups/FWB situations this is a great time to be a man. That being said I don't share your optimism in women from an LTR perspective. As I've been on a single man fucking spree the last…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 11:03 PM
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I work in enterprise sales, would prefer not to get more specific than that. But working in sales the last 4 years has been hard, but such an amazing experience. I can strike up a conversation with anyone. I've been on plenty of dates where the girl had her walls up at the start but after 1 round of drinks and my sweet talking she is telling me her darkest secrets. Working in sales improved my social skills leaps and bounds. Sales is so similar to gaming women it's crazy, and outcome independenc…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:15 PM
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However what I feel most blackpillers want is the Arnold body, the body that never gets rejected. That's their standard. Which of course as you know is an absurd standard. Even guys much better looking than me deal with rejection. A few days ago on here I talked about how I was seeing a girl and after about 2.5 months of seeing her she pulled the "slow fade" on me and then told me she wasn't interested anymore. Looks-wise this girl isn't even in the top 30% of women I've fucked. Point being is t…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:13 PM
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The blackpillers and MGTOWs wanna always bitch about how women are only going for the top 20% (it is true they do have more access to them than ever before due to social media and dating apps)... but what they don't want to acknowledge is how easy it is to become a top 20% man these days. Newbies on here love to bitch about the state of women but they rarely seem to consider the state of men these days. The majority of men today are complete losers. Now this is due in large part to a 50+ year lo…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 02:19 AM
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Nah wasn't that. The ex that led me to TRP had BPD so trust me I know what it looks like. One of the reasons I liked this girl (and probably pedestalized her a bit mentally to an extent) was because she was very chill and mature. No crazy mood swings, had her life together, wanted to get together with me but wasn't overbearing, always offered to split the bill, etc. She honestly could have lost interest for a number of reasons and I'll likely never know so there's no use me wasting mental energy…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 11:24 PM
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Life would be simpler if everyone just said what they were feeling but we don't live in such a world. It sucks, but onto the next one. Keep grinding and stay strong bro.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 11:40 PM
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Not that it matters, but she's moved on or will very quickly. Don't entertain the notion that she's sitting by the phone waiting for you. She's more likely to spite fuck or "slut it up". 100% the case if she's the one who initiated the breakup. This can be a depressing thought for newbies but women from my experience lose attraction with much more finality than men. The breakup that led me to TRP was a relationship that lasted over 2 years. My gf went from saying she loved me to basically treati…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 09:16 PM
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5'10, in good shape because I'm a boxer. Sitting at a lean 175-180 right now. Found this place after a bad breakup when I was 20 and have been grinding on my finances, career, body, and spirit ever since.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 03:37 PM
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I tend to agree. I am not saying it is a bad thing, but the people who claim that TRP isn't ideological are just off base.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 08:42 PM
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Absolute sex bomb. She was also super chill: it was the most peaceful and sexually fulfilling two years of my life. You perfectly highlighted what many women don't realize about men. We are very simple creatures unlike women who go into their 20s with an 100 item checklist of what they want in a guy before eventually scratching off 75% of it and settling when they hit the wall. Men want want a woman who: Is good looking/is feminine Is compliant (chill)/ not crazy Puts out There might be a few mo…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 03:02 PM
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I don't think there is a 'happy' dating life, you're just a dog chasing cars at best. I personally got burnt out with 2-3 new women a month, all the bullshit apps, doing dumb shit like going out to dive bars for the sake of doing it. Nah, not for me. It's almost a part time job when you have 3 plates, time that could be spent elsewhere, but it's all your perspective and priorities. As I've transitioned past the halfway mark in my 20s I feel more and more like this. Like you, been single for a wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 02:57 PM
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Someone could - but my whole point is even if the rest of the manosphere wasn't around and you looked at TRP in a vacuum it still meets all the criteria of an ideology.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 02:46 PM
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I finally cash out and move to South America
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 12:51 AM
5

Trump for all of the fuss he caused in both traditional and social media was mostly a do-nothing president.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 12:46 AM
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Social Media would destroy people's memory and ability to think even more. Yep. We went from youtube videos to 15 second tik toks in under 10 years. Our monkey brains aren't designed to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 12:45 AM
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TRP was born as a reaction to 4th wave feminism. People can talk about "objective toolbox" all they want, but TRP is inherently ideological. I'm by no means a republican because they're just a different kind of evil than the dems but which side of the political spectrum is the one pushing 90% of this shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 12:38 AM
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Also TRP constantly states: "don't be angry with or hate women" Everyone else: "TRP is a bunch of women haters"
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 12:35 AM
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That's how much the dating market has changed in the last 7 years. 100%. The dating market has gone bonkers. I'm in a major city and the hypergamy is just unreal. Like yeah I can personally date and fuck some pretty decent women but good luck keeping them interested for more than a month when every weekend there are 10 giga-chads liking them on Hinge. Since, I've been traveling overseas to the Balkans I've dated women that were way out of my league (7's 8's and I'm texting back and forth with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:04 AM
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Yes, but I'd wager a lot less than women do. In terms of dating down, men are FAR more likely to date down across income/social classes than women are. I'm 26 and make decent money for my age and the general consensus among my friends is that as long as a girl has the beginnings of some type of career/the drive to pursue one she is dateable. Also gross income is much less important than a woman's view of finances in my personal opinion. I know women making 6-figures (or close to it) that are fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:22 PM
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Exactly this. If you want to stay in the same place you grew up, fine. I don’t care. I personally want to see the world. Ive been to many countries and the “muh USA number 1” rhetoric reveals itself to be completely pathetic once you get out and experience the world. You also get the losers who say “well you’re just going to Colombia/Thailand/Philippines because you can use your money and status to get women” Like yeah that’s the whole fuckin point. Money and status determines much of your long-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:45 PM
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I’m not talking about Japan, I’m taking about in general. You spent so much of your comment talking about Japan when I literally said I don’t give a fuck. Dating is a numbers game in every country, why not go to somewhere where you can stack the deck in your favor. I don’t see how that is “illogical”. I’m personally a young guy but ive seen plenty of guys in their 30s and 40s move to South America and find traditional women that are looks-wise out of their league, and content with marrying them …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:41 PM
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Also its funny when TRP people say, lets get out of this shit hole country and move to somewhere like Japan, because 'you will find better women' due to the 'conservative culture'. You're literally moving to pursue women, how 'unmanly' can you get? And how is this "unmanly"? I am saying this as someone who doesn't give a fuck about Japan and doesn't plan on getting married. At the end of the day, dating is a numbers game. Why would it be considered unmanly to move to a country where the numbers …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:53 AM
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The problem with blackpill nihilism is that even if we say they're 100% right about everything - then what now? So they will spend the entire rest of their life whining in these internet whining echo chambers and they will never improve their life ever? Yeah, young men have a raw deal nowadays in many ways - I think we can all agree on that. But let's put it in perspective. I'm going to have to dip into some good old fashion boomer nostalgia and jingoism right here - but my dad got drafted into …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 07:34 PM
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Here's the deal, the yearning for an emotional connection is mostly the result of pop culture bombarding you and your parents with media that overstates the importance of "LOVE". No it's not. Emotional connectivity is one of our base needs as human beings, on the tier right above survival needs. Does that necessarily mean OP needs "Disney love"? No.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 01:59 PM
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I don't understand what that means
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 01:54 PM
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Great post. I'm currently brainstorming a similar article about how female attraction is a very fluid thing, which touches upon similar themes.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 08:27 PM
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The key is to disengage and go cold, but you can't seem butthurt or pouty about it. Just be calm and even tempered and don't show her any affection or warmth until she starts trying to win you back. You really gotta know what you're doing here. Because as you said, you cannot seem butthurt, but by going cold you can slip into butthurt mode very easily.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 08:26 PM
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But why would you want to persist with a girl who's so lukewarm about you that she doesn't really want to spend time with you? Well OP is talking about initial interactions. There will be times where a girl just isn't ready to commit to going out with you on the spot for a plethora of reasons (especially if it's a random girl). For me personally, I'm confident that once I get a girl on a date I can close, or at least have enough chemistry to meet up again if the logistics aren't right for closin…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 08:20 PM
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Ahh I see the great GLO has read the classic God Tier Cum 4chan post. Not gonna lie I did this a few years back and it 100% works. The Lecithin in particular.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 08:05 PM
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100% and its why I don't even bother anymore. Since those days I have gotten better looking (skincare, got ripped, better haircuts/style), am 100x more confident, and have a good job and a nice apartment to myself. Tell me how I get like 1/20th of the matches I used to get. Because of the fucking algorithm designed to fuck guys over.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 08:00 PM
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Yep exactly, I’ve heard similar things. Good for guys who want to spin plates but bad for those wanting to have a family
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 01:41 PM
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My lifts have gone up significantly since I started, but you wouldn’t even be able to tell I lifted just by looking at me. What is your height and approximate weight and body fat percentage when you started, what is it now? There's no reason why after a year of lifting you wouldn't be able to tell you lifted. That first year of newbie gains is honestly where you make a huge amount of progress in terms of mass. I have no friends or anything that gets me out of the house other than going to the gy…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 11:50 PM
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Reading, lifting, meditating, making money. Good job. A year of lifting is definitely not enough time to build a good body. Will a year of lifting give you a top 1% body? Unless you are a genetic freak, no. Will it give you a top 20% body, I think so, or at least close to it. What type of muscle and bodyfat makeup did you start with? I don’t approach cause I have no life Elaborate on this. A major mistake of young guys is thinking they need to have all the boxes checked in their life to approach…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 09:10 PM
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Agreed, just makes dating these days basically a minefield. I've fucked around for the last 4 years and I'm pretty much at my wit's end dealing with dumb whore's just because they're hot.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 09:06 PM
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Yeah it used to be way better. Tinder had unlimited swipes, it wasn't monetized, there was no algorithm fuckery to try to get you to pay, etc. All they do is try to fuck with your algorithms to get you to pay. Tinder in the old days would literally show you every single person in your radius. If you were in a major city you could swipe for hours and constantly see people. Tell me how nowadays I can swipe for 4 minutes and somehow after that no one shows up and it says it needs to search for more…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 09:05 PM
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What have you been grinding on? If you've actually been grinding in the gym then unless you were morbidly obese 1yr is enough time to get a top 20% physique. Are you actually approaching women? Female attraction is a weird thing. It can vary wildly from woman to woman, but even with the same woman from situation to situation. One of the biggest poonhounds I know is a 5'6 asian guy with a shitty goatee but he fucks very good looking women because he's so easy to talk to and he basically "holds co…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:08 PM
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But its just hard to keep going when you don't get any sort of validation. you will never be happy if you go through life seeking external validation
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:05 PM
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The last 2 Hinge dates I went on, I asked when their last relationships were and both women said they'd never been in one. One was 25 and one was 24. Not even a stupid 5 month college LTR. I am seeing it more and more often it is crazy.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:04 PM
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Nowadays yes, but Tinder 5-6 years ago was unreal. When it first hit the cultural zeitgeist people went on it for it's actual purpose, hooking up. I'm like a 6-7 looks wise and I had my fair share of hookups with hotties literally just matching with them at 2am and inviting them over. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. Then the novelty wore off, and women realized it was an amazing source of free attention so it became complete shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:03 PM
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Facts. It's a tip given to newbies because a hallmark symptom of anxiety on a date is talking too fast/too much. I've had first dates where the conversation was great and went back and forth for hours. I do agree with OP though in the sense that you need to be comfortable with silence as well, and not just fill the air with nonsense because you haven't thought of something good to say.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 05:57 PM
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In the post-2001 world, everyone wants to be a reality TV star. Stable, boring marriage to a guy who can hold down a good job? Or a wife who got slightly fat after she had kids? Fuck them, you can have it all! So we just ditch, ditch ditch folks. The grass is always greener, I guess. Great points! Yep the internet/social media/dating apps is a dangerous thing. I sometimes find myself getting caught up in exactly that. Have a good thing going with a good looking girl but then start talking with a…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/21 07:43 PM
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he always bitched about how hard parenting was at meetings and seemed miserable, like she was in a trap. One of the biggest con-jobs of societal programming was convincing everyone that marriage and raising kids was a Disney fairytale and that if you were with the right person life would all sunshine and roses. So people get raised on this propaganda, realize that it's tough as shit and requires fuck tons of time, effort, and money and get jaded and feel like they are trapped. The older generati…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/21 07:04 PM
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All women i know are broke af, sure they might own a condo with a 75% mortgage or whatever but real money? No. They spend that shit on clubs and trips. Facts. I don't know a single hot girl who is good with money, because they don't have to be. They always have the safety parachute of just marrying some rich dude. The hot girls I know are constantly living paycheck to paycheck, online shopping like madmen and spending obscene amounts of money on vacations and dumb brunches.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/21 06:51 PM
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Modern marriage is one of the worst deals in history. The only reason to even consider getting married is kids, and I don't want kids for a multitude of reasons, mainly I enjoy my freedom to do/go wherever I want and also the fact that I don't want to have to work until I'm fucking 65 to pay for all their shit. My goal is to fuck bitches, stack bread, and GTFO of the rat race by the time I'm 40.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/21 06:49 PM
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Something must be done. I can’t read any more of this garbage Sub went to shit after they locked askTRP. It was best before they quarantined us but even after that it was still good for a long time. Activity across the subreddit is down like 90% and the few posts we do get are complete shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 04:22 PM
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Yeah asktrp was a good source of real world practical examples. I don’t understand why they had to shut it down. I understand they wanted to try to make the move preemptively before a possible ban but all it did was neuter engagement on the main sub as well. The separate website’s UI is also terrible and there is barely any activity
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 04:36 PM
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They gotta unlock asktrp lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 02:54 AM
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Did everyone ditch this subreddit too after asktrp got locked? WTF happened here. The quality of posts in this subreddit in the last 18 months has gone to absolute shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 02:52 AM
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Downvoted. How insecure are you that you need to announce your downvotes? Im tired of these circlejerk of guys calling everything autistic fuck off. When did I call his post autistic. It's not autistic, just low effort trash. I got value from this post. So you needed this post to enlighten you to the simple basics of "get in shape, fix your hygiene, and talk to women at bars"? No concrete applicable advice in the entire post besides "go to bars on Friday and Saturday"
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 02:50 AM
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Damn this subreddit went to fucking shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 04:41 PM
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Plenty of normal humanoid males have no idea this side of the internet exists, yet they have friends, hot girlfriends, and live normal lives, without putting any effort into lifting, athletics, intelligence, grooming or game. They just act normal and get hot girlfriends. I'd push back on this sentiment a bit. I don't think many guys out there are getting hot girlfriends without putting any effort in the things you mentioned. Most "normal" guys (for lack of a better word) put some type of effort …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/21 05:50 PM
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I don't recall many people on this subreddit posting physiques besides GLO. So I have no idea what the endorsed guys bodies look like. My point is that 90% of those "RP personalities" on youtube are complete huckster hack frauds. Best example: The 21 Convention: Patriarch Edition Trailer If you listen to any of those retards then you are beyond saving. Saying "go lift" is easy RP advice for beginners because it hopefully starts to get them thinking about self-discipline and self-improvement. The…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 02:01 AM
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None of the notable red pill personalities are jacked Most of the youtube "red pill" personalities are complete hucksters, Rollo included.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/21 12:09 AM
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I don't even necessarily disagree with the sentiment that shit is going down the tube, but how can you stand up there on your soapbox telling people on here what is and isn't worth doing when you haven't even been out in the real world yet.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 08:25 PM
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Oh so you mean they finally caught up to the US? NSA been doing warrant-less data collection for like 15 years at this point
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 06:55 AM
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I slimmed down a bit from my bodybuilding phase as I was a bit too heavy and preferred being more athletic (am 5'10 and was hovering around a lean 195, slimmed down to 185) but the best gains of my life were doing PHAT. Did it for almost 2 or so years (varying up the exercises of course) and probably put on 15lbs of muscle. Great program, and I love the 5 day split because getting an extra rest day with my schedule back then was key.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 11:55 PM
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Love it, GLO. Another in a long line of awesome posts. I posted a guide to Colombia a few weeks ago as well. I personally prefer Colombia because I prefer cities and I liked Medellin more than CDMX, but I got some suggestions about Mexico in the comments of my post so I'm considering checking it out. Any recs on best cities in Mexico? Also to speak to the bigger issue, unless you are already part of the 1% the reasons to still reside in America are dropping every day. Recent events have accelera…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 04:32 PM
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The solution to this, in my opinion, is a term I recently came up with called 'build a world'. When you are single, you gotta build your own world. Your career, your friend group, your 1-2 hobbies that you go deep into and the friends that come out of that. This world has to be 100% separate from her because Love it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 06:18 PM
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Because it is complete open and transparent competition which drives down prices.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 03:24 PM
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I posted about Colombia just because I have the most experience with it. Brazil has very nice parts but some terrible parts in terms of crime. My only experience with Brazil was a 10 or so day stay in Rio though.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 11:03 PM
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Might be a long time to commit to going for your first time there. I love Medellin immensely but everyone is different. Maybe your first trip you go down for 10 days or so then if you like it go down for a longer stay the next trip? In terms of things to do though, nah a month isn't too long. My next stay I'll be down there for a month but 2 of those 4 weeks I'll be working.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 11:02 PM
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Probably less than a gringo because the women down there are used to latin men and gringo=high value down there but colombian women like to fuck in general. I went one time with a boricua friend and he did perfectly fine
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 09:45 PM
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Thousands of guys from the US go down to Colombia every month and nothing happens. Yes it is a rare, possibility but I literally bring it up in my safety section if you bothered to read it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 09:44 PM
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The price for an apartment is even 250/ month in medellin 8f you dont go high end. Yeah I know, but if I decide to rent instead of buy why not spend $800-$1000/month and live in a really nice luxury building? and stop bitching on your country. 80% women are obese but so are the guys. Take what you can from it and build your own kingdom Yeah I'm not gay so I don't give a fuck how many guys are fat. Of course there are a lot of fat lazy fuck guys out there.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 09:43 PM
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I still remember landing back at JFK after being there for 5 months and having my on culture shock returning home; I was standing in a line of at least 100 people at immigration and there wasn't a single girl I'd rate past a 6. Any random line of 100 people in Colombia is going to have 10 7's, 5 8's, and 2 9's easily. Me and my friends used to joke there's something in the water. There are a bunch of losers in this comment section telling me how I'm running away from adversity, how I'm overratin…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 06:36 PM
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Your comments have added nothing and you haven't refuted one thing I've said
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 12:52 PM
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I do perfectly fine for myself in the states lol. The US is just going downhill and it is time to jump ship for many reasons Don’t need your lame help
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 02:13 AM
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No point in arguing with an illiterate retard
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:28 AM
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Yeah no shit, long term rent is gonna be cheaper than an airbnb for 2 weeks. I'm well aware of how cheap rent is there.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 12:09 AM
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Appreciate it. And I appreciate the discourse. Might have to add a disclaimer when I get off work so newbies don't get the wrong idea
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 07:52 PM
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Yeah, or game. It's easier to game and you have more women to choose from, so I've heard and somewhat experienced. I have gamed plenty of women in the US. I have a decent job, I'm very social, and I keep in great shape. Finding hot women in the US isn't hard for me, the majority just happen to be dumb cunts
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 07:49 PM
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Woe is me, so I need to move to a country where I can buy women with money The most I have spent down there on a woman is a dinner that cost me $12. Hardly buying them. Right? This is the "easy" way out. What is this retarded logic? By all means if you want to slave away in the US competing for the 5% of women who aren't fat and aren't SSRI ravaged banshees go ahead.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 07:47 PM
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This premise is not entirely accurate, b/c on the fundamental level there is no difference - they each pursue same sexual strategy. We all know that AWALT, but women are the products of their environment. You have a society in the US that: indoctrinates women into acting masculine, says it's ok to be a fat lard POS, gives out SSRI scripts like they are candy instead of questioning why 70% of people feel depressed/anxious, has had social media inflate the egos of every 5 and 6 that can use photos…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 07:41 PM
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Have you talked to American women anytime recently?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 06:00 PM
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Appreciate the insight man
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:12 PM
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Enjoy Poblado but make sure to explore the neighborhoods on the periphery once you’ve made friends you trust and who are willing to show you around. Yep. I have entered a few friend groups down there that have taken me off the beaten path. Great for fun and security reasons. The women of Medellin- Paisas, are some of the most beautiful I’ve met. Facts. Hot women everywhere. I am not personally a fan of Cartagena. I enjoyed it well enough because I loved the history and the architecture but you a…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:12 PM
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funny thing is most of my colleagues in LATAM are trying to relocate to the US. meanwhile i'm trying to look for opportunities to move to asia or latam US salary is an enticing draw. That is why I want to "hack" life by getting a US salary without paying US living expenses. close... i'm in biotech at mid level management Just depends on your company culture and how essential they view in-person work. Have you been working remote during all of covid? My case is a bit different because I'm in sale…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:09 PM
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Depends on your company. I know some of the bigger ones are being hardos about it and are lowering people's salaries if they even move to a place like Chicago much less Colombia. My company is small (sub 100 employees) so a lot more nimble. Since you mentioned bay area I assume you work in tech, and that problem with that is that there are legions of new grads every year that will happily take your place. I work in enterprise sales which makes me a lot harder to replace
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:41 PM
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Women gonna women in every country bro. AWALT. But American women are an entirely different equation. 65% are fatties. Add in the entitlement and tik tok making them all turn into BPD schizos and yeah Colombian women are better
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:17 PM
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Rio was fun for partying but there were some sketchy parts as you said, and I definitely would not want to live there. I've heard great things about Florianopolis
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:14 PM
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Got a friend from Rosario who is always asking me to visit. Might have to stop by at Buenos Aires on the way
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:12 PM
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Yep I tried to touch upon all of that in my post, especially the drink stuff.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:46 PM
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Will do. I've heard really great things.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:43 PM
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Because 95% of the 2000 women in Asswater Nebraska are heffers or single moms
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:43 PM
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personally, the Colombian women I've met in the US have all been really aggressive, offputting, and fat. But just an anecdote. Unfortunate that your experience has been like that. But the US gonna US. I seriously doubt given the same economic options as American women that Colombian women (or women from whatever poorer country) would behave differently. Colombian women just have fewer economic options/more competition. As soon as you bring that Colombian woman over to the US, she'll turn into an…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:42 PM
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It's actually more like $200-$300usd minimum if you want your own boat, and even more if you want a nicer modern one. I went in March and spent $80. Maybe cheaper because of covid? Also, almost no one speaks english in Colombia and using a translator app gets old fast when talking to chicks. I mentioned in my post how you should learn spanish and even gave a helpful website.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:39 PM
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Appreciate the tips. Might try to get over there for a few days when I visit Croatia.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:36 PM
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I do completely fine for myself in the US LOL. Down there the pool of hot women is much larger
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:35 PM
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I did touch upon it for a few sentences in my summary. Just about every website I consulted tried to convince me not to even take my real phone over there Yeah if I go down there full-time I'll probably just buy a cheap android as my "colombia phone"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:33 PM
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Scopolamine is a problem there so be careful when you take girls to your pad. Ideally you would book accommodation with a guard and have the girl give her ID to the guard before she comes inside. Say it's standard procedure. If she hesitates then be suspicious. I mention this in my safety section. One of the reasons I enjoyed paying a bit more to stay in a luxury building was a 24/7 security desk where all non-residents had to check in with an ID. Any idea on visas for a long term stay? (> 1 yea…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:31 PM
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Delusional OP advertising moving to 3rd world tourist-country, to do what? Chase some women? Better culture, better dating culture, a country that doesn't hate masculinity/men, and a country that isn't filled with fatties. Thats fine, lets wait OP move from 2-5k$ per month (if not more) country to 200-300$ per month environment - then 0.4$ beer/coffee wouldnt be that cheap, huh? Damn it's almost like my plan is to keep my US salary.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:28 PM
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The women do this not b/c they are feminine or more feminine than US women. They do this b/c the competition is high (other girls are looksmaxing too) and the stakes are high (bagging a high level man - primarily for LTR). This is just arguing over semantics. If they dress and act more feminine as a result of their sexual strategy then by default they are more feminine. You interpret that as "latinas being passionate" which is a BP/Disney fantasy interpretation drilled down by countless TV shows…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:25 PM
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Just checked it out and I do remember the post at the time. Good stuff. We both bring up the fact that by just laying down 2-3 qualifiers for women the dating pool shrinks to almost zero. It is crazy.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:08 AM
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Economically it is becoming less and less attractive. Rising cost of living, especially rent. Granted I live in a expensive part of the country but still. Rent is just ludicrous. My new gig bumped me up above 6 figures for total comp but before/at the start of covid I was making about 80k/yr and I was spending 50% of my net income to rent a small ass 1BR apartment. Granted a nice building but during covid it felt like a prison cell. If I spent $2k/month in medellin I would have a penthouse apart…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:05 AM
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A lot of other drawbacks What drawbacks have you faced?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:02 AM
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Thank you for the writeup man. I will have to do some research and maybe hit it on the way down to Colombia when I go down again in the fall.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:00 AM
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I work in enterprise sales and recently switched jobs and my new gig was advertised as full-time remote. During covid they actually were growing so they were recruiting all over the US. First of all, they don't want to lease a big office space and secondly at this point the employees are already so spread out over the country they wouldn't even be able to ask everyone to come to an office. I have already talked to HR about it and they are fine with me living wherever the fuck I want because I'm …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:59 AM
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Appreciate the tips. Might have to stop by on my way down to Colombia this fall.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:53 AM
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Thanks for the the proofreading help. It might not be helpful, but it's going to be helpful to someone. While my post is Colombia-specific, what I tried to convey is for guys to go out there and find their Colombia. Whether you want to go to Mexico, or Croatia, or St. Martin, it doesn't matter. So many American guys blindly accept how shitty American dating culture is (and culture in general nowadays) just because they simply haven't experienced anything else. If I convince just one lurker on he…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:52 AM
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Dated a few Mexican girls so I know what you're talking about. But I've just been to Cancun and Tulum. Both were just tourist traps and while the parties were fun I didn't enjoy them really. I'll check out La Paz. My friend also recommended Puerto Vallarta.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:44 AM
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Did you miss the part where 90% of American women are banshee cunts with their brains altered by SSRI's and tik tok?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:41 AM
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I think we might have talked about this on here a few months ago. I've been to Brazil before but just Rio for 2 weeks. Any recommendations on spots to visit?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:41 AM
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Just been to the touristy parts myself. Any recommendations?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:40 AM
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Yeah for sure, you just obviously need to wire money into a Colombian account if you want to buy real estate. I'm going to set up an LLC as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:39 AM
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I can give a more detailed overview as I go through the process myself but I will try to give a short summary. Here is my understanding of the laws: The easiest way to get a residency visa as a foreigner in Colombia is to buy real estate. Buying an investment worth roughly $63k gets you a 1 year residency visa, but you can easily renew it annually up to 5 times. Buying an investment worth roughly $117k gets you a 5 year residency visa. This visa is basically an indefinite residency visa, you jus…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 02:10 AM
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From my post: Italki* - That being said, I do recommend studying a bit of Spanish before you go so you are not completely lost. The Duolingo app is ok but the way I learned the most Spanish was through a website called Italki. Basically you can pay Spanish speakers from the 3rd world like $6/hr to teach you Spanish. You video chat with them and it is an amazing tool to learn how to actually speak a language. Find tutors with good reviews(you can even sort by their country of origin), book timesl…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 02:02 AM
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Depends on where you live Latinas are my type too man so I feel you. The US dating scene is just terrible all around though.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:57 AM
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Bogota is great but a bit cold for my taste. But yes, beautiful women.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:54 AM
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Yeah there are a fair amount of gringos in Medellin but the idea of going down there isn't to be a novelty. Just to have access to a large pool of hot women in a cheap af country. I loved Peru during my travels but El Salvador is the murder capital of the world so I'm gonna steer clear.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:53 AM
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Nah man just been on here since I was 20 and have had both this subreddit and real life experiences open my eyes to how marriage is a complete joke in this era. Still got much to learn!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 05:13 AM
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It gets repeated on here a lot but women drive like 70% of consumer spending. But the blue pill mindset is definitely a part so like you said it’s a combo. They keep spending to keep the facade of their lifestyle going to their social group and also to make their banshee cunt wives happy. I’ve heard dudes af the golf course complaining about their wives racking up 30k in credit card spending without even telling them.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 05:10 AM
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Then if it fails it fails. The pool of women who want to get married who are hot, don’t want kids, not cunts, intelligent, and wouldnt expect me to bankroll their life is pretty much zero.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 05:06 AM
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Amicable in the sense that there wasn't some big argument or long drawn out court battles. They both agreed it was best they separated and they did so. I think he had some of his net worth in trusts so he was a bit protected but he still ended up losing mostly half. In the US unless you have a prenup you have to give up half of your assets in a divorce
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 01:19 AM
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The sooner you realize and accept that this is the law of life, the sooner you can stop caring and see more success. Facts. It's like getting mad at the sun rising or the fact that the sky is blue. It is just the reality of the world, so there is no use getting mad about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:45 PM
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Both of my parents (now divorced) told me the same thing growing up. "Be careful who you marry because getting married is easy. Getting divorced is hard" My parents had a pretty amicable divorce as well. No fighting over custody or possessions. No big arguments. Despite all of that my Dad estimates the divorce cost him roughly 60k in cash in the form of mediation and legal fees. That was before having to then part with half of his assets. When even my mom was telling me how much family court was…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:43 PM
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This should not be the case if you have been working out for over a year. What is your workout program and what does your diet look like.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:12 PM
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I say this whenever the topic of height/race comes up on here but literally the biggest poonhound I know is my asian friend who is 5'5/5'6 and has a man bun and a fu man chu mustache. He gets women because he is confident, completely unafraid of rejection, and at social gatherings he is always the one "holding court" so to speak. I'm not going to say that looks and height aren't factors, of course they are, but the blackpillers on here overestimate their importance.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:11 PM
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Either you are a perma-bulking bloatlord or you live in a place like Alaska where you never get to take your shirt off. If you truly have a nice physique go to a popular beach or pool party and report back. I'm 5'10 and 170 when fully cut for the summer with an average face and I get attention all the time.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 06:31 PM
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I'm in my 4th decade. Most of my friends that go married are now divorced. They are not well off financially for one reason or another. Many of the ones stayed married are with children and miserable. Dude I'm 25 and I already see some of my friends with long-term LTRs fattening up and well on their way into turning into those typical whipped suburban dads whose only respite from their banshee cunt wives is the occasional round of golf and football on Sunday. A few things: Keeping up with the Jo…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 10:53 PM
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“The zest of life is in the roll of the dice.” Facts. Why do you think people like to go on roller coasters or go skydiving? Because despite the fact that both of those things are 99.99% "safe" they certainly do not feel like it in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 10:49 PM
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There are certain things in life that you can only get better at through failure. I always naturally found it easy to talk to women at social events but when it came to talking to random women on the street I got very nervous at first. You just have to treat it like jumping into a cold pool. The shock of the water and the temperature will happen for 4-5 seconds but after that you're usually fine. The hardest part is just that initial jump/that initial conversation starter. And trust me, I've bee…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 10:47 PM
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It’s almost as if men are mentally disabled and puss is the only antidote for a man to feel like a man again. You do realize that is essentially what it is right? Sex is a basic human need. But with the advent of online dating more and more women are sharing the top 20% of men while the other 80% basically fight for scraps. THE MORE “GAME” YOU NEED TO APPLY THE LESS OF A MAN YOU ARE WHICH IS WHY YOU ARE COMPENSATING. I am not saying to follow a fucking handbook but using game to get pussy doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 10:33 PM
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Because although corporate game is important, this is a sexual strategy subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 10:29 PM
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Trust me even if they got a boyfriend they would still be receiving the attention. They would still be posting the thot pics on IG and if their boyfriend brought up how he doesn't want her posting shit like that she'd call him "controlling" and shame him.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 10:28 PM
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It is great. I'm in the middle of making plans with some friends to go again in January 2022. Got a new promotion a few months back so I'm trying to rent out a fancy apartment/penthouse for a few days and live like a king lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 08:09 PM
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That’s why the guys on this subreddit who’ve never left the US need to go out and travel the world and get out of the fat american bubble. Having half your population as obese isn’t remotely normal. It gets repeated often on here but every young guy on here should save up money and go to Colombia. Being surrounded by feminine and in-shape women felt foreign at first. I am not going to lie and say Medellin has HB10s on every corner. But what it does have are more HB7s and HB8s than you could date…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 05:54 AM
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It ain’t that serious bro
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:46 AM
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Spend 20 minutes on YouTube or IG, find guys you want to dress like, and just copy their style. My go-to is black jeans, a white t-shirt, and a denim jacket over the shirt.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:45 AM
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The truth is that unlike women, guys don’t have a checklist of 80 things they want from the opposite sex. That is why guys predominantly don’t dump women. Guy checklist: be hot don’t be a bitch have sex with me
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:42 AM
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I will say that for me, I have an ego thing that gives me bad feelings about a hard next. I truly feel like I'm taking away something awesome from a girl. I know that you know this, but unless you are a truly high value rich chad Adonis (who knows maybe you are) a hot girl can replace you with a comparable guy in less than a week. I understand how you feel but you don’t have to feel bad. If you lost your job or something 99% of girls would drop you. Even though most girls in the 22-30 range work…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:40 AM
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Post pics, no homo. How much body fat do you have. If you got abs or faint abs might be worth it to just maintain/recomp for a few months so you stay aesthetic. Then hit the bulk like it's your job post labor day
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:30 AM
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Why was Colombia awful for you? I’ve heard nothing but good things from everyone I’ve spoken to who has spent time there. I make ok money but I do not flash it whatsoever so you’d never know and I’d say that I’m social and confident because I work in sales, but I’m not some super alpha. I’m in decent shape because I lift and am a boxer but in terms of looks alone I’m probably a 6 maybe rising up to a 7 when it’s july/August and I’m tan and super lean. I’m also 5’10 so not tall either. Medellin i…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 03:55 AM
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If you're serious about it, I recommend buying Tinder Passport or getting it for free and swiping in several different Korean cities, as well as Japan, to see for yourself. I hate tinder now because they absolutely neuter you if you don't pay but I always splurge the $15 a week before I go on vacation to do some "scouting" so to speak. Been to Medellin for a month twice, and spent 2 weeks in Rio. Each trip I had 3 dates with absolute hotties lined up a few days in advance and was talking with li…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/21 02:39 PM
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The dude is like family to her (but not actually related) so I didn’t react to it, until one point where this dude walks up and hugs her from behind. The kicker was that not only did she smile and let him do this, she pulls out her phone and started taking selfies. Judging from your comments in this thread you know this girl isn't LTR material but just for future reference any high quality woman that likes you and possibly sees a future with you isn't going to do bullshit like this. If a girl tr…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:45 PM
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It really just depends what your goals are in life. The secret society doesn't want you to know is that if you don't plan on getting married and having a family, you can live very comfortably on like 70k a year if you don't spend money retardedly. There are also ways to make money that don't require you to be very smart. For instance, real estate. Save money for a bit, do some simple research, and use a low down-payment FHA loan to buy a modest triplex, and live in one unit while renting out the…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:46 PM
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I now know better, but I learned this through experience. Dude to be honest I think 99% of guys need a shitty breakup experience to grow. When you experience a girl who said she loved you and called you her king go full light-switch effect on you and 12 hours later start treating you like a homeless bum asking for change that is when you understand how men and women see breakups differently. For me I think the most bitter Red Pill to swallow was the light-switch effect honestly. Because most guy…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:50 PM
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No Doctor at least in the US is gonna do a vasectomy on someone in your age bracket. Maybe in 10 years from now. Just wrap it up and if you're really paranoid, do the water test on the condom in the bathroom after you bust to check for leaks.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:11 PM
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In an LTR at the moment but was single for 3+ years before that usually seeing 3-4 girls at a given time. It all depends on the girl to be honest. I've had plates that I only invited over to chill and fuck and I've also had plates that I did fun things with like go out for drinks, go to concerts, concerts, fun day at the beach, etc. The pros are that you are doing fun activities with someone whose company you enjoy. Women are supposed to be the cherry on top of life. For instance, if you like hi…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:35 PM
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I liquidated all my positions, and showed the bank account statement to my fiance. Bro are you retarded lmao.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 11:19 PM
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People are saying that you are overreacting and they might be right. But from personal experience, it might be an indicator of waning interest. I had a long-term plate 2 or so years back that I had a good emotional connection with. We both were content with being non-exclusive but still doing LTR type activities together from time to time. She always would call me babe over text and in person as well. If I had just dropped her off and I was driving home she would text me "get home safe babe". If…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 11:16 PM
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I understand this is some Oneitis talking, but here's my line of thinking. Finding high quality women is already like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Trying to find another high quality woman that I have this genuine and strong a connection with feels like trying to find a unicorn. I'm only half kidding. I know that in 2-3 weeks I will be over it but it just sucks.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:05 AM
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You're definitely right. I set myself up for failure on this. When we went exclusive it was in the heart of the pandemic where people were treating public parks like hazmat zones practically and a year from then felt like a lifetime to me. I also hadn't had an LTR in 3 years and was just spinning plates for 3 years without ever catching feelings so I didn't even consider the possibility of me falling for her this hard. Appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:02 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. The problem with me staying in contact with this girl is that I just know that whenever I would talk to her or see her post on IG or I would get nostalgic and think of what could have been. I think it would be easier to just maybe go no-contact at least for a few weeks while it is still fresh. I've been to her home country in the past and I loved it a lot. I was planning on going back down there before I even met her. We have talked about meeting up when I go …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:59 AM
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I'm just going to say this flat out. If you were to marry her just to keep her around... then it would take at least 1 year to change her status and she can't work during that time period. After that she should receive a greed card and work permit... and you can file for a divorce. This essentially allows you to get what you want, with nearly zero risk. I will not lie, I have thought about this possibility. But I just am not sure if I can jump into marriage this soon. It's not even something we …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:49 AM
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This is only said for relationships that obviously won't pan out or amount to anything. Or when interest is unreciprocated. This is that; it's a relationship with what appears to be a quality woman, and those are exceedingly rare. I appreciate the input. Yes she is a quality woman but I think part of the reason I am getting so down about this is because I have been living the bachelor life for the last 3 years and I do truly know how rare high quality women are. And like I said in another commen…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:39 AM
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So, what do your risks look like? Do you have tons of assets that must be protected? I'm just 25 so not a crazy amount in terms of assets. I just bought a triplex for 300k a little under a year ago and am living in one unit and renting out the other 2. Drive an almost decade-old Toyota. Make in the 75k-80k range working in sales. 20k in savings with another ~50k in various investments. I am pretty frugal so while she knows I have a decent career she definitely doesn't know that I'm in a very goo…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:56 PM
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Well the point being is that she will not get a work visa for her career in a year either and she could only extend her visa for her current job for 1 year because she's already been in the states for 2 already. So she could extend for the year, work a shitty job and we'd just be in the same situation in a year with me needing to marry her to get her a green card.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:19 PM
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sometimes, wrong place, wrong time. Yep. Like I said before, this feels like uncharted territory for me because all of my other relationships ended when I didn't want to be with the girl anymore. And this time around it's a weird feeling because not only do I want to be with her but she wants to be with me as well. Just going to try to have a good time these last few weeks. Try to make some good memories.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:15 PM
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Do yourself a favor and don't LTR a girl that has an obvious expiration date on her presence again. Yeah I did kind of set myself up for some heartbreak with this one. I knew that her visa expired at this time but it was a year in the future and I figured that the pros outweighed the cons at the time. To be perfectly honest, I had been single for 3 years before that with not really any close emotional attachments with any of the girls I was seeing. So I think part of me felt that while I could b…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:13 PM
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Move on and just accept that it was a good time and that it's over. Believe me she will also move on and she will find some other guy because you are not the only quality guy out there. That's just my take on it but i still think that you're pedestalizing her and that you paint your relationship as if it's some fairytale bs. No I've already accepted that things will come to an end in 3 weeks and it will be over. It sounds like I'm putting this girl on a pedestal and I am sure I am slightly but l…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:10 PM
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Yeah I know I will be fine after 2-3 weeks of being a bit down. I am content with other aspects of my life such as friends, career, finances, etc. It just feels annoying to have a good thing end because of something I can't control but I guess that is just life. and don’t label this a “toxic breakup” that’s shit women and betas say cause it’s only “toxic” if you are afraid to break up cause you don’t want to face those emotions. Its only toxic if you let it be. I actually labeled it as a "non-to…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:06 PM
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Ultimately if she's a good girl and adds value to your life then keep a relationship with her. Who knows what the future holds and your paths might cross again. This is something I've debated internally a lot for the last few weeks once I knew she was leaving. On one hand, maybe life will work its magic and a year from now she gets a visa to the US and we can resume our relationship. On the other hand, when it comes to a girl I have this strong of a bond with, I feel like it is better for it to …
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:30 PM
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Yeah I would never consider LDR. Just not an option for me. I actually have been to her home country a few times before I met her and I did like it a lot, but even in the era of remote work due to covid I'm not sure if I would move halfway across the world for a girl. Like you said, we could get on fine for 3,4,5 months and then break up. Then what? I'm living in a foreign country by myself. The silver lining here is now you know exactly what a healthy, longterm, relational dynamic feels like an…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:26 PM
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Eh I've been around the block these last few years. At this point I've banged 40+ women and I am very social so have encountered many more. No she is not perfect, no one is. But I can honestly step back and objectively say she is 100% the highest quality woman I have ever been with. It's not that other high quality women don't exist. They do of course. It's just that in terms of LTR material women the pickings out there are genuinely so slim. I wouldn't even think of LTRing 99% of women I encoun…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:54 PM
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Tons of sexy women in Colombia and they also make sure they look their best 24/7. Not like the US where women are fine with going and running errands with hair undone, no makeup, wearing a hoodie and sweatpants. Plus, not as stuck-up and diva as North American bitches. Agreed, but that's not to say there aren't some differences. In Colombia if you go on a date with a girl you are expected to pay 100%. A woman down there won't even think of offering to split the check much less pay for it. It's n…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 02:29 AM
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Colombia is a awesome country lol. Been there 2 times before and I'd be perfectly fine with moving there full time. Awesome weather and a great culture.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:34 PM
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I thought the red pill was amoral. It is, but some people get confused about what that means. TRP just tries to explain female behavior and the dynamics behind the sexual marketplace. You can choose to do what you want with that information. For instance, some guys on here are very open about cheating on their LTRs. Now while that is not something I would do, it's not my place to try to hate on them about their behavior. They're doing what works for them, and props to em. I’m taking the easiest …
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:25 PM
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Is she cheating? Maybe. You can't do anything to stop it anyways. Of course if a woman truly wants to cheat you can't do anything about it, but I'd rather fucking find out instead of getting cucked. I'm not saying to ask your girl for her phone because that just makes you look insecure but if she is loose with her phone and you know her password I'm all in favor of snooping.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:04 PM
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Can't see any man who has goals just going the easy way. Hmm where would I rather pick up chicks. America where 55% of women are obese and 90% of the remainder are vapid whores? Or Colombia where you can walk down the street for 10 minutes and see dozens of feminine and in-shape women. Phat ass Latinas > overweight American hoes
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:59 PM
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Are you a troll? "Hey my LTR blew up over the world 'casual' and proceeded to physically abuse me and tried to slit her own wrists" If that experience didn't make the lightbulb above your head go off over the fact that you need to dump this psycho yesterday then you are fucking retarded.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:51 PM
1

If he is actually speaking the truth about jerking it once a week no it won't.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:45 PM
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It's also not for girls you've been seeing for a year lol. No one is saying you need to text like besties every day but going no contact after taking a vacation together sends a poor message.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:42 PM
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You know what they say about infidelity and partner count? Its true I have some bluepill friends who act shocked when I say that I'm not going to LTR any old girl who's fucked her way halfway across town. They just say shit like "bro does body count even matter?" Uhhh yes it does? Like you said higher body count girls are much more likely to cheat, the relationships are much less likely to last long term, and that's not even getting into stuff like STD risk.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:39 PM
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if she's hot, you should know that you're not the only one giving her a pounding. Something that you're aware of but don't want to dwell on. Like how your parents fucked to give birth to you. Lmaoooooo Perfect way to describe it. If you are a guy spinning good looking plates them fucking other dudes is just the reality of the situation. No one really wants to think about a girl they like getting railed out by some other guy but what can you do.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:33 PM
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Because for every "redpilled" man who would never do that there are 50 betas who fall into the trap
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:44 PM
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Gone are the 2013-2017 hey days of dating apps. Let me explain why your experience is like this. Dating apps like Tinder essentially made zero money for the first few years of it's inception. Millions of users, became part of the worldwide dating culture/lexicon, but they had to find a way to make money. Enter the micro-transactions. Before Tinder gold or whatever the fuck it was called there were unlimited swipes and no algorithm fuckery. Now because thirsty guys are easily manipulated, if you …
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:59 PM
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Not even whole body lol. Studies have shown that upper body physique has the biggest impact on female attraction
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:39 PM
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That being said it is different for you in a country like Brazil. There are plenty of girls in the US who make just as much as me or almost as much. But if a girl is fun to talk to and I had a good time I have no problem with paying. My first dates are only a round of drinks so it is not much investment from me.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 09:17 PM
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"The most important part of game is not being emotionally invested" by Woujo is the greatest post in the history of this subreddit in my opinion. Lengthy, detailed, and extremely well written. It includes gems like : "If a hot girl tries to strike a Faustian bargain with you and let you fuck her in return for treating you like shit, you must reject that deal out of respect for your own mental health." I think that might be one of the only times I've genuinely laughed out loud from a post on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 09:15 PM
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I was making some pasta for me and a plate and practically all I did was shittily dice some tomatoes and she said that watching me cook was so hot. You're 100% correct.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 09:11 PM
1

but I don’t know what to buy her or feel like going to the mall over fucking Valentine’s Day. Bro we have the most sources of information out of any period in human history and you have been dating this girl for how long? Also have you ever heard of fucking Amazon.com? Just buy her something that has SOMETHING to do with a topic that she likes or relates to SOMETHING she has mentioned in the past. I currently have a plate that has asked me for commitment a few times and I think I will elevate to…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:07 PM
1

Look, your gf sounds like a bitch to be honest but you didn't play it well. Women want to feel special on their birthdays or valentine's day. They want to know that in your spare time you were thinking about them. That's it. For an LTR-worthy girl, the money spent shouldn't matter, just the thought. So let's go over your situation: I bought flowers but since I was in a rush I forgot to bring them. I get life happens dude but you have to realize women think emotionally, not logically. Forgetting …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:00 PM
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If paying for two drinks is some kind of huge and unforgivable investment, you need to get your finances in order. Be careful, all of the Autists on this subreddit are gonna get triggered by the mere mention of paying for a girl’s drink. “B..b..but that’s being a Beta Bux” No, picking up the $30 tab after an enjoyable date doesn’t make you a beta bux. If I enjoyed the date and she offered to split I have no problem picking up the check. Just throw in a cheeky “don’t worry you can get me next tim…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 06:27 AM
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We get there and she basically says that she likes me a lot and that she has invested a lot of time and energy into me and that I need to decide if I want to get into a relationship with her or shes gone. Understandable if you've been seeing her for two months. For pretty much all plates with emotional attachments this happens eventually. I bring up the fact that just last night she was super understanding of me needing time and shes like yeah I was but now I'm not. Your gut is most likely right…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:57 AM
1

Men around here have this weird idea where men should never actively try to have sex with women "Don't chase pussy" might be the most retarded rhetoric I've seen on this subreddit in recent times. To use your food example, that's like trying to chastise someone for going to the store to buy groceries. Sex is a basic human need along with food, water, and shelter. Instead, men are supposed to strut around being masculine and doing their own stuff and being on some kind of mission and acting like …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 10:15 AM
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all you need is game and to not be a lil bitch most of the time like I'm sure JewFro did to bag that bitch. Yep. So many guys are obsessed with self-improvement to the extent where it's detrimental. They think they're going to grind in the gym for a year, get that promotion at work, and suddenly bitches are gonna fall into their lap. It doesn't work like that. Yes you should be trying to be your best self in many ways (looks, knowledge, game) but the autists on here would be surprised at the res…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 09:47 PM
3

The truth is you don’t need to be a 6 figure finance or tech bro to bang a ton of chicks here. Yep. A lot of guys have this misconception about NYC. Living in a 2 bedroom flexed into a 3 bedroom with 2 other guys is completely normal and not many girls look down on it. It's just part of the NYC experience tbh.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:53 AM
1

Alcohol, dark room, loud music, dancing, is a pretty sure-fire equation for sluttiness
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 04:40 PM
2

He is a president that is endemic of American society. A reality TV president that went viral because of "sick burn" soundbites. He and his campaign team did an amazing job of tapping into the nostalgia reservoirs of Middle America. That being said, when things leak like Trump asking why South Korea doesn't pay us a fee for having American Military bases in SK, and Rex Tillerson and General Mattis not being able to get him to understand that those bases are important for national security, it's …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 04:34 PM
2

I do not think the USA is going full authoritarian anytime soon. Yeah while I agree with a lot of GLO's sentiment, the USA's descent into full-on authoritarianism is something on a scale of 15-20 years rather than in the next 5. These dystopian scenarios are fun to think about but there is just no way the US is having a social credit system in the next 5 years. 15-20 years from now? Wouldn't surprise me if they tried it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 12:56 AM
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It’s up to OP to have a modicum of emotional intelligence in order to know which tool to use for each situation. We're on askTRP so good luck with that lol
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:46 AM
1

Have extra girl’s bathing suit (pre-selection). No dude. Girls are not gonna want to wear another girl's bathing suit lol. If a girl is into you she'll be fine going into the hot tub in her bra and panties.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:35 AM
8

Go to the gym or go do something else. Her emotions aren’t your emotions. DEFINITELY do NOT try to make her feel better. Autistic ass advice. No one saying that you have to listen to her bitch and moan for half an hour but your advice of "just go to the gym" is fucking retarded. Just take a step back and picture that scenario playing out in real life. Your girl is sad and crying and you just autistically shuffle to the door and say "see ya im hitting the gym". Hold her for 5 minutes, tell her ev…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:33 AM
1

8.5 rating is likely inflated. An 8.5 is a model-tier woman. But dude if she's dtf then why not?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:25 AM
1

Depends on your definition of best return is. In terms of pure numbers I agree. But in terms of quality women probably not.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 07:32 PM
47

Bro I feel bad for blue pill guys who think relationships are like Disney movies, not this dumbass. Even 95% of normal blue pill guys would advise against dating some e-thot.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 10:16 PM
2

Calisthenics is superior. By what metric? People have different fitness goals. Some want to lift as heavy as possible and accept that they will have the body builder physique, Some care about only aesthetics, and most probably care about some combination of both. Just like you don't care about the size of my biceps I don't give a fuck if someone can human flag.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 01:46 AM
1

This is decent advice for a while but eventually most women put their foot down and ask for/demand exclusivity from my experience.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:39 AM
3

This is kinda an autistic question because it is so vague and something like kino depends highly on context. Kino will be complete different on a coffee date, compared to a round of drinks, compared to a hiking date, etc.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:36 AM
7

Definitely not worth plotting on a fuck that already has barriers Lol dude taken women can be easier to fuck than single women
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 01:31 AM
5

If get a reputation of fucking women who are in relationships, eventually no one will fuck you. LOL. Have you stepped outside lately and do you actually read this subreddit? No one gives a fuck in 2021. If you live in a city bigger than Bumblefuck Nebraska you could fuck 100 taken women in a year and not have it make it back to your social circle.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 01:31 AM
1

Start off with your combat sport 2 times per week. Lift 5x per week. Make sure to eat in a surplus and keep that protein intake high.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:25 AM
1

Major investment firms are preparing to offer Bitcoin ETFs. Targets are set for 50k+ by 2022. I think it's here to stay.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 01:19 AM
3

Some studies have linked Minoxidil to collagen loss in skin just fyi Which is fine if it's on your head but it can be risky applying it to your face
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 01:17 AM
2

If a girl wants to cheat there is nothing you can really do about it. You can't control other people's actions. Just your own. I ALWAYS had to ask Red flag. A girl who truly is into you will do basically whatever you want to be honest.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:05 PM
3

Come at it softly, conceptually like this, but using words that fit your convos Thanks for the advice. I just didn't know how to coax her to that point but you gave a perfect example. I look forward to hopefully being able to mold her. Thanks Unc.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 05:50 PM
2

First, your goal should be to be her Darkest Sexual Chapter Uncle Vas do you have any advice for implementing this with a girl who's sexually inexperienced? Been seeing a girl for a few weeks that I enjoy spending time with a lot. 5'7 slender Colombian girl (my type), N-count of 1, with an insane rack and can actually hold a conversation to boot. She likes to fuck and I've been doing my usual dominant stuff but I can sometimes just feel the tenseness coming from her due to her super religious se…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 03:18 PM
10

Divorce rate won't skyrocket as much as you think because less and less people are getting married
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 03:04 PM
3

Ok so why do you need to certify that with a government document then?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 07:03 PM
2

6s and 7s get hit on ever more than 9s and 10s because they are more approachable
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 06:34 AM
6

Pretty sure that they've done studies that pair bonding decreases drastically after 5 sexual partners. So yes, body count does matter
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 06:33 AM
3

I'm 25 and I can already see it happening to some of my more blue-pilled bros. For some of these guys I literally just know they are going to be that overweight suburban Dad worked to the bone who gets pity sex once every 2 weeks and spends their entire week looking forward to watching football on Sundays because it's the only break they'll get. I'm not getting married ever because what is the fucking benefit? I don't want kids so it's fucking pointless besides tax reasons. And I'll take the hig…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 06:27 AM
2

A good body wash and good antiperspirant should be fine. I use cologne sometimes but only if I'm going out to be honest. Another guy in the thread mentioned Nautica Voyage which is known as probably the best starter cologne because it's cheap as fuck but smells great. As for applying the cologne, everyone has their preference but I personally do both wrists and then where my chest meets my neck
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:00 AM
1

In this world men worthy of forming a brotherhoods are a rarity, instead we have masses of insecure, jealous, desperate, backstabbing, berating, betas. I agree completely. So many guys on here complaining about the state of women today and trust me, I get it. But the gossiping betas and white knights are 10x worse. I've had to leave behind so many "friends" and acquaintances because of shit like that. Luckily for me I am still friends with a core group of buddies that I've had since high school …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 03:19 PM
1

I've seen you spitting facts all over threads the last few weeks. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 03:14 PM
3

The day we were engaged is when her shit tests went from Bud Light to illegal hallucinatory absinthe I almost never laugh out at things I read on the internet but that made me chuckle. I like your writing style and I'm glad you got away from that bitch
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 03:06 PM
1

Unless you're easily in the 1,000 pound club, your workouts should incorporate a high volume of compund lifts and leave out the isolation/machine bullshit. Lol what? Hybrid approach is much better
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 03:00 PM
2

If you take into account literally the entire world, then that is true. OnlyFans is really only a USA/Western Europe thing. Also in poor areas pimps still run a lot of shit. But yes I get where you’re coming from. Escort sites, sugar daddy sites, IG models getting flown out to Dubai by billionaires to get fucked.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 04:04 PM
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The solution is to just legalize prostitution so that instead of being rinsed out of their money for pics thousands of guys are gonna see, men can just go to the local spot and bang out a hooker for a set price. This is where the feminist movement becomes self cannibalizing. On one hand it's all about "destigmatize sex work" and "her body her rules" but on the other hand they don't want to lose that power over men. When feminists say "destigmatize sex work" what they really mean is: "We support …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 10:20 PM
76

The dating scene is hard out there for even just average men, not just ugly losers. So they turn to this more intimate type of porn so they can experience positive female interaction even if it is just through a screen and even if it is all a facade.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 10:00 PM
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You dont realize the cost that she doesnt realize, many people will not want to associate with a sex worker In 2020 most people don't care. OnlyFans is being seen as a female empowerment movement now. and it is very likely no one wants to marry a thot, let alone raise a child with one. Betas gonna beta Sure shes making more money now, but the costs will soon be exposed. And then she settles down with one of hundreds of orbiters
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 09:59 PM
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If you go on and live your best life, yeah you will get over it. I was cheated on by my college gf. She was the 4th girlfriend I had but the first I could say I "loved" whatever that means. I was a wreck for weeks/months, but eventually you do get over it. I'm not going to say I never think of it, it's a natural thing. But when I reflect back on it, it's more like remembering an embarrassing moment that happened to me in middle school rather than getting PTSD flashbacks. In a way I'm grateful be…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:43 AM
1

You will be fine with just normal sneakers with good support when you start out. Once you know you like it, then feel free to invest in some boxing shoes. You can find boxing shoes for pretty cheap as they are usually made of pretty thin material. I had an older model of these shoes and really liked them. Comfy and gave great support. https://www.everlast.com/fashion/men/footwear/elite-high-top-boxing-shoes I personally now wear the shoes linked below but they are pretty expensive and they were …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 11:09 PM
2

Nice man. I personally would recommend checking out the amateur boxing subreddit. They have a good "getting started" guide on the sidebar. Using some cheap gloves is fine when you're seeing if you like the sport, but I'd recommend investing in some solid training gloves. You can get really good ones in the $70-$90 range. Will protect your hands much better. And don't forget to wrap your hands! Just buy some wraps for $5-$10 and look up a youtube tutorial. After 4-5 times you will get the routine…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 10:52 PM
3

Maybe start with 2 because it will tire you out more than you think. Then bump it to 3 after a few weeks. I also was lifting 5 days a week when I started though
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 10:45 PM
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Mainly in it for the workouts for now not sure about sparring for now haha, but my mind might change. That's fine man. There are tons of people at my gym who love the sport but have no intention of getting in the ring. Great workout and a good skill to learn.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 10:26 PM
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FDS sidebar says to never let a high value man have sex with you if commitment isn't firmly established, also that if hes not chasing you to drop him. I can guarantee that 95% of these girls are LARPing. These rules 100% will fly out the window when they meet a true high value man. Because a true high value male ain't waiting 2 months to fuck because he's got 5 other girls trying to lock him down.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 06:39 AM
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It will be the best workout you ever do. I started boxing 3 years ago when I was in the best shape I'd ever been in. I was like 10% bf at 185lbs (I'm 5'10 btw). I did pretty intense cardio 3 or so times a week also. Took my first boxing lesson and after 45 minutes of HARD work I was literally the most tired I've ever been. I had to take a week off of lifting upper body because my arms and shoulders were literally dead. I went 2-3 times a week for the next 4 months. Then I started sparring with m…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 12:00 AM
2

before she had to go back to Chile as she was here on an exchange. Girls who come to America on exchange want to party and have fun lol. It shouldn't have come as a massive shock. Whenever you meet a girl, just assume that at SOME point in her life, she has met a dude and gotten railed on the first night, because newsflash... 99% of even somewhat attractive women have. It will make things a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 05:30 AM
2

You can have fun in all those cities. What specifically are you looking for? LA has tons of hot babes but is a very status driven city. Hard to pull truly hot chicks unless you're involved in some type of entertainment. It also doesn't really have a traditional city feel. It's like 5 blocks of tall buildings then a suburban sprawl around it. Club scene is even more status driven than NY. Unless you are literally walking in with 8 girls and just you, you will get raped on cover charges. But on th…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:26 AM
2

Just depends on what you're looking for. If nightlife is a priority it's a great place to live. But the heat plus the heroin addict homeless people that seem to multiply by the day definitely are negatives.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:16 AM
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It just depends on the person. I know plenty of women in their 30s still behaving like college girls and going out every friday and saturday getting railed by randos.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/20 12:19 AM
1

All the places around me stopped selling the primatene tablets and while they do have bronkaid, it's the caplets that you can't cut in half.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:09 AM
1

I’ve thought about quitting booze entirely but the problem is I’m not sure if I’m ready to take myself out of that environment. Most addicts don't. I like being the life of the party, I like getting laid from girls I meet at the bar, I like the funny memories and experiences that only happen from those drunk nights. We all do, but unfortunately you are addicted to alcohol. I’ve tried quitting and I hated it Likely withdrawals. No shit your body will hate it. I don’t know what to do but it’s star…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:37 AM
2

Thanks I really appreciate the in-depth advice. My current job has a fair bit of downtime during the day so I know I can do this concurrently at least to start. I know a decent bit about digital advertising, but I'd ideally like to learn the ins-and-outs of it so I can do it all myself instead of outsourcing. Are you just mostly doing fb and google adwords campaigns?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 08:08 PM
2

his needs to be fought tooth and nail because it will be the end of security/privacy. Privacy will continue to shrink because let's be real... the majority of people just do not give a single fuck. As long as they are satiated with social media, porn, and video games. The politicians in the pocket of Corporate America will continue to whack whack whack at our personal freedoms for a quick buck because they equally don't give a fuck. This may sound cynical and pessimistic but I really just don't …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 11:55 PM
2

Just didn't interest me, and my ad agency makes me six figures, so I sold the store. Currently working in ad sales but I have thought about starting my own agency because I've dealt with a lot of one-man boutique agencies and I could see myself doing that. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 11:48 PM
0

You can definitely get "jacked" natty. You just have to have solid genetics and permabulk for like 3-4 years.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 11:08 PM
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I don't want to make this a whole pity party but I think for me the worst part is trying to make plans as an adult. I'm only in my mid 20s and most of my friends live within an hour radius from me but scheduling just a dinner is almost fucking impossible. My friends and I went to Vegas last year and it only happened because after months of them waffling over the dates I just strongarmed them into deciding by saying "Me and Tim are going this weekend, feel free to join us" and eventually tagged a…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:01 AM
1

At least Latina girls know the important of having a nice body lol
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:36 AM
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I bet some people think it's pathetic to be so nostalgic but fuck that. From 18-22 college was basically like living in a hotel with all your friends and thousands of easy bimbos. I enjoy my adult life a lot but college was probably the most fun I'll ever have in my life.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:32 AM
1

Nah I've only been to Medellin and the surrounding area and Cartagena. Cartagena is awesome. The architecture in the city is just beautiful. I would try to see both if you can
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:34 PM
2

Dude this is an investment property. The whole point is to have tenants who pay off the mortgage for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 07:42 AM
3

It's one of the easiest ways to get into real estate from everything I've learned. If you're looking purely for an investment property try to get a triplex if you can ideally. I'd highly recommend looking into the FHA loan program. It only qualifies for your first home purchase but it allows you to have a down payment as little as 5%. Mortgage insurance kinda sucks but at the end of the day I'm having 2 tenants put almost $2k of equity into my house every month. And then once I move out I'll hav…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 06:14 AM
2

gotta just look farther out in the suburbs. Yes it won't be in your ideal neighborhood but who cares if you're getting other people to pay your mortgage.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 06:10 AM
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I don't mind it too much. There are a lot of resources online I've used and luckily I've been blessed with decent tenants. One couple in their 30s and an older guy in his 50s. Both pay their rent on time every single month and are pretty quiet as well. I know plenty of people who started their own business and when they are 60 they are still slaving away trying to get everything to tick. My goal is to keep socking equity into this property, expand my rental portfolio, keep socking away money int…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 06:08 AM
2

No Nick Fuentes is actually a white supremacist and a scumbag loser. That being said, I'm against any type of censorship.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/20 11:11 PM
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Reddit is a business and most people seem to think they have a right to say whatever they want on reddit. That's the true childish mentality. I don't understand grown men crying over Reddit doing what any business will do. The thing is, at some point we will have to reconcile with the fact that these massive social media platforms are essentially public forums. It's definitely a nuanced subject and I'm not sure there is a good solution.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/20 11:09 PM
1

Thanks for posting this. I read it a year ago and have been looking for it.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/20 10:55 PM
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People on here really nut themselves over starting their own business when it is just one of many paths. My goal isn't to start my own business, my goal is to be retired by 40 and not have to worry about shit. I don't need to be a millionaire. And from all the research I've done, real estate is the way to go. I am 25, work in tech sales, make about 80k-85k a year at my current company when all is said and done. I just bought a 350k triplex right before Covid using an FHA loan. The FHA loan allow…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/20 10:51 PM
1

I've been twice and really enjoyed it. First time split time between Medellin and Cartagena, second time just went to Medellin. Medellin is great. Amazing weather, beautiful women, awesome nightlife, great food. Can't recommend it enough. Cartagena is an amazing place to visit as well. Do you have any specific questions?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:30 PM
7

Maybe text game is just too situational I think this definitely plays a part but I think that there can definitely be better guides on here. I just think text game doesn’t really work for any guy who’s under a 8. My friend has autistic cringe meme text game and still pulls baddies cus of SMV You can say this about real life interactions as well though. High SMV guys can get away with saying a lot of shit low-SMV guys can't.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 09:44 PM
2

Agree with the theory but your examples are pretty bad tbh
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 09:42 PM
9

A few factors: Married very young In many cases their first long distance relationship These dumbasses in the army will marry any dumb slut who opens her legs People also really underestimate how long these deployments are. When my cousin got deployed to Iraq he was there for 9 months. So if you are a young wife at home who is likely in her early to mid 20s and horny AF imagine 9 months without getting even a kiss much less getting fucked. It's a perfect storm
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 01:04 AM
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It's definitely possible to love someone and be in a successful relationship it's just not the Disney idea of love that has been crammed into our brains since we were born.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:06 AM
3

literally the guy in the video you linked
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 06:55 PM
1

I had a date recently and it seemed like she had a good time. I texter her a couple days later to set up another and she said she didn't feel a connection. So what happened on the the date then? I'm guessing you didn't fuck. Did you at least have a passionate make-out sesh or get a handy or something? If she truly had a fun time with you she's not gonna next you because other dudes are texting her and you're not
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 07:15 AM
7

Imagine defending a "red pill content creator" who: A. Doesn't lift B. Makes videos wearing a robe
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 12:24 AM
1

Lol do you want a medal? You deleted social media... good for you. Find other shit to take up your free time. Reading, exercising, learning a new skill/language, hobbies, etc.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:20 AM
1

I told her I wanna keep it casual. And we can see other people as long as we use a condom with those partners. Wtf is this cuck shit lol. Why is a plate giving you permission to see other people?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:18 AM
1

No need to have a serious talk. Just play it cool and casual man. I'm not a big texter either. Just text her something along the lines of: "Hey I had fun on (day of the week). Let's get together on (day of the week) for (drinks, coffee, etc.)
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:42 PM
3

There wasn’t much kino but felt like we got along. This is why kino/setting a sexual atmosphere is so important. Platonic friends can "get along". You need to show her on the first date that you want to fuck her, not be her friend. I know we should be going for the kiss half way through the date but anyway, I tried at the end, she took a step back, smiled, and said “next time”. I know a lot of people will say, "she's rejecting you, just move on" but I wouldn't jump to that conclusion. Some girls…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:41 PM
6

body type like Canelo or Lomachenko Well Lomachenko is a 135lbs at 5'5 and Canelo is 190lbs of lean muscle at 5'7 so those are two very different body types lol.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:50 PM
1

i mean why not at least try it out? You can always move back if you want
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:33 PM
2

If the west is having a "hot" war with China then the world will probably be a shitty place to live in anyways
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:35 PM
1

A few democrats but most don’t. I honestly agree but here's the problem. The AOC and Ilhan Omar ultra progressive sect of the democratic party (AKA the type of far left dems who actually do want to take your guns) is growing larger and larger every year. They are still just a loud vocal minority but what about 5 years from now? What about 10? In your previous comment you said this: Dude there hasn’t been a mass shooting in Australia since 1996. Why? Gun control, you said that America doesn’t hav…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 02:16 AM
5

Of the 47% of marriages that do not end in divorce, how many of them are medium shitty? I was in a discussion with a guy over on the main sub who couldn't seem to wrap his head around this concept. He just kept parroting "aren't the amazing benefits of marriage worth the 50/50 shot?". Of the marriages that "survive" the divorce epidemic I'd reckon at least 70% of them suck ass and are only held together by things such as children, social life, finances, etc. I am only in my mid 20s but I know so…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 01:56 AM
2

My favorite of the second tier cities are Nashville, Denver, Austin, and Charlotte. All are much cheaper to live in than NYC (although Austin real estate has been skyrocketing lately) and all of those cities have good culture and nightlife. I spent a year in Chicago as well and I loved it although it definitely is a major city. Once again, people will hate on Chicago for being "unsafe" but crime is really only confined to a few disastrous neighborhoods on the south side. I've been out very late …
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:41 PM
4

crime The people who are acting as if it's mad max in NYC are a bunch of hicks who are masturbating over the thought of a "coastal elite" city getting taken down a peg. NYC like any big city has crime. So does London, so does Paris, so does HK, so does literally any city besides like Tokyo. Anyone who isn't a retard knows that crime in NYC has only gotten better over time. Try living in NYC in the 70s and 80s when the murder rate was like triple what it is today. The biggest downside of living i…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:06 PM
6

Game trumps all. Biggest poonhound I know is a 5'5 sorta chubby asian guy with a man bun. He doesn't have a good physique or status but his game is sharp.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:00 PM
3

Exactly. If not you gonna end up with herpes.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:24 PM
3

I've moved away from that area now and I do miss it at times, but summer can be terrible. It's not as fun when it's over 100F/38C and humid as fuck. I now live in the northeast USA and I think it's the best balance. You get a true 4 seasons and summer is low to mid 80s with usually 4-5 days a year in the 90s. The problem with the UK is that it's fucking cloudy all the time. I actually did a semester abroad in London and while I liked it, I barely saw the sun.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:40 PM
1

Got any other good bodybuilding book recommendations? My strength isn't amazing, but it's fine. I am more interested my improving my physique at this point.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:03 PM
30

When I first started lifting 7 years ago I was a skinny 145-150. Since, then I've been as high as 210 so I feel I can speak on this. I'm 5'10 for reference. Definitely the most attention I ever got was after I did a cut after a big bulk and I was a super lean 190 at 5'10. Could fill out the sleeves of a medium sized shirt great. Looked big in clothes but also had a 6 pack when I took my shirt off. It was the best balance. I was a puffier 210 and I did still get a decent amount of attention from …
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:48 PM
2

You have a few options: Drink less when you go out Go out less Find a social activity that doesn't involve drinking After I hit like 24 years old honestly even two drinks made me get a shit night's sleep and feel like crap the next morning. One of the ways I developed my social life was through my boxing gym. I just started talking to some guys at classes then started saying "hey im going to so and so restaurant after class, wanna come with?" Now we have a solid group of 5-6 guys that go out for…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:12 PM
2

Because most of them actually are. That's why I just stick to the main sub. The endorsed contributors aren't trying to hawk their e-books/alpha soap. GLO does try to sell his coaching but his body of work speaks for itself. And 1v1 coaching at least requires time and effort on his part. Also, like the top comment said, that's just the modern day internet for you. Very few content creators break that mold. Youtube 8-10 years ago was a great place and now 90% of it is clickbait titles and thumbnai…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:58 PM
5

Even if it’s 50/50 that a marriage will work Going back to your original comment... like I said, the divorce rate might be 50% but the rate of actually having a happy and successful marriage is much much lower.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 11:30 PM
3

Lmao getting some brainwashed prude who will only let you fuck her missionary because everything else is a sin isn't the answer.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 11:11 PM
3

My parents have had a long and successful marriage as well as grandparents on both sides and many of my aunts and uncles. I guess the divorce rate of our family doesn’t match that of the general population but what am I missing here? Ok well marriage isn't what it used to be and it's not just the divorce rate. If 50% of marriages end in divorce, how many other marriages are fucking terrible but the parents are staying together for kids, social reasons, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 11:10 PM
1

I was coming into this thread expecting a situation of a family member dying or having to put down your dog but instead read about how you threw a hissyfit in the library. People on here will parrot some bs about how if your dad kills himself or some other fucked up shit happens to you, you can never cry in front of your gf/wife or else she'll never think of you the same. My counter to that is, if a woman is that much of a cold hearted bitch then she didn't deserve to be with me anyways. But poi…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 06:43 PM
1

The only girls who will meet you for the first time at a hotel are low quality whores. For all she knows you might be a serial killer. Meet her in person at least before proposing a hotel. Meet, flirt, escalate.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:18 PM
2

Ok so just download hinge and avoid the tinder algorithm fuckery. I am like a 6 maybe 6.5 max if I'm tan and lean during the summer and I've fucked tons of decent looking women off of hinge. 2-3 messages back and forth, invite her out for drinks, invite her back to your place. Easy close.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 06:14 PM
2

Women are shitty wingmen. Ehh I mean women aren't going to approach a group of random girls with you like a male wingman will but they will be happy to set you up with friends. Game is obviously important but some of my easiest lays have been from mutual acquaintances of female friends.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 10:36 PM
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It's the sexual version of the guys who make donations to streamers on twitch. Twitch streamers sell the illusion of friendship, girls on onlyfans sell the illusion of a relationship. It also is more intimate than porn because of the exclusivity plus the girls will message you and shit. It's not rocket science. It's dudes who are lonely and crave female interaction.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:29 PM
0

Just remember that if you ever decide to marry this girl you are "marrying" her mom as well.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:39 PM
3

So you whinge about drinking on dates because you feel like shit afterwards, but continue to do it anyways? So get out of your comfort zone and do some other shit jesus
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 04:48 PM
6

She was showing me the monologue of texts her ex Bf had been sending her over the last month begging for her to come back. I think a lot of guys found the red pill after being on the wrong ends of situations like these. I know I did.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 01:46 AM
2

Closure is for women, you don't have to give them shit. Closure is for women to make sure they "won" the breakup. Because like it or not, 99% of breakups have a winner (initiator) and a loser (the party being dumped). And usually the loser is the guy.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 01:45 AM
6

So go on other types of first dates that don't involve bars? I know it's getting colder out but go hiking or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 01:32 AM
1

You don't necessarily need to pump iron 5 days a week, and this is coming from someone who has been lifting for almost a decade. The gym will make it easier to be fit and in good shape but you can also find a sport/activity that keeps you fit. I HIGHLY recommend lifting for a multitude of reasons, but at the same time life is pretty short to do something you hate 5x a week.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 06:48 PM
1

Pics with friends. All your pics are of you alone.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:45 PM
1

Brazil is nice but crime there is just a massive problem, even compared to the rest of SA. It has the 12th most murders per 100k people and the countries above it are all much smaller. I've been there before and had a fun time but you hear about people being popped off in traffic stopped at a red light even in decent areas.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 12:25 AM
1

You ever actually been to SA? Both Colombia and Chile were some of the best places I've been to in my life and I've been across most of Europe as well as Japan and Thailand.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 12:22 AM
1

Yep there are pros and cons lol. When im bulking you can barely tell because my face barely puffs up haha
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:26 PM
1

Yeah I'm the same way. My belly fat is the most stubborn and is always the last to go it's so annoying for the cut. I'll literally have shredded arms, legs, and shoulders with a lean face and still have lil love handles that take me a solid 3-4 weeks to get rid of. it sucks.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:06 PM
4

When I re-did my wardrobe a couple of years ago here is what I did. Look up pics of guys you want to dress like. Create a folder on your computer if you have to. Then just copy their style. Also you are being dramatic. There are plenty of places where you can buy basic men's clothing.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:21 PM
2

I mean there can be a middle ground between fat and 145lb lean especially at 5'11... I'm 5'10 and I've been as low as 150 and as high as 200 and the best I've ever looked was a shredded 170-175. Looked great without a shirt but I could still fill out a medium sized t shirt also.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:12 PM
1

Agreed. My fav type is colombian/brazilian but I’ve been with some mixed dominican girls that were absolute smoke shows. I’m white and I even agree with your last sentence. I’m not into asians for the most part except I once hooked up with this japanese girl who looked completely normal with clothes on but was sneakily packing double d’s under her sweater. I also used to hookup with a lebanese girl that was an absolute bombshell. I like a lot of middle eastern girls but there’s not many around m…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 01:33 PM
1

I personally need a girl with some features but some guys are into skinny bitches. My personal type is a slim thick latina girl. 5'4-5'7, C cups or above, nice shapely ass, dark hair. I'm a sucker for colombian girls. I went to Medellin on a 2 week trip like that and girls who fit that description grew on trees down there it was nuts. Latinas are my usual type but I diversify. Fucked pretty much every race out there besides native americans and I wanna cross that off my bucket list because I've …
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:46 PM
1

Evan Longoria is busted now she gained a lot of weight.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:41 PM
1

Get on a beginner lifting program. Eat clean: eggs, chicken, spinach, rice, oats, etc. Get your 8 hours of sleep.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:14 AM
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And yet despite what you say, pretty much every professional boxer does roadwork 4+ days a week, barring a few heavyweights who instead swim/bike to save their knees. You act like hard sparring sessions and grueling roadwork is an either/or situation. It's not. Boxers do both. Source: Am an amateur boxer who trains with multiple professional boxers.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 06:42 PM
1

Not really. The Nuclear family is the post ww2 caricature of a suburban family with a a breadwinner father, a stay at home mother, 3 kids, a golden retriever and white picket fences. Historically childrearing has been a community effort, and it is still seen in many asian countries with 3 generations living under one roof with extended family pitching in.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 06:38 PM
2

This is retarded. Having a cardio base is essential to doing well in combat sports. Yeah if you're just looking to burn some calories you can do your combat sports classes but if you have any desire to actually compete in them you need to be doing roadwork.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 11:42 PM
5

Two things: You are fucking low-value crazy women. Women who are capable of this behavior are usually pretty easy to suss out before you get fully involved. I know hot pussy can be addicting but in the long run it really is not worth getting involved with these types of women. Secondly, you need to navigate breaking things off better so it doesn't seem like you're just pumping and dumping. Make up shit if you have to. Needing to work longer at work is my go-to. You can also act beta so it doesn'…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:43 PM
8

This. I used to do a pretty highly recommended skin routine but I was eating 2 whey protein shakes a day plus other dairy because I was bulking and trying to gain weight. I switched to an egg white protein powder and cut the majority of dairy out of my diet and I literally only breakout when I cheat and have a milkshake or something.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:38 PM
1

Did you miss the part where I still use a condom?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:34 AM
2

With one night stands and first time hookups, yes. With plates who are on BC, no. I also always do the water test after I bust with a condom as well.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:04 AM
3

I’ve come across a lot of women lately who outright say no man should own sleeveless t-shirts or tank tops. First of all, who cares. Secondly, if you're good looking and ripped from the gym they won't give a fuck. Thirdly, yeah if someone literally wears wife beaters everywhere they go they're probably a bum.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:02 PM
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I didnt want to seem needy so I waited only 2 days to text her number. Guess what, I got ghosted. You are bitter because of your recent shame of being rejected by a fatty. I'm a hard 6 and I do completely fine on dating apps with minimal effort.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:07 AM
3

For some reason people on this subreddit nut over "just shave your head bro and grow a beard". I'm not balding at the moment but I know I would look terrible bald because I am bad at growing facial hair. So if I ever go bald I will just get a hair transplant. There are also ways to regrow hair without a transplant. Minoxidil (aka rogaine) and the drug finasteride. Finasteride has some very rare (like less than 1 in 1000) but serious side effects though. It's a personal choice, but just so you kn…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:06 AM
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This ^ I'm a hard 6, maybe rising to 6.5 when I get tan and super lean in the summer and I do completely fine on dating apps. That being said, tinder is terrible now because of their algorithm fuckery.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:59 PM
2

Yes it is possible. But first impressions are so set in stone that it is pretty unlikely. After my glow-up I ended up fucking a girl who friendzoned me hard back in high school. Ironically, it didn't even feel that good because after my hard work to improve myself I had fucked much hotter bitches and she was a terrible lay.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:57 PM
1

I consider myself pretty moderate but the worst thing about conservatives is that they're the biggest hypocrites I've ever seen. They preach "muh small government" and "cutting spending" but as soon as they get into office they don't hesitate to swipe the credit card just as much as the democracts. Funny how Trump nutriders want to conveniently ignore how under Trump the budget deficit has risen each year he's been in office, and is now probably gonna be obliterated even further by Covid. But Tr…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:01 PM
3

This is retarded. It was the first time he was denied in 6 months. Yea if it becomes a common occurrence then dump her ass but she could have not wanted to for a variety of reasons.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:55 AM
1

Girls bruise as easily as bananas. I'm not saying it's NOT from a guy, but jumping immediately to cheating seems like a stretch.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:53 AM
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You don't even need to be that high man. I'm like a 6.5, maybe rising up to a 7 when I get tan and lean in the summer and I have had plenty of success on tinder. Yeah if you're an ogre don't bother but if you're above average looking you can definitely slay on tinder if your pics are good and your game is as well.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:38 AM
1

Thanks for the additional info. Yeah the modern PUA sphere makes it really hard to sort the good info from the gimmicky bullshit. Yeah when I tried a bit of day game it was just talking to women I'd see in my daily routine walking around my city. I wouldn't leave my apartment for the sole purpose of day gaming. I actually think I have the PDF of The Art of Seduction saved somewhere on my laptop after I downloaded a big RP book file. I'll give it a read tonight. Appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 11:09 PM
0

You said RP isn't about sexual strategy, except it is. Stop being an idiot.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:41 PM
2

cause there's dudes here that virtue signal over not getting pussy (I'm "too focused" a "real RP man doesn't chase pussy") and villify dudes that wanna talk about getting sum regularly. These fools don't seem to realize that sex is a base human need next to water, food, and shelter. That's why the incels are so angry all the time.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:39 PM
1

PUA now is just a bunch of internet marketing techniques to get you to buy their coaching/bootcamps. I'm at the point in my life where im 24, lift/do boxing, have a good job, live in my own apartment, etc so I want to learn more about game, daygame in particular. My game is pretty solid due to reading a lot of TRP in the last few years, but the posts about game aren't as specific as I'd like and I want to go into it a bit more in depth. But all the videos I see are just trying to hawk some class…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:37 PM
3

The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Literally the subtitle of the fucking subreddit
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:26 PM
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Dude you're delusional. Why are you with this abusive cunt? Dump her ass. As the great Woujo said: "If a hot girl tries to strike a Faustian bargain with you and let you fuck her in return for treating you like shit, you must reject that deal out of respect for your own mental health." If she is this bad as a fiance imagine how it would feel to be married to her. The fact that you haven't broken up with her already tells me you're a little bitch. She not only screams at you but hits you. Either …
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:24 PM
3

You will likely never know for certain to be honest, but probably any girl over 10 is too slutty. Because after that point is there really that big of a difference between 20 and 30 bodies on her record?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:16 PM
1

I don't know about others but if a girl has a septum piercing I'm running.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:10 AM
1

Varies by state
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 02:08 AM
2

The problem is that may men and women have no direction in their 20s and use the "20 something" excuse as a reason to party down non stop for a decade. This exactly. I have a female coworker who in the span of 2 minutes described to me her "girls weekend" in Las Vegas and then lamented not being able to find a "good guy". She's 36. Now this girl is honestly smoking hot for her age and is honestly great at her job. But she has already splatted clean through the wall 5-6 years ago. I don't know he…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 05:49 AM
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iphones are doing the same thing TV did in the 80s/90s just on hyper steroids. The amount of times I've seen some young parent just stick an ipad in their 3 year olds face is unreal. Kids are being raised with a screen in their face 24/7 and unprecedented access to inappropriate material. Whore culture is so fucking rampant on these apps it's insane. As a mid020s guys who is just having casual relationships this is fine. But that (among other factors) has convinced me never to get married.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 05:38 AM
2

Thanks for the link. What are your thoughts about South America? I only ask because I love Latinas and speaking pretty decent spanish.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 05:57 PM
3

This is just a "no true scotsman" argument. At its core does MGTOW actually mean guys who can get girls but choose to go their own way? Sure. Is it like that in practice. Absolutely not. Every time I would check in on that sub there was absolute drivel upvoted to the top like "With all the money I'm saving from not going on dates, I was able to buy myself a good gaming pc"
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 12:24 PM
1

I do thank Rollo and The Rational Male for pulling me out of my blue pill haze but I'm just showing why Rollo isn't liked anymore. He tied his horse to the 21Con idiots.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:21 PM
1

Yeah my description doesn't do it justice.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:20 PM
3

The whole convention itself is completely cringe but that trailer takes it to a new level.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:00 PM
7

He got booted from 21Con. Rollo didn't leave.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:59 PM
4

He got booted out because he invited a NYT reporter to one of their get togethers. He was perfectly fine with getting money from chumps when it suited him. It's not like he realized it was an event run by retards and quit, he got kicked out.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:57 PM
2

So basically when I try to squat I feel a sharp pain in my knee. After that I’ve found it hurts to put pressure on that leg when walking. I still wanna train legs though. So you want to train legs without using your knee. Good luck. Go to a physical therapist that specializes in athletes. Yes it sucks to not be able to hit legs for a while but if you eat well you will keep your mass fine.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:23 PM
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By associating himself with that snake oil sales pitch 21con Rollo dug his own grave. 95% of the speakers are absolute losers who don't lift much less pick up chicks. You mean to tell me I'm supposed to take advice on how to get chicks from Hunter Drew aka Bilbo Baggins? And the 5% of speakers who actually know what they're talking about have their credibility tarnished by associating themselves with a dude who is trying to shill so you can buy his tactical soap. I mean just look at this "traile…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:20 PM
4

Ok so what about my statement was false. They might not be “going their own way”, whatever that means. They are still being brainwashed by that sub
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 04:18 AM
1

Assuming you go to sleep between 22:00-23:00, stop eating food and drinking water between 14:00-16:00. Bro what. Latest meal at 4pm? That's lunacy. Here's how to get good sleep. Wake up early every day, do physical activity that tires you out, don't eat 2 hours before bed, no screens for 90 mins before bed. If you exercise hard and set your alarm early you will fall asleep like a rock.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 12:13 AM
2

MGTOW has some decent points but their fantasy of living alone your entire life and fucking escorts to get your fix is unobtainable for 95% of men. Then they just parrot "the juice isn't worth the squeeze" referring to women.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 12:10 AM
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The problem with MGTOW is it attracts young blackpillers and incels and poisons their minds. They're "checking out of the game" in the first inning before they've truly tried. If some dude in his 50s wants to go MGTOW then fine.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 12:06 AM
1

It's a bit tougher during quarantine but there are still plenty of activities/hobbies you can pursue. Before Corona even started I taught myself chess. Since you're a gamer I think that learning chess and playing it online against people would scratch the same itch. Chess is great because there is pretty much no ceiling. There's no shot you'll ever get to grandmaster level but you can keep improving. Watch some youtube videos on strategy and try out the website Lichess. Since it's summer and it'…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:43 PM
4

Don't do it
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:35 PM
1

You're right in that she probably hasn't fucked the other dude yet but does that even matter? The intent is what matters.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:51 AM
3

I watched the Roosh video and was a bit confused whether or not he thought coronavirus was a hoax or not. He said he doesn't wear a mask so it seems possibly so? Or he thinks it's just overblown by the media possibly. I agree the world is probably going to shit during my lifetime... the question is what can I personally do about that? And if there is nothing I can do about it, how can I mentally compartmentalize it so the sense of impending doom doesn't make me blow my brains out before I turn 4…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 05:45 AM
2

Potheads of any gender are a big turnoff. I'm not some evangelist either. In my college days I smoked pot, took LSD/shrooms two times, and a coke a few times on wild nights. But the people who are out of college and still desperately trying to cling to the loser pot lifestyle are honestly a joke. They treat it like smoking pot is a personality trait. I still smoke pot from time to time (probably once every 6-8 weeks) but I'm not under some illusion that it's some cool fad. I just enjoy sparking …
/r/askTRP04/07/20 03:58 PM
1

Yeah buddy you need to get outside some
/r/askTRP04/07/20 03:51 PM
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Sounds like you're either a virgin or someone who's never spent time around high quality women. Quality women bring a good balance into our lives and are a nice cherry on top of life. So if you want to enlist one of your bros to give you a morning blowjob and cook for you, be my guest, but I don't swing that way.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:54 PM
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If you don't like spending time with her then she's not LTR material. I'm single now but I liked spending time with my LTRs because high quality women bring a refreshing feminine energy into your life.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:06 PM
1

Get a restraining order against him and the next time he does some shit like that the cops are knocking at his door.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:04 PM
1

Probably got lead in them too
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 02:40 PM
1

You misinterpreted what he said. He never said that game doesn't matter. He said the early-to-mid 2000s version of game touted online where you memorize a bunch of different lines like an actor is retarded, and that's true. Also this was a tinder guide. On tinder looks/physique is 99% of what determines whether or not a tinder thot is gonna come fuck that night.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:06 AM
1

Great guide. Not just in terms of the content but the effort put forth as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:02 AM
8

I've actually heard good things about Crest whitestrips, and I plan to try those next. Crest whitestrips actually do work really well they just are a bit expensive.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 07:19 PM
39

It is almost impossible to adopt a kid as a single male, at least in the US
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:52 AM
1

I've posted about it before but unlike some other guys on here I actually did pretty well with women before I discovered TRP. I was a two sport varsity athlete with decent looks and in great physical shape. I went away to college and got my first real girlfriend and that was when reality hit. She cheated on me with some 28 year old finance bro and that is how I found out about hypergamy the hard way. Because while in the college social bubble I was definitely upper tier, compared to some dude wi…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:39 AM
1

Ok yeah in 10-15 years it might be fucked but Chicago right now is an awesome place to live in.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 11:26 PM
2

Cities also offer more job and business opportunities although one thing I expect to come out of this whole covid-19 thing is location independence when it comes to work. Employers will be more willing to let you work from wherever if you’re a knowledge worker. Good luck convincing them to still pay your city salary while you're working from bumblefuck, wherever. Facebook already said that after these next few months anyone not working from the San Fran area is getting their pay docked.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 06:28 PM
7

I can't fathom why someone would want to pay exorbitant rent in NYC, Chicago, Boston, or San Francisco to be packed in a tiny apartment like a rat and having to deal with a bunch of quality of life problems. I agree with you on the other 3 but Chicago is a great place to live.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 06:25 PM
12

I tell every guy who doesn't believe it: Crack that IPhone or email acct and meet your girl. Will you find undying devotions of love to you, conversations with her BFF about turning down dick because relationship, or will you see her praising what a fine catch you are and her worries about keeping you pleased? No, No, and Fuck no. You will find dick pics, emotional affairs, and orbiters you never heard of. And thats if you are lucky. I learned this lesson the hard way and that is what led me her…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 06:28 PM
1

Shawn Kemp and Gasol over Duncan... You're high.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 03:51 AM
4

MGTOW recluse checking in So a loser then.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:53 AM
22

just jerk it with no porn mate
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 12:31 AM
1

I've made plenty of money over the last 3 years investing. But telling someone dude who's never even bought a stock before to try to day/swing trade is fucking retarded.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:20 PM
1

You are dealing with someone who is a complete noob. Him trying to time a volatile market is a good way for him to lose all his cash. God you're stupid.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:48 PM
1

Hydrogen fuel tech is inefficient shit.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:47 PM
1

Wut? Yes it is
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:46 AM
1

NKLA is a scam. It was an easy pump and dump after their IPO, but everyone wants to crown them the next TSLA when they don't have a single working model. Also their proposed hydrogen fuel cell tech is a pipe dream. It was great to swing trade it, but take profit and get out. Long term it ain't doing shit.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:45 AM
1

When you invest in Vanguard ETFs you're investing for 10+ years probably. The guy is a noob who learned about Vanguard through a friend, aka not a seasoned investor. Better for him to just stick it in VOO and keep investing in it then try to time a volatile market.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:39 AM
5

It's crazy man. I'm only 24 and I see a few friends already started to settle. Gaining weight, ditching the boys to chill with their banshee cunt girlfriends. I can already see them going down the path of becoming stereotypical beer gut suburban dads that talk to their male neighbors about lawnmowing and shit and just bitch about their wives 24/7. If I ever end up like that I give TRP full permission to come to my house and kill me.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:26 PM
1

Yeah I had a similar situation happen to me. Got held up at knifepoint when i was on vacation. Yeah you feel like a bitch afterwards because it's emasculating. Don't sweat it man. You did well man but if someone pulls a knife on you be prepared to book it
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:21 PM
1

seems like you've never heard of crackhead strength lol
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:19 PM
4

Because Baby Boomers are the most narcissistic generation in American history.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 06:45 PM
3

I'm 24 almost 25 so I'm kinda on the cutoff between Milennial and Gen Z. The iphone came out when I was a sophomore in high school and that is essentially how we can mark history. Pre and post iphone era. Luckily my childhood was mostly "analog" for lack of a better term. On a saturday I'd leave my house at 10:30am or so and my parents would just say "be back by dinner" and I'd be playing sports and cruising around town on my bike with my friends. I didn't have a phone until 8th grade and that w…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 06:44 PM
9

No contact for 7 days in an LTR is a next
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:34 PM
3

That's why frats make sure it's 8-1 the other way lol
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:07 AM
6

Look when there's college aged sluts around we're all trying to get laid but I've met and talked with some chill guys when caught in situation's like OP's. the other simps dance around trying to get the girls attention and will be like crabs in a bucket cockblocking eachother until the very end of the night. Exactly this. And by showing you just don't give a fuck you come off as more attractive anyways.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:06 AM
3

Most guys fuck like 1-2 girls in high school.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 12:11 AM
3

Well police brutality is what stoked the flames of this current conflict. Im not some black lives matter fan, i just happen to agree with them on the fact that 90% of cops are hothead scumbags with itchy trigger fingers.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 09:17 PM
2

If money isn't a problem egg white protein is the cleanest protein I've ever had. Zero skin problems and unlike plant protein it tastes good.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:58 PM
6

What's sad is unlike a lot of people on here I actually agree with the basic premise of the protests. Police brutality/prejudice is a real thing and I've seen it firsthand. And the police have become way too militarized since the war on drugs began. That being said the solution isn't to fucking loot small businesses. Sure loot some multinational corporation like Walmart or whatever but people are robbing and destroying mom and pop stores, many owned by black people. It's terrible.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 06:42 PM
18

These betas and women on social media were shitting on people for having 2 friends over for a beer when Corona first hit. They posted fucking tons of stories telling people to stay at home, etc. My Dad (who I see a few times a week) has lung problems so I took this shit seriously so I didn't get him sick. I work from home, wear a mask when I go out, when I meet with 2-3 friends we wear masks and social distance. But yet we have thousands of unmasked people in the streets spreading this shit. Iro…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 12:44 AM
1

Try to up the calories to like 2800-2900. You think you'll feel sick but those extra 300 calories can come from something as simple as an avocado or a few scoops of peanut butter. You could make a peanut butter protein shake that would get you those extra calories easy.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:45 PM
3

Women want to act like they have no agency. They want to be "STRONG WOMANZ" but yet let this idiot of a guy essentially nag her into having sex. And anyone with half a brain knows the implications of a girl ubering over to your house after a night out on the town.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 01:13 AM
6

Wow. A post about starting a business with actual step by step knowledge instead of dipshits on here humblebragging about "muh 6-figure e-commerce sidehustle"? Bravo. I've had a side business planned out but corona put a dent in my plans. This is some great info. Appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 01:08 AM
7

Exactly. Guys can literally cheat on their wives with 3 different broads, come home, tell their wives they love them, and actually be telling the truth. If a woman cheats on you the love is over and probably has been for a while.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 01:02 AM
2

Unless you got some super sperm count it's far more likely it was her ex's. Contrary to what most people think it's pretty hard to get a girl pregnant from nutting in her one time. A lot of married couples try for months before getting pregnant. That being said hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:36 PM
2

They're not there yet in terms of corporate HR culture though. Not even close.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:33 PM
1

Yeah no shit. I'm already in great shape and I do actually use minox and finasteride. My point being in every TRP thread about baldness this "get ripped bro" sentiment comes up
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:46 PM
3

Stop strawmanning and thinking of things in such black and white terms. Yes just saying fuck it and giving up because you're going bald doesn't help you at all. But just saying fuck it just shave it and grow a beard doesn't help when the person in question doesn't have the genes to be able to do that.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:45 PM
5

Tinder gets a deserved bad rep now, but back when it first came out it was literally the wild west. Tons of hotties on there, unlimited swipes, no algorithms, girls actually down to do what the app was made for (hookup). You could literally match with a girl and just ask her to hook up pretty much right away.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:43 PM
1

I’m done with it, what’s the point of texting if I’m gonna be left on delivered for days. I'm by no means a proponent of texting but girls will text you back if they were at all interested in fucking you. I do 80-90% of my communication with girls in person but I don't mind some light texting.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:41 PM
2

I love how people on TRP are like "don't worry bro, just look at Jason Statham and The Rock" like that applies to your average person. They are celebrities, and in the case of The Rock he's 6'6, 265lbs, and has the aesthetic to pull it off. Some people just genuinely don't have the head shape/complexion to pull off going bald well. Some people, like me, can't grow good facial hair. Some guys can look good bald but it's not as simple as "get ripped bro"
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:04 PM
1

What are you talking about? Most married men look like absolutely shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 10:07 PM
3

I agree. I'm 5'10 and I'd much rather be a shredded 180 than 200+. Also a fuck ton better for my lower body health.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:41 AM
2

Just turned 22. Fucked around and I'm still in college. Consider yourself lucky to have found this resource so early. Many guys didn't find it until they were in their 40s and already divorce raped once or twice. I hear success stories from 18 year olds going into college and I feel like shit knowing I'm technically older than college age and still a fucking loser. A few things from someone who used to suffer from a similar way of thinking: Stop mentally masturbating about what you could have do…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:38 AM
7

Those 20 likes are either all bots or guys just swiping randomly. Secondly, yeah no shit Einstein.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:32 AM
1

Pandora's box man. You can't put social media back in the box. It's done.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 06:22 PM
3

Welp... you just described my college gf from back in the day. It's crazy how probably 90% of what you said applied to her.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:59 PM
2

What really helped me satisfy my sweet tooth was Apple Cinnamon rice cakes. They taste super sweet and are only 50 calories. They have something like 3-4g of sugar which isn't too bad if you just have 1 per day.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:19 PM
3

Latinas are harder to plate in my experience because they require a lot of attention. If you get into an LTR with one though they will treat you like a king
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 06:36 PM
1

This. Colombian women are the most feminine women in the world. If you're a dominant man they'll cook/clean for you and fuck you like a pornstar.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 06:35 PM
10

Treating dates like the casual fun thing they are. Before I got a bit experienced I used to get pretty nervous before dates and overthink things. I'm pretty sure a lot of newbies here are the same. But after some practice I just started to treat first dates in a much more casual manner. There's a bar near me that has a rooftop area and amazing liquor selection. I take the majority of my first dates there. Even if the date is shitty I can still say "hey at least I had a good cocktail".
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:09 PM
2

If he lives in Australia that is actually valid advice lol. Because of the hole in the ozone layer over Australia plus the sunny weather there they have the highest rate of skin cancer in the world.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:05 PM
1

I work 9-5:30 so in terms of extra free time I only get about an extra hour a day because my commute to work is 30 mins both way. I wake up at my normal time of 6:30-7. I know a lot of my coworkers are waking up at 8:55 because they can work in their pajamas but I'm keeping my morning routine. I do my morning at-home workout, shower, then work. Quick lunch break at 1pm then power through the afternoon. At 5:30 on the dot I usually go for a walk around my neighborhood. 30mins to an hour depending…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:02 PM
1

Yes no shit. But is the choice of jobs that makes a bigger difference you idiot. This convo is done
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:21 AM
1

nice person who fallacy again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:52 AM
1

Nice logical fallacy. Of course some men are retards. The point being is it's a lot easier to get injured on an oil rig or a construction site than in a pre-school classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:16 AM
1

It's not about acting "stupid". Men do jobs that no woman would want to touch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:53 PM
5

and it's hard and nearly impossible if you do not have a home gym. As long as you eat right you only need to work at 1/9th intensity to maintain muscle mass for something like 8/9 months. Yes it will be hard to make gains but you can maintain easily if you just have a pull-up bar and one set of like 25lb dumbbells.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:30 AM
2

Not trying to shit on you but maybe you just aren't high-value enough. I bet a lot of girls would break quarantine for a chad.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:27 AM
1

It's easily salvageable, but I'm going to guess you didn't play it off correctly. I've came quick before and you can either use it to compliment her skills or you can defuse it with some humor. Some girls get off on making a guy cum quick. Especially from a blowjob. Just gotta hold frame.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:26 AM
1

I wear cologne when going out for drinks and on dates but not really to work or anything. I know they have day colognes but I just haven't really gotten there yet. You can get a good cologne in the $70-80 dollar range. It's not like you have to break the bank for it. I personally wear Giorgio Armani Acqua di Gio Profumo which is around that range if I recall correctly. The main difference between cologne and a body spray is when applied correctly, cologne isn't overpowering and stays on for like…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:00 AM
1

If you want kids then it's much better to raise them in a 2 parent household. The problem is finding the right woman. If having aa family is your goal, you just need to be prepared that being divorce raped is within the realm of possibility. On the other hand, yes the divorce rate is 50% and that seems scary as shit, but think about how many retards out there get married too early/when they shouldn't. I don't have the exact numbers but I'm sure that if you vet well and choose to marry a girl wit…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:57 PM
1

I (M26) spent most of my savings buying my car and now I am doubting the decision. You're right to doubt the decision. You should never be spending most of your savings to buy a car.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:58 PM
8

Yes. This RP fixation on only reading non-fiction is fucking weird. Fiction books are a huge part of human culture. It's like telling someone to not look at art.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:50 PM
3

"If you have doubts, you have no doubt" people say here. If you're thinking about the idea of moving on, it's because you have to. When you're in a healthy relationship, you don't have those thoughts. This guy is in his early 20s. It's completely normal for him to be doubtful at that age, even if it's a healthy relationship.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:06 PM
58

The funniest part is when it's an ugly/fat chick and there are 80 comments with different variations of "you go gurllll" and "yassss queen." I occasionally go out to clubs/bars with a group of girls from my city. There are 8 girls in the group and they're all pretty much 7s and above. But for some reason they also hang out with this troll-looking bitch, who is not only ugly but just a terrible person. I assume they keep her around so they can feel better about themselves. When it was this troll-…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 07:35 PM
13

LOL. So we went to Ruth's Cris and at the end of dinner he made a big show of picking up the tab for her and me. Ok, thanks bud. From my experience orbiters have this fixation on doing stuff like that to flex their muscles. They can't beat you with looks/game so they try to put you down by doing stuff like you mentioned. I think it's an attempt to make you look childish. Little do they know that women can see through that act easily and it just ends up wasting their money. Free steak dinner and …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 07:29 PM
47

Some great stories here Uncle Vas. A question I have for you is have you ever gotten one of your LTRs/Plate's orbiters to buy you stuff/perform a service for you indirectly? A few years back in college I had an LTR that went to a different school about 20 mins away. So they're having their Spring concert (an R&B singer we both like) and because it's a big school buying tickets online was a madness and she was only able to get one. Now she had this orbiter in one of her classes that I had met a f…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:52 PM
9

People get those side effects because they're retard bodybuilders just blasting away. Every Hollywood action hero is on a PED regimen overseen by a doctor.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:35 PM
1

Don't have anything against them but I personally haven't and will never take them.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:34 PM
5

The problem is, if we open up before we have herd immunity or a vaccine, cases will spike again and we will be set back to square one.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 01:53 AM
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So basically the problem with this virus is that there is no vaccine, and unlike other viruses we do not have what's called "herd immunity" built up against it. We have stopped the spread greatly by our quarantine/lockdown methods. The problem is, if we open things back up before we have either a vaccine or herd immunity built up, the cases will simply spike up again like early/mid-march.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 01:53 AM
1

I don't feel like I'm man enough because I've never ever had a real conflict with another man. I've never really felt when someone beats the shit out of you or you beat up someone else. So do a combat sport like boxing or MMA. I can't really explain it, but in the heat of the fight (if I caught myself) I'm super good at avoiding it in a sort of "machiavellian" way. I calculate what's on stake, and in my head, it's rarely worth it. Unless your life or the life of someone you're with is at stake i…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:42 AM
3

When I had just turned 23. Moved out after a year of working and living at home. I had a ton saved after graduation, no debt, a car I own outright, and I don't spend much on material things so I felt comfortable for "splurging" for a studio apartment (I live in a really expensive area). After living with roommates in college and a year at home I realized that when it comes to living situations I definitely prefer to live alone. I essentially pay a $400 premium every month for living by myself in…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:37 AM
1

Maybe the depressed guy shouldn’t do any drugs. How bout that
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:08 PM
1

Get yourself a good male therapist man. Your problems are probably outside the scope of a forum about getting pussy. I have suffered from bouts of moderate depression so I know somewhat where you're coming from. What really helped me was meditation and mindfulness exercises. Get some professional help, but from my POV I think you not having a social circle is your biggest problem. Humans are naturally social creatures and it's one of our base needs. For you to be 25 and have zero friends is play…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:58 PM
2

LSD twice a week isn't infrequently lmao
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:54 PM
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But you can be sure a lot of people are getting happy pills for relatively minor bouts of depression that are caused by the normal trials and tribulations of life. I agree completely. The biggest hurdle for people suffering from bouts of depression is just taking that first step and going outside, working out, etc. People spend 8 hours a day in front of screens, eat terribly, don't exercise, drink/do drugs, and then are surprised they feel like shit mentally.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:33 PM
1

We need more info about your financial situation before we can give any specific advice besides: "invest and save" Why are you living paycheck to paycheck?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:51 AM
3

Having girl friends give you good social proof. My girl friends from college hooked it up with party invites and setting me up with their friends. Don't expect them to be there for you when the going gets rough like a guy friend would though and you'll be fine
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:48 AM
7

I agree completely. I like vacations as much as the next person because I'm a big history buff and I like to visit ancient sites/museums but it's not like these hoes are doing that. They just go to Santorini or Turks and Caicos so they can take thot pics to flex on their instagrams.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 11:43 PM
1

Women can actually look good until their early 30s provided they take care of their bodies. The problem is from the time they turn 18 they begin drinking like sailors, doing drugs, eating like pigs, tanning like crazy, etc. The amount of girls my age (24) who think it's socially acceptable to binge drink friday and saturday night, plus brunch mimosas on sunday is actually absurd.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 08:10 PM
5

Lmao. How the fuck does someone go through their 20s, 30s, and half of their 40s without a single relationship?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:57 PM
19

Also vast majority just have no hobbies. I've been swiping on tinder/hinge for fun during lockdown and the first question I've been asking is "What are your passions/interests?" You should see some of the answers I got. Maybe in a few weeks I will go back and sort them out on a graph or something but I've probably sent that question to about 100 women in the past 2 weeks and this is how it went. "Netflix and traveling" from probably at least 75% of them A bunch said hiking when they probably go …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:54 PM
8

Part of me feels bad because so many of these women have been straight brainwashed by feminism.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:46 PM
13

Because up until the modern age people predominantly married people they knew from their home towns. And many a time it was a family friend. If the girl was shit wife or she whored around she would get fucking disowned. There's very little social implications from being a terrible wife/divorcing anymore.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:46 PM
15

Women truly don’t realize how easy they could have it. I have female friends who say they can’t lock a guy down, find love, etc. I tell them a man needs a few things. Sex, intimacy/affection, and food. The narcissism and entitlement of modern women as a result of feminism is just shocking. The 80/20 rule has become the 80/5 rule at this point due to social media and dating apps. Every 6 with zero personality out there has these delusions of grandeur that they deserve some 6'2 millionaire adonis …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:43 PM
4

How do you deal with the fact that your better-looking/taller friends get all the attention, just because of their appearance? How do you accept that you'd never be the chad they are? Yes in general better-looking taller guys will have more success than women. But you being 5'7 is just a slight disadvantage. It doesn't make it impossible for you to be a "chad". Whenever people mention height or race on here I always tell them about my friend, let's call him Dave. Dave is a 5'5/5'6 sort of pudgy …
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:36 PM
14

LOL. Nothing like a dude making 32k a year paying $420/month to lease a beemer.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:15 PM
3

Ah the advantages of a world that wasn't constantly online. What a story. That reminds me of an Argentine soccer coach that I had back when I was in late high school. He was in his late 20s in the late 90s and he told me he used to pick up chicks at clubs by saying he played soccer for Argentina lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 01:01 AM
3

FSU seemed like a fucking joke. I visited for a full-week when my friend had classes and he just skipped the entire week. And then because he was skipping the entire week all of his roommates used it as an excuse to skip the entire week. There were darties at like noon on a Tuesday. My friend was friends with this sorority slut down there and we met up with her at some house party. My friend put his arm around me and said "This is my boy ____, he's visiting from out of town, let's show him a goo…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 12:07 AM
4

Spot on. I didn't play sports in college but was friends with guys on the basketball team through classes and pickup ball at the rec center so I would hang out in the athletic dorms and pre-game with them for parties and shit. I honestly think that unless you've witnessed it with your eyes you cannot even begin to comprehend the hoeing around college girls do. It was absolutely nuts. Girls literally fucking 2 or 3 guys in a single night. And that was at a state school in the northeast. I cannot …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 07:17 PM
1

plenty of girls I know but don’t fuck (colleagues) were virgins up to around 24. Not in any civilized part of the US lol
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 07:12 PM
9

If your gf introduces you as her friend that's an instant dump. It shows she has a complete lack of respect for you
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 07:06 PM
2

1800 calories sounds really low for someone who's 230 and presumably exercises. 1900-2000 was my calorie goal when I was like 205 and working out 5-6 days a week. It's tempting to starve yourself because the fat will definitely fall off but the muscle you spent so long to create will fall off as well. It's the mistake I made on my first ever cut. I dropped like 30lbs in like 12-16 weeks but I lost half the muscle I gained in my bulk. Up the calories to like 2200 imo.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:03 PM
2

"Hi I want to train like a professional athlete but I also want to get 6 hours of sleep a night" Go to sleep earlier and combine one of your training days with lifting. You have zero rest days.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:09 PM
1

gave me her account but deleted all convos Dude if you're demanding to see her social media then you've already lost. You know who deletes all their convos on a social media app where everything is stored in the cloud? Someone who wants to hide shit.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:06 PM
1

My tip would be to find a consistent sex partner, one that you can fuck at least once a week or something. You won't have stamina problems if you're fucking consistently. Also you can always "clear the pipes" so to speak a few hours before you link up.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:04 PM
4

Ehh on one hand I agree but it probably doesn't help OP in the immediate future. Too much foreplay will probably make him bust even sooner.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:02 PM
1

Because if they play it smart they can enjoy the best of both worlds. Beta bucks and "emotional connection" of an LTR while still partying, drinking like a sailor, and fucking the passing alpha.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:01 PM
4

Wow. Thanks for this.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:24 PM
1

Save money and make smart financial decisions. We live in a society of trying to keep up with the Joneses. Yes you technically CAN afford to lease that Jeep for $350/month but should you? Yes you technically CAN afford to eat out 3 times a week but should you? People don't even realize how these small financial concessions can snowball and make a massive difference down the line. I know people who get Starbucks 5-6 days a week like clockwork. I have friends in their mid 20s who have less than 5k…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:20 PM
2

She blocked me like two months ago when I told her basically fuck me or fuck you i'm over it. Autistic as fuck lol
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:39 AM
2

Or you could be spending this time doing tons of other productive shit besides FaceTiming with your gf 7 days a week for 3 hours a day. Learn to code, learn a new language, read challenging books, etc. I’m not saying to not videochat with your girl but watching a movie with her every single night seems excessive. And it’s not manipulation it’s just called having better shit to do than watch re-runs of the office with your girl for 3 hours every single day. Idk about you but with work and the oth…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 04:57 PM
1

For every person who got successful from genuine personal connections there is a person who got successful from being a manipulative machiavellian dbag. Depends on how you want to live your life.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 10:55 PM
4

Yeah every night is way too much. I honestly loathe facetiming but I understand that if you can't see your LTR for a few months it's probably for the best that you do it occasionally. Just limit it to like 1-2 times per week.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:39 PM
5

It can be the opposite of "beta male friends" when you have girls not wanting to hang out because of your creepy friend, which I've had. This. If I had to wager I bet that OP was actually being creepy or way too forward because of his poor game.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:35 PM
0

Tons of people are saying "fuck your friend" or "he's just a white knight", and yeah he might be one. But tons of people with social/flirting skills can act like creeps when they start doing it for the first time. I've seen it first hand. We all do not know the context but it wouldn't surprise me if OP was being creepy.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:34 PM
3

Until now I've lived a bodybuilder lifestyle. A good part of the day goes on shopping for food and cooking my meals. I would hit the gym around 1PM. Then come back eat my post workout meal and have a quick nap. Man I'm jealous. This was me during a stretch of the first half of 2019. I took a job with a significant pay bump but I wasn't going to start for another 2 months. So for 2 months I just hit the gym around 11, lunch afterwards, then went to the beach and read during the afternoon. I hones…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:29 PM
3

Swing and a miss. Stop getting so butthurt that a a girl who isn't even your gf thinks a celeb is hotter than you. She only kept saying it because she could tell it pissed you off.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:29 PM
3

Great example. Giving a book like No More Mr. Nice Guy to your Dad just straight up is not a good idea. Imagine how much of a failure you'd have to be for your presumably young adult son to be gifting you a gift that essentially says "stop being such a pussy." Most fathers would take it as an insult.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:27 PM
5

I hate when people come into these threads about baldness and say that you'll look badass bald, or to just grow a beard or something. Whether or not you look good bald depends on a lot of factors. I will agree though that shaving it is better than trying to keep some severely receded hairline in 95% of cases. If you want to keep your hair there is finasteride and minoxidil, that are proven to be effective. There are also hair transplants which are expensive (10-15k) but are getting better every …
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:25 PM
1

First of all, I would say that finding an LTR should never be your primary goal. When you tell yourself "I'm going to go out and find a girlfriend", that's when you rush into a relationship with a slut. Secondly you have to look in different places. I was similar to you, lamenting the fact that every girl I seemed to hook up with was a massive slut with no LTR potential. And then I realized that I was gaming girls from 2 sources: bars/clubs and dating apps.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:29 PM
42

I know exactly how you feel. It's like sales. The most satisfying sale isn't the person who says yes right away. It's the person who says "fuck no" at first and then you hook em in.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:34 AM
5

I’m not into lubricants and therefore I’m asking whether any one experienced similar things? Just use lube you fuckin idiot
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:31 AM
1

Whether or not tattoos look good highly depends on the aesthetics of the person rocking them. You could argue that he'd look better without them but David Beckham can rock tattoos pretty well. The problem with tattoos is that they might look good in your 20s/30s but they will look absolutely shit after you turn 50 for the most part.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:39 PM
1

Well the whole point of OP posting the study is that girls with tats are fine to plate/fwb but not fine to LTR...
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:35 PM
9

Just consider them target practice lol
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:34 PM
21

And yet if you were to mention how the more sexual partners a woman has, the worse her pairbonding ability becomes, you would be treated like a pariah. It's just common sense. Why should a man/his dick be special to a girl when she's already had dozens before him and knows she can turn on her phone and get dozens more at the drop of a hat. The marriage market, which was already a raw deal even before the iphone era, is completely fucked now. 95% of hot girls are fucking ran-through by the time t…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:46 AM
0

Yeah about what I'd expect from someone who worships a fake alpha
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:01 AM
0

The specifics of the virus weren’t more clear until mid-December but intelligence officials knew about a Chinese virus back in late November. It’s kind of their job to know. Not surprised that you’re a trumptard though, it makes a lot of sense.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:35 PM
4

Plenty of people use fakeIDs for alcohol.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:20 AM
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The feminism-backed absurd thottery of the iphone era might be causing the pendulum to shift back, but who knows. For every guy talking down on simps there is a guy paying $15/month on a girl's onlyfans subscription. Also blue pill guys on the internet can talk a big game about not simping, but just wait until they get involved with a girl in real life. All that shit goes flying out the window once they get a whiff of pussy. The problem is that the 80/20 rule has just created this underclass of …
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:17 AM
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Should i hide my assets/money from her? So much of this depends on what type of game you're trying to run. There isn't one concrete answer. If your thing is gaming women at the club then by all means you should be as flashy as possible. If you run more "normal" game for lack of a better word, then maybe you will want to keep it more under wraps.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:13 AM
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Spot reduction in fat doesn't work. If you are eating at a deficit you will get there eventually. I feel your pain bro, when I cut my lovehandles are the last to go. I literally will have cut upper abs and still a bit of flab on the sides. I have to get to sub 12% bf to eliminate them.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:11 AM
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You can maintain your current muscle mass for like 8-9 months with full-body bodyweight workouts 3-4 times per week and lots of protein intake. It will not be as fun as hitting the gym but you can maintain easily.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:09 AM
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Enjoy your herpes and HPV
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:07 AM
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Assuming you live in the US you can get birth control (without insurance) for like $18/month. Unless she's talking about an IUD. So when all the girls whine about birth control costs and yet get Starbucks every day and go out drinking twice a week, you can see how absurd that argument is. An $18/month pill that can save you the hundreds of thousands of dollars it takes to raise a kid. Seems like a no-brainer. This girl is playing you. For an LTR to ask this is unacceptable, but this is a girl yo…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:07 AM
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As of like 3 weeks ago Trump was calling it a hoax. The intelligence community knew about an infectious chinese virus back in late November. If Trump had actually acted and not spent time propagandizing telling the country we'd be open by Easter, we could have started producing ventilators back around New Years.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:22 AM
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Just like how one of the prominent leaders of the MeToo movement paid a 300k settlement to an underage boy that she had sex with. It came out and suddenly there was only crickets. Just goes to show how hypocritical these people are. Rapists are the scum of the fucking earth and they should be tossed in jail, but these trials by public opinion are just getting out of hand. Take Weinstein for instance. Yeah Weinstein deserved to be in bars for the rest of his life. But you really mean to tell me t…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:25 PM
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All I'm saying is that while this virus is bad, it is not an existential threat to mankind. Tell that to the hospitals that don't have enough ventilators so they have to decide who lives and who dies. During the Spanish Flu epidemic cities that acted early were able to limit the damage a lot.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 05:35 PM
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Yeah you're the one who's retarded. There's a some major differences between H1N1 and Covid that make them incomparable. H1N1 mortality rate was in line with the normal flu which was around 0.2%. The morality rate of Covid hovers around 2%, so it is 10 times more deadly. It also is more than twice as contagious. And in fact the worst part is not the mortality rate it's the severity rate. 20% of people who contract the disease need to be hospitalized. H1N1 wasn't giving thousands upon thousands o…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:02 AM
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Yeah you're retarded
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:57 AM
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Yeah you're retarded. The whole point of the lockdown is too prevent too many people from getting sick at once and overwhelming the healthcare system. The problem with this virus isn't the mortality rate it's the severity rate. An estimated 15-20% of those who contract the virus need to be hospitalized. I don't know what bumblefuck part of the country you live in, but in NYC hospitals are already running out of ventilators and they're having to ship them in from upstate. The hospitals don't have…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:56 AM
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Can we please not turn this subreddit into a slew of lame "insert popular tradcon PWNS insert stupid feminist with FACTS and LOGIC" videos. If I wanted to see feminist cringe compilations I'd go on youtube. Who gives a fuck about Ben Shapiro's opinion on women's soccer pay, and how is it helping people on here get laid/become higher value men?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 09:48 PM
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Well you should be in shape anyways so it really goes without saying
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 09:43 PM
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Look, I think you are twisting/deflecting what I am saying to suit your narrative. At the end of the day, I'm just a random person on the internet. Would it even make any difference if I told you now I've banged 50+ women in the last 3 years? Or that I make 6 figures off of my side-hustle "e-commerce business" or whatever vague bullshit people peddle here and on the main sub to make themselves seem higher value. I don't subscribe to TRP like some zealot (I disagree with a fair amount of the stuf…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:18 PM
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I have only been reading TRP for about 3-3.5 years and it has been ideological since then at least. I think that people seek to comfort themselves by saying that TRP is “100% scientific facts and knowledge” so they can feel more assured that they are believing in the “truth.”
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:20 PM
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Roids are simply a tool. They are either used effectively or ineffectively. For every guy who looks like a juicehead gorilla on roids there is a guy who looks fantastic and lean. Every single Hollywood action hero is on roids. Hugh Jackman and Michael B Jordan in Creed have physiques that look great. And I’m saying this as someone who doesn’t take steroids and never will. Yeah if you blast it like a retard you can look shitty but if you’re smart about it you can look fantastic.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:10 PM
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At this point we are quibbling over dictionary definitions. Destutt de Tracy (the man who coined the term ideology) defined an ideology as the following: (1) it contains an explanatory theory of a more or less comprehensive kind about human experience and the external world; (2) it sets out a program, in generalized and abstract terms, of social and political organization; (3) it conceives the realization of this program as entailing a struggle; (4) it seeks not merely to persuade but to recruit…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:17 AM
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You are reading into it way too literally. The Red Pill subreddit is social organization... 4 does check out because if you don't agree with TRP "truths" you are banned from the main sub.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:15 AM
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